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10 | Maternal Ambivalence
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16 | Maternal Mental Health
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Happy Mother’s Day
Dear New York Families, Mother’s Day always sneaks up on me—somewhere between soccer and baseball practice, school projects, and the constant chaos of daily life with two growing boys. To be honest, I’ve never been big on the holiday—I am not usually into others making a fuss or being the center of attention. But each Mother’s Day I’ve spent as a mom, I take a moment to pause and reflect on the joy, deep love, and utter mayhem my kids have brought into my life. I also don’t mind sleeping in, being served coffee (I didn’t brew myself!) in bed, and the extra snuggles with my boys.
Whether you’re a new mom, a seasoned parent, or a caregiver guiding the next generation, we see you. We know the sacrifices you make and all you do to ensure schedules run smoothly, bellies are full, and kids are cared for. We see the invisible load you carry, and we know it’s not always as easy as some moms may have you believe— curated highlight reels on social media don’t always tell the whole story. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not measuring up, you’re not alone—and you’ll find real insight in our feature on Motherhood Milestone FOMO on page 8.
We continue to explore some of the realities of motherhood, from Maternal Ambivalence on page 10 to maternal mental health as we take a closer look at postpartum mood disorders on page 16.
In this issue, you’ll also find ways to celebrate together as a family, from spending a day on the farm picking your own fruit on page 18 to delicious and extravagant Mother’s Day Brunches in Westchester on page 14.
We recognize that Mother’s Day may be difficult for some mothers who may be grieving a loss, doing it all on their own, or who may not feel much like celebrating for another reason. However you choose to celebrate—or not—this Mother’s Day, we hope you feel a sense of connection, discover moments of inspiration, and find a little joy. And maybe you’ll even find a moment to take a well-deserved break.
Warmly,
Tara
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Motherhood Milestone FOMO
When your own social media doesn’t match your feed, the pressure builds. How to block the noise and protect your mental health
By BarBara russo
Facebook, Instagram, TikTok—social media can be great for anyone seeking advice on a wide range of topics. But sometimes, the constant scrolling can become too much. We know a lot about its influence on kids, but what about the effects of social media on mothers?
It’s not uncommon for mothers to overshare their families’ lives on social media. Whether they’re an “influencer” or not, these highlight reels make it easy for their friends and followers to get caught in a comparison trap. In fact, a recent study even confirmed that moms who spend more time online engage in greater levels of social comparison. This can lead to increased cortisol levels and, in turn, higher stress and negative emotions.
AdditionAl tips
Dr. Patel-Dunn shares some additional tips for building a healthier relationship with social media:
• Be mindful of how you feel before, during and after social media engagement. Get curious about this experience, and ask yourself what boundaries around social media might serve you best.
• Unfollow accounts that lead to increased negative emotions or feelings of comparison.
• If you notice yourself falling into a comparison trap, remind yourself that these glimpses of motherhood do not accurately represent what is going on in a person’s life.
• Focus on social media sites that offer a sense of community rather than comparison.
• Avoid using social media first thing in the morning or right before bed at night. Give yourself breaks to be present throughout the day.
While this occurs most often in first-time moms, parents of multiple kids experience this, too. From their own personal postpartum weight loss journey to their toddlers’ potty training timeline, there’s a ton of pressure to keep up with what seems to feel like a never-ending cycle that continues as children become teenagers, adults and eventually parents themselves. Some therapists call this social media pressure “motherhood milestone FOMO” (fear of missing out).
Anisha Patel-Dunn, D.O., psychiatrist, Chief Medical Officer at LifeStance Health, and mom, is familiar with this topic. She’s been working with patients dealing with this type of pressure. We spoke with Dr. Patel-Dunn, who shared tips for moms on how to cope and have a healthy relationship with social media.
What is Motherhood Milestone FOMO?
Motherhood is full of milestones, including pregnancy and childbirth, a child’s first steps, first words and more. If your timeline or experience doesn’t match what you see on social media, it’s not uncommon to experience feelings of being left behind or inadequate. Comparison is a common challenge many people face in different aspects of their lives, but for mothers, societal expectations about what makes a “good mother” can make this even more difficult.
Do you find that moms compare themselves to other mothers on social media? If so, is there a lot of pressure for them to keep up
with what their friends, influencers and celebrities are posting and sharing?
There is so much parenting content on social media from celebrities, influencers, friends and loved ones. This content often presents itself as rules or advice for mothers, which can become overwhelming. Another side of this is that many people on social media only show their “best” moments. This is not an accurate representation of their lives. Understandably, moms might fall into a comparison trap, which can contribute to feelings of stress and anxiety.
Can you explain how moms who spend more time on social media experience more stress and negative emotions?
For those experiencing low self-esteem, spending more time on social media and falling into a comparison trap can often exacerbate these feelings. Social media is designed to pull us in and capture our attention, and it can be incredibly challenging to break out of this cycle.
Does social media benefit Mom in any way?
A silver lining of the last few years is that more people have become more candid about their mental health, and this is often seen on social media. It can provide an opportunity to is now part of access a community of likeminded people that you may not be able to access in person depending on your location and personal situation. In that sense, social media can connect moms with peer support regardless of location.
A Peek Into Maternal Ambivalence
A therapist’s new book takes a closer look at struggling with mixed feelings about motherhood
BY DANIELLE RAMOS
Motherhood is often romanticized as a journey of pure joy, unconditional love, and endless fulfillment. But for many moms, there’s a hidden side to parenting—the feelings that don’t always match the picture-perfect narrative.
In her upcoming book, Maternal Ambivalence: The Loving Moments & Bitter Truths of Motherhood on sale now, psychotherapist, social worker and mother of three, Margo Lowy, PhD, delves into the often-unspoken, complex emotions that accompany the experience of mothering.
Lowy explores what it means to embrace the full spectrum of feelings that come with raising children—from the deep love and pride to the exhaustion, frustration, and moments of doubt. Through her own personal journey and extensive research, she challenges the societal pressures that demand mothers to be selfless, constantly joyful, and always in control.
In this excerpt, Lowy invites us to confront maternal ambivalence and redefine what it means to be a mother in all its beautiful, messy contradictions.
Being a mom is so difficult some days. We are pulled in so many different directions by our children, and we are supposed to be caring, selfless, and remain an adult all the time, even when it becomes too much. How do we make room to acknowledge and talk about maternal ambivalence, a forbidden and silenced but daily part of our mothering?
Making sense of these contradictions in order to live with them in a peaceful and productive way may be the greatest challenge of all. As a mother of three, I’ve struggled— and still do—with my mothering. While my children are all things to me—the wonder, love, and accomplishment of my life—they also test me continually as I tread the awe, joy, and heartbreak of being a mother and its continual twists and turns. On that score, I’m not so different from any other mother.
I suppose my difference creeps in in the way that I have dealt with my experience of mothering and its combination of awe, joy, and heartbreak. It hasn’t been easy, and why would it be? I have been driven to spend years of my life trying to find ways to make sense of mothering and the mother’s feelings of ambivalence.
I have pondered its contradictions and mystery while questioning the status quo and the wider social commentary.
It seems to me that most people feel entitled to freely comment on the sacred feelings that a woman experiences as a mother, often leaving her with deep, unsettling feelings that may be hidden in the shadows or feel shameful.
Ironically, this research and work on mothering began with a foray into infertility and the heartache that a woman usually feels when she is unable to conceive. My belief that these feelings are too important to ignore, too fragile to be denied, also segued into a desire to shine a light on the desperation that many mothers feel.
Both infertility and mothering, in their own way, provoke a sense of failure or lacking, a yearning, and many negative feelings that go unspoken. Both hold an element of taboo. That’s the fascination for me: the jumbling, contradictory flow of life.
This raises another matter, which is that this is not a book about whether or not to have children, despite the fact that maternal ambiva-
lence is sometimes understood in these terms.
