OUR THA NKFUL ISSUE
BAREFOOT, BEACHFRONT, UNFORGETTABLE: WILDWOOD’S COUNTRY WEEKEND, FROM THE FRONT ROW
Full Plates, Fuller Hearts
November feels like the pause button in the middle of life’s chaos. Between shuttling kids to dance, soccer, and every other activity that pops onto the calendar, it’s easy to get swept along without stopping to breathe. This month gives us a moment to appreciate what we have, look ahead with gratitude, and, of course, dive into the joy of shopping. As you start checking gifts off your list, I encourage you to shop local—especially on Small Business Saturday—so we can keep Ramapo Valley thriving through the season and beyond.
And then, of course, there’s the food. While Christmas holds the crown as my favorite holiday, Thanksgiving is a close second. Truth be told, I’m more about the sides than the turkey itself—give me mashed potatoes, stuffing, and corn and I’m happy. Anyone else secretly prefer the side dishes? Still, my true weakness is pumpkin pie. I honestly don’t know why I don’t eat it year-round. Perfectly good breakfast, dessert, or midnight snack—though in my world, a “midnight snack” really means 9 p.m. This year, I’ll be sure to pull out the trusty elastic band pants so I can enjoy guilt-free seconds (or thirds).
Turn to page 16 for a look at Immaculate Heart Academy, where service is central to the school’s mission. From diaper drives to hosting Thanksgiving dinners for seniors, students put faith into action and contribute thousands of service hours each year.
On page 34, explore this season’s style guide. From quilted coats and weatherproof footwear to textures like corduroy and flannel, fall fashion in New Jersey is about layering smart while keeping it polished.
We’re also spotlighting The Perfect Pak in Upper Saddle River (page 30). Founder Heidi Wlosek helps clients downsize, move, or simply refresh their homes with compassion and efficiency. Whether assisting seniors aging in place or decluttering decades of memories, her team turns overwhelming projects into fresh starts.
And if you’re still clinging to summer like I am, flip to our coverage of the Barefoot Country Music Fest (page 12). From Jason Aldean to Jelly Roll, the fourday celebration turned Wildwood into the unofficial capital of country music. Sunshine, sand, and a little twang—what more could you ask for?
May your hearts (and your plates) be full this season—and if you happen to save me a slice of pumpkin pie, I promise it won’t go to waste.
With gratitude,
November 2025
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Immaculate Heart Academy Hosts Fall Open Houses Oct. 19 & 23
Immaculate Heart Academy will host Fall Open Houses on Sunday, Oct. 19, 11 a.m.–2 p.m., and Thursday, Oct. 23, 6:30–8:30 p.m., at 500 Van Emburgh Ave., Township of Washington, N.J. Explore rigorous academics, competitive athletics, and creative arts rooted in Catholic values. Tour with Eagle Ambassadors, meet faculty and coaches, and learn about admissions and the HSPT. Register at www.ihanj.com; walk-ins welcome. Details: Lauren Rhein ’09, director of admissions, 201-445-6800 ext. 112, lrhein@ihanj.com.
Photography by Immaculate Heart Academy
at the Barefoot COUNTRY MUSIC FEST
Garden State City Lifestyle was grateful to have a front-row view on Wildwood’s iconic beach at the 2025 Barefoot Country Music Fest — and it did not disappoint. Held June 19–22, the four-day celebration drew thousands of fans from across the nation to sing, dance and soak in coastal vibes.
Headliners included Jason Aldean, Jelly Roll, Lainey Wilson, Rascal Flatts and Jordan Davis, with more than 40 additional artists lighting up
multiple stages. From chart-topping anthems to beachside ballads, the lineup delivered nonstop entertainment and crowd-pleasing singalongs. Wilson brought powerhouse vocals and glittering style, Jelly Roll captivated with authenticity, and Rascal Flatts had fans of all ages belting every chorus.
The setting did half the magic. With the Atlantic as a backdrop and a steady ocean breeze, sets rolled from golden-hour glow into neon-lit nights. Fans in cowboy boots and flip-flops mingled along the boardwalk between shows, grabbing lemonades and soft-serve before hustling back for the next guitar solo.
