HEALTH + WELLNESS
FAIRFIELD FAMILY HEALTH IS REDEFINING WELLNESS
LIFE + CULTURE
STICKS FOR SOLIDERS GIVES BACK
SPORTS + RECREATION
HOMETOWN HEROS
FAIRFIELD NATIONALS
A Sea s on of Thanks, A Calendar of Celebrations
Join us t his sea son for fest ive gat herings filled wit h fl avor , t r adit ion, and joy.
Thanksgiving Day Dinner Buffet
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Brunch with Santa
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Christmas Day Dinner Buffet
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November 2025 Publisher’s Letter
In this season of gratitude, we often find ourselves reflecting on the many blessings in our lives. Thanksgiving encourages us to slow down, embrace the present, and appreciate the people and moments that bring us joy.
This month, I’ve been especially grateful for the small, everyday moments that make life beautiful: the laughter of loved ones, quiet mornings with a cup of coffee, and the chance to be part of such a vibrant community here in Fairfield.
Our November issue is dedicated to stories of gathering, giving back, and celebrating the people and organizations that make Fairfield such a special place. We’re endlessly thankful for our advertising partners, whose support allows us to bring inspiring stories to your doorstep each month, and for the readers who make it all worthwhile.
As we prepare to gather with loved ones, let’s take a moment to reflect on what truly brings meaning to our lives. This holiday season, may we find contentment not in possessions or accolades but in the connections we nurture and the good we do for others.
Wishing you and your family a season of gratitude and warmth.
BRUCE BERNSTEIN, PUBLISHER
@FAIRFIELDLIFESTYLEMAGAZINE
November 2025
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The Fairfield International Food Fest at FTC 1: Nicole Palmer, Drew and Peter Angus 2: “The Fest”! 3: Charlie McMahon and Tess Long 4: The Langer and Zerella families 5: Stephanie Eiss 6: The crowd having fun 7: Emily, Ed and Debbi O’Keefe Photography by Chad Anderson Photography
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Jamie Hulley Arts Foundation Gala 8: Audience members getting ready for the show. 9: Happy guests ready to win raffle & auction items.
10: Jamie’s family thanks the audience for their support. 11: Jamie Hulley Arts Foundation volunteers 12: Jay Stollman and Judy Primavera 13: The finale! 14: Jay Stollman & the Black Rock All-Stars reunited! Photography by Lexi Crocco/Alexander Joy Photography
Children In Placement’s Flavors of Hope at Fairfield Museum & History Center 15: Zucca’s Gastrobar 16: Kate and Ricky Fritsch, Annie and Brad Bach, Sarah and Agaton Strom, Tanya and Brett Dunne 17: Missy Habighorst and Richard Cadavid 18: Kindred Spirits & Wine - Wine team Kat, Monica and Christelle 19: Amy Dowdell and Rochelle Hakim 20: Barcelona Restaurant 21: Joe Vacca and Shanda Easley
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Jaclyn Picarillo Unique & Luxury Properties
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When a hidden bomb in Syria left U.S. Navy SCPO (Ret.) kenton stacy paralyzed, blind in one eye, and barely able to speak, his wife Lindsey made a promise : “ i will be your arms . i will be your legs . i will be your voice ... until the very end . ”
Lindsey has kept her promise, no matter the cost. now it ’ s our turn to stand with the Stacy family.
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At SVP Partners, we’ve been proud to support sticks for soldiers for over a decade — helping honor the sacrifices of service members and their families. join us
The Fairfield Museum and History Center
The Fairfield Museum and History Center is a community-funded nonprofit organization offering hundreds of dynamic family programs and exhibitions. Central to our community focused mission is a desire to provide important historical context to pressing issues of our time and to offer a safe, trustworthy environment where multiple perspectives can be heard.
