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Volume 30, Issue 782 • May 15-28, 2025
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Looking Past the Traffic Cones to Summer
While it hasn’t felt like it for long (or at all yet, at time of writing), summer is upon us! Or, at the very least, road construction has started.
I remember when, as a child, summers felt like they lasted forever, to the point where I got bored of having so much free time and couldn’t wait for school to start again. Realizing it was still July, that we hadn’t even reached August yet and that I had to find a way to fill my time for another entire month left me feeling defeated rather than excited.
That feeling is long gone — nowadays, summers fly by, and I often feel like I’ve failed to make the most of them. I hope that this issue of Lavender can help you avoid that feeling, with dozens of events on our Summer What to Do list to help you stay busy this summer. Or, if you’re looking to take a summer vacation, we have a couple of articles previewing travel destinations as well.
And of course, along with summer comes Pride season. Lavender’s own Pride celebrations won’t hit full swing until our next issue, but many communities around Minnesota and the surrounding area are kicking things off this month! Our Regional and Small Town Pride Calendar has them all listed for you. If any of my fellow Rochesterites are reading, you’re up first — Rochester Pride is the first on our list on May 17, two days after the publication of this issue.
In addition to the full list, we have in-depth looks at Valley Wide Pride in Hudson, Wis. and East Central Minnesota Pride in Pine City, Minn. The inspiring stories of those communities coming together to celebrate their local LGBTQ+ communities are only two examples of great stories from around our state and region — I hope that over time, Lavender is able to give them all the spotlight they deserve.
For now, enjoy your summers! Road construction’s end and winter’s beginning will be here before we know it.
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Torben Berndt
Where did you grow up? The first five years of my life were in Berlin, Germany, then Maple Grove, Minn.
Where do you live? South Minneapolis
Who do you live with? My two cats, Theodora and Leslie “Big Frost” Jordan
What is your occupation? I help people get the financing necessary for home purchases! (NMLS License #2154506)
When did you come out? When I was a junior in high school.
How’d that go? My mom said, “We all have a friend that we’re really close to like that … I had one in college …”
When do you wake up? Ideally, 6 a.m. Realistically, 6:45 a.m.
Phone alarm or old school alarm? Phone alarm
What’s the first thing you do in the morning? Feed my cats and make coffee!
Breakfast? Usually
Coffee? Always
Cream or no? Oat milk and agave syrup
How do you spend your commute? Music, news or podcasts
What do you nerd out for (gaming, music, history, etc.)? Music, small businesses
What music have you been digging lately? Lots of John Prine, Jaedyn James and Remi Wolf!
Is your workspace tidy or a hot mess? Let’s say it’s 75/25 tidy/hot mess!
What’s been your favorite job? Selling is fun when the product is great — I loved selling bread for my family’s business, Aki’s BreadHaus.
Favorite weeknight meal: Go out, takeout or cook in? I like cooking when I have the time.
On a usual weeknight, you are doing what? Watching a basketball game or working out
Bedtime? 11 p.m.
Favorite weekend activity? I love attending local farmers markets (NEFM is my favorite)!
What are you most proud of, and why? I am very proud of the risks I have taken professionally, inspired by the incredible women in my family like my mom, Nancy, and grandma, Judy.
Words of wisdom to share: I try to remind myself regularly that the things I am doing are for my younger self and that person would be so proud.
Jaedyn James & Torben Berndt supporting MN Lynx. Photo courtesy of Torben Berndt
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“Stripping away that binary thinking, opening up your mind to listen and to know that everyone has a story,” Janczewski asserts. “It’s being present within yourself and that acceptance of yourself. It’s the most basic thing we’re all searching for. It’s a lifelong journey.”
The accompaniment on that journey between Matthew and Mathew had started before Barney’s book invaded his fever.
“I originally saw Matthew Barney at the Walker,” Janczewski remembers. Describing the art exhibit presented, the Minneapolis choreographer recounts with a grudging laugh, “I didn’t really care for it.”
Three TV sets presented a loopy film wherein two barnyard animals moved from backseat to trunk in ways that seemed more suited for Xtsy than the CTV Nature Channel.
“There was a super-strangeness to it,” Janczewski says. “I feel like I already knew about ‘The Cremaster Cycle’ series, but that was my first experience directly with him.”
That experience will express its metashape as a kind of cremaster cycle of its own, being born where it was first conceived, the Walker Art Center.
Proclaims Janczewski: “They’re really connected to the local art and dance community, so I felt comfortable enough approaching them and saying, ‘Hey, I think this thing needs to happen at the Walker.’”
Not only has the inspiration come full circle, but the initial inspirer is adding new inspiration.
“[Matthew Barney] is very involved,” Janczewski gushes. “He’s very communicative — we’ve had several check-ins: ‘How’s the work going? Are we providing you everything you need?’ As an artist, he asks, ‘How can we help you fulfill the vision you have?’ It’s been really nice.”
Like the inspiration that led to the work, the inspiration’s (partial) delivery system has proved persistent … but not oppressive.
“I’ve still got cancer, but it’s very low,” Janczewski reports. “After two years of inand-out of the hospital for treatment, I can’t complain.”
Just as Barney’s work inspired Janczewski, the scrappy choreographer hopes “Only the perverse fantasy can still save us”will inspire — or perhaps even redeem — others.
