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DANCE IS FOR EVERYONE Boston Ballet School’s Adaptive Dance Program offers a supportive and enriching environment where students with disabilities ages 2 through adult can experience the joy of movement.

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Your Child with Special Needs

Contents Your Child’s Learning 18

Assessment Options to Consider

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Dyslexia and Your Child

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Organizing Strategies for Kids

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IEP’s and Challenging Behavior

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Specially Trained Animals

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Universal Playgrounds

Tolerance & Understanding 7

2 Kids, Same Diagnosis but Very Different Signs

Need a 3rd Party Evaluation?

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Growing Up Besides Special Needs

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Understanding the IEP Process

13

Travel with Autism

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Transition Assessments

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Playdate Tips for Special Children

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8 Tips for School Success

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Navigating the college search and transition process with neurodivergent children

Resources

Health & Wellness 20

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Health & Special Needs Family Favorites

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Special Needs Support Groups and Organizations

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Special Needs Resource Guid

Anxious Child? When to Consider Getting Help

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• Transition planning for high school students including post-secondary planning, prevocational programming, community volunteer opportunities, and life skills instruction.

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• An extended year program in July to prevent regression in social, emotional, and academic learning and provide a paid work experience to high school students.

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How Did I Miss Autism Signs in my Daughter?

Did I fail to notice because her struggles looked different— because she wasn’t disruptive or falling behind?

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y sixteen-year-old daughter, Chloe, and I had just finished our long-awaited initial appointment with a neuropsychologist, scheduled months earlier at her pediatrician’s recommendation. Chloe had quietly mentioned she was struggling with schoolwork— something I had only heard hints of before. With her AP-level courses stacking up, I thought maybe a specific learning disorder was finally showing itself.

So when the neuropsychologist raised the possibility of autism, I was blindsided. Shock quickly gave way to guilt.

How could I have missed this?

Raising Two Children with Different Stories

I thought I knew what autism looked like. I didn’t realize that I had been seeing it all along, just in a different form.

Unlike her brother, Chloe was our “easy child.” She never acted out at school. She was self-motivated, diligent, and academically driven. I remember telling one of Asher’s principals during an IEP meeting, “You don’t need to worry about Chloe.” But by sophomore year, she began expressing new struggles—especially with test performance in subjects she loved. She still maintained a perfect GPA, yet we knew something deeper was happening. Looking back now, I recognize the signs I once dismissed as maturity, intensity, or simply a distaste for high school drama. And, I wonder how it made her feel that her own parents who are familiar with autism, didn’t see the signs.

My family is no stranger to neurodiversity. Our son, Asher—now in college—was diagnosed with ADHD, autism, The Weight of Parent Guilt and other learning disorders at a young age. He was always the loud one at the dinner table, full of energy and endParents carry guilt in so many forms: for being too strict, less conversation. Meanwhile, Chloe barely spoke, and I too lenient, too absent, or too distracted. For families raisassumed it was because her brother never gave her space. ing children with special needs, guilt takes on a sharper I thought her tendency to stay in her room was her way of edge. I spent years pouring my attention into supporting avoiding his big personality.

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while, Chloe quietly managed on her own.

The questions echo in my mind: Did I miss the signs? Did my focus on her brother leave her needs unseen? Did I fail to notice because her struggles looked different—because she wasn’t disruptive, because she wasn’t falling behind? That guilt lingers in every memory.

How Autism can Look Different in Girls Part of what I’ve learned through this journey is that autism often presents differently in girls than in boys. That difference matters.

•Controlling Appearances: Many autistic girls become skilled at imitating peers, suppressing their discomfort, and blending in socially. This masking can hide their struggles for years.

•Quiet intensity: Instead of external meltdowns, girls may withdraw, become perfectionists, or hyper-focus on school performance. Their challenges show up as stress, anxiety, or burnout rather than disruptive behavior.

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or music—so they may not stand out as “different” in the way boys sometimes do.

Why Autism in Girls Often Gets Overlooked

Autism is still most commonly diag•Internal struggles: Rather than nosed in boys, but research shows being noticed for outward behav- that many girls go undiagnosed until iors, girls may experience internal adolescence or adulthood. Why? battles—overwhelm, fatigue, or •Masking: Girls often learn to emotional exhaustion—that can “camouflage” by copying peers, reeasily be mistaken for maturity or hearsing social scripts, and hiding sensitivity. their struggles.

These differences are why so many •Social acceptance of interests: A girls don’t get diagnosed until adolesgirl who obsesses over animals, cence or adulthood, often after years books, or music may be praised of being labeled “shy,” “perfectionist,” as passionate rather than seen as or “overly sensitive.” showing a special interest.

Focus on Support I’m still reckoning with my guilt. But I’m also realizing that guilt is not where this journey should end. Chloe is the same brilliant, thoughtful, determined girl she has always been.

Now, with this new understanding, she can have the support and recognition she deserves—support that might help her not just survive high school, but thrive.

And perhaps the lesson for me, and for other parents reading this, is that autism doesn’t wear the same face in every child. Sometimes the child you least worry about is the one quietly needing you the most.

•Quiet struggles: Instead of disruptive behavior, many autistic girls internalize stress—appearing shy, perfectionistic, or withdrawn.

•Bias in diagnostic tools: Many screening tools are based on malepresenting traits, leaving girls overlooked.

The result: girls often fly under the radar until academic or social demands become too great, as happened with Chloe. Awareness of these differences can help parents, teachers, and doctors recognize autism earlier—and give girls the support they deserve. ✷ Names changed in article Jean Abernathy is a mother of two and is a regular contributor to BostonParentsPaper.com

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Growing Up Besides Special Needs

By Emily Rubin interact differently with the child with

mental health issues requires unusual

special needs than they do with the

amounts of attention, some siblings

child’s sibling.

resort to negative behavior to get

• SAFETY CONCERNS. Siblings may

emotionally taxed their parents or

aggression, resulting in generalized

guardians are and don’t want to add

anxiety, symptoms of post-traumatic

to the burden so they keep too many

stress disorder, sleep problems,

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rowing up as the typically developing sibling of a brother or sister with mental health challenges or other special needs can be confusing, embarrassing and sometimes scary. Life at home with brothers or sisters who are explosive, withdrawn or alternate between periods of normal and inappropriate behavior is not easy, and “walking on eggshells” is not a healthy way to live.

THE SIBLING EXPERIENCE Siblings of children with mental health needs tend to experience a wider range of highs and lows than other children. Common dynamics include: • CONFUSION. About the unpredictable behavior and shifting moods of their brothers and sisters, who seem to be held to a different set of rules.

Relatives and family friends might

attention of their own. Others see how

be subjected to physical and verbal

personal problems to themselves.

impaired concentration in school and

• LOVE/HATE RELATIONSHIP. Siblings

other issues. These concerns can be

may have times when they get along

minimized with professional help.

well together followed by bouts of

• SHAME AND EMBARRASS-MENT.

intense dislike. It’s confusing when a

About a brother or sister’s behavior,

best friend suddenly becomes a worst

making a sibling reluctant to invite friends over, be seen in public or participate in activities.

enemy.

• ANGER AND RESENTMENT. About the seemingly preferential treatment

• “PARENTIFICATION.” A child takes

received by a brother or sister. Siblings

on adult responsibilities before she is

don’t understand the difficult choices

developmentally ready. While this can

parents and guardians make when they

be the child’s way of managing stress,

“pick and choose their battles.”

siblings may miss out on childhood.

• INDEPENDENCE. Accustomed to

SUPPORT SIBLINGS

having less parental attention, young

Siblings need to know that it is

siblings are often capable of tasks that

not acceptable to be treated poorly by

exceed their age range, such as putting

someone they love or who loves them.

themselves to bed or preparing their

When siblings accommodate themselves

own meals.

to a brother or sister’s dysfunctional

• OVERPROTECTIVENESS. Highly

behaviors, they learn an unhealthy model

aware of their brother or sister’s

for building relationships in the future.

vulnerabilities, siblings may become

To minimize the risk of entering abusive

overprotective on the playground and

relationships as adults, siblings need the

in family arguments, or cover up for

opportunity to address their conflicting

poor choices made by the sibling.

feelings about their complicated families.

• COMPETING FOR ATTENTION.

They need to understand they aren’t

Because a brother or sister with

responsible for their brother or sister’s

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mental health problems. It’s not their fault nor can they fix it.

It is also important for siblings to

Why Siblings Need Attention

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he sibling of a child with special needs tends to condition and why it leads them to act the grow up being a bit more way they do. As they age, siblings tend loyal, understanding and accepting to become primary advocates for their of others and a bit more mature brothers and sisters with disabilities; this than other kids. Much is expected is especially true of female siblings. The of these siblings within the more information and education siblings family, and they tend to rise to the receive growing up, the more likely occasion. But who is looking out they are to advocate for their brothers for their needs while their brothers and sisters later on with awareness and or sisters are requiring so much compassion. attention and care?

The most effective intervention is for At a workshop in Boston entitled parents or guardians to talk openly with “No Sibling Left Behind,” panelists siblings, acknowledging the challenges with the Massachusetts Sibling of their family life in age-appropriate Support Network, prompted language. Sometimes siblings tell parents by questions from workshop things that parents don’t want to hear, participants, shared these such as “I hope my brother doesn’t come recommendations for helping home from the hospital.” When this hapsiblings cope with their unique pens, it’s best for parents to validate the experiences: child’s experience: “I can understand why • Acknowledge the siblings’ you would feel this way. I know it makes complex lives and conflicting you really angry when your brother does feelings. Validate their such and such.” This will let the siblings experiences of living in a home know that their concerns are important with a child with special needs. and that parents understand how difficult Use age-appropriate language. it is for them.

Make sure siblings know they do not have to assume the role of Try not to blame the child with mental caregiver. health needs and remind siblings that • Assure siblings they are not everyone has something they struggle responsible for their brother with. Help them figure out what to say or sister’s lot in life. Encourage to others about their situation and help them to have their own to identify “safe buddies” – friends or experiences. relatives they can turn to when home life becomes difficult. Give them opportunities • Spend one-on-one time with them. This doesn’t have to be to express their feelings outside of the expensive; it can just be a simple family in a safe and nurturing setting and activity like baking or taking a encourage them to lead their own lives. ✷ walk together.

Emily Rubin is president of the Massachusetts • Communicate positive feelings Sibling Support Network, which provides educafor them and the difficult role tion, community building and resources, such as they play in the home. Write a a listing of sibling support groups. This material loving letter, for example. is adapted from the pamphlet “Supporting • Stress that there’s no “right” or Siblings of Children with Mental Health Needs.” “wrong” type of family. understand their brother or sister’s

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• Stay aware of your own attitudes about a disability, as your children will most likely mirror those attitudes.

• Connect with other families going through similar issues.

• Seek individual and/or family therapy.

• Find a sibling support group.

• Develop a plan with kids to help them determine what statements are OK to be shared with neighbors, family and friends, and what things are private. Siblings shouldn’t have to harbor secrets.

There’s a difference, though, between secrecy and the family’s right to privacy.

• Inform teachers and others at school of your family’s situation so that they can better understand the sibling’s experience.

• If a sibling is embarrassed by a brother or sister’s behavior (and perhaps reluctant to invite friends to the home), remind kids that everyone in every family has something to work on.

Parents could create a plan to define the sibling’s role in the family. When they get older, some siblings will have to make crucial and very difficult decisions about guardianship. Growing up with a brother or sister with disabilities also prompts the way siblings will look at important life decisions, such as where to go to college and whether to have children (if there’s a genetic component). Throughout their lives, they will need to examine how to balance their personal lives with their role as siblings. As they do this, they will benefit from the support and encouragement of parents and other caring adults. ✷

Travel with Autism Advice on Getting to and Enjoying the Adventure with Your Child

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By Jean Abernathy

or a long time, traveling with my autistic son was a traumatic experience for the whole family. My anxiety was through the roof! Many times, we almost cancelled the trip because it just wasn’t worth it! The tantrums, the screaming, the sabotage of all of my packing and planning, made me ask myself, why go?

Before we had children my husband and I loved to travel the world. Giving it up would be a big loss for us. After one particular 12-hour flight, when my then 18-month-old

son screamed and cried for 11 hours of it, I was ready to quit travel until my son got older. As a family and adding another child we figured out what worked for us. Over time, I’ve learned some tricks that really help, and I’d love to share them hoping you can find a way to make it work for you.

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trip to Hawaii, ”I’m a mom travelling with her kids.