We’re proud to welcome more than 25,000 visitors annually, provide vital history education for more than 4,000 students, and strengthen our community connections. fairfieldhistory.org
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Redefining Wellness
ARTICLE BY SAMANTHA SCHOENGOLD BERANBOM PHOTOGRAPHY BY ABBY COLE PHOTOGRAPHY
Inside Fairfield Family Health
Dr. Jaquel Patterson
We’ve all been there: sitting forever in the waiting room, only to finally get moved to an exam room where the waiting starts all over again. By the time the doctor comes in, the visit feels rushed, leaving you with little clarity about what’s truly going on and yet another prescription in hand.
Dr. Jaquel Patterson is changing that narrative, redefining healthcare and the patient experience with the support of her skilled and dedicated team. A nationally recognized naturopathic physician, Dr. Patterson is the owner of Fairfield Family Health, a thriving multi-disciplinary practice that blends the best of integrative and conventional medicine. Raised in a family with a strong tradition in standard healthcare, her journey into naturopathic medicine was personal. “My mother’s struggles with lupus and rheumatoid arthritis, along with my own experiences with Lyme disease, anxiety, and OCD, deeply influenced my calling,” she explains. These experiences not only informed her philosophy of care but also inspired her to build a practice where patients feel seen, heard and supported. “There’s no one-size-fits-all in healing. Your history, hormones and health goals are unique; your treatment should be too.” It’s a belief that not only defines the practice but also reflects Dr. Patterson’s core philosophy of care. The team at Fairfield Family Health is committed to delivering high-quality outcomes-driven care with impactful, meaningful progress and results.Fairfield Family Health is also known for its expertise in treating tick-borne infections, integrative psychiatry, allergies, hormonal health, including thyroid and reproductive care and digestive disorders. Patients of all ages, from children to seniors, can count on a level of care grounded in trust. “What most of our patients have in common is that they’ve already been to several doctors and still don’t feel well. Maybe they’re struggling with fatigue, joint pain, digestive issues or they’re on medications yet still frustrated by lingering symptoms,” says Dr. Patterson.
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“There’s no one-size-fitsall in healing. Your history, hormones and health goals are unique; your treatment should be too.”
Unlike conventional medicine, where doctors typically treat symptoms, the team at Fairfield Family Health looks beneath the surface to uncover what’s truly driving a person’s condition. Patients can expect a more in-depth and thoughtful exploration of their diet, lifestyle, and environmental exposures, along with advanced laboratory tests and diagnostic practices, to ultimately understand the root cause of their issues. Dr. Patterson explains further, “Our treatment plans are comprehensive and individualized. They often include lifestyle strategies, nutritional or herbal supplementation and when needed, care coordination with specialists or appropriate medications. The goal isn’t just to manage symptoms—it’s to resolve underlying issues and minimize the need for long-term interventions. It’s about helping patients feel well and stay well, with the least burden on their bodies over time.” Education is another cornerstone of the care received at Fairfield Family Health. They help patients understand
what’s happening in their bodies so they feel empowered to make meaningful changes. For example, as we head into the long days of winter, Dr. Patterson encourages being mindful of your Vitamin D levels, especially since shorter days mean less sunlight exposure. Lower levels increase the risk of colds, flu and fatigue. Improving sleep hygiene, stress management, adopting a nutrient-rich diet, and supplementing as necessary can make a significant difference, providing your body with the extra protection it needs during the colder months. Fairfield Family Health also offers a wide range of complementary services rarely found in one clinic, including acupuncture, nutrition support, bioidentical hormone therapy, IV therapy, craniosacral therapy, ozone treatments, red light therapy, and even hyperbaric oxygen therapy (HBOT) is coming soon. The team is also expanding into group visits and community offerings, such as yoga and meditation, creating space for healing that extends beyond individual appointments.
“What inspires me most is witnessing transformation— seeing patients reclaim their health, energy, and joy after often years of struggling with chronic conditions.”
