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Better Together: A Community Conversation

Waves In Blue & White

It’s always interesting to see how designers live in their own spaces. Diana Hanson Vadis, Making Waves Designs, took her love of beach views to create a home retreat — Making Waves — in a Daytona Beach Shores condo with her interpretation of modern Miami meets beach coastal with a bit of farmhouse comfort. It’s definitely nautical without going overboard.

Wonderful Weddings

Although this bridal season is not filled with the celebrations we expected, it is no less filled with heartwarming love stories and high hopes for the future. Two couples did not let the pandemic pandemonium stop them from their special days and industry professionals offer insights into what is changing and evolving for couples and their momentous occasions. Cheers to the brides and grooms!

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In this difficult period, we wanted to present some much-needed positive notes on how we are working together to be better. The voices — from women we admire in the community — represent powerful, personal, inspirational and important points of view on timely topics.

on the cover: Social distancing meant photographer Jim Hobart needed to shoot each of the ladies separately at his Macbeth Studio. Story on page 74.

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People, places and things: Orlando Museum of art showcases new acquisitions; Raffia and rope embellished sandals in all shapes and heel heights; A conversation with Kendra Scott on the Color Bar and latest jewelry styles debuting; Local insurance executive, UF graduate and born and bred Floridian Traci Sihle has launched LoveSwimSea; Nikki Basso and Brittany Gindin roll out their Two Awkward Birds mobile champagne and cocktail bar.

24 BEAUTY, BODY & SPIRIT Soothing scents can lift the spirit; Jeannette Johnson on changing our beauty outlook; Therapists Tracy Zboril and Cara Hewett discuss the COVID-19 hangover; Barbara Leach offers advice on saying no; Christi Ashby shares tips for managing expectations; Julie Wordell opens heat-healing Perspire; Drs. Deborah and Victor Harding urge us to exercise our brains; Women Who Inspire: author and speaker Liv Sain reveals her personal pain and recovery.

48 TASTES & EXPERIENCES Serve up a beautiful charcuterie platter; Top takeaways from local caterers and restaurants; Summer’s perfect drink — frosé; Bits & Bites: Tabla’s rich and aromatic Asian fare at two locations and Smoke & Donut’s meats and sweets.

56 HOME & DESIGN KBF Design Gallery’s more than 4,500 square foot showroom set to open in Maitland; Healthy Haven: The future of home design focuses on wellbeing through innovative design and products; 2020 Parade of Homes update and entry Il Fenice, a modern Mediterranean luxury home.

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68 AGENDA With no events on the calendar, readers show off their masks.

96 GIVING BACK Consultant and former Disney executive RK Kelley, explains how we can assist the art community during the pandemic.

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have started this note to you since early May when it began swirling around in my head. And each time I revisited what I thought my message was going to be something significant changed in the world. I have awakened in the night with a little anxiety about this issue in whole.

Summer and this edition are typically light and fluffy, beachy and cocktail-y, barefoot and carefree — but this season is anything but. So, we pivoted away from our normal content expanding the Beauty, Body & Spirit section because those are the messages we need now. We wanted to address all the big things happening from the continuation of COVID-19 to the unending fight for equality. Yet we wanted to present some much-needed positive notes on how we are working together to be better. The voices — from women we admire in the community — represent powerful, personal, inspirational and important points of view. Other pages in this issue are very different — there have been no events, so we have no Agenda photos. Instead, we asked you to

Clockwise, from top: Irene Ashby; Kate and Audrey Slentz; the Ashby family in New Smyrna Beach, July 2019

share you mask selfies to emphasize the fact that we are still

and numerous trucks. She was surprised and delighted with all

together, and masks are vital. This would also be the magazine

the attention from well-wishers. Even through glass and distanc-

with all the wonderful wedding stories and beautiful photo-

ing, we were happy to commemorate such an amazing occasion.

graphs. Well, I don’t need to tell you what’s happening in that

It really is amazing — and we are grateful she is still with us.

industry. However, we have two pandemic-style affairs as well as some insights from wedding professionals.

Then we were on baby watch as Kate was due to deliver baby Audrey — most likely the last of four grandchildren. We thought we

On my upbeat note, maybe you will have more moments to

would be called before the May 21 due date, but Miss Audrey was

read through this one! On a personal, positive vibe — we had two

taking her time. Obviously, we were not able to be at the hospital

very significant milestones in May. And although, they both were

— although AdventHealth Altamonte did a wonderful job of taking

very, very different than we imagined, joyous celebration ensued

care of them both. We delivered takeout to Mike as he was encour-

with lots of smiles and tears.

aged not to leave and waited patiently until we were able to see

On May 7 my mother-in-law Irene celebrated her 100th birth-

Audrey at home — masks on and hand sanitizer religiously applied.

day with a drive-by parade (lots of homemade signs and balloons)

And now we are counting down the hours until our family

of friends and relatives in cars, two fire engines, three ambulances,

beach vacation at New Smyrna Beach — a tradition that goes way back. We may not be visiting our regular haunts — Third Wave, Breakers, Flagler Tavern and Trader’s — but we will be together and at the end of the day that’s all that matters.

Happy summer — find some joy, worry a little less, and remember it’s the little things that matter.

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CONTRIBUTORS

Rikhil Amin Rania Arwani Scott Bowman Ginny Botts Vanessa Echols Stephanie Garris Deborah Harding, MD Victor Harding, MD Cara Hewett, MA RK Kelley Barbara Leach Karen LeBlanc Jamie O’Neill Barbara Poma Stacie Rathel Lisa Wilk Secily Wilson Julie Wordell Nina Yon Tracy Zboril, MSW PHOTOGRAPHER

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vibrant voices The Orlando Museum of Art has acquired two new works by celebrated American artists Bisa Butler and Kyle Meyer. Butler’s quilted wax print fabric piece, “Wangari Maathai,” depicts the eponymous Kenyan environmentalist and political activist in vibrant tones, while Kyle Meyer’s “Unidentified 105a” is one in a series of intricate works that interweave wax print fabric with the portraiture of subjects from the LGBTQ+ community in eSwatini (formerly Swaziland).

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raffia &rope Both natural and nautical woven fibers just scream summer. Whether wedges, platforms or slides these playful pairs can get you out of your favorite flip-flops in seasonal style.

(from top to bottom) Loeffler-Randall Charley espadrille gold-pleated lame; Kate Spade Disco with leather lining and sole; Coach Nita clog sandal in mixed materials

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(from top to bottom) Sam Edelman Gunner beaded slide sandal made in India; Tory Burch Crystal embellished slide with leather and rubber sole; Steve Madden Jaron block-heel slides with square toe; Sam Edelman Sareen cylindrical bock heel slip-on; Sophia Webster Laurellie multi-floral espadrille.

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raffia &rope (from top to bottom) Sam Edelman Backer slide with tortoise-shell logo brooch; Kate Spade Disco â&#x20AC;&#x2122;70s-inspired platform sandal; Steve Madden Jolted wedge with wrapped platform; Tory Burch Selby wedge espadrille with leather straps; Marc Fisher Alida wedge espadrille in suede with leather insole.

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PIECES TO FALL FOR The continued popularity of Kendra Scott jewelry is based on three things — it’s easy to wear, new collections come out seasonally and the name behind the brand knows what women want.

Freida multi-strand necklace in gold with a cobalt howlite

Ryder wrap ring in vintage gold

A recent Zoom call with Kendra Scott herself revealed her passion for what she does and her resilience in tough times. She shared the simple appeal of the Color Bar — in each store — where you can create your own custom pieces from dozens of stones. The Color Bar started as a three-day pop-up in Henri Bendel and was an immediate hit with customers. No surprise, since the company is based in Texas, turquoise is the #1 choice. Drusy, the sparkly bits inside of a geode is also a fan favorite as well as rose quartz, considered to be a healing stone. You can book your own Color Bar party at Kendra Scott in The Mall at Millenia. For fall Kendra introduced us to a lot of new bold shapes including the super lightweight Kaia hoop earrings in vintage gold — her favorite metal of the moment — she was wearing. As she talked about the other styles debuting, she explained the design origins and process. And she offered a little advice — mix your new pieces with older ones, layer your necklaces, stack your bracelets and consider a big cocktail ring.

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Kaia hoop earrings in vintage gold Some of the Color Bar options with drusy, turquoise, rose quartz and white howlite stones

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Who doesn’t want a little fun under the sun? Local insurance executive, UF graduate and born and bred Floridian Traci Sihle has launched LoveSwimSea with a bright line of swimwear and beach-inspired towels, jewelry and handbags. “I created my swimwear company this summer while spending time working from home in quarantine. My inspiration and drive to start this company came from shopping online swimwear companies that had ordinary designs with expensive price tags. I wanted to create a niche with my swimwear company that was affordable to everyone (all swimsuits are under $39) while still being fashionable, fun and sexy making women feel great about how they look. Our goal as a brand is to empower one another and whatever your body type is -- curvy, slim, tiny, or tall -we are all beautiful humans and we should feel good about the way we look,” she says. From classic silhouettes to ultra-glamorous pieces, LoveSwimSea celebrates every woman’s style in an undeniably playful way. Traci’s favorite item is the St. Barth’s one-piece swimsuit for only $25. “This colorful swimsuit reminds me of one of my favorite places I vacationed last year — St. Barth’s. It has an elegant European design that is timeless,” she adds. Traci is currently looking into designing her own swimwear line and adding more products every week. LoveSwimSea offers 10% off your first order with code SUMMER2020 and shipping is free for any order over $50. The online-only company ships worldwide and donates a portion of each sale to Coral Reef Alliance to save the planet’s valuable reefs. For information visit loveswimsea.com.

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Polka Dot Bikini, $25; Cowrie Gold Shell Necklace, $10; Cupcake towel, $14; Ruffled Monokini, $24.

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Two Awkward Birds Rolls The Bar

WE’VE HEARD OF RAISING IT, BUT IN THIS CASE WHEELING OUT THE BAR IS THE CONCEPT BEHIND A NEW BUSINESS FOR TWO LOCAL WOMEN. Nikki Basso and Brittany Gindin recently rolled out their Two Awkward Birds mobile champagne and cocktail bars. The colorfully painted Airstream trailers — the 21' will stay at the new Florida Craft Brewery in Sanford and the 10' one is available for private parties — are stocked and ready to serve. The ladies started talking about the concept about five years ago and looked into every angle, but because they wanted to be mobile the alcohol licensing was a challenge. “We gave up about three years ago — after we had gone through every attorney we could think of and it just wasn’t working out. My husband is opening Florida Craft Brewery in Sanford, so the light bulb went back on,” Nikki says. The stationary Airstream has champagne, wine, beer and fresh juice cocktails. “It’s really hard to find fresh juices. We became obsessed with Ghost Marys that are not available around here. After playing around with and perfecting it it’s now our signature drink,” she explains. The cocktail — unlike a heavy Bloody Mary — is made with just the tomato water (just juice and not any tomato pieces) with herbs and spices. “Our other signature cocktail is the Dirty Bird which is an even lighter version of the Ghost Mary with soda water added. So, it’s less a morning drink and more an evening cocktail,” The variety of libations at the brewery is a plus since many people don’t like beer or only like it in small amounts. “We wanted to make it more of a girls’ retreat while the guys enjoy their beer. We have a signature sparkling [Cava] — Provocativo — that is really big in Miami. It hadn’t made its way here yet, so we have an exclusive. It will also be family-friendly with a grass area and some kids’ specialties,” she says. They are working on adding live music and food trucks on weekends. As for the name? “A long time ago we went on vacation that involved a blow-up flamingo and we became obsessed with flamingoes. So much so that we have matching flamingo tattoos. I think we like them so much because they are such awkward birds — majestic but awkward,” she explains. For more information visit Facebook page, Instagram or email twoawkwardbirds@ gmail.com. 22

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From top: Brittany Gindin and Nikki Basso; the mobile Airstream trailer adorned with flamingoes; ingredients in Don’t Flock with Me cocktail with watermelon and jalapeño for a kick.

beautybody&spirit soothing scents Breathe in fresh smells this season with a new candle. (counterclockwise from top left) Capri Blue dual-toned candle has a pop of color, a punch of fragrance and a modern angled design with caged metal lid, Walk On Water, Lake Mary; Wax and Oils soy aromatherapy candle in Provence lavender with accent notes of subtle cedarwood and patchouli, available online (multiple sources); Illume Spring’s Eden tin candle in wild honeysuckle with lemon zest, dewy peach, pink freesia, blue cyclamen and woodsy magnolia, Anthropologie, The Mall at Millenia (curbside pickup available); Illume Thai Lily luxury soy candle with exotic citrus notes of Bali mango, blood orange, and white nectarine that are deliciously blended with Brazilian teak and Asiatic lily, The Grove, Winter Park (curbside pickup available); Nest votive candle in Sicilian Tangerine combining citrus, bergamot with nuances of passion fruit and mango over a base of musk and praline, available online (multiple sources). 24

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Beauty Full: BASHING OUTDATED DEFINITIONS For the past decade, since we were first introduced to fashion blogger and author Jeanette Johnson, we have kept up with her authentic journey — including her practical fashion posts, fashion shoots with us, the opening of a studio with her husband and her July fashion line launch on HSN — filled with personal revelations. She overcame her fashion and faith conflict but was still nagged by a more profound disparity in the beauty world. Addressing it in her new book, Beauty Full: Awakening to Your Radiance Within, here are some excerpts. I found myself, at 34 years old, overwhelmed

you need for your journey. The road really

thing about you. That it is the source of

by anxiety and depression. I was experienc-

does rise up to meet you. It was out of the

your beauty, that it is your enemy or ally in

ing unexplainable panic attacks and hardly

extraordinary time of healing that followed,

achieving beauty and that beauty is some-

ever leaving the house. I was buried under a

that Beauty Full was born.

