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About the Author
Dr. Jimmy Ray Lee is the founder and president emeritus of Living Free, Inc. He is the author of Understanding the Times and several small group studies published by Living Free, Inc. Under the direction and guidance of Dr. Lee, Living Free, Inc. produced Living Free—a high impact, video- based training. This training helps churches develop Christ-centered small groups that deal with the contemporary problems that people face today.
Dr. Lee is the founder and honorary chairman of Project 714 (now known as National Center for Youth Issues), a chemical prevention/intervention program for schools. He also founded an inner-city ministry called Ark Ministries that reached 600 to 700 young people weekly. He started the Chattanooga Teen Challenge and served as its president for three years. Jimmy served as Nashville Teen Challenge executive director during its formative years.
In 1983 he was awarded the “Service to Mankind Award” presented by the Highland Sertoma Club in Hixson, Tennessee.
Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous
1. Admitted we were powerless over alcohol—that our lives had become unmanageable.
2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.
11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
The Twelve Steps are reprinted and adapted with permission of Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc. Permission to reprint and adapt the Twelve Steps does not mean that AA has reviewed or approved the content of this publication nor that AA agrees with the views expressed herein. AA is a program of recovery from alcoholism. Use of the Twelve Steps in connection with programs and activities which are patterned after AA but which addresses other problems does not imply otherwise.
Stepping into Freedom
Introduction
Welcome to Stepping into Freedom. This is a twelve-step approach to becoming free in Christ. The twelve steps used in Stepping into Freedom are taken from “The Twelve Steps of Wholeness” by Dr. Gary R. Sweeten.
He explains:
Following a tradition of the early church and the Wesley revival, the Oxford Group systematized a series of “steps” as a process of cleansing one’s inner life. These “steps” were later adapted by Alcoholics Anonymous with much of the Christian basis ignored. They are here re-adapted emphasizing this great Christian base so integral to the wholeness sought. Here the center of wholeness is recognized as the Lord Jesus Christ. The “steps” have also been changed to conform to other principles of discipleship and Christian growth.
The purpose of Stepping into Freedom is to help group members develop roots and steadfastness in Christ so they can confidently master the problems they encounter. Stepping into Freedom will benefit anyone who wants to “grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ” (2 Peter 3:18).
Stepping into Freedom is not a substitute for medical or psychological care. We never advise anyone to stop taking medication or cancel a physician’s care.
Stepping into Freedom can be used as a bible study for any lifecontrolling problem—anything that masters a person’s life (substance, behavior or relationship). Just fill in the blank— drugs, alcohol, sex, gambling, co-dependency, etc. Actually, Stepping into Freedom will benefit anyone who wants to mature in Christ.
Encourage each group member to be faithful in their attendance at each group meeting and do the assignments in your workbook before each group session. There is a Step-by-Step Diary page for them to record their thoughts after each session.
There are two things a small-group leader should remember. First, God does not expect the leader to have all the answers or to work miracles in the lives of group members—that is God’s work. Instead, the leader should simply guide the group toward the healing and solutions which the Holy Spirit provides—God will do the rest.
Stepping into Freedom can be used as a bible study for any life-controlling problem—anything that masters a person’s life . . . .
Just fill in the blank.
The Twelve Steps of Wholeness
If a Christian will vigorously apply these principles and make these decisions, that person will move toward Teleios—wholeness in Christ.
1. I now see that I, of myself, am powerless—unable to control (manage) my life by myself.
Romans 7 and 8
Romans 7:18-19
Romans 3:9-10, 23
Psalm 32:3-7
2. I now realize that my Creator, God the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, can restore me to wholeness in Christ.
Psalm 27:4-5
Romans 8:9
Mark 10:26-27
Ezekiel 36:27
Philippians 2:13
3. I now make a conscious decision to turn my entire will and life over to the care and direction of Jesus Christ as Teacher, Healer, Savior, and Lord.
Joshua 1:8-9
John 14:6
Matthew 28:18, 20b
Jeremiah 29:11-14
John 10:30
Jeremiah 32:27
Mark 10:27
4. Having made this decision, I now obey God’s call in Scripture to make a fearless, ethical, moral, and scriptural inventory of my entire life in order to uncover all sins, mistakes, and character defects and to make a written list of every item uncovered.
Psalm 139:23-24
Romans 8:26-27
Lamentations 3:40
Jeremiah 23:24
5. After completing this inventory, I now will to “walk in the light, as he is in the light” (1 John 1:7) by admitting to myself, to God, and to at least one other person in Christ the exact nature of these wrongs.
Psalm 119:9-11
James 5:13-16
1 John 1:7
Acts 13:38-39
Ephesians 5:13-14
Acts 2:37-38
1 Timothy 1:15
Hebrews 9:14
6. Having agreed with God about my sinful behavior, I now ask for His forgiveness through Christ and openly acknowledge that I am forgiven according to Scripture.
James 4:10
Psalm 27:13-14
1 John 1:8-9
Psalm 118:18, then 17
1 John 2:1-2
7. I now repent (turn away) from all these behaviors in thought, word, and deed and ask God to remove each besetting sin through Jesus Christ.
John 5:14
Ezekiel 18:30-32
1 John 2:3-6
John 8:10-11
Romans 5 and 6
2 Corinthians 10:5
Job 11:13-19
Romans 12:1-2
Colossians 3:17
8. I now make a list of all persons I have harmed in thought, word, and deed and a list of all persons I believe have harmed me, and I will to make amends to all of them.
Ephesians 4:29-32
Luke 6:31
Leviticus 19:17-18
Hosea 11:1-4
Matthew 5:43-44
Mark 12:31
Ephesians 5:1-2
Matthew 18:15
Matthew 5:9
9. I now go directly to these persons to forgive and to seek forgiveness, reconciliation, restitution, or release whenever and with whomever possible, unless to do so would cause further harm.
Matthew 5:23-24
Isaiah 1:18-20
10. I now consciously and prayerfully continue to “walk in the light” by unceasingly taking personal inventory of all my temptations and sins, and by keeping a constantly open relationship with God, myself, and other persons.
Matthew 26:41
Proverbs 30:8-9
Psalm 4:3-5
Colossians 3:13
James 1:13-15
Ephesians 5:15-18
Psalm 55:22
Matthew 6:11-13
Ephesians 4:22-28
1 Peter 5:6-7
11. I now continue in regular Scripture study, prayer, worship, and fellowship to increase God’s will in my life.
Acts 2:42
Psalm 89:15
Colossians 3:12-17
Mark 12:28-33
Joshua 1:8
Matthew 6:33
1 Kings 8:56-61
12. Recognizing the impact of God in my life, I now intentionally share these principles and their effect with others as God’s Spirit leads, and will to practice these principles in all areas of my life.
Micah 6:8
Galatians 5:1
Ephesians 6:10-18
Ephesians 5:8
Revelation 12:11
Psalm 40:8-10
2 Corinthians 3:17
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Getting Started
Group Size
We suggest that each Stepping into Freedom group have two group leaders (facilitators) and a maximum of 12 participants. Having more than 12 may prevent some from being a part of muchneeded discussion.
Preparation Time
The facilitator’s material is written in an almost word-for-word dialogue. However, it is hoped that as you come to know and understand the concepts presented, you will be able to “personalize” each session to fit your own style better. Highlight the points you want to emphasize and make notes for yourself.
Your group is unique—so adapt questions to their needs and situations. Be sensitive to each person who is in your group.
Keep in mind that the answers provided for the discussion questions are there only as a tool to assist you and may not be the only “right” answers to the questions being asked.
Become thoroughly familiar with the four elements of each session:
• Introduction
• Self-Awareness
• Spiritual Awareness
• Application
You will find more detail about these on the following pages.
The facilitators should meet prior to each session to pray and make final plans. They should also meet briefly after each session to discuss what happened during the meeting and go over any follow-up that may be needed.
Stepping into Freedom Group Workbooks
Before the Orientation Session, the Stepping into Freedom group workbook should be distributed to each group member. Facilitators should be thoroughly familiar with the workbook before the first meeting.
During the orientation, encourage group members to complete the appropriate assignments prior to each group meeting. Through the readings and other exercises in the workbook, group members can come to each session better prepared for meaningful discussion.
Suggested Group Format
The group format for each session consists of four elements: Introduction, SelfAwareness, Spiritual Awareness, and Application. There is a reason for each phase. The facilitators should always plan each session with this format in mind.
Part I Introduction (10
minutes)
Begin with prayer. The facilitator may pray or may ask one of the group members to lead in prayer. After the prayer, a sharing question helps put the group at ease and makes the members more comfortable in being a part of the discussion. The lead facilitator should respond to the sharing question first, followed by the co-facilitator. This helps the group members to feel safer in participating in the exercise. After the facilitators have shared, the group members will share one after another around the circle. Always remind group members they are not expected to share if they do not wish to do so. The rule is that everyone works within his or her comfort level and is welcome to pass.
