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Fall and our November issue in particular has the theme of “Thankful.” It is appropriate because of the obvious holiday when we gather with friends and family, and when we perhaps focus a bit more on our blessings, but it is also our issue where we try to tell the stories of our community and highlight those who are giving back.
“…From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded; and from the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked." Found in Luke 12:48.

It signifies that responsibility increases with fortune or talent. If you have been blessed with wealth, knowledge, skills, or time, the expectation is that you will use these gifts to help others and achieve a greater purpose.
In this issue, we share stories of those who are doing exactly that, and in Lake Minnetonka, we are certainly blessed. I hope the stories we highlight encourage you to use your own gifts and talents to enrich our community and maybe, just maybe, slow down a bit and take stock of all the blessings you have in your life. We are blessed to live where we live. Some have family close by and good friends to share time with. And if you’re not connected as much as you want to be, perhaps a local church or community project will unite you with new relationships and connect you to people who care about the same things you do. Maybe some of what we share in this issue will give you some ideas.
In my case, I’m thankful for all these things that enrich my life. I’m thankful for my faith community, my family, neighborhood, and friends, but also the community in which we live, which has so much to offer each and every one of us.

DAVE ROBERTSON, PUBLISHER
November 2025
PUBLISHER
Dave Robertson | dave.robertson@citylifestyle.com
EDITOR
Lauren Beaubaire | lauren.beaubaire@citylifestyle.com
PUBLISHER ASSISTANT
Kate Munson | kate.munson@citylifestyle.com
CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
Kendra Johnson, Rebecca Hahn, Sara Hoeman, Lauren Beaubaire, Sarah Knieff, Jen Fortner
CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS
Kate Ann Photography, Rebecca Hahn, Anna Ko Photography
CEO Steven Schowengerdt
President Matthew Perry
COO David Stetler
CRO Jamie Pentz
CoS Janeane Thompson
AD DESIGNER Zach Miller
LAYOUT DESIGNER Andi Foster
QUALITY CONTROL SPECIALIST Megan Cagle


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We would like to thank all of our Boat Club & Rental customers for supporting us as we celebrated our twenty-fifth year in business. We will start accepting Boat Club memberships for the 2026 season at the beginning of December. Have a wonderful fall and winter and we look forward to seeing you in 2026!
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1-7: The incredible team at Stiles Financial Services celebrates their 25th anniversary! Delivering personalized, comprehensive financial guidance and portfolio management, the firm was founded in 2000 by Susan Stiles, created to meet a growing need for client-focused advice where the client’s goals and priorities come first. Congratulations on 25 years! Photography by Glenn Gray







Congratulations to Art Rocks Gallery on their grand opening and ribbon-cutting ceremony! Bringing creative energy and beautiful work to Excelsior, Art Rocks is an interactive art gallery featuring whimsical art related to music, original oil and acrylic paintings by renowned regional/national artists, and art that supports disabled artists and first responders. Be sure to stop by and check out each unique piece — maybe you'll want to even take one home! https://www.artrocks.gallery/
You’re invited to experience “Home for the Holidays" at 500 Lake Street in Excelsior! Indulge in festive beverages, appetizers, and holiday treats while enjoying demos on entertaining and decorating. Explore artisan-crafted gifts, décor, and home accents, plus unique finds from local pop-ups: Create Home, Callie & James, Studio 216, Roshay & Co, and more. highmarkbuilders.com
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• Perfect Girls Night Out or Date Night: Friday, November 14th, 5-7pm
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Hope House celebrated the groundbreaking of their new eight-bedroom, purpose-built, trauma-informed shelter this past October. This shelter will be a beacon of hope for young individuals experiencing homelessness in the southwest metro suburbs. Created in partnership among the Housing First Minnesota Foundation, Hope House, and John Kraemer & Sons, this project will provide not only safe shelter but also counseling, mentorship, educational support, and life skills training for youth in crisis. Learn more: https://openhandsfoundation.com/






















