I hope everyone is ready for summer! Our family just got done celebrating our youngest child’s high school graduation. Now we are kind of empty nesters, I suppose.
I’m very proud of Noah and the journey he walks in life. He leads by example. The other day he was going to a friend’s house. Curiously, I asked him what they were doing, and he explained to me that they were gathering to pray for all the graduating seniors and families.
I’m embarrassed to admit it, but I chuckled and thought he was joking. It turns out the joke was about me doubting his genuine intentions. How’s that for being a good father? Happy Father’s Day to me.
When I realized he was serious, I quickly apologized for my “sarcastic-ness” and gave him a big hug. It was a long, long, tight squeeze. The type of hug when I pray to God that my kid will become a better person than I am.
However, this hug was different. It represented a sincere appreciation to God, because Noah Millan Shevchik has already exceeded all my hopes, dreams, and expectations in not only becoming a man of Christ but also blossoming into His faithful servant.
Best wishes to you and your family for a relaxing and fun filled summer in Lexington. We are so fortunate to have Lake Murray right in our backyard and all the recreational opportunities for fishing, boating, and camping that she offers us.
Happy Father’s Day to all the dads who speak into the hearts of their sons and daughters with love and humility.
Thanks for reading Lexington Life Magazine and don’t forget to nominate your favorite businesses for the Best of Lexington 2026 on our website lexingtonlife.com. I’m sure that they will appreciate your support and recognition for a job well done.
Enjoy your summer!
Todd Shevchik
CALENDAR OFevents
JUNE
Saturday, June 7
Community Mega Yard Sale
Watershed Fellowship | 711 E Main St. Lexington | 8 am – 1 pm
Come shop for treasures in the basement of the Old Mill. All proceeds go to the local organization, Lighthouse for Life.
Saturday, June 7
Uplift Resource Education Day
415 Barr Rd. | Lexington | 10 am – 1 pm
This community event connects people with resources for those with chronic illnesses or disabilities. Twenty-plus vendors will be on hand to talk and answer questions. For more information visit upliftencouragement.com.
Tuesday, June 10
9th Annual Taste on the River Stone River | 121 Alexander Rd. West Columbia | 5:30 pm – 9 pm
This premier culinary event brings together the best chefs, tastemakers, and food lovers in the Midlands. For tickets visit beautifywestcolumbia.org
Friday, June 13
Paddle and Pint
Saluda Shoals Park | 5605 Bush River Rd. | Columbia | 6 pm – 8 pm
Enjoy a scenic paddle on the Saluda River, enjoying peaceful surroundings and natural beauty. After your adventure on the water, unwind with a craft beer tasting with a selection of local brews. Visit icrc.net to register.
Saturday, June 14
Dad’s Day Out
Wingard’s Market | 1403 N Lake Dr. Lexington | 10 am – 2 pm
Enjoy the manliest garden party in town with premium cigars for purchase from Cigar Militia and sample tastings from Angry Fish Brewing Co., JCQ Farms, and Gooddaddy BBQ Sauce. Visit wingardsmarket. com for more information.
Friday, June 20 and Saturday, June 21
The Dam Boat Run
Lake Murray Marina | 1602 Marina Rd. Irmo | 9 am
Proceeds from this 3rd annual boat run will aid The Big Red Barn Retreat, the Richland County Sheriff’s Department, and Camp Discovery. Registration and sponsorship opportunities are available through June 19. Visit LakeMurrayPowerboatRun. com for more information.
Saturday, June 21
SE Rare Plant Market
269 Charter Oak Rd. | Lexington 1 pm – 5 pm
A family-friendly afternoon of live music, food, beverages, plants, and plant-related goods. For more information visit serareplantmarket.com.
Saturday, June 28
Fourth of July Celebration
Lake Murray | 9:30 pm
South Carolina’s largest fireworks show will launch at dark from two lake locations: Spence Island and Dreher Island. For more information visit lakemurrayfireworks.com.
Friday, July 4
Lexington County Peach Festival
Gilbert Community Park | Rikard Circle | Gilbert | 9 am – 10 pm
The 65th Anniversary of this family-friendly annual event will include a patriotic parade, car show, arts and crafts vendors, food and beverages, live entertainment, fireworks, and all things related to peaches. Visit lexingtoncountypeachfestival.com for the full schedule.
Friday, July 4
Independence Day Celebration
Icehouse Amphitheatre | 107 West Main St. | Lexington | 7:30 pm
The 246th Army Band will play a concert, followed by fireworks. Tune into 93.1 The Lake to listen to patriotic music during the fireworks show. For more information visit icehouseamphitheater.com. n
faithMATTERS
BRYCE HOLDMAN Pastor | Evangelist | Speaker @bryceholdman
Let’s talk about the concept of rest. Now, I am not talking about our sleep habits. I am talking about the biblical notion of Sabbath rest. In the Old Testament, the Lord commands His people to “remember the Sabbath Day and keep it holy” (Exodus 20:8). God is speaking of a day of rest, a day when our normal 6-day rhythm of life is deliberately interrupted for the sake of rest, refreshment, and dedication to our Lord Jesus Christ. But if you are like me, this is often difficult to employ consistently.
Our lives are fast paced. Chances are, we find a level of satisfaction in the work we do or did before retirement. It is hard to pause something that makes us feel good and even accomplished. And yet, God says that intentional Sabbath rest is of utmost importance in our life with Him. So, what does this look like for you?
For me, my day of Sabbath rest may include several different things. Often, it begins with a slower-than-normal morning around the house. Sometimes it involves grocery shopping, spending time outdoors, and washing my car. While some of these things tend to require physical energy, they are mentally and even spiritually refreshing, as they have no sort of career expectation attached to them.
One way or another, our day of Sabbath rest is meant to include intentional time with the Lord. Maybe this means dedicating an hour in the Word of God during the day. Maybe it means praying for those in your life who are hurting. Or maybe, it includes playing some worship music throughout the day.
