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About the Author
Dr. Jimmy Ray Lee is the founder and President Emeritus of Living Free Ministries, Inc. He is the author of Understanding the Times and several small group studies published by Living Free Ministries. Under the direction and guidance of Dr. Lee, Living Free Ministries produced Living Free—a high impact, video- based training. This training helps churches develop Christ-centered small groups that deal with the contemporary problems that people face today.
Dr. Lee is the founder and honorary chairman of Project 714 (now known as National Center for Youth Issues), a chemical prevention/intervention program for schools. He also founded an inner-city ministry called Ark Ministries that reached 600 to 700 young people weekly. He started the Chattanooga Teen Challenge and served as its president for three years. Jimmy served as Nashville Teen Challenge executive director during its formative years.
In 1983 he was awarded the “Service to Mankind Award” presented by the Highland Sertoma Club in Hixson, Tennessee.
Facilitator’s
In memory of Hugh O. Maclellan, Sr., a Christian gentleman who practiced and encouraged others to follow the words of Jesus, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. . . . Love your neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:30-31).
The Ten Commandments
Living Within God’s Boundaries
ontents
Introduction
Getting Started
Suggested Group Format
Session 1 No Other Gods
Session 2 No Idols
Session 3 No Misuse of the Lord’s Name
Session 4 Keep the Sabbath Holy
Session 5 Honor Your Father and Mother
Session 6 You Shall Not Murder
Session 7 You Shall Not Commit Adultery
Session 8 You Shall Not Steal
Session 9 You Shall Not Give False Testimony
Session 10 You Shall Not Covet
Session 11 Law and Grace
Selected Quotes
Introduction
Welcome to The Ten Commandments group. The purpose of this group is to help each person gain a fresh awareness of the Ten Commandments and to practice them through the grace of Jesus Christ. The group should meet each week for one hour and fifteen minutes, but more time may be planned if necessary. The material is designed for eleven sessions. In addition to the ten commandments, we will present a final session discussing law and grace.
Our society can be described as one without boundaries and guardrails which has resulted in moral decay. People are searching for direction and purpose in a time when immorality is considered by many as normal.
What is the problem? We have replaced the Ten Commandments with human rules (which always change) and principles which have resulted in a nation that is searching its soul for a foundation. We are on a merry-go-round, treating the symptoms while the solution is staring us in the face.
What is the solution? We need to live within the boundaries of the Ten Commandments. With them written on our heart, God gives us the desire to seek His guidelines versus being under a legalistic code of behavior. “Stay always within the boundaries where God’s love can reach and bless you” (Jude 21 TLB). Abraham Lincoln said, “The only assurance of our nation’s safety is to lay our foundations in morality and religion” (Mead, p. 371).
In Exodus 19, we see how God prepared Moses and the children of Israel to receive the Ten Commandments. He reminded them from where He had brought them. He carried them “on eagles’ wings” and brought them to Himself (Exodus 19:4).
The law was written by God (Exodus 31:18). It reveals God’s standard for morality and love for His people. The Psalmist said, “Open my eyes that I may see wonderful things in your law” (Psalm 119:18). The first four commandments deal with our relationship with God. The last six deal with our relationship with others. May we prepare our hearts to be blessed by living within God’s boundaries.
At the conclusion of the course, it is suggested that you give information about opportunities to join another Living Free support group.
It is our prayer that through participating in and completing this study, the group members will have a greater understanding of the freedom they have in Christ by living within His boundaries.
May the Lord bless you and keep His hand on you.
Getting Started
Group Size
We suggest that each Ten Commandments group have two group leaders (facilitators) and a maximum of 12 participants. Having more than 12 may prevent some from being a part of much-needed discussion.
Preparation Time
The facilitator’s material is written in an almost word-for-word dialogue. However, it is hoped that as you come to know and understand the concepts presented, you will be able to “personalize” each session to better fit your own style. Highlight the points you want to emphasize and make notes for yourself.
Your group is unique—so adapt questions to their needs and situations. Be sensitive to each person who is in your group.
Keep in mind that the answers provided in the leader’s guide for the discussion questions are there only as a tool to assist you and may not be the only “right” answers to the questions being asked.
Become thoroughly familiar with the four elements of each session:
• Introduction
• Self-Awareness
• Spiritual Awareness
• Application
You will find more detail about these on the following page.
The facilitators should meet prior to each session to pray and make final plans. They should also meet briefly after each session to discuss what happened during the meeting and go over any follow-up that may be needed.
The
Ten
Commandments Group Member Guides
Before Session 1, The Ten Commandments group member guides should be distributed to each group member. Facilitators should be thoroughly familiar with the material before the first meeting.
Encourage group members to complete the appropriate assignments prior to each group meeting. Through the readings and other exercises in the group member guide, group members can come to each session better prepared for meaningful discussion.
Correlation Between Facilitator’s Guide and Group Member’s Guide
Facilitator’s Guide — This guide is designed to lead the group through the four-phase, small group format. The facilitator’s responsibility is to start the discussion, give it direction, and thereafter simply keep the discussion personal and on track.
The text is presented in the left column. The right column contains tips and pointers for leading the group along with answers to questions. The facilitator will prayerfully present select questions because there are usually more questions than time permits.
Although the text is presented in the Group Member’s Guide, it may not in some cases be word for word as in the Facilitator’s Guide. For example, the Introductions are different in the two
guides. The Facilitator’s Guide is directed toward opening prayer and a go-around question; whereas, the Group Member’s Guide focuses on devotions for the week which is a part of preparation for the upcoming session.
Group Member’s Guide — This guide is designed to be done as homework preparing the participant for meaningful ministry during the small group session. Although the general text is the same as Self-Awareness, Spiritual Awareness, and Application in the Facilitator’s Guide, concentration should be on the group process during the actual group experience.
It is good for the participant to bring the Group Member’s Guide to the group session; however, the participant should be more attentive to the group process rather than trying to find text or written answers in the Group Member’s Guide. Each group member should bring a Bible for meaningful study and application of God’s Word for daily living.
In a Nutshell — The Facilitator’s Guide is designed to lead the group process through The Ten Commandments. The Group Member’s Guide will prepare the participant for the group meeting.
Suggested Group Format
The group format for each session consists of four elements: Introduction, Self-Awareness, Spiritual Awareness, and Application. There is a reason for each phase. The facilitators should always plan each session with this format in mind.
Part I Introduction (10
minutes)
Begin with prayer. The facilitator may pray or may ask one of the group members to lead in prayer. After the prayer, a sharing question helps put the group at ease and makes the members more comfortable in being a part of the discussion. The lead facilitator should respond to the sharing question first, followed by the co-facilitator. This helps the group members to feel safer in participating in the exercise. After the facilitators have shared, the group members will share one after another around the circle. Always remind group members they are not expected to share if they do not wish to do so. The rule is that everyone works within his or her comfort level and is welcome to pass.
This is not the time for detailed conversation, so ask the members of the group to keep their comments brief. If a person is obviously in pain during the exercise, the facilitator should interrupt the sharing and pray for the person in pain. After prayer, the exercise may resume.
Part II Self-Awareness
(20-25 minutes)
After the sharing question, the facilitator will lead the group into the Self-Awareness phase. Self-Awareness is a time to discuss the practical issues involved in The Ten Commandments. It is important to stay on the subject matter. This is a time to focus on needs and healing, not to have a martyr or pity party.
It is suggested in Self-Awareness that the facilitators ask the group members to share as they wish rather than going around the circle as in the Introduction phase. This is because people are at various comfort levels, and they should not feel pressured to self-disclose if they are uncomfortable. As the group continues to meet, members will feel more and more comfortable in being a part of the discussion.
Remember, prayer is always in order. If a group member is hurting during this phase, stop and pray. One of the facilitators may lead in prayer or ask another group member to pray. This says to the group members that each one is important and that you care about each individual.
Part III Spiritual Awareness (20-25
minutes)
After the Self-Awareness phase, the facilitator will lead the group into the Bible study time. Having briefly explained the topic, the
facilitator should assign Scriptures listed in the Facilitator’s Guide to group members. When each Scripture is called by the facilitator, the group member should read the verse(s). After the verses are read, give time for discussion.
Part IV Application (20
minutes)
This part is actually a continuation of Part III. Ask for volunteers to share their reflections on the question. The facilitators should emphasize the importance of the group members’ applying biblical principles to their lives. Help begins with right thinking. The Bible says, “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2). Obedience to the Word should follow with right behavior. Right feelings will follow right thinking and right behavior.
1Session No Other Gods
Allow 20–25 Minutes I
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
As a starter for this course, briefly share your name and what you are interested in about this course.
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for the faithfulness of each group member. Ask Him to help each group member discover personal insight into the Ten Commandments.
Group Member Devotional Reading Prior to This Session:
Exodus 20 Deuteronomy 5
The general goal of this session is to help each of us come face-toface with the only and true God. The first commandment calls for an undivided faithfulness to God. Anytime this relationship with God is strained or sidetracked, this commandment is broken. Because we have been created in the image of God, this relationship is the very core of human need and therefore affects everyone.
Since God created us, there is a vacuum in the human heart that only God through Christ can fill. Ecclesiastes 1:1-10 describes everything as meaningless apart from God. To fill this emptiness, people often turn their worship to other gods (pleasure, power, the environment,
Personal response.
knowledge, sex, etc.) The New Age Movement, actually a new form of Baal worship, directly opposes the first commandment.
Describe a time you felt emptiness in your own personal life.
Personal response.
What are some “other gods” in our society?
What are some subtle ways “other gods” can enter our lives?
By distracting our focus on Christ to other things. Small things become large things.
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
Our true God is sovereign over human history. Having created us, He knows what is best for now and in the future. Isaiah 29:16 states the relationship of God to man: “Shall what is formed say to him who formed it, ‘He did not make me’? Can the pot say of the potter, ‘He knows nothing’? ”
In light of this verse, summarize the Ten Commandments in one sentence.
