Westport, CT September 2023

The Style Issue

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September Style

As the summer slooooowwwly cools down, style heats up. There’s no shortage of style in Westport and our September issue shows you the best. Three of our favorite stylists, Lucia Gulbransen, Hannah Spencer, and Michelle Cella offer their fall picks, and Kate Freeman of Encirkled shows us some fabulous jewelry options for your different looks.

A little over a year ago, two moms, Lisa Watkins and Katie Hill, decided to design a handbag around their water bottles. In less than a year, their HydroBags are being sold all over the country and every day brings bigger opportunities. It’s been an amazing, fast-paced, colorful journey.

Milana Barolotta has launched her first ever clothing collection, and it’s as breathtaking and bold as the city that inspired it: NYC. Her production choices are made with a careful eye to the environment and ethical work practices.

We can all make “green” decisions when it comes to clothes, and material and supply chain expert Jaclyn Lindsey-Noble lets us know how we can do that; Westport has many options and programs for lessening the negative impact of clothing production.

Yes, fashion is a tricky business. It’s also incredibly interesting. We asked Wall Street Journal reporter Suzanne Kapner some of our most burning questions, though we could have asked a million more.

And did you know Westport is home to one of the ‘60s most influential cover girls? Pam Barkentin was muse to legendary photographers and helped create the iconography of fashion. We’ve included her fascinating story and images from that important era.

Lastly, Discover Westport rounds it out with a list of dry cleaners, tailors, and shoe repair establishments. The critical businesses for every wardrobe. Enjoy the last days of summer and the first days of a new season!

September 2023

PUBLISHER

Marisa MacLean | marisa.maclean@citylifestyle.com

EDITOR

Robin Moyer Chung | robin.chung@citylifestyle.com

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Caroline C. Barney, Meredith Guiness, Kate Freeman, Lucia Gulbransen, Michelle Cella, Hannah Spencer

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS

Jerri Graham, George Barkentin, Hiro, Ashley Armstrong Skatoff, Peter Leuders

Corporate Team

CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER Steven Schowengerdt

CHIEF OPERATING OFFICER Matthew Perry

VICE PRESIDENT OF SALES Tiffany Slowinski

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DIRECTOR OF FIRST IMPRESSIONS Jennifer Robinson

TECHNICAL DIRECTOR Josh Klein

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Where neighbors can see and be seen.

1: 1st Annual Staples Rugby Golf Tournament. Jeb Boyrer, Jim Boyrer, Oliver Mackinnon, Max Fuld. 2: Jennifer Petrosinelli and Tania Dimian. 3: Chris and Claudine Rossman at the Wreckers “hydration” station. 4: Megan Alexander, Bryan Penwell, Stephen Penwell, Aaron Finnerty. 5: Dylan Germishuys, Mark Ratcliffe, Two Roads representative Ben van der Merwe, Max Murphy. 6: Laurie Brannigan and Marissa Novello. 7: Jim Adrian, Rusty Paparo, Mike Kelley, Ted MacDonald.

1: The Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation’s Walk/Run fundraiser. Anne Quinn Young, Gerrianne Delaney, David Siegel. 2: Susan and Mark Schmidek. 3: Shanna Ceccoli, Annamarie Kealy, Madi Sanford, Joyce Andersen, Paula Fortuna, Luke Ceccoli. 4: Team MC. 5: Running with Derik Dietz. 6: Ted and Gerrianne Delaney. 7: The Wilson Family.

Photography by Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation

1: The unveiling of the Lawrence Langner Literary Landmark. 2: The veil was a piece of the original Playhouse curtain. 3: Eve Langner and Ann Sheffer. 4: Miggs Burroughs presents a lenticular photo of Lawrence Langner. 5: Books on the Beach Season Kickoff with author Avery Carpenter Forrey. 6: Beach readers. 7: Kickoff book.

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1: BOOKED for the Evening at the Westport Library with Laura Linney. Lindsay Czarniak, Robin Moyer Chung and Marisa MacLean. 2: Lesley and John Plotkin. 3: Bill Harmer presenting Laura Linney with BOOKED award. 4: And the crowd goes wild! 5: Front row, listening to tributes to Laura Linney from co-stars. 6: Jennifer Tooker, Laura Linney, Marisa MacLean and Robin Moyer Chung. 7: Christian Siriano and Laura Linney.

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The Surrealist Soirée  at MoCA

The annual benefit is a return to MoCA Westport's (formerly known as the Westport Arts Center) long-standing tradition of presenting legendary celebrations in support of the arts and the Museum.

The evening includes imaginative decor, avant-garde performers, live DJ, and raffle. Guests are encouraged to dress creatively in line with the evening’s surrealist theme. All proceeds directly benefit MoCA Westport.

Saturday, September 30, 2023

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(Pictured: Co-chairs Deborah Murtaugh and Erika Mille)

Photography by Spencer Heyfron

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Destination Westport: In Gatsby’s Shoes

Join us for a walking tour where we discuss New York’s most glamorous couple – the Fitzgeralds – during their time in Westport. Seeking respite from their whirlwind Jazz era lives, the Fitzgeralds set up in an 18th century farmhouse. Scott takes advantage of the quiet to work on his new novel—The Great Gatsby. Saturday, September 2nd, 9:30 a.m.11:00 a.m.

Tickets $20 for members, $25 for nonmembers. Tickets available online at WestportHistory.org

Ellie Kemper Yoga

Beloved yoga instructor to individuals, Staples and college sports teams, former athlete Ellie Kemper is now offering group and private classes. Incorporating meditation, she focuses on proper spinal alignment, using your breath to clear your mind, and creating a positive inner voice to create peace and becoming the best version of yourself.

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Introducing Tide and True Bridal Collection

The Plumed Serpent owner Alison Luciano introduces Tide + True Westport this summer, a collection inspired by the unique aesthetic of her ‘Connecticut brides’. It embodies timeless sophistication and classic style, capturing the essence of the Westport’s beach-life aesthetic. The collection features proven silhouettes, including strapless, V-neck, bateau, and one-shoulder styles in elegant fabrics and covered button finishes. This new bridal collection, named in honor of its hometown and loyal clientele, is exclusively available at The Plumed Serpent.

On June 9, 2023, Lieutenant Governor Susan Bysiewicz, issued an Official Statement to Coleytown Middle

Photography by Joanna Fisher

School’s Coleytown Company in recognition of the phenomenal production, The Lighting Thief:  The Percy Jackson Musical.  Bysiewicz, a strong supporter of the arts, wrote that the students “brought us joy, entertainment, opportunity and a community gathering place.”  Hearty congratulations to the Coleytown Company for their latest achievement and may they continue their tradition of excellence in years to come.

