The Secret to a Less Stressful Holiday
Dr. Claudia Fernandes on mental health and connection
BY DANIELLE RAMOS
The holidays are meant to be a time of joy, but let’s face it, for many parents, they come with a side of stress, pressure, and high expectations. From trying to create the perfect holiday experience to managing all the extra tasks and emotions that pop up this time of year, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed.
To help make the season a little easier, we spoke with Dr. Claudia-Santi F. Fernandes, a licensed professional counselor and the Founding Director of Youth4Wellness at Yale University. Dr. Fernandes is also the Director of Research and Evaluation at the Born This Way Foundation, where she focuses on mental health and wellness, particularly among young people.
A lot of moms feel this huge pressure to create the “perfect” holiday for their families. Why do you think we put so much weight on that, and how can parents, especially moms, let go of those unrealistic expectations without feeling like they’re failing?
The pressure to create the “perfect” holiday often stems from unrealistic expectations and a heartfelt desire to give our loved ones the very best. And sometimes, we think it has to come at all costs, but it doesn’t have to be this way and—in fact—it should NOT be this way as it often leads to burnout. This pressure is often amplified by images in the media, where comparison can lead to feelings of falling short of these expectations. It’s important to remember that kindness toward others starts with kindness toward ourselves.
I appreciate Dr. Kristin Neff’s work on self-compassion, which highlights that treating ourselves with the same compassion and understanding that we show others can reduce stress and increase our resilience—
preventing burnout. I’ve witnessed this in my own life and in working with thousands of parents and caregivers over the years: By shifting our focus from perfection to connection—moments of shared kindness, like practicing gratitude as a family, participating in volunteer activities, or spending time engaging in meaningful conversations—we can create memories that truly matter.
With so many families facing financial stress this year, it can be hard to make the holidays feel special without going into debt. What are some ways parents can still create meaningful memories without the pressure of overspending?
Sometimes we forget that the essence of the holiday season lies in connection and gratitude. Connection is feeling seen, heard, and valued by ourselves and one another. Gratitude is noticing and appreciating the positive in life. Research tells us that daily gratitude improves parent-child dynamics and family well-being, which can have a more lasting impact on our well-being than physical gifts. At Born This Way Foundation, we encourage daily acts of kindness and gratitude toward ourselves and others, like writing heartfelt letters to loved ones, which strengthen bonds and emphasize the joy of giving beyond material possessions. Teaching children the value of these moments helps cultivate resilience and promotes wellbeing for the entire family.
And, if you are looking for some sugges-
tions on a few acts of kindness, I always enjoy checking out our #BeKind365 platform for science-backed strategies on how to be kind to ourselves, others, and our communities. One of my favorite features is also one that I’d highly recommend for this holiday season: our “Gratitude Postal Service” where we’re invited to send a message of gratitude to anyone in the world and remind them they matter.
I recently sent an email with a note of gratitude to one of my best friends (who I consider a sister) in San Francisco. Although we can’t be together over the holidays, it made me feel so connected to her. In the midst of the holiday hecticness, it is so important to take a moment to express gratitude, to feel connected, and to share meaningful memories with yourself and others—by pausing and creating these lasting memories is truly kindness in action.
For many people, the holidays bring up feelings of loneliness or sadness. Why do some parents—especially moms—get more depressed during this time of year, and what can they do to take care of their own mental health when it feels like everything is on their shoulders?
The holidays are known to exacerbate stress, grief, and/or loneliness, particularly for caregivers who feel immense responsibility to make the season magical. This past year, the U.S. Surgeon General issued an Advisory on the Mental Health and Wellbeing of Parents. In this report, he emphasizes the critical need
of providing better support to parents, caregivers, and families—individually, as a community, and through policies. So, please know that structures and systems need to change as well. In the meantime, there are sciencebacked individual- and community-level strategies to help navigate this time of year.
First, I want to acknowledge that if you are feeling overwhelmed, sad, and unmotivated—your feelings are valid. Compounded by the holidays, less daylight, and more, this time of year can feel challenging. While many may overlook their own needs during this time (leading to burnout), it is vital for caregivers to prioritize their mental health and well-being.
One of my first recommendations is exercise and, specifically, walking—alone, with your pet, with your kids, with your entire family, or with your friends. In a review of 23 studies with over 900 participants, exercise was an effective intervention in treating depression. If exercise is not for you, I invite you to find activities that allow you to pause, reflect, and engage in self-compassion and acts of kindness toward oneself, whether it’s a few minutes of quiet, a phone call with a friend, or an activity that brings joy.
Another favorite recommendation is the Kindness-Loving Meditation. In fact, in a review of the literature, kindness-loving meditations reduced stress and even improved our immune response. These findings are corroborated by our research from Born This Way Foundation that highlights the power of kindness, including kindness to ourselves, to reduce stress and improve mental health and wellbeing. Giving yourself permission to step back and focus on your needs isn’t selfish—it’s essential in order to show up as your best self for yourself and those you care about.
Oftentimes young people, due to varying reasons, do not have an immediate family to spend the holidays with. How can we best support them during the holidays?
It’s important to remember that family extends to those we chose, too—and some family may not be related by blood. For young people without immediate family, chosen families and trusted communities can provide the connection and support they need during the holidays. This might look like hosting a gathering for friends, reaching out with a simple check-in, or creating spaces where everyone feels welcome.
At Born This Way Foundation, we focus on uplifting young people’s stories and experiences, ensuring they know they are seen, valued, and supported—especially
“Research tells us that daily gratitude improves parent-child dynamics and family well-being, which can have a more lasting impact on our well-being than physical gifts.”
during times when loneliness may feel more pronounced. Through Channel Kindness, our digital platform where stories from young people are published, Phoebe Chidley shares a letter from Seanryan, a teenage adoptee, who reflects on their journey as an adoptee.
Seanryan’s piece validates the experience of finding and embracing chosen family as a source of strength and identity. We learn from this letter to value the relationships that bring us joy and stability because family is not solely defined by blood but by the bonds we intentionally create with those who nurture, uplift, and accept us unconditionally.
Teens and young adults can often feel the pressure of the holidays too. How can parents help their kids recognize when their friends might be struggling with holiday stress or depression, and what can they do to support each other?
Each young person is unique; therefore, engaging in open, ongoing conversations about mental health can help parents and teens recognize signs of stress or depression. By doing so, we are better able to understand how someone may be feeling or what they are experiencing around the holidays. Through these ongoing conversations, we are also able to recognize any changes in their behavior—like excessive worry or fear, prolonged feelings of irritability, or avoidance of friends and social activities—and this is key to knowing when someone may need additional support.
In our research at Born This Way Foundation, we learned that the majority of young people report connecting with family and friends as a strategy to support them during difficult times. And, interestingly enough, we also learned that even when young people find the courage to share their struggles and ask for support, their friends and family members often do not know how to respond because they don’t feel confident in their ability to respond appropriately.
