New York Family - September 2023

Alyce in Laughland

Alyce Chan of @momcomnyc on her path to comedy, how she carves out time for her creative work, and why her weirdness is her superpower

What to Know About the RSV Shot Approved for Infants

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Here we are; the sprinklers and ice cream cones are giving way to brand-new backpacks (or some fabulous hand-me-downs in my family) and sharpened pencils. While much happens in September, it’s hard not to focus on Back to School because it’s a big deal. This is why we have tips on (page 10): Keeping yourself healthy as the kids return to school.

If you are searching for after-school programs or extracurricular activities, check out our guide (page tk). And confession... we messed up. In the August issue, we’re still determining how this happened — let’s blame the printers. We’ll go with that, but the school calendar was wrong. No, Thanksgiving is not in January, and neither is Christmas. The correct calendar is in this issue. Promise. And while BTS is the theme in September,

other fun things happen this month. Many families’ favorite is to go Apple Picking (page )— we have a helpful guide on all the orchards you can visit. Per usual, we have a bountiful calendar of family-friendly events this month as we head into Fall (page 20.)

With the kids returning to school, there is always a touch of chaos, so it makes sense why we gravitated towards this month’s cover, Alyce Chan (page 42). Her very popular Instagram @ momcomnycs usually has us in hysterics. Editor at large Cris Pearlstein chatted with Alyce on the path that led her to comedy (it’s unusual and inspirational) and making room for family and creativity.

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Keeping Yourself Healthy at Backto-School Time

6 smart health tips for parents trying to keep it all together

By Donna Duarte-LaDD

School is back in session, and along with more structured days comes the task of organizing our kids’ schedules and everything that the school year entails. Not to mention, we have our own daily lives to manage, and even with our best efforts to find balance, there are moments when we start feeling worn out. And who is guilty of this one (me, I’m the problem )? Many of us parents strive not to take sick days -reserving these days for our kids; with many parents still working remotely or hybrid, we are working when we would have taken a sick day pre-pandemic and office life. And if you have kids in the younger grades – germs, sickness, and now Covid have become the norm. In short, we need to try and stay healthy.

Whether you’re juggling a full-time job or staying home to care for the little one and manage the household, as parents, we need to prioritize our well-being and happiness. With all the responsibilities on our plates during the school year, I encourage you to be kind to yourself and seek support to stay in a positive place. Yup, it’s hard and it can feel like work, but focusing on your mental and physical health can make this year more fulfilling and positive. Here are some easy tried and true tips.

1Vitamin C Every Day

Vitamin C may not stop a fullblown head cold, but consuming it will help maintain a healthy immune system Harvard Health Publishing states, “If you want the benefits of vitamin C, you’ll need to consume it every day, and not just at the start of cold symptoms.”

Some of us may have vitamin C packs in our bags for when in a pinch. But other ways to get vitamin C in your diet are orange juice, tomatoes, winter squash, and green pepper, to name a few.

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Consider the Flu Shot

Every year our children’s schools require students to get a flu shot, yet we, as parents, should also consider this shot. I have mom friends who believe in the flu shot and get the shot once the school year starts while other friends pass.

I am pro flu shot as I have found myself to be less sick when I get it. There are times when I have had a rough year of colds and viruses, and I think what shape I would be in if I didn’t get this shot?

For more info on the flu shot, check out our article Flu Shot Facts: Common Questions About the Vaccine at New York Family.

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Add Probiotics to Your Daily Diet

When my youngest entered daycare a few years back, a tsunami of sickness hit me in that first year, it was brutal. To get on track health-wise – I took my doctor’s suggestions and started incorporating probiotics into my diet. Probiotic foods are simple foods that contain good bacteria.

Probiotics alone are not going to cure something like, say the flu — what they do is help you in overall health. Think of them as part of staying healthy by taking them in pill form or eating foods such as yogurt, kimchee, or kombucha.

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Self-Care for the Win

Self-care has become a muchneeded movement, with moms sharing how they care for themselves,

especially by posting through social media. Why do we share with other moms how we care for ourselves outside of our daily lives as kids? Because it is freaking important! Spa, exercising, walking around the park, or hanging with your mom tribe benefits your mental health. This school year — make time for yourself.

Calm in a Bottle

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If you have ever done yoga or have gotten an aromatherapy oil massage, then you know that the whiff of certain oils can calm the mind.

Since doing a tree pose or downward dog in the office is not always feasible try recycling a beauty bottle and mixing some calming oils, throw in your bag, or keep by your laptop and dabble a bit on when you need a bit of ease to your day.

Some oils to try:

Lavender: Known for its calming and soothing properties, lavender oil can help reduce stress, anxiety and promote better sleep

Chamomile: Chamomile essential oil is

excellent for relaxation, promoting sleep, and easing tension

Ylang Ylang: has a sweet and floral aroma that is believed to have aphrodisiac properties and can help reduce stress and anxiety

Bergamot: This citrus oil has uplifting and mood-balancing properties, making it helpful for managing stress and mild depression

Geranium: This oil is known for its balancing effect on hormones and can help ease symptoms related

Lemon: A refreshing and uplifting oil, perfect if more oaky oils are not your thing Sidenote: Remember, essential oils are potent and should be used properly. Additionally, avoid using essential oils on babies under six months old and use them sparingly around young children.

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Around 9:30 pm, my free time starts. Kids are asleep, and I can watch a silly movie and catch up on emails; it’s my time.

The problem with this is I should be sleeping. Easier said than done, as having this time to myself is gold.

But getting rest is essential, and the benefits are enormous. According to the CDC, “Getting enough sleep is not a luxury —it is something people need for good health.”

So as much as you want that free time to write your first novel or start that business, you have meant to get going, designate a night or two to do all this fun stuff, and reserve the rest of the week to catch up with muchneeded R&R.

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as parents, we support our children to become independent and confident. Choosing the right learning environment is a big part of that.

Located on Manhattan’s Lower East Side, Nord Anglia International School New York, also known as NAISNY, offers small classroom sizes and an environment where students are met where they are at. Each student’s learning potential is unlocked through core academics, arts, music and with fun challenges set in collaboration with a number of corporate organizations, such as Juilliard, MIT, and UNICEF.

When you enter NAISNY you are met by a caring and welcoming team with a vision to shape a generation of creative and resilient global citizens. The parent community is vibrant and often organizes family events. Parents are typically very active in the school,

for example as guest readers, organizers of fun student events, and cheering on the school’s sports teams.

NAISNY offers rolling admissions throughout the year, for students from the age of two years, based on availability. This provides flexibility for parents who are changing jobs and moving to NYC after the start of the academic year. Teachers are specialized and highly skilled to support the

individual child – from early years program throughout middle school. In the Early year’s program, learning is structured but also driven by the interests of the children. The use of specialist teachers in Music, Spanish, Drama and PE ensures that every child thrives and develops key skills from an early age. In middle school, students enjoy overseas trips from 6th grade to enhance their learning and nurture citizenship alongside attending sports games. Visit the school in person; there is no better way to get a feeling for the school than seeing it in action!

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Whether you’re juggling a full-time job or staying home to care for the little one and manage the household, as parents, we need to prioritize our well-being and happiness.

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RSV Shot Has Been Approved by the FDA for Infants

What parents need to know

BY DONNA DUARTE�LADD

In the fall of 2022, there was a rash case of RSV infections among young children. While RSV—respiratory syncytial virus—is a common seasonal respiratory virus of the respiratory tract known to be more severe in infants and older adults- it can be especially highly contagious to children. And many kids had to be hospitalized at the time. What worried most parents, besides the fact that we had all been put through Covid, Monkeypox, and now RSV, was this was all happening at a time when kids were getting back out in the world and had not been around everyday germs and viruses. It was not surprising the numbers were high for hospitalizations in New York and positive cases were up weekly at this time. With this rise in flu and Covid cases, health experts referred to the worrying increase in infant hospitalizations as a “tripledemic.” Once again, parents with young children and the vulnerable such as immune comprised individuals and the elderly, had to continue to mask up and tread carefully outdoors or in highly populated places. While vaccines against Covid and the flu were already available by that time, no such antibody protection against RVS existed for infants.

Some of the most vulnerable to RSV are newborns to children to age 5. RSV is the single most common cause of respiratory hospitalization in infants. It is estimated that about 1 to 3 percent of children under 12 months old in the U.S. are hospitalized each year due to RSV, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics.

Now there is help. On July 18, 2023, the FDA approved Beyfortus from AstraZeneca and Sanofi, which protects infants and toddlers against the Respiratory Syncytial Virus. On August 3rd the CDC approved the shot. The CDC in a statement shared, "All infants younger than 8 months who are born during – or entering –their first RSV season should receive one dose of nirsevimab. For some children between the ages

of 8 and 19 months who are at increased risk of severe RSV disease, a dose is recommended at the start of their second RSV season."

What is Beyfortus

When our babies are young, we feel vulnerable about what we give them. While treatments are a relief, we all want to understand what we give our children. Beyfortus is a monoclonal antibody treatment, meaning it works by neutralizing the virus and suppressing its ability to replicate itself. Monoclonal antibodies are a type of protein made in a lab and can bind to certain targets in the body, such as antigens.

RSV infection rates typically rise in late fall and early winter. Though the virus usually presents with mild, cold-like symptoms, the infection is often more severe in babies under 12 months. It can lead to the development of lower respiratory tract diseases such as pneumonia and bronchiolitis.

Why this new shot matters

With RSV being the biggest respiratory threat

to young babies, it is understandable why this new treatment is a big deal for many parents. The new treatment is expected to be available to the public by the start of this fall RSV season. This means the school season, daycare, nursery school, and indoor excursions such as going to the movies no longer mark the same fear of an RVS uprising. Also, air travel and holiday time with extended family means less worry of a respiratory illness.

Of course, we recommend having a conversation with your pediatrician regarding your baby being given the RSV shot.

John Farley, director of the FDA’s Office of Infectious Diseases, shared in a statement. “RSV can cause serious disease in infants and some children and results in a large number of emergency department and physician office visits each year,” he also shared, “Today’s approval addresses the great need for products to help reduce the impact of RSV disease on children, families, and the health care system.”

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Post-Divorce Parenting

How to co-parent peacefully

By Kaitlyn Riggio

Divorce is difficult, and it’s often hardest for children who tend to be caught in the middle. Studies have shown that divorce can have adverse effects on children’s mental health.

There are steps parents can take to coparent with their ex-spouse peacefully and, as a result, keep the mental health of their children in mind during the divorce process and after.

We sat down with Sabrina Shaheen Cronin, family law attorney, family coach and founder and managing partner of The Cronin Law Firm, to talk about the effects of divorce on children’s mental health and how parents can co-parent peacefully, especially over summer vacation.