For me, this is not a vacation. It’s a business trip.” Then, add on travelling with a child with autism, yes, it can be rough! I so badly wanted to find a way to have travel be a part of our family bonding. It took some hard trips to learn what works and what doesn’t. Twice, I came home from a family trip and booked the next cruise out of our town, solo! The good news is that family travel can be done and be enjoyed! Let me share what works for us.

LEADING UP TO THE TRIP Some children with autism do better with a countdown calendar. Starting a week ahead, you mark each day off and let your child add something to his suitcase. It builds excitement and helps him prepare mentally for the trip.

But this tactic is not for all. For my son, this process backfired and made him even more anxious. This made for horrific transition days, the day we left home to get to our destination. However, once we got to our destination, he would be fine. The rest of the family was a total wreck but he was fine. Eventually we learned to downplay the trip.

As our children got older, we would discuss a destination to gage interest. My son would never show interest to anything new but would give us clear clues if the trip was a no go. Once trip was booked, we would tell him the dates.

Then, we would drop it. Two weeks out I would give him a reminder. One week out, another reminder to discuss basics, school work to bring, need to renew prescriptions, etc. At this point, he may ask where his dog was staying and what activities we had planned. We let him bring up the trip if he wanted to. Sometime he did, sometime not.

Naturally, conversation at dinner would revolve around the coming trip. He is okay with this. Now that he is older, two days before I give him a packing list. It helps ease his anxiety when we travel to accommodations he is familiar with and avoid bouncing around hotels.

AIR TRAVEL TECHNIQUES Check Airline & Airport Resources

Always, inquire with the airline ahead of time to check policies and special accommodations for kids with disabilities. Most airlines will have ways to help flyers with

disabilities and have plans to accommodate for people with special requirements. Many airports have special quiet areas to help people decompress if needed. Or, if you have access to an airport lounge, they can be quiet respites. Then, I plan to get to the gate early and speak with the gate agent. Often but not always, they’ll let you board first. Some airlines now require that you make this request at the front counter. Trust me, it’s a game changer if your child needs it.

Seat Savvy

If your child has a favorite seat (like mine with his window fixation), it is worth paying a bit more for it. Even better a bulkhead window seat. This made a world of difference in our flights, keeping him calm and fascinated.

Packing the Carryon

There is a ton of info on what to pack. I’m covering what not to pack in your child’s carryon. My son’s love for metal Thomas Trains then metal Star Wars battleships stumped many a TSA agent as they went through the scanner. Until he was 14, his Ziplock bag of what felt like 200 battleships went everywhere with us. Still, for some cosmic reason at age 17, almost every single time, it’s his back pack that gets pulled for additional screening. Now that we are beyond travelling with strollers, car seats and all the gear, we are big fans of not checking luggage, opting for carryon luggage only. But, while you are still in the young kid phase, pack all but one or two metal toys in checked luggage, provided your child will allow for this. Mine did not. If your child has to have toys with him, pack them in a clear bag then pull the bag out for security scanning. This will save time and much angst. My son did not like strangers going through his bag and would let them know it.

The “Mom’s Got It Covered” Bag

Aside from what I pack for him, I have my own bag.

It’s my magic Mary Poppins bag. Think favorite toy, go-to snacks, water bottle, an extra outfit for both him and me (you never know), and even some lollipops for those tough ear-popping moments. Don’t forget sanitizing wipes for all airplane surfaces, duct tape to keep tray table closed when not in use, plenty of extra diapers. I learned the diaper lesson the hard way when our plane was delayed for six hours Continued on page 16

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on a flight home. You would think you could by emergency diapers at an airport! Plus, the all-important iPad, headphones and charger!

On Board Communication

I make it a point to give the person sitting in front of my child a heads-up of what we are dealing with. I explain that my son has Autism. That he usually enjoys flying but can get restless. We will do our best to keep him content and prevent him from kicking your seat during the flight.

Please understand that this is hard for him. People are usually very kind and understanding if you are trying to work with your child.

The Reward System

I was initially against bribing, but flights aren’t the usual setting, are they? If he’s good for a certain period, I reward him with a small treat from my bag. It’s amazing what a little motivation can do.

Bring Backup

If you find yourself having to travel solo with your special needs child, find someone to come along. Having a buddy to help so you can regroup for five minutes or go to the bathroom on the flight makes a difference. We all need a breather now and then.

YOUR ACCOMMODATIONS Choose a Rental Over a Hotel

I have more success staying in a place that has a kitchen (See Breakfast and Dinners in below) plus a comfortable place to eat meals and separate bedrooms. Separate bedrooms or even a comfortable place for my son to be by himself and decompress makes for a much happier situation for the whole family. Also, with separate bedrooms it is easier to fall asleep and stay asleep without the noises of others in the room. Sometimes our family of four can’t avoid a hotel night, nor want to pay for two rooms. These nights are very stressful. It’s hard for all to sleep well. What helps are a small travel fan and a travel headband with wireless earphones to cut down on noise distractions. The more restful sleep my son gets the better for all of us.

Familiarity

Part of the fun of travel is to explore new things. For my son, new and unfamiliar places are pure torture. As a parent, I want both of my children to see the world. My son resists this want. Overtime, we have discovered that if we go to a familiar base setting for longer durations, my son is better able to handle doing day trips or short three-day trips from the vacation. Plus, leading up to the trip is not so traumatic because he knows what to expect and actually looks forward to it.

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Breakfast and Dinners In

On days that we are out and about, I try to start the morning with a “normal” breakfast with familiar foods. This normalcy is one less new thing for him to face. Then, after a tiring day of exploring, knowing that a dinner out will end badly, I plan a normal dinner at our place we are staying.

Build-in Down Time

Since the pandemic I find that both of my children, autistic or not, need a lot more downtime. I use a one-toone ratio, one day exploring then the next day of down time. As the trip goes on, I transition to half day segments recognizing that the longer away from home the more the trip wears on my child.

Be Flexible

Sometimes, things don’t go as planned. Maybe it’s a delay or an overstimulating environment. Having a backup plan or even a little quiet corner for meltdowns can be a lifesaver. Sometimes, it might mean cutting a day short, and that’s okay.

DO A POST MORTEM Once you’re back home and settled, think about what worked and what didn’t. Write it down! Consider creating a “How to Travel journal. Take note of items you wished you had packed and items that should have stayed home.

List situations when everything worked out and why, as well as what didn’t and possible ways to do things differently next time. Plus, check in with yourself. As moms, we tend to focus on everyone else. How did you enjoy the trip?

Are you rested or exhausted? Did this trip live up to what you imagined? What could you do differently to make future travel better for you and all of your family? The focus of the journal is to document how a trip went as opposed to the trip itself, so next time your travel experience will be even better. Get beyond family travel being a relocation.

Enjoy an actual vacation.

Traveling with our special kiddos does take extra work, but the memories are so worth it. We’ve got this, mama! ✷

At Cardinal Cushing Centers the importance of achieving increased levels of independence, personal growth, and self-determination is recognized and emphasized for students with autism, intellectual, and other developmental disabilities.

Programming is based on individual needs and developed within a nurturing atmosphere of acceptance and respect. The common goal for every child, adolescent, and young adult served by Cardinal Cushing Centers is for them to enjoy learning, realize their potential, and see themselves as valued and important members of society.

Academic Programming:

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Comprehensive transition assessment

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Cushing School, Hanover, MA – Student Teacher Ratio 7:3

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Job coach support

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Work experience opportunities on Cushing Campus: Culinary, Business, Recycling, Industrial Arts, Horticulture

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Customized academic curriculum for a wide variety of abilities

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Standards aligned multi modal curriculum and project based instruction

Volunteer, internships and paid employment options off campus

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Community employer network and supports

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Principles of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) and structured teaching to increase skills acquisition and self-regulation

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Post-secondary education and training

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Focus on generalization of skills across settings in our school, through parent support and training, and in community settings

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Lively campus setting; live with friends

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Social Skills are taught and generalized in every area of programming

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24 hour, awake supervision

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Low staff-to-student ratios

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Counseling, behavioral supports, and nursing provided

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Residences are located on campus and look and feel like home

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Integrated occupational, physical, speech & language therapy including Augmentative and Alternative Communication services

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Community outings for field trips, sports, groceries, etc.

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Independent living skills: hygiene, health and wellness, cooking, laundry and more

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Robust recreational activities, Special Olympics, Interscholastic Sports, Clubs

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SEVIS approved to accept international students

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Career awareness and interest programs

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What Kind of Assessment is Right for Your Child?

By Mariela Vargas-Irwin, PSYD, BCBA-D, LABA

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very day was hard with 5-year-old Patrick. He would purposely find ways to annoy others and just did not seem to respond to consequences. The school tested him and said that there was nothing wrong; in fact, they said he was gifted.

Another child, Latoya, was never the same after being in a car accident. She cried all night and refused to get into any car. She also seemed to be unable to play with any of her previously preferred toys for long and had frequent tantrums.

Then there was ten-year-old Maria, who enced assessments that compare children to others, as well as criterion-referenced didn’t seem to be making any progress at tests that compare students to themselves. school. She had an intellectual disability and her Individualized Education Program A Comprehensive Diagnostic assessment may result in a diagnosis such as Autism or looked good on paper. However, she was becoming more aggressive each day and her Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder.

The psychologist or a behavior analyst language continued to be very limited. may also perform a Functional Behavior Finally, Autumn, two years old, was in a Assessment. A Functional Behavior Assessfog. She stopped saying mama and dada, ment examines the functions of the behavcried for no apparent reason and ran in ior via direct and indirect methods helping circles all the time.

Developmental and behavioral concerns guide the development of a Behavior Support Plan. about your children, such as those listed Another type of assessment that may be above, can be extremely distressing. Of helpful is a Program Assessment. A Procourse, you would do anything for your gram Assessment includes a visit to your child! But where child’s school to determine whether their to start? needs are being met and their IndividualThe first step is to consult your pediaized Education Program is being impletrician. They will be able to rule out any mented properly. possible medical problems and are more Lastly, a Neuropsychological Assessment likely than a specialist to be able to see you examines executive functioning skills, atquickly. Once a physical cause for your tention, and memory, in addition to cogniconcerns is ruled out, your pediatrician tive and adaptive skills. will most likely refer you to a psychologist To speak to the above examples, Patrick for an assessment. There are, however, would need a Comprehensive Diagnostic several kinds of assessments that can be Assessment and a Functional Assessment conducted.

A Comprehensive Diagnostic Assessment to ascertain the function of his aggressive will include a cognitive and an adaptive as- and disruptive behavior. The fact that he is sessment. It may include both norm-refer- gifted intellectually does not rule out that

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he may be struggling with Attention Deficit Disorder with Hyperactivity, Autism, or Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.

Latoya would need a neuropsychological assessment that will examine executing functions, language, and attention to ascertain the impact of the accident on her neuropsychological functions. Typically, a complete neuropsychological assessment is conducted immediately after the accident and then repeated every six months.

Meanwhile, Maria would require a Program Assessment to determine whether her school program is meeting her needs. This assessment should include a complete review of her progress reports in addition to a visit to her school.

She may also need a Functional Assessment of her aggressive behavior at home.

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nxiety is a feeling of unease or nervousness that often goes along with an upcoming event or something with an uncertain outcome. This feeling typically will come with physical signs such as increased heart rate or muscle tension. It is normal for children to have occasional feelings of anxiety when faced with something new or if they must confront their fears.

Just like adults, kids experience periods of sadness, nervous feelings, and hopelessness during childhood. As parents, we can support our kids while they have these episodes and give them tools to work through them.

Many parents question the difference between feelings of anxiousness in children that stem from reasons that are typical developmental challenges, and when the anxious feelings become more than is manageable leading them to seek professional help. For example, it is common for babies 7-9 months old to have anxiety about strangers. It is common for preschool age kids to be afraid of the dark, monsters, and insects.

School age kids often have anxious feelings about school and friends. These feelings are expected for kids and part of them learning to manage the world around them. When these fears begin to interrupt their ability to learn, interact with peers, sleep at night, or function normally in daily life, it might be a sign that your child is dealing with an anxiety disorder.

Anxiety can appear at any age but children experience these feelings much differently than adults. True anxiety can cause anger and aggression, bedwetting, changes in appetite, insomnia, fatigue, trouble focusing, irritability, muscle tension, nervous habits such as nail biting, restlessness, headaches, or stomach aches in children. Anxious feelings can cause children to refuse to go to school or other activities or make them want to avoid situations. The Centers for Disease Control Prevention (CDC) says “7.1% of children aged 3-17 years (approximately 4.4 million) have diagnosed anxiety.” If your child is struggling with anxiety, the statistics show they are not alone.