To this point, I strongly believe that most women who decide not to have a child do not come to their decision lightly; more often than not, it arrives after a great deal of soul-searching. These women merit exactly the same respect as those who decide that they wish to rear a child; they don’t justify derision or voicelessness.
Across all cultures in this world, there is a universal truth, which is that motherhood defines womanhood in some way, whether we have children or not. We are judged for the ways in which we raise our children and judged when we choose not to raise them.
Men and fathers, too, experience the conflict of parenthood and that dialogue, and while much different than it was even a halfcentury ago, it still has much progress to make. My focus in this book, however, is the intersection of womanhood and motherhood—the relationship that springs into being after birth and exists long after a child has left the nest.
Every mother has her moments when troubling feelings, including those of desperation, anger, loneliness, exhaustion, and
despair, surface despite attempts to keep them down where she thinks that they belong. I think these moments have been disregarded or cloaked in denial.
It’s time to air and name them, and in doing so, redefine the image of a mother as either a demon or an angel into one where she is an ordinary human being—one who, despite
having these feelings, does still love her child deeply and, in fact, within these troubling feelings, discovers that her love is strengthened and fueled in the soundest way possible because these feelings are genuine and real.
Ambivalence is the human capacity to acknowledge, own, and engage with many contradictory feelings, without dismissing the difficult ones. An indication of a healthy mindset is an acceptance that this dynamic is part of life, that challenges will crop up from time to time, and that the individual is prepared to work with them and not to dismiss or repress any of them. While the idea of ambivalence certainly throws many curveballs, let’s welcome it: it’s the unsung hero(ine) of mothering.
Margo Lowy, PhD, is a psychotherapist specializing in mothering. She is the author of MATERNAL AMBIVALENCE: The Loving Moments & Bitter Truths of Motherhood (Post Hill Press) and holds a doctorate from the University of New South Wales in Sydney, Australia, where she researched maternal ambivalence. She is the mother of three children and lives with her husband in New York City.
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Mother’s Day Brunch & Dinner in Westchester
BY NAOSHA GREGG
Mother’s Day is quickly approaching, and there’s so much to do! From finding the perfect gift to planning the perfect day for the mother figure in your life, the day is filled with love and appreciation. Celebrations often leave little time for cooking, but thankfully, many restaurants are offering brunch or dinner for Mother’s Day this year. We’ve rounded up the best picks in and around Westchester to treat Mom to a delightful meal.
Augustine’s Salumeria e Pasta Joint 213 Halstead Avenue, Mamaroneck 914-315-6541
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Celebrate Mother’s Day with warmth, flavor, and family tradition at Augustine’s. Enjoy their regular brunch menu alongside seasonal specials crafted with locally sourced ingredients and Italian soul. With its cozy, welcoming atmosphere and heartfelt hospitality, it’s the perfect spot to honor Mom over a relaxed, delicious meal. Reservations recommended.
Boscobel
1601 Route 9D, Garrison 845-265-3638
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11am to 1pm
Get ready to raise your pinkies for the Mother’s Day Tea at Boscobel’s stunning glass pavilion overlooking the Hudson River. Brunch includes a tea service, finger sandwiches and snacks, digital family portraits, live music, photo ops and a bouquet of tulips. Tickets start at $70 for adults and $50 for children ages 4 -18.
Benjamin Steakhouse
610 Hartsdale Road, White Plains 914-428-6868
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Benjamin Steakhouse will serve a delectable menu with jumbo shrimp and crab cakes to start, as well as Scottish salmon, lamb chops, and filet mignon for the main course. Finish off with a variety of cake options and freshly brewed tea or coffee. Prices start at $119 per person.
Bread & Brine
19 Main Street, Hastings on Hudson 914-479-5243
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A local favorite for fresh seafood, Bread & Brine offers a laid-back vibe with a top-notch raw bar, creative daily specials, and comfort food classics. Seafood-loving moms will enjoy their lobster mac and cheese, fish and chips basket, and steamed lobster dinner, to name a few options.
Half Moon
1 High Street, Dobbs Ferry 914-693-4130
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Enjoy a luxe three-course pris fixe brunch in the heart of Dobb’s Ferry along the Hudson River waterfront. Half Moon is offering a sophisticated brunch that boasts savory and sweet options, including Belgian waffles, tres leches French toast, eggs florentine, and steak and eggs, and is served from 11 a.m. to 8 p.m.
A reservation and a $50 deposit are required, and prices start at $90 for adults and $30 for children.
Harrison Meadows Country Club
123 North Street, Harrison 914-925-7001
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Noon to 3 pm
Members of the country club can enjoy a Mother’s Day buffet and brunch with traditional breakfast and lunch selections, a kids’ menu, an omelet station, a carving station, a harvest table, and dessert, as well as a variety of alcoholic beverages to complement. Tickets start at $40.
The Inn at Pound Ridge by Jean-Georges
258 Westchester Avenue, Pound Ridge 914-764-1400
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Make Mom’s day memorable with a sophisticated à la carte brunch or dinner at the elegant and inviting The Inn at Pound Ridge by Jean-Georges. Their à la carte menu features seasonal ingredients and festive spring dishes served in a beautifully restored farmhouse with modern charm. Highlights include fresh seafood, delicate pastas and decadent desserts—all perfect for a relaxing celebration. Reservations are required.
Red Horse by David Burke
221 Main Street, White Plains
914-467-5713
Noon to 7 pm
David Burke’s equine art lover’s dreamcome-true is serving up a three-course pris fixe brunch including appetizer, entree and dessert. Start with the signature lobster
dumplings or a variety of sushi rolls, and then enjoy savory favorites like smoked salmon eggs Benedict or bison short rib hash as an entree. Choose from desserts like the delicious signature key lime pie. The special menu is available from noon to 4 pm and starts at $90 for adults and $55 for children 12 and under.
After 4 pm, the special pris fixe Mother’s Day dinner menu will feature favorites like Brick Chicken, prime rib and lobster risotto—reservations required.
Villa Venezia
2257 Goshen Turnpike, Middletown 845-692-3300
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Enjoy a breakfast board complete with brunch favorites, including mini pancakes, assorted fruit and berries, french toast stick cups, and assorted crostini, and prepare for the main charcuterie board featuring smoked salmon flatbread, honey ham, rotini pesto primavera and build your own crepes for dessert.
Postpartum Depression or Just the Baby Blues?
How to determine the difference between hormones and something more serious — and when to ask for help
By Ashley Ziegler
Welcoming a new baby into your life comes with expected emotional ups and downs. Suddenly, you’re responsible for a tiny human who can’t even hold its head up yet – this kind of responsibility is overwhelming, to say the least. Toss in the dramatic hormone fluctuations that come naturally after giving birth, plus the physical toll of recovery, and it’s a wonder how a new parent wouldn’t feel a little out of control.
Still, as normal as it is to feel a mix of highs and lows in the first few weeks after having a baby, often known as the “baby blues,” it’s essential to stay alert and monitor what you’re feeling, as you may be experiencing postpartum depression (PPD).
To help make the distinction between the baby blues and PPD, we spoke with Janel Coleman, LMSW, a doula and licensed psychotherapist at Madison Square Psychotherapy in Manhattan, and Jessica Vernon, MD, FACOG, PMH-C, an OBGYN, author, and clinical director at Oula in Manhattan. Here’s what they had to say.
What’s the Difference Between Baby Blues and Postpartum Depression?
Around 85% of birthing parents experience symptoms of baby blues, while around 12.5% are diagnosed with PPD. Given how common the baby blues are, it’s no wonder why signs of depression are so easily overlooked. In fact, the symptoms of each are incredibly similar.
