Umbrella anyone? It has felt like April lately, with all the rain and thunderstorms we have had recently. Hopefully, the full force of the summer’s heat and thunderstorms is behind us, and we thankfully shift towards autumn. What goes better with autumn than football? Are you ready for some football? I sure am.
Local high school football teams: Lexington, River Bluff, Gilbert, Northside Christian, plus Carolina and Clemson, finally get back into action as temperatures begin to cool and daylight shortens. I anxiously await the brisk, crisp, cooler air returning to Lexington. How long it will take until that happens is anyone’s guess. For me, I am hoping for sooner versus later. What about you?
I want to congratulate all the businesses nominated for the 2026 Best of Lexington competition. These businesses and business owners work tirelessly to provide the best products and services for our community. Today’s world is constantly changing and keeping up with the present while working towards the future is a never-ending challenge for small business owners.
New businesses are popping up all over Lexington County. Current road construction can make travel times longer, especially with school back in session. Please be careful on the highways and watch out for the workers who are trying to improve and make the roads better and safer for everyone.
Thanks for reading Lexington Life Magazine. Please vote at: lexingtonlife.com to recognize your favorite, local businesses that make a difference. Cheer on your football team and enjoy the camaraderie of tailgating with friends. Have a great autumn and thanks for reading Lexington Life!
Todd Shevchik
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SEPTEMBER
Tuesday, September 9
Lexington Community
Band Fall Rehearsals
River Bluff High School
320 Corley Mill Rd.
Lexington | 7:30 pm
Love playing music? Join this friendly group of adult wind and percussion musicians. No audition required — just a passion for music. For more information contact John Immerso at lexcombanddirector@gmail.com.
Friday, September 12 -
Sunday, September 28
Freaky Friday The Musical Village Square Theatre 105 Caughman Rd. Lexington
Based on the 1972 novel by Mary Rodgers and Disney productions, this show follows a mother and daughter who swap bodies. For tickets visit villagesquaretheatre.com.
Saturday, September 13 & Sunday, September 14
Midlands Fall Arts and Crafts Market
SC State Farmers Market 3483 Charleston Hwy. West Columbia
Over 150 of the best craft and vendors the Midlands has
to offer. Free parking and free admission.
Thursday, September 18 –Sunday, September 21
Columbia’s 38th Annual Greek Festival
Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Cathedral
1931 Sumter St. | Columbia
Enjoy the music, atmosphere, food and drink, and learn a little about Greece. Visit columbiasgreekfestival.com for more information.
Friday, September 19
LRADAC’s Rock 4 Recovery Icehouse Amphitheatre | 107 West Main St. | Lexington | 6:30 pm
The Foundation’s 6th annual fundraiser will feature Yächtley Crëw, the World’s Premier Yacht Rock Cover Band. Local food trucks will be on-site before and during the concert. For tickets visit r4r24.eventbrite.com.
Saturday, September 20
Lakeside Litter Sweep
Lake Murray
8:30 am – 12:30 pm
Keep the Midlands Beautiful invites you to join them in cleaning up litter on the
islands and shorelines around Lake Murray. Volunteers will receive a T-shirt, lunch, thank you gift, and a chance to win prizes from local businesses. Learn more at kmbsc.org.
Sunday, September 21
Soggy Doggy Day
Saluda Shoals Park 5605 Bush River Rd. Columbia | 1 pm
Bring your canine friends out to enjoy a fenced version of Saluda Splash after it closes for the season. Barking lot members receive free admission to the splash pad. Visit icrc.net for more information.
Friday, September 26
Zoofari
500 Wildlife Parkway
Columbia | 7 pm
Enjoy an unforgettable eve ning of cocktails, cuisine, and conservation set against the stunning backdrop of Riverbanks Zoo and Garden. Visit riverbanks. org for tickets.
Friday, September 26 & Saturday, September 27
Irmo Okra Strut Festival
Irmo Community Park 7473 Church St. | Irmo
The family fun, live music, and all the goodness that is
Okra. Individual fees apply for rides, amusements, and food/ drink. For a full schedule of events visit okrastrut.com.
Sunday, September 28
The Lake Murray Bridal Show
Columbia Metropolitan Convention Center 1110 Lincoln St. | Columbia 1 pm
This event offers brides and grooms-to-be the opportunity to explore the latest wedding trends, sample food, and connect with experts who can bring their dream weddings to life. For tickets visit lakemurraybridalshow. com. n
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KEVIN THUMPSTON
Lead Pastor Watershed Fellowship
Anxiety: Good and Bad?
Anxiety is a well-worn headline these days because we are all effected by it in one way or another. Our hearts are triggered to be anxious by ever-increasing pressures at work, our kids’ future plans, aging parents, waning health, rumors of wars, and the shifting sands of our culture. The New York Times bestselling author Jonathan Haidt has labeled this generation the Anxious Generation. He believes in two trends — over-protection in the real world and under-protection in the virtual world.
Did you know that the Word of God has a lot to say about anxiety, but it may not be what you think? A cursory look may heap an extra dose of guilt on top of your struggle with anxiety, but is Jesus condemning us for our struggle or giving us good reasons to trust him more? In Matthew 6, he challenges us to not be anxious by reminding us of his care for the birds of the air, his oversight of time, and how he adorns the lilies of the fields. If he cares for these smaller things, how much more will he take care of the family of God? Peter, in his first epistle, also commends those in Christ to “humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”
Unexpectedly, we also find in Scripture a godly form of anxiety. The Greek word for anxiety can be a healthy expression of care and concern. First Corinthians 12:25 urges us to care for one another in the body of Christ, and Philippians 2:20 commends Timothy for being concerned for the church’s welfare. One of the greatest gifts the church offers is to be anxious for one another— to support, to pray, and to walk together through life’s hills and valleys.
It seems that what makes anxiousness godly or ungodly is its focus. If we are focused on trying to control our circumstances ourselves, then we are not resting in Christ to truly lead and care for us. If we fix our eyes on the author and perfecter of our faith, then we will reflect a peace that only Christ can offer. It’s not easy, but the answer is simple. Cast all your anxiety on Christ because he cares for you, and lean on each other. n
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by Tenell Felder
Sharmel Miller
Town of Lexington 911 Chief of Communications Sharmel Miller and her husband, Chris, are happy to call Lexington home.
