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It’s here, our biggest, boldest, and proudest edition of the year! With a whopping 132 pages, including over 50 dedicated entirely to Pride, this issue of GNI Mag is more than just a magazine. It’s a celebration of who we are, where we’ve come from, and the vibrant community we continue to build together.
AN INTRO FROM THE CHIEF
This summer, the world feels louder, prouder, and more colourful than ever. At the same time, we’re facing growing hatred and division. It’s a reminder that while we celebrate, we must also continue to stand up, speak out, and support one another through the storm. We’ve packed these pages with interviews from queer icons and allies who continue to inspire, including Cynthia Erivo, Laura Whitmore, Sabrina Carpenter, and the evercharismatic Tom Grennan. Trudy Scrumptious is back and ready to serve some serious GaGa realness, while rising stars like Jeangu Macrooy and Lois Levin are ones to watch.
But the heartbeat of this issue is our Pride section. From deeply personal journeys like Lauren’s transition story and Martin Murray’s piece on Queer Woman Collective to powerful perspectives on protest, community, and resilience, it’s a reminder that Pride isn’t just a party. It’s a protest, a platform, and for many, a lifeline. We explore everything from new Pride locations like the Outing Festival’s exciting move to voices like Jason Cancino who embody what it means to be a Pride warrior.
As always, we’ve sprinkled in plenty of sparkle alongside informative and inspiring reads. Expect scene-stealing fashion from Primark, dreamy wedding inspiration, and travel escapes (hello, Scilly), plus luxe reviews of The Culloden and the Maldron. Jo O’Neill shares glowing beauty tips, Peter Irvine delivers fresh interior inspiration, and the Gourmet Boys round up their favourite foodie finds. Out & Active highlight
the heartwarming story of members Paul and Robin, Danny Malone our resident hair guru breaks down the latest trends, Dr Bryan explores sensitive facial skin conditions and Gary Campion gives us the lowdown on the hottest new music and upcoming releases.
Whether you’re planning your big day or just your next great day out, there’s something here for everyone. I say it every year, but it’s more important now than ever: Pride matters. It matters because you matter. Your story, your voice, your right to live and love fully — they all matter. So pour yourself something fizzy, find a sunny spot (or a shady one, SPF always), and dive into a magazine made with love, laughter, and a whole lot of Pride.
And before I go, nominations are now open for the 2025 GNI Mag Awards. With 25 categories celebrating incredible individuals, businesses, and organisations across Northern Ireland and beyond, it’s your chance to honour the people making real impact in our community. From grassroots heroes to inclusive employers, trailblazing charities to fabulous entertainers, visit gnimag.com/awards to cast your nominations. Whether you’re lifting up someone who’s made a difference or celebrating your own journey, your voice counts.
Happy Pride, everyone. Until next time, Daniel May
Proud to support Pride
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15 - 27 July 2025
An exhibition exploring the history of Pride and the evolution within Belfast.
In Partnership with Young at Art
26 July 2025
Before the Belfast Pride Parade, drop by the MAC for family fun - with rainbow face painting and DIY Pride crowns or headbands for the kids!
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Cynthia Erivo Bares Her Soul on Vulnerable, Genre-Blending Sophomore Album I Forgive You
Cynthia Erivo is one of the most celebrated and versatile performers of her generation, earning acclaim across stage, screen, and music.
A British-born actress, singer, and author, Erivo first rose to prominence on the West End stage before taking Broadway by storm with her breakout performance as Celie in the 2015 revival of The Color Purple. Her portrayal of the resilient heroine earned her the prestigious Tony Award for Best Actress in a Musical, along with a Grammy Award for Best Musical Theater Album and a Daytime Emmy Award for her performance on The Today Show — making her one of the rare talents to secure three-quarters of an EGOT
Erivo transitioned seamlessly into film, earning two Academy Award® nominations for her starring role as Harriet Tubman in the 2019 biopic Harriet — one for Best Actress and another for Best Original Song for co-writing and performing the stirring anthem “Stand Up.” The performance also garnered nominations from the Golden Globes, Screen Actors Guild Awards, BAFTAs, and Critics Choice Awards, firmly establishing her as a powerhouse on screen.
She has continued to impress with roles in projects such as Bad Times at the El Royale, Chaos Walking, and as Aretha Franklin in the third season of Genius, earning an Emmy nomination for her transformative performance. Most recently, she gained international recognition as Elphaba in Jon M. Chu’s film adaptation of Wicked, starring alongside Ariana Grande — a role that has already drawn significant awards buzz.
Beyond her acting, Erivo is a producer and published author, known for her advocacy, depth, and emotional honesty. With a growing list of accolades and a commitment to fearless storytelling, Cynthia Erivo continues to redefine what it means to be a modern multihyphenate artist.
Allow Cynthia Erivo to reintroduce herself. The multifaceted Grammy®, Emmy®, and Tony® Award-winner and 3x Academy Award® nominated actress, singer, author, and producer bares her soul on her sophomore album I Forgive You.
Tenderly blending the sounds of pop, R&B, folk, Britpop, yodeling, wailing, and gospel, Cynthia leaps headfirst into a bold new chapter of her artistry. Impassioned and warm, heartbreaking and vulnerable, I Forgive You is a soft testimony, a haunting plea to be witnessed with an open heart.
It’s been four years since her debut album, and her time playing Elphaba in John Chu’s film adaptation of Wicked has made her an international phenomenon, earning her Oscar, SAG, BAFTA, Golden Globe, and Critics Choice nominations for Best Actress.
But I Forgive You is in her own words. “I trust myself,” Cynthia says of her vision now. “I’m not doing a musical theater album. There’s no show to do. This is just my story I’m telling.”
Cynthia’s emotive voice draws the listener into her world. Inspired by every genre of music she’s been exposed to throughout her life, she plays with the sounds she can make with her own voice and body.
“Finding out what I sound like for myself has been really fulfilling,” she says. “Every single thing on this album is considered, from the strings that are played to the singular flute to the nails that are played on ‘Replay,’ to the whistle, my whistle, to the pads that have been created, everything is considered.”
Enya to Brandy, Phil Collins to Mary J Blige, and from Aretha Franklin to Mike and the Mechanics, all of Cynthia’s influences have been slow-baked into every vocal layer, every soaring belt, every spine-tingling harmony. “That’s my genetic makeup when it comes to
music,” she reflects. “I have singers that I like and sounds that I like. It’s that sort of amalgamation of sound and voice that informed how I write, how I sing, and the sound that I make.”
Desperately intimate and honest, I
Forgive You is a tenderhearted 20-track LP that, she believes, has “this glorious connective tissue that runs all the way from the beginning of the album to the end of it.”
Split into four parts, the album opens with “Why,” a poignant track where Cynthia’s voice is the only instrument. Each section is divided by a cappella interludes. The format gave her the freedom to play, an experimental amalgamation of her loves, lyricism, and limits.
“You hear the first five songs, you take a breath, you take a moment,” she instructs. “I knew that this album was a story, and I wanted to make sure that the songs had their place.”
