Lexington Life Magazine - June 2023

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The Nation’s Highest Ratings in Heart Surgery

At Lexington Medical Heart and Vascular Center, we’re proud to receive three-star ratings for heart surgery once again — the highest measure of quality awarded by the Society of Thoracic Surgeons.

We’re honored to be recognized for our patient care and outcomes in three types of heart surgery: aortic valve replacement, coronary artery bypass grafting and mitral valve replacement and repair. Fewer than 10% of hospitals in the country earn this elite distinction, and we’re proud to be the only South Carolina hospital included among them.

At Lexington Medical Heart and Vascular Center, we renew lives every day. And our quality ratings mean you can get the best heart care in the nation — right here at home.

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Where Do You Put Your Trust?

There is a poem by Robert Frost titled “The Road Not Taken.” The poem ends, “Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.” This poem speaks of the courage of the risk-taker who doesn’t go along with the crowd. But sometimes the road less traveled is because all the signs say, “Bridge out ahead!”

Such is the case of a man I knew here in Lexington. He was 83 and had cancer. He had no children and no close relatives. He told me that he had met a woman online who was going to be his live-in caregiver… and she was from Sweden.

The first thing I said was, “You haven’t given her any money have you?” He was being scammed, yet could not be convinced otherwise. This “person” had pulled the wool over his eyes by becoming his daily life partner on the phone. He had pictures of her passport and birth certificate (both fake). She had convinced him she was inheriting $31,000,000 but had to pay legal fees and hospital bills before she could get the money and come to SC. I had two FBI agents talk with him to try and convince him that he was being scammed, but he relentlessly held on to his dream “on his road less traveled by.”

He sold his house and moved into a motel to await the arrival of his “girlfriend.” Six months later he was totally broke and living in a shelter for homeless veterans after losing about $400,000 to the scammers. He ended up in a nursing home and I went to see him. He said he wanted me to conduct his funeral at Ft. Jackson. He died a week later. I hope the man’s soul was saved. I asked him if he had ever met the Lord Jesus and invited Him into his heart to forgive him of his sins. He told me he did that at a Billy Graham Crusade. Months earlier I told this man, “You are putting far more trust in another person than you are trusting God for what you need in life.”

Conclusions: 1. If you know of anyone you suspect is being scammed, try harder than I did to make it stop. 2. Please place your trust in Jesus alone for everything you need for this life and the next. Make sure when you are climbing your life’s ladder it’s not leaning on the wrong wall. n

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In my opinion, June is one of the best months of the year. Why? No, it’s not because of Father’s Day. It’s because the summer solstice occurs on June 21 each year. The summer solstice is when the earth’s axis is tilted in such a manner that the earth receives maximum sunlight. Therefore, on Wednesday, June 21, Lexington, South Carolina, will have more sunlight than any other day of the year. In fact, in certain parts of Alaska it will be daylight for 24 hours straight. Wow! Better have your sunglasses ready.

For some reason, I’m much more productive when the sunlight is more abundant. How about you? Does the daily amount of sunlight affect you somehow, someway? There is a term for those who suffer from lack of daylight. It’s called Seasonal Affect Disorder or appropriately abbreviated SAD and is a type of depression that occurs in fall and winter. There are even lights called light boxes that simulate the sun’s rays to combat SAD.

My experience as a freshman and sophomore at Kutztown University near Reading, Pennsylvania, was that the bleak skies were gray from October into March. I needed a change of scenery, and the University of South Carolina accepted me as a transfer student. My arrival on campus was my first visit to Columbia ever. I was instantly hooked. The blue skies, bright sunshine, friendly folks, and a pair of Duckhead shorts from Oops in 5 Points, made my transition to South Carolina complete.

Happy Father’s Dad to all the dads out there. Thanks for reading Lexington Life!

Todd Shevchik

FEATURES

12 Lake Murray Boating Club

19 Moody Springs

22 Heads or Tails?

28 Birds of a Feather

COLUMNS

8 Faith Matters

39 David Clark

DEPARTMENTS

9 From the Publisher

11 Lexington Leader

35 Calendar of Events

37 Spice of Life

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Mayor Steve MacDougall

Now that school is out for summer, it’s a perfect opportunity to get outdoors and explore the Town’s parks. There are currently seven public parks located within Town limits.

Gibson Pond Park is a great place to explore what nature has to offer. The pond is now open for fishing from the shoreline or one of the fishing piers. Other features include a dam and bridge, a dock, picnic shelters, a walking trail loop, and swings. The large shelter at the back of the park is available to rent; the smaller picnic shelters are available on a first come, first-serve basis.

Virginia Hylton Park is closed until further notice while construction and renovations take place. There will be new walking trails, picnic shelters, a new playground, exercise stations, and more. The park will be reopened in sections as they are completed.

If you’re looking for a place to take the kids, check out Corley Street Park and Caractor Park. Both feature playgrounds, a splash feature and picnic shelters with grills.

For more information on the Town’s parks and where they are located, visit LexSC.com. n

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Andrea Snelgrove

Andrea Snelgrove does not hesitate to describe her overwhelm ing passion for Wingard’s Market and the surrounding community. As the Assistant General Manager, she especially appreciates owners Wally and Delores, who she refers to as her work family. “I love coming to work; it makes my day better. I love working with custom ers and my co-workers are fantastic.” Judson and Margie Wingard created the original nursery in 1967 located at 1403 North Lake Drive in Lexington, and later transferred ownership to their daughter, Delores and her husband, Wally Steinhauser in the mid-2000s. The original nursery and gift shoppe (which occupies the 110-year-old family home) were later expanded to include an extensive produce market and nature center. The new facility still possesses the authentic charm and impeccable reputation for personalized service and quality products.