Treating yourself or a loved one to a day of pampering this holiday season can be beneficial for both you and the community. “Supporting our community is at the heart of Spavia. We regularly contribute to silent auctions, local school fundraisers, and nonprofit initiatives by donating spa packages and gift cards,” says Cristina Nolte, owner of Spavia Day Spa in Minnetonka. “We also partner with our local Chambers of Commerce to help strengthen the communities we serve. Beyond donations, our team loves to show up—whether that’s providing chair massages at races, volunteering at local events, or hosting special wellness initiatives in our spa to raise awareness and support causes that matter.”
Since opening their doors in 2005, Spavia has taken their mission of giving back to heart, and they continue to make a positive difference every day and encourage others to do the same. “Spavia is there to uplift and recenter the community just as we do for our guests inside the spa,” says Cristina. “Even our vendors are required to support philanthropic efforts, ensuring that ‘Spavia Cares’ extends far beyond our walls.”
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At Spavia, relaxation is just the beginning— they’ve made it their mission to give back and inspire others to do the same.
ARTICLE BY SARA HOEMAN PHOTOGRAPHY BY ANNA KO PHOTOGRAPHY


Not only does Spavia make their members and guests feel valued, but they also bring that same mentality to everything they do in the community. It comes down to their mission and values as a company. “Giving back is woven into our Spa-losophy and our mission,” says Cristina. “We believe that when our communities thrive, we thrive.”
Spavia’s services aim to be just as meaningful and impactful. “Spavia offers a luxurious, resort-like retreat at an affordable price, making wellness accessible without sacrificing the elevated experience our guests expect,” says Cristina. “One of the key differences is that Spavia is the only spa in the area to offer a full 60-minute massage, compared to the industry standard of 50 minutes. Our guests love that extra time to truly relax and reset. Our most popular services include the 80-minute Signature Massage and our customized facials, which have quickly built a reputation for being ‘SO good!’ among our members and guests.”
Additionally, Spavia focuses on ensuring that all the products they use in-store are good for both people and the planet. “At Spavia, caring for the environment is part of caring for our communities,” says Cristina. “We give preference to suppliers who provide products that are organic, minimize toxins, reduce packaging waste, or offer other eco-friendly attributes—all while maintaining the high quality our guests deserve. When you leave Spavia, we want you to feel relaxed, renewed, and inspired—knowing that your wellness experience was also gentle on the environment.”
Spavia offers a wide array of services, memberships, and packages. Everything from facials, massages, and beauty treatments. In the hustle and bustle of the busy holiday season, feel guilt-free when you spend a day at Spavia—knowing that you aren’t just taking care of yourself, you are helping to nurture the community. For more information on pricing, making an appointment, offers, and gift cards, visit minnetonkamn.spaviadayspa.com

“Giving back is woven into our Spa-losophy and our mission. We believe that when our communities thrive, we thrive.”
























HOW THE NON-PROFIT ANGEL HAIR IS HELPING CANCER PATIENTS FEEL LIKE THEMSELVES AGAIN
ARTICLE AND PHOTOGRAPHY BY REBECCA HAHN