How can divorce affect children’s mental health?

Evidence suggests that divorce can have a significant impact on the mental health of children and adolescents because of the large life changes that divorce often causes.

“Unfortunately, so many times it’s the result of just the overall disruption in the general family dynamic,” Cronin says.

This impact can manifest itself through things like depressed moods, academic difficulties, disruptive behaviors or anxiety. While some children may not experience any of this, “studies have definitely shown that there is an increased risk for all of those things,” Cronin says.

There’s also some variation in the effects of divorce on children’s mental health across different ages.

Cronin says divorce generally impacts younger children less because they have less recollection of the two parents as one family unit.

“If you’re young, you don’t remember,” Cronin says. “If you’re a teenager, it’s much more difficult.”

What can parents do to mitigate some of these negative effects before they can do

long-term damage?

Healthy co-parenting and communication throughout the divorce process is crucial, Cronin says. Parents should take care to not blame the other parent or openly display hostility because of the subconscious negative impact it could have on their children.

“On a subconscious level, these children think, ‘Okay, if they’re going to throw away the parent, are they going to throw away me?’” Cronin says. “Or, ‘if they hate this parent, I’m half of this parent: are they hating me?’”

It’s also important to remember that resentment and hostility can be expressed in ways that aren’t verbal– and children can pick up on unspoken tension.

“Sometimes, when you don’t even talk, the tension itself is enough to be disruptive,” Cronin says. “That’s extremely uncomfortable for the children.”

Cronin’s advice is to let go of anger or resentment you may feel towards the other

parent and keep discussions open, respectful and neutral.

While this may seem difficult at times, it’s important to stay motivated by the love you have for your children and the best interests of your children, rather than your disdain for your ex-partner.

Not only is this a good way to preserve your children’s mental health, it’s also a good way to keep a strong relationship between yourself and your child as they get older.

“You’re going to have a relationship with the other parent for as long as you have these children because, in my opinion, it goes beyond the 18th year,” Cronin says. “You want to be in your child’s life for the rest of your life, not just until they’re 18.”

Co-parenting can be challenging, especially in cases where the divorce wasn’t amicable. How can parents navigate co-parenting as peacefully as possible in these situations?

When it comes to co-parenting, Cronin

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Try to get on the same page with your coparent about things like bedtimes, discipline and rules about things like grades, homework and electronics. Doing this will give children a sense of structure, and studies have shown that children feel safest when there’s structure.

“A lot of parents think they want to be the fun parent, or they don’t want to have rules,” Cronin says. “But ironically, it’s the home that has the rules where the children want to be long term.”

It’s also important to respect your coparent, especially in front of your children. Regardless of how your marriage may have ended, they are still a parent to your children, and Cronin says it’s important to “respect them for their role in your life and in the children’s lives.”

Remind your children that their other parent still loves them and that they’re still family, even if things look a little different. Even if you don’t have positive feelings towards your former spouse, don’t let them influence how your children see them.

“You want to empower your children with healthy images and healthy feelings of the other parent,” Cronin says. “It takes a very strong person to be able to do that, to set aside their own emotions for the wellbeing of their child.”

Summer vacation can be a point of contention between divorced parents. What are some tips for co-parenting when kids are on summer vacation?

Parents need to be on the same page when it comes to activities for the summer. Discuss expectations for the summer, including things like daycare or camp arrangements, especially if both parents work throughout the summer.

This discussion of expectations also applies to summer rules around the house.

“Does one parent allow the child to be on their devices in their room all day and the other parent can’t stand that?” Cronin says. “There has to be some accountability for the parent.”

As your kids get older, include them in conversations about summer plans.

“The older children are, the more they have a voice,” Cronin says. “They should be able to express how they want to spend their summer, if they’re old enough to do so.”

Just like with co-parenting the rest of the year, your children should be top priority when co-parenting over the summer over any ill will ex-spouses may have between each other.

“There’s no selfish motive in parenting,” Cronin says. “It should all be about what’s in the best interest of the child.”

While this may seem difficult at times, it’s important to stay motivated by the love you have for your children and the best interests of your children, rather than your disdain for your ex-partner.

The Kinfolk App

Changing how kids learn BIPOC history

By Donna Duarte-LaDD

Ionce attended a mom panel where most speakers were WOC ( women of color.) This panel shared many stories and the history of what Black women experienced during slavery. I had learned about slavery in school, but these stories, which went beyond what a school textbook or my college women’s history class ever sharedfloored me. This was the first I had known about these essential history lessons, and yet decades later, I was learning through something as old as time itself, storytelling.

Our Stories Matter

Many parents know there have been debates and discussions about teaching Black History in schools (Florida, we are looking at you). These discussions centered around critical race theory and diversity, eq uity, and inclusion in education, also known as Critical race theory (CRT.) In my opinion, this is not about being “woke”; this is simply that all students should be learning about America’s narrative, especially the history of Black and Brown people.

This is why Kinfolk, a platform co-founded by Idris Brewster (formerly at Google), matters. Brewster saw the lack of school curricula, cultural institutions, and monuments systematically and intentionally excluding BIPOC histories. Thankfully, this lack of BIPOC lessons may not be happening at your child’s school, but Kinfolk is, in a nutshell, a storytelling app that makes learning about Black and Brown stories either something extra or new. The goal of Kinfolk (with large supporters such as Netflix, Verizon and Google to name a few) is to shift the mindset of a generation and what better way then starting with our youth? Most importantly, the kids will love this part; it does not feel like homework. Students can dive into the platform and learn Black and Brown narratives using augmented reality (AR) experiences. It is designed to keep kids’ interest through an interactive and collaborative experience. Pretty smart. For example, have you heard of Los Angeles-born Beatrice Alva? Neither my boys had not nor had I (and I was born in Los

Angeles, California!). We learned Beatrice “Bea” was a tribal elder of the Gabrieleno/ Tongva people who dedicated her life to learning about her ancestry.

How Kinfolk works

Users can explore captivating narratives of Black icons while remaining engaged in the physical world. Through this interactive platform, students can select a historical figure from a menu, transforming them into augmented reality statues on a life-size scale. Kids can immerse themselves in their monument’s life stories, read their biography, and even delve into their playlists. The platform also offers many additional resources accessible through the Monuments web portal. From informative documents, historical pictures, and captivating

art to enlightening podcasts and hidden treasures, it provides a rich and immersive experience for anyone seeking more profound insight into Black and Brown history.

Kinfolk app can be downloaded on Apple apps for iPhone and an iPad, you can also learn more at kinfolkhistory.com.

The Many Benefits of After-school Programs

By Serena norr

According to the Afterschool Alliance, kids spend more than 1,200 hours in school every year. While that may seem like a substantial amount of time, school only accounts for 20% of a child’s time. This is why after-school programs and activities are a big part of our kids’ school experience. Programs and activities are essential in fostering social and emotional growth, just as important as academic reasons. For busy parents, particularly those juggling work commitments (#iykyk), these programs provide a space where children can thrive safely and productively, extending the learning and joy beyond the regular school hours.

Read on to discover more about why after-school programs are so beneficial to kids and their families.

Meet New Friends

After-school classes allow kids to connect and meet new people outside of school. Extracurricular activities help form a community and forge a sense of belonging as they hyper-focus on one activity. This can also benefit students who struggle with making friends in school, where they can connect with a different set of peers in smaller groups.

Encourages Physical Activity

After-school activities, like sports, encourage kids to participate in teamwork as well as offer physical activity, help with stress, may improve self-esteem, foster healthy habits, and may promote mental well-being. Kids who participate in sports may also forge longterm bonds that they participate in until the end of high school.

Expose Kids to New Programs

Many schools have limited programming within music and the arts. After-school programming allows kids to try these

programs and express themselves in a new way through acting, music, and/or learning a new artistic skill. They can also help unleash creativity, improve communication, boost confidence, and improve focus and concentration.

Programs are Fun

After-school activities are fun and offer a way for kids to do something exciting and engaging beyond their typical school day. This can be a release for students with a rigorous and intense course load and schedule.

Helps Support Working Parents

Here in New York, we have some of the best after-school programs in the country. Participating in an after-school program allows kids to thrive in a safe and supervised environment until a parent or guardian can pick them up.

Provides a Safe and Supportive Environment

After-school programs provide a safe space during times when some kids might be unsupervised. Under an instructor’s guidance, kids develop new skills and learn from a mentor/teacher who can help kids foster new passions/interests. According to the National Conference of State Legislatures, “regular participation in an after-school program may also reduce risky behaviors and help kids gain college and career-needed skills.”

Academic Benefits

A supportive after-school program provides a well-rounded educational experience that can impact other aspects of school, such as improved concentration, reduced behavioral problems, and fostering new passions, helping lift kids’ moods and well-being.

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Serving the UWS since 1964, bloomingdale School of music offers lessons and classes for students of all ages and skill levels, from early childhood to adults, and beginner to college prep. Lessons are available 7 days a week in 20 instruments and multiple genres. Various musical ensembles are also available. the fall semester begins September 18th. Sign up on their website for free trial week (Sept 18-24) and try up to 2 classes for free.

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the Diller-Quaile School of music offers in-person and online instruction options for all ages, including early child-

hood music classes for children ages 3 months to 5 years, and instrument and voice lessons, group classes, and ensembles for ages 4 years to adult. Diller-Quaile’s accomplished, dedicated, and caring faculty and staff cultivate the musical potential in each individual. Whether you are beginning a musical journey, continuing with your studies, or returning to a passion, come experience the joy of music.

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ellison ballet is thrilled to announce the expansion of its exceptional year-round professional training program to include a new after-school preparatory Level for serious young ballet dancers ages 10-13. (exceptional 9-year-olds may be considered.) Students will receive a minimum of 15 hours per week of world-class training from highly-qualified, renowned masters of the craft. ellison ballet provides the fin-

est dance education, enabling students to discover their greatest individual potential in preparation for a professional dance career. Admission by audition only. Learn more at: ellisonballet. org/preparatorylevel.html.

g erman-american School

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German-American School offers an accredited after-school language program. the school has been teaching German since 1892 when it focused on children of German immigrants. today it teaches children of all ethnicities.Students graduate with the NY State regents (FLAC) exam. they also offer Ap German.

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‘ the Future of Golf’ is the latest and most fun way you can learn how to play golf in a city setting, where certified coach-

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g reenwich House m usic School

46 barrow Street 212-242-4770 greenwichhousemusicschool. org

Since 1905, Greenwich House music School’s distinguished faculty have taught students of all ages to appreciate the beauty and transformative power of music, art, dance, and theater. enrollment is now open for private lessons and small group classes for children and adults in music, art, theater, and ballet. Call or visit the website to enroll!

