The Gift
"There are few things as unifying and power ful as the gif t. Those who give the gif t are heroes."
Carolyn’s Column
The gift of organ and tissue donation is one of the most remarkable legacies anyone can leave behind. Our NJ Sharing Network team is honored to steward these gifts and support donor families during their most difficult times.
In 2024, we achieved significant milestones that reflect this spirit of generosity. There were 297 organ donors, and 743 organs transplanted, a 14% increase in donors and a 4% rise in organs transplanted compared to 2023. This marks our sixth consecutive year of setting new organ donation records. The 388 kidneys recovered for transplant also marked an all-time high. Additionally, 1,126 tissue and cornea donors enhanced the quality of life for many, reflecting a 21% increase from the previous year (see chart on next page)
Our Transplant Laboratory conducted over 57,000 histocompatibility tests for both deceased and living organ donors and recipients — marking the second-highest number of tests in our organization’s history. The Sharing Network Foundation also took a major step forward by establishing a $4 million endowment. This will help ensure the long-term sustainability of our mission, enhancing our ability to support donor families, expand our lifesaving programs, and continue making a lasting impact for years to come.
In this magazine, we honor the legacies of donors like Michael J. Canada, Deanna D’Arco, Daniel J. Ford, and Congressman Donald Payne. Their stories remind us that every donation is far more than a number — it is a reflection of the compassion and humanity that connects us all.
This issue is especially meaningful as it features a powerful article by my mentor Bill Reitsma, NJSN founding member. Bill helped shape me as a leader as well as our lifesaving mission, and his reflections show how far we’ve come. Our cover photo captures a moving moment — Bill embracing Charlotte Ray, mother of organ donor, Jason Ray.
Jason, a beloved University of North Carolina student and spirited Tar Heels mascot, lost his life in 2007 after being struck by a car. His decision to be a registered organ donor touched lives worldwide and educated many about the power of donation. His story left a lasting impact on me reinforcing why this work is so important.
We are reminded that the true power of the gift lies in its ability to create lasting change — one life at a time. Together, we will continue to honor and cherish these gifts and the people who make them possible.
Carolyn M. Welsh, MS President and CEO, NJ Sharing Network
In Memoriam
Oscar V. Colón, RN, BSN, CPTC, Assistant Director of Surgical Recovery Services
For more than 30 years, Oscar touched so many lives of organ and tissue donor families and everyone who worked alongside him.
“Oscar’s legacy will continue to inspire us all as we move forward together in our lifesaving mission. We miss you and love you OVC,” said Carolyn M. Welsh.
Simply the Best
The NJ Sharing Network team received a number of awards in 2024 for their hard work and dedication.
Congrats, team!
NJBIZ
NJBIZ Education Hero Award for the Public Education/Communications Team’s
New Jersey Chamber of Commerce’s Women of Inspiration Award presented to NJSN’s President and CEO Carolyn M. Welsh
Pictured are (from left) NJSN’s Catherine DeAppolonio, Alyssa D’Addio, Amanda Tibok, and Gary Mignone.
2024 Nonprofit Business of the Year Award (100+ employees)
“Every Community Needs Heroes” campaign
Pictured are (from left) Lisa Chowansky, NJCC’s Board Vice Chair; Welsh; Diane Wasser, NJCC’s Board Treasurer; and Tom Bracken, NJCC’s President and CEO.
Amazing Partners. Incredible Results.
NJ Sharing Network proudly partners with an extensive network of 54 local hospitals to steward the gift of life.
• In 2024, 40% of our partner hospitals had an increase in the number of organ donors and organs transplanted from the previous year.
• Cooper University Hospital in Camden had the highest number of organ donors (29) and organs transplanted (89) of any of our partner hospitals.
The Power of The Gift
A record number of New Jersey organ donors resulted in more organs transplanted than ever before, giving more families hope and second chances.
MTF Biologics’ Golden Hourglass Award for excellence in tissue recovery
NJBIZ Best Places to Work awarded for the seventh consecutive year
Pictured are (from left) NJSN’s Jillian Wintle, Tatiana Martinez, Silva Ohanian, Mirajet Rizvani, Sara Patterson, and Carolyn Welsh.
Behind Every Gift: The Lifesaving Work of OPOs
Organ procurement organizations (OPOs) like NJ Sharing Network (NJSN) are entrusted with honoring and facilitating the gift the selfless act of organ and tissue donation that saves and enhances lives. Every gift is cherished and stewarded with the utmost respect through clinical expertise and compassionate care for donor families.
Compassionate Recovery: Precision and Teamwork
Behind every life saved through donation is a seamless coordination of expertise and precision. The donation process starts with NJSN’s Donation Resource Center (DRC), a call center team that works around the clock to evaluate potential donors and coordinate recoveries. From there, NJSN’s specialists work alongside many partners, including hospital teams, transplant surgeons, and transportation experts.
The Lab: Ensuring the Perfect Match
A critical part of the donation process takes place in NJSN’s fully accredited onsite Transplant Laboratory, where science meets purpose. Every histocompatibility test and crossmatch is conducted with one vital goal: to honor the donor’s precious gift. The laboratory also plays a critical role in the pre- and post-transplant evaluation. Beyond lifesaving matches, the Lab team performs groundbreaking research, advancing innovations that not only save lives today but also expand possibilities for the future of transplantation.
Caring for Donor Families: The Heart of Our Mission
The true beauty of the gift lies in its power to bring hope amidst profound grief. For donor families, the loss of a loved one can be unimaginable, but knowing their loved one’s selfless act has saved or enhanced lives can offer a meaningful source of comfort and healing.
