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Soaking Up the Last of Summer
Hi Long Island Families,
As the last weeks of summer slip by, we’re squeezing in every last bit of sunshine, splash time, and sweet treats before the school year begins. Throughout the month of August, we are checking out all the fun family activities and events in the area (pages 16 and 28), and soaking up every fun-filled second of summer.
We’re also looking ahead to the new school year with a look at the what you can expect public and private school admissions (page 18). If you’re feeling that familiar backto-school shift, we’ve got helpful resources and important tips to ease the transition into
the new school year!
And last but not least, we caught up with daytime television queen Tamron Hall and her 6-year-old son, Moses, in Harlem, where she gave us an inside look at her New York Times Bestseller, Harlem Honey: The Adventures of a Curious Kid , shares what it’s like to raise a strong-willed, curious child in the city, and why community and connection are at the heart of everything she does (page 26).
Here’s to soaking up every last drop of summer!
Enjoy!
Tara
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The TraU ma App
How trauma can override our better parenting instincts
By Dr. roByn Koslowitz
It’s a familiar scenario. You wake up thinking: Today, I’m going to parent differently. Today, Bluey’s parents will have nothing on me. And then, the battle over the shoes begins. Your toddler doesn’t believe they serve a useful function, so he keeps taking them off. The middle-schooler is angry — she’s not sure what she’s angry about, but she’s sure it’s your fault. The teenager says he hates you. The toast burns, the milk spills, and you’re all running late. And then…we know what happens. When we wake up expecting to do X, but Y happens, we feel a sense of shame. It feels like it’s our willpower, our laziness, or some essential flaw within us. But what if it’s not you? What if it’s actually your trauma? What if it’s not about who you are, but what you’ve learned? Many of us begin each day with the best intentions—to be patient, responsive, and present with our children. But for trauma survivors, those intentions are
often overridden by something stronger than willpower.
Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) doesn’t always show up as nightmares or flashbacks. Sometimes, it looks like snapping at your child, feeling numb during bedtime stories, or spiraling into guilt after a day of parenting in ways you never meant to. These aren’t signs of being a “bad parent.” They’re signs of a protective mechanism—one that was once lifesaving but now overrides your values.
The Brain’s Survival Coding
Trauma reshapes the nervous system. When something overwhelming happens—especially in childhood—the brain installs a survival protocol. I call it the “trauma app.” Like an app on your phone, it has a specific function: to detect threats and respond instantly.
The trauma app doesn’t ask whether the threat is real, current, or even dangerous. It just sees patterns. Raised voice? Withdraw. Eye roll? Attack. A child ignoring you? Flood
with shame or rage. These responses aren’t conscious. The trauma app overrides your thoughtful, intentional self in the name of survival.
How It Shows Up in Parenting
The trauma app is installed at the point of trauma, and its algorithm is set to protection mode by responding with Y when it experiences X. This means you may find yourself parenting with reflexes rather than reflection:
• If my child backtalks, I react immediately, because the trauma app warns me that defiance means I’m unsafe or powerless.
• If they cry, I rush to fix it—because the trauma app remembers how unbearable it felt when no one comforted me.
• If they seem ungrateful, I spiral—because the trauma app equates their ingratitude with proof that I’m not enough.
• If things feel out of control, I either get too harsh or completely give in—because the trauma app tells me that control equals safety.
• If they need connection when I feel overwhelmed, I shut down—because the trauma app learned long ago that emotional closeness in chaos isn’t safe.
These reflexes aren’t parenting strategies—they’re trauma responses. They override your current reality with outdated
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scripts. And because they’re so fast and automatic, they often feel like truth.
The Trauma App Is Fast. Your Values Are Slow
The trauma app runs on instinct, not intention. It’s fast, rigid, and based on past experiences. On the other hand, your values—your belief in connection, in gentle correction, in letting kids feel big feelings— are slow. They require reflection, presence, and calm. But when the trauma app activates, it overrides those values. It doesn’t wait for your higher self to weigh in. It just acts.
That’s why you may yell when you meant to coach, shut down when you meant to engage, or overcompensate when you meant to hold a boundary. The app has taken over— and it’s working off a threat assessment that’s no longer accurate.
Trauma Doesn’t Know Time
One of the trauma app’s quirks is that it can’t tell time. It doesn’t know that the threat is over. It doesn’t realize you’re now the adult, safe in your own home, with a child, not an aggressor, in front of you.
That’s why your child’s eye roll might trigger a flood of shame. Your brain isn’t responding to your child—it’s responding to a teacher who mocked you, a parent who dismissed you, or a time when eye rolls meant emotional danger.
To the trauma app, it feels like history is repeating itself. So it reacts with urgency, even when none is needed.