“I have family in Lexington, so we would visit here all of the time. That’s what made me interested in moving here. I just wish I had made Lexington my home a lot sooner,” Miller said.
The Millers have three children, Dustin, Brittany, and Heather, and seven grandchildren. They enjoy camping and going to the beach with their family.
As 911 Chief of Communications, Miller leads a team of public safety personnel who process emergency and non-emergency calls for Lexington County.
She has worked in 911 operations for 25 years, and started with Lexington County as Chief of Communications in February 2023.
One of the most notable changes throughout her nearly 30-year career has been technology’s impact on how calls are processed.
“When it comes to the 911 industry, there are changes all the time. Changes from how we process calls and then also the technology.” Miller said.
She noted how the use of cellphones presented a challenge to emergency services when they first started being used.
“We went strictly from landlines to cell phones in the 90s. We had to learn how to adapt from having the exact location with landlines to processing cell phone calls with little to no information about where the caller was. That was a stressful time, because when someone using a cell phone had an emergency, we had no clue where they were unless they could tell us. That could be difficult if they were screaming for help and we are trying to calm them to get the exact location where they are. As the industry changes with technology, so does 911.”
Today, Miller said that some callers still use landlines, though it is rare, and while cell phone technology has improved, locations are still not exact.
When someone calls 911 through a wireless phone, cellular towers will direct the call to the nearest public safety answering point based on the location of the call.
“Once the call comes in, we process it. Then we have a system in place that, based upon the nature
of the incident, we ask certain questions. And every citizen (based on that nature code) gets the same set of questions. That allows dispatchers to have structure within our system so that everybody is getting the same level of service.”
Miller clarified that the questions do not delay help in arriving.
“We always let the caller know that these questions are not delaying their service on their call, and then we process those calls that go to the dispatcher. The information is pro vided to the responders.”
Miller also emphasized that helping people discern between when or when not to call 911 is crucial to ensuring that the line stays clear for emergencies.
“Anytime something is life critical – call 911 immediately, as soon as possible. But if someone has loud music on, or if you have a fireworks complaint with the holidays coming up, that is not a reason to call 911. Please call the non-emergency number so that you are not tying up those resources that could potentially delay someone who is having a life critical situation. Now, if a firework sets a tree or house on fire or something similar, you would need to call 911. Anything that has an immediate threat to someone’s life, safety or if there is a crime in progress – you definitely should call 911 immediately,” Miller said.
Lexington County offers free services for citizens, such as SMART911, where they can provide critical information that will aid public safety personnel in responding to emergency situations. Those interested can sign up through the Lexington County government website under Communications – 911.
“We can’t see anyone’s profile unless they call 911 and need emergency services, and then once the emergency is over the profile becomes private again.”
Miller says she enjoys her job, and that helping people is the priority of her and her colleagues.
“Being able to talk someone through an emergency situation and getting them to help is why I continue to do what I do. We want to make sure our responders and our citizens have the best service. Responder safety and citizen safety again is our top priority.” n
Jill Smith + Associates Counseling Modern Mental Health Care for the Whole Family
by Marilyn Thomas | photos by Lola Dee Photography
Life can be messy. Having solid mental health support is essential to addressing both ordinary and overwhelming challenges, and the therapy practice of Jill Smith and Associates Counseling is ready to help. These well-trained, licensed professionals endeavor to provide effective, best-practice approaches in a warm and welcoming environment, so their clientele can experience a better tomorrow.
“It used to be that therapy was secretive and almost shameful. Today, we have become aware, as a society, that mental health is simply health care. Our mind, emotions, and behaviors are another part of us that we need to explore, spend time with, and challenge,” said Jill Smith, the CEO of Jill Smith and Associates Counseling (JSA), a modern, private counseling practice with locations at 426 South Lake Drive in Lexington and 1777 Bull Street in downtown Columbia.
A licensed independent social worker and clinical practice/supervisor (LISW-CP/S), Smith established the Lexington-based practice in 2003 after earning a Master of Social Work Degree from the University of South Carolina and working for several years as a therapist with other mental health services in the local community.
“We built Jill Smith and Associates Counseling differently from the beginning,” Smith recalled. “Our core focus is based around providing a place where people find more peace and self-understanding through this exceptional group practice and exceptional therapy.”
JSA is a private practice group that
now employs 20 therapists and 3 staff members—and continues to grow. The full-time employees are financially and occupationally supported with a robust benefit package and high-quality trainings that inspire and inform.
Because applying best practices is vital to mental health wellness, “We developed a set of core values that have guided us from day one,” Smith said. “Chief among them is that we believe in our group practice model. Because we are a group of professionals (not solo practitioners), we have many minds and perspectives to pull from, learn from, and lean on. The clients benefit from our case consultations with each other and the resources only a group can bring to bear.”
“We often refer family members to each other,” she continued. “For example, if I am working with a couple, their children might see one of our play therapists, and the husband might do individual therapy with another of our adult therapists. This is incredibly powerful— the family can give consent for us to consult with one another and bring to bear many perspectives.”
The counselors of JSA are licensed to provide “psychotherapy services (often called therapy or counseling) to all ages and stages,” Smith said. “Everyone is coming through our doors for therapy. Women and men from all walks of life—doctors, first responders, teachers, construction workers, lawyers, stay-at-home moms and dads, college students, and college professors. Many times, kids and teens are leading the way in their families, and they are the ones who first ask
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Mom and Dad to find them a therapist.”
“We do try our best to stay up on what’s emerging,” Smith said, “and because this field is changing constantly, we’re learning new approaches and learning new ideas about how to help people, harness their pain, and heal from it or how to think differently.” For instance, “We are one of the few practices that specializes in excellence in couples counseling. Everyone here who works with couples has completed emotionally focused couples therapy trainings, and the approach we feel is amazingly helpful.”