According to Coleman, symptoms of baby blues can include feelings of anxiety, sadness, tearfulness, difficulty concentrating, irritability, and difficulty sleeping (even when baby is sleeping). These are all also signs of PPD, but according to Dr. Vernon, the difference is in the onset, duration, and severity of these symptoms.
Baby blues
“Baby blues are a common and temporary emotional experience during the postpartum
period … they typically occur within the first two weeks after the baby is born,” explains Coleman. Dr. Vernon describes the symptoms more as mood swings. “You may be laughing one minute and crying the next, often not even knowing why you are crying, then just as quickly changing again to a happier state,” she says. Dr. Vernon explains that these dramatic mood changes can be attributed to “rapid hormonal shifts that occur after the baby is born” and typically level out within the first two weeks after delivery.
In addition to being short-lived, baby blue symptoms are less intense than PPD symptoms. Dr. Vernon says, “The lows are not severe or persistent – you can easily ‘snap out of it.’” Also, while they can certainly feel overwhelming in the moment, Coleman notes that baby blues symptoms typically aren’t severe enough to interfere with a new parent’s ability to care for their baby or themselves.
Postpartum depression
Just like the baby blues, symptoms of PPD can show up within the first two weeks of the postpartum period, but they won’t fizzle out. Both Dr. Vernon and Coleman stress that symptoms lasting longer than those first two weeks after baby arrives indicate it’s more than baby blues.
Not only do the symptoms last longer, but they’re also more intense with PPD. Coleman explains that these symptoms can become so severe that they can interfere with a parent’s ability to meet the needs of their baby. In some cases, the parent is able to care for the baby, but they stop taking care of themselves — they may stop eating or drinking, skip basic hygiene tasks for days on end, withdraw from family and friends, or not get enough sleep (beyond the typical parents-of-newborn sleep deprivation).
Symptoms that PPD shares with the baby blues but will be more severe include:
• Anxiety
• Irritability
• Feelings of sadness
• Difficulty concentrating
• Tearfulness
• Difficulty sleeping
Additional symptoms Coleman says to look for include:
• Feelings of hopelessness
• Difficulty bonding with baby
• Lack of interest in pleasurable activities
• Withdrawing from family and friends
• Doubts or fears about their ability to be a good parent
• Thoughts of harming themselves or baby
Postpartum Depression Treatment Options
In New York, the birthing parent’s health care provider screens them for postpartum depression (or postpartum mood disorders,
in general) during follow-up visits. However, these visits are usually not scheduled until several weeks after delivery. In 2023, the state passed legislation requiring pediatricians to perform maternal mental health screenings during baby well-visits, which occur within days of being released from the hospital.
Early identification, diagnosis, and treatment of PPD are essential for effective maternal mental health care. As part of the state’s effort to prioritize this, the Department of Health and the Office of Mental Health developed official guidance and standards for maternal depression screening and referrals, and insurers are required to cover screenings and treatment without prior authorization.
Once someone has been diagnosed with PPD, Dr. Vernon says their treatment plan will depend on how severe their symptoms
are and what the patient wants. “[Treatment] is often a personal decision made with your care team,” she notes.
When a patient comes to her with PPD, Dr. Vernon says she checks to ensure they are not anemic, that their thyroid functions are normal, and that their vitamin D levels are optimized. “All of these things can contribute to symptoms of PPD,” she explains, and she will ensure the patient’s treatment plan also addresses these factors when appropriate.
Beyond these tests, Dr. Vernon says PPD treatment options can include a combination of psychotherapy, psychopharmacology (medication), peer support groups, and well-being practices (meditation, exercise, acupuncture, outdoor time, etc.).
Dr. Vernon also highlights the importance of sleep for those who are experiencing
postpartum depression. “One of the first recommendations mental health providers always give is to utilize your support system or bring in extra support so that you can get more sleep.” In cases where PPD interferes with the ability to sleep, a breastfeeding-safe sleep aid may be recommended.
Other Postpartum Mood Disorders
Postpartum depression is one of the more well-known postpartum mood disorders, but there are several others a new parent may also experience. Possible diagnoses include:
• Postpartum Anxiety
• Postpartum OCD
• Postpartum Panic Disorder
• Postpartum Bipolar Disorder
• Postpartum Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
• Postpartum Psychosis
Coleman emphasizes that those who were diagnosed with mental health disorders prior to pregnancy or during pregnancy are 30% more likely to experience a postpartum mental health disorder.
It’s also worth noting that new parents can be diagnosed with more than one postpartum mood disorder at once. “You may experience one or many of these [mental health disorders], and seeing a provider trained in diagnosing them can be critical in understanding exactly what you are experiencing and what may best help you feel better,” says Dr. Vernon.
If you suspect you’re experiencing symptoms of postpartum depression or any other postpartum mood disorder, it’s essential to reach out to your provider for help. Your feelings are valid and shouldn’t be dismissed as “just hormones.” With the right treatment and care team, you can (and will) start feeling better.
Experts:
Janel Coleman, LMSW, is a trained fullspectrum doula and a licensed psychotherapist at Madison Square Psychotherapy in New York City. Her focus areas include providing support during the trying-to-conceive, prenatal, and postpartum periods.
Jessica Vernon, MD, FACOG, PMH-C , is an OB-GYN and clinical director at Oula. She’s also an advocate for perinatal mental health, as well as author of the book Then Comes Baby: An Honest Conversation About Birth, Postpartum, and the Complex Transition to Parenthood.
The Ultimate Guide to Pick Your Own Farms
Why families love this seasonal activity, and the best time to go
BY ALEXA LUTTER
Nowadays, farms are so much more than red barns, milking cows, fresh eggs, and Old McDonald’s. Farm visits have become a popular outdoor family excursion. Not only do farm trips teach us about agriculture and where our food comes from, but they also get our families off their devices and out of the house and take us to a different scenery. Farms also allow fun and interactive experiences, like picking your produce. As an added bonus, they provide the perfect backdrop for a family photoshoot.
We are sharing tips and helpful information you will need to prepare for your next trip to the farm!
Why Pick Your Own?
Sensational Scenery
The scenery at these farms and fields can be
breathtaking. They serve as fantastic photo ops for the whole family and are Instagramand holiday-card-worthy all year round. So make sure your phone is fully charged and set in the right mode for all the beautiful photos you are going to take.
Health Benefits
There is nothing like smelling fresh lavender, biting into a crisp strawberry, or plucking the perfect apple off a tree. Picking your own produce has both mental and physical health benefits. Getting outdoors has been proven to boost your vitamin D levels and reduce feelings of stress. Visiting farms allows you and your family to stimulate all five senses. It could make even your picky eater try something new! Having fresh produce at home promotes healthy eating and may even entice your picky eater to try something new. Whether you are buying produce or not,
the environment lends itself to a new kind of outdoor experience, so breathe in the fresh air and enjoy your surroundings! Most farms provide rich knowledge about agriculture, as it is both interesting and beneficial to know where your food is coming from.
Environmental Benefits
Visiting a farm is a great way to support small businesses and local farmers, which in turn helps stimulate the local economy. This support promotes sustainability and ecological preservation. You can further support the environment by carpooling to farms with friends to reduce fossil fuels!
Taste the Difference
One of the best benefits of picking your own produce is stocking your fridge and pantry with all the yummy fresh fruits and veggies! Once you bring all the produce home, the possibilities are endless. You can create your own jams, jellies, pies, and more. Check out recipes to make after pumpkin picking and apple picking.
If you’re not the recipe-following type, no worries! Most of these farms feature a market where you can purchase seasonal farm fresh fruits and vegetables grown onsite. They carry high-quality homemade ciders, coffees, teas, maple syrups, honey, jams, yogurts,
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cheeses, and more. The options are endless! Find a farm with a bakery, and you hit the jackpot! If you have never had a hot, fresh apple cider donut, you have no idea what you are missing! Stock up on your favorite pies to share with your families, a popular holiday option.