The practice also stands out for its national recognition in the treatment of Lyme disease. As a Lyme-literate practitioner, Dr. Patterson is an active member of ILADS, the professional society dedicated to tick-borne infections, and she has the incredible distinction of having trained thousands of doctors in functional medicine approaches to Lyme. Her multifaceted framework incorporates evidence-based herbal and nutritional protocols, while also prioritizing the restoration of gut health and optimizing immune function. “For those who need it, our team includes conventionally trained providers who are also functional medicine trained, so we can prescribe antibiotics or other medications when necessary, particularly for acute care. The goal is always to help patients feel better, recover function, and regain their quality of life using a personalized, integrative approach.”
“Healthcare as it should be” is at the heart of everything Fairfield Family Health does, serving not just as a tagline, but as a credo, a guiding promise, woven into every interaction and every treatment they are committed to delivering to every patient. Dr. Patterson and her team have built a space that empowers patients, with a wholistic approach to care that looks at the whole person—body, mind, lifestyle, and environment—to promote lasting health and wellness.
The rewards of her work are clear, as she is inspired by the evolutions happening under her caring, expert guidance. “What inspires me most is witnessing transformation—seeing patients reclaim their health, energy, and joy after often years of struggling with chronic conditions. Knowing that our integrative approach not only helps individuals, but also strengthens families and ripples out into the broader community, is profoundly fulfilling.”
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Fairfield, CT 06825
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ARTICLE BY SAMANTHA SCHOENGOLD BERANBOM
HOW SVP PARTNERS SUPPORT VETERANS AND BUILDS COMMUNITY BEYOND BUSINESS
DESIGNING WITH PURPOSE
Photo by Dariusz Terepka Photograpy
Bob Vitale and Cindy O’Neill are partners in life and collaborators in business at SVP Partners, a communications design firm. Launched in 1998 by Bob and his co-founders, Jean Page and Randy Smith, the firm welcomed Cindy
“COMMUNITY
true to each organization’s unique vision, identity and core values. Giving back and supporting those who selflessly serve our country are part of the core values that drives Bob and Cindy. Sticks for Soldiers, a local
INVOLVEMENT IS THE KEY TO THE CONTINUED SUCCESS OF STICKS FOR SOLDIERS.”
as a partner in 2021 after more than a decade with the organization, where she expanded her expertise in creative, production, and business management. The visionary couple, longtime Fairfield residents, has worked with industry leaders, top brands, prominent corporations, and emerging small businesses and local nonprofits. This globally recognized, award-winning firm provides a full spectrum of creative services from brand identity and digital media to advertising, packaging, signage and large-scale exhibits, as well as marketing collateral and annual reports that make a lasting impact. SVP Partners stands out from competitors by understanding their clients’ needs and delivering innovative, creative solutions that are authentic and stay
nonprofit, raises funds and awareness for severely wounded post-9/11 veterans, many of whom have suffered catastrophic injuries. Since 2006, the organization has engaged the Connecticut high school lacrosse community to highlight the sacrifices of our military service members, becoming an important part of the Ludlowe Boys Lacrosse program. The couple’s commitment to the organization has been steadfast—joining the mission when their sons played on the Ludlowe team and later both becoming board members. When needed, Bob stepped in as Board President, a further testament to his dedication and leadership. He approaches this role and the support of our veterans as more than a cause, seeing it as a responsibility we each share.
Every year, the organization holds its annual Thanksgiving Lacrosse Classic, hosted by the Ludlowe High School boys’ and girls’ lacrosse teams, with 35 teams comprising 500 high school athletes from across the state. The event provides financial support, amplifies the mission, and pays tribute to the service men and women who have sacrificed, helping to ease the burdens of those living with life-changing injuries. Following the event, Sticks for Soldiers holds its traditional Ceremony. This year’s honoree, U.S. Navy SCPO (Ret.) Kenton Stacy. Kenton, a loving husband to Lindsey and devoted father to Logan, Mason, Annabelle and Sadie, was a strong, hardworking, dedicated and highly skilled EOD operator. On November 9, 2017, Kenton was in Raqqah, training local soldiers, when a devastating explosion changed the course of the Stacys’ lives forever. Through the support of family, friends and Special Forces team members, along with the incomparable strength of Lindsey, Kenton continues his recovery as they navigate the challenges they face together. While Kenton is unable to travel due to his injuries, Lindsey and three of their four children will be joining to take part in this year’s Ceremony.