Their best-practices approach encompasses all of the services that JSA offers and even extends into practical matters. “We had an unwavering determination to make the experience of becoming a client (completing paperwork, paying your bill, and making an appointment) seamless, modern, and stressless,” Smith said. “We want healing to begin the minute your call is answered by a warm, professional voice.” To make a weekday appointment, “Call us and a person will answer and get you scheduled.” The practice also has a user-friendly website where visitors can request appointments online.
“Our intention is for healing to continue the minute you drive up and walk into our building,” Smith said. For this reason, the offices are housed within a “beautifully appointed” historic home on South Lake Drive, where the town’s first African American teacher resided. “We have the original hardwoods, doors, and fireplaces. Each room is exceptionally clean, bright, and decorated with intention.” However,
“If time, transportation, or work schedule holds you back, telehealth is always an option,” she added.
Because developing connections is a mainstay of JSA, the practice also networks with other professionals in the region. “We are uniquely connected to the community,” said Smith. “We have a close relationship with many doctors, schools, nonprofits, and businesses.”
For example, in a special presentation with counselors of Richland County School District One, JSA shared therapy techniques appropriate for school-aged children. For a couple of years, they have also leased the Nickelodeon Theater on Main Street, Columbia, during May (Mental Health Awareness Month) to screen an introspective movie and hold a related panel discussion with the audience. More information about the practice’s involvement in local activities can be found on JSA’s Facebook and Instagram pages.
As for the future, “We have plans to keep growing and serving those who are ready to go on the therapy journey,” Smith said. “Within five years, we plan to move across the state and to have locations in Rock Hill, Charleston, and Greenville with either brick-and-mortar, vibrant telehealth options, or both. Our model has a lot of strengths and a lot of stability, and we are ready to grow as a company.”
“We want to be you and your family’s therapy home,” Smith concluded. “We want you to feel you can start with us and stay with us; we are not going anywhere. We will be here to serve you now, in the future—you have found the right place!” n
Dawn Cilley, love their work with the event. Cilley’s family moved to the area 25 years ago and she followed in 2022. Her curiosity about the Irmo Strut eventually led her to volunteer at the 2023 Strut, becoming a voting commissioner in 2024, and helping plan that year’s event before it was canceled due to Hurricane Helene. Dawn has played an integral part in ensuring that the 2025 50th Anniversary Okra Strut event is well-planned and celebrated. That’s in addition to her full-time job as an airline consultant.
The Okra Strut is held on the last full weekend of every September, but the commitment to this event extends beyond a few days. Planning for the Strut is a yearround endeavor, a testament to the dedication and passion of the organizers.
The Okra Strut is held at Moore Park on Church Street in Irmo. The event will take place on Friday, September 26, from 6 pm to 11 pm and on Saturday, September 27, from 9 am to 5 pm. For the full schedules and more information, visit okrastrut.com.
In the early 1970s, the Lake Murray-Irmo Woman’s Club introduced a fundraiser to support a brand-new library in Irmo. The tradition of frying up okra to raise funds for a good cause was established. Their efforts funded Irmo’s first library building on St. Andrews Road, and the Okra Strut became a community tradition.
If you have never been to Irmo’s annual Okra Strut, mark your calendar for September 26 and 27, 2025. This year celebrates the Strut’s 50th Golden Anniversary, an important milestone that promises to make the event one of its best.
Recent Irmo Okra Strut Commission Chair, Mike Ward*, first joined the event in 2018 as a volunteer, eventually assuming the role of Chair in 2023. He noted, “It is not a solo role. It takes a lot of minds and a lot of hands to make the Okra Strut happen.”
When Ward was not preparing for the Okra Strut, he was working at his full-time job, operating a small business that provides cybersecurity for other small businesses.
Juggling a full-time job and chairing the Okra Strut event can be challenging, but Ward and incoming Okra Strut Chair,
Volunteers do all of the setup work. The event has arts and crafts vendors, local businesses that come out to exhibit, nonprofits, food vendors, amusement rides, local community group entertainers, bands, lights and shows, and a parade. With the proceeds they receive in a good year, when they make more money than they’ve spent, they reinvest in the community and local nonprofits. They also award two annual $2,000 scholarships to high school seniors who are leaving for college.
Ward said, “If you’ve never been to the Okra Strut, the invitation is there. It’s the biggest party that Irmo throws every single year. If you want to see what community in action really is, come to the Okra Strut.”
Cilley shared, “The Okra Strut is an opportunity to enjoy what the town has to offer. We get people from all over the place, but it’s important to get all the local people to see what the town is about as well. I want people to enjoy this little town that has a lot of heart.” She added, “Remember, you don’t have to eat okra to enjoy the strut!” n
*Ward was officially sworn in as Irmo’s newest council member after a June 3 election and will step down from his role as Okra Strut Chair to dedicate his time to his council duties.
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Carolina West Clinic at Bigbie Chiropractic Engineering Wellness with Dr. Wade C. Verch
by Marilyn Thomas
With Dr. Wade C. Verch leading the professional team of Carolina West Clinic at Bigbie Chiropractic, the Lexington practice’s treatment approach to addressing chronic pain and other nerve-related issues is innovative, comprehensive, and patient-centric. Since acquiring the clinic in 2021, Dr. Verch has applied his extensive educational background and specialized training to build on the practice’s existing foundation by introducing the latest in chiropractic technology and techniques to provide the highest level of care.
Carolina West Clinic at Bigbie Chiropractic is a thriving practice that uses innovative treatment approaches to address physical issues conservatively. Dr. Wade C. Verch, owner and CEO of the practice, said, “My motivation is to provide people with better options to achieve their best life,
“We have so much to offer – there is something here to help almost anyone”
and the better we do that, the better their lives and their family’s life will be.”
A married father of three and 10-year resident of Chapin, Dr. Verch purchased the existing practice from Dr. Robert Bigbie in 2021. When he made the acquisition, “It was already very impressive,” Dr. Verch said. “Dr. Bigbie had such a long and impressive career, I was able to bring in my personal knowledge and skills to an already highly capable office. The result is the flagship of the Carolina West clinical history, thanks to this culmination of skills and technology.”