Between performances, festivalgoers explored fan zones, sponsor activations and shaded lounges, while vendors served everything from barbecue to boardwalk classics. Beach-friendly production kept lines moving and sightlines clear; even from farther back, big screens and stacked sound kept the action close.
Standout moments included surprise guest appearances, acoustic breaks that quieted the beach to a hush and late-night closers that turned the shoreline into one swaying chorus. By Sunday, Wildwood felt like the unofficial capital of country music — and we left sunkissed and grateful for the view.
Whether you’re a country die-hard or just in it for summer vibes, Barefoot Country Music Fest is a must. Mark your calendar for next year; once you’ve danced barefoot in the sand to your favorite hits, you’ll count down until the next one.
If you go next year: Book lodging early, pack a brimmed hat and reef-safe sunscreen, bring a light layer for ocean breezes after sunset and consider a small beach blanket for between sets. Comfortable footwear is a win — boots optional, flip-flops welcome.
Learn more at barefootcountrymusicfest.com
Blueberry Ricotta Pancakes
ARTICLE AND PHOTOGRAPHY
BY BRUNCH BY DEMARTINO
Garden State City Lifestyle Recipe of the Month
For our November Thankful Issue, we’re especially thankful for these cozy Blueberry Ricotta Pancakes—our favorite recipe of the month from Brunch by DeMartino to share around the table with family and friends.
Blueberry Ricotta Pancakes
ingredients:
• 2 cups all-purpose flour
• 2 Tbsp granulated sugar
• 1½ tsp baking powder
• ¾ tsp baking soda
• ½ tsp salt
• 2 cups buttermilk
• 2 large eggs, beaten
• 2 Tbsp melted butter
• 1 tsp vanilla extract
• 1 tsp canola oil
• Whole milk (to thin batter as needed)
directions:
Step 1. In a large mixing bowl, whisk together flour, sugar, baking powder, baking soda, and salt.
Step 2. In another bowl, combine buttermilk, eggs, melted butter, vanilla, and canola oil.
Step 3. Gradually mix wet ingredients into dry ingredients until just combined. Thin with a splash of milk if batter is too thick.
Step 4. Heat a lightly greased skillet or griddle over medium heat. Pour batter to form pancakes, cooking until bubbles form and edges are set before flipping.
Whipped Ricotta Topping
ingredients:
• 1 cup fresh ricotta
• 1 Tbsp honey
• 1 tsp lemon juice
directions:
Step 1. Combine ricotta, honey, and lemon juice in a mixing bowl.
Step 2. Whisk until smooth and fluffy.
Blueberry Compote
ingredients:
• 2 cups fresh or frozen blueberries
• 3 Tbsp water
• ¼ cup sugar
• 2 Tbsp honey
• 2 tsp lemon juice
directions:
Step 1. In a small saucepan, combine 1 cup blueberries, water, sugar, honey, and lemon juice.
Step 2. Cook over medium heat for about 10 minutes.
Step 3. Add the remaining blueberries and continue cooking for 8 minutes, stirring frequently, until thickened and glossy.
Serve pancakes warm with a dollop of whipped ricotta and a spoonful of blueberry compote.
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Faith in Action
Immaculate Heart Academy students turn compassion into more than 31,000 service hours
ARTICLE AND PHOTOGRAPHY BY ANNEMARIE VAUGHN
Service at Immaculate Heart Academy (IHA) is more than a requirement; it is central to the school’s mission. Students regularly put their faith into action by serving the community and ministering to people in need through a wide variety of opportunities.
IHA’s Campus Ministry program, led by Emily Ash, Class of 2019, is off to a busy start this year. Ash credits its success to the compassion of the students.
“Our young women constantly strive to make their communities a better place through their service,” Ash said. “They are an antithesis to the idea that success is defined by how well others know you. Instead of desiring to make themselves known, they strive to make God known in the lives of others. Their service points to what authentic service should be: selfless, loving, and using one’s God-given gifts to meet the needs of His people. God placed the calling to serve on their hearts, and we at IHA are so grateful to empower them as they work for causes they are passionate about.”
Campus Ministry recently hosted a Mission@ theheart trip to expose students to vulnerable populations they could serve. The home base was Camp Shiloh in Hewitt, New Jersey, but students traveled to various locations to put their mission into action. Stops included Camp Acorn
in Mahwah, where students assisted with enrichment programs for individuals with developmental disabilities, and New Hope Pregnancy Resource Center in Westwood, where they organized donations. Students also made cards for hospice patients at Villa Marie Claire in Saddle River.