Feelings of anxiousness protect us from dangerous situations and warn us when to avoid things that may put us at risk. This is

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If you feel that your child’s behavior is stemming from their anxiousness about a situation, try to understand where the problem stems from. the positive side of anxious feelings. However, an anxiety disorder can be debilitating and cause us to make decisions that are no longer protecting us.

Anxiety in children can be difficult to identify because it can appear to be a child acting out or behaving strangely rather than an underlying concern. For example, if your child is having anxiety about school they may refuse to go, they may complain about a stomach ache and ask to see the nurse to get out of class, or they may act out and distract their peers. If you feel that your child’s behavior is stemming from their anxiousness about a situation, try to understand where the problem stems from. “We ask questions that get them to discover the root of the worry themselves.” says a mom of 3. She suggests using questions like “What are you most afraid of happening in this situation?” This will help kids determine the root of the problem. “If they don’t know what scares them, we walk through a possible scenario of the whole event and stop when they get to the scary part so we can further discuss it.”

No one will argue that anxious feelings are normal on occasion.

When these feelings interfere with school work, activities, relationships, disrupt the entire family, or become unmanageable, it may be time to seek professional help. If your child is threatening to hurt themselves or others or if their behavior feels scary or out of control, see a professional right away. A therapist will be able to give you and your child tools to manage the anxiety in a healthy way, identify the root of the problem, determine symptoms and triggers, and prescribe medication if needed. This will help anxiety become manageable and leave your child feeling healthier and happier. ✷ Sarah Lyons is a mom of six children, including seven-year-old triplets.

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TYPES OF SERVICE ANIMALS Service, emotional support, and therapy animals are trained differently, perform different tasks, and have access to public places at different levels.

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not highly trained, but they do provide significant support and comfort; as a result, they are allowed on airplanes and in “no pets allowed” hotels, restaurants, and other public facilities.

THERAPY ANIMALS: Therapy animals are pets that have been trained, registered, and insured. They belong not to a disabled individual but to someone who brings the animal to facilities for therapeutic purposes. A therapy animal might visit nursing homes, hospitals, clinics, or schools to provide stress relief and comfort. Unlike service animals and emotional support animals, therapy animals are not medically required and thus can’t (for example) be brought into a school without special permission.

TYPES OF NEEDS MET Service and emotional support animals can do a great deal for your child, no matter what their disabilities. Of course, the animal must be trained in order to be more than just a warm, friendly companion—and you must learn how to work with the animal to get the most of its abilities and skills. Here are just a few of the things a service or emotional support animal could do for your child:

• Guide a child who is blind, deaf, or has focus issues to be sure they cross roads safely, avoid obstacles, and avoid collisions with other pedestrians • Alert others to an event, such as seizure or a low blood sugar, that requires immediate medical attention • Pull a wheelchair or provide physical support for transferring, balance, and other needs • Help to pick up dropped items • Support learning by (with proper training) attending to the child as they read aloud • Provide companionship and emotional support • Enhance social skills by responding

to a child’s input (horses, for example, respond to a child’s touch while dogs respond to commands) • Build self-esteem and responsibility • Help to manage anxiety and moodrelated challenges • Help to model appropriate behaviors (dogs can actually show children how to appropriately relax in bed, rise for the day, respond to requests, etc.)

BENEFITS No matter what your child’s special needs are, there’s a good chance that an animal can help.

But before leaping into action, remember that animals are living, feeling beings that need a safe environment and an owner who is capable of understanding their needs and limitations.7 Before saying “yes” to a service or support animal, consider these questions: • Is my child old enough (usually 12+) to physically and intellectually work with and (to whatever degree possible) care for an animal?

• Are my child’s needs likely to be met by an animal? Obviously, a therapy animal is a poor choice for a child who is afraid of animals or is likely to ignore, injure, or neglect them.

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you have space and time to own (for example) a large dog?

• Are you able to make a long-term commitment to an animal that may be living with you for many years?

• Is an animal the best tool to achieve your child’s goals? For example, an emotional support dog may delight a child with autism, but it might also wind up being a substitute for (rather than a tool for improving) important human interactions.

• Where and how would your child work with a service or support animal? Are those settings likely to be safe and appropriate for your animal?

ACCESS If your child’s animal is considered “medical equipment” or has been prescribed by a doctor, the ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act) says the animal can be with your child at all times. The one important exception is when the animal itself is behaving badly and thus causing a nuisance or danger to others.

You will, however, need to check with your state’s policies regarding the definition of service and support animals to be sure your animal meets their criteria. According to the ADA: “The ADA requires State and local government agencies, businesses, and non-profit organizations (covered entities) that provide goods or services to the public to make “reasonable modifications” in their policies, practices, or procedures when necessary to accommodate people with disabilities.

The service animal rules fall under this general principle.

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The same rules are required at schools. Allergies and fear of dogs are not valid reasons for denying access or refusing service to people using service animals.

If you simply want an animal companion for your child, your best bet is to research types and breeds, have your child visit with a few potential pets, and then buy the animal that suits your needs. Such an animal, however, will

When a person who is allergic to dog dander and a person who uses a service animal must spend time in the same room or facility, for example, in a school classroom or at a homeless shelter, they both should be accommodated by assigning them, if possible, to different locations within the room or different rooms in the facility.

Rules that pertain to service animals and most emotional support animals do not apply to pets. Even if your child is emotionally attached to their animal friend, they may have to leave the animal at home if you don’t have the right documentation.

If you want your doctor or therapist to prescribe an emotional support animal for your child with special needs, you can ask them to write an official letter explaining your child’s disability and why the animal is required for their mental health. That letter must be provided, in advance, to airlines and other public facilities that prohibit pets.

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TOP 5 • Boston Ability Center • Boston Children’s Hospital • Buttonloop Children’s Therapies • Speech Language Pathology Center WINNER • The Wolf School • The Speech Therapy Center SPECIAL NEEDS MIDDLE WINNER SCHOOLSMIDDLE SCHOOLS • Speech Language Pathology Center TOP 5 SPECIAL NEEDS PRESCHOOLS • Campus School at Boston College TOP 5 • Center For Applied Behavioral • Applied Behavioral Learning Instruction Services.

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Dyslexia and Your Child

By Jill Plantedosi

In speaking with numerous teachers and parents I have worked with over the past 25 years, a consistent question that I am asked is, “how do I know if my child or student is dyslexic?”

According to Drs. Shaywitz from the Yale Center for Dyslexia and Creativity, dyslexia effects 20 percent of the population and represents 80-90 percent of all those with learning disabilities.

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eachers have become increasingly concerned about diagnosing dyslexia as early as possible in order to put together a roadmap for success. Educators need to identify children who are at risk for dyslexia and catch them before they fall. So many children are not getting a definitive diagnosis of dyslexia, but are given a checklist of strengths and weaknesses, stating only the word “learning disability” on their evaluation. Success begins with identifying this complex problem and knowing the best interventions to put into place. The dyslexia guidelines posted on the Massachusetts Department of Elementary and Secondary Education’s website, provides a set of screening recommendations for all students, as well as a framework for intervention. These guidelines can be quite helpful in providing information needed to support students with dyslexia.

Dyslexia is characterized by difficulties with accurate and/or fluent word recognition and by poor spelling and decoding abilities.

WHAT IS DYSLEXIA? According to the International Dyslexia Association, (www.interdys.org), “Dyslexia is a specific learning disability that is neurobiological in origin. It is characterized by difficulties with accurate and/or fluent word recognition and by poor spelling and decoding abilities. These difficulties typically result from a deficit in the phonological component of language that is often unexpected in relation to other cognitive abilities and the provision of effective classroom instruction. Secondary consequences may include problems in reading comprehension and reduced reading experience that can impede growth of vocabulary and background knowledge.” (Adopted by the IDA Board of Directors, Nov. 12, 2002) The basic deficit in dyslexia, is the result of persistent difficulties with phonological processing.

If your child has a phonological impairment, and struggles with the individual sounds of spoken words, he/she may have problems with: • Spoken language linked to a child’s phonological skills, (Either delayed early on and/or word retrieval later on).

• Phonemic awareness (understanding by the child that spoken words are made up of smaller units of speech) • Difficulties with pronunciation of words • Rapid automatized object naming • Identifying letters of connecting letters to sounds • Ability to use expressive language • Decoding difficulties that impact accuracy • Hearing and repeating rhyming sounds • Encoding sounds into letters and spelling • Learning the sound system of a foreign language

COMMON MYTHS ABOUT DYSLEXIA • More boys than girls are dyslexic-Dyslexia affects comparable numbers.

• Dyslexia will be outgrown-Dyslexics will be able to learn to read accurately, but will continue to struggle with fluency and automaticity.

• Intelligence is related to dyslexia- Dyslexics often have a high IQ. • Dyslexia is a vision problem-Dyslexic children are no more likely to have vision problems than non-dyslexic children.

• Mirror writing is a symptom of dyslexia-This is very common in all children at the early stages, as young children commonly reverse letters.

• Dyslexia doesn’t show up until elementary school-Dyslexia can show up in preschool. Often these preschoolers were late talkers and had difficulty with rhyming words.

• Dyslexic children need to try harder-Effort has nothing to do with reading success, as the brain functions differently

in a dyslexic child.

• There is no way to accurately diagnose dyslexia-We can now accurately identify those at risk as early as preschool and children who are dyslexic by first grade.

• Dyslexia only happens in the English language- Dyslexia is prevalent in all languages.

RECOGNIZING THE SIGNS OF DYSLEXIA PRE-SCHOOL (EARLY YEARS) • Trouble with learning nursery rhymes • Struggles to learn and remember the names of the letters in the alphabet • Difficulties recognizing letters in his/her name • Mispronouncing and confusing familiar words • Difficulty producing individual speech sounds • Struggles to blend the sounds in words • Not recognizing rhyming words and patterns • Having a family history of reading difficulties

KINDERGARTEN AND FIRST GRADE • Does not associate letters with sounds • Reading errors and miscues that show no connection to the sounds of the letters • Difficulty reading one-syllable words • Difficulty separating sounds in words and does not understand that words come apart • Struggles to blend sounds in words • Difficulty getting to the individual sounds of spoken words • Difficulty with word retrieval • Slow progress in acquiring reading skills • Rarely reads for pleasure • Complains about how hard reading is and how tired they get

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• Have your child placed in an intense early intervention reading program taught by a reading specialist, and have his/her progress monitored.

• Set up regular meetings with the teacher to discuss your child’s progress.

• If your child is not making progress and you still have concerns, ask to have a full diagnostic reading assessment done.

• Have your child taught with a scientifically—based reading program that supports his/her strengths and weaknesses.

• Your child’s reading program should include the following components: Phonemic awareness, phonics, fluency, vocabulary, and comprehension.

• Set aside a designated reading time in your home to read together. Let your child select books of his/her choice and practice with repeated readings.

• Be cautious about computer-assisted instruction.

• Use every opportunity to expose your child to literacy activities

SECOND GRADE AND ABOVE • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •

Slow reading, often pausing during reading Trouble reading unfamiliar words Difficulty getting to the individual sounds of spoken words Stumbling when reading multisyllable words Difficulty with word retrieval Poor fluency and prosody Oral reading is full of substitutions, omissions, and mispronunciations Avoids reading aloud Confuses words that sound alike Struggles to finish assignments Difficulty learning a foreign language Poor spelling Reading comprehension often superior to accuracy and speed Slow progress in reading skills Rarely reads for pleasure

The Massachusetts Dyslexia Guidelines provides for all students from kindergarten through at least third grade, to be screened for reading. They use a valid, developmentally appropriate DESE approved early literacy screening instrument. If your child’s screening results are below benchmark, the student’s parents or guardians will be notified within 30 days. There will be a discussion about what actions will take place within your child’s education program. Remember that a screener is not a reading assessment, but a way to help identify those students who may be at risk for dyslexia.

Actions parents can take if they feel their child is at risk for dyslexia • Review the screening assessment with your child’s teacher and discuss what plan of action will be put in place.

• Listen to your child read aloud at home, and make a list of your observations and concerns. Bring your list to the meeting.

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Remember that dyslexia is a reading impairment, not a thinking impairment, and that the essential of a successful reading intervention is: • Early screening • Early diagnosis • Early intervention October 2 has been designated in Massachusetts as Learning Disability Screening Day in order to raise awareness of the necessity of screening for reading disabilities and promoting an understanding around dyslexia and other reading disabilities. ✷ Jill Piantedosi is an adjunct professor for American International College, where she teaches graduate students who are pursuing an advanced degree in reading. She has worked as a reading specialist at both the elementary and middle school level for over 30 years. She holds an M Ed. in education and an advanced CAGS degree in reading. Jill is nationally board certified in English Language Arts 6-8 and holds a Massachusetts reading certification K-12.