“I feel the importance of this piece, I think that the queer community will enjoy it,” Janczewski predicts. “For me, the crux of the work is about transformation and change and the loving of yourself, and I just really want to spread that message.”
arena-dances.org/only-the-perverse-fantasy-can-save-us/
Richmond — A Vibrant Blend of History, Culture and LGBTQ Pride
Richmond, VA, often referred to as the “River City,” is a captivating destination blending rich historical roots with a dynamic modern culture. Known for its welcoming vibe, the Richmond Region is also a beacon for the LGBTQ community, offering an array of inclusive venues, events and activities that highlight its vibrant spirit. Whether you’re enjoying a drag brunch at Godfrey’s, savoring a whimsical dinner at L’Opossum, or basking in the glow of the GardenFest of Lights, Richmond guarantees memorable experiences for all.
Virginia Pride has become synonymous with Richmond’s LGBTQ community, reflecting the region’s dedication to inclusivity and equality. This annual event, held each September, transforms the city into a rainbow-drenched festival of love and unity. Attendees revel in live music, performances, food
trucks and booths representing local organizations and businesses. Beyond the festival, Virginia Pride engages the community year-round with advocacy efforts, educational programs and support for LGBTQ individuals. It’s a cornerstone of Richmond’s welcoming ethos, embodying the region’s commitment to diversity. The festival is held in September, so it doesn’t compete with other pride events in the area, providing a perfect opportunity to plan your visit to Richmond.
For those seeking a fabulous and fun experience, Godfrey’s is a mustvisit. Nestled in the heart of Richmond, this iconic restaurant and nightclub is renowned for its weekend drag brunches, where lively queens entertain with dazzling performances and witty humor. Pair the glittering show with a hearty menu of Southern favorites and you’ve got an unforgettable outing. Whether you’re celebrating a special occasion or just looking for a unique way to spend your Sunday, Godfrey’s promises entertainment and hospitality that are second to none. To be quite honest, I was a bit skeptical when it came to the culinary component of the brunch. LGBTQ bars aren’t typically known for their elevated cuisine, however, the food at Godfrey’s was very good and well worth the price.
Speaking of food, dinner at L’Opossum is an adventure in indulgence. This award-winning LGBTQ-owned restaurant, tucked away in Richmond’s Oregon Hill neighborhood, delights patrons with its creative menu and whimsical decor. Owner and chef David Shannon combines French-inspired techniques with a playful twist, serving dishes like Filet Mignon of Beef “Swellington.” Cooked to perfection, the filet is crowned with a fascinator of Truffled Duxelles aux Champignons et Cognac, in a pink peppercorn and port reduction. Another highlight of the menu is the Faberge egg bedazzled with caviar, cured salmon and Maine lobster. The atmosphere is just as distinctive as the cuisine, with eclectic art and a cozy yet refined ambiance that invites you to savor every bite. L’Opossum is the perfect spot for an intimate dinner or a celebratory night out.
Richmond boasts a thriving LGBTQ nightlife scene, offering a variety of bars and clubs where everyone can feel at home. Among the favorites is Barcode, a relaxed spot featuring karaoke nights, drag shows and a friendly crowd, or head to Babes of Carytown, one of the last lesbian-owned bars in the country known for its outdoor patio and welcoming vibes. Papi’s and Thirsty’s RVA are two other LGBTQ establishments worth a visit. These venues are more than just places to grab a drink; they are community hubs where connections are forged and memories are made.
The Quirk Hotel Richmond is a stylish boutique hotel that blends modern luxury with artistic charm in the heart of Virginia’s capital. Housed in a restored 1916 department store, the hotel preserves its historic architecture while incorporating contemporary design and a vibrant, artsy atmosphere. Guests can enjoy locally inspired cuisine at The Lobby Bar, sip craft cocktails on the rooftop bar with stunning city views and explore the in-house Quirk Gallery, which showcases regional artists. Located in the lively Arts District, the hotel offers easy access to Richmond’s eclectic mix of galleries, restau-
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2025
Regional and Small Town Pride Calendar
Rochester Pride
May 17 • 12-5 p.m. • Soldiers Memorial Field, Rochester, Minn. rochmnpride.org
Willmar Pride
June 6-8 • 12-4 p.m. • Rice Park, 805 Third St. SE, Willmar, Minn. facebook.com/people/Willmar-Pride/61567785221950/
East Central Minnesota Pride
June 7 •11 a.m. to 5 p.m. • Robinson Park, 200 Fifth St. SE, Pine City, Minn. eastcentralminnesotapride.org
Anoka Pride Day
June 7 • Downtown Anoka, Minn. facebook.com/AnokaPrideDay
Golden Valley Pride
June 7 • Brookview Park, 200 Brookview Pkwy. N., Golden Valley, Minn. goldenvalleypride.com
Northfield Pride in the Park
June 7 • Central Park, 421 Fourth St. E., Northfield, Minn. northfieldpride.com
Red Wing Pride
June 7 • 1-5 p.m. • Red Wing, Minn. facebook.com/RedWingMNPride
Marshall Pride
June 13-15 • Independence Park, Marshall, Minn. marshallpride.org
Bloomington Pride
June 14 • Bloomington, Minn. bloomingtonpridemn.org
Chippewa Valley Pride in the Park
June 14 • Phoenix Park, Eau Claire, Wis. cvlgbt.org
Cook County Pride
June 14 • Harbor Park, Grand Marais, Minn. cookcountypride.org
Hastings Pride Festival
June 14 • Levee Park, Hastings, Minn. ideaorganization.org/upcoming-events
Lake Minnetonka Pride Festival
June 14 • 12-8 p.m. • Back Channel Brewing Company, 4787 Shoreline Dr., Spring Park, Minn. tonkapride.org
STP Pride
June 14-15 • 12-8pm • St. Anthony Park - Dual Citizen Brewery, 725 Raymond Ave., St. Paul, Minn.