Strawberries
There is nothing like a fresh, sweet, and slightly tangy strawberry. They’re popular with kids in their natural form, but the possibilities for family-friendly recipes are endless. Some favorites include strawberry jams, yogurt, and pancakes.
Parents, are you looking for a real treat? Homemade strawberry daiquiris make the perfect summer cocktail. Cheers!
When to go? May and early June
How much? $5.50 to $8.00 per pound
Picking tips : When picking the perfect strawberries, look for vibrant red and fully shaped strawberries. Strawberries do not ripen after being picked, so you want to grab the ripest ones immediately. When picking your strawberries, grip the stem above the strawberry, twist, and pull. Be careful when storing strawberries in containers so as not to overcrowd the container, which may cause strawberries to bruise or become mushy. When you go home, refrain from washing the strawberries until ready to use them; washing immediately increases the chances of spoiling faster.
Peaches
Peaches have a bright and sweet flavor with notes of tartness. They have been called a superfood and contain excellent sources of vitamins A and C. They are versatile; keep it simple with sliced peaches and cream, or whip up a decadent peach cobbler.
When to go? Late July through September.
How much? Approximately $3.00 per pound
Picking tips: When picking the perfect peach, there are many things to keep an eye out for. First, you want to examine the peaches’ skin to see if there is any green on it. If there is, the peach is not ready to be picked. Additionally, use your sense of smell! Ripe and ready peaches will give off a sweet aroma; when there is no aroma, the peach needs more time to ripen. Finally, make sure the fruit is not too firm and easy to retrieve from the tree. When bringing peaches home, store them in the refrigerator to slow down the process of ripening. For long-term
storage, you can freeze them in an airtight plastic bag.
Sunflowers
Sunflowers are commonly associated with summer. They add a pop of color to any space, whether it is your backyard, kitchen, or living room. Sunflowers can be displayed and used for crafts, composting, and more. Sunflower fields open the door for Instagram-worthy pictures. There are usually many fun activities for families, such as mazes and bouquet-making.
When to go? M id-summer
How much? Approximately $2.00 a flower
Picking Tips: Some sunflower farms or fields let you pick your own sunflowers, while others sell them. You are usually allowed to enter the fields for photos either way, but check the farm’s policy first.
Apples
Nothing says fall like a nice crisp apple plucked straight from a tree. Apples are one of the most diverse fruits and are used in many different delicious ways. Cider, pie, tarts, juice, and more are all delicious options – not to mention biting into one the old-fashioned way. There are many apple varieties, so choose a farm growing your favorite kind. Or try them all!
When to go? Late August until mid-tolate October.
How much? Apple prices vary by variety and are typically sold by the pound.
Picking tips: There are many things to look out for when choosing apples. You want to ensure the apples you pick are free from any blemishes or bruises. Apples should be firm to the touch and not mushy. Another helpful tip is to look for apples with stems intact, as the stem keeps the apple good for longer. Be mindful when you pick the apple to keep the stem intact.
Pumpkins
Pumpkin picking is a fall staple and perhaps the most popular fall outdoor activity for families. After everone chooses their favorite pumpkin, many families follow the treasured tradition of carving them. Kids love the joy of picking their own pumpkin to turn into a unique Jack-o’-lantern and displaying it proudly outside during Halloween. Grab a few extra pumpkins to create delicious recipes such as pumpkin pie, bread, muffins and more. Pumpkins are a healthy food that provides calcium, potassium, and magnesium. Don’t forget to roast the seeds!
When to go? September through late October.
How much? Prices vary greatly depending on size, but they average around $5.50 each.
Picking tips: Color is everything when it comes to the perfect pumpkin. You want to pick a deep orange pumpkin with no blemishes or bruising. If you are looking for a pumpkin to carve, look for one that will have enough room for your design and a smooth outer shell. When bringing home your pumpkin, you definitely want to clean it. Pumpkins can be prone to bacteria, which could result in decay.
Christmas Trees
Christmas tree farms allow you to observe these gorgeous trees in their natural habitat and take them to your home to decorate. Picking your own tree creates a special memory within the family for the holidays. Not to mention, having a real Christmas tree will hit you with joy the second you open your front door, thanks to its unmistakable aroma. Most Christmas tree farms also sell wreaths, garlands, and more. As an added treat for the kids, many tree farms offer a visit and photo opportunity with Santa! When to go? Late November through December
How much? Though they vary, on average, trees cost about $85.
Picking tips: Bundle up! It will most likely be very chilly, and you want your family to be as comfy as possible. Always feel free to ask farm workers questions to find your perfect tree. Your tree should be a healthy green color and the size of your liking. Christmas trees can be large, so measure ahead and ensure you have space in your vehicle to transport them home.
Additionally, look for branches with space to hold all your decorations and ornaments; flimsy branches will result in falling “needles.” When you get home, you will need fresh water to keep your tree well-hydrated. The amount of water you need depends on your tree and trunk size.
Visiting pick-your-own farms offers a delightful way for families to connect with nature while enjoying fresh produce together. These experiences not only enrich our understanding of where our food comes from but also provide lasting memories amidst stunning landscapes. So, gather your loved ones, plan your next farm adventure, and savor the joys of picking your own fruits and vegetables this season!
SPECIALTY CAMPS & SUMMER PROGRAMS
Summer will be here before we know it, and you may have put off camp registration until nearly the last minute, or a traditional day or overnight camp may not be a fit for your family. We see you! We all want our children to have an enriching, active summer experience where they can make new friends and memories, but your child may have a beloved hobby, interest or skill they want to explore. An option that will provide your child with the supervision, activity or education they need during the summer months is a specialty camp that focuses on sports, STEM or the arts. We’ve found some local summer programs and specialty camps worth considering.
Amadeus Conservatory
201 King Street, Chappaqua
St. Matthew’s Church, 382 Cantitoe Street, Bedford 914-238-0388, amadeusconservatoryofmusic@gmail.com amadeusconservatory.com/programs/summer-camp
Amadeus is a performing arts, musical theater, music and art camp for ages 5 to 14. Kids will sing, dance, act, study instruments like piano, voice, violin, guitar, drums, and more with Amadeus faculty, plus create fine art, design and paint sets. Each camper gets their own role in the show and the freedom to create it. Have fun with outdoor play, sports, arts and crafts. Camp culminates in a performance of the show in a professional theater - this year kids will perform ANNIE. The campers experience the joys of self-expression and creativity and make close friends. DATES: Session 1 is June 30th to July 18, Session 2 is July 21 to August 8, and the 6-week session is June 30th to August 8.
Camp Hudson Hudson Lab School 185 Old Broadway, Hastings-on-Hudson 914-826-5586, camp@hudsonlabschool.com www.hudsonlabschool.com/camphudson
Camp Hudson is an outdoor day camp for grades K–5 that blends hands-on learning with adventure across four unique sessions. Campers spend their days tinkering, making, and exploring 26 acres of woods, gardens, and open fields. From large-scale building projects using real tools to immersive nature activities and rotating maker projects in art, design, and science, every day brings new challenges and discoveries. Each session ends with an exhibition to celebrate the campers’ work. With time to collaborate, take risks, and follow their curiosity, campers build real-world skills and lasting memories. Whether they join for one session or all four, Camp Hudson offers a summer full of creativity, exploration, and joyful learning.
Central Park Dance
165-171 South Central Park Ave., Hartsdale 914-723-2940, info@centralparkdance.com centralparkdance.com
Summer sessions featuring reputable, hands-on teaching will take place from June 23 to August 29. The program offers a variety of options, including full class schedules for ages 2 and up, as well as stimulating Performing Arts Camps for ages 3 to 8. Adults, from beginners to seasoned professionals, can participate in classes such as ballet, jazz, contemporary, hip hop, tap, yoga, salsa, belly dance, and fitness. Additionally, young dancers in training have the opportunity to engage in Accelerated and Workshop programs designed for ages 9 to 18. With limited space available, early registration is advised to ensure participation.