Whatever that looks like for you, may we never forget the Lord’s command to keep the Sabbath day holy, growing in enjoyment of our relationship with our Creator. n
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LEXINGTON
by Tenell Felder
leader
Dean Anderson
When Dean Anderson accepted the position as Administrative Assistant Chief for Lexington County Fire nearly ten years ago, he had never been to Lexington.
“It was kind of a funny thing. We put a pin in the map so to speak and drew a circle three hours out from the area where our family is from,” Anderson said, recalling when he and his wife Kimberly decided to move their family from southern Florida.
“We knew nothing about this area and honestly, it has become such a huge blessing to my family.”
Today, Deputy Chief Anderson oversees the Life Safety Division for Lexington County Fire which encompasses public education, fire investigation, and inspections.
Anderson also manages the new construction project division, which oversees two new fire stations, the new training building, and the remodel of an existing fire station.
“I am blessed every day to get up, put on a uniform, and be able to do what I do for the citizens of this county,” said Anderson.
Before moving to Lexington, Anderson was battalion chief for a fire department in South Florida. He served with that agency for 29 years, and it was also where he met his wife Kimberly who was a firefighter paramedic. Their son is an EMT, and their daughter graduated from high school this year.
The Andersons are members at Mt. Horeb Church, which they found when their daughter attended vacation bible school there.
“We got to know some people there and decided it was a good fit,” said Anderson, who is also involved in a men’s Friday morning prayer group at the church.
After a year and a half as the Administrative Assistant Chief, Anderson was asked to transfer and became the Deputy Chief of Operations for Lexington County Fire where he would serve for the next seven years.
“I oversaw all of the day-to-day operations of the fire service from fire calls to medical calls to HR matters – anything and everything that had to do with the operational aspect of the fire service.”
He suggested that high schoolers interested in firefighting take advantage of programs offered at their schools.
“Most of the high schools around here have a firefighting program. They train you to be a firefighter by the time you get out of high school. We work with several of the schools to bring those kids on and we have had several of them in our recruit classes that have graduated out of those programs right into our academy.”
For those interested in pursuing a career in firefighting, Anderson has one main piece of advice – never stop learning.
“When I took this position, I learned something new every day about this side of firefighting. When you think you know it all, that’s when you’re going to get into trouble. So never stop learning.” n
businessSPOTLIGHT
PALMETTO
Trent Jackson, the founder and owner of Palmetto Air Conditioning, has served the Midlands with professional heating, air conditioning, and electrical services since he established the company in 2001. He takes pride in delivering honest work and is committed to providing the highest quality services in Lexington.
Palmetto Air Conditioning stands behind its products and aims to make the entire process, from start to finish and beyond, easy for its customers. To ensure excellence, Jackson ensures that his staff is well-trained. Each technician at Palmetto Air Conditioning undergoes over fifty hours of training annually to improve their skills and advance their careers. The company is dedicated to providing an exceptional experience for every customer.
by Abigail Harris
Motivated by his grandfather’s encouragement, Jackson pursued a trade education that would enable him to secure a stable job and provide for his family. He credits his grandparents for teaching him the value of faith, family, and hard work. Their steadfast support has shaped him into the man and business owner he is today. He said the most rewarding aspect of his job is building strong relationships with his customers.
Jackson shared a funny story about the business, “Over the past twenty-four years, we have acquired several HVAC companies. Each of these companies had an office staff member named Tammy. As a result, when customers call to request a service call, they often feel as though they are still speaking with the same Tammy.”
Jackson focuses on maintaining positive morale among staff members by conducting weekly meetings, recognizing achievements with awards, and organizing team challenges. He also takes the time to acknowledge each staff member’s birthday. These small yet impactful actions contribute to a healthy environment, making staff members feel like an integral part of the team.
After twenty years in Lexington, Jackson and his wife, Carla, now live in Sawyerdale with their three children: Jack, Chloe, and Thomas, and their dog, Luke. Carla is a teacher and is the head of Jefferson Davis Academy, and the family attends Ebenezer Church in southern Lexington County. In their free time they love saltwater fishing.
Jackson said, “We want to be your trusted HVAC provider. If you are unsatisfied with our services, our refund policy is our ‘Palmetto Promise’. We do it right, or we fix it. If we can’t make you happy, we will refund your money.” n
DR. JAMES LOGING
A Life of Healing, Adventure, and Inspiration
by Mary Ann Hutcheson
photos by Dr. James Loging
Dr. James Loging is a board-certified orthopedic surgeon, widely recognized as one of America’s Most Honored Doctors. He earned his medical degree from the Medical University of South Carolina and is a Fellow of the American Academy of Orthopedic Surgeons, as well as a member of the South Carolina Orthopedic Association. His reputation for excellence in the medical field is well-deserved, but his professional accomplishments are just one part of his extraordinary story. Beyond the operating room, Dr. Loging is an adventurer, a photographer, and a man driven by an insatiable curiosity and a deep desire to help others.
Early Life and Inspiration
Dr. Loging grew up in the small town of Pomaria, located in Newberry County, South Carolina. Despite leaving home to pursue his medical career, he eventually returned to be close to his parents and raise his family nearby. Looking back, he appreciates the decision to return home, as it allowed him to have lunch with his parents every Monday and give his children the chance to grow up near their grandparents. “You don’t get that time back,” he reflected.
to give that gift to other people, just as the doctors had given to our family,” he said. Initially, Loging considered specializing in cardiothoracic surgery because of his father’s experience. However, he ultimately felt more drawn to orthopedics. “You’re not necessarily saving lives like a heart surgeon,” he explained, “but you’re changing them for the better.” Through orthopedic surgery, he helps patients reduce pain, regain mobility, and lead more active, fulfilling lives. “Being able to give someone that gift—it’s incredibly rewarding.”