Photo provided by Sticks for Soldiers
Photo provided by Sticks for Soldiers
“STICKS FOR SOLDIERS’ IMPACT IS UNDENIABLE.”
Sticks for Soldiers’ impact is undeniable. In 18 years, over $1,250,000 has been donated to wounded service members and their families. Community involvement is the key to the continued success of Sticks for Soldiers. Bob and CIndy’s big ask? Show up at noon on November 29th and show the Stacy’s what this community is made of. Give thanks by sitting on the bleachers this Thanksgiving Saturday as Kenton is honored, share the Stacy family’s story as well as all the other incredible veterans’ stories that have been honored and spotlighted by the organization and donate to this great cause. To learn more, visit sticksforsoldiers.org
The 19th Annual Sticks for Soldiers Thanksgiving Lacrosse Classic Saturday, November 29, 2025 9:00 AM Games Begin 12:00 PM Honoree Ceremony Fairfield Ludlowe High School | Fairfield, CT
Photo provided by Sticks for Soldiers
Photo provided by Sticks for Soldiers
Ozone therapy is one of the most exciting and versatile wellness treatments available today. This service will be provided in addition to our other IV drip services available on-site. What is IV Ozone Therapy? This innovative therapy uses medical-grade ozone to help: Benefits of IV Ozone Therapy: Improves mitochondrial function and oxygen utilization, supports immune function, cognitive function, anti-aging and has antimicrobial benefits.Check us out at www.fairfieldfamilyhealth.com
Effortless Living Starts with Intentional Design
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Fairfield National's Big League Summer
PLAY BALL!
ARTICLE BY SAMANTHA SCHOENGOLD BERANBOM
PHOTOGRAPHY BY ALEX TORRES | PARK CITY STUDIOS
Every young baseball player’s dream came true for the 12U Fairfield National Little League team. Their incredible journey carried them all the way to the Little League World Series in the storied town of Williamsport, PA. From our local fields to the world stage, these elite young athletes—with their supportive families by their side and guidance from their dedicated coaches—Manager Brian Palazzolo and Coaches Tom Curley and Dave Gryga—experienced a summer they will never forget. There is nothing quite like baseball to bring a town together. Friends and neighbors rallied around this team, celebrating at the stadium and cheering at local watch parties across town, as these boys became true hometown heroes. Gritty, courageous, determined, hardworking, unflappable, relentless, special, legendary—these are some of the words the coaches use to describe this talented group. Their commitment, perseverance and love of the game—and of each other—are what baseball is all about.
FLM: WHEN DID YOU FIRST REALIZE THIS TEAM HAD SOMETHING SPECIAL?
Dave Gryga: Over the years they’ve grown from kids learning fundamentals to young men who play the game the right way — disciplined, resilient, and with a lot of joy. And despite their on-field successes, they remain humble and practice hard to keep getting better. I think I realized they had something special not in one single game, but in the way they carried themselves as a group. They hated losing even a drill in practice, they pushed each other to be better, and they always showed up for one another. By the time they won Districts and then State at 10U, it was clear this wasn’t just talent — it was different how they played the game as a team, smart and aggressive, with a knack to make those little plays that win big games.
Tom Curley: Right from the beginning I always thought the team had something special about them. Their ability, their confidence, their willingness to learn and work. It’s been a great experience to watch them grow individually and together. Both on the baseball field and as people. They’re truly a great group of kids to be around.