Sioux Falls Pride Parade & Festival
June 14 • Parade in Downtown Sioux Falls 10-11 a.m. • Festival at Yankton Trail Park 12-5 p.m. • Sioux Falls, S.D. siouxfallspride.org
Aberdeen Area Pride Festival
June 20-21 • Aberdeen, S.D. aberdeenareapride.org
Albert Lea Pride
June 21 • Albert Lea, Minn. explorealbertlea.com/pride
Brookings Pride in the Park
June 21 • 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. • Pioneer Park, Brookings, S.D. facebook.com/BrookingsPRIDE
Detroit Lakes Area Pride
June 21 • Detroit Lakes, Minn. dlareapride.org
Fergus Area Pride
June 21 • Pebble Lake Park, Fergus Falls, Minn. facebook.com/profile.php?id=61563277160991
Valley Wide Pride
June 21 • Lakefront Park, Hudson, Wis. hudsonwipride.com
Itasca Pride Festival
June 22 • 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. • Grand Rapids, Minn. itascapride.org
Twin Cities Pride
June 28-29 • Loring Park, Minneapolis tcpride.org
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It was a few months before June, and Valley Wide Pride didn’t yet have its nonprofit status, having started fundraising just three months before Pride.
“We didn’t know, like how much we were going to be able to get organized, and we were so lucky that a bunch of the pieces fell together, and we got the support from the community and local businesses and fundraising,” says Matthew Darnold, mental health specialist and president and founder of Hudson Pride Co.
What started as a celebration at Lakefront Park, just outside an outdoor venue right on the St. Croix River in 2023, and in 2024 was forced by a severe weather event to pivot to the school doors of Hudson High School, is now back at a familiar location, ready to continue its momentum.
From community vendors, live music, food trucks, lawn games, a kids and teen tent, bingo and a beer and wine tent — the event has something for everyone. And although the schedule of events for 2025 has not yet been finalized, last year’s pride commenced with morning yoga, a Tai Chi and Dragon Dance, clogging and live music.
Valley Wide Pride Festival is Back for Year Three
For year three we are revisiting — going back to their founding roots at Lakefront Park on Saturday, June 21. But the roots of the fest live on, as just three months before year one, the board started to fundraise.
“And now … we are here,” Darnold says. “You know, it turned into one of Hudson’s main events.”
The board comprises 10 members, with active positions ranging from vice president, secretary, treasurer, director of operations, vendor coordinator, creative lead and entertainment coordinator. There are also positions open for a social media manager, community outreach coordinator and event coordinator.
With estimates of 1,000 to 1,200 attendees in year one, with nearly 2,000 in year two, Darnold says he is hoping to see an additional increase in year three.
Photos courtesy of Matthew Darnold
Though Darnold says he can’t confirm any bands just yet, visitors can expect a lineup of local queer artists from prior years with a few new ones for year three.
One thing is sure to evolve, which is the grand entrance. Picture this: A swarm of folks on bikes, roller blades and scooters — a vivid, motion-filled parade that sets the stage for the day, children laughing and playing, a true ode to childhood and pure joy.
Darnold says that the board is also trying to create a sensory space for individuals who may need a break from noise, a place to engage in coping skills and a variety of sensory activities — an idea he got from other Pride fests across the region.
Darnold himself says he didn’t have the greatest experience growing up as a queer kid in Wisconsin, and didn’t appreciate his hometown throughout high school — so going back to start a Pride was scary at first.
“It was just harder to go back to that place for a long time,” Darnold says. “Since coming out and kind of establishing myself and kind of figuring out my own stuff, you know, I’ve been attending more Prides,” Darnold says.
It was attending a Pride in Kansas that launched the idea for Pride in Wisconsin. “It just kind of launched this park,” Darnold says.
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So, Darnold sent an email to the mayor of Hudson, planting the idea of hosting a pride in their very city — which led to an honest conversation and a green light to start Hudson Pride Co., which was started with the vision to increase support, visibility and resources for the LGTBQ community in the Sr. Croix Valley area.
“It’s been a really healing thing for me, finding spaces in my hometown and connecting with local businesses and community members that I never knew were supportive,” Darnold says.
Though Darnold has also been to Twin Cities Pride, he thinks that there is beauty in both having a large pride with many community members, but also having a more tightly knit community in a smaller pride like Valley Wide.
“It’s been a really awesome experience, just kind of creating a space in Hudson that didn’t necessarily exist for a very long time,” Darnold says.
Exciting Events at East Central Minnesota Pride
A hidden gem, Pine City, Minn., is bursting with diversity, inclusivity, local businesses and exciting events. Each year, the small town looks forward to hosting and participating in East Central Minnesota Pride. ECMN Pride is the “world’s first truly rural Pride event,” as described by its website, and is celebrated annually in Pine City. This year marks the 20th annual celebration, and the small town is excited to invite everyone to join.