NJSN’s compassionate team is dedicated to supporting donor families through every step of their journey. From explaining the donation process with care and sensitivity to offering ongoing support, NJSN ensures families feel supported not only during the donation but long after. Special tributes, such as hospital flag raisings and moments of silence in the operating room, celebrate donors’ legacies and their lasting impact.
To deepen this healing, NJSN’s Family Services Team facilitates opportunities for donor families and transplant recipients to connect when both are open to the experience. NJSN’s Family Services Team also offers grief resources, workshops, and events to celebrate the lives of our donors. Inside NJSN, every donor is respected and honored with beautiful and heartwarming donor tributes, including our Walls of Remembrance where every organ and tissue donor’s first name and last initial is etched. Donor families are also invited to participate in the Quilts of Love program, where their loved ones’ photos are beautifully preserved in handcrafted quilts. The Sharing Network Foundation offers a variety of unique ways for donor families to honor their loved ones, including the 5K Celebration of Life and the Landscape of Life tribute wall.
Public Education:
Inspiring the Next Gift
NJSN’s team, volunteers, and partners stand as powerful advocates for the transplant community. Sharing the stories of donors and recipients shows the world the power of NJSN’s mission. Every awareness campaign, school visit, community event, social media post, and news media story seeks to spark a conversation, dispel myths and misinformation, and encourage someone new to join the organ and tissue donor registry.
Through every gift, we are reminded of the shared humanity that unites us and the ways that generosity and compassion can change the world — a truth NJSN embraces daily in its mission to honor every donor and support their families with dedication and respect.
REAL TIME, REAL IMPACT
NJ Sharing Network’s Transplant Laboratory has launched its Partner Portal, a new system designed to improve efficiency and accuracy in the organ transplantation process. This customizable platform streamlines workflows, reduces errors, and allows real-time data sharing with transplant center partners.
Key features of the Partner Portal include:
• Real-Time Access: Immediate access to reports and sample tracking for quicker decisions.
• Barcode-Enabled Kits: Accurate tracking of samples from collection to processing.
• Automated Alerts: Notifications to ensure timely action and improve safety.
• Integrated Billing: Simplified billing for more efficient operations.
Early users, like Cooperman Barnabas Medical Center, have praised the portal for its efficiency and ease of use. By implementing this advanced tool, NJ Sharing Network is enhancing collaboration with transplant centers and setting new standards for operational excellence.
PARTNERSHIP POWER
NJ’s First-Ever Transplant Growth Collaborative
NJSN was the second OPO in the nation to host a Transplant Growth Collaborative, bringing together C-suite and senior transplant program and hospital leaders from across the nation. The event featured an exchange of innovative practices aimed at increasing the rate of successful transplantations.
Representatives from all six New Jersey transplant centers and eight of New York’s transplant centers attended.
“ Our Partner Portal provides transplant centers with instant access to critical data, fostering stronger collaboration and greater independence. This tool will help us save and enhance more lives by optimizing processes and improving outcomes. ”
—Sharyn Sawczak, Vice President of Clinical Utilization and Laboratory Operations
Donation Advocacy Forums
NJSN and New Jersey Hospital Association (NJHA) hosted two successful Donation Advocacy Forums to educate and engage our hospital partners. Attendees discussed clinical management and explored Joint Commission and CMS regulations. University Hospital in Newark presented on an improvement project to increase timely referrals in the Emergency Department.
Advancing Excellence in Kidney Transplant
NJSN hosted the 2024 NJ Kidney Transplant Collaborative Meeting bringing together professionals from local transplant centers, dialysis organizations, and Patient Subject Matter Experts. Attendees discussed quality improvement initiatives, new processes, and best practices.
Community outreach and education play a critical role in our lifesaving mission. These efforts inspire our volunteers and community members to encourage others to register as organ and tissue donors. Throughout the year, we are proud to connect with our diverse communities! Check out these great snapshots from our recent programs and events!
TEAM LIBERTY WINS BIG!
A HEARTFELT RIDE AT THE ROSE PARADE
On New Years Day, heart and tissue recipient Michael Rizzo of Upper Saddle River was part of the world’s most visible campaign to inspire organ and tissue donation when he served as a float rider on OneLegacy’s Donate Life Rose Parade® float in Pasadena, CA, which won the 2025 “Extraordinaire Award.” Michael was selected to ride on the float by the Sharing Network Foundation and our tissue partner MTF Biologics. Michael has dedicated his life to serving others as both a paramedic and police officer. His commitment to public service faced a significant challenge two decades ago when a devastating arm fracture threatened to end his career. However, thanks to the remarkable generosity of a tissue donor, Michael’s arm was successfully reconstructed, allowing him to continue his vital work of saving and protecting lives. Years later, Michael’s journey took another unexpected turn when he was diagnosed with Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy. This time, an organ donor provided the lifeline he needed, and a successful heart transplant gave him a second chance to live life to its fullest.
Organ transplant recipients, living donors, and donor families from New Jersey, New York, and Connecticut gathered at MetLife Stadium to celebrate their inspiring achievements at the 2024 Transplant Games of America held in Birmingham, Alabama. Together, the group, known as Team Liberty, brought home an impressive 118 medals across a range of events including basketball, track and field, swimming, pickleball, cornhole, and trivia. They competed against thousands of participants from all 50 states.