This year, students ran a successful diaper drive for Saint Joseph’s Care Corner in Oradell and invited local children to the annual Trunk or Treat event. In November, they will host a free Thanksgiving dinner for senior citizens, a tradition that last drew more than 200 guests.
In December, students will participate in one of IHA’s many Midnight Runs in New York City, providing food, clothes and conversations to individuals experiencing homelessness. Campus Ministry will also hold its annual Christmas Drive for Sacred Heart School in Jersey City, delivering hundreds of gifts to the school.
Service at IHA also extends to athletics, with teams regularly hosting fundraisers and events. The IHA softball team, for example, hosted its annual Anthony LaRezza Invitational Tournament during the 2024-25 school year and raised $19,000 in honor of the late IHA coach Anthony LaRezza, who died of cancer. Over the past 10 years, IHA softball has raised more than $100,000 to support Tackle Kids Cancer and Hackensack Meridian Health Children’s Cancer Institute.
The school’s clubs also take part in service. Earlier this year, the Military Awareness Club volunteered at a Vietnam War Commemoration Ceremony, where members gave gifts to veterans, spoke at the event and handed out pamphlets to honor the sacrifices of military members and their families.
“God placed the calling to serve on their hearts, and we at IHA are so grateful to empower them as they work for causes they are passionate about.”
- Emily Ash
During the 2024-25 school year, IHA students served more than 31,000 hours — on average, double what was required. Students continue to embrace the school’s commitment to service and use their gifts to benefit others.
Founded in 1960, Immaculate Heart Academy is an allgirls Catholic regional high school of the Archdiocese of Newark, celebrating 65 years. A Blue Ribbon School with 650 students from over 120 towns in NJ and NY, IHA offers a premier college preparatory program.
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H O P E
with YOU
The holidays have a way of calling us back to what matters most—faith, family, compassion, and the quiet but powerful act of giving. As lights go up and calendars fill, there are still many who sit in silence, carrying burdens too heavy to bear alone. But what if this season, you could be the spark that changes everything for someone else?
The founders of City Lifestyle, through their private foundation, are once again launching its annual Christmas Giving Campaign—a heartfelt effort to seek out and support individuals and families who have quietly fallen through the cracks. The mission is simple: to bring light, dignity, and hope to those who need it most.
Since its beginning just four years ago, this initiative has grown from a humble idea into a life-changing movement. Last Christmas alone, more than 200 families across the country received unexpected support—financial relief, but also something even more powerful.
“We don’t just send checks,” says Steven Schowengerdt, CEO and founder of City Lifestyle. “We send a message: You are seen. You are loved. And you are not forgotten.”
Together with City Lifestyle President Matthew Perry, Steven has helped shape this into a tradition that goes far beyond charity. “This is about community,” Matthew adds. “We believe we’ve been blessed, so now we get to be a blessing.”
Every story begins with a nomination. Often, it’s a neighbor, coworker, friend, or teacher—someone who’s been quietly carrying too much for too long. One past recipient, after receiving unexpected support during a time of deep personal struggle, wrote:
SCAN TO NOMINATE
“We send a message: You are seen. You are loved. And you are not forgotten.”
“Beyond the very practical solution of receiving funds to fix my car, this thing you guys worked together to do is bigger than that. I carry the Christmas card you sent in my purse. When things get really hard, I pull it out and remember what it felt like to be seen. That card represents hope— that change for the better is possible. I’m not sure how many people get to carry hope around in their purse. But I do.”
Another wrote in after her husband was diagnosed with aggressive brain cancer and unable to work:
“This support has blessed our family not only financially, but emotionally and spiritually as we trust God to meet our needs throughout this difficult time. Thank you to our anonymous friend and to your foundation. What a joy and gift to be part of God’s family!”
Each year brings countless stories like these—real lives touched by simple acts of kindness. Some use the funds to pay overdue bills, others to afford groceries, medication, or repairs. But no matter the circumstance, the impact is the same: hope is restored.
This season, you have the opportunity to be part of that. The campaign is now open to nominations—completely confidential and prayerfully considered. Whether it’s someone battling illness, facing unemployment, or just in need of a helping hand, you can bring them a moment of grace that will ripple far beyond Christmas morning.
