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As new parents you need to be very aware of each other’s needs right now.

Mothers are often so overwhelmed with caring for a new baby that they don’t have much energy left for the couple relationship. Dads, on the other hand, may not get to enjoy the baby as much and may feel deprived of both their mate and their expectations of what fatherhood would be like.

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t’s not easy to come up with gift ideas. It is really not easy to come up with gift ideas for older relatives. Top-level difficulty is thinking of gifts that kids can give to older relatives. Yes, there are the typical items, like watercolor-painted popsicle stick picture frames with sequins and other doo-dads glued on. That’s cute once or twice, but no one wants one every year! Kids can paint a coffee mug for Grandma and Grandad, but if there is more than one grandchild in the family, they’re probably up to their necks in hand-painted mugs all ready.

So, what else is there? The Pinterest mavens of the world will have no trouble sourcing ideas and materials.

However, some parents aren’t crafty and don’t have a stockpile of craft supplies handy or space to do projects.

With all this in mind, Parents Press has compiled a local list of places where kids can go make nice, special things for all the Omas, Opas, Nai Nais, Yeyes, Grammys, Memaws, Bubbies, Zaydehs and Poppas.

It’s totally possible to get a bunch of families to go in on reserving a Michaels party room and then chose from their thousands of projects and pay a per-head amount for kids to make something. Michaels will set it all up, teach the craft and do the cleanup.

Contact a local Michaels for more information.

helpful for busy families. Workshops are also available. Wouldn’t Grandad be shocked to receive a handmade end table?

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Yes, believe it or not, they have oneday sewing project lessons for kids!

Kids can make pajama pants, zippered pouches, tote bags, etc., with machines and instructors provided by the store, and they can pick out fabric that gives it a personal touch. Look up Jo-Ann stores nearby to see the dates and times.

Michaels Craft Store – Multiple Locations

Older elementary-school-age kids and teens can not just make a gift but learn skills in wood carving and glass blowing, and even welding and blacksmithing, at this super-cool educational center. Weekend classes are

Michaels has craft classes for multiple age levels, with take-home projects, but they also host craft parties.

The Richmond Art Center isn’t just a great gallery. They have weekend and weekday classes for all ages, and even free one-day, take-home project classes. Last year, my kids made their own stationery and learned backstrap weaving. They can also learn how to shibori dye some nice dinner napkins for Grandma, or do some prints on a tote or T-shirt. Ceramics are also available, but not limited to mugs!

Richmond Art Center, 2540 Barrett Ave., Richmond. 510-620-6772, www. richmondartcenter.org

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Color Me Mine – Multiple Locations This is for a quick, last-minute gift or a gift “from” a new baby in the family.

No need to sign up for classes or spend a whole day making something. This place has many paintable items to choose from, including infant handand footprint impression keepsakes.

There are mugs, but there are many other choices too! www.colormemine.com

I Made It Glass – San Rafael I Made It Glass is a super-cool place that allows anyone to create art using bits of glass on a glass base, like mosaic, but then it gets heated and pressed together to make an amazing fused glass creation. There are many projects to choose from. Items will need to be picked up at a later date, so plan accordingly!

I Made It Glass, 1938 4th St., San Rafael.

628-234-1005, www.imadeitglass.com

The Butterfly Joint – San Francisco The Butterfly Joint is a woodworking studio for kids, including toddlers.

While they have camps and ongoing classes, they also have private lessons where kids can learn hands on to make cutting boards, book caddies, small boxes, cheese boards, bud vases, etc. That’s an impressive gift for the relatives! There are classes for grownups too, so make it a family thing.

The Butterfly Joint, 4411 Cabrillo St., San Francisco. 415-894-2685, www. thebutterflyjoint.com

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By Erika Mailman

On the Go State Capital Entertains and Educates

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ould your kid like to walk the aisles of a gently moving night train,with lights passing by in the windows? The California State Railroad Museum in Sacramento lets you experience this simulated ride, with a motor moving the sleeping car to make you think you’re really moving.

The train museum offers much more, with many engines to climb on, a mockup of the famous snow sheds that let trains penetrate through the Sierra during winter and even a hands-on area with every Thomas the Tank Engine toy you ever wanted to play with. https://www.californiarailroad. museum/ Within walking distance of the train museum (and Old Town Sacramento, if you wish to have lunch in a charming 1800s district with wooden sidewalks) is the Sacramento History Museum, which interprets the city’s history from its Native American beginnings to Gold Rush flushness and beyond. Older kids will want to check out the museum’s Sacramento Underground tour, which explores the city’s original level before it was built upon because of recurring floods. http://sachistorymuseum.org/

The Crocker Art Museum is a world-class facility with a strong permanent collection and a varied array of visiting exhibitions. Watch for a Diebenkorn exhibit through Jan. 7, among other offerings. The Crocker is great for all ages; check the website in advance to take advantage of artmaking programs. https://www.crockerart.org/ Finally, the capitol building itself is well worth visiting. Take a free guided tour to learn about the legislative chambers, the building’s architecture and artwork—it’s fun to see the gallery of governors’ paintings—and restored historic rooms, like the 1906 offices of “Earthquake Governor” George Pardee. http://capitolmuseum.ca.gov/ On your way back to the Bay Area, you’ll pass through the city of Woodland. Stop at the California Agriculture Museum to see the Heidrick Tractor Collection spanning nearly 90 years of rustic farm equipment yielding to more modern machinery. Learn more about barns, livestock, blacksmithing and even moonshine making. http://www.californiaagmuseum. org/

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Bookshelf Dancing with the Nutcracker A Family Holiday Tradition

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“The Nutcracker,” by Susan Jeffers (HarperCollins; ages 4-8; $16.99; 40 pp.).

Set in Victorian times, this large picture book version of “The Nutcracker” is a beautiful, lush introduction to the story and the ballet. Jeffer’s illustrations bring alive a sense of wonder and enchantment, with their romantic, detail-rich scenes.

oing to see “The Nutcracker” is a holiday tradition for many families.

Introduce the magic of dance with these picture books, and let the power of the moment fill your child’s imagination.

“Bea in the Nutcracker,”

by Rachel Isadora (Nancy Paulsen / Penguin; ages 2-5; $16.99; 32 pp.). Adorable toddler Bea (star of Isadora’s Bea at Ballet) returns in the lead of her dance class’s production of “The Nutcracker,” and the resulting story leads to a perfect introduction of the classic ballet for our youngest readers. Isadora, a former professional dancer, conveys “The Nutcracker’s” magic in a wonderfully child-centered story for the youngest audience.

“Danza! Amalia Hernández and Mexico’s Folklorico Ballet,” by Duncan Tonatiuh (Abrams; ages 4-9; $18.95; 32 pp.). Amalia Hernández studied ballet and modern dance, and she blended these styles with folkloric danzas she saw as a child in Mexico City. Forming her own small company, she traveled throughout Mexico to research and create dances that intertwined Mexico’s many traditional and indigenous danzas with modern dance styles. A beautiful, stylistic picture book biography.

“Flora & the Flamingo,” by Molly Idle (Chronicle; ages 4-8; $16.99; 32 pp.).

This unique wordless picture book is filled with the joy of dance. Endearing Flora at first just imitates and annoys the flamingo, but she slowly makes a friend, and the two create a graceful duet. Young readers love the movement revealed as they lift the flaps and turn the pages. Winner of the 2014 Caldecott Honor Award.

“Lupita’s First Dance / El Primer Baile de Lupita,” by Lupe Ruiz-Flores, illustrated by Gabhor Utomo (Piñata / Arte Publico; ages 5-8; $17.95; 32 pp.).

First-grader Lupita can’t wait to dance La Raspa, a Mexican folk dance, in this bilingual story that celebrates the joy of performing. When her partner sprains his ankle, Lupita must decide whether to sit out from the performance or to go on alone. Children will relate to Lupita’s anxiety and delight in the final outcome.

“The Nutcracker,” illustrations by Niroot Puttapipat, text adapted by Kate Davies (Candlewick; ages 6-10; $19.99; 12 pp.). The original Nutcracker story is skillfully retold in this picture book, but it’s the illustrations that will draw readers to this version. Puttapipat sets black cut-paper silhouette figures against jewel-toned scenes, creating a sense of the formal ballet and the intimate, magical story. The longer text makes this more suited for older children. The climax, as Clara and her prince enter the Sugar Plum Fairy’s castle, reveals itself in a majestic popup spread.