Example: God has a right to tell me how to conduct my life, and I have a responsibility to follow.
S piritual-Awareness
Biblical Narrative
Having led the children of Israel from Egyptian bondage and toward the promised land, God called for an audience with Moses upon Mt. Sinai. Knowing His people would need a foundation and boundaries for daily living, God presented the Ten Commandments as a guide for behavior.
With a thorough understanding of human behavior, He gave the first commandment because He knew His children would be tempted to serve other gods. Therefore, He said, “You shall have no other gods before me” (Exodus 20:3).
Exodus 20:1
“And God spoke all these words.”
What significance does the word “all” have to the Ten Commandments?
What in this verse indicates that these words have authority?
Exodus 20:2
God prefaces the Ten Commandments by reminding the children of Israel of the past.
What did He say concerning the past?
How has God provided for you in the past that helps you trust Him with the future?
Exodus 20:3
“You shall have no other gods before me.”
What does this verse say to you about rival gods?
Psalm 16:4
A caution is given to those “who run after other gods.”
What is this warning?
Allow 20–25 Minutes
The Ten Commandments were not of human origin.
“And God spoke.”
“I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.”
Personal response.
This verse confirms there are “other gods.”
“The sorrows of those will increase who run after other gods.”
Psalm 53:1
Same say, “There is no God.”
How does David describe this person?
Matthew 4:4
Jesus said that man lives “on every word that comes from the mouth of God.”
What in this verse indicates that Jesus looked to the Word for His response to Satan?
In light of the temptation of Jesus (Matthew 4:1-11), what is our source of guidance for our conduct?
2 Corinthians 4:4
Paul describes “the god of this age.”
How does this god affect people?
May we understand that:
1. The law renders one speechless and accountable before the almighty God (Romans 3:19).
2. No one can gain righteousness by observing the law (Romans 3:20).
3. The law gives us an awareness of sin (Romans 3:20).
4. It is only through Christ “that the righteous requirements of the law might be fully met in us, who do not live according to the sinful nature but according to the Spirit” (Romans 8:4). Also see Romans 7:14-8:3.
As a fool.
Because He said, “It is written.”
The Word of God.
He blinds the minds of unbelievers.
A pplication Allow 20 Minutes
Paul visited Athens and “was greatly distressed to see that the city was full of idols” (Acts 17:16). He observed them to be “very religious” and noticed their “objects of worship.” He “even found an altar with this inscription: To an unknown god” (vv22-23). Paul proclaimed to them the true and only God because they were worshiping “other gods.” The true God was unknown to them.
In view of Paul’s proclamation of God in verses 24-28, put into your own words the awesomeness and yet nearness of God.
Write a prayer about your desire to “reach out for him and find him” (v27) or to find out more about Him (see James 4:8).
Personal response.
Personal response.
Closing Prayer
Summarize a prayer describing the awesomeness yet nearness of God.
2Session No Idols
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
How were/are you taught the Ten Commandments in your home?
S elf-Awareness
Having forbidden the worship of “other gods” in the first commandment, God prohibits the making of idols or graven images in the second commandment. Not anything in the universe— “in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below”(Exodus 20:4)—is to be an idol. This commandment shows that God must be properly worshiped. The only correct image of God to worship is His son, Jesus Christ. Paul says, “He [Christ] is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation” (Colossians 1:15).
Built on the first commandment, this commandment tells us that man is going to worship something and that God is a jealous God (2 Corinthians 11:2). It is forbidden to worship or use created things or even creation itself as an approach to God. Idols become God-substitutes and can include the environment (trees, flowers, ocean, land), church buildings, drugs, alcohol, money, statues, monuments, traditions, etc. Often these idols are handed down to the next generation.
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for each member present. Ask for His insight and wisdom as we look at the second commandment. Recognize His presence.
Group Member Devotional Reading Prior to This Session:
Isaiah 44
Romans 1 1 Corinthians 8
Examples: Parents taught by example. Parents urged the memorization of the Ten Commandments. There was a plaque of the Ten Commandments in a visible place in the home.
Allow 20-25 Minutes
How does the second commandment relate to the first commandment?
The second commandment broadens and more specifically defines the first commandment. Idols become “other gods.”
How do idols become God-substitutes?
In what ways do sinful lifestyles affect the children?
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
The second commandment focuses on the correct picture of God.
Can you describe some out-of-focus images of God that you may have? (See Hebrews 12:2.)
By becoming the focus of our lives versus Almighty God.
Children learn to live sinful lifestyles from their role models. Parents punish their children by living sinful lifestyles.
Forms of godliness, emphasis of church traditions or spiritual manifestations over worship of God, symbols over worship of God, emphasis of nature above worship of God.
S piritual-Awareness
Biblical Narrative
The second commandment prohibited the Israelites from making idols “in the form of anything” as a means of worshiping God. Anything that would make God less than who He is was forbidden. Although idols change with history, the message is the same for today.
You shall not make for yourself an idol in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below. You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, but showing love to a thousand generations of those who love me and keep my commandments (Exodus 20:4-6).
Allow 20-25 Minutes
Exodus 20:4
“You shall not make for yourself an idol.”
What is the universal scope of this prohibition?
Why do you think God used such a vast scope in this prohibition?
How does this relate to the pagan thinking of today?
Exodus 20:5
God describes himself as “a jealous God.”
Since He has no reason to be jealous of us, why do you think He is jealous on our behalf?
“In heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below.”
God knows our loyalty to Him is important for our well-being. What effect do rival gods have on our children?
Because mankind will go to great extremes to worship “other gods” (stars, planets, sea life, nature).
Loving God and keeping the commandments affect our children.
What is the result?
In light of Deuteronomy 6:6-9, describe how the home can be a place to teach the commandments.
Because of His love for us. He knows that the worship of “other gods” will bring sorrow to our lives.
Rival gods will distract and destroy our children. Rival gods are the cause of much pain and suffering.
He shows love to those who love Him and keep His commandments.
Children can be taught the commandments in the home in all facets of life with consistency. First, the commandments must be on the heart(s) of the parent(s).
Psalm 115:8
Idols influence people.
What happens to those who make or trust in idols?
They “will be like them.”
Jeremiah 10:5; Psalm 115:7
Idols cannot walk.
In light of these verses, who carries the baggage (or idol)?
Those who make them and/or trust in them.
1 Corinthians 8:4
Paul describes the value of an idol.
What is the value?
“Nothing at all.”
Exodus 32
The children of Israel worshiped the golden calf soon after God wrote the commandments.
How did Moses respond (vv19-20)?
How did he intercede (vv31-32)?
Hebrews 7:24-25
Jesus intercedes for us.
What hope does this verse provide you?
“His anger burned and he threw the tablets out of his hands, breaking them to pieces . . . And he took the calf the people had made and burned it in the fire; then he ground it to powder, scattered it on the water and made the Israelites drink it.”
“Moses went back to the Lord and said, ‘Oh, what a great sin these people have committed! They have made themselves gods of gold. But now, please forgive their sin—but if not, then blot me out of the book you have written.’ ” He is always interceding for us.
Christ breaks the chain of hand-me-downs:
1. God is fair (1 Peter 1:17).
2. Christ offers release from enslaving hand-me-downs (vv18-19).
3. Jesus knows each of us personally (v20).
4. God will help you walk in His behavior patterns (v22).
See Hand-Me-Downs on next page.
Application
In Paul’s message to the people in Athens, a city “full of idols,” he said, “We should not think that the divine being is like gold or silver or stone—an image made by man’s design and skill. In the past God overlooked such ignorance, but now he commands all people everywhere to repent” (Acts 17:29-30).
Describe any areas of repentance related to idols in your life that the Holy Spirit is surfacing.
Allow 20 Minutes
Personal response.
Paul commended the church of the Thessalonians because they “turned to God from idols to serve the living and true God” (1 Thessalonians 1:9).
Write a prayer based on I will turn to God from ___________ ___________________________(name idol) “to serve the living and true God” and how you will trust Christ to help you. (Remember, when we turn from idols to God, He will fill the vacuum.)
Personal response.
Closing Prayer
Pray about any specific needs and struggles as each person reflects on their walk with God. Thank God we are His children and He is eager to help us with idols that surface in our lives.
Hand-Me-Downs
by Dr. Jimmy Ray Lee
Family members often hand down inspirational and valuable items to their children—antiques, rings, the family Bible, and property. My wife’s grandmother lived almost 104 years. She did not have many earthly possessions, but her godly lifestyle has been handed down to family members. In her family are ministers, medical and business professionals, and church and community leaders. Grandma’s hand-me-downs, though not silver and gold, are an asset to society.
Other hand-me-downs can result in pain, dysfunction, and aimless direction. Peter described them as “the empty way of life handed down to you from your forefathers” (1 Peter 1:18). Futile behavior patterns, traditions, and lifestyles are often handed down from generation to generation.
A child sits in a restaurant with his parents and observes their preoccupation with drinking alcohol. Unknowingly, they may be training the child to take the first step that could lead to addiction.
A husband shows no respect for his wife and, by example, teaches this behavior to his son. His son will likely show a lack of respect for his wife. Abusive parents are often the products of abuse or neglect themselves.
However, there is hope for sons and daughters who have been handed down dysfunction and pain. First, God is fair. Our Father “judges each man’s work impartially” (1 Peter 1:17). Children reared by an abusive or neglectful father often have an incorrect view of God, picturing Him as their earthly father. The good news is our heavenly Father is perfect and fair.
However, God’s impartiality does not take away our personal responsibility. Although we may be influenced by genetic inheritance and social surroundings, this does not negate our personal responsibility to God. We can choose life or death, good or evil.
