NOVEMBER 2022| VOL. 27 NO. 1
Restoring Hope...Transforming Lives ~ Since 1995
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OBERT’S STORY “I was really a small-town kid,” says Robert. Growing up in Granite Falls in Snohomish County was idyllic, until Robert’s mom was in a car accident and died due to complications. At the age of nine, Robert withdrew; not talking, anxious, and depressed. As an adult, he shares that it was the most traumatic life experience he has ever had, which paved the way to his future troubles.
I could get help.” Robert was reticent about staying overnight in the shelter – after one night he felt like a 90-year-old man waking up stiff as a board. The next day he heard the Tiny House coordinator talking about openings, so he asked her what it was all about and how someone could qualify. “I got in the very next day!” he exclaimed. That was in July, and since then he was hired on as kitchen help at the Mission.
Robert had to grow up fast and, along with his three brothers, was responsible to find work and help with family expenses. Then by his late teens he fathered a child. Robert dropped out of school to work and try to make a go of his new family; but it was too much, and they separated.
When asked what changes he has seen in himself, he says, “I am not on any meds now because I really feel that I have a purpose. I have found that if I keep busy, my mental health is good. I have also started attending church with a friend from the Mission – I think I am the youngest person that attends there!” (Robert laughs)
As new teenage parents, they made the difficult decision to put their child in an open adoption. Robert says he couldn’t be more blessed by the fact that his daughter went to her mother’s sister, so she remained in the family. To this day he visits her. The consequencesof his life choices ended in being homeless and on the streets until his mid-twenties when he found his way to the Everett Mission. There he was sober and working for several years, helping out with operations and doing desk work. When he left, he began to spiral down and get into trouble. Making wrong decisions again, he came to the Olympia area and, because of an altercation, he ended up in jail for four months. During that time, he was severely depressed, and they put Robert on medication. “I felt so zombish on the meds, and begged God for a second chance.” “When I was released, I only had the clothes I was arrested in, so I went to the local mission (Olympia Union Gospel Mission); it was a place where
“I do my Bible study on my own. I get a little confused when I read because it seems like it jumps around from one book to another, but I keep coming back to my favorite, the book of John.” At one point Robert referred to “we” as he was talking about reading the Bible. When asked who the other person with him was, he said “God. There are two of us, right?” A donor provides special prayer boxes filled with strips of paper with Scripture verses on them. “Each day,” says Robert, “I make my coffee and pull out a Scripture from the box. They are my little daily reminders. I hold on to my favorite ones. Like today’s, Psalm 50:5 I – it’s a keeper.”
I will have 2 years of being clean and sober I have a new reason to celebrate Thanksgiving. ~ Carrie
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