Conejo Valley, CA June 2024

Let Rosemary Allison use her proven track record of success and expertise to get you the highest sales price for your home

Innately understanding the finer points of caring for clients with high net worth, and even higher expectations, Rosemary utilizes multimedia, print and digital internet advertising to masterfully unite sellers of the finest homes with quality buyers from across the globe.

Los Angeles Magazine “Real Estate All-Star”

Selected to 2024 Los Angeles Magazine Real Estate All-Star list

Los Angeles Business Journal

“The LIST” Residential Real Estate Agents

Recognized by the Los Angeles Business Journal for excellence and leadership in Real Estate

Voted “BEST” Agent by the Daily News

RealTrends “America’s Best”

Voted # 1 Best Real Estate Agent in Ventura County

# 1 Coldwell Banker Selling Agent

Named “Woman of the year”

CALIFORNIA MAGIC LOCATED ON OVER 23 ACRES + GUEST HOUSE 2 FIVE CAR GARAGES + 40X60 WORKSHOP

758 Donnington | 4 beds | 4 baths | Wood Ranch Country Club | $5,499,000 | CallRosemary.com

European estate where romance mingles with California magic! Located on over 23 acres, located behind private gates high above the Wood Ranch Country Club, this palatial Tuscan-inspired villa captures 360-degree sunlit views from every window across lush lawns on its lot situated as the crown on its own hilltop. Classic architectural elegance is revealed from the grand foyer, archways and volume ceilings and rich inlaid flooring. The superb resort-size backyard seems to be at the top of the world, enjoying a resort-style infinity pool and spa, private one acre LAKE, nature preserve, space for a helipad, TWO separate 5 car detached garages PLUS 60x 40 foot workshop, separate guest house, outdoor entertainment barbecue center, fruit trees, lush landscaping and circular stamped drive gracing the entrance. Originally located on the land that was a ranch owned by the Wood family who developed Wood ranch, this property enjoys membership in Wood Ranch Country Club without cost as a benefit of home ownership. No HOA rules govern the residence- but owner pays a monthly amount for road and gate maintenance. The master bedroom suite located upstairs is a separate wing with his and hers closets and a luxury bath. 5 gas fireplaces in main residence and one in guest house. There are 4 bedrooms and seven bathrooms in the main residence. There is an attached guest quarters with an additional bedroom and a detached one bedroom guest house. This exquisite setting is where dreams can take flight and generations can grow.

WELCOME TO ANDALUSIA ESTATE, AN EXTRAORDINARY LUXURY EXPERIENCE 13430 Andalusia | 5 beds | 6 baths | Santa Rosa Valley | Reduced to $4,899,000 | www.13430Andsalusia.com

Price Reduced- a great value. Home appraised at $5.1M Dec. ’23. This is a dream home for anyone that wants turn-key quality with style and views! A terrific weekend country escape from Los Angeles. Magical, one-of-a-kind gated estate offering new contemporary design and luxurious amenities throughout. This elegant masterpiece was newly built from an existing structure by renowned interior designer, Erinn V., to the absolute highest standard including a new pool & spa, concrete septic, copper plumbing, electrical/Audio-Visual, custom windows, solid wood doors, Baldwin Estate hardware, Viking appliances, Monogram wine-refrigeration and Rohl plumbing fixtures. Marble countertops & fireplaces, wide-plank white oak flooring and more. This one must be seen to be experienced as it’s prettier than the photos and has stunning views from every window. Detached guest quarters with bedroom and bath. Over 300 new plants add to the lush landscaping on this 5-acre sophisticated gem. Room for a barn, large guest house or additional garage for a collector on the nearly 3 flat acres available to use. Sitting just above Thousand Oaks in Santa Rosa Valley is a hidden celebrity enclave. Minutes to shopping & dining in Westlake and 50 minutes to Beverly Hills. Views of the surrounding rolling hills and afternoon ocean breeze coming through the hills add to the incredible ambience of this quiet, private oasis. Malibu and Montecito can be reached in 45 mins. Great schools locally for children. Safe, quiet and easily accessible to the private airport in Camarillo in 20 minutes. The gated estate includes an Avocado orchard, a handful of citrus trees and the soil is prime for growing wine grapes. Neighboring vintner’s are producing 95 point wines. Located in a prestigious equestrian neighborhood, private arena just 50 feet away and miles of riding & biking trails accessed directly from the property. Available to be sold fully furnished. This home is a stand out and a tremendous value for someone that appreciates quality over quantity.

Renowned interior designer, Erinn V., designed and reimagined this estate to the absolute highest standard. Erinn V.’s luxury properties are regularly featured in Forbes, Architectural Digest, Elle Decor, New York Times and many more. Her clientele are global power hitters and celebrities alike! Room for a barn, large guest house or additional garage for a collector. Entertain in style on the lush grounds.

STUNNING REMODELED ONE STORY -

+ SPA + TENNIS COURT PUTTING GREEN + DETACHED BARN/STORAGE/GYM

11390 Charisma Court | 5 beds | 3 bath | Santa Rosa Valley | $2,170,000 | CallRosemary.com

Stunning remodeled 5-bedroom, 3-bath, sprawling, Malibu-style, one level home features everything in demand: Tall, beamed ceilings, hardwood and stone finishes, newer doors and windows, a massive chef’s kitchen with top-of the line appliances, TWO islands, a butler’s pantry, and a 100+ bottle wine fridge to house the wine from your boutique backyard vineyard. Your resort style backyard features flagstone pathways, rock waterfalls, putting green + sand trap + hitting net, sparkling pool, a spa, logia, pavilion with a fireplace, full size basketball court, hiking/mountain biking out your backyard, barn + tack room, gym + office, fruit trees, and newer landscaping. Tesla Solar and battery back up system. Revert this property back to its humble beginnings as a horse property easily or use that barn for a workshop or man cave. This gorgeous estate in the Santa Rosa Valley is closest to Thousand Oaks, but here we boast a Mediterranean climate with ocean breezes cooler than surrounding communities. This small valley even boasts it’s own amazing K-8, quality education. Your 1+ acre dream home awaits you!

Stunning, highly coveted single-story residence nestled within the exclusive community of Lynn Ranch! Newly Renovated in 2024 with a sleek and sophisticated design, this exceptional private estate sprawls over 4,000 square feet. enveloped by the serene natural beauty of Southern California. The residence is comprised of 5 bedrooms and 4 bathrooms. There is an ultra chic mid-century expansive Living/ Great Room with a stylish natural double rock faced fireplace. New carpeting and flooring. Newly painted. Formal dine next to kitchen with convenient breakfast bar. One of the generously sized bedrooms was extended to house a library; which makes it a perfect home office or room for homeschooling. The fifth bedroom is located in the west wing making it a perfect room for guests. Formal model home with extended garage that can accommodate 4 cars and has RV side access. The property is zoned for equestrian use and there are ample trails to ride. The backyard offers ample space for you to create your own landscape desires, or to design an ADU.