Born and raised in Chapin, Andrea was drawn to the great outdoors from an early age. Her mother’s love of plants motivated and encouraged her interest in gardening. After high school graduation she secured a job at a local garden center; in 2009 she began working at Wingard’s. She credits that early firsthand experience as the foundation that developed her deep respect and appreciation of horticulture. Later she moved to Spartanburg where she acquired an associate degree in horticulture while commuting back to Wingard’s every weekend to put her education to work. She and her young family have planted their own permanent roots in Chapin, living in their “forever home.”

“You’re not really a true gardener until you have killed about a thousand plants,” Andrea warmly reminds her clients. She understands the natural intimidation and fear some people have of gardening from her personal successes and failures. Andrea’s favorite activity is guiding people to raise thriving, vibrant plants and encouraging them not to give up. Customers who are new to the area have a wonderful advantage as she explains the local flora, fauna, terrain, and weather patterns. She likes to prepare newcomers for what they are about to experience in the summer months: “Now, there’s hot, there’s humid hot, and then there’s cooking hot! Plants are like people; if you’re hot, they are too,” she says.

If you haven’t been to Wingard’s Market in Lexington lately, stop by to say “hi” to Andrea and let her introduce you to the new seasonal plants, tools, water features, pottery, products, guides, and gifts that are available. The knowledgeable staff at Wingard’s Market are ready to meet every one of your outdoor needs with classes, charity fundraisers, family-friendly events and hands-on monthly children’s activities. n

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Lake Murray

With 50,000 acres of easy-to-access fresh water, Lake Murray is a celebrated attraction for many who live within the Midlands region. Beyond the recreational hobbies of fishing, kayaking, swimming, jet-skiing and sailing are the magnificent glimpses of extravagant homes, untouched natural landscapes, abundant wildlife, stunning sunsets, bustling campgrounds and amazing restaurants. Each community surrounding the 650-mile shoreline has its own unique food, festivals, shops, arts and music to entertain visitors of all ages.

Even though the lake is a site of pleasure for both residents and tourists, it must be approached with respect and reverence. Swimmers and fishermen alike must keep in mind that each aquatic reservoir is a living ecosystem with its own set of hidden obstacles, dangers, and safety hazards. For over 60 years America’s Boating Club of Lake Murray has provided watercraft safety courses and education, seasonal announcements, updated guidelines, and regulations as well as numerous opportunities for community support, social interaction and fellowship.

“We are a volunteer, nonprofit organization,” says Tim Barnhill, current commander of America’s Boating Club of Lake Murray. Although an interest in boating may initially attract members to the group, Barnhill explains, “Through our club we like to offer and promote our educational programs along with many civic opportunities—everything that happens within our boating organization.” David Allen, a lifetime boater and long-time member who now serves as the squadron law officer as well as the national secretary for Boating Clubs of America (the parent organization of such groups), adds, “I would say, if you

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“I would say, if you want to be a safer, better, boater, have a lot of fun, and meet great folks and do stuff on the water, that’s why you would join the boating club.”

want to be a safer, better, boater, have a lot of fun, meet great folks and enjoy the water, that’s why you would join the boating club.”

Because Boating Clubs of America was originally designated as a “power squadron” in the early 1900s when it was established, this local group was chartered as the “Congaree Power Squadron” when it was founded in 1963 by a group of fishermen. Eventually the name was changed to “Lake Murray Power Squadron,” but more recently the group has been transitioning its moniker to the title of “America’s Boating Club of Lake Murray” to clarify its purpose and enhance its online searchability. “It’s still the same organization,” says Commander Barnhill.

“Our core purpose is safe boating principally through education,” explains Allen. “There are very credible statistics, Coast Guard statistics, that support the premise that nearly over 85 percent of the people involved in incidents on the water (injuries, accidents or fatalities) have absolutely no training—they got in a boat, and they took off. So, the more you know, the safer you are.” America’s Boating Course, Third Edition (ABC3) is a two-session, half-day class offered by the America’s Boating Club of Lake Murray to the public several times a

year, and a guided self-study, online course is also available. This class covers basic nautical topics such as: boat types, registration requirements, safety equipment and procedures, knots and lines, anchoring and navigational rules, technology, and skills.

Another service that is offered to the public by the club is a free “vessel safety check,” says Commander Barnhill. “We have certified vessel inspectors who will come onto your boat [and] inspect, basically, all the functioning parts on your boat [lights, horn, safety equipment, fire extinguishers, etc.]. Once your boat has been inspected and it passes this vessel safety check, we place a sticker on your boat, which, if DNR [South Carolina Department of Natural Resources] or someone else pulls up to your boat, they would see that this vessel has been safely inspected. We have an incredible resource or talent base of people who can, if you’ve got a boating issue, help you work your way through it,” he adds. “When we taught our weather course for a number of years, it was taught by one of our members who worked at a weather service.” As another example he mentions that the instructor of the electronics course was a professional who installed x-ray equipment throughout the Midlands.

“Anybody who teaches or anybody who is a vessel safety examiner has to be credentialed,” explains Mr. Allen. For instance, “Anybody who teaches the ABC3 course to the public has to be certified as an instructor through the National Association of Safe Boating Law Administrators. We also have a number of female members that serve as officers,” says he continues, “and several of them teach the safe boating portion of the Lake Murray Association’s Lady’s Day on the Lake. We’ve been doing that for probably 8 or 10 years now. It’s not something that we directly do; it’s something they contacted us to do and help them with.”

In addition to the ABC3 class and inspections the group offers advanced classes for its membership which include subjects on seamanship, piloting, navigation, engine maintenance, marine electronics, and weather. “We encourage our members, once they’ve joined the club,” explains Commander Barnhill, “to take the educational classes. It’s a benefit to them, and it’s a benefit to other boaters on the lake, so it’s a win-win situation for everyone.”

Commander Barnhill shares that the members’ professional expertise is even recognized and utilized on a national level

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since the group was invited to participate in videos recorded for America’s Boating Challenge, a YouTube project sponsored and funded by the U.S. Coast Guard. “They are short, three-to-five-minute segments on fire extinguishers, life jackets, how to handle a boat, how to dock a boat, how to tie a boat up—those kinds of things,” explains Mr. Allen. “And they’re fixing to roll out a streaming channel. It will be part of a smart-TV app--like a boating app, and it’ll have great boating movies; we’re going to be the face of safety for that.”