References Shaywitz, J. P. & Shaywitz, S., (2020). Overcoming Dyslexia.

New York: Vintage Books Sousa, David, (2014). How the Brain Learns to Read.

California: Corwin Book Company Websites Florida Center for Reading Research – www.fcrr.org International Dyslexia Association – https://dyslexiaida.org International Literacy Association – https://www.literacyworldwide.org KidsHealth - Understanding Dyslexia – www.kidshealth.org/parent/medical/learning/dyslexia.html National Center for Learning Disabilities – https://www.ncld.org Parents as Teachers – www.parentsasteachers.org Yale Center for Dyslexia and Creativity – http://dyslexia.yale.edu

TIPS FOR

Playdates

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By Sarah Lyons

laydates are an important part of childhood. They

comfortable and knows what to expect. “I am upfront and

offer time for kids to interact socially without the

honest about my daughter before we go to anyone’s house for a

structure of school or extracurricular activities.

playdate.” says Barb Walker-Shapiro, mom of six from Omaha,

They also help kids learn to share, socialize, and

NE. “Her brain doesn’t work like other kids. She may have a

play freely while still having support from their parents as

seizure and is prone to major meltdowns. I find that when other

needed. Kids with special needs are no exception and benefit

parents know what’s ‘wrong’ with my daughter, they are more

from playdates as much as their peers. While they may take a

tolerant and compassionate towards her.” It is also a good idea

little more planning and patience, it is well worth the efforts for

to talk to your children openly about differences they may have

everyone involved. Here are some tips for hosting a playdate

with their friends. Explain that just because others may seem

with kids with disabilities.

different or express their joy differently, it doesn’t mean they

BE OPEN

don’t enjoy playdates or making new friends as well. Prior to the

Our natural reaction may be to avoid talking about any disabilities a child may have but it is better to address any questions or concerns beforehand so everyone is more

playdate, it is also a good idea to check in with the other parents about whether there are any food allergies or restrictions and anything important you should know.

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BE STRATEGIC

and mother of three says “Encourage the parents and children

Prior to the playdate, discuss with the other parents

to speak to the child with special needs, not about them. If

about what would be the best location to have the playdate.

the child with special needs does something your child isn’t

For some, their own home is more comfortable and

happy with or that isn’t appropriate, allow them to use words

successful. For others, staying at home may encourage the

to tell them. Sometimes that is more powerful than the adults

special needs child to say hello then retreat to their room

intervening.”

while company visits. In this case, it may be better to go

BE UNDERSTANDING

to a public place that everyone can enjoy, such as a park, museum, or zoo. On the other hand, parents who have a child that is prone to running away or hiding may find a public place overwhelming. Discuss your plans with all the parents involved and come up with the best solution for everyone. Another great strategy is to plan activities that unite the kids. Kids who struggle with talking to peers or sharing toys may find that a common interest helps them feel more at ease. Find out the interests of the kids you are hosting and offer an activity around one that excites all of those invited. Ideas could include a craft, a game, or visiting somewhere that fosters that interest. For example, if they are interested in nature, visit the Overland Park Arboretum or go on a backyard scavenger hunt. If they are interested in tractors and farm animals, visit a farm, such as Deanna Rose.

BE PATIENT Whenever kids are involved, patience is important. Try

Parenting is not easy and we all struggle with different challenges when it comes to our children. Ask the parent if they need help with anything prior to the playdate. “I almost always have a few extra things to carry so please don’t be shy about asking if I need help.” says Taylor. “I also need a lot of grace.” Try to be patient and understanding. The other parent may be overwhelmed or tired. It may have been challenging to get there. All parents have great days where everything goes as planned and tough days where it seems nothing does. Listen and offer a hand when needed and they will most likely offer the same in return.

The most important tip for having a playdate with a special needs child is just to have them. It may take a little more planning and patience than the average playdate, but it is so worth it to both the parents and kids involved. Playdates offer a great chance for kids to interact with peers and make friends in a non stressful way, and they are also a great time for parents to connect and build each other up as well. ✷

to understand that kids may have different reactions to situations, things may not go exactly as expected, and that it may take some time for kids with special needs to warm up to the situation. Some children with special needs may prefer to participate in parallel play. Parallel play is when kids play beside each other, but do not interact with one another. Children who play alone during parallel play still enjoy the time together and are usually interested in what the other children are doing. If things do not go as planned, it is okay to cut the playdate short and try again in the future.

BE INCLUSIVE It is most important to note that kids with disabilities or special needs are just like anyone else; they want to interact with friends and be loved and appreciated.

When hosting a play date with kids with disabilities it’s important to greet them and interact with them as you would anyone else you meet. “Please say hi to my son.

Smile at him, even if he doesn’t smile back.” says Marie Taylor, Olathe, KS mother of two. Even if the child is nonverbal or doesn’t seem to hear you, it is important to speak to them. Angela Leever, special education teacher

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PLAYDATE ACTIVITIES THAT UNITE Choosing activities that encourage common interests will help foster friendships. Here are some ideas: • Build something - Legos, blocks, wooden train sets • Pick something they are both interested in and go do it • Arts and crafts • Go outside and play • Quiet stations for the quieter group - set up puzzles, coloring sheets, books, blocks • Set up a sensory bin • Pick a neutral location - museum, park, or zoo. ✷ Sarah Lyons is a busy mother of six children.

Organizing Strategies for Kids with ADHD

If

By Kerrie McLoughlin you have a child with ADHD,

“… your kid needs to do what works for

“She and I would set up a quiet place

you witness their normal daily

them--they should be the one to come up

for her to study and set a schedule for

struggles. School poses even

with an organizational method.”

homework. She had pens that she could

Limit choices and decision fatigue

use on her mirror closet doors to write

more challenges when a child is trying to juggle staying organized, getting homework done, keeping track of permission slips, keeping up with hygiene, activities, etc. PsychCentral.com says, “… ADHD affects the very skills that are required for success in school. Kids with ADHD have difficulty getting started, prioritizing, planning, managing their time and emotions, staying on task and focusing... It’s the nature of the disorder, which impairs

out assignments and due dates. Then she could prioritize better. We’d also break

“One helpful tip a teacher told me

assignments into more bite-size pieces if

(and has worked) is less is more. I got

they were large or long projects.”

my son all these binders with tabs, but she said one simple folder is sometimes more helpful,” says a mom who wishes to remain anonymous.

Dr. Adams adds, “Develop a system of retrieving assignments, a time for doing them, a time for turning them in. Provide continuous parent oversight until system

Color-coded supplies

is learned.”

If you still need a helping hand,

Dr. Lisa Adams, Ph.D. and school

the executive functions of the brain.” So

psychologist for 10 years, suggests,

check out the various tutoring services

where do you start when it’s time to head

“Depending on age, organize and color

found on our site so your child can catch

back to school?

code binders. Use the same color for all

up, stay on track, or get ahead (https://

Make a fresh start… every month

math, etc.” Choose colored binders with

www.fredericksburgparent.net/guides/

clear front/side areas for clear labeling.

tutoring-services).

Start with a massive cleaning session to clear out the clutter from last school year. Clear out the backpack, the closet, the bookshelves. Put regular (monthly) cleaning sessions on the calendar to keep up with the paper monster.

Take ownership Your child won’t keep up with any system they didn’t help to create themselves. One mom of three shared,

Staples has a great line of colored 2-inch

You can help make school more

binders with a large attached pocket in

exciting for your ADHD kid by teaching

the front cover with customizable front

them organization skills, working

and sides.

with teachers for long-term success throughout the coming school year and

Homework

beyond. These are skills they can use

A spot designated just for doing

their whole lives to help them out in

homework and nothing else is key. No phones or other distractions are allowed.

Start with the most difficult subjects first, and take frequent activity breaks.

Dana Baker-Williams, mom of X, says,

college, jobs, and relationships as well. ✷ Kerrie McLoughlin (TheKerrieShow.com) is a 40-something ADD writer and homeschooling mom of 5 surviving AND thriving.

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ADHD Organizational Tips for Kids

• WORK THAT PLANNER! Commit to 15 minutes each morning to prepare for the day and 15 minutes at night reviewing and thinking about what could have gone differently.

Rebelling against the planner is normal; create rewards for sticking with it. (There are a zillion different planners, so review a bunch on YouTube first.)

• DO THINGS IN SMALL CHUNKS. Instead of sitting down until you are done with All. The. Math.

Homework… try setting a timer for 15-20 minutes and then get up to move around and come back to it.

Just don’t wander too far!

• NO PAPER EXPLOSIONS. Keep a small notebook with you and transfer the little jots over to that ONE SPOT

(the perfect planner) in a timely manner. This goes for notes created on phone apps as well. If reminders aren’t put in the right place, they are lost forever.

• A PLACE FOR EVERYTHING. Once the homework is finished, put the binder/textbook back in your backpack. Keep the backpack in the same spot all the time. File papers in a milk crate system so you always have a spot for them. Once the mess

is out of your brain, you don’t have to worry about constantly losing things and trying to find them again, wasting precious time.

• CAN’T STRESS COLOR CODING ENOUGH! Post-it notes and tape flags in various sizes and colors; bins in various sizes and colors; flat drawer organizers; Washi tape for extra personalization; pens, pencils, Sharpies and highlighters they love and will actually use. ✷

School Open Houses

Open House Information at www.BostonParent.com

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Universal Playgrounds:

E

Where All Children Come Together

very child has the essential and undeniable right to play, and to experience the magic and freedom that comes from an ordinary day at the park. And there is nothing children love more, regardless of their abilities and needs, than playing and socializing alongside one another at the playground!

Massachusetts has always been among top-ranking states working hard to ensure and support equal participation for children with disabilities and special needs, and it’s no different when it comes to recreation. Universal playgrounds, accessible to all and designed for children with physical disabilities to experience mobility and have access to equipment and fun, multi-sensory designs is something Boston communities can and should be proud of! Here are some local, inclusive playgrounds that serve as a model for our entire nation that families of all abilities should check out.

natural materials including plants, stone, and wood the Park offers the opportunity for rich outdoor play experiences that connect children with nature and with each other.

Rising Star Playground — Beverly

Unveiled in 2009, this bright and vibrantly colored playground was Boston’s first “Boundless Playground”, and was designed to maximize play with elevated structures such as a gazebo affording children with physical disabilities a greater perspective that was once unreachable, while at the same time encouraging independent play with peers.

This site features plenty of high-backed swings and play panels along with multiple handrails, and was furnished through another of Mayor Thomas Menino’s programs.

The big draw for Rising Star Playground is its interactive musical ground components, perfect for kids of all ages to explore together.

There are also ramps to access higher structures and a ground level window area for imaginative play. Kids can even visit the Sign Language learning board to learn how to communicate with friends.

Touch The Sky Playground — Beverly Open to the public when school is not in session on afternoons and weekends, this fully accessible North Shore playground features a slide constructed out of roller balls for touch sensations along with learning boards and wide ramps with rubber surfaces. The latest addition to the school’s dedication to children with disabilities, and also open to the community when not in use, is the Douglas Marino Community Field, a rubberized, completely level field that allows children in wheelchairs or with vision impairments to play ball! The school’s executive director, Mark Carlson, wants parents of children with disabilities to know about this community asset, and that it is available to them.

Martin’s Park at the Smith Family Waterfront — Boston Martin’s Park, a City of Boston park, honors the youngest victim of the Boston Marathon bombings, Martin Richard. Martin’s Park is a symbol of Martin’s welcoming and inclusive nature, and a unique outdoor play space created to support outdoor adventure and nature play. The Park, with its many inventive structures, is an inclusive play space offering opportunities for children of all abilities to experience discovery and exploration. Designed to encourage interaction with

Mayor Thomas M. Menino Park — Charlestown The city’s first universally accessible playground, steps from the Spaulding Rehabilitation Hospital in the Charlestown Navy Yard incorporates a ramped play structure, embankment slides and climbers, and a swing chair. This dramatic, waterfront space has been noted for its cleanliness, and was envisioned by Mayor Menino in the wake of the Boston Marathon bombings to afford special needs children, patients, and families the opportunity for active play as well as a place of respite for recovery and relief. In his words, “This is Boston at its best—people coming together to improve the quality of life for the residents of our city.”

Harambee Park — Dorchester

Buttonwood Park Playground and Zoo — New Bedford Named “one of the finest small zoos in the United States”, the Buttonwood complex is wonderfully designed for an outing. The Black Bear Express and Wildlife Carousel are both ADA certified, making them wheelchair accessible for children and just down a path lies the accessible playground with wide ramps and elevated surfaces that allow plenty of room for turning in a wheelchair. Bring some bread to feed the ducks in the idyllic pond, all located on the grounds of Buttonwood Park.