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434 Ave of the Americas, 3rd Fl, New York, NY 10011

Long Island City: 47-10 Austell pl, 4th Fl, Long Island City, NY 11101 joffreyballetschool.com/ childrens-and-youth-balletprogram-fall-2023

A Children’s and Youth ballet program that offers year-round classes for dancers ages 2-18, accompanied with live music! Students also have the opportunity to participate in two performances each year: the holiday classic of “ the Nutcracker” and an innovative retelling of “ peter pan”. register for a trial or placement class today.

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178 West 81st Street 212-600-1010 info@launchmath.com launchmath.com

Stem enrichment programs for students from pre-K to 8th grade. Kids discover the magic of forensics, explore the allure of rocket science, think like

architects - and more! Launch’s math enrichment program combines hands-on teaching tools, computer-based instructional methods and real-world problem-solving techniques. register now and receive a $200 discount off multi-class registrations.

lingo circle lingocircle.com

LingoCircle is an online language school providing an innovative approach to language learning. they specialize in connecting bilingual children from around the world. they offer virtual classes in French, Spanish, Chinese, Korean, Arabic, and english. LingoCircles classes are small - five students max - to give each student ample attention.Classes include songs, games, stories, and more. each class is 45-minutes. Classes are on weekdays after school and on weekends; the first lesson is free.

m usic To your Home - m usic School

235 east 95th St.,New York, NY

646-606-2515

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music to Your Home offers inhome, in- studio and online private music lessons to students of all ages in NYC. We offer lessons for piano, guitar, violin, cello, woodwinds, drums and voice right in the comfort of your home. Since 2007 we’ve taught over 500,000 lessons to thousands of happy students. We offer yearly recitals and performance opportunities for our students. Let us bring music into your home this fall!

P lane T Han m andarin

401 West end Ave 1556 third Ave 212-724-2421

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mandarin for all kids! planet Han provides a proven approach to teaching children mandarin Chinese. Located on manhattan’s Upper West Side and Upper east Side, your child will love learning mandarin in our fun and engaging, 100% immersive Chinese classroom environment and will achieve mandarin fluency and speak

like a native speaker, giving them the ability to communicate with Chinese speakers anywhere in the world. planet Han offers Adult and me, preschool, afterschool and summer programs, with low student-to-teacher ratios. book a free trial to experience firsthand that learning mandarin can be fun!

Play o n! Studios

263 West 86th Street, New York, NY playonstudios.com play On! Studios offers theater classes on the UWS that are guaranteed to give kids a great experience full of acting, music, and fun they won’t soon forget! Whether your child is just starting out, or ready for broadway, we’ve got the class for them. Creative Drama, theater Lab, musical theater revue, and musical theater performance classes all offer different levels of commitment for busy kids. Classes are available for preK8, after school or Saturdays!

Music lessons are available in 20 different instruments. Students of all ages and levels are welcome to explore the wonders of music in a supportive and engaging environment.

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Soccer Stars is NYC’s most popular youth educational soccer program! For 23 years, they have taught the FUNdamentals of soccer using positive reinforcement. players will learn skills, physical literacy, build self-confidence, and develop teamwork in every class. trained, certified coaches lead age-specific programs with low kid-to-coach rations for children 1-12+. Weekly classes are available 7 days-a-week at over 60 locations. private classes also available – their coaches come to you! Save $35 on Fall programs - promo Code: NYFALL23.

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Discover dance at the Steps Academy! Unleash your artistic voice, learn dance technique, make friends, and have fun exploring a multitude

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willan academy of m usic 244 madison Avenue #171 New York, NY 10016 646-838-3990

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In-home lessons available in piano, Violin, Cello, Guitar, Voice and more! Unlock your child’s true potential with Willan Academy of music. the program is designed to foster a genuine love for music and help students explore and develop their artistic abilities to the fullest. With their expert instructors and supportive environment, your child will be unstoppable in their pursuit of musical excellence. Visit the website to register your child today.

The IDEAL School of Manhattan

Bringing Inclusion Education to Lower Manhattan

the IDEAL School of Manhattan is New York’s only K-12+ independent inclusion school. The school’s mission is to affirm and accept the full identities of all people while inspiring academic excellence, creative leadership, and a desire to build a more just and equitable world. The school’s core principles are Inclusion, Diversity, Excellence, Acceptance, and Leadership. Every aspect of the IDEAL experience-instruction, assessment, program, enrichment--reflects a research-based commitment to inclusion education as a means for academic excellence.

IDEAL students in the 202324 school year will learn and grow together in a building designed to be a model of learning, access, and inclusion. Relocating from its two-location Upper West Side campus, each IDEAL division now has a dedicated floor at 5 Hanover Square in the Financial District. Architects Alexander Gorlin and Quncie Williams have designed a self-enclosed 5-story buildingwithin-a-building, where Lower, Middle, High School, and postsecondary students will be connected by a central staircase.

In the unique IDEAL inclusion model, teachers design curricula that build upon the talents and strengths of their learners, providing instruction at multiple levels of complexity within the same classroom.

Supportive faculty, low studentto-teacher ratios, small class sizes, and partnerships between general educators and learning specialists create a nurturing community where every student can succeed and has a voice.

IDEAL’s curriculum and programs are multicultural by design, and social justice and anti-bias instruction are built-in and given dedicated instructional time— immersion in the arts, a differentiated

athletic program, and service-learning opportunities round out the IDEAL experience.

IDEAL’s exceptional academic program is based on the belief that students learn best when teachers set a high bar and scaffold the path to achievement through differentiation.

Lower School (K-5) classes are co-taught by a general educator and a learning specialist. Middle School (6-8) classes cultivate lifelong learning skills.

High School (9-12) is uniquely student-driven, flexible, and inclusive, focusing on building life skills.

The Next Steps Transition Program

is available to students as an alternative or ramp to college. It supports each individual’s continued progress and helps the students to develop the skills needed to live as independently as possible.

Please visit theidealschool.org to learn more, or email admissions@ theidealschool.org to schedule a private tour or RSVP for an in-person or virtual open house.

Exploring School Options

Advice for finding the perfect educational fit for your child

By BarBara russo

It may be Back to School time, but choosing a school to send your child to can happen any time throughout the school year. Whether your child is moving on from daycare, elementary, middle school, or simply a better educational fit is needed, searching for one can be a complicated decision. We all worry about whether we’re making the best choices in raising our kids, and one thing most of us fret over is whether our children are getting the best education that suits their needs. In many areas in the country, traditional district public schools may be the best option for kids. But living in the New York metro area, we have an abundance of choices in addition to great public schools, including charter, independent and magnet schools.

While one school option doesn’t necessarily provide a better education than another, each type has pros and cons for every individual family. It’s up to you to determine which school

setting best suits your child’s needs. What are the differences between independent, charter, and magnet schools, and which one is best for your child? Read on to learn more about charter, independent and magnet schools.

Catholic Schools

NYC Catholic Schools prioritize both academic excellence and Catholic values. Students are immersed in an environment that promotes respect, courtesy, and service to others, which are integral to their curriculum. These schools offer a comprehensive range of subjects, including Math, Religion, English Language Arts, History, and Science. Moreover, they have embraced modern technology in the classrooms and introduced STEM programs to foster a well-rounded education.

Recent New York State Education Department Examination results confirm that Catholic Schools in the Archdiocese of New York have once again outperformed

both New York State and New York City schools regarding performance growth.

Charter Schools

The most important thing to understand about a charter school is that it’s a public school – but with fewer regulations. Charter schools are tuition free and receive money from local, state and federal funds.

“Charter schools do not have the same oversight as public schools, but they do need to be funded at least partially by a public government. They can also seek funding elsewhere,” Mary Miele, CEO, Evolved Education Company, explained. “Charter schools can set their own curriculum, but they will be evaluated based on testing, which the public school also gives (the NYS exams in grades 3-8) and so the curriculum does involve a good amount of prep for those exams.”

According to the New York State Education Department, a significant difference between charter schools and traditional public schools is that charter schools often focus on innovative curricula, new approaches to school organization or instruction, or another feature that traditional public schools wouldn’t be able to accomplish without the flexibility given by a charter.

But charter schools need to produce

strong NYS test results in order to continue their funding, so many are more traditional in their teaching approach and teach toward those tests, Miele said.

Parents can learn more about charter schools, what a charter is and other information at nysed.gov.

Independent Schools

Also known as private schools, independent schools are primarily funded by tuition and charitable donations as opposed to taxpayer dollars.

“Typically, independent schools do quite a bit of fundraising, and parents may be tasked with organizing some of it,” Christine Hernandez, early childhood and parenting expert, and founder of Allo Saratoga in New York State, said.

And, their curriculum is not reviewed by a public entity, Miele explained.

The admission process for private schools can vary, but it generally includes:

• Filling out an application

• Visiting the school and doing both student and parent interviews

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Back to School is in the air, but remember that this is also prime time to plan for your child’s next step in their education.

Most schools are starting their tours and open houses now since enrollment periods often open up just after Labor Day, so check out your options and start marking your calendar!

• Taking an entrance exam, if applicable

• Sending in teacher recommendations and transcripts

• Writing parent and student essays, and submitting videos of the student (for the K process)

Magnet Schools

Magnet schools are NYC Department of Education (DOE) schools. They are tuition-free schools, in part federally funded by competitive Magnet Schools Assistance Program grant awards from the U.S. Department of Education. Magnet schools offer whole-school specialized

thematic programs (theme examples include art, architecture, engineering, civics, leadership, exploration, global conservation, STEM/ STEAM) which incorporate innovative curriculum and enrichment experiences designed to engage and inspire learning.

Magnet schools utilize diversified approaches to teaching which include inquiry and project-based learning with real world connections and authentic application of skills. Partnerships with colleges, universities, professional and community organizations, cultural institutions and Artists in Residency programs, provide professional development opportunities and supplement student and family experiences. The rigorous instructional foundation is supported and enhanced by instructional technology, dedicated spaces for arts and science such as maker-spaces, horticultural labs, broadcast studios, STEM/ STEAM activities, and special programs.

There is an application process for magnet schools, but there is no screening or testing involved in applying. For more information, families should contact info@magnetschools. nyc or visit magnetschools.nyc.

New Pregnant Workers Fairness Act

By BarBara russo

For most women, pregnancy is tough on the body. And for many expectant moms, being at work can add to that discomfort. From uncomfortable seating to inflexible hours, the typical workplace isn’t designed with pregnant women in mind.

But that’s changing, as employers will soon be required to make reasonable accommodations for pregnant women under the new Pregnant Workers Fairness Act (PWFA)

The PWFA was passed by Congress in December 2022 and went into effect Tuesday, June 27, 2023. The federal law, which received bipartisan approval, will require “covered employers” to provide reasonable accommodations to a worker’s limitations related to pregnancy, childbirth or related medical conditions.