FLM: WHAT DO YOU THINK HAS KEPT THIS GROUP SO CONNECTED AND COMMITTED SINCE THEY WERE LITTLE?
DG: What’s kept this group so connected is simple: families, friends, and fun. Their friendships run deeper than baseball — they’ve grown up together, and that bond shows every time they take the field. And at the heart of it, they’ve always kept the game fun. Even with all the wins and big moments, they never lost the joy of just playing together…and pushing each other.
TC: It’s their love of playing the game, their competitiveness and their willingness to sacrifice for the team. These boys have a quiet confidence and a competitive drive to work together to achieve their shared goals. Their openness to coaching, combined with the experience of seeing the results of their hard work, created a snowball effect—allowing them to build and sustain momentum over the years that led to this moment.
FLM: WHAT A DREAM COME TRUE. HOW DID THE BOYS HANDLE THE PRESSURE AND EXCITEMENT OF PLAYING ON SUCH A BIG STAGE?
Brian Palazzo: It’s a really weird thing.The boys never seem to feel pressure. Even when we were down in games. We just try to stay focused and calm, not overdoing it. We let the pitchers come to us, avoid swinging out of the zone and trust that we’ll make the plays on defense.
DG: It really was a dream come true, and the boys handled it better than anyone could ask. What we talked about was separating the experience from the event. Off the field, I told them to be kids — enjoy every moment, soak it all in, and make memories they’ll carry forever. But once we were in the event — whether it was practice or a game — the focus had to shift. Lock in. Play the game our way, the way we’ve always done. If they gave their best for each other, not for anyone else, I knew they’d be at their best.
FLM: WHAT STANDS OUT TO YOU MOST ABOUT THE TEAM’S JOURNEY TO THE LITTLE LEAGUE WORLD SERIES?
BP: The drive and determination of these boys is remarkable. Having won the state of Connecticut the past two years, they were on a mission to achieve an undefeated three-peat. It takes incredible effort and commitment to make that happen and they were all in to make it possible.
DG: What really stands out to me is how this team plays the game. The lightning-fast decisions. The aggressiveness on the bases. The way they anticipate, think ahead, and play smart baseball. They keep pressure on opponents every single pitch, and they do it while making the game look effortless at times. But it isn’t easy. What they’ve accomplished — three years without losing a game in Connecticut, barely trailing in all that time — is unheard of. The odds of that happening are crazy. And yet, when the competition got tougher at Regionals and the World Series, their approach never wavered. They just kept making play after play until they broke through in the right spot.
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FLM: CAN YOU SHARE A LITTLE ABOUT WHAT MAKES FAIRFIELD NATIONAL SO SPECIAL AND UNIQUE?
DG: Like all Little Leagues, we’re a volunteer-run organization, built on people giving their time and energy for the kids and for the game. What makes Fairfield National unique is the depth of that commitment, so many families give more than anyone would ever expect and it creates a real sense of community around the league. This year, with a new board and more parents stepping in, that community has only grown stronger. And our team has really felt that backing every step through this amazing summer.
TC: Fairfield National has been in the community for as long as I can remember. I played in FNLL as a kid! We are one half of one town and yet we are a powerful force. There is a certain identity that exists representing one half of a great baseball town. Everyone in the community has always been really supportive of the league from the sponsors to the volunteers to the parents, players and former players. Anybody who has been associated with the league in any capacity has a special memory of their experience.
FLM: WHAT DID YOU SEE FROM THEM—ON OR OFF THE FIELD—THAT MADE YOU MOST PROUD? WHAT HAS BEEN THE MOST REWARDING PART OF COACHING THESE KIDS?
BP: The way this group plays together. We play so hard but we’re able to stay humble. We never try to show anyone up. It’s a respect for the game that you don’t usually see out of 12 year olds. I think that is also the most rewarding part. We are able to teach the game to play as fast as you can while always respecting our opponents.