The first four tracks are about a breakup, the “releasing of something that doesn’t work anymore,” she says. Heartbreak comes alive on “More Than Twice,” an emotionally devastating track that concludes with over a minute of Cynthia’s aching wails. And you can almost taste the grief in “Worst of Me,” a lament about knowing when to leave a relationship behind. “You can do everything you want to, but when push comes to shove, you’re not making space for the brightest of that person. You’re not making space for the best of that person. You’re actually bringing out the worst of them.”
“The second set of songs is when
something new comes into your life, and it’s passionate,” she reflects. “It spills over into everything. It’s fiery, it’s alive.”
Cynthia raps on the steamy track “Push and Pull,” co-written by Hamilton star Anthony Ramos. The song’s about “desire, and wanting someone,
and what sexuality can feel like or sound like.” Temptation worms its way into the steamy track “What You Want.” And Cynthia wears her heart on her sleeve on “She Said,” a misty-eyed meditation she says “needed to be written” and is stacked with stunning melismas.
Then, act three swells with hope, flush with optimism. It’s “when things become grounded again, when love shows up for yourself and for another person,” she says. “It becomes real, and it isn’t just physical or visceral, it’s connected now.”
Cynthia’s voice soars on “Holy Refrain,” a grand love song about a “vast and beautiful” romance that could fill a sanctuary and is driven home by a divine key change. “I wanted people to know that love could be just as holy as the words in the Bible.” And a sentimental piano riff drives “I Choose Love,” a moving ballad about following your heart and making peace with the journey’s casualties.
The fourth and final act is “about the acceptance of the entire journey, and being able to be okay with what was at the very beginning and what is at the very end.” The lead single, “Replay,” reflects a lesson she learned from her therapist. “You think that you are really strong, but actually you are really afraid to trust people, and you can’t save everyone,” she learned. The penultimate track, “Brick by Brick,” is about the rebuilding of self, a reclamation, and a song Cynthia says helped her “exercise some demons that I hadn’t necessarily faced.”
With each track on I Forgive You, Cynthia hopes “that people see the human in me. When you’re in the public eye, people forget that you are human because they see you as an entity, but not actually flesh and bone, just like everybody else.”
The music, her story, is a braised reminder that we’re all just flesh and bone. The good and the bad – and everything in between – make up the stories of our lives, and Cynthia Erivo is a sight to behold.
“This is all just part of the human experience.”
CREDITS & ACCOMPLISHMENTS
Cynthia Erivo’s sophomore album I Forgive You marks a bold – and vulnerable – new chapter in the Grammy®, Emmy®, and Tony® Awardwinning actress, singer, author as well as SAG, Golden Globe®, and 3x Academy Award® nominee’s artistry. The tenderhearted 20-track LP is a soft testimony of her life, a haunting plea to be witnessed with an open heart. The album is split into four parts: a breakup, something new, the deepening of a connection, and acceptance. Each part is divided by haunting interludes where Cynthia’s voice is the only instrument. Blending the sounds of pop, R&B, folk, Britpop, hip-hop, wailing, and gospel, I Forgive You leaps headfirst into the most vulnerable and impassioned moments of her life, a slow-baked reminder that we’re all just flesh and bone. The good and the bad, and everything in between, make up the stories of our lives, and Cynthia Erivo is a sight to behold.
Laura Whitmore has worn many hats throughout her career from MTV presenter and reality TV host to author, activist, and now, acclaimed stage actress. This summer, she takes on one of her most complex and compelling roles yet as Rachel Watson in The Girl on the Train, the gripping stage adaptation of Paula Hawkins’ bestselling thriller. As the tour makes its way to Belfast’s Grand Opera House, we caught up with Laura to talk about the allure of live theatre, the layered psychology of Rachel, and why thrillers continue to captivate audiences. The show arrives in Belfast on 12th August 2025
hat can audiences expect when they come to see the show?
It’s a great show for fans of the book, of course, and also for those who aren’t as familiar with the story because it’s a cracking thriller. There’s lots of twists and turns, visually it’s very clever, as is the staging, and you go on a journey with characters that you really care about. It’s a thrilling night out.
Who is Rachel and what is her role in the story?
When we first meet Rachel Watson she isn’t in a very good place. You see someone who appears to be a very vulnerable woman. But what we learn and unpack as the show goes on is that there’s a lot more to her. One of the big things about the show has to do with her memorywhat she remembers and how she tries to fit all those pieces together. Her memory is kind of playing tricks on her and it’s like she’s piecing together a jigsaw puzzle. Plotwise, she takes this journey on a train every day and it stops at the same place where she can see into people’s back gardens. It’s that natural thing where we look into people’s back gardens because we’re nosy or we imagine the lives those people are living. With Rachel, she becomes obsessed with a couple that she sees each day, then the girl in the couple goes missing.
What makes her such a juicy character to play?
As I said, you first meet this seemingly vulnerable woman but you soon realise that there’s a lot more strength there. There’s a lot of hope in her and the audience is rooting for her. Even though sometimes she seems a bit messy and she does things that are questionable and also questions herself, there is a likability to her as well. It’s such a meaty part to get into because there are so many layers to her. She can’t remember things, she has a drink problem, she has this ex-husband who she just can’t let go of, she’s obsessed with this couple and wishes she had the life they’re living... There’s so much to go at.
Were you already familiar with the Paula Hawkins novel on which the play is based? I remember years ago my mum saying to me
“Have you heard about this new Girl on the Train book by Paula Hawkins?” Everyone was talking about it, so I devoured it. I set my alarm early every morning so I could read a chapter before I got out of bed. It seemed like everyone was reading it at the time and [laughs] I remembered being on a train, reading the book and thinking “Oh, I’m a girl on a train reading The Girl on the Train!” It’s a brilliant book and Paula is a really gripping writer. Her characterisation is so good, on top of which there’s the plot and all the twists. It’s like once you’re on that train with these people you don’t want to get off.
Are there surprises in store for people who have read the book or seen the film version? Well, it’s a different setting from the film, where the story was relocated to America. The stage version is much closer to the book but you’ve got the visuals and the sound, so you really feel immersed in the story. I love reading books where you can imagine things for yourself, but when you’re in a theatre with other people it brings a whole other level to it.
What challenges does playing a drunk present to you?
I also played a character last summer who had a drink problem, namely Lauren in 2:22 A Ghost Story [laughs] so I feel like I might be being typecast at this stage. But I think most people who have a drink problem spend most of the time trying to hide the fact that they drink. So it’s more about disguising rather than showing that, because that’s what Rachel herself does. Plus she’s a functional drunk; she’s piecing things together while she’s drinking that the detective can’t do while sober, although it does affect her memory and we see in the play how those memories come back together again.
You previously appeared in the thrillers Not Dead Enough and 2:22 A Ghost Story. Why do you think audiences are drawn to a good thriller on stage?
For one thing, there’s the word itself. Shows like this are a thrill. They’re about excitement and I am a huge fan of live theatre, just as I love live telly, because it’s all in-the-moment. With a thriller it’s about being part of that rollercoaster, that whodunit element, with all those twists and
turns. I’m actually working on a documentary at the moment about true crime and sometimes fictional crime dramas are not too far off from things that happen in real life. I think that’s another reason why so many people love thrillers, because they could happen. It’s that “There but for the grace of God...” thing. Plus everyone likes to play the detective, don’t they? You get to the interval and everyone’s chatting, going ‘Who do you think did it?’ I love that.