This is not the time for detailed conversation, so ask the members of the group to keep their comments brief. If a person is obviously in pain during the exercise, the facilitator should interrupt the sharing and pray for the person in pain. After prayer, the exercise may resume.
Part II Self-Awareness (20-25
minutes)
After the sharing question, the facilitator will lead the group into the Self-Awareness phase. Self-Awareness is a time to discuss the practical issues involved in Stepping into Freedom. It is important to stay on the subject matter. This is a time to focus on needs and healing, not to have a “martyr” or “pity party.”
It is suggested in SelfAwareness that the facilitators ask the group members to share as they wish rather than going around the circle as in the introduction phase. This is because people are at various comfort levels, and they should not feel pressured to self-disclose if they are uncomfortable. As the group continues to meet, members will feel more and more comfortable in being a part of the discussion.
Remember, prayer is always in order. If a group member is hurting during this phase, stop and pray. One of the facilitators may lead in prayer or ask another group member to pray. This says to the group members that each one is important and that you care about each individual.
Part III Spiritual Awareness (20-25
minutes)
After the Self-Awareness phase, the facilitator will lead the group into the bible study time. Having briefly explained the topic, the fa-
cilitator should assign scriptures listed in the Facilitator’s Guide to group members. When each scripture is called by the facilitator, the group member should read the verse(s). After the verses are read, give time for discussion.
Part IV Application
(20 minutes)
This part is actually a continuation of Part III. Ask for volunteers to share their reflections on the question. The facilitators should emphasize the importance of the group members’ applying biblical principles to their lives. Help begins with right thinking. The Bible says, “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2). Obedience to the Word should follow with right behavior. Right feelings will follow right thinking and right behavior.
Orientation
ntroduction
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
Welcome to the Stepping into Freedom meeting. I would like to begin this first session by having each of us in the group introduce him/herself. I will start by telling you that my name is . . .
Self-Awareness
We are glad for each of you who has joined this group. By way of introduction, I want to spend a few minutes talking about the purpose of this group and what our procedures will be each week.
A Stepping into Freedom group is a small group (usually fewer than 12 people) who want to better understand how they can maintain a life free from mastering problems by developing steadfastness in Christ.
It is our goal to begin a process of building strength into our lives. The problems are not going to disappear magically, but we will develop the strength to deal with them. Christ will help us overcome the obstacles we face. Our goal over the next few weeks will not be problem maintenance, but transformation through Christ.
There are several ways that what we do here will help that strength to grow, and I am going to talk about them as we discuss the elements of a typical meeting.
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for each person who has taken the step of choosing to join this Stepping into Freedom group. Pray for the Holy Spirit’s guidance on all that takes place in your group.
The purpose of this exercise is to help group members move toward being more comfortable in sharing with the group. Ask each one to introduce themselves, beginning with yourself and your co-facilitator.
Allow 20–25 Minutes
Meeting Format
Introduction: First we will pray together. Prayer is always appropriate during our meetings, especially as we begin our time together. After we begin with prayer, we will then spend a few minutes talking together and getting to know each other better. We hope this will grow to be a group of caring and supportive friends, but in any of our conversations here, you should never feel pressured to talk. We only want you to speak when you feel comfortable speaking.
Self-Awareness: Next in our meeting comes something we call our “Self-Awareness” time. This part of our meeting is designed to help us take a look at our life and better understand the pitfalls and delusion that accompanies life controlling problems. During Self-Awareness (about 20 minutes), we will discuss some of the practical issues involved in understanding and dealing with those troubled relationships.
Spiritual-Awareness: After our Self-Awareness time, we are going to open our Bibles and dig deep into the promises of God’s Word. We are going to study about how God wants to work in our lives and in the lives of those we care about.
Application: After our bible study, we will take some time to work on applying what we have learned. God’s Word has a lot to say to us where we are right now, and we are going to learn how to apply that truth to the decisions and actions of our daily lives.
During all of these parts of our meeting, we will have opportunities to minister to each other. God has given each of us the resource of other caring Christians. All through His Word, He reminds us of the valuable ministry we can have to one another, and we are going to see that kind of ministry to each other begin to happen through this group.
Ground Rules
The basic ground rules for our small group are found in your workbooks on page 8.
1. We want you to be here. Make every effort to attend each meeting. Make these 13 sessions a top priority in your life. Each session is important to you, and you are important to this group. In addition to what God wants to do in your life, you have a great deal to contribute to the lives of others in this group. If you must miss a meeting for some reason, please give us a call to let us know.
2. You should speak within your own comfort level. This has already been mentioned, but I want to stress that this should be a nonthreatening place. Think about the questions we ask. Some of you will be ready to talk and answer right away, but for others it may take a while before you are comfortable. Do not feel pressured.
3. There is to be confidentiality concerning anything that is shared within the group. We must be able to trust each other to maintain confidentiality. It is never appropriate to gossip. (The only exception to maintaining confidentiality should be when a person is a danger to themselves or to others.)
4. Make a commitment to prepare for each session. You have been given (or will receive) a group member’s workbook. It contains some written questions and Bible reading assignments that will get you ready for what we will be doing during our sessions here. Your workbook is a private place—just between you and God. No one else ever needs to read what you have written there. Do take time to let God work in your life during the week as you prepare for our time together.
5. Spend time alone with God every day. Included in the workbook are some suggestions for how you might spend approximately 30 minutes a day in Bible reading, meditating on God’s Word, and prayer. That time alone with God could be the most significant element of the healing and building God wants to do in your life.
6. Keep in mind that this group is not a substitute for medical or psychological care. We never advise anyone to stop taking prescribed medications or cancel their doctor’s care.
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
In each session our spiritual awareness will be based on biblical principles which emphasize spiritual growth in Christ as the means to ongoing freedom from life-controlling problems. Colossians 2:6-8 serves as the launching pad for the 12 sessions that follow. Let’s read the text together.
So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.
See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ.
What does this say to you about being spiritually aware?
These verses bring an awareness that a relationship can be built with Christ Jesus versus following philosophy which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world. Deceptive philosophy will only serve to deepen our problems.
S piritual-Awareness
We will use the Apostle Paul’s instructions in Colossians 2:68 as the launching pad for the Stepping into Freedom group.
Allow 20–25 Minutes
Ask for volunteers to look up the scripture and read when it is time.
Colossians 2:6
Paul emphasizes the need for continuity in Christ.
How does a person receive Christ? (See Ephesians 2:8-9.)
Why is God’s grace and faith in Christ important in your desire to be mature in Christ?
“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.”
“By grace . . . through faith” is the building block—the starting point—but we do not stop there. “Just as you received Christ Jesus” (“by grace. . . through faith”), we are to “continue to live in him” (“by grace . . . through faith”). “So go on living in him” (Phillips).
Colossians 2:7
Paul encourages us to be “rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith . . . and overflowing with thankfulness.”
Describe in your own words the four-phase process listed by Paul:
1. Rooted.
2. Built up in Him.
3. Strengthened in the faith.
4. Overflowing with thankfulness.
Colossians 2:8
Paul warns against deceptive philosophy.
In view of this verse, why is it important to guard against vain intellectualism and human philosophy as the means to your wholeness instead of Christ?
1. Connected to Christ.
2. Allowing God to continue His work of construction in our lives.
3. Becoming stable in Him.
4. Having a life of thankfulness—overflow of gratitude.
Because it is faithless and fruitless.
“Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God . . . This is how you can recognize the Spirit of God: Every spirit that acknowledges that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God” (1 John 4:1-2).
God’s grace and faith in Christ are the foundation for the 12 sessions that will follow. Our goal is to begin in Christ (salvation) and continue (mature) in Christ.
“Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see” (Hebrews 11:1).
Application Allow 20 Minutes
In John 8:31-32 Jesus told the believing Jews, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
In view of these verses, how can you maintain a life of living free in Christ?
Dr. Mike Chapman describes three principles of faith for living daily in Christ:
1. Faith is an affirmation. It is our AMEN that God’s Word is 100 percent truth.
2. Faith is an action. Our convictions must lead to actions. We all live what we believe, not what we say we believe. “Faith without deeds is dead” (James 2:26).
3. Faith is an attitude. It is a calmness of spirit that comes from knowing that God is actively involved in our everyday lives. Faith is an attitude of peace in the midst of the storm. It is not a Hollywood or psychological fad or something you work up but God’s goodness, wisdom, and power working in our lives (Lee, Godly Heroes, p. 78).
We can maintain a life of freedom by being faithful to God’s Word. As we hold to God’s Word, His truth becomes more clear to us.