For this reason, our team partnered with Jack.org to create the Be There Certificate— a free, digital, self-paced online course that teaches young people how to recognize when someone is struggling, listen without judgment, and connect them to help. Encouraging teens and young adults to check in on one another and ask simple questions like “How are you really doing?” can create meaningful
opportunities to support one another.
We can all think of the moment when someone in our lives might have needed a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear, or when we ourselves needed to be there for ourselves, and this tool offers a way to practice how to do just that. Imagine knowing what to say in those moments and having the skills and confidence to support someone in your life this holiday season? I’m moved by the over 56,000 people that have already chosen to learn these skills and I invite anyone reading to start there today.
In your work with the Born This Way Foundation, you’ve seen the positive effects of kindness on mental wellness. Could you explain why acts of kindness are so powerful, especially during the holidays? And how can parents incorporate this into their family routines?
We are rooted in the science of kindness and science tells us that our brains respond positively to practicing, witnessing, and receiving kindness. In our own research at Born This Way Foundation, our findings highlighted that acts of kindness—big or small— improve mood, reduce stress, and foster stronger connections.
During the holiday season, incorporating kindness into family routines could mean volunteering together, leaving kind notes for loved ones, or practicing gratitude as a family. For additional ideas, our #BeKind365 platform provides science-backed ideas to inspire kindness every day of the year. By prioritizing kindness—in ourselves and toward others, we create opportunities to strengthen bonds, lift others up, and improve our collective wellbeing.
As the Director of Research + Evaluation at Born This Way Foundation, Dr. Claudia Fernandes brings a deep understanding of youth mental health, caregiver dynamics, and evidence-based strategies to promote the organization’s vision of a world where every young person has access to resources, communities, and platforms to proactively support their own and their peers’ mental health and wellbeing, kindly and bravely. Dr. Claudia’s work focuses on amplifying the voices of young people, fostering connections, and offering science-backed, actionable tools to navigate stress and build relationships rooted in kindness—including for caregivers and chosen families this holiday season.
British International School of New York
Where Learning Is More Than Just Education
BY MIA SALAS
Finding the right school for your child takes time. That’s because, as parents, we know school isn’t just about academics. The education we choose for our child is where they will discover their passions, make lasting friendships, develop emotionally, and grow into thoughtful, curious leaders.
When we learned about the British International School of New York (BIS-NY), a private international school that recently announced it is extending its age offering to children ages 2 to 18, we felt compelled to share.
Located in the heart of Manhattan in Kips Bay, BIS-NY is a diverse, global school with over 40 nationalities represented.
“We don’t feel that we have to teach the children that different people have different perspectives because that’s something that they experience...It’s something that is really celebrated, and it’s a fantastic part of learning,” says Jason Morrow, Head of School. This creates an inclusive environment for children to not only experience diversity but also develop a diverse mind and approach to answering questions and solving problems.
BIS-NY combines the International Baccalaureate (IB) program and the English National Curriculum, fostering a lifelong love of learning. “The IB is a phenomenal program…It teaches attitudes to learning in a more conscious and deliberate way… What the English curriculum brings to it, especially in the primary years, I think, is a structure,” explains Mr. Morrow. “There’s a logical progression and there’s a transparency to how students engage…It puts students in a place to be confident, skilled, and informed learners.”
In high school and upper years, the curriculum switches to the Cambridge International Program. “There are a number of schools in the NY area that do IB, but
there are no schools that do the Cambridge curriculum,” states Mr. Morrow. The program sets students up with foundations in the first two years, and in the later years, they have more autonomy to shape their schedules and focus on subjects they care about. “Students will choose subjects in which they have a particular passion or strength, or which relates to what they want to do at university or potentially even in their career. We find that’s incredibly empowering and exciting for the students.”
Beyond the unique curriculum, BISNY offers individualized attention for all students. “We really enjoy getting to know where a student is, where their strengths are,
where they need perhaps more stretch…and making sure that in their time with us, every student is making good, strong, sustained progress,” shares Mr. Morrow. With an annual enrollment of around 300 students and classes each under 20 students, teachers really get to know your child. Scholarship, one of the core values of BIS-NY, encourages students to persevere when learning something new, and the teachers are right there along the way to help your children navigate.
Pastoral care, another core pillar, ensures students have a nurturing environment where they feel confident and supported. “The class teacher, or when they’re older, their mentor,
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is a key member of staff who works with them on their goals and their targets– the things they want to get involved in outside of the classroom, as well as things they’re working on inside the classroom,” says Mr. Morrow.
“They’ll help them with any friendship issues or social pieces that are going on, and just also help them navigate the wider challenges, obstacles, and hurdles of growing up.” Support at BIS-NY doesn’t just mean
academic support; they understand how formative the school years are for a child’s social and emotional growth.
Alongside individual care, learning outside the classroom is an integral part of the BIS-NY experience. Co-curriculum is another core pillar: “It’s called that instead of extracurricular because we see the things they’re doing outside the classroom in drama, music, sports, service trips, clubs, activities, and volunteering as equally important and parallel to their more formal learning in the structured classroom,” shares Mr. Morrow. Even in the early years, little ones take trips to Central Park or join clubs like the Brownies (Girl Scouts). As students get older, they might travel to other cities for the annual Excursion Week, or join competitive sports, robotics, or dance.
Scholarship, integrity and kindness are the key values and at the heart of everything BIS-NY does for your child and their development. So if you’re looking for a school that truly cares about your child and has the resources to support their education in and outside the classroom, you’ll want to check out BIS-NY. Want to learn more? Head over to bis-ny.org to learn more about the school and submit an admissions inquiry.
Cut-Your-Own Christmas Tree Farms
BY DANIELLE RAMOS
If choosing your Christmas tree is still on the list, there’s plenty of holiday fun waiting at nearby tree farms. Bundle up, grab some cocoa, and make a day of it—many spots offer cut-your-own trees, hayrides, and other festive touches. Just be sure to call ahead or check the farm’s website before you go, since some require reservations or have limited December hours and trees!
Check out these Christmas tree farms, which have a drive time range from an hour to two, making for a fun daytrip!
Westchester County, NY
Wilkens Fruit and Fir Farm –Yorktown Heights 1335 White Hill Road
914-245-5111
Hours: To mid-December, WednesdayMonday, 10 am-4 pm.
Price: Call for information; a $40 deposit is required when making a reservation, which will go toward the purchase of your tree
This cut-your-own Christmas tree farm offers Fraser fir trees, as well as some pre-cut Fraser firs. Enjoy a farm market, gift shop, and bakery at this Westchester Christmas tree farm near NYC.
Orange County, NY
Emmerich Tree Farm – Warwick
101 Sleepy Valley Road
845-986-0151
Hours: Weekends from 9 am-3:30 pm by reservation only.