On a Clear day you can see FOREVER! Grand foyer entry leads you into to this dramatic estate sitting as the crown jewel on top of the highest ridge that provides panoramic views from the ocean to the west with stunning sunsets, to the South overlooking Santa Rosa Valley extending over to Thousand Oaks and Newbury Park. Looking East enjoy views of The Reagan Library and amazing sunrises. On a clear day Santa Cruz and Anacapa Islands will appear to float along the horizon and if you enjoy stargazing, bring your telescope. When you’re on top of the world, the stars explode in points of light, every night. Substantial yard space to the right and left of the home, on over 5 acres of mountain top property, The kitchen has a walk in pantry and 5 burner cooktop. The spacious home features volume ceilings, crown molding, and feature a lovely entry, formal living room with custom wine storage, kitchen-great room and the extended indoor-outdoor living of the 2 gorgeous viewing decks including a private master bedroom deck. With 3 fireplaces, luxury abounds. The 4 bedrooms are large and include a master with fireplace and huge luxurious bath. and 3 secondary bedrooms upstairs, one with ensuite bath. Storage area behind garage that can be utilized for storage. Located in the sought after Santa Rosa Technology Magnet school with grades K-8!

Exceptional modern residence showcasing spectacular views. Situated on a hillside, this private contemporary home features an open concept floor plan with 4 en-suited bedrooms, 4.5 baths, a spacious and luxe living room with a brick fireplace, vaulted ceilings, and expansive glass doors that offer panoramic vistas, seamlessly connecting the indoors with the outdoors on the spacious patio.The gourmet kitchen is fully integrated with high-end appliances, exquisite cabinetry, and granite counters. The primary suite enjoys large windows framing picturesque panoramic views, an ensuite bath, and walk-in closet There are two secondary bedrooms on the north side of the residence each enjoying their own adjoining bath. Downstairs there is the 4th bedroom with wood armoire closet adjoining it’s private bath. Huge laundry room. Coffered ceilings and walk in wet bar. With an abundance of natural light, sleek design, and elegant interiors, this residence emanates a warm and inviting ambiance, while effortlessly blending comfort and sophistication. Spacious, easy maintenance backyard with storage shed, electric spa and covered gazebo area. Tankless water heater and newer HVAC system. Three car garage with extra depth and storage cabinetry. Located in the sought after Santa Rosa Valley with the highly rated SRTMS technology magnet school. Offered at $1,695,000

TRADITIONAL CAPE COD HOME IN RANCHO NEIGHBORHOOD OF SANTA ROSA VALLEY

2812 N Redondo Ave | 4 beds | 3 bath | Santa Rosa Valley | $1,599,000 | CallRosemary.com

This is the Fixer upper you have been waiting for! Traditional Cape Cod home with detached garage located in the sought after Rancho neighborhood of Santa Rosa Valley. Wonderful estate off picturesque circular driveway. View lot. Large master bedroom upstairs with connected laundry room. Huge room downstairs that was converted from garage now utilized as huge office. Raised foundation. Family room with panoramic pastoral views of vineyard in the distance. 4 Bedrooms, all upstairs. Formal dining room. Detached garage with huge storage area above. Seller is selling property in it’s existing condition. Great neighborhood with community trails, arena and clubhouse. Bring your ideas to reimagine this home with your contractors assistance. Offered at $1,599,000.

Completely reimagined sprawling single level home is in the coveted Las Posas Estates on a flat corner lot, over 1/2 acre. Enjoy carefree Country Club Living with an owned Solar system providing zero electric bills including your electric car charging. Main house has 4BR, 3BA, newer flooring, window furnishings, and light/fans. Primary suite boasts new window treatments, luxurious remodeled bath, dressing room and walk-in closet. Entertaining formal dining room, chef’s gourmet kitchen with stainless appliances, granite island with breakfast bar, large laundry & pantry room all flow to the expansive family room with a grand stone fireplace and great open views to the yard. In addition to the 3150 sq ft main house, there is a detached approx 320 sf guest quarters/studio/gym with kitchenette and full bath. This contemporary ranch offers a light-filled open floor plan and seamless indoor/outdoor living with sliding doors leading to a new expansive trex deck. New vinyl clad fencing and gates enclose a park-like yard for family and pets including a Built-in gas BBQ area near the 2020 Marquis spa, 40+ organic fruit trees and herbs with a new drip system making this home your perfect place to escape. All underground utilities with newer PVC drains, copper pipes connected to city sewer service. 200 amp electric service with a 240V/50A electric car plug-in. Newly constructed concrete circular driveway with an RV parking area serves the attached 2 car garage connecting to a large mud room with additional storage and new cabinets (not included in the main house SF). Make this contemporary ranch your forever home!Reduced to $1,749,000.

Get Moving!

It is already June again. I feel as if I just finished writing last year’s Men’s Issue message. Oh well, another year has passed, so let’s take stock and revisit the same theme. That being, “Hey guys, get off your butt and get moving!”

How you do that is up to you. It is best if you have a plan and some specific goals. The planning starts when you confront yourself and come face to face with what needs to be done. Get healthier, enjoy life more because you feel better living it and then decide where you want to be at each stage of the process. Done well, the process may never end because your activity and your goals will change as you get older and you’ll continue to feel better doing it.

I will start by using myself as an example. By mid-2021 I was a “train wreck.” Illness and medication needed to overcome the illness added 25 pounds to a tall narrow body. Most of it right in the middle. However, it does not require an illness to pack on weight in your middle. Diet, decreased testosterone and a sedentary lifestyle are often the real causes. The big belly on middle age or older guys is caused by visceral fat. It’s easy to gain and very hard to lose.  What it does to your body causes serious illnesses and decreases the quality of your life.

Your goals should be a combination of weight loss and muscle gain. One without the other is not enough. Go to the gym. Put your male ego on a shelf and start “slow and low” and build up from there. Combine aerobic and resistance training. Do it yourself or sign up with a good, credentialed trainer. Change your diet. Consume less food and eat less fat. You do not need to become a vegetarian or vegan, just eat better and healthier.

I recently looked at some photos from my granddaughter’s high school graduation and her 17th birthday. Gads!! Was that me? Three years later I look like me again. I may be 3 years older, but I just removed about 10 years, so I am living on “house money” and way ahead of the game. You can too!