It’s nearly impossible to feel great about wearing a new outfit if one’s hair is misbehaving. And let’s be honest, we’ve all experienced such a bad haircut that going anywhere in public is the last thing we want to do! At times like these, reaching for a wig just could be the answer.
I recently met a woman named Carolyn Anderson. She not only knew everything about wigs, i.e., how to make them, clean them, style them, and custom fit them; she explained that many years ago, she and her business partner used to make them for many of the theatrical performances in Minneapolis.
Within the first five minutes of listening to her, I was surprised to find myself fighting back my tears. Once I was able to collect my composure, I began to tear up again, and after the third time, I knew I had to share this story with all of you.
As the owner of a hair salon and spa, Carolyn’s life centered around helping her customers “feel beautiful.” One day in 2011, Carolyn began to work with her first cancer patient, Robin Hahn (no relation to me), who had come to her in need of a wig for a family wedding later that year. Robin had already lost most of her hair due to radiation treatments and had conveyed to Carolyn the importance of not wanting family and relatives to feel sorry for her, especially at such a joyous occasion.
Early that November, Robin and her husband returned to Carolyn’s salon for the final fitting of her wig. As Carolyn was adjusting the fit, she couldn’t help but notice Robin’s husband’s reflection in the mirror. He began to cry as he quietly said, “Thank you for giving me my wife back.” It was that very same moment she heard Robin say, “Thank you for giving me my life back!”
Understandably, it was a very moving moment for all three of them. Shortly after that, Carolyn hesitated as she found it nearly impossible to hand the bill for the wig to Robin’s husband. It was as though her legs had turned to stone. It was tearing her up inside to ask for any kind of payment, considering all that they were going through.
Only four months later, in March of 2012, Carolyn called Robin to inquire how she was feeling. Robin answered her phone, and when the question was posed to her, Robin conveyed she felt “it would be soon.” It was at that moment that Carolyn told Robin how she had made a difference in Carolyn’s life back in November. She told Robin what she had done upon arriving home that evening. Carolyn said, “I met with my husband Brian to tell him I would never again charge another cancer patient for a wig.” She and her husband started a non-profit called “Angel Hair” because of her experience with Robin. After hearing this, Robin said to Carolyn, “I will do everything I can from the other side to hopefully help make it a success for others.”
Although the first two years were financed with their own family money, eventually, one by one, people everywhere began to chip in. Soon, donations of money, gently used wigs, handmade jewelry, books, and volunteers gave their time to help refurbish the donated wigs. As far away as New York, word of this little nonprofit caught the attention of a few big-time businesses.
As Carolyn was adjusting the fit, she couldn’t help but notice Robin’s husband’s reflection in the mirror. He began to cry as he quietly said,
“Thank you for giving me my wife back.” It was that very same moment she heard Robin say, “Thank you for giving me my life back!”
One company in New York regularly received all of QVC’s leftover inventory. Upon receiving a large inventory of wigs, they called Carolyn to ask if she wanted them but said she would have to pay the shipping charges. Unfortunately, she did not have the funds to do so at that time. So, she politely had to decline the very generous offer. At that, the company said, “If you agree to take 100% of the inventory, we will cover 100% of the shipping cost.” A few days later, a semi pulled up in front of her salon in Deephaven and unloaded 4,000 wigs on a pallet!
Securing a complimentary wig via “Angel Hair” does require a signature from your doctor, and you will need to fill out an application. For this, go to angelhairforcancer.org. To view the different styles of the many “Previously Loved” wigs, simply go to carolynandersonsalon.com and click on STORE.
I would like to thank Cindra Nicolay for bringing this special angel, Carolyn, her husband Brian, and their many friends, co-workers, and volunteers who continue to make this world a more beautiful place, inside and outside, to my attention. It’s heartwarming to be able to shine a light on those who want and do make a difference.



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VERY ORGANIZED BY VALERIE SHARES SIMPLE WAYS TO DECLUTTER, CUT HOLIDAY CHAOS, AND SPREAD A LITTLE JOY THROUGH GIVING BACK
ARTICLE BY KENDRA JOHNSON


As we head into the holiday season, taking the time to declutter and organize your home can do more for your mental health and stress levels than you may realize. It can also be a huge boost to your local nonprofits.
But finding the time and willpower to clean out parts of your home isn’t always easy, and deciding what stays and what goes can be even harder. That’s where advice and support from Valerie Ruha, owner of Very Organized by Valerie, comes in handy.
Valerie founded Very Organized nearly three years ago with the goal of helping people simplify and organize their spaces. She specializes in residential organizing, life transitions, cognitive and neurodivergent support, home libraries and collections, and project management.
“I just love helping people get organized, declutter, and find some peace in their homes that they might not otherwise be able to do themselves,” she says.
According to Valerie, November is a great time of year to take a breather from the busy summer to declutter or offload some items before the holidays fully set in. Decluttering now allows you to get rid of seasonal decor or other items you always thought you would use but never did, and prepare for the holidays by creating defined spaces for guests who may be coming to visit.
It’s important to start soon because once you begin putting up holiday decorations, stockpiling presents, and hosting family gatherings, decluttering and organizing your space becomes increasingly difficult. So where should you begin?
Starting small is key. Decide first which rooms need organizing and then the order in which to tackle them. Sometimes, starting with a drawer or small closet before moving on to an entire room can ensure you don’t get overwhelmed with the task.
The next step is to begin deciding what stays and what goes, an action coined “editing” by Valerie. Asking how meaningful each item is and how it does or doesn’t support your daily life can be helpful in determining what to keep and what to donate.
A perk of working with Valerie is her commitment to donating items to local organizations that are meaningful to you and make a difference in the community. If something once held meaning to you, it can still hold meaning for someone else.
Your old blankets and towels can be used to keep animals warm at the Humane Society or local animal shelter, and your used books can be donated to the local library or organizations like Story Orchard.
Household items and gently-used furniture can help furnish homes through organizations like Bridging MN, and any clothes you donate can help families through Interfaith Outreach & Community Partners, among others.
“It really makes it easier for people to let go of things if they know they’re going to a nice place or a place that will enjoy them,” Valerie says.
Once you’ve decluttered, it’s time to organize what is left. Before you begin putting items away, it’s important to consider your goal for the space. For example, you may want bins or labels to make kitchen prep easier or color-coded hangers for seasonal clothing choices.
“It’s also important to recognize that decluttering and organizing your spaces is an ongoing effort. It’s never a one-anddone thing. We need to maintain all the time and have a reset, whether it’s once a week or once a month, just to get us back on track so things don’t become overwhelming.”
Creating a system that works for you and designating a “home” for everything makes sure things go back where they belong in the future. It’s also important to recognize that decluttering and organizing your spaces is an ongoing effort. “It’s never a one-and-done thing. We need to maintain all the time and have a reset, whether it’s once a week or once a month, just to get us back on track so things don’t become overwhelming,” Valerie says.
Some ideas for maintaining your organization include adding a donation bin in your closet or elsewhere. This can help you more easily donate items you no longer find value in.
According to Valerie, “another good rule to follow is one in, one out. Having the balance of not bringing in more than what we’re letting go of can really help.”
If you’ve suddenly found yourself hosting a family gathering or want to make an impact at your local nonprofit before the holidays, try these steps. Decluttering and organizing your space can relieve stress and bring new meaning to your old things.
Ready to get organized? Connect with Valerie at veryorganizedbyvalerie.com
“It really makes it easier for people to let go of things if they know they’re going to a nice place or a place that will enjoy them.”


