Price: Call for information; a $40 deposit is required when making a reservation, which will go toward the purchase of your tree
Free trimming, drilling, shaking, and baling. The farm offers 10 varieties of trees to choose from, including spruce, pine, and fir. Inventory is updated daily online.
Pine View Farm – New Windsor
575 Jackson Ave.
845-564-4111
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Hours: December 6th & 7th, between 9 am and 4 pm
Price: $110 for all trees
The farm carefully harvests a variety of tree species, including blue, white, and Meyer spruces, and several different firs at this Orange County Christmas tree farm. Bow saws and tree carts are available. Staff will bale and secure your tree to your vehicle for your trip home.
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Jones Family Farm – Shelton
606 Walnut Tree Hill Road
203-929-8425
Hours: through Christmas Eve (except Thanksgiving Day), 9 am-5:30 pm, but you must arrive by 4 pm to cut your own tree. Reservations are only required on the 3-day Thanksgiving weekend and the first weekend in December.
Price: Prices vary depending on the size of the tree.
Twine and tree baling services are available. Holiday decorations, traditional crafts, and ornaments for sale. Refreshments on hand. Leashed dogs are welcome during Christmas time, though they are not allowed in all areas.
Maple Row Farm – Easton
555 North Park Avenue
203-261-9577
Hours: Starting November 23rd, daily (except Thanksgiving) from 9 am-4:30 pm
Price: $136 on weekends for pre-cut trees. $14
off on weekdays. Cut-your-own varies. Cut-your-own and pre-cut trees are available at this Connecticut farm. Tree baling and assistance are provided. Saws are provided, or bring your own (no chainsaws allowed). Wreaths, roping, tree stands, and holiday accessories are for sale. You can also take a joyride on one of their hayrides or snuggle up with some of their hot cocoa and snacks.
Fairview Tree Farm – Shelton
2 Sawmill City Road
203-944-9090
Hours: through December 21st, no reservations required to cut or select a tree
Prices: $108 plus tax for trees up to 10 tall, other sizes vary
Cut your own Christmas tree at this Fairfield County Christmas tree farm. The farm is also known for its seasoned firewood, great for wood-burning stoves or fireplaces. Be sure to check out their wreaths too, which range in size from 12 inches to four feet!
Long Island
Elwood Pumpkin Farm – Huntington 1500 E. Jericho Turnpike
631-368-8626
Hours: Saturdays & Sundays from 10 am to 4 pm, by appointment only
Price: Call for information. No credit cards. A 20-acre farm in western Long Island that offers fir and spruce trees in a variety of sizes. Bring your own saw to cut your tree, or the staff can cut one for you. Pre-cut trees are
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available. Staff will help you tie your tree to your car (no charge).
Tilden Lane Farm – Greenlawn
43 Wyckoff St.
631-533-5960
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Hours: To Dec 14th, Saturdays & Sundays from 9 am-3 pm
Price: Trees start at $100. No credit cards.
Tilden Lane Farm offers a wide variety of Christmas trees. Bring your own saw and chop your perfect tree down, or have a worker assist you. Handmade Wreaths are on sale for $40.
New Jersey
Hidden Pond Tree Farm – Mendham
4 W. Field Road
973-865-6362
decorations. Cash or checks only. Pre-cut trees are also available.
Holiday Tree Farm – Augusta
44 Augusta Hill Road
973-948-7488
Hours: Call for hours.
Price: All trees $62
Trees range in size up to 9 feet at this NJ farm. Saws provided. Christmas shop on premises with wreaths and other holiday decorations for sale. No credit or debit cards.
Shale Hills Farm – Sussex
98 Pond School Road
973-875-4231
Hours: Open the Friday after Thanksgiving Day, and then each Saturday and Sunday in December, 10 am – 4 pm
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Stonerow Tree Farm – Branchville 242 Wykertown Road
973-875-7968
Hours: Dec 6, and Dec 7, 9 am-4 pm
Price: $80, Mastercard and Visa are accepted. A variety of spruces and firs are available that have been tended to and prepped all year long, along with saws and twine. Furry fourlegged friends are welcome, as long as they are on a leash.
Wyckoff’s Christmas Tree Farm –Belvidere
246 County Road 519
908-475-4508
Hours: Weekends 8 am to 4:30 pm
Prices: Prices vary, and start at $16 per foot for
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Before They’re Grown
One parent’s reminder to slow down and be present
BY DANIELLE RAMOS
We’ve all heard the reminder to enjoy parenting, because children grow up so fast. Never before had that simple saying proved to be more true than when I watched my son—my adorable, sweet, 6-foot1, 14-year-old baby—acquire an insanely deep voice and trot off to high school. There are countless times a week when I just look at his face and my daughters, and see the beautiful, smiling toddlers they used to be, in what seems like just yesterday.
If I could go back, I would press the rewind button, slow down, and enjoy parenting so much more.
If you find yourself relating, follow these simple tips:
Slow down … literally!
Stop trying to pack more into your day than you can reasonably handle. That pressure doesn’t just affect you—it spills over onto your kids. Constantly rushing creates stress, and stress creates chaos at home.
Repeat this small word: “No.” For such a tiny word, we sure have a hard time uttering it, and yet it can be the most freeing thing we do. By intentionally choosing not to overcommit, we are prioritizing enjoying our lives (and our kids!) more. We all know it, we just have to start doing it.
Do the same for your children.
Give your children recreational activities, but don’t sign them up for so many obligations that they have no downtime after school and on weekends. Children need time to recharge and opportunities to do nothing. This is how creativity is cultivated. It’s also how children learn to restore themselves and become who they are.
Enjoy the little things.
You know how you were rushing to get to school or work, but your toddler wanted to look at the beautiful flower in the neighbor’s yard or the ants gathering on the piece of candy on the ground? These seemingly insignificant things can become some of the most cherished moments. Humans were not made to live life at a frenetic pace. Ever notice how when you are at a beach or in a park, or somewhere else enjoying nature, your stress levels decrease? Our children are very good at this. Take their lead.
Make time for engaging in slow, simple, and meaningful activities together.
Whether it’s drawing, reading a book, baking, or just sitting and talking, carve out space in your day to be with your child without
distractions. Schedule art time or story time, and treat it like a sacred appointment—not something to squeeze in between chores or errands. Turn off your phone, close your laptop, and tune in completely. Don’t halflisten or multitask—kids notice when your mind is elsewhere. What they crave most is your undivided attention. Be fully present, fully engaged, and let those moments become the ones they remember most.
Don’t rush milestones.
So what if your friend’s baby can speak in full sentences or is potty trained? Stop worrying about when or if your child will do certain things and just let him be. Every single human on earth is different, and we need to embrace this. Our child’s unique ways should be respected and celebrated.
11 Holiday Hacks for Busy Parents
BY TARYN MOHRMAN
The most wonderful time of the year is also the busiest time of year, especially for parents with tiny tots at home. There’s decorating, cooking, baking, gift buying and wrapping–and that’s on top of keeping up with already-packed kid schedules and household to-dos. So finding a shortcut or clever hack that’s good–and we mean really good–is a huge gift in and of itself.