Although the practice has a sister clinic in Beaufort, South Carolina, which Dr. Verch helps to manage, Lexington “is my primary area of focus,” he said.
Originally a Michigan native, Dr. Verch’s early occupational intentions were to major in mechanical engineering at Kettering University in Flint, since “I am good at math and obsessed with the automotive industry,” he said. However, while attending college, a serious family crisis arose that
detoured those plans. “When my stepdad became ill with cancer, I had to transfer from Kettering to Central Michigan University because it was the closest major university to home.”
When Dr. Verch found the quality of the engineering program at this school to be “lacking,” he considered other options that were available within this academic setting and discovered “what that school excelled at was exercise science, which is where I found a new passion,” he shared.
After receiving a Bachelor of Science in Health Fitness with a concentration in
cardiac rehab from Central Michigan University, Dr. Verch continued his education by enrolling in the Palmer College of Chiropractic, the first and largest school of its kind in the world. “I became involved in chiropractic and the treatment of bones and nerves because it makes sense to me,” he said, and this still allowed “the engineering side of my brain to do its thing.”
Before and after graduating with a Doctor of Chiropractic degree, he also supple-
mented his developing expertise by attaining certification in NCV/EMG (nerve conduction velocity/electromyography) from the NeuroDiagnostic Institute. Additionally, “I spent years concentrating on the cranial cervical junction (the relationship between the head and neck),” he continued, “and became one of the few advanced graduates in orthospinology in South Carolina.” At the same time, “I also became hyper-focused on the treatment of peripheral neuropathy,” and pursued certification in the treatment of neuropathy with the American College of Physical Medicine.
With his extensive training, Dr. Verch can offer a broad range of treatment options for those who may be experiencing discomfort due to chronic pain. “I was able to bring six years of experience in the treatment of peripheral neuropathy,” he explained, “so we have great systems all around for a variety of nerve-related pains and conditions. My offices, over the years,
have been able to help hundreds of people recover from that complicated condition.”
“We also excel in knee conditions, other joint pains, and plantar fasciitis. We also have orthospinology upper-cervical chiropractic on deck, which opens up even more avenues for care for people that is super safe and incredibly effective.” Plus, “I kill headaches and migraines like I’m mad at them,” he said.
“We have so much to offer—there is something here to help almost anyone,” said Dr. Verch. “We have several doctors with core techniques that can all offer the same experience in the majority of cases,” he added, “but we also have different specialties that set us apart.”
Beyond providing traditional chiropractic care, Carolina West Lexington “is also a spinal decompression center,” Dr. Verch said. “We use the most proven and advanced equipment available, the DRX, to treat bulging discs and spinal stenosis, in the low back or even the neck.” The DRX treatment is a nonsurgical, spinal decompression therapy that implements the use of a motorized device to gently and safely stretch the spine and relieve back and leg pain. This very sophisticated system reverses disc and nerve compression by applying equal amounts of pressure on the vertebral columns. This stretching of the spine takes pressure off the discs, which relieves nerve pressure. With improved flow of nutrients through the spine, injuries heal steadily with regular treatment sessions. “We have helped 1000’s of patients avoid surgery and are living better and happier lives,” said Dr. Verch.
Looking to the future, the practice endeavors to experience continued growth, which would necessitate a construction project in the near future. “Our office is around 2,900 square feet, but we have it maxed out in terms of equipment and personnel,” said Dr. Verch. “The three-year goal is to build on the adjacent plot of land, where I intend to build a facility of at least 5,000 square feet.”
“When I take a step back and look,” Dr. Verch concluded, “I’m very proud of my teams and clinics over the years and how many people we’ve been able to help, from such an array of different problems.”
“We strive to make every visit as pleasant as possible,” said Dr. Verch. “In addition to the resources and experience we have to offer, I believe we have the best intentions for our patients. We are busy, but we still keep a personal touch.” n
MICHAEL A. TURNER Senior Pastor of Mt. Horeb Church
A Legacy of Leadership and Service
If you have lived in Lexington for any length of time, chances are good that you are familiar with Pastor Jeff Kersey. I jokingly refer to him as the “Legend of Lexington,” because no matter where he goes in town, everyone seems to know him, and he seems to know everybody. Such is the fruit of three decades of faithful service to Jesus, Mt. Horeb
When Pastor Jeff and his remarkable wife, Lynn, moved to Lexington in 1994, Mt. Horeb was a small church with an average at-
reach people for Jesus, Pastor Jeff led the people of Mt. Horeb to be outwardly focused, evangelistic, and missional. Built on the rock-solid foundation of Biblical truth and driven by the power of prayer, God poured His blessings on Mt. Horeb to impact countless lives with the Gospel over the years. In 30 years, that average attendance of 80 transformed into over 3,000.
In recent years, it was Jeff’s bold leadership that guided Mt. Horeb to leave The United Methodist denomination and become a leading congregation establishing The Global Methodist Church in South Carolina, a new Methodist denomination committed to the historic, orthodox faith.
However, Pastor Jeff’s legacy and leadership impact are not relegated just to Lexington and South Carolina. It is not an exaggeration to say that tens of thousands of people around the world—especially in far flung places like India and Liberia—have a relationship with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, because of the ripple effect of Jeff’s commitment to the Great Commission.
Recently, Pastor Jeff’s leadership and selfless service were recognized when he received the prestigious Order of the Palmetto. Awarded by Governor McMaster and presented by Rep. Paula Rawl Calhoun, the Order of the Palmetto is the highest honor bestowed upon civilians in the state of South Carolina. It is a well-deserved accolade, putting an exclamation point on a lifetime of ministry and impact.