“The Nutcracker Comes to America: How Three BalletLoving Brothers Created a Holiday Tradition,” by Chris Barton, illustrated

by Cathy Gendron (Millbrook; ages 6-10; $19.99; 35 pp.). When the three Christensen brothers learned ballet, they not only fell in love with dance, they also loved the show-stopping way it entranced audiences. Fast-forward to the 1940s, when the brothers were in charge of the San Francisco Ballet, searching for a big-ticket production and they staged the first American full-length production of what was soon to become an American tradition. Terrific nonfiction set right here in San Francisco.

$17.99; 32 pp.) The vibrant Harlem Renaissance makes a grand setting for this charming reimagining of the classic Nutcracker story. Marie shyly watches as her beautiful Harlem home fills with music and dancing on Christmas Eve, but she can’t bring herself to perform.

When she falls asleep and begins to dream, she finds her courage and her voice as she defends the Nutcracker from the army of uniformed mice.

Ransome’s lyrical illustrations bring the Jazz Age to life.

“Swan: The Life and Dance of Anna Pavlova,” by Laurel Snyder, illustrated

by Julie Morstad (Chronicle; ages 5-9; $17.99; 44 pp.). With beautiful, graceful illustrations and poetic text, this book captures the spirit and charm of one of history’s prima ballerinas. Although Anna was born to a poor family in Czarist Russia, she was determined to become a ballerina. Young children will revel in this resolve, but it’s the imagery that will stay with them in their dreams.

Mary Ann Scheuer is a teacher librarian at Berkeley Unified School District. Find more books Mary Ann recommends sharing with children at her blog, Great Kid Books, http:// greatkidbooks.blogspot.com.

“The Nutcracker in Harlem,” by T.E. McMorrow, illustrated by James Ransom (HarperCollins; ages 4-8;

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“Firebird,” by Misty Copeland, illustrated by Christopher Myers (G.P. Putnam’s Sons / Penguin; ages 6-10; $17.99; 32 pp.). When a discouraged African-American girl looks up to her idol—ballet star Misty Copeland—the older dancer reassures her, saying, “darling child, don’t you know / you’re just where I started.” Their imagined conversation develops as the young child takes center stage. The blend of soaring illustrations and inspiring words will encourage many young dancers.

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Berkeley Ballet Theater Presents: The Nutcracker PERFORMED IN OAKLAND For more than thirty years, BBT’s The Nutcracker has been a community favorite. Called “More touching than San Francisco Ballet’s performance” by New York Times dance critic Alastair MacCaulay, BBT’s version of the ballet’s storyline is an extension of the school’s commitment to bringing good things to those less fortunate.

Tickets $35 Friday, December 15 – 7PM Saturday, December 16 – 11AM*, 3PM, 7PM Sunday , December 17 – 11AM*, 3PM *Performances include post-show Sugar Plum Fairy Parties where audience members are welcomed onstage to meet the dancers (separate admission required; $10 per child).

Regents’ Theater at Holy Names University, 3500 Mountain Blvd., Oakland.

510-843-4687, www.berkeleyballet.org.

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Every year the Berkeley City Ballet stages an elaborate production of the Nutcracker. The BCB Nutcracker features a cast of over 40 dancers with elegant costumes and sets. Dancers from November 2017 area professional companies augment the cast. Berkeley City Amy Neiman Design Amy Neiman Ballets Nutcracker has an outstanding reputation as one of the 1820 Tenth Street, Berkeleyfew 94710traditional, full-length, productions of the holiday favorite in (510) 649-7787 the East Bay. Berkeley City Ballet $25 for Adults, $20 Seniors/Students/Staff, $15 Children 12 and under.

Elizabeth Godfrey December 17-18, 1pm & 5pm. Smith Center Ohlone College, 43600 Mission (510) 841-8913 Blvd. Fremont 510-659-6031, www.berkeleycityballet.org.

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Oakland Ballet Company Presents Graham Lustig’s “The Nutcracker”

Tickets from $31. Show from Dec. 10-29. Cowell Theater at Fort Mason Center. www.nutcrackersweets.org.

Marin Ballet’s Nutcracker

OAKLAND Oakland Ballet Company’s spritely and colorful version of this holiday classic is a holiday tradition that is fun for then entire family. Brimming with holiday magic, this is the Nutcracker to see!. With live music by the Oakland Symphony and Mt. Eden High School Womens’ Ensemble. $23-90 for adults with discounts for Seniors, children, and groups. Showings Saturday December 17 at 1:00 pm and 5:00 pm; December 18 at 2:00 pm.

Paramount Theatre, 2025 Broadway, Oakland. 510-893-3132, www.oaklandballet.org.

Dance-Along Nutcracker®: The Fantastic Adventures of Captain Nutcracker!

SAN FRANCISCO The 31st Dance-Along Nutcracker®: The Fantastic Adventures of Captain Nutcracker! Clara and her brother Fritz will take you on a wild adventure into the world of villains and superheroes. Named “Best Bets for Holiday Dance,” the Dance–Along Nutcracker® is a zany audience participation show perfect for the whole family.

$18 for children, students & seniors. $30 for adults. Saturday, December 10 at 3pm and 7pm; Sunday, December 11th at 11am and 3pm. Yerba Buena Center For The Arts Forum, 701 Mission St., San Francisco. 415-978-2787, www.sflgfb.townalive.com.

San Francisco Ballet’s Nutcracker

SAN RAFAEL This is a pretty epic performance with 175 super-talented dancers shipped in from all over the state and country. There’s a special Candy Cane party after the 1p.m. Saturday and Sunday shows.

Dec. 10 and 11. Showtimes at 1 p.m. and 5 p.m. $43 for adults, $27 for seniors and youth. All ages. Marin Veterans Memorial Auditorium, 10 Avenue Of The Flags, San Rafael. 415-453-6705, www.marinballet.org.

Stapleton Ballet Nutcracker SAN RAFAEL The vibrant, lavish Stapleton Ballet Nutcracker provides a magical start to the holiday season! Now in its 28th year, this production features inspired dancing, beautifully crafted sets and exquisite costumes. Artistic Director Virginia Stapleton’s engaging production is designed to delight audiences young and old and features guest artists performing with over 250 dancers from the Stapleton School of Performing Arts. Complimentary meet and greet with costumed characters after 1:00 p.m. matinees.

1 and 5 p.m. Dec. 3 and 4. Marin Center, 10 Avenue of the Flags, San Rafael. 415-454-5759 (Box Office: 415-473-6800). www.stapletonschool.org.

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SAN FRANCISCO This is the classic, real-deal. Dress up and arrive an hour prior to curtain for photo ops with the cast.

Show from Dec. 10-29. Ages 5 and up. Please check the website for times and tickets prices. War Memorial Opera House, 301 Van Ness Ave., San Francisco. 415-865-2000, www.sfballet.org.

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Mark Foehringer’s “Nutcracker Sweets” SAN FRANCISCO This 50-minute condensed version of the classic ballet is perfect for tiny and squirmy ballet lovers. The cast and crew will meet, greet and pose for pictures after the show, so bring a camera!

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The 31st Annual Christmas Revels: A Revels Christmas In Wales

We Are One - Oakland Youth Chorus’s 42nd Annual Holiday Concert

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This year, the California Revels is “coming home” to Wales. Even though we’ve never been there before, there is much about Welsh culture and customs that feels familiar and comforting. Set in the 1920’s childhood village of the great Welsh poet Dylan Thomas, our show will evoke the spirit of family gathered ‘round the hearth, and villagers singing in the glow of the blazing yule log.

Featured performers this year include Robert Sicular, Kevin Carr, Susan Rode Morris, James Galileo and Margaret Davis.

Tickets priced $20-$60 with discounts for patrons under 25. December 9-11 & 16-18 Fridays at 8pm, Saturdays & Sundays 1pm & 5pm. Scottish Rite Theater 1547 Lakeside Dr, Oakland. http://californiarevels.org

Join the award-winning singers of the Oakland Youth Chorus in a celebration of the songs, traditions, and diverse cultures that honor and create community. Sing with us as we raise our voices together to empower others and create harmony.