To save you sleigh loads of sanity this busy season, we’re wrapping our favorite holiday hacks into a saveable, shareable list. Enjoy!
Cup delicate ornaments
There’s the crafted-at-school kind, the keepsake kind and the breakable ball kind, but all three types of ornaments need TLC when it’s time to trim the tree. To keep your decorations in one piece, give little ones a wide-mouth plastic cup to hold under any breakable ornaments as they walk from
storage bin to branch. If securing it in place is a two-hand job, kids can work together by having one child hold the cup underneath and the other fastening the hook in place. Even better, the cups can be used in a container or box to keep delicate ornaments from touching and potentially breaking.
Hot glue your gingerbread house Gingerbread houses can take hours to set before they’re ready to be decked out in candy. If you’re not prepared to tackle this family tradition in two sessions (as in your kids are melting down because they simply can’t wait to add the gumdrops), you can pull out your hot glue gun to speed up assembly. Apply a bead of hot glue to the inside corners, waiting for the glue to dry completely on each side before moving on. Once it’s good and sturdy, use the icing to cover up any visible glue and attach the candies like normal.
Skip the gift tag step
Writing out gift tags can get tedious quickly,
not to mention there’s never really enough space. Save yourself a step and frustration by giving each family member their own wrapping paper pattern (or colorway if you need to mix patterns) so you can skip gift tags altogether.
Send Santa back with toys
The big guy’s known for delivering new toys to the good boys and girls, but (new) legend has it that he is in need of used toys back at the North Pole so he can recycle the parts in his workshop (wink, wink). When it’s time to make room in your child’s playroom or bedroom for big kid toys, share this story to make it easier to part with what they’ve outgrown.
Email wish list photos
The toy aisle is no place for kids, but sometimes you’ve got no choice but to tow them along if the holiday shopping is ever going to get done. When your kid starts to whine and plead for you to buy them
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something ahead of the holiday gift exchange, let them use your phone to take a photo to email to Santa. Type Santa in the TO field (it will bounce back) and later on you can check your sent messages for the product info if you want to wrap it up yourself.
Send your elf on a mission
If your family has an elf on the shelf, chances are you could use a break from thinking of clever places to position it day over day. When this time comes, write out a note that explains to kids that Santa is sending their elf on a special holiday mission and he’ll be back just as soon as possible so you can enjoy having one less thing to do for a few days.
Stash a blanket in the car
When the weather drops, it can’t hurt to have a warm blanket handy to put over kids before the car reaches a more comfortable temperature, but it’s also hugely helpful for hiding gifts. Keep a large one in your trunk so if you need to do a store pickup on the way to school pickup, you can without spoiling any surprises. Just throw the
blanket over the gifts and your kids will be none the wiser.
Make festive pancakes
Want to add some holiday cheer to your breakfast routine? When you’re not baking with them, metal cookie cutters are a quick way to make your pancakes more merry. Spray the cutters with non-stick cooking spray before placing them on the griddle, then pour in your pancake mix and remove the shapes when you’re ready to flip.
Pre-load the batteries
Given all the toys that spin, flash, and move, stocking up on batteries ahead of the holiday season is a must these days. Instead of just keeping them handy, consider putting them in the toy before you wrap it. Your kids will love that things work straight out of the box and you’ll save time fumbling with a tiny screwdriver when you really just want to be enjoying their smiling faces.
Schedule family traditions
This may sound like work, but really it’s a way
to ensure you all enjoy the fun. Make your list of holiday season must-dos (think ice skating, gingerbread house building, cookie baking, and more), then decide on the best day and week for each activity and add it to your calendar. With a plan in place, you’re less likely to be left with regrets on January 1st.
Track gifts year over year
Start a note in your phone that you can use to keep track of what you’re giving to each family member. Make a section for gift ideas then mark off when you’ve actually purchased something. Not only will this help you remember what you ordered bleary-eyed at 12 am last Sunday night, but it also gives you a record that you can look back on each year.
While the kids probably aren’t thinking about what they unboxed last holiday, your MIL may appreciate not opening slippers from the kids for three years running. It’s also a way to come up with gift ideas. That custom blanket you gave your aunt two years ago could be the gift you’ve been looking for for your nanny this year.
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Winter Classes & Activities
Find the right class, activity or extracurricular for your child
BY STACEY EBERT
As a kid, I loved after-school extracurricular classes. Whether summer camp, gymnastics, or high school clubs – regardless of the time of year- I embraced the energy that came with all activities. As a young adult, I led youth groups, ran after-school classes at the local community center, and taught many kids to swim. I felt lucky to have teachers and counselors who chose to share their time, energy, expertise, and talents.
As the season shifts towards winter, it’s time to ensure those young minds have extracurricular classes, activities, or sports to engage, foster, and energize their spirits. Parents should know something exists for all kids – it might take time, effort, trial and error, thinking outside the box, recruiting experts, and listening to your child’s voice. It might mean investments in energy, money, community, and heart. However long it takes to find the thing that lights them up – it’s worth it.
Here are 4 tips to help find an engaging winter extracurricular, class or activity for your child.
Listen actively to the kind of activity, class your child needs Kids have a way of sharing their thoughts. Young children might not have the words yet, but they know how they feel. Those with the words might not have the meaning flushed out, and some kids may be shy and might need coaxing to try something new. Listen to what seems to interest them and provide options, give them the tools to research, keep an open line of communication, remind them they’ve got a support system, encourage giving it a try, and help them see that the nervous excitement of expanding that comfort zone is worth both the risk and joy.
Know what sorts of classes, sports your child gravitates towards
There is something for everyone in New York – offering many enriching activities encompassing diverse arts, including painting, sculpting, dancing, drawing, poetry, writing, music, theater, and more.
Engaging in the arts fosters talent and expands your child’s understanding of the world, nurturing a heightened sense of selfawareness.
For those passionate about sports, tailor-made winter classes are available after school or on weekends, providing the ideal outlet for children to expend their boundless energy.
Don’t overextend your child’s extracurricular schedule
Parent tip! If you’re overextended, your child is overscheduled, or there is sensory overload coming for your child (or you!), then less is more. One meaningful activity is more than enough.
If one day a week or a few hours each is sufficient, it will work for your child and, most importantly, the family.
There is an activity, class, or sport out there for every child
In families with more than one kid, you may run around and do different activities for your children, as only all of your kids will want to do the same sport or class.
So, lead them to what they will thrive in or take a mild interest and turn it into a full-on hobby. For example, If your child has an ear for languages, steer them towards an international culture or language club. If they’re pulled towards teams, leadership, and exercise, see what types of sports or club teams are out there for them. If they crave connection and want to learn creative pursuits, consider opening their world towards what’s possible in arts, community service, or learning something new. They want to practice swimming midwinter, there’s a club for that. They want to learn chess and build their interpersonal skills simultaneously; there’s a class for that. They want to learn marketing, debate, and business skills – there’s an organization for that. They want to learn survival skills and embrace the goals of scouts and leadership; there’s a space for that.