At the end of 2024, Pastor Jeff retired from full-time ministry and transitioned from Senior Pastor to Pastor Emeritus of Mt. Horeb Church, so now there’s a higher likelihood that you will see the Legend of Lexington out on the golf course, fishing on Lake Murray, or spending time with his grandchildren around town. If you do, please be sure to congratulate him and thank him for giving to the Lord. n
Helping youth tackle anxiety and stress
by Erin Bluvas
Millions of children and adolescents experience stress in our modern world, with 15-20% of them going on to be diagnosed with anxiety disor ders. Pressure from family or friends, busy schedules full of school and extracurricular activities, disturbing content on the news, upsetting messages from social media, television, movies, and emerging channels, and family stressors, such as divorce and traumatic experiences, all contribute to the stress and anxiety experienced by youth. A local church is trying to help children, teens, and their families overcome these challenges they face on a day-to-day basis.
Pilgrim Lutheran Church is a come-as-you-are house of worship that has served the Lexington community for more than 125 years. Known for its wel coming atmosphere, Pilgrim has attracted individuals and families from across the county to join in worship, fellowship, and service. Their network of volunteers meets others where they are, such as in the choir room, at the local food pantry, at the site of natural disasters and in the classroom, where they learn and grow together in areas such as leadership and prayer.
This fall, they are expanding their ministry efforts to help children and their families cope with anxiety through a multi-part series called Navigating the Pressure – Helping Kids Thrive in a Stressed-Out World. Guided by keynote speakers, panelists, and interactive discussions, par ticipants will learn about the roots of stress and anxiety and how to use real-world tools to manage these common experiences to not only survive but to thrive. Special topics include performance-based pressure, digital overload, sports, school, screens, and social media.
Experts will offer insight and inspiration while facilitating eye-open ing discussions for adults and nature-based experiences designed to help kids reconnect and reset. With the goal of offering hope and healing for all ages, Pilgrim has organized the event series to help participants learn to breathe easier and live better – together.
Not sure if you or your child would benefit from the series? Children and teens can show signs of stress that may not be obvious to parents and may be difficult for kids to identify or articulate. Look for signs such as mood swings, acting up, changes in sleep patterns or eating habits, and physical symptoms such as headaches or stomach pain. Other clues include regressive behaviors (e.g., bedwetting, thumb sucking), night mares, telling lies, becoming more clingy than usual, bullying, overreac tions, disrespect, and noticeable changes to academic performance.
Prioritizing proper nutrition, sufficient sleep, adequate exercise, screen-free time, and connecting through conversation and time together are all import ant ways that parents and family members can help children and teens cope with anxiety and stress. Additional resources, shared by President & CEO of Girl Scouts of SC Mountains to Midlands Melanie Huggins, include the fol lowing books: The Disengaged Teen: Helping Kids Learn Better, Feel Better, and Live Better; Under Pressure: Confronting the Epidemic of Stress and Anxiety in Girls; Raising Resilience: How to Help Our Children Thrive in Times of Uncertainty; Behind Their Screens: What Teens Are Facing (and Adults Are Missing) and Unpacking Grind Cul
ture in American Teens: Pressure, Burnout, and the Role of Social Media.
And whether your child is currently facing anxiety and stress or might encounter it in the future, the Navigating the Pressure series will give kids and parents the tools to tackle these common yet unique obstacles. The planning began when Pilgrim received a grant from its denomination, The Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, to conduct an impactful outreach project in Lexington.
A team was assembled and members were assigned to interview various community leaders to ask, “What needs and trends are you seeing in our community?” The surprising answer that emerged from the team’s outreach was centered on the tremendous pressure felt by high school students to perform at the highest levels in all parts of their lives. Parents were under pressure as well and experienced great anxiety trying to navigate parenting in a rapidly changing world.
“Once we decided to move ahead with a program to address this need in our community and shared what we were planning to do, we found almost everyone we talked to had a story to tell about their observations of teenage and childhood stress,” said Delores Steinhauser, member of the Pilgrim planning team. “The common themes that arose included sports, academics, social media, and parental pressure. We knew we were onto something that needed to be addressed in our community.”
“Pilgrim’s mission in this latest program is to help our children thrive in the world in which they live now and in the world they will inherit,” shared Pastor Mary Anderson. n
Event Series
Visit wearepilgrim.com for more information and eventbrite.com to register.
Sunday, September 21
Beyond the Scoreboard: Cultivating Growth, Connection, & Well-Being in Youth Sports
Pilgrim Lutheran Church | 4 pm | $20
Former Major League Baseball player Travis Snider will host this event for parents, coaches, and mentors, focusing on navigating the culture of youth sports.
Saturday, September 27
Chirp Quest: A Birding Adventure with “The Purple Martin Guy”
Saluda Shoals Park | 8:30 am | $10
Join local naturalist Zach Steinhauser for a bird watching tour for middle and high school students. Enjoy a chance to relax and reconnect with nature.
Saturday, October 11
The Space to Breathe: A Stargazing Experience
Camp Kinard | 7 pm and 9 pm | $10
Join local astronomy enthusiasts Dr. Brian Peterson, Martin Bowers, and John Hodge for a peaceful night under the stars at Camp Kindard. Designed for middle and high school students to relax, reflect, and explore the wonders of the universe. Transportation from Pilgrim Lutheran Church will be provided.
Sunday, November 9
Likes, Shares, and Self-Esteem: What Every Parent Needs to Know
Pilgrim Lutheran Church | 4 pm | $20
A presentation by Dr. Devorah Heitner, author and educator, on digital well-being, parenting, screentime, digital citizenship, and raising em pathetic kids in a connected world.
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by Jenny Smith
Apple Picking Around the Carolinas
Chattooga Belle Farm
Long Creek, SC | chattoogabellefarm.com
This 198-acre working farm is nestled at the foot of the Blue Ridge Mountains. They offer U-pick apples and a general store full of a variety of items. They also have a bistro where you can have lunch and a distillery to grab a drink. You can play disc golf and schedule a full farm tour. Make a weekend out of it - they offer several lodging options and campsites.
Justus Orchard
Hendersonville, NC | justusorchard.com
This fifth generation family-owned farm in the beautiful Western North Carolina Mountains offers U-pick or already-picked apples along with other fruits and homemade goodies. They have a bakery, taproom, and tons of activities for children, including a playground, cow train rides, a jumping pillow, goats, a pond with ducks, and an apple cannon.