“Knowing my mom was chosen filled my heart with indescribable joy,” said another past recipient. “Your generosity doesn’t just brighten her life; it inspires hope and faith in all of us. It enables her to stay in her home and get back on her feet.”
Nominations are open from November 1st to December 5th, 2025. To submit someone you know, simply scan the QR code or visit @CityLifestyle on Instagram, where you’ll find the nomination form in the bio.
This holiday season, let’s give more than gifts. Let’s give each other the gift of being seen. Because sometimes, the smallest gesture becomes someone’s greatest miracle.
To nominate someone in need, visit: KingdomBuildingFoundation.org or scan the QR code.
GIVING BACK, ONE CASE AT A TIME
SEIGEL LAW’S CHARITY FUND TURNS LEGAL SUCCESS INTO COMMUNITY SUPPORT.
At Seigel Law, community service is more than a value — it’s a practice woven into the firm’s foundation. When attorney Jonas Seigel joined the firm, he launched the Seigel Law Charity Fund, pledging to donate a portion of every fee to local charities.
The American Bar Association has recognized the fund as a model for other law firms, highlighting its unique approach to giving. Guided by the principle, “to whom much is given, much is expected,” Seigel Law contributes 1% of its profits and volunteer time to organizations that make a difference, with a special focus on children’s charities.
The firm also invites the community to take part in its mission of giving by submitting recommendations for charitable organizations that could benefit from support.
“Our commitment goes beyond the courtroom,” Seigel says. “We’re thankful for the trust our clients place in us, and giving back is one way we honor that trust.”
Through the Seigel Law Charity Fund, the firm has become a steady partner to nonprofits across northern New Jersey, helping strengthen the communities it serves. In this season of gratitude, Seigel Law continues to remind us that success is measured not only in cases won, but in lives touched.
For more information or to recommend a charity, visit seigellaw.com/charity-fund
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The Thankful Body
Practicing Gratitude for Yourself This Season
November is often thought of as the season of gratitude. We pause to reflect on the blessings in our lives, the people who support us, and the experiences that bring us joy. But there’s one constant companion that rarely makes it onto our gratitude lists — our own body.
As a holistic health coach and nutritionist, I’ve seen how often people view their body as something to fix, criticize, or push harder. We spend energy focusing on what we wish looked different or functioned better, while overlooking the incredible ways our body supports us every single day.
Practicing gratitude for your body doesn’t mean ignoring your health goals. Instead, it means creating a foundation of respect and appreciation that allows real, sustainable wellness to grow. When you start from a place of thankfulness, you begin to nourish your body out of love, not punishment — and that shift can change everything.
WHY BODY GRATITUDE MATTERS
Modern life makes it easy to feel disconnected from our bodies. We often rush through meals, multitask while eating, or measure ourselves by the numbers on a scale. This mindset can create stress, guilt, and even physical tension.
Gratitude flips that script. Research shows that grateful thinking lowers stress hormones, supports better sleep, and boosts overall mental well-being. When applied to
ARTICLE AND PHOTOGRAPHY
BY CARA ZAMORSKI
our relationship with our body, gratitude helps us replace self-criticism with self-compassion. Instead of constantly battling our reflection, we learn to notice the resilience, strength, and quiet miracles happening inside us each day.
Your heart beats 100,000 times every day without you asking it to. Your lungs take in oxygen while filtering out toxins. Your digestive system transforms food into energy and repair. Even on days when you feel tired or run down, your body is working tirelessly to keep you alive and moving forward. That alone is worth a daily “thank you.”
FIVE WAYS TO PRACTICE BODY GRATITUDE
The good news is that cultivating gratitude doesn’t require a dramatic lifestyle change. Small, consistent practices can help you reconnect with your body and appreciate it for what it does — not just how it looks.
1. START YOUR DAY WITH THANKS
Before you even get out of bed, pause to thank your body for one thing. It could be as simple as:
• “Thank you legs for carrying me through yesterday’s walk.”
• “Thank you lungs for filling me with breath.”
• “Thank you arms for letting me hug my kids.”
Beginning the day with a moment of appreciation sets a positive tone and reminds you that your body is already enough.