NOTE: The term “covered employers” includes private and public sector employers with at least 15 employees, Congress, federal agencies, employment agencies and labor organizations.

“One of the great things about this law is that it relies on established civil rights laws, so it doesn’t try to recreate things that don’t need to be recreated,” explained Sharyn Tejani, associate legal counsel in the office of legal counsel at the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC).

For example, “covered employers” are the employers who are already covered under other civil rights laws.

“So if you’re covered under one, you’re covered under the other,” Tejani said. “That should make it easy for employers and for workers.”

Protections Under the Pregnant Workers Fairness Act

The PWFA will include accommodations similar to those for disabled employees under the Americans with Disabilities Act, but is tailored for pregnant women.

Tejani explained that many of the accommodations under the law cover “some pretty simple things.”

“Like, if your job requires standing all the time, you can ask for a reasonable

accommodation of a stool,” Tejani said. “Lots of pregnant workers need to eat or drink during the day just to keep their body going, so you can ask for accommodations for that.”

Other examples of accommodations for pregnant women at work can include:

• Closer parking spots

• Flexible hours

• Uniforms and safety apparel that fits

• Additional break time

• Leave or time off to recover from childbirth

• Exemption from strenuous activities and/or activities that involve exposure to compounds not safe for pregnancy

• Remote work or telework

According to the EEOC, a pregnant worker doesn’t have to go through a formal process to request these accommodations. They simply have to have a discussion with their employer.

But, it’s important to note, none of these accommodations are automatic.

As Tejani explained, the accommodation can’t create an undue hardship — a significant difficulty — for the employer.

“Basically, if you’re a worker who has something related to pregnancy, childbirth or related medical condition and it makes it more difficult to do your job, you can go to your employer and have a discussion,” Tejani said. “Your employer has to provide reasonable accommodation absent undue hardship.”

Right now, protection for pregnant workers varies state by state.

As Bloomberg Law explained in an article, “Without the PWFA, the legal obligation for an employer to grant reasonable accommodations for pregnant workers has been governed by a patchwork of case law and varying state protections.”

One working mom, who requested to remain anonymous, shared her thoughts on the PWFA. She struggled to get workplace accommodations at a nonprofit organization during her second pregnancy.

“Despite it being illegal to discriminate, I think we all know this happens often,” the mom, who’s from New Jersey, said. “Hopefully this new federal law will add another layer of protection for

pregnant workers needing reasonable accommodations, and we can collectively start seeing these accommodations as a right, not a privilege. Pregnancy should be celebrated. And it’s very hard to do that when employers aren’t always held accountable.”

Other Federal Laws that Apply to Pregnant Workers

In addition to the Pregnant Workers Fairness Act, these are other federal laws that apply to workers affected by pregnancy, childbirth or related medical conditions:

Title VII: This protects an employee

from discrimination based on pregnancy, childbirth or related medical conditions. It requires covered employers to treat a worker affected by pregnancy, childbirth or related medical conditions the same as other workers similar in their ability or inability to work.

ADA: This protects employees from discrimination based on disability. It requires covered employers to provide reasonable accommodations to a person with a disability if it doesn’t cause an undue hardship for the employer. While pregnancy is not a disability under the ADA, some pregnancy-related conditions may be considered disabilities under the law.

Family and Medical Leave Act of 1993: This provides covered employees with unpaid, job-protected leave for certain family and medical reasons.

PUMP Act: Broadens workplace protections for employees to express breast milk at work.

For more information about the Pregnant Workers Fairness Act and similar laws, visit eeoc.gov.

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Great Planetariums

The best options for celestial fun in and near New York City

Sometimes stars aren’t at peak visibility—whether it’s due to a storm or the bright New York City lights—but you can still enjoy celestial wonders at local planetariums! Gaze at the night sky even in the middle of the day at one of these locations. (Please note planetarium and observatory hours may differ from museum

hours. We recommend you call planetariums ahead prior to your visit.)

Alice and Leonard Dreyfuss

Planetarium in the Newark Museum

49 Washington St., Newark, NJ 973-596-6550

The first of planetariums built in New Jersey, the Dreyfuss offers a variety of shows, special events, and programs for families to enjoy. Visit the website for the planetarium’s schedule. Tickets are free with

general admission to museum.

Charles and Helen Reichart

Planetarium at the Vanderbilt Museum

180 Little Neck Road, Centerport, Long Island 631-854-5579

The Vanderbilt Planetarium offers seasonal shows and fun, educational programs for family. The Planetarium has diverse programming that includes fulldome films, live star talks, laser shows, concerts, and special events. Check the online schedule for details. The rooftop observatory is open every Friday night, weather permitting, where visitors can examine the night sky through the Van-

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Hayden Planetarium in the American Museum of Natural History

Central Park West at 79th St., Upper West Side, Manhattan

212-769-5100

The museum offers a variety of celestial programs and shows inside the planetarium. The 429-seat Space Theater, which features a custom-made Zeiss Mark IX Star Projector and a Digital Dome Projection System to display a hyperrealistic view of the planets, star clusters, nebulae, and galaxies, uses a scientifically accurate 3D map of the observable universe based on millions of astronomical observations.

Hudson River M useum Planetarium

511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers

914-963-4550

The planetarium at the Hudson River Museum has celestial shows on Saturdays and Sundays at 12:30pm, 2pm, and 3:30pm. Some shows are geared toward specific age groups; the schedule can be found on the website.

JetBlue Sky Theater Planetarium in the Cradle of Aviation Museum and Education Center

Charles Lindbergh Blvd., Garden City, Long Island

516-572-4111

Check the online schedule to see what shows are offered in the Sky Theater at the time you plan to visit this immersive, all-digital planetarium complete with with newly upgraded pure laser projectors. Prior to each show is a Your Night Sky presentation, taking viewers on a journey of the seasonal sky.

Jennifer Chalsty Planetarium at the Liberty Science Center

222 Jersey City Boulevard, Jersey City, NJ Liberty Science Center’s Jennifer Chalsty Planetarium is touted as the biggest planetarium in America. The space boasts a resolution of 88 million pixels, a lighting system that can produce over 281 trillion colors, and speakers capable of producing 30,000 watts of digital sound. Check out the 89-foot full-dome view of the night sky and distant galaxies, available as an add-on to

your general admission ticket to the center.

New Jersey State Museum’s Planetarium

205 West State Street, Trenton, NJ 609-292-6464

This planetarium is fully upgraded with an Ultra-High Resolution 8K projection system and specially designed reclining seats. Shows are offered to the public Saturday and Sunday from September-June. Weekday shows are held for school or community groups with advanced reservations. During the summer months, winter break, and spring break, weekday shows are available to the public.

Observatory and Planetarium at the Stamford Museum & Nature Center

39 Scofieldtown Road, Stamford, CT 203-322-1646

The planetarium is currently closed for public hours but available for school programs, scout groups, special events and private parties. On selected Friday nights a special series of Astronomy Nights is available for kids ages 5 and up.

Preventing Hearing Loss in Children

By BarBara russo

Preventing hearing loss in children is important. And with the arrival of summer comes fireworks, concerts and other events with sustained loud noise. Considering hearing loss can affect a child’s ability to develop speech, language and social skills, parents and those caring for children should be aware of the potential risks and downstream effects loud noises may bring, experts say.

New research announced last month from the National Council on Aging (NCOA) includes data examined from national surveys and clinical studies, focus groups and interviews with audiologists and patients. Here are some highlights:

• 12.5% of children between 6 and 19 have some degree of hearing loss caused by listening to audio devices too loudly

• Up to 17.5% of teenagers have some degree of hearing loss

• Almost 3 in 4 teenagers are exposed to

loud noise at school and are not provided hearing protection

The NCOA said hearing exam data from more than 7,000 teenagers across the country found that up to 17.5% of teenagers have some degree of hearing loss, and a 2020 survey conducted by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) reported that 73.6% of teenagers were exposed to loud noise at school.

The majority of those students weren’t provided with hearing protection

Q104.3’S Shelli Sonstein Discusses Her Struggle With Hearing Loss

According to NCOA, many people who are exposed to loud noise, whether through music, equipment, or recreational activities, don’t realize the damage it’s causing to their ears until they have noticeable hearing loss. This often shows up as difficulty understanding conversations.

Celebrity iHeartRadio host, Shelli Sonstein, knows this all too well. Having

worked in radio for 50 years, and as the cohost of Q104.3’s The Jim Kerr Rock & Roll Morning Show, Sonstein loves music, radio and broadcasting. But after all that time around loud noise, she started to notice her hearing was suffering.

She was most affected outside of work. After all, when she’s on the air, she’s wearing headphones, which is essentially like wearing hearing aids. It was off-air sound and conversations that she was missing out on.

“It really bugged me when I was driving with my grandkids,” Sonstein said. “They almost always have to go to the Los Angeles Zoo—it’s tradition. So, they were in the backseat, I’m driving, and I could not hear their conversations. That’s what spurred me to get hearing aids.”

Sonstein admits it wasn’t easy to take the necessary steps to save her hearing. And it wasn’t easy for her to accept that she needed a hearing aid. Ultimately, she tried a few brands of hearing aids but, unfortunately, she became even more discouraged.

“I thought there was something wrong with me because they didn’t sound right,” she said. “Sure, it was an improvement over not hearing, but they weren’t natural. They sounded tinny.”

Eventually, Sonstein’s audiologist recommended a hearing aid called Widex Moment Sheer, which she uses today. Widex Moment Sheer aids became a game changer for the radio pro. Before, she was constantly asking people to repeat themselves, and her quality of life has greatly improved. Sounds she hadn’t heard in years were back, and she could even hear her husband again, who she describes as a “low talker.”

“Shortly after getting my new Widex hearing aids, I went on a long walk with my dog, and it started hailing,” Sonstein explained. “And I was actually hearing the hail on the leaves — sounds in nature I hadn’t heard in a long time. It was absolutely fantastic.”

Tips For Preventing Hearing Loss In Children

Dr. Ruth Reisman, AuD., is an audiologist

and hearing aid dispenser in New York. She reviewed the research about hearing loss that was announced last month from the NCOA and shared five ways parents can keep on top of their kids’ ear and hearing health:

• Regular hearing screenings at the pediatrician or the audiologist office can spot any potential red flags regarding hearing health. Early identification can help prevent the progression of hearing loss in children or ear disease in children.

• Parental oversight on technology use, screen time, and volume settings through family apps (ex Google family, or Apple

volume alert settings), will help prevent permanent noise-related damage.

• Invest in a set of hearing protection, either over the ear or custom made, to use during events like sporting events or weddings to avoid permanent damage.