True disciples follow God and His Word even when they are without full understanding.
“And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him” (Hebrews 11:6).
Closing Prayer
Remember any specific needs that have been shared. Pray for courage for each individual in the spiritual battles that are ahead. Thank God for His promises.
Session Admitting My Powerlessness
Step 1 I now see [admit] that I, of myself, am powerless, unable to control [manage] my life by myself.
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
What is one thing you worried about or struggled with this past week? or What do you like to do for fun?
Self-Awareness
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for each member present, for bringing them back again, and for touching their lives with His love. Pray that each member will have faith in God for Stepping into Freedom
Personal response.
Allow 20–25 Minutes
Read Step 1 to the group.
In this session our goal is to help each other admit our powerlessness over a life-controlling problem. (A life-controlling problem is anything that masters a person’s life—see 1 Corin- thians 6:12.) Admitting our powerlessness over a lifecontrolling problem(s) or the developing of a life-controlling problem is not a weakness; it is a strength.
We all have the potential for a life-controlling problem(s). Facing the reality of a life-controlling problem may be difficult; however, it is the start on the road to recovery.
Life-controlling problems generally fall into one of three categories: substances, behaviors, and relationships. One of the ways to identify a life-controlling problem (or the start of one) is when a substance, behavior, or relationship interferes in an important area of our life (job, school, family, etc.), and we continue to use, practice, or relate in the same way.
In other words, we are hurting ourselves or others, and we are not changing to correct the destructive issue.
Specify (name) the life-controlling problem with which you are struggling.
In what ways do you feel driven by the problem?
Describe your feelings of hopelessness to manage the problem yourself.
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
Can you describe an event or situation that has caused you to think more about God in your search for help?
Let’s look at how the Apostle Paul dealt with powerlessness.
Romans 7:18-20
Paul recognized his own powerlessness. In what way did Paul show an inability to do good?
Allow 20–25 Minutes
“I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have a desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out” (v18).
How does Paul identify the sinful nature in his inability to do good in himself?
“I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature ” (v18).
Do you see ways Paul may have been driven by the sinful nature?
Romans 7:21-24
Paul recognized a war in his inner being. How does Paul describe this war between good and evil?
“For what I do is not the good I want to do; no, the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing. Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it” (vv19-20).
“So I find this law at work: When I want to do good, evil is right there with me. For in my inner being I delight in God’s law; but I see another law at work in the members of my body, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within my members” (vv21-23).
How do you see his mind being affected?
In what ways can you identify with Paul’s being a prisoner in this war with his soul?
Verse 24 shows that the demands of the law and our inability in the flesh place us in a wretched state. The Apostle Paul asked an important question. “Who will rescue me from this body of death?”
Mentally he had the desire to do what was right, but the appetites of the flesh (lower nature) were there to fight him.
Romans 7:25-8:2
Paul recognized that the only way to deal with his powerlessness was through Jesus Christ.
Personal response.
To whom did Paul express his thanks for his rescue from a wretched state?
How does he show that the road to God is through Jesus Christ? Why do you think he addressed Jesus Christ as his Lord?
“Thanks be to God” (v25).
“Thanks be to God—through Jesus Christ our Lord” (v25). Jesus can set us free. He is the bridge from verse 24 to verse 25.
Paul called him Lord out of respect for Jesus Christ’s supreme authority. Paul recognized Jesus Christ as master.
How did Paul express his freedom from condemnation?
A pplication
Paul writes in 2 Corinthians 12:9-10: “But he [Jesus] said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. . . . For when I am weak, then I am strong.”
In what ways can you apply these scriptures to your personal struggle(s)?
“Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” (8:1). Deliverance and freedom from bondage come through the work of the Holy Spirit (8:2).
Allow 20 Minutes
Examples:
• These verses provide assurance that God’s grace and strength are there to help us through trials. “No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it” (1 Corinthians 10:13).
• It is important for us to recognize our powerlessness in order for Christ’s power to rest on us.
• When we suffer for Christ, we experience divine help.
Additional Scripture References
Psalm 6:6-7 Proverbs 28:26
Psalm 31 Romans 3:9-10, 23
Closing Prayer
“If you suffer as a Christian, do not be ashamed, but praise God that you bear that name” (1 Peter 4:16).
Pray for any specific needs that were mentioned. Thank God for His grace which is always sufficient.
Session Acknowledging My Belief in Jesus Christ
Step 2 I now realize that my Creator, God the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, can restore me to wholeness in Christ.
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
What is one quality from your parents that you want to keep and one quality you have wished you could change? or
What is one experience of success that you can remember, and what did it mean to you?
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for the faithfulness of each group member. Ask God to help each one discover and/or enhance their wholeness in Christ.
The purpose of this time is to encourage group members to talk about themselves and their feelings in a structured context. Through the use of one of these questions, they can move beyond small talk into meaningful conversation.
By inviting individuals to share from their past, we begin to know something of the influences and experiences that have helped make them who they are. This will be the last time you (and your cofacilitator) should answer first.
Personal response.
In this session we want to help each other acknowledge the need for a power greater than ourselves. This higher power is Jesus Christ, the Son of God. It is likely that at some point in your life you have placed your trust in your self-will, a false belief system, or on your own ability to manage your life. It is possible that you may have had unpleasant experiences with Christians and/or developed a distorted concept of God.
Some people see God as only for the weak or sick. Others may be dealing with anger toward God. The most important thing to remember is—there is hope for all in Christ.
Describe ways that you have tried to manage your life.
Describe resources that you have used to manage your life.
Read Step 2 to the group.
Personal response.
Examples:
• Sought help through “New Age” philosophy.
• Sought assistance from secular support groups.
• Sought meaningful life through unhealthy relationships.
Describe the feelings that have come from trying to deal with a life-controlling problem within the sphere of your own strength.
Examples: Frustration
Anger
Disappointment
Fear Shame Rejection
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
In what ways can wholeness in Christ help you deal with delusion? S piritual-Awareness
Now we will look at how God works in us to fulfill His purpose for our lives.
Philippians 2:12-13
Paul encourages his friends to work out their salvation “with fear and trembling” (v12).
What are some of the ways we can work out our salvation as God works in us?
As we follow Christ and are obedient to His word, truth will overcome delusion. “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path” (Psalm 119:105).
First, “to work out your salvation” does not mean to work for your salvation. We are to cultivate, carry out our salvation with the goal of maturity in Christ. We lean first on Christ instead of people. We remain faithful to God in private and in public to cultivate this process. We live a godly life, pray, and study God’s Word. As God deals with us regarding various shortcomings, we are to respond in obedience.
Why is it important to practice reverence (fear and trembling) for God (v12)?
Paul emphasizes God’s continuing work in us (v13).
In what ways is God working in you?
What are some of the things you are doing (continue to work out your salvation) in response to God’s work in you?
When we practice reverence, our lifestyle will reflect godly caution toward the traps of this world. It is important to walk in the fear of God. “Fear the Lord, you his saints, for those who fear him lack nothing” (Psalm 34:9).
How do you view God’s will and purpose in your life?
Examples: Through conviction
Confession
Circumstances
Personal peace
Step-by-step direction
Godly people
Examples: Forgiveness
Dealing with strained relationships
Keeping commitments
Daily devotions
It is “good, pleasing and perfect” (Romans 12:2).
Romans 10:9-10
Exercising faith in Jesus Christ is vital for salvation (v9).
What does it mean to you to confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord?
What does it mean to you to “believe in your heart that God raised him [Jesus] from the dead” (v9)?
What is the result of confessing with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believing in your heart that God raised Jesus from the dead?
Describe the role of the heart and the mouth in verse 10.
It makes my commitment to Jesus Christ public. It is open for all to see and hear.
It means to accept, rely upon, trust, and adhere to Jesus Christ as the risen Savior.
“You will be saved” (v9).
“For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved.”
Confession by mouth confirms an inner working by God in one’s heart.
Can you describe a time when it was difficult for you to place your trust in Christ?
Personal response.
Psalm 46:1 God—“an ever-present help in trouble.”
What comfort does this verse give you?
How do you picture God as your refuge?
He is always with me.
As a shelter, hiding place, protector, loving father, haven of rest, etc.
Application
God works from the inside out (as He works in us, we work out our salvation). Identify your goals on the chart on the next page.
Allow 20 Minutes
Have group members share all or part of their goals as time permits.
Identifying Goals
Goals for My: My Part
God’s Part
My Responsibility
“Continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling” (Philippians 2:12).
God’s Responsibility
“For it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose” (Philippians 2:13).
How would you describe your relationship with Jesus Christ?
Personal response.