thing you can achieve or fail. It uses our

combination of family trauma I had never

physical selves to define us, categorize us,

properly addressed from many years before,

Whether we choose to follow it or not, we

distract us, shame us, and control us, and

coupled with things in my current life that

know the Beauty Contract we belong to.

is largely ruled by beautyism — the preju-

were “not going well” — perceived failures in

Our senses are continually alerted to the

dice, stereotyping, or discrimination on

my career, and perceived failures in my rela-

smallest change of what’s expected of us,

the basis of outer appearance.

tionships. I could not see that my life had any

what we are mandated to do in order to “fit

Beauty Full teaches us a new definition

value at all. I was, in a word: miserable. On

in” by our families, friends, cultures and

of beauty. One that connects us to others,

my 35th birthday I canceled the birthday din-

institutions. We are aware of how our hair

is based on our soul, is abundant, and does

ner with friends I had been dreading and sat

is supposed to look, how our jeans are sup-

not require our striving. It is nothing like

alone on the beach. I made a deal with God: I

posed to fit, what size our waist should be.

the beauty we’ve experienced before. What

was going to seek healing — go into major

We understand that if we don’t follow

power we hold to be able to choose this

construction mode, do the deep digging and

these rules there will be punishments —

amazing new definition of beauty for our-

see if I could somehow remove the pain alto-

criticism, bullying, being left out. If we

selves and for future generations.

gether instead of constantly running from it.

don’t follow these rules there will be the

Your New Contract comes with immense

It’s not just something people say, but a uni-

withholding of positive things — praise,

community. You belong to a distinct club

versal truth, that “if you ask, you shall

compliments, romantic love.

now. You are in on the secret. You will

receive.” When you seek with your whole

The current, prevailing Beauty Contract

know, when you see that familiar glow,

heart, the universe will give you everything

says that your body is the most important

that others know the secret, too. You will

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see it in their eyes, in the way they carry

comes completely without our consent,

themselves, and recognize that they have

and it doesn’t feel as good.

found freedom from the Old Contract, too. You will see it in the immense beauty that

The New Contract is about taking that power back.

they radiate, a beauty that is not connected (necessarily) to what you see in the natural on their physical body, but you will know instinctively that it’s being Beauty Full when you see it. Your beauty is in your soul. Due to your divine nature, and the royalty from which you came, you radiate a beauty that is an everlasting part of your soul. It does not come from your actions. It does not come from your personality. It does not come from your physical body. It comes from you — really you, the part of you that is so you, you can never change it.

“Your beauty is in your soul.

Due to your divine nature, and the royalty from which you came, you radiate a beauty that is an

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everlasting part of your soul.

You have been conditioned to treat your body and the state of your outer appearance as a vehicle to serve others, to provide the people around you with pleasure. What’s that? you say, No, I do this for me! The Old Contract conditioned us this way, because it rewards us when we succeed — by giving us praise and adoration from the people who are pleased with our outer appearance. In this way, we think we are pleasing ourselves, when in reality, we must please others in order to get what we want. Under the Old Contract, our beauty is not for our enjoyment or satisfaction, but for the enjoyment and satisfaction others. Sometimes, we give them permission to bask in our beauty. We consent to the compliment, like when we’ve dressed up for a date. And it feels good. But other times, the approval or disapproval 28

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Jeanette Johnson is the founder of budget-friendly style blog J’s Everyday Fashion. In 2013, it was named a top 10 fashion blog by traffic in the United States with more than 15 million pageviews per year and has won multiple awards including ShopStyle’s Best Everyday Style in 2016. She regularly speaks at conferences, appears on morning show Daytime in Tampa, and has been on the board of directors of Samaritan Village, a residential recovery home for women survivors of sex trafficking, since 2018. She is the co-founder and creative director of Wall Crawl, a one-of-a-kind photo studio concept, which she opened with her husband in downtown Orlando in August 2019. She is also the co-founder of Eden & Ivy, a socially conscious clothing line that employs women survivors of trafficking in Nepal, coming to the Home Shopping Network (HSN) in summer 2020. To read more visit thebeautycontract.com and download a free copy. You can follow Jeannette on Instagram (jseverydayfashion) and email her at j@jseverydayfashion.com.

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COLLECTIVE COVID HANGOVER:

Coping In An Uncertain World by Tracy Zboril, M.S.W and Cara Hewett, M.A., Soul Happy

It can safely be said that most of humanity is in the throes of a post-COVID-19 hangover. Symptoms of this hangover include confusion, uncertainties, insecurities and general overall anxiety.

nlike a few-too-many-margar-

whole lives to depend on others to give us

ita hangovers, this one doesn’t

advice. Our ability to look within ourselves

go away the next day. The

to find our own coping mechanisms is a

head spins, fogginess and

foreign concept. This is the biggest wake-

confusion are lasting several

up call of all. Resiliency during this hang-

weeks, and according to many govern-

over is not some fluffy self-help advice, it’s

mental experts, it may continue for many

imperative for higher functioning, period.

months. We have been longing to wake up,

We have to understand that in order to

feel normal and stable again, to put our

maintain our sanity, we must create lives

feet on the ground and feel secure.

for ourselves that embrace these hangover

Wouldn’t it be easy if we could lie down,

side effects.

take an aspirin and stop this perpetual

We must find a new normal amid all of

wave of COVID chaos? Just take a pill and

this uncertainty and barrage of negativity,

poof, all better, clarity, headache gone.

The thing is, during this time, we have

and it’s not going to be easy. It takes a pow-

In fact, many of us are realizing that

looked to authorities that seemingly know

erful will to create a new perspective of

our notion of normalcy may need to be

much about this virus to help us find the

emotional normalcy. It takes discipline and

redefined. In many cases, our very lives

solutions to this global problem. It is now

effort to change the narrative in our heads.

may depend on it.

for all of us to see that governments and

Instead of the gloom and doom, we must

Collectively, our mental and emotional

health officials are at a loss to know any-

try on a new default thought, one of accep-

health is hanging in the balance. An

thing for certain about this pandemic. It is

tance of greater possibilities. Creativity

untold reality is lurking in our pandemic

a scary reality and the unknown course of

and inspiration are powerful traits to find

wake. Mental health professionals are see-

action has become debilitating and para-

within the deep creases of seemingly des-

ing a huge rise in suicides, addictions and

lyzing for us.

perate situations.

depression. This grim reality has taken a

Our culture teaches us to rely on others

Taking the time to practice this new

backstage place among the stats being

to make all things normal for us, and lately

way of thinking is a proven way to combat

presented in the mainstream news. It’s

things are not going our way. Ask anyone

the negativity.

time to look at the emotional toll it is tak-

still waiting on receiving their govern-

ing on all of us. Wouldn’t it be great to have

mental benefits.

a blood test to determine post-COVID mental and emotional instability?

We are so used to quick fixes that we

Here is a simple scientifically based approach to reprogram your mind to think in a different, more positive way.

don’t even know what to do when solu-

Rehearse imaginative positive thoughts

Truth is, we have a long mask-wearing,

tions to our problems are unknown. More

that serve you. This may involve taking time

6-foot social distancing road ahead of us,

importantly, we have given our power over

every day to visualize a winning scenario

and the light at the end of that tunnel is

to those that “know better” to tell us how

such as your place of employment re-open-

blurry to say the least. So, what is the

we must continue living.

ing to many re-imagined opportunities. See

answer now? Clearly, no one really knows. 30

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In fact, we have been programmed our

positivity within the work environment:

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you are smiling and happy; you have a

dinary abilities. Now is the time to uncover

mental officials are meant mainly for infor-

new attitude; you are grateful to have this

these realities of human potential, and the

mation and support. It’s time for intelligent,

newfound joy after this global reset. Visu-

timing could not be more relevant.

self-directed accountability.

alize it and most importantly, sense the

Here is the hardcore fact, the truth is in

This hangover will not last forever, we

environment, be in the moment, drawing

plain sight, there is no lifeline, and it’s up

will come out of it. When we do, however,

on elevated emotions to create the experi-

to you on how to navigate these uncharted

we must not have lost the sense of self

ence. The trick here is to believe it is really

waters. Stop looking to authorities for your

accomplishment we have gained from this

happening. Take the time to practice this

own answers. Therapists, clergy or govern-

time of unprecedented uncertainty.

visualization daily in a quiet, undisturbed setting. This mind-programming concept

Soul Happy’s founders Tracy Zboril, M.S.W., and Cara Hewett,

is based on the breakthroughs associated

M.A., are both seasoned therapists who have been practicing

with the up and coming field of neuroplas-

in the field, in private practice, hospitals and clinics, for over

ticity.

40 years collectively. After working with clients for decades,

This is not the work of amateurs, it is

looking deep into how their past disappointments have had

going to require self-awareness, an under-

such negative impacts on their lives, the pair became frustrat-

standing of the environment you are cre-

ed with the barriers the psychotherapy industry faced. Within

ating in your mind, focusing attention on

the past 10 to 12 years, there were major breakthroughs in

your own thoughts, and being careful to

neuroscience that Tracy and Cara utilized to develop, prac-

eliminate the ones that sabotage your full-

tice and enhance what is now the Soul Happy Technique. For

on sensory creation. You can co-create your

more information relating to intelligent mental self-care,

reality by understanding your own extraor-

check out their website at soulhappy.com.

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Cara Hewett and Tracy Zboril

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JUST SAY NO — AND PLAN FOR IT Attorney and newly-elected judge Barbara Leach was scheduled to speak at our March 31 Orange Appeal Ladies Luncheon, but that had to be cancelled. We reconvened via Zoom in late May and she shared her tips for saying no to obligations and invitations without regrets. Here is Part 1 of advice from her talk.

I LOVE HEARING THAT A LOT OF YOU ARE USING THIS TIME TO REGROUP and focus on your personal

And why do we struggle with it? I have not done professional research, but this is

But we have to embrace the fact that we

and familial, professional and community

what I have garnered over the last 50

can’t do it all. What if we all just made a

priorities. I hope — I say this for myself

years of, quite frankly, suffering from

commitment to afford ourselves grace and

and you all — that we can carry this com-

FOMO (fear of missing out). Years ago, I

leading by example? As a collective, if we

mitment forward once life resumes to the

had friends who were members of the

all lowered the bar a bit, and stopped try-

new normal. I would encourage you to

Central Florida Herb Society who got

ing to be extra, that could afford us all a

take some of what I suggest and use that to

together once a month at Leu Gardens to

chance to breathe a little. I think these

buttress and support what you have identi-

talk about their plants, gardens and reci-

resonate with most women, but you need

fied are your priorities.

pes. My girlfriends asked me to join and I

to define what your trigger is.

Why is saying no a problem for us?

surprise cupcakes at our girlfriend’s house because she has a tough day.

I feel like I don’t say no a lot myself, but

did even though I didn’t have any plants. I

I have continued to get better. I historically

didn’t even cook with herbs. I just wanted

KNOW YOUR PRIORITIES

— the past eight years — ate 15 out of 21

to hang out with my friends.

How can we know what’s important to us

meals a week outside my home, either

and what our drivers are? First, you have

A to point B. Because as a person whose

LOSE THE FOMO & LOWER THE BAR

business was referral based and who loves

So, for me the number one reason I strug-

haven’t taken that step. You can start by

people and the community, I was just go,

gle with saying no is because of FOMO. I

establishing a personal vision or mission

go, go. So how am I a person to tell anyone

think women in particular struggle with it

statement. I know that sounds crazy, but

how to say no?

because they don’t want to hurt other peo-

we do it professionally. If we could just

with someone else or enroute from point

to be honest with yourself. It’s difficult to be honest with someone else when you

I have learned to be more strategic. I

ple’s feelings. Sometimes we just go along

pivot that concept to who am I and what’s

want to empower you and allow you the

even though it’s probably something we

important to me, that can articulate what

space to say no more comfortably. And if

shouldn’t be involved in. But we are actu-

your priority is. If you want to take it fur-

you can say it more authoritatively and

ally hurting the person who is asking us.

ther, you could even create a strategic

with more sincerity then people will per-

Another thing that adds to this is that we

plan. We look at what our goals are in five

ceive it more gracefully. So, here is my

feel we should be able to do it all. We should

or 10 years professionally, but we don’t

wisdom along with what I have collected

be able to be involved in our community

necessarily do it personally.

from people on my journey. You don’t

organizations and we should be room mom;

Take some time to discover what’s really

always need to know the answer just know

we should be working on our business seven

important to you. If you’re single talk to

people who do.

days a week; and we should be dropping off

your friends. If you have a significant other

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WORDS of WISDOM

or spouse, talk to them about what is

nity to meet more people.

important to us as a collective and what is

As a small business owner, I embraced

important to us individually. That way you

that approach. I tried to do three — but it

have a road map of your priorities and it

was probably more like six. But the idea of

allows you to limit your scope a bit more. If

having targeted interactions is very bene-

you have a strong connection to a cause or

ficial while you are trying to build your

a group, it’s easier to say no to other things

brand.

that don’t fall into that arena.

BE STRATEGIC

CREATE A ROAD MAP Another advantage of limiting your scope

It’s such a great way to shift your mindset.

is being able to have a good return on

Because saying no is going to potentially

investment. I was once on the board of a

allow you to say yes to something else. I

very prestigious professional organization,

had a colleague I respected tell me once

but no one in Central Florida knew it. I was

it’s really easy to get inundated with options,

giving my time, but not getting the return I

Barbara Leach, a newly-elected Circuit Court

so he explained his three-prong approach.

needed to grow my business. Then I started

judge, was a family law attorney who ran her

Be part of a professional organization in

volunteering with organizations on a state

own law firm for eight years before joining

your field. Be part of a community/philan-

level but when I decided to run for judge I

Conti Moore Law, PLLC. Barbara grew up in

thropic organization. And be part of some-

knew I needed to keep my commitments

Daytona Beach and has called Orlando home

thing either faith-based or political. It gets

local. What made it easier for me to walk

since 1992, having graduated from both

you out in the community and out of your

away from these things was the fact that I

Valencia Community College and Rollins

comfort zone and affords you the opportu-

was following my own road map.