Along with the educational outreach, “There are several civic services that we are proud to participate in,” says Commander Barnhill. “Just for a few examples, during the dam swim we provide safety boats on the water and we have a cleanup for an island that we’ve adopted. We host an event at our island [Goat Island] for Thornwell Children’s Home where it’s basically a day that their kids come to our island, our members host a cookout, we take them out on the water, and they have an enjoyable day on the lake--under normal circumstances, they wouldn’t have that opportunity.”

“Another thing that we do,” adds Mr. Allen, “is we share and maintain a facility with the Coast Guard Auxiliary, which is our home where we teach classes. We make it available for law enforcement to use for training, like search and rescue for their water stuff and dive team.” The philanthropic projects often overlap with social activities that the club frequently sponsors by and for its members. “We hosted a Super Bowl event at our club in February,” says Commander Barnhill, “and members who participated brought canned goods. We had approximately close to 75 to 100 pounds of canned goods that were provided to the We Care [Center] in Chapin.”

“I know part of our success is our level

of activity,” says Mr. Allen. The club currently has a membership of 260, which is one of the largest in the national organization. Participants are aged 20 and up, with some having attended for more than 30 years. “We have something going on, some type of event,” says Commander Barnhill, “normally, at least once a month at our boat club.” In addition to civic-related projects they host an annual oyster roast, an allday activity in which they consume several bushels of oysters. “It’s a huge event that members really look forward to.”

“A lot of times we’ll have new people come out to the club and attend a social event as a guest,” says Commander Barnhill. “A lot of members have basically just got our information by word of mouth. At the boat show each year we have a spot set up where we advertise our club, what we promote (boating safety), and give an opportunity to sign up for the ABC

course. A large portion of our members also come through being involved in this course.” Since the weather is not always conducive to boating, there are many winter activities available. “We have a bunch of folks who like to bowl and it keeps the camaraderie going--it keeps the friendships percolating along.”

America’s Boating Club of Lake Murray is a great foundational resource for those who would like to be a more conscientious boater, a safer swimmer, and a more efficient fisherman. Their website is an extensive, comprehensive tool to learn more about the group and participate in upcoming activities, service projects, and educational programs.

“We’re like a big family,” says Commander Barnhill. “Once you get involved in the club, like David mentioned, there’s friendships that have been formed. It’s a great way to meet new friends with similar interests.” n

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“We’re like a big family...It’s a great way to meet new friends with similar interests.”
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Moody Springs

Rounding a curve on Highway 107, I saw water spurting from handsome stonework set in a mountain. Moody Spring, I knew we’d stop. I had no qualms about drinking the spring’s water. It had no taste. That’s what made it great. It sure beat plastic-bottled water and city water. But moody? Well, no moodiness accompanied my sip of water other than joy. Sipping that cold, clear water felt rebellious and I’ll add, natural.

Sipping nature’s water isn’t as easy or safe as it once was. We live in a time when folks advise you not to sip naturally occurring water. While in the mountains photographing waterfalls for two days, Photographer Robert Clark and I saw many a cold, pure brook and I wanted so much to get on my knees and cup that cold water to my mouth, but I didn’t. At Moody Springs I put apprehensions aside. Over the past two weeks I’ve enjoyed water from two springs: Blackville’s Healing Spring and now Moody Springs. One’s legendary for its healing water and Moody Springs has a story as well.

Each time I’ve been to Healing Springs I’ve seen people from all over filling jugs, bottles, whatever can hold the elixir of life. I’ve written about Healing Springs several times and did so recently. It’s uplifting to think that the water springing from an aquifer does in fact possess healing properties. People sure believe in the waters down Blackville way. They have long made pilgrimages to this Barnwell County shrine. I brought back a gallon of the water, and tasting it right now I can tell you it’s sweet and makes me feel better.

As for Moody Springs, it wasn’t a dark and stormy night when Robert and I stopped at Moody Springs, and maybe that’s a good thing. It was a cool, cloudy day. Had it been a dark and stormy night we may have seen a hitchhiker. It surprised me to learn that Moody Springs is a place

where some travelers driving Highway 107 have encountered a ghostly hitchhiker.

Legend holds that Upstate pilot, Larry Stevens, crashed near the spring on a stormy night in the 1950s. Drive along the spring on a rainy night and perchance you’ll see Stevens’s ghost by the roadside with his thumb out. Dare give him a ride? If you do, you may find a pool of water in your car or truck.

This spirit of the Sumter National Forest came to be when his small aircraft encountered a sudden thunderstorm. The crash flung debris from his plane between Moody Spring and a nearby overlook. These days I know of no one who will pick up a hitchhiker, so I assume reports of those who did come from a previous era. Folks today are leery of hitchhikers and all too often with good reason. The reports claim some folks winding along SC-107 picked up the hitchhiker between the spring and the overlook. Once the hitchhiker reached his destination and drivers dropped him off, he vanished. He does, however, leave that pool of water in your vehicle. I read of no harm done by this spirit hooking a free ride with passersby.

And what of that name, Moody Springs? Well, the spring takes its name from a family that settled there back in the early days.

Should you find yourself driving along Highway 107 and you come across the spring, pull over and park. Sit a spell on the handsome rock benches and try the cool water springing from a mountain. If it’s a hot day in summer, a thunderstorm may rumble up and a visitor, perchance, might join you. n

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no moodiness accompanied my sip of water other than joy.
Sipping that cold, clear water felt rebellious and I’ll add, natural.
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Heads Tails or COIN COLLECTING

Throughout time ancient civilizations have expressed the trials, triumphs and tribulations of their people through images and messages on materials exchanged for goods and services. Symbols, icons, slogans, and mottos often represent a rich heritage, foundational religion, and provide a record of heroic legends for future generations. This is still true of our culture today.