The beginnings of ECMN Pride were a lot smaller than what stands today. Starting in 2005, a group of men within the East Central Men’s Circle held a picnic celebrating Pride. This small event would soon blossom year after year into the ECMN Pride held today. Early on, members brought their own food to share with the crowd. Now the event hosts food trucks, musical artists and live events.
Natalie Goldman, vice chair of ECMN Pride, describes the event as having a “hometown touch” and “humble beginnings,” both of which ring true. She has been a proud member of the organization for about four years, two of which with the title she currently holds. Her excitement for the organization and the events that it hosts is almost palpable. She describes her love for the community and for celebrating Pride.
“Before I was on the committee, I was a regular guest at this event, and I’m going to tell you, it just feels like it gets bigger every year,” Goldman says. “I’ll have the mic on stage and, you know, announcements, all that, but I just see so many people every year. And young people, that’s the big thing, too. Like, the young people are there being themselves. The vibe is really electric at our event. It’s small, but it’s electric.”
With ECMN reaching its 20th anniversary, the celebration is certainly bigger, and most definitely “electric.” This year, attendees can look forward to live music from The Big Wu, a Minnesota-based rock band, as well as other live performers. There will also be food trucks and other planned events
throughout the day. ECMN Pride is an event for all ages, all demographics, celebrating Pride and inclusivity.
Even after the annual celebration is over, Pine City still has a lot in store for celebrating Pride. Throughout the year, ECMN Pride members coordinate events and resources for the LGBTQ+ community. They are in the process of putting together an LGBTQ+ community travel guide that lists local businesses that are allies to the community. Further, the town is in the process of bringing to life a permanent rainbow crosswalk in honor of the gentle beginnings of ECMN Pride.
Pine City, Minn., is special for many reasons, all due to the efforts that the members of the community put into making the small town one of a kind.
“I would say that even though the event had small beginnings, I think things are just going to get bigger and better for us,” Goldman says. “Even in these times, I think Pride’s going to carry on, and I think it’s just going to get better. … It’s not just limited to our month. I mean, in these small towns, we’re out. This committee, you know, and my family, we’re out here advocating for these people because, you know. They deserve to be themselves whenever, wherever, despite the climate.”
Pine City, Minn., is a small town that knows how to bring big concepts to life. Full of energy, enthusiasm and pride, the community is something unlike anything else. Each year, despite challenges, people come together to enjoy individuality and diversity, but mostly, people come together to celebrate one another. Goldman closes the conversation with this sentiment.
“Sometimes I take a step back and I see the stage and the people and the music, and that’s really what it’s about at the end of the day, is togetherness,” Goldman says. “Being yourself and being together. And I don’t think it gets much more Midwest than that.”
This year, ECMN Pride will be held on June 7 at Robinson Park from 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. If you are looking for a safe space to feel united with your peers, give ECMN Pride a chance.
To learn more about the events, become a sponsor, or learn more about ECMN Pride as a whole, please visit the website eastcentralminnesotapride.org.
Photo by Natalie Goldman
BY LINDA RAINES
2025 Summer What To Do
MAY
Kickoff to Summer at the State Fair
May 22-25 • Tickets $13 online, $16 at gate, children 4 and under are free • Event is rain or shine • Minnesota State Fairgrounds, St. Paul
Join us for the fifth annual kickoff, which will feature more food than ever, a one-of-a-kind puzzle hunt, a free prize wheel, music, shopping and entertainment! mnstatefair.org/kickoff-to-summer
Kygo
May 23 • 7 p.m. • Tickets start at $79 • Grand Casino Amphitheater, Hinckley A rising star with a global LGBTQ+ following, Kygo brings his show to Hinckley’s Grand Casino Amphitheater. grandcasinomn.com/Entertain/KYGO
One Voice Mixed Chorus presents “Weather: Stand the Storm Concert” May 24 • 6:30-8:30 p.m. • Ted Mann Concert Hall, 2128 S. Fourth St., Minneapolis
Featuring four Black choral leaders who want to pioneer new visions of social justice by way of artistry, this project acknowledges and commemorates the murder of George Floyd. onevoicemn.org/upcoming-events/weather-stand-the-storm-concert
Cantus presents “Covers: Pure Funk”
May 31 to June 8 • Tickets $7-38 • Luminary Arts Center, 700 N. First St., Minneapolis
Featuring hits by Stevie Wonder, Quincy Jones, Earth, Wind & Fire and more, Cantus will have you getting up, getting down and dancing and singing your hearts out. cantussings.org
June
Grand Old Day
June 1 • 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. • Grand Avenue, St. Paul
Join us for the largest free one-day festival in the Midwest! St. Paul’s kick-off to summer promises food, music, fun and even a 3K run for all ages. grandave.com/events/grandoldday
Lakewood 2025 Music in the Chapel: Cantus
June 5 • $40/Advance, $50/Door • 6-7 p.m. • Historic Memorial Chapel, Lakewood Cemetery, 3600 Hennepin Ave., Minneapolis
Known widely for its trademark sound that blends warmth with innovative programming and riveting performances, Cantus never fails to please. lakewoodcemetery.org/events-calendar/music-in-the-chapel
Edina Art Fair
June 6-8 • Friday 12-7 p.m., Saturday 10 a.m. to 7 p.m., Sunday 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. • 50th and France, Edina, Minn.