June 2024

PUBLISHERS

Ben Malkin | Ben.Malkin@citylifestyle.com

Robin Chesler | Robin.Chesler@citylifestyle.com

EDITOR

Tracy Marcynzsyn

Tracy.Marcynzsyn@citylifestyle.com

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Barbara Burke, Adrienne Wigdortz Anderson, Tracy Marcynzsyn, Kim Pagano, Debra Thomas

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS

Clay Banks, Peter Hutley, Ben Malkin, Vibralinx Productions

Corporate Team

CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER Steven Schowengerdt

CHIEF OPERATING OFFICER Matthew Perry

EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF HR Janeane Thompson

AD DESIGNER Matthew Endersbe

LAYOUT DESIGNER Eva Tucker

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Have you heard the term “Silver Tsunami” getting tossed around recently? If so, here’s what you really need to know. That phrase refers to the idea that a lot of baby boomers are going to move or downsize all at once. And the fear is that a sudden influx of homes for sale would have a big impact on housing. That’s because it would create a whole lot more competition for smaller homes and would throw off the balance of supply and demand, which ultimately would impact home prices.

But here’s the thing. There are a couple of faults in that logic. Let’s break them down and put your mind at ease.

For starters, plenty of baby boomers don’t plan on moving at all. A study from the AARP says more than half of adults aged 65 and older want to stay in their homes and not move as they age (see graph below):

Source: AARP

While it’s true circumstances may change and some people who don’t plan to move (the red in the chart above) may realize they need to down the road, the vast majority are counting on aging in place.

As for those who stay put, they’ll likely modify their homes as their needs change over time. And when updating their existing home won’t work, some will buy a second home and keep their original one as an investment to fuel generational wealth for their loved ones. As an article from Inman explains:

While not all baby boomers are looking to sell their homes and move – the ones who do won’t all do it at the same time. Instead, it’ll happen slowly over many years. As Freddie Mac says:

As Mark Fleming, Chief Economist at First American, says:

If you’re stressed about a Silver Tsunami shaking the housing market overnight, don’t be. Baby boomers will move slowly over a much longer period of time.

If you are thinking about making a move, please call me for a free no obligation consultation to help you with your next chapter.

Rosemary Allison is one of the country’s most successful Realtors. Her vision and reputation as a trendsetter in the science of marketing Los Angeles & Ventura Counties finest estates, established her as one of the most innovative leaders in real estate professionals.

Rosemary’s dedication to the community and strong work ethic have earned her numerous honors and accolades including multiple years of recognition in the Wall Street Journal as one of the top selling 250 agents in the USA. Ranked as the #1 top producing Realtor by volume of sales with Coldwell Banker in Ventura County, in 2023 she was recognized by the Daily News Reader Poll as the BEST Realtor in Ventura County, this is the 6th year in a row she has been chosen for this award. She was also Voted the 2023 #1 Best Real Estate Agent in Ventura County by the VC Star Readers Community Choice Awards.

Rosemary Allison is well known for her hard work and generosity. In 2020 she was chosen as the Woman of the Year in Assembly District 44.

Rosemary is an expert in the details and subtleties that define multi-million-dollar negotiations. Rosemary can give you advice on improvements that will highlight your home’s strengths, downplay its weaknesses and appeal to the greatest possible pool of prospective buyers. Innately understanding the finer points of caring for clients with high net worth, and even higher expectations, Rosemary utilizes multimedia print and digital internet advertising to masterfully unite sellers of the finest homes with quality buyers from across the globe. Contact Rosemary by phone at (805) 479-7653 or email at RosemaryAllison@aol.com. You can also visit her website at www.CallRosemary.com.

The Desirability of Emotionally Intelligent Men

ARTICLE BY DEBRA THOMAS

The desirability of emotionally intelligent men is evident in both personal and professional contexts. On a personal level, they are capable of forming deeper connections, maintaining stronger relationships and providing support that is both empathetic and practical. Professionally, emotionally intelligent men are valued for their ability to manage stress, inspire and lead teams effectively, and handle conflicts with a level of sensitivity that preserves team dynamics.

Let’s briefly explore the importance of emotional intelligence in men, how it has transitioned from traditional norms, the impact it has on purpose and core values, and its growing desirability in today's society.

TRADITIONAL VS. CONTEMPORARY EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

Traditionally, emotional intelligence in men has been largely characterized by unhealthy emotional restraint. Societal expectations often discouraged men from expressing vulnerability or emotional complexity, pushing them to adopt a facade of toughness and emotional invulnerability. This approach to emotional wellness suppresses genuine emotional expression and can contribute to issues like stress, depression, and a lack of fulfillment.

In contrast, contemporary perspectives on emotional wellness recognize the importance of emotional intelligence as a fundamental aspect of health and happiness. This shift, facilitated by a broader cultural acceptance of mental health discussions, promotes a more holistic approach to wellness that includes emotional, mental and even physical health. Today, being emotionally intelligent is seen as a strength that enhances one's quality of life and relationships.

THE ROLE OF PURPOSE IN EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

For men, having a clear sense of purpose provides a context for setting personal goals and values, which in turn shapes how men perceive and react to their emotions. Emotionally

intelligent men use their purpose as a guide to navigate their responses to life’s challenges, helping to align their actions with their deeper values and beliefs. Congruence here fosters authenticity, a critical aspect of emotional intelligence.

THE INFLUENCE OF CORE VALUES

Emotionally intelligent men have identified intrinsic core values which drive strong character attributes such as integrity, respect and empathy. For emotionally intelligent men, their values are not abstract ideals but practical attributes demonstrated in daily interactions and decisions. When behaviors align with their values, men are often seen as more reliable and trustworthy. By living these core values, emotionally intelligent men inspire others.

STRATEGIES FOR ENHANCING MEN’S EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE AND WELLNESS

Improving emotional intelligence and well-being among men requires deliberate strategies. Education and awareness are the first steps; incorporating emotional intelligence training and mentoring into the home, schools and professional training can provide men with the tools needed to develop these skills throughout life. Other strategies include the following:

1. Encouraging Open Conversations

By talking openly about emotions, struggles and vulnerabilities, men can break down the barriers of isolation that many feel. Workplaces, schools and social circles that encourage open dialogue can be pivotal in changing perceptions.

2. Building Supportive Networks

Men benefit greatly from having strong, supportive networks whether through friendships, professional associations or online communities. These networks provide emotional support, practical help and a sense of belonging, all of which are vital for mental health.