College Hamilton Holt School.

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WORDS of WISDOM

Managing Expectations = Fewer Disappointments

by Christi Ashby

few years ago, I experi-

only felt depressed and left out. I had

lured in by looks or swayed by status.

enced the grandest “a-ha”

neglected to be specific and clearly com-

That’s when I met my husband — we just

moment of my life — and

municate my wish. After that I started

celebrated our 37th anniversary.

it would change every-

sending Santa very detailed letters, often

thing. As an eternal opti-

with pictures of exactly what I wanted.

Still that one “win” did not stop the unrealistic expectations. We’ve all heard the defi-

mist I always pictured the perfect scene.

Unfortunately, I did not use that tactic

nition of insanity — doing the same thing

Leading up to the subject of my vision I

in my life and continued on a roller coaster

over and over and expecting a different

was blissfully happy and excited about

of exciting build-ups and disappointing let

result. I would stay in jobs thinking things

what was to come. One Christmas when I

downs. This pattern included personal

would change, that people would be differ-

was about 6, I anxiously awaited Santa’s

relationships, professional situations, birth-

ent, that I would be recognized, that I would

arrival with my dreamed-about doll. I

days, holidays and vacations. Post-college

achieve what I set out to accomplish. I gave

imagined playing with my neighborhood

life found me searching for my Prince

employees too many chances to improve. I

friends later in the day. When the big

Charming — it sounds ridiculous now —

let friends continually cause me anxiety. I

morning revealed an unanticipated sur-

and entering into one bad relationship

waited for bosses to see the worth in my

prise — a large, almost life-sized doll — I

after another. Finally, I told myself I just

work. I wasted vacations worrying about

was crushed. I did meet up with my

wanted someone who was kind to me and

what wasn’t going right. I got into disagree-

friends who all had new Barbies and I

would treat me well. I was not going to be

ments with the people I loved the most.

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• Evaluate: after a situation that

Sometimes, though, when I knew I

I have learned to let things that will never

was going to be in a challenging situation,

be right go, to scale back the drama and

goes right or wrong look at what

I would imagine the worst-case scenario.

self-absorption and to follow my three

caused it to go that way

Inevitably, it was never as bad as I imag-

new rules.

ined. But in just preparing for a less-thanperfect outcome I was ready for whatever played out. But I didn’t really let go of the fairy tale visions until I was introduced to the Enneagram (nine personality types) as explained

Managing expectations has been par• Envision: what do I want to

ticularly hard during the pandemic as

happen and what can I actually

there are so many unknowns. So, I have

control.

tried to keep my thoughts on what I can

• Focus: stay in the moment to take in what is actually happening

do, what is in my control and what keeps me fulfilled.

by Lisa Oz at a breakfast event. As I listened intently, I could not believe what I heard. How could I be a romantic. I don’t dress in lace and ruffles. I hate cheesy gestures. How can this be? But as the description continued, everything clicked. In one of the definitions of this personality type, romantics believe you can regain the lost ideal love or perfect state by finding the love or situation that is unique, special and fulfilling. Consequently, romantics are idealistic, deeply feeling, empathetic and authentic; they can also be dramatic, moody and sometimes self-absorbed. There it was… me to a “t.” I also realized how others important in my life were coming from different personalities. None was right, none was wrong, it just helped explain a lot. Immediately, my working relationship with my daughter Kate started improving as I better understood where she was coming from. And I vowed to start managing my expectations better. One expectation I overcame was how entrepreneurial success is defined for many. You start a business, grow the business, expand your workspace and employee count while making more and more money. I had held that vision in my head for years after starting Orange Appeal until I realized those things were not fulfilling me. In fact, they were adding undue stress and keeping me from doing what I was better at and loved. I am not 100 percent “cured” of my unreal expectations, but I am much better.

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HEALING HEAT Longtime Central Florida resident and wellness enthusiast Julie Wordell decided to bring the heat to Central Florida by opening three locations of Perspire Sauna Studio, which are the first infrared sauna therapy franchise

“

locations to open in the state. erspire Sauna Studio offers the

infrared sauna therapy.”

for mood and reading, Bluetooth connec-

opportunity for a more holistic

The first location, opening this sum-

tivity and a glass skylight roof.

and healthy approach to well-

mer in Winter Park on Aloma Avenue,

“Because the saunas use infrared light,

ness, which is why I was origi-

will be a 1,900-square-foot studio with 10

not a harmful UV light, the light reaches

nally drawn to the franchise

private rooms (including one ADA-com-

deep into the skin and raises the core tem-

concept,” Julie says. “As we all begin to

pliant room) constructed of antimicrobial

perature of your body, which is why it is so

look for ways to maintain our health and

and antibacterial cedar and equipped with

successful in creating a detox. This therapy

wellbeing in a postpandemic world, the

a state-of-the-art infrared Clearlight Sanc-

actually dates back to the 1970s when it

saunas will provide a safe and private way

tuary Sauna. Design elements of each pri-

was first used to help treat cancer patients.

to do just that. We’re looking forward to

vate sauna room will feature a detailed

It’s a private way to reset your health, pro-

introducing guests to the many benefits of

glass-front design, recessed accent lights

viding a gentle, soothing therapeutic heat that supports relaxation, relieves aches and pains, and helps muscles recover faster,” she explains. As the body is producing sweat and pumping blood, it is also burning calories (200-400 per session), which can enhance weight loss through regular use. Additionally, a 40-minute sauna session eliminates deeply embedded impurities and dead skin cells, helping with skin purification and leaving the skin glowing and immaculately clean. Medical-grade chromotherapy technology using the visible spectrum of colored lights to help sooth various diseases and ailments, such as reducing swelling and inflammation to pain relief, accelerating healing, improving circulation, sleeping patterns, and regulating mood is also available. The saunas will also feature premium amenities, including Smart TVs with Hulu and Netflix, and a cold eucalyptus-infused towel after each session. For more information, visit perspiresaunastudio.com and follow the Winter Park location on Facebook at PerspireWinterPark.

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Make Your Brain Stronger by Deborah Harding, MD, and

Victor Harding, MD, Harding Medical Institute WE FREQUENTLY GET QUESTIONS FROM PEOPLE WHO HAVE CONTEMPLATED RETIRING BUT ARE WORRIED ABOUT HOW TO KEEP FROM GETTING BORED AND LOSING THEIR MIND’S EFFECTIVENESS. DURING THIS TIME OF PROLONGED QUARANTINE, WE HAVE HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO REALLY THINK ABOUT THIS QUESTION. AS A RESULT, HERE ARE SOME KEY POINTS OF INTEREST.

PERHAPS THE MOST IMPORTANT

Use It!

if you work to increase the strength of

CONCEPT is that people who want to

Most importantly, use your brain as much

your brain. By doing this you hopefully

enhance or at least maintain their brains

as you can. Many people suggest learning a

will find that you will be able to reduce

need to keep their brains active. Repeat-

new language. Other people take college

stress by developing better solutions for

edly, I have become a believer in the old

courses or the equivalent. You can become

any problems which might arise.

saying, “Use it or lose it!” How true that

an avid reader, study multiple things, write

It is incredibly important to see your-

seems to be.

term papers and teach. Just do whatever it

self as having a valuable role not only for

When people stop working, particularly

takes to get you to maximize the use of

yourself, but also for others. Older people

in retirement, they frequently stop using

complex thoughts. Other examples include

often forget that they have a world of expe-

their brain as much. It is so important to

doing crossword puzzles, studying history,

riences and ideas that may not have been

avoid this mistake. A fair percentage of

contemplating spiritual traditions, learn-

witnessed by younger or less experienced

people who retire will suffer cognitive

ing to play a musical instrument (www.

people. Almost everybody can continue to

decline. In most cases some or all of this

Simplypiano.com) or understanding new

have a positive influence on other people’s

decline can be avoided or delayed with

technologies. Do whatever motivates you

lives. Those influencers can be direct with

planned and constructive use of the brain.

to think hard. There are several excellent

one on one sessions with other people,

There is emerging data that brains

websites that have online courses. These

even if that is on an internet basis. You can

have the ability to regenerate, at least to

include Linkedin Learning (linkedin.com/

share your ideas with basically anyone

some degree. This regeneration depends

learning) and Master Classes (masterclass.

who’s willing to listen. Even if no one lis-

on multiple factors including hormonal

com) and multiple online courses from a

tens, people can still benefit themselves by

levels, dietary and nutritional health, and

variety of high schools and colleges, includ-

thinking about new ideas. We often think

physical health. It is very important to

ing Harvard and Stanford. Adult programs

about the Beatles song discussing Father

think of the brain as an incredibly com-

are readily available from library and pub-

McKenzie who wrote sermons “that no

plex machine that needs a lot of mainte-

lic-school systems, as well.

one would hear.” Just the act of writing

nance to function properly. We also like to

the sermons would likely have been a good

say that people need a lot of positive men-

Practice Positivity

tal attitude to be successful as well.

The second major concept is to have a pos-

also work to help others directly or indi-

So, we put together a series of concepts

itive mental attitude. If you have to learn to

rectly through charitable organizations

that we like to discuss with our prospec-

live with a new problem or disability, you

such as Rotary, Salvation Army, or those

tive or new retirees.

will find much more likelihood of success

offered by a variety of places of worship.

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thing for Father McKenzie. People can

beautybody&spirit Maintain Health

youtube.com/watch?v=WsC4kBdXB20

Stay healthy as best you can. Many studies

&t=443s, https://youtu.be/yaQZFhrW0fU

have shown the incredible importance of

and read his book Make Your Bed. These

maintaining good physical health as a way

are inspirational and his ideas can be

of enhancing your ability to think. Also,

applied to daily life. Think young.

some cognitive declines are based on med-

None of us currently in good health

ical or genetic conditions. Tremendous

know how long we have to live, or at least

progress is being made with research into

how long we will have the gift of good

the fields of Alzheimerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s and other demen-

health and an excellent quality of life. My

tias. Knowledge is power, and everybody

husband and I recently mourned the very

who feels they are suffering from unex-

sudden passing of his 74-year-old, previ-

pected mental or physical declines should

ously healthy brother Bruce, who sudden-

seek medical help, which is increasing

ly died on a walk. We will never know if it

exponentially as research rapidly advances.

Get dressed every day, exercise, clean your

was an effect of an undiagnosed and

Supplements such as Vitamin B12, folic

room and kitchen religiously, donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t get

asymptomatic Covid-19 infection, or did

acid and Omega-3 may be useful. Hormone

behind. Look at writings by Stephen Covey

he have a heart attack or some other

replacement, such as thyroid, may also

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Stay

event? We have had a chance, however, to

play a role.

organized. Work every day to improve the

think about how his brother enjoyed life to

quality of your life. For excellent advice, lis-

the very end. He got to spend four weeks

Be Inspired

ten to commencement addresses by Navy

with his family as he fled New York trying

Believe you still have time to change the

Seal Admiral William McRaven (2020 MIT

to escape catching the virus. He died in a

world. Develop habits that are beneficial.

and 2014 University of Texas) https://www.

remote area of North Carolina where, in

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theory, no one had died from the virus. He was a true believer of a phrase, which we use often, “Function in disaster, and Finish in style.” Today or this week might represent a new chapter in your life. Hopefully, this will be the first of many new chapters. However, particularly in these times of pandemic, there is a chance this may also be the last chapter. Don’t finish your book, your life, with a whimper. Athletes have a saying, “Never leave anything on the field.” And in the words of poet Dylan Thomas, “Do not go gentle into that good night.” Dr. Deborah Harding is board certified in internal, sleep disorder and anti-aging medicine. The Harding Medical Institute is located in MetroWest. Learn more at hardingmedicalinstitute.com.

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beautybody&spirit WOMEN WHO INSPIRE – AN ADVENTHEALTH FOR WOMEN SERIES

Liv Sain: Liv To Tell

It takes a good dose of courage and a lot of self-realization to share your deeply personal journey of hitting rock bottom and your struggles to overcome addiction and mental health issues, but Liv Sain wants to help other people, particularly teens and young adults to live knowing they are not alone in their challenges. Her new book Liv To Tell has been at the top of the Amazon best-seller list and she hopes to continue telling her story to local students.

“

thought it was time to let it all out.

her father, Gary Sain, with whom she was

into a rehab facility for the alcohol abuse

It was very therapeutic. The Coro-

very close. She and her mother Pam became

and suicidal thoughts.

navirus actually helped me finish

even tighter after that starting a company

“In the days before I went into treat-

it because there was nothing to do.

— Staying Sain — and writing books based

ment there were several nights where I

I kept going back and forth about

on Gary’s experience and wisdom.

was very close to ending my life. And one

whether I wanted to write it all or not.

But even her mother did not know the

night my mom came over and discovered I

And my mom kept telling me to continue

depths of her pain. Liv shares that she was

had been googling ways to die. I got so

— she really pushed me. I didn’t know if I

very good at hiding her drinking, but her

mad at her because she was interrupting

could do it, but I have gotten so much posi-

mom finally noticed and when confronted

me. The following evening, I finally came

tive feedback from people who have read it

she denied there was a problem. “She

clean to her. I told her I just couldn’t take it

and how it’s really helping those who are

started seeing a change in my behavior

anymore. I admitted to the drinking.

struggling,” Liv says.

and the people I was hanging out with. I

Within the next two days I found a place

Liv had endured many challenges in

went to a very dark place,” she adds. By

where I could go for treatment. I did all the

childhood that continued into early adult-

October 2019 she was suicidal and later in

paperwork, I was ready. I knew if I didn’t

hood, including the unexpected death of

the month Liv voluntarily checked herself

go nothing would change,” she explains.