2. PRACTICE GRATITUDE IN THE MIRROR
For many, looking in the mirror is an exercise in critique. Instead, use it as an opportunity to practice gratitude. Each time you catch your
reflection, say one thing you appreciate — your strength, your energy, your smile, or even the way your body has carried you through challenges. Over time, this shifts your internal dialogue from criticism to kindness.
3. MOVE FOR JOY, NOT PUNISHMENT
Exercise should never be about “earning” food or punishing yourself. Movement can be a celebration of what your body can do. Choose activities that bring joy — dancing in your living room, stretching in the morning sun, taking a mindful walk in nature. Approach movement as a way to thank your body for its capabilities, not to correct its shape.
4. EAT WITH GRATITUDE
Mealtimes are a perfect opportunity to pause and appreciate your body. Before eating, take a deep breath and thank your body for processing and using the food to fuel you. You might also thank the food itself — the farmers who grew it, the earth that nourished it, the hands that prepared it. This small pause transforms meals into mindful, nourishing experiences.
5. REFLECT BEFORE BED
End your day by noting one way your body supported you. Maybe it gave you energy to complete a task, allowed you to enjoy laughter with friends, or even carried you through a stressful day. Writing it down or simply reflecting in your mind builds a daily practice of body gratitude.
When you begin to practice body gratitude, you’ll notice subtle shifts. You may feel less pressure to be perfect and more appreciation for your body’s resilience. Choices around food, rest, and movement start to feel less like obligations and more like acts of care. Over time, gratitude builds a healthier, kinder, and more sustainable relationship with yourself.
Remember, gratitude is not about ignoring struggles or pretending everything is perfect. It’s about acknowledging the challenges while also honoring the ways your body shows up for you, day after day.
This season, as you write your gratitude lists and reflect on the blessings in your life, don’t forget to include yourself. Your body has been your partner in every experience—in every laugh, every hug, every step you’ve taken. When you learn to thank your body, you begin to see it not as something to battle, but as something to cherish. Perhaps the most nourishing gift you can give yourself this November is the simple, powerful act of saying: Thank you, body.
ABOUT CARA
Cara is a New Jersey–based holistic health coach and nutritionist working with clients across North Jersey. Her practice centers on body gratitude, simple routines and realistic goals that fit busy lives.
CLEARING SPACE, FINDING PEACE
ARTICLE BY PATTI ZIELINSKI PHOTOGRAPHY BY THE PERFECT PAK
HOW THE PERFECT PAK HELPS CLIENTS DECLUTTER, DOWNSIZE, AND REDISCOVER JOY AT HOME.
Closet Clean-out
“Clutter is a state of mind. When your home is in disarray, your life and your mind are in disarray,” says Heidi Wlosek, owner of The Perfect Pak in Upper Saddle River, New Jersey. “People often tell me that I gave them their life back.”
Since founding The Perfect Pak in 2023, Heidi has helped clients transform their living spaces into organized, peaceful environments—whether they’re preparing for a move or refreshing their homes. With more than 25 years as a financial adviser and investment banker, she blends logistical expertise with compassion, guiding clients through the emotional challenges of downsizing and decluttering.
“I’m especially passionate about working with seniors, whether they’re downsizing, moving to assisted living, or choosing to age in place,” she explains. “With baby boomers retiring at a rate of 10,000 a day, many want to remain in their homes. But just because you stay doesn’t mean you can’t update and refresh your space.”
Plan: Downsizing—sorting, measuring, and mapping what matters most.
Before: Nine-room apartment filled with a lifetime of memories.
After: Right-sized threeroom haven—organized, accessible, and calm.
One of Heidi’s most rewarding projects involved a client who had lived in her home for 30 years. Overwhelmed by decades of belongings, she wasn’t sure if she wanted to move. “She had so many memories tied to the space, but the clutter was weighing on her,” Heidi recalls. After reorganizing, decluttering, and adding modern touches, the client felt rejuvenated. “By the end, she was excited to host her family for the holidays. It wasn’t just about organizing; it was about giving her the emotional boost she needed to embrace her next chapter.”
Beyond decluttering, The Perfect Pak offers concierge move management. “We’re not just a packing and unpacking service,” Heidi says. “We handle everything from start to finish—arranging movers, coordinating repairs, and making the house picture-perfect.” Her team partners with trusted vendors, from painters to cleaners, ensuring each home is ready for its next chapter.