December 10, 2016 @ 6:00 pm. First Presbyterian Church of Oakland 2619 Broadway Oakland. http://oaklandyouthchorus.org

Enchanted Winter Faire

Celebrate creativity and community at the Craneway Crafts Fair…a benefit for KPFA Public Radio on December 17th & 18th at the Craneway Pavilion. The Fair showcases affordable contemporary art and original crafts exhibited by 200 artists, and presents handmade Fair Trade goods from indigenous communities around the world.

December 17, 2016. Admission is $12 (ages 18-64) Senior and Disabled $8, Youth are Free. Craneway Pavilion 1414 Harbour Way S Richmond. http://cranewaycraftsfair.com

BERKELEY Enchanted Winter Faire presented by Berkeley Rose School. Join us for a magical afternoon of storytelling, crafts, children’s games, holiday shopping, and live music! Appropriate for children of all ages.

Free. Dec.3 12pm - 4pm. Berkeley Rose School 2515 Hillegass Ave Berkeley. http://berkeleyrose.org

Berkeley Artisans Holiday Open Studios BERKELEY Over 100 handpicked artists and craftspeople at studios, workshops and galleries in Berkeley, California will open their doors to the public during the 26th annual Berkeley Artisans Holiday Open Studios.

Free. Saturdays and Sundays 11-6 p.m. Weekends, Nov. 26-27 & Dec.3-4, 1011, 17-18 (plus weekdays, Dec. 19-24). Various locations in Berkeley 2547 Eighth Street #24a Berkeley. http://www.berkeleyartisans.com

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Marin Dance Theatre’s “Sophie and The Enchanted Toyshop” SAN RAFAEL Marin Dance Theatre brightens the holiday season once again with its magical holiday performance, “Sophie & the Enchanted Toyshop.” Returning by popular demand for the 20th year, the beloved ballet has been seen by thousands of children and families who have made it a cherished holiday tradition. Over 100 children ages 4-pre-professional perform in the wonderful ballet.

December 17th at 1pm and 5pm. Marin Center, 10 Avenue of the Flags, San Rafael. 415-499-8891 (Box Office: 415-473-6800). http://www.mdt.org

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CELEBRATE THE HOLIDAYS WITH this joyous, familyfriendly tradition. children can meet our dancers at sugar plum fairy parties after the 11am performances on saturday and sunday ($10 per child with accompanying parent or guardian).

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Nutcracker DECEMBER 15-17, 2017 FRIDAY 7PM SATURDAY 11AM, 3PM, & 7PM SUNDAY 11AM & 3PM REGENTS’ THEATER AT HOLY NAMES UNIVERSITY 3500 MOUNTAIN BLVD., OAKLAND, CA 94619 Tickets: berkeleyballet.org/the-nutcracker $35 per seat

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We are an afternoon play-based transitional kindergarten.

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The Quarry Lane School offers an advanced Junior Kindergarten program at our Dublin campus and PreKindergarten programs at our two preschool campuses in Pleasanton.

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HACIENDA (HEADSUP!) CHILD DEVELOPMENT CENTER

With a capacity of 256 children, the center houses an infant-toddler room (0-2), a twos rooms (2-3), five preschool rooms (3-6), including a bilingual ChineseEnglish classroom, and a kindergarten program. There are separate outdoor play yards for every age group. The nationally-recognized design features large windows and spacious indoor play spaces. A partially-covered outdoor play area and radiant heating provide for the children’s comfort, even in extreme weather. Licensed by the State of California (010213411, 010213410), the center is located in the Hacienda Business Park, only a short distance from Interstates 580 and 680.

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Transitional Kindergarten is a full-day program designed for children who are too young or not developmentally ready for Academic Kindergarten. Transitional Kindergarten is the first year of a two-year kindergarten program at Redwood Christian Schools that prepares our students to enter first grade with confidence.

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Offering academic excellence and nurturing care to Albany, El Cerrito, Richmond, and surrounding communities since 1964. Our balanced program includes age-appropriate academics, enriching art and music, creative free play, and potty training. Open yearround with full- and half-day options.

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Our program will prepare your child for kindergarten by introducing letters, numbers and simple math through real life, meaningful interaction. We focus on early literacy and foster independence and creative thinking through a balanced approach to learning.

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FRANCOPHONE CHARTER SCHOOL OF OAKLAND

The Francophone Charter School of Oakland is a French immersion public elementary school serving grades TK through 5th grade in 2017-18. The school that will grow one grade at a time each subsequent year until 8th grade.

The school uses the French language and the many interwoven cultures associated with it to develop bilingual and bi-literate global citizens who are open-minded and value intellectual curiosity, personal integrity and creativity.

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JCC EAST BAY PRESCHOOL

Children in this intimate class express themselves through varied media as they learn. The innovative curriculum will help develop the skills needed to be successful learners. An environment rich in Jewish culture, our children welcome Shabbat and holidays. All are welcome at the JCC! Financial assistance may be available. Transportation available from BUSD.

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TEHIYAH DAY SCHOOL

Meeting the needs of the whole child -- socially, emotionally, cognitively, and beyond -- Tehiyah’s BridgeKindergarten instills self-confidence, a love of learning, and a sense of community through a curriculum rich with Jewish values and traditions.

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ROCKRIDGE MONTESSORI SCHOOL

An academic and developmental program that provides opportunities for children to become engaged in their learning. RMS is committed to helping your child excel in a warm and nurturing environment.

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By Aaron Crowe

Family Cents Starters for early childhood lessons about money

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t’s never too early to start learning about money.

Planning and problem solving, staying focused and waiting for what they want are some of the skills and attitudes that children can work on from a very early age. Here are some activities for early childhood to get children started on the road to learning about money:

Sorting money You can use a real piggy bank and real money, or draw some paper coins and paper piggy banks for children to play simple matching and sorting games.

The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau website has a free sheet on this that includes four drawings of pigs that can be cut out and used to sort money into.

Older toddlers can sort shapes and put them into buckets: a big bucket to put

small shapes into and a small bucket to put big shapes into. The sorting will challenge their inclination to put like with like, requiring them to use their selective attention and working memory.

The CFPB recommends sorting coins in different ways. One piggy bank could be labeled with the values of the coins: 1¢, 5¢, 10¢ and 25¢. Another piggy bank can be labeled to sort the coins by size from smallest to largest. A third can sort them by colors: copper, silver with ridges, silver with no ridges. Coins can also be sorted by year and design.

Take turns with your child sorting coins. Listen to how they explain their thinking and how they get through the exercise to sort each coin. That’s more important than getting the “right” answer every time.

For older children, help them add up the coins to get different combinations to $1, 50¢ or a quarter.

As part of this exercise, talk to your children about what money is and how it’s an object used to buy things. Money can be printed bills or minted coins. Discuss how money has changed and how long ago, people traded items like shells, beads and pieces of metal.

Pretend play Pretending is a common activity that teaches young children how to develop thoughts, attitudes and behaviors for a foundation they’ll use later for their financial well-being.

From age 3 on, children can start to understand that money is used to purchase things, that money is earned by

working and that you can save money and wait to buy things later.

Start a pretend play activity around money by going on a pretend shopping trip with them, visit a bank, open a store or invent a new country with new types of money.

For example, if they’re pretending to go grocery shopping, they can be the customer and you can be the cashier.

You can help them check for prices, look at labels and ask questions about the food. As a cashier, you can ring up their items, provide change and use a calculator.

Using play money can help with these activities. Buy some at a toy store or find some images of play money online and print them out at home. Be sure to have play money in paper and coins.

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After pretend play, take your children shopping with you, and stick to a shopping list. Make a collage of pictures before you go and ask them to help you find the items at the store. Also, clip coupons and compare prices between items, and identify which items are needs versus wants.

Money book club I’ve previously written here about books to teach young children about money. A librarian can come up with many more books.

Start your own money book club with your children’s neighborhood friends or at their school. The CFPB had a “Money as You Grow” book club last summer in some libraries around the country for children ages 4-10.