To a devoted coin enthusiast, the search for the highly coveted piece never ends. Sometimes the quest is driven by a passionate but casual desire to display collections for personal satisfaction and appreciation and other times the quest may have the more practical and serious purpose of acquiring commemorative, historical coins for monetary value or research. At one end of the spectrum is the heirloom silver dollar collection that is absolutely priceless to family members, but not as important to someone who is motivated by rarity, education or monetary value. Keep in mind that a 1944 Steel Wheat penny is worth almost a half million; a Liberty Head V Nickel is literally worth millions.

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Midlands Coin Club

“Numismatist” is the technical term for an avid collector who enjoys retrieving and studying objects previously used as money such as coins, tokens, or paper bills. Whether you are an eager, green novice or a knowledgeable, seasoned numismatist, the Midlands Coin Club provides fellowship and educational opportunities. Each gathering on the 2nd Thursday of each month features speakers, demonstrations or video presentations, door prize drawings and auctions. The club also sponsors two regular local coin shows. Although many members are authorities, newcomers with a desire to learn the basics are always welcome. “The skill sets for most of our members vary greatly,” President Will Gragg says. For example, “Some focus on US coins while others prefer world coins or paper money. We have experts in our club on Civil War history in Columbia, special SC tokens and medals, SC National Bank Notes, ancient coins and much more with every avenue of coin collecting represented.” Members often assist in identify-

ing and appraising unusual items as well as complete collections. Experts agree that gold is an excellent investment in today’s inflationary environment.

Gragg’s personal focus is on collectibles related to South Carolina, such as obsolete bank notes issued by the state. South Carolina has a rich history when it comes to finance during the Civil War period, he says. Many local and city banks provided regular tokens and banknotes for use in the state. Prior to the Civil War citizens used coins from the US mint which started in 1792. In colonial days, foreign silver was an accepted currency. Many of the notes in South Carolina were printed by state and local banks and are very ornate, depicting historical and famous dignitaries and unforgettable icons of each period. Such bank notes and tokens are wonderful teaching tools for students studying state history, especially relating to the economy of a particular point in time, says Gragg.

“Don’t be intimidated,” Gragg explains. “Collect what you like and what you can afford. Start off small and work your way up or on to different avenues. Knowledge is the biggest key--buy books, subscribe to coin-related magazines and most importantly, join a local club.” He provides counsel for people making selected purchases, especially with value in mind. “With the world and coin market constantly changing, especially gold and silver prices, beware of foreign made counterfeits. Educate yourself before buying the coin and remember the adage, ‘If the deal is too good to pass up, it might not be a deal at all.’ Coin club and organizations are great resources for detecting counterfeits.” Purchases that prove to be unwise harm not only the hobby itself, but pocketbooks, he says.

Midlands Coin Club members are patiently looking forward to an upcoming event commemorating a Columbia native, African American Hettie Anderson. Hettie was the model for what many consider to be one of the most beautiful coins in the world. Her likeness is on the $20 gold coin known as the Saint-Gaudens double eagle, first minted in 1907, worth thousands today. Richland County Library is memorializing Anderson in an exhibit opening June 29th.

Gilbert Coin and Collectible Exchange

Owner Steve Twitty, a retired SC state law enforcement officer, has 25 years of experience in the collecting field. Specializ-

ing in certified silver dollars and other rare coins, he regularly attends national and local coin shows, buying and selling to collectors and dealers. Estate appraisers regularly seek his expertise to determine the value of collections. His co-manager and wife, Lisa Kay Daniels, is a specialist in paper money and vintage collectibles.

“We assist collectors in building their coin and currency collections. From cents to dollars, we keep an extensive inventory of coins and currency,” Twitty says. “We also keep gold and silver bullion in stock, so whether you’re building a collection or just putting away silver or gold, we can help.” For beginners, “It’s easy to start a coin collection. You can begin with coins that you already have on hand,” he suggests. Twitty says there are many different approaches, “Common collection themes include country, time period, denomination, mint mark, design theme and errors.” An error coin is a coin manufactured incorrectly by a mint such as mistakes in shapes and sizes. The variety of such errors adds to the uniqueness and value of a collection.

In making your selections, Twitty says to consider the coin’s eye appeal, the luster (there is no way to restore a coin’s luster), and any damage (the biggest factor in determining a coin’s grade). The Sheldon coin grading scale is used to determine a coin’s value, based on factors such as how well the coin was made and how much wear has developed as well as the luster, Twitty explains. A coin is assigned a number between 1 and 70, as well as an adjective such as poor, good, very fine, or mint state. The grade is listed as “MS-70” or “F-15.” In addition, he points out that there are professional coin grading services, but grading is also very subjective. “As a collector, it’s important to understand coin grading to know the value of a coin and to verify grades given by others. Use resources such as the ‘Official ANA Grading Standards for United States Coins’ to learn more.”

Golden Eagle Precious Metals Exchange

When they began collecting coins in 2010, owners Nick Shepard and Jay Brown discovered there weren’t many local options for their pastime, leading

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them to launch their own business. The proprietors ensure customers and collectors from all walks of life that they can trust their consistent pricing. The goal is to buy and sell precious metals, such as gold, silver, platinum, palladium, and more, as they are valuable assets that typically retain strong buying power.

One of the unique features of Golden Eagle is that customers are offered free analysis of their precious metals with the Olympus GoldXpert XRF Analyzer. This analysis provides a precise and certified reading of metallic content. Once the worth is determined, customers are given the option to sell their valuables for cash or exchange them into a more recognizable form, such as bullion. Brown points out that trust is key in the precious metal field. Golden Eagle provides an atmosphere that customers can feel safe and comfortable in, with no pressure to buy or sell. The partners focus on building long-term relationships with their customers and creating a relaxed, professional environment that is rewarding for both buyer and seller.