For seniors aging in place, services focus on safety and comfort, from installing grab bars to rethinking layouts. “It’s about creating a home that truly works for them,” Heidi says.
Her neutral perspective also eases family tensions. “I always advise against relying solely on family to help with downsizing. It’s easy for conflicts to arise when emotions are involved. As a third party, I guide clients through difficult decisions without added stress.”
Heidi and her husband, Ken, who is also her business partner, offer a comprehensive experience. “From the first consultation to the final unpacking, we handle every detail,” she says. “We even provide ongoing support so the home remains organized long after the move.”
Sustainability is part of their philosophy. Clients are encouraged to recycle, repurpose, or donate items. “We want the process to be eco-friendly and meaningful,” Heidi says. “It’s about giving belongings a second life and reducing waste.”
The journey begins with a complimentary consultation. “We tour the home, understand the client’s needs, and create a plan,” Heidi explains. “From there, we handle packing, staging, moving, and organizing, so clients can focus on what matters most—settling into their new life.”
When not working with clients, Heidi and Ken enjoy dining at local spots like Perusia in Waldwick and Bici in Ramsey, and volunteering with organizations such as the Upper Saddle River Garden Club and the Sunshine Project, which helps families in need.
Heidi says her greatest reward is seeing the shift in her clients. “There’s nothing more rewarding than watching someone go from overwhelmed and unsure to excited and rejuvenated. When they step into their new or refreshed space, it’s like a weight has been lifted. That transformation—it’s an incredible feeling.”
Layers for Every Exit
Versatile Luxury Looks for a New Jersey Thanksgiving
As we transition from summer to autumn and the chill sets in, attention turns to the holidays and their inevitable challenges: “What time should I arrive?” “What dish should I bring?” and perhaps the most daunting — “What do I wear?”
ARTICLE BY NICHOLAS
XAVIER HALL
Top Right: Silk crêpe de Chine dress
Mid Left: Lucia Leopard-Print Wrap Jumpsuit
Right: Delia Low-Heeled Ballet Pumps
Thanksgiving often kicks off the season of gatherings, and while we can’t necessarily answer every holiday question, we can cover the fashion front. Whether you’re attending a formal supper, a Friendsgiving potluck or a laid-back sofa-side feast, we’ve pulled together a style guide that guarantees you’ll look the part while staying comfortable.
Comfort is always a factor when getting dressed, but it’s especially important for a holiday centered around food. The key to winning Thanksgiving style is finding looks that blend elegance, versatility and function — outfits that transition easily from feast to fireside. Unlike Christmas or New Year’s Eve, Thanksgiving rarely calls for full glam, which gives you more room to play with colors, textures and silhouettes.
To ease the stress of getting dressed, we’ve outlined themes for inspiration. Many of these elevated looks can be pulled together from your own closet, proving you don’t need to splurge on a new wardrobe. And whether your style skews polished or cozy, the best accessory is still a second helping.
SEASONAL SHADES
Why it works: Neutral and earthy tones mirror the fall landscape and give off a cozy yet polished vibe. Easy to layer, mix and accessorize, these shades work for both daytime and evening gatherings.
Styling tip: Pair neutrals with gold jewelry or a textured belt for warmth.
• Minimalist option: Delia Low-Heeled Ballet Pumps ($395); Silk crêpe de Chine dress ($1,655)
• Monochromatic option: Women’s Smashed Satin
Asymmetric Top in Oyster ($1,090); High-Waisted Cinched Trouser in Ivory ($1,050); Love 85mm Glitter Tulle Pumps ($850)
WHEN IN DOUBT, GO DARK
Why it works: Black is timeless, slimming and endlessly adaptable. It gives you a chic base to play with bold shoes, jewelry or a statement lip, all without feeling overdressed for a family-centric holiday.
Styling tip: Break up the monochrome with a bold lip, animal-print shoe or statement bag. Add an oversized blazer if you want more formality.