When a person chooses futile behaviors, they can be led into enslavement. Paul asked, “Don’t you know that when you offer yourselves to someone to obey him as slaves, you are slaves to the one whom you obey— whether you are slaves to sin, which leads to death, or to obedience, which leads to righteousness?” (Romans 6:16).
In his book, Daniel Speaks Today, Myer Pearlman said concerning sin, “A man is free to begin, but is not always free to quit” (p. 54).
Second, Christ offers release from enslaving handme-downs. This comes “not with perishable things such as silver or gold . . . but with the precious blood of
Christ, a lamb without blemish or defect” (1 Peter 1:1819). Christ made the payment for this release with His precious blood. Jesus said, “So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed” (John 8:36).
Third, Jesus knows each of us personally. Before the world began, God had a plan for our release from hand-me-downs. “He was chosen before the creation of the world, but was revealed in these last times for your sake” (1 Peter 1:20). You are more than a number on a computer screen or just another name in a counselor’s appointment book; Jesus knows who you are, and He knows your family tree.
Fourth, God will help you walk in His behavior patterns. Peter stated, “Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for your brothers, love one another deeply, from the heart” (1 Peter 1:22). As we believe and obey God’s truth, a cleansing power will help us develop godly behavior patterns.
It is interesting to trace our family tree and even do generational behavior studies; however, freedom comes first by being “born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable, through the living and enduring word of God” (1 Peter 1:23). To live a life free from enslaving hand-me-downs, it is imperative to walk out God’s behavior patterns.
A person who receives Christ as Savior should immediately start a discipleship program to deal with handme-downs. Some people who have been saved for years still carry the baggage of hand-me-downs. They also need discipleship.
God has boundaries that, when observed, bring His love and blessings. “Stay always within the boundaries where God’s love can reach and bless you” (Jude 21, TLB).
Christ-centered support groups that provide both support and accountability can help people who struggle with hand-me-downs. The focus should be on Christ, and the curriculum should emphasize biblical principles of behavior. Confession has its place; but without faith in Christ, a person will walk away empty. Paul said, “They must turn to God in repentance and have faith in our Lord Jesus” (Acts 20:21).
Fifth, the grip of dysfunctional hand-me-downs can be broken. “The grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of the Lord stands forever” (1 Peter 1:24-25).
3Session No Misuse of the Lord’s Name
Introduction Allow 10 Minutes
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
Have you ever seen the movie The Ten Commandments? Where? When?
Self-Awareness
Having focused on God’s commands to worship Him only (no other gods) and properly (no idols), the third commandment says to us, “You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God”(Exodus 20:7). This commandment emphasizes right thinking regarding the name of the Lord. He commands and deserves the greatest respect for His name. It is a privilege for us to use His name.
Although this commandment is correctly viewed as prohibiting profanity and blasphemy, it has broader application. This commandment is broken anytime the Lord’s reputation is taken lightly. As we like for our name to be spoken correctly and with honor and respect, God, whose name is above any other, desires His name to be used with respect and honor. The name of the Lord is misused when we use it with profanity, hypocrisy, and irreverence.
Thank God for group members who have been faithful in coming and in allowing God to work in their lives. Thank Him for what He has already revealed concerning the Ten Commandments and for what He will reveal in the coming weeks.
Group Member Devotional Reading Prior to This Session:
Exodus 1-3
Personal response.
Allow 20-25 Minutes
What are some of the ways the Lord’s name is misused without regard for His reputation?
In what ways can Christians grow accustomed to society’s (TV, books, movies, employment, environment, etc.) misuse of the Lord’s name?
In what ways have you misused the name of the Lord and/or have not objected to the misuse by others?
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
It is important to store right thinking in our hearts about the use of the Lord’s name. Jesus said, “For out of the overflow of his heart his mouth speaks” (Luke 6:45).
Can you think of ways the misuse of the Lord’s name has developed in your heart as evidenced by your speech? Describe.
By taking His name lightly and frivolously in conversation. By taking His name lightly and without respect in times of worship.
By going along with the crowd. By not objecting to the misuse of the Lord’s name by others.
Personal response.
Personal response.
Spiritual-Awareness
Biblical Narrative
God has given the Israelites the privilege of using His name. Although He is divine, He gave them the honor of using His name which indicated His trust and love toward them.
With this privilege came the responsibility to guard the reputation of the Lord’s name. This same privilege and responsibility is ours today. “You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name” (Exodus 20:7).
Allow 20-25 Minutes
Exodus 20:7
“You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God.”
In your own words, how do you relate this prohibition to the previous two commandments?
Exodus 20:7
“The Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.”
How do you view the seriousness of misusing the Lord’s name?
Having commanded us not to serve other gods and not to show respect for idols, this commandment relates to our conversation and speech about the Lord. We are to use His name with honor and respect.
How do you view your responsibility in using the Lord’s name in light of this verse?
Leviticus 22:2
The Lord told Moses how to prevent the profaning of His name.
What were the instructions for Aaron and his sons?
Very serious. We will be held accountable for the unconfessed misuse of the Lord’s name. “But I tell you that men will have to give account on the day of judgment for every careless word they have spoken” (Matthew 12:36).
Personal response.
“Tell Aaron and his sons to treat with respect the sacred offerings the Israelites consecrate to me, so they will not profane my holy name. I am the Lord.”
Ezekiel 39:7
Ezekiel prophesied that God would make known His holy name among His people.
What did God say about His holy name being profaned?
“I will no longer let my holy name be profaned, and the nations will know that I the Lord am the Holy One in Israel.”
Matthew 6:9
Jesus said, “This, then, is how you should pray.”
How did He show respect for the Father’s holy name?
“Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name.”
Matthew 5:33-37
Jesus warned against breaking oaths.
How does a simple yes or no answer guard the reputation of the Lord’s name?
Matthew 7:21-23
Jesus warned against the hypocritical use of His name.
What will be the fate of those who falsely use His name?
What statement in this passage indicates that hypocrisy is a major misuse of the Lord’s name?
Because “anything beyond this comes from the evil one” (v37).
“Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’ ” (v23).
“Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, . . .’ ” (v22).
AIt is important to understand that:
1. The name of the Lord and His character go hand in hand. Truth and righteousness go with His name (Isaiah 48:1).
2. There is strength and safety in His name (Proverbs 18:10).
3. “God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God” (2 Corinthians 5:21).
pplication
We have many reasons to praise the Lord. One of the greatest reasons is the privilege of using the Lord’s name. The Psalmist said, “Glorify the Lord with me; let us exalt his name together” (Psalm 34:3).
Write a two-paragraph prayer of praise to the Lord which states your gratitude for the use of His name.
Allow 20 Minutes
Personal response. Give group members an opportunity to discuss their prayer of praise.
Closing Prayer
Pray for any specific needs or requests which were verbalized during the sharing. Ask Him for wisdom and guidance as we learn to honor and respect the
Keep the Sabbath Holy 4Session
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
How would you describe your life in light of the Ten Command-
Self-Awareness
Building on the first three commandments, this commandment focuses on setting aside a time for rest and worship. This commandment clearly shows that God is concerned about our time. A challenge to us is balancing work with rest and worship.
Without a special time set aside to rest and worship, our focus on God will become dim. Although Israel recognized the seventh day as the Sabbath, most Christians recognize the first day of the week, Sunday, which identifies with the resurrection of Jesus Christ. This day of rest and worship is in tribute to the resurrection power of Jesus Christ. This power reflects the believer as a “new creation.” It is important to set a special time aside for rest and worship. A Sabbath, which means rest, is a need for all of us. We are invited by God to rest. “My soul finds rest in God alone” (Psalm 62:1).
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for each person present. Thank Him for their desire to better understand the Ten Commandments. Ask Him to be the Guide for the group session and ask that each member have an open heart to the lessons He wishes to teach.
Group Member Devotional Reading Prior to This Session:
Leviticus 18, 25 Romans 14 Hebrews 4 Personal response.
Allow 20 – 25 Minutes
Is it difficult for you to balance work with rest and worship? Describe.
How can a lack of rest and worship influence your walk with God?
Examples: To make “ends meet” or in trying to “get ahead,” my work time often interferes with rest and worship. I am learning to guard my rest and worship time as a high priority.
Examples:
• It desensitizes my personal relationship with Christ.
• It causes me to become indifferent to the Lord’s work.
• I begin to rationalize my lack of commitment to God.
Describe the difficulty with turning off work in order to rest.
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
The word Sabbath carries with it the meaning of intermission. Another way to say it is taking a break from the action to rest and focus on God. Athletic events are commonly known for their intermission (halftime). At this time, the athletes rest and get mentally prepared for the second half through instructions from the coach.
Describe the likeness of the Sabbath and the athletic intermission.
The pressures of life make it difficult to turn off work in order to rest.
This is the first of the commandments that is presented in a positive manner. Having a life accustomed to work, the Israelites are commanded to set aside the seventh day to cease from labor and concentrate on God. This was given as a model for behavior based on God’s work in creation. This was a sign that they belonged to God and served as a reminder of their deliverance from slavery.
Examples:
• Sabbath gives us time to pause for reflection and planning.
• It may call for instructions and strategy.
• It is a time to receive attention for hurts encountered in the game of life.
• It is a time to regroup.
Biblical Narrative cont.
Although we are under the new covenant (Hebrews 9:15), the principle of the Sabbath remains. We need to set aside a special time to rest and worship God.
Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath to the Lord your God. On it you shall not do any work, neither you, nor your son or daughter, not your manservant or maidservant, nor your animals, nor the alien within your gates. For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but he rested on the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy (Exodus 20:8-11).
Exodus 20:8
Write down the verse and replace the word Sabbath with rest.
How do you picture this verse in your life?
Exodus 20:8-9
“Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy” (v8).
In view of Exodus 20:11 and Genesis 2:2, how did God use the seventh day?
It is a time to rest and reflect on God.
Describe the overflow of work into the rest and worship day in light of verse 9.
“He rested on the seventh day.”