A Natural Drive for Excellence
From a young age, Loging was drawn to practical, hands-on work. He admired the skills his father demonstrated while working on projects around the house and developed a strong sense of confidence and self-reliance through those early lessons. This practical foundation, combined with his natural drive and energy, shaped his approach to both medicine and life.
His path to becoming a physician was influenced by deeply personal experiences. When Loging was just eight years old, his father suffered a severe heart attack that required surgery. Years later, during Loging’s high school years, his father experienced another life-threatening heart attack. Witnessing the medical care that saved his father’s life sparked a desire in Loging to provide that same gift to others. “I wanted
Loging attributes much of his success to the “tremendous amount of energy” he feels is a gift from God. “I work a lot, but it doesn’t bother me because I have so much energy for it. I love helping people and being able to change their lives,” he said. His relentless drive and passion have allowed him to excel in multiple fields, from medicine to adventure photography, and even aviation—yes, he’s also a licensed pilot.
Capturing Nature’s Gifts
One of Loging’s deepest passions is photography — a pursuit that began with underwater shots during his scuba diving
trips. His photography eventually expanded to landscapes and wildlife, where he developed a particular fascination with bears.
“Bears are amazing animals,” Loging said. He has traveled extensively to photograph them in their natural habitats. In Alaska’s Katmai National Park, he captured images of brown bears fishing for salmon at Brooks Falls. He also visited Lake Clark National Park, where he could get remarkably close to grizzly bears thanks to platforms established by the park service. “The bears have become habituated to people,” he explained. “They came within two feet of me, but I never felt like I was in danger.”
One of Loging’s most memorable experiences was photographing polar bears in the Arctic Ocean. He traveled to Norway, boarded a ship, and sailed into the ice-covered waters. “That was an amazing experience,” he recalled. “I had always wanted to see polar bears, and we had some remarkable encounters with them.”
Recently, Loging traveled to Mexico to photograph striped marlin. His collection also includes captivating shots of turtles in the Caribbean, grizzly bears, and other wildlife.
One of his most breathtaking photos is titled The Hand of God, taken during a trip to see the Northern Lights. The formation of lights resembled an outstretched hand. “It’s obvious that God has his hands in all the beauty the world and nature have to offer,” Loging said. “This was not random. It was an amazing gift that God gave us to see.”
His photography is more than just a creative outlet — it’s a way to share the beauty of nature with others. “It’s about letting other people experience the beauty that’s out there in nature that God created,” he said.
Pushing Boundaries and Embracing Adventure
Loging’s adventurous spirit extends far beyond photography. He is an accomplished mountaineer, having climbed Mount Aconcagua in Argentina—the tallest peak in both North and South America. He modestly described the climb as “an interesting experience,” though it’s clear the challenge left a lasting impression.
His next adventure? Storm chasing. “As a kid, I always wanted to be a storm chaser,” he said. His upcoming trip to Oklahoma and Kansas will give him the chance to fulfill that childhood dream. A meteorologist will accompany him as he photographs
tornadoes and storm systems. “I want one of a big tornado,” he said with excitement.
Facing Fear and Learning from Failure
When asked if he’s ever truly been afraid, Dr. Loging paused thoughtfully. “Is there ever something that frightened you or made you say, ‘I can’t do this?’”
Following a long pause, he replied, “Not really. In cat lives, I’ve probably used eight of my nine lives.”
But there was something. He used the term “unnerved,” which wasn’t exactly “frightened,” but counts, nonetheless.
“The only thing that made me kind of unnerved was when I was doing cave diving. My instructor had me go into a particular tunnel that you could barely fit through, which had a muddy bottom. You couldn’t see well, and it was so tight. I didn’t really enjoy that part of it.”
His approach to life is rooted in the belief that failure is just a learning experience. “If you don’t succeed at something, you learn from it and try again,” he said. “I’m not afraid to try or do things.”
He reinforces this belief with a story about a NASA astronaut he met during a Zero-G flight experience. The astronaut applied to NASA 14 times before finally being accepted. “If there’s something you’re passionate about, be persistent,” Loging advised. “People should get out and experience the beauty that’s out there. Nature is amazing. It makes you realize that things are not random.”
Living with Gratitude
Dr. Loging’s story is one of resilience, passion, and unwavering faith. He has faced challenges head-on, embraced new experiences, and remained committed to helping others along the way.
“You only get one life,” he said. “Make
the most of it.”
For Dr. Loging, life is not just about achieving success—it’s about sharing experiences, helping others, and appreciating the beauty in the world around him. His journey is a testament to the power of courage, persistence, and faith.
Through his work as a surgeon, he restores mobility and relieves pain for his patients, helping them reclaim their lives. Through his photography, he captures and shares the awe-inspiring beauty of the natural world. And through his adventurous spirit, he pushes boundaries and inspires others to explore their own potential.
Whether standing on a mountain peak, swimming alongside sea turtles, or capturing the Northern Lights through his lens, Loging approaches each new challenge with curiosity and determination. He views fear not as a barrier but as an opportunity for growth. “Fear is just a chance to learn,” he says. “If you’re afraid to fail,
you’ll never try. And if you don’t try, you’ll never know what’s possible.”
Dr. Loging’s story reminds us that life is not defined by a single path. It’s about embracing every opportunity, pushing through discomfort, and finding joy in the process. His life reflects a powerful blend of professional excellence, creative exploration, and personal fulfillment—a rare and inspiring combination.
From the operating room to the Arctic ice, from the mountains of Argentina to the storm-filled skies of Oklahoma, Dr. James Loging’s journey is far from over. Guided by faith, fueled by energy, and driven by a deep desire to give back, he continues to write his story—one remarkable chapter at a time.
For more about Dr. Loging’s professional work, visit palmettoboneandjoint. com. To see his photography and follow his adventures, check out his Facebook page @drjamesphoto. n
The Downing Group
River Tubing relax and enjoy the ride
by Kim Becknell Williams
Floating down a river might be the best way to relax and cool off. An inner tube, a free-flowing river, and warm weather combine for a full river tubing experience. Summer is an ideal time to jump in and take advantage of simply floating down a river.