North Carolina and South Carolina orchards are among the most beautiful in the South, with a variety of apples each season. Some of them are U-pick orchards, while others have roadside markets where you can buy already-picked apples and other products. Several variables go into the ripening dates, but most apples are ready for picking from July through mid-October each year.
MacGregor Orchard
Travelers Rest, SC | macgregororchard.com
This family-owned orchard is located off the Cherokee Foothills Scenic Byway and grows 11 different fruits with 111 different varieties. They make their own fresh fruit preserves and fruit butters. They press fresh apple cider and make their own apple sauce. In addition, they carry a variety of local vegetables and other fruits from selected South Carolina farms while in season.
Sky Top Orchard
Flat Rock, NC | skytoporchard.com
Nestled in the stunning Blue Ridge Mountains of Western North Carolina, Sky Top Orchard has been a family tradition since 1967. From hayrides and apple cannons to their famous cider donuts, every visit is filled with adventure, sweetness, and memories in the making.
The Orchard at Altapass Spruce Pine, NC | altapassorchard.org
This small-batch heirloom orchard sells over 30 apple varieties throughout the season. There is a restaurant that serves lunch daily, and many local restaurants nearby. They offer hayrides, hiking trails, and it’s pet friendly. Visit their general store for locally made jams and jellies, honey, pickled veggies, salsas, and dips. Check out the events calendar before you go - they often have live music.
Windy
Hill Orchard and Cider Mill York, SC | windyhillorchard.com
This family-owned boutique apple orchard and hard cider producer is located in the upstate of SC. Stop in for a tasting of their hard cider or pick your own apples. There are several varieties to select from, or check out their market for already picked apples. Throughout the fall, they have special activities such as music, hayrides, and festivals. n
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Celebrate RECOVERY
Nineteen years of community service
by Tyler Ryan
An addiction is defined as a chronic condition that can impact many aspects of your life, including your physical and mental health, relationships, and career.
There are two main types of addictions, the first being substance. In fact, alcohol is the most commonly seen addiction, followed by drug use, but there are several others, including caffeine, eating, and smoking, that meet the requirement of an “impact” on one’s life.
The other type of addiction is behavioral, which includes things like gambling, shopping, the Internet, exercise, and sex addictions, as well as depres sion and anxiety.
cally wired to seek rewards, there can be a clear connection.
The good news is that addictions can be treated and overcome, which is one of the missions of the Celebrate Recovery Program, located at the First Baptist Church of Lexington on Barr Road in Lexington.
There is not generally a single cause of addiction. It can be very complex to understand, but fundamentally, it relates to changes in your brain’s chemistry over time, with substances and activities having an effect on your brain itself, specifically in the “reward center” of your brain, and since most humans are biologi-
According to Paul Bishop, who is the pastor over counseling, recovery, and global impact, the Celebrate Recovery Program has been steadfast in the community for nearly nineteen years.
The program itself was created in California in 1991, as a faith-based twelve-step recovery program that focused primarily on chemical dependency; however, it expanded to all “hurts, habits, and hangups.” The program is now found in over 35,000 churches across the country.
“Pastor Ralph (Schneck) heard about a program that would fit the vision of our church,” said Bishop, and after doing his homework, he agreed, and they started
out the groundwork to bring the program to Lexington.
According to Bishop, they initially identified about ten people they wanted involved in the program, and they started meeting, preparing, and praying about the program that would be launched in September 2006. Bishop said that although it started as people wanting to help others, they found that “we all have issues, and we need to work on ourselves.”
They dove deep into the twelve-step program, how biblical principles are incorporated, and then they opened it up to the church. “It started very humbly,” he shared, starting with ten to fifteen people a week, now boasting over eighty to one hundred people healing together each Tuesday evening.
Bishop said that like the mission of the original Celebrate Recovery, they don’t just focus on alcohol and other substances. “Sex addiction, or being co-dependent, anxiety, relationship issues, or even ‘people pleasing’” are all things that are addressed in the program.
The program, which meets on Tuesdays, starts out in an open session, with worship time, where they focus on the higher power, followed by the principals of the step program, a lesson, or testimony. They also celebrate milestones and even give out chips before breaking into smaller focus groups, including sexual integrity, depression, anger, substance abuse, and more, geared toward both men and women.
“The people who need it the most can afford it the least,” Bishop said, “There is no cost, it’s wide open, and anonymous.” He does point out that there are materials available, when people want to go deeper, that are offered at a cost.
The free Celebrate Recovery program, which falls under the church umbrella, is “one side of the street,” said Bishop, pointing to the Bridge of Hope Counseling center being the other. The counseling center is a fully functioning counseling center, which sees over 1200 people a month, treating everything from family issues, children, and addiction. Although the counselors are independent contractors and do have fees, there are scholarships and programs so that nobody gets turned away from the services that are offered.
There is another program that the church offers for those who may need something above and beyond the recovery program but can’t afford counseling. “Cele-
““The people who need it the most can afford it the least... There is no cost, it’s wide open, and anonymous.”
brate Peers,” said Bishop, “is for people who can’t afford counseling, or people who want someone to talk to once a week or so who has the same area of struggle.”
These peers complete a forty-hour peer support training program and are required to keep up with continuing education. These peers also serve as supervisors for the Celebrate Recovery Program.
They also offer other peer support, including “Recovery Rides,” which get people to meetings or counseling.
Bishop said that although there is no “graduation,” or end to the program, many people who have been a part of the program stay involved after they reach the twelfth step of recovery, which is “sharing my strength and hope to other people.” This is a very important part of recovery, regardless of where to continue. Bishop said. “It’s not always going to be that they stay with us, but to be successful,
He said they are looking at adding other nights and helping other churches start their own programs. “I don’t think we’ll ever run out of a need. People are broken. People need community.”
“they have to continue to give back.”
As far as the vision for the next nineteen years of Celebrate Recovery, Bishop said that “people need a higher power, and they need community. A safe place where they can take the mask off and be real.”