Local Discovery

In a 2014 archaeological dig searching

for the exact location of Granby (the colonial trading post in the Cayce area) excavators found an old Spanish coin. Local historians know the Spanish explorer Hernando de Soto travelled up the Congaree River, but many are surprised to learn the fearless adventurer camped on the west side of the Broad River near where Boozer Shopping Center is now. If that area had not been paved over for parking, coin collectors with metal detectors might discover an old Spanish coin or two in that area. British hobbyists frequently report valuable discoveries of old Roman coins in recently plowed fields there. Since few coins were minted by the colonies, foreign coins like the Spanish dollar were widely circulated. The most famous of these was the Spanish dollar, which served as the unofficial national currency of the colonies for much of the 17th and 18th centuries. After the Revolution in 1792, the United States established the national mint in Philadelphia with the first coins issued in 1793. The U.S. government did not issue paper money until 1861. Today, early United States silver coins are quite valuable. The commemorative coin issued to honor King Charles at his May 6 inauguration will become a valuable collector’s item as well. n

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African American, Hettie Anderson: “The Other Side of the Coin” Thurs., June 29, 2023 6:00 p.m.-7:30 p.m. Exhibit Opening Presentation Richland County Library Main 1431 Assembly St.,Columbia, SC 29201 RichlandLibrary.com • 803.799.9084 Midlands Coin Club of SC P.O. Box 8212, Columbia, SC 29202 midlandscoinclub@gmail.com midlandscoinclub.com Gilbert Coin Exchange 4079 Augusta Hwy. Ste. H, Gilbert, SC 29054 GilbertCoins.com • 803-892-4307 Golden Eagle Precious Metals Exchange 1100 Dutch Fork Rd., Irmo, SC 29063 GoldenEaglepmx.com • 803-217-1021

Birds of a Feather Flock Together

Some of the widest variety of winged creatures can be found right here in Lake Murray Country and the Saluda, Broad and Congaree River areas. Saluda Shoals, along the banks of the beautiful Saluda River, is a 480-acre area park operated by the Irmo-Chapin Recreation Commission. That’s not to mention the Congaree National Park in Richland County, which is internationally famous for birding enthusiasts. Along with Saluda Shoals Park, although not claiming to be complete, top birdwatching spots in our local area include Congaree Creek Heritage Preserve and Timmerman Trail, Fourteen Mile Creek Trail, Gibson Road Soccer Complex, Lake Murray Dam and Bomb Island, Cayce and West Columbia Riverwalks, Gibson’s Pond Park and Shealy’s Pond Heritage Preserve.

You don’t have to go far to witness some of the best birdwatching experiences in the country. Right here in South Carolina we are fortunate to have a truly world-class opportunity at Lake Murray’s Bomb Island. During the summer, more than a million Purple Martins roost for the summer on the island, traveling from their winter home in South America from late June to early August, with numbers peaking in July. Many of us have seen their huge cloud of black dots in the distance as they descend on the island each evening in a feeding frenzy. Many times they will disperse into a 100 mile radius.

Congaree National Park is known to be home to some 200 bird species. Although that number is not considered high for a particular area, the park is known for the sheer number of birds present at any given time of year. In addition, the national park is an ideal habitat for migrant birds, especially for populations looking for a suitable nesting site or wintering grounds. Almost all of South Carolina’s woodpeckers have been recorded at Congaree National Park, including the Ivory-billed Woodpecker and the Red-cockaded Woodpeckers.

Artist and ornithologist James Audubon received much of the inspiration for his renowned paintings in South Carolina. In 1831 he went to Charleston where he began painting his famed edition, “The Birds of America.” In 1905, the National Audubon Society was formed to protect birds and preserve their habitats, a role more critical than ever as species become more endangered. Today, Audubon South Carolina in Charleston has more than 26,000 support-

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ers, including an active Columbia chapter. The state society has two major conservation areas, Francis Beidler Forest and Silver Bluff, and oversees some 22,000 acres.

In the birding world, there is a distinction between a “birder” and a “birdwatcher”. A birdwatcher may be content to enjoy avian observations from the kitchen window or an outside deck. Birders are noted for their dedication, patience and expertise; including the ability to recognize birds for their songs and calls. One of the most enthusiastic local birders is Patricia Voelker, who conducts birdwatching walks at Saluda Shoals Park.

Although she has always appreciated birds, Voelker says she did not become a birder in the accepted sense of the word until 2005. “I met several others who were long time birders and began birding more intentionally, buying my first pair of binoculars. Meeting other birders led to my joining the Carolina Bird Club, attending annual conferences and getting on ebird, the free app from Cornell University of Ornitholo-

gy,” she explains. Voelker recommends that those who have a genuine interest open an ebird.org account. “That website keeps your life list updated, shows where good bird spots are, and teaches so much.” A birding life list is typically a list of all the species a person has seen over a lifetime.

Voelker has a long list of recorded rare sightings and is willing to traipse long distances and endure inclement weather for the rare opportunity to spot a particular bird. In her own words, she describes some of her most memorable experiences:

– “ I have watched the last hawk chick sit in the nest while its parents and siblings fly back and forth, encouraging the last one to hop out onto a limb from which it will fly.

– “I have watched with a broken heart as Red-headed woodpecker parents tried to get help for their babies when their nest tree fell, splitting apart at the nest, tossing the too-young-to-make-it youngsters out. I have held one of those youngsters as our bird walkers tried to find a way to get them reunited with their parents. I have mourned

Birding Tips from Patricia Voelker:

• Anywhere you are, you can find birds, if you just be still and watch. Watch the sky for Turkey or Black Vultures circling, or for a Great Blue Heron on its way to a lake, or a flock of robins, or blackbirds, or grackles or Cedar Waxwings just moving from tree to tree.