3. Professional Help and Therapy

Therapy should be viewed as a tool for strength, not a sign of weakness. Professional counseling offers a safe space for men to explore their emotions and develop strategies to manage them effectively. Fortunately, more men are now seeking therapy, and this trend needs continued encouragement.

“For men, having a clear sense of purpose provides a context for setting personal goals and values, which in turn shapes how men perceive and react to their emotions.”

Debra Thomas Photo Credit: Clay Banks

“Whether it’s learning a new skill, engaging in creative pursuits or reading, continuous personal growth is essential for emotional wellness.”

4. Mindfulness and Mental Fitness

Mindfulness practices such as meditation, yoga and tai chi can significantly improve mental health by reducing stress and enhancing self-awareness. Regular physical exercise is also crucial as it not only strengthens the body but also releases endorphins, improving mood and reducing symptoms of depression and anxiety.

5. Lifelong Learning and Personal Development

Engaging in lifelong learning and personal development activities can boost self-esteem and provide men with a sense of achievement and fulfillment. Whether it’s learning a new skill, engaging in creative pursuits or reading, continuous personal growth is essential for emotional wellness.

LOOKING FORWARD

The path to emotional wellness for men is not just about changing individual behaviors but also about transforming societal attitudes toward male vulnerability and mental health. By embracing core values and finding a purposeful direction, men can significantly enhance their emotional and overall well-being. Encouraging open discussions about mental health, promoting healthy lifestyle choices and providing support networks are essential steps in this journey toward a more emotionally well society for men.

Debra Thomas is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT) who specializes in addiction and trauma including the use of EMDR therapy.

DebThomasMFT@gmail.com | DebThomasMFT.com 805.270.7909 Office

Break Out of the Conventional

As spring turns to summer, a sense of freedom arrives. We yearn to feel the sun on our skin. We want to get outside, discover something fresh and original.

Come join us for a series of delightful afternoons filled with wine, playfulness and relaxation!

Wine Tasting in the Vineyard

Every Fourth Saturday 1PM & 2:30PM

Indulge in a flight of Mizel’s luscious, velvety red wines, made from 100% estate-grown French varietals. Enjoy a guided tour of our vines, where the magic begins.

Art and Wine Series with Bobbie Rich

Every Second Sunday 3PM - 5PM

Free your creativity with an immersive art class, paired with Mizel’s fine wine. Bring your masterpiece to life under the gentle guidance of acclaimed artist Bobbie Rich.

Yoga and Sound Bath Series

Every Fourth Sunday 1PM - 3PM

Surrounded by nature, Mizel’s yogis guide you through a yoga and sound bath session, promoting relaxation and tranquility. Afterward, savor Mizel wine and artisanal chocolate.

THE PAUL GRAY PC MUSEUM: A Father’s Day Tribute

Not many people can claim their father has a museum named after him, but longtime Newbury Park resident Terri Childs can.

The Paul Gray Personal Computing Museum, located on the campus of Claremont Graduate University, was established to honor her father’s legacy.

In 1983, after holding professorships at universities, including Stanford and USC, Dr. Gray began an 18-year career teaching at CGU, where he founded the Center for Information Systems and Technology.

“Simply put, using cutting-edge technical training, students learn to manage data to help solve problems in business, health, education and government,” explains Childs, who has lived in the area with her husband and family for 22 years.

Dr. Gray, who passed away in 2012 at the age of 81, was a beloved educator and colleague. He continues to be celebrated for his innovative research and approach to teaching.

When he retired in 2001, Lorne Olfman, a professor in his department, surprised Gray at his farewell party with

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an announcement he had raised funds for a museum to be named after him.

“Dad was thrilled and decided to curate the museum himself,” recalls Childs, adding that her father’s collection of personal computers became the core of the museum.

When mainframe computers transitioned to PCs, Gray became an avid collector.

“He knew in a fast-moving field, things change, and he wanted to preserve a moment in time,” she says.

Childs remembers her father had understood from the start the impact personal computing would have on people’s lives.

“And I think he felt fortunate to live in a time when computers went from being accessible to only a select few to becoming available to everyone.”

The museum opened in 2002 and consists of six exhibits, each featuring computers and highlighting important themes, such as The Computer Lifestyle, Portability and IBM versus Apple. Visitors can track the early development of personal computing from the Data Products PortaCom (1971), the oldest

machine in the museum’s ever-growing collection, to the IBM Thinkpad (1994).

These days with a smartphone, we can hold a computer in the palm of our hand. So it is astonishing to see the 26-pound, suitcase-sized Osborne I (1981), the first “luggable” computer, as it was then known.

The museum’s artifacts underscore just how quickly technology has evolved.

The museum also honors Gray’s life’s work as an educator by sharing knowledge with people of all

ages through its educational programs. Their mission is to inspire creativity and innovation through engagement with technology, as well as to examine how computers affect our lives.

Allison Koehler, the museum’s former executive director, developed a curriculum based on the museum’s current exhibits that teaches young students the history of PCs. The River Oaks Academy in Thousand Oaks will be offering the course over Zoom to middle school students as an extracurricular option this spring.

“Considering how computers permeate our daily lives, it’s important to learn about their origins,” notes Childs, ROA board president. “Understanding the past provides a valuable perspective that might help solve current and future problems.”

The museum also hosts an online speakers series, Decoding the Past, where experts discuss the past and future of technology and society. Additionally, the museum has fostered interdisciplinary partnerships across Claremont Graduate University and with other organizations.

“Dad often worked on projects with professors in other departments,” Childs says. “His book, What They Didn’t Teach You in Graduate School: 299 Helpful Hints for Success in Your Academic Career, was cowritten with David Drew, a professor of education.”

ORIGINS

Born December 8, 1930, in Vienna, Austria, Gray enjoyed an idyllic childhood until the Nazis took control of Austria in 1938. The family immigrated to America in 1939, settling in New York City.

A bright student, Gray graduated high school early and received his bachelor’s degree in math at

NYU at 19. He met his future wife, NYU co-ed Muriel Blynn, that same year; they were married just shy of 60 years.

Gray obtained master’s degrees in math and electrical engineering, and his PhD from Stanford University in operations research. His long-standing interest in computation was sparked by a class in numerical analysis at NYU.

Throughout his academic career, Gray worked with many pioneers of technology, including Doug Englebart, who invented the computer mouse.

“Dad told the story of Englebart calling him and other colleagues to his office to see his new, yet-unnamed invention, which could move a dot on the screen. They all said, ‘Doug that’s great, but what could possibly be the application for this?’” laughs Childs.

Not surprisingly, her father’s interest in computing influenced her career path.