I had a childhood friend who always went out for Chinese food on Thanksgiving Day. My twelve-year-old brain couldn’t imagine restaurants being open that day, and I really couldn’t imagine not having what I considered ‘real Thanksgiving food.’

I found their tradition wildly exotic. They were British, and the fact that they were eating cream cheese wontons on Thanksgiving while having witty banter in charming accents was an embarrassment of riches. Another part of me, a tiny little shameful part of me, was very jealous. Because I don’t like turkey but have had an ongoing love affair with wontons. I still don’t like turkey. Blech.
I know. SO controversial.
As the years have gone by and my Thanksgivings have stacked up on top of one another like pancakes (mmmm pancakes) many things have changed. The food universe has tried to foist new twists on the main meal. Deep Fried Turkey. Brined Turkey. Grilled Turkey. Smoked Turkey. Tofurkey for those who don’t eat meat. Turducken for those who want all their meats rolled into one mind-boggling nesting doll situation.
It’s all so turkey-focused. But let’s be serious. Many who celebrate are there at the table for the sides. Some for the drama. But many more for the glorious sides. There is no other meal that boasts so many sides that involve so much butter. Butter makes the people happy. And it is no wonder everyone is nearly ill after the meal because the modern human body simply isn’t designed to eat a protein surrounded by nine starchy sides.
Following an absolute guaranteed overeating marathon is another tradition I refuse to participate in. Black Friday. As a child, I remember seeing
people camping out in tents in parking lots of various big box stores to buy televisions and speakers and gaming consoles. When interviewed on local networks their thrill about landing the deal of the year made me so excited for them. I was happy they braved the cold to save $100 on their dream television. Until I could be one of them. By then, I preferred a full day of pajamas, movies on my old crap tv, a good book, and laying on the couch.
Holiday weekends bring out the best and worst in people. One of my friends always says, “Ah, the holidays, when nobody gets their way.” And this is true because to be with your people, be part of a family, gather with any other humans is the definition of compromise. Everyone is likely to have different expectations and/or thereby not have those expectations met.
We have Thanksgiving with our “extended extended” family. Together we weathered the joyful adjustment of adding people and the heartbreaking adjustment of losing people at our
collective table. Everyone gets along, and it is laid back and enjoyable, and a ‘come as you are’ afternoon. We like to say our secret is the fact we aren’t related by blood. Perhaps that is it. We don’t have axes to grind going back three generations because we don’t go back three generations. We have far-reaching opinions in the room on everything from politics to how cranberries should be prepared. Which is ridiculous because obviously fresh is best cooked on the stove with sugar added and hand stirred by MY mother.
As we gather with friends, families and strangers, maybe we agree to not debate the biggest things. Leave the turkey out of it. No need to arm wrestle over the wishbone. Or rehash something that happened a decade ago. Keeping it simple keeps it simple. Gather. Have gratitude. Focus on the side dishes. And if there is tension at the table, serve the pie. Lots of it. All of it. Pie softens the edges of the toughest personalities at any table.
Ask me how I know.
FORTNER
Jen Fortner is a freelance writer who enjoys asking friends and strangers far too many questions. She spends her spare time sitting in inclement weather watching youth sports, traveling, cooking, and searching for the very best baked goods. She lives in Shorewood with her husband, three children and the most spoiled dog.