Saluda Shoals Park

5604 Bush River Rd., Columbia, SC 29212 ICRC.net • 803-772-1228

Congaree Creek Heritage Preserve 634 Old State Rd., Cayce, SC 29033 SCtrails.net

Timmerman Trail

Cayce Riverwalk

201 Naples Ave., Cayce, SC 29033 Cityofcayce-sc.gov

West Columbia Riverwalk Park

109 Alexander Rd., West Columbia, SC 29169 Westcolumbiasc.gov

Fourteen Mile Creek Trail 1104 N. Lake Dr., Lexington, SC 29072 Lexsc.com

Gibson’s Pond Park

241 Gibson Rd., Lexington, SC 29072 Lexsc.com

Gibson Road Soccer Complex Duffie Dr., Lexington, SC 29072 LCRAC.com

Bomb Island, Lake Murray Lexsc.com

Shealy’s Pond Heritage Preserve

1060-1014 State Rd. S-32-279, Lexington, SC 29073 SCtrails.net

• Watch shrubs for sparrows or juncos and towhees in winter. When you see a branch move, check it out. Notice an odd lump in a tree or unexpected color? It could be a sleeping owl or watchful hawk or crows gathering to torment a hawk in another tree. Watch and you will be rewarded.

• If you are a beginner, simply open your eyes and ears. Expect to see and hear birds and you will. Check out guidebooks and buy the one you like best. Get a free app for your cellphone or computer.

• Become a regular on Cornell’s ebird site, which tracks birds through your posts. You can find good local birding sites listed there and which birders in this area have seen certain breeds and where. Sign up for the emails that notify you of unusual birds.

• Reach out and network with others who enjoy birding.Start talking about birding and you’ll meet others who bird. If you’re on social media, check for birding groups you can join. Carolina Bird Club has a newsletter and a website and holds regular conferences with guided walks.

For upcoming bird walks with Patricia, visit ICRC.net.

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Backyard Birding Tips from Zach Steinhauser:

• Elevated Feeders: Some birds like the Tufted Titmouse, Red-bellied Woodpecker, and Brown-headed Nuthatch like to feed on food sources they can find in the trees. People can mimic this behavior by installing Tube Feeders, Hopper Feeders, or Suet Feeders.

• Suet Feeders: Suet is a formulation of animal fat and other ingredients, like insects, to attract birds and provide a food source high in energy. Birds like Woodpeckers, Warblers, Chickadees, Titmice, Nuthatches, and Wrens all incorporate suet into their diets. We have various types of suet here at Wingard’s Market that cater to different birds and their requirements.

• Ground Feeders: While some species of birds feed exclusively in the trees, there are some that venture to the ground to feed. Birds like Cardinals, Mourning Doves, various Sparrows, and even Ducks will come to Ground feeder trays or platform feeders that are set on the ground in a place close to cover if it’s needed.

• Insect Feeders: Some birds will feed primarily on insects and worms, like Eastern Bluebirds. To attract them, place hanging tray feeders full of mealworms, which provide a high source of energy and protein.

For details regarding tours with Zack, visit carolinasafarico.com.

Wingard’s Market

1403 N. Lake Dr., Lexington, SC 29072

Wingardsmarket.com

803-359-9091

the loss of those birds every time I pass the site where it happened.”

– “I have seen the problems caused by a young Blue Jay getting focused on people, following us, calling to us, needing parents who were no longer there. The Rangers had to relocate him to another part of the park where fewer people would be.”

– “I have watched Blue Grey Gnatcatchers building their nests and watched the hawks bringing nesting material to create theirs. I have watched these nests be filled with baby birds as their parents take turns feeding them. Then the babies fledge, dropping to the ground where they mimic the parent, even as they scream for food they are now grown enough to catch on their own.”

Birders not only treasure their sightings, but they also value the camaraderie enjoyed with others who share their interest. Voelker points specifically to John Myers and mentions Myers and John Tjaarda as recognized members of the local birder circles. Myers is a board member of the Columbia Audubon Society and an active volunteer at Lexington Museum, where he recently led a session on “Protecting Birds in Your Own Backyard” at the museum‘s “Great Outdoors Day.”

Tjaarda, a West Columbia native, who is also active in the Columbia Audubon Society, is a gifted photographer. Congaree Creek Heritage Preserve in Cayce is one of his favorite areas for birding. “There have been some real special birds to pop up there over the past few years like a Grasshopper Sparrow, a Sedge Wren and tons of migrating Warblers,” he says. “ If you want good looks at Red-headed Woodpeckers, Wood Thrush, or Prothonotary Warblers, then this is one of the best spots to go.”

Local bird enthusiasts frequently “flock” to the the wild birds department (Wings and Things) at Wingard’s Market in Lexington. It is a regular destination for shelters, feeders, seeds, accessories, observation tools and other items. Zach Steinhauser, continuing in the footsteps of his grandfather, Judson Wingard, is actively engaging his degree in Wildlife Ecology and Conservation from the University of Florida. Steinhauser offers guided tours through his recently opened Carolina Safari Company (CSC). He realized his passion for connecting people with nature firsthand during one of his guided excursions to Bomb Island to see the Purple Martins.

As for attracting birds to your home,

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Steinhauser advises there are four necessities: food, water, cover, and space to raise young. Although natural food sources can provide sustenance, people can greatly supplement nutrition through feeders. “There is surprisingly a lot more to bringing birds to your backyard feeder that you’d think,” he says. “Some like to feed on the ground, some like to feed off the ground, some like insects and some like a special sort of seed.”

“Food alone is not sufficient to attract and retain wildlife to your yard,” he stresses. “A habitat needs water in order for wildlife to remain. Natural sources of water include lakes, ponds, puddles, rivers, and creeks, while you can establish artificial water sources such as birdbaths, fountains, and Koi or regular ponds, he notes. Wildlife will first be attracted to the water source and then begin to look for food sources.

Various birds also require different types of nesting boxes which require special features such as roofing, drainage and ventilation. Native plants, those that occur naturally in a landscape and are native to a particular area, also help in attracting wildlife, he emphasizes. Also, he cautions, pet owners need to be aware of the threat dogs and cats pose to birds and other wildlife. n

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Tips from The Carolina Wildlife Center in the event that an injured or orphaned bird is discovered:

Injured Adults

-Gently remove the animal from the ground using a towel or cloth, and place it inside a covered box with air holes. Bring the box inside and place it in a dark, quiet location secure from pets and children.