“After graduate school, I found my niche—technology marketing and public relations.”

Tragically, Paul Gray died from injuries sustained from a car crash caused by a driver on her cell phone. His wife, who was seriously injured, passed away 4 years later.

“Understanding the past provides a valuable perspective that might help solve current and future problems.”

Childs describes her father as someone who believed strongly in himself. His enthusiasm for everything he did was infectious.

“He was an engineer in the optimistic American tradition of the 50s,” she notes. “American technology was world-class and the future was bright.”

Childs remembers the tributes to her father upon his retirement about how he inspired and enriched his students’ and colleagues’ lives. One student summed up best what Gray meant to them all.

“He quoted a verse from Sanskrit Vedic literature: The gift of knowledge is the greatest gift.”

For more information and a virtual tour, visit research.cgu.edu/paul-gray-pc-museum.

The Meadowglade Expands Offerings

ARTICLE BY TRACY MARCYNZSYN

Community members, staff and clients gathered at a ribbon-cutting ceremony in April to celebrate The Meadowglade’s expansion to a new outpatient treatment facility in Moorpark.

The new facility, conveniently located by the 118 and 23 freeways with ample free parking, allows The Meadowglade to increase its treatment offerings and serve more clients through its full- and half-day outpatient programs.

“The new facility is spacious and welcoming, and it doubles the size of our outpatient center,” says Nariné Babikian, Executive Director of The Meadowglade. “Upgraded in every possible way,” the larger facility includes a sit-down kitchen, four group therapy and three individual therapy rooms, a reception and check-in area, group meeting rooms with teleconferencing capabilities, client lockers and staff offices.

“With this new huge, open space, we’ve added additional treatment modalities, including Saturday programming like tai chi, beat-based movement, yoga and sound baths,” says Nariné. “We are committed to providing clients with a variety of modalities to help them learn diverse coping strategies,” she adds.

With 2 decades of experience in healthcare, Nariné firmly believes that mental health is the cornerstone of overall well-being. She is committed to being part of a company where she can give back to the community and witness the transformative impact that valuable changes in mental health services can bring. Nariné understands that prioritizing mental health not only improves individual lives but also enhances community resilience and societal well-being.

Nariné is eager to begin networking in Moorpark and Ventura County, connecting with individuals from diverse backgrounds to ensure they are informed about the vital work being done within the community. With her expertise and dedication, she believes that their presence is crucial now more than ever. Recognizing the prevalence of mental health issues and actively working to address them allows for the promotion of early intervention, the destigmatization of seeking help, and the improvement of access to mental health services. This not only enhances individuals' quality of life and resilience but also strengthens communities and society, fostering a more inclusive, supportive and thriving environment where everyone can live fulfilling lives.

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At The Meadowglade, a personalized, evidence-based approach is adopted, tailored to individual needs while

recognizing the unique strengths of each person. Their modalities encompass a diverse range of therapeutic methods designed to foster holistic healing and longterm wellness. Emphasizing a variety of modalities, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Anger Reduction Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and EMDR Psychotherapy, alongside creative interventions such as music, art, and group therapy, the aim is to equip clients with lifelong skills.

Treatment Options

The Meadowglade’s three service options are designed to meet clients wherever they are:

1. The Cottage is a secluded 6-bed residential treatment facility with 24-hour support.

2. The Meadowglade’s retreat-like 14-bed residential hilltop house, surrounded by open space and fruit orchards, includes in-home scheduled activities and programs, such as cooking, gardening and career services. Clients are also transported to the outpatient treatment center for a full day of programming.

3. The Outpatient Treatment Center includes full- and half-day programming incorporating a variety of healing modalities.

The full program typically takes clients about 90 days— 30 days in each stage or 45 days in two stages—to complete.

“Everybody is here for a certain amount of time of time,” says Nariné, noting that each person is unique. “We want them to learn from us and take what they’ve learned out in their world. We want to be a part of their journey.”

With an estimated 1 in 5 Americans experiencing mental health issues annually, the importance of addressing these conditions cannot be overstated.

“Our mission is to improve the lives of our clients by providing holistic and evidenced-based services that promote and empower personal growth by inspiring hope through our unwavering commitment to compassionate client-centered care,” says Christina Hesselbrock, MSW, LCSW, Clinical Director at The Meadowglade.

The Meadowglade is part of Centered Health, a network of distinguished mental health treatment centers dedicated to providing transformative care and support to teens, adults and families.

The Meadowglade is located at 5231 Maureen Lane in Moorpark. Learn more at TheMeadowglade.com and CenteredHealth.com.

“We want them to learn from us and take what they’ve learned out in their world. We want to be a part of their journey.”

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Conejo Community Outreach:

ARTICLE BY TRACY MARCYNZSYN

CONNECTING LOCAL GENEROSITY TO THOSE IN NEED

““We surpassed 1 million diapers (double that in wipes) in August 2023.”

Conejo Community Outreach epitomizes the caring spirit and generosity of area residents. Founded in 2015 by a few local ladies, the nonprofit provides more than 25,000 diapers every month to local families in need.

“We surpassed 1 million diapers (double that in wipes) in August 2023,” says Board Vice President Jess Weihe.

The 100% volunteer-run board is headed by Board President Andrea Yusim, whose desire to serve families in need with a Thanksgiving event sparked the idea for the nonprofit. Joining with local moms with online platforms—Kinsie Flame (Moms of Conejo Valley) and Jess (Anonymous Mommy), as well as Rena Robles—the group formed the nonprofit, Conejo Community Outreach, and hosted annual Thanksgiving events through 2020.

“In 2018, we launched the diaper bank after wanting to provide a year-round service and

Conejo Community Outreach partners with and supports families through CVUSD, Safe Passage Youth Foundation, Amigo Baby, Ventura County Public Health, First Five, Harbor House and beyond. CCO’s board members include Conejo Valley influencers, board members of the Greater Conejo Valley Chamber of Commerce, business professionals, 40 Under Forty recipients, business owners and parent leaders.

Board Members: Andrea Yusim | President, Jess Weihe | Vice President, Rena Robles | Secretary, Kinsie Flame | Community Relations, Leanne Tapper | Fundraising, Sara Bartos | Treasurer

noting that there weren't many organizations in the county that provide dedicated diaper assistance,” explains Jess, noting the community effort involved.

The diaper bank depends on local volunteers to fill weekly diaper orders.

“We are grateful for the many organizations, schools, troops and clubs that have hosted diaper drives on our behalf and to the businesses that provide sponsorship support!” adds Jess.