Layz Loungewear

When Westporter Leah Fuld found herself tie-dyeing in her backyard during covid, she fell in love with the vibrant and cheerful colors. She was inspired to create Layz Loungewear, a small business that invites customers to collaborate in the creation of oneof-a-kind tie-dye pieces by selecting their dye colors and custom patches. Her products include loungewear, linens, and accessories. Today, 24-year-old Leah travels the country for trunk shows and events such as Bat Mitzvah’s and bridal shower parties. LayzLoungewear.com

Photography by Julie Taubner

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Catch A Lift 9th Annual Fairfield County event on Monday, September 11

Catch A Lift Fund (CAL), is a national 501(c)(3) non-profit providing U.S. military combat-injured veterans with an array of holistic and individualized methods to heal the whole person— emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Join us September 11th at The Patterson Club to participate in golf or pickleball!.  Not a golfer or racquet player? You can still enjoy dinner, cocktails, and the chance to hear inspirational firsthand accounts from Veterans in the program about their journey. Contact  jdrew@catchaliftfund.com

(Pictured: Catch A Lift Veterans with 4 Star General Stanley McChrystal)

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Super Model, ‘60s-Style

ARTICLE BY ROBIN MOYER CHUNG

PAM BARKENTIN HELPED DEFINE THE IMAGE OF FASHION

Today, the glamour of the fashion industry is often eclipsed by its unreasonable standards of beauty and impropriety.

From Linda Evangelista infamously claiming to “never get out of bed for less than $10,000 a day,” to Bella Hadid admitting ”I was the uglier sister. I was the brunette. I wasn't as cool as Gigi, not as outgoing. That's really what people said about me. And unfortunately, when you get told things so many times, you do just believe it.” Each decade has revealed different layers of fashion’s seamy strata.

But back in the ‘60s, when the industry concretized its ideation, there were few, if any, egos or excess. Westporter Pam Barkentin, then a young model and muse, recalls the time as one of innovation, beauty, and companionship. “Lauren Hutton once called it a ‘sisterhood,’” recalls Pam. “And it really was.”

In many ways, Pam was destined to be a model. Her father, George, grew up in an artistic family; his mother was a playwright, scoring a Tony nomination in 1974 for Ulysses in Nighttown , and his father was a painter.

George became a photographer in the Army. On leave, he attended a party at the famous Tenth Street Studio Building in Greenwich Village and spotted cover girl (“that’s what models were called back then”) Jessica Patton across the room. They married on April 14, 1941.

Jessica, Pam’s mother, was attending the American Academy of Dramatic Arts at that time, and her friends included classmates Lauren Bacall, Kurt Douglas, and Diane Dill. She modeled as a side hustle, soon becoming the top cover girl in the ‘40s, posing for Vogue, Mademoiselle, and more.

Pam's mother, Jessica Patton.

Photographed by Neal Barr for Harpers Bazaar.

Photographed in a floral refrigerator by Francesco Scavullo for Harpers Bazaar.

After the Army, George photographed for Collier’s and Mademoiselle. “He was one of [Mademoiselle magazine’s] favorite photographers. He shot at least half the covers,” says Pam. Then she undertones, “But he probably shot all of them…”

They moved to Westport when Pam was four.

Though Pam loved fashion photography - in the Staples library she poured over photos by Hiro, a man once celebrated as America’s greatest photographer - she decided to pursue acting.

She moved to New York City in the spring of ’62, her senior year at Staples, to take acting classes at night and observe myriad humanity during the day. She was living on her own, George carefully tracking every dollar she spent while paying Pam’s older sister, Perri, $20 a week to take care of her (she didn’t do a great job of that.)

For extra cash, Pam wanted to act in commercials. Jessica ran into photographer Richard Avedon, for whom she had modeled years before, and told him her daughter was interested in commercials.

So Pam went to see Dick a few days later, a 17 year-old girl clutching a manila envelope full of photos of herself. He set up a meeting for “Pammy Barkentin” at Harper’s Bazaar.

On her way back down to the lobby, a small Japanese man boarded the elevator. “Crooked nose, very good,” he exclaimed before introducing himself, to her surprise and delight, as Hiro.

“I worked with him all summer,” Pam muses. “He was a master of design and lighting. I had studied stage make-up the summer before, I loved extreme make-up, and he encouraged me to do it.”

Hiro photographed her for Harper’s Bazaar that summer while she also modeled for her dad.

“To be working with one of the best photographers in the world, the best clothes, the best editors, to me it was like ‘What the hell?’” she smiles.

At this time, the industry was small and supportive, the work collaborative and ground-breaking. Along with Lauren, Pam worked with Ally McGraw, Susan Blakely, and a number of European models. “We were smart, strong, creative women.”

“He was a master of design and lighting. I had studied stage make-up the summer before, I loved extreme make-up, and he encouraged me to do it.”

Pam's photograph of Priscilla Presley.

With Broadway star Joel Gray, photographed by George Barkentin.

Photographed by Arthur Elgort for Mademoiselle.

“When I hear stories now… it wasn’t toxic,” she says of her experience. “It wasn’t about base things like drugs. I had a couple of weird experiences but not with the top photographers, they were masters.”

(To be sure, there are wonderful things happening in today’s fashion and modeling industry. There’s invention, art, largesse, and models empowering and educating other models. No amount of money or exposure can tamp the strong artistic visions of a creative few.)

After 10 years, in 1972, Pam was looking for a new challenge. She considered acting, but grew weary of auditions in which, “they always asked you to take off your clothes.”

Oh, the 1970s…

Instead, she turned to photography, having received an expert education through her work and knowing every art director worth knowing.

She proved to be quite talented and photographed celebrities and personalities such as Dudley Moore (“he played the piano for me”), Patricia Hearst (“There were lots of guidelines about what not to say when I was photographing Patricia… She was actually very easy-going”), and Peter Cook for the likes of Vogue, Self, and of course, Mademoiselle.

@PamBarkentin

“To be working with one of the best photographers in the world, the best clothes, the best editors, to me it was like ‘What the hell?’”

Photographed by Hiro for Harpers Bazaar.

Photographed by Hiro for Harpers Bazaar.

With Broadway star Joel Gray, photographed by George Barkentin.

Photographed by George Barkentin for Harpers Bazaar.

SHE HAPPENS TO LIKE NEW YORK

Milana Bartolotta’s First Collection is All Manhattan

We’re eating lunch in Milana’s home - smoked salmon, sushi, croissants, pastries, and cheese. “Please, eat,” Milana encourages. “It gives me joy to watch people eat.”

And I find the word I’m looking for - joy

Westport resident Milana Bartolotta’s first designer collection: shimmering dresses, intricate and delicate crochet gowns, fire-engine red leather moto-jackets and skirts. Strong details, feminine silhouettes, interesting sleeves and ethereal skirts.  Every piece eliciting joy.

ARTICLE BY ROBIN MOYER CHUNG

Growing up in the Soviet Union, Milana's love for clothes began at age 3. To her mother’s horror, Milana snipped lace from the curtains and skimmed leather from her mother’s coats to create design wear for her dolls.

Her family moved to the US when she was 14. She picked up English quickly and slowly adjusted to the unfamiliar culture of a foreign land.

After college in LA, she moved to NYC to continue studies at FIT, then landed coveted jobs at well-known brands where she honed her design and business skills.

Opposite page: Maxi knitted dress.

Above: Knit long sleeve mini dress with rib neck and back zipper.