AWARD-WINNING LESSONS, LIFESAVING IMPACT
North Plainfield High School (NPHS) received Donate Life America’s prestigious 2024 Excellence in Youth Education Award for its efforts in raising awareness about organ and tissue donation. NPHS incorporated a “Donate Life Unit” into its 9th Grade Health Education curriculum, taught in both English and Spanish to serve its multicultural student body. The two-week unit employs a variety of creative and engaging strategies to ensure that students are not passive learners but active participants in their learning journey. Lessons include enthusiastic group discussions and structured debates about what it means to become an organ and tissue donor. Creative and fun elements, such as poster and t-shirt design contests, also reinforce what students learn and allow them to express their understanding in innovative ways. The unit concludes with a bilingual presentation by NJSN’s public education team. Pictured here with the award are (from left) Joseph Yaccarino, NJSN’s Social and Digital Strategy Specialist; Sean Dowling, NPHS Athletic Director; and Kelly Bonventre, NJSN’s Assistant Director of Community Services.
Karsen Griffin
Bergen Community College
Major: Respiratory Therapy
Abagale Petty
Georgian Court University
Major: Nursing
Amelia Rowniewski
American University
Major: Public Health
Minor: Biology
Angelyna Scheck
Eastwick College
Major: Mortuary Science
Reilly Williams
Seton Hall University
Major: Nursing
Devon Woods
Eastwick College
Major: Surgical Technology
EMPOWERING THE NEXT GENERATION
The Sharing Network Foundation presented its inaugural Health Sciences Scholarships to six exceptional college students from New Jersey who are dedicated to careers that support the field of organ and tissue donation and transplantation. Funded by NJSN’s Employee Giving Campaign, this scholarship program demonstrates the commitment of NJSN team members to foster the next generation of healthcare professionals. The scholarship program was open to New Jersey residents currently enrolled in a U.S. college or university, majoring in fields such as nursing, social work, medical technology, mortuary science, respiratory therapy, or biology. Applicants were required to demonstrate a connection to organ and tissue donation and transplantation, either through personal experience, advocacy efforts, or professional aspirations. For more information about the Foundation’s scholarships and other programs, please visit SharingNetworkFoundation.org.
WALL OF HEROES
Jersey City Medical Center (JCMC), in conjunction with NJSN, unveiled its updated “Wall of Heroes,” a lasting tribute to local organ donors and a place of remembrance, healing, and hope for their loved ones. More than 200 guests attended the event, including donor families, JCMC leadership and clinical staff, and NJSN team members. Attendees also wrote personalized messages of remembrance and gratitude on an NJSN flag, which was raised on the hospital’s flagpole following the dedication ceremony.
Make a Difference , Find Your Purpose
Volunteering with NJ Sharing Network is more than an act of service — it’s a journey of connection, growth, and impact. NJSN volunteers join a mission to save and enhance lives through organ and tissue donation advocacy, engaging in activities like speaking at schools and businesses and raising awareness at community events and health fairs. These experiences not only help educate and inspire others but also enrich volunteers’ own lives.
“ Volunteering for NJ Sharing Network has given me an opportunity to share my transplant journey, while meeting donor families and other transplant recipients. It is important for me to provide information about organ and tissue donation in hopes of educating the public about registering as a donor. ”
—
Dawn P. Burke, lung transplant recipient
PUTTING THEIR HEARTS INTO EVERY STITCH
NJSN’s Wrapped in Love program provides handmade shawls and lap blankets to families of deceased organ and tissue donors as a heartfelt expression of comfort and compassion. In 2024, volunteers created 883 shawls and blankets, each symbolizing love and support. These meaningful gifts offer solace to donor families during challenging times.
For more information, contact Iveth Gonzales at IGonzales@njsharingnetwork.org.
“ The blanket you knitted is beautiful. Words cannot describe how happy you made me. You are all compassionate, caring, and loving people. I will call you, my family. ”
— Barbara Mielnicki, mother of organ donor Vincent
IN MEMORIAM
We are deeply saddened by the loss of Matt Barbagallo, a longtime NJSN volunteer, who passed away on November 10, 2024.
In 2003, Matt donated a kidney to his mother, Barbara, giving her six more cherished years with their family. This experience inspired Matt to help raise awareness about NJSN’s lifesaving mission by offering his time and energy at countless community events and activities.
DOING GOOD BUSINESS
Corporate volunteering offers businesses a valuable opportunity to foster teamwork, strengthen community ties, and make a meaningful impact. It’s truly a win-win approach for everyone!
NJ Sharing Network is fortunate to partner with many local companies that support its lifesaving mission through group volunteer projects. These companies recognize that giving back benefits not only their communities but also their employees, creating a shared sense of purpose and a caring connection.
When corporate groups volunteer with NJSN, they also have the chance to tour our headquarters to get a deeper understanding of the lives touched by their efforts. One of the many ways companies get involved is through hands-on projects such as preparing informational mailers or assembling education materials for community events.
INSPIRING OUR YOUTH
NJSN’s youth education programs provide students with the knowledge and tools they need to make informed decisions about registering as organ and tissue donors. These interactive activities also help encourage a spirit of giving and service, ensuring that NJSN’s mission continues to thrive in the future.
NJSN’s Donate Life Clubs (DLC) have become a popular and growing trend in high schools across New Jersey, empowering students to raise awareness about organ and tissue donation. DLC members engage in a variety of activities both on school campuses and out in their local communities, from hosting assemblies to organizing fundraisers, staffing tabling events and creating social media content.
For more info on volunteering visit NJSharingNetwork.org/volunteer or contact Community Services Manager Ametra Burton at aburton@njsharingnetwork.org.