Give them a safe, non-judgemental space to share their interests and thrive.
WINTER CLASSES & PROGRAMS DIRECTORY
Atlantic Acting School
76 Ninth Ave, Suite 313, New York, NY 10011
atlanticactingschool.org/kidsand-teens
Atlantic Acting School offers exciting theater classes for performers ages 4-18! Atlantic’s afterschool & weekend classes this Winter & Spring allow your rising star to play, explore, and form lifelong friendships, all while creating their own work. Each class has a unique focus from musical theater to sketch, improv, scene study, film/TV, and more, but all are rooted in the Atlantic Technique. Enroll now to take the spotlight!
Bloomingdale School of Music
323 W. 108th St. New York, NY 10025
212-663-6021
info@bsmny.org bsmny.org
Bloomingdale School of Music is offering prorated winter classes in December and January, plus early-bird
discounts on classes starting in February. Serving the UWS since 1964, Bloomingdale offers lessons and classes for all ages from early childhood to adults. Explore private lessons, group classes, and ensembles in multiple genres. Visit the website for the latest on upcoming sales and the free Instrument Discovery Day Open House.
Center of Performing Arts & Dance NYC
11 W 25th St, 2nd floor, New York, NY 10010
212-542-0780
info@cpadnyc.com
The Center for Performing Arts and Dance offers an interdisciplinary environment where children ages 1–13 learn, create, and grow. This winter, students explore ballet, hip-hop, ballroom, musical theater, STEM, chess, piano, and fashion design within a nurturing community. Each program is thoughtfully designed to foster creativity, confidence, and curiosity.
Guided by expert educators, CPAD NYC inspires self-expression and lifelong learning while nurturing the whole child, academically, artistically, and socially.
Collina Italiana - Italian School & Cultural Center 1556 Third Ave. at 87th St., Suite 602 212-427-7770 info@collinaitaliana.com collinaitaliana.com/children Give your child the gift of Italian and unlock a world of culture, beauty, and connection! Collina Italiana offers immersive after-school programs for kids and teens, plus engaging morning drop-off sessions for toddlers and ‘MOMMY AND ME’ classes. Children learn Italian through music, games, art, and hands-on activities in a fun, supportive environment. The school also hosts Saturday workshops, seasonal mini-camps during school holidays, and exciting cultural events year-round.
Fair Playhouse
520 8th Ave. New York, NY (Between 36th & 37th Street) 347-857-8745
fairplayhouseinfo@gmail.com
fairplayhousenyc.com
Fair Playhouse is an NYCbased theater school serving students from elementary through high school, dedicated to creating a true artistic ensemble. Our community of teaching artists is committed to cooperative learning and fostering an inclusive space for all students. The full-day Saturday program features a core curriculum of Acting Technique, Improv, Devising, and Sketch Comedy. The program is firmly rooted in craft and focused on the community. Enroll your student for collaborative artistic training.
Greenwich House Music School
46 Barrow St., New York, NY 10014 212-242-4770
greenwichhouse.org/musickids
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www.collinaitaliana.com info@collinaitaliana.com
212-427-7770
WINTER CLASSES & PROGRAMS DIRECTORY
Inspire your child’s creativity and development through music and dance classes that spark imagination, strengthen cognitive growth, and encourage self-expression without screens! Programs for ages 0–13.5 include Intro to Piano, Music Together, Ballet, and Private Lessons taught by expert faculty in a nurturing, community setting. Whether you’re looking for a parentchild class for a toddler or an after-school program for a budding young musician, Greenwich House Music School offers something for every stage.
Greenwich House Pottery
Chelsea:16 Jones St., New York, NY 10014
West Village: 27 Barrow St, New York, NY 10014 212-242-4106 greenwichhouse.org/potterykids
Give your 10–17 year-old a chance to unplug and get creative with Afterschool Wheel Classes at our 16 Jones Street studio. In a fully screen-free,
hands-on environment, they’ll build focus and confidence through throwing and glazing. Winter term registration is open for January 5–March 28, 2026. Classes meet Mondays, 3:30–5:30 pm, with all tools, materials, and firing included. Plus, their Clay for Families workshops on Sundays at the Chelsea studio offer a relaxed, tech-free way for kids and caregivers to make something together.
ItyBell Productions
39 W 56th Street, New York, NY 10019
917-667-0807
itybellproductions@gmail.com itybellproductions.com
This exciting 6-week Music Recording, Production, and Business Masterclass is perfect for ages 12-18 who want to explore their passion for music. Participants get hands-on experience in a professional studio, learning how to use industry tools like Pro Tools and Logic Pro. With just 10 spots available, students receive personalized guidance
from music professionals, create their own song ready for streaming, and showcase their work to family, friends, and local music insiders.
Peridance Center peridance.com/sap Peridance Center offers dance training for children and teens, with winter classes available in Ballet, Hip-Hop, Jazz, Contemporary, and more. Our popular Toddler Sessions begin December 1, providing a fun, nurturing introduction to movement for ages 18 months- 16 years. Families can explore a variety of class options taught by professional faculty in the heart of Manhattan’s Union Square!
Play On! Studios
263 West 86th Street, New York, NY 10024
347-709-4149
info@playonstudios.com playonstudios.com
Play On! Studios offers theater classes on the UWS that are guaranteed to give kids a
great experience full of acting, music, and fun! Whether your child is just starting out or ready for Broadway, we’ve got the class for them. Creative Drama, Theater Lab, Musical Theater Revue, and Musical Theater Performance classes all offer different levels of commitment for busy kids. Classes are available for grades PreK-8, after school, or Saturdays!
Willan Academy of Music
244 Madison Avenue #171
646-838-3990
willanacademy.com
In-home lessons available in Piano, Violin, Cello, Guitar, Voice and more. Unlock your child’s true potential with Willan Academy of Music. The program is designed to foster a genuine love for music and help students explore and develop their artistic abilities to the fullest. With their expert instructors and supportive environment, your child will be unstoppable in their pursuit of musical excellence.
The School at Peridance, with its renowned programs for students of all ages and levels, has been recognized as a pioneer in dance education
The school features a progressive interdisciplinary approach to dance training, emphasizing a thorough understanding of technique while promoting self-expression and creativity .
Accepting new students ages 18 months to 16 years.
Toddler Sessions (start Dec. 1) Leaps & Turns
Tumbling
Performance Companies & MORE!
Gift Guide
BY SHARA LEVINE AND NEW YORK FAMILY
1 . Woom WOW Balance Bike
Balance and developing it are always learn ing goals for toddlers. But make it fun with this self-balancing balance bike that helps your child to learn this important motor skill. Age: 9-36 Mo, $200, Woom.com.