DG: What made me most proud wasn’t just how they played, but how they carried themselves. On the field, they played smart, aggressive baseball, and every boy had his moment. But off the field, they were just as impressive. They were generous with their time and always stopping to connect with people. The community support was incredible — the watch parties, the messages, the videos — but what I’ve come to realize is it wasn’t only about people supporting the boys. These kids gave something back. The way they showed up, the way they played, it truly inspired people. Strangers from states away were glued to our games, finding favorite players, finding joy in this team. Some even told us it gave them hope when they needed it most. That’s the most rewarding part of coaching this group. Wins and championships fade, but the impact they had on people, the joy they sparked — that’s forever. That’s legendary.
“THERE IS A CERTAIN IDENTITY THAT EXISTS REPRESENTING ONE HALF OF A GREAT BASEBALL TOWN.”
Bruce turned a magazine into community.
City Lifestyle isn’t just a publication — it’s a pulse. A rhythm of voices, neighbors, and stories woven together by someone who believes in the power of connection. As we expand, we’re looking for people ready to turn care into community. Are you ready to be that spark?
Fairfield Lifestyle
Published by Bruce Loved by Fairfield
Tips on meal prepping for less stress
Let’s face it: hosting Thanksgiving dinner can be stressful. To make this year’s Thanksgiving meal easier and more enjoyable, consider the following timeline of tips.
2 WEEKS BEFORE
Create Your Thanksgiving Menu
• Print out the recipes you plan to use – this will easier than constantly tapping your phone to prevent the screen from going dark.
• Using your menu and printed out recipes as a guide, compose a complete shopping list.
• Double check your supply of herbs and spices to see what you have on hand.
• Shop for all non-perishable and frozen food items. Basically, if it doesn’t need to be stored in the fridge, or if it doesn’t have a short shelf life, it’s going in the cart.
• Plan three easy and tasty dinners for the days leading up to Thanksgiving and purchase those ingredients during your shopping trip. Or plan at least one night of takeout.
4-5 DAYS BEFORE
Clean & Organize, Buy Fresh
Groceries
• Clean your home completely. Then, as the big day approaches, you can touch up as needed.
• Finish your grocery shopping for fresh vegetables like potatoes, onions and carrots and other items not purchased earlier.
• Go through your fridge and toss any old, expired condiments, leftovers and mysterious food items that no one is eating.
2-3 DAYS BEFORE
Prep Meals & Set the Table
• Wash and chop all veggies and place the prepped produce into plastic baggies or airtight food storage containers. If some recipes call for “minced onion” and others require “chopped onion,” label the bags accordingly.
• Set the table, and include the empty serving dishes. This will help you figure out ahead of time where the larger dishes can go. Add Post-It notes to the empty dishes to remind you what will go in what. Use a clean sheet to cover everything and keep it all dust-free.
• Gather all needed serving spoons and other serving pieces.
• Pre-measure herbs and spices for your recipes and store them in labeled small plastic bags with the name of the dish they are for and what’s in the baggies. You can also do the same for any flour, sugar or other non-perishable ingredients you’ll use in your dishes.
1 DAY BEFORE
Tidy, Prepare Dishes & Drinks
• Do a quick clean and tidy around the home; for instance, run the vacuum.
• If you haven’t already done so, bake your pies, or, at the very least, prepare your pie dough.
• Make the mashed potatoes. Bonus tip: on Thanksgiving, put the potatoes into a slow cooker and heat them up using the “warm” setting.
• Prepare the gravy. If you have a second slow cooker, it too can be warmed up this way on Thanksgiving. This will also help free up pots, pans and burners on the stove!
• Set up a separate drink station where guests can help themselves or someone can serve them away from the kitchen. Stock it with glasses of different sizes, napkins, bottle and can openers and straws.