Noah’s Place Playground — New Bedford Located at Marine Park on Pope’s Island, this community-inspired, generously funded and dedicated site is the largest and most sensoryrich inclusive playground in New England. Features of this park include a toddler playground, wheelchair swing, a natural embankment slide, and a seesaw-like apparatus that children of all abilities can enjoy.

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Fore River Field and Playground — Quincy

Barton Road Playground — Wellesley

Fore Playground features wide walkways, wheelchair ramps, and wheelchair accessible play equipment, including a seesaw. There are also ground-level sensory activities, like chimes. Along with the playground there are also two little league fields, a street hockey court, tennis court, basketball court, and football field.

Opened in 2013, this privately funded, 10,000 sq. ft. universal playground hits all the marks of inclusive play for children and is well equipped with completely accessible rubber surfacing, ADA swings, and multiple ground components. Learning boards feature Spanish to English language and the impressive site is sectioned for kids ages 2-5 and 5-12.

Adventures for Angels — Peabody This playground features rubber matting surface throughout, high back swings, and a ramp system for children in wheelchairs. Adventures for Angels also has slides with rollers for touch stimulation, as well as special panels, including an interactive Braille clock and wind chimes.

Bill Adelson Playground at Haskell Recreation Area — Sudbury Billed as a toddler playground for younger children, the smooth surfaces and ramps throughout this playground make it super accessible. There are also transfer stations, platforms where children can lift themselves out of their wheelchairs onto play equipment. Multiple sports fields and a concession stand are all on-site.

Ronan McElligott Memorial Playground — Westford Located at Edwards Beach, the Ronan McElligott Memorial Playground is full of outdoor fun for kids of all abilities. The playground features universally accessible surfacing and pathways for wheelchairs so every child can reach the highest play deck. There are swings and bouncers with neck and back supports. Along with play structures there is interactive fun for all kids, including metal tubes that make music and a rotating sensory bin.

These are just a few of the local offerings. You can find more inclusive and accessible playgrounds in state, in country or in the world at www.accessibleplayground.net. ✷

Boston Area Museum Inclusion Programs Boston Children’s Museum The Morningstar Access program offers children with special needs and medical needs the opportunity to visit the Museum at a time when there are only a few other visitors, and a limit of only 100 guests. Check the Museum’s online calendar for ASL interpreted programs.www. bostonchildrensmuseum.org

Discovery Museum The museum also holds Especially for Me series of events with dedicated hours for families with disabilities

Museum of Fine Arts

with limited capacity and the opportunity to network with other families. Check out the Especially for Me page on their website. www.discoveryacton.org

Museum of Science

Museum of Fine Arts The MFA’s Beyond the Spectrum is a program designed to introduce the Museum to children and teens on the autism spectrum, including Asperger’s Syndrome.

See website for information on available programs of contact artfulhealing@mfa.org. www.mfa.org

This museum’s dedicated Accessibility Coordinator will assist families with all aspects of accessibility for children with disabilities from everything to the sensory-friendly restrooms New England and the quieter places and less- Aquarium crowded exhibits throughout the The Aquarium is proud to museum. www.mos.org/visit/ be certified as a trained and accessibility trusted advocate for those with sensory needs by KultureCity.

New England Aquarium

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Boston Children’s Museum

Our frontline staff has received training designed to raise awareness of sensoryprocessing needs. Special kits (which include noise-canceling headphones, fidget tools, picture-communication cards, and a KultureCity VIP lanyard) are available at the Information Desk. Plus a sensory cool-down space is available for guests seeking a quiet space www. neaq.org/visit/accessibility

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Museum of Science

Discovery Museum

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A R E F E R E N CE G U IDE FOR PA R E NT S

Addressing Challenging Behavior and How it Relates to the IEP Process

By Dana Howell Board Certified Behavioral Analyst Easterseals Massachusetts ABA Services | Rehablitation Services Department

W

hen you have a child with academic, social, or behavioral challenges, providing them with the correct supports can be an overwhelming and confusing process. How do you ensure that teachers and therapists effectively meet the needs of your child?

For many families, the creation of an Individualized Education Plan (IEP) accomplishes this goal. An IEP is a legal document that outlines the specific supports, services, and instructional methods a child needs to make meaningful progress in a school setting.

If your child also engages in challenging behavior, additional supports, assessments, and written plans may be necessary.

These documents provide the educational team with a structured protocol, ensuring that they work collaboratively to reduce challenging behaviors, teach functional replacement behaviors, and assist with creating an optimal learning environment for your child.

WHAT IS AN FBA? A Functional Behavioral Assessment (FBA) is the first step of the behavior evaluation process. Typically, an FBA is conducted after the classroom teacher or a related service provider identifies concerns about the frequency or intensity of certain behaviors. The goal of an FBA is to describe a child’s challenging behavior, discover the reasons why those behaviors

are occurring, and to develop a plan to teach adaptive alternatives to those behaviors.

Once concerns have been raised, a Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) will conduct a FBA. They will gather information systematically through both direct and indirect measures.

Direct measures include observations and data collection. ABC data collection is a direct measurement tool that evaluates the antecedents (i.e. what happened before a behavior occurred), behavior (i.e. what the child did), and the consequences (i.e. how the adult responded) in relation to challenging behavior. ABC data indicates the factors that influence behavior and helps discover why a particular reaction may occur. In addition to ABC data, the evaluator completes several observations of the child in his or her natural environment. The purpose of conducting an observation is to watch and document behavior as it is happening. Direct observation allows the BCBA to see, not only the frequency and severity of the behavior, but also the antecedents and consequences that impact each situation. BCBAs also use indirect measures which often include informal rating scales, parent/ teacher/therapist interviews, and a review of the child’s records.

Each of these indirect measures allows the people who know the child best to contribute information about why a particular behavior occurs.

The information collected during the FBA process helps to Special Needs Guide | BostonParentsPaper.com 41

An IEP is a legal document that outlines the specific supports, services, and instructional methods a child needs to make meaningful progress in a school setting. answer the question “Why are challenging behaviors occurring?”

After assembling the relevant information and reviewing it thoroughly, the BCBA will identify the reasons why behaviors are occurring. The information from the FBA is then used to create a Behavior Intervention Plan.

WHAT IS A BIP? A Behavior Intervention Plan (BIP) is a set of protocols aimed to address a child’s challenging behavior. This document provides the educational team with a consistent set of written strategies to use on a day-to-day basis with a child.

The first step is to describe, in detail, the child’s challenging behaviors. It is important to write these descriptions in a way that explains what the behavior “looks like.” This ensures that the behaviors can be easily tracked and recorded by the educational team. In addition to behavioral descriptions, the BIP also includes antecedent-based interventions, adaptive alternatives to challenging behavior, a reinforcement plan, and consequence procedures.

Antecedent-based interventions are strategies designed to stop a behavior before it begins. Some examples include the use of visual supports, transitional warnings, and the arrangement of the environment. Replacement behaviors are behaviors that provide a functional alternative to challenging behavior. For example, children who engage in escape-maintained behavior are often taught to request a break. Asking for a break is a functionally equivalent request. It allows the child to escape from the task

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briefly but also ensures that they return to work once the break is over.

Designating a reinforcement system is another essential aspect of a BIP and ensures the delivery of positive praise or rewards in response to desired behaviors. When appropriate behaviors are rewarded in a positive way, it increases the likelihood of appropriate behaviors recurring in the future.

The final section included in a BIP is a list of consequence procedures. This list provides staff with consistent responses to challenging behavior. Having an outline of procedures decreases the opportunity for accidental reinforcement of challenging behaviors. A well written BIP will ensure your child’s success in developing adaptive alternatives to any challenging behavior.

HOW DO THESE DOCUMENTS RELATE TO THE IEP PROCESS? Functional Behavioral Assessments and Behavior Intervention Plans are both legal documents and are individualized for each child. Frequently, when an FBA and BIP are completed, the team will also develop an IEP goal area that focuses on behavior.

A behavior goal area ensures the teaching of replacement behaviors, the use of data collection systems, and progress monitoring.

If you feel that your child’s behavior impacts their progress in school, you may want to request a Functional Behavioral Assessment to gain more information about the reasons why those behaviors are happening in the first place. ✷

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Knowing When You Should Request a Third Party Evaluation

By Paul Medeiros OTR/L President & CEO Easterseals Massachusetts

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uring the Individualized Education Plan (IEP) creation process, it is not unusual for a parent to disagree with a recommendation from one or more of the school’s team members. If a compromise cannot be reached, there is a risk that this difference in opinion can lead to an IEP not being signed by one or both sides. Since the ultimate goal of the IEP is to ensure that your child receives the services they need to succeed, it is in your best interest to understand all of your options. However, before determining your best course of action, you need to understand the basis for the disagreement. The more effectively you can evaluate the situation objectively, the better you can advocate for services.

WHY IS THE IEP TEAM MEMBER MAKING THIS RECOMMENDATION? While there can be exceptions, most educators and professionals have your child’s best interests in mind. If you do not agree with the recommendations of the professional it can be easy to assume that there are other factors that are impacting their recommendation such as budget constraints or personality conflicts. It is important to note the professionals assessing your child are making recommendations that they believe are appropriate based on their education and experience. As trained professionals they will work with you and the team to establish measurable goals that your child will be able to meet, and ideally throughout the course of treatment frequency of services will decrease and potentially even stop.

Another factor to consider is that the IEP team may be seeing different results than you see at home. It is not unusual for children to behave and perform differently in different environments. Your

Occupational Therapist may be watching your child cut or write effectively at school while they refuse to even pick up a pair of scissors at home. After a long day at school, it is not uncommon for children to rebel against more work with the people they love and trust the most.

WHY DO YOU FEEL THE RECOMMENDATION IS NOT APPROPRIATE? If it appears that the IEP team is not willing to compromise on their recommendation, it is in your best interest to examine exactly why you feel it is inaccurate. Many parents have to work hard to get their child onto an IEP, and it is completely natural to be nervous about giving up services. Make sure that you can clearly explain the areas that you feel your child needs assistance. If you can give examples that will only strengthen your case to the team, or at the least give them the opportunity to explain why they disagree. It’s important to relay your concerns as professionally as possible to prevent the team from becoming defensive. An effective IEP meeting is a collaborative process!

You are an important part of this team and your opinions and insights matter.

IS IT TIME FOR ANOTHER OPINION? Sometimes after all of this consideration and discussion, you still cannot come to an agreement. Unfortunately, at this point both sides are probably a bit frustrated and compromise has become unlikely. As the parent, you should not sign an IEP that you feel does not meet your child’s needs, so what do you do? If this is your first time going through this process, it can be intimidating to stand up to a team of teachers, administrators, and therapists. All too ofSpecial Needs Guide | BostonParentsPaper.com 43

It is important to note the professionals assessing your child are making recommendations that they believe are appropriate based on their education and experience. ten, at this point a parent will either give in or seek legal counsel to protect their child’s rights.

There is third option. This is the perfect opportunity to request a third-party evaluation. A third-party evaluator should be an individual or organization that is not related to the school or parent. The school district is responsible for contracting and paying for the evaluation. This contracted individual will perform an unbiased evaluation and make a recommendation to the entire IEP team based on the findings of that assessment.

WILL YOUR SCHOOL DISTRICT AGREE? Assuming the clinician and administration believe in the recommendation, it is actually beneficial for them to pursue a third-party evaluation. The role of the evaluator is not to take sides. As a parent, you should also be prepared for the possibility that the evaluator will agree with the recommendation in the IEP. At that point, you can feel comforted by the fact that your child is making progress towards their goals. On the other hand, if the evaluator does not agree with the recommendation, it will be harder for the school district to remain inflexible.

While there is a cost to pursuing a contracted evaluator, even that should not be a barrier to obtaining one. The cost of a onetime evaluation will be far lower than the time investment and cost of entering mediation or other legal dispute. Most school administrators will understand this and approve the evaluation

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rather than choosing to engage in a legal battle.

The Educator or Clinician may also value another opinion.

Often teachers, doctors, and therapists are thought of as knowing everything, but this is not the case. More importantly, they realize this and the best will welcome an opportunity to have their assessment validated by an outsider. In addition, if the IEP team member is inexperienced, they may truly value the opinion of a more experienced professional. Particularly in smaller districts, it is not unusual for a therapist to be the only one in the district. If this is their first job, they may benefit from the mentorship that a third party evaluator would provide without feeling threatened.