“On the seventh day he rested from all his work.”
We should do all our work in the six days and not let it overflow into the Sabbath.
Exodus 20:10
“But the seventh day is a Sabbath.”
What in this verse indicates that it is more than a day of idleness?
What stipulations are placed on children and servants?
“The seventh day is a Sabbath to the Lord your God.”
The children and the servants are not to work on the Sabbath.
Mark 2:23-28
Jesus describes himself as the Lord of the Sabbath.
For whom did Jesus say the Sabbath was made?
How did the Pharisees use the letter of the law to interfere with the spirit of the law? See Romans 7:6.
How can this type of action lead to legalism?
“The Sabbath was made for man” (v27).
Their rules often overlooked common sense, logic, and the needs of the people.
Examples:
• By giving attention to rules over relationships.
• By not allowing our actions to flow out of the love of Christ.
Romans 14:5-8
People have various convictions about sacred days.
How does Paul deal with respect for one another’s convictions?
Psalm 46:10
“Be still, and know that I am God.”
Reflect on this verse. Do you have regular quiet times with the Lord? Describe.
None of us lives to ourselves, so it is important to respect each other’s convictions. Personal response.
The word Sabbath often refers to a rest period which is a day or longer. Examples are:
1. The Day of Atonement (Leviticus 16:29-34).
2. Every seventh year, a Sabbath for the land (Exodus 23:10-11, Leviticus 25:1-7).
3. The Year of Jubilee every fiftieth year (Leviticus 25:8-17).
A pplication
Hebrews 4 speaks of the Sabbath-rest for the people of God. The “promise of entering his rest still stands” (v1). Because of unbelief, many of the Israelites chose not to enter God’s rest. The invitation to enter God’s rest through Christ is open. “There remains, then, a Sabbath-rest for the people of God; for anyone who enters God’s rest also rests from his own work, just as God did from his. Let us, therefore, make every effort to enter that rest, so that no one will fall by following their example of disobedience” (vv9-11).
Allow 20 Minutes
Describe areas of rest in God with which you struggle:
Self-Performance
Worries and Anxieties
The Future
Family
Other
Remember, Jesus is speaking to you: “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” (Matthew 11:28).
Personal response.
Personal response.
Personal response.
Personal response.
Personal response.
Closing Prayer
By now in the group you might want to ask for volunteers to pray. Encourage them to participate in this way but do not call on any specific person unless they volunteer.
Honor Your Father and Mother 5Session
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
What person most exemplifies the Ten Commandments to you?
Self-Awareness
This commandment is the centerpiece of all the commandments. The first four commandments deal with our relationship with God; whereas, the last six commandments focus on social relationships. This commandment serves as a bridge from our focus on God to our focus on interpersonal relationships. If the first four commandments are obeyed, then the following six will be less difficult. If the focus on God is not present in the home, social relationships in all of society, including church, school, or nation and employer/employee relationships will suffer for lack of respect, direction, and purpose. Rules will change frequently without an anchor, and subsequent ethical decisions become the product of frail and flawed humanity.
Honoring one’s father and mother is a model to respect God and others. Honor is learned in the home and flows into other areas of
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for each person present. Recognize and thank Him for His presence among you. Ask Him for insight and wisdom and guidance during this session. Praise Him for His faithfulness.
Group Member Devotional Reading Prior to This Session:
Genesis 1-2 Ephesians 5 Personal response.
Allow 20 – 25 Minutes
respect for various kinds of authority. Parents have a responsibility to be honorable. Godly parents make a lasting impression on their children as do the ungodly.
Children are to honor their father and mother; however, parents are clearly wrong when they influence their children by example or word to break God’s commandments.
How do you see this commandment serving as a bridge from our focus on God (first four commandments) to our focus on interpersonal relationships (following five commandments)?
How does obedience to the first four commandments help in family relationships?
How can parents model respect for God and others?
How can parents influence children to break the commandments by word or deed?
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
Jesus confronted a tradition that opposed the fifth commandment. And why do you break the command of God for the sake of your tradition? For God said, “Honor your father and mother . . .” But you say that if a man says to his father or mother, ‘Whatever help you might otherwise have received from me is a gift devoted to God,’ he is not to ‘honor his father’ with it. Thus you nullify the word of God for the sake of your tradition (Matthew 15:3-6).
This tradition permitted the forsaking of parents because of a gift given to God. Jesus rebuked this tradition citing the son’s interest in his pledge to God which caused the neglect of his father. Giving to God which in turn causes neglect to our family is a violation of
It serves as a bridge from focus on God to focus on social relationships. This commandment clearly shows that social relationships should first be learned through a God-focused home.
Examples:
• By prioritizing our lives.
• By providing the proper focus.
• By giving us the proper perspective on life thus influencing family relationships.
Examples:
• By focus on and respect for the first four commandments.
• By patterning lives according to the Ten Commandments.
By inappropriate conversation and actions.
SWhat are some of the ways our church work can produce the neglect of our parents?
Examples:
• By being involved in church activities to the point of negligence toward our parents.
• By using church as an excuse not to be more attendant to our parents.
piritual-Awareness
Biblical Narrative
The Israelites had been delivered from slavery in Egypt and were enroute to the promised land when God dealt with the first of the commandments that zeroes in on social relationships. This is the first of His commandments on human interaction. This shows God’s priority on the foundation of all human relationships—the family.
This commandment is timely for today. Jesus refers to it as does the Apostle Paul. “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you” (Exodus 20:12).
Exodus 20:12
“Honor your father and your mother.”
What is the benefit for honor of parents in this verse?
Ephesians 6:2-3
The Apostle Paul says, “Honor your father and mother.”
These verses present two aspects of the fifth commandment with a promise. What are they?
Proverbs 7:1-2
Children are to store up God’s commands.
What is the promise for the child who stores up God’s commands?
How are we to guard the commandments?
Proverbs 28:24; John 10:10
There is a partnership formed when a person robs their father or mother.
Describe this partnership.
Allow 20-25 Minutes
“So that you may live long.”
• “That it may go well with you.”
• “That you may enjoy long life.”
“And you will live” (v2).
“As the apple of your eye” (v2).
Guard as a precious possession.
“He is partner to him who destroys.”
“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy.”
Deuteronomy 6:1-2
Parents are to honor the commands.
Describe the hand-me-downs to the children in verse 2.
In view of verse 2, what are the benefits of godly hand-me-downs?
1 Timothy 5:8
Paul cautions those who do not care for their families.
How does he describe their state?
“So that you, your children and their children after them may fear the Lord your God as long as you live by keeping all his decrees and commands that I give you.”
The objective is to hand down the fear (reverence, respect) of the Lord.
“So that you may enjoy long life.”
“If anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for his immediate family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.”
Please notice that:
1. God created family relationships (Genesis 2:22-25).
2. God provides guidelines for family relationships (Ephesians 5:21-6:4).
3. The family serves as the foundation for all relationships.
Note how other relationships discussed in Ephesians 6:5-9 follow family relationships in the previous verses. Also see Colossians 3:18-4:1.
Application
In our society, elderly parents are often neglected. Some children have parents whom they seldom visit. Although we are not commanded to always obey our parents, our responsibility to honor them never ceases.
While on the cross, Jesus prepared for His mother by leaving her to the care of a disciple.
Near the cross of Jesus stood his mother . . . When Jesus saw his mother there, and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to his mother, “Dear woman, here is your son,” and to the disciple, “Here is your mother.” From that time on, this disciple took her into his home (John 19:25-27).
Allow 20 Minutes
Jesus provides for us an example of honor. Describe how Jesus prepared for His mother.
How can you apply this example of honor to your parent(s)?
Describe steps of preparation you have taken or plan to take to honor your parent(s) as they age or in their time of need.
One of His last instructions on the cross was to plan for the care of His mother. He placed her in the care of one of His most trusted friends. The disciple followed through with care.
Examples:
• Check on parents regularly.
• Watch for the protection of parents.
• See that the parents are receiving “follow-through” care.
Personal response.
Closing Prayer
Thank God for His love and mercy. Thank Him for the ways He has taught us to care for, love, and teach our families. Ask for His guidance and involvement as we pass on these lessons of honor for our parents to the generations to come.
You Shall Not Murder 6Session
Introduction Allow 10 Minutes
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
How does practicing the Ten Commandments bring freedom?
S elf-Awareness
The first of three commandments that are brief and to the point, the sixth commandment prohibits murder. This commandment places emphasis on the sacredness of human life. It is designed to protect each person in their relationship with others. This commandment goes beyond the actual crime of murder and includes the motivation that leads to death. Hidden emotions in the form of anger, malice, rage, and revenge often develop into the actual crime. This commandment refers to any premeditated malice acted out or implied.
Controversy abounds concerning the sacredness of human life. As a society has less regard for God, there will be a propensity to lessen the value of human life. Therefore, the taking of life—from an unborn for convenience sake or for perceived personal happiness or gain—is in violation of this commandment. Simply put, this is trading life for selfish reasons.
Thank God for each member present. Thank Him for their commitment and faithfulness. Ask for His guidance. Thank Him for His presence.
Group Member Devotional Reading Prior to This Session:
Genesis 4
Numbers 35
Romans 13
Examples: Walking in God’s boundaries frees us from guilt, fear, and confusion. We are blessed by Him. “Stay always within the boundaries where God’s love can reach and bless you” (Jude 21, TLB).
Allow 20-25 Minutes
There are deaths caused by other humans that are not murder such as self-defense and accidental killings. Note that Numbers 35:6-34 and Joshua 20 talk about six refuge cities for such acts. Although Genesis 9:6 points to capital punishment for murderers, no individual has the right to execute a murder no matter the reason. Romans 13:1-6 points to governing authorities being responsible for wrongdoers.
Describe your views on the sacredness of human life.
What is the difference between accidental killing and murder?