• Balanced look: Signature Jazz Dress ($475); Gianvito Rossi Leopard-Print Suede Pumps ($875)
• Edgy look: Flynn Cashmere Sweater ($325); Livvy Leather Trouser ($1,450); Penelope Mule in Leather ($1,270)
ONE & DONE
Why it works: A jumpsuit is the ultimate “chic with zero effort” look. Comfortable for a long meal yet structured enough to feel elevated, it’s an easy swap for a dress.
Styling tip: Cinch the waist with a sleek belt for definition, or add a cropped cardigan for coziness.
• Sleek option: Enara Halter Flare Jumpsuit ($1,990); Vendome Slingback Pumps in Glazed Leather ($1,100)
• Statement option: Lucia Leopard-Print Wrap Jumpsuit ($698); Coach Tea Rose Pump ($195)
INSTANT POLISH
Why it works: Dresses are a no-brainer. Whether midi or sheath, they make a statement and transition seamlessly from cocktails to pumpkin pie.
Styling tip: Try sheer tights if the temperature drops, and swap stilettos for knee-high boots to give your feet a break.
• Classic with a twist: Memento Picnic Midi Dress ($1,880); Maysale Brown Suede Buckle Mules ($915)
• Traditional: Hypnotic Twist Sheath Dress ($1,550); Stuart Power Boot 75 ($850)
FROM FEAST TO FIRESIDE
Why it works: After a big meal, forgiving yet chic pieces keep you comfortable. Luxe knits and cashmere feel like loungewear but look intentional.
Styling tip: Slip into stylish socks, claim your spot on the couch and let elastic waistbands do the work.
• Guest In Residence Pullover Hoodie ($595); Guest In Residence Everywear Pant ($545)
Whether you’re in North Jersey or down the Shore, these Thanksgiving-friendly looks bring New Jersey versatility to holiday dressing. From neutral layers to luxe loungewear, you’ll find an option that’s as comfortable as it is polished — perfect for savoring the season in style.
For more style tips like this follow us @gardenstatecitylifestyle .
LIGHTS, CAMERA, REAL ESTATE
FORMER ACTOR JOE SIMONE TURNED HIS PASSION FOR PEOPLE INTO A THRIVING 35-YEAR REAL ESTATE CAREER.
ARTICLE BY PATTI ZIELINSKI | PHOTOGRAPHY BY JOE SIMONE
To call Joe Simone a self-starter is an understatement
When Simone, a Realtor at Howard Hanna Rand Realty in Wayne, bought his first house — a three-family home in Paterson — at 21, he learned a lot about real estate. At the time, Simone’s career goal was to be an actor and comedian. After high school, he attended acting school and joined the Teamsters, supporting himself by working for Leaseway Deliveries, where he earned a good salary and had the freedom to audition.
He burned up the phone lines, calling casting directors and vying with other actors to be seen. His efforts paid off: He appeared on television in shows including Ryan’s Hope and One Life to Live, as well as in the movies Crocodile Dundee II and Ghostbusters II.
Less than a year after he purchased the home, his tenants stopped paying rent, forcing Simone to sell the property. He made $50,000. He was intrigued by both the process and the result.
“My Realtor noted I had a passion for real estate and recommended I get my license and work with him,” Simone said.
The first few years of selling real estate were difficult, until Simone attended a seminar by life and business coach Tony Robbins. He later hired his own coach, who taught him the lesson that made his business take off: what matters most is truly caring that clients are making good decisions.
Simone continues to practice this mantra today — and it has paid off. After 35 years in business, he is ranked among the top agents in Passaic County, is a New Jersey Realtors Distinguished Sales Club Award winner and has achieved Platinum Level status in the New Jersey Realtors Circle of Excellence since 2002. He is ranked in the top 1% of Realtors nationally and has sold more than $1 billion in real estate, with more than 3,400 homes closed.
The skills he learned during his acting days proved beneficial as his career as a Realtor took off.
Joe Simone
“I was fearless in making phone calls, working my way into casting directors’ offices, which made me great at talking to people,” he said.
As was the case when he bought a house right after high school, Simone’s well-honed intuition also played a role in his success.
“I always had my finger on the pulse of where the market was right,” he said.
Things have come full circle for this North Haledon native, who as a kid rode his moped into Franklin Lakes — “my stomping ground,” he said.
“The beautiful part about Franklin Lakes and Wyckoff is that when you make an investment in those towns, whether you are there five years or 20 years, it is a safe investment,” he said. “It’s a great place to enjoy an amazing lifestyle and watch your asset grow.”