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When Andrea Cruz-Babcock arrived in the United States in 1999, she came with a dream shared by many: the hope of building a better life. But her journey didn’t follow a straight path, nor was it handed to her. Instead, Andrea carved her own way: one that started in a tiny shed in Mexico and led to the creation of The Art of Cleaning, a standout cleaning service in Minnesota known not just for sparkling results, but for the heart behind the work.
Andrea’s story begins in Mexico, in a oneroom shelter barely large enough to house her parents, siblings, and extended family. “It wasn’t even a house,” she recalls. “It was a shed – eight by ten, with no floors, no windows, just plastic and thin metal sheets.” But even in those modest conditions, her mother instilled in her something priceless: the value of a clean and peaceful home, regardless of circumstance.
“My mother was a genius,” Andrea says. “She taught us that just because you live in poverty doesn’t mean your environment has to be dirty. She made it an art, and that’s where the name of my business comes from.”
That early lesson became the foundation of a life mission: to create a business where cleaning is not just a task but a source of dignity and pride.

After working a series of unfulfilling jobs in the U.S., Andrea realized she was chasing a version of the American Dream that didn’t fit her. She didn’t have formal training or a college diploma. In fact, she was a high school dropout. But she had something else, a vision and the teachings of her mother.
Andrea started The Art of Cleaning more than 12 years ago – though she admits she’s likely been doing the work much longer. With no mentors or industry support, she relied solely on her upbringing and a self-taught approach to business. What began as a solo venture soon turned into a growing company known for its customer-first culture.
“I didn’t care about the money, I still don’t. What I care about is the connection with my clients, and the impact we make in their lives.”
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Today, The Art of Cleaning is a multi-million dollar enterprise serving the Minneapolis–St. Paul metro with a full range of cleaning services, from residential and commercial cleanings to move-in/move-out services, home staging and more. They are especially known for accommodating same-day appointments.
But what truly sets Andrea’s business apart is the deep emotional investment she and her team bring to every job.
“I’m not a 9-to-5 business owner,” Andrea says. “If a client texts me at 11 p.m. or 3 a.m., I’ll answer. I’ve done it. Because to me, this isn’t just a service – it’s a relationship.”
Andrea’s passion has created a ripple effect. Clients frequently share how the company changed their lives, not just by cleaning their homes, but by relieving stress, restoring peace, and offering compassion when it’s needed most.



“If someone needs help, and a client connects us to them, we go. No charge, no expectations. Just help.”
One of the most powerful elements of Andrea’s mission is her commitment to giving back. She launched a community outreach service within her company, which she calls Cleaning for a Cause, providing pro bono cleaning services to individuals facing illness, hardship or other challenges.
“We never ask questions,” she explains. “If someone needs help, and a client connects us to them, we go. No charge, no expectations. Just help.”
These moments, Andrea says, are her proudest. From helping a sick client return to a clean, peaceful home to relieving burdened or grieving family members, these are the victories that matter most.

“I didn’t care about the money, I still don’t. What I care about is the connection with my clients, and the impact we make in their lives.”
The business has grown year after year – by 20 to 30% annually –but Andrea remains grounded.
“I don’t even pay attention to the numbers,” she admits. “My husband John does, he keeps his eyes on the books, and I just focus on making sure our clients are happy and our employees are valued.”
And valued they are. The Art of Cleaning isn’t just a customer-centered business – it’s an employee-centered one, too. Staff are encouraged to set their own pay goals, speak up when they feel undervalued, and grow within the company. Andrea sees them not just as employees but as family.
“As a woman-owned and woman-managed business, we are all about empowerment,” she says. “From my general manager, Srey, to my supervisors Ana and Maria, we are comprised of strong women who drive our business,” Andrea says.
Andrea’s journey has been recognized in publications like the Minneapolis/St. Paul Business Journal , an acknowledgment she never dreamed possible.
“Someone like me – no training, no college, no resources – getting featured in a major business journal? That’s something I never thought could happen. But it did. And I built it from nothing.”
She did it with resilience. She did it with purpose. And above all, she did it with heart.
Andrea Cruz-Babcock’s story is not just about cleaning. It’s about transformation – turning scarcity into beauty, hardship into opportunity, and a childhood memory into a thriving, values-driven business.
To learn more or to book a service visit www.theartofcleaningmn.com












ARTICLE BY JEN FORTNER | PHOTOGRAPHY BY KATE ANN PHOTOGRAPHY
How Claudia Lacy turned a lakeside cabin into a place of giving
This season brings out philanthropic energy in all of us. Giving typically spikes this time of year, and there is better awareness of how we can work to meet the needs of our family, friends, and neighbors. For Claudia Lacy, director of The Langdon, and a small group of dedicated volunteers, there is no such season. Their season is 365 days a year.
The Langdon opened in 2014, but arriving at opening day was no small feat. After years of persistence, Claudia secured the lease for the charming cabin on the lake and was not entirely sure what purpose it would serve. But she had an abundance of ideas.