Right: Hand knit long sleeves sweater, cropped tow-fer jacket, pleated high-waist skirt with suspenders.

This, her first personal collection, is an homage to New York City, a testament to the vitality and industry of her favorite city. “By embracing the spirit of New York, we celebrate the multifaceted beauty of femininity and present it through fashion that transcends boundaries.”

Everything is made-to-order in NYC, except for the crochet dresses. For these, she hires skilled Ukrainian women who are retired or on

Above: Designer Milana Bartolotta (Photo: Olga Prodka @olgaprudka; Jewelry: Feather & Foxglove @featherandfoxglove)

Right: Lantern sleeves skater mini dress. Opposite page: Double breasted midi coat with layered look sleeves.

pregnancy leave. “This partnership allows me to produce hand-knitted garments of the highest quality craftsmanship while providing opportunity to women who would otherwise not be able to earn a living,” she explains. Then adds, “You can’t believe how much math is required for one of these!”

She uses dead-stock fabrics and leathers from luxury brands to eliminate excess, and the highest quality materials, so her garments can be passed down through generations.

“One of my missions is to contribute my part to helping revive NYC Garment District, and with it, revive its timeless culture that so deeply aligns with mine.”

MilanaBartolotta.com

Strappy ball gown with wrap around attached belt.

Right: Sweetheart neckline sheath midi dress.

ARTICLE BY ROBIN MOYER CHUNG

Autumn Style Finds

Outfit Ideas from Three Top Local Stylists

LUCIA’S STYLE:

I would describe my personal style as classic, modern, and polished. I am most comfortable in tailored clothing and I love to wear color.

WOMEN SHOULD AVOID:

Adopting trends that do not work for them and wearing clothes that do not fit and flatter their body type and current lifestyle.

WHERE TO START THE OUTFIT:

The first step is to understand what you’re dressing for (events, venues, weather). Then select one statement piece and use that as inspiration to build the rest of your look.

1. Bottega Veneta Monsieur Pump: SaksFifthAvenue.com

2. Nina Ricci Buttoned Leather Midi-Skirt: SaksFifthAvenue.com

3. Balmain Pinstriped Metallic Wool-Blend Garadine Vest: Net-a-Porter.com

4. Bottega Veneta Sardine Bag: BottegaVeneta.com

5. A.L.C. Brie Wide Baggy Cargo Pants: BergdorfGoodman.com

6. Dries Van Noten  Salbina Floral-Print Midi Skirt with Metallic Leather Trim: BergdorfGoodman.com

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Lucia Gulbransen Lucia Gulbransen Styling

1 Goldsign The Edgar Pleated High-Rise-Wide-Leg- Jean: Net-a-Porter.com

2 Milana Bartolotta Johnny Classic Moto Jacket: MilanaBartolotta.com

3. Burberry Cropped Trench Jacket: Burberry.com

4 Paco Rabanne Satin Midi-Dress with Side Button Detail: BergdorfGoodman.com

5 Manolo Blahnik Red Suede Pump: Net-a-Porter.com

6. Saint Lauren Icare Maxi Shopping Bag in Qulted Lambskin: YSL.com

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HANNAH’S STYLE:

An edgy take on everyday fashion. Both a minimalist and a maximalist. I love the challenge of taking a simple item of clothing and wearing it in tons of different ways!

STYLE ADVICE FOR WOMEN AND MEN:

Fit and color. The way clothing fits your body is everything. It’ll make or break you. Don’t buy a smaller size just to satisfy your need to feel skinnier. The right color combination can also completely transform your outfit, and generate new options that increases your use for those items!

WHERE TO START THE OUTFIT:

I often start with bottoms. Do you want to wear pants, jeans, a skirt, etc? Once you determine the bottom, think about shoes. How do your shoes interact with your bottom choice? Then move on to the top and make sure to balance the top and bottom portions of your ‘fit.

1. Blue Sapphire & Diamond Evil Eye Pendant Necklace, 14K Gold: Bloomingdales.com

2. R13 Patti Wide Neck Crop Sweatshirt: Nordstrom.com

3. Frame + NET SUSTAIN organic linen-blend high-rise straight-leg cargo trousers, Sand: Net-a-Porter.com

4 Rag & Bone Addison Fine-Knit Beanie, Turtledove: SaksFifthAvenue.com

5 Chloé + NET SUSTAIN Sense embroidered leather bucket bag, Black: Net-a-Porter.com

6 Proenza Schouler textured-leather combat boots, Black: LuisaViaRoma.com

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Hannah Spencer StyleD by Hannah

1 Mens: Oliver Peoples Desmon Sunglasses: FRWD.com

2 Mens: James Perse Recycled Cashmere Sweater, Stone: MrPorter.com

3. Mens: Genus Model GNS 1 TD, Courtesy of @onlybuyingtime: GoldsmithComplications.com

4 Mens: Bugatchi Suede Zip Bomber, Cobalt: Nordstrom.com

5 Mens: AG Everett Straight Fit Jeans, 8 Years Seville: AGJeans.com

6. Mens: Axel Arigato Orbit Vintage Sneakers, Navy: AxelArigato.com

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MICHELLE’S STYLE:

My personal style is best described as classic chic mixed with a rock edge.  I love to start with a classic piece, then layer in an unexpected twist like a concert tee, something with studs, rhinestones, or a biker jacket.

HER CUSTOMER:

My customer is a mom who is feeling stuck in a fashion rut. A woman who is no longer enjoying getting dressed, feeling unhappy with her body or just feeling overwhelmed trying to navigate so many fashion trends.

STYLE ADVICE:

The biggest mistake people make when dressing themselves is to create so many rules and restrictions about what they wear. So many women I work with decide something won’t look good on them without even trying it on, leaving them with a closet of all the exact same looking pieces.

1. Parrish LA 100% Cashmere The Journey V Neck Sweater: WEST Westport

2. Texas Denim Pencil Skirt in Dark Grey: TheFrankieShop.com

3. Marfa Croc-Embossed Leather Knee-High Boot in Bordeaux: Khaite.com

4. Prada Large Top Stitch Shoulder Bag in Black: Mitchells Westport

5. Jennifer Fisher Double Twisted Lily Huggies: Penfield Collective Westport

6. Golden Goode Double-Breasted Handpainted Chevron Wool Trench Coat: BergdorfGoodman.com

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Michelle Cella

1. Madeworn Vintage Inspired Led Zeppelin Tee Shirt: WEST Westport

2 Acne Studios Single Breasted Suit Jacket: Net-a-Porter.com

3 Acne Studios Tailored Flared Trousers: Net-a-Porter.com

4. Toteme-Studio The City Boot in Black: Toteme-Studio.com

5 Celine Square S255 Sunglasses in Acetate-Black: Specs Westport

6 Natural/Pure White Frayme Alter Python Tote Bag: StellaMcCartney.com

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What a WanderFull World

Two Stay-at-Home Moms Kickstart a Successful Business

ARTICLE BY ROBIN MOYER CHUNG

Here’s one for all of you moms who opted to give up your careers to raise your family.