In addition to community support and donations, including business sponsorships, Conejo Community Outreach has received funding from the County of Ventura, Jane Seymour's Open Hearts Foundation, the Samuelsson Foundation, the City of Thousand Oaks, Sherwood Cares and the Chamber of Commerce. They were named the 2022 Nonprofit of the Year for the Greater Conejo Valley Chamber of Commerce.

Visit ConejoCommunityOutreach.com to learn more.

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ARTICLE BY TRACY MARCYNZSYN

Local (Newbury Park) High School Juniors

Andrew Castillo and Krish Madhavan formed the "Panthers Against Cancer," campaign as nominees for The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society’s (LLS) Gold Coast Student Visionaries of the Year campaign. They were driven by personal experiences and a collective commitment to eradicate blood cancers.

Andrew's personal brush with the terror of leukemia in his family was a transformative experience. He shared, "After a tumultuous year

YOUNG VISIONARIES UNITE AGAINST CANCER

Student Team (L-R): Trent Elam, Andrew Castillo, Krish Madhavan, Wes Shapiro, Parker Koppenjan, Yash Bhamre, Enzo Giordano, (Tyler Turner not pictured)

of uncertainties and misdiagnoses, we were relieved to learn that my mom was cancer-free. This ordeal opened my eyes to the profound emotional distress cancer inflicts on families. It inspired me to join forces with LLS, aiming to spare others from similar agony."

Krish was inspired by his friend, Braden Bauwens, who introduced him to the LLS opportunity to support the blood cancer community and create a significant impact. He also lost a close family member to cancer.

"The loss of my grandfather was a watershed moment for me. It exposed the harsh realities of life’s fragility and cancer's brutal impact. Our campaign honors his memory and strives for a future where cancer no longer exists."

Their team included Trent Elam, Wes Shapiro, Parker Koppenjan, Yash Bhamre, Enzo Giordano, and Tyler Turner on a mission to raise $75,000 to fund vital research into leukemia and lymphoma.

Krish remarked on the broader impact of our efforts: "Participating in this campaign not only hones our skills and enriches our knowledge but also empowers us to make a tangible difference in our community by supporting a deeply important cause."

Andrew also highlighted the personal growth and community impact facilitated by the campaign.

"It is an exceptional leadership and development opportunity. We, alongside peers and mentors from various generations, focus on making a significant impact through fundraising for cancer research, which also provides valuable community service experiences and professional development."

The team concluded their campaign on a high note, successfully raising close to $60,000. These funds

“We, alongside peers and mentors from various generations, focus on making a significant impact through fundraising for cancer research.”

will directly support the dedicated research efforts of The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society, as specifically targeted by the campaign. The entire team extends their heartfelt thanks to their parents, family, friends and donors for their unwavering support. Special appreciation goes to the LLS organization, particularly Jenn Lacy, the Campaign Development Manager, whose guidance was invaluable throughout this journey.

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Color Your World With First Choice Painting

ARTICLE BY BARBARA BURKE

“We set a high standard with regard to offering customers a great value and also to always being professional, responsive and punctual.”

“We want to make you feel special about your home or business!” says Felix Lopez, Jr., whose father, Felix Lopez, Sr., founded First Choice Painting more than 4 decades ago.

“He set the high standards that our company has,” notes Felix. “For 40 years, First Choice Painting has provided residents with premium quality residential and commercial painting services.”

In today’s digital era, most prospective customers vet painters by reading reviews from prior clients on Yelp and similar sites. Felix Jr. points to First Choice’s loyal customer reviews that set their family company apart from the rest.

With an excellent reputation for high quality painting, professionalism and competitive prices, First Choice Painting takes pride in ensuring customer satisfaction. Client reviews compliment Felix and his team as efficient, easy to work with and accommodating.

“Felix and his crew performed an excellent job,” noted one former client on Angi.com. “A lot of work went into preparation; their first few days were spent preparing the surfaces; stucco was patched where needed, cracks were filled and caulked, and the wood was sanded smooth.” What’s more, “Felix is a great individual. He’s easy to work with and he shows pride in his work.”

Felix Jr. emphasizes that their family-owned small business consistently provides customers with great quality painting and prices.

“Our highly qualified and professional painters offer great craftsmanship and we are very clean on the job site,” says Felix Jr., adding, “We set a high standard with regard to offering customers a

great value and also to always being professional, responsive and punctual.”

Felix assures readers that First Choice uses quality paints by Benjamin Moore, Sherman Williams and Dunn Edwards. The company offers eco-friendly accreditations and is happy to assist customers who are experiencing emergencies. Superb and honest references are available upon request, he adds.

First Choice Painting proudly serves the Santa Rosa Valley, Westlake Village, Thousand Oaks, Newbury Park, Calabasas, Malibu and Palisades as well as the San Fernando Valley.

“All of our work is fully bonded, licensed and insured and all of our jobs are fully guaranteed,” notes Felix. “We love painting houses and businesses, and our business is in our blood.”

First Choice Painting is open from 8:30 a.m. to 6 p.m. Monday through Friday. To chat with Felix and his team about painting options and to schedule a color consultation and receive a highly competitive quote, contact Felix at 805.273.1180.

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Westlake Village Flooring

ARTICLE BY TRACY MARCYNZSYN

“Our knowledgeable team can help you choose the perfect material for your project.

Flooring sets the tone and impacts the overall look and feel of a home or business. So when it comes to choosing just the right flooring for your space, Westlake Village Flooring has you covered. Founded by Babak Sadraie over 3 decades ago, Westlake Village Flooring specializes in residential and commercial projects and has serviced thousands of projects with the highest quality materials throughout the region.

Q. WHAT SERVICES DOES WESTLAKE VILLAGE FLOORING PROVIDE?

A. We offer a wide range of flooring options to fit every style and budget. Our services include hardwood flooring, tile installation and cabinets installation, all delivered with a commitment to quality and customer satisfaction.

Q. WHAT SETS WESTLAKE VILLAGE FLOORING APART?

A. We are a family business dedicated to providing the best customer service and offering a 100% satisfaction guarantee to our clients.

Q. WHAT TYPES OF MATERIALS DO YOU USE?

A. We offer many choices that work for different styles and budgets. From hardwood to luxury vinyl, tile and carpet, options are plentiful.

Our knowledgeable team can help you choose the perfect material for your project.

Q. WHAT CAN YOU TELL US ABOUT THE TEAM AT WESTLAKE VILLAGE FLOORING?

A. Our team has extensive knowledge and expertise in the flooring industry, and we take pride in completing every project on time and on budget.