Discomfort ≠ Danger
The trauma app also confuses discomfort with danger. Whining, defiance, anger—these are uncomfortable. But they’re not threats. Still, the trauma app can’t tell the difference. It reacts as if your child is unsafe, or as if you are. That’s why you may find yourself overexplaining, people-pleasing, snapping, or withdrawing. Your brain is trying to regulate a sense of threat that isn’t actually present.
These moments aren’t failures. They’re notifications from the trauma app, trying to protect you from a threat it doesn’t realize isn’t happening anymore.
Reclaiming the Controls
The goal isn’t to delete the trauma app—it once kept you alive. The goal is to notice
when it’s running and gently take back the controls. To pause, breathe, and ask: Is this about now, or is this about then?
You don’t have to parent perfectly. You just have to parent consciously. The more often you can recognize the override and reorient toward your values, the less frequently the trauma app will run the show.
And when it does? Repair is always possible. Parenting isn’t about perfection— it’s about presence.
Robyn Koslowitz, PhD, has been a licensed child psychologist since 2017 and now houses her practice at The Center for Psychological Growth of New Jersey, focusing on trauma-informed psychotherapy for children, adolescents, and families. She is the educational director of the Targeted Parenting Institute and the host of the popular Post-Traumatic Parenting podcast and YouTube channel. Her work is regularly published in Psychology Today, and she has appeared on Fox, NPR, CNN, NewsNation, and other national television outlets. Her new book, Post Traumatic Parenting, is now on sale. She lives in New Jersey, where she practices post-traumatic parenting with her own children and family.
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inclusion in motion
Runs to Break Barriers
By shAr A Levine
Everyone—and we mean everyone — is invited to participate in the Inclusion In Motion race at Heckscher State Park on September 21. Inclusion In Motion isn’t an ordinary race but an endurance challenge for people of all abilities. This unique event allows participants to define success as they see it. Whether completing a 100-meter dash, a 5K, or a full marathon, achieving these goals is possible thanks to a fully accessible course, adaptive athlete support, and inclusive amenities.
The 6-hour endurance event offers athletes a variety of ways to participate. They can run solo, join a team, push an adaptive athlete, or be pushed as an athlete, completing as many or as few 3.1-mile loops as they want, up to 26.2 miles (8 loops)! There will also be a 100-meter dash to give everyone a chance to cross the finish line.
Dr. Christine Astarita, DPT, the CEO &
Founder of The Run to Breakthrough, and the visionary behind Inclusion in Motion, and The Run to Breakthrough, and visionary behind Inclusion in Motion, shares the inspiration behind this event, “The heart of this initiative and our nonprofit is about breaking through limits. It’s about defying the labels and beliefs that the world or we put on ourselves.”
Dr. Astarita continues to describe what inspired her to create accessible events in 2021: “I told myself I couldn’t run an ultramarathon. But every day in our work with individuals with disabilities, I saw these kids and adults defying the odds. People who had been told by doctors that they’d never walk, or run, or do certain things, and yet, they found a way. They inspired me to challenge my own limits.”
Typically, competitive events offer limited accommodations for those with disabilities, but Inclusion In Motion changes that. “We’re creating the kinds of inclusive athletic events that should already exist. Too often, accessibility and inclusion are an afterthought,” says
Astarita, “We’re designing these events with accessibility at the forefront—adaptive changing tables, inclusive spaces, and creating community for families who often feel isolated.”
When asked how participants feel about this unique event, Dr. Astarita says, “People are especially excited because this year’s event is different.” This is the first time many adaptive athletes will be able to go longer distances or with their families and friends, “It’s going to be really special.”
While there’s no fundraising minimum to participate, the program aims to raise at least $50,000. These funds will be given back to our local disability community through grants, which cover essentials like medications, equipment, services, and home modifications, which Dr. Astaria says “dramatically improve daily life but are often denied by insurance.”
Inclusion In Motion will take place at Heckscher State Park, 1 Heckscher State Parkway, Field 2, in East Islip. The opening ceremony begins at 8:30 am, the race at 9 am, and the 100 Meter Dash at 10 am. To sign up, visit events.elitefeats. com/25inclusioninmotion.
School Admissions
Breaking down the process at both public & private schools
By MiA sALA s
Choosing a school for your little one is no easy task. Finding the right fit between open houses, online research, and more can be stressful (and exhausting!). That’s why we’re here to help with an overview of what you can expect from Long Island’s private and public school admissions.
PrivAte scH ools
Individualized Attention : Unlike public schools, which are funded by the government, private schools have the flexibility to create their own educational guidelines. This allows educators to tailor their teaching methods to better suit individual students. They can adjust the pace of instruction and focus on each student’s unique needs. Private schools typically have smaller class sizes, which helps teachers better support each student’s learning style and academic growth.
