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Local Student Helps Bring Computer Skills and STEM Education to East Hanover Schools
BY MEGAN ROCHE STAFF WRITER
tic about mentoring younger children and giving back to the community,” Mathew said. During Computer Science Family Night, various computer science stations are set up around the school. With various activities, students and their families are exposed to all aspects of computer science. “At the school, they had a bunch of robot kits that we would complete and let the kids experiment with different types of robots, there was a computer science themed bracelet making station, etc” Mathew said. While working the event has been fun, it was something that Mathew personally felt compelled to ultimately create. “I have two younger siblings and one of them at the time of creating this, she was in Central School. I was watching my own siblings go through the process of figuring out technology and being exposed to different things on the internet. I
wanted to be able to help our younger generation navigate through the internet. It’s so big and if you don’t know how to use it properly, it can be a scary place,” Mathew said. Mathew hopes to bring back the event in the spring of 2026, ahead of her graduation from high school. “Organizing this type of event has really helped me gain leadership skills. It gave me the perspective that I’m truly able to run something like this. I’m capable of doing something, I’m capable of leading, I’m capable of being this leader that I never thought possible,” Mathew said. After graduating, Mathew hopes to study computer science. Overall, she hopes the creation of the event helps kids learn the true magic of the internet. “I hope that when the kids leave this event, they are able
to see that the internet is a big, scary place, but there is also a lot of tools available to them that are both educational and
fun in an educational sense. I want kids to explore the internet but also to remain safe while doing so,” Mathew said.
AREA - After decades of providing a safe haven to abused women and their children, one of the five houses operated by a shelter program in Passaic County is in jeopardy. On May 13 the tenants— quite ironic to the 13 current women who live at the Fay House shelter on Old Route 23 in New Foundland—found an eviction notice on their front door by the Township of West Milford.
The red note read: “This building is declared unsafe for human occupancy! No individual is to occupy this building until the structure is rendered safe and secure.” The notice left Strengthen Our Sisters shelter program and its Founder/Executive Director Sandra Ramos in a difficult situation for the tenants who live there. It is in desperate need of support, financially and perhaps petitions and letters to officials
AREA- Join us June 17 through June 21 for the Annual East Hanover Italian-American Club Carnival, Lurker Park, East Hanover, with thrilling rides, games, live entertainment, and delicious food — all while supporting the heart of East Hanover. For 25 years, your support of this carnival has helped raise hundreds of thousands of dollars for: Student Scholarships, Families in Need,
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AREA - The winners from May’s “Find Hank the Hornet Mascot” are Tyler Marshie; East Hanover, Thomas Bannon; East Hanover, Maureen Guthrie; Florham Park, Annemarie Landishman; Florham Park. The ads that “Hank
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as a call for help and suggest alternative solutions to remedy the problem. “The town of West Milford is looking to close our home for senior women in Newfoundland leaving those women with nowhere to go,” shares Ramos. “We have an architect and lawyer on board to comply with their wishes and filed an appeal.” Attorney Joel Bacher of Wayne placed an application to the Construction Board of Appeals on May 19 stating the position of SOS and explaining the nature of its relief sought. SOS runs two daycare programs, a thrift store, five shelters and a food pantry in Wanque, he writes. “This is an entirely volunteer organization,” writes Bacher. “No one is paid for their efforts or time. This organization always needs funds and relies on donations to pay the bills. “At present 13 people are living at Old Route 23,” he continues. “If they are forced out, they will have no place to go and will be homeless. SOS is more than willing to do whatever is necessary to bring the house into compliance and will do so if given sufficient time. SOS is in touch with an architect and builders who will volunteer their time and materials to accomplish what needs to be done.” Bacher then requested a “stay of the order to vacate the premises.” SOS is grassroots, community based, nonprofit, shelter program serving battered/homeless women and children. The mission of SOS is dedicated to
breaking the cycle of domestic violence, poverty and abuse by restoring balance and harmony through individual empowerment. The program has been guided by Ramos since 1970 when she founded the first shelter for battered women in North America. Serving hundreds of women each year, SOS programs and services include emergency shelter, short-term shelter, longer term shelter housing, comprehensive housing solutions and other integrated services. A team of dedicated, non-paid volunteers help provide supportive compassionate services. In addition to residential services, SOS runs a thrift store providing gently-used clothing, household items and furniture to families directly or sold at its thrift store to raise money for its programs. Ramos didn’t just start the first domestic violence shelter in America, she empowered them to change their lives, start their own nonprofit organizations and carry on the principles to achieve the mission of healing, and breaking the cycle of domestic violence, poverty and abuse. The success stories are many, as she and her colleagues have created a safe haven to prevent women and children from falling deeper between the cracks of a system or society that has failed them. “I was temporarily disabled after working my whole life. I was hurt and unable to work, displaced and ended up living in my car,” writes one victim. “I couldn’t get help anywhere.