It’s the story of WanderFull, the HydroBag that’s making waves in handbags, a sector unnoted for innovation. Nevertheless…

Years ago (but not too many years ago) Katie Hill and Lisa Watkins were moms at Kings Highway. They met over dinner one night, bonding over the deaths of their young fathers from cancer.

That’s sad, but there’s a point: In looking back at this dinner, each insists, “Our dads brought us together.”

The two chaired KHS’s Halloween-inspired Pumpkin Palooza for several years, one of the school’s largest fundraisers at that time. Lisa and Katie’s paloozas’ rocked, loudly - kids loved it, parents freebased Advil - and raised thousands of dollars. Their collaboration made them realize “We worked really well together.”

After, they often mused about starting a business, knocking around ideas, but it was never the right time.

Until it was.

Last year Lisa signed up for an Amazon FBA course. Katie decided to do it with her.

They brainstormed products they could sell, but nothing stuck. One day Katie bemoaned the lack of

cute ways to carry a water bottle. A passionate proponent of hydration who used to be a buyer for Saks Fifth Avenue, she recalled the wildly expensive and insufficient water-bottle bags swaying from the shoulders of models on fashion week runways.

Lisa demurred - “A water bottle bag? Is that really necessary?” she thought as she stuck a 32 oz bottle of water in her computer bag.

The bottle leaked, drenching the contents of her bag and destroying her laptop. She heard the universe remark: Uh… yeah it’s a good idea.

Thus manifested the zygote of the stylish, reasonably priced bag for a bottle of water, iPhone, wallet, and everything else you need (except for a laptop, but they now have larger hydro-totes for that.)

Reception was positive; people loved the fun, colorful bags. A woman in Long Island consistently ordered hundreds which she sold in her pop-up shops.

As we sit in Katie’s living room, both women laughingly recount what happened next.

“She’s the queen of analogies,” Katie says of Lisa, who turns to Katie and asks, “Can I say my analogy?”

Katie nods.

“I’m the explorer, forging ahead into unknown territory,” Lisa explains. “[Katie] holds me back.

Katie and Lisa at their first pop-up.

Colorful HydroBags

Katie smiles in agreement.

They launched in March ’22. In addition to Amazon, they planned to work the pop-up shop circuit and popped up their first shop that May.

Conceding the pop was “good for consumer research,” after one day of standing outside in the cold, Lisa was, like, “Hell no. If I’m going to stand all day it’s going to be at the Javits.”

They ran the numbers and it worked.

So in August ’22, months after their first shipment of bags, they found themselves swamped with store- and business-owners wanting to sell their HydroBags.

“We felt like Cinderella at the ball,” recalls Katie. They didn’t have time to eat, and the event organizers took their photos and interviewed them as representatives of a Javits success story.

Other exhibitors complained about the lackluster turn-out of buyers, wondering if they’d even make back the fee they’d spent to be there. But by noon the first day, WanderFull had recouped the exhibit fee, and there were 3 1/2 more days to go.

They came away from the show with orders to sell product in over 100 stores across the country.

“I thought, ‘This is serious.’” Says Lisa

Katie exclaims, “I have the old Katie back!”

This whirlwind of success culminated in a hurricane of work. Katie spent long days sourcing product while boxes and boxes of bags landed at Lisa’s home. Friends, neighbors, husbands, and offspring frantically packed up orders. The friendly folks at UPS picked up hundreds of boxes from Lisa’s front hall each day. There were boxes piled in the living room, in the garage, in the office.

Of the 38,000 units sold as of the time of this writing, 70% were shipped from Lisa’s home. Thankfully, they now have a professional warehouse in Indiana.

I’m forbidden to include some of the heavy-hitters who’ll soon be stocking WanderFull bags - which now includes belt bags, totes, doubles, and more.

However, I am happy to write they’ve been featured on GMA two times, Today, and are in talks with HSN and a really important media personality. They’re on target to double their projections for 2023 and are doubling their projections for year two.

Almost every day brings new opportunities. “There are so many roads to Rome,” states Lisa, and we are exploring the best route for us.”

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When I drop my inhaler or forget my passport, Katie is behind me picking up the details I miss.”

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WSJ REPORTER SUZANNE KAPNER ANSWERS OUR RETAIL QUESTIONS

Westport resident Suzanne Kapner (SK) has been a Wall Street Journal reporter for the retail and fashion industry for the past 12 years:  some of the most tumultuous and innovative time in retail history. Covering everything from fast fashion to consignment, bankruptcy to brick and mortar, high tech to Kanye West.

WLM : WHY DID YOU BECOME A RETAIL JOURNALIST?

SK : My career in journalism has allowed me to combine two of my passions, fashion and writing. I was a fashion design major my freshman year of college at Syracuse University. I won best designer that year for a suit I made. It’s navy blue wool with a magenta lining. I still have it. My sophomore year, I transferred to the S.I. Newhouse School of Public Communications at Syracuse and majored in journalism. I’ve been writing about fashion and the retail industry ever since.

WLM: HOW HAVE FASHION TRENDS CHANGED IN THE ERAS OF E-COMMERCE, SOCIAL MEDIA, INFLUENCERS, AND FAST FASHION?

SK : The legacy top down hierarchy of designers and fashion editors arbitrating what people wear has given way to a bottom up movement where influencers and other forms of social media set the trends. This democratization of fashion means that anyone can be front row at runway shows with a click of their computer mouse. Fast fashion chains make the latest designs accessible to the masses within weeks. And people can shop from the comfort of their couch.

WLM : HOW HAS THE BUSINESS OF FASHION CHANGED AS A RESULT OF THESE NEW DEVELOPMENTS?

SK : Companies are crowdsourcing ideas for new products and trends on social media platforms like TikTok. At the same time, they are paying influencers to be their brand ambassadors, while speeding up their production cycles to better compete with fast fashion chains and tap into the buy now, wear now movement. E-commerce has allowed startups to take share from traditional players and forced the behemoths to rethink their business models, including how many stores to operate and where to locate them. But the pendulum is starting to swing back in the other direction, as online brands open bricks-and-mortar stores of their own and sell their goods in department stores they initially shunned.

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: IS SUSTAINABLE FASHION IMPACTING THE INDUSTRY IN ANY MEANINGFUL WAY?

SK : The biggest impact so far of sustainability is the rise of the resale market. It used to be that shopping for secondhand goods meant sifting through piles of clothes at the local Goodwill or a neighbor’s garage sale. Today, it’s as easy as hailing an Uber or renting a room through Airbnb. Bargain hunting, environmental concerns and the sharing economy have erased the stigma of used goods at the same time technology has made thrift shopping more accessible, reliable and cool. Brands are also starting to use more environmentally friendly fabrics and manufacturing techniques. But it's hard for consumers to separate what’s real from the green-washing.

WLM : HOW WILL AI AFFECT THE INDUSTRY?

SK : Retailers are starting to use AI to offer better product recommendations to customers, track their inventory and process returns. AI’s impact will continue to grow over time.

WLM : LASTLY, HOW DO CLOTHING BRANDS DETERMINE PRICE POINT, AND ARE THE HIGHER PRICES LEGIT OR A GATING FACTOR FOR THEIR IDEAL CUSTOMER?