Emphasis on Leadership : Private schools emphasize student development beyond academics. Leadership opportunities—through student government, service programs, clubs, and public speaking—are often built into the culture. These experiences help students develop confidence and responsibility early on.
Outstanding resources : Many private schools benefit from robust endowments and active alumni communities. As a result, they often offer impressive facilities, international travel opportunities, advanced instruction in STEM and languages, college prep programs, and summer internships. what should i consider when Applying to a Private school?
Do the advantages of private school education resonate with your family? When researching schools, consider the school culture and environment, academic programs, extracurricular activities, and mission. The mission statement can reveal much about the school’s values and help you determine whether they align with yours. While the prestige of some schools may be tempting, it’s essential focus on what's best fit for your child.
when should i apply?
Applications typically open in September, but many families begin touring and researching schools during the summer or even earlier. How long are the applications?
Set aside time for the process. Applications often include online forms, essays or statements, parent interviews, and school tours or open houses. is there financial aid?
Many private schools offer financial aid or tuition assistance. Check each school’s website for policies, deadlines, and contact details. what are private schools looking for?
They’re looking for families who are invested, engaged, and aligned with the school’s values. Focus on being authentic and finding the right fit for your child—not just gaining admission.
Pu B lic scH ools
On Long Island, your local public school is determined by your home address. With over 120 school districts across Nassau and Suffolk Counties, each district operates independently and has its own enrollment policies and programs. To enroll, families must provide proof of residency (such as a lease, utility bill, or property tax statement).
Diverse learning : Public schools offer strong academics in reading, math, science, social studies, and the arts. Many districts also offer advanced coursework, STEM programs, and foreign languages beginning in middle school or earlier.
Testing & Assessments : Students take New York State tests in grades 3–8 and Regents Exams
in high school. These help track academic progress and can be used for placement in honors or enrichment programs. Students with IEPs or 504 plans may qualify for testing accommodations.
After school : Many districts offer afterschool options in partnership with community organizations, including tutoring, sports, arts, music, and enrichment classes—great support for working families.
Clear Academic Benchmarks : Each district outlines grade-level expectations aligned with New York State Learning Standards. Parents can find curriculum guides and assessment criteria on the district’s website.
Do i have to apply to a public school?
Public school enrollment is guaranteed in your home district. However, some Long Island districts offer magnet programs, dual-language instruction, or gifted and talented programs, which may require an application or lottery. How do i apply?
Enrollment varies by district. Most offer online registration, but some require in-person document submission. Visit your school district’s website for detailed instructions, forms, and deadlines. what factors go into my application?
For standard enrollment, proof of residency is most important. For specialized programs, factors such as test scores, interviews, or space availability may come into play. who can i reach out to for help?
Start with your district’s registration office or school registrar. School counselors and administrators are also excellent resources for questions about placement, special programs, and deadlines.
Buckley country Day school
2 IU Willets Road, Roslyn cfortuna@buckleycountryday. com buckleycountryday.com
Buckley Country Day School is an inclusive community that nurtures the whole child and lays the foundation for success in high school, college, and beyond. Buckley’s mission, “Opening The Eyes and Awakening The Mind,” is at the heart of its curriculum, which seeks to inspire and prepare students for a lifetime of learning. Buckley accepts students as young as two years old in pre-nursery and admits students on a rolling basis through grade seven.
countryside m ontessori school
354 Lakeville Road, Lower Level, Great Neck 516-466-8422 info@cmsgn.com cmsgn.com
Countryside Montessori
School offers a peaceful environment where respect for others, community, and nature are part of daily life. Serving children from ages 18 months to 6 years, the school features two toddler classrooms (18 months–3 years) and two primary classrooms (3–6 years) with a threeyear curriculum. Located on estate-like grounds with nature walks and a playground, the school provides a rich academic, art, and music curriculum. After-school programs are available. Serving Great Neck, Manhasset, and nearby areas.
friends Academy
270 Duck Pond Rd. 516-676-0393
admissions@fa.org friendsacademy.org
Discover a school where curiosity thrives, kindness leads, and students are empowered to shape the world. Founded in 1876, Friends Academy offers students from age 3 to Grade 12 an exceptional
academic experience rooted in a deep tradition of Quaker values, preparing students to lead lives of purpose, integrity, and impact.
the g reen vale school
250 Valentine’s Lane, Old Brookville 516-621-2420 admissions@greenvaleschool. org greenvaleschool.org
Green Vale is Long Island’s largest preeminent private school for pre-nursery (age 2) to 8th grade. Families from some of New York’s top school districts choose Green Vale for its exceptional academics taught in a joyful atmosphere, coupled with dynamic offerings, including theater and music instruction, STEAM and technology, interscholastic sports, and leadership and character building. GVS graduates go on to excel at top secondary schools and colleges.
the Hagedorn little village school
Jack Joel Center for Special Children
750 Hicksville Road, Seaford 516-520-6000
jon.feingold@littlevillage.org littlevillage.org
The Hagedorn Little Village School is a not-for-profit school highly regarded for providing outstanding educational and therapeutic services for children with a wide range of developmental disabilities. HLVS provides year-round programs and services, including diagnostic evaluations and treatment, early intervention, a preschool, an elementary school, SEIT, and related services.
