Dad’s Day Out
Anne Malinoski
What he really wants this Father’s Day I struggle to make Father’s Day special for my husband, largely because we disagree on the definition of “special.” For instance, I have specific, lavish expectations for Mother’s Day: A hollandaise-soaked brunch followed by hours of peace to luxuriate in my books—far out of range of the children’s snack and juice requests. My husband is much more practical and content by nature. One Father’s Day, I gave him a PowerPoint outlining our favorite things about him. He said it was the best gift of his life—and I believe him because he cried a little. If you’re looking to impress Dad this year, take time to consider what special means to him. Does he want to go on a family outing? Or would he really appreciate some alone time? Here’s a quick guide to get you started.
A Day with the Kids If Dad wants to make memories with the kids this Father’s Day, skip the restaurant and enjoy some active time as a family. Keep it simple with a hike, bike or picnic. Better yet, branch out and teach the kids something new. Dad can play coach as the children attempt his favorite obscure sport. Racquetball or footgolf, anyone?
Dad Squad Now that they all have families, Dad probably spends less time with his friends. Encourage them to reconnect with a day on the water. Sailing San Diego Bay is a great choice for bonding and relaxing. Rent a sailboat or have one chartered. They can share snacks, drinks and great music along with stunning views of the city skyline and Coronado Bridge. Go big and book a fishing excursion for extra fun.
16 • SanDiegofamily.com • June 2019