Additional Scripture References
Psalm 27:4-5
Psalm 34:18-22
Mark 9:23-24 Romans 8:9
Mark 10:26-27 2 Corinthians 1:9
Isaiah 12:2 John 8:32 Ephesians 3:20
Ezekiel 36:27 John 15:5 Hebrews 11:6
Closing
Prayer
Remember each specific need that has been shared. Pray for strength for each individual to focus on Jesus Christ.
Session Affirming My Need for the Care of God
Step 3 I now make a conscious decision to turn my entire will and life over to the care and direction of Jesus Christ as Teacher, Healer, Saviour, and Lord.
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
What is one part of your life that you enjoy and one part that is difficult for you? or
What is a good thing happening in your life right now, and what makes it good?
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Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for the work He is doing in each life. Ask Him for openness and honesty among group members.
Choose one of these questions for the opening exercise. The questions are designed to encourage group members to talk to each other about some aspect of their daily life.
Personal response.
Allow 20-25 Minutes
Read Step 3 to the group.
In this session may you be encouraged to affirm your decision to turn your entire life over to God through Jesus Christ. This step is commitment:
1. To turn your will and life over to God.
2. To decide not to be mastered by any substance, behavior, or personal relationship.
3. To turn control over to the care of God.
In what ways have you resisted God’s will for your life?
Describe an area (or areas) in your life that has led to obsessive and/or destructive behaviors.
How difficult is it for you to give up control of your life?
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
What areas of your life are the most difficult to turn over to the care of God?
Personal response.
Personal response.
Personal response.
Personal response.
SLet us look at what the Scripture says concerning the surrendering of our will and the direction of our lives to the care of God.
Romans 12:1-2
Having a merciful and compassionate God, we should present our bodies as living sacrifices as a “spiritual act of worship” (v1).
Why do you think Paul describes this as being holy and pleasing to God?
Because it is an act of surrender to God.
What does a living sacrifice mean to you?
• To dedicate our bodies as.
• To bring our lives in conformity to God’s Word—all members and faculties.
Romans 12:2
We are to guard against being conformed to the ways of this world.
In what ways have you felt pressure to conform to the “pattern of this world”?
Our minds need to be renewed.
In what ways is the transformation of the mind a process?
Examples: By friends, TV, movies, employer, etc. We continue to change our mind, will, intellect, and emotions as we are obedient to God’s Word. God transforms our minds as we pray, study His Word, and make godly choices.
The
What do you think He means?
Proverbs 3:5-6
We are encouraged to trust in the Lord and acknowledge the Lord in all our ways.
In what ways have you depended “on your own understanding” (v5)?
How are you acknowledging the Lord for His direction in your life?
God’s will for our lives will become more and more clear. We will be able to discern God’s will for our lives. We cannot improve on the will of God.
What do you expect from the Lord?
Psalm 118:8-9
We are encouraged to turn our lives over to the care of God. This is significant because we choose to “take refuge in the Lord ” (v8) rather than man and even princes (people of fame).
Example: By following intellect, emotions, reasoning, or choices that are contrary to God’s Word.
Examples:
• By always being mindful of God’s will for my life.
• By being faithful in prayer and daily devotion to God.
• By being faithful in obedience.
His faithfulness. “He will make your paths straight” (v6). “He shall direct thy paths” (v6, KJV).
pplication
A meaningful decision requires action on our part. What actions will accompany your decision to turn your life over to the care of God?
Allow 20 Minutes
Examples:
• Be faithful and accountable to God.
• Be faithful and accountable to this group.
• Face (admit) problems without trying to cover up.
Additional Scripture References
Joshua 1:8-9 Jeremiah 29:11-14 John 10:29-30
Proverbs 16:3 Jeremiah 32:27 John 14:6
Isaiah 30:15 Mark 10:27 Galatians 2:20
Isaiah 55:6-7 John 1:12-13 Revelation 3:20
Closing Prayer
Thank God for His personal care for each group member. Thank Him for being mindful of each person. Thank Him for this acknowledgment in Psalm 8:4:
“What is man that you are mindful of him, the son of man that you care for him?”
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Auditing My Life
Step 4 Having made this decision, I now obey God’s call in Scripture to make a fearless, ethical, moral, and scriptural inventory of my entire life in order to uncover all sins, mistakes, and character defects and to make a written list of every item uncovered. S elf-Awareness
ntroduction
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
What spiritual discipline do you find the easiest or the most difficult? or
When you have some free time to yourself, what do you like to do?
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God that we can be open and honest about our failures and He still loves us. Thank Him because “while we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).
Choose one of these questions for the opening exercise.
Personal response.
Allow 20 – 25 Minutes
Read Step 4 to the group.
Let us continue to give emphasis to steps 1 through 3 which are the building blocks for recovery. In this step, an emphasis is placed on personal inventory.
May we search with honesty all aspects of our life without the use of excuses for our inappropriate behavior. As we report our personal histories of life-controlling problems, God will be our guide. It is important that we do the written list of thoughts (Personal Audit—page 34) assigned in your workbook on page 32.
In what ways have you denied the reality of your condition?
Examples:
• By isolating myself
• By secrecy
• By minimizing
• By intellectualizing
Describe ways you have blamed people, circumstances, situations, etc., for your condition.
Discuss ways your behavior has affected other people (family, friends, etc.).
Examples:
• By blaming parents, spouse, or friends
• By blaming lack of financial resources, poor environment, job loss, etc.
Examples:
• Cause of divorce
• Loss of respect and confidence
• Problem with children
• Strained relationships
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
In what ways can a personal examination help you look to God for help?
It helps to show me my powerlessness to change myself and need for God’s help.
My relationship with God:
Personal Audit
My relationship with my family:
My relationship with my church:
My relationship with my friends:
piritual-Awareness
Let us look at how God encourages each of us to take a personal inventory of our life. Although experiencing the grieving process through repentance is healthy, we should focus on our new hope in Christ. Christ is our only hope as savior, healer, and teacher. He will not disappoint us in our time of personal searching.
Psalm 139:1-2
The Lord knows us personally.
What is your understanding of God’s knowing you on a personal basis?
Allow 20 – 25 Minutes
What do you think David means in verse 2, “You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar”?
He knows more about me than I know about myself. He knows my undertakings and thoughts even before I act or think.
Psalm 139:3-4
The Lord knows our actions.
How does it make you feel knowing that God is aware of all our ways and even our words before they are spoken?
Psalm 139:23-24
David was open to personal examination.
How do you feel about God’s searching our hearts and testing our thoughts?
Personal response.
In what ways can offensive motives deter God’s leading in our lives?
Personal response.
Sin separates us from God’s best for our lives. “But your iniquities have separated you from your God; your sins have hidden his face from you, so that he will not hear” (Isaiah 59:2).
Lamentations 3:40
Restoration includes personal examination and testing.
Why is it important to “examine our ways and test them”?
Jeremiah 17:9-10
Jeremiah describes the heart as deceitful.
In what ways can a deceitful heart support our denial of a life-controlling problem?
Application
King David was a man who failed God yet was willing to repent and conduct a personal inventory of his life. He is described as a man after God’s own heart (Acts 13:22).
What lessons can we learn from David in conducting our personal inventory?
It is a prerequisite to returning to the Lord and/or staying in fellowship with Him.
Additional Scripture References
Jeremiah 23:24 John 16:13
Lamentations 3:19-23 Romans 8:26-27
John 6:68-69 2 Corinthians 13:5-6
John 14:26 James 1:12
Closing Prayer
By suppressing the truth. Suppression of the truth leads to delusion, and delusion supports a life-controlling problem. See Romans 1:18.
Allow 20 Minutes
He was quick to repent. He did not blame others. He took personal responsibility for his sin.
When Nathan rebuked David for his adultery and murder, he said to Nathan, “I have sinned against the Lord” (2 Samuel 12:13).
In another failure he saw the need to fall into the hands of a merciful God versus man. “I am in deep distress. Let us fall into the hands of the Lord, for his mercy is great; but do not let me fall into the hands of men” (2 Samuel 24:14).
Thank God for His mercy. Thank Him because His mercy is great. “His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness” (Lamentations 3:22-23).
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Accounting for My Actions Session
Step 5 After completing this inventory, I now will to “walk in the light, as he is in the light” by admitting to myself, to God, and to at least one other person in Christ the exact nature of these wrongs.
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
What is one thing that gave you joy or a sense of accomplishment this week? or
What is one thing at which you are good and one thing at which you are bad?
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for each group member. Thank Him for the faithfulness of each member. Ask for the Holy Spirit’s guidance as we account for our actions.
Choose one of these questions for the opening exercise.