SK : In the simplest form, brands take a markup on their costs, typically around 50% or even more for luxury goods. These days, technology is playing a bigger role in setting prices. Companies can adjust prices in real time based on sales or the competitive landscape. This is known as dynamic pricing. The inflationary pressures ushered in by the pandemic have pushed up prices for a range of goods across industries. Brands that are hot have the most pricing power and many luxury brands are taking advantage of this by raising prices exponentially. They are known as Veblen goods - status symbols for which demand increases as the price increases.

WSJ reporter Suzanne Kapner.

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“The legacy top down hierarchy of designers and fashion editors arbitrating what people wear has given way to a bottom up movement where influencers and other forms of social media set the trends.”

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WHAT’S IN STYLE THIS FALL? SUSTAINABILITY!

I’m a terrible shopper. I’ve no idea what I’m doing. I rely on friends and my daughters (and their friends) to get through. Why? Every time I try to go it alone, I end up returning what I bought after my teenagers scoff at me (and yes – I do mean scoff).

Full confession, because why not? We’re all neighbors here. Not too long ago a friend came over and made me take maternity pants out of my closet (my youngest is 16). I also had an abnormal number of sweater twin sets from the 90s. I think I’ve said enough.

So… the idea of talking fashion and shopping with you, well, that’s a situation! My solution? Do what I always do: ask friends!

Enter Professor Jaclyn Lindsey-Noble, materials and supply chain expert who focuses on sustainable sourcing for the fashion industry, a professor at FIT and Fairfield University’s School of Business, and lucky us, a Westport resident.

Why Jaclyn? Well, first, her bio is insane with 30+ years in the apparel industry. Second, she’s fun. Third, she sees fashion through a lens of sustainability that really speaks to me . I can shop in a way that’s better for the earth? I’m intrigued. Sounds like a perfect reason to guilt-free run the credit card (n’est-ce pas?).

Jaclyn introduced me to a whole new way of seeing fashion, shopping, and my role in being gentler on our environment. “Consumers can play a huge part in helping the fashion industry when it comes to sustainability,” says Jaclyn. “By requiring brands to adopt new strategies that prioritize reducing, reusing and recycling garments and textile waste, consumers have the power to make change happen. We all have choices about where and what we buy and use. It’s up to us to use those choices wisely.”

These choices matter, as the issues facing the fashion industry are daunting: an estimated 100,000 billion garments produced globally every year and forecasted to triple by 2050.

With less than 1% of clothing currently recycled, an estimated 90 million tons of textile waste ends up in landfills each year, most of which impacts developing countries. Microplastic pollution, caused by fibers shed from synthetic materials during laundry, also poses additional risks to our health and ecosystems.

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Simultaneously, sustainable solutions must include improving labor conditions and ensuring fair wages for millions of individuals working within the industry and impacted by the rise of fast, cheap fashion.

USING OUR CONSUMER POWER TO HELP CHANGE THE ENVIRONMENT.

Ready to stroll down Main Street.

It turns out that we are buying 60% more than we did in 2000 and it's estimated that 20% of the clothing in our wardrobe is never worn (are sweater sets back yet?). It’s time to do things differently and it turns out that we have some great options here in Westport.

“Start with your own closet,” Jaclyn tells me. “What can you donate, upcycle (think repair), and recycle before you add more?”

This one was easy for me because, as I previously confessed, an intervention had already been staged in my closet. Unused, ill-fitting clothes had been donated or recycled. Am I killing it at sustainability yet?

“Next, embrace resale and reuse,” Jaclyn says.

Let the shopping begin!

It would be no lie to say that I have bought donuts from Coffee An’ at least 8 billion times (if you haven’t eaten these donuts you’re crazy), yet on all of those visits, I never stopped

at Cloud Nine Designer Consignments next door. I was missing out! Wanting to nail this fashion-focused situation and keep clothes out of landfills, I jumped on the chance to have Jaclyn show me how it’s done by visiting this fabulous store.

Here’s where I dragged along the younger humans. They just make everything more fun and, let’s face it, with modeling clothes on the agenda, if social media has taught them nothing else, it’s how to strike a pose.

The store’s owner, Cindy Burdo, welcomed our eclectic crew, helped style us, and before I knew it, the girls looked so fabulous they could be on the cover of Rolling Stones magazine (I know…I’m biased here). And Jaclyn was ready with outfits for a stroll down Main Street, a meeting at work, or a night out.

The punchline – we love our new clothes, shopped locally, had a blast, and now understand our roles as consumers a little bit differently. And if consignment stores don’t have what

“BY REQUIRING BRANDS TO ADOPT NEW STRATEGIES THAT PRIORITIZE REDUCING, REUSING AND RECYCLING GARMENTS AND TEXTILE WASTE, CONSUMERS HAVE THE POWER TO MAKE CHANGE HAPPEN.”

Materials and Supply Chain expert, Professor Jaclyn Lindsey-Noble.

I’m looking for, I’m going to take Jaclyn’s advice and use my spending dollars to influence the change I want to see by purchasing from sustainable brands.

Many retail stores in Westport fit this bill (pun intended). They support sustainability efforts through a combination of responsible design, reuse, recycle, repurpose and rental options.

“I’ve witnessed the relentless pace of fast fashion and how textiles have become one of the largest polluters in the world,” says Jaclyn. I’m using my experience and voice to be part of change in this industry. A change that we all can be part of as customers. When we ‘buy better’ we support those in the sector who are responsibly caring for our world and that is how lasting change is made, one person at a time.”

Thank you, Jaclyn, Cindy and the sustainable brands in town for taking steps to love this beautiful world with the choices you make. I’m now on this bandwagon with you too. Anyone else want to join us?

You can see why I brought the younger humans right?

Art of the pose at Cloud Nine Consignments with Sami Dewitt, Madeline Barney, Reilly McGeehan, and Cat Graham.

Sustainable Brands

• Patagonia is a world leader in sustainable apparel, recycled materials, return and repair services and lifetime guarantees.

• Eileen Fisher is committed to using sustainable materials and paying workers a living wage.

• Unsubscribe offers repurposed, reused, and sustainable clothing.

• Theory has the consciously designed Good Collection.

• Splendid is introducing recycled cashmere for Fall 2023.

• Vince has a subscription-based rent-return-repeat service (Unfold).

• Madewell will take your preloved jeans (any brand) for recycling and home insulation and give you $20 off a new pair of jeans.

• Lululemon accepts gently used Lululemon items in exchange for an e-gift.

• Urban Outfitters offers Urban Renewal products that focus on repurposed, remade and one-of-a-kind vintage.

• Athleta is B-corp certified with a commitment to positive environmental impact to both products and people.

• Barbour has waterproof products sourced without hazardous substances.

• Brouchu Walker uses certified Responsible Wool for their cashmere and supports water restoration initiatives in communities throughout the USA.

• Marine Layers has eco-friendly tees with up to a $5 credit per t-shirt. Their goal is to divert 900,000 tees from landfill by 2025.

• Vuori has a climate neutral pledge that is worth the read.