Q. WHERE CAN WE SEE EXAMPLES OF WESTLAKE VILLAGE FLOORING’S WORK?

A. With its second location in Westlake Village, Westlake Village Flooring has serviced the interior of Boccaccio’s and The Landing Grill Restaurants on the lake.

Taking pride in delivering exceptional customer service, Westlake Village Flooring has built a reputation for using top-quality materials.

“We look forward to doing business with future customers,” says Babak, “Bob” Sadraie. “Choose Westlake Village Flooring for your next flooring project and benefit from over 33 years of experience, exceptional service and high-quality products. Our expert team will guide you through the process and ensure complete satisfaction with every project.”

Contact them at 805.870.4311.

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the timeline for completion. Simply stated, ODM sets the industry standard locally for design and build services for both new construction and remodeling projects.

ODM Construction Offers a Superior Design and Build Experience

ARTICLE BY BARBARA BURKE

When Humberto Vasquez immigrated to the United States from Guatemala more than 25 years ago, he founded ODM Construction and became a successful businessman.

Decades later, ODM Construction enjoys a stellar reputation of providing customers with superior residential construction and remodeling services.

The highly regarded father and son business operates with Humberto’s motto that demonstrates the strong work ethic their entire team lives by: “At ODM Construction, we’re not just building or remodeling—we’re building dreams!”

Humberto and his son Oscar proudly note that ODM is consistently recognized as a top-rated construction company in the Conejo Valley and beyond. The firm’s impressive projects grace the landscapes of Agoura Hills, where ODM’s offices and showroom are, as well as Westlake Village, Thousand Oaks, Oak Park, Calabasas, Malibu and Pacific Palisades.

ODM’s formidable success is attributable to Humberto insisting that the company’s work crews always adhere to best practices and consistently display their dedication to clearly communicate with clients. ODM’s design, build and construction teams listen attentively to customers’ questions and concerns and are clear and honest regarding the various stages of a project, the costs involved and

ODM’s construction teams are recognized as top-tier as they help customers define the details of affordable construction projects and experience those visions becoming reality.

“As the owner of ODM Construction, I’m involved in everyday operations with daily visits to the job sites and all stages of servicing clients, including architectural design, 3D renderings, project management and client services,” says Humberto. “My crews and I do satisfy our clients and help them enjoy their remodeling and new construction projects, while also saving them a great amount of money.”

Oscar proudly notes that ODM is a family owned company dedicated to providing outstanding customer service.

“We specialize in ensuring that our customers’ dreams come true,” says Oscar. “Our customers know that their projects will be completed within their timeline and that they will receive the quality that they deserve.”

Visit their website, ODMConstruction.com, to see images of the company’s projects and details about their multifaceted services, including new construction, full home remodeling, kitchen and bath remodeling, additions, and converting garages into alternative dwelling units.

Customer reviews online on Yelp and similar sites are consistently positive, complimenting the team on their attention to detail and diligent and thorough communication. Many customers also mention that ODM’s construction crews leave their project premises clean every evening, a detail that clients greatly appreciate.

ODM Construction invites readers to reach out to Humberto and Oscar for a design and build consultation.

“Contact us today to start your home transformation journey!” Humberto says. “Call us anytime at 818.740.7422, email us at info@odmconstruction.com or visit our showroom at 28720 Roadside Drive, Suite 201, in Agoura Hills.”

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Estate Planning with Terri Hilliard

The law offices of Terri Hilliard, PC welcomed community members and clients to a very special reception and the opportunity to get a refresh on their estate planning. Terri Hilliard offers her clients a holistic approach to their estate, business, special needs planning, wealth preservation and long-term care management needs. In affluent communities like the Conejo Valley and Santa Rosa Valley where so much value exists in real estate and family trusts great care must be taken to properly protect and preserve those assets and Terri provides guidance to do exactly that. For more information visit TerriHilliard.com or call 805.201.2552.

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ULTIMATE DINING WITH A MOULIN ROUGE CELEBRATION

ARTICLE BY BEN MALKIN | PHOTOGRAPHY BY BEN MALKIN & VIBRALINX PRODUCTIONS

Senior Concerns, led by President Andrea Gallagher, celebrated a Moulin Rouge-themed Ultimate Dining fundraiser at the Hyatt Regency Westlake. Attendees were greeted by several local restaurants and beverage purveyors and then gathered for dinner and a very lively auction that raised many thousands of dollars for the valuable services that Senior Concerns provides to our senior community and their families. Here are a few examples of the tasty goodies enjoyed by guests:

POURINGS

14 Cannons: Tyrannicide – IPA and Patient Pilsner – Czech Pilsner

Lucas and Lewellen: 2021 Estate Chardonnay, 2022 Rosé of Pinot Noir, 2018 Goodchild High 9 Pinot Noir, 2019 Valley View Cabernet Sauvignon, 2018 Hidden Asset (Red Blend)

Patron: Classic Margaritas

Sunland Vintage Winery: 2018 Rose de Sette (Bubbles) – Lodi 2015 Sangiovese Lodi 2014 Alicante Bouschet – Madera

Wilde Irish Gin: Shenanigans – Wilde Irish Gin, Lemon, Aloe, Avocado Honey, Asian Pear, Rocket Lettuce, Electric dust

TASTINGS

Fogo de Chao: Skewered, seasoned with rock salt and cooked over an open flame, Picanha, prime part of the Top Sirloin

Skewered, citrus marinated chicken cooked over an open flame, Frango. Potato Salad and Quinoa Tabbouleh (Quinoa Salad)

Freda’s: Maine Lobster Crostini drizzled with a Creamy Lobster Bisque

M on High: Parmesan Risotto Cake with creamy wild mushroom sauce, rosemary and shaved parmesan with Burgundy Braised Short Rib on top

Mouthful Eatery: Vodka-cured Salmon on pumpernickel crostini with caper creme fraiche & pickled shallot

Patron: Cheese Enchiladas and Chicken Enchiladas, plus chips and salsa A good time was had by all!

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SMC offers four types of classes at the Malibu Campus: Credit, Noncredit, Emeritus, and Community Education, that aim to serve students of all ages with different educational needs and goals. Visit us today and learn more about the classes we have in store for you.

Fall classes start August 26!

Here is a quick peek of some popular classes at SMC-Malibu for the Fall 2024 semester:

CREDIT CLASSES

•Beginning Ballroom Dance

•Film Appreciation: Introduction to Cinema

•Stellar Astronomy with Laboratory

•Western Art History

EMERITUS CLASSES

•Autobiography

•Creative Writing

•Life Drawing Studio

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Perfecting Your Golf Swing

ARTICLE BY DANIEL SCHOWENGERDT

Whether you are a new golfer or have been playing for decades, we all want the same thing—to be a single-digit handicap (or better). In some professions, golfing with clients is a must, and slicing off the tee box can kill the deal.