The gift is nothing short of a miracle.
For transplant recipients, the gift means a second chance to live life to its fullest and the opportunity to dream of what’s next. It allows them to move beyond the limitations of their illness, to build new memories, cherish moments with loved ones, and embrace a future they never thought would be possible.
But the gift extends far beyond the benefits for transplant recipients. It also carries deep meaning for the families of organ and tissue donors, who, in their moment of grief, choose hope and love. For these families, the gift is in the YES — the decision to say “yes” to donation, transforming loss into a legacy of life. Though their pain of loss is heavy, the gift brings them a sense of comfort, knowing that their loved one continues to make a difference by giving someone else the chance to experience life again.
At NJ Sharing Network, the gift is at the core of everything we do. Our dedicated team members and hospital partners work around the clock to honor the generosity of every donor and ensure that every donation is stewarded with the utmost care, compassion, and dignity.
This issue of Circle of Life celebrates the gift in all its forms. We invite you to join us in recognizing the extraordinary beauty of the gift and the powerful ripple effect it has on all those it touches.
Organ and tissue donor Deanna D’Arco
Organ donor Michael J. Canada (second from left) and family
Bound by the Beat of a Heart
Lisa Vecchione of Springfield, NJ, felt her life slipping away. Ten years of struggling with a failing heart had left her weak and desperate for a miracle. On June 20, 2022, Lisa’s prayers were answered in the form of a selfless act of an organ donor — a new heart, beating with the promise of life.
The donated heart belonged to Michael J. Canada, a father of three from Woburn, Massachusetts, whose untimely passing gave Lisa a second chance to live. But what Lisa didn’t expect was how her life would intertwine with Michael’s loving family in the most beautiful way.
Michael was a man who filled every room with his warmth and charisma. Known for his love of conversation and connection, he had a way of making everyone feel seen. His mother, Jessica, fondly recalled how their family would often be late to events and activities because Michael simply couldn’t stop talking to people and making friends.
“After meeting Michael for the first time, you became his friend for life within five minutes,” said Jessica. “He was always so upbeat and the kind of person who would do anything to help others.”
Michael was also well-known in his community as a skilled barber, who would volunteer his time cutting hair for children in the neighborhood who were unable to afford a haircut. He felt tremendous satisfaction seeing the biggest smiles on their faces when they saw the finished product.
“Michael was a champion for the underdog,” said Jessica. “He delivered many meals to the homeless in the Lowell and the Boston area. There was rarely a person Michael met who he didn’t help in some way.”
During Michael’s final days in the hospital, his family made the decision for Michael to give the gift of life to others as an organ donor, a fitting tribute and reflection of his generous spirit. Through his gifts, not only was Lisa given a new heart, but his kidneys also went on to save the lives of two men.
For his family, knowing that Michael’s life was continuing to help others brought a measure of solace. Yet, the true depth of healing came during an extraordinary meeting in NJ Sharing Network’s Meditation Garden — a place dedicated to honoring donors and celebrating life.
When Lisa met Jessica, Michael’s girlfriend Jaliesa Andrade, and his two daughters, Audriana and Aaliyah, the connection was immediate and heartfelt. Within minutes, the walls of uncertainty melted away, replaced by laughter, tears, and love.
Audriana and Aaliyah felt so comfortable with Lisa that they asked if they could braid her hair. “That, to me, was the most amazing moment,” Lisa said. “To feel that close within half an hour — it was something I’ll never forget. I couldn’t ask for a better donor family because they’re just absolutely amazing people. Michael didn’t just provide me with a heart. He gave me children to love.”
“ I couldn’t ask for a better donor family because they’re just absolutely amazing people. Michael didn’t just provide me with a heart. He gave me children to love.”
— Lisa Vecchione, heart transplant recipient
Unable to have children of her own, Lisa now refers to Michael’s children as her “heart children,” and they call her their “heart mom.”
When it was Jaliesa’s turn to listen to Michael’s heart beating inside Lisa, an extraordinary moment unfolded. Lisa noticed her heartbeat seemed to quicken, almost as if it recognized Jaliesa’s presence.
“I could feel it beating harder when she leaned in,” Lisa recalled.
Reflecting on the experience, Jaliesa said, “When we arrived at NJ Sharing Network, all my emotions came rushing in. But once I hugged Lisa, I felt a sense of peace come over me. It felt like I already knew her because of our phone calls and texts. That connection became even stronger in person.”
Writing to Connect
Lisa’s second meeting with Michael’s loved ones took place at the Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy Association’s Conference in Boston. Lisa gave a powerful presentation and received an award for her volunteer service. She also met Michael’s grandmother Joan Bello, his sister Brianna Canada, and his son Michael Jr.’s mother Kate Lynn.
“ When we arrived at NJ Sharing Network, all my emotions came rushing in. But once I hugged Lisa, I felt a sense of peace come over me.”
— Jaliesa Andrade, girlfriend of organ donor Michael J. Canada
Joan, who is lovingly known as “Noni,” was deeply moved by Lisa’s gesture of gifting her a star-shaped pillow containing a recording of Michael’s heartbeat.’
“She called Michael her star on the Christmas tree,” Lisa explained. “Now, she can press the pillow and hear his heart whenever she wants.”
Noni shared her joy on Facebook, and her story inspired a ripple effect. One of her high school friends, after reading about Michael and Lisa, registered as an organ and tissue donor.
“To know that Michael’s story is still inspiring others — that’s what it’s all about,” Lisa said.