How does a lack of regard for God in our society lessen respect for the sacredness of human life?
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
Jesus said, “For from within, out of men’s hearts, come . . . murder” (Mark 7:21). This verse points to premeditated homicides.
In light of this verse, in what ways is society misled by treating the symptoms versus the cause? Give some examples.
Personal response.
There is no question about one’s intent to murder with accidental killing. There is no intent of harm or wrongdoing.
It gradually removes God from having the final say regarding human life. Abortions and euthanasia take away the respect for human life.
Biblical Narrative
Prohibiting the taking of another person’s life was a part of the protection for each Israelite in community relationships. This commandment affirms that everyone had a right to life because God is the source of life (Genesis 1:27; 2:7). This commandment emphasizes premeditated malice, whether expressed or implied.
In the New Testament, Jesus not only condemns murder but also the underlying factor of evil in a person’s heart. Unrepented malice, anger, rage, revenge, and hatred are in violation of the sixth commandment: “You shall not murder” (Exodus 20:13).
Examples:
• By thinking that more education or money will solve the problem.
• By thinking that mankind is born good and only needs direction. “Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me” (Psalm 51:5). Jesus said, “You must be born again” (John 3:7).
Allow 20-25 Minutes
Exodus 20:13
“You shall not murder.”
According to John 8:44, who was the first murderer?
Genesis 4:8-14
Murder occurred in the first family on earth. Who was this murderer?
What was the Lord’s punishment for this murder?
“The devil . . . He was a murderer from the beginning” (John 8:44).
Cain
Cain was hidden from God’s presence. He became a “restless wanderer”(v12).
1 John 3:12
John describes Cain’s relationship.
Describe his association with the evil one.
Why did he murder his brother?
Exodus 21:22-25
Serious injury to the unborn is not to be taken lightly.
Describe the concern for the unborn in these verses.
Matthew 5:21-24
Jesus associates anger with murder.
How do these verses show that Jesus considered anger a serious matter?
He “belonged to the evil one.”
“Because his own actions were evil and his brother’s were righteous.”
There are severe consequences for serious injury to the unborn.
In view of these verses, how should we deal with unresolved conflict?
Proverbs 22:24-25
We should not make friends with angry people. Why?
Anger toward our brother or sister “will be subject to judgment”(v22).
“First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift” (v24).
“You may learn his ways and get yourself ensnared” (v25).
It is important to understand that:
1. We are created in the image of God (Genesis 1:26).
2. He is the author of life (Genesis 2:7).
3. To hate our brother is to murder (1 John 3:15).
4. God leaves no room for us to take revenge (Romans 12:19).
Application Allow 20 Minutes
It is not a sin to be angry; however, it is a sin to permit anger to build. “In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold” (Ephesians 4:26-27).
Given the opportunity, anger provides Satan with a foothold. Genesis 4:3-11 records degrees of murder in Cain’s life. Cain is an example of anger festering in a person’s heart.
• “Cain was very angry” (v5).
• The Lord said, “Sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you” (v7). God told him what to do: “You must master it” (v7).
• Festering anger gave way to wrath. He invited his brother to the field (v8).
• He acted out his wrath. He murdered his brother (v8).
This passage provides a soul-searching examination. What can we learn from Cain’s awful sin?
Is there anything festering in your heart? Describe.
We should not permit anger to build. We must “not let the sun go down while [we] are still angry” (Ephesians 4:26).
Personal response.
With the help of the Lord, what will you do to stop the festering?
(See page 30.)
Personal response.
Closing Prayer
Ask someone from the group to close with prayer. You might ask for volunteers, or if you have a quiet group, it might be wise to ask someone privately before the session begins so they will have time to prepare.
How to Control Your Anger
1. Admit you are capable of anger (Romans 3:23).
2. Acknowledge what form your anger takes and that it is contrary to God’s will (Ephesians 4:32).
3. Put limitations on your anger when it occurs (Ephesians 4:26).
4. Recognize there are alternatives to anger (1 Peter 4:8).
5. Understand that controlling your anger is a sign of maturity (Proverbs 16:32).
6. Study how to be quiet when circumstances are chaotic (1 Thessalonians 4:11).
7. Wait; “count to 10” before you express anger (Proverbs 19:11).
8. Understand that controlling your anger reflects a high quality of intellect (Proverbs 14:29).
9. Avoid friendships with people who are habitually angry (Proverbs 22:24).
How to Handle Others’ Anger
1. Your self-control will cause you to speak in such a manner that the anger of others will be turned away (Proverbs 15:1).
2. By showing patience even when you think you have reason for retaliation, you will be able to help those who are angry (1 Peter 2:21-23; 3:9).
3. Your quiet self-control will be an encouragement to your children (Colossians 3:21; Ephesians 6:4).
4. Your self-control will make life easier for your spouse at times when you feel provoked by what they have done (Colossians 3:19).
5. On some occasions, however, withdrawal from an angry person is your best response (Proverbs 22:24).
7Session You Shall Not Commit Adultery
Introduction Allow 10 Minutes
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
In what ways do you see the Ten Commandments helping you build for the future (family, business, ministry, profession, etc.)?
Thank God for each person present. Ask Him to fill each heart with understanding as you continue in this study of the Ten Commandments. Thank God for His faithfulness to each person present and for His Word which is the source of all our understanding.
Group Member Devotional Reading Prior to This Session:
Leviticus 20
Deuteronomy 22 1 Corinthians 6
Examples:
• The Ten Commandments build boundaries in our lives.
• The Ten Commandments build the foundation for all of life.
• The Ten Commandments take the guesswork out of our relationships with God and others.
• The Ten Commandments provide protection for our lives.
The seventh commandment follows the previous, “You shall not murder”(Exodus 20:13), with added protection for human life. When followed, this commandment protects against the degradation of human relationships which accompanies adultery and fornication. To commit adultery is to break the marriage covenant in the heart through lustful thoughts and desires or to act outside the boundaries of marriage. Fornication is the same but aimed toward singles.
Allow 20–25 Minutes
This five-worded and to-the-point commandment serves to protect and purify the sexual urge and the relationship that produces life.
This commandment is provided because God loves us. Much of the breakdown of the family can be attributed to the neglect of this commandment. With the help of sexually impure movies, novels, advertisements, TV, and so forth, adultery has become the sin of this generation. Having lingering effects, this sin extends beyond the individual to the hurt of families, communities, and our nation.
The importance of the marital relationship is seen in the fact that marriage is compared to the relationship of Christ and the Church. God loves us so much that He knows the breaking of this commandment will rob people of peace, love, and affection while giving them misery and sorrow. Adultery is usually committed in stages before the actual sexual act occurs. (Examples: sexual fantasies, lustful looking, getting emotionally or affectionately involved with someone, sexual arousal through printed or other media outlets, etc.)
A biblical example: “There are certain stages involved in David’s sin with Bathsheba as recorded in 2 Samuel 11. In stage 1, ‘From the roof he saw a woman bathing’ (v2). David entered stage 2 when he ‘sent someone to find out about her’ (v3). In the third stage ‘David sent messengers to get her. She came to him, and he slept with her’ (v4). To further complicate matters, David tried to cover up his sin which led to the murder of Bathsheba’s husband” (Lee, p. 17).
What are some of the lingering effects of adultery on the individual, family, society, and nation?
What are some of the ways to avoid the stages of adultery?
How do you feel about this commandment in light of God’s love for us?
Families are often devastated by adultery. It completely breaks down trust in families, and this overflows into society and the nation. Adultery contributes greatly to the breakdown of
Examples:
• Keep thoughts in check.
• Avoid the “second look” that might lead to fantasizing.
• Guard for emotional attachments.
• Monitor what you read or see that might lead to sexual arousal.
God loves us so much that He provides these boundaries. He knows the pain and suffering that follow those and their families who choose to disregard this commandment.
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
The writer to the Hebrew Christians says, “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral” (Hebrews 13:4).
In view of this verse, how does God see the value of marriage and the seriousness of adultery and sexual immorality (premarital sex, prostitution, homosexual acts, pornography)?
The marriage vows are honored by God, and He expects us to honor the purity of the marriage relationship. God is so serious about adultery and sexually immorality that He will judge such acts.
SBiblical Narrative
As the first commandment deals with absolute faithfulness to God, this commandment addresses faithfulness to the marriage covenant. To break faithfulness with a spouse under Old Testament law was punishable by death (Leviticus 20:10; Deuteronomy 22:22).
Adultery and sexual immorality are condemned in the New Testament as well. On this subject Jesus went to the source of the evil, the heart. The seventh commandment serves as our protection today. “You shall not commit adultery” (Exodus 20:14).
Exodus 20:14
“You shall not commit adultery.”
Joseph refused the sexual advances of Potiphar’s wife (Genesis 39:7-9). The seriousness of her request, “Come to bed with me!” is recorded in verse 7.
How did Joseph view this sin?
Proverbs 7:27
Adultery “is a highway to the grave.”
Where does it lead?
Allow 20–25 Minutes
He viewed it as wickedness and “sin against God” (v9).
It leads to death.
1 Corinthians 6:16-17
“He who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body” (v16).
How does the Apostle Paul describe this union?
“The two will become one flesh” (v16).
1 Corinthians 6:18-20
We are to “flee from sexual immorality” (v18).
Who is this sin against?
How does Paul describe the body?
What value does God place on the body?
Matthew 5:27-28
Jesus describes lustful looking.
What does He have to say about adultery and lustful looking?
“Against his own body” (v18).
As “a temple of the Holy Spirit” (v19).
We “were bought at a price” (v20).
Job 31:1
Job made “a covenant with” his eyes.
What was the purpose of this agreement?
How can making a covenant with our eyes help us avoid lustful looking?
“Anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart” (v28).
“Not to look lustfully at a girl.”
It serves as a discipline to train our eyes. It is a choice we make.