The agency’s guide to the program lists some books about money that parents can read with their children, or parents can ask at their local library for recommendations. Here are some books the CFPB guide recommends: • “A Bargain for Frances,” by Russell Hoban • “A Chair for My Mother,” by Vera Williams • “Alexander, Who Used to Be Rich Last Sunday,” by Judith Viorst • “Curious George Saves His Pennies,”

by Margaret and H.A. Rey

• “Just Shopping With Mom,” by Mercer Mayer • “My Rows and Piles of Coins,” by Tolowa M. Mollel • “Sheep in a Shop,” by Nancy Shaw • “The Berenstain Bears & Mama’s New Job,” by Stan and Jan Berenstain • “The Purse,” by Kathy Cable • “Those Shoes,” by Maribeth Boelts Parent guides are available for these and other books recommended by the

CFPB at its website under “Free Publications for Libraries.”

When reading to your child, ask questions as you read, choose a regular story time, keep the story time short, find a quiet place to read, look for ways to talk about the story, make sure the children can see the pictures, read with expression in your voice and continue to read aloud together once your child can read alone.

However you teach your child about money, try to make it a continuing process. The more you can teach them early in life about money, the better they should be at working with it as adults.

Aaron Crowe is a freelance journalist in the Bay Area who specializes in personal finance writing. He writes for various websites and has worked as a reporter and editor at newspapers throughout California. He also writes about his family’s personal finance journey at CashSmarter.com.

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By Tony Hicks

Raising Dad Thankful Musings

W

ith Thanksgiving bearing down on us, it’s a legal requirement for columnists to write about why they’re thankful in November. And, if nothing else, I’m a traditionalist. Plus, I’m out of other ideas.

I’m thankful my daughter got her braces off this year. Her teeth look great. And, now that they’re off, I’m thankful my bank account looks better, too.

Of course, her little sister will also need them within the next few years.

I’ll wait to be unthankful for that.

I’m thankful all my kids got good grades. One might even graduate from college soon, which means she’ll hopefully be qualified to go get a high-paying job and start supporting me. Which is why people have kids to begin with.

I’m thankful none of my kids watch reality television which, as you know, has nothing to do with reality. Though one pays attention to politics, which has become a lot like reality television.

I’m thankful two of my daughters play softball, which gets them away from video games and their phones for at least a few hours a week. Each season, they always go to their first practice and ask what all that scattered green stuff is. I explain that it’s grass.

I’m thankful my youngest likes going to church. While I’m not a churchgoer, she enjoys it, and it keeps her from wanting my attention when I’m supposed to be watching football on Sunday mornings.

I’m thankful my 9-year-old still likes to hold her dad’s hand in public, and still runs to me when she sees me for the first time in a while. I’m also thankful my 15-year-old still calls me “daddy.”

I’m even thankful at her being happy because some guy asked her to the homecoming dance. Though he’d better not try anything that would make her father unthankful.

I’m thankful my oldest daughter has been so selfless, and done so much for me, this past year when I had health problems. She basically stepped in and managed my health insurance issues without my even asking. Which is good, since I don’t understand health insurance.

No, really. I don’t. Not in the slightest.

I’m thankful one of my daughters loves Alan Rickman and responds enthusiastically to Hans Gruber references. I’m also thankful at least one of my kids loves “Star Wars” movies and likes to swing one of her plastic toy lightsabers at boys.

I’m thankful my 15-year-old wants to get a job. Which means I’ll be even more hankful when I don’t have to hand

I’m thankful my 9-year-old still likes to hold her dad’s hand in public, and still runs to me when she sees me for the first time in a while. her money every time she walks out the door.

I’m thankful my 9-year-old has insane fashion sense and isn’t afraid of looking like a walking explosion of Technicolor.

No, really, I am.

It’s a great sign that she’ll end up being a leader and a real individual who walks to her own beat. Plus, I really enjoy laughing at what she’s wearing.

I’m thankful all my kids love Disneyland and Santa Cruz. Of course, they weren’t given a choice.

I’m thankful my two 15-year-olds in high school are already thinking

about preparing to go to a good college.

Though one of them needs to scale back the worry a bit. I mean, I didn’t worry about college when I was a sophomore, and look at me: 50 years old and only two classes away from getting my degree ...

Never mind.

What I’m really thankful for this year is having four wonderful daughters to be thankful for.

Tony Hicks is a newswpaper columnist and the father of four daughters.

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TEHIYAH DAY SCHOOL THINK TEHIYAH! Mini Maker Faire & Open House NOVEMBER 5, 2017 @ 11:00 AM – 3:00 PM Middle School Tour and Middle School Open House NOVEMBER 8, 2017 @ 8:30 AM – 10:00 AM 2603 Tassajara Ave. 510-233-3013 www.tehiyah.org/

EMERYVILLE EBI SAN PABLO CAMPUS MIDDLE SCHOOL MORNING AND PARENT INFORMATION SESSIONS NOVEMBER 11, 2017 @ 10:00 AM – 12:00 PM 4550 San Pablo Ave. 510653-3324 www.ebinternacional.org LAFAYETTE BENTLEY UPPER SCHOOL LAFAYETTE CAMPUS OPEN HOUSE, GRADES 9-12 DECEMBER 2, 2017 @ 1:00 PM – 4:00 PM 1000 Upper Happy Valley Road. 925-2832101 www.bentleyschool.net LIVERMORE VALLEY MONTESSORI SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE NOVEMBER 8, 2017 @ 9:30 AM 1273 N Livermore Ave. 925-455-8021 www.valleymontessorischool.com MORAGA ORION ACADEMY FALL OPEN HOUSE NOVEMBER 7, 2017 @ 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM 350 Rheem Bl. 925-377-0789 www.orionacademy.org OAKLAND BENTLEY SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE K - 6 NOVEMBER 4, 2017 @ 9:30 AM – 3:00 PM OPEN HOUSE, GRADES K - 5 AND 6 - 8 DECEMBER 9, 2017 @ 9:30 AM – 3:00 PM 1 Hiller Dr. 510-229-4109 www.bentleyschool.net HEAD-ROYCE SCHOOL LOWER SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE OCTOBER 15, 2017 @ 1:00 PM – 3:00 PM 4315 Lincoln Ave. www.headroyce.org PARK DAY SCHOOL LOWER SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE NOVEMBER 12, 2017 @ 9:30 AM – 11:30 AM LOWER SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE DECEMBER 3, 2017 @ 9:30 AM – 11:30 AM 360 42nd St. 510-653-0317 x101 www.parkdayschool.org REDWOOD DAY SCHOOL LOWER SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE NOVEMBER 4, 2017 @ 9:30 AM – 11:30 AM MIDDLE SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE @ 1:00 PM – 3:00 PM FAMILY OPEN HOUSE (K-2) DECEMBER 9, 2017 @ 9:00 AM – 10:30 AM MIDDLE SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE @ 1:00 PM – 3:00 PM 3245 Sheffield Avenue. 510-534-0800 www.rdschool.org

THE RENAISSANCE INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL INFO SESSION AND TOUR FOR PRE-PRIMARY/PRIMARY NOVEMBER 1 & 7, 2017 @ 9:30 AM – 11:30 AM INFO SESSION AND TOUR FOR K AND ELEMENTARY GRADES NOVEMBER 3 & 9, 2017 @ 9:30 AM – 11:30 AM OPEN HOUSE FOR PREPRIMARY/PRIMARY NOVEMBER 11, 2017 @ 9:30 AM – 11:30 AM OPEN HOUSE FOR K AND ELEMENTARY GRADES NOVEMBER 18, 2017 @ 9:30 AM – 11:30 AM 3650 Dimond Avenue. 510-531-8566 www. therenaissanceschool.org/ ST. PAUL’S EPISCOPAL SCHOOL LOWER SCHOOL (K-5) OPEN HOUSE NOVEMBER 11, 2017 @ 10:00 AM – 12:00 PM SIXTH GRADE AND MIDDLE SCHOOL OPEN HOUSES NOVEMBER 11, 2017 @ 2:30 PM – 4:30 PM 116 Montecito Ave. 510-2859627 www.spes.org ST. THERESA SCHOOL KINDERGARTEN INFORMATION NIGHT NOVEMBER 16, 2017 @ 6:30 PM – 7:30 PM INFORMATION MEETING GRADES 1-3 NOVEMBER 17, 2017 @ 9:00 AM – 10:30 AM 4850 Clarewood Dr. 510547-3146 www.sttheresaschool.org ORINDA ORINDA ACADEMY OPEN HOUSE DECEMBER 9, 2017 @ 1:00 PM – 4:00 PM 19 Altarinda Rd. 925.254.7553 www.orindaacademy.org/ PIEDMONT CORPUS CHRISTI SCHOOL SPECIAL INFO SESSION WITH OUR PRINCIPAL NOVEMBER 4, 2017 @ 9:00 AM – 11:00 AM OPEN HOUSE NOVEMBER 7, 2017 @ 8:15 AM – 10:00 AM OPEN HOUSE DECEMBER 5, 2017 @ 8:15 AM – 10:00 AM 1 Estates Drive. 510.530.4056 www.corpuschristischool.com/ WALNUT CREEK SEVEN HILLS SCHOOL EVENING WITH THE EDUCATORS NOVEMBER 29, 2017 @ 6:30 PM – 8:30 PM CAMPUS TOUR DECEMBER 8 & 14, 2017 @ 8:45 AM – 11:00 AM 975 N. San Carlos Dr. 925-933-0666 www.sevenhillsschool.org Parents’ Press welcomes news of public, independent, and charter school open houses, information nights, and tours as well as school fairs. Please submit at http://www.schoolsbayarea.com