LIV TO TELL

“The root cause of addiction is mental illness. The underlying nature of mental illness is self-inflicted, which only prolongs suffering.”

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In the very stark and dark letter to her younger self Liv shares her life’s difficulties. Here are a few of the revelations: ° Brace yourself. You are going to go to hell and back… literally! ° You’re going to be bullied for having Tourette’s Syndrome. ° You’re going to suffer from having seizures for 10 years. ° You’re going to be diagnosed with Central Auditory Processing Disorder, making traditional settings extremely difficult. ° You will enter high school at a fourth-grade reading level. ° You will have speech and language delays. ° This is nothing compared to what you’re going to face in your 20s. Your 20s will be the worst years of your life. Liv To Tell is not just about Liv’s story, but is also a workbook filled with thought-provoking exercises including how to live beyond the pain. She offers three ways people deal with pain: ° Being in pain and admitting you are in pain. ° Being in pain and not doing anything about it. ° Not knowing you are in pain.

In addition to her addiction Liv was diagnosed with bi-polar disorder. Suddenly, it all made sense to her. “I had been undiagnosed for 31 years. Once I started on medication, the negative and suicidal thoughts ended,” she says. Liv actually enjoyed her stint in rehab because, “it was like that childhood bliss again. We had to learn how to enjoy the little things and all we could do was go to therapy, talk to each other, and sit with our thoughts. There was nothing to do but be comfortable in your own skin. We found joy in the little things, even if it was just doing a puzzle,” she adds. She is honest in her assessment that staying sober and on course is difficult, even admits to a brief relapse during the initial phase of the pandemic. But this time she was honest with her mom and credits both of her parents with giving her the foundation to succeed.

NEED HELP MAINTAINING YOUR HEALTH AND WELLBEING?

Doreen Forsythe, BSN, RN

One call to AdventHealth for Women’s Health Navigation Team. can help you coordinate all you and your family’s health care needs. AdventHealth for Women understands the intricate role women play in their family’s healthcare decisions and needs. Doreen Forsythe, BSN, RN, is a specially trained registered nurse who is available to help women access AdventHealth’s extensive network of services across Central Florida. Doreen and her team not only provide expert, clinical assistance, but also help manage your overall care and identify ways to speed up the process of scheduling physician appointments and procedures. The health navigation team acts as your personal advocate — creating a seamless healthcare experience that focuses on health, wellness, hospitality and convenience. From online scheduling to virtual appointments, AdventHealth is making it even easier to access the care you need, when you need it. No matter what kind of women’s or children’s health services you or family need, the Health Navigation can connect you with the right doctors and resources to ensure you receive the best treatment available. This complimentary service is available to anyone. Learn more at HerHealthNavigator.com.

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tastes&experiences pretty platter The French word for cured meat is charcuterie and the beautiful boards that have become more and more popular are actually edible works of art. Combining contrasting colors, shapes and flavors and arranging them in a pleasing pattern is the key. Ingredients can include meat, pate or spreads, cheeses, nuts, fruit, pickles, baguette slices and crackers. Add some condiments like grainy mustard to spark the taste buds. This lavish spread is from Tessaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Table (Instagram: tessas.table, hello@tessastable.com).

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TOP TAKEAWAYS! DURING THIS VERY STRANGE SEASON ONE THING HAS REMAINED A CONSTANT — ORDERING UP OUR FAVORITE DISHES AND ENJOYING THEM AT HOME. FROM RESTAURANTS TO CATERERS HERE’S WHAT CUISINIERS CATERED CUISINE 407-975-8763 | cuisinierscater.com

THEY SAY ARE THEIR POPULAR PICKS.

Chef Jamie McFadden, Cuisiniers, reports

Owner Deborah Linden, The Vineyard

toes, green beans and Florida sweet corn

the lavish charcuteries platters — meats,

Wine Bar & Healthy Bistro [located in

on the cob); and Black Angus Hanger

cheese, olives, pickled vegetables, cranber-

The Grove Shopping Center, Apopka-

Steak (with mashed potatoes, green beans

ries, almonds and crackers — have been a

Vineland Rd.], says, “Our top takeaways

and a garlic sofrito).

top take-out item. The fully loaded item

for summer lunch or dinner are our Peace

“Because of the effect COVID-19 has

serves 25-35 people. They are also offering

Bowl and our Stir Fry. Made in our

had on our industry Eddie and I also

a Summer Express Party Service with a

scratch-kitchen, they both have incredible

founded a local nonprofit called the Res-

full buffet setup in your home for family

fusions of flavors and are vegan, vegetarian

taurant & Allied Partnership of Central

gatherings.

and gluten-free. You can add non-GMO

Florida (RAPCF) to get valuable informa-

chicken, shrimp or salmon if you like. The

tion to local chefs and restaurateurs. It is a

Peace Bowl has a base of twin pyramids of

charity designed to benefit local member

brown basmati rice and quinoa. We com-

restaurants. In October the RAPCF will

bine a medley of fresh, seasonal vegetables

be hosting a charity benefit called the

and top it all with a mild coconut curry

Monster Mash Ball at the Dr. Philips

sauce. The Stir Fry is a favorite because of

House with 30-food, beer, wine & liquor

its ginger molasses sauce, covering fresh,

stations and an online auction. The pro-

seasonal vegetables and basmati brown

ceeds will go to participating restaurants

rice. Since we’re also a wine bar, we can

to help during these trying times. More

suggest a perfectly paired wine for both

information for the nonprofit can be found

entrees. We’re open for dine-in (limited-

at rapcf.org and information on the Mon-

capacity indoors and on the patio) as well

ster Mast at rapcf.org/monster-mash,” Nick

as curbside pickup.”

adds.

At Bites & Bubbles, a local, independently

Arthur’s Catering recently celebrated its

owned and operated restaurant in the

35th anniversary and owner Mark Leggett

Mills 50 District of downtown Orlando,

offered up two popular menu offerings.

proprietors Nicholas Olivieri and Eddie

“These two delicious and eye-appealing

Nickell share their customer’s choices:

menu offerings from our Executive Chef

Softshell Crab (panko-crusted softshell

Julie Noggle and her out-of-the-box culi-

crab with a tequila Meyer lemon butter

nary team.” The items are Korean BBQ

sauce over heirloom tomatoes); Whole

Rice Bowl (Bulgogi short rib, Char Siu

Red Snapper (served with garlic sofrito,

pork, fried egg and sticky rice with kim-

seasoned rice, green beans and a Cham-

chi, gochujang, ponzu and green onions)

pagne beurre blanc); BBQ Salmon (blood

and Chocuterie (trio of chocolate bites,

orange BBQ salmon filet, mashed pota-

chocolate truffles, bruléed brie and aged

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gouda, dried fruits, green apples and French baguette).

Chef Kim Pearson, Pearson’s Catering, says, “We have started a Pickup Gourmet Line. The menu changes weekly along with a Comfort Corner Menu, that rotates every two months. We have also started offering a few family style or by-the-pound options. We are open Wednesday to Friday for pick up and offer deliveries as well. The menu is posted on Sunday night for the upcoming week. In these trying times, it seems as though people have been leaning towards comfort foods, such as meatloaf, four-cheese mac and cheese and Dan’s In-House smoked BBQ with our scratch made BBQ Sauce, Barbara Jean’s Pickles, and of course cookies, brownies and lemon bars.”

KADENCE DECADENCE Kadence Orlando is back for take-out and had us sitting up and taking notice. Their level of service, attention to detail and ambiance carried through from our ordering to our unpacking to our enjoyment of the meal. The Miso Soup and Crab Rice + Ikura provided a decadent start to our meal. Grilled Tori-don starts with a succulent chicken thigh that has been marinated in soy and mirin, then grilled over white charcoal, or Bincho–tan. The grilled chicken is served with rice and Ever Oak Farm veggies- the Toridon proved to be a filling menu item. It paired nicely with both the Yuki Otoko Junmai “Abominable Snowman” and was great with our Tozai “Snow Maiden.” Order the side of Ever Oak Farm summer veggies with shiso and carrot vinaigrette. The mix of raw and cooked veggies was the perfect interplay of textures and flavors — we want the Kadence shiso and carrot vinaigrette on everything. Kadence is open for takeout Tuesday – Saturday. Online ordering opens at 9am until noon or sell out. The menu rotates, for a preview check their stories on Instagram. Order via website or follow the link in their Instagram bio to reserve your pickup time, food items, and beverages. Then prepare for a sumptuous dining experience in the comfort of your own home.

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We chose lean Ahi for our Akami Sushi Box, it was spectacular. The Akami Shiso Hosomaki featured a mix of lean and fattier tuna that was nicely balanced with the freshness of the shiso Don’t pass on the sake, we ordered both the Kitaya Ai No Hime Beni sparkling sake and the Yuki Otoko Junmai “Abominable Snowman” both paired beautifully with our sushi, the sparkling sake was especially lovely with dessert. The Charamisu cake slice was a delicious end to our decadent meal. The matcha and strawberry-soaked sponge and mascarpone layered cake was light as a cloud and matcha forward with natural strawberry notes providing the only sweetness. We purchased an extra bottle of the Kadence Orlando Shoyu to have on hand, and we didn’t use a drop of soy sauce on our sushi or hot items. – Lisa Wilk

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Captivating Cooler by Lisa Wilk, TasteCookSip.com

Florida heat has arrived and nothing beats a frozen drink poolside or lakeside. Frosé slushie cocktails have become summertime staples on cocktail lists across Orlando. My favorite frosé can be found at PB&G located at Four Seasons Resort Orlando at Walt Disney World® Resort. The mixture of rosé wine, vodka, strawberry

PB&G Frosé at the Four Seasons Orlando at Walt Disney World®

purée, and lemon juice is spun for hours in an Italian gelato machine. The resulting PB&G Frosé cocktail is delightfully creamy and similar to gourmet soft-serve sorbet! Enjoy The PB&G Frosé on any Friday, Saturday, and Sunday at PB&G as you staycation or visit the Four Seasons Resort Orlando.

FROSÉ (FROZEN ROSÉ WINE SLUSHIE) INGREDIENTS 1 750 ml bottle nonsweet, bold rosé wine (such as a Pinot Noir rosé from Spain or California) 1/2 cup sugar 3/4 cup water 3 ounces fresh strawberries, hulled & halved and 3 ounces raspberries 3 ounces frozen strawberries, hulled & halved, reserve a few for garnish Pour rosé wine into a zip-top bag and freeze 4-6 hours, or overnight, until almost solid.

he PB&G Frosé inspired me to pull out the ice cream machine at home. Sadly, my attempts did not result in the whipped and creamy

concoction created by the talented chefs at the Four Seasons Resort Orlando. It was about the same consistency as my tried and true version using the blender. Frosé can be made with any bottle of rosé wine you have at home. I find heartier rosé wines such as a Pinot Noir rosé from Spain or California give a nice balance to the ripe fruit used to create this icy adult treat. You’ll be tempted to keep a batch of frosé in the freezer for your next afternoon at the pool!

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Meanwhile, bring sugar and 3/4 cup water to a boil in a medium saucepan stirring constantly, until sugar dissolves, about 3 minutes. Remove from heat, add strawberries and raspberries and stir. Let fruit mixture cool 30 minutes. Once completely cooled, whir mixture in blender or food processor until smooth. Strain mixture through a fine-mesh sieve into a small jar. Cover and chill until cold, about 1 hour. Scrape frozen rosé mix into a blender. Add 4 ounces chilled strawberry and raspberry syrup, and 3 ounces frozen strawberries, saving a few for garnish. Purée until smooth. Serve immediately, divide among insulated stemless wine glasses. Garnish with frozen strawberries. To upgrade your frosé top with rosé sparkling wine, champagne, or a float of your preferred chilled vodka! Note: If your frosé mixture is not slushy enough after adding berry syrup and frozen berries, transfer blender jar to freezer and refreeze mixture until frosé is thickened to desired consistency, about 60 minutes. Blend again until frosé is slushy. Frosé can be made a few days prior and stored in a zip-top bag in your freezer. Pictured: Rifle Lively Floral Cream Corkcicle Stemless Cup (riflepaper.com). Serve frosé with creamy cheeses, like Cowgirl Creamery Mt. Tam, brie or Meredith Dairy marinated sheep and goat Feta.

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BITS&BITES

by Lisa Wilk, TasteCookSip.com

Tabla Restaurant

Smoke & Donuts

seafood. We opted for the Shrimp Coconut Curry cooked with onions, tomatoes, coconut milk and mustard seeds. The sweetness of the fresh shrimp was enhanced by the luscious sauce. Chana Masala, a hearty vegetarian dish of stewed chickpeas cooked home-

TABLA’S RICH & AROMATIC ASIAN FARE One bite of Tabla Restaurant’s delicious

style with onions, tomatoes and ginger is a

where chef and pitmaster Ian is cooking

personal favorite. I found the medium

up slabs of perfectly smoked brisket,

spicy to be very user friendly and yummy,

smoked chicken, pulled pork, BBQ sauces

a contrast to the veggie samosas which

and the most gluttonously topped donuts

packed a surprising zesty kick. Along

you will wrap your mouth around.

with lots of vegetarian options, there are

The freshly made Smoke & Donuts

vegan and gluten-free items found under

cake donuts are splurge-worthy. Get one

the Healthy section of the menu online.

with maple bourbon glaze or Nutella and

Indian cuisine from their new location on

While elevated Indian cuisine domi-

savor. The menu offers BBQ and donut

Park Avenue in Winter Park and I was

nates the options, diners can satisfy their

sandwiches, donuts piled high with deca-

hooked. Rich, aromatic spices are expertly

cravings for Thai and Chinese from a

dent toppings, but don’t pass on these

layered in each of the flavorful dishes I

selection of noodle and wok-fired dishes.

impactful “plainer” donuts.

tried. If butter chicken is your go-to dish,

I’m plotting my next order and want you

If you appreciate a killer BBQ sand-

consider theirs a must-order for your first

to experience this wonderful world of fla-

wich try the brisket or the pulled chicken

dine. Tender chicken is simmered in Tab-

vor too. Tabla is open for lunch and dinner

sandwich made with freshly baked local

la’s velvety and flavorful tomato cream

dine-in, takeout and third-party delivery

Olde Hearth Bread roll, smoked chicken,

sauce and remains one of the most popu-

at the new location and the original near

house-made pickles, onions, and their

lar dishes ordered.