DNA Learning Center
1 Bungtown Road, Cold Spring Harbor 516-367-5170, dnalc-camps@cshl.edu summercamps.dnalc.org
The DNA Learning Center of Cold Spring Harbor Laboratory offers fun and challenging week-long camps for science enthusiasts entering 6th to 12th grade. Guided by experienced instructors, students use sophisticated laboratory techniques and online DNA analysis tools to perform experiments several grade levels ahead of their peers. Inperson camps are located in Brooklyn, Long Island, New Jersey, and Westchester. Campers can also participate virtually using on-demand kits. Scholarships and other camp discounts are offered!
Children’s Art Classes
1214 E. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck 914-571-8299, daniellef@childrensartclasses.com childrensartclasses.com/location/westchester-county-ny/ Join Children’s Art Classes for their exciting summer workshops, designed to inspire creativity in young minds. These programs cater to children ages 3 and up, offering a wide variety of themes and artistic mediums. Each workshop is carefully crafted to help students explore their passions and develop their creative skills in a fun and engaging environment. As kids create and connect with their own artistic expression, they will also build confidence and foster personal growth. This is the perfect opportunity for children to discover new techniques, make new friends, and enjoy hands-on learning. For more detailed information about the diverse classes and summer programs available, be sure to visit their website and find the perfect fit for your young artist today!
House
of Sports
1 Elm St, Ardsley 914-479-5419, frank.lombardy@houseofsportsny.com houseofsportsny.com/summer-camps
Campers at House of Sports will have a memorable summer experience. They offer professional coaching in a fully climate-controlled facility. Weekly summer camps include basketball, volleyball, girl’s lacrosse, boy’s lacrosse, soccer, and the new Camp Club House, designed for ages 3 to 11 and features sports activities along with various fun activities and daily specials. Both full-day and half-day camp options are available. Registration is open until Wednesday, May 28 with a discount available for those who register early.
Kisco Art Center (KAC)
Art & Imagination Camps, Kids Camp, Teen Camp
40 Radio Circle Dr, Mt. Kisco
914-232-4843
katonahartcenter.com/summer-camps/
The Katonah Art Center offers one-week summer camps for children ages 3.5 through grade 12, with flexible morning, afternoon, and fullday options. The Art and Imagination camp for younger children (ages 3.5 to 5) blends arts and crafts, free art play, storytime, and outdoor fun. Camp options for kids in grades 1 through 5 include jewelry, painting, pottery, and animation, allowing for creative exploration. Teen camps for grades 6 and up focus on specialized topics like outdoor painting, fused glass, and mural painting, offering a more intensive, hands-on artistic experience in a supportive environment.
Oasis Day Camp Dobbs Ferry
555 Broadway, Dobbs Ferry 914-712-5054, dobbslc@oasischildren.com oasischildren.com/dobbs-ferry/ Oasis Day Camp offers kids ages three to grade 10 a traditional camp experience—in Central Park! Their dedicated team of educators is committed to engaging activities, a safe environment, emotional development, self-esteem, resilience, and vital life skills. Early Start Imagination Camp (age 3-K) is a child’s introduction to new experiences and making friends, with specialized care by experienced professionals and developmentally appropriate activities. Lower Camp (grades K, 1 and 2) includes funfilled days of adventure and exploration with sports, art, music, swimming, enrichment and nature. Upper Camp (grades 3 - 5) offers a variety of activities for growing interests, including basketball, soccer, flag football, swimming, adventure, painting, theater and crafts. Travel Camp (grades 6 -10) is available for older campers, offering trips to theme parks, museums, Broadway shows, sporting events, and overnights.
No Limit Ninja & Hi-Five Sports Summer Camp
222 Lake Ave., Yonkers 914-714-9814, info@yonkersninja.com yonkersninja.com/sportscamp
Experience the ultimate summer adventure at No Limit Ninja & HiFive Sports Summer Camp, combining the best of sports training and ninja obstacles in an extraordinary day camp experience. Throughout the day, campers rotate between expert-led sports activities and exciting obstacle courses, developing strength, agility, and confidence in both disciplines. Their expert and certified coaches create an engaging environment where children thrive through a perfect balance of structured activities and free play. Located in Yonkers, the camp runs weekly sessions from June through August, with flexible aftercare options available. Each day includes varied activities tailored to different age groups, with a focus on building skills while having fun. Snacks are provided daily in this unique camp experience that combines two dynamic athletic programs.
Rock ‘N Racquet Summer Camp
130 Rhodes Street, New Rochelle 914-636-1019, info@pinebrookfitness.com www.pinebrookfitness.com/summer
Rock ‘N Racquet Summer Camp is where tennis meets climbing for an action-packed day of fun! Campers start their morning smashing serves at The New Rochelle Racquet Club, then head to the Rock Club in the afternoon to climb to new heights—all in one amazing location! With games, challenges, and nonstop excitement, kids build confidence, improve skills, and have a blast! Individual rock climbing or tennis camps are also available. Rock ‘N Racquet camp is weekly enrollment while individual camps are daily and weekly from June 30 through August 29. Join them for a fun-filled summer!
Spotlight Gymnastics, Inc.
901 Pelhamdale Ave., Pelham
914-738-7305
www.spotlightgym.com
Spotlight Gymnastics, a family-owned business that has called Pelham home for 35 years, offers a fun and flexible summer program perfect for families looking to explore all the gym has to offer without committing to a full session during the busy school year. The summer program features custom personalized schedules, allowing families to plan around other activities, camp schedules, and vacations. Classes are available for gymnasts and tumblers ages 12 months to 18 years, with a student-to-teacher ratio of 6-to-1 or less, ensuring personalized attention for every child. Enrollment begins Monday, May 5 for classes running from June 16 through August 1.
Westchester County Parks
Various Location
914-231-4673
parks.westchestergov.com/children-camps
Children can experience fun, adventure, and skill development at Westchester County Parks’ camps this summer. Kids and teens will have the opportunity to discover, play, and grow while exploring nature, making new friends, and improving their sports skills. The camps offer hands-on experiences at five nature centers, Muscoot Farm, Lasdon Park, and the historic Miller House. There are also sports camps focusing on basketball, baseball, and golf, along with swimming lessons available at four pools. Parents can feel assured that their children are in capable hands and safely supervised. Westchester County Parks provides a chance for kids to discover, play, and grow.
Sylvan Learning of Pleasantville is pleased to announce its summer camps and individualized lessons in reading, writing, math, SAT prep, and TACHS prep. As summer break approaches, the dedicated staff is committed to providing engaging and enjoyable activities that support children’s growth during their time off. The programs are thoughtfully designed to keep young minds active while also preparing students for the upcoming school year. By participating in Sylvan’s offerings, children have the opportunity to build a strong foundation for future academic success. Interested families are encouraged to inquire about enrollment in these summer programs and explore special savings. For more information, they can visit the Sylvan Learning website or call to learn more.
Westchester Skating Academy is the coolest place to be this summer, catering to beginner skaters through advanced hockey players and competitive figure skaters! Camp Chillin is perfect for children ages 3 – 11 who are looking for the fun and excitement of a traditional camp while learning how to skate. Figure Skating Camp offers fun and challenging group classes both on and off the ice. Professional Hockey Camp coaches guide campers with top-level instruction featuring comprehensive skill development. All camps are available in full-day and half-day formats. Those who register by Thursday, May 29, will receive $75 off per full week/full-day camp.
The Magic of Independent Play for Kids
by Myria M Sandler
Myriam Sandler, creator and founder of Mothercould (@mothercould)—a social media community inspiring millions of parents and caregivers—delves into the vital role of independent play in fostering creativity, confidence, and self-sufficiency in children in her upcoming book, available May 13, 2025, Playful by Design: Your StressFree Guide to Raising Confident, Creative Kids through Independent Play.