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Kate Freeman’s Local Style Picks

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1. A blazer is always fall’s most stylish and versatile staple.  This navy Frame blazer with frayed edges has enough details to keep it interesting.  West2Westport.com

2. One-of a-kind layered gemstone necklaces add texture and sparkle to your “neck stack.”  These tonal beauties from Encirkled will pair with many different fall looks. Encirkled.com

3. Show off your jewelry by pairing your blazer with a silky cami, like this one from Zadig & Voltaire.  West2Westport.com

4. Go from errands to lunch with delicate diamonds. Try a necklace that features diamonds in the front only since no one sees them behind your mane.  Encirkled.com

5. Balance this fall ‘fit with slouchy R13 boyfriend jeans. Style and comfort combined! West2Westport.com

6. Add a charm or pendant to your look as the finishing touch. This Heart Pocket from Auroro is made with gemstones you can customize, and it can even stow a secret. ShopAuroro.com

1. Mix up your outfits to get more versatility and value from timeless pieces.  Throw the Frame blazer over this stunning L’Agence slip dress for effortless nighttime glam. Mitchells.com

2. For an edgier look, swap the blazer for this leather jacket from All Saints (that your teen will want to steal!).  Nordstrom.com

3. Vintage solid gold is a luxe way to elevate your evenings out and is eco-friendly too.  Pile it all on or choose one special piece.  There are many small Instagram shops that source amazing one-of-a-kind pieces. Try @OldGoldGangster or @MatisseTradingInc

4. Go for neutral gemstone strands when your look is all about color.  This Black Tie Gemstone necklace adds texture and interest while letting you and your dress shine.  Encirkled.com

5. Forget dainty diamonds and instead go all out after dark. Get bang for your buck with an illusion set diamond necklace like this She’s in Love Graduated Illusion Necklace. AshleighBergman.com

6. Maximalism is in! Add sparkle to your toes with Mach & Mach’s incredible heels. These Double Bow Glittered-Leather Slingback Pumps will turn heads every time you wear them. Net-a-Porter.com

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Anabelle Melendez was working in retail when the pandemic hit. Like everyone else, she hunkered down at home, wondering what kind of career landscape she’d find when it was safe to come out again.

As our ‘new normal’ took hold by mid-2022, the mother of three sons signed up for The WorkPlace’s Health Career Academy, eager to become a community health worker.

“It was the right choice. I loved it,” the Bridgeport resident says of the 10-week training program. “I really got hooked on the classes.”

But there was one problem. She needed a wardrobe that reflected and projected her newfound skills and confidence to potential employers –like those at Optimus Health Care, where she had snagged an interview.

“I didn’t have business clothes. I didn’t know how to accessorize for that,” she says. “I didn’t have the experience of what to wear.”

Enter Dress for Success Mid-Fairfield County. Armed with a referral for a free consultation and interview ensemble, Anabelle met with volunteers and quickly learned why they say clothes make the woman. After trying on a few options – finding a chic black jacket and slacks and two pretty blouses with a pop of red and purple – she left ready to turn the spotlight on herself.

“A stylist works with the clients and it’s a learning process,” she says. “But you feel more confident. You feel like you can conquer anything.”

The mission of Dress for Success is both simple and profound, says Michelle Artis, director of the Mid-Fairfield County affiliate. While more than 70 referral agencies, including human services

organizations and shelters, refer women to the Bridgeport-based affiliate for professional attire to wear to job interviews, what the women gain far exceeds a sharp-looking suit and a pair of heels.

Upon stepping through the door, each client becomes part of a network of support, receiving the development tools and encouragement to help her thrive in both work and life. They receive free career guidance, technology skills and job-seeking support, including interview prep and financial literacy and leadership training. The goal is self-sufficiency, giving women tools to seek out more resources themselves and, ultimately, develop and advance their careers.

About 400 women take advantage of the local affiliate’s services each year – more than 10,000 since it opened its doors in 1998, notes Michelle, who was tapped to run the local boutique and other programs after working at The WorkPlace for 2.5 years. With a long background in retail management, including stints at cosmetics counters, she understands how to work with women to make sure they feel their best when going into an interview or starting a first week on the job.

After the stay-at-home COVID years of nonjudgmental yoga pants, many women come in with a false sense of their own size, she says. Volunteer “suiters,” many of whom are former teachers and businesswomen, help them choose pieces that are both becoming and allow for freedom of movement.

“You don’t want to be distracted thinking about your clothes,” Michelle advises. “If you make sure a shirt is not too tight, you can feel confident to give that firm handshake.”

“A lot goes into it, but this job is everything I love to do wrapped up in a ball. And it’s women helping women feel their best.”

That kind of attention to detail and respect for clients started in 1996, when law student Nancy Lublin received a $5,000 inheritance from her great-grandfather and decided to turn it into an enduring gift for others. Teaming up with three nuns in her area, she founded Dress for Success in the basement of a Manhattan church. Today there are 140+ affiliates in 24 countries.

Dress for Success Mid-Fairfield’s gently used clothing comes from businesswomen from Westport, Stamford, Greenwich and communities and many pieces are high-end name brands. All the organization asks is that the pieces be recently cleaned and hung on hangers, ready for display.

Volunteer “sorters” go through the donations, weeding out anything that might not be suitable for a typical office or workplace.

Each client receives both a new outfit and the shoes, handbag and accessories to complete her look. Once she accepts a job, she can bring her hire letter to the boutique and choose six more mix-andmatch outfits for the first few weeks of employment.

Between word of mouth and the publicity Dress for Success MId-Fairfield County receives, the organization is able to go beyond the ensemble. Shelton-based law firm Berkowitz and Hanna regularly donates totes filled with toiletries and hygiene products and Subway has offered clients $10 gift

“A stylist works with the clients and it’s a learning process, but you feel more confident. You feel like you can conquer anything.”

Client Anabelle Melendez of Bridgeport was a featured speaker at Dress for Success' annual Purse-suit of Success fundraiser.

cards – perfect for grabbing lunch with new co-workers.

The annual Purse-suit of Success fundraiser held at waterfront Boca Oyster Bar in Bridgeport this year featured a silent auction with a Dooney & Bourke bag and Target recently donated a day of shopping for Michelle’s team that netted coveted larger-size shoes and 24 pairs of staple black pants.

The results are myriad. For Anabelle, Dress for Success means she can focus her attention on the many children and families she works with throughout her day, assisting them with the food, housing and other resources they need to lead healthy, productive lives.

“Bills don’t wait. The rent doesn’t wait,” she says. “It’s very rewarding. It makes my day putting smiles on faces.”

Michelle says she doesn’t know who is more grateful at Dress for Success – the staff and volunteers, the clients or the people who benefit from the clients’ newfound inner confidence and skill.

“A lot goes into it, but this job is everything I love to do wrapped up in a ball. And it’s women helping women feel their best,” Michelle says. “I love making people feel good. And with a perfect outfit, you can stand up a little straighter.”

The partnerships don’t end with a job offer.  Dress for Success MId-Fairfield County has a Professional Women's Group (PWG) that offers networking events, mentoring opportunities and workshops to help women advance in their careers and maintain long-term economic independence.