-If the bird has hit a window, wait two hours before returning outside. From a squatting position, remove the box lid and gently touch the back of the bird’s tail to encourage it to fly. If the bird does not fly, simply hops from the box, or has any type of injury, it will need further care.

-The sooner an injured animal gets the medical attention it needs, the better are its chances for survival. You may offer the bird a shallow dish of water, but do not attempt to feed it.

Injured Chicks or Hatchlings

-If the chick or hatchling is obviously injured, cold, or has been caught by a cat or dog, then it cannot be returned to its nest and needs to be taken to a wildlife rehabilitator immediately.

-Place the chick in a covered box with air holes and line with cloth. Keep it warm using a hot water bottle or place the box on top of a heating pad set on low.

Abandoned Nests

-If you suspect that a nest is orphaned, watch from a safe distance for three hours to ensure the mother will not return. Do not disturb or remove the nest. Call our center if necessary.

Orphans – Hatchlings

-A bird that is not well feathered or not strong enough to stand should be placed back into its nest. If you cannot reach the nest, make a substitute nest from a small wicker basket, a strawberry container, or a hanging basket. Line with pine needles or leaves. Place the basket as close to the original nest as possible. Watch for three hours to ensure that the mother returns to feed both nests.

Orphans – Fledglings

-Fledglings are well feathered, hopping

strongly, and will not stay in a nest if returned. They can remain on the ground for several days before strengthening their flying skills and require a different approach to reunite them with their parents.

-Place the fledgling on a nearby branch off the ground or back in the vicinity where it was originally found and leave the area. Listen for the sounds of an adult calling or carrying food around. Watch to ensure the parents find the fledgling.

-If the location is unsafe, try to stay within 30 feet when selecting another location. Carry the bird to a few locations and let it call out for its parents. A distress call is the fastest way to find a parent. Other non-parent adults of the same species may also respond to the distress call, so it will be important to watch for the parents who are the only birds that will feed it. If dogs or cats are in the yard, bring them inside. If the parents are not seen returning after three hours, you can consider the fledgling orphaned.

Orphans – Ducklings and Goslings

-Attempting to pair a single duckling back with its mother is not recommended. If it is paired with the wrong mother, it will be killed. A lone duckling cannot survive on its own without its mother’s warmth and protection and quickly fall prey to other ducks, turtles, or egrets/herons. An orphaned duckling or gosling should be rehabilitated with the same species of similar age and size to avoid imprinting or socializing to humans.

-Place the baby duckling or gosling in a covered box or kennel with air holes and line with cloth. Keep it warm placing the box on top of a heating pad set on low. Bring the fledgling to Carolina Wildlife Center or a federally permitted rehabilitator for immediate care. n

Carolina Wildlife Center

5551 Bush River Road Columbia, SC 29212

Injured Animal Hotline: 803-772-3994

CarolinaWildlife.org

Info@CarolinaWildlife.org

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JUNE/JULY

Saturday, June 10th and Sunday, June 11th

South Carolina Gun & Knife Show

South Carolina State Fairgrounds, 1200 Rosewood Dr., Columbia, Saturday 9:00 a.m.-5:00 p.m., Sunday 10:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m. Whether you’re in the market for something or not, this event is always fun, interesting, and educational. The SC Arms Collectors Association holds public exhibitions each year to achieve the goal of promoting the safe and lawful collection, possession, study and enjoyment of firearms, antiques, and related weapons. Proceeds from these exhibitions go to the SCACA Scholarship Program to help the next generation become active and knowledgeable in shooting sports. Even if you aren’t planning to purchase any goodies at the show, take enough cash for admission, food, and drinks. Parking is $5; admission for adults $10, military with ID $8, children 12 and under are free with a paying adult. For more information visit SCGunShows.com.

Sunday, June 11th

Lake Murray Symphony Orchestra

Harbison Theatre, 7300 College St., Irmo, 3:30 p.m.

LMSO’s final concert of the season, Concertos & Cupcakes, is an incredible afternoon of music featuring the amazingly talented winners of the 2023 Young Artist Competition. LMSO concerts are FREE; the musicians and staff volunteer their time and talents. Your donations help with expenses and ensures that concerts will continue to play just for the love of it! Don’t miss the cupcake reception after the show. For details visit LMSO.org.

Saturday, June 24th

The Dam Boat Run at Lake Murray Inaugural Event

Lake Murray Dam Towers, exact location and time to be determined Boating enthusiasts from across the country will come together for a thundering show of power and performance touring Lake Murray to raise awareness and support for The Big Red Barn Retreat, The South Carolina Department of Natural Resources, and the Richland County Sheriff’s Department. For registration, sponsorship information and a full schedule of events including “Skip Day” activities on Friday, June 23rd, visit LakeMurrayPowerboatRun.com or email info@lakemurraypowerboatrun.com.

Saturday, July 1st

Fourth of July Celebration on Lake Murray

Lake Murray Dam Park Sites & Walkway, 1797 North Lake Dr., Lexington

Enjoy the patriotic boat parade at Bomb Island at 12:00 p.m., viewable from various park sites at Lake Murray Dam or by boat. S.C.’s largest fireworks show will launch at dark (roughly 9:30 PM) from two lake locations: Spence Island & Dreher Island. Note:fireworks DO NOT launch from the park sites at the dam. Should thunder and lightning occur and cause a postponement, the fireworks will take place on Sunday, July 2 without the parade. For registration information and complete details visit LakeMurrayCountry.com.

Tuesday, July 4th

Lexington County Peach Parade and Festival

Gilbert Community Park, Rikard Circle, Gilbert, 9:30 a.m.-10:00 p.m.