Emphasizing the importance of early selfdirected play and preparing an intentional play space, Sandler provides practical guidance to help nurture a lifelong love for imaginative exploration.
Start Them Young!
The more your child is exposed to independent play, the more comfortable with it they’ll become. Even infants are perfect candidates for playing on their own. You could either try to juggle them and a pacifier in the carrier while you’re prepping dinner, or you could let them have five to ten minutes of tummy time with a sensory mat. Or, if they’re able to sit, set them next to a small selection of toys in a safe space where you can see them. (Including a play yard, if they’re mobile.)
No age is too young for safe, semimonitored, independent play.
Common Independent Play Pitfalls
I can already hear your hesitation: I tell my kids to go play all the time, and a minute later they’re either destroying their playroom or complaining that they’re bored. Or I give them art supplies, sensory games, or puzzles, and they just dump them out and walk away after thirty seconds.
Valid. Real.
But if you’re telling me that your child is consistently not engaged in their own activities, we need to dig a little bit deeper.
• Are the boundaries for play maybe a little too rigid? Is your child afraid to make a mess?
• Did they help set up their space or
prepare the activity?
• Is their play space perfectly organized, to the point they perhaps got the message that it’s not to be mussed?
• Are their toys difficult to reach or placed somewhere they’re not able to access?
• Are there bins or boxes they are not able to open on their own?
• Is their play space too cluttered?
• Are toys tucked away in deep bins or in bins where they cannot see all the contents?
• Does their play space feature activities they are currently interested in?
• Are their toys too advanced? Not advanced enough?
• Are their toys too stimulating? Not engaging enough?
Each of these factors can affect how a child uses their space and how comfortable they feel there. Luckily, there are simple fixes for every single one. Some fixes are achieved through mindset shifts, others through decluttering and creative re- organizing. But all are found through the small steps I’ve outlined in this book, which yield very big results.
What About Electronics?
This might be a hot take, but I’ve never really been a fan of making things like television,
tablets, and voice-activated technology such as Alexa a forbidden fruit. In my opinion, enforcing limitations or putting something on a pedestal only seems to make kids want those things more. Plus, it doesn’t feel like it’s preparing kids for real life, where they’ll have access to pretty much all the technology they want. (Just ask any adult who can barely look away from their phone for a moment!) And, of course, I’d be naive not to acknowledge that for some families, these things need to stand in as a sitter. (Which goes for us, too, sometimes when we travel—though, as you’ll read about in chapter 8, our girls tend to be more interested in their on-the-go play spaces.)
In our house, technology just gives us a few more tools for play. We set ourselves up for success by downloading age-appropriate apps and programs, and we have some boundaries in place—such as how early in the morning or late into the evening these things can be on—but other than that, our kids have a say in their technology diet. I’ve seen that after about twenty minutes of screen time, they’re ready for the next thing.
If your child is used to leaning on TV and tablets for entertainment, don’t assume they won’t be willing to transition to other types of play. TV might be a big, fudgy piece of chocolate cake, but your new play spaces are like a delicious dessert buffet. You’ll be
amazed to see how just a few tantalizing new provisions (especially sensory materials like slime) or thoughtfully selected toys can pique the curiosity of the most devoted screen-timer. Or how effective it can be to incorporate screen time into their open-ended play, such as taking videos of their performances, “concerts,” and science experiment outcomes, editing the footage, and watching it together as a family. They will still want that chocolate cake, and that’s something we’re all learning how to navigate as parents, but now they have other tasty offerings to fill their plates with too.
And if you are leaning on TV for entertainment, remember those mindset shifts we just talked about. If it’s a control thing for you, because TV means your child isn’t making a mess somewhere else in the house, create a space where they can find all the things they need for play without dumping out large containers, with the additional peace of mind
The more I’ve dug into the research behind the benefits of sensory play, and the more I see those benefits unfolding in real-time in my own home—not to mention in the thousands of homes of Mothercould community members—the more I’m convinced that it doesn’t get much better than that.
that everything has a straightforward place to go when playtime is done. Any mess they make—and they will make a mess—can be contained and easy to handle.
Myriam Sandler is the creator of Mothercould (@mothercould), a beloved kids’ activity and family lifestyle community trusted by millions of families. As a mother of three, Myriam shares engaging, easy-to-follow video tutorials that offer accessible DIY play ideas, parenting hacks, family travel tips, and more. Mothercould has grown to offer family-friendly, problem-solving products now available at major retailers.
Taken from Playful by Design by Myriam Sandler, Copyright @ 2025 by Mothercould LLC. Published by Harper Celebrate, a division of HarperCollins Focus, LLC.
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Preschools & Montessori Schools
As we anticipate the arrival of summer, now is the perfect time to consider your child’s early educational journey. Whether you’re a first-time parent or you’re exploring new options, finding the right preschool can feel overwhelming. Identifying programs prioritizing creativity, social interaction, and foundational learning is essential. But is a traditional preschool or a Montessori school—which offers a unique approach that encourages child-led exploration and independence—right for your little one? We’ve explored some local preschools and Montessori schools to give you a head start to securing a spot that aligns with your values and nurtures your child’s interests.
Ann and Andy Childcare
2170 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-3027
annandandychildcare.com
Each child is considered as an individual first, and then as a member of the group. Regularly planned group activities meet children’s natural, physical, emotional, and cognitive needs at play. The carefully trained staff promotes a positive environment and keeps a balanced routine that avoids stress and overstimulation. Ann and Andy’s provides childcare to children from ages 2 months to 14 years, offering an infant, toddler, and preschool program and a before and after school program for school-aged children. They also offer a 9-week summer camp with acres of adventure. They have a flexible schedule that offers part-time and full-time care, hot meals, and ageappropriate trips.
All Aboard is a family-owned and operated educational childcare facility that has been in operation since 1996. Their goal to develop the whole child is connected to extensive learning opportunities. The pre-K3 and pre-K4 programs enhance school readiness by incorporating New York State Pre-Kindergarten Learning Standards with an enriched emergent curriculum and “play to learn philosophy,” accomplished through planning, instruction and individual exploration in social/emotional, self-help, language development, motor development, pre-math, and higher level and critical thinking. Each day is designed to be exciting, enriched, and fun. Nutritious meals and an array of enrichment activities are included.
Beth El Nursery School
1324 North Avenue, New Rochelle 914-235-2700, ext. 250 bethelnr.org/nursery
The primary goal of Beth El Nursery School (BENS) is to create a foundation for learning in a warm, nurturing environment for children ages 2 to 5 and their families, including a bridge program for children looking for the gift of another year before entering kindergarten. Inspired by the Reggio Emilia approach to early childhood education, BENS views children as competent, full of wonder and eager to explore. Their classrooms stimulate each child’s unique talents and abilities, and the specialists (i.e. music, sports, yoga) foster independent learning, creativity, and expression. The Art Studio, Sensory Gym, and STEAM Studio promote social, physical, emotional, and cognitive growth. Embracing diverse families, Beth El connects to Jewish values to create a learning and caring community.
The Chapel School
172 White Plains Road, Bronxville 914-337-3202 x1008, mbutler@thechapelschool.org thechapelschool.org/preschool
The Chapel School’s award-winning, accredited preschool program provides a safe, nurturing, inclusive Christ-centered environment where children experience a multi-sensory, developmentally appropriate curriculum. Children build social, emotional, communication, and fine and gross motor skills while engaging in play, worship, sharing, music, storytime and outdoor play. There are new programs for the 2025-2026 school year, and student-to-teacher ratios range from 5:1 to 7:1. Programs for 3-year-olds focus on letter and literacy exposure, name recognition, purpose, cooperation and artistic impression. 4-year-olds engage in science experiments, math concepts, handwriting and phonetic connections. JuniorK 4-year-olds and full-day 3-year-olds also enjoy an embedded enrichment program that includes sign language, augmented science explorations, yoga, dramatic expression, cooking, and service learning.