the Mexican Day of the Dead, with dancing, costumes, live music and holiday treats. A cast of ten dancers tells the story of a young woman whose departed loved ones joyously dance back to life on the Dia de los Muertos.

Audience members of all ages are encouraged to attend in Day of the Dead costume, and prizes will be awarded for the most impressive outfits.

7 p.m - 8 p.m. Adults $20 and up, $5-10 for 18 and under. All ages. Paramount Theatre, 2025 Broadway Oakland, 510-893-3132. oaklandballet.org

Asian Cultural Center First Fridays: Art, Performance & Games — Oakland

Nov. 3, $5 First Friday at Chabot—Oakland

Come out for a night of fun and creativity as the Oakland Asian Cultural Center hosts First Fridays, an evening of art, performance, workshops and games every first Friday of the month.

6 p.m.- 8p.m. Free. All Ages Oakland Asian Culteral Center 5388 9th St. Oakland , oacc.cc

more. There will be a family Dropin activity related to one of the exhibits. This event repeats each Friday night.

5 p.m.-9 p.m. Members and ages 18 and under free, $7.50 adults.

Oakland Museum of California, 50 10th St., Oakland. 510-318-8400, www.museumca.org

Friday Nights @ Oakland Museum of California — Oakland

Temescal Alley First Friday Block Party — Oakland

Join OMCA and Off the Grid in August for DJs, live bands, dancing, gourmet food trucks, and

Every first Friday of the month join the block party with live music, shops open late, monthly art exhib-

its and more.

6 p.m.-9 p.m. Free. All ages. Temescal Alley, 49th St. at Telegraph and Clarke, Oakland. www.temescalalleys.com

$5 First Friday at Chabot — Oakland Each $5 First Friday at Chabot is an exciting and immersive experience for all ages. Join them each month for hands-on activities and live demonstrations that are fun for the whole family.

6 p.m. to 10 p.m. $5 per person.

Chabot Space and Science Center, 10000 Skyline Blvd. Oakland, 510336-7373, www.chabotspace.org

4 | Saturday Kids Night Out- Berkeley Brushstrokes studio invites busy parents to drop off their kids for paint and pizza while they go enjoy a date night. The $32 fee includes a meal and drink as well as a $16 piece of pottery to paint and take home. Call and reserve a spot.

Repeats 1st Saturdau each month.

6 -8:30 p.m. $30 per child. School-

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garden finds, home goods, pet gear, and more!

11 a.m.-5 p.m. Free. All ages. Jack London Square, 70 Washington St., Oakland. 510-645-9292, www. jacklondonsquare.com

Oakland Zoo - Bison Appreciation Day — Oakland On November 4th join us in celebrating this amazing national mammal! There will be exciting opportunities to learn more about this iconic species at interactive stations throughout zoo including art, face painting, a photo station and more. Learn about the significance of bison for the Blackfeet nation and the Iinii Initiative through storytelling and other active events.

10 a.m. - 3 p.m. Free with Admission.Oakland Zoo 9777 Golf Links Rd., Oakland 510-6329525,www.oaklandzoo.org Nov., 10 Walnut Creek On Ice — Walnut Creek

age children. Brushstrokes Studio Inc., 745 Page St., Berkeley. 510-528-1360, www. brushstrokestudio.com

to spot Pooh, Piglet, Tigger, Eeyore and the rest to win prize tickets 10 a.m.-5 p.m. $15 general admission, $10 youth and seniors. Playland-Not-At-TheBeach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito. 510-592-3002, www. playland-not-at-the-beach.org

Pooh Happens — El Cerrito Celebrate Christopher Robin’s lovable bear and all his friends.

Lead an expedition deep into Playland’s “Hundred-Acre Wood”

Patchwork Show: Modern Makers Festival— Oakland This fabulous free and family friendly event showcases local emerging artists, crafters and designers alongside artisan food, DIY craft workshops, gourmet food trucks and music. Featuring clothing, accessories, jewelry,

5 | Sunday Family Acro-Jam — Emeryville The whole family can participate in warm-up activities and games, while doing acrobatic yoga dancing. Super fun fitness for everyone.

4:30p.m.-6 p.m. $20 adults, kids

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free. Ages 4 and up with adult.

Athletic Playground, 4770 San Pablo Ave., Emeryville. 510-355-1626, www.athleticplayground..com

6 | Monday Munchkin Mondays — Concord Energetic toddlers can jump for one hour or longer. Sky High Sports features dozens of large trampolines for hours of indoor bouncing fun. For kids walking up to 6 years. 11 a.m.-1 p.m. $6 per child, per hour. Not valid on holidays.

Sky High Sports, 1631 Challenge Dr., Concord. 925-682-5867, www.con. jumpskyhigh.com

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7 | Tuesday Monthly Model Build — Pleasanton The Stoneridge Mall LEGO store hosts this free build day. First come, first served. Each child gets a LEGO mini kit to take home.

5 p.m. Free. Ages 6-14. Stoneridge Shopping Center Lego Store, 1444 Stoneridge Mall, Pleasanton. 925737-0704 www.stores.lego.com

8 | Wednesday Toddler Kindergym — Oakland Kids who are walking to age 3 can come and enjoy tumbling, climbing, parachute play, bubbles and the ball pit. Baby siblings are welcome. This event repeats several times a week, check the website for details. 10-11 a.m. $12 first visit, $132 for program sign up. Ages 1-3.

Temple Beth Abraham Social Hall, 327 MacArthur Blvd., Oakland. 510832-0936, www.tbaoakland.org

9 | Thursday Open Bounce Family Night — Martinez Family night at Bouncefarm means two kids and two adults can spend $30 and get two hours of bouncing and a pizza! Reservations are suggested. There is a separate area for small toddlers. Bouncefarm also hosts several open bounce times throughout the week on Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday.

Socks required!

3 p.m.-7 p.m. $30 for pizza and bounce for 4. $10 each child for two-hour bounce only. All ages.

Bouncefarm, 280 Arthur Rd., Ste. A, Martinez. 925-228-2028 www. bouncefarmfun.com

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Walnut Creek On Ice — Walnut Creek From now until Jan. 15, 2018, there will be a real ice skating rink in Civic Park! Anyone able to skate is welcome. Admission includes skate rental.

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person. Fridays 5 p.m.-Sundays 8 p.m. $15/person. Children under 3 skate free. All ages. Civic Park, 1375 Civic Dr., Walnut Creek. www.walnutcreekonice.com

Veteran’s Day Extra Day to Play — El Cerrito It’s an extra day to play! As part of Playland-Not-at-the-Beach’s Veterans Day tribute, show military ID and get $2 off per person. (Good for active duty, veterans and family with current military ID).

10 a.m.-5 p.m. $15 general admission, $10 youth and seniors.

Playland-Not-At-The-Beach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito.

510-592-3002, www.playland-notat-the-beach.org

Rockin’ Kids Sing-a-long — Berkeley Kids of all ages can rock out in several different languages and with a variety of instruments.

Songs kids will love include learning about colors, shapes, and more. This is part of a five weekly session activity, but drop-ins are okay.