Matthew 19:5-6
In the marriage covenant, two become one flesh.
How does Jesus describe the permanency of marriage?
Matthew 19:8-9
Jesus discusses the seriousness of adultery.
What is the only exception for divorce mentioned here?
It is important to:
1. Focus on Jesus (Hebrews 12:2).
2. Focus on purity (Philippians 4:8).
3. “Take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:5).
“Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate” (v6).
“Marital unfaithfulness” (v9).
Application
John 8:1-11 records the story of a woman caught in adultery. The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought her to Jesus saying, “In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women” (v5). Jesus responded to their attempt to trap him by saying, “If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her” (v7). One by one her accusers left, leaving only Jesus and the woman.
The judgmental teachers of the law and the Pharisees offered no solution. Jesus had a solution. He said, “Then neither do I condemn you . . . Go now and leave your life of sin” (v11). He offered hope.
If you had been at this scene, whose side would you have taken?
Allow 20 Minutes
Personal response.
If you were the person accused of this and Jesus spoke these words to you, how would you respond?
Personal response.
Closing Prayer
Thank God for the insights shared. Thank Him for His Word which leads us into all truth. Thank Him for His Word and the Holy Spirit which guides us into all truth. Ask God’s protection for each family represented in this group.
8Session You Shall Not Steal
ntroduction
Opening Prayer
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for each member and for His perfect plan in bringing this specific group together. Thank Him for each person’s openness and willingness to share. Ask Him for His guidance and help during this session.
Group Member Devotional Reading Prior to This Session:
Genesis 3
Exodus 21-22
Sharing Question
What are some of the ways nations/communities would benefit by returning to the Ten Commandments?
How would this affect our future?
Continuing with protection of human life, the eighth command-
Examples:
• There would be a return of respect for God.
• Society would benefit from less crime, broken relationships, and heartache.
• It would significantly reduce the prison population.
• It would instill hope for the future by making the world a better place to live.
Self-Awareness
ment aims toward the right of ownership. Property is obtained in four ways: inheritance, gift, work, thievery. This commandment emphasizes a person’s responsibility not to take their neighbor’s property. We do not have a right to seize another person’s property unlawfully. This commandment points to the high value placed on private property by God. First of all, everything belongs to God (Exodus 19:5; Psalm 24:1).
Allow 20–25 Minutes
Our right of personal property should be viewed in light of stewardship of God’s possessions (1 Chronicles 29:14). To abuse a person’s right of ownership, whether rich or poor, is wrong. The rich should not rob their employees (James 5:1-6), and the poor should not be shown favoritism (Exodus 23:3).
There are various ways to steal. Forms of stealing include tax evasion, failure to pay debts, slavery, kidnapping, theft of purity, theft of reputation, fraud, abusing copyright laws, false weights and measurements, excessive interest, and generally anything that is taken by direct or indirect seizure. The Christian example should be that of a giver, not a taker.
Describe stewardship in light of God’s owning everything.
Describe various forms of stealing.
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
Zacchaeus, the tax collector, wanted to see Jesus. “Being a short man he could not [see], because of the crowd. So he ran ahead and climbed a sycamore-fig tree to see him” (Luke 19:3-4).
When Jesus saw him, He insisted on going to Zacchaeus’ house. Salvation came to him, and he was transformed from a taker to a giver.
What in Luke 19:1-9 indicates that he changed from being a taker to a giver?
We have a responsibility to be good stewards of what God has placed in our possession. God owns everything: our home, finances, family, environment, etc. We have been entrusted with these things by Him.
All can be described as taking something or someone that belongs to another person.
“Here and now I give half of my possessions to the poor, and if I have cheated anybody out of anything, I will pay back four times the amount” (v8).
piritual-Awareness
Biblical Narrative
This commandment was established to protect the Israelites’ possessions and property. Although it served to protect personal property, this commandment also highlighted human dignity in the form of freedom from kidnapping and slavery (Deuteronomy 24:7).
Several New Testament passages confirm this four-word command. The Apostle Paul said, “Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody” (Romans 12:17). Doing so will help us with the eighth commandment: “You shall not steal” (Exodus 20:15).
Exodus 20:15 “You shall not steal.”
Genesis 3 records the first sin. Eve took “the fruit of the tree” which was not hers to take. How was she lured into this sin?
Can the environment of the pre-fall of man be blamed for her sin?
Allow 20–25 Minutes
Through the power of suggestion.
No. It was a perfect environment.
2 Samuel 11 David stole Uriah’s wife.
In light of 2 Samuel 12:9-18, what were the consequences of this sin?
“The sword will never depart from your [David’s] house” (v10).
What was David’s attitude toward the sin?
Joshua 6:18; 7:20-21
Achan stole “devoted things” (6:18).
How did his theft affect him and Israel (Joshua 22:20)?
He was repentant: “I have sinned against the Lord” (v13).
“Did not wrath come upon the whole community of Israel? He was not the only one who died for his sin.”
Jeremiah 17:11
“Like a partridge that hatches eggs it did not lay is the man who gains riches by unjust means.”
What are the results of such an act?
Ephesians 4:28
“He who has been stealing must steal no longer.”
In light of this verse, how does a person move from being a taker to a giver?
“When his life is half gone, they will desert him, and in the end he will prove to be a fool.”
Matthew 22:17-21
Jesus discusses paying taxes.
What is Jesus’ answer for the prevention of tax evasion?
John 10:1-10
Bypassing Jesus is thievery.
In light of these verses, what does it mean to bypass Jesus? How does He describe such a person?
“He who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with his own hands, that he may have something to share with those in need.”
The Golden Rule says: “Do to others what you would have them do to you” (Matthew 7:12).
“Give to Caesar what is Caesar’s, and to God what is God’s” (v21).
• As “a thief and a robber” (v1).
• “All who ever came before me were thieves and robbers” (v8).
A pplication Allow 20 Minutes
Jesus died on the cross between two thieves (Matthew 27:38). One of the thieves insulted Jesus while the other feared God (Luke 23:39-40). The one who feared God said, “ ‘Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.’ Jesus answered him, ‘I tell you the truth, today you will be with me in paradise’ ” (Luke 23:42-43).
What in verse 41 indicates that this God-fearing thief took responsibility for his own actions?
Although both thieves were near Jesus, only one was close to Him in heart. Describe the contrast in attitudes.
“We are punished justly, for we are getting what our deeds deserve.”
“One of the criminals who hung there hurled insults at him” (v39). He was self-centered. “Aren’t you the Christ? Save yourself and us!” (v39).
The other thief was repentant. He took responsibility for his actions. He feared God.
Closing Prayer
Thank God especially for the way He worked during this session. Pray for any needs or struggles that may have been expressed. Pray for His wisdom and guidance as we persevere in His calling for each of our lives.
9Session You Shall Not Give False Testimony
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
What differences would we see in future days if Christian families began to show a genuine respect for the Ten Commandments?
S elf-Awareness
The third commandment protects the Lord’s name; whereas, the ninth commandment is designed to protect our neighbor’s name and reputation. To bear false witness means to speak, use words, or conduct activities that do not have the foundation of truth or reality. Our neighbor includes anyone in the human race.
One of the great attributes of God is truth (Psalm 31:5). There is nothing more opposite God than a lie. When the truth of God and His word are ignored or neglected, the foundation of our lives and society follow with erosion. “When the foundations are being
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for each group member. Thank Him for each member’s faithfulness and desire to understand the Ten Commandments better. Ask Him to use this material to bring about His desired change in our lives.
Group Member Devotional Reading Prior to This Session:
Psalm 119
John 1
James 3
Examples:
• Reduced divorce rate.
• Reduced drug and alcohol problems.
• Reduced number of children born out of wedlock.
• More commitment to the Word of God.
• More commitment to Christ.
• More evangelistic lifestyle of believers.
Allow
destroyed, what can the righteous do” (Psalm 11:3)?
There are various ways to “give false testimony against your neighbor” (Exodus 20:16). In addition to an outright lie, this commandment is broken when we use deception, speak with intent to harm others, become a talebearer or tattler, find fault, or entertain the gossip of others through silence or without standing up for the accused. Gossip is often couched in spiritual or seemingly caring language. (Examples: “Please understand; I don’t mean to put this person down, but did you know . . .” “Isn’t it sad that Joe is abusing his wife.” “I would not tell you this, but you need to know how to pray.”) One of the ways to protect ourselves and our neighbors is to tell only those who need to know.
How does the ignoring of the Ten Commandments in our society leave people in search of an ethical foundation?
How is this commandment broken by deceptive words or actions?
Without this ethical foundation, society’s rules always change leaving people confused. Rules become based on human rationalization versus God’s Word.
How can gossip be couched in spiritual or seemingly caring language?
The suppression of truth leads to delusion. Deceptive words or actions often lead to a life of deceit.
By sharing sensitive and detailed information about others which is not necessary in spiritual and caring language.
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
Giving instructions on a lifestyle that pleases God, the Apostle Paul said, “Make it your ambition . . . to mind your own business . . . so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders” (1 Thessalonians 4:11-12).
How can Paul’s instructions serve as a safeguard toward giving “false witness against your neighbor” while placing you in a position of positive influence?
By staying out of other people’s affairs. As the old saying goes, “mind your own business.”
Spiritual-Awareness
Biblical Narrative
This commandment was given to establish the foundation of truth in Israel. It served in the Israelites’ legal system to conduct orderly legal action. Those who abused the system with false testimony received serious punishment (Deuteronomy 19:15-21). This commandment extends to truthfulness in all human relationships by prohibiting dishonesty.
The contrast of truth and falsehood is seen when we look at Christ and the devil. Jesus points to the devil as “a liar and the father of lies” (John 8:44) and describes Himself as “the way and the truth and the life” (John 14:6). The words of the ninth commandment still apply to our society: “You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor” (Exodus 20:16).
Exodus 20:16
“You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor.”