Harrow i nternational school n ew york
500 Montauk Highway, Oakdale 631-869-1572
harrownewyork.com admissions@harrownewyork. com
Combining 450 years of
outstanding pedagogy at Harrow School, one of the UK’s most prestigious independent schools, with the vibrancy of New York and a stunning waterfront campus spread over more than 100 acres, Harrow New York offers a premium day and 5-day or 7-day boarding school education for girls and boys in Grades 6-12. Conveniently located near the LIRR Oakdale Station and LI MacArthur Airport, founding students will enjoy remarkable leadership opportunities.
long i sland school for the g ifted 815 Convent Road, Syosset 631-423-3557
Info@lisg.org Lisg.org
The Long Island School for the Gifted (LISG) provides an appropriate education for gifted children in prekindergarten through eighth grade, in a nurturing environment where they will be both
intellectually challenged and comfortable socially, thereby allowing them to grow and develop to their potential.
Portledge s chool
355 Duck Pond Road Locust Valley 516-750-3222
admissions@portledge.org portledge.org
At Portledge School, students thrive in a nurturing community that blends rigorous academics with a commitment to character and purpose. The beautiful 63-acre campus on Long Island fosters curiosity and creativity, offering the globally recognized International Baccalaureate alongside AP and advanced programs. Small classes, dedicated faculty, and diverse arts, athletics, and STEM opportunities prepare students for college and beyond. Discover how a child can grow with purpose—visit Portledge this fall.
Advantages of After-School Activities
By Stacey eBert
As a kid, I loved after-school extracurricular classes. Whether summer camp, gymnastics, or high school clubs –regardless of the time of year- I embraced the energy that came with all activities. As a young adult, I led youth groups, ran after-school classes at the local community center, and taught many kids to swim. I felt lucky to have teachers and counselors who chose to share their time, energy, expertise, and talents.
As the kids return to school, it’s time to ensure those young minds have extracurricular classes, activities, or sports to engage, foster, and energize their spirits. Parents should know something exists for all kids – it might take time, effort, trial and error, thinking outside the box, recruiting experts, and listening to your child’s voice. It might mean investments in energy, money, community, and heart. However long it takes to find the thing that lights them up – it’s worth it.
Here are four tips to help find an engaging extracurricular class or activity for your child.
Listen actively to the kind of activity or class your child needs Kids have a way of sharing their thoughts. Young children might not have the words yet, but they know how they feel. Those with the words might not have the meaning flushed out, and some kids may be shy and might need coaxing to try something new. Listen to what seems to interest them and provide options, give them the tools to research, keep an open line of communication, remind them they’ve got a support system, encourage giving it a try, and help them see that the nervous excitement of expanding that comfort zone is worth both the risk and joy.
Know what sorts of classes, sports your child gravitates towards There is something for everyone in New York – offering many enriching activities encompassing diverse arts, including painting, sculpting, dancing, drawing, poetry, writing, music, theater, and more. Engaging in the arts fosters talent and expands your child’s understanding of the world, nurturing a heightened sense of self-awareness. For those passionate about sports, tailor-made winter
classes are available after school or on weekends, providing the ideal outlet for children to expend their boundless energy.
Don’t overextend your child’s extracurricular schedule
Parent tip: If you’re overextended, your child is overscheduled, or your child (or you!) is about to experience sensory overload, then less is more. One meaningful activity is more than enough.
If one day a week or a few hours each is sufficient, it will work for your child and, most importantly, the family.
There is an activity, class, or sport out there for every child
In families with more than one kid, you may run around and do different activities for your children, as only all of your kids will want to do the same sport or class.
So, lead them to what they will thrive in
or take a mild interest and turn it into a fullon hobby.
For example, If your child has an ear for languages, steer them towards an international culture or language club. If they’re pulled towards teams, leadership, and exercise, see what types of sports or club teams are out there for them. If they crave connection and want to learn creative pursuits, consider opening their world towards what’s possible in arts, community service, or learning something new. They want to practice swimming midwinter, there’s a club for that. They want to learn chess and build their interpersonal skills simultaneously; there’s a class for that. They want to learn marketing, debate, and business skills – there’s an organization for that. They want to learn survival skills and embrace the goals of scouts and leadership; there’s a space for that.