“Sometimes it takes a village,” Michelle says of Anabelle and other clients. “Now we’re part of her village.”

Michelle Artis in the Dress for Success boutique.

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Finding Confidence, Joy, and Meaning

SELF!SH BY STEPHANIE SZOSTAK

A LITTLE BIT ABOUT ME

Growing up, two of my most significant teachers were my dad and my brother. My dad taught me that the quality of my thoughts affected my performance—in life and, most importantly, on the golf course. “One shot at a time,” he’d remind me again and again to keep me focused on the present moment. My older brother didn’t give two turds about golf. He was a Rastafari, and a rebel. He taught me to be independent-minded and to not follow the herd. He questioned everything and saw the world in unique ways. He also made me aware at a very young age of the complexities of the human mind, as I saw him struggling to fit in and battle his heroin addiction. He died much too young at twenty-eight years old, and he continues to inspire me every day.

An excerpt from Stephanie Szostak's new book, Self!sh

“I incorporated new daily rituals into my life that worked for me—gratitude, meditation, and journaling. I learned new skills that helped me not only with my confidence and mental health but also gave me a new outlook on life—a new sense of purpose and meaning—that was bigger than my career and bigger than me.”

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Author Stephanie Szostak

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FASCINATED BY THE MIND

I wanted to be a social worker when I started college, to help kids like my brother. But instead, I did the more practical and predictable thing: studied business and graduated with a marketing degree. I landed in fabulous NYC, in the glamorous world of fashion at Chanel—this corporate cubical stint wasn’t quite the right fit for me BUT it ended up being a great dry run for what was on the horizon. At the age of twenty-nine, I followed a quiet but persistent inner voice and signed up for my first-ever acting class. It was a theater studio in New York City and it was serious work. There were working actors and students. Twice a week, I’d watch them put up scenes of plays I’d never heard of and slip in and out of themselves. They made it seem so simple, so natural. The playfulness, the physicality, the freedom, the pain, the exploration, I was blown away by it all. It took me weeks to get my butt off my chair and get on stage and when I finally did, I lasted no more than a minute. “Stop!” my teacher bellowed, “I don’t believe a word you’re saying!” She sent my scene partner back to his seat and laid into me for what seemed to be an eternity. She crushed me. The audacity I had thinking I was ready to work, thinking I could waltz myself into “acting” just because I wanted to. The disregard I had for the craft. The incapacity I had at standing on my two feet. The permanent smile on my face—“Is what I’m saying funny to you?” she asked. I shook my head no. She humiliated me. She pissed me off. She hurt me. But she woke me up to my pretending, to a part of myself I had buried deep inside of me. I knew I had to do this. I knew I had found my passion (and my teacher!). So, I didn’t become a social worker. I only “play pretend” for a living, but still, as an actress, I get to dig into the psyche of characters, even if only fictional, and try to understand why they do the things they do and think the things they think. Why do they get in their own way and not necessarily do what serves them best? How ironic is it then that a decade after I started my acting career after making my way from independent movies to playing Jacqueline Follet opposite Meryl Streep in The Devil Wears Prada, I had to dig into my own psyche and figure out why my mind was undermining my confidence, my joy, and my well-being?

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LOSING MY WAY

“That sucked. They’re gonna think it sucked. They’re gonna think I suck. I do suck. What am I doing here? I don’t belong here. I’m gonna get fired.” That was my inner dialogue on the set of my first lead role in a major studio film, Dinner for Schmucks. I was flooded with self-doubt. My inner dialogue was toxic. I felt like an outsider. Like a complete beginner. I lost my way. There I was, being handed the opportunity to work with comedic icons Paul Rudd and Steve Carell, and I lost my ability to trust, play, and let go. I completely lost my confidence and I didn’t have the tools to shake off the mental chatter and recalibrate.

LEARNING NEW WAYS

My mother told me that her forties were her best decade. She said that, for her, it was when she finally knew who she was and didn’t care what other people thought. Well, I was forty and I was longing for a whole lot of that. I had some learning to do and began DIGGING into books, podcasts, and online courses. I incorporated new daily rituals into my life that worked for me—gratitude, meditation, and journaling. I learned new skills that helped me not only with my confidence and mental health but also gave me a new outlook on life—a new sense of purpose and meaning—that was bigger than my career and bigger than me. I got a clearer idea of what kind of life I wanted to live and who I was. I got a Mindset Makeover....

BUT THE CHALLENGE REMAINED....

How would I remember all this guidance? How could I give it staying power? I heard the psychologist and grit expert, Angela Duckworth, explain on the Finding Mastery podcast how she can “help people make plans to change and make differences in their lives but—Why doesn’t it stick? Why isn’t it accumulating?” That is precisely the WHY behind The Self!sh Playbook.

Excerpted from (c) 2023 Published by Post Hill Press. Used with permission.

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Tailor, Clean, and Repair

WHERE TO GO FOR APPAREL UPKEEP

All clothes (and shoes!) need care! For the September Style issue, DiscoverWestportCT.com has rounded up a list of great tailors, dry-cleaners, and shoe repair places to keep your wardrobe looking its best.

STEPHEN KEMPSON | LONDON

Located by the Saugatuck River Bridge, Stephen Kempson is a pioneer in the personal tailoring industry. For over 20 years Stephen has tailored for leaders across industries and for men and women right at home.

StephenKempson.com | 5 Post Road West

DEAN CLEANERS OF WESTPORT

For over 30 years Dean Cleaners of Westport has been a go-to spot for elite tailoring services, state-of-the-art cleaning, and wedding gown preservation services.

(203) 227-0405 | 415 Post Road West

FINAL TOUCH CLEANERS

Run by a certified family of award-winning spotters and dry cleaners, Final Touch Cleaners has provided maintenance magic to the town for several decades. While operating under an eco-friendly business model, the Kang family provides restoration and alteration services.

(203) 227-1079 | 1031 Post Rd East

WESTFAIR SHOE REPAIR

No clothing ensemble is complete without a maintained set of shoes. For over 65 years this classic Westport repair shop has provided top-notch customer service, specializing in shoe and leather repair.

(203) 259-5587 | 1789 Post Rd East

MAGIC CLEANERS & TAILORING

Located in a prime spot on Post Road, Magic Cleaners & Tailoring offers every type of tailoring and restyling service you may need. They also offer curbside pickup/drop-off.

(203) 454-2098 | 1366 Post Rd East

MITCHELLS

Mitchells is an iconic Westport boutique that offers high-quality clothing and shoes for men and women, as well as tailoring services.

Shop.Mitchellstores.com | 670 Post Road East

WESTPORT CLEANERS

When you combine dry cleaning, alterations, delivery, and same day service all in one stop, you get Westport Cleaners!

Westport-Cleaners.Business.Site | 391 Post Road East

MINUTE MEN CLEANERS-LAUNDERERS

The name is a reference to American soldiers during the Revolutionary War who were known for being ready at a minute’s notice. Minute Men Cleaners provides efficient cleaning and tailoring services.