2 . Fisher-Price Rocket Pals Ball Pitt
The kids can launch into space right in their bedroom or playroom in this versatile inflatable rocket-ship ball pit. There are 15 included play balls to practice gross motor skills and engage in sensory play. Ages: 2+, $30-40, Walmart.com.
3 . Lamaze Peek-a-Moo Friendly Barn
It’s all about the squish for babies, and that is what this plushy barn offers. There is a roof that has a crinkled flap, as well as satinto-the-touch ribbons, and a soft cow plush that has what babies adore. The mother hen can be found at the side of the barn. 6 Mos +, $15, Tomy.com.
4 Wonderclimber Climber
Dr. Emmi Pikler believed that babies flourished when given the freedom to explore. This wooden Pikler Triangle playset invites rich sensory and active play, giving kids a chance to feel differ ent textures as they climb, balance, and explore. Age: 18 Mo +, $90, mybtoys.com.
5 . Loveevery The Play Kits
Every kit blends expert guidance with ageperfect play, giving you curated toys, helpful resources, and steady support through the app, social media, and weekly emails. Age: 0 +, $80-120, Lovevery.com
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AGES 3–4
1 . Imaginext Jurassic World Rebirth Ultimate Action Chomp T. Rex
2 . Cutie Cubes
Go back, or actually, in the cinema world, in the future with this T. Rex. With this toy, your kid will be in control and can play out all their dinosaur adventures. Age: 3+, $107.99, Mattel. com.’’
These stackable, cubeshaped plushies come in multiple styles and won’t break the bank. Choose from four sizes ranging from 4 to 10 inches. Age: 3+, $3.99-12.99, Yooniquetoys.com.
3 . 48-Piece Glitter Castle Pack
shapes, building, and how repetitive
The beauty of magnetic tiles is by using imagination, kids learn about shapes, building, and how repetitive play offers adventure, no electronic tablets necessary! Age: 3+, $69, Connetix.
4 . Harmony All-In-One Activity Table
Parents and kids (!) love a good activity table, and this well-designed one does triple duty for play. Your little one can switch between a train table top, an art surface, or go old-school style with the flat play side. And oh, there is also room for storage! Age: 3+, $180, Target.com.
5 . Crayola Art-To-Go Table Easel Magnetic Set
Play at home or travel with this double-sided easel that includes a magnetic dry-erase board, a chalkboard, and a storage nook for supplies. The crayon tube stores the magnetic letters and numbers. Age: 3+, $34.99, Grow-n-up.com.
6 . Flip & Fry Grill Play Set
Kids can “cook” safely with this fun playset, which includes a grill, a griddle, and a fryer with waterbased, color-changing food. Of course, there is a spatula, a fryer basket, and condiments, all for serving up some sumptuous play meals. Age: 3+, $27.99, Melissa&Doug.com. or
1 . Minecraft Builders & Biomes Junior
Play with friends and family with this no-app-required Minecraft board game. Staying on theme, you can build a farm using a pickaxe and a shovel, gather those books, and, of course, like the game, construct stables for the animals. Ravensburger.com.
2 . Evergreen Cabin
If your child is past the dollhouse stage or is an architect in the making, they will love this kit’s features, which let them use pieces together to craft an A-frame cabin, complete with luch trees and a cool roof. $60.00, Maisonette.com.
3 . Bluey Mini Music Player
Time to dance to the beat, or not with this mini music player. There are four built-in tracks. The player also lights up and pulses with the beats your child plays. Age: 3+, $15, Ekids.com
AGES 5–7
4 . Remote Control Climbing Bottle Fly
Your kid will spend hours remotely controlling this Bottle Fly. Up the walls or the ceiling, or switch to Auto Mode and let it move about on its own, like flies tend to do! Age: 5+, $19.99, Target.com.
5 . National Geographic Ant Habitat
Ants get a bad rap, and this Ant Habitat can be your kids’ cool animal kingdom where they can enjoy watching live ants (you will have to add those) and learn
1 . Easy Bake Ultimate Oven
Parents who once owned this oven may feel a sense of nostalgia this holiday. This version still has many of the fun elements and has been upgraded with features such as a modern-retro design, a light-up rainbow confetti pattern, and a builtin timer. Age: 8 +, $49.97, Walmart. com
2 . Pokémon Trading Card Game: Mega Evolution Elite Trainer Box
For the deserving kid who loves Pokémon, 24/7 #iykyk, the Mega Evolution Pokémon, along with Mega Lucario ex and Mega Gardevoir, can be found in this Trainer Box! Age: 6, $50, Target.com
3 . The Hobbit: There & Back Again
A good dice game is a way to screen free play and invite the family to join in. This game includes eight individual adventures that all lead from the Bag End to the Lonely Mountain. Age: 10+, $35, Store.asmodee.com
4 . Emotional Support
Dino Nuggies
AGES 8+
This age group can be challenging; kids face social dynamics and heavy homework loads. A small reminder, like a basket of soft, mini dinosaur nuggets, can never hurt; they’re so cute! Add to a backpack, place next to the bed for a comforting squeeze. Age: 0+, $17, Target.com. 1 2
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A big thank-you to Toy Insider (toyinsider.com) for helping us curate the best toys for our little ones!