You came to fame as a radio and TV broadcaster, but was acting always part of the plan?
I studied drama and on my first audition in London, when I was about 18, I was down to the final few for a Channel 4 drama. I didn’t get the job so I went back to Ireland, did my degree in journalism and went down the presenting route, which I love too. I love storytelling in all its forms and I always said I wanted to get back into acting and balance the two. Now I get to indulge both of my passions.
What’s more nerve-wracking, playing a character or being yourself?
It’s interesting because you play different versions of yourself, I think. If I’m hosting a BBC radio show or I’m in a newsroom or presenting I’m a Celebrity I’m playing different versions of myself, because presenting it’s very different to presenting a documentary. They’re all me, they’re just different versions of me. It’s the same as playing a character, because you always draw on some of your own experiences. But it’s not nerve-wracking so much as exciting or thrilling or challenging.
What have been your favourite jobs over the years?
You never forget your first big job. I remember when I auditioned for MTV Europe. I won the competition to be the face of MTV when I was 22 or 23 and I moved to London not knowing anyone there, then they sent me off to LA. I probably didn’t realise how big a deal it was, I remember just being like “This is fun!” I love filming but when it comes to live telly and live theatre they’re my favourite things to do. With filming you do something and it comes out a year later, but live stuff is immediate.
When you’re touring with a show is there anything you couldn’t be on the road without? Well, it used to be my dog. When I last toured I brought him with me, but he refuses to go anywhere these days! I like to take my family with me whenever it’s workable to do so, but otherwise I travel quite light. I travel all the time for work between different countries and people probably think I take a lot of stuff with me but I’ve learned how to be a light traveller, how to keep it simple.
The tour calls at Belfast, Grand Opera House. Does it have any significance for you?
I’ve performed at Belfast Opera House before and it’s a stunning venue with lots of history. Belfast itself is such a fun, exciting city and it’s so close to Dublin, which is where I’m from. I have a lot of friends who live up there and I’m so happy to be going back there again.
Get tickets for Girl On The Train via goh. co.uk
Show runs from 12th -16th August 2025
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Sabrina Carpenter’s Boldest Era Yet: Chart-Topping, QueerLoved & Unapologetically Herself
As a proud gay man and Editor of GNI MAG, it takes a lot to make me truly scream at my phone like a teenager but when Sabrina Carpenter announced her new album Man’s Best Friend, I was already halfway to painting my nails and pre-saving it before the tweet had finished loading. And honestly? I regret nothing.
Arriving on August 29, this seventh studio album promises to continue Sabrina’s reign as the most exciting voice in modern pop. The lead single Manchild dropped last week and instantly shot to number one on Spotify’s US and Global charts. And yes I was one of those early streams thank you very much. The track is pure pop perfection and the music video – already boasting over 15 million views – is a stylish, satirical masterpiece that only Sabrina could pull off.
What I love most about Sabrina Carpenter is that she doesn’t just sing the hits – she owns them. Co-written with her frequent collaborators Jack Antonoff and Amy Allen, Manchild is the kind of deliciously savage anthem that makes you want to strut down the street like it’s your own personal runway. It’s witty, empowering and just the right amount of unbothered. Exactly how I like my pop stars.
A Record Breaking Run
Let’s rewind for a second to Short n’ Sweet, the album that really launched this era of Sabrina world domination. That record was everywhere and rightly so. With Espresso, Please Please Please and Taste all smashing their way into Spotify’s Billions Club, it was clear the world had finally caught up to what many of us already knew – Sabrina Carpenter is that girl. The album didn’t just perform well, it made history. She picked up six GRAMMY nominations as a first time nominee and won not one but two awards – Best Pop Vocal Album for Short n’ Sweet and Best Pop Solo Performance for Espresso. Watching her collect those trophies felt like watching your best friend finally get the recognition they deserve. It was emotional. It was iconic. And it was only the beginning.
The deluxe edition of Short n’ Sweet gave us even more to scream about, including a surprise duet with none other than Dolly Parton. Please Please Please featuring Dolly was a moment for the pop history books and a beautiful bridge between generations of fierce, funny, take no nonsense women. Then there was Busy Woman – an anthem for anyone who’s ever juggled dreams and drama and looked damn good doing it. Sabrina debuted it live on her sold out arena tour and the crowd reaction was pure euphoria.
UK Chart Royalty and Beyond
As someone who keeps a close eye on the charts (okay I am obsessed), Sabrina’s performance in the UK
has been nothing short of revolutionary. She became the first female artist to ever hold the top three positions on the UK Singles Chart with Taste, Please Please Please and Espresso. That is pop queen behaviour.
She also spent 21 weeks at number one in a single year –more than any other female artist ever – and was the first international act to be awarded the BRITs’ Global Success award. I still remember watching that moment on TV and beaming with pride like I had something to do with it.
From Stage to Screen to Stadiums
Sabrina has gone from child star to global pop sensation with the kind of grace and humour that only makes her more loveable. On screen she’s always had that star power but on stage she is electric. Her Short n’ Sweet tour was a juggernaut – selling out across North America and Europe with extra dates added because demand was just that wild.
And now she’s doing it all again
This autumn she’s hitting the road for a second run across North America, with five shows at Madison Square Garden in New York and six nights at LA’s Crypto Arena. That is Taylor Swift level scheduling and Sabrina is ready to deliver. I’ve already got my eye on a date and a potential outfit. If you know, you know.
A Queer Pop Icon in the Making
One of the reasons Sabrina resonates so deeply with me – and with so many queer people I know – is that she embodies the kind of playful confidence we’ve always been drawn to. She’s camp without being corny. Sexy without being overly polished. There’s a wink in her lyrics, a knowing smirk in her visuals, and a total comfort in queerness that feels real and joyful.
She’s also genuinely supportive of our community. Whether it’s the inclusive energy of her shows, the fans she lifts up online, or her ongoing support for LGBTQIA+ artists and causes, Sabrina walks the walk. She isn’t just adored by queer fans – she embraces us in return. That’s why we show up for her. That’s why she belongs to us.
Her sense of humour, her fashion, her theatrical flair – it’s all so deliciously queer coded. Whether she’s spoofing an old school sketch on SNL or dancing around a pastel dreamscape
in a music video, she’s giving us camp, chaos and charisma. And honestly, we eat it up.
Pop’s New Gold Standard
For a long time, Sabrina Carpenter was pop’s best kept secret – the girl with the golden voice and clever lyrics, waiting for the world to catch on. But not anymore. She is front and centre, unapologetically herself and unapologetically brilliant. Man’s Best Friend feels like a victory lap – but also
the start of something even bigger.
As a fan, as an editor and as a gay man who has spent many a night belting Espresso in the shower with far too much enthusiasm – I am so ready for this next chapter. Sabrina is here. She’s queer adjacent. And she is not slowing down any time soon.
Sabrina Carpenter’s Man’s Best Friend isn’t just another album. It’s a love letter to confidence, camp and catchy pop brilliance. Whether you’re dancing
in the club, healing from heartbreak or just living your best gay life – this album is for you.