10:30 -11:30 a.m. $10-20 per family. All ages. La Pena Cultural Center, 3105 Shattuck Ave., Berkeley. 510-849-2568, www. rockinkidssingalong.com

Salute To Veteran’s Day —Richmond

Celebrate Salute to Veteran’s Day — a free, entertaining and patriotic event that will provide veterans’ supporters from Richmond and the surrounding Bay Area the opportunity to honor those who have served our country and risked their lives for the freedom we all enjoy and cherish.

9 a.m.-1 p.m. Free. All Ages.

Craneway Pavilion 1414 Harbour Way South Richmond

11 | Saturday Veteran’s Day Weekend — El Cerrito We are proud to pay tribute to those who serve in the US military.

Enjoy discounts for both veterans and those in active service all weekend. (Good for active duty, veterans and family with current military ID, $2 off per person.)

10 a.m.-5 p.m. $15 general admission, $10 youth and seniors.

Playland-Not-At-The-Beach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito.

510-592-3002, www.playland-notat-the-beach.org

Kids Lantern Festival — Albany Celebrate Martinmas with Kinderstube. Children will perform on stage and all are encouraged to do the lantern walk. Lanterns available for purchase, or bring one from home. Mulled wine, beer

and sausages will be for sale, and raffle tickets for great prizes are available too.

4 p.m.-7 p.m. $2 family donation.

All ages. Bay Area Kinderstube, 842 Key Route, Albany. 510-9901609, www.kinderstube.org

Jack Of All Trades — Oakland Think of this as sort of a miniTreasure Island Flea Market. This free event combines kinetic art, workshops and live performances with fun and food.

11 a.m.-5 p.m. Free. All ages. Jack London Square, 70 Washington St., Oakland. 510-645-9292, www. jacklondonsquare.com

Oakland Zoo - Zoo Kids - Some Like it Wet— Oakland ZooKids is a series of weekend classes for children ages 4-5. Each class includes touring part of the zoo, making a craft, meeting small animals up-close, and a snack.

ZooKids is a great way for our younger visitors to connect with wildlife.

9:30 a.m. - 12 p.m. $23.

Preschoolers. Oakland Zoo 9777 Golf Links Rd., Oakland 510-6329525 x141,www.oaklandzoo.org

12 | Sunday Where Art Meets Science: Origami — Berkeley Join us for this hands-on workshop with origami master and wildlife biologist Bernie Peyton, to fold and create origami inspired by the forms and shapes of plants.

Bernie will close the workshop with a short presentation on his process and inspiration.

9 a.m. - 5 p.m. $16 and up. All Ages. UC Berkeley Botanical Gardens, 200 Centennial Dr., Berkeley. 510- 643-2755 www. botanicalgarden.berkeley.edu

14 | Tuesday Game Night at PlaylandNot-at-the-Beach’s After Dark (Grown-Ups Only — El Cerrito Play all the pinball, carnival, arcade and board games you want in one evening…without the kids around. A great way to shake off pre-holiday stress. Adults only (18-years and older), no children or babies please.

6 - 10 p.m. $10 general admission.

Playland-Not-At-The-Beach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito.

510-592-3002, www.playland-notat-the-beach.org

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“I took full advantage of SHC’s AP program to push myself academically.

In addition, the theater arts and music programs opened my eyes to the importance of an arts education.”

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class includes touring part of the zoo, making a craft, meeting small animals up-close, and a snack.

ZooKids is a great way for our younger visitors to connect with wildlife.

9:30 a.m. - 12 p.m. $23.

Preschoolers. Oakland Zoo 9777 Golf Links Rd Oakland 510-6329525 x141,www.oaklandzoo.org

Dance With Me — Berkeley Shawl-Anderson Dance Center Dance with Me class is for walkers through age 4 and their caretakers.

Children and adults will dance, sing, play movement games and enjoy props for this fun-filled 45 minute class. This class repeats every Wednesday.

9 a.m.-10 a.m. $16 per child.

Ages walking to 4 years. ShawlAnderson Dance Center, 2704 Alcatraz Ave., Berkeley. 510-6545921, www.shawl-anderson.org

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Nov., 18, Zoovie Night—Oakland

16 | Thursday Third Thursday Stroll — Piedmont Support local artists and businesses while enjoying food, music, and more.

6- 9 p.m. Free. All ages. Piedmont Avenue, Oakland. www. piedmontavestroll.org

Moms Night Out — Berkeley Each third Thursday of the month, Brushstrokes studio offers extended hours perfect for parents to have a little “me time” and a creative outlet. This is ideal for a book club, or parenting support group to meet at enjoy. Please make a reservation.

8-10 p.m. $15-40. Adults.

Brushstrokes Studio Inc., 745 Page St., Berkeley. 510-528-1360, www.brushstrokesstudio.com

17 | Friday Zoovie Night — Oakland Pillows, blankets and jammies encouraged as families get cozy in the Zimmer Auditorium to see” The Angry Birds Movie” Hot cocoa and

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popcorn are provided but bringing a picnic basket is encouraged as well.

6:30 p.m.-9:30 p.m. $7/person.

All ages. Oakland Zoo, 9777 Golf Links Rd., Oakland. 510-632-9525, www.oaklandzoo.org

to get up close to the exhibits and activities at no cost.

10 a.m-5 p.m. Free. All ages.

Lindsay Wildlife Experience, 1931 First Ave., Walnut Creek. 925-9351978, www.lindsaywildlife.org

Friday Nights @ Oakland Museum of California — Oakland

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Join OMCA and Off the Grid in November for DJs, live bands, dancing, gourmet food trucks, and more. There will be a family Dropin activity related to one of the exhibits. This event repeats each Friday night.

5.-9 p.m. Members and ages 18 and under free, $7.50 adults.

Oakland Museum of California, 50 10th St., Oakland. 510-318-8400, www.museumca.org

Free Friday Lindsay Wildlife —Walnut Creek Every third Friday of each month at Lindsay Wildlife Museum is free to all. All ages will get a chance

Coco Weekend at Playland-Not-at-theBeach — El Cerrito We are excited to have a weekend dedicated to this film that deals with the power of being a child drawn to the arts and why it is good to follow your dreams. We’ve set up a special treasure hunt filled with beautiful scenes of the film.

10 a.m.-5 p.m. $15 general admission, $10 youth and seniors.

Playland-Not-At-The-Beach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito. 510592-3002, www.playland-not-atthe-beach.org

Oakland Zoo - Zoo Kids - Some Like it Wet— Oakland ZooKids is a series of weekend classes for children ages 4-5. Each

It’s opening day of the 2016 Charles Dickens Christmas Faire.

Held at the Cow Palace, this event features crafts, music, bawdy adult shows, kids art projects and shows, Santa, Jacob Marley, Ebenezer Scrooge, and Victorian parlour dancing at Fezziwig’s.

Food and drink galore, too!

Repeats weekends thru Dec. 18th.

10 a.m.-6 p.m. 2600 Geneva Ave., Daly City $12 ages 5-12, $25 ages 13 and up. Kids under 5 are free.

800-510-1558, www.dickensfaire. com

21 | Tuesday Children’s Yoga— Berkeley Join Prana for tiny yoga with tiny yogis. This is an ongoing class that meets each Tuesday. Drop in or sign up for a block of classes.

4-5 p.m. $9 per student. Ages 3-5.

Prana Yoga Center, 1723 Alcatraz Ave., Berkeley. 510-655-3664, www.yogalayam.org

22 | Wednesday Toddler Kindergym — Oakland Kids who are walking to age 3 can come and enjoy tumbling, climbing, parachute play, bubbles and the ball pit. Baby siblings are welcome. This event repeats several times a week, check the website for details. 10-11 a.m. $12 first visit, $132 for program sign up. Ages 1-3.

Temple Beth Abraham Social Hall, 327 MacArthur Blvd., Oakland. 510-832-0936, www. tbaoakland.org

23 | Thursday — Thanksgiving Make Cards for Seniors — Port Costa

Nov., 18, Zoovie Night—Oakland Nov., 7 Monthly Model Build — Pleasanton

Each year, on Thanksgiving and the Friday after, families come from all over Contra Costa County to volunteer to make cards for seniors living in nursing homes in the Bay Area. Plan to spend two hours making cards with provided materials. This is a great way to teach kids to give back and think of others. Please request a volunteer application ahead of time by emailing info@ litaofcontracosta.org.