Celebrate Recovery meets each Tuesday evening at 6:45 PM in the Student Center, located at 415 Barr Road in Lexington. You can learn more by going to fblex.org/celebraterecovery, or by calling 803-957-0686.
When asked about how to start, Pastor Bishop said, “Just show up.” n
Food Truck Finds
by Kim Becknell Williams
Ice cream trucks might have been the very first food trucks. Serving ice cream and sweet treats while playing music, driving through neighborhoods brings back childhood memories. They are still around, but the food truck world has expanded beyond delivering ice cream.
Food trucks are a take-out restaurant on wheels. They come to you. There are options for breakfast, lunch, and dinner - and everything in between.
With limited kitchen space, many food trucks focus on a specific type of food. There are food trucks with vegan options, seafood specialties, Mexican dishes, Italian delicacies, burgers, assorted handhelds, slushies, and the list goes on.
The food trucks are foodies on the go. The flexibility of a mobile kitchen makes a food truck suited for catering various events: graduation parties, end-of-season team parties, festivals, pool parties, blood drives, birthdays, and work gatherings. They can go where they are needed. Many develop a loyal following and have fans of their food.
While customers typically order and pay at a walk up window, some food trucks offer the convenience of online ordering. Menus are often posted on chalkboards and dry erase boards. As items sell out, they are simply erased or scratched out.
Several food trucks are wheeling around the area and here are a few you might want to check out.
The Melt Grilled Cheese Co. food truck started a few years ago. It is owned
“We opened the truck in August of 2023 and have been loving every moment, especially being located here in Lexington. It has been an amazing experience to go out and meet people and give back to the community. We love being out and about at fundraisers, feeding teachers, church events, weddings, neighborhood events, or at our fall commitment to the corn maze and pumpkin patch at Clinton Sease Farm,” Lepore shared.
Menu items include grilled cheese varieties, chili, and soup. Customer favorites are the Southern Charm with bacon jam, Havarti cheese, goat cheese, and fig spread; Liberty Bell with ribeye, onions, peppers, mozzarella, and horseradish sauce; and Muscle Mommy with chicken, pesto, provolone, mozzarella, and balsamic.
“Owning the food truck has also allowed us to serve on the Town of Lexington Small
by a husband and wife team, Dave Lepore and Ewa Zajac.
Business Advisory Committee,” Lepore said. “Being a part of and serving the community we love is what is most important and rewarding to us.” Find them on social media @melt_lexington.
The Barn Bites food truck has been in business for four years. They keep a busy schedule going to businesses and neighborhoods in areas in Lexington, Blythewood, Newberry, Irmo, and West Columbia. Favorite items on the menu include the Pork Tenderloin Sandwich with 16 different spices and the Barn Bowl with fries, mac-ncheese, pork or chicken, and barbeque sauce.
“Owning food trucks has been a great experience,” said owner Sam Quiller. “My first attempt at it years ago turned out to be a good learning experience. Having mobility is helpful and adds variety. Being able to move around to different places and seeing people’s faces after they taste my food is an amazing feeling,” he shared.
See where the Barn Bites truck is scheduled to be on social media @barnbitessc.
Quiller also has a second food truck.
While coffee flavors and types of donuts might vary, customers have tasty options at the Dark Wing Donuts & Coffee food truck.
Selections might include coffees like a black Dark Wing Coffee, Obama with brown sugar cinnamon, and 1600 hazelnut. Customers might want to complement their coffees with assorted donuts. Donut flavors could be powdered sugar, oreo and cream cheese, and/or cinnamon sugar to name a few. “These two concepts, Barn Bites and Dark Wing Donuts & Coffee, are really taking off,” Quiller said.
Quiller said a third truck is planned by the end of the year.
There is a lot that goes on behind the scenes with food trucks. Aside from the creative side of running a food truck with planning menus, prepping the food, and marketing, there is the business side. Food truck owners must have enough staffing to keep up with scheduling demands. They have to plan for the numbers, restock supplies, and maintain customer relations. And at the end of the day, there’s always clean-up detail. Food trucks also have to pass health and safety regulations, hold certain permits, licenses, and adhere to specific regulations.
Support local food trucks when you see them around town and book for an upcoming event at roaminghunger.com. n
Caregiver’s Support Group
Oakleaf Village hosts a monthly gathering for individuals and families affected by Alzheimer’s. Gain valuable insights, find encouragement, and recieve help in navigating the challenges of the disease with a sense of understanding, support and community. First Thursday of Every Month | 6:00PM 803•832•4356 800 N. Lake Drive, Lexington, SC 29072
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Financial Decisions That Will Benefit Your Future
When it comes to your finances, looking ahead to the future is important. You don’t have to sacrifice fun now in order to plan for the future. Here are several ways to start making better financial decisions that will benefit your future. by Matt Jenkins
Save Every Month
When people think of saving money, large numbers often come to mind. The truth is, by saving just $20 per month, you will save $2,400.00 in ten years’ time, plus any interest acquired. By saving $50 per month, you will have $6,000.00 in ten years. It’s easy to think that saving a small amount every month makes no difference, but in ten, twenty, or thirty years, you will see the results. Make saving easy by having deposits made automatically. Increase the amount you save by a few dollars when you get a raise and add extra money to the account whenever you have some to spare. Watching the numbers grow will motivate you to continue.
Learn to Budget
Whether you live paycheck-to-paycheck or live comfortably and don’t pay attention to how much you spend, learning how to create a budget and stick to it will benefit your financial future. A budget is the best starting point for any financial plan. It allows you to see exactly how much you are bringing in each month and how much you are spending. In addition, you can get an honest look into exactly where your money is going. You may be shocked to find out how much money you’re spending on morning coffees or new clothes. Creating a budget will allow you to account for paying all of your bills as well as enjoying life, but not go overboard. By budgeting, you can also see clearly how much you can comfortably save each month. In addition to
budgeting for monthly expenses, remember the expenses that occur less often, such as property taxes, car maintenance, and home repairs.