Universal Studios.

white Bama BBQ sauce. This yummy

The garlic Naan was scrumptious —

BBQ chicken sandwich had the hubby

breads are baked fresh daily and totally

Tabla Restaurant

licking his fingers and wishing I had opt-

carb-worthy. I’m already looking at the

5847 Grand National Dr., Orlando 32819

ed for a BBQ meat platter.

Garlic Green Chili Naan for my next

407-248-9400

order. Offerings include a large selection

216 N. Park Ave. #H, Winter Park 32789

also in residence at À La Cart Orlando

of proteins, from lamb and goat to fish and

321-422-0321 | tablacuisine.com

(hosting long-term and rotating mobile

In July you can find Smoke & Donuts

food vendors every day in a variety of inter-

SMOKE & DONUTS’ DECADENCE

national cuisines). Enjoy takeout, online ordering and delivery via Uber Eats.

Classically trained chef Ian Russell start-

Smoke & Donuts

ed Smoke & Donuts with pop-ups in 2017.

2545 Coolidge Ave., Orlando 32804

The Culinary Institute of America gradu-

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ate quickly developed a devoted following

Tabla Restaurant

that craved his oak-smoked meats and

À La Cart Orlando

made-to-order cake donuts. The food truck

609 Irvington Ave., Orlando 32803

grew to the new College Park storefront

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Lisa Wilk is a wine educator, wine and food writer, and photographer. Her love of great food and wine around Orlando can be found on TasteCookSip.com or @TasteCookSip on social media.

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home&design remodel resource Brother-sister duo and Winter Springs residents, 29-year-old Adam Vellequette and 31-year-old Ashley Sheaffer, have grown up in the home renovation business and are the leadership behind KBF Design Galleryâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s more than 4,500 square foot showroom set to open this month on 17-92 in Maitland. The business -- which was started by their father, Keith Vellequette, after seeing he had a knack for flipping houses -- has served Central Florida out of their previous Altamonte Springs shop for nearly two decades.Â kbfdesigngallery.com

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HEALTHY HAVEN:

THE FUTURE OF HOME DESIGN FOCUSES ON WELLBEING

by Karen LeBlanc

OUR EXPERIENCES WITH THE COVID-19 PANDEMIC BRING NEW WAYS OF THINKING ABOUT HOW WE INHABIT OUR HOMES. AFTER WEEKS SPENT IN OUR RESIDENCES UNDER SELF-QUARANTINE, WE’VE BECOME INTIMATELY AWARE OF THE ATTRIBUTES AND SHORTCOMINGS OF OUR LIVING SPACES, ESPECIALLY AS THEY PERTAIN TO OUR MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH. THE HOME AS A HEALTHY HAVEN IS A DEFINING MANDATE DRIVING THE FUTURE OF

RESIDENTIAL DESIGN AND CONSTRUCTION WITH LESSONS LEARNED FROM THIS UNPRECEDENTED EXPERIENCE. ccording to The Global

and on a global scale, we are quickly

and construction,” says Matt Phillipoff,

Wellness Institute, well-

becoming aware that it is more important

president of Craft Homes. The home-

ness and healthy func-

than ever that our homes and built envi-

builder is incorporating more wellness

tional design are the hot

ronments support and safeguard our physi-

elements in his floorplans, including plenty

trends for homes acceler-

cal and mental health,” Bonnie Chambers,

of natural sunlight, fresh air, outdoor con-

ated by the COVID-19

senior project architect for Vera Iconica

nections, and acoustically sound and func-

Architecture and Wellness Kitchen, says.

tional workspaces. Craft Homes builds in

pandemic. New initiatives and concepts are emerging that support our wellbeing

“The pandemic has many lessons to

the Lake Nona community of Laureate

with healthier living spaces. “As a nation

teach, especially in the realm of home design

Park. “Sunlight is essential to health and

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Opposite: Master balcony, Craft Homes in Laureate Park, Lake Nona

wellness, so we are focused on bringing natural daylight into the homes with transom windows in the kitchens, and glass overhead doors that open up the interior space. We also focus on air quality with thoughtful product selection that reduces off-gassing and home designs that try to keep toxic products and chemicals out of living spaces with more garage storage,” he adds. To envision the home as a healthy haven, we start in the kitchen at the WHIT House (Wellness Home Built on Innovation and Technology) in Lake Nona. As a community focused on health and wellbeing, it has been recognized by the Global Wellness Institute as “the most sophisticated example in the world of what master planning for wellness can accomplish.” Lake Nona is committed to promoting a healthy lifestyle and developed WHIT as a prototype space where entrepreneurs can test their healthy home ideas in a real-life environment. Bonnie Chambers designed The Wellness Kitchen based on a growing body of research linking nutrition with preventable diseases, the immune system, cognitive performance and energy levels. “There

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Above and inset: WHIT kitchen illustrating dynamic preparation surfaces with sanitizing UV lights and non-toxic cabinets crafted from renewable resources. Far right: Automated hydroponic garden by Natufia maintains optimal growing conditions for up to 30 herbs or edible plants.

have been massive movements in eating a

Kitchen is meant to be used by people of all

ing the levels of toxins and dust, a sound

vegetable-rich, local, organic diet, yet

ages to empower deeper connections to our

ventilation system works to rid the air of

kitchen design has changed little. Our

food and its preparation,” adds Chambers.

pollutants from cooking and other sources.

rethinking of the Wellness Kitchen sur-

Biophilia is another emerging wellness

“Having a superior ventilation system that

rounds us with the visual delight and color

concept in the home that brings the out-

exhausts to the outside helps remove these

of natural foods and plants, encouraging

doors inside with house plants, indoor

harmful particles and fumes. Just as impor-

us to choose healthy food options. No more

herb gardens, cork floors, and nature

tant, is to have a make-up air unit that will

rummaging through the refrigerator,

motifs and murals. “We all share a visceral

replenish fresh air in your kitchen as fumes

wondering what you can eat to tantalize

connection and affinity to nature. Being in

are exhausted, maintaining a positive air

your taste buds; it’s always right in from of

nature calms us by reducing our heart

pressure balance,” explains Chambers.

you,” she explains.

rate, slowing our breathing and elevating

COVID-19 also has underscored the

The kitchen features an automated

our mood, yet, on average, people spend

importance of high-functioning workspaces

hydroponic garden by Natufia that main-

90% of their time indoors,” notes Cham-

with good lighting, enough electrical out-

tains optimal growing conditions for up to 30

bers. She suggests incorporating plants and

lets, charging drawers to organize electron-

different herbs or edible plants. Fresh ingre-

vegetation and using natural, unfinished

ics, and aesthetically pleasing backdrops for

dients also grow in an outside patio garden.

materials to enjoy the benefits of and stay

virtual video calls. Craft Homes is embrac-

Other healthy design elements include

connected to nature. “This is not always

ing wellness design concepts that speak to

dynamic preparation surfaces with sanitiz-

possible in every environment but substi-

this new reality of working from home.

ing UV lights, toxin-free cookware, non-tox-

tuting images of nature and utilizing bio-

“Good-looking backgrounds and attractive

ic cabinets crafted from renewable resources,

mimicry also provide these proven bene-

surroundings that create a professional atmo-

and automatic appliance garages that disap-

fits,” she says.

sphere are essential for home teleconferenc-

pear into the countertop to reduce clutter

Throughout the home, air quality is

and lower stress levels. “The Wellness

essential to wellness. In addition to reduc-

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ing. We are more mindful of creating those spaces in our new homes,” says Phillipoff.

home&design dian lighting, smart toilets, UV lighting, eco-friendly flooring such as cork and sanitary tile that allows for cleaner, nontoxic surfaces. Many of our floorplans offer structural options that provide room to grow, allowing people to make their own decisions about the way they use their living spaces,” Phillipoff adds. Builders and designers also are more mindful of the role circadian lighting plays in our health at home. Science has proven that we need stable, regularly timed exposure to light and dark for healthy sleep and biological functioning. The Global Wellness Trends 2020 report ranks its number one trend as “True CirA zen courtyard in the WHIT home extends the indoor space with plants, brick pavers, plants and a rock fountain.

cadian Health,” saying that the timing of light will be a central pillar of wellness. The trend report notes that “more people

Craft Homes offers floorplans with a

package delivery and storage area. “We are

will bring circadian rhythm supporting

dedicated office space for privacy with

designing spaces to be outside but stay in

lighting and behaviors into the home with

insulated walls. In some floorplans, the

the home with bigger windows that lead to

biodynamic lighting that syncs light with

office is upstairs, away from the main liv-

the backyard and larger entryways mak-

the time of the day.”

ing spaces to eliminate sound transfer and

ing indoor-outdoor connections,” he says.

Entrepreneur and physicist Fred Maxik

Several floorplans have a first-floor sec-

is a pioneer in the research and develop-

ondary bedroom for the comfort and care

ment of circadian lighting. He founded

The homebuilder offers other wellness

of guests or family members. “We also are

the company Healthe Lighting based on

features, including covered front porches

looking at different products such as anti-

more than two decades of circadian light-

to enjoy the outdoors, each with a secure

microbial doorknobs, air purifiers, circa-

ing research and product development. “I

includes a second workspace to accommodate two people telecommuting.

The open floorplan in the Craft home brings natural daylight into the home with transom windows and a glass overhead door.

started working with the Harvard Sleep Lab just as new photoreceptors in the eyes were discovered, creating a better understanding of how humans respond to light and dark,” he says. The physicist also worked with NASA to develop circadian lighting for the International Space Station. “There is growing interest from homeowners, builders, and the hospitality industry in circadian lighting. I’m hopeful that it will become a standard feature in the home soon. Electric light disrupts our natural circadian rhythms that, in turn, disrupt our ability to sleep and heal. Circadian lighting is restorative light, allowing us to see at night and make us alert during the day without interfering with the body’s natural processes,” Maxik explains. The company, based in Melbourne, produces a downlight and a light

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Entrepreneur and physicist Fred Maxik founded Healthe Lighting which has outfitted the WHIT home with circadian lighting and UVC sanitizing lighting.

bulb that both can be retrofitted in a home

can flip a switch and playback the right

The home as a healthy haven builds on

and work with a geo tracking system to

circadian light,” Maxik says. The home

concepts of sustainable and universal

sync with sunrise and sunset.

also has UVC sanitizing light to clean

design, incorporating wellness elements as the new triumvirate of design-thinking.

Healthe Lighting outfitted the WHIT

counters and bathrooms. “We have adapted

House with circadian lighting and UVC

ourselves to use many toxins to clean our

sanitizing lighting. “WHIT has all the sys-

environment. UVC lights can do the same

tems installed in 80% of its living spaces.

service without chemicals. I think this

The GPS enabled SunTrac downlights

technology will be essential in the home

and the light bulbs work together so you

of the future,” Maxik says.

Karen LeBlanc is host of The Design Tourist series. She travels the globe attending some of the world’s premiere design events in search of the latest trends, tastemakers and unique finds. Learn more at thedesigntourist.com.

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2020 Parade of Homes Entry

IL FENICE:

Modern Mediterranean Luxury by Rikhil Amin

BUILDER: Eric Rey, Urban Perch — A Boutique Builder DESIGN: Rikhil Amin, SMRS Design ARCHITECTURE: Deborah Ziel, D.L. Ziel Designs PHOTOGRAPHY: Ian Roth, Ian Roth Studios

WHEN APPROACHED WITH THE IDEA OF DESIGNING AND BUILDING A HOME IN WINTER PARK, the word unique often came up in our discussions of the project. We sought a departure from the two extremes of coastal and Mediterranean architecture often seen in Winter Park’s new construction market and embraced the portmanteau of modern Mediterranean design, fusing the best of timeless design with newer concepts. When tasked with finding the appropriate builder, we stumbled across Urban Perch, a boutique Winter Park-based company headed by Eric Rey and Bianca Khoury Rey of Keller Williams Winter Park. We immediately fell in love with their energy and our aligned desires to change the landscape of Winter Park’s custom home market. Monochromatic details are a hallmark of the home — the sharp, charcoal tile roof is juxtaposed to gleaming white stucco accented with walnut wood details and lighting from Restoration Hardware. The interior embraces contemporary and geometric lines as well as a warming but neutral color palette. The concept of uniqueness continues throughout — the

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home&design main room is gilded by a large halo chan-

Indoor/outdoor living is embraced as a

delier, hand-crafted with amber-colored

hallmark of the home — the dining room

geode quartz crystals. Partnering with

faces a wall of sliding glass doors that

Artisan Kitchen and Bath Gallery, we used

open to a trough pool with fountains, cre-

the best of Kohler’s plumbing and lighting

ating the feeling of al fresco dining in all

offerings to fill the bathrooms, offering cut-

seasons.

ting edge experiences such as their DTV+

Digging deep into my design education

showering experience and bespoke-finished

from studying luxury hotels and epicen-

Kohler Konnect faucets and mirrors.

ters of hospitality around the globe, I strived to bring elements of beautiful hotels and places that people yearn to visit into the home, combining the expected high design seen in such places with practicality in every aspect of the home. As the home nears completion and we reflect on our experience, the result is a comfortably elegant home that I am sure will enhance the landscape of Winter Park.

