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August 8, 2017
The Gloria Foundation Of Montville Supports Victims Of Domestic Violence
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By Dawn M. Chiossi ecently on May 10, the Gloria Foundation of Montville held its third annual fundraiser raising an impressive $30,000 to aid those who are affected by domestic violence. All proceeds went to benefit The Morris Family Justice Center, a domestic abuse shelter for Morris County. Started in 2016, The MFJC is an all-encompassing center where all of the needs of domestic violence survivors are all taken care of in one place: From counseling to protection, to legal services, to children’s services, to whatever is needed. In the words of Patty Sly, director and CEO of the MFJC, she terms the organization as a “one stop experience for the client.” She says, “It is the best practice for serving domestic violence victims.” This year, approximately 150 people gathered at the Waterside Restaurant in Bergen County to celebrate and aid the Gloria Foundation in this worthy cause. “I am so thrilled that people were so generous,” says Karen Arakelian, founder of the Gloria Foundation. The Morris Family Justice Center was elated with
the money as well. “We are thrilled to have the Gloria Foundation support the MFJC so generously,” Sly says. “The Gloria Foundation made a major $100,000 pledge to the center and the $30K raised will go toward that pledge.” Domestic violence, it is the darkest most awful thing people can endure. In addition to the physical often life-threatening battering the body takes, the psyche, self-esteem and emotions are also battered. And the numbers are staggering. It is reported that of those who are involved in an intimate relationship, on average nearly 20 people per minute are abused! That breaks down to one in four women and one in seven men. “There is such a need for help,” Arakelian asserts, and she is extremely insightful about the need for awareness about domestic violence. This includes the changing roles regarding abusers and victims, how they have no recognizable face. “It is not just women anymore,” Arakelian observes. “It is women, men, and even children.” Often much worse than a scarred body, is the scarring of the soul. Victims of domestic violence often
feel like there is no hope, that they are helpless, isolated and alone. But there is a light at the end of that dark hell. With aid and empowering help, such as the kind the Gloria Foundation provides, the victims of domestic violence transform into survivors—survivors that can flourish and thrive. The Gloria Foundation was established in 2013 with their consignment shop established in 2014. The mission of the foundation is to provide essential resources to local safe houses and domestic violence organizations. The Gloria Foundation was lovingly named after
Arakelian’s mother. Arakelian is warm, articulate and passionate on the subject of the Foundation, showing that something good could come out of such horror. “Domestic violence has had a big effect on my life,” she shares candidly; “My mother was a victim of domestic abuse. I saw what she went through. In a way it gave me drive, I realized I didn’t want to be dependent on anyone. I wanted to give back, to do something in her memory.” And both the foundation and fundraiser was a wonderful way to do just that. Sly has nothing but continued on page 2