Start an Emergency Fund
An emergency fund is different from a savings account. Your savings account should be considered long-term. An emergency fund is something that can be used when there is a loss of income, home or car repairs are needed, or unforeseen medical expenses. It’s recommended that you have 3 - 6 months of living expenses saved for an emergency fund.
Be Sales Smart
Sales are tempting. When people think of sales, they consider it a way of saving money. While this is true when it comes to necessary, day-to-day items such as toilet paper, shampoo, food, it can become tricky for other items. You may love to buy new clothes, but if you don’t really need them, then purchasing them on sale is not truly saving money. Shop sales wisely and only use them for items that you need at the current time. Remember that sales always come around again, so you don’t have to be nervous about missing out.
The financial decisions that you make today can shape your future. Follow these tips to help set yourself up for a fiscally responsible life. n
spice OF LIFE
Scrumptious Sliders
Chicken and Bacon Sliders
12 slider rolls
2 cups cooked chicken, shredded
8 slices of bacon, crumbled
1 cup cheddar cheese, shredded ½ cup ranch dressing
½ cup butter, melted
1 tsp dried parsley
½ tsp garlic powder
1 Tbsp Parmesan cheese, grated
Preheat the oven to 350°F. Place the bottom half of the rolls in a baking dish and spread the chicken evenly over the bottom layer of rolls. Drizzle the ranch dressing over the chicken, sprinkle the cheese and bacon on top. Place the top half of the rolls over the filling. Mix the melted butter with the parsley, garlic powder, and Parmesan cheese, and brush the mixture over the tops of the rolls. Cover with foil and bake for 15 minutes. Remove the foil and bake for another 5 minutes, or until the tops are golden and the cheese is melted.
Caprese Sliders
12 slider rolls
12 slices mozzarella cheese
12 slices tomato
basil leaves
balsamic glaze
olive oil
salt and pepper to taste
Preheat the oven to 350°F. Place the bottom halves of the slider buns in a baking dish. Layer each bun with a slice of mozzarella, a slice of tomato, and a few basil leaves. Drizzle with olive oil and balsamic glaze and sprinkle with salt and pepper. Place the top halves of the buns on and bake for about 10 minutes, or until the cheese is slightly melted and the buns are toasted.
Shredded Pork Sliders
12 slider rolls
4 cups cooked pork, shredded
9 slices provolone cheese
1 cup BBQ sauce
¼ cup butter, melted
1 tsp garlic powder
1 tsp Dijon mustard
1 tsp Worcestershire sauce
1 tsp sesame seeds
1 tsp Parmesan cheese, grated
½ tsp red pepper flakes, crushed
Preheat the oven to 350°F. Place the bottom half of the rolls in a baking dish. Mix the pork and
6 large eggs
½ cup cheddar cheese, shredded salt and pepper to taste
Optional: avocado slices or hot sauce
Preheat the oven to 350°F. Cook the bacon and scramble the eggs. Place the bottom halves of the slider buns in a baking dish. Layer each bun with a slice of bacon, a scoop of scrambled eggs, and a sprinkle of cheddar cheese. Place the top halves of the buns on and bake for about 10 minutes, until the cheese is melted and the buns are slightly toasted. Serve warm with optional avocado slices or hot sauce.
Sausage and Pepper Sliders
12 slider buns
1 lb Italian sausage
1 red bell pepper, sliced
1 green bell pepper, sliced
1 onion, sliced
1 cup marinara sauce
1 cup provolone cheese, shredded
Preheat the oven to 350°F. Brown the sausage and set aside. Sauté the peppers and onions until softened, for about 5-7 minutes. Place the bottom halves of the buns in a baking dish. Layer the sausage on each bun, followed by the peppers and onions. Spoon marinara sauce over the top and sprinkle with provolone cheese. Place the top halves of the buns on and bake for about 10 minutes until the cheese is melted and the buns are toasted. n
Gilbert Martin was born about 1832 in tiny Martinsburg, Indiana. He married Elizabeth Lee. In 1857 they loaded the wagon with two children and headed 400 miles west to a village named Chili in Hancock County, Illinois. They’d heard about good, cheap land, and they wanted some of it.
They headed west on what’s known as the old Buffalo Trace. Men recorded seeing thousands of buffalo come to a big salt lick at the Ohio River north of what is now Louisville, Kentucky.
They would have ridden due west through Vincennes, which was the home of about 3,000 people. I wonder what Elizabeth thought as she passed through the town with a three-month-old baby in her lap.
A man on a wagon could travel between 8 and 20 miles a day, depending on weather. I guess that means the journey lasted from 20 to 50 days. They were on a mission to western Illinois, so they kept going.
I have no idea how long it took them to get to Hancock County, or why they went to that place, or where they actually stopped.
They set up housekeeping, moved a couple of times, and finally got their own land and built a small house.
There they raised several children, one of whom was named Betty. Betty married John Randell, and they had several kids, one of whom was named Stella. Stella married Boland Clark, and they had several kids. One of them was named Joe, and Joe was my Daddy.
So, going back to Gilbert’s daughter Betty. She was my Great-Grandmother. Her older sis Emma wrote out several pages of recollections in the 1930’s.
Great-Great Grandpa Gilbert grew corn and melons and other crops. They traded with others for things they needed. Nobody had any money. Gilbert grew flax, and he and Elizabeth worked together to turn this into a thread she used to make blankets. Later as the town of Bowen was built nearby, a woolen mill was built also. Gilbert sheared his sheep, took the wool to the mill and had it turned into material that Elizabeth used to make pants for the whole family. Each fall they’d spend a long Saturday filling the wagon with nuts and wild fruit so
they could make it through the winter.
There’s mention of Gilbert dying at 39 before he taught young son Frank how to plow, and how new widow Elizabeth taught her son how to break the land so they could grow corn so they could survive.
Everybody worked together and did what they had to do.
Take a good look around wherever you are. Consider how many of the people you see would make it in that kind of life. And consider how our ancestry did it -all the while keeping a faith in God. Gilbert was never too tired to play the violin at the end of the day and help neighbors with extra food.
How many of us would make it? n
David Clark writes and works in Cochran, GA. Connect with him at cw.w4trj@gmail.com.