Give them a safe, non-judgemental space to share their interests and thrive.
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BeSt After-School Programs & Activities
It’s no secret that education is a vital part of any child’s development; that’s why school is a requirement. But what about the experiences and lessons they learn when school is out? Academics are important, but enrichment comes in many forms. A child is often likely to discover hidden talents or new interests through afterschool activities, so it’s highly recommended that parents enroll their kids in a multitude of extracurricular programs like dance, music, theater, sports, etc. to see where they will shine! With back to school right around the corner, now is the time to decide which programs best suit your child. Here on Long Island, the options seem endless, so we narrowed it down with these top afterschool programs. Each is expertly crafted by top-tier professionals, ensuring that every child reaches their full potential while having fun at the same time. Check them out below!
Since 2017, the CoderSchool has been empowering tech-savvy kids across Long Island through engaging, personalized coding instruction. With four convenient locations, students ages 6–18 learn to code in a fun, low-pressure environment, guided by expert Code Coaches®. Whether building games in Scratch, apps in Python and JavaScript, or designing Roblox and Minecraft worlds, kids gain real-world tech skills and confidence. TheCoderSchool offers year-round programs and exciting summer camps focused on creativity and problemsolving. Join the thousands of families who trust us to help their children thrive in a digital world. - Ready to get started? Contact your nearest Long Island location today to schedule a free trial class!
British swim school
Locations in Lake Success, Garden City Park, Valley Stream 718-576-1870, goswimbrooklynqueens@britishswimschool.com britishswimschool.com
With over 40 years of experience, British Swim School is a premier choice for parents and students seeking a learn-to-swim provider. They offer a safe and fun instructional program for all ages, from 3 months through adulthood, prioritizing a survival-first approach with gentle teaching methods. Lesson options are available seven days a week, including weekday classes starting at 2:45 pm and weekend availability. Enrollment is flexible, allowing you to begin as early as the next day.
g erman l anguage school of g reater n ew york Manhattan and Long Island 212-787-7543, kidslearngerman@aol.com german-american-school.org
The German-American School Association has been teaching children since 1892 and welcomes children of all backgrounds. Lower grades receive bilingual instruction, while upper grades are taught in German. Accredited by the New York Regents since 1911, the school’s students complete the FLAC exam; college-bound students take AP training and are encouraged to take A1/A2 exams.
Soccer Shots is a high-energy, imaginative soccer program for children ages 18 months to 8 years, designed to nurture confidence, character, and friendship through active play. With a curriculum that early childhood education experts approve, Soccer Shots makes learning age-appropriate and exciting. And parents? You’re always part of the journey, always informed on the skills and characterbuilding themes your child explores, so you can cheer them on and build on their learning. Each session is led by trained, enthusiastic coaches who create a positive and inclusive environment for every child. Soccer Shots is more than just soccer—it’s a building block for lifelong learning, teamwork, and fun. Fall enrollment is now open — join the fun and watch your little one thrive!
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Whether your child is a beginner or building on skills, TGA of Northern Nassau County helps them thrive through active play.TGA of Northern Nassau County offers convenient and accessible golf, tennis, and pickleball programs for children ages 4-14, fostering a fun, inclusive, and pressure-free environment. TGA has collaborated with schools, parks, and sports facilities nationwide for over two decades to introduce individual sports that cultivate confidence, focus, and self-discipline. Their after-school enrichment programs feature a progressive, play-based curriculum that integrates athletic skill development, academic learning, and life lessons designed to nurture the whole child. With low student-to-coach ratios, children receive personalized instruction, learn fundamentals, and grow both on and off the court, helping them thrive through active play regardless of their skill level.
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Tamron Hall
on motherhood, her son Moses, and the magic of Harlem
By Danielle Ramos
Tamron Hall has been a familiar face on daytime TV since 2019, known for her honest conversations and down-to-earth style. That’s why so many moms across the city and beyond tune in while managing the daily juggle of family life, from prepping meals to feeding babies and everything in between.
Now, the Emmy-winning TV host and bestselling author is adding a new title to her busy career: children’s book author. Her debut picture book, Harlem Honey: The Adventures of a Curious Kid , was just released this spring and has already made its way onto The New York Times Best Sellers list.
Inspired by her 6-year-old son Moses, Harlem Honey is a sweet story about family, identity, and what it means to feel at home, even when you’re in a new place. Seen through the eyes of a curious little boy walking through Harlem, the story reflects the everyday moments of growing up, figuring things out, and trying something new.