Before you venture out, you might have a few questions. Such as where and when do you go? How long does it take? What should you take with you?
Lexington and Richland Counties have the convenience of the Saluda, Congaree, and Broad Rivers for floating. If you venture outside of the Columbia area, the Ca tawba and Edisto Riv ers are two other hot spots for tubing.
Since the water temperatures will be cool, mid-to-late summer is a popular time to go. If a shuttle service is not an option, tubers use their own drivers, or ride shares to manage drop-off and pick-up.
Lake Murray and it’s so cold, it will take your breath away.” Sounds like a dream in late July to August.
How long does it take to float? It depends on the river and the flow of water. For Jake and his crowd, he said, “It takes about three hours to float down behind the zoo and get out at the Gervais Street Bridge.” He’s usually with a group.
Jake Diehl joins family and friends for river tubing excursions on the Saluda River. “The hotter the better is the time to go. Thankfully you get plenty of hot summer days to choose from in Columbia,” Diehl said. “The water in the lower Saluda comes from the bottom of
“The whole family and about a dozen friends go along every year,” he said.
“There is a nice set of rapids behind the zoo that make it a little exciting but otherwise it’s a slow, peaceful, relaxing float.”
The Catawba River is another popular tubing spot, especially on weekends when the weather is warm. It takes anywhere from two to five hours if you float from the dam at Lake Wylie to the Riverwalk in Rock Hill. Some people venture further down the river beyond the Riv-
Things you might need:
● dry bag for phone, wallet ● backpack ● water bottle ● water shoes ● sunscreen
snacks
towel
life jacket ● waterproof camera
● insect repellant
● dry clothes
Things you will not need:
● computer ● iPad
● watch ● itinerary
Resources for Tubing
Saluda Shoals Park 5605 Bush River Road Columbia, SC (803) 479-9886 icrc.net
Palmetto Outdoor 131 Alexander Road West Columbia, SC (803) 404-8254 palmettooutdoor.com
Bailey’s Outdoor Adventures 575 Herrons Ferry Road Rock Hill, SC (864) 559-8222 fb.com/baileysoutdooradventures
erwalk for a longer float. The speed of the current and the depth of the water are determining factors in how long the float can take. Tubers typically aren’t in any hurry.
Many people bring their own tubes, with a lot of options to purchase online, and have a driver drop them off and pick them up. Karen Triplett often serves as a driver for her adult daughter Becca and her friends. She said sometimes they tie their tubes together while they float, to stay connected. She recommends checking the dam’s water release schedule, which is available online, and will indicate how long the float might take - give or take a little. Mother Nature still maintains some control.
Another river tubing option is at the Edisto River, just outside Charleston in Ridgeville. Make it a day trip for small or big groups to float down the slow-moving black water. You can purchase tickets online to secure your spot(s).
In our world of alarm clocks, busy work schedules, and appointments, lazily floating down a river could be a respite from
daily chaos. Beth and Steve Mack have enjoyed river tubing for years. “If you need a break from the world, consider a river tubing trip,” she said. “The bobbing in the gently flowing water, conversations with friends, and warm sunshine on your face are medicine for the soul.” n
Uniting Lexington One Moms in Prayer
DayONE
DayONE began in 2018 from a Lexington mom’s desire to pray for her son’s elementary school.
“Prayer, being with other moms, and praying for their children and their schools was very much on my heart,” said Madelyn Mathias, who felt there was a need to pray for schools throughout the area.
During that first year, DayONE had more than 200 women come together on the first day of school to pray for Lexington District One schools, students, and staff members.
This year marks eight years of DayONE – an interdenominational, Christian gathering of moms and female caregivers who come together to pray specifically for their children’s schools.
“The purpose of DayONE is to gather women together in unity – praying for their children and praying for the schools. We invite all women caregivers, like grandmothers and aunts. There are a lot of retired teachers who come as well.”
Mathias said that DayONE also serves
as a way for women from Lexington to meet others and build community with one another.
“DayONE is organized by women who are followers of Christ in the community of different denominations. You don’t have to be a Christian to come. There have been a lot of women who have attended that are nervous about their children starting school, or they are brand new to the
community, and they want to get connected with other moms.”
During the event, participants can arrive early if they would like refreshments. Then, they will be directed to find their school group to pray with. Participants will receive a prayer guide to assist them in praying. The guide leads participants through praise, confession, thanksgiving, and supplication.
“Some women may not want to join a prayer group because they are not comfortable with praying out loud, but they will at least come to DayONE, and they might be comfortable reading. So, on the prayer guide that we provide, we give them a scripture they can use to pray where they can fill their child’s name in the blank.”
Mathias said she has seen participants grow through the years as they participate in DayONE.
“We had a woman who was really challenged, and she decided to pray out loud for the first time. It was amazing to watch her gain confidence and grow in her faith.”
by Tenell Felder
photos by Maegan Bolding
The opportunity for prayer continues after DayONE – women are also invited to participate in a prayer group for their child’s school for the remainder of the school year.
“Every child is covered in prayer by a faithful group of moms. There are women who meet all over the world who pray,” Mathias said, referring to Moms in Prayer (MIP), which is an international prayer group with local chapters.
Twenty-four of the thirty-one Lexington County School District schools are represented in a MIP group through the mother who is praying for that spe-
cific school. A complete list of schools that are prayed for, along with schools that are still waiting for a MIP member, is available on the DayONE website.
“Twenty-four of our schools are being prayed for. When we started in 2018, we may have had one or two schools being prayed for.”
MIP participants meet regularly to pray for students and teachers in homes, parks, or coffee shops
“There are schools in our district that have women who meet every week – typically for one hour – to pray for their children, the schools, and the teachers specifically,” Mathias said, noting that participants often pray with prompts so that those who are not used to praying out loud feel comfortable.