A Mound native, she wanted to have a place for items to be donated and shared with people in need. A “year-round rummage sale” of sorts for her community and beyond. Claudia has a background in investment banking, and her financial acumen came in handy as she hatched a plan to not only sell items but have a larger impact donating the profits.
Everything, and I mean everything, is freely given at The Langdon. From light bulbs overhead to price tags to the wood burning in the fireplace, everything is donated, allowing fifty percent of proceeds from sales to be donated to other charities and non-profits. The balance pays the rent and keeps the lightbulbs on.
As a donor, you choose the charity where the money will go from your items. Claudia is focused on charitable, religious, scientific, and educational organizations and sends donations quarterly. So far, over 250 unique organizations have benefitted from the generosity of Claudia and her team.
Long-time volunteer Gail thinks this is part of the magic. “In the past, I had attended the big galas. I really believe in non-profits. But this is so different. Being able to support the smaller organizations. It’s meaningful. It’s very empowering to be able to choose.”
Open the first seven days of each month, the Langdon has a treasure trove of items from fine China, clothing, luxury handbags, jewelry, furniture, art, and unique décor. The remaining three weeks of each month are devoted to outreach projects of every ilk. Claudia and a team of roughly a dozen volunteers do it all. Their stories are endless and incredibly inspiring. They have furnished spaces for those in need. Resourced housing for others. Assisted people in organizing, cleaning, and sorting through lifetimes worth of items. Perhaps most significantly, they have provided a welcoming third place for many community members who stop by to buy gifts, have a chat, get a hug, and enjoy a cup of chicken noodle soup.
It’s a store, but really it’s so much more than a store. It’s a store that has created a community who pays it forward, and the ripple effect is quite stunning. Claudia says her goal is to “make it worth the drive.” Of the 702 (and counting) donors, Claudia is obviously donor #1. And did she see herself at the reins of this place surrounded by luxury items and precious family heirlooms? She laughs.
“No. I would have thought this whole thing was hilarious. I vowed to my mother I would never buy used things. I went into investment banking so I could buy new fancy things.”

But Claudia’s mother witnessed her realize her dream for this place a decade ago. Celebrating their 11th anniversary this past May, The Langdon has plenty of fancy things just at palatable price points.
Carolyn, a volunteer of seven years and known by many as ‘the tender aunt,’ calls The Langdon her happy place and credits Claudia’s vision and stewardship that make it a success.
“She is the guardian of things that people have given up. She does not take it lightly.”
The care and respect shown to donors helps them part with things they no longer use or need, and sometimes things they inherit from an estate.
Perhaps you have a pair of antique lamps that no longer serve you but could make a big difference in the lives of another. Or maybe you need an afternoon field trip for some great shopping. My own visit was special. I was warmly greeted by a number of lovely volunteers who are all passionate about the mission and spirit of The Langdon. The joy Claudia radiates for her cause is palpable. She is exactly where she should be.
To volunteer, donate, or pick up some gorgeous crystal stemware, visit The Langdon. It’s worth the drive.
Open the 1st through the 7th of each month
2529 Commerce Blvd, Mound http://www.thelangdon.org/









The holidays have a way of calling us back to what matters most—faith, family, compassion, and the quiet but powerful act of giving. As lights go up and calendars fill, there are still many who sit in silence, carrying burdens too heavy to bear alone. But what if this season, you could be the spark that changes everything for someone else?
The founders of City Lifestyle, through their private foundation, are once again launching its annual Christmas Giving Campaign—a heartfelt effort to seek out and support individuals and families who have quietly fallen through the cracks. The mission is simple: to bring light, dignity, and hope to those who need it most.
Since its beginning just four years ago, this initiative has grown from a humble idea into a life-changing movement. Last Christmas alone, more than 200 families across the country received unexpected support—financial relief, but also something even more powerful.
“We don’t just send checks,” says Steven Schowengerdt, CEO and founder of City Lifestyle. “We send a message: You are seen. You are loved. And you are not forgotten.”
Together with City Lifestyle President Matthew Perry, Steven has helped shape this into a tradition that goes far beyond charity. “This is about community,” Matthew adds. “We believe we’ve been blessed, so now we get to be a blessing.”
Every story begins with a nomination. Often, it’s a neighbor, coworker, friend, or teacher—someone who’s been quietly carrying too much for too long. One past recipient, after receiving unexpected support during a time of deep personal struggle, wrote:
SCAN TO NOMINATE