• Many children suffer from chronic ear infections that can result in fluid in the ear. Although the hearing loss in these cases are transient and can improve once the fluid resolves (either through medical or surgical intervention) research shows that prolonged fluid can result in lasting damage to the ear and/or auditory processing disorders.

• Maintaining overall health for children through a balanced diet and nutritional supplements will support the longevity of healthy hearing and help prevent hearing loss in children. Children who unfortunately have to take ototoxic medications, like cancer treatments or strong antibiotics, should undergo an ototoxic monitoring regimen to document any potential effects on the hearing. In some cases, medications can be modified to reduce their effect on the child’s hearing.

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Kweller Prep Tutoring and Educational Services, Inc. organized a successful tour of St. John’s University on Sunday, July 16, 2023. Nearly 50 families participated in a one-hour information session followed by a guided walking tour of the St. John’s Campus, a private Roman Catholic University based in Queens. Students learned about St. John's five undergraduate schools and six graduate offering more than 100 bachelor, master, doctoral degree programs and professional certificates. Tour guides discussed course offerings for St. John’s 20,000 undergraduates and 5,000 graduate students. Students learned everything from accounting, actuarial science, and business majors to pharmacy programs at St. John’s. Students also toured St. John’s University’s School of Law and the Tobin School of Business. The tour’s last stop included strolling through the athletic field and playing family-friendly games at a summer carnival hosted right on campus grounds.

“We are so fortunate to have a nationally recognized university right in our backyard,” brags Frances Kweller, college tour guide and education expert. Seeing St. John’s in person was an exceptional experience. We can’t thank the administration enough for welcoming us to their campus.

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2023-2024 NYC School Calendar

s eptember 7 First day of school

s eptember 14 evening parent-Teacher Conferences for elementary schools and pre-K Centers

s eptember 21 evening parent-Teacher Conferences for middle schools and D75 schools

s eptember 25 Yom Kippur, schools closed

s eptember 28 evening parent-Teacher Conferences for high schools, K–12, and 6–12 schools

October 9 italian Heritage / indigenous peoples’ Day, schools closed

November 2 afternoon and evening parent-Teacher Conferences for elementary schools; students in these schools dismissed three hours early.

November 7 election Day, students do not attend school

November 9 afternoon and evening parent-Teacher Conferences for middle schools and D75 schools; students in these schools dismissed three hours early.

November 16 afternoon and evening parent-Teacher Conferences for high schools, K–12, and 6–12 schools

November 17 afternoon and evening parent-Teacher Conferences for high schools, K–12, and 6–12 schools; students in these schools dismissed three hours early.

November 23–24 Thanksgiving Recess, schools closed

Dec. 25–Jan. 1 Winter Recess, schools closed

January 15 Rev. Dr. Martin l uther King Jr. Day, schools closed

January 23–26 Regents a dministration

January 29 professional Development Day; no classes for students attending high schools and 6-12 schools, all other students attend school

January 30 s pring s emester begins

February 19–23 Midwinter Recess, schools closed

March 7 afternoon and evening parent-Teacher Conferences for elementary schools and pre-K Centers; students in these schools dismissed three hours early.

March 14 afternoon and evening parent-Teacher Conferences for middle schools and D75 schools; students in these schools dismissed three hours early.

March 21 evening parent-Teacher Conferences for high schools, K–12, and 6–12 schools

March 22 afternoon parent-Teacher Conferences for high schools, K–12, and 6–12 schools; students in these schools dismissed three hours early.

March 29 –a pril 1 easter Weekend, schools closed a pril 10 eid al-Fitr, schools closed a pril 22–26 s pring Recess (including passover), schools closed

May 9 evening parent-Teacher Conferences for elementary schools and pre-K Centers

May 16 evening parent-Teacher Conferences for middle schools and D75 schools

May 23 evening parent-Teacher Conferences for high schools, K–12, and 6–12 schools

May 27 Memorial Day, schools closed

June 6 a nniversary Day / Chancellor’s Conference Day for staff development; students do not attend.

June 7 Clerical Day; no classes for students attending 3K, pre-K, elementary schools, middle schools, K-12 schools, and standalone D75 programs

June 14–26 Regents a dministration (excluding June 19, when schools are closed)

June 19 Juneteenth, schools closed

June 26 l ast day of school for students

BoArdinG SchoolS

A unique experience for your kids

By Mia Sala S

Navigating your child’s educational landscape in vibrant New York can be intricate as the offerings are plentiful. While there are public, private, charter, and many more schooling options- there are also highly regarded education instituitions such as Boarding Schools in and around New York. The compelling thing about Boarding schools is they offer a unique environment where children can thrive academically, socially, and personally. The focused educational setting and access to top-tier resources enable holistic growth and prepare children for future success. Check out these three schools that keep your child’s future at the forefront.

Bard Academy & Bard College at Simon’s Rock Great Barrington, MA 01230 413-644-4400, admit@simons-rock.edu simons-rock.edu

For an accelerated path, Bard Academy & Bard College at Simon’s Rock is the way to go. Bard Academy is the nation’s first two-year boarding and day program designed to prepare 9th and 10th graders to start college early. They basically get fast-tracked to receive a Bachelor’s degree within six years of starting Bard Academy, as opposed to the 8 years it typically takes to get through high school and college. Bard College then follows the Academy, when students are ready to start college after the 10th or 11th grade. With over 35 majors and several top rankings including #4 for Most Innovative School, #5 for Best Undergraduate Teaching by U.S. News and World Report and among the Best Regional Colleges in the Northeast by The Princeton Review, Bard College offers an education like no other.

Ross School

18 Goodfriend drive, East hampton 11937 631-907-5400

ross.org

Knox School

541 long Beach road, St James nY 11780 knoxschool.org

The Knox School is Long Island’s oldest established, co-educational boarding and day school. Our inclusive environment serves grades 6-12 and Post-Graduate, providing students with a broad world perspective and a wide range of skills. At Knox, each student’s potential is unlocked and maximized because of the boundless experiences a Knox education provides. We are proud of our 100% graduate and acceptance rate to top four-year universities. Whether you are an aspiring engineer or entrepreneur, artist or architect, performer or physicist, a Knox education unlocks every student’s potential and prepares them for success after high school.

Ross School’s mission is to change the way education meets the future; to foster interdisciplinary, integrated thinking and innovative leadership; to engage fully in the global community, and to facilitate lifelong learning. Ross School is a co-educational boarding (Grades 6–12) and day school (N–Grade 12) located on a beautiful campus in East Hampton, NY, approximately two hours east of New York City. Serving approximately 375 students and attracting a world-class faculty, the School offers a global, integrated curriculum with engaging courses in science, math, arts, humanities, and wellness, with opportunities for independent study, competitive athletics, extracurricular activities, and travel. The Ross educational experience aims to impart to young people a 21stcentury skill set and the inspiration that will motivate them to keep their minds actively engaged in learning. The School stresses direct personal experiences, inquiry through primary sources, and hands-on interpretation and analysis of information. Ross School has a successful college placement program, with 100% of applicants receiving acceptances at competitive colleges and universities.

The Malin

A luxury co-working haven

By Donna Duarte-LaDD

Many parents know that during the beginning of the pandemic our work lives went from everyday humbug to drama Parents went from working five-day weeks to hanging with our new and considerably younger co-workers. Gone was office cooler gossip- our new colleagues, okay, our kidshad to be schooled, have cafeteria time, be tutored on common core math, etc. Fashion, what fashion? There wasn’t any time for style. While we tried to dress work appropriately for Zooms, that soon gave way to sweats and Willie Nelson tees.

Flash forward to the present; some of us are back at the office; others are working hybrid or fully remote. And as we ship the kids off to school this month, many of us are aching to move away from the home desk life. It’s not just about a change of scenery; it is about being around adults, creativitybasically, we want a new work vibe.

Prime location

This is why when photographing our September cover, we gravitated to The Malin, a work-focused members club that champions luxury design and customizable services. In short, they get the modern worker, including working and stay-at-home parents who seek a space that supports their creative endeavors. This enables working parents to do their work around their family obligations.

Not just a co-working space

The Malin is more than just a physical space; it’s a support system that centers its attention on you —the person who manages to juggle it all. As soon as you walk in, you enter a zen-like space; before settling in, you can detour to the magnificent kitchen—a nook that exudes beauty and comfort—and pour yourself a refreshing ice-cold brew. There are seating spots, dedicated desks, private offices, and meeting rooms. This is a workspace, so people are going about their work. If you need privacy, the space has you covered with phone booths designed for video conferencing, ensuring your privacy and uninterrupted focus. And if that’s not enough, they’ve got alternative workspaces like the ‘Library’ where you can quietly work away.

Hey Alexa, can you get me an assistant

One of the standout features at The Malin is the presence of an onsite Executive Assistant. This priceless resource is ready to lend a hand with various administrative duties, from filing expense reports to drafting meticulous

meeting minutes and organizing presentation materials. But their support extends beyond work-related tasks—they assist with your day-to-day lifestyle needs, whether running errands, booking travel arrangements, securing reservations, or even indulging in a little personal shopping.

Location, location, location

The Malin has three locations in New York City- Soho, West Village, and Williamsburg. We shot our cover at their Williamsburg location on the ninth floor at The William Vale hotel. The warm building is designed with a stylish blend of texture and design. It is also conveniently located not far from the NYC Ferry, the G and L train lines, and, of course, is right next door to some delicious food like the Leuca located at the hotel and other delicious eateries in this prime location.

The Malin Williamsburg

109 N.12th St, 9th Floor

Brooklyn, NY 11249

718- 407-1198

Photos by Lesley Unruh

Family-Friendly Westfield, NJ

Discover the family-friendly charm of Westfield, NJ – the perfect haven for families seeking a welcoming community and endless activities. Kids will love the vibrant parks such as Tamaques Park, a local gem sprawled across 106 acres, which offers many delights, including picnic spots, basketball courts, pickleball courts, shuffleboard, playing fields, and so much more.

Tight community: Westfield’s appeal extends beyond its parks, with something special for every family member. Explore quaint mom-and-pop shops and savor delicious cuisine at incredible restaurants. Immerse yourself in the rhythm of live jazz music, explore the world of books at libraries and local bookstores with the kids, or indulge your artistic side through the Miller Cory Museum and the newly-opened gallery showcasing the works of local artist Ricardo Roig.

Top-notch education: Education also thrives in Westfield, with top-rated schools renowned for their exceptional

academics and diverse extracurricular offerings. Westfield is a stellar choice for families seeking a retreat from the urban hustle. Experience the blend of a vibrant community, cultural richness, and educational excellence – a true haven for those looking to put down roots.

beautiful Homes: Frank D. Isoldi, Broker Sales Associate of Coldwell Banker, who has a knack for finding the most exceptional homes, shared that families will find charming Cape Cod homes to stately traditional Colonials, whimsical storybook Tudors to majestic Victorians, and even

modern new constructions in Westfield, NJ.