DayONE 2025 will be held at 9 am on August 4th at the Lexington Icehouse Amphitheater at 107 West Main Street in Lexington. Women interested in connecting with DayONE leaders can visit their website dayonelexington.org or follow them on social media. n
businessSPOTLIGHT
by Tenell Felder
REDLINE Motosports
Owner of Redline Motosports Nathan Stuewer integrated a lifelong interest in powersports into a successful business as a powersports dealer. Redline Motosports offers sales and service for powersports including jet skis, ATVs, dirt bikes, and motorcycles.
“I’ve always been passionate and interested in powersports. I grew up riding with my parents and both my sisters. It was always a family activity where we did some racing and leisure riding.”
Now, Stuewer enjoys helping his customers participate in the same activities he did growing up.
“Maybe some families will be lifetime dirt bike or ATV riders – or some who gravitate towards water sports. It is exciting and fun to be a part of making that happen for them.”
Stuewer moved to South Carolina with his wife in 2010 and started Redline Motosports in February 2011.
“It has changed a lot over the years from when we first started. Originally it was just parts and salvage. We would buy broken and damaged items then fix them and sell them online.”
As time went on, Stuewer got a lot of questions about servicing jet skis.
“With our location by the dam, we had more and more interest in water sports. We had people ask us if we could fix jet skis and if we sold them. We decided to pursue that.”
A service department was added to the business in 2016.
“We started to fix up jet skis that we bought, then we started specifically buying them to fix and resell. Along with the resale side came trailers, floating docks, and mobile service,”
“We are comprised of several different departments now. I have the parts and salvage side where we buy machines from individuals or from our customers that are not worth fixing and we repurpose to sell the parts,” Stuewer explained.
Redline Motosports offers warranties for all products and services regardless of where it was purchased.
“We handle all the paperwork. We do essentially the same thing you would do at a dealership. The big difference between us and almost any other place that you would walk into is we have a focus on preowned versus selling new.”
Stuewer said selling quality pre-owned helps make getting into power sports less expensive.
“We want to give people the ability to get into power sports without having to spend a lot of money. We also spend a lot of time on the education side, specifically with watercrafts as we get a lot of first-time buyers.”
Looking towards the future, Stuewer wants the business to continue to grow in a positive direction.
“We want to add value where we are missing opportunities, and we want to see where we can better serve Lexington. We want to continue to grow and help others build the same type of memories that I built with my family.” n
Senior Living Helping a Loved One Move
by Erica Harper
When a parent or grandparent moves into a senior living facility, it can be a significant emotional and physical transition. Family members play a crucial role in ensuring that their loved one feels comfortable, supported, and at ease in this new chapter of life. With the right approach, the transition can become an opportunity for a fresh start, new friendships, and a fulfilling lifestyle.
Here are some tips to help a loved one transition into senior living with confidence and peace of mind.
Familiarize Them with the Facility Before the Move
Taking the time to visit the senior living facility before the move is an essential first step. Touring the grounds, exploring the amenities, and meeting staff members can help make the new environment feel less intimidating. Familiarity with the layout and routine will reduce the stress of moving into an unfamiliar place.
Reassure
Them About Maintaining Independence
For many seniors, the fear of losing independence is one of the biggest concerns about moving into a senior living facility. Reassuring them that they will still have control over their daily choices, such as de-
ciding how to decorate their room, what activities to participate in, and how to structure their day, helps preserve a sense of autonomy.
Assist with the Move-in Process
Helping with the physical aspects of the move can ease the transition. Assisting with packing, unpacking, and organizing the new space ensures that the loved one doesn’t feel overwhelmed. It’s also important to acknowledge the emotional impact of leaving behind a home, possessions, and independence. The move may feel like a loss or even another form of bereavement, as it involves giving up many things that represent their past life. Recognizing these feelings of grief allows family members to provide better emotional support during this process.
Personalize Their Living Space
To make the new living arrangement feel like home, personalizing the space is key. Bringing meaningful items from their previous home, such as family photographs, favorite decor, and familiar furniture, can create a sense of comfort and stability. These items offer continuity and help establish a connection to their past, making the transition less overwhelming.
Set Up Easy Communication Channels
Staying connected with family and friends outside the facility is important for emotional health. Setting up simple and reliable methods of communication, such as easy-to-use phones, video chat devices, or even regular letter writing, helps maintain these important relationships. Knowing they are only a phone call or video chat away provides reassurance and comfort.
Familiarize Them with On-Site
Resources
Senior living facilities often offer a variety of resources to improve quality of life, such as wellness programs, transportation services, and recreational activities. Helping the loved one understand what resources are available and how to access them fosters independence and confidence. Knowing where to go for help or entertainment helps them feel more in control of their new environment.
Facilitate Introductions to Staff and Neighbors
Establishing connections early on can make the transition smoother. Helping to introduce the loved one to caregivers, staff, and fellow residents can break the ice and create an immediate support network.
These relationships can foster a sense of community and provide comfort in the new environment.
Visit Frequently After the Move
Frequent visits from family members and friends in the early days and weeks can provide much-needed emotional support. Regular contact helps reduce feelings of loneliness and reassures the loved one that their family is still present and engaged in their life. This support fosters a sense of stability and belonging during the adjustment period.
Encourage Socialization Through Community Activities
Social interaction is vital for emotional well-being, especially in a new environment. Senior living facilities often offer a variety of activities, from exercise classes and art workshops to group outings and social events. Encouraging loved ones to participate in activities that align with their interests can help them form new friendships, build a routine, and feel more integrated into the community.
Be Patient with Emotional Adjustments
Moving into a senior living facility is a significant emotional change. It’s natural for feelings of sadness, anxiety, or even resistance to arise. Patience and empathy are essential during this time. Offering emotional support and actively listening to concerns can help them process their feelings and adjust at their own pace.