“We send a message: You are seen. You are loved. And you are not forgotten.”
“Beyond the very practical solution of receiving funds to fix my car, this thing you guys worked together to do is bigger than that. I carry the Christmas card you sent in my purse. When things get really hard, I pull it out and remember what it felt like to be seen. That card represents hope— that change for the better is possible. I’m not sure how many people get to carry hope around in their purse. But I do.”
Another wrote in after her husband was diagnosed with aggressive brain cancer and unable to work:
“This support has blessed our family not only financially, but emotionally and spiritually as we trust God to meet our needs throughout this difficult time. Thank you to our anonymous friend and to your foundation. What a joy and gift to be part of God’s family!”
Each year brings countless stories like these—real lives touched by simple acts of kindness. Some use the funds to pay overdue bills, others to afford groceries, medication, or repairs. But no matter the circumstance, the impact is the same: hope is restored.
This season, you have the opportunity to be part of that. The campaign is now open to nominations—completely confidential and prayerfully considered. Whether it’s someone battling illness, facing unemployment, or just in need of a helping hand, you can bring them a moment of grace that will ripple far beyond Christmas morning.
“Knowing my mom was chosen filled my heart with indescribable joy,” said another past recipient. “Your generosity doesn’t just brighten her life; it inspires hope and faith in all of us. It enables her to stay in her home and get back on her feet.”
Nominations are open from November 1st to December 5th, 2025. To submit someone you know, simply scan the QR code or visit @CityLifestyle on Instagram, where you’ll find the nomination form in the bio.
This holiday season, let’s give more than gifts. Let’s give each other the gift of being seen. Because sometimes, the smallest gesture becomes someone’s greatest miracle.
To nominate someone in need, visit: KingdomBuildingFoundation.org or scan the QR code.
City Lifestyle isn’t just a publication — it’s a pulse. A rhythm of voices, neighbors, and stories woven together by someone who believes in the power of connection. As we expand, we’re looking for people ready to turn care into community. Are you ready to be that spark?


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A SELECTION OF UPCOMING LOCAL EVENTS NOVEMBER 2025
NOVEMBER 5TH
Wine & Dine for Hope
Four Seasons Hotel Minneapolis 5:30 PM
Hope Chest for Breast Cancer's annual Wine & Dine for Hope is November 5th from 5:30-8:30pm. This spectacular event includes culinary delights, sophisticated wine pours, live music, silent and live auctions, raffle, a digital photo opportunity, wine and spirits pull, breast cancer patient stories, and more! The proceeds provide immediate financial support (housing, transportation, utilities, groceries, and adult/ childcare) to breast cancer patients living in Minnesota. https://hopechest. com/event/wine-and-dine-for-hope/
NOVEMBER 5TH
Third Annual Excelsior
Vintage Holiday
Grand Tasting
Pique Travel Event Center | 6:00 PM
CHRIS DENNIS
BROKER/ REALTOR®
Lakes Area Realty Excelsior 37 Water Street, Excelsior Chris@ChrisDennisGroup.com (612) 229-9322
Kick off the holiday season with Distinguished Taste and Small Lot Wine & Spirits, indulging in some of the finest wines from around the world! The Minister of Wine, Marcus Hanson, will again delight with his amazing opera skills. Ticket includes 15+ curated wine tastings, a cheese and charcuterie prepared by The Grater Good, wine discounts, and an unforgettable evening! https://www.dis tinguishedtaste.com/events/women-inwine-dta9c-xwnsp-9rafw-3ye2n-2wgzw
NOVEMBER 7TH
West Metro
Annual Packathon
Mount Calvary Church | 12:00 PM
Every year, the nonprofit Many Hands Many Meals brings the community together on the second weekend of November to pack lifesaving meals. Sign up for a two-hour-long shift that includes learning about their mission,
scooping rice, soy, veggies, and vitamins, and meeting tons of other awesome people! All ages welcome - anyone can pack! Learn more here: https://www. mh-mm.org/2025-packathon.html
NOVEMBER 8TH
12th Annual Tonka Brew Fest
Gale Woods Farm | 3:00 PM
Enjoy unlimited beer sampling from 15+ Minnesota breweries along with live music and fresh grilled brats and chips at the 12th Annual Tonka Brew Fest! You'll also receive a commemorative tasting glass to take home as a souvenir. Put on by the Mound-Westonka Rotary, this great evening helps raise funds for numerous community and humanitarian projects. Get your tickets: https:// www.tonkabrewfest.com/
NOVEMBER 21ST
Up the Lake Festival
The Panoway on Lake Street, Wayzata | 4:30 PM
Light up the Lake is back on November 21st! From 4:30-6:30pm enjoy holiday refreshments, horse-drawn wagon rides, reindeer, music, a town lighting ceremony, and the spectacular parade of lights with local fire departments. IOCP hosts a food drive on Panoway and a Toys for Tots drive under the tree. If you're able, bring a non-perishable food item and toy to donate!
NOVEMBER 28TH
337 Water Street, Excelsior | 12:00 PM
Get into the holiday spirit with a magical ride on the Excelsior Streetcar Line Friday and Saturday, November 28 & 29, from 12-4pm! The trolley transforms into a festive wonderland filled with holiday cheer. Sing along to carols, nibble on sweet treats, send express notes straight to Santa, and more! Tickets are $4. Children 3 and under are free. Learn more: https://trolleyride.org/ special-events/excelsior/