ARTICLE BY ALISON STANTON
Dream Big. Stress Less. Get Accepted
H O P E
Begins with YOU A SEASON TO SEE THE UNSEEN
The holidays have a way of calling us back to what matters most—faith, family, compassion, and the quiet but powerful act of giving. As lights go up and calendars fill, there are still many who sit in silence, carrying burdens too heavy to bear alone. But what if this season, you could be the spark that changes everything for someone else?
The founders of City Lifestyle, through their private foundation, are once again launching its annual Christmas Giving Campaign—a heartfelt effort to seek out and support individuals and families who have quietly fallen through the cracks. The mission is simple: to bring light, dignity, and hope to those who need it most.
Since its beginning just four years ago, this initiative has grown from a humble idea into a life-changing movement. Last Christmas alone, more than 200 families across the country received unexpected support—financial relief, but also something even more powerful.
“We don’t just send checks,” says Steven Schowengerdt, CEO and founder of City Lifestyle. “We send a message: You are seen. You are loved. And you are not forgotten.”
Together with City Lifestyle President Matthew Perry, Steven has helped shape this into a tradition that goes far beyond charity. “This is about community,” Matthew adds. “We believe we’ve been blessed, so now we get to be a blessing.”
Every story begins with a nomination. Often, it’s a neighbor, coworker, friend, or teacher—someone who’s been quietly carrying too much for too long. One past recipient, after receiving unexpected support during a time of deep personal struggle, wrote:
SCAN TO NOMINATE
“We send a message: You are seen. You are loved. And you are not forgotten.”
“Beyond the very practical solution of receiving funds to fix my car, this thing you guys worked together to do is bigger than that. I carry the Christmas card you sent in my purse. When things get really hard, I pull it out and remember what it felt like to be seen. That card represents hope— that change for the better is possible. I’m not sure how many people get to carry hope around in their purse. But I do.”
Another wrote in after her husband was diagnosed with aggressive brain cancer and unable to work:
“This support has blessed our family not only financially, but emotionally and spiritually as we trust God to meet our needs throughout this difficult time. Thank you to our anonymous friend and to your foundation. What a joy and gift to be part of God’s family!”
Each year brings countless stories like these—real lives touched by simple acts of kindness. Some use the funds to pay overdue bills, others to afford groceries, medication, or repairs. But no matter the circumstance, the impact is the same: hope is restored.
This season, you have the opportunity to be part of that. The campaign is now open to nominations—completely confidential and prayerfully considered. Whether it’s someone battling illness, facing unemployment, or just in need of a helping hand, you can bring them a moment of grace that will ripple far beyond Christmas morning.
“Knowing my mom was chosen filled my heart with indescribable joy,” said another past recipient. “Your generosity doesn’t just brighten her life; it inspires hope and faith in all of us. It enables her to stay in her home and get back on her feet.”
Nominations are open from November 1st to December 5th, 2025. To submit someone you know, simply scan the QR code or visit @CityLifestyle on Instagram, where you’ll find the nomination form in the bio.
This holiday season, let’s give more than gifts. Let’s give each other the gift of being seen. Because sometimes, the smallest gesture becomes someone’s greatest miracle.
To nominate someone in need, visit: KingdomBuildingFoundation.org or scan the QR code.
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NOVEMBER 1ST
Scout Wolf and Tiger Programs
events
Fairfield Nature Center | 9:00 AM - 10:30 AM & 10:00 AM - 11:45 AM
Teachers will lead scouts on hikes in the Larsen Sanctuary as well as other activities to help fulfill badge requirements. Scouts are welcome to participate in more than one badge. At least one adult from each pack must stay with their group. Space is limited. Registration is required. For any questions, call 203-259-6305 ext. 109. ctaudubon.org.
NOVEMBER 4TH
Chamber Coffee Connect -MONECO Advisors
2150 Post Rd #201 | 8:00 AM
Wake up with Chamber Members over a cup of joe to start your day! Bring a friend and network or just learn about new and existing businesses in the area, Make new friends and business contacts. $15 for Non-members. Visit fairfieldctchamber.com to register.