With approximately 250,000-300,000 visitors to this three-day festival, this top-ranked art fair is not one to be missed! 50thandfrance.com/art-fair
Breakaway Music Festival
June 6-7 • Allianz Field, Festival Grounds, St. Paul
Come out and enjoy a great lineup of queer artists for a weekend of youthful dance music. breakawayfestival.com/festival/minnesota-2025
Minnesota Twins Pride Day
June 7 • 1:10 p.m. • Twins vs. Toronto Blue Jays • Target Field, Minneapolis Dress in your sportiest rainbow gear and cheer on the Twins as they celebrate the vibrant LGBTQIA+ community so prevalent here in Twins Territory. mlb.com/twins
St. Anthony Park Arts Festival
June 7 • Activities from 10 a.m. to 8 p.m. • Como & Carter Ave., St. Paul Join us for a day full of fun! The festival offers 70+ artist booths, two music stages, a beer and mead garden, plus plenty of family activities to suit any age. sapfest.org
Trans Joy Fest
June 8 • 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. • Duluth, Minn.
Hosted by Trans Northland, this event aims to bring love, hope and joy into the transgender, two-spirit and gender expansive community. The festival will feature many vendors, performers, youth- and family-friendly activities, food trucks and so much more. transnorthland.org
Excelsior Art on the Lake 2025
June 14-15 • Sat 10 a.m. to 6 p.m., Sun 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. • Water Street, Excelsior, Minn.
Spend your day perusing over 120+ artists displaying original works alongside live music and a variety of food offerings. Enjoy Excelsior’s unique shops, galleries and eateries while you check out the many booths and vendors! excelsiorlakeminnetonkachamber.com/art-on-the-lake/
Minnesota United FC Pride Night
June 14 • 7:30 p.m. • Allianz Field, St. Paul
Show your Pride as the Loons take to the field against San Diego and show their support for the incredible diversity among their LGBTQ+ fans. mnufc.com
Stone Arch Bridge Festival
June 14-15 • Saturday 10 a.m. to 7 p.m., Sunday 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. • West River Parkway, 11th Ave. S. to N. Fourth Ave., Minneapolis
Join more than 200 artists and culinary artists from a broad spectrum of mediums for this festival along the river in our 29th year. stonearchbridgefestival.com
Judy Garland Festival 2025
June 19-22 • Activities all day • The Judy Garland Museum, 2727 S. Pokegama Ave., Grand Rapids, Minn.
Grab your ruby slippers and travel the yellow brick road to Dorothy’s hometown … not Kansas, but the hometown of Judy Garland! judygarlandmuseum.com
Twin Cities Jazz Festival
June 20-21 • Mears Park, 221 Fifth St. E., St. Paul
The Twin Cities Jazz Festival is celebrating its 27th year! The Festival is free and open to all. twincitiesjazzfestival.com
Wayzata Art Experience
June 20-22 • Downtown Wayzata, Minn.
The jewel of Lake Minnetonka welcomes art lovers from across the Twin Cities to enjoy a celebration of art, music, food and fun for all ages. artexperience.wayzatawestmetrochamber.com
Twin Cities Gay Men’s Chorus presents “Leading Ladies: Divas of Broadway”
June 21-22 • 7:30 p.m. on Saturday, 2 p.m. on Sunday • Tickets $28-$53 • Ordway Concert Hall, 345 Washington St., St. Paul
Join TCGMC and Broadway star Britney Coleman for a concert that is a little bit beauty and a little bit beast and brings the best of Broadway’s music sung by the biggest divas to grace the stage. Visit TCGMC’s website to purchase tickets. tcgmc.org
Minnesota Lynx Pride Night
June 21 • 7:00 p.m. (Time subject to change) • Target Center, Minneapolis
Come out and celebrate Pride Night as the Lynx take on the LA Sparks. lynx.wnba.com
Monthly Drag Show at Chanhassen Dinner Theatre
June 22 • Chanhassen Dinner Theatres, 501 W. 78th St., Chanhassen, Minn. • Age recommendation 13+
Show One: Drag Brunch • Brunch begins at 10:30 a.m., show at 12:30 p.m., add-on VIP Meet & Greet begins at 2:20 p.m. • The Main Stage
Show Two: Drag Dinner • Dinner service begins at 5 p.m., show at 6:30 p.m. • The Playhouse Theatre chanhassendt.com
LGBTQIA2S+ Pride Demonstration Box Tending on Nicollet Island
June 25 • 6-8 p.m. • Nicollet Island, Minneapolis
Join us for a special evening during Pride Month to come together and revitalize the planting demonstration boxes in the Nicollet Island prairie. fmr.org/events/lgbtqia2s-pride-demonstration-box-tending-nicollet-island
St. Paul Saints Pride Night presented by Midwest Dairy
June 27 • 7:07p.m. • Saints vs. Louisville Bats • CHS Field, St. Paul
Dress in your rainbow best and come out to see the Saints take on Louisville! milb.com/st-paul
Oh, What Beautiful Sights, Beautiful People and Beautiful Community — Get Ready for WorldPride DC/Alexandria!
There’s something about the Upper East Coast that just hits different in spring. Maybe it’s the breeze off the river or the welcoming theme of pink cherry blossoms, like they’ve been waiting all winter to say “Hello.” Or, maybe it’s the people. Well, all of these factors were a part of my very first press trip to Alexandria, Va., covering the preparation for WorldPride; an experience that wrapped me up in a kind of warmth I didn’t know I needed.