CSI Nursery School is a nurturing and supportive environment where young children can learn, play, and thrive. Focusing on the development of the whole child, the program ensures the social, emotional, cognitive, and physical needs of each individual student are met. Recognizing the uniqueness of each child, a variety of activities and experiences are offered to engage all of the students.
CSI Nursery School is a Jewish values-forward program that puts an emphasis on teaching Jewish values that are universal and meaningful to all families. Students will learn about Jewish holidays and traditions throughout the year in a joyful, inclusive way. The school partners together with their families to foster a sense of community and create meaningful home-school connections.
French-American School of New York (FASNY) Manor Campus (nursery-grade 3) 111 Larchmont Ave., Larchmont • 914-250-0504 Village Campus (grades 4-8)
145 New Street, Mamaroneck • 914-250-0451 Harbor Campus (grades 9-12) 320 East Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck • 914-250-0477 fasny.org admissions@fasny.org
The French-American School of New York offers a bilingual preschool program for children ages 3 and up. The program uses an innovative approach that centers on respect, empathy, positivity, learning, continuous progress, and well-being to promote language acquisition. Thematic activities are designed to improve fine and gross motor skills and align with each child’s developmental milestones. Play-based learning helps students investigate and solve problems while developing essential skills and independence. As students progress, they can choose between the French-American Program or the International Program, starting in first-grade. Both programs at FASNY prioritize a thoughtful, age-appropriate, organized pedagogical approach that fosters academic excellence and student development.
German International School New York (GISNY) 50 Partridge Road, White Plains 914-948-6513, admissions@gisny.org GISNY.ORG
As an independent, bilingual Pre-K through Grade 12 college preparatory school, GISNY provides both expat and local families with an exceptional, future-focused education. Rooted in a German-inspired, internationally minded approach, GISNY fosters curiosity, creativity, and critical thinking while building a strong bilingual foundation in German and English. Students are encouraged to experiment, collaborate, and innovate in a supportive, academically rigorous environment. The close-knit GISNY community feels like an extended family, nurturing both intellect and character. Just outside New York City, the beautiful campus offers wide open green spaces for outdoor learning, play, and exploration. Graduates leave with the skills, confidence, and global perspective to thrive anywhere in the world.
Hudson Country Montessori School
340 Quaker Ridge Road, New Rochelle 914-636-6202, info@hudsoncountry.org hudsoncountry.org
Established in 1972, Hudson Country Montessori School values each child’s individuality. The school believes every child deserves a nurturing and supportive education. With a highly-trained faculty, HCMS inspires a love of learning, emphasizing the human potential and the power of quality education. Children are guided through the Montessori curriculum at their own pace under the supervision of certified professional Montessori teachers. This environment fosters concentration, self-reliance, and freedom of movement, allowing for both individual and cooperative work. HCMS nurtures compassion, critical thinking, leadership, and respect for others. Serving toddlers (18 months) through grade 8, the private co-educational school offers flexible scheduling, full and half-day sessions, and extended hours from 7:30 am to 6:00 pm. Schedule a private tour for more.
Lightbridge Academy of Valhalla
26 Legion Drive, Valhalla
914-587-7607
lightbridgeacademy.com/valhalla-ny
Lightbridge Academy of Valhalla is now enrolling in infant, toddler, preschool, and pre-K programs. With an established reputation as the “Solution for Working Families,” it offers extended hours, 6:30 am - 6:30 pm, and backup care with flexible options for two, three, or five days a week. Created on a foundation of family values called the “Circle of Care,” Lightbridge Academy emphasizes the education, specialized care, guidance, learning, and development of every child. Their Seedlings curriculum provides intentional teaching and theme-based lessons to impact the whole child, strengthening every child’s skills in reading, writing, science, technology, and math.
Liberty Montessori Schools
155 Beechmont Drive, New Rochelle
914-636-3461
631 W. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck
914-777-1382
libertymontessoriusa.com
Liberty has two locations, including a waterfront facility in Mamaroneck and another in a New Rochelle residential neighborhood, and offers toddlers to third-graders an updated enrichment curriculum incorporating special music programs. Liberty’s unique curriculum includes special science programs that lead advanced students into a Challenger Program, with special multilingual programs in Chinese, French, German, Spanish, and Japanese. Liberty’s school director, Dr. Jagoda, wanted to create an ideal learning environment for all children just as she did for her own. She operates the two state-of-the-art Montessori facilities that have become a “home away from home” for thousands of students worldwide. A personal tour of the facility will offer even more details about the Liberty Montessori environment.
Montessori Children’s Center (MCC)
220 Westchester Avenue, West Harrison 914-607-7600, ktkorngold@cmteny.com montessorichildrensctr.com
A year-round, full-time Montessori center, MCC is recognized as a leader in childcare and Montessori education. They offer authentic, joyful, high-quality programs for children from 3 months to 5 years old. MCC is an American Montessori Society-verified school. Montessori-certified head teachers lead each group with passion and expertise. Director Dr. Korngold received the Montessori Achievement Award (2025) and was recognized by Governor Kathy Hochul and Senator Charles Schumer. She was awarded the Early Education Hall of Heroes Award from the Child Care Council of Westchester (2019) and a Certificate of Merit from NYS Assembly (2019). Under her leadership, MCC has high rates of teacher retention and parent satisfaction, plus decades of experience creating life-long, confident, and compassionate learners.
Montessori School of Pelham Manor 1415 Pelhamdale Avenue, Pelham 914-738-1127, pelhammontessori@gmail.com montessori school pelhamamny.com
Montessori School of Pelham works to build a sense of community, collegiality, and a learning environment where the children engage in social skills, practical life skills, literacy, math, art, science, music, yoga, and creative thinking. Following the principles of Maria Montessori, children get personalized attention and develop at their own pace in small class sizes at the Montessori School of Pelham Manor. Children become competent, confident, content and at peace with themselves and the world in a nurturing atmosphere where children develop independence, self-esteem and a love of learning. Registration for 2024-25 (toddler class, ages 2-3; Montessori classes, ages 3-6). Please call for a personal tour.
World Cup Nursery School & Kindergarten 160 Joan Corwin Way, Chappaqua 914-238-9267, mail@worldcupschools.com worldcupnurseryschool.com
World Cup Nursery School & Kindergarten is renowned for its excellence in early childhood education, providing a nurturing and fun environment where children thrive. With a team of dedicated, innovative educators, the school promotes self-confidence, discipline and selfesteem through play-based learning. The teacher-to-child ratio ensures personalized attention, while creative activities like music with Kenny Green, theme day and gymnastics instruction enhance the experience. Children enjoy access to outdoor playgrounds, an indoor bike track, and enrichment programs. Flexible full and partial-day programs, along with before and after care, meet the diverse needs of families. World Cup’s approach fosters both educational and personal growth, making it the perfect foundation for young learners.
We hope all our awesome campers found amazing summer programs and camps at our fairs! Huge thanks to everyone who came out — you made it a blast. Miss the action? Don’t worry — check out the highlights from this year’s fair! We’re already dreaming up next year’s events… and trust us, they’re going to be even bigger and better! www.westchesterfamily.com What a Fair-tastic Time!
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Spring Crafts at Lyndhurst 2025
WHEN: May 2-4, Friday, 10 am
– 5 pm; Saturday, 10 am – 6 pm; Sunday, 10 am – 5 pm
WHERE: Lyndhurst, 635 South Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: All
WHAT: Westchester’s favorite festival returns with a market filled with unique makers, tastings from local distilleries, craft demos and family activities!