Personal response.
elf-Awareness
In this session we will discuss admitting to ourselves, God, and others our thoughts which we prepared on paper in Step 4. Sharing with others helps remove us from the isolation which was caused by a wall of defenses. We use these defenses to protect ourselves from more sorrow from the life-controlling problem(s). We should only share those things that we feel comfortable in sharing with the other group members (remember to respect the comfort level of each group member).
Although it may be helpful for us to share our concerns with another person who is mature in Christ, only Christ can forgive sins. There may be some personal concerns that only God needs to know
Working within your personal comfort level, what are those items from your written list of wrongs prepared in Session 4 that you wish to report (see Personal Audit, page 32 in workbook)?
In what ways have you experienced isolation due to a lifecontrolling problem?
Allow 20 – 25 Minutes
Read Step 5 to the group.
Describe the type of person with whom you prefer to talk about your problem.
Personal response. Personal response. Personal response.
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
Admitting the exact nature of my wrongs to myself and others is important. Why is it more important to admit our wrongs to God?
Spiritual-Awareness
Let us look at what the Scripture says about walking “in the light, as he is in the light” (1 John 1:7).
1 John 1:5-6 God is light and truth.
What does the term “in him there is no darkness at all” (v5) mean to you?
What hinders our fellowship with God?
1 John 1:7
Walking in the light results in fellowship with God and one another.
How does walking in the light affect our relationship with other believers?
What is the significance of the blood of Jesus?
Allow 20 – 25 Minutes
Because only through Him can recovery be possible. Only Christ can forgive sins and heal us. Because God is light, not even a shadow of darkness can exist in Him. He is perfect in nature.
When we claim fellowship with God “yet walk in the darkness.”
It causes genuine fellowship with God. Walking in His path of light produces holy character. Consequently, we can only have meaningful fellowship with other Christians when we have a genuine relationship with God. Sin always hinders true fellowship among believers.
As we walk in the light, the blood of Jesus continually cleanses us from sin.
1 John 1:8-10
John describes the cause and remedy for deceit.
How do we deceive ourselves?
Why is confession of sin necessary in our walk with God?
Why is denial of sin so destructive to our fellowship with God?
By saying we have no sin.
Because if we confess our sins, Christ is faithful to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
When we say we have not sinned, we challenge the truth of God.
1 John 2:1-2
Jesus is the mediator between God and man.
What comfort and assurance do these verses give us?
James 5:16
Confession and prayer are vital to the healing process.
Since Jesus is the forgiver of our sins, why is confession of faults to one another helpful?
If we sin, Jesus serves as our defender. As in a courtroom, He speaks for the defendant. “He is the atoning sacrifice for our sins” (v2).
Why is prayer so vital to our walking in the light?
Because spiritual healing involves reconciliation with others. Resentment toward people hinders spiritual growth and can be a major factor in emotional struggles. “If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened” (Psalm 66:18).
Without prayer, there is no communion with God. Without communion with God, darkness will appear. A person who is right with God will have accomplishments through his/her prayer life.
A pplication Allow 20 Minutes
The Apostle Paul writes, “He forgave us all our sins, having canceled the written code, with its regulations, that was against us and that stood opposed to us; he took it away, nailing it to the cross” (Colossians 2:13-14).
Since our sins have been forgiven and nailed to the cross, our written list of wrongs (Personal Audit) should be destroyed in praise to our God.
What is your prayer of thanksgiving?
There were things on the written list (Personal Audit) that can only be dealt with by God. However, there may be items on the list that need continued prayer and corrective action on your part. These can be described on the Prayer List in your workbook (page 41).
Ask for group members to destroy their Personal Audit and then share a prayer of thanksgiving.
Summarize the group members’ prayers of thanksgiving with a final prayer. Thank Him for forgiveness of sin.
Prayer List
Person and/or Situation Request
Agreeing with God Session
Step 6
Having agreed with God about my sinful behavior, I now ask for His forgiveness through Christ and openly acknowledge that I am forgiven according to Scripture.
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for the progress of the group. Ask for the Holy Spirit’s direction to be clearly involved in each group member’s life. May each person surrender to agreement with God.
Sharing Question
What is the most important, most meaningful, or most satisfying thing that you do in a week and why? or
What is one thing you are proud of about yourself?
Choose one of these questions for the opening exercise.
Personal response.
elf-Awareness
In steps 1-5, emphasis has been placed on building a foundation for change. We have looked at our denial and delusion and asked the Lord to give us clear thinking so we can follow Him. In this session, you will be encouraged to continue your denouncement of sin and focus on walking out the changes in your lives.
What behaviors have violated your value system?
Describe the actions you are taking to confront these negative trends of behavior.
Allow 20 – 25 Minutes
Read Step 6 to the group.
How have negative trends of behavior affected your self-esteem?
Personal response.
Examples: Stopped using alcohol or drugs, ended an unhealthy relationship, become accountable to a support group, going to church regularly, etc.
Examples: Do not like myself; dealing with guilt, anger, fear, cover-up, shame, etc.
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
What areas of self-management have been the most difficult for you to turn over to God?
Personal response.
Spiritual-Awareness
Agreeing with God and walking with God go hand in hand.
Amos 3:3
Walking with God means harmony.
Why is it hard for two to walk together unless they are in agreement?
Allow 20 – 25 Minutes
• They are not going in the same direction.
• Their goals are different.
• It causes friction.
• It hinders and destroys communications.
How do you see your change of behavior as a cooperative effort with the Lord?
Because I cannot change myself. As I obey and trust Him, He changes me.
James 4:7-8
Walking with God means submission.
What is the promise for those who resist the devil?
The devil “will flee from you” (v7).
James 4:9-10
Walking with God means humility.
What is the promise for those who humble themselves “before the Lord”?
“He [God] will lift you up” (v10).
Ephesians 1:7
Walking with God means I agree with God that I am forgiven of my sins.
What does it mean to be freely forgiven of your sins?
What price did Christ pay for this forgiveness?
Christ paid the price. The price was impossible for me to pay.
“Through his blood, the forgiveness of sins.” He gave His life.
Jude 21
Read this verse from The Living Bible
How does this verse refer to the blessing of God’s boundaries?
Application
What outward changes in your life are happening as a result of your commitment to agree with God, allowing Him to manage your life?
“Stay always within the boundaries where God’s love can reach and bless you” (v21, TLB).
Allow 20 Minutes
Examples:
• I am better prepared to deal with conflict.
• I am allowing God to control my anger.
• I am a better parent, husband, wife, son, daughter, etc.
Additional Scripture References
Psalm 27:13-14 Proverbs 19:21 2 Thessalonians 3:3
Psalm 37:4-5 Proverbs 21:30-31 Hebrews 4:16
Psalm 118:17-18 Isaiah 1:18-19
Psalm 119:11 Romans 6:11-14
Closing Prayer
Thank God for each group member and their commitment to “walk with God.”
Pray that God will guide each one every step of the way.
Abandoning My Sins Session
Step 7 I now repent (turn away) from all these behaviors in thought, word, and deed and ask God to remove each besetting sin through Jesus Christ.
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for the honesty of the group. Ask God to give each group member strength to abandon sins and trust Jesus Christ to remove any besetting sin.
Sharing Question
When do you struggle with yourself and win, or when do you struggle with yourself and lose? How do you feel about that? or
What are you looking forward to and what are you reluctant to face during the next week?
Choose one of these questions for the opening exercise. Personal response.
elf-Awareness
The emphasis in this session is to continue to “walk out” the changes in our lives. To do this, we must focus on “turning from” our sins.
These shortcomings should be approached with an attitude of surrender. Having confessed them to Christ and others, we must now allow Him to purify us.
What are some of your experiences in “walking out” the changes since the previous meeting?
What are some character issues with which you continue to struggle?
Allow 20 – 25 Minutes
Read Step 7 to the group.
What are some of the struggles you have experienced from the surrender of your life to God?
Examples:
• I declined an alcoholic drink.
• I did not watch an inappropriate movie.
• I went to church.
• I kept my word.
Examples:
• Lust
• Honesty
• Being on time to work
• Covering up
Examples:
• Trusting God and His Word
• Changing from friends who pull me down
• Ending an ungodly relationship
• Turning down drugs and alcohol
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
What is your definition of repentance?
Spiritual-Awareness
Let us look at repentance (turning away) from behaviors and substances that are destructive to God’s plan for our life.
Hebrews 12:1
We are encouraged to deal with “everything that hinders” us.
Why do you think the writer of Hebrews refers to “a great cloud of witnesses”?
• Turning from sin.
• Turning from darkness to light.
• Renouncing sin.
• Turning my back on sin.
What relationship is there to the preceding chapter?
Allow 20 – 25 Minutes
In what ways can we become entangled with certain sins?
To encourage us by the testimonies of those who have already gone to be with the Lord.
What does “run with perseverance the race marked out for us” mean to you? In what ways is the Christian life a race?