The families have remained close, sharing many phone calls and texts, milestones, and more memories together. Jessica sees Lisa as a living connection to her son.
“It’s like having a piece of Michael still here,” she said. “When Lisa talks about him or does something that reminds me of him, it feels like he’s with us.”
For Lisa, the journey ahead is about carrying Michael’s legacy forward. “It’s not just about living. It’s about loving the family he gave me and honoring the life he lived. I’m so blessed by God,” she said.
In the NJSN Meditation Garden that day, two families became one, bound by love, gratitude, and the enduring legacy of a man who gave the ultimate gift.
For many transplant recipients, writing a heartfelt letter of gratitude is a meaningful way to honor their donor and acknowledge how the lifesaving gift they’ve received has impacted their lives. For donor families, receiving a note from a transplant recipient can bring comfort, knowing their loved one’s legacy continues to make a difference. Similarly, donor families may also find healing in writing letters to recipients celebrating the lives their loved ones saved and creating lasting connections. These letters foster healing and form a bridge between lives forever united by the gift.
How Does the Letter Writing Process Work?
All correspondence is facilitated through NJSN to ensure privacy and respect for both parties. Both the donor family and recipient must sign release forms before any information is exchanged. It’s important to understand that responses may not come quickly or at all. Many donor families and transplant recipients, overwhelmed by emotion, may need time to process their feelings before responding. Some take months or even years to find the right words, while others may choose not to respond.
The Importance of Patience and Understanding
Whether you are writing as a recipient or a donor family, patience and understanding are essential. Not receiving a response doesn’t mean the letter isn’t appreciated. Many recipients and donor families are deeply moved by the thoughtfulness behind these letters, even if they don’t respond immediately or choose not to respond at all.
Support and Resources
For more information about writing to donor families or transplant recipients:
• Visit NJSharingNetwork.org/ writing-to-donor-families-and-recipients
• Contact NJSN’s Family Services team at 908-516-5411
• Email familyservices@njsharingnetwork.org.
The Gift
By Bill Reitsma, former Vice President of Clinical Services and a founding member of NJ Sharing Network
Every day, I thank God from the bottom of my heart for allowing me to be part of the gift for so many years.
My journey with organ and tissue donation began before NJ Sharing Network (NJSN) was established. In 1980, I took my first steps in a field filled with promise and purpose. Six years later, I was honored to be part of the group that founded NJSN, dedicated to transforming lives through the incredible gift of organ donation.
To truly understand what the gift means, I’d like to share a story that shaped my life forever.
Three weeks into my role as a Transplant Coordinator, I received a call over Memorial Day weekend about a potential donor: a 14-year-old boy who had tragically suffered a brain bleed while lifting the weights he had received for Christmas. His devastated parents were consumed with grief and guilt.
It was in that fragile, heartbreaking moment that I gently offered them the option of organ donation. After many tears — mine included — they said ‘yes.’
I’ll never forget what they told me: “Thank you for helping us to help others.” THEY thanked ME.
Those words became a cornerstone of my career and a guiding light in my focus for the next 35 years.
Around the same time, I often observed a scene that also left a lasting impact on me. Our NJSN office was across the hall from a dialysis center. I watched patients arrive three times a week, spending four hours each session connected to lifesaving machines. For many of them, the only path to freedom from dialysis was a transplant.
In my role, I witnessed miracles — patients receiving kidneys and gaining years of life, new opportunities, and hope. These moments deepened my commitment to advancing NJSN’s mission.
As a leader at NJSN, my purpose was to ensure our team always respected, enhanced, and celebrated the gift. I would often say that we must never, ever lose sight of the gift, no matter the circumstances. The gift is at the center of all that we do. It is a very powerful force.
Year after year, more people choose to give, proving that even in our darkest hours, compassion endures. Over the decades, I’ve seen new programs, laws, and technologies transform the gift, making the process more seamless and transplant outcomes more extraordinary.
What the gift taught me is this: even in the depths of grief and loss, kindness and grace shine through. In today’s world, I have found few things as unifying and powerful as the gift. Those who give this gift are heroes and prophets of hope.
(At Right) Bill Reitsma, former Vice President of Clinical Services and a founding member of NJ Sharing Network, embraces Charlotte Ray, mother of organ donor, Jason Ray, during an NJSN recognition event.
Words From our Caring Staff
“ The Gift is an act of selflessness, filled with gratitude, that impacts all involved. A simple gesture of saying yes, filled with compassion and empathy, that is bigger than ourselves.”
— Silva Ohanian, Manager of Quality Assurance
“ The Gift is priceless, something that you want to share with the world, rather than keep it to yourself. It is full of grace and love abounding in a simple act of kindness — a true blessing.”
— Julie Everett, Manager of Medical Records
“ The Gift is a beacon of boundless joy, hope, and light bestowed upon a soul in its most delicate hour.”
— Cristian Posada, IT Project Administrator
Deanna’s Love and Light Shine On
Deanna Noelle “Dee Dee” D’Arco of Vernon passed away on May 27, 2024, at just 19 years old, following a tragic car accident. A beloved teacher’s assistant at Little Learners Academy in Jefferson Township, Deanna was cherished by her students, remembered for giving the best hugs, and loved by all who knew her. Her vibrant spirit, compassionate nature, love for animals, and dedication to others left a lasting impression on everyone she met.