2020 PARADE UPDATE The 67th Parade of Homes Orlando was postponed due to the pandemic but has been rescheduled for July 18-26 from 10am – 6pm daily. Free, self-guided tours of the participating homes offer the latest looks at architecture, design and lifestyle trends that define the way we live. Several projects were previewed in the Spring/Summer edition of Interior Appeal. However, not all of the entries will be open to the public, such as the wholehome renovation by Farina & Sons (shown here) that restored the home’s original Country French character and expanded the living space with two seamless additions on both wings. The Fall issue of Interior Appeal will highlight more from the 2020 Parade.

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BETTER TOGETHER: In this difficult period we wanted to present some much-needed positive notes on how we are working together to be better. The voices — from women we admire in the community — represent powerful, personal, inspirational and important points of view. STACIE RATHEL

owner, Darling Clutch Co.

Pandemic Poster Family

evin Rathel was the unlikely face of COVID-19 — healthy, not compromised, 51 years old, yet experiencing a life-threatening situation in an induced coma and on a ventilator. His wife Stacie knew she had to do something — so she did. They believe the family contracted the virus through their 19-year-old son who had been doing food deliveries. All testing positive it was only Kevin

who had severe symptoms — and his only hope was the controversial (at that time) treatment using plasma from a person who had recovered and had the antibodies. “All five of us assumed we had it and we were already self-isolating. Everyone had gotten better, but my husband just had no energy. I did a lot of online research, but he didn’t really have the symptoms listed,” Stacie says. She called her doctor to see if they needed to be tested. He advised them to get tested in case their symptoms worsened. “I knew if we started having trouble breathing it would be time to get help. We both went to the hospital on April 2. I was sent home to

recover but he was very weakened, and tests showed pneumonia. Less than 48 hours later he was on a ventilator,” she adds. Stacie was trying to keep things quiet initially but a good friend in Texas made a Facebook post asking for prayers that went viral. With the news out, the devoted wife, mom, business owner and devout Christian prayed more, researched again and reached out to do anything she could to save her husband whose condition was worsening which led to an induced coma. Stacie thinks their normal family photo popping up on social media got people’s attention to take things seriously because they did not look vulnerable, weak or compromised in any way. “There was an outpouring of support unlike anything I have ever experienced. It was my strength and the reason I was able to get through. I did not feel alone even though I was trapped in my house feeling helpless” she explains. What happened next was nothing short of a miracle. Powerful prayer chains — that Stacie could feel — continued, people started dropping off meals and offering to help in any way. “How things fell together was truly remarkable. From across the world, as far away as the Philippines and India, people were sending prayers. We knew God was doing something powerful and it wasn’t really about us. I finally posted something on my business Instagram account [#darlingclutchco] and I did not know what the reaction would be, but it was all so positive. It restored my faith in humanity,” she recounts. Stacie started asking for specific prayers and one addressed the greatest need — for a plasma donor once the hospital agreed to do the procedure. A friend shared the post and within hours he got a call from a potential plasma donor from South Florida who wanted to help. Very quickly the successful procedure was performed, and Kevin was soon on his way to recovery. Stacie believes in the power of prayer — and posting — and says, “We are a community in this together.”

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A COMMUNITY CONVERSATION Photography (full-length photos) by Jim Hobart, Macbeth Studio

Guiding First Generation College Women

GINNY BOTTS, Ed.D.

Director of Mentors and Scholars, Support our Scholars

At our core, Support our Scholars (SOS) is an organization of women that lifts up other women and that believes education is the agent to change lives. We are a local non-profit that helps the brightest, most brilliant, yet impoverished young women and supports them through college. The support we give our Scholars is tailored to the unique needs of each particular young woman, but does include a scholarship, a trained mentor, and most importantly a community of women who want nothing more than to see these young women succeed. Many of our mentors were first generation college students themselves and fully understand that it takes an enormous amount of encouragement and guidance to navigate college life and beyond. As I write this, I am preparing to tell our newest class of Scholars they have been accepted into our program. These 11 young women will join the 40 we already have in college and our 44 alumni. The Scholars fill out an application, submit letters of recommendation, a personal statement on how a mentor would benefit them, and provide their financial aid and tax forms. This year we received more than 125 applications, which are narrowed down by a committee. Twenty potential Scholars were interviewed and 11 were chosen. They will be attending schools like Northwestern, Georgetown, University of Pennsylvania, Florida State, the University of Florida, and the University of Central Florida. I could tell you more about what we do, the statistics behind why our program exists, and the variety of needs our Scholars have but our Scholar’s words are more powerful than any statistic. One of the Scholars from our incoming class on why she needs a mentor: I’ve survived abuse, neglect, loneliness, sadness, anxiety and guilt (after testifying against my mother in court), but I don’t know if I have what it takes to be successful in college. I need someone to be the cheerleader I’ve always wanted — no, needed — so I can do my best and focus on my future — and inspire my sisters to break the cycle. And one of our recent graduates on being a low income, first generation student: The harsh reality of being an underprivileged student is that you are never just a student. We have spent the past four years of our lives fighting for the right to become educated, to care for our loved ones, and live the lives we’ve dreamed of living. I was overjoyed when I was accepted into my dream school but being accepted into college would only be the start of my challenges. While financial aid helped ease the strain of tuition… would I be able to afford textbooks? Dorm supplies? Basic essentials? I was wondering how I could ever make this dream come true — until I became part of SOS. Support Our Scholars empowered me to dream big. Being a part of SOS became a symbol of the new life I hoped to create. Tears came to my eyes as I realized I had finally found my village. For our students, academics is not the barrier to success in college, it’s navigating everything else life throws at them. What we know is that with some cheerleading, support, and guidance, they will go on to do amazing things and fulfill their dreams. july | august 2020

Change Starts in the Heart Local news anchor for WFTV Vanessa Echols has been a force in the community tackling tough issues as well as battling her own. As a breast cancer survivor she found a way to help other women through her nonprofit Compassionate Hands and Hearts Breast Cancer Outreach. To further engage and educate people, she started her podcast Colorblind: Race Across Generations. A community conversation with Vanessa provided thoughtful insights on how we can do better.

VANESSA ECHOLS

broadcast journalist and community leader

Christi Ashby: You started your podcast, Colorblind, two years ago; now it seems extremely relevant. Tell us a little about it. You have stated it’s a conversation with open hearts and open minds with a non-confrontational approach. Vanessa Echols: I think it’s really kind of basic and it sounds simple but if we would just talk to each other and listen we could solve a lot of problems, whether it’s race — or really when it comes to anything. But race is one of those issues where people are afraid to ask questions because a lot of time we think, ‘Ooh if I ask them that I’m either dumb because I don’t know the answer or they will think I’m racist because I’m asking the question.’ And then we have people who say, ‘Well if they don’t know, why don’t they ask?’ So, it goes both ways. Because if I ask you and you think the question is dumb, you can’t say that it is because I am asking you from a place of wanting to learn. We need to be brave enough to ask but also be willing to be receptive to the question and teach. CA: It’s often uncomfortable to ask but we have to start the conversation. Many of us were raised to not talk about politics, religion, money or anything that could be controversial. VE: The race topic is very uncomfortable. But we are living in a time where you need to be uncomfortable. And it’s okay. But start the conversation. CA: I sense that somehow the quarantine is giving people the time and space to reflect on the big topics. VE: I agree. We were bringing together the panel [for the podcast] and what I liked about that was we were able to really feed off each other. Sometimes when you are in a discussion you can sense by people’s body language if there is tension or disagreement and I know to respond. I was going to put it on hiatus until the pandemic was over but then things started happening. And every day I would think, ooh that would be such a great podcast idea. Then people started emailing me telling me I needed to be talking about the timely topics. They said this is what your podcast is about — you can’t be silent. So, we started back in a virtual format. CA: I think a lot of times people aren’t intentionally racist, but it’s kind of institutionalized. It starts in childhood… VE: One of the guests on the recent podcast from the Peace and Justice Institute at Valencia College always talks about this whole thing needs to be a part of your curriculum. Understanding race needs to be as important to your child as spelling and math and history. Schools need to make a conscious effort to explain why we have the relationships we do in this country — and teach more about different people, and different cultures and ethnic groups. It needs to be part of a child’s education early on. And parents need to teach as well, not just educators. I think we are at a time now where people are more willing to talk about it with their family members and others. CA: You made quite an impact on your personal Facebook page when you asked if we had black friends — real friends not just acquaintances. VE: Yes, I was referring to real relationships not just someone you say, ‘Hi, how are you?’ CA: How do we develop those relationships without being disingenuous? VE: It’s just the whole idea of being involved in your community. There are plenty of organizations, especially now, that deal with local issues and more specifically deal with race issues. If you are really interested in forming relationships with people, then join one of

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those groups. Most people, even if you are in a workplace where everyone looks like you or you’re in a neighborhood where everyone looks like you, chances are there are some opportunities for you to interact. Go to a [Central Florida] Urban League dinner or make an effort to meet someone there and ask if you can get together again to discuss more about the Urban League. And that starts building the relationship.

Together We ARE Better! SECILY WILSON

journalist and WOW Legacy Group founder I mean we are the United States. As rac-

protesting is disrespectful to our country,

ism reaches its highest peak in years and

needs to be eliminated. What do you want

division is prevalent in this country today,

us to do? Just accept it? If we riot, we’re

change for the better is going to take all of

considered barbarian. If we protest in

us together. I want bet-

silence, we’re told “if

ter for my one-year old

you don’t like this coun-

granddaughter. The only

try then you need to

thing she knows right

leave.” It is our consti-

now is love. I want bet-

tutional right to protest

ter for my 19-year-old

and we need to utilize

daughter, Nicole, who is

that. We are simply pro-

entering the world as a

testing for equality. In

third-year college stu-

stating that we need to

dent. She is a part of the

protest, this includes

“together we are better”

non-minorities as well.

movement. Her desire to

Just because the injus-

want better didn’t come

tice isn’t happening to

without a price, after

you, doesn’t mean you

being reprimanded her

can’t get involved and

senior year in high

help speak up if you see

VE: I think it’s a little of both. But as you build relationships with people and they realize you are coming from a transparent and authentic place then I think it’s okay to say to them, ‘You know what, we’re having this event and I really want more black people to attend.’ And they are likely to respond, ‘Okay, what do you need me to do?’

school because her nat-

something wrong. Ste-

ural hair violated dress

reotypes are a huge bar-

code. Nicole used her

rier that prevent every-

CA: From what you are saying, the first baby step is starting a conversation. The next step would be to reach out to someone. And then start to broaden your horizons and encourage others to do the same.

it will happen.

VE: And to quit stereotyping, like starting a sentence with all people who are blank... The other thing is we really do need to take the time to listen to all sides of the issue. It’s okay if you walk away from a conversation you don’t agree with. You may totally disagree with everything this person said, but at least you have listened and learned why the other person feels the way they do. Learn what experiences brought them to this point.

But what we typically do is go to events and still segregate ourselves. There’s a book, Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria? by Beverly Tatum — and it’s so true, we go out and then gravitate to the people we know who look like us. Take the time to get to know other people who don’t look like you. Sometimes you have to be intentional about forming those relationships. CA: At a lot of the charity events, we can look out into the audience — and you are often an emcee — and it’s pretty much all white. Is that because we are not inviting other people or is it because they are not interested?

voice then, to create change. Her words are

Nicole Orr, daughter of Secily Wilson

one from being treated equal. When meeting a

very familiar today. Her generation will

person of a different color we all need to

create a bigger, brighter, and better future.

have a clear mind, free of judgment.

In Nicole’s words, here is how she believes

I’ve never been involved in politics, but I don’t have to be in order to see injustice.

The first and biggest issue at hand is

All I am saying is that I want all races to

the inequality of all colored people. From

come together and realize that we all have

police brutality to how we are treated in

equal parts in becoming united. So, one

our everyday lives. When blacks protest

thing I know for sure I am, is a change

against police brutality, preaching “black

maker. And if you have something you

lives matter” we’re not saying white lives

strongly believe in, that’s ethical, I encour-

don’t matter. Obviously, all lives matter

age you all to be change makers too.

but all lives can’t matter until black and

“Change will not come if we wait for some

brown lives are shown they matter too. In

other person or if we wait for some other

order to see this change, there is only one

time. We are the ones we’ve been waiting

thing we can do, protest. So, yes, take that

for. We are the change that we seek.” The

knee. Do whatever you have to do to spark

words stronger and better can only be cre-

conversation and get the world talking.

ated if we are together.