WANT TO GO?: $16. artrider. com
Family Arts Bash
WHEN: Saturday, May 3, 11 am – 3 pm
WHERE: ArtsWestchester, 31 Mamaroneck Ave., White Plains
AGES: All
WHAT: It’s a day filled with creative workshops, face painting, theater games, bucket drumming, and open artist studios to explore.
WANT TO GO?: $15; free for children age 2 and under. 914428-4220, eventbrite.com
WHAT: See the animals of Hilltop up close while learning more about them, how the farm cares for cows and goats, and their purpose on the farm.
WANT TO GO?: $15. 914-8625006, hilltophanoverfarm.org
WoodFest 2025
WHEN: Saturday, May 3, 11 am – 4 pm
WHERE: Bethany Arts Community, 40 Somerstown Road, Ossining
AGES: All
WHAT: Experience the joy and wonder of the natural world with wood sculpture demos,
wood-crafting activities, live music, art, and games.
WANT TO GO?: $10 per car. bethanyarts.org
4th Annual East Fishkill Civil War Weekend
WHEN: May 3-4, Saturday and Sunday, 11 am – 4 pm
WHERE: East Fishkill Historical Society, 68 Kensington Dr., Hopewell Junction
AGES: All
WHAT: Feel like you’ve traveled back in time with a variety of living history demonstrations and tours of the beautiful grounds featuring the farmhouse, ice house, barn, and more.
WANT TO GO?: Free. eastfishkillhistoricalsociety.org
MOMIX: Alice
WHEN: Saturday, May 3, 8 –9:30 pm
WHERE: The Performing Arts Center, Purchase College, 735
Anderson Hill Road, Purchase AGES: 8 and up
WHAT: Seamlessly blending illusion, acrobatics, and whimsy, this fantasy adventure inspired by Lewis Carroll’s classic “Alice in Wonderland” takes you to a world where nothing is as it seems.
WHAT: This reimagining of Peter Pan as told by Wendy Darling features exquisite live music and songs, enthralling movement and a sprinkle of fairy dust.
WANT TO GO?: $31; $26 child. 914-698-0098, emelin.org
Movie Night At Ridge Hill
WHEN: Thursdays, May 8 and May 22, 7 pm
WHERE: Ridge Hill, 1 Ridge Hill Blvd., Yonkers
AGES: All
WHAT: Bring a blanket, grab some take-out, and settle in for a screening of family favorites, including Mufasa and Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs.
WANT TO GO?: Free. ridgehill. com
Mother’s Day Tea Party
WHEN: Saturday, May 10, 1 – 3 pm
WHERE: Hudson Park Children’s Greenhouse, 44 Wildcliff Road, New Rochelle
AGES: All
WHAT: Join this joyful and elegant parent and child afternoon tea party, which includes crafts, photo booth, tea biscuits and more.
WANT TO GO?: $25; $10 child. hpcgreenhouse.org
The East Fishkill Historical Society hosts a Civil War Weekend on May 3 and 4.
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Dia De La Cultura Paraguaya
WHEN: Saturday, May 10, 7 – 9 pm
WHERE: ArtsWestchester Gallery, 31 Mamaroneck Ave., White Plains
AGES: All
WHAT: This annual Paraguayan Independence Day celebration features traditional harp playing, Paraguayan polkas, indigenous Guaraní song and dance, and traditional Paraguayan foods.
WANT TO GO?: $10 suggested donation. artswestchester.org
Annual Sheep Shearing
WHEN: Sunday, May 11, 12 – 3 pm
WHERE: Muscoot Farm, 51 Route 100, Katonah
AGES: All
WHAT: This year’s event includes sheep shearing, hayrides, wool-spinning demonstrations, live music, and more.
WANT TO GO?: Free. muscootfarm.org
SPCA Westchester Dog Walk & Pet Fair
WHEN: Saturday, May 17, 10 am – 1 pm
WHERE: FDR State Park, 2957 Crompond Road, Yorktown Heights
AGES: 3 and up
WHAT: Take part in a walk with your pup, check out the doggy lure course and agility playground, participate in kids activities, and meet furry adoptables!
WANT TO GO?: $20; $35 for a family; free for kids 12 and under. spcawestchester.org
Ward Pound Ridge Reservation’s 100th
Anniversary Celebration
WHEN: Saturday, May 17, 10 am – 4 pm
WHERE: Ward Pound Ridge Reservation, Route 35 and 121 South, Cross River
AGES: All
WHAT: This centennial celebration features nature walks, children’s activities, historical presentations, live music, birds of prey show, and more!
WANT TO GO?: Free. eventbrite.com
Fashion in Motion
WHEN: Saturday, May 17, 2 – 3 pm
WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers
AGES: All
WHAT: See tomorrow’s fashion stars today when the talented designers of SUNY WCC’s Fashion Design Department showcase their original designs on the runway.
WANT TO GO?: Free. 914-9634550, hrm.org
Polish Heritage Festival
WHEN: Sunday, May 18, 12 – 6 pm
WHERE: Kensico Dam Plaza, 1 Bronx River Pkwy Road, Valhalla
AGES: All
WHAT: Celebrate Polish heritage with cultural exhibits, polka music & dancing, authentic Polish foods & bakery, craft items, Children’s Polish School performance, and more.
WANT TO GO?: Free. westchesterpulaskiassoc.com
Join four-legged friends at the SPCA Westchester Dog Walk & Pet Fair on May 17 at FDR State Park.
Music of Queen + More For Kids ft. Scaramouche & The Fandangos
WHEN: Sunday, May 18, 2 pm
WHERE: Garcia’s at The Capitol Theatre, 149 Westchester Ave., Port Chester AGES: 10 and under WHAT: Rock out to the sounds of Queen classics at this concert for kids.
WANT TO GO?: $17.50 in advance; $20 day of. 914-9374126, thecapitoltheatre.com
Discover Teatown
WHEN: Sunday, May 25, 9 –11:30 am
WHERE: Teatown, 1600 Spring Valley Road, Ossining AGES: 5 and up
WHAT: This bilingual hike is perfect for anyone new to Teatown and/or the outdoors! Families will come away with sufficient knowledge and confidence to visit Teatown on their own.
WANT TO GO?: Free. teatown. org
Mary Poppins at Play Group Theatre
WHEN: Sunday, May 25, 2 –4:30 pm & 7 – 9:30 pm.
WHERE: The Play Group Theatre, 1 North Broadway, White Plains
AGES: All
WHAT: This beloved Disney classic comes alive on stage
with unforgettable songs and breathtaking dance numbers.
WANT TO GO?: $22 for adults; $18 for seniors and children under 12. playgroup.org
White Plains Memorial Day Parade & Ceremony
WHEN: May 26, 10 – 11:30 am
WHERE: Parade begins at Church and Main Streets, White Plains
AGES: All
WHAT: Join the community to honor those who made the ultimate sacrifice at this parade, which includes community groups, local leaders, schools, and first responders.
WANT TO GO?: Free. cityofwhiteplains.com
The White Plains Outdoor Arts Festival
WHEN: May 31 – June 1, Saturday and Sunday, 10 am – 5 pm.
WHERE: Tibbits Park, North Broadway at Main St., White Plains
AGES: All
WHAT: This festival is a great place to experience art and shop for one-of-a-kind gifts, jewelry, and home décor. It also features a free children’s art workshop and unique food vendors.
WANT TO GO?: Free admission. whiteplainsoutdoorartsfestival. com
ArtsWestchester presents s a Family Arts Bash on May 3 in White Plains.
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Summer in the Catskills of Sullivan County, New York, is where you’ll make forever memories. Walk an alpaca. Splash around in the Kartrite Resort and Indoor Waterpark. Sing out loud at a Bethel Woods Concert. Fish in a lake. Raft down the Delaware River. Camp out under the stars.
Our charming small towns have more things to see, do, and eat than summer has weekends!