The writer is referring to the “heroes of faith” described in Chapter 11.
Many things are triggered by the sin of unbelief.
Examples:
• He will not fulfill my emotional needs.
• He will not supply my financial needs.
• My problems are too much for Him.
• I’m not worthy.
We are not to “give up.” We are to run with endurance.
The Christian life is a race much like a marathon. It is a long race with mountains and valleys, but God is always with us.
Hebrews 12:2
We are encouraged to focus our attention on Jesus.
How do you picture Jesus as the source (the author) of your faith?
How do you picture Jesus as the finisher of your faith?
In view of verse 2, what does it mean to you that Jesus “endured the cross”?
It started when I received Jesus Christ as my Savior. He is my foundation. See 1 Corinthians 3:10-11. “So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord [by faith], continue to live in him” (Colossians 2:6).
He will complete His work in me. “Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus” (Philippians 1:6).
He ignored the shame of the cross for me. He is an example to follow when faced with persecution. He did not give up.
Hebrews 12:3
We are encouraged to consider the endurance of Jesus. He received opposition.
What are some ways God is helping you overcome opposition from destructive behaviors?
What comfort do you receive from the encouragement to “not grow weary”?
Examples:
• He has placed people in my life who care enough for me to hold me accountable for my actions.
• His Holy Spirit guides me away from destructive thoughts.
• He always provides a way of escape.
It is encouraging to know that we are asked to consider Christ when we become weary. He triumphed over the cross. Because of Him, we can be victorious also.
Acts 26:20
Repentance is proved by one’s deeds.
List examples of your actions that are changing based on your “turning to God.”
Examples:
• I’m now responsible for my actions.
• People can place confidence in me.
• I stopped blaming others for my problems.
• I am becoming a giver, not a taker.
Acts 3:19
Repentance brings a refreshing from the Lord.
Describe this verse in your own words.
Examples:
• I feel clean.
• I feel like I have just taken a fresh shower.
• I feel re-energized.
• I am free.
Acts 20:21
Repentance toward God and faith in the Lord Jesus Christ go hand in hand. There is much emphasis on confession in our society, even in secular circles. However, confession alone is not enough. We must repent and have faith in Jesus Christ. When we trust Christ as our Savior and walk according to His Word, Christ fills the void in our lives that is often felt when a person starts the road to recovery.
List examples of actions that are changing based on your “turning to God.”
Application
Solomon writes, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5-6).
How do you plan to apply these verses to your life when dealing with hindrances to your walk in Christ?
Allow 20 Minutes
Examples:
• I will choose to follow God’s Word for direction versus my emotions, reasoning, or advice.
• I will choose God’s Word for direction versus my own understanding.
Job 11:13-19 John 5:14 2 Corinthians 10:5
Psalm 51:10 John 8:10-11 Philippians 4:6
Psalm 90:8 Romans 5 Colossians 3:17
Psalm 103:2-3 Romans 6 1 Peter 5:6-7
Ezekiel 18:30-32 Romans 12:1-2 1 John 2:3-6
Daniel 4:27 2 Corinthians 2:10
Closing Prayer
Thank God we can always look to Him for help with direction regarding the hindrances in our lives. Ask God to give each group member the strength to be persistent in overcoming obstacles in their lives.
Session Amending My Ways
Step 8 I now make a list of all persons I have harmed in thought, word, and deed and a list of all persons I believe have harmed me, and I will to make amends to all of them.
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
If you knew you could not fail and money were no problem, what one thing would you like to do in the next five years?
or
If you could change one thing about yourself or develop one quality you do not have, what would it be?
S elf-Awareness
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for each group member. Thank Him for the faithfulness of each member. Ask for the Holy Spirit’s guidance as we amend our ways.
Choose one of these questions for the opening exercises.
Personal response.
Allow 20–25 Minutes
Read Step 8 to the group.
As the Lord helps us become aware of the delusion in our lives, we are faced with the reality that others may have been harmed by our behaviors. Continued cover-up or blaming others for our behaviors can result in further delusion and bitterness. Forgiving ourselves and others through Christ helps us overcome the past.
If you have not completed your amends list assignment on page 60 in your workbook, let me encourage you to do so.
Describe the most urgent relationship that needs to be amended.
In what ways have you tried to cover up for your inappropriate behaviors?
Describe past misdeeds that you cannot correct and have turned over to God.
Personal response.
Examples:
• Blame others.
• Avoid those who care.
• Keep them secret.
• Isolate myself.
• “Talk-the-talk” but not “walk-thewalk.”
Examples:
• Past relationships—involving those deceased and/or those who are nonaccessible.
• Those that will cause more problems when I try to correct.
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
How does making amends through Christ help free you from the past?
• He sets us free. We are forgiven of our past misdeeds.
• We seek to receive forgiveness from the person(s) offended. See Matthew 18:21-35.
• We forgive ourselves of past misdeeds.
• We have a fresh start in life.
S
piritual-Awareness
Now let us look at what the Scripture says about the ministry of reconciliation.
2 Corinthians 5:17
Being in Christ helps us deal with the past.
What does being “a new creation” mean to you?
How does “the old has gone, the new has come” apply to your life?
Allow 20–25 Minutes
It means that my past has been forgiven—the “old has gone, the new has come!” Personal response.
2 Corinthians 5:18
Reconciliation comes through Christ.
What does reconciliation through Christ mean to you?
How do you view “the ministry of reconciliation”?
Sin places a distance between us and God. Reconciliation through Christ restores our relationship with God.
• God uses us in the ministry of bringing people back to himself.
• God involves us in the ministry of reconciliation. We are used by the Holy Spirit to bring people to Christ.
• We are instruments of God to bring reconciliation.
2 Corinthians 5:19
Our sins are not held against us.
How does it make you feel knowing that the sins of the past have been forgiven?
• It reminds me of the sacrifice Christ paid for this freedom.
• Christ paid the price for my sin.
• I have a fresh start.
• I am a new person.
How do you feel about God committing to you “the message of reconciliation”?
• This is a tremendous trust He has placed in us.
• Much like making a bank deposit, He has deposited this ministry in our hands for safe—handling.
How do you express this in view of broken relationships?
2 Corinthians 5:20
We are ambassadors for Christ.
What is your view of an ambassador of Christ?
Why do you think Paul focuses on Christ as the key to reconciliation with God?
God will use us to mend broken relationships through the “ministry of reconciliation” He has entrusted to us.
2 Corinthians 5:21
Our identity is in Christ.
How do you picture the sinless Christ becoming sin for us?
• We are representatives of Christ.
• We are stewards of the gospel.
Because God works through His Son Jesus Christ. “For there is one God and one Mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus” ( 1 Timothy 2:5).
What does it mean to you that in Christ we “become the righteousness of God”?
Matthew 6:14-15; Colossians 3:13
Unforgiveness of ourselves and others hinders our relationship with God and others. We cannot be in a right relationship with God and in an unforgiving relationship with others.
How is the importance of forgiveness emphasized in these passages?
• He took our place on the cross.
• He actually became sin for us.
• He took our deserved punishment at Calvary.
He took our sin and we received His righteousness.
If we forgive, God will forgive us. If we do not forgive, God will not forgive us. We are to forgive as the Lord forgave us.
Matthew 18:21-35
These verses tell what will happen to a person who chooses not to forgive.
What will happen to such an individual?
This person will be “turned over to the jailers [held in captivity] to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed” (v34). This individual will be in torment.
A
pplication
In view of Jesus’ statement, “Do to others as you would have them do to you” (Luke 6:31), how do you plan your approach in amending broken or strained relationships?
Allow 20 Minutes
Examples:
• I will make right those relationships in which I can without doing further harm.
• I will pray for God’s direction and timing.
• I will seek godly counsel and accountability.
Additional Scripture References
Leviticus 19:17-18 Hosea 11:1-4 Ephesians 4:29-32
Psalm 19:13-14 Matthew 5:9, 43-45 1 John 4:7-12
Psalm 32:1-2 Mark 12:31
Closing Prayer
Pray for God’s direction and timing for each group member as they work toward making amends in broken or strained relationships. Pray that no further harm will occur.
Amends
Step-by-Step
8
Session Acting on My Amends
Step 9 I now go directly to these persons to forgive and to seek forgiveness, reconciliation, restitution, or release whenever and with whomever possible, unless to do so would cause further harm.
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
What is one dream or hope you have for the future? or
What is one anxiety you have about the future, and how do you deal with it?
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for each group member and their desire to amend their broken and/ or strained relationships. Thank God for His presence and concern for each group member.
Choose one of these questions for the opening exercises.