Secondly, the preconceived notion that

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The Spirit of Perseverance: Alive and Well NINA YON

President/CEO, The Sharing Center “No matter the season, no matter the crisis; being of service has always mattered to the Central Florida Community. The act of giving nourishes… it fires our souls to open and stay compassionate. I’m so proud of our giving community for stepping up in this time of need.”

by Margaux Pagán

With every new year, there is an air of excitement and hopefulness. We create new goals and seek ways to grow throughout the days and months before us with little caution to the “what ifs.” Well, we can all agree, this year has brought the unexpected into our lives, collectively. At the onset of the Coronavirus pandemic, The Sharing Center was urged to keep the doors open to our neighbors in need, especially our homeless neighbors who need to feel dignified with a warm shower and laundry service — and so we did. These last few months have shown the spirit of perseverance. We are all bearing witness to the heart of generosity. Strangers are spending hours sewing face masks. Social distancing is a new way of showing support for the greater good. Neighbors are helping neighbors who have felt the heavy burden of losing a job or furloughed. Ladonte is one of our neighbors who has felt the brunt of financial worry. As a single father of a six-year-old daughter, Ladonte has the constant worry, as all parents do, of creating a stable life for his child. His first experience with The Sharing Center was years ago. Homeless but hopeful, we worked together to find and furnish Ladonte a new place to call home. You can imagine the despair he felt when COVID-19 surfaced and his place of employment at a restaurant was forced to close. Without income, the reality of reliving homelessness felt too close for comfort. Ladonte reached out to The Sharing Center again and immediately we were able to save him and his daughter from eviction. At the onset of the crisis, The Sharing Center launched Operation Good Samaritan as an effort to raise the needed funds to help families like Ladonte’s from reliving or realizing hunger and homelessness. Funds raised can now help provide financial assistance for up to 510 of our neighbors from losing their homes and their hope. When Ladonte was asked, “What is the most impactful gift you received from The Sharing Center?”, his response was unexpectedly not the financial assistance he was gifted, yet, “My bike. This allows me to create stability for myself and my daughter and gives me transportation for work.” It really is the little things we can all do to help our neighbors in need, especially during this extraordinary time. On September 5, 2020, The Sharing Center will host its first ever Sweet Bites & Bikes, a virtual event, to raise critically needed funds to provide the “little things,” the essential resources served to lift an individual or family away from the experiences of poverty. Gifts like bus passes or bicycles for transportation, a place to take a warm shower and receive laundry service, or a new pair of shoes for a child returning to school – all so little yet can majorly impact someone’s life. For more information about Sweet Bites & Bikes and how you help support families like Ladonte’s, visit: thesharingcenter.org/sweetbitesandbikes.

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Scholarships Will Inspire and Empower Students by Barbara Poma, CEO, onePULSE Foundation

three survivors were awarded inaugural

well. My next goal is to become a paramedic

scholarships.

and the onePULSE Foundation has given

More than 200 completed applications

me the opportunity to fulfill that dream.”

were received and the inaugural class represents incoming freshman majoring in

On May 7 we announced the inaugural class of 49 Legacy Scholarship recipients who were awarded $333,000 in scholarships to be used during the 2020-2021 academic year.

business, communications, and the per-

SHEPHERD DRAYTON whose sister

forming arts, as well as cosmetology, nurs-

Deonka “Dee Dee” Drayton was killed in the

ing, medical and master’s students. The

Pulse tragedy, is a third-year medical student

49 recipients come from all over the United

who wants to eliminate prejudicial biases like

States and have a common thread of com-

ethnic background, sexual orientation, gender

munity service, leadership and advocacy.

identification, or socio-economic status from

We want to share just two of these inspirational stories with you.

the practice of medicine in the future. His goal is to form an alliance with doctors across the country who share similar beliefs in order to bring national change.

“I believe this scholarship will undoubtedly help me accomplish my goals,” Deonka says.

e had hoped to have a

“Not only does it provide me the means in

luncheon in April to

which to continue my education, but it also

celebrate the recipients

affords me the opportunity to carry on my

and give the opportuni-

sister’s legacy, and one day fulfill her destiny.

ty for the families of the

A destiny full of love, embrace, and accep-

49 Angels to meet the people who would

tance for everyone.”

be carrying on their Angels’ legacy, but were unable to do so because of the COV-

The scholarships are made possible from the

ID-19 spread and restrictions in place at

generosity of major donors and donations

that time. What we have been able to

from individuals around the world who want

make happen is connecting the family

to assist us in supporting scholarships that

members and recipients through Zoom

open doors.

calls, and as you can imagine, they have been filled with emotions of tears, love and happiness. We worked with the families and loved ones of those killed, to establish the schol-

Pulse survivor and scholarship award

arships based on the respective victims’

recipient AMANDA GRAU said that

interests, careers or aspirations. As an

because of the bravery of first responders who

extension of their impact on our world, the

saved her life after being shot four times in

scholarships will inspire and empower

the tragedy, she now wants to save other

students who share similar dreams, ambi-

people’s lives.

tions and goals. Preference was given to applicants who

“It has always been a passion of mine to be a

are immediate family members of the 49

firefighter and paramedic,” Amanda says. “I

victims, as well as all of the survivors of

am currently a Patient Care Technician and

the tragedy. Three family members and

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Delivering Healthcare, Food and Love STEPHANIE GARRIS

CEO, Grace Medical Home

race Medical Home is in the second year of a collaborative grant with Second Harvest Food Bank (SHFB) which supports the Food is Medicine for Healthier Kids Program. The program provides pediatric patients with comprehensive education, coaching, lifestyle classes, and access to healthy food boxes twice a month. This program has had a tremendous impact on

Grace patients. As COVID-19 became a threat in early March, Grace took immediate steps to protect

the safety and well-being of our patients, staff, and volunteers. Our priority was to remain open to care for our patients unless medical supplies or adequate staffing forced a closure. All patients with a scheduled appointment were called by Grace staff to determine the appropriate way to address their medical needs: either on the phone, through telehealth, or at Grace for a necessary appointment. We limited access to the building to patients who had necessary or urgent medical care needs. Between March 1st and the end of May, we have had 485 patient appointments for 322 unique patients. Most of these visits were done remotely, roughly split evenly between telehealth and telephone. Amid these circumstances, the majority of patients who receive food boxes were unable to pick them up at Grace. However, because of additional food donations from SHFB, a team of staff and volunteers began delivering food boxes to families participating in the program. In fact, because Second Harvest had an additional supply of boxes, they asked if we could deliver healthy boxes to patients who aren’t enrolled in the program. More than 60 patients have been served by this new aspect of the program. For many of the deliveries, a staff doctor or nurse also attended to check on the patient, drop off medication, or provide follow up care. The delivery of food boxes provided the opportunity for the home to become the exam room and have the clinical team check on the patient. “It has been nothing but an honor to serve our community alongside such a selfless team,” Yanelis Roman, Grace’s dietician, says. “We continue to strive to serve those in need and show them the love of Christ through this pandemic and beyond. This is an ongoing program that we pray will grow and expand in Jesus’ name.” In addition to food boxes, the Grace team dropped off care packages that included a guide for food resources in the area that are still open, a bottle of hand wash, and a scripture card with words of encouragement.

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Together Virtually Via Social Media & Zoom

(as told to Christi Ashby)

here have been a lot of positive things happening for me. Because I am health compromised, I was not getting out and meeting with many people — the groups were larger than I was comfortable with. But through a private Facebook group Ms. Esquire I got to be on Zoom calls with my attorney friends. I honestly did not even know some of the people

attending. But at one point I was telling them I needed to find masks and one of the ladies was seriously touched and immediately she told me she was dropping everything to find me some. She took my cell number and called me when she had them. She got us 15 handmade masks and also an N-95 mask. I was able to send some to my husband in New York where he is a physician. It’s amazing because this was someone I did not even know. I am sure she knew other people who needed those masks and I know I’m not the only one with an underlying condition. It’s amazing what I saw and experienced during this pandemic. It’s hard on everyone, but people have really been supporting each other. Even though we may be physically apart people are getting closer with each other and caring. Another thing that shocked me was the social media support. One time when I had a very tough day, I made a personal post on the Ms. Esquire Facebook page. My husband’s co-worker, another physician in his group, was hospitalized and transferred to the ICU due to COVID-19. I was

“ So many people have just been there for me. I have my friends that I’ve had forever but I have developed new friendships that I did not expect. These would not have happened without

”

this pandemic.

very scared because my husband was dealing with COVID-19 patients. One of his female co-workers had quit because she has kids and did not want to put them in danger. I got a call from New York and my first thought was that my husband was in the ICU. I picked up and a lady said is this Mrs. Arwani. I said yes and then she asked me to verify some information — I still thought something was wrong — and then I found out it was just a telemarketer. I started bawling because I had been thinking the worst. I don’t really share much on Facebook, but I shared it with this private group and within a few hours I had gotten 500 comments. Everyone was asking me to call them and offering to cook for me. I was really just venting — not looking for anything. I would have never

RANIA ARWANI

Attorney, Arwani Law Firm

reached out if it had not been for the pandemic. So many people have just been there for me. I have my friends that I’ve had forever but I have developed new friendships that I did not expect. These would not have happened without this pandemic. I think we will continue to take these lessons with us even after we come out of this. What we are going through as a community has changed us. I don’t think anyone is going to walk out of this the same way they walked into it. I definitely have way more compassion than I did before this. I was already compassionate but not to this degree. No matter who it is, no matter how I may think someone is unreasonable, I will definitely give them a chance and be nicer to them — even if they are not nice to me. Because I really have no idea what is going on with them. We will come out of this better people, more compassionate and will think more about our fellow human beings.

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Waves IT’S ALWAYS INTERESTING TO SEE HOW DESIGNERS LIVE IN THEIR OWN SPACES. DIANA HANSON VADIS, MAKING WAVES DESIGNS, TOOK HER LOVE OF BEACH VIEWS TO CREATE HOME RETREAT — MAKING WAVES — IN A DAYTONA BEACH SHORES CONDO WITH HER INTERPRETATION OF MODERN MIAMI MEETS BEACH COASTAL WITH A BIT OF FARMHOUSE COMFORT. IT’S DEFINITELY NAUTICAL WITHOUT GOING OVERBOARD.

In the living room the Sisal rug and leather ottoman table were my first inspiration for the condo. These items came from one of my favorites — Barclay Butera’s collection. We matched these pieces with nautical striped Ralph Lauren fabrics on spool chairs. The modern accents came from Z Gallerie and local boutiques to add some bling. Bamboo bowls mounted on the wall create texture and unique coastal art.

In the dining room, we found our large modern art piece at a gallery in Winter Park. We balanced the modern art with unexpected wicker wingback host chairs and a Restoration Hardware table. The barstools were custom from Lexington furniture and a navy pinstripe pattern was selected for durability and clean lines. Above the table, is the coral inspired oversized chandelier made from crushed shells from Curry and Company that brings drama to the space. 82

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of Blue &White

INTERIOR DESIGN:

DIANA HANSON VADIS, MAKE WAVES DESIGNS PHOTOGRAPHY:

IVAN MIHAJLOVICH, HOUS PHOTOS

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The master bedroom off the living area flows with the same navy and coastal textures we have in the living room. We had fun mixing cabana navy satin drapes with Ralph Lauren quintessential sailing fabric. Nautical rope lamps displayed on navy bachelor chests flank the natural woven headboard. This master has spectacular ocean views from two sides and is truly our blue ocean retreat.

rada, but it was not convenient to get to.

journalism, communi-

“I had always wanted to do beach proj-

cation and design at the

ects. I knew I was looking for something

University of Minnesota

that was on the beach with 3,000 square

and ended up a success-

feet,” she explains. Finding a place in Day-

ful corporate executive,

tona was a bonus as Diana has fond mem-

her passion was interior design. She gar-

ories of the area having won a bikini con-

nered a strong following through the many

test back when MTV hosted spring break

projects she has completed through the

there. Her husband is a Harley-Davidson

years. “I have been designing for over 20

rider so that was also a lure.

years from condos, homes and lake homes.

“My husband wanted Miami modern. I

I became a specialist in lake homes in Min-

wanted coastal casual beach. My teenage

nesota. It was about 50 homes, but they

son wanted a surfer’s room. There is no

were more estate homes and then I became

design project more difficult than the one

a specialist in lake homes in Minnesota,”

for your own family. If you make a mis-

she adds. After her husband retired and

take, you get reminded every day. I selected

the name of my design company

they sold their IT company about two years

each item with aesthetics and durability

and our first beach retreat.

ago, the couple decided they would become

in mind to make my life easier later,”

snowbirds. They owned a home in Islamo-

Diana says.

you aren’t making waves you are “ Iftreading water. As a woman in a male-dominated industry, I had to make waves to succeed. It became

”

lthough Diana studied

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As with many personal projects this one started with an update and ended up a gut renovation that took about seven months. “Initially I said we would just remodel it, but we ended up putting about $200,000 into it. I hired a team of collaborators — so many wonderful local artisans, painters, remodelers and project managers,” she adds. Now with her team she has done many more homes in the Central Florida area. Now with all the flooring and walls as well at the kitchen and baths re-done Making Waves is becoming the family’s primary residence. But when they are away, they occasionally rent to visiting NASCAR professionals. Offering full ocean to river views it is a highly sought-after unit.

The wall that once was home to a fireplace became a gallery wall with a four-piece coral navy giclee collection, separated by the driftwood lamp and basket all from the Ethan Allen in Ormond Beach. My mother had blue and white in her home her entire life. We share the timeless love of blue and white. For the kitchen we selected the popular white quartz, sleek white cabinets and chrome hardware.

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“As you enter the penthouse directly from the elevator you notice the breathtaking ocean view and I had to set it off with none other than the very popular shiplap. My husband had never heard of shiplap before this design project. After the many condo board approvals and making sure we used fireproof paint, he knows shiplap as well as Chip Gaines. I was determined to keep my shiplap,” she explains. She was very budget conscious with her decisions throughout. “I did not take out any existing walls, but I did take out some islands, a fireplace and flipped some things so it made more sense. It was pretty dramatic as before it was very dark with lots of brown. I tried to keep most things in navy, ecru and cream. But in the bedrooms, I used pops of orange in one and aqua in the other,” she says. As for the furnishings, she wanted a mix from her favorite resources. “I fell in 86

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love with Barclay Butera’s new line and I love Ralph Lauren, but I wanted to bring in some contemporary pieces from RH, some glitz from Z Gallerie and some traditional, timeless pieces from Ethan Allen. We shopped local flea markets for old photos and memorabilia capturing Daytona Beach’s vintage racing and oceanfront themes. I tried to keep a vision that was in keeping with my sophisticated nautical — it can get too cutesy very easily. I wanted it to appeal to both men and women,” she adds. The couple loves to entertain so this retreat has been perfect for having guests and allows Diana to showcase her hosting skills.