CONCLUSION In the end, an effective IEP team will have one goal in mind: To collaboratively develop a plan to ensure the child has all of the resources in place to maximize success. Like any effective team, disagreements will occur, but how those disagreements are resolved will be the difference between a positive and negative outcome. As a parent, it can be difficult to balance your role as advocate for your child with trusting and respecting the opinions of the professionals at the table. Sometimes getting an unbiased opinion can provide you the reassurance you need to accept a recommendation, or provide the support you need to be an even stronger advocate. ✷

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Every Child Can Succeed

Understanding the Special Education Process and Feeling Positive About Support Received in a School Setting

By Andrea Freeman, PT, DPT & Tiffany Palenscar, PT, DPT Doctors of Physical Therapy and Mothers of Two

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s parents, we are always asking ourselves these types of questions and worrying about each step in our children’s lives. Each child learns differently, which may mean that additional support in school is needed in certain areas. If this is the case, your child’s teacher or a school administrator may discuss having your child evaluated for special education services with you. At the first mention of these words, you may feel nervous, overwhelmed, or even angry as a parent; however, special education services were created to help children succeed in school and should not be considered a negative or scary experience. By knowing what to expect, it can help to minimize these confusing or negative feelings when it comes to special education services in school.

WHAT ARE SPECIAL EDUCATION SERVICES IN SCHOOLS? The Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) is the law that ensures all children receive free appropriate public education (FAPE). Special education services are provided under IDEA and are required to be individualized. Special education is created to be specific to each student’s needs and is not a “one size fits all” type of program. A child qualifies for special education services when he or she has a disability that impacts their ability to access the school curriculum or environment.

If your child qualifies for special education, an individualized education plan (IEP) will be created in order to implement goals and accommodations to help your child succeed.

WHAT ARE THE FIRST STEPS? You will receive a consent form from your child’s school asking for your permission for the school staff to complete a formal evaluation in one or more areas to help determine if your child is eligible for special education services. Once you return your signed consent forms to the school district, the specialists in the school will schedule their assessments and proceed with testing.

The specialists will complete reports summarizing the results of the evaluations as well as provide recommendations in each specific area. Based on the results of the initial evaluations, you will meet with the school district to discuss the results and determine if services, accommodations, or interventions should be provided to ensure your child has the best possible opportunity to succeed in school.

WHAT AREAS WILL BE EVALUATED? The school district will propose specific areas for evaluation to assess your child’s needs and guide their recommendations for support. Educational assessments completed by the classroom teacher, special education team, school psychologist, or reading Special Needs Guide | BostonParentsPaper.com 45

A new school year can bring feelings of excitement, but for some families it can also bring anxiety and stress. specialists will give the team information regarding your child’s academic performance and participation in the school day. Related services, such as Speech and Language Pathology, Occupational Therapy, Physical Therapy, Vision, or Applied Behavior Analysis may be included in the evaluation plan depending on your child’s individual need.

and objectives to be addressed for a period of one year. The IEP will outline the frequency and duration in which the special education services will be provided. The team will also include information regarding any necessary accommodations and modifications to the school or classroom environment in order to ensure that your child has the ability to successfully participate in the school curriculum.

WHAT HAPPENS WITH THE RESULTS OF THE EVALUATIONS? WHAT HAPPENS NEXT? Once all assessments have been completed, you will be sent an invitation for a team meeting by the school district where you will sit down with your child’s teacher, the specialists who completed evaluations for your child, and special education or school district staff. During the meeting, you will discuss as a team the results of the evaluations. As a parent, you are a full member of the team and you will have the opportunity to provide input, ask questions, and share your child’s strengths.

Your participation in the team meeting is incredibly important.

As a parent, you can provide information to the school team that is necessary for your child’s success. Together, it will be determined if your child has a disability that is impacting their ability to make progress with the school curriculum and if specially designed instruction is needed for success. If it is determined that your child qualifies for special education services, the group will work together during the team meeting to develop an IEP.

WHAT IS AN IEP? The IEP is a document that outlines the specific program created for your child during the team meeting. The IEP document will contain information regarding your child’s strengths, current performance in school, placement information, and specific recommendations regarding goals

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Based on the outcome of the team meeting, an IEP will be developed by the school district. The document will be sent to you within 10 days for your review. If you agree with all of the information and recommendations included in the IEP, you will sign that you accept the document and return it to the school district. The IEP will then be implemented by the educational team once it is received. If you do not agree with the IEP or feel that changes need to be made, you are able to reject a specific portion or the IEP in its entirety. In this case, the team would reconvene to establish a plan that all members of the team support. Once the IEP is finalized and accepted, it will be your child’s specialized plan for one full year. The team will then meet again annually to update the document.

As parents, we want our children to succeed in every way possible. When our children struggle in school, it can often feel overwhelming and discouraging. Working with the school district to support your child’s individual needs can help alleviate some of these feelings. Special education services are meant to ensure that your child will receive the tools and support needed to be successful and empower your child to achieve their greatest potential. Remember that you are a vital member of your child’s educational team and will be included in the process from beginning to end. ✷

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Transition Assessments

What are they? Why are they beneficial?

Provided by the Community Support Services Transition & Employment Services team, Easterseals Massachusetts

WHAT ARE THEY? Transition Assessments are most commonly performed when a child has an IEP (Individual Education Plan) or a 504 plan. By Federal law the transition age begins at 16 years old but in the state of Massachusetts it begins at 14 years old. When students reach the age of 14, they are given the Transition Planning Form (TPF). The student and his or her team then focus on establishing transition goals to assist in preparing for life after high school.

The TPF is used to assess the student’s ability to determine his or her strengths and weaknesses, how they interact with others in

school or in their community, their decision-making process on personal or work tasks, their career interests, and independent living skills. Transition assessments are tailored to meet the student’s level of comprehension and are age specific.

WHY ARE THEY BENEFICIAL? It is incredibly important for individuals with disabilities to feel independent and be seen as an equal in their working environment and in their community.

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Transition assessments are tailored to meet the student’s level of comprehension and are age specific.

Parents need to remember that the support their child receives in school will change in post-secondary education and in employment. It is important that your child becomes an active participant in his or her IEP team.

As your child matures some skills that are important have in mind and nurture are the following:

SELF-ADVOCACY AND SELF-DETERMINATION. These are two important skills that should be instilled early on in a child’s life. Research performed by the National Center on Secondary Education Transition (NCSET) (Wehmeyer & Schwartz, 1997) followed youths with developmental delays or learning disabilities one year after graduating from high school.

“The study showed a ‘consistent trend characterized by selfdetermined youth doing better than their peers one year out of school. Members of the high self-determination group were more likely to have expressed a preference to live outside the family home, have savings or checking account and be employed for pay” (Wehmeyer & Schwartz, 1997, p.253).

COMMUNICATION SKILLS. Outside the family unit, how does your child reach out to community, employment, volunteering, or post-secondary education?

SOCIAL SKILLS. Friends, classmates, extended family, community, employment.

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PERCEPTION AND AWARENESS OF STAMINA. What tools do you need to be successful in your personal life, school, or work?

EXECUTIVE FUNCTION SKILLS. Decision making, time management, planning, task initiation, etc. In college or employment your child will not have the support or reminders to carry out these skills. What tools does your child need to do tasks independently?

TRANSPORTATION SKILLS. Navigating public transportation or mode of transportation, when in the community or post-secondary education.

INDEPENDENT LIVING SKILLS. Shopping, understanding a paycheck, paying bills, paying rent, how to use an ATM, etc.

A transition assessment done by an objective evaluator can be used to help determine your child’s baseline and assist the IEP team in identifying and developing transition goals he or she might need to learn and develop while they are still in school. A transition assessment is a roadmap for your child’s life journey. ✷

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tudents diagnosed with dyslexia, ADD, ADHD or a learning disability may wonder whether they will be able to graduate from high school and/or collegiate studies. I worried over the same issue myself because I was diagnosed with dyslexia in a time period when there were very few strategies to help strengthen my learning disabilities. Education was very

important to me, and I wanted to graduate from high school and college despite my scholastic challenges. Therefore, I set out to teach myself ways to overcome my learning obstacles and graduate. Through the implementation of systematic step-by-step educational solutions, I, like my students with learning issues, began to master how to overcome learning challenges.

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Plan homework schedule and study times to begin the school year. The planned work and review times will help your child or teen to help meet the scholastic increase of the new grade level. The plan should include additional study time even if the child or teen has study halls during their school day. The times can be adjusted on a successful academic achievement basis.

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Children and teens entering a higher grade level typically need to upgrade their study skills to help them keep pace with their current curriculum. Children and teens benefit from reviewing the notes they take in each of their classes for at least five minutes a day. Reviewing the class notes taken will help children and teens retain more core learning concepts. Consistent review will also assist their ability to access the information on tests. Younger students can benefit from a few minutes of reviewing concepts such as grammar and phonetic rules.

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A parent and their child benefit from checking the student’s grades online together several times a week.

Parents who check grades online with their son or daughter show them they care about education. Additionally, if there are downturns in their grades or missing assignments, then educational solutions can be applied before their difficulty becomes a scholastic issue. The extra accountability generally helps students of all grade levels stay on track throughout the school year. Students of all ages often respond positively to their parents’ praise when they see good grades.

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Tests and quizzes become an important part of the academic experience. Children and teens should add more study and preparation time to the system they used in the previous grade level. Students of all ages benefit from studying for tests and quizzes several days before they are given. Parents can help their student understand that their brains may need time to absorb and readily access the educational concepts they will be tested over. Waiting until the day before a test may not be the best option for students because of the increase in information, which is associated with each new scholastic level.

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As soon as a student begins to slide, academically educational solutions should be applied to help the child or teen overcome their academic obstacles. All too often scholastic slides are not addressed early enough because the parent may feel it is a problem that will correct itself. It is generally better to address the academic difficulty early on before the child’s or teen’s grades begin to spiral downward. One way to address scholastic slides is to help your child correct mistakes on graded assignments that have multiple mistakes on them.

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Parents can help make learning fun during homework and study time. Children and teens can make review and drill time into a game show format using flash cards.

They can make these from their study material. When review time is presented in a game show format, students generally are more engaged throughout the learning process. Parents may wish to host a study review time for their child with several students in their son’s or daughter’s classes. Students of all grade levels generally enjoy the review process when it is made into a game they are playing with their friends.

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Parents can help their child or teen develop an interest in learning by asking their teen to tell them three concepts they learned in their classes each day. Asking your child or teen to report several core concepts learned in class can also help improve his or her ability to focus in class.

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If a child or teen is struggling in the area of math, then prelearning the mathematical formulas can really help increase the student’s understanding of new concepts.

Previewing the key concepts from the upcoming lesson can help the student absorb and glean more information from the instructional teaching lesson. Students can pre-learn new math concepts by reading the following day’s lesson in their online text or textbook.

Next, the student should make a notation of concepts that are not understood. The child or teen should ask the teacher for further instruction on the more difficult mathematical concepts. In addition, students benefit from reviewing key terms to increase their mathematical vocabulary to improve their understanding during the lectures.

Students of all grade levels and ages who implement educational solutions to help them overcome areas of academic weakness can improve in their educational skills.

Generally, children and teenagers will discover over time they are accurately able to spend less time learning new scholastic concepts as their organizational skills and study habits improve. Students may find learning to be fun as they become capable to meet scholastic challenges and overcome their learning weaknesses. Another added benefit from implementing educational solutions into their daily study time is they may have a renewed sense of academic self-esteem, dignity and a restored positive attitude toward their studies.

By igniting students’ interests and understanding, improved grades can be the result of their increased scholastic skills. ✷ Barbara Dianis overcame dyslexia in her own life using self-taught strategies and techniques. She is the author of Grade Transformer for the Modern Student (LuLu Publishing Services, 2014) and has counseled parents of children with special needs for 24 years.

Navigating the college search and transition process with neurodivergent children

By Michael Stefanowicz(

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s an experienced college admissions professional— and a parent of school-aged children—I know how daunting the college search process can feel, no matter what stage your family is in. That stress can often be magnified for parents of neurodivergent children, whom we exclusively work with at Landmark College in Putney, Vermont. At Landmark, we know that a learning difference (LD) can be a strength, not a weakness. But developing those strengths throughout childhood, and especially in the teen

years, is a key part of setting a neurodivergent child up for success in the college search and transition process.

No matter a neurodivergent student’s exact learning profile, self-advocacy is the most essential skill for them to bring into a college environment. In America’s public schools, accommodation standards for learning differences are ensured through the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA), and many LD-focused private schools provide a high Special Needs Guide | BostonParentsPaper.com 51

level of individualized support. When a student enrolls in college, however, any legal standards of LD accommodation transition to the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), which will follow the student throughout their career and life, as well. This shift moves the responsibility of securing appropriate accommodation from the school district and parents to the students themselves.