Pre order it now at www.sabrinacarpenter.com
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TOM GRENNAN today shares new single ‘Full Attention’, the fourth track to be unveiled from his upcoming album, ‘Everywhere I Went Led Me To Where I Didn’t Want To Be’, which is released on August 15th via Insanity Records. An effervescent meld of euphoric piano chords, Balearic grooves and stirring, soulful vocals, it captures one of the UK’s biggest solo stars at his enchanting, feelgood best.
Speaking about new single ‘Full Attention’, Tom says, “We live in a world full of noise and distraction, heightened by social media on top of the usual demands and trappings of everyday life. We have lost focus of what truly matters, and this song is about navigating that noise and turning it to silence, all the negativity in the world including that of my chequered past. New unwanted noise and old baggage are diminished to nothing in my quest to solely focus on the bright light ahead, allowing me to give my FULL ATTENTION on where I’m going in life and who I truly want to become.”
Following a special cameo appearance with Chase & Status at the O2 Arena last Saturday, the single arrives as Tom Grennan gears up to headline Radio 1’s Big Weekend on May 23rd and perform at the BAFTA Awards this weekend. He has also been confirmed to participate in this year’s Soccer Aid, joining a star-studded line-up for the fifth time for their annual charity football match.
‘Full Attention’ follows previous singles ‘Higher’, ‘Shadowboxing’ and ‘Boys Don’t Cry’ and further showcases the thrilling evolution of one of UK’s most exciting talents at his creative best. Tom teamed up with producer Justin Tranter for his fourth album, creating a state-of-the-art pop record. The 15-track album is the multi-platinum-selling artist’s fourth and serves as the eagerly awaited follow-up to 2023’s ‘What Ifs & Maybes’. Coinciding with the album release, Tom Grennan will embark on his biggest UK & Ireland arena tour to date this September, with 11 dates announced for the GRENNAN ‘25 tour.
With two number one albums under his belt alongside multiple Brit and Ivor Novello nominations, countless airplay smashes, sold-out arena tours and an MTV Award for Best UK Act, Tom Grennan is already one of the country’s biggest artists. Last August saw the Bedford-born artist headline his biggest show to date to a capacity crowd of 25,000 at
Gunnersbury Park.
Keen to explore a new sound, Tom enlisted the songwriter and producer behind hits for Dua Lipa and Chappell Roan and found in Tranter a collaborator who understood exactly what he wanted to say and what he wanted to sound like: George Michael, Prince, Freddie Mercury. “So much of the new music is uplifting — it makes you dance, makes you sing,” Tom says.
“It’s about my fight with a side of me I have a lot of trouble with. It’s still a daily battle. But I’ve learned how to fight all these demons and I’m mentally and physically prepared now. I’m in athlete mode.”
While the title alludes to a time when Tom faced challenges with his mental health, ‘Everywhere I Went Led Me To Where I Didn’t Want To Be’ is a positive album about self-belief and having the confidence to take risks. “This album is about me, revived. Now I’m at a place where I DO want to be. And I’m ready to blow people’s heads off.”
It is set to be a stunning addition to Tom Grennan’s already-impressive discography, which has seen him accumulate over 1.5 million album sales and 2.5 billion streams across his gold-selling debut Lighting Matches (2018), his first UK Number One album Evering Road (2021) and What Ifs & Maybes (2023), another Number One and Tom’s third gold-selling album in a row. Tom Grennan’s recent Top 3 festive smash ‘It Can’t Be Christmas (Amazon Music Original)’ immediately gained silver certification in its first run at the Christmas title. Tom achieved his highest ever singles chart for a solo release and was only narrowly held off the top spot by Christmas titans Wham! and Mariah Carey.
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Lois Levin is a rising star who blends Jazz, Indie & Soulful Storytelling
With a voice beyond her years, Lois Levin fuses urban jazz, indie pop, and vintage soul influences from Marvin Gaye to Arctic Monkeys. After teaming up with top producer Jon Withnall during lockdown, her debut single “Burden” made waves with Wonderland and EARMILK. Since then, she’s played sold-out shows at Royal Albert Hall and The Cavern Club—cementing her as one to watch.
Welcome to GNI Lois. Tell us about your new EP Motions. What emotional or personal journey does the EP capture for you?
It’s been a long time coming to have a combination of songs I feel very proud of in one place. I’ve been writing songs since I was 10 years old and the stories have always followed a similar theme: love and loss mainly, but I feel like having the EP almost feels like the start. I think as an independent artist it’s very easy to doubt your art and I think it’s definitely a journey to fully put yourself out there. I’m glad that now I feel confident with my art and I also have great managers who think that too to help along the way.
Your song “Felt” is such a tender, aching track, can you talk about the longing for connection that inspired it, especially through a queer lens? ‘Felt’ is a slight cry for help - and a realisation that I wasn’t feeling fully seen in my intimate relationships. I was sitting with this quiet but constant sense of lack… wanting connection, but not really knowing how to ask for it or even what exactly I was asking for. How did I want to be ‘felt’? And by who?
I wrote the song in the middle of questioning my own sexuality again / even though I’d come out at 15 - which shows how those questions can keep unfolding long after you think you’ve ‘figured it out.’ In some ways, I think what I really wanted was to reconnect with myself first, before expecting that feeling to come from someone else. The song holds that searching - for clarity, for connection, for self-acceptance.
You’ve described your sound as a blend of old-school soul and modern textures. How has being a part of the LGBTQ+ community shaped your artistic expression?
It hasn’t been easy, it took me a long time to write a song with ‘her’ pronouns and write about my experiences with women while thinking for so long that people only wanted to hear of my experiences with men because that’s all I heard about in the mainstream. I think I’m definitely at a place where I’m like these are my stories and they include and are for women who like women too.
As a queer artist, how do you navigate vulnerability in your music, especially when it comes to themes like intimacy and emotional distance?
I love being vulnerable, it’s definitely something I’ve learnt over time is one
of my superpowers and there’s no denying that 99% of my experiences are with women sooo… It’s quite unavoidable, these stories have to be told. I’m excited to share more of them.
Pride season is here! What does Pride mean to you personally, and how do you celebrate it?
I love Pride, I’ve been celebrating Pride every year since coming out at 15. Mainly partying in various queer spaces across Liverpool and now doing the same thing but in London over the past few years. Pride is about being seen - being fearlessly yourself, despite the adversities that come with being queer and the constant uphill battles we’ve had to fight to even exist this freely. So yeah... get the rainbow face paint out!
What’s your favourite thing about Pride season?
I adore seeing all the different parts that make up the LGBTQIA+ community in all its camp, chaotic, beautiful energy.
Who are some queer artists, past or present who’ve inspired your journey, musically or personally?
Brittany Howard - An absolute powerhouse of an artist and writer. Pete Burns - For his matter of factness, un-apologeticness (plus he lived down the road from me)
I love Lesley Gore, Dusty Springfield. The more I learn about the queer roots of blues and jazz - especially during the Harlem Renaissance - the more I feel this overwhelming drive to keep being a queer person in jazz. It’s incredible knowing that artists like Ma Rainey, Bessie Smith, and Gladys Bentley were unapologetically living and creating as queer people within those scenes. It makes me feel connected to a legacy that’s always been there.