We caught up with Tamron to hear about the personal inspiration behind her book, what it’s like to parent a strong-willed child, and her favorite family moments in Harlem. She opens up about raising her son, Moses, in New York City, handling the challenges of parenting a shy, curious kid, and why curiosity and community matter so much to her.
Congratulations on your first children’s book, Harlem Honey: The Adventures of a Curious Kid . What inspired you to tell this particular story, and why now?
My son is now in grade school, and I’ve seen him blossom in so many ways. I feel that cultivating curiosity not only helped him grow but also helped me parent a very shy child. I could see in real time how curiosity can help kids handle change and face their fears when going to new places and meeting new faces. And now that he’s older, I feel
comfortable sharing this story through the little character inspired by him.
Moses, the main character, is based on your son. What parts of his personality made it into the book?
So much of his personality made it into the book. From the very first page, when you meet this very defiant little boy, that is my son. He’s very strong-willed. My son is also an only child and exhibits a sense of independence in his play. Also, his sense of adventure. He loves walking and driving around the city. We like to call him “human navigation.”
The book touches on finding home in unfamiliar places. Why was that theme important to explore?
In my own life, I’ve moved a lot. I left home for college at age 18, and I’ve since lived in Philadelphia, Chicago, Bryan College Station, which is a small town in Texas, and my career has taken me around the world. And so for me, my life has been a series of entering unfamiliar rooms and meeting new people, but when I saw that my son was a bit more shy, I wanted to use what I’ve learned in my own experience as a reporter and talk show host, to embrace curiosity and how to face my fears.
You spotlight some iconic Harlem landmarks in the book. How did you choose which places to include?
Many of the places I included were places that I was excited to see when I moved to New York in 2008. There are so many exciting places in the city, but these were iconic. I was inspired to include these Harlem landmarks after meeting a little boy who attended school not far from the Apollo, who had never seen the actual building. We take so many iconic locations like the Apollo for granted, but every day, a kid gets to see it for the first time.
You mentioned noticing that Moses would act differently in new environments. How
do you support him through those moments of discomfort or transition?
We try to use “scaffolding,” a parenting method where you provide support for your child when they need it or when they’re trying new things, and then you slowly reduce that support as your child gets more independent. I try to explain to Moses what we’re about to do, where we’re going, and some expectations of things that might be happening. It’s not always foolproof because when you walk into a new room, you can’t anticipate everything. But I’ve found that sharing as much as possible, whether traveling on an airplane or going into a new restaurant, has helped tremendously.
What have been your favorite moments exploring Harlem with your son in real life?
Sunday brunches in Harlem are as iconic as the location. You can pick any place in Harlem on a Sunday, and you’re bound to have a phenomenal time. We recently went to BLVD Bistro with him, and he had the best time. We love the music and the fun; it’s always a celebration.
What lessons do you hope children (and their parents) take away from Harlem Honey ?
I hope they take away how powerful curiosity is. Whether you’re a 5-year-old or a 95-year-old, having a sense of curiosity about people and places is so liberating. It allows our children to be brave and independent and sparks their development. It’s a universal thing.
You’re a bestselling author, Emmy-winning host, and a mom. What’s your secret to balancing it all … if there is one?
I don’t have a secret, but I definitely live by my calendar. I try to plan my day minute by minute. For some, that might be a bit rigid, but for me, it allows me to handle the things that I need to take care of in a timely fashion. But I try to be flexible and embrace spontaneity!
When you’re not on set, what does an ideal weekend look like for you and your son in New York City?
It depends on the time of year, but in the summer, we love to go to the park. We love going to the West Side Highway. It’s one of our favorite places, and we love discovering
all of the different corners and crevices of the park. We also just love going to Central Park, hanging out around the Great Lawn, and playing soccer.
With back-to-school on the horizon, what’s one piece of parenting advice you
live by when it comes to helping your kids transition back to school?
One of the things I do is I try to explore how he’s feeling and have an honest conversation about what he’s excited about and nervous about. I also think it’s important to be patient with your kid as they go through that transition.