Susan Stiles CFP, CHFC, AIF, CPFA, MBA Founder / CEO Stiles Financial Services, Inc.
Dear Susan: How do I shift my mindset from wealth accumulation to appreciation? Or can I achieve both?
When we stop measuring our lives against others and start appreciating what we already have, we free ourselves from financial anxiety and can focus on what truly matters—building security, creating memories, and giving back. Gratitude turns wealth into wellbeing. It’s human nature to compare ourselves to others, especially in a world where social media and neighborhood dynamics constantly showcase what everyone else has. Even those who have worked hard and are financially comfortable can feel like they’re falling behind. In my follow-up video, I’ll discuss how to give yourself permission to enjoy your life’s hard work. How to secure your legacy through family and charitable giving, and more. Snap the QR code below, take a deep breath and smile. You’ve earned it! Susan:

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management. Send “AskSusan” questions to: AskSusan@stilesfinancial.com.


ARTICLE BY LAUREN BEAUBAIRE
Providing assistance with everything from food and employment to housing and mental health services, ICA is always happy to welcome new volunteers. Whether it’s assembling snack bins and weekend bags for local students in the area or helping with the annual Turkey Drive, Postal Drive, Tour de Tonka, or Bagging for Tips, you’ll be making a difference in the community. icafoodshelf.org/volunteer-opportunities
EXCELSIOR-LAKE MINNETONKA CHAMBER OF COMMERCE
You know all those fun events around the Lake all year? Apple Days, The Spooky Sprint, Art on the Lake, and so many more are only made possible by the Chamber and a slew of volunteers. Each event offers numerous ways to get involved, including helping with event setup and takedown, staffing a vendor booth, and serving up food and beverages to festival-goers. Sign up to volunteer at your favorite event here: excelsiorlakeminnetonkachamber.com/volunteer
At The Bond Between, there are countless ways to volunteer: assist with the Pet Food Shelf, welcome animals as an Intake Volunteer, take dogs for walks as a Let Out Volunteer, or even become a Puppy Party Volunteer, attending events where guests can cuddle the puppies. There are always activities going on throughout the week that need volunteer support. Learn how you can become a volunteer at thebondbetween.org/volunteer.
RESOURCEWEST
ResourceWest serves families in need in the western suburbs, and you can help by making a donation or volunteering for their Back-to-School drive, Winter Warm Wear program, or their Holiday Toy Chest Program. Check out all their volunteer opportunities at resourcewest.org
EXCELSIOR MORNING ROTARY CLUB
This group of dedicated volunteers makes a tremendous impact in the community through countless events and fundraising efforts. From meal packing and cleaning up local trails to helping with local drives and tutoring, there are endless ways to get involved. The Club meets up in person at Maynards in Excelsior on Wednesday mornings from 7-8am. Everyone is welcome to attend a meeting and learn more about how you can get involved. excelsiormorningrotary.org

