If Motions had a message for young queer listeners trying to find their voice, what would it be?
Say it with your chest! Time is short and the time is now.
Finally any plans to come and perform in Ireland anytime soon? I want to so bad! My roots go back to Ireland, it feels right this should happen sooner rather than later.
The new EP Motions is OUT NOW
Trudy Scrumptious
she’s gaga for gaga
After two sell out nights worshiping her OG diva Madonna, everyone’s favourite drunken drag aunt Trudy Scrumptious returns to Mandela Hall, Belfast this August with a third edition of her ‘Night of a 1000…’ cabaret night.
This time it’s the turn to bow at the altar of ‘Mother Monster’, Lady Gaga. We sat down with Ms Scrumptious for all the tea, why she’s chosen Gaga, and enough unsolicited opinions of diva rivalry you could shake your disco stick at.
Tell us about this ‘A Nights Of 1000…’ concept?
It all came about in lockdown when I received an arts council grant to reintroduce the arts events and obviously I wanted to do an LGBTQ+ event that brings our community together in celebration, I also wanted to showcase how incredible Belfast drag is and that year was a big anniversary year of Madonna, so it all felt obvious ! Queen of pop, Belfast drag excellence, queer joy, and LGBTQ+ celebration house down boots mama yas gawd!
So you’ve done Madonna twice and had two sell outs, why change it up and pivot to Gaga?
It was always a plan to switch the artist but after a couple of events in black box it became clear we needed a bigger space so our first time doing Mandela Hall in 2024 it felt right to showcase Madonna again but this year Gaga’s album dropped and she has such a diverse body of work and like Madonna is an incredible artist who never shies from putting her head above the parapet for our community !
Do you think there are as many similarities between Gaga and Madonna as people suggest?
In their creative vision and LGBTQ+ activism yes, but they are very different
artists and at very different points in their careers! In the words of Madonna it’s reductive!
I personally find it boring comparing people, we all live in a world of similar influences and inspirations so things can be cross contaminated! I’m just happy to be alive at the same time they are !
Our divas are often pitted against each other, is this healthy or should we just uplift all women?
Let’s be honest there’s something camp about two battle axe women taking each other on, but for too long men have puppeteered this narrative to their advantage ! If we live in a world where Pepsi and Coca Cola both exist then what’s another strong female artist ? Let’s be honest it’s straight men that are all very samey samey and boring
What’s your favourite Gaga album?
Ahh the tough questions now , it’s a close call between The Fame Monster, Born This Way, Mayhem, Chromatica, Artpop or The Fame!
What is the most memorable Gaga performance you remember?
Obvious choice is the Super Bowl but some of her SNL performances have always been a hard Slay
Have you seen Gaga live?
Yes for The Monster Ball and Artpop tours, I need to see her again!
Any songs you often perform from Mother Monster in drag?
Several but not in a while , I get mad into her new music and it gets the creative juices flowing, so some of my favourites I’ve done are Bad Romance, Stupid Love, Shallow, You and I
Most underrated Gaga song IYO?
Easy, it’s ‘Dance in the Dark’ or ‘Highway Unicorn’! Incredible songs, I’ve actually performed them both quite a lot
Gaga has had some outrageous fashion moments, have you used any as points of reference or you think are iconic? Should we expect gaga looks on the night or will the queens be interpreting the songs as they like?
I love Gaga’s looks from the Alexander McQueen muse era but definitely most things she wears is DRAG so theres always an influence and the idea of the show is to showcase Belfast drag, so I prefer the queens have free reign on their solo performances as it adds to the variety overall
Any other divas you’d consider worshiping in the ‘Thousand Nights Of’ Hall of Fame?
What gay man can choose one diva ? We exist on living for at least 5 !
Who is joining you on the night?
I’ve such a talented line up and could’ve had so many more amazing performers from our home town but budget and availability are homophobic feckers, but trust the line up is Belfast drag excellence !
Both Gaga and Madonna are MOTHER to some of us, does any one call you mother or are there any plans for some drag children?
I’m too young to be a mother and anyone that says differently should not be trusted! I consider myself more of a fun aunt or dinner lady because I will Serve but you’re big enough to look after yourselves !
What else do we have to look forward to from Team Scrumptious
in 2025?
Well it’s summer season aka Pride so lots on the week of Pride including ‘Death Drop Becomes Her’ which is a lip-sync lollapalooza competition in Union Street Bar with 12 queens battling for the Queen Supreme of the lip sync crown ! And I might try to squeeze in one more event before the end of the year but saying no more for now!
Where else can we find Trudy doing her thing?
You can catch me in Union Street Bar on Thursdays for ‘Microfun’ with my co-host Elle Vosque and ‘Parful Sundays’ with Chrissy Toxicity and Special Guests !
Also our drag brunches at Tipsy Bird have been selling out and so much fun with my sister blisters Etta Stiletta and Roxy Tumbledryer. Another shameless plug for ‘Death Drop Becomes Her’ which is on Monday 21st July that will be epic!
‘Night Of 1000 Gagas’ presented by Trudy Scrumptious is in Mandela Hall on Friday 22nd August. Tickets are available on trudyscrumptious. com, or ping Trudy a message on Instagram for a link.
This Pride season, Dutch soul pop star Jeangu Macrooy returns with his first ever queer protest song ‘Independent Girls and Nasty Evil Gays’ out everywhere from July 4th.
Fresh from making his UK live debut earlier this year at London’s Hootananny, Jeangu is back with ‘Independent Girls & Nasty Evil Gays.’ It hits the nail on the head - a satirical protest song against sexism and queerphobia that uses humor and anger to dissect the patriarchy: danceable resistance against scared little men with fragile egos. It’s a fun, catchy bop with an important message.
“It’s a funny, sarcastic protest anthem for the girls and the gays” says Jeangu. “I wrote it from the perspective of people who blame feminism and queerness for everything that’s “wrong” in the world — just to highlight how ridiculous and outdated that mindset really is.”
While working on his upcoming fifth album, ‘Young, Awkward & Lonely’ (out October 10th) Jeangu realized that whilst he’s written protest songs in the past he’d never written one that directly addresses queer rights. “The time feels right. The world’s grown increasingly hostile towards LGBTQ+ people, and the rights we’ve fought so hard for are being challenged in real and terrifying ways. The song is also feminist, because women’s rights are under attack too. It felt urgent, it felt necessary and it felt like the right moment to make some noise.”
JEANGU MACROOY
DUTCH ARTIST
ANNOUNCES PRIDE ANTHEM
‘INDEPENDENT GIRLS AND NASTY EVIL GAYS’
OUT NOW
“I want queer people to feel empowered to live even louder. In the face of hate, we shouldn’t shrink ourselves. We deserve nothing less than full freedom to be our authentic selves - without apology, without compromise. I hope this song also inspires allies to speak up, show up, and join the fight for equality. Because silence is not neutral.”