Communicate Regularly with Facility Staff
Open and consistent communication with the facility’s staff is crucial. Understanding the daily routines, care plans, and any concerns from the staff’s perspective can help provide better support for the loved one. Maintaining a collaborative relationship with caregivers ensures that their
needs are met and any issues are addressed promptly.
Maintain Familiar Routines
Preserving familiar routines can bring comfort and a sense of normalcy. Whether it’s continuing a morning walk, watching a favorite TV show, or keeping up with a long-standing hobby, maintaining these routines can reduce the shock of change. These familiar habits create stability and help smooth the transition.
Stay Positive About the Move
A positive attitude from family members can have a profound impact on how the transition is perceived. Focusing on the benefits of senior living, such as increased safety, social opportunities, and access to care, helps foster an optimistic outlook. Highlighting the advantages of the move can help alleviate concerns and encourage a positive mindset.
Celebrate Milestones and Achievements
Recognizing small successes throughout the transition process can create positive associations with the new living arrangement. Celebrating milestones, such as the first month in the new facility or joining a new group, reinforces a sense of accomplishment and belonging. These celebrations help foster positivity around the change.
Final Thoughts
The move to a senior living facility is a major life transition that requires patience, support, and understanding from family members. By taking the time to create familiarity, offering emotional support, and encouraging social engagement, this change can be transformed from a stressful event into a positive, enriching experience. With these tips, families can ensure their loved ones feel comfortable, secure, and ready to embrace this new chapter of life. n
Thomas and Jayne Falk Franchise Owners
Midlands Fatherhood Coalition
Strengthening families, communities by focusing on fathers
Nearly one in four U.S. children grow up without a father in the home – biological, adopted, or step – and there’s a group trying to change this alarming U.S. Census Bureau statistic. With locations in Lexington, Richland, Sumter, Orangeburg, and Aiken, serving 16 counties, the Midlands Fatherhood Coalition has been leading these efforts for more than 20 years.
The initiative began in the late 90s when three separate programs, all funded by the Sisters of Charity Foundation, were launched to support fathers and their families. In 2006, these three non-profit organizations merged to become the Midlands Fatherhood Coalition so they could align resources and expand their services. Midlands Fatherhood Coalition is a standalone non-profit that is a strategic partner of the South Carolina Center for Fathers and
by Erin Bluvas
Families, which was also launched in the late 90s, thanks to funding from the Sisters of Charity. As the nation’s only statewide fatherhood network, the Center provides curriculum, training, and advocacy support to the Midlands Fatherhood Coalition and four additional fatherhood-focused programs that offer direct services in different areas of the state.
Why Fathers?
The National Fatherhood Initiative reports that the 17.6 million children who grow up without a father in the home are at risk for a range of adverse outcomes. These kids are more likely to live in poverty, have behavioral problems, face abuse and neglect, experience health challenges, commit a crime and go to jail, become a teen parent, abuse alcohol and drugs, suffer
obesity, and drop out of school. Children whose fathers are present in their lives are protected from many of these negative impacts. In addition to having lower risk for the above outcomes, they are also less likely to be injured or die by suicide.
Organizations like the Midlands Fatherhood Coalition facilitate father involvement by fostering some of the key attributes that make their presence more likely. These factors include stable co-parenting relationships, support from friends, family and employers, positive marriages, open access to children, participation in a fatherhood
the past five years. Regardless of how they find Midlands Fatherhood, each dad follows a step-by-step journey that addresses challenges and removes barriers to parental involvement from every angle.
After an initial orientation and assessment of his unique situation, a father works with an intervention specialist to set goals and actions. This is called the One-Man Plan. He then spends the next 24 weeks simultaneously engaged in three major areas of development.
Forty-four percent of fathers served by the Midlands Fatherhood Coalition are un-
“We can stabilize a father who comes to us in crisis and help him meet his goals. While often related to custody, visitation, education, and employment needs, we can meet a father where he is, remove barriers to effective parenting, and empower him to reach his goals. Brighter futures for children are the end result and community support is critical.”
— Angela McDuffie, CEO
or parenting program, internalizing fatherhood as a central identity, living with children, confidence in parenting abilities, and an absence of depression, drug or alcohol abuse, and domestic violence.
The presence of these attributes has positive effects on fathers, children, mothers, and other relatives, helping both families and communities thrive. Mothers of children whose fathers are present have healthier pregnancies, births, and post-partum outcomes and experience less stress, more leisure time, and higher marital satisfaction. Involved fathers are happier, live longer, have higher self-esteem, are more engaged in their community and have better physical and mental health. They are also more motivated to adopt healthier models of masculinity, secure stable jobs, save money, reduce alcohol and substance use, and strengthen family ties.
How They Help
With the goals of supporting fatherhood throughout the Midlands and engaging fathers to positively support their children, Midlands Fatherhood offers an array of services. Many fathers find the program on their own or through word of mouth. Some are referred by other agencies and organizations and others are part of the court-mandated Alternative to Incarceration Program, which has saved the communities they serve more than $5.8 million in
der or unemployed. Partnering with a staff member known as a Job Developer, the father works to find employment by receiving training in job seeking soft skills, getting any needed education or certifications, receiving support from Job Search Services, and addressing gaps in job qualifications. If he is already employed, the Job Developer helps him complete an assessment of his current employment and opportunities for advancement.
At the same time, each father participates in a Weekly Peer Support component guided by a community-based curriculum aimed at increasing knowledge and skills in the areas of parenting, economic stability, and relationships. This course also includes education related to men’s health, which is often overlooked or not prioritized due to the importance of more urgent concerns.
The final parallel component focuses on each father’s Individual Development. Here, the Intervention Specialist continues providing support to foster solutions to challenges faced by each individual. These services include facilitating transportation, access to screenings and other health care services, referrals to other community partners, mediation to increase interactions with children, navigating child support and court procedures, and organizing child/ parent activities. Partnering organizations for these efforts include the Department of Social Services, the Administration for
Children and Families, and the Office of Population Affairs.