(203) 227-6153 | 600 Riverside Avenue

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events

A curated selection of the most intriguing upcoming events in our area.

SEPTEMBER 5TH

Verso University: History of Jazz Series

WESTPORT LIBRARY | 11:00 AM

Jazz is an American-born art form that reflects, as Duke Ellington once said, “Freedom in Sound.”  It is an art of improvisation based on African-American roots and is one of America’s greatest cultural innovations. This four class program, 11a.m. - 12 p.m., will trace the evolution of this dynamic musical force in American life, from its early roots to the modern era. WestportLibrary.org

SEPTEMBER 5TH

Wakeman Town Farm Summer Parent and Me Classes

WAKEMAN TOWN FARM | 10:00 AM

Join us at the Farm for one hour of quality time with your child later this summer. This parent me class offers the opportunity for parents and children to connect with others in the community. Time will be spent outdoors interacting with Farm animals and exploring our gardens. Come snuggle with our young lambs and goats! We can’t wait to see you! WakemanTownFarm.org

SEPTEMBER 9TH

Music in the Meadow w/ Stella Blue's Band

LACHAT TOWN FARM, 106 GODFREY ROAD WEST, WESTON | 6:00 PM

To close out this year's Music in the Meadow series, we're very pleased to announce the return of Stella Blue's Band, Lachat favorites, and the region's premier torchbearers of Grateful Dead Music on Saturday, September 9 from 6 to 9 p.m. LachatTownFarm.org

SEPTEMBER 10TH

The Music of Shakespeare's Plays

WESTPORT LIBRARY | 2:00 PM

The internationally acclaimed Ensemble Chaconne transports the audience to Shakespeare’s world with Measure for Measure: The Music of Shakespeare’s Plays. The concert features music by leading composers of Shakespeare’s time (Robert Johnson, Thomas Morley, John Dowland, and others) with songs from As You Like It, Twelfth Night, The Winter’s Tale, The Tempest, Hamlet, Othello, and Macbeth. WestportLibrary.org

SEPTEMBER 16TH

Mock Colonial Wedding

WESTPORT MUSEUM FOR HISTORY AND CULTURE | 5:00 PM

Join us for an exclusive wedding from the past! Our couple will be dressed in their finest 1770s garb with authentic vows from the period. Experience how a ceremony from the past both differs and rings true compared to today.

Refreshments and a toast will accompany dancing after the ceremony. Tickets are $50 for non-members, and $40 for members. Register online at WestportHistory.org

SEPTEMBER 17TH

Callas: The Life and Career of an Opera Legend

WESTPORT LIBRARY | 2:00 PM

Filmmaker (and Staples HS graduate) Christopher Murray presents an overview of his Limited Series for television in development, “CALLAS,” a biopic based on the turbulent life and career of opera legend, Maria Callas.

Few are aware that this phenomenal talent began life with profound disadvantages. Yet by relentless perseverance, she overcame daunting adversities to reach the pinnacle of her profession, esteemed by millions as one of the most famous women in the world.

EVENTS CONTINUED

SEPTEMBER 20TH

Moroccan-Inspired Dinner

WAKEMAN TOWN FARM | 7:00 PM

Moroccan Menu by Chef Lamour Workman with "Mahia" Spirits Tasting by Nahmias et Fils, a micro-distillery in Yonkers, New York. Mahia holds a cultural and religious significance as it reflects the culinary traditions of Moroccan Jews. The spirit has been passed down through generations, with families carefully preserving their unique recipes and distillation techniques. The production and consumption of Mahia are deeply ingrained in the cultural fabric of Moroccan Jewish heritage. WakemanTownFarm.org

SEPTEMBER 30TH

Sound on Sound Festival 2023

1 BARNUM DYKE, BRIDGEPORT | 11:00 AM

Catch Red Hot Chili Peppers, the hometown legend John Mayer & many more with a brand new festival experience, one massive stage + no overlapping sets! Sept. 30 and Oct. 1 at Bridgeport’s Seaside Park. BridgeportHarborMarina.com

SEPTEMBER 30TH

LEVITT PAVILION | 7:30 PM

Pay homage to the life and music of John Prine with Billy Prine and The Prine Time Band.

As the younger brother of John, Billy Prine was witness to the career and success of big brother. Billy went on to become a renowned singer-songwriter in his own right. Now he is sharing with the world his stories about his brother and showcasing his vast musical works. LevittPavilion.com

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My Personal Style Journey

I moved from Kansas to a Boston suburb right before 7th grade.

In Kansas, we bought our clothes at Macy’s and our girl scout uniforms at Litwin’s. To me, Izod was the height of style. I strutted around in shirts, shoes, even socks tricked out with small green alligators.

But in Hingham, far from the flint hills and fields, schoolmates breathlessly discussed “Laura Ashley,” and “Gloria Vanderbilt.” I wore heartprint turtlenecks, LL Ben duck shoes, and whatever coordinating outfits my mom loaded into our cart at Marshalls.

My first brush with serious style was a few years later; a friend of the family was wearing a double belt. I had seen these belts in Vogue and Elle. I had no idea regular people could actually wear such high-fashion accessories.

In record time, I owned three of them. I had tasted blood. I saw someone wear a cummerbund so I sewed my own awkward cummerbund. Someone else wore a cute little stuffed mouse pinned to their shoulder. I made one of those, too, and smugly affixed the crazy thing to my shoulder. If I wanted to wear it, I made it happen.

Homemade Pierre-Deux-like purse (DIY!), scarves (vintage!), boxer shorts (repurpose!) duck-taped penny loafers (repair and rewear!).

By college, I had acquired a taste for clothes I couldn’t afford. No matter; I raided the sales bin at Betsey Johnson, wore ties as belts, and Levi’s jeans like the ones the French guys wore.

After graduating, I scoured the sales racks at Bergdorf Goodman and Neiman Marcus, buying cut-rate treasures, some of which I still wear today. I trolled consignment shops; then a nascent and disorganized industry.

I couldn’t pay full-price for the designer togs I wanted, not on my advertising salary, but sales shopping taught me the actual, not the intrinsic, value of good clothes.

A fringed Missoni dress for $35, an embroidered Prada coat for $60, a Thierry Mugler trench coat

for $70. Do I ever wear it? Not really. But it was only $70, I don’t have to wear it.

Today, I still cobble together a wardrobe from consignment, sales racks, and a few things for which I throw out all logic to acquire. Sustainable? Mostly! Happy coincidence.

I wonder, however, had I an unlimited clothing allowance would my wardrobe be any different? Would I splurge for the $1,250 Libertine lobster-print khakis or still prowl Poshmark for a sensible $15 Lilly Pulitzer embroidered pair? Maybe. Maybe not.

Personal style is something honed throughout our lives, a reflection of how we were raised, what we value, and whether or not we chose to rebel against what our moms made us wear. Consider that some of our first autonomous decisions were what we decided to wear that day.

It’s also about editing, like never again wearing a hand-made stuffed rodent on our shoulder.

ARTICLE BY ROBIN MOYER CHUNG

PHOTOGRAPHY BY ASHLEY ARMSTRONG SKATOFF