Regardless of a child’s age, self-advocacy is a skill that families should work to develop. This would include encouraging students to participate in their own IEP or 504 meetings, and in their teens, accounting for what tasks and responsibilities parents take on compared to students, and how and when those can gradually shift over. Entering college with some of those self-advocacy and related executive functioning skills will help the student to get the support they are legally entitled to, and to navigate the burdens of adulthood—from sorting and folding laundry to career planning.

At Landmark College, we are pleased to offer three programs for high school students that can help to develop those skills through both academic and social lenses. These range from online dual enrollment during the academic year, high school summer programs on our Putney, Vermont campus, and year-round remote coaching through our Bay Area Success Center.

Landmark College’s online dual enrollment courses offer transferable college credits and robust support to students, including an individual course coach to meet with in addition to their professor, both of whom specialize in educating students with LDs. These courses are a great way to develop academic skills and study habits that allow the student to

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build confidence in a scaffolded environment while earning college credit.

Our high school summer programs welcome rising juniors and seniors to our campus for three weeks, providing a taste of what is to come both socially and academically for those considering on-campus enrollment after high school. For many students, this is their first time living away from home for weeks at a time. And the coursework, anchored by our Blueprint for Learning seminar, introduces students to both the science and art of learning, helping them to better understand their own learning profile and how they can improve their executive functioning and self-advocacy.

Finally, our Landmark College Bay Area Success Center provides remote one-on-one coaching for teenagers, pairing them with a licensed learning specialist to develop executive function, social skills, and other key tools for eventual transition to college. These coaching services are also available for young professionals.

Getting on the same page with your student While these programs are examples of steps that families can take to develop skills for college in their high school years, there are also important considerations that neurodivergent students and parents should consider in the college search and application process.

For starters, it’s important to remember that it’s okay if parents and students are on different pages about their goals. Those are conversations that high school and college admissions counselors can help you work through. Visiting campuses and exploring varied post-secondary options can

help students to clarify what those goals are, and what steps will be essential along the way.

Next, families should understand that there are four types of colleges when it comes to learning difference accommodations.

The first approach, and historically the one many colleges have taken, is being merely ADA compliant. If a student requests a reasonable accommodation, the college provides it.

Many colleges have now shifted to a second model, built around a disability service office, in which college staff work to facilitate adequate support for students in need. This approach may look like the parts of a high school special education department, where a dedicated staff member disseminates information about reasonable accommodations to course instructors.

There are also colleges and universities that offer distinct and well-supported LD programs within a broader institution, such as the SALT program at the University of Arizona.

Finally, there is the comprehensive model, in which colleges such as Landmark integrate support services and scaffolding for neurodivergent learners throughout everything that we do.

The right type of student can find great success in any of those four approaches depending on their needs and goals, but for those who have struggled academically or socially in the past because of their learning difference, the comprehensive model is worthy of consideration.

Many students also successfully blend approaches, such as earning an associate degree at Landmark to develop further skills before pursuing a bachelor’s degree at a more traditional college or university.

Every collegiate program tends to serve a relatively narrow slice of learning profiles, and as admissions professionals, we want to ensure that a student’s needs meet the sweet spot of the college in question. That’s why students and families shouldn’t be afraid to share detailed information about student learning profiles, including both strengths and weaknesses. Admissions counselors at colleges—not to mention school and college guidance counselors your family may be working with—want to partner with you to find the best solution for your family.

Assessing college readiness in your student As families consider the learning profile of their child, college capability and readiness should also be considered.

College is not the right solution for every child of course, and especially so right out of high school. When considering capability and readiness, families should consider key questions such as what the students’ experience with homework has been, and whether academic assignments have been modified in the classroom.

A sign of college readiness would be that a student is working towards the same standards and learning outcomes as their peers—and even if they aren’t doing that perfectly, the exposure to those expectations is beneficial. Executive functioning skills are again part of this conversation—does the student organize their own day, and have they developed an organizational system that enables them to keep track of their assignments and responsibilities? Again, it is okay if the answer to these questions is “not yet” or “not without stumbling blocks” – a supportive post-secondary environment can help to develop those skills, but that skill development should begin before a student steps onto campus.

We at Landmark College also have dedicated programming to help students with the college transition. This includes our LC Online College START program, in which students receive a year of online instruction built for students with LD, giving them a jump start on college while living at home—building academic confidence before taking on the social challenges of living in a college environment. We also host summer and academic year programming for collegeage students, whether enrolled at another institution or not, to help them develop key skills for collegiate and career success.

You’re not alone No matter where your family finds itself along the college search journey, there are many added layers that can come with parenting a neurodivergent child during this time. And it is easy for students and parents alike to feel overwhelmed.

We at Landmark College are here to help, however we can, and regardless of where your child ultimately matriculates.

We often begin hearing from families as early as elementary or middle school, helping to answer questions about LD and to provide resources that can help set families and students up for success. Some of these resources are hosted under our free family resource hub, which I encourage families to explore.

This October, as America observes LD Awareness Month, we invite you to reach out to us to discuss how we can support your family, and to join us in celebrating learning difference as a strength, not a weakness. On our campus and beyond, we see the amazing things that neurodivergent learners accomplish every single day. As the world’s first college designed exclusively for those who learn differently, we are proud to have helped thousands of students accomplish their academic and career goals. We would love to work with your family and help your student do the same.

Michael Stefanowicz is the Vice President for Enrollment Management at Landmark College in Putney, Vermont. Mike has over 15 years of experience in collegiate admissions, and has earned a master’s in education leadership from St. Michael’s College. He also serves on his local school board in Chesterfield, New Hampshire, where is raising two elementary school-aged children.

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hese Massachusetts organizations offer support, information and/or advocacy for individuals with special needs, their parents and their caregivers. Many of these groups also offer referrals or links to related services.

Advocates for Autism of Massachusetts

Camp Jabberwocky

508-693-2339; www.campjabberwocky.org – From the end of June to the end of August, Camp Jabberwocky offers children and adults with a wide range of disabilities the chance to enjoy the summer in a small family-like community.

781-891-6270; https://autismalliance.org/resources/ afamadvocates-autism-massachusetts - Public advocacy organization offering resources regarding autism spectrum disorder. Click “links” for support centers in your area.

Doug Flutie, Jr. Foundation for Autism

The Arc of Massachusetts

Dream Day on Cape Cod

781-891-6270; www.thearcofmass.org - The Arc of Massachusetts provides education and systems advocacy to consumers, families, human services organizations, the public, legislators, other public officials, and the executive branch.

Association for Autism and Neurodiversity 617-393-3824; https://aane.org – The Association for Autism and Neurodiversity works with individuals, families, and professionals to help people with Autism build meaningful, connected lives.

Autism Services Association, Inc. (ASA) 781-237-0272; www.autismservicesassociation.org - Autism Services Association (ASA) provides community employment services, supported employment, Day Habilitation Program, and other clinical supports to young adults and adults with autism and other challenging developmental disabilities.

www.flutiefoundation.org – Provides family and technology grants through its programs, along with grants to nonprofit organizations that provide services to individuals with autism.

774-216-0990; www.dreamdayoncapecod.org – Serves families that have children with life-threatening illnesses and or serious conditions by “bringing a ray of sunshine” into their lives through their family camp, Camp Nan-KeRafe, located in Brewster.

Exceptional Lives

844-354-1212; https://exceptionallives.org/massachusetts – Exceptional Lives provides tools, information, support, and resources for families of children with disabilities in Massachusetts. We walk you through disability-related systems and processes in language that makes sense.

Federation for Children with Special Needs

617-236-7210; www.fcsn.org – Advocacy, resources and information for parents and professionals.

Home Modification Loan Program

www.mass.gov/mrc/hmlp – Facilitated by the Massachusetts Rehabilitation Commission, this program helps individuals with disabilities to fund access and safety modifications to their homes.

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Learning Disabilities Worldwide

Massachusetts Office on Disability

MAAPS: Massachusetts Association of Approved Special Education Schools

Massachusetts Sibling Support Network

978-897-5399; www.ldworldwide.org – This professional organization (for researchers, educators, clinicians and others) has a “parents” section on its website with current articles.

781-245-1220; www.maaps.org – MAAPS represents 81 member schools serving approximately 6,800 children with special needs from Massachusetts and other states and countries. MAAPS’ mission is to represent private special education schools in their goal of providing the highest quality education to students with special needs

Massachusetts Branch of The International Dyslexia Association

https://ma.dyslexiaida.org – Information and links to resources, such as recommended reading for parents and kids, as well as professional development workshops.

Massachusetts Advocates for Children

617-357-8431; www.massadvocates.org – Free legal services for income-eligible families on educational issues for children 3-22. Advocacy for parents, including Autism Special Education Legal Support Center.

Massachusetts Commission for the Blind

617-727-5550; www.mass.gov/mcb – Provider of services that promote independence and community participation.

Massachusetts Commission for the Deaf and Hard of Hearing 617-740-1600; www.mass.gov/mcdhh – Services for deaf and hard of hearing, including interpreting, case management and technology.

Massachusetts Department of Elementary & Secondary Education

781-338-3000; www.doe.mass.edu – The State’s education website offers information on special education, standardized testing, public schools and related topics.

Massachusetts Down Syndrome Congress

781-221-0024; www.mdsc.org – Statewide parent organization holds annual conference, picnic, and workshops throughout the year. Publishes a newsletter for parents. Maintains a list of parent support groups.

Massachusetts Family TIES

617-236-7210; https://fcsn.org/family-ties – Statewide information, referral, and parent-to-parent support network for families of children with special needs or chronic illness.

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617-727-7440; www.mass.gov/mod – Information and support concerning community, government and individual services for those with disabilities. Its primary mission is to ensure access.

617-807-0558; www.masiblingsupport.org – Committed to supporting brothers and sisters of people with disabilities by creating welcoming communities for siblings across the lifespan.

Massachusetts Special Olympics

508-485-0986; www.specialolympicsma.org – Sports training and athletic competition in a variety of Olympic-type sports for individuals with disabilities.

MassFamilies Organizing for Change

774-855-6001; www.massfamilies.org – Provides Family Leadership Series and works to educate the community about advocacy, services, and local, state and federal resources for individuals with disabilities.

Regional chapters throughout the state.

Parent/Professional Advocacy League (PPAL)

866-815-8122; www.ppal.net – A statewide network of families, local family support groups, and professionals who advocate on behalf of children and adolescents with mental, emotional or behavioral special needs, and their families.

Parental Stress Line

617-926-5008; https://parentshelpingparents.org – This 24-hour call line is staffed by Parents Helping Parents of Massachusetts and provides a supportive ear for parents. Parents support groups are also offered by staff and volunteers.

Partners for Youth with Disabilities

617-556-4075; 617-314-2989 (TT Y); www.pyd.org -Provides adult mentors, one on one and in groups, to kids ages 6 through 22 with disabilities.

Special Needs Advocacy Network

508-655-7999; www.spanmass.org – Supports professional advocates for people with special needs, offers referrals to Massachusetts special needs advocates, and provides special education workshops and training.

Wayside Youth and Family Support Network

508-879-9800; www.waysideyouth.org – We provide a wide variety of mental health counseling and family support services to children, young adults and families in Massachusetts. ✷

Applied Behavior Learning Services (ABLS) 617-467-4136 www.ablspartners.org

ABLS provides comprehensive, evidence-based interventions for individuals on the autism spectrum, supporting growth and development from the time of diagnosis through adulthood.

Berklee Institute for Accessible Arts Education (BIAAE)

22 Fenway and 7 Haviland St., Boston (Saturday Arts Education Programs) 8 Fenway, Boston (Day Sessions: ABLE Summer Music Program) 617-747-2760 www.berklee.edu/biaae The Berklee Institute for Accessible Arts Education is a catalyst for the inclusion of individuals with disabilities in all aspects of performing and visual arts education.

Boston Ballet Adaptive Dance www.bostonballet.org/ adaptive-dance/

Adaptive Dance offers three types of classes: • Specialized classes for individuals with Down syndrome ages 2–adult in Boston and Newton (Saturday and Sunday) • Specialized classes for individuals with Autism Spectrum Disorders ages 5–adult in Boston and Newton (Saturday and Sunday) • Inclusive classes for individuals of all abilities and needs ages 5–adult in Boston and Newton (Saturday)

Campus School at Boston College

235 Beacon Street, Campion Hall Chestnut Hill, MA 617-552-3460 www.bc.edu/campusschool Since 1970, Campus School at Boston College has provided exceptional education and care to students ages 3–22 with extensive support needs, including complex medical needs. As a private, publicly funded special education day school, we are uniquely situated within the Lynch School of Education and Human Development on the main Boston College campus.