This five-bedroom home with 3.2 baths sits on private grounds, a paver patio adorned with a picturesque pergola, custom awning, lush custom plantings, a tranquil pea gravel patio, charming outdoor fountains, and a detached 2-car garage…and wait for it… a sauna- was recently listed by Isoldi and placed under contract. It is homes like this that Mr. Isoldi shows his clients who are seeking a house that is not just a residence – but a show-stopping retreat that harmonizes luxurious living with timeless appeal.

Discover the perfect blend of elegance, privacy, and accessibility in a home in Westfield, NJ, while enjoying the convenience of being close to awardwinning schools, a vibrant downtown scene, and seamless NYC transportation. frank D. isoldi. Coldwell banker, frankisoldi@gmail.com, Cell: 908-7875990, Direct: 908-301-2038

Apple Picking

Summer is coming to a close and apple picking will soon be in full gear for 2023. With school starting, what better way to spend your weekend then by heading to one of these farms for apple picking? Pick fresh apples and make classic apple cider, pie, and more! Many of these farms also offer attractions like playgrounds, farm stand markets and events, making them a great choice for a full day of family fun.

One Hour and Under Demarest Farms

244 Wiermus Road, Hillsdale, NJ 07642

201-666-0472

(40 min from Midtown)

Starting Sep. 2, you will be able to pick some delicious apples! Step foot in the orchards and start picking delicious apples for your seasonal pies, ciders and more. Some of their tasty apples include Cameo, Cortland, Empire, Fuji, Gala, Golden Delicious, Honeycrisp, McIntosh, Mutsu (Crispin), Red Delicious, Snap Dragon and Zestar. $8 per person (age 2 and over), which includes free parking and entrance to the apple orchard and access to an on-site petting zoo and playground. Demarest Farms is still using a reservation system for apple picking this year, so be sure to make a reservation in their system ahead of time.

Hillview Farms

223 Meyersville Road, Gillette, NJ

908-647-0957

(50 min from Midtown)

Make the trip to Hillview Farms to pick seasonal apples. You can’t go wrong with the classic red apple, but make sure to take home a few other delicious options, such as Cortland, Empire, Fuji, Granny Smith, Golden Delicious, Jonagold, Jonathan, Macoun, McIntosh and Stayman/Winesap. Open 9 am to 6 pm (field closed to the public at 5 pm), daily.

One Hour to One Hour and a Half

Dr. Davies Farm

306 Rt-304, Congers, NY 10920 845-268-7020

(1 hr 10 min from Midtown)

Warm apple pie days are here! Visit Dr.

Davies Farm starting on Sep. 3 to pick apples for all your delicious fall desserts. You will be able to pick from 5,000 trees, with 27 different varieties of apples, spanning over 65 acres. Bring the whole family (even the dog!) for a great outing that everyone will enjoy for the fall season. Keep in mind the farm is cash only, so come prepared if you’re planning on buying anything from the farmstand while you’re there. Open 10 am to 4 pm, daily.

Riamede Farm

122 Oakdale Road, Chester, NJ 07930

908-879-7762

(1 hr 20 min from Midtown)

With 40 types of apples, Riamede Farm has opened its apple picking! Get a taste of their ripening apples, or check out their other varieties as they begin to ripen over the course of the fall season. Farm Passes are required for entry and should be purchased prior to arrival. The farm expects to open for the 2023 season on August 1st. Open 9 am to 4:30 pm, daily.

Harvest Moon Farm & Orchard

130 Hardscrabble Road, North Salem, NY 10560

914-485-1210

(1 hr 20 min from Midtown)

Be part of the excitement at Harvest Moon for their biggest time of the year. This family-owned and operated apple orchard is welcoming their main harvest with a variety of delicious apples. Bring the family to visit the orchards for apple picking as well as their farm store that has farm-raised meats and dairy products. Open 9 am to 5 pm, daily.

Stuart’s Fruit Farm

62 Granite Springs Road, Granite Springs, NY 10527

914-245-2784

(1 hr 20 min from Midtown)

Since 1828, Stuart’s Fruit Farm has been a proud family-operated farm. Starting Sep. 6, bring your family along for the beginning of the apple picking season where there will be an array of apples to choose from! There’s over 20 varieties of apples to choose from spread across the months of September and October. Open 10 am to 5 pm, daily.

Alstede Farms

1 Alstede Farms Lane, Chester, NJ 07930 908-879-7189

(1 hr 20 min from Midtown)

Alstede Farms invites your family to pick their crisp, seasonal apples for the fall season. Kids will be thrilled to see and learn how food grows as they pick their own for a healthy snack. Bring home this delicious fruit for making traditional homemade apple pie, cider and delightful pastries. Choose from over 50 different varieties. Don’t forget to check out the other fun activities offered on the farm, such as the tractor-drawn wagon ride, seeing the sunflower field and more! Tickets must be purchased online, in advance, utilizing time slots. Tickets become available 24 hours in advance.

Apple Ridge Orchards

101 Jessup Road, Warwick, NY 10990 845-987-7717

(1 hr 30 min from Midtown)

Kick off the fall season by visiting the most scenic and rustic pick-your-own farm. Just 60 miles from New York City, you can pick from a variety of 20 different apples throughout the Hudson and Warwick Valley starting Sep. 2. Have a fun and educational experience as you spend time at the orchards apple picking. They even have dwarf trees that little ones can reach! No reservations are needed, but admission is cash only. Open to the public from 9 am to 5 pm on Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday and all holidays.

Lawrence Farms Orchards

306 Frozen Ridge Road, Newburgh, NY 12550

845-562-4268

(1 hr 30 min from Midtown)

Take a drive to Lawrence Farms Orchards and make it a family day out! Enjoy the beautiful scenery of the farm and have a blast picking a variety of apples such as Ginger Gold, Zestar, Ozark Gold and Gala available now. Open 9 am to 4 pm, daily. Admission is $7 per person Monday through Thursday and $10 per person on weekends and holidays. Children under 2 years old are free. Season passes available.

Barton Orchards

63 Apple Tree Lane, Poughquag, NY 12570

845-227-2306

(1 hr 30 min from Midtown)

Switch up your typical weekend plans and take a family car ride to Barton Orchards. These apples are known for being the best in the area with over 120 acres of apple trees to pick from. Apple picking goes from August 12 through November. As the season moves through, a variety of different apples will be available for picking, such as Early Golds in August, Jona macs in September, and Ida Reds in October. And, to make sure that you have the freshest apples, Barton’s Orchards rotates picking areas around the farm! In order to pick apples, you must purchase a Barton apple bag that day. Open 11 am to 6 pm on Sundays to Thursdays and 11 am to 8 pm on Fridays and Saturdays, from August 12 through November.

Masker Orchards

45 Ball Road, Warwick, NY 10990

845-986-1058

(1 hr 30 min from Midtown)

Masker Orchards is a go-to for family-friendly apple picking in the Hudson Valley region (you can even bring the dog). Drive right to the trees with your family and then get lost in the massive orchard picking a variety of apples (picking poles are also available) and taking in the views and foliage. With 14 varieties of apples ripening throughout the season at Masker Orchards, you’re sure to find all of your family’s favorites. To help make sure of this, they put together an approximate ripening guide. Admission, parking and bags are free and apples are $33.95 per bag (but you can eat all the apples you wish as you pick for free). Apple picking season this year starts the first week of September and goes into mid October. Open 9 am to 5 pm, daily.

Fishkill Farms

9 Fishkill Farm Road, Hopewell Junction, NY 12533

845-897-4377

(1 hr 30 min from Midtown)

Fishkill Farms has been part of the Morgenthau family for over 100 years and invites your family for the apple picking season. This 270-acre apple orchard offers a variety of fruits and vegetables throughout the year that you can pick. Stop by for their apple picking season in the months of September and October. Open 9 am to 4:45 pm on Tuesdays to Sundays, by reservation only.

Over an Hour and a Half Apple Dave’s Orchard

82 Four Corners Road, Warwick, NY 10990

845-986-1684

(1 hr 40 min from Midtown)

Start your apple picking at Apple Dave’s Orchards and take home a variety of apples like McIntosh, Cortland, Honeycrisp, Gala, Empire, Jonagold, Rome Beauty, Red Delicious, Macoun, Fuji and Golden Delicious. Visit their farm store where they have fresh-pressed apple cider, apple donuts, pies, flowers and seasonal items. Admission is $5 per adult and children over five.

Harbes Family Farm

5698 Sound Ave, Riverhead, NY 631-683-8388

(2 hrs from Midtown)

The star attraction at the 78-acre Harbes Family Farm is the beautiful apple orchard. Featuring 27 different varieties, the orchard uses an innovative trellis system to grow apples that are within reach of even the smallest of hands. On weekends and holidays they offer pig races, singing hayride tours, and more. Plus, Harbes Barnyard Adventure (a paid admission area of Harbes Family Farm) has eight acres of attractions where you can discover farm animals as well as enjoy the Gnome Hedge Maze, trike track, Jumbo Jumpers, and so much more.

Bishop’s Orchards

1355 Boston Post Road, Guilford, CT 06437 203-453-2338

(2 hrs from Midtown)

Bishop’s Orchards takes pride in growing the highest quality fruits from their family to yours. They grow over 20 varieties of apples that suit all your needs for cooking, gifts, or a quick snack on the go. At their pick-your-own locations, they offer 8 quart bags for $22 and 1/2 bushel bags for $40. Bishop’s Orchards also has an ice cream stand, featuring delicious flavors, sundaes, ice cream sandwiches and their specialty, the Bishop’s Blitz!

Hank’s PumpkinTown

240 Montauk Hwy, Water Mill, NY 11976 631-726-4667

(2 hrs from Midtown)

Hank’s PumpkinTown is well-known to families for its amazing apple picking and over 30 acres of fall family fun! It costs $30 to pick one peck (about 10 pounds of apples), after you’ve had your fill of picking, wander over to the wooden playground, maze park, face painting, and gem mining. The Market has freshly baked pies, cookies, cupcakes, candy apples and ever-popular cider donuts.

Alyce in l aughland

Alyce Chan (better known as @momcomnyc) on the roundabout path that led her to comedy, how she carves out time for her creative work, and why her weirdness is her superpower

by CRIS pe ARl S teIn

Let me paint a picture for you: It was a beautiful Sunday morning. Not only was it not raining, but the sun was shining and it wasn’t too hot yet. I was sitting at the table on my patio drinking a cup of hot coffee. And though I was physically alone (read: no kids), virtually I was in great conversation with comedian Alyce Chan. You might know her as @momcomnyc, where her Reels about motherhood and parenting young children are comedy gold. Alyce was telling me about the round about path that led her to comedy, how she carves out moments for her creative work, and why her weirdness is her superpower. As a mom of two (including a newborn) the fact that I was enjoying a hot cup of coffee on a sunny day with someone like Alyce was downright idyllic. There’s nothing that puts me at ease quite like commiserating with another mom about the ups and downs of motherhood. Just as I felt my shoulders relaxing, as I shook off the exhaustion from the middle-of-the-night feedings, all of a sudden the door to my kitchen opened and a little voice from behind me interrupted our chat. “Mama, I have to go poop.” I looked at Alyce and we both laughed.