Deanna’s life, cut tragically short, continues to inspire others through the selfless act of organ and tissue donation. Her donated heart, liver, and kidney saved the lives of three people, giving them renewed hope and the chance to create new memories with their loved ones. Additionally, her tissue donations, including skin, bone, tendons, and corneas, will offer healing to those in need.
“Deanna has always been a hero to me, and now she can be a hero forever as an organ and tissue donor who saved lives,” said her father, Steven D’Arco, who served on the Paterson Fire Department for nearly 25 years. “This brings us some solace, knowing something positive can come from such an unimaginable loss.”
Deanna’s legacy was honored during a deeply emotional NJ Sharing Network flag-raising ceremony at Morristown Medical Center. Family, friends, hospital staff, and NJ Sharing Network representatives came together to pay tribute to her selfless spirit. This moment of remembrance highlighted the lasting impact Deanna continues to have through the gift of organ and tissue donation.
“The overwhelming support we’ve received from the community has been beyond anything we could have imagined,” said Steven. “From friends to neighbors, from the fire department to NJ Sharing Network and Morristown Medical Center, people have been there for us, lifting us up through their kindness and love.”
“ Deanna now lives on through the precious gift she has given to others. It has been an honor to support the D’Arco family and to witness their courage and grace.”
— Amy Young, NJSN’s Assistant Director of Authorization and Family Services
The D’Arco family has leaned heavily on NJ Sharing Network since Deanna’s passing.
“NJ Sharing Network has been with us every step of the way, and we are forever grateful for the support they’ve given us,” said Steven. “Their grief counseling has been invaluable. They’ve helped us process our loss and provided a path for hope and healing. It’s not just about our loss, but about what comes from it. Knowing that Deanna’s gifts gave life to others helps ease the pain.”
Deanna’s mother, Kacy, reflects on her daughter’s remarkable spirit. “Deanna always had a way of making everyone feel special, even in her quiet moments,” said Kacy. “Her generosity and kindness are what she’s remembered for, and those qualities are what will continue to inspire us.”
Dominic, Deanna’s older brother, cherishes the memories they shared. “Deanna was my biggest supporter, always encouraging me and pushing me to be my best,” said Dominic. “Her love and guidance will stay with me forever.”
For Steve’s partner, Dawn LaTrecchia, knowing Deanna’s legacy will continue has helped bring some comfort. “Deanna had a heart of gold,” said Dawn. “Her giving spirit, love of animals and others continue to bring us all together.”
“ It was clear to all of us that Deanna was truly a caring and loving person. Our team came to know her through her close family and friends, the stories they shared, and the deep love that surrounded her. She had a unique gift of bringing people together.”
— Kim Belton, Nurse Manager, SICU/MICU, Morristown Medical Center
Deanna’s generosity and kindness continue to ripple through the lives of those who knew and loved her. As Dominic said in his beautiful eulogy — “While her life may have been cut short, her impact will never fade. While her time with us was brief, her spirit lives on in the countless lives she touched. Deanna’s love and light will forever guide and uplift those she left behind, reminding us to embrace kindness and cherish the moments we have. As Deanna would say, ‘you grow through what you go through.’”
A Matter of Faith
Registering as an organ and tissue donor reflects generosity, compassion, and commitment to the well-being of others. Many people look to their faith traditions for guidance on this important decision, and it’s empowering to know that most major religions in the U.S. recognize organ and tissue donation as an act of selflessness and love. It is not just supported, but often encouraged as a sacred and meaningful act.
What major religions in New Jersey say about organ and tissue donation:
Christianity / Roman Catholicism
Christianity has long supported organ and tissue donation, viewing it as a moral obligation rooted in compassion and the sanctity of life. According to Pope Francis, “God’s tenderness leads us to understand that love is the meaning of life. Organ donation is a testimony of love for our neighbor.”
Judaism
In Jewish tradition, organ donation is a mitzvah (good deed) that reflects the sanctity of life and the principle of saving lives. The Rabbinical Council of America and other Jewish authorities encourage donation as a compassionate act that honors and preserves life.
Islam
Islam encourages organ and tissue donation as a form of charity (Sadaqah) that aligns with Sharia law. The Fiqh Council of North America has affirmed that organ and tissue donation is permissible, as it helps save lives and promotes compassion within the Muslim community.
Hinduism
Hindu teachings support organ and tissue donation as a selfless act of compassion and service. The belief in karma, selfless giving, and the interconnectedness of life encourages Hindus to contribute to the well-being of others through donation.
Buddhism
Buddhists view organ and tissue donation as an act of compassion and a way to alleviate suffering. Buddhist teachings emphasize selflessness, compassion, and the belief in karma, encouraging donation as a path to greater well-being.
Protestant
Many Protestant Christian denominations support organ and tissue donation as an expression of stewardship, compassion, and care for others. Groups such as the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America and Southern Baptists view donation as a life-affirming act that reflects their values of service and love.
For more information on the beliefs and practices of other religious traditions, visit NJSharingNetwork.org/Faith-Outreach
“ Life is one of the greatest gifts that you can give, and it is a gift that can be shared. It is part of us doing good in this world by saving lives.”
—Rev. Dr. Vanessa M. Brown, Rivers of Living Water Ministries UCC of Newark
Option 18
In Jewish culture, the number 18 symbolizes life (חי, pronounced “chai”). This belief reflects the understanding that one person has the power to save up to eight lives through organ donation. Option 18 is an initiative of Ematai, an organization led by Executive Director Rabbi Dr. Shlomo Brody, dedicated to supporting the Jewish community as they navigate the complexities of aging, end-of-life care, and organ donation.