NOVEMBER 7TH-9TH
Rooms with a View
Southport Congregational Church
Celebrating its 30th Anniversary this year, Rooms with a View is New England’s premier annual design event founded in 1995 by the late Albert Hadley. Every year 12 designers are invited to create vignettes, or rooms - each one exudes a larger than life presence created to awe and inspire all who visit them. For more information and tickets visit roomswithaview.org. November 7th-8th 10 AM - 5 PM, November 9th 12 PM - 5 PM
NOVEMBER 8TH
Hole in One Fore Hunger
Carl Dickman Par 3 Golf Course | 9:00 AM
Enjoy a fun-filled day of golf for a great cause! Swing your clubs for a chance to win $5,000 and help fight hunger in our community. Whether you're a pro golfer or just starting out, this event is perfect for everyone. Bring 5 non-perishables for Operation Hope! $5 Registration required. For tickets and contest rules visit fairfieldrecreation.com
NOVEMBER 13TH
FTC Short Film Festival
FTC | 7:00 PM
Enjoy a night of short films by local filmmakers curated by Brian Russell of Red Shoe Film. There will be several special guests for a Q&A after their film. Doors open at 6 PM. For more information and tickets visit fairfieldtheatre.org
NOVEMBER 13TH
Open VISIONS Forum: Padma Lakshmi
Quick Center for the Arts | 7:30 PM
Padma Lakshmi is an Emmy-nominated producer, television host, food expert, and a New York Times best-selling author. In 2023, she was named one of Time Magazine’s 100 Most Influential People. Ticket includes purchase of Lakshmi’s new book coming out this fall.
NOVEMBER 15TH
CT Grateful Dead All Stars
Park City Music Hall | 9:00 PM
An All-Star Tribute to America's Favorite jam band. Sit back or dance to the best of the best of the Grateful Dead, performed by veteran players from some of the most established Dead Tribute Acts in the Northeast. A full bar and kitchen serving craft cocktails, delicious bites and more! Doors open at 8 PM. Visit parkcitymusichall.com for tickets.
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NOVEMBER 22ND
Laurie Berkner LIVE - A Holiday Concert!
SHU Community Theatre | 11:00 AM
Laurie’s holiday concert has something for everyone, no matter what you celebrate! She will play a mix of traditional songs and fan favorites by The Laurie Berkner Band. Bring a stuffed animal for your head and your holiday cheer! Go to shucommunitytheatre.org for tickets.
NOVEMBER 25TH-DECEMBER 18TH
Santa's Mailbox
Fairfield Parks & Rec, Fairfield Woods Library, Chips Family Restaurant, BE Chocolat & Spic & Span
Write a letter to Santa and drop it in any one of the mailboxes around town. Make sure a return address is included so the Jolly Old Gent can answer your letter! fairfieldrecreation.com
NOVEMBER 28TH-29TH
Black Friday/Saturday Book Sale
Pequot Library | 9:00 AM
Start your holiday shopping at this annual Book Sale! Enjoy books and media items in “like new” and “gently used” condition, ideal for gift-giving. With over 10,000 items to choose from, including books and media, there is something for everyone on your list. Admission is free. All sale proceeds support Pequot Library’s annual programs, exhibitions and library services. pequotlibrary.org
NOVEMBER 29TH
Winter Whimsy
Old Town Hall & Museum Commons | 4:00 PM
An evening of holiday magic with school choirs, food trucks, a beer garden, festive music, a petting zoo, carriage rides, holiday photos and more! The tree and Menorah lighting begin at 5 PM. fairfieldrecreation.com
NOVEMBER 30TH
Santa Visits Fairfield
Sherman Green | 10:00 AM
Come see Santa! Children can visit with Santa, share holiday wishes and receive a small gift. Also enjoy horse and wagon rides, a petting zoo, festive music and a holiday market featuring local vendors. fairfieldctchamber.com
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