Describe the seriousness of a false witness and liar in view of Proverbs 19:5.
Isaiah 59:13-15
The utterance of lies leaves consequences.
What happens to:
Justice
Righteousness
Truth
Honesty
Psalm 15
David describes godly character qualities.
What in this chapter offers guidance in keeping the ninth commandment?
Allow 20-25 Minutes
“A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who pours out lies will not go free.”
“Is driven back” (v14).
“Stands at a distance” (v14).
“Has stumbled in the streets. . . . is nowhere to be found” (vv14-15).
“Cannot enter” (v14).
• “Who speaks the truth from his heart” (v2).
• “Has no slander on his tongue” (v3).
• “Casts no slur on his fellow man” (v3).
• “Who keeps his oath even when it hurts” (v4).
Proverbs 18:21; James 3:5-6, 8
The tongue is powerful.
What do these verses say about the power of the tongue?
• “The tongue has the power of life and death” (Proverbs 18:21).
• “The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole person, sets the whole course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell” (James 3:6).
• “But no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison” (James 3:8).
Psalm 55:21
David describes smooth speech.
What does he say about smooth speech and its danger?
“His speech is smooth as butter, yet war is in his heart; his words are more soothing than oil, yet they are drawn swords.”
Acts 5:1-11
Ananias and Sapphira “lied to the Holy Spirit” (v3).
How did they use deceit?
What were the consequences of their deceit?
How did it affect “the whole church” (v11)?
Ephesians 4:22-25
Paul describes “the new self” (v24).
What is the responsibility of the believer as it relates to falsehood and honesty?
Revelation 21:8
John describes the ultimate fate of liars.
What is it?
“With his wife’s full knowledge he kept back part of the money for himself” (v2). Sapphira also agreed to the falsehood. “ ‘Yes’, she said, ‘that is the price’ ” (v8).
They died.
“Great fear seized the whole church” (v11).
“Put off falsehood and speak truthfully” (v25).
“Their place will be in the fiery lake of burning sulfur.”
Please note that:
1. The Bible describes the tongue as having both good and destructive qualities (Proverbs 12:22, 15:4).
2. Jesus tells us to not judge others (Matthew 7:1-5).
3. We are accountable for idle words (Matthew 12:36-37).
Application
David said, “Set a guard over my mouth, O Lord; keep watch over the door of my lips” (Psalm 141:3). Peter describes Jesus as an example we can follow. “When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly” (1 Peter 2:23).
Alan Redpath describes a test he calls THINK (Redpath, pp.107108). When applied, these principles can work to help us think before we speak.
Recall a conversation you and someone had about a third person. Now take the THINK test.
T “Is it True?”
H “Will it Help?”
I “Is it Inspiring?”
N “Is it Necessary?”
K “Is it Kind?”
How can this help you with your next conversation about someone else? Describe.
Allow 20 Minutes
Personal response.
Give group members an opportunity to discuss the THINK test in light of their next conversation about someone else.
Closing Prayer
You might ask a group member to close this session.
Session
You Shall Not Covet
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for His presence in your group and for the wisdom and guidance He has shared in previous weeks. Thank Him for each member present and for the member’s faithfulness in attendance.
Group Member Devotional Reading Prior to This Session:
Joshua 6-7 1 Kings 21 Philippians 4
Sharing Question
What new spiritual insights have you received from this study of the Ten Commandments?
Self-Awareness
The tenth commandment is a summary of the previous nine commandments. “You shall not covet” (Exodus 20:17) focuses on a person’s unseen evil motives and desires; whereas, the other commandments point to the prohibition of acts which are commonly an outgrowth of this commandment. Coveting leads to the breaking of the other nine commandments.
To covet means to lust after something that belongs to another person. This includes our neighbor’s real estate, spouse, automobile, position, success, prosperity, etc. A covetous person, whether rich or poor, is always wanting more. Their ungoverned desires go beyond God’s daily provisions. To have enough falls short of their selfish desires.
It is not wrong to desire things which will better our lives. However, harmless desires can turn into a trap when they replace our
Personal response.
Allow 20-25 Minutes
focus on God. Contentment is the opposite of coveting. To desire anything that removes or lessens a person’s desire for Christ is in violation of the tenth commandment.
How do you see selfish, inward desires becoming outward acts?
In what ways can we desire things that are more than enough?
What is the difference between a covetous person and a contented person?
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
Jesus said, “What good will it be for a man if he gains the whole world, yet forfeits his soul? Or what can a man give in exchange for his soul?” (Matthew 16:26).
What overall perspective does this verse give in view of the tenth commandment?
Unchecked selfish, inward desires often lead to acting out behaviors. Example: Cain boiled with anger. It was left unconfessed and not dealt with; therefore, he acted out his anger by murdering his brother Abel. See Genesis 4:1-8.
Examples:
• By trying to impress others with our material possessions.
• By thinking that the abundance of things will serve as self-satisfaction.
Examples
• A covetous person always wants more.
• A contented person is at peace with what they have.
Biblical Narrative
Although the Israelites could not be convicted in their legal system for their evil desires and motives, this commandment helped them to see the very source for the breaking of the other commandments—the heart of mankind. This commandment goes directly to the root problem: the depravity of man.
This climactic and concluding commandment, which helps to summarize the others, points to our need to seek God. Jesus said, “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well” (Matthew 6:33). Through the grace of Jesus Christ, we can keep the tenth commandment: “You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his manservant or maidservant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor” (Exodus 20:17).
This verse provides an overall perspective on life and eternity and relates to covetousness.
Exodus 20:17
“You shall not covet.”
What is the scope of this verse?
“You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his manservant or maidservant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor.”
Genesis 3:1-6
The serpent enticed Eve.
In view of verse 6, how did her covetousness lead to the fall of mankind?
Eve “saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye.”
Joshua 6:18; 7:20-21, 25
Achan took devoted things.
What preceded and followed his coveting the devoted things?
• Achan knew he was not to take the devoted things.
• After his covetous act, he was killed.
Psalm 78:18-19
The men of Ephriam “willfully put God to the test” (v18).
What did they demand?
How did they question the provisions of God?
“The food they craved” (v18).
“They spoke against God, saying, ‘Can God spread a table in the desert? ’ ” (v19).
1 Timothy 6:6-10
“Godliness with contentment is great gain” (v6).
What is Paul’s view of contentment in light of these verses?
What happens to people who eagerly seek riches?
“For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that” (vv7-8).
They wander “from the faith” and experience “many griefs” (v10).
Philippians 4:12-13
Paul “learned the secret of being content” (v12).
In what situations?
What was the secret of his contentment?
Luke 12:15
“Be on your guard against all kinds of greed.”
What does Jesus say about a man’s life in regard to greed?
Hebrews 13:5-6
“Be content with what you have” (v5).
How is contentment possible in light of these verses?
Jesus gives eternal perspective that is fitting for the tenth commandment:
1. “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal” (Matthew 6:19).
2. “But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal” (Matthew 6:20).
3. “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” (Matthew 6:21).
Covetous desires distort our focus on God. David said, “Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart” (Psalm 37:4). Taking delight in the Lord helps us refrain from covetousness because our desires will become His desire for our lives. A pplication
“In any and every situation” (v12).
“I can do everything through him who gives me strength” (v13).
“A man’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.”
“Because God has said, ‘Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you’ ” (v5).
Allow 20 Minutes
Give group members an opportunity to select one of the commandments and discuss.
For each of the commandments, discuss examples of covetousness and how you can delight in the Lord in order to prevent or overcome ungoverned desires.
I. No Other Gods
I covet if/when I:
I will delight in the Lord by:
II. No Idols
I covet if/when I:
I will delight in the Lord by:
III. No Misuse of the Lord’s Name
I covet if/when I:
I will delight in the Lord by:
IV. Keep the Sabbath Holy
I covet if/when I:
I will delight in the Lord by:
V. Honor Your Father and Mother
I covet if/when I:
I will delight in the Lord by:
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VI. You Shall Not Murder
I covet if/when I:
I will delight in the Lord by:
VII. You Shall Not Commit Adultery
I covet if/when I:
I will delight in the Lord by:
VIII. You Shall Not Steal
I covet if/when I:
I will delight in the Lord by:
IX. You Shall Not Give False Testimony
I covet if/when I:
I will delight in the Lord by:
X. You Shall Not Covet
I covet if/when I:
I will delight in the Lord by:
Personal response.
Personal response.
Personal response.
Personal response.
Personal response.
If I love the Lord Jesus, I find no room for other gods.
If I love Him, there will be no graven image in my life.
If I love Him, I hallow His name.
If I love the Lord, then the Lord’s day is a sheer delight.
If I love God supremely, I learn always to love my parents and to honor them.
If I love Him, there will be no thought of murder.
If I love Jesus, there will be no thought of unchastity or unfaithfulness to husband or wife.
If I love Him supremely, I cannot possibly steal.
If I love Him with all my heart, I would never, never betray someone else’s character.
If I love God above all, I would never think of coveting.
(Redpath, p. 113)
Closing Prayer
Ask one of the group members to close the session in prayer.
Law and Grace 11Session
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for His faithfulness in helping us with this study about the Ten Commandments. Ask Him for His insight as we study this week’s lesson.
Group Member Devotional Reading Prior to This Session:
Romans 3, 7-8
Sharing Question
Which commandment is the most difficult for you to keep? Is there anyone to hold you accountable?
Personal response.
Self-Awareness
The study of the Ten Commandments has shown us the character of God. Our first reaction would most likely agree with the Apostle Paul’s view of himself when confronted with God’s law: “What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death?” (Romans 7:24). The law can be likened to scales. When we weigh, the scales declare the truth about our weight which we may or may not like. The problem is not the definer of God’s normality for mankind; the problem is the sinner. The law helps us look at our true condition and is intended to lead us like a schoolmaster to Christ. When we are honest with ourselves and God, the Ten Commandments force us to look to Christ for help.