10 a.m.-4 p.m.(Thursday and Friday) Free. Ages 5 and up. 1 Plaza Del Hombre, Port Costa. www.litaofcontracosta.org

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Beach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito. 510-592-3002, www. playland-not-at-the-beach.org

Holiday in The Park — Vallejo

Candle Lit Labyrinth Walk & Live Music — Berkeley

Beginning this weekend and continuing until Jan. 3, Six Flags will celebrate the holidays with snow and sledding, Santa, and special holiday-themed shows.

12 p.m.-9 p.m. Tickets start at $53.99. All ages. Six Flags Discovery Kingdom, 1001 Fairgrounds Dr., Vallejo. 707-6444000, www.sixflags.com

Thanksgiving Weekend — El Cerrito Thanks to Playland-Not-at-theBeach for being open for an extra day to play on Friday, November 25th. Spend quality time with friends and family in our Museum of Fun, a festive place with something for every generation.

10 a.m.-5 p.m. $15/general admission, $10/youth and seniors. Playland-Not-At-The-

Walk the free labyrinth at Grace North Church in Berkeley with 97 candles lighting the path, while listening to music. The Winding Way musicians, an acoustic musical group will play songs from many world religions that inspire inner peace and hope while guests sit and listen, or walk.

6 p.m.- 7 p.m. Free All ages. Grace North Church, 2138 Cedar St, Berkeley

25 | Saturday Open Studios — Berkeley A unique array of fine art and artisan craft will be shown,. All work is handcrafted, and many pieces are one-of-a-kind. This

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Sno-vember — Treasure Island The Treasure Island Flea Market is at it again! This monthly collection of artists, collectors and designers, is the largest in northern California. Enjoy food trucks, local musicians, and a full bar. All weekend long.

10 a.m.-4 p.m. $3 per person, kids 12 and under free. All ages.

Treasure Island, Ave. Of the Palms, San Francisco. www. treasureislandflea.com

26 | Sunday Great Dickens Christmas Faire — San Francisco It’s opening day of the 2017 Charles Dickens Christmas Faire.

Held at the Cow Palace, this event features crafts, music, bawdy adult shows, kids art projects and shows, Santa, Jacob Marley, Ebenezer Scrooge, and Victorian parlour dancing at Fezziwig’s. Food and drink galore, too! Repeats weekends thru Dec. 18th.

10 a.m.-6 p.m. 2600 Geneva Ave., Daly City $12 ages 5-12, $25 ages 13 and up. Kids under 5 are free.

800-510-1558, www.dickensfaire. com

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Drop-in Open Play — Alameda Run, jump, bounce, dance, play and more in any sort of weather in this indoor play space for the littlest of littles. Each Monday and Friday.

12-2 p.m. $5 per child. Ages 6 mos.-2years. Terra Tech Fitness, 2203 Mariner Square Loop,

Alameda. www.terratechfitness. com

29 | Wednesday Make and Mingle Grown-Ups Only — Berkeley The last Wednesday of the month is a night where grown-ups can get their art on. This month, participants will make a pendant from wine corks, enjoy snacks and libations, and an opportunity to chit chat with other adults. Please make a reservation.

Check website for times. $25 per person. Adults only. Sticky Art Lab, 1682 University Ave., Berkeley. www.stickyartlab.com

30 | Thursday Holiday Parade of Lights, Open House & Tree Lighting — Walnut Creek Music and festivity will fill Broadway Plaza with the return of a holiday tradition - The Parade of Lights, Retailer Open House & Community Tree Lighting!

Plus, following the parade down Broadway Plaza Street, Santa Claus will light the center’s promenade Christmas Tree!

6-9 p.m. All Ages. 1275 Broadway Plaza, Walnut Creek. www. broadwayplaza.com

Game Night at PlaylandNot-at-the-Beach’s After Dark (Grown-Ups Only — El Cerrito Play all the pinball, carnival, arcade and board games you want in one evening…without the kids around. A great way to shake off pre-holiday stress. Adults only (18-years and older), no children or babies please 6 - 10 p.m. $10 general admission.

Playland-Not-At-The-Beach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito.

510-592-3002, www.playland-notat-the-beach.org

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ith the average person consuming over 4,000 calories on Thanksgiving Day make a part of your holiday tradition a nice little run to start the day. More running races are held on Thanksgiving Day than any other day of the year. So lace up and start a new family tradition with our rundown of Bay Area Turkey Trots. Please check websites for registration and current pricing information.

Forma Gym Turkey Trot, 5K, 10K, Kids Fun Runs • Formaturkeytrot.com

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Nitro Turkey Thanksgiving 5K, 10K Run • brazenracing.com

Applied Materials Silicon Valley Turkey Trot 5K, 10K, Kids Fun Runs, 10K Wheelchair, 5K Elite svturkeytrot.com

Entry Fee: 5K & 10K $44-$49 Choose between a 5K and 10K, as well as the Little Turkeys Race: a run for the kids (roughly 100 yards) against the Nitro Turkey. Children (10 and under) attending with 5K/10K runners will receive free entry into Little Turkeys and receive special medals and a goodie bag.

Piedmont Piedmont Turkey Trot 5K Raceroster.com

Entry Fee: 5K Adult (13+) $35-$45 5K Youth (12 and under) $25-$35 The fun begins at 8:30 a.m.at the Piedmont Exedra located at Highland and Magnolia Avenues. Over the past 15 years, the Piedmont Turkey Trot has grown to be a treasured event for many families, friends and neighbors. Run to win or walk to enjoy the brisk morning air and good cheer. And all those finishing the 5K course will have bragging rights at their Thanksgiving table that evening! The Piedmont Turkey Trot is a nonprofit organization supporting local charities and organizations.

Walnut Creek

Entry Fee: Kids Run 12 and under $20, 5K/10K for 17 and under, $31; 5K/10K for 18 and over, $50.

The Forma Gym Turkey Trot is an event the entire family can enjoy. There are several races to choose from including Kids Fun Runs, 10K and 5K runs, and festival areas with costume contest. The event takes place in beautiful Downtown Walnut Creek and goes through a flat terrain of neighborhoods, businesses, and part of the Iron Horse Trail.

Entry Fee: All adult races: $47 and up; Kids Fun Run: $15-$69 Start Thanksgiving Day off on the right foot at the Applied Materials “Silicon Valley Turkey Trot”.

Before the big games, the big meal, the parades and the pies, why not get in a little exercise with a few thousand neighbors? It’s an event the whole family will enjoy! Many have made the “run” or “walk” a Thanksgiving Day tradition.

There are several events to choose from within the 5K and 10K runs and walks, along with a kid’s fun run. Elite runners, joggers, and walkers will enjoy the downtown San Jose course, which is flat, fast and flows through downtown neighborhoods and business areas.

Almaden Valley’s Run Turkey Run, 5K, 10K • Runsignup.com

Entry Fee: Kids 12 and under $22+, Adults $27+ Participate in the Bret Harte Booster Club’s Run Turkey Run 5K/10K and start your Thanksgiving

off on the right foot! This fun family run starts and ends at Leland High School in scenic Almaden Valley, San Jose. Both the 5K and 10K courses are run on level terrain on the paved trails along the Alamitos Creek and the Open Space area.

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Corte Madera

Come kick off a great Thanksgiving with an Invigorating fun run or walk in the park-before the parades, football games, and feasting commence!

Thanksgiving Day Turkey Trot, 5K www.cortemadera100.com

San Francisco Turkey Trot, 3 miles, 5 miles, 100m dash sanfranciscoturkeytrot.com/2017

Entry Fee: $38

Entry Fee: Free This fun 5K Family-Friendly “run, walk, scoot, or bike” Thanksgiving Day Turkey Trot is for all ages.

Everyone is invited and it’s FREE! Treats and beverages will be provided at the finish line.

Novato The Marin Turkey Trot 1 mile, 5K, 10K, Gobble Wobble www.marinturkeytrot.com

Entry Fee: Youth $28+, Adult $50+ Allow yourself some guilt-free indulgence this Thanksgiving Day by spending the morning burning off the calories you will replace later with pumpkin pie!

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Entry Fee: Adults $40 Earn your day’s indulgence at the Thanksgiving Day 5K San Francisco!