While it takes several months to complete the program, the Program Completion Ceremony takes place every fall. However, continued support and an invitation to stay involved in the Midlands Fatherhood Coalition as a mentor or recruiter remains in place long after graduation.
Strengthening Families, Communities
Not all benefits of the Midlands Fatherhood Coalition can be measured, but the organization keeps track of key metrics that show communities, families, fathers, and donors how their support makes an impact. In 2024 they served 897 dads and a total of 480 service enrollees, with the $3,000 cost per participant completely offset by funding from federal grants, state contracts, private foundations, and individual donors. It is the only parenting program in the Midlands to be offered 100% free of charge. Midlands Fatherhood also assisted with nearly $182,000 in child support, saved $115,200 in incarceration alternatives, and contributed an estimated $30.1 million to the state.
In the past five years, the program has served more than 3,400 fathers. This work has positively impacted over 7,000 children in the Midlands. In this same time period, they have helped 1,200 fathers become employed and another 750 obtain higher-paying jobs so they can better support their children. Overall, 50% of fathers attain employment during their time in the program.
Angela McDuffie, CEO, has served fathers for over twenty years and recognizes the importance and unique nature of the needs of fathers. “We can stabilize a father who comes to us in crisis and help him meet his goals. While often related to custody, visitation, education, and employment needs, we can meet a father where he is, remove barriers to effective parenting, and empower him to reach his goals. Brighter futures for children are the end result and community support is critical.”
To continue and expand these impacts on the Midlands community, volunteers and donations are always welcome. While volunteers help make the everyday components of the program possible, financial contributions can be general or specific, such as sponsoring meals, holidays, and father-child activities, or contributing to the emergency needs fund. To learn more, visit midlandsfathers.com. n
BOATING 1 1
with SCDNR
by Captain Tyler Ryan
For decades, recreational boating has been on a steady increase, but since 2020, it has exploded, with over a forty percent increase in that year alone. Although numbers have started to “normalize,” collectively, we are still flocking to the water. South Carolina ranks second in the Nation for per capita ownership, with 325,937 watercrafts registered in the Palmetto State in 2024.
In far too many cases, as boat ownership grows exponentially, boating education has not, and contrary to what a boat salesman might tell you, driving a boat isn’t anything like a car.
In 2023, there were 3844 boating accidents and 564 related deaths in the United States, with South Carolina claiming 156 of the accidents, 24 of which were fatal. These tragic numbers make the case for safer boating, and according to South Carolina Department of Natural Resources Private First Class Jared Wilson, boating safer starts with the right equipment.
A boat operating on inland waters in South Carolina has several required safety items, according to the Game Warden. The first thing that comes to mind is, of course, the life jacket (PFD).
A properly fitting Coast Guard approved PFD must be available for each person on board. Boaters also must have a throwable device that is readily accessible. This does not mean stowed under a stack of other gear. If the boat is under twenty-six feet, there must also be one Class B fire extinguisher.
Other equipment required includes a sound making device, either a horn or whistle. Although more than one is not required, this boating instructor suggests two or more. PCF Wilson said that you also must have the proper registration and some form of State-issued ID.
Although first aid kits and visual distress signals are not required for inland operation, they are still good to have on board.
Once a boat is properly equipped, it comes down to knowing some of the guidelines, according to Wilson, who points out that many incidents happen from not understanding the “rules of the road.”
Until recently, South Carolina was one of only four states that didn’t require boater safety training. However, as of August 2023,
anyone born after July 1, 2007, is required to take a safety course. This doesn’t require a boater born before that date to take boating safety.
Wilson said the most often violated rules involve buoys. Although there are significantly more in places like the Intercoastal Waterway, the three most obvious—and violated—markers start with the No Wake Zone, which is white with an orange circle. Wilson explains “no wake” as being at idle speed, with just enough power to maintain control.
The other two markers are similar - both have orange diamonds. The diamond with a cross, explained Wilson, is an exclusionary zone, meaning that it is unlawful to enter with a vessel. These are found near the towers, and in places like swimming areas.
The third is also a diamond, without the cross. This is a shallow marker, indicating rock piles, sandbars, or stumps left in the Lake’s creation.
When it comes to operation, there are many common mistakes that boaters make, often because they don’t know the rules.
Lights are often misused, said Wilson. “Navigation lights are required from sunset to sunrise, and in times of limited visibility,” he said. Navigation lights include the white 360-degree light near the rear of the boat and the red and green lights on the front. These colored lights indicate the direction. The red light can only be seen from a specific angle on the left (port) side of the boat, and the green from the right (starboard) side. This allows for a clear visual even in the dark of night, or a foggy day.
Other misunderstood operations include a crossing situation, where the vessel on the left must yield to the one on the right, provided they are both motorboats. Additionally, distance requirements are often misunderstood or simply not obeyed.
As of 2022, the distance a boater must stay away from docks, anchored boats, and people is 100 feet, in most lakes in the state. The law also addresses wake surfing, stating that a wake surfer must remain 200 feet from a dock, anchored boat, or person in the water.
When it comes to personal watercraft (jet skis, wave runners, etc.), Wilson said he sees many wild and unsafe things, like jumping too close to other boats, racing, and trying to spray people on other boats. He says that he also sees people with no PFD - which is required - on a personal watercraft. Further pointing out that you must make sure you are connected to the kill switch in case you fall off.
Drinking is often a contributing factor to incidents out on the water. A BUI is like a DUI, where the limit is .08% BAC, however, like a car, you cannot drive impaired by anything else either.