Through the thoughtful planning of Visit Alexandria’s coordinating staff, Allison O’Keefe, Caroline Secrest, Claire Mouledoux, Todd O’Leary and Maven Media’s veteran facilitator, Meghan Gearino, to arrange coverage of this year’s WorldPride in the area, what I found was far more than a scenic “getaway.” I experienced a city that walks the walk when it comes to culture, community, network, hospitality and inclusion. I found inspiration and a different fuel of appreciation for fellowship. It’s as though this experience recentered me to live in the present with real people, doing real work.
From the moment I arrived in Old Town, Va., I felt it: that gentle blend of history bridging towards a reclaimed humanity. I touched the mason brick streets that not only guided us past boutiques but also to the current stories and memories, energy that still reverberated. Locals greeted me and others on the press team like we belonged, with warm smiles and encapsulating founder stories. Tucked into every moment was a quiet confidence and a reminder that this area was a landmark that carries consciousness and breathes life into those who take care of and occupy the area.
One of those folks is Gizem White, founder of Turkish Coffee Lady, where their 500-year-old brewing technique guarantees you’ll feel charged when you leave. This was a cultural bridge with an added experience of a micro art gallery painted from the coffee beans by the Microangelist.
Another is Jamie Fortin, founder of Friends to Lovers Bookstore, “the first romance bookstore in the D.C. metro area,” where you can flip through queer romance zines. Fortin expressed that its significance goes beyond novelty to become a space created by and for women as well as queer people — a bookstore with a mission to center narratives that have historically been pushed to the margins.
I kept thinking: “This city doesn’t just preserve — it progresses. And it makes room while doing so.”
One of the most powerful undercurrents of Alexandria wasn’t listed on the itinerary — but it showed up in every commute, every conversation and every introduction: networking.
The kind that feels human. That says, “We see each other, and we might be able to build something together.”The theme of edifying businesses and their people is Visit Alexandria’s mission and heartbeat, which creates a platform for WorldPride. An initiative to highlight founders is the very lifeline that has brings travelers from all over to visit the niche offerings only found in this area.
For instance, where can you find cherry blossom-infused popcorn? Or beautiful murals painted inside the boutiques by Virginia locals? Well, at Made in VA, an LGBTQ+-owned business that enriches local artists and creators. Over the three-day trip, there were beautiful examples of creativity and innovation. Speaking with Morgan Pepin, Made in VA’s director of retail, reminded us that economic development is deeply relational, and that their business model proved that success doesn’t have to be gatekept — it can be distributed, shared and grown through community investment.
While down by the Potomac River, it was fitting to fellowship over oysters at Hank’s Oyster Bar, another LGBTQ+-owned coastal staple in the heart of Alexandria — and one of the most unexpectedly grounding parts of the entire trip. Hank’s was where our group had our first meal together and connected by sharing stories, flix suggestions and comedic relief. Although this was my first
Photos by Jen Peeples-Hampton
press trip and first time with this incredible group, I felt welcomed and seen. At the dinner table, we met with Visit Alexandria’s President and CEO, Todd O’Leary, as well as Senior Vice President of Marketing & Communications, Claire Mouledoux. Leaders who understood the importance of community and inclusivity.
Alexandria is full of spaces where people gather, not just to experience but also to connect. Where a team dinner isn’t just about calories and hydration, but rather about stories, laughter and emotional fuel. Each day was full of energy, met with evenings of comfort at the Heron Hotel, the most recently renovated hotel on the block. The amenities were numerous as we took a tour with Harry Francis, its upbeat Director of Lifestyle, as well as its General Manager, Matt Karow, and learned more about the hotel’s culture and events.
Alexandria, Va., sets the tone for inviting spaces and exemplifies the phrase “control what you can.” Even though there has been public expression to cancel diversity, equity and inclusion, Alexandria has been an anchor to highlight and protect all that allows us to be … us! City of Alexandria’s LGBTQ+ Task Force has been the light on The Hill. Its chair, Diana Maurer, and Staff Facilitator Erika Kleiner have been soldiers in creating safe spaces necessary for the cultivation of inclusive service provision to members of the LGBTQ+ people and communities in the City of Alexandria.
Just as LGBTQ+ adults need spaces to be heard and seen, so do our youth. Safe Space NOVA, founded by Charles Costen-Sumpter and his husband, Jordan L. Costen-Sumpter, is a safe space for youth that is geared towards facilitating and supporting them through challenges they may encounter.
In many ways, preparing for WorldPride was the unexpected mirror, showing me what’s possible when community, culture and intentional coordination come together. Every conversation, every storefront, every shared story gave me something that theory alone can’t: a living example of what it means to create spaces that affirm, include and inspire. It reminded me that the work takes all of us. It’s not just the responsibility of a single individual or social programming — it lives in how we gather, how we listen and how we build with purpose.
As Alexandria prepares for WorldPride, they have expressed their excitement to host this monumental event with intentions towards continued growth. I only got a taste of what many can expect to experience. The platform has been building and emphasizes that although we are complex humans, we can still lead with empathy, cultural fluency and collective strength. What Alexandria gave me was more than inspiration — it was direction. And now, as a people, we have the right to move forward with that clarity, ready to build a future that’s just as intentional as the spaces and events that continue to shape it.
World Pride is ready for you … Are you ready for it?
WorldPride takes place from May 17 to June 8. To learn more, please visit their website, worldpridedc.org.