Law and grace can be compared to a boat with two oars. One oar is the law, and the other is grace. We need both to keep us from going in circles. The de-emphasis of God’s law leaves our society searching for a moral base; whereas, total emphasis on grace void of God’s standard of righteousness results in moral erosion.
Allow 20 – 25 Minutes
What have been your reactions when confronted with the Ten Commandments?
How does the law help us see our true self?
How do you see the law like a schoolmaster leading us to Christ for help?
How do you see the analogy between the boat and the oars as a balance for law and grace?
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
Paul says, “Now we know that whatever the law says, it says to those who are under the law, so that every mouth may be silenced and the whole world held accountable to God. Therefore no one will be declared righteous in his sight by observing the law; rather, through the law we become conscious of sin” (Romans 3:19-20).
As in a courtroom, the law brings silence and accountability. In the courtroom of life, how do you picture God, the almighty judge?
Personal response.
Biblical Narrative
The Apostle Paul devotes much time in explaining the role of law and grace in the New Testament. He declares that righteousness cannot be obtained by observing the law (Romans 3:20) yet reveals “that the righteous requirements of the law might be fully met in [not by] us” through the work of Christ on the cross (Romans 8:4).
Galatians 3 records the inability of the law to bring forth salvation. Instead, “the law was put in charge to lead us to Christ that we might be justified by faith” (Galatians 3:24). The law provides a standard whereby sin can be defined. The law is described as “holy, righteous and good” (Romans 7:12) and “spiritual” (Romans 7:14). In addition, love is declared as “the fulfillment of the law” (Romans 13:10). Since it defines the sinfulness of mankind, the law brings condemnation.
The law defines our shortcomings in light of the holiness of God.
Personal response.
Personal response.
He is an almighty judge that is fair, awesome, and deserving of our highest respect. He does not “play games” with us; therefore, we come before Him without excuses. We need total mercy and His grace.
Biblical Narrative cont.
Under the new covenant in Christ, the Ten Commandments are written “not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human hearts” (2 Corinthians 3:3). The Holy Spirit helps the believer by giving the person a love for God’s law. It is no longer a chore to keep God’s laws; we want to keep them. Jesus said, “I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them” (Matthew 5:17).
Romans 3:21-22
Paul describes a righteousness from God apart from law.
How does this righteousness come?
Romans 3:23-24
“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (v23).
How do we receive justification (God placing the sinner in a position as if they had never sinned)?
“This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe” (v22).
We “are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus” (v24).
Romans 3:25-26
God presented Christ.
How did He present Christ?
What did the sacrifice of Christ demonstrate?
Romans 3:27-31
Paul emphasizes justification “by faith apart from observing the law” (v28).
Does faith nullify the law?
How does faith affect the law?
“God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood” (v25).
“He did this to demonstrate his justice” (v25).
“Not at all! Rather, we uphold the law” (v31).
Faith helps—“uphold the law” (v31).
Romans 7:24-25
Paul describes his inability to keep the law.
To whom does Paul look for help?
Romans 5:20
“The law was added so that the trespass might increase.”
What is the role of grace toward “increasing sin”?
Romans 5:21-6:2
Paul emphasizes grace without condoning sin.
What does Paul say to those who would use grace as liberty to increase sin? (Also see Jude 4.)
Please note that: (1) Romans 7 shows our inability to overcome sin within our own strength, (2) Romans 8 notes the work of the Holy Spirit in living an overcoming life, and (3) there is a contrast between the two chapters showing our inability and His ability.
An old preaching professor used to take his students to a cemetery every semester. Standing on the perimeter overlooking scores of headstones, he would ask his students in all sincerity to speak over the graves and call people from the ground to rise up and live. With some embarrassment and an awkward chuckle or two, they would try it. Of course, one by one they would fail. The professor would then look at his students and remind them of a core truth in the gospel: people are spiritually dead, just as those corpses in the cemetery were physically dead, and only words from God can bring them to spiritual life (Platt, 30).
“Through Jesus Christ our Lord!” (v25).
Increasing grace.
“Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? By no means!” (6:1-2).
Application Allow 20 Minutes
After showing our inability to keep the law in Romans 7, the Apostle Paul points to a life in Romans 8:1-5 empowered by the Holy Spirit.
Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life set me free from the law of sin and death. For what the law was powerless to do in that it was weakened by the sinful nature, God did by sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful man to be a sin offering. And so he condemned sin in sinful man, in order that the righteous requirements of the law might be fully met in us, who do not live according to the sinful nature but according to the Spirit. Those who live according to the sinful nature have their minds set on what that nature desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their
In verses 1 through 5, Paul highlights the work of the Holy Spirit and the cross of Jesus Christ. The believer’s part is:
1. Obedience—“who do not live according to the sinful nature but according to the Spirit” (v4).
2. Setting our minds—“on what the Spirit desires” (v5).
What kind of struggles do you have in doing your part?
(1) Obedience.
(2) Setting your mind on the Holy Spirit’s desires.
We come to the conclusion of this study with a “bottom line” for the Ten Commandments: Easily remembered yet often forgotten are these words said by Jesus, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. . . . Love your neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:3031).
Personal response.
The first four commandments deal with our relationship to God— “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.” The last six commandments focus on our relationship with others—“Love your neighbor as yourself.” Each commandment is interrelated. No one commandment can stand in exclusion of another. Love for one another in exclusion of the first four commandments is not really love at all because God is love. Without focus on the first four commandments, so-called love degenerates merely to a nonlasting feeling without absolutes. To love God is to practice the first four commandments. In doing so, the others will be easier to fulfill. The Ten Commandments are absolutes based in love for God, our neighbor, and ourselves.
Write a letter to God asking for His help.
Dear God, With your help, I will yield to the direction of the Holy Spirit by
If time permits, have group members discuss their letter to God.
Closing Prayer
Thank God for each person in the group. Pray for needs, frustrations, and weaknesses that may have been revealed during this session. Pray that God will reveal Himself as strength and refuge for each group member.
Selected Quotes
If man were to live in a state of nature, unconnected with other individuals, there would be no occasion for any other laws, than the law of nature, and the law of God. Neither could any other law possibly exist; for a law always supposes some superior who is to make it; and in a state of nature we are all equal, without any other superior but him who is the author of our being.
William Blackstone, Blackstone Laws of England, Leslie B. Adams, Jr., M.A., J.D., Publisher, The Legal Classics Library, Division of Gryphon Editions, LTD, Birmingham, 1983, Vol. I, p. 43.
Life is the immediate gift of God, a right inherent by nature in every individual; and it begins in contemplation of law as soon as an infant is able to stir in the mother’s womb.
Ibid., p. 47.
An infant in ventre sa mere, or in the mother’s womb, is supposed in law to be born for many purposes. Ibid., p. 125.
With regard to offenses mala in se, capital punishments are in some instances inflicted by the immediate command of God himself to all mankind; as, in the case of murder, by the precept delivered to Noah, their common ancestor and representative, “whoso sheddeth man’s blood, by man shall his blood be shed.”
Ibid.,Vol. IV, p. 9.
It may surprise you to know that profanity is much more common in so-called Christian America than in the heathen countries. Heathens have greater reverence for their false god than we do for our Heavenly Father. Ford, p. 39.
St. Augustine said, “My soul is restless until it finds it can rest in Thee, O God.” No false god satisfies the longing of the soul, but we can, and many do, squander their lives seeking satisfaction from false objects of worship. So the first of God’s rules for life is: “Thou shalt have no other gods before me.”
Charles L. Allen, God’s Psychiatry, Revell, Old Tappan, 1953, p. 44.
The importance of the Ten Commandments to the world is demonstrated by the fact that the legal codes of every civilized nation are based upon them.
Irving L. Jensen, Jensen’s Survey of the Old Testament, Moody Press, Chicago, 1978, p. 92.
We grow up surrounded by propaganda in favor of unchastity. There are people who want to keep our sex instinct inflamed in order to make money out of us. Because, of course, a man with an obsession is a man who has very little sales resistance.
C. S. Lewis Davidman, p. 91.
Try to love Johnny Jones up the road, without asking God to help you, and you will discover that your defects and Johnny’s both get in the way. Ibid., p. 136.
Reason and experience both forbid us to expect that national morality can prevail in exclusion of religious principle.
George Washington Mead, p. 313.
I have heard thousands of confessions, but never one of covetousness.
The most important thought I ever had was that of my individual responsibility to God.
St. Francis Xavier Ibid, p. 90.
Daniel Webster Ibid, p. 189.
We have staked the whole future of American civilization, not upon the power of government, far from it. We have staked the future of all of our political institutions upon the capacity of each and all of us to govern ourselves . . . according to the Ten Commandments of God.
James Madison
David Barton, America’s Godly Heritage-Video Transcript, Wall Builder, Aledo, TX, 1993, p. 18.
Plan of Salvation
How to receive Christ:
1. Admit your need (that you are a sinner).
2. Be willing to turn from your sins (repent).
3. Believe that Jesus Christ died for you on the cross and rose from the grave.
4. Through prayer, invite Jesus Christ to come in and control your life through the Holy Spirit (receive Him as Savior and Lord).
What to Pray
Dear God,
I know that I am a sinner and need Your forgiveness. I believe that Jesus Christ died for my sins. I am willing to turn from my sins. I now invite Jesus Christ to come into my heart and life as my personal Savior.
I am willing, by God’s strength, to follow and obey Jesus Christ as the Lord of my life.
Date Signature
The Bible says: “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved” (Romans 10:13).
“Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God” (John 1:12).
“Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ” (Romans 5:1).
When we receive Christ, we are born into the family of God through the supernatural work of the Holy Spirit, who lives within every believer. This process is called regeneration or the new birth.
Share your decision to receive Christ with another person.
Connect to a local church.
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