CP: I have to go poop. I mean, is that perfect material for you or what?

AC: Totally. I love it. I love that you’re in the thick of it. I’m a little out of it now, I don’t have to wipe. We just have to remind them.

CP: Yeah, I feel like that’s the next hurdle of her independence. I tell her she can go anywhere and do

anything in life if she can wipe her own butt.

AC: Oh, I love that motto. Survival skills for sure.

CP: So, tell me about your family.

AC: I have two boys who were fighting horrendously this morning, nine and six years old. We live in the suburbs and my husband works from home. I was born in California and moved to Canada when I was a baby, so I identify as a Canadian. Then I moved to New York. It was supposed to be a one-year stint, then it became 18 years. So I’m stuck here.

CP: How did you get your start in comedy? How did @momcomnyc come to be?

AC: I studied economics and I thought I’d go into either business or accounting or whatever. Then I worked at a bank for five years, and my parents were proud of that. And then I quit to do a one year intensive school in graphic design, web design and filmmaking. I moved to New York for a graphic design job, and then took acting classes. I was always kind of a lazy actor—I took acting classes, and I would do headshots, but only mail out like five or 10. You’re supposed to mail out hundreds to different agencies. But I also knew I’m in my late 20s, I’m Asian, no one’s going to hire me as the star of a movie or a TV show. I’d just be cast for commercials and that’s not my dream, so I quit acting school but I started doing improv comedy. I loved comedy, but I wasn’t good at improv. Someone told me to try stand-up instead, so I took a class at Caroline’s, at Gotham’s Comedy Club, and Comedy Cellar.

CP: Those are like the three best clubs in New York City.

AC: Right. The first show I did was at Caroline’s,

Photo by yumi m atsuo

Photo by yumi m atsuo

and there was a comedian named Judah Friedlander, he worked on 30Rock. He does 20 minutes on stage, killed it. I had no idea who he was but we were talking before my set. I was like, How long have you been doing this? Oh, wow, 22 years. Good for you . And then I did my set and bombed. The manager of the club gave me some tips to make it better, but then said, I just want to let you know Judah Friedlander stayed for your set, he hardly stays for anyone’s set, and he said that you had good content . So because of that, I felt like I should keep going. And then we became friends afterwards.

CP: It’s amazing what a few kind, encouraging words can do right?

AC: So I kept going, and I did all these really bad shows. Open mics are hard because it’s after work, sometimes it’d be in the back room of a bar, which at 6pm is like, super quiet. Maybe there’s two dudes there. And then it got harder when I was pregnant with my first and I was in a room with guys who are 20-somethings. I was like, I don’t think I want to do this anymore. So I stopped for three and a half years and it was all about me and my baby. But I felt like something was missing. I started to do graphic design again, and photography. And then I had my second baby. And I still felt like there was something missing. We lived in Greenpoint, a block away there was a comedy show going on. I walked by every month, and every Friday night was an all-women’s open mic.

CP: Just for context, what year is this?

AC: It was 2017. So I went to a show. My son was like, three months at that point. You know, newborn phase, you’re going crazy, with your second especially, and I felt all these feelings resurfacing. I felt like I had to do comedy again. I go talk to the host like, Hi, I used to do comedy. And she’s like, Okay, when do you want to perform? And I was like, Wait, what, me? Okay, when do you have available? And she’s like, How about two months from now? So I start going to open mics again, just to kind of get my brain back, and then I did the show. I had some friends come and I loved the feeling again.

CP: How does your content at that point compare to the content you were doing before you had your kid?

AC: Great question. Same content. I was doing cat content, ex boyfriend content. Totally not me. I had no new content, I was just reverting to the way I was prior to being a mom. I had good dirty jokes. Dirty jokes always fly, always. It’s never the best way because they’re cheap jokes.

After a four year hiatus, I figured if no one’s gonna put me in their show I’m going to produce my own show. I thought it would be nice if I could do comedy with my baby, and other moms could also bring their babies. So I thought of BYOB: Bring Your Own Baby comedy. I put that idea to a bookstore in Greenpoint and they said yes. They have a children’s section

and a performance stage. I made it so that women felt supported and safe in a place where they could breastfeed their baby, formula feed their baby, change the diapers in the middle of a set, have the baby even crawl up to the stage without anyone batting an eye. I had sanitized toys, cookies for the moms. I wanted to take care of the moms because I know what moms need. And I felt like at that point in my life I wanted to mother new moms.

It took me a while to figure out what I needed in my life and I felt like connection was the key. The key to surviving motherhood is connection to community. At the end of the show women were hanging out, they weren’t leaving, they’re talking and I loved seeing that. And it wasn’t about making money. It was just watching a community build and watching moms getting that attention and support that they needed. And that filled my bucket.

CP: So did your content change from those first open mics?

AC: I was wearing my baby. I started doing jokes about my husband, and about having two kids, about the babies. As you know, there’s so much content, so much material. Very soon all that old material took a backseat because that wasn’t me anymore. These shows were for parents so now my jokes have to relate to them. It forced me to really be present about my life. How can I make it funny and make fun of myself. For two years I went on every month, and it became a sold out thing. The comics I had in the show were amazing. They were always available because no one’s doing comedy at 10 in the morning, right? Comics that were on Jimmy Fallon, David Letterman, HBO, they all said yes. It was perfect for everybody. And then the pandemic hit, we moved to the suburbs and it was over. That’s when I started my Instagram. Just write some jokes, do some memes. And then the woman behind @SnarkyBreeders asked me to join a shared group. I was very suspicious, I didn’t know what it was. But she shared one post and then my account started growing. Then other Instagram moms start sharing my stuff. And then after maybe two years @ScaryMommy asked me to create content for them. The pandemic forced me to do Reels, that’s when I started to create videos. I was trapped in a house, what else can I do to keep sane? I started making fun of remote learning, making fun of my husband working from home, just doing stupid silly skits. And it took off from there.

CP: I’m curious about your creative process, how you draw from your real life. Is it the kind of thing where in the moment you’re like, this is gold? Or does it

“ i started doing jokes about my husband, and about having two kids, about the babies. t here’s so much content, so much material.”

Funny People

Check out some of Alyce’s favorite IG follows — get ready to laugh.

@nicoletravolta — Her impersonations have me keeling over. She does a great Jennifer Coolidge. Follow her if you want a good belly laugh.

@stonecolddaddy — paul is super honest about parenthood, the way he talks about his kids has me rolling. Follow him if you want a dad’s (hilarious) perspective.

@snarkybreeders — One of the first accounts I followed when I started my journey on the gram. Her memes are edgy, raw and will have you laughing out loud. Follow her to feel like you’re doing an incredible job at parenting.

@thehustlingmama — We stalked each other on social media and then met in real life at a mom conference. She has such range: sometimes she’ll put a comedic twist on her family stories and sometimes it’s a tearjerker straight from the heart. Follow her if you like family adventures.

@saraheika — this woman is phenomenal! She is a dance instructor and choreographer who cleverly mixes her dancing and fitness tips into easy and entertaining bite-sized content. Follow her if you love dance and feel-good family moments.

come later with reflection?

AC: It’s both. Sometimes it’s in the moment. I’ll see my kids fighting and I’ll know this is good. I’ll remember some of the quotes. Or I’ll look back, like this morning. What did they do? Oh, the fight, that’s really relatable. Okay, I’m going to do something like that. I don’t write a lot down, I just keep it in the back of my head. I bank it until everyone’s out of the house— and that’s when I start filming. I don’t even write out the script. I’ll record maybe 10 lines, and I’ll use one of them. The whole magic is really in the editing. Then if it’s missing something, I need to re-record that. It’s a very time consuming process. Some of the most time consuming ones flop. And some of the ones that I’m just doing out of the womb…like, we went to the aquarium and I found myself nagging my kids, don’t touch that don’t touch that . I knew it would be good content so I just pulled out my phone and followed them around. I was parenting them while filming. So as they’re looking at stingrays, I’m like, don’t touch that, don’t touch your face, and then at the gift shop I’m like, nope you can’t have that, nope you can’t have that . I’m just recording myself and I knew it was gold because it was so authentic. No one’s acting. That one took off. It was the most raw, it was blurry, it was half of my face, the back of their heads. But people related to it. I think the gold is when you can really get that sweet spot.

CP: It was so relatable because you think you’re the only parent who lives and breathes saying the word no, right? Like, am I a horrible human because all I do is say no to my child? And then you see someone else do it and you realize you’re not alone.

AC: I’m so glad you said that. At the end of the day,

when you leave my Instagram account, you’re going to feel better about yourself, you will feel less alone in this journey. Because it’s very isolating. Even if you have a great partner. My husband is great, he’ll help but sometimes he’s like, tell me what you need me to do. I’m like, Hey, I can’t manage that. It’s very sweet that you’ll do whatever I tell you, but I can’t have another thing to manage, you’re just gonna have to figure it out yourself. I feel like moms need that, to see this person was struggling. Because we all yell at our kids and feel like the shittiest parent and we’re not making every moment count right now, but that’s okay. Because you’re not supposed to. It’s an impossible task to enjoy every minute. Instagram is a beast, right? You can scroll and feel shitty about yourself. But my account, you will never feel shitty about yourself.

CP: Do you have any advice for parents when it comes to pursuing a creative field. Even if it’s not a profession and it’s just a hobby, just a creative outlet.

AC: Such a good question. I feel like first and foremost is to really get time to yourself. I know it’s a cliche but fill your bucket. Seriously, if you don’t have your bucket filled and you’re not taking care of yourself, you’re not going to know what you want in terms of your career, passion or even hobbies. Physically, I feel like you need to leave the house. You can’t force your family to leave the house, but you can get yourself to the train station. Take a walk, get in the car. Sometimes I’ll go grocery shopping and I end up in the parking lot for 40 minutes getting a lot done.

CP: That’s a great tip, even though it’s kind of sad (laughs).

AC: Oh, it’s so sad. But hey, you take whatever you can get. And enjoy every moment when you’re by yourself because you’re needed and wanted as soon as you walk in the house. The kids, they sense that you’re there. Even when you go to the bathroom, that’s not your alone time. No, you need to go to a public bathroom to get time. You need to drive to the mall, get into a public bathroom stall and then have your alone time in peace.