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wHen : July 26-Aug. 27; See website for complete schedule
wHere : Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City
Ages: 3 – 8
wHAt: Dr. Patricia Osiris is going to unveil a never-beforeseen dinosaur during this interactive performance…if she can find a way to open its crate!
wAnt to go?: $5 with $18 museum admission; $10 theater only. 516-224–5800, licm.org
long island retro gaming expo
wHen : Aug. 8-10, Friday, 3 – 9 pm; Saturday, 10 am – 9 pm; Sunday, 10 am – 5 pm
wHere : Cradle of Aviation Museum, Charles Lindbergh Blvd., Garden City
Ages: All
wHAt: Check out over three levels of arcades, hundreds of console and PC gaming events, exclusive exhibits, engaging panels, curated vendors, live performances, and more.
wAnt to go?: Tickets start at $16 for children and $30 for adults. liretro.com
Pirate and mermaid mini workshop
wHen : Friday, Aug. 8, 6 – 7 pm
wHere : Stew Leonard’s Farmingdale, 261 Airport Plaza Blvd. Farmingdale
Ages: 3 – 10
wHAt: Children will create a themed craft and have a dance party! Come encouraged!
wAnt to go?: $15. stewleonards.com
Pokémon skate Party
wHen : Tuesday, Aug. 12, 4:30 – 6:30 pm
wHere : United Skates of America, 1276 Hicksville Road,
Seaford
Ages: All
wHAt: Meet your favorite Pokémon characters, groove to themed music, and show off your best Poké-style on the rink.
the great nature Play Day: A summer family festival
wHen : Saturday, Aug. 16, 10 am – 1 pm & 1 – 4 pm
wHere : Planting Fields, 1395 Planting Fields Road, Oyster Bay
Ages: All
wHAt: This hands-on event invites young explorers to dive into nature through exciting activities, fun crafts, and endless fun in the sun.
wAnt to go?: $15 ages 3 – 12; free for parents and guardians to attend. 516-922–9210, plantingfields.org
Hot wheels monster trucks live glow- n - fire
wHen : Aug. 16-17, Saturday, 12:30 – 2:30 pm & 7:30 – 9:30 pm; Sunday, 2:30 – 4:30 pm
wHere : UBS Arena, 2400 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont
Ages: All
wHAt: Get ready for the most adrenaline-fueled birthday party of the year as the original monster truck that started it all, Bigfoot, marks its 50th year of entertaining fans!
wAnt to go?: Tickets start at $47. ubsarena.com
island Park greek festival
wHen : Aug. 21-24, Thursday, 5 – 10 pm; Friday, 5 – 11 pm; Saturday, 12 – 11 pm; Sunday,
12 – 9 pm
wHere : Panaghia of Island Park, 83 Newport Road, Island Park
Ages: All
wHAt: Enjoy rides, games, traditional Greek food, and live music on select nights.
wAnt to go?: Free admission. 516-432–4086, panaghiaip.org
long island celtic festival and Highland games
wHen : Saturday, Aug. 23, 8 am – 5 pm
wHere : Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury
Ages: All
wHAt: This annual festival honors Celtic heritage and will feature live entertainment, food trucks, and vendors.
wAnt to go?: $12-$25. oldwestburygardens.org
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long island nets summer fest
wHen : Saturday, Aug. 23, 9:30 am – 1:30 pm
wHere : Jones Beach (Field 4) – Basketball Courts, 1000 Ocean Parkway, Wantagh
Ages: All
wHAt: The event will feature a live DJ and music, performances by the Long Island Nets Dance Team, a meet-and-greet with team mascot Dale the Eagle, and free giveaways.
wAnt to go?: Free admission, some activities require a fee. longisland. gleague.nba.com
Disney Descendants/ Zombies worlds collide tour
wHen : Saturday, Aug. 23, 7 pm
wHere : UBS Arena, 2400 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont Ages: All
wHAt: Join the cast from the latest Descendants and Zombies movies in this groundbreaking concert event featuring the chart-topping hits in one unforgettable night.
wAnt to go?: Tickets start at $53. ubsarena.com
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luminocity Dino safari
wHen : Fridays and Saturdays, 5 – 10 pm, Sundays, Mondays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays, 5 – 9:30 pm, through Sept. 1.
wHere : Walt Whitman Shops, 160 Walt Whitman Road,
Huntington Station Ages: All
wHAt: Over 70 life-like dinosaurs come to life in this dino-themed amusement park featuring dino-themed rides and activities.
wAnt to go?: Tickets start at $17.99. luminocityfestival. com
national night out
wHen : Tuesday, Aug. 5, 5 – 8 pm
wHere : Smith Haven Mall, 313 Smith Haven Mall, Lake Grove
Ages: All
wHAt: This community event features a meet and greet with local officers, emergency vehicles, refreshments, music, games, and more.
wAnt to go?: Free. simon. com
sing-A- long with Alan muraoka
wHen : Sunday, Aug. 10, 1:30 – 3:30 pm
wHere : The Suffolk, 118 E Main St., Riverhead Ages: All ages
wHAt: See Alan Muraoka, “Alan” on Sesame Street, perform some of your favorite Sesame Street songs. Stick around after the show to get a photo with Alan and his muppets!