Don’t’ miss this family friendly annual event which includes a patriotic parade, car show, arts and crafts vendors, food and beverages, live entertainment, and all things related to peaches! Festival activities begin at 9:30 AM with the parade beginning on Hampton Street and ending with fireworks at 10:00 PM. Visit LexingtonCountyPeachFestival.com for registration, vendor, sponsorship opportunities, and full schedule details or email hello@lexcopeachfestival.com.

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Everything is Coming Up PEACHES!

AIR FRYER GRILLED PEACHES

1/4 c. quick-cooking oats

2 tbsp. melted butter

2 tsp. brown sugar

1 tsp. ground cinnamon

1 tsp. vanilla extract

3 medium peaches, halved and pitted

Preheat the air fryer to 350 degrees F; combine oats, butter, brown sugar, cinnamon, and vanilla in a small bowl, set aside. Spoon out some of the flesh of the peaches. Place peaches skin side up into the air fryer basket, fry for 5 minutes. Turn peaches over and spoon 1/2 tablespoon of the oat mixture into each cavity. Air fry until oats are golden brown and crispy, 2 to 3 minutes more. Top with ice cream or whipped cream.

PORK TENDERLOIN WITH PEACHES

3 slices bacon

1-2 lb. package pork tenderloin

1/2 tsp. salt

1/4 tsp. freshly ground black pepper

3/4 tsp. ground ginger, divided

1 1/2 c. vertically sliced onion

1 1/2 tsp. minced garlic

2 c. peeled and sliced fresh peaches

1 c. low-sodium chicken broth

2 tbsp. frozen orange juice concentrate

1 tsp. fish sauce

2 tbsp. water

2 tbsp. cornstarch

fresh parsley for garnish (optional) Place bacon in a large skillet and cook over medium-high heat about 10 minutes. Drain, reserve drippings in the skillet. Dry pork tenderloin with paper towels, season both sides with salt, pepper and 1/4 teaspoon ground ginger. Increase heat to medium-high and brown tenderloin 5 to 7 minutes. Remove browned tenderloin from skillet, transfer to a plate, and keep warm. Reduce heat to medium, add onion slices, stir/caramelize onions 3 to 5 minutes; stir in garlic. Add sliced peaches, chicken broth, orange juice concentrate, and remaining ground ginger. Bring to a boil and return tenderloin to the skillet. Layer peaches on top of meat, cover, reduce heat to simmer, and cook until pork is slightly pink in the center, 20 to 25 minutes or until 145 degrees F. Arrange pork and peaches on a platter; combine fish sauce, water, and cornstarch in a small bowl and stir until there are no lumps. Increase heat to medium, bring skillet contents back to a boil, add cornstarch mixture and stir quickly until sauce is thickened for 5 minutes. Pour sauce over pork and peaches, sprinkle bacon over peaches. Garnish with parsley, if desired, and serve warm.

2 1/2 lb. fresh peaches - peeled, pitted, chopped

1-pint half-and-half cream

1/2 c. white sugar

1-14 oz. can sweetened, condensed milk

1-12 oz. can evaporated milk

1 tsp. vanilla extract

2 c. whole milk, or as needed

1 c. sugar, if desired

Working in batches, purée peaches with half-and-half and sugar in a blender or food processor.

Mix peach mixture, sweetened condensed milk, evaporated milk, and vanilla in a gallon ice cream freezer container. Chilling the container first will help the ice cream harden faster. Pour enough whole milk into the container to reach the fill line, about 2 cups. Pour mixture into an ice cream maker and freeze according to manufacturer’s instructions, about 20 minutes. Transfer to an airtight container and freeze until firm, about 4 hours. n

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PEACH HOMEMADE ICE CREAM
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The Creation of Time

Astride Mount Hindsight, we’d probably all agree we learned some things during “The Great Pandemic.”

We’d probably also agree much of what we learned could be described as “shocking” or worse.

It’s often a troublesome trait to seek the positive aspects of any given situation. This viewpoint goes against the grain of the National Pastime of Constant Outrage.

It’s quite interesting to consider a free and noble people being “locked down” in one way or another. The only times I’d previously heard that term used was in dealing with incarcerated inmates.

When that period began, my wife and I discussed older neighbors. They weren’t allowed to go to church. Their kids lived far away. My wife said: “We should call and check on them.”

The first was 80-something Miss Elaine. Her husband died twenty years ago, and her kids live in another state. She answered cautiously. “Miss Elaine? I wanted to call and see how you were doing.”

She got a little huffy. “Well, I’m doing just fine. Just because I’m 86 years old doesn’t mean I’m havin’ a hard time.”

“Yes, ma’am. It sounds like you’re busy, but I just wanted to see how you were getting along. I’ll let you go back to what you were doing.”

“Well, hold on a minute there. All I’ve been doing is getting my garden ready, checking on my lawn mower to make sure it’s ok, trimming some bushes, and doing a few other things.” She proceeded to list other things, asked how we were doing, and said she didn’t need anything, but she sure appreciated me calling, and she hoped I would call again real soon.

The next was Mr. Gene, who was pushing 89. He was getting along fair he said, but real curious as to why I was calling. “Well, Mr. Gene, we just thought of you and your wife all holed up over there and can’t get out anywhere and wanted to see if you needed anything.”

He softened right up and we talked for fifteen minutes.

After another call to a disabled Vet, I had whittled away much of an hour and had the best feeling inside I’d had in a long time.

The next day I called three more people, and the day after. Each time the people were glad to hear from someone. It made them feel good, and it made me feel good.

It’s the simplest thing in the world and all it takes is a few minutes. But everybody has convinced themselves they’re “so busy” and so they don’t take the time to do these things.

My old friend Ed said the most important words Jesus ever said was to ask, “How are you getting along?” And then Jesus actually listened to the answer.

Ed said: “It’s not hard, but nobody ever does it.”

A good thing learned during “The Crisis” was that it was easy to do something good for someone by just listening. All it takes is time. Make time. n

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