Using humor in a song for the first time, Jeangu discovered how powerful comedy can be when it comes to making a point, something he was keen to continue with in the song’s video. Stepping into characters that are the total opposite of who he is, Jeangu takes on caricatures of right-wing figures who blame queers for everything from the weather to the economy. “It’s a very tongue-in-cheek, over-the-top satire, and we leaned all the way in,” says Jeangu. “It’s camp, it’s chaos, and it’s got a message.”
‘Independent Girls & Nasty Evil Gays’ is the fifth single from Jeangu’s upcoming fourth studio album, ‘Young, Awkward & Lonely’ out October 10th. His theatre tour across The Netherlands of the same name kicks off October 25th and runs until December 19th in 13 theatres across the country.
If you’re a Eurovision fan, the name Jeangu Macrooy may already be familiar to you. Jeangu was the Netherlands’ entry for the Eurovision Song Contest with his song ‘Grow’ when they were due to host in 2020, but the pandemic ensured its cancellation. Nevertheless, the track gained widespread editorial playlisting, landing in Spotify’s New Music Friday playlist in twelve countries, while premiering on Dutch
national television and racking up millions of streams. He returned to Eurovision in 2021 to represent the Netherlands with his politically-charged entry ‘Birth Of A New Age’ written as a response to the ongoing Black Lives Matter movement, and subsequently being covered by the New York Times.
Born and raised in the South American country of Suriname, Jeangu’s journey began at the age of 13 when his parents gifted him a guitar, and he formed a duo with his brother Xillan. After moving to the Netherlands in 2014 it wasn’t long before he was signed by the producer Perquisite. Following Jeangu’s EP release in 2016, his debut album High On You came the year after, with the title track landing at number one in Suriname, leading to a homecoming show. Two more studio albums followed, leading to multiple nominations at the Edison Pop Awards (the Dutch Grammys), a sold-out Amsterdam’s Paradiso, gracing the stages of Lowlands and Eurosonic Noorderslag, and opening for the likes of Curtis Harding and Ayo on their German tours.
Outside of music, Jeangu has acting credits on Dutch television, including a portrayal of Judas in The Passion, and has won awards for his portrayal as the titular figure in Jesus Christ Superstar, which ran in Amsterdam throughout 2024. Jeangu returns to theatres this summer as the lead role of Orpheus in the award-winning American musical ‘Hadestown’ which will be staged in Royal Theater Carré Amsterdam from June 29th until August 24th. Independent Girls and Nasty Evil Gays’ out everywhere
A AC Hotel by Marriott Belfast Marks 7th Birthday with Summer Celebration and Visit from Jean-Christophe Novelli
C Hotel by Marriott Belfast Marks 7th Birthday with Summer Celebration and Visit from Jean-Christophe Novelli
AC Hotel by Marriott Belfast celebrated its seventh year in the city with an exclusive summer event on Thursday 12 June, welcoming guests to The Terrace for an evening of Mediterranean-inspired food, signature cocktails and al fresco entertainment hosted by celebrity chef JeanChristophe Novelli.
The event featured a curated culinary journey by JeanChristophe Novelli, fresh from filming the latest season of MasterChef Australia. His Mediterranean-inspired menu showcased seasonal ingredients, bringing flair and flavour to The Terrace at AC Hotel by Marriott Belfast.
The celebration also marked the launch of the hotel’s new express lunch menu and the return of the everpopular Terrace Airstream, now serving Belfast Coffee Company refreshments daily with panoramic views over the River Lagan.
Guests enjoyed dishes from The Terrace grill and Novellistyle small plates in a vibrant yet relaxed riverside atmosphere, reinforcing the hotel’s reputation as a stylish all-day dining destination in the heart of the city.
Paula Stuart, General Manager at AC Hotel by Marriott Belfast, said:
“Celebrating seven years with such a special event on The Terrace was the perfect way to thank our loyal customers and partners. We were delighted to
welcome back renowned Chef Jean-Christophe Novelli to help mark this milestone. It gave us an opportunity to showcase our refreshed food offering, introduce the new express lunch menu, and highlight our progress as a hotel. From sustainability innovations to continued investment in guest experience, we are proud of what we’ve achieved, and even more excited about what’s ahead.”
As part of its longer-term investment plans, the hotel has announced a soft refurbishment of its bedrooms and public areas, scheduled for completion by Q1 2026. This follows the recent completion of a £50,000 project to install photovoltaic (PV) solar panels, which is already reducing electricity consumption by up to 15%. The solar initiative supports Marriott International’s Serve360: Doing Good in Every Direction platform, a global sustainability programme that highlights the hotel’s leadership in responsible hospitality and contributes to Marriott’s 2025 Sustainability and Social Impact Goals.
Jean-Christophe Novelli, the acclaimed chef behind both Novelli’s restaurant and The Terrace at AC Hotel by Marriott Belfast, added:
“Coming back to Belfast, to my baby – Novelli at the AC Hotel by Marriott Belfast – always feels incredibly special. With its stylish riverside setting, iconic views of the Belfast skyline, and the warm, attentive service from the team, it was the natural choice for my signature restaurant, and I’m proud to see it growing year on year.
“I was honoured to be invited to contribute to this hotel,
which truly is a treasure in the city. It means a great deal to me, having had the privilege of being offered this unique partnership over eight years ago and working alongside the Harbour Commissioners’ team.
“I love collaborating with the hotel team to create seasonal menus that reflect my Mediterranean heritage while showcasing the best of local produce and regional influences. Whether you’re looking for a laid-back coffee, pre-theatre dining, or an all-day destination with the option to stay over, this is a truly unique spot in Belfast.
“Our journey is also far from over. We’re fuelled by an ambitious vision: to become one of the best and most talked-about dining destinations in Northern Ireland. That’s the aim!”
For those seeking a more exclusive experience, AC Hotel by Marriott Belfast also offers private dining options, as well as meeting and event spaces ideal for weddings, corporate functions and private celebrations. With bespoke menu options, flexible layouts, and attentive service, the hotel provides a refined and distinctive setting for every occasion.
Building on its reputation as one of the city’s most versatile venues, the hotel caters to every part of the day, from morning coffees and relaxed lunches to evening celebrations and overnight stays. The Terrace, with its panoramic views, continues to be a standout spot for stylish, seasonal dining in the heart of Belfast.
Jamie Irrepressible THE IRREPRESSIBLES ANNOUNCESYO HOMO DELUXE
Following the explosive reception of their fourth studio album Yo Homo! - a record hailed as “a milestone in queer indie rock” (WEEKEND) and “a love letter to the openness surrounding sexuality” (AOTY) - Jamie Irrepressible and his genre-defying project The Irrepressibles return with Yo Homo Deluxe, out 29th August 2025 via Of Naked Design Records.
This new edition of Yo Homo! expands the sonic and emotional scope of what has already been called “one of the most innovative and influential albums of today’s landscape” (Rockerilla, Italy), adding new tracks and alternate versions that deepen the record’s radical celebration of queerness, sensuality, and emotional truth.
The deluxe edition of Yo Homo! will be preceded by three brandnew singles, leading up to its release on 29th August. The first, “What I Am, Queer!” arrives on 27th June to mark Pride Month. A bold and defiant anthem, the track serves as a rallying cry for queer self-love and empathy. “It’s about the acceptance of the truth,” says Jamie Irrepressible. “A call for a future beyond tolerance—where empathy and compassion are the answer. As the song says, it’s time we all see that freedom is for everyone.”