Wilson said that it comes down to “reasonable” operation, in that you need to consider the safety of everyone on your boat, as well as everyone else out on the lake. You may ask yourself, “What if I am breaking the law?” Wilson said that fines can range from $155 to $465, and when it comes to things like a BUI, it can be significantly higher and include a night in jail. At the end of the day, Wilson said, “Although everyone wants to have a good time, you have to be safe and drive defensively.” He shared that the only way you are going to know the rules, expectations, and even safety is with a boater education class, regardless of what year you were born. And although there are several online options for learning the rules, you cannot learn to drive a boat safely and confidently without a certified hands-on program, like The Boating Boot Camp. For more information, check out dnr.sc.gov and find hands-on lessons at BoatingBootCamp.com. n
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spice OF LIFE
Slow Cooker Pulled Pork
4 lbs pork butt or pork shoulder
1 yellow onion, chopped
2 Tbsp brown sugar
1 Tbsp paprika
2 tsp salt
1 tsp pepper
1 tsp garlic powder
½ tsp dry mustard
½ tsp ground cumin
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hard-boiled eggs, and fresh herbs. Refrigerate for 30 minutes before serving.
Classic Coleslaw
1 cup mayonnaise
¼ cup apple cider vinegar
1 Tbsp Dijon mustard
2 tsp celery seed
2 tsp sugar
½ head green cabbage, thinly sliced
Put the pork butt (or shoulder) in the slow cooker and place onions around the pork. Mix all seasoning ingredients in a small bowl and pour on pork, rubbing into all sides of the meat. Cover and cook on low for 8 hours or on high for 5 hours. Once cooked through, remove the pork from the slow cooker and shred with a fork. Drain all but one cup of the liquid from the slow cooker and place pork back in and mix before serving.
Potato Salad
2 lbs small potatoes
1 cup celery, chopped
½ cup dill pickles, chopped
½ cup red onion, chopped
4 hard-boiled eggs, chopped
¼ cup fresh dill, chopped
½ cup mayonnaise
½ cup sour cream
1 Tbsp yellow mustard
1 Tbsp apple cider vinegar
salt and pepper to taste
Boil the potatoes for 15-20 minutes or until they are tender. Once the potatoes are cool, peel the skins off and cut them into bite-sized chunks. Whisk together the mayonnaise, sour cream, yellow mustard, vinegar, salt, and pepper until smooth. Add the potatoes to the dressing and gently toss to coat. Then, fold in the chopped celery, pickles, red onion,
½ head red cabbage, thinly sliced
3 large carrots, grated
salt and black pepper to taste
Whisk mayonnaise, vinegar, mustard, celery seed, and sugar to combine; season with salt and pepper. Add green cabbage, red cabbage, carrots and toss to combine. Refrigerate until ready to serve.
Roasted Green Beans
1 lb fresh green beans
2 tbsp olive oil
3 cloves garlic, minced
½ tsp salt
¼ tsp black pepper
¼ tsp red pepper flakes
½ cup grated Parmesan cheese
Preheat the oven to 425°F. Wash and trim the ends of the green beans and pat them dry. Toss the beans with olive oil, minced garlic, salt, black pepper, and red pepper flakes. Spread the beans in a single layer on a parchment-lined baking sheet. Roast for 15-20 minutes, tossing halfway, until tender and slightly charred. Sprinkle Parmesan cheese evenly over the beans and roast for 2-3 more minutes until melted and golden.
Baked Mac and Cheese
2 ¼ cups elbow macaroni
4 Tbsp butter
¾ cup whole milk
3 cups shredded sharp cheddar cheese (divided)
½ tsp salt
¼ tsp black pepper
Preheat the oven to 375℉. Cook the macaroni al dente according to the package directions. Drain the pasta and return the cooked pasta to the pot. Add the butter to the hot pasta and stir until the butter is melted and then add the milk. Add salt, pepper, and 1-½ cups of the freshly grated cheese to the pasta mixture. Lightly toss to combine the pasta, cheese, and seasonings. Pour the mac and cheese into a 2-quart casserole dish, sprinkle with the remaining cheese, and bake uncovered for 10 minutes.
To the bottom of a 9×13 dish, cover evenly with half of the vanilla wafers. Add the bananas, sliced into ¼ inch thickness, to the top of the wafers. In the medium bowl, combine the milk and pudding mix. In a large bowl, combine the cream cheese and condensed milk together until smooth and then fold in the whipped topping. Fold the pudding into the cheese mixture until well incorporated. Pour the mixture over the cookies and bananas, covering with the remaining cookies. Refrigerate for at least one hour before serving. n
Part Creek and Part Dog
who all seemed to know each other. There were about five of us kids in the class from the country. All the rest were what we called “Country Club kids,” and these kids made sure us “country kids” knew we were not as good as they were.
I loved learning, but I hated first grade. I’d get off the bus and walk up the long dirt driveway. The original dogs of my life had died, and we hadn’t yet gotten a new dog. I’d stop off on the way up the driveway and sit down on the soft pine straw in a little pine thicket and dig my hands into my eyes and cry. Nobody was home. There was nobody to talk to. I was so lonesome, it was ridiculous. I remember telling myself: “You should die, you should die.” I had no idea what death was, so I have no idea where that idea came from. All I knew was that it was horrible.
That next summer was a great time of Bible School with church friends, and even
The prior year’s sadness came rushing back: I didn’t know a soul.
I cannot exactly remember how this happened, but I remember walking alone around the playground before school. On the second day, I saw another guy walking along by himself.
Somehow, I recognized him. Maybe he also had patches on the knees of his pants, or maybe his clothes weren’t as snazzy as all the other kids. Or maybe it was simply because he was also alone.
That was the beginning of my friendship with Jay. Our meeting changed me. We walked around the schoolyard at recess, and we met up every morning from then on.
I didn’t cry anymore after school. I was now the King of the World -- I had a friend.
Jay and I have been having a running conversation for 59 years now.
For much of my life, my list of true friends was a dang short list. Jay and Jesus were the only names on it for a lot of years.
That feeling of being “King of the World” that began when I met Jay has always remained. I always knew I had a deep friendship I could count on. We didn’t have to explain ourselves to each other. Neither of us ever worried about the other guy forgetting who we were.
I believe every country boy is part creek and part dog. It must be so, because Jay always remembered me. n