Get fit for equipment.

01.

If you are buying clubs off the rack, you aren’t giving yourself the best chance for success. Golf technology is evolving every year, and although you don’t need to buy a new driver each year, if you’ve been playing with the same clubs for 5+ years, it’s time to take advantage of the new equipment. Newer clubs have lower and deeper center of gravity (CG), creating an easier launch off the face. Even off-center strikes can produce a straight shot with the right set of clubs. Any major golf store will fit you for free—just make sure you get the correct length club and size grip. The clubs don’t swing themselves, so don’t neglect instruction and practice, but getting the right equipment is a vital piece of the puzzle.

On drivers and hybrids, some of the newest equipment have premium shaft options off the rack. Generally, a $300 driver has a low-grade $15 shaft that you should change. The shaft is the engine of the club, so getting custom shafts will add distance and forgiveness—guaranteed.

As for the putter, you use it more than any other club in your bag on every round of golf. It should be the most tailored club in your bag.

02.

Get good golf instruction, REGULARLY.

We’ve all heard someone say, “I should get a lesson sometime.” To be effective, you need regular lessons from a PGA certified pro, not just one lesson. Getting quality instruction from the same instructor can turn slices into draws and give you the confidence to play with anyone on any course. Years ago, golf instructors started instruction with chipping and putting and then graduated to the driver. Now, instructors have been pressured to start with the driver because we all want to outdrive our friends. Resist that temptation! Get instruction on your short game and irons first. My friend regularly outdrives me by 50 yards, but my ball is in the hole first most of the time because of my training and practice on the short game.

03.

Read quality golf books for a higher golf IQ.

There are thousands of golf books, but don’t worry, you only need to read a handful of them to up your golf IQ. Here are some top reads:

Short game: Dave Pelz’s Short Game Bible by Dave Pelz

Mental game: Golf is Not a Game of Perfect by Bob Rotella Mechanics: Practical Golf by John Jacobs

Ball flight laws: The Practice Manual by Adam Young (only read the first 50 pages)

04.

Practice your short game every day.

You don’t even have to spend time away from your family while practicing if you don’t have a golf simulator. You can practice putting and chipping on the carpet while watching TV with your family.

Chipping and the bump and run: The only mechanical advice I will give is the most important lesson you can learn in the short game. When you miss your approach shot you must be able to chip the ball within 8 feet of the hole for a one putt. Try this shot from Dave Peltz’s short game book. It gets me up and down from 25 yards out to just off the green.

USING THESE TIPS YOU CAN MAKE A DELICIOUS HOMEMADE BARBECUE SAUCE.

A good Barbeque sauce is comprised of a variety of the same six components. The key is to discover what style you enjoy most, and don’t be afraid to experiment. Oh, and taste often during the preparation process to adjust if so desired.

SOMETHING SWEET

This can be honey, cola, molasses, preserves, brown sugar, or syrup. This caramelizes as you cook, bringing those smoky, sugary flavors.

SOMETHING TANGY

Think vinegar, mustard, or citrus. This is what brings the zing to your sauce.

SOMETHING SPICY

This provides your heat: a hot sauce is a great choice. A good rule of thumb is to use about 1/2 teaspoon for every cup of sauce you’re making.

SOMETHING LIQUID

It can be beer, water, chicken soda, stock, or wine. Start with about 1/2 a cup and see what happens.

SOMETHING TOMATO

You’ll most likely use ketchup, but you can also use tomato paste.

THE SPICE COMBINATION

This can depend on your liking and taste and can include anything from onion powder to garlic powder to chili powder to allspice to cayenne pepper to mustard powder to liquid smoke to cumin to Worcestershire sauce and more. Start with a teaspoon of salt, and keep tasting as you experiment with your desired spices.

HOMEMADE

BBQ SAUCE

INGREDIENTS

• 2 cups ketchup

• 1 cup water

• 1/2 cup apple cider vinegar

• 5 tablespoons brown sugar

• 5 tablespoons sugar

• 1/2 tablespoon  black pepper

• 1/2 tablespoon onion powder

• 1/2 tablespoon ground mustard

• 1 tablespoon lemon juice

• 1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce

DIRECTIONS

In a medium saucepan, combine all ingredients. Bring mixture to a boil, reduce heat to simmer. Cook uncovered, stirring frequently, for 1 hour 15 minutes.

Recipe and information courtesy of Pat Neely and Gina Neely.

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MIX-AND-MATCH THE PERFECT SIX PACK

When the hot summer months roll around, many people reach for a cold, refreshing beer to cool off. There are many different types of beers that are perfect for enjoying during the summer months. Whether you prefer a light and crisp ale, a fruity wheat beer, or a bold and hoppy IPA, there are plenty of different beer types that are perfect for enjoying during the summer months.

BREW: FOOD PAIRINGS:

Blonde Ale

TASTE NOTES:

Light-bodied and smooth, an easy-drinking beer known for its simplicity.

One of the most popular craft beer styles; a hoppy, moderately strong ale of golden-to-copper color.

LIGHT AND SPICY FOODS: cajun chicken wings, grilled salmon, Monterey Jack cheese

GRILLED AND SPICY FOODS: burgers, steaks, Indian curries, ginger spiced desserts

Fruit Beers

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Hefeweizen

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ARTICLE BY KIM PAGANO

SPECIAL MEN IN MY LIFE

First, there’s my dad. I loved having a dad with whom I could do no wrong and was cherished by—I was truly a daddy’s girl; he was always there for me.

I’m also so grateful for having an incredible husband that is very similar to my dad and is like a MacGyver who can fix anything and who also supports me in everything I do.

I'm blessed to have two sons who have completely different personalities and are amazing in every way. One of my sons and his wife just gave us another granddaughter, which makes two for us! As this is their first child, I find it very special and beautiful to watch him being a dad.

I also have three grandsons who are so smart and loving as they are finding their way in life with school, sports and their interests; I love my little men and watching them grow up.

I am so blessed to have one son in law and another almost son in law who are completely different but are both incredible father figures to my grandchildren. I feel truly blessed to have my three grandsons, attend their sports events and see their different personalities develop.

I grew up with a sister and always looked at the interaction of families with both boys and girls. It looked like it was more fun. Men add a different spice to life. We have raced, skated, camped, fished, hunted, watched football and been involved in all of their passions, which adds so much to my life. Celebrate all the men in your family; they truly add a different flair.

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