A Fire Summer Destination: New York’s Gay Fire Island
A summer paradise needs to have at least three things: tons of fun events and activities, a peaceful place to rest and enjoy nature, and of course, all the queer fun your heart desires! If a summer getaway with all of these features sounds like your cup of tea, then your next vacation destination might just be Fire Island, just a short ferry ride from New York’s Long Island!
The first thing you think of when you hear the words “Fire Island” is probably not a gay paradise … in the way it actually is, anyway. If your mind goes immediately to the reality TV show, let’s just say you’re definitely not alone. But the real Fire Island has much more to offer than just sexy singles and drama (although there’s plenty of that if you go looking)! Fire Island is an oasis for the LGBTQ+ community to enjoy themselves, and a highly sought-after vacation destination within the queer community.
First of all, what is Fire Island? Fire Island is a small barrier island, just off the coast of Long Island, N.Y. Within Fire Island are two thriving gay resort towns that have been virtually untouched by commercialism: Cherry Grove and Fire Island Pines. The island sees just over 820,000 annual visitors during the summertime, so it’s always bustling with community and good vibes!
According to Gay Cities’ website, “There are no cars here, just wooden boardwalks and people pulling little red wagons full of their groceries. The two communities each have their own vibe: The Pines feels more like New York’s Chelsea: pretty party boys and gay professionals; the Grove is more diverse and down to earth (and attracts a younger AND an older crowd).”
So, whether you’re looking for an earthy, connected vibe, a party scene or somewhere in between, there’s a little something for everyone to enjoy on Fire Island. Oh, and if you’re searching for something a little spicy, there’s even a little strip of forest in between the two gay resort towns lovingly nicknamed the “meat rack,” which, according to local legend, lives up to its frisky name.
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ANIMAL RESCUE
Second Chance Animal Rescue
Dedicated to rescuing, fostering, caring for, and adopting out dogs and cats into forever homes.
P.O. Box 10533 White Bear Lake, MN 55110 (651) 771-5662 www.secondchancerescue.org
BUSINESS ASSOCIATIONS
Quorum
Minnesota's LGBTQ+ and Allied Chamber of Commerce working to build, connect, and strengthen for a diverse business community.
2446 University Ave. W., Ste 112 St. Paul, MN 55114 (612) 460-8153 www.twincitiesquorum.com
ENVIRONMENT
The Nature Conservancy
TNC is an environmental nonprofit working to create a world where people and nature thrive. 1101 W. River Pkwy., Ste. 200 Minneapolis, MN 55415-1291 (612) 331-0700 minnesota@tnc.org www.nature.org/minnesota
EVENT VENUES
Landmark Center
A classic venue, with a grand cortile and beautiful courtrooms, accommodates celebrations of all sizes. 75 W. 5th St. St. Paul, MN 55102 (651) 292-3228 www.landmarkcenter.org
GRANTMAKERS/FUNDERS
PFund Foundation
PFund is the LGBTQ+ community foundation that provides grants to students and grants to non-profits. PO Box 3640 Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 870-1806 www.pfundfoundation.org
HEALTH & WELLNESS
Aliveness Project
Community Center for individuals living with HIV/AIDS – on-site meals, food shelf, and supportive service. 3808 Nicollet Ave. S. Minneapolis, MN 55102 (612) 824-LIFE (5433) www.aliveness.org
Family Tree Clinic
We're a sliding fee sexual health clinic and education center, now in Minneapolis. 1919 Nicollet Ave. Minneapolis MN 55403 (612) 473-0800 www.familytreeclinic.org
COMMUNITY CONNECTION
NAMI Minnesota
(National Alliance on Mental Illness)
Providing free classes and peer support groups for people affected by mental illnesses.
1919 University Ave. W., Ste. 400 St. Paul, MN 55104 (651) 645-2948 www.namimn.org
LIBRARIES
Quatrefoil Library
Your LGBTQ+ library and community center. Free membership, events, and e-books/audiobooks. Check us out!
1220 E. Lake St. Minneapolis, MN 55407 (612) 729-2543 www.qlibrary.org
MEDIA & COMMUNICATIONS
Radio K
Radio K is the award-winning studentrun radio station of the University of Minnesota. 330 21st. Ave. S. Minneapolis, MN 55455 (612) 625-3500 www.radiok.org
MUSEUM
Bell Museum, University of Minnesota
Discover Minnesota’s rich natural history through engaging exhibits, wildlife dioramas, and an exciting planetarium experience!
2088 Larpenteur Ave. W., St. Paul, MN 55113 (612) 626-9660 bellinfo@umn.edu www.bellmuseum.umn.edu
Minnesota Historical Society
Create your own adventure at MNHS historic sites and museums around Minnesota. www.mnhs.org
Minneapolis Institute of Art
Enjoy masterpieces from all over the world & every period of human history.
Free admission daily!
2400 3rd Ave. S. Minneapolis, MN 55404 (612) 870-3000 www.artsmia.org
PERFORMING ARTS
Children’s Theatre Company
Children’s Theatre Company excites the imagination with world-class family-friendly theatre for kids, teens, and adults. 2400 3rd Ave. S. Minneapolis, MN 55404 (612) 874-0400 www.childrenstheatre.org
Guthrie Theater
Open to the public year-round, the Guthrie produces classic and contemporary plays on three stages. 818 S. 2nd St. Minneapolis, MN 55415 (612) 377-2224 www.guthrietheater.org
Minnesota Opera
World-class opera draws you into a synthesis of beauty; breathtaking music, stunning costumes & extraordinary sets. Performances at the Ordway Music Theater - 345 Washington St. St. Paul, MN 55102 (612) 333-6669
www.mnopera.org
Minnesota Orchestra
Led by Music Director Designate Thomas Søndergård, the Minnesota Orchestra, one of America’s leading symphony orchestras.