wAnt to go?: $35. 631-727–4343, thesuffolk.org
kiDfest: 123 Andrés
wHen : Wednesday, Aug. 13, 3:30 – 5:30 pm
wHere : Guild Hall, 158 Main St., East Hampton
Choir! Choir! September 13, 8pm An Evening with Cowboy Junkies September 21, 7pm Donna the Buffalo September 25, 7:30pm NYC Ska Orchestra September 26, 8pm
Richie Furay October 3, 8pm Iris DeMent October 4, 8pm
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Ages: All
wHAt: Andrés and Christina inspire learning through music while creating a joyful, inclusive atmosphere where everyone can dance, clap, and sing along.
wAnt to go?: $10-$25. 631324–0806, cmee.org
wildlife wonders: Awesome Animals
wHen : Saturday, Aug. 16, 10 – 11 am
wHere : Sweetbriar Nature Center, 62 Eckernkamp Drive, Smithtown
Ages: 2-4
wHAt: Through hands-on activities, crafts, stories, and more, children will gain a greater appreciation of nature and wildlife!
wHere : Greek Orthodox Church of the Assumption, 430 Sheep Pasture Road, Port Jefferson
Ages: All
wHAt: Enjoy delicious Greek cuisine and pastries, go on carnival rides, check out live Greek music and dances, watch fireworks, and more.
wAnt to go?: $2 adult admission; ride tickets available for purchase. 631-473–0894, portjeffgreekfest.com
30th Annual Holbrook chamber carnival & festival
wHen : Aug. 21-24, Thursday and Friday, 6 – 11 pm; Saturday, 2 – 11 pm; Sunday, 2 – 9 pm
wHere : Holbrook Country Club, 700 Patchogue-Holbrook Road, Holbrook
Ages: All
wHAt: It’s fun for the whole family with live bands, thrilling rides, and contests!
wAnt to go?: Free admission; prices vary for rides. holbrookchamber.com
Heritage country fair
wHen : Saturday, Aug. 23, 12 – 4 pm
wHere : The Smithtown Historical Society, 239 E Main St., Smithtown Ages: All
wHAt: Enjoy tours of historic homes, historical reenactments, live music, food and craft vendors, face painting, a petting zoo, free crafts, and so much more!
wAnt to go?: $10. smithtownhistorical.org
nesconset Day 2025
wHen : Sunday, Aug. 24, 10 am – 5 pm
wHere : Nesconset Gazebo, Smithtown Blvd., Nesconset Ages: All
wHAt: Celebrate Nesconset with music, bounce houses, games, face painting, crafts, food trucks, vendors, and more.
wAnt to go?: Free. nesconsetchamber.org
fire island sand castle competition
wHen : Saturday, Aug. 30, 12 – 4 pm
wHere : Beach at Robins Rest, 55 Sextant Walk, Robins Rest Ages: 5 and up
wHAt: Grab a bucket and shovel and build a sandcastle inspired by Renaissance architecture that will be judged
based on detail and creativity. wAnt to go?: Free. fireislandsandcastlecompetition.com
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the 35th Hong kong Dragon Boat festival
wHen : Aug. 9-10, Saturday and Sunday, 9 am – 5 pm
wHere : Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Grand Central Parkway, and Van Wyck Expressway, Flushing Ages: All
wHAt: Thrilling dragon boat races honor the Year of the Snake in a festival that will bring together tradition, competition, and celebration.
wAnt to go?: Free. hkdbf-ny. org
Disney Descendants/ Zombies worlds collide tour
wHen : Thursday, Aug. 21, 7 pm
wHere : Madison Square Garden, 4 Pennsylvania Plaza, Midtown South Ages: All
wHAt: Join the cast from the latest Descendants and Zombies movies in this groundbreaking concert event featuring the chart-topping hits in one unforgettable night.
wAnt to go?: Tickets start at $64. msg.com
watson Adventures’ secrets of central Park scavenger Hunt for families
wHen : Saturday, Aug. 23, 4 – 6 pm.
wHere : Arsenal in Central Park, 830 Fifth Ave., Upper East Side
Ages: 7 and older
wHAt: Work as a team to find Stuart Little, decipher a secret code by the pond from Home Alone 2, spot Cupid, unscramble a message in the sky, and find a witch turned to stone.
wAnt to go?: $18-$22. watsonadventures.com
Arthur Ashe kids’ Day powered by net generation
wHen : Saturday, Aug. 23, 9:30 am
wHere : USTA Billie Jean King National Tennis Center, Flushing Meadows - Corona Park, Flushing Ages: All
wHAt: Tennis fans of all ages can see top players practice and enjoy family-friendly entertainment and activities. wAnt to go?: Free. usopen. org
t he Long island children’s Museum presents “ unbox a saurus For us” this month.