TWEENS & TEENS
1 . Kendra Scott Elisa Pendant Necklace
This classic Kendra Scott Elisa Pendant Necklace can be worn in so many different ways: on its own, layered with other pieces, dressed up, or dressed down. Choose from gold or silver chains, and over 20 different colored stones. This can be a truly personal gift when you choose meaningful colors like a birthstone. Starting at $60, kendrascott.com
2 . Playstation Pulse Elite Wireless Headset
The Pulse Elite wireless headset is light, comfortable, and uses technology typically found in headsets for professional sound engineers. A retractable microphone lets players can easily communicate with their friends. Although this headset is made for the PS5 gaming system, it can also be used with PCs, Macs, and Bluetoothsupported devices. $149.99, playstation.com
3 . KAWS WINTER x UNIQLO HEATTECH Beanie
You won’t have to fight with your kid to wear a hat when you gift them with this beanie, part of the new KAWS WINTER collection from UNIQLO. Brooklyn based artist KAWS (Brian Donnelly) known for his pop art, translates his style to this winter drop, including this beanie, adorned with his signature “XX”. $29.90, uniqlo.com
4 . Nintendo Switch™ 2 + Pokémon™ Legends: Z-A – Nintendo Switch 2 Edition Bundle
You gotta catch them all, but first you need this Nintendo Switch 2 bundle that includes a full game download for the Pokémon Legends: Z-A. Experience Lumiose City in a new way with enhanced features and performance upgrades. $499.99, nintendo.com
5 . Men’s Fragrance Discover Scent
By now, your son has probably started dabbling in colognes or, more likely, body spray. He’s trying to figure things out as he grows, and may need a little help. Enter the Men’s Fragrance Discovery Set from Ulta. Gift this to your man in training and let him test his way through 15 unique designer scents until he finds one, or more, that suits him best. The set comes with a $15 gift card to use toward a $50 purchase of any of the fragrances featured. $39, ulta.com
6 . SKIMS Teddy Bear Slipper
Just because they’re too big to be carrying around a stuffed animal doesn’t mean they won’t want to wear them on their feet. These comfortable slippers are adorable and perfect for keeping your kids warm and cozy. $78, skims.com
STOCKING STUFFERS
1 . Slushy Kid’s Masks
Choose from three fruity “slushy” flavors: Blue Raspberry Slushy, Cherry Slushy, and Lemonade Slushy. $2.50, avataraskin. com
2 . Hot Dog Pretzel N.Y. Socks
Super comfortable and reps our favorite New York street food snacks- a hot pretzel and hot dog (with mustard, of course!) $16, piccolinyshop.com
3 . Ty Beanie Bouncers
The new Ty Beanie Bouncers are made for throwing and bouncing- as high as 50 feet! Characters to choose from, including holiday-themed, animals, and kid favorites from Star Wars, Paw Patrol, and Harry Potter! $5.99. michaels.com
4 . Juice Infused Lip Oil
Swipe on for a shine that subtly brings out your natural color, and even normally unforgiving shades are still flattering. $10, ulta.com
5 . UNO Show ’em No Mercy
Named Game of the Year at the 2025 Toy of the Year awards, a game we all love, but with more opportunities to mix things up and add to the excitement of this family favorite. $9.99, Walmart.com
5 . Mother’s Reindeer Games Cookies
Adorable and delicious, these limited-edition shortbread cookies come in fun reindeer shapes. Let’s leave some out for Santa, too! $13. walmart. com
A HOLIDAY PICK WE LOVE!
Ages 6 & Up
Raquel™ 18-inch Doll & Journal (American Girl® Girl of the Year™ 2026) Raquel Reyes™ loves DJing, taste-testing paletas at her family’s shop in Kansas City, and spending time with her lovable rescue pup, Luzita™ Premium features:
An 18” Raquel doll with brown eyes that open and close, and dark-brown hair styled in a front ponytail with a gingham bow. She has a soft cotton body, and her movable head and limbs are made of smooth vinyl.
An outfit inspired by Raquel’s greatgreat-grandmother Samantha Parkington’s iconic look: a pink-and-plum ginghamprint top with a ruched front, puff sleeves with attached purple bows, and a ruffled bottom hem; a gingham-print full skirt with gathers at the waist; and a matching hair tie with a gingham-print fabric bow
Also includes:
A golden cuff bracelet with a bow, a pair of pink platform shoes with ankle straps and purple bows at the toes, and a pair of underwear
An illustrated paperback book, The Diary of Raquel Reyes, that tells how Raquel shares her passion for music and family history, reconnects with her relatives, and springs into action with her cousin Sloan for an important rescue mission
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BY SHARA LEVINE
MANHATTAN
The Very Hungry Caterpillar Interactive Holiday Show
WHEN: Through Dec. 28; see website for schedule
WHERE: Manhattan Movement & Arts Center, 248 West 60th St., Upper West Side
AGES: All
WHAT: This innovative stage show brings to life four beloved Eric Carle stories, through magical, handcrafted puppets, world-class puppeteering and lively original music.
WANT TO GO?: $39-$99. hungrycaterpillarshow.com
Peter & the Wolf: Works & Process at Guggenheim New York
WHEN: Dec. 5-14; see website for schedule
WHERE: Works & Process at the Guggenheim, 1071 Fifth Ave., Upper East Side
AGES: All
WHAT: Isaac Mizrahi narrates and directs Sergei Prokofiev’s charming children’s classic, bringing the thirty-minute story to life for the young––and the young at heart.
WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $25. worksandprocess.org
Merry Mayhem
WHEN: Dec. 5-28; see website for schedule
WHERE: The New Victory Theater, 209 W 42nd St., Midtown
AGES: 5 and older
WHAT: Circus Oz explodes onto the stage in a rainbow of high-flying frivolity, this multigenerational, muscle-bound ensemble tumbles, tussles and trapezes to a live rock band!
WANT TO GO?: $30. (646) 223–3010, newvictory.org
My First Nutcracker
WHEN: Dec. 6-21; see website for schedule
WHERE: Theatre Row, 410 W 42nd St., Midtown AGES: 3 – 8
WHAT: This interactive production weaves a fantastical tapestry of Nutcracker magic, sparking children’s imaginations while rekindling nostalgia in parents.
WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $29.50. (734) 972–5790, bfany. org
Elephant & Piggie’s “We Are In A Play!”
WHEN: Dec. 13-Feb. 1, Saturdays and Sundays, 11 am –12 pm and 4 – 5 pm
WHERE: Atlantic Stage 2, 330 West 16th St., Chelsea AGES: 3 – 7
WHAT: Gerald and Piggie take the stage in this musical, based on Mo Willems’ beloved children’s books, that will have you doing the “Flippy Floppy Floory” dance all night long!
WANT TO GO?: $35; $15 child. (212) 691–5919, atlantictheater. org
Robinson’s Readers: Story Time and Craft
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 13, 11:30 am – 12:30 pm.
WHERE: Jackie Robinson Museum, 75 Varick St., Soho AGES: 4 – 6
WHAT: Children and their grown-ups are invited to this picture book story time and hands-on craft inspired by the life and legacy of Jackie Robinson.
WANT TO GO?: Included with museum admission: $15-$18; free for children younger than 5. (866) 454–3772, jackierobinsonmuseum.org
Dream Of Kings
WHEN: Dec. 13-Jan. 5, Saturdays, 3 – 4 pm
WHERE: Teatro SEA at The Clemente Center, 107 Suffolk
St., Lower East Side AGES: 5 – 12
WHAT: Find out what happens when the Three Magi use GPS instead of the Star, and end up at the home of Jesús Rodríguez, a kid from the Barrio Belén in Trujillo Alto, Puerto Rico.
WANT TO GO?: $20. (212) 529–1545, teatrosea.org
Chanukah On Ice NYC
WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 16, 6 – 9 pm
WHERE: Central Park Wollman Rink, 830 5th Ave., Upper East Side
AGES: 3 and older
WHAT: Celebrate the 3rd night of Chanukah with skating, music, the famed Dreidel mascot spinning on the ice, and the lighting of a giant ice Menorah.
WANT TO GO?: $35-$40; free for children younger than 2. chanukahonicenyc.com
Merry Mayhem at The New Victory Theater
Hot Peas ‘N Butter
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 20, 1 pm
WHERE: BMCC Tribeca Performing Arts Center, 199 Chambers St., Tribeca
AGES: 3 – 7
WHAT: This award-winning family band brings together a lively mix of traditional Latin music, Afro-Caribbean rhythms, jazz, bluegrass, and more, creating an engaging and interactive show.