Licensed throughout the state, Simone focuses on about a 20-mile radius that includes towns like Wayne, Franklin Lakes, Wyckoff, Mahwah, North Haledon and Pompton Plains. He has also sold property in surrounding counties and at the Shore.
Simone’s best advice to clients is simple: don’t get frustrated.
“You might not win the bid the first time, but make sure your Realtor is staying in touch with the listing agent, because sometimes the buyer gets too excited, doesn’t have the money and experiences buyer’s remorse,” he said. “So, if that buyer backs out, you still have an opportunity to buy that property.”
“The beautiful part about Franklin Lakes and Wyckoff is that when you make an investment in those towns, whether you are there five years or 20 years, it is a safe investment,”
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Joe Simone
The markets he serves are hot.
“People move here from all over, but in the last five years, many are moving from Manhattan to New Jersey — a totally different lifestyle from the city,” he said.
When he is not working, Simone enjoys a vibrant family life with his wife, Maria Elena Misito, a respected psychotherapist and founder of Misito Psychological in Wayne. She recently launched the Elevate Me app to promote mental well-being.
Together, they have a blended family of six children. Ashley is in law school; Ava and Anthony are in college; and Mason is in his sophomore year of high school. The family also includes three dogs — Bella, Dolce and Goose.
Business runs in the blood for Simone’s two oldest sons. Joseph, who was drafted by the New Jersey Jackals and played independent baseball for a year and a half, earned his real estate license and now works with his father. Jordan also earned his real estate license.
“I’m teaching them about helping people,” Simone said. “It’s a very rewarding business.”
Learn more at joesimone.randrealty.com.
NOVEMBER 2ND
Ramsey Farmers’ Market
Ramsey Main Street Train Station | 9:00 AM
Open Year Round! Stock the pantry with peak-season produce, baked goods and small-batch specialties every Sunday. Live music, neighborly vibes and easy parking make the market an effortless preholiday staple. The Ramsey Farmers' Market hours will change effective December-April to 10 a.m. -1 p.m. For more information, visit ramseyfarmersmarket.org.
NOVEMBER 6TH
Fall Break Fun: Wilderness & Survival Skills
Lorrimer Sanctuary, 790 Ewing Ave., Franklin Lakes | 9:00 AM
Outdoor Skills Day for grades 1–6 features shelter basics, trail safety, compass activities and autumn ecology. Guided by New Jersey Audubon educators, kids learn by doing and bring home new confidence. For more information, visit franklinlakes.org/communityevents
NOVEMBER 13TH
Kids Jiggly Wiggly (Music & Movement Storytime)
Franklin Lakes Volunteer Ambulance Corps, 480 Bender Ct., Franklin Lakes | 10:30 AM
A joyful music-and-movement storytime for little ones, hosted off-site for extra wiggle room. Sing, dance and rhyme together—caregivers welcome to join the fun. For more information, visit bccls.libcal.com/event/15217262
NOVEMBER 14TH
RCNJ Theater: “Dracula: A Comedy of Terrors”
Sharp Theater - Berrie Center, Ramapo College, 505 Ramapo Valley Rd., Mahwah | 8:00 PM
A fast, witty 90-minute spin on Bram Stoker—complete with quick changes, big laughs and campus energy. It’s a perfect fall night at Mahwah’s Sharp Theater—grab a seat and sink your teeth in. For more information, visit ramapo.edu
NOVEMBER 15TH
Mahwah Museum — Saturday Open Hours
201 Franklin Turnpike, Mahwah | 1:00 PM
Explore local history—from railroads to model trains—during Saturday hours. Family-friendly exhibits invite hands-on discovery and hometown stories in a welcoming, small-museum setting. For more information, visit mahwahmuseum.org/plan-your-visit.
NOVEMBER 22ND
Wyckoff YMCA — 15th Annual Big Holiday Shop
Wyckoff Family YMCA, 691 Wyckoff Ave., Wyckoff | 10:00 AM
Kick-start holiday gifting with more than 50 makers—décor, jewelry, toys and treats. Stroll vendor aisles, meet local artisans and find one-of-a-kind surprises at the Y’s annual marketplace. For more information, visit wyckoffymca.org
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