The patio is very private and we can see dolphins, surfers, boaters and pelicans at eye level. I love to entertain and tablescape — even a picnic table. I put out shells for place cards and on this table I used a throw for a table cloth. We mix these with fun Kate Spade dishes in navy of course and navy striped napkins with Ralph Lauren crystal goblets. I love to keep chalkboards on hand to let guests know what the menu will be.

The two back bedrooms overlook the river and the Daytona Speedway. We tried to bring more whimsy with one being softer and more feminine using ocean pastels and the other in a navy and bright orange surfing theme for boys. Both back bedrooms have private en-suites that coordinate with their bedrooms. The master bath is called Leaving Waves Behind. Above the bathtub is a photo I took from the back of a cruise ship heading out of Jacksonville to the Bahamas. I loved the navy color of the water and the beautiful waves the cruise ships make. It’s personal and one of my favorite art pieces. The large whirlpool tub was replaced with a modern version of a claw tub. This allowed room for more counter space on the vanity. july | august 2020

Wonderful Weddings Although this bridal season is not filled with the celebrations we expected, it is no less filled with heartwarming love stories and high hopes for the future. Two couples did not let the pandemic pandemonium stop them from their special days and industry professionals offer insights into what is changing and evolving for couples and their momentous occasions. Cheers to the brides and grooms!

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The Wedding of

Lizzy Pohill Zach Pinel and

by Jamie O’Neill, fashion director, The Bridal Finery

The world was set on pause in the wake of the COVID-19 global pandemic. Professional sporting events, concerts, graduations and weddings were canceled or postponed. A day of love and celebration was short-lived for engaged couples during the spring months of 2020. While large weddings were canceled, smaller, intimate elopement ceremonies became popular and favored. Elopements have been used as a highly romantic and secretive way to get married. Today, elopements are a way couples can be married but in an intimate and safe way.

ne way couples are able to cel-

in Winter Park when their 250-guest wed-

original plan was to wed on the courtyard

ebrate their love, celebration,

ding in New Orleans was canceled. When

lawn. The Florida rain kept them indoors

say their vows of commitment,

Lizzy and Zach needed to choose a new

in the spot where Zach asked Lizzy to

and keep social distance regu-

location to host their elopement they

marry him. Lizzy and Zach’s florist, Velvet

lations is by hosting elopement

chose a place where it all started, The

and Twine, created a floral arch that was

wedding ceremonies. Each city and state

Alfond Inn. In August 2019, Zach pro-

placed near the large windows for a

has their own rules, regulations and rec-

posed to Lizzy in the conservatory room at

dreamy natural-lit moment in their space

ommendations, so the gathering sizes of

the boutique hotel. This space captures

that already felt like home. Immediate

weddings may vary, however, a small elope-

both of their “yes to forever” moments and

family members surrounded Lizzy and

ment with immediate family is allowed in

is the hometown to her in-laws.

Zach as they kept their wedding date and

Central Florida.

The morning of their elopement was

shared their vows to each other.

The Bridal Finery real bride Lizzy and

overcast with expected thunderstorms and

At The Bridal Finery, we had more than

her husband Zach hosted their elopement

tornados during their ceremony time. The

50 brides who were forced to change or cancel their wedding dates. What we found during this unprecedented time is what magic happens when you roll with the punches and allow life to take its course and unfold. Lizzy and Zach’s original wedding plans weren’t to get married in Winter Park but the pandemic kept them in Florida and the weather kept them inside which allowed them to get married in the exact spot where they got engaged. Lizzy and Zach’s unique wedding story reminded us that love is never canceled and things may not work out as planned, but sometimes they work out the way they were meant to be. Lizzy and Zach will be hosting their wedding reception with friends and family in December. We wish them the happiest marriage and a wonderful second wedding celebration.

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Lizzy and Zach’s

Wedding Vendors:

Venue: The Alfond Inn Photograpy: L Balagtas Photography Floral: Velvet and Twine Hair and makeup: Brittany Honigschmidt Violinist: Amy Xaychaleune Dress Boutique: The Bridal Finery Videography: Krall Cinemas

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The Wedding of

Danielle Bowman Brad Hollingsworth and

by Scott Bowman, father of the bride

| Photographs by alexandracade.com, IG @alexandracade

“What to know if your wedding is supposed to happen during the coronavirus.” “When the wedding is canceled.” “How to comfort a grieving bride.” Never in a million years did I think I

As fear and uncertainty was mounting

2021 after that. Even though Georgia was

would actually be paying attention to

across the world, I remember thinking,

one of the first states to start easing restric-

headlines like these, but 2020 has been a

how am I going to tell my daughter who

tions, the resort remained closed until

year unlike any other.

had spent the past year of her life focused

early May. When it reopened, Danielle

My oldest daughter Danielle and her

on making her dream wedding a reality

and Brad wrestled with the discussion of

fiancé Brad had been planning their

that we were going to have to cancel it? It

still having the June 20 date knowing that

dream wedding for more than a year. It

was one of the hardest conversations I

many of their family and friends still

was supposed to take place on April 18 on

have ever had in recent memory and even

would not be comfortable traveling.

Jekyll Island in Georgia.

though she is a nurse and fully understood

Many discussions later, they agreed that

Everything was coming together per-

what was happening around us, it didn’t

regardless of what was happening, they

fectly, and we were looking forward to

stop the sadness, anger and sense of loss

just wanted to be married and decided to

welcoming our family and friends for an

that followed.

quickly pull together an intimate wedding

After rescheduling the date to June 20,

for immediate family only at Annunciation

We started closely paying attention to

we started to feel that there still might be

Catholic Church in Altamonte Springs on

the COVID-19 reports in February and by

some hope to pull it off this year. The next

May 2. Even that was not an easy decision

mid-March, every state had reported cases.

available date at the resort was in April of

because my middle daughter Hannah lives

amazing weekend at the resort.

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in New York and was not able to travel to Florida given all of the restrictions in place. This was going to be a stripped-down version. No official wedding dress. No tuxes. No hair stylists. No haircuts for that matter. No wedding party. No reception. I was so proud of them for focusing on what was really important â&#x20AC;&#x201D; their love for each other and their desire to be a married couple now versus having to wait another year. While it was not the wedding they had originally planned, there was something so special about being able to be married during the pandemic and it was both powerful and positive in a stressful time when we all just needed something to make us smile and feel good again. Our hearts were full. They have rescheduled the wedding in Jekyll Island for April 17, 2021, so we still get to celebrate with extended family and friends! Scott Bowman has more than 25 years of experience in developing short- and longrange strategic communications and community relations plans; positioning individuals and companies favorably in the community by developing positive and sustainable relationships with key stakeholders; and providing counsel to management and clients. He has been a resident of Orlando since 1993 and his greatest accomplishment is being Dad to Danielle, Hannah and Grant.

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Wedding Professionals Adapt and Grow During the Pandemic

Orlando Wedding & Party Rentals

In light of the current climate we knew we would not be receiving the normal wedding submissions, but we did want to hear from local industry professionals who have been deeply impacted. So many businesses have been challenged

but we decided to push forward and make

right now than we are finding that are

by the COVID-19 virus and the business

sure there would be an Orlando Wedding &

concerned. Either way, our team will wear

closest to my heart is of course the wedding

Party Rentals for our team/family as well

masks and we clean and sanitize our prod-

business. So, May weddings were upend-

as our clients to come back to once we get

ucts after each use and follow all CDC

ed, canceled, postponed, reduced in size or

through this. We forged ahead and stayed

guidelines and recommendations and we

changed in venue... just to name a few.

positive while doing everything we could,

will continue to do so. Our industry is cer-

But there has been one constant: wed-

including pivoting in a few directions. For

tainly down right now as are many indus-

ding couples never give up. With the

example, we added sanitizing stations to

tries, but we are resilient, and we will get

uncertainty of when the original venue

our inventory. We rented our luxury porta-

through this.

was going to re-open, brides found another

ble restrooms and other items to COVID-19

one. If the date was changed but the venue

testing sites and rented tents to restaurants

stayed the same, we have been printing

to help them increase their capacity once

new response sets only with an enclosure

they were allowed to re-open.

card of the new date.

Cyndi Shifrel, Orlando Wedding Party & Rentals Did you know that the greatest pieces of

We have always enjoyed bringing joy

art were created during isolation? Or that

In these days and times, resilience is

and encouragement to others and wanted

the greatest inventions were created dur-

the given word. If there is a will, there is a

to find a way to do so during the quaran-

ing plagues?

way. And I have always said, if you want

tine after seeing the destruction that the

Embracing the uncertainties of life will

something badly enough, you make it hap-

virus had in the hospitality industry. At

allow you the opportunity for growth.

pen. Cheers to all our wedding couples

the beginning of April, we launched a sis-

Growth within yourself, your community,

going forward and getting married!

ter company, Orlando Yard Greetings, that

your business and personal/professional

installs large yard greetings in people’s

relationships. How you handle that growth

yards to celebrate their birthday, anniver-

is up to only one thing... you. The real power

sary, graduation, retirement, birth announce-

of growth is achieved by how you react to

ment and more. This has provided us a

any situation. Focus on what you can con-

As an event rental company our business

creative outlet to encourage others and make

trol and your reactions and decisions.

came to a screeching halt the second week

them feel special while still giving them a

We are going to learn a lot about our-

of March as corporate events, social events

way to celebrate life’s most special moments.

selves as business owners and on a per-

and weddings were hugely affected by

We are now finally getting to the point

sonal level. One lesson we are going to

COVID-19. All the (hundreds) of events we

where business is starting to trickle back

learn is that it is not all about the bottom

had booked in March, April and May either

in and we are thankful for every event we

line. Creating healthy habits and routines

canceled altogether or rescheduled for

get to help with. We will continue to push

will follow you into the future. When this

another time. Like many other companies

forward and work to be the best rental

is over (and it will be over) you will have

in our industry we had to lay off most of our

company around.

these newly developed habits, routines,

Maureen Hall, Maureen H. Hall Stationery & Invitations

team and it was heartbreaking for us as our

As for changes and new norms... It really

team is our family. It honestly took us a

continues to evolve constantly right now. We

week or two to get out of this terrible fog

are finding that there seem to be more cli-

that was hovering over us after all of this

ents who are not concerned with the virus

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connections and positive mindset. That itself is a true blessing in disguise.

Victoria Angela, Victoria Angela Photography

givingback

The Arts Give Us So Much — How Do I Give Back?

TAMARA KNIGH

T PHOTOGRAPH

by RK Kelley

As COVID-19 began to stalk Central Florida in early March, I grew anxious… not just for fear of the virus and its potential horrific impacts, but knowing how deep this would cut into the arts and entertainment sector that I knew, supported and loved. As an executive with one of the major theme parks, I remember my gut twisting, and yes, eyes secretly welling, on many occasions, implementing painful entertainment labor reductions after 9/11 and again during the recession.

hose conversations never

have contributed generously. As of this

get easier… sending a par-

writing, these amazing people (with scores

ent home without a job or

of dedicated, masked-and-gloved arts and

ending a young person’s

church volunteers) have provided several

hard-earned dream… it does

thousand meals — keeping chefs and

something to you. This time it was going to

cooks working — and bags of produce

be far deeper I feared, and sure enough —

from Florida farmers.

Disney performer Cynthia Guerra

by mid-March every stage, ballroom, trade

But our goal was, and is, broader than

show hall, parade route, and even houses of

physical sustenance, because with all that

worship fell eerily silent. Tens of thousands

artistic ‘grit’ comes a carefully guarded

in our entertainment community — one of

vulnerability. Applause and appreciation

ours, for locals and visitors alike. Our mes-

the largest in America — not only out of

are a significant part of an arts profession-

sage — “Thank You.” “We See You.” “We

work, but suddenly adrift, their entire pur-

al’s ‘paycheck’ — which suddenly was...

Miss You.” And, perhaps a little bit cliché

pose and life work deemed non-essential,

gone. All gone. So, these food pick-ups are

— “We’ll be Back.” I, for one, am counting

and too dangerous to continue.

a little bit unusual — complete with crazy

on it!

Having worked in the professional arts

signs, cheering fans and live music — all

world since childhood, I know the psyche,

designed to feed their souls, as they have

To donate, visit FeedtheNeedFL.org and

the pride, and the grit. The just deal with it

so creatively and faithfully nourished

specify “arts community meals.”

resolve… it’s a highly competitive career choice and a demanding lifestyle, with generally modest financial returns. So, they’re tough — this isn’t an easy group to serve, actually. I asked myself what can I do, how to offer support on any kind of scale? Fortunately, I found like-minded partners asking themselves the same question. With the expertise of John Rivers and the amazing team of 4Rivers/4Roots, the welcoming hospitality of St. Luke’s UMC on Apopka-Vineland, and a great partner in fellow-retired-arts-professional/advocate Steve Fessler, Feed the Need — for Artists! came to life. Dr. Phillips Charities, IATSE Local 631 and compassionate individuals 96

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From a Recipient Here’s the thing about performers (my apologies in advanced for the stereotyping that’s about to happen): We are proud. We are proud and we work hard, and we don’t do well asking for help because in general you just have to deal with it. Your foot hurts? Deal with it. Shin splints? Here’s some Ibuprofen, deal with it. Didn’t sleep well? Coffee… deal with it. Having a bad day? Paste on that smile and deal with it. We are trained to deal with “it.” Today I drove through your parking lot that was strewn with signs telling us how much we mattered, people waved and cheered and smiled from under their masks pointing us up the driveway. The volunteers in your setup asked no questions, just met us with giant smiles you could see through a mask; they danced and cheered and gave meals and loaded my backseat with produce (that watermelon was bigger than my dog!) I could feel the lump swelling up in my throat before the door was even closed. I thanked everyone not nearly enough and drove away. Before I even left the lot, I was crying — the good kind of tears. I had no idea how much I needed that, how much my soul needed that. My stomach is grateful for real food and I’m excited to cook, but my soul — my soul needed that so badly.