Personal response.
elf-Awareness
The general goal of this session is to encourage each other to go to those who may have been harmed by strained or broken relationships. It is important to use wisdom in seeking forgiveness and reconciliation. Approach only those to whom you have access and would not cause further harm (further harm includes areas that may cause damage which would be beyond repair). The purpose is to reconcile, not to document the other person’s mistakes or to blame others.
Describe strained or broken relationships with people who are approachable and with whom making amends would not cause further harm.
Describe former harmful relationships with people who are no longer approachable (because the person is deceased or because of concern for further harm).
How are you turning your inaccessible, strained, or broken relationships which cannot be further dealt with over to God?
Allow 20-25 Minutes
Read Step 9 to the group.
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
Describe your present feelings about your peace with God.
Spiritual-Awareness
Let us look at the Scripture to see how to make restitution and/or release to the Lord those relationships which cannot be restored because of inaccessibility or likelihood of further harm.
Examples: Anxious Betrayed Frozen Mixed (good and bad) Unsure Good Fair
Matthew 5:23-24
We are encouraged to make peace with our brother.
Describe these verses in your own words.
In your times of prayer and meditation, have you been reminded of strained and broken relationships? Describe.
Allow 20-25 Minutes
In what ways can you apply these verses to your strained or broken relationships?
I must seek reconciliation with my brother or sister to be in right relationship with God.
Personal response.
Luke 15:18-21
The prodigal son made peace with his father and heaven.
What action did this son take to make peace with his father and heaven?
With prayer and sincerity, seek reconciliation with a person with whom you have a strained or broken relationship. The other party may not accept reconciliation, but it is our responsibility to seek it.
• He took personal responsibility for his ungodly actions. “I will set out and go back to my father” (v18).
• He confessed his sin. “Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you” (vv18, 21).
• He showed humility. “I am no longer worthy to be called your son” (v21).
Why was it important for him to admit his sin against his father and heaven?
How do you picture the son’s humility?
Describe the reconciliation of the father and son in your own words.
He sought reconciliation both with his earthly father and heavenly father. His humility was sincere. He renounced all claims of privilege as a son. “I am no longer worthy to be called your son” (v21).
The father did not bail him out of his trouble (“but no one gave him anything” v16), but he waited for his son’s return with faith (“but while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him” v20).
The son’s repentance was filled with action. “I preached that they should repent and turn to God and prove their repentance by their deeds” (Acts 26:20). Repentance always involves action.
It is important to take responsibility for our own actions wherever possible. We can be comforted with the assurance that God helps us with those broken relationships that are beyond our control. Peter says, “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you” (1 Peter 5:7).
Application Allow 20 Minutes
Describe difficult situations you might face in your effort to make amends.
Examples:
• Anger from the other person(s).
• Avoidance.
• Blame from other party.
• Former or present spouse turning the children against me.
• Court battle.
In what ways can this group help you?
In what ways can you help support others in this group?
With prayer, accountability, faithful attendance, love, and support.
Examples:
• With my prayers.
• By my presence at group meetings.
• By being available between group meetings.
• By love and concern.
Additional Scripture References
Numbers 5:5-7 Luke 6:35 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Isaiah 1:18-20 Romans 12:17-18 Ephesians 5:21
Ezekiel 33:15-16 Philippians 2:3-4
Closing Prayer
Ask group members to pray for each other. Close the session in prayer requesting God’s direction for each of the group members as they act on making amends.
10Session Analyzing My Walk with Christ
Step 10 I now consciously and prayerfully continue to “walk in the light” by unceasingly taking personal inventory of all my temptations and sins, and by keeping a constantly open relationship with God, myself, and other persons.
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
What godly action will you attempt this week, and what help will you need to accomplish it?
or
How will you practice thankfulness to God this week?
S elf-Awareness
Allow 10 Minutes
Thank God for the courage of the group. Thank Him for the honesty and faithfulness of each group member. Ask for the Holy Spirit’s guidance in this session.
Choose one of these questions for the opening exercise.
Personal response.
Allow 20-25 Minutes
Read Step 10 to the group.
In this session we will focus on maintaining the gains we have made to this point. It is helpful to discuss our victories, but we also need to be aware of our weaknesses to relapse into our former lifestyle.
Describe the gains you have made to remain free of lifecontrolling problems.
What are some of the triggering devices you must guard against which can lead to relapse?
Examples:
• I have been free of _______ for six weeks.
• Relationships have improved between my spouse and me.
• I have been faithful in church attendance.
Examples:
• Socializing with former friends who have a bad influence.
• Withdrawal from church services and support group.
• Talking the talk but not walking the walk.
• Going to places that might have a negative influence.
• Avoiding those who are concerned friends.
• Listening to music that is associated with my former life—negative influence.
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
What does an open relationship with God mean to you?
It means that I am not trying to hide my actions and isolate myself from God and people. “But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin” (1 John 1:7).
Spiritual-Awareness
We will look at the Scripture as it relates to being confident in Christ (not in our own accomplishments) and of being open before the Lord about the temptations which can hinder our walk with Christ.
1 Corinthians 10:12 Paul warns against being overconfident.
Why do you think Paul warns us about falling?
Allow 20-25 Minutes
How can you relate to this verse?
1 Corinthians 10:13 Paul shows how to deal with temptation.
Why is your temptation not unique?
Describe God’s part in helping you with temptation.
• Because overconfidence is a pride position. It sets us up for a fall.
• Overconfidence (feeling spiritually superior to others and/or situations) is a position of arrogance.
Personal response.
Describe your responsibility in dealing with temptation.
“No temptation has seized you except what is common to man.”
“He will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.”
To not yield to temptation. The escape is always there. Take it.
2 Corinthians 3:4-6
Our confidence should be in Christ, not in our own resources.
In what ways can you apply these verses to your life?
By not claiming any resource or accomplishment for ourselves. It is God who is “the all-sufficient one,” not I. By avoiding self-confidence or arrogance.
How do you think God makes us “competent as ministers” (v6)? James 1:13-15 God does not tempt us.
In view of these verses, describe what can happen if you give in to temptation.
When we rely on Him, He makes us competent to serve. “And who is equal to such a task” (2 Corinthians 2:16)? God qualifies us for the task.
An open relationship with God is the key to dealing with overconfidence and temptations. It is important to be honest with God (Luke 18:13), self (Romans 12:3), and others (2 Samuel 12:13).
A
pplication
Describe your progress at this point.
Additional Scripture References
Psalm 4:3-5
Psalm 139:1-4 Galatians 6:4-5
Psalm 34:12-14 Proverbs 30:8-9 Ephesians 4:25-26
Psalm 55:22 Matthew 26:41 James 1:23-25
Closing Prayer
It is normally a step-by-step process to a life-controlling problem. “But each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death” (vv14-15).
The process:
• Temptation (an attraction to)
• Desire (to long for things outside of God’s boundaries)
• Sin
• Death Personal response.
Allow 20 Minutes
Give each group member an opportunity to respond as time permits.
Thank God for the progress of each group member. Pray specifically for those who have expressed personal struggles. Ask God to give each group member the courage to walk in an open relationship with Him.
Session
Anchoring My Walk with Christ
Step 11 I now continue in regular Scripture study, prayer, worship, and fellowship to increase God’s will in my life.
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Sharing Question
SHow is the Holy Spirit prompting you as a result of our bible study? What will you do about it and when? or
What do you especially value about this group?
elf-Awareness
Allow 10 Minutes
Ask the group members if anyone would care to open in prayer and ask God’s direction in this session. If no one volunteers, either you or your cofacilitator should do so.
Choose one of these questions for the opening exercise.
Personal response.
Allow 20 – 25 Minutes
Read Step 11 to the group.
This session is a continuation of Session 10. Turning our lives over to the care of God and dealing with our character defects are important in living free of life-controlling problems.
Now the challenge is to continue to walk out these changes. Regular times of prayer and meditation will help direct our thoughts on God and His will for our lives.
How are you dealing with negative thoughts? See Philippians 4:8.
By immediately replacing negative thoughts with positive thoughts. “Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”
Why is it important not to permit negative thoughts to linger in our minds? See Mark 7:21-23.
Negative thoughts allowed to linger will lead to negative behaviors.
Evil thoughts lead to evil activities. “For from within, out of men’s hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly. All these evils come from inside and make a man unclean.”
Describe your personal need to meditate on God and His word. See Joshua 1:8.
Garth Lean in his book, On the Tail of a Comet, writes extensively about the life of Frank Buchman. Buchman’s principles of change were instrumental in the starting of the Alcoholics Anonymous movement. Lean writes: Buchman had learnt that temptation, of whatever kind, was best resisted at its earliest stage. It was easier, he sometimes said, to divert a small stream than to dam a river. He defined the progression of temptation as the look, the thought, the fascination, the fall, and said that the time to deal with it was at the thought—tackle temptation well upstream (80).