“Our team members and partners frequently rely on Option 18 for guidance and support when working with Jewish families in local hospitals,” said Alyssa D’Addio, Vice President of Hospital and Community Services. “Recognizing the unique cultural and religious sensitivities surrounding organ donation, Option 18 provides essential resources to help families make informed decisions while honoring their traditions.”
TO HONOR
The NJ Sharing Network family honors the memory of Daniel J. Ford, a devoted husband, father and friend who passed away unexpectedly at the age of 41 at Virtua Our Lady of Lourdes Hospital.
Known for his infectious humor and compassionate heart, Dan’s presence lit up the lives of everyone he met. His remarkable wit, helpful advice, and love for sports always brought great joy to family and friends. Dan’s caring legacy now extends beyond his life, as his decision to become an organ donor has
TO REMEMBER
We remember Congressman Donald Payne, Jr., a devoted advocate for the Garden State who leaves behind a remarkable legacy of service and a commitment to public life that was rooted in his deep love for Newark and the working families for whom he tirelessly fought. Congressman Payne demonstrated a relentless pursuit of better lives for all New Jerseyans. He was not only a powerful voice for his community, but
TO GIVE HOPE
given the precious gift of life to others.
“We feel privileged to have been able to honor Dan’s wishes to be an organ donor, and through our profound sadness, we have found extraordinary comfort in knowing the incredible impact his gifts had on others,” said Jenn. “NJ Sharing Network’s support during this heartbreaking time has meant the world to us.”
As Danny’s loved ones gathered to say their final goodbyes at the hospital, something beautiful happened — a stunning rainbow appeared in the sky above Virtua Our Lady of Lourdes Hospital.
also a donor hero through his final generous act of tissue donation.
“Donald’s giving nature didn’t stop at life – it extended beyond. His decision to become a tissue donor reflected his desire to always care for others, even after he was gone. His generosity now continues to enhance lives, a true testament to the man he was,” said Congressman Payne’s wife, Beatrice, who cherished their life together as parents to triplets — Yvonne, Jack, and Donald III.
Throughout his career, Congressman Payne was a staunch advocate for NJSN’s
Eileen McKenna of Roxbury never imagined her life would change so drastically. A healthy and vibrant woman, she spent years as a thirdgrade teacher while raising her two beloved sons, Matthew and Jay, whom she adopted on her own. Over the years, she also opened her heart and home to five foster children, providing them with love and stability when they needed it most.
Everything changed for Eileen during Mother’s Day weekend in 2017. Feeling unusually tired, Eileen initially assumed she
had a virus. However, a visit to her doctor led to a shocking diagnosis: she was in acute heart failure, with her heart function at just 13%.
Doctors at Morristown Medical Center traced the condition to a genetic disorder. She was evaluated and listed for transplant with the NYU Langone Transplant Institute thanks to Morristown Medical Center’s affiliation with NYU Langone Health.
Now in end-stage heart failure, Eileen faces daily challenges of extreme fatigue and shortness of breath.
“It’s not easy,” admitted Eileen. “But I take it one day at a time, and I stay strong for
Friends and family began sending photos of the rainbow to Jenn, seeing it as a powerful symbol of hope and a reminder of Dan’s enduring love. For Jenn and their daughter Breeanna that rainbow now serves as a lasting reminder of Dan’s generous spirit and the lives he touched, both in life and through his remarkable gift of organ donation.
“ Donald’s giving nature didn’t stop at life – it extended beyond. His decision to become a tissue donor reflected his desire to always care for others, even after he was gone.”
— Beatrice Payne, Congressman Payne’s wife
mission. He actively encouraged community members to register as organ and tissue donors and worked hard to dispel myths and misinformation. He also shared his passionate beliefs about the power of organ and tissue donation in a widely seen public service announcement on PBS and News12.
“ I’m grateful to organ and tissue donors and their families, who make the miracle of transplant possible. ”
— Eileen McKenna
Matthew and Jay. They mean everything to me and give me the strength to keep fighting. I want to be there for them as long as I can.”
As Eileen awaits her transplant, she continues to inspire those around her with her resilience and optimism.
“I know that every day brings me closer to the gift,” said Eileen. “I’m grateful to organ and tissue donors and their families, who make the miracle of transplant possible. It’s their generosity that gives me — and others waiting — the chance to keep going.”
A HAPPY UPDATE! In the Summer 2024 issue of Circle of Life, a story appeared about Sheila Martell, who was awaiting a lifesaving liver transplant. We are thrilled to share that shortly after the magazine was published, Sheila received her new liver! She is now living a vibrant, joy-filled life and joined us at our 5K Celebration of Life.
Social Media: Separating Fact from Fiction
Social media platforms like Facebook, TikTok, and Instagram are some of the most powerful tools for promoting organ and tissue donation and transplantation. These platforms have the potential to reach millions and can make a positive impact through inspiring stories of real people.
For instance, viral TikTok videos featuring a young liver transplant recipient named Emma have garnered over 2 million views and 200,000 likes. In the videos, Emma shares her emotional journey of struggling with liver failure and how her transplant gave her a second chance at life. She takes viewers through her hospital visits, recovery process, and even moments of gratitude for her donor.
Another impactful post on Facebook came from the family of David R., whose daughter became an organ donor after a tragic accident. The public post received over 5,000 shares and 1,000 positive comments of support. It detailed how David’s family has found comfort in knowing their daughter’s legacy lives on through her gifts.