Written, composed, and produced by Jamie Irrepressible, Yo Homo! marked a bold shift in tone for The Irrepressibles - one that fused erotic energy with symphonic beauty and punk-rooted fire.
“I wanted to make a record specifically for the queer community,” Jamie explains, “to create a safe space where people feel they are being expressed.”
Building on earlier works like In This Shirt and Two Men in Love, this new era is more direct, more sexual, and more urgent than ever. Songs like Ecstasy Homosexuality, Be Wild, and Will You channel raw desire and emotional honesty into music that spans indie-rock, post-punk, chamber pop, and queer nightlife soundscapes.
YO HOMO DELUXE is not just a collection of songs - it’s a cultural intervention, a queer sound world of bold self-expression, crafted with artistry, intelligence, and love.
NEW SINGLE “WHAT I AM, QUEER!” OUT NOW
Deluxe Edition of Groundbreaking Queer Indie Album Drops 29th August 2025
New Singles Celebrate Pride, Eroticism, and Queer Empowerment
PRIDE READY
Get PRIDE Ready: Must-Haves for the Festival
Pride isn’t just a parade, it’s a full-on celebration of love, community, and fierce self-expression. But with our famously unpredictable weather, you’ll need more than just glitter and good vibes. Editor Daniel May rounds up the ultimate essentials to keep you slaying, rain or shine, at Pride.
While our community shows up bright, bold, and beautifully authentic, Mother Nature doesn’t always get the memo. If you’ve lived in the country more than five minutes, you know we’re often treated to all four seasons before lunch. So how do you serve looks and stay practical?
Worry not, my loves. I’ve got you covered, literally. Here’s my ultimate Pride survival guide, with all the must-haves to keep you slaying, dancing, and dry-ish no matter what the skies throw your way.
1. A Layered Look That Screams Queer Icon
Forget dressing for the weather. Dress for every weather. Start with a breathable base (mesh, anyone?), throw on something fabulous and functional like a rainbow windbreaker, and tie a hoodie around your waist for those inevitable “Why is it suddenly 12 degrees?!” moments.
2. The Mighty Clear Poncho
Unsexy? Maybe. Practical? Hell yes. A clear poncho lets your outfit still shine while keeping you dry when that classic Belfast drizzle turns biblical. Bonus points if you bedazzle it. Pride isn’t the time to blend in.
Pop one in your bag, you’ll thank yourself during the 4PM downpour
3. Waterproof Makeup & Hair Magic
Glitter running down your face like a tragic disco ball? Not this year. Invest in waterproof everything: liner, mascara, foundation. Setting spray is your new best friend.
And hair? Bring backup! A mini styling wax or hair oil will help tame frizz after an unexpected monsoon. Better still, rock a slicked wet-look style from the start and claim it was intentional.
4. Pride Flags and Statement Accessories
Whether you’re waving your Progress flag with pride, rocking a bisexual bandana, or wrapping yourself in a nonbinary cape, accessories are where you bring personal power.
But remember, it’s not just about looking cute. Visibility matters. Pride flags are beautiful, powerful symbols. Be loud with them.
Also: sunglasses (yes, even if it’s grey), bold jewellery, and comfy shoes that still slay. Nobody wants to stomp around in stilettos that feel like medieval torture devices.
5. A Bangin’ Bumbag
You need somewhere to stash your phone, lippy, SPF, ID, and that rogue protein bar you forgot you packed in 2019.
Enter the humble bumbag, hands-free, secure, and available in every shade of queer. Choose one waterproof or at least water-resistant and sling it across your chest for maximum style and practicality.
6. Hydration Station (Because We’re Not 21 Anymore)
Dancing under the sun (or clouds) takes energy and nothing kills a vibe like dehydration. A reusable water bottle (preferably one that clips to your bag or belt) is essential.
Hangover hack: pack a hydration sachet in case the night before gets… celebratory.
7. The Power of Portable Power
Your phone will be hard at it : filming, posting, mapping, WhatsApping, and occasionally finding your friends who “just nipped to the loo” 45 minutes ago.
Don’t let it die on you. A fully charged portable charger is a game-changer. Bonus if it fits in your bumbag and doesn’t weigh a tonne.
8. Your Voice & Your Vibe
This one’s not for your backpack, it’s in your heart. Bring your joy. Your anger. Your truth. Pride is still a protest. It’s about showing up for those who can’t, speaking out against injustice, and claiming space where we haven’t always been made feel welcome.
So whether you’re marching with a banner, in full glorious drag, or simply holding your partner’s hand in public, you are part of something powerful xxx
Daniel’s Honourable Mentions:
- Rainbow Umbrella – serves both drama and dryness.
- Mini First Aid Kit – for blisters, mystery rashes, or glitter-related injuries.
- Respect & Consent – not an item, but a must-have. Don’t touch people’s flags, outfits or bodies without permission.
And finally, Pride is an experience like no other, equal parts joy, resistance, and absolute craic. So pack smart, prep for anything, and let your Pride be as unapologetically fabulous as you are.
I’ll see you in the crowd, probably dancing in the rain, hair a mess, smiling like an eejit and loving every glorious, rainbow-soaked minute.
Happy
Pride
Daniel May, Editor of GNI Magazine
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Voices on the Meaning and Relevance of Pride in 2025
The world feels more divided and more connected than ever before. In Northern Ireland and beyond, queer visibility has made great strides but with ongoing global setbacks, political pushbacks, and a rise in anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric, it’s fair to ask: is Pride still needed? We asked people from across our LGBTQIA+ community to share what Pride means to them today, personally, professionally, and politically. Their responses are honest, heartfelt, and unapologetically proud.
Pride to me personally is a beautiful wonderful special occasion that I hold with in my heart so proudly as a man from West Belfast but also as one of Northern Ireland longest standing Drag-Queens I’ve seen so many changes over the years one of the most beautiful changes I’ve seen was with the peace process and now nearly 30 years after that I have to say one word that Sums everything up for the first 25 years of my life while I seen what I experienced what I went through now it’s just BEAUTIFUL . Pride has also changed and it’s also even more beautiful than it was before it’s bigger, and it’s also spectacular because it’s Belfast Pride it’s just simply the best. I’m so proud of myself but I could never have been my true authentic self without my brothers and sisters throughout all of the years as a gay man and as a drag queen although I’m a little bit older now and somewhat a little bit wiser and have seen so many different changes have been embraced every single one of them because I’m glad nothing stays the same except for one thing Community spirit and that is the one thing that we will always hold onto to fight for and cherish and we will never ever let that go because together showing our love devotion and hope is a big enough light to the rest of the world that of Belfast can do it than any county in the world can do it.