WANT TO GO?: $40. tribecapac.org
Kwanzaa Celebration: Verses of Unity at CMOM
WHEN: Dec. 28-29, Sunday and Monday, 10 am – 5 pm
WHERE: The Tisch Building at CMOM, 212 West 83rd St., Upper West Side
AGES: 8 and younger
WHAT: Learn and celebrate together the seven principles of Kwanzaa with hands-on art activities.
WANT TO GO?: $18. (212) 721–1223, cmom.org
BRONX
Family Day: Winter Wonderland 2025
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 6, 1 – 4 pm
WHERE: The Bronx Museum, 1040 Grand Concourse, Concourse
AGES: All
WHAT: Celebrate the magic of the winter season with art-making activities, a winterthemed photo booth, festive music, and more.
WANT TO GO?: Free. (718) 681–6000, bronxmuseum.org
Annual Kwanzaa Celebration
WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 9, 4 pm
WHERE: Hostos Center for the Arts and Culture, 450 Grand Concourse, Melrose
AGES: All
WHAT: Celebrate Kwanzaa with special performances of music and dance at this communal event for the entire family.
WANT TO GO?: Free. (718) 518–4455, hostos.cuny.edu
Westchester Ballet Company’s “The Nutcracker”
WHEN: Dec. 13–14, Saturday and Sunday, noon & 4 pm
WHERE: Lehman Center for the Performing Arts, 250
Bedford Park Blvd. West, Kingsbridge
AGES: 5 and up
WHAT: This production features new choreography with performance by and all youth, pre-professional ballet dancers, and featuring professional guest artists from around the world.
WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $20. (718) 960–8833, thenutcrackerwestchesterballet.org
BROOKLYN
UniverSoul Circus –Winter Wonderland under the Big Top
WHEN: Through Dec. 7; see website for schedule
WHERE: Maimonides Park, 1904 Surf Ave., Coney Island
AGES: All
WHAT: Featuring UniverSoul classics, the circus will be closing out its 2025 tour with a holiday-season spectacular, complete with holiday lights, festive costumes, and plenty of fun!
WANT TO GO?: Tickets start at $19. universoulcircus.com
Ice Skating at Roebling Rink
WHEN: Mondays – Thursdays, noon – 9 pm, Fridays –Sundays, 10 am – 10 pm through Feb. 1
WHERE: Roebling Rink, Emily Warren Roebling Plaza, 1 Water St., DUMBO
AGES: All
WHAT: Ice skate under the historic Brooklyn Bridge, taking in iconic skyline views for an unforgettable winter adventure.
WANT TO GO?: $16; $8 skate rental; $5 helmet rental; $5 skate buddy rental. roeblingrink.com
Celebrate Kwanzaa
WHEN: Dec. 26 – 31, Daily, 10 am – 5 pm
WHERE: Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 145 Brooklyn Ave., Crown Heights
AGES: All
WHAT: NYC’s largest Kwanzaa festival returns for a week-long celebration of African heritage and culture with daily candle lightings, youth performances, workshops, and more.
WANT TO GO?: $15; free for members. (718) 735–4400, brooklynkids.org
QUEENS
Hands-on History: Junkanoo Puppets
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 6, 1 – 4 pm
WHERE: King Manor Museum, 150-03 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica
AGES: All
WHAT: Learn about the celebration of Junkanoo with a visit to King Manor’s Jamaica| Jamaica exhibit and then create a Junkanoo puppet!
WANT TO GO?: Free. (718) 206–0545, kingmanor.org
The Very Hungry Caterpillar Interactive Holiday Show
Dream Of Kings at Teatro SEA at The Clemente Center
A Season When We Can Exhale
BY MARIA MICHELE
There’s a unique kind of charm that happens in New York City when the holidays arrive. The city softens. The pace, though still relentless, feels a little more intentional. Colorful lights spill from the corners, bodegas, and brownstone windows, and for many of us, there’s this collective exhale.
The thing about celebrating the holidays in New York: there’s no single way to do it. You can spend a fortune or nothing at all. You can be surrounded by people or walking home from work under the lights. The city offers both spectacle and stillness, noise and peace, belonging and solitude.
In Manhattan, the holiday season feels, well, cinematic. It still has grit, don’t get it twisted. But the streets hum, a bit predictable, but while there is still a lot of hustle, the festive vibe can touch even the family Scrooge. The windows on and near Fifth Avenue are always museum-worthy, ready for those Instagram selfies.
And of course, our own woodland forest, Central Park, may be blanketed with snow (if we’re lucky!), ready for some sledding. Snow or not, the park’s critters are still out (RIP Flaco!), and there are pockets of quiet you can walk into. I love taking the kids to
PALEYLAND at The Paley Center For Media for photos with Santa.
If downtown is more your vibe, Bryant Park, the Winter Village, buzzes with kids sipping hot chocolate while skaters trace circles on the ice.
Across the bridge in Brooklyn, the holidays take on a more handmade energy. Dyker Heights, get ready for the traffic because this area does not play. The famous blocks of homes have been turned into glowing wonderlands, powered by high electric bills and a thankful community. In Prospect Park, sledders appear like bright dots against wide open snow, and in the Brooklyn Botanic Garden, the “Lightscape” show winds through trees and tunnels of color. But often the most memorable moments don’t come with the biggest fanfare and cost nothing. Layer up and walk through Brooklyn Bridge Park and check out Manhattan across the East River. Queens might celebrate the holidays better than anyone since they celebrate them all. In this borough, you may spot Diwali lights, Christmas trees, and menorahs from the stores and home windows, all on the same block. Stroll through Queens and experience whiffs of simmering tamales, homemade dumplings, and baklava, and spot cookies at a Spanish bakery. The beauty of this area is
that there are no expensive flights to book; the food is rich in diversity, and a community that harmonizes.
In The Bronx, the holidays feel grounded in heart. The Bronx Zoo’s animal lanterns brighten up the landscape. Neighborhoods light up block by block, not for spectacle, but to celebrate each other. The Bronx reminds you that joy is found with neighbors, shared dishes, and kids playing right before bedtime.
Then there’s Staten Island, where Historic Richmond Town looks like it was designed for this season, with candlelit windows, soft carols, and paths that feel like they belong in another time. Snug Harbor’s gardens shine with lights winding through trees, and the ferry, still free and talk about a movie, doesn’t get better than this ferry! Whether you’re a local or a visitor, take in that skyline behind you. It’s impossible not to feel a little wonder at what our city has to offer.
The holidays here are not all about the tree, the crowds, or even the showy windows, although they are sure pretty to look at. They are about the moments of connection. The bus driver who wishes you happy holidays, the neighbor who tapes paper snowflakes to the front door, and the friend who drops off homemade treats and stays to chat. The city glows because its people do.
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