On Instagram Reels, there are countless videos following transplant recipients as they thrive post-transplant. One popular Reel of a heart transplant recipient named Josh shows him celebrating his first “heartiversary” with his family. With over 100,000 likes and more than 1,500 comments, Josh’s story wraps up with a clear call to action for viewers to register as donors.
The Dangers of Misinformation
While social media can be a force for good, it can also be a breeding ground for myths and misconceptions. One harmful myth circulating on social media is the false belief that doctors won’t try as hard to save your life if you’re registered as an organ and tissue donor. A now-debunked TikTok video even claimed that “organ donors are targeted by staff in hospitals.” Before it was flagged and removed for misinformation, the video had over 1.5 million views and 10,000 comments.
Another damaging misconception on social media involves claims that the rich and famous receive preferential treatment in organ allocation. A viral TikTok video claimed that a billionaire tech CEO bypassed the transplant waiting list to receive a liver transplant ahead of more deserving patients. The video was quickly flagged for misinformation after being debunked by transplant experts who correctly emphasized that the organ allocation process in the U.S. is based on factors such as medical urgency, compatibility, and time on the waiting list — not wealth or social status. Unfortunately, the damage was already done as this video had received over 1.8 million views and 150,000 likes.
“When myths like these go viral, they can have serious consequences,” said Gary Imhoff, NJSN’s Sr. Manager of Social and Digital Strategy. “Fear and confusion can slow down donation rates, leading to longer waiting times for people in need of lifesaving transplants.”
So, the next time you come across a negative or misleading post about organ and tissue donation on social media, take a moment to question it, dig deeper for the truth, report it if necessary, and share it with our NJ Sharing Network team. The lives of those waiting for transplants may depend on it.
A MESSAGE FROM THE CHAIR OF THE SHARING NETWORK FOUNDATION
Thanks to the generosity of thousands of individuals and partner organizations, our Sharing Network Foundation has raised over $20 million since its inception. In 2024, more than $1.73 million was raised through over 8,000 contributions. We proudly invested more than $1.3 million in vital programs, including $360,000 in grants to support clinical advancement, public education, and donor family support. Additionally, we provided 87 crisis funding grants to transplant families and awarded academic scholarships to 13 students. Our 5K Celebration of Life events united 290 teams and more than 5,000 participants to celebrate the gift of life. Together, we brought hope and healing to families and communities.
This year, I am especially excited to celebrate the 15th anniversary of our 5K Celebration of Life events! Over the past 15 years, our 5K has grown to become the largest in the nation dedicated to organ and tissue donation.
I look forward to all we will make possible together in the year to come!
Ron Oswick – Sharing Network Foundation Board Chair
Ron has served on the Foundation’s Board of Trustees since 2018. He and his wife Tanya, a heart transplant recipient, and their family celebrate her gift of life by leading their team, Second Chance, at the 5K Celebration of Life every year since the event’s inception.
MAKING EVERY SWING COUNT!
Energy, excitement, and a shared purpose took over Mountain Ridge Country Club during the 2024 Golf Classic! The day set a fundraising record of $180,000. Presented by The Sumas Family Foundation and Village ShopRite, the event featured a Tennis Tournament sponsored by Eastwick College and a Pickleball Tournament hosted by Team Liberty. Special thanks to Co-Chairs Stephen Orenchuk and Philip S. Kolm, who led the charge with passion and dedication to make this year’s Classic a winning day for all!
A “BIG GIVE”
Cait English, a Brokerage Professional at KBC Advisors, helped secure a $50,000 grant for our Foundation through KBC’s “Big Give” program. Cait was deeply moved to nominate our Foundation due to her personal connection to NJSN’s mission. In 2011, she experienced the heartbreaking loss of a childhood friend who had selflessly registered as an organ donor just months before his passing. Her connection grew stronger in 2016 after the sudden loss of her mother-in-law, also an organ donor.
(left to right) Ali Sumas Good, Director at Village Super Market, Inc.; Carolyn M. Welsh, President and CEO, NJ Sharing Network; and Janet B. Zanetich, Manager of Philanthropy, Sharing Network Foundation.
(second from left) Cait English, KBC Brokerage Professional, and her husband, Michael McGee, present check to Janet Zanetich, Manager of Philanthropy, Sharing Network Foundation; and Amanda Tibok, Executive Director of the Sharing Network Foundation.
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WHO WE ARE
NJ Sharing Network (NJSN) is a federally designated nonprofit organization dedicated to saving and enhancing lives through the recovery of donated organs and tissue. NJSN partners with 54 local hospitals to bring hope to nearly 4,000 New Jersey residents awaiting a lifesaving organ transplant, while also contributing to the national effort to support over 100,000 people on the U.S. transplant waiting list. With over three million New Jerseyans registered as organ and tissue donors, the organization has reported organ donation records for six consecutive years. NJSN is consistently ranked among the top-performing organ procurement organizations (OPOs) in the nation and was honored as NJBIZ’s 2024 Nonprofit Business of the Year. It has also been recognized as one of New Jersey’s ‘Best Places to Work’ for seven consecutive years.
Give the Gift
When you register as an organ and tissue donor, you’re giving a priceless gift — one that saves and enhances lives and leaves a lasting legacy of kindness. By communicating your decision to donate with your family and loved ones, you help to bring them comfort and clarity during one of life’s most difficult moments. By understanding your wishes, they are given the opportunity to find peace in honoring your final act of generosity. Take the step today to give the gift and bring peace of mind to the people who matter most to you. Register as an organ and tissue donor. Be the gift. Share the gift. Visit NJSharingNetwork.org/Register
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