Join family, friends and your community Thanksgiving morning for a quick run, jog or walk along the Embarcadero and under the Bay Bridge. More than just a healthy start to the holiday, the Thanksgiving Day 5K is a fun way to give back while you give thanks. This is a Gun Start / Family Fun run so bring all your friends and family!

Mountain View

The Youth Gobbler 1 Mile and Turkey Trot 5K are run cross-country style on the trails of Marin’s Open Space. The Pilgrim 10K is a road out and back through the beautiful IVC campus and along Ignacio Blvd.

Spartan Turkey Trot, 5K, Kids Run, 1 Mile • Mvhsturkeytrot.shutterfly. com

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Welcome to the 8th Annual Mountain View High School Spartan Turkey Trot. Proceeds to benefit MVHS Sports Boosters to support student Athletes

Napa Valley Turkey Chase, 5K, 10K, Kids 100m Dash • www.napaturkeychase. com

Entry Fee: Adults $25, Youth, 5-17, $15, Children under 5 $10

Entry Fee: Youth, 17 and under: $30, Adults $35.

Napa’s only Thanksgiving Day 5K/10K with more than 1,300 participants who work up an appetite for Thanksgiving Dinner.

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November 2017 | Parents’ Press 23

By Sarah Lyons

Family Matters When Kids Reject Sports: Keeping Kids Active When They Avoid Team Sports

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eam sports are a great way to keep kids active but not all kids enjoy playing them. When kids avoid team sports, parents look for other ways their children can continue to be healthy and active. How can you get your kids moving around when they aren’t part of a sports team?

Go outside

Simply getting your kids outside can be a great way to sneak in exercise.

Simply getting your kids outside can be a great way to sneak in exercise.

Visit a local park, encourage them to climb trees, swing, or play tag. Have your child go on a “treasure hunt” in the backyard and collect items that interest them like sticks, rocks, flowers, or leaves. Catching fireflies in the summer, building a snowman in the winter, or raking leaves in the fall all help kids to be active while not playing a sport.

Encourage lifelong activities Choose activities that have the potential for lifelong enjoyment such as biking, swimming, walking, and hiking.

These activities are great because while they can be done individually, for a lifetime, they also can be enjoyed as a family. Encourage everyone to go on a walk or bike ride together, hike in a local park, or spend the day at the pool. Get a step counter for each family member and create a friendly competition to see who can get the most steps.

Individual sports Just because your child does not enjoy team sports does not mean they may not enjoy an individual sport.

Gymnastics, swimming, track and field, wrestling, diving, archery, golf, or weight lifting are all good examples of individual sports where children compete against themselves.

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Limit screen time

Find a new hobby

When screen time is allowed, try to encourage them to move while they are watching television. If a song comes on, get up and dance or march along. If they are playing video games, encourage games that involve movement. If the child is sedentary while enjoying screen time, ask them to complete some sort of activity like chores or outdoor play before they turn the television or tablet on.

Encourage your child to find a hobby that encourages movement and activity such as skateboarding, fishing, bowling, and woodworking. If the child is doing something they enjoy they won’t even notice they are also exercising.

Set an example Children learn by example. If the parent has a low activity level the child will most likely see exercise as a low priority. Lead by example and get moving. Begin an exercise routine or a hobby that includes movement, like gardening, and invite your child to join you. Make the most of the time together.

Dance and theater Turn on the music and have a family dance party. There is nothing like a great song to get a body moving. Dancing is fun and it’s great exercise too.

Some children may also enjoy trying dance classes, baton twirling, or cheerleading. All of these are a great source of exercise. If your child is drawn to music and theater get them involved in a theater production in school or your community.

Play Leisure sports can be more fun for kids that don’t care for team sports because they are less competitive and therefore have less pressure to perform at a higher level.

Encouraging kids to play gets them active.

Playing frisbee or frisbee golf, tag, catch, shooting hoops, and duck duck goose all require kids to run around. They will be having so much fun they won’t notice they are exercising.

Chores Chores are a great way to get kids active and teach them the value of hard work at the same time. Ask your child to clean their room, vacuum, mow the lawn, or sweep.

Consider paying them an allowance for more motivation.

While team sports have many benefits, they are not for everyone. Kids who do not enjoy team sports don’t have to be less active. With these tips, kids will enjoy an active lifestyle that can be maintained for a lifetime.

Sarah Lyons is a wife and stay-at-home mom of six children, including two-year old triplets.

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November 2017 | Parents’ Press 25

By Susan Solomon Yem

Single Minded Finding Dori

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remember exactly where I was when I realized I needed some professional help processing my divorce. I was standing at the back door of my house, looking out over the garden I loved. I usually spent countless hours weeding and cultivating plants I’d carefully select each spring. I knew there was something I should be doing out there, but I didn’t know what or how or where to begin. It was a watershed moment. I realized that not only was I stuck—glued to that spot physically—but I was not moving forward emotionally.

I had been divorced for a couple of years at that time, and I was not making any progress in building a new life for myself or my children. On a previous day, I’d run into a friend at CVS, and when she asked me how I was, I burst into tears. She responded by saying, “I can’t believe you’re not over this yet.”

I was 42 when we began divorce proceedings. Interestingly, my mother was 48 when my father died. After an appropriate period of mourning, she sold the house, traveled abroad and even remarried (although that did not last long.) Two years after my husband moved out, I had not even taken down his picture or put away the few things he left behind.

I needed help. First I called the pastor of the church we attended. He knew both my ex-husband and me. His counsel was wise, but ineffective. He ended our conversation by saying, “You need to take some of the blame for what happened.” Those were words I did not want to hear.

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Seeking Help I found Dori Rhodes, LMFT, a therapist in private practice in Lexington, Massachusetts, through another friend who was seeing her weekly. I was not about to open my heart and my life to someone I knew nothing about. The referral from the treasured friend was an important first step for me.

I was fortunate that Dori had time in her schedule to take another patient. Is that what you are when you see an LMFT? To me, Dori was a professional friend.

Her easygoing manner and welcoming demeanor put me at ease right away; that and the soft, comfortable couch I sat on in her homey office.

Is There a Cure for This?

I had never been in therapy before and did not know what to expect. I knew that unlike a medical doctor’s prescription of an antibiotic for an infection, therapy would not cure me. “A therapist provides a safe place to share emotions with confidentiality, so that one isn’t worried that it will be shared or leaked to someone else,” explains Dori.

I wasn’t too worried about that. I’m pretty much an open book when it comes to how I feel, but when Dori says, “When one is overwhelmed with grief, depression and anxiety, one may have a loss of functioning. Grief consumes so much energy,” I recognize myself, and I understand how effective therapy might be for me.

From the moment we began, the tears flowed. Dori told me I needed to mourn the end of my marriage: “It’s one of the

early steps in recovery, because the end of a marriage is a death.”

I cried through several sessions. How long was this recovery going to take? “Time for recovery is different for each person,” says Dori. “Recovery that is too quick may be a sign that someone hasn’t processed their grief. If so, pain and hurt may just be submerged. The person may be seeking a quick fix without taking time to process the emotion of grief and the lessons learned.”

I was so sad that Dori decided an antidepressant might be a good option for me. “Some people find ways to care for themselves, like reading a helpful book, taking a retreat, journaling or joining a support group. A therapist is able to process whether a person may be in need of an antidepressant or antianxiety medication that might be helpful,” Dori says.

The antidepressant, Celexa, was not an instant remedy. In fact, I did not feel that much different when I took it. It did cause me to lose some weight, and that boosted my self-esteem, but I know that wasn’t the purpose of the prescription.

Getting Unstuck I visited Dori every other week for 18 months. During that time, I stopped

crying. I set some goals for myself, and I weaned myself off the Celexa. I still have days when I am sad and still grieve the end of my marriage. I even have days when I am still stuck. Dori explains, “Usually, within a year, we would hope for some hope to begin to emerge.”

I feel stronger than I did before. As I look back over the past few years, I see that I have made some movement. I sold my house, moved across the country and took a new job. Some days are better than others, but now I can look back and see that finding Dori was how I got unstuck.

Susan Solomon Yem is singleminded about raising her five children to adulthood. She’d like to hear your stories about single parenting. Contact her at susansyem@gmail.com