Our location offers immeasurable benefits — access to teachers from the Lynch School’s Special Education graduate program, a vibrant Boston College undergraduate volunteer program, use of campus facilities, crossdepartmental collaboration, and meaningful connections with BC student-athletes and teams.

At the heart of the Campus School are our dedicated teachers, therapists, nurses, and staff, who work together to realize the potential of each one of our extraordinary students.

Cass & Company

75 State St., Ste 100 Boston, MA 888-453-2277 www.casscompany.com Cass and Company can assist you with all your household and domestic staffing needs. We maintain a large pool of professional candidates who provide a wide variety of services for your family and home. Cass & Company places quality candidates for live-out as well as live-in and full time/part time situations for our clients which includes private families, formal households, high profile individuals and celebrities as well as businesses and corporations.

Cognitive Neuroscience Group MGH Institute of Health Professionals

The Campus School offers rolling admission and currently has spaces available. Please contact us to inquire about admissions — we would be happy to share more.

1 Constitution Wharf Charlestown Navy Yard, MA 617-724-7363 https://www.mghihp. edu/research/labsfacilities/cognitiveneuroscience-group-cng/ arbel-lead-lab

Cardinal Cushing Centers 405 Washington Street Hanover, MA 781-829-1281 www.CushingCenters.org

curriculum and project-based instruction for students with autism, intellectual, and other developmental disabilities aged 6-22. Teams of special educators, related service providers, BCBA’s, and clinicians collaborate to ensure that all students enjoy learning, realize their potential, and see themselves as valued members of society.

Cardinal Cushing Centers is a day, and residential special education program that provides multi modal

Recruiting 8–12-year-olds with language difficulties to study how children learn!

Participants receive $150, a test score report, and free parking at

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the Charlestown Navy Yard after completing three in-person visits involving computer games and language tests.

Contact the MGH-IHP LEAD Lab at cnglead@mghihp.edu or call for more details!

Commonwealth Learning Center

220 Reservoir St., Suite 6, Needham, MA 781-444-5193 www.commlearn.com Commonwealth Learning Center is an independent nonprofit organization which provides 1-to-1 tutoring and education evaluation services to all ages (kindergarten through adulthood), in all subject areas. We specialize in assisting those who learn differently, including individuals with dyslexia, ADHD, high-functioning autism, executive functioning challenges, etc. Schedules are flexible, and financial aid is available for those who qualify.

Corwin-Russell School at Broccoli Hall 142 North Road, Sudbury, MA 978-369-1444 www.broccolihall.org

self-responsibility and confidence that allows them to take risks and unlock their interests, talents, academic and personal potential.

Our educational philosophy, based on the Latin “educare”, is based on trust, responsibility, expression and a belief in each other and the school community.

also offer an annual membership, which includes additional benefits.

Cotting School

Education Consulting, Advocacy & Legal Services, LLC

453 Concord Avenue, Lexington, MA 781 862-7323 www.cotting.org Cotting School meets the unique needs of students with a broad range of learning and communication disabilities, physical challenges and complex medical conditions by providing an array of collaborative services. Our day program is designed to empower students to realize their highest potential, both during and after enrollment.

Cotting Transition Institute 453 Concord Avenue, Lexington, MA 781 862-7323 www.cottingtransition.org

The Cotting Transition Institute (CTI) is a center of excellence located on the Cotting School campus in Lexington, “A school’s not a place - it’s Massachusetts. Our programs are people.” It’s a coming together of designed to educate and empower community and of beliefs shared adults with disabilities (ages by many. We believe that education 22+) and their families. Students includes learning to build stronger enrolled in the Cotting School connections to the world.

Capstone program (ages 18+) are also eligible to participate.We offer a The Corwin-Russell School at variety of services, including social Broccoli Hall is a small private and recreational events, groups college-prep school for around 35 for learning daily living skills, exceptionally bright students, grades workshops and seminars for parents 6 to 13. Through involvement in and caregivers, online resources and thinking, learning, communicating personalized 1:1 consulting. You can and evaluating, we help our schedule a consulting appointment students build the resourcefulness, and sign up for events a la carte. We 58 Boston Parents Paper | Special Needs Guide

Our programs and services include One-to-one consulting, Social events, Seminars, workshops & clinics, Access to online and in-person resources, including referrals to external organizations

999 Broadway, Suite 301, Saugus, MA 781-231-4332

www.educationandjuvenilelaw.com/

ECALS, LLC. is a private law firm that regularly works with parents and schools on a wide range of special education and regular education issues. We review IEPs and evaluations and attend disciplinary proceedings, Team meetings and BSEA Hearings. Please visit our website for further details.

The Gifford School

177 Boston Post Rd., Weston, MA 781-899-9500 www.gifford.org The Gifford School provides individualized educational services within a therapeutic milieu to neurodiverse students with complex academic, social-emotional, and behavioral needs that affect their ability to thrive in a traditional educational setting. Our mission is to offer a transformative learning experience that helps students develop emotional regulation strategies, social competencies, academic skills, and the executive functioning necessary to achieve their full potential. The Gifford School admits students of any race, color, and national or ethnic origin.

Kennedy Day School at Franciscan Children’s

30 Warren Street, Brighton, MA 617-779-1581 www.franciscanchildrens.org/ education/kennedy-day-school

disabilities, brain injury and neurobehavioral disorders, and other special needs.

Learning Prep School

1507 Washington Street, West Newton, MA 617-965-0764 www.learningprep.org

Melmark New England

Founded in 1970, Learning Prep School is a non-profit, Kennedy Day School at Franciscan independent day school approved Children’s combines more than by the Massachusetts Department sixty years of experience and of Elementary and Secondary proven expertise with an updated Education and is a member of facility that reflects our reputation The Massachusetts Association for excellence and innovation. We of Chapter 766 Approved Private provide fully collaborative special Schools. Complex learning profiles education, therapeutic and health services to students from across of our students involve a primary Massachusetts, ages three to twenty- language-based deficit such as a two with significant, complex specific learning disability, language medical, physical and cognitive disorder or communication needs. We have a year-round open disorders. Secondary diagnoses admissions policy. Kennedy Day may include ADHD, anxiety, autism School, so every kid can learn. spectrum disorder (level 1) and executive functioning weakness.

461 River Road, Andover, MA 978-654-4300 www.melmarkne.org

League School for Autism

Established in 1998 the first Melmark New England campus, set on nine acres in Andover, Massachusetts, features four children’s residences adjacent to the Andover day school and seven residences in neighboring towns to serve our children and adults.

300 Boston Providence Turnpike Walpole, MA 508-850-3900 www.leagueschool.org League School for Autism is a mission-driven organization that has maintained a vision of providing students on the Autism Spectrum with the respect, support, and opportunities needed to grow, learn, and prepare for the adult world.

League School is dedicated to excellence in autism education and individual development. With both Day and Residential programs, League School takes a wholechild approach to developing and implementing an individualized multidisciplinary educational, behavioral, and residential program for each student.

MAAPS

92 Montvale Ave., Ste 4150, Stoneham, MA 781-245-1220 www.maaps.org

MAAPS represents 81 member schools serving approximately 6,800 children with special needs from Massachusetts and other states and countries. MAAPS’ mission is to represent private special education schools in their goal of providing the highest quality education to students with special needs.

May Institute

Multiple Locations 800-778-7601 www.mayinstitute.org We are an award-winning nonprofit organization that provides educational, rehabilitative, and behavioral healthcare services to individuals with autism spectrum disorder and other developmental

Melmark New England programs provide residential, educational, and rehabilitative services for children, adolescents, and adults diagnosed with autism spectrum disorders, intellectual disabilities, and developmental disabilities. The individuals we serve are able to participate in community outings and trips, and a few of our adults work at off-campus vocational opportunities.

In 2023 Melmark New England’s newest day school opened in Stoughton, Massachusetts.

Milestones Day School and Transition Program

410 Totten Pond Road, Waltham, MA 781 895-3200 www. AdvancingMilestones.com At Milestones, students find a place where they feel they belong, often for the first time, and leave prepared for the next step in their journey.

Milestones serves approximately 90 co-ed, neurodiverse students spanning the ages of 5-22 in our year-round programming. Our multidisciplinary teams (clinical

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and academic) provide direct and embedded therapeutic instruction focusing on building skills in the areas of: academics and learning differences, executive functioning, psychological resilience, emotional regulation, sensory/motor, and social communication. Our high school and post-high school students generalize skill acquisition by participating in internships and externships, community-based instruction, and, if desired, college courses. Students emerge with the confidence and skills to achieve a variety of successes, including reentry to public school, meaningful relationships, fulfilling employment, and college admissions.

Dr. Moldover & Associates

555 Washington Street, Suite 5, Wellesley, MA 781-237-1735 www.drmoldover.com Dr. Joseph Moldover and associates provide high quality neuropsychological, psychological and educational evaluations for children and adolescents presenting with learning, developmental, and emotional challenges.

We emphasize a high level of responsiveness and continuity of care.

Perkins School for the Blind 175 North Beacon Street., Watertown, MA 617-972-7573 www.perkins.org

At Perkins, our mission is clear: We help children with disabilities find their place in the world. Perkins offers a continuum of services to address every need, ability and age

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– infancy through young adulthood – because we believe every child can learn. Learn more at Perkins.org/ admissions

Spina Bifida Association of Greater New England

Riverview School

The mission of the Spina Bifida Association of Greater New England is to build a better and brighter future for all those impacted by Spina Bifida. We envision a world in which everyone impacted by Spina Bifida is accepted and thrives.

551 Route 6A, East Sandwich, MA 508-888-0489 www.riverviewschool.org Specialized Education for Extraordinary Students Riverview School is an independent boarding and day school for students ages 11–21 with learning differences. Located on Cape Cod, Riverview offers a supportive, inclusive environment where students grow academically, socially, and emotionally while building independent living, wellness, and vocational skills.

Through individualized programming and family collaboration, Riverview empowers each student to develop their strengths, express their goals, and gain the confidence and competence needed for a fulfilling adult life.

Programs include Middle School, High School, and the GROW Transition Program, along with a five-week Summer Program designed to strengthen academics and independence while fostering friendships.

To learn more, contact the Admissions Office at 508-8880489 x206 or admissions@ riverviewschool.org.

P.O. Box 681, Natick, MA 888-479-1900 www.sbagreaterne.org/

We provide services throughout the lifespan to individuals and families living with Spina Bifida in all 6 New England states. We strive to support, connect, and empower our community.

Transition Experts: Guiding Students Toward Real Futures 714 Tolland Stage Road, Tolland, Connecticut 413-563-1898 www.transitionresponse.com

At Transition Experts, we specialize in Comprehensive Transition Assessment and Functional Vocational Evaluation—services that go far beyond checklists and generic goals. Our work aligns with IDEA standards and ensures every student has real, believable postsecondary goals that drive a meaningful IEP, adult plan, or, if needed, hearing proceedings.

But we don’t stop there. Through our white-glove, 24/7 mentoring and support services, students explore careers in the real world, develop independence, and gain confidence for life. We partner directly with parents to create a customized support plan, assemble a multidisciplinary team, and integrate the right technologies— because no two students are alike.

Attorneys and advocates also turn to us for expert evaluation and testimony. With experience in 20+ hearings, our expertise helps ensure that students’ rights and futures are fully represented.

If your family is navigating the transition to adulthood, Transition Experts is your trusted partner in building a future that is both

achievable and inspiring.

“immerses” an occupational therapist and speech therapist in every classroom to work directly The Wolf School 215 Ferris Ave., East Providence, alongside the special education teacher, building the necessary R.I. • 401-432-9940 services and lessons directly into the thewolfschool.org curriculum. This unique approach The Wolf School is a nationally is in contrast to a “pull out” model recognized K-8 private special of special education where students education school located in East are provided with speech or Providence, RI. Opened in 1999, occupational therapy in a separate The Wolf School works to address room and then required to apply the needs of children with multiple what they learned when brought learning differences, also known back to the classroom. By immersing as Complex Learners. Complex OT and speech/language support Learners have great capacity for into each lesson, students prepare learning, problem solving, creative their bodies to listen and attend to expression, and social relationships, task, and develop strategies to learn. but do not thrive in a traditional ✷ classroom.

The Wolf School is able to unlock our student’s potential through our innovative learning approach, the Immersion Model©. This approach

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