1111 Nicollet Mall Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 371-5656, (800) 292-4141 www.minnesotaorchestra.org
Ordway Center for the Performing Arts
Leading performing arts center with two stages presenting Broadway musicals, concerts & educational programs that enrich diverse audiences.
345 Washington St. St. Paul, MN 55102 (651) 224-4222 info@ordway.org www.ordway.org
Twin Cities Gay Men’s Chorus
An award-winning chorus building community through music and offers entertainment worth coming out for! 1430 W. 28th St., Ste. B Minneapolis, MN 55408 (612) 339-SONG (7664) chorus@tcgmc.org www.tcgmc.org
RELIGIOUS & SPIRITUAL
All God’s Children Metropolitan Community Church
A welcoming, inclusive, safe place to explore and discover God’s love for ALL God’s children. 3100 Park Ave. Minneapolis, MN 55407 (612) 824-2673 www.agcmcc.org
Hennepin Avenue United Methodist Church
Everyone is welcome at Hennepin Church! Vibrant Worship. Authentic Community. Bold Outreach. 511 Groveland Ave. Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 871-5303 www.hennepinchurch.org
Plymouth Congregational Church
Many Hearts, One Song; Many Hands, One Church. Find us on Facebook and Twitter. 1900 Nicollet Ave. Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 871-7400 www.plymouth.org
St. Philip's Lutheran Church
We invite and welcome those of every spiritual background, ethnicity, gender orientation, or economic situation. 6180 Hwy 65 Fridley, MN 55432 (763) 571-1500 www.splcmn.org
University Baptist Church
Creating safe and inclusive spaces for 175 years, UBC stands proudly with our LGBTQ+ family.
1219 University Ave. SE Minneapolis, MN 55414 (612) 331-1768 www.ubcmn.org
Westminster Presbyterian Church
An open and affirming congregation, welcoming persons of all sexual orientations, gender expressions and identities. 1200 Marquette Ave. Minneapolis, MN 55403 (612) 332-3421 www.westminstermpls.org
SENIOR LIVING
Lyngblomsten Community Services
Empowering older adults to live well at home through caregiver support, memory-loss enrichment, & wellness education.
1415 Almond Ave. St. Paul, MN 55108 (651) 632-5330
www.Lyngblomsten.org/CServices
Senior Community Services
Providing non-medical services that meet the changing needs of older adults & support their caregivers. 10201 Wayzata Blvd., Ste. 335 Minnetonka, MN 55305 (952) 541-1019
www.seniorcommunity.org/lav
SOCIAL
SERVICES
Friends & Co
Fostering meaningful connections for older adults for 50+ years. Offering quick drop-in chat line, phone & visiting companionship services.
2550 University Ave. W., Ste. 260-S St. Paul, MN 55114 (612) 721-1400 www.friendsco.org
Lutheran Social Service of Minnesota
Serving all Minnesotans with personcentered services that promote full and abundant lives.
lssmn.org | (651) 642-5990 | (800) 582-5260 Employment Opportunities | lssmn.org/careers PICS (Partners in Community Supports) | picsmn.org
Pooled Trust | (888) 806-6844
Supported Decision-Making | (888) 806-6844
TRAVEL DESTINATIONS
Westopolis
Minnesota’s Sweet Spot! St. Louis Park & Golden Valley offer exceptional dining, attractions, shopping, hotels and event space.
1660 Hwy 100 S., Ste. 501 St. Louis Park, MN 55416 (952) 426-4047 www.westopolis.org
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Of course, one of the main draws of the island is the fact that there are no cars. And, according to Fire Island’s website, “Many people from NYC have a beautiful island to escape from the city hustle. It offers a pollution-free alternative, clean air and pristine beaches.” In other words, Fire Island is a true breath of fresh air.
So, with no cars… how do you travel from place to place on Fire Island? That’s easy! You’ll be able to get around by ferry, water taxi or, of course, by walking! In some areas, you’ll also be able to bike, too! Fire Island’s website boasts: “We’re proud to state that Fire Island has never succumbed to the commercialism and class distinction that haunts the Hamptons.”
There are plenty of things to do on Fire Island, aside from enjoying the gorgeous beaches and meeting someone cute! Fire Island is actually home to the longest-running LGBTQ+ club in the world, The Ice Palace, which is famous for its wild parties and stunning drag performances! You can also check out Sip-n-Twirl, a back-alley, harbor-side local spot that’s perfect for drinks, music, and of course, a crowded dance floor!
Or if you’re looking for something a little more, ahem, unique, then maybe you would like to try naked gay yoga at one of the famous workshops in Fire Island Pines!
Now more than ever, finding, supporting and enjoying our beloved queer spaces in the United States is crucial — both to the wellbeing of the community and the history that these places hold. With gay and queer bars on the decline in some places, it’s truly wonderful to find a gay sanctuary like Fire Island to enjoy, even if just for a weekend getaway or a short vacation.
This summer start your Pride Month off right, treat yourself to a true gay paradise, and head to Fire Island for all the queer fun, relaxation and partying your heart desires. Pack your swimsuit (and maybe nothing else!) and enjoy Fire Island — the perfect summer travel destination from the Twin Cities!
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