CP: (laughs) Set up your station and work.

AC: Yeah, exactly. Get a stall, that’s your coworking space now.

CP: I love that you referred to filling a bucket instead of filling a cup. Because I feel thinking of it as a cup, like it’s this pathetic little thing that we only get this much . I love the idea of thinking of it as a bucket to fill, a giant bucket. A lot of your videos make fun of parenting in the 80s or 90s versus parenting now. I’m curious about your take on the concept of back to school. How has it changed from when we were kids to now?

AC: You know what? You just inspired me to make a Reel and that’s how it happens.

CP: I feel honored.

AC: I used to wake up by myself, I don’t know if I even had breakfast. I got dressed myself and I remember I would always wear the same outfit, like three days in a row, until my older sister would tell me to change. We would always have the same sandwiches, right? A bologna sandwich. We ate that sandwich, crust or no crust. Kids these days. I’m hand delivering the kid to the teacher, like our hands are touching, like delivering pizza. And I’m like, alright, I’ll just go hide in the bushes to monitor them during recess. I’m always early to pick up, I’ve timed it. After 86 times circling the school, pick up time. I think we want to do better than the last generation. I know I do. Gentle parenting works. I make fun of it, but it does work. Parenting nowadays is the hardest, because we’re breaking generational trauma. We no longer have the excuse of I didn’t know better. A lot of people say, My parents did the best they could, they didn’t know better We can’t say that.

CP: Comedy is a creative career. How do you foster that same creative spirit in your kids?

AC: I really try to let them see that side of me that’s always been labeled weird. When I was a kid, I was called weird and it did a lot of damage to me mentally and emotionally. But as soon as I became a mother, especially once I turned 40, I was just like, Who gives a shit about what other people think? That weirdness is really what makes you stand out from everybody else. I want them to know that if they’re ever called out about anything that makes them different, that they can embrace it. They see me be really stupid and silly and weird. I’ll dance in front of them and be really goofy. They’ve seen my videos, they understand what I do somewhat. Even my nine year old, I could sense he’s very creative, so sometimes I ask him for an idea, a concept that’s funny. But he needs incentive so I pay him.

CP: I love that. How do you think your “weirdness” and your creativity are linked?

AC: Being called weird will still triggers thoughts and feelings I had when I was a kid. But it no longer gets to me nor do I feel ashamed. Now, I really do embrace it because I truly believe that’s what makes me stand out as a comedian. Weird means nonconventional and not ordinary. Who wants to be boring? People describe people being weird when they can’t quite pinpoint what it is, but they know that person is different. Being weird got me noticed by popular parenting and online platforms, Scary Mommy, Vogue, PureWow just to name a few. They

appreciated the comedy I was delivering. It was fresh and something new they hadn’t seen. If you’ve been called weird, it means there’s something unique about you. You have to find out what that is, harness it and express that in some art form. For me, having unique perspectives even on the most mundane things can be gold for comedy.

CP: What’s your advice for a parent whose kid comes home saying they were called weird at school?

AC: The first thing I would say is, “Wow I’m so glad they noticed you are different and not ordinary like everybody else.” Then I would ask how they felt. I think if anyone called my kids weird I’d want to hear from them what differences they think they have that makes them stand out. I would tell them it’s a good thing because that’s what makes you YOU. No one wants to be the same as everybody else. That’s boring.

“ if you’ve been called weird, it means there’s something unique about you. You have to find out what that is, harness it and express that in some art form.”

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kids concert in bella abzug Park

wHen : tuesday, Sept. 5, 10:30–11:15am

wHere: bella Abzug park, 542 W 36th St., midtown

ageS: All

wHaT: Dance along to the family friendly sounds of mike messer.

wanT To go?: Free. eventbrite.com

Double Dutch

wHen : thursdays, 6:30–7:30pm, through Sept. 28.

wHere: Garibaldi plaza at Washington Square park, east Village

ageS: All

wHaT: Learn the fundamentals of street-style and competitive jump rope from the Double Dutch Aunties!

wanT To go?: Free. nycgovparks.org

back to School: Silent Disco

wHen : Friday, Sept. 8, 6–8:30pm

wHere: teardrop park, 175 North end Avenue, battery park City

ageS: All

wHaT: Celebrate the new school year with a silent disco dance party featuring hottest beats coming to you through light-up headphones.

wanT To go?: Free. bpca. ny.gov

family garden Tour and Seed mosaic

wHen : Sunday, Sept. 10, 10:30–11:30am

wHere: the morgan Library & museum, 225 madison Ave., midtown

ageS: All

wHaT: See plants important to the Lenape and learn about the

life cycle of plants, how seeds are preserved, and participate in making a seed mosaic.

wanT To go?: $13-$22; free for children 12 and younger. (212) 685–0008, themorgan. org

Summer on the Hudson: west Side county fair

wHen : Sunday, Sept. 10, 1–6pm

wHere: pier I in riverside park South, West 70th Street, Upper West Side

ageS: All

wHaT: enjoy a full day of county fair magic with live bands, sideshow performers, carnival rides and games, local food, vendors, cotton candy,

and more!

wanT To go?: Free. nycgovparks.org

Table of Silence Project 9/11

wHen : monday, Sept. 11, 8:05am

wHere: Lincoln Center, Josie robertson plaza, 10 Lincoln Center plaza, Lincoln Square

ageS: All

wHaT: this annual performance commemorates the loss of life and honors the bravery of all individuals affected by acts of terror, war and oppression of freedom.

wanT To go?: Free. lincolncenter.org

The feast of San gennaro

wHen : Sept. 14-24, see website for complete schedule.

wHere: mulberry Street, Little Italy

ageS: All

wHaT: Head to Little Italy for this iconic event celebrating Italian culture and traditions.

wanT To go?: Free. sangennaronyc.org

Sholom Sprouts rosh Hashanah

wHen : Saturday, Sept. 16, 8:45–9:30am

wHere: Congregation rodeph Sholom, 7 West 83rd Street, Upper West Side

check out the “a rt of circus” at tribeca performing a rts center on s ept. 30.

ageS: 4 and under

wHaT: Welcome the Jewish New Year with singing, dancing, stories, shofarblowing, and more.

wanT To go?: $18; free for children. rodephsholom.org

mozart for munchkins at Hudson yards

wHen : Saturday, Sept. 23, 11am–12pm

wHere: backyard at Hudson Yards, public Square & Gardens, 20 Hudson Yards, Chelsea

ageS: 3 – 12

wHaT: play, sing, and dance together to music from bach to bernstein, beethoven to bluegrass, and tchaikovsky to thelonious monk.

wanT To go?: Free. hudsonyardsnewyork.com

cirque-tacular and Dca Productions present “art of circus”

wHen : Saturday, Sept. 30, 3–5pm

wHere: bmCC tribeca performing Arts Center, 199 Chambers St., tribeca

ageS: All

wHaT: enter the worlds and iconic works of Da Vinci, Van Gogh, Warhol, and more in an acrobatic fantasy vision in this live art museum!

wanT To go?: $40. tribecapac.org

alice in wonderland the musical

wHen : Sept. 30-Nov. 5, Saturdays, 3–4pm and 7–8pm; Sundays, 11am–12pm and 2–3pm.

wHere: the players theatre, 115 macDougal St., Greenwich

Village

ageS: All

wHaT: tumble down the rabbit hole with the wonderfully wild, wacky and whimsical cast of characters in the musical adaptation of Alice in Wonderland.

wanT To go?: $42-$62. Literallyalive.com

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Dig! Plant! grow! The Three Sisters

wHen : Sept. 12-Oct. 6, tuesdays-Saturdays, 1:30–5:30pm, Sundays and monday Holidays, 10am–5:30pm

wHere: New York botanical Garden, 2900 Southern blvd.

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ageS: All

wHaT: Learn about corn, squash and beans—the three Sisters—and the “fourth sister,” sunflowers, in our own garden and in Native American traditions and take home a seed craft.

wanT To go?: $4-$35; free for members and children younger than 2. (718) 817–8700, nybg.org

woodlawn family fun

Day 2023

wHen : Saturday, Sept. 23, 1–4pm

wHere: Indian Field in Van Cortlandt park, east 233 St. between Jerome Ave. and Van Cortlandt park east, bronx

ageS: All

wHaT: enjoy a day of family fun with music, face painting, crats, nature walks, and more.

wanT To go?: Free. eventbrite.com

Pumpkin nights

wHen : Sept. 28-Oct. 29, thursdays – Sundays, 6–10pm

wHere: bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern boulevard, bronx ageS: All

wHaT: this ALL Ne W nighttime family Halloween event features an animalthemed illuminated jack o’lantern trail, games and treats.

wanT To go?: $34.95; $24.95 ages 3-12; free for children 2 and younger. bronxzoo.com

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kids art class

wHen : Sundays, 12pm, ongoing

wHere: Anyone Comics, 1216 Union Street, South Slope ageS: 8 – 13

wHaT: this art class teaches the fundamentals of comics creation including character design, shading, page layouts, and more, with indie comic creator raymond Salvador.

wanT To go?: $15. anyonecomics.com

The rock and roll Playhouse Plays the music of bruce Springsteen for kids back to School bash

wHen : Sunday, Sept. 10, 12:30 pm

wHere: brooklyn bowl, 61 Wythe Ave., Williamsburg ageS: All

wHaT: Start off the school year right with the music of bruce Springsteen.

wanT To go?: $16. (718) 963–3369, brooklynbowl.com

Hot wheels monster

Trucks live glow Party

wHen : Saturday, Sept. 30, 12:30 – 2:30 pm & 7:30 – 9:30 pm.

wHere: barclays Center, 620 Atlantic Avenue, boerum Hill ageS: All

wHaT: experience the thrill of watching your favorite Hot Wheels monster trucks in the DArK with a dazzling dance party, spectacular laser light shows and Hot Wheels toy giveaways.

wanT To go?: tickets start at $36.73. hotwheelsmonstertruckslive.com

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nyc unicycle festival 2023

wHen : Saturday, Sept. 2, 12 – 5 pm

wHere: Seven Gables playground, Oceania St. & 210th St., Oakland Gardens ageS: All

wHaT: this annual event offers a learn-to-ride area, unicycle demos, games and relays. wanT To go?: Free. nycunifest.com

Queens county fair

wHen : Sept. 8, 6 – 9 pm; Sept. 9 & 10, 11 am – 6 pm.

wHere: Queens County Farm museum, 75-50 Little Neck parkway, Glen Oaks ageS: All

wHaT: Celebrate the 40th anniversary of the Fair with pie eating and corn husking contests, hayrides, carnival rides, midway games, and rides.

wanT To go?: $15-$70. (718) 347–3276, queensfarm.org