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A lawyer at legal aid called Strengthen Our Sisters (SOS), and they didn’t have an opening. Then, at the office of Human Services, they called SOS, and they were able to take me in. It was like it came from heaven, and I felt welcomed from that moment on. I didn’t feel like a throwaway anymore, and my healing began at their home for senior women. I was told that I could stay as long as I needed, but I got up every day and sat there making calls until I made a breakthrough. A family friend, not knowing of my situation, was able to find me an apartment. It took a month and after three months I was able to move.” As a resident who sought refuge at SOS around 2012, Cheryl Bullock explains, “Many of the women at Strengthen Our Sisters have fallen through the cracks in the system, and have no safe alternative, nowhere else to go. I came because I was in need and ended up volunteering my time as staff.” Bullock— who serves as volunteer assistant to Ramos, acted as house mother and thrift store manager—knows firsthand the need women seek when in a tough situation. A victim herself, she has also been there to support the other women and children over the years and realizes how SOS has made a huge impact in so many lives. The Fay House shelter is just one of Ramos’ safe havens for women faced with abuse. Without this house, they face homelessness. It was owned by Monika Phillippe who ran a bed and breakfast, explains Bullock. She began to house senior women and would end up selling it to SOS that continued to house their senior women who were victims of domestic violence and eventually homeless. SOS has operated there as a shelter for more than 25 years. SOS has been faced with challenges before and it has overcome, hanging on a limb to survive.
EAST HANOVER - For Jismi Mathew, a rising senior at the Morris County School of Technology (MCVTS), starting a computer science and STEM education night for East Hanover’s Central School has been a dream. Mathew began planning the event during her freshman year at MCVTS. After contacting staff at Central School, the first event was held later that year. The school saw the success of the event and continued to implement the program. The 2025 Computer Science and STEM Night took place in late April. “My primary role has been organizing high school volunteers, including those from Morris County School of Technology, and ensuring all names go through the Board of Education’s approval process. I also help manage logistics to ensure the night runs smoothly. It’s been exciting to see students from our school so enthusias-
Jismi Mathew, a rising senior at the Morris County School of Technology, left, has helped organize Computer Science Night at East Hanover’s Central School.
Information on Computer Science Night 2026 will be available once the new school year begins.
Shelter’s Eviction Notice Threatens Safe Haven for Abused Women
BY CHERYL CONWAY STAFF WRITER
Five Nights of Family Fun That Give Back to Our Community
Winner from May’s “Find Hank the Hornet Mascot” Contest
Your Chance to Win a $25 Gift Card with the “Find Hank The Hornet Mascot” Contest Winners will be notified and printed in the next issue.
Sandra Ramos
Explains Ramos, “In addition to providing a clean and safe environment for single women and women with children fleeing domestic violence, we were able to have needed repairs done and pay for them to remain housed as they strived toward self-sufficiency. We were able to do these things without funding from the State of New Jersey. However, to continue providing services to this underserved population, and keep single women and women with children safe from their abusers, we need assistance to bring the additional residences up to code according to State Standards for shelters. “Strengthen Our Sisters has survived the fear of foreclosure and battled very tough obstacles to continue serving those in need,” says Ramos. “Rising costs are just one of the challenges that many face in this world.” With support from the media and the community, SOS has survived foreclosure over the years, adds Ramos. It has “been able to keep the lights on by raising $100K.” SOS needs greater help, now more than ever, with the recent eviction notice. “We need financial support and even possibly a sprinkler system,” says Bullock. Visit https://strengthenoursisters.org/ to help! Readers can also write to Construction Board of Appeals Office, 401 Grand Street, Paterson, N.J., 07505, to appeal for the support and understanding to keep these women sheltered and safe.