Personal response.
“Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.”
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
In what ways is God influencing your daily inventory of thoughts and actions?
Spiritual-Awareness
God directs our lives on a daily basis through prayer, study, and meditation of His word.
Colossians 3:12
As God’s chosen people, we are to clothe ourselves with His garments.
As God’s representatives, in what ways are we to clothe ourselves? Describe in your own words.
Examples:
• He convicts me of negative thoughts.
• He reminds me to practice Philippians 4:8.
• Without daily devotions, my life drifts from peace and contentment.
Colossians 3:13 Paul emphasizes forgiveness.
What does “bear with each other” mean to you?
Allow 20 – 25 Minutes
Who is our example for forgiveness?
Describe what Christ’s example of forgiveness means to you?
Through Christ, we remove the old clothes and replace them with clothes of “compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.” These are the clothes of the new life.
Example:
• It means to endure individuals with whom it is not easy to get along.
• Endure individuals who are not loveable. “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins” (1 Peter 4:8).
Christ.
Example: It reminds me of a gift. Christ extends this gift of forgiveness to me. Therefore, I must extend this gift to those who have offended or harmed me. I must also receive this gift— forgive myself.
Colossians 3:14
Love and perfect unity go hand in hand.
What does “put on love” mean to you?
What part does love play in bringing unity among believers?
This is the virtue that holds all the other clothes in place—much like a belt.
Love brings completeness among believers. Love helps us overlook the faults of others.
Colossians 3:15
The “peace of Christ” plays an important role in directing our lives.
What role does the “peace of Christ” play?
Why do you think Paul encourages us to be thankful?
How can you apply this verse to your life?
Colossians 3:16
We are encouraged to “let the word of Christ dwell in [us].”
In what ways do you picture the “word of Christ” being the foundation of Christian activities listed in this verse?
Why do you think Paul emphasizes “gratitude in your hearts to God”?
It rules our heart. It is the umpire. “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid” (John 14:27).
Because it helps us focus on the positive things of life instead of problems that disturb us. It helps us keep our focus on Christ.
Personal response.
The “word of Christ” should be the center of our lives. It should be seen as great wealth to us.
Because our teaching, singing, or any kind of worship should never be mundane or “things as usual.” There should always be heartfelt thankfulness to God.
Colossians 3:17
We are encouraged to do all “in the name of the Lord Jesus.”
How can you apply this verse to your life?
This verse means more than Sunday worship or when people are watching us. This applies to every day and all facets of our lives.
Application
Describe your present schedule for your personal devotions.
How do you feel about persistence with your personal devotions?
Allow 20 Minutes
Examples:
• I have one hour of quiet time with the Lord each day.
• I read the entire Bible each year.
Personal response.
How do you deal with interruptions?
Is there a glaring weakness in your personal devotional life the Lord is showing you? Describe the weakness and your resolve to correct this very important spiritual aspect of your life.
Additional Scripture References
Joshua 1:8 Psalm 63:1-7 Mark 11:24
1 Kings 8:56-61 Psalm 89:15 Mark 12:28-33
Psalm 1:1-3 Isaiah 30:21 Acts 2:42
Psalm 19:14 Matthew 6:33-34 Philippians 4:6-9
Psalm 25:1-5 Matthew 7:7
Closing Prayer
Personal response.
Personal response.
Give each group member an opportunity to offer a prayer. You or the other facilitator conclude the prayer with thankfulness to God for His faithfulness to each group member.
Session
Advancing My Faith in Christ 12
Step 12 Recognizing the impact of God in my life, I now intentionally share these principles and their effect with others as God’s Spirit leads, and will to practice these principles in all areas of my life.
Introduction
Opening Prayer
Allow 10 Minutes
Invite the group to do the opening prayer. As you close the prayer time, include a prayer that the Lord will use this last session to be a special time that will bring a deeper walk in Christ in the life of each group member.
Sharing Question
What has been meaningful to you in this group? or
How has this group been important or helpful to you?
Choose one of these questions for the opening exercise.
Personal response.
elf-Awareness
This session brings us to a point of completion; however, our spiritual walk with Christ is not complete. As we continue to walk out the truths learned and applied in this course, we should place our focus on reaching out to others who need our help.
The general goal of this session is for each group member to encourage one another to share with others the principles learned in this bible study. As you share with others what the Lord has done in your life, your confidence will be enhanced.
Describe reasons why you feel responsible to share with others the principles you have learned.
Allow 20 – 25 Minutes
In what ways do you feel free to share with others since God has helped you with a struggle and/or stronghold?
Examples:
• Because these biblical principles will set you free.
• Because I see others with lifecontrolling problems who need help.
Examples:
• Because I am on the road to freedom, I feel compelled to share my experience with others.
• I want to give now instead of always taking from others.
Do you have any anxiety about sharing with others? Describe.
May encounter skepticism, etc.
Read Step 12 to the group.
Spiritual Awareness Lead–In
Describe a significant person(s) God used in helping you. In what ways did this person(s) help you?
Spiritual-Awareness
Peter encourages us to share the hope we have in Christ. We should always be prepared to share our faith with others.
1 Peter 3:15 Christ should have a special place in our hearts.
What do you think Peter means by “in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord”?
Personal response.
According to this verse, we should be prepared “to give the reason for the hope” we have.
When should we be prepared?
Upon what is our hope based? See Colossians 1:27 and Hebrews 6:19-20.
Allow 20 – 25 Minutes
Why do you think Peter encourages us to share our hope “with gentleness and respect”?
Make a special place in your heart for Christ. There should be a holy place, a place of reverence, in our hearts for a strong commitment to Christ.
Give examples of opportunities where we can share “with gentleness and respect.”
Always.
Christ and His finished work on the cross.
“Christ in you, the hope of glory.”
“We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure. It enters the inner sanctuary behind the curtain, where Jesus, who went before us, has entered on our behalf.”
Because such gentleness and respect will show the true spirit of Christ. Such an approach will leave an impressive testimony.
• When confronted by unbelief.
• When ridiculed for one’s faith.
• When falsely accused.
• When humiliated.
1 Peter 3:16
We are to maintain “a clear conscience.”
Sharing our faith with gentleness and respect along with a clear conscience is important. In view of this verse, why is it important?
1 Peter 3:17
God’s will for our lives may include suffering.
Can you think of ways you have suffered for doing good? For doing evil?
What is the difference between suffering for good and suffering for evil?
1 Peter 3:18
Christ died for our sins.
Describe in your own words the significance of “Christ died for sins once for all.”
In view of this verse, why did He die for our sins?
How was He made alive?
Proverbs 24:11; Jude 22-25
We are to help those being led to the way of death. There are two good things that happen when we share our faith in Christ:
1. We show those being led to the way of death that there is new life in Him.
2. We are always enriched by this experience of sharing our faith in our Savior.
Having a clear conscience, free of morality issues that cloud the mind and lifestyle, makes gentleness and respect more meaningful to the person speaking “maliciously against your good behavior in Christ.”
Personal response.
Suffering for good happens within God’s will. Suffering for evil is the consequences of sinful choices.
Christ’s death on the cross was a onetime event in relation to man- kind’s sins.
To bring us to God.
He was “made alive by the Spirit.”
Application
Paul writes, “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God” (2 Corinthians 1:3-4).
What is your plan to comfort others “with the comfort we ourselves have received from God”?
Allow 20 Minutes
Why do you think it is important to share the comfort we have received from the Lord?
Personal response.
How will you depend upon the Holy Spirit to guide you?
• Because God commands us to share the comfort.
• It helps us.
• It helps others.
• By keeping an active devotional life of prayer, meditation, and bible study.
• By asking God for opportunities to share.
• By responding as God opens the doors of opportunities.
If time permits, ask group members to briefly share Follow-Up—Where Do I Go from Here information (pages 84-85 in workbook).
Open the prayer time for all group members who wish to respond. Conclude the prayers with a thanksgiving to God for the people in the group, for their love for one another, and for God’s faithfulness to all.
Follow-Up
Where Do I Go from Here?
Goal Setting
1. Three Goals for My Life
A. B. C.
2. Submitting My Goals to God’s Care and Direction
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Ways I will trust the Lord and lean on Him for understanding to achieve my goals:
Goal A:
Goal B:
Goal C:
Ways I will acknowledge Him to direct my life to achieve my goals:
Goal A:
Goal B:
Goal C:
3. Areas I Need to Work on to Achieve My Goals
Goal A:
Goal B:
Goal C:
4. I Recognize That God’s Purpose for My Life May Change My Goals
Many are the plans in a man’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails (Proverbs 19:21).
My Prayer of Submission:
Memory Verse
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” (Jeremiah 29:11).
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