Pride is needed more than ever. Seeing the global wave of increasing far-right views is concerning and I feel that there has been a significant shift in support for the LGBTQ+ community - online trolling and hatred, the recent Supreme Court ruling, companies stepping away from pride endorsements. I think that it’s healthy to step away the online world and have a moment to breathe and just remember that online can is not reality and that the real world is actually more tolerant and caring. Getting caught up in the toxicity of online hate can be very unhealthy. It’s important to remember that we always have each other. There is power in numbers. We will never go backwards. Only forwards. Never take for granted what has been achieved so far. We have come a long way and will continue to fight for our LGBTQ+ siblings across the world - not just during pride month, but all year round. Happy Pride.
Tina Legs - Drag Artist
Conleth Kane - Singer/Song Writer
Alexa Moore Policy, Campaigns and Communications Manager - The Rainbow Project
“In recent years, Pride marches have been banned in places like Hungary, LGBTQIA+ people have experienced a severe clampdown in Ghana, and closer to home the rights of transgender communities to fully exist in society and access appropriate care are being curtailed. At a time when LGBTQIA+ rights are under immense pressure locally and around the world, Pride is a vital coming together of our communities, in celebration and in protest, recognising our successes and how far we have to go.”
Eddie
McGuinness, aka Mr Pride Festival Director The Outing
In 2025, pride remains essential as a celebration of identity, resilience, and progress. It fosters acceptance, promotes equality, and empowers marginalised communities. Personally, pride means embracing my authentic self and honouring my journey. Professionally, it signifies commitment to diversity and inclusion, creating supportive environments. Pride reminds us to stand against discrimination, recognise achievements, and continue advocating for equal rights, ensuring everyone can live authentically and with dignity. Plus, it is a time to shine as yourself all under a Rainbow
Performer - CJ Summer”
“Pride will always be important until there is no judgement or discrimination against our community. We must always let love lead because love always wins. Protect our Trans Brothers & Sisters, and let love lead the way. Have an amazing and safe Pride, wherever you are �� -
John Taggart - Shop Owner - Lwr Ormeau
Pride is still so important because it reminds us to stand tall in who we are and to honour those who came before us, the brave individuals who challenged society, and even their own families, to show that we are born this way. They paved the road so we could live openly and authentically.
Being proud of who you are isn’t just a message for one month a year — it’s a mindset for life. Don’t hide or shrink yourself to fit in. We’re all beautifully unique, and Pride encourages us to celebrate that truth. Be yourself, unapologetically. That’s why Pride still matters.”
Sharleen and Debz - couple previously featured in our Big Day
We are proud because everyone should have the right to love the person they love, without shame and prejudice. The more numbers supporting the pride family, shows queers don’t need to hide away anymore, and can be accepted in the world we all love and share. So on pride day we will hold our heads up high, and wave our rainbow flags, for all the queers of today, and the youth to come tomorrow.
Leo Lardie, Director of Trans Pride Northern Ireland
With our rights and existence constantly under attack and up for debate – there’s a constant feeling of dread within the trans, non-binary and gender diverse community. Trans Pride on Saturday 13th September for me is about building our resilience. To feel emboldened by the strength, joy and diversity within our community and its allies. To remember that this community is worth fighting for, and that someone is fighting for you.
When a same sex couple can walk down the street holding hands and get have abuse shouted at them. When a trans person can live the life that makes them happy in peace, then pride won’t be needed. The fight to be treated as equals is never ending, and as long as we have hate in the world against our community, we will gather with love and protest and celebrate pride.
Conor Ross - Photography
Pride for me, is about more than just being comfortable with my sexuality or gender; it’s about embracing who I am fully, as a person, in my own skin. It’s about celebrating individuality while also being part of a beautiful, vibrant community.
Pride is our time to share our stories & listen to others. It’s a journey of self-discovery, of surrounding yourself with the people who uplift you & who you, in turn, uplift.
It’s about learning to love yourself, to be unapologetically you & to show up as your best self. No judgment. Just love. Just you.
Jordon Ewart -
Performer
To me, Pride is a protest—alive in everyday moments, in quiet acts of bravery. It’s found in claiming space and choosing to be visible in a world that hasn’t always welcomed us. Pride isn’t always loud, but it is always powerful. It’s the courage to live and love openly, and the promise of a world where every person can stand tall and be unapologetically themselves.
Until that freedom exists, Pride is and will always be needed.
Jonathon Bennett - Belfast Cheesecake Co Owner
Pride is important as it shows people in the LGBTQ+ community that you are not alone. Pride shows that when people live authentically and proudly, we are showing younger generations that they can grow up with less fear and more freedom. We still have to fight for our rights and don’t have to hide anymore. Be proud of who you are!!
Dr Bryan Murphy Consultant Dermatologist
Pride for me signifies a time for friendship and gratitude for how much the world has grown in accepting the LGBT+ community, albeit many countries and places still lag behind. Professionally, Pride shines all year around in providing an inclusive, respectful and safe clinic space for ALL patients to attend with their skin concerns. This year I look forward to enjoying quality time with those I love, my partner and our 2 dogs. Happy Pride 2025!
Onya Becks - Drag Artist
Happy Pride from Onya Becks!
Theatre
UNITE
Unite the Union was formed in 2007 through the merger of TGWU and Amicus. From the beginning Equalities have been at the heart of the union and LGBT committees were formed in each of the union’s 10 regions along with a National LGBT committee. These were later renamed LGBT+ committees.
The Ireland region covers the whole island and is overseen by the Irish Executive Committee, a seat on this committee is reserved for a representative from the Regional LGBT+ committee. This structure is replicated in all the other regions.
There is also a seat for a representative from the National LGBT+ committees on the National Executive Committee which oversees the working of the union.
The committees are formed of members of the union, fitting with the principles of a lay member lead organisation. They are supported by a Regional Women and Equalities Officer employed by the union. This structure ensures that issues raised in the workplace quickly gets identified by the union representative that sit on the Regional committees and gets brought to the attention of the officer.
The committees operate on a three year cycle, recently we had our triennial Regional LGBT+ Conference and elected a new chair, Brendan Donnelly for the 2025-2028 period. Brendan works for the Belfast Health and Social Care Trust within their Haematology and Blood Transfusion Project. Francis Loughlin was re-elected as the LGBT+ representative on the Irish Executive Committee. Taryn Trainor is our Regional Women’s and Equalities Officer and works closely with the committee.
Unite are committed to having LGBT+ members visible at all levels within the union.
We are a campaigning union and locally the Irish Regional LGBT+ committee has taken an active role in supporting many campaigns including Equal Marriage, Blood Donation Ban, Banning Conversion Therapy and more recently the Puberty Blocker Ban for Trans young people. Our postcard campaigns have been effective at raising issues with local and national governments as well as the general public.
Unite has supported local Prides including sponsoring rural prides, helping them to become established. Members of our Irish RLGBT+ Committee have spoken at various local prides and at the Trans Right rally in Belfast in May 2025.
The message we want to make clear to all LGBT+ workers is that you are never alone, we will stand by you, in your workplace, in your community, and when you are accessing public and commercial services.
Unite has made a commitment to the Trans community in light of the recent Supreme Court’s ruling. Our stance is clear, we are all human beings, and no one should have their human rights dismissed because they don’t fit into an archaic, inaccurate, unscientific, binary system.
There is a sustained campaign of misinformation and demonisation in parts of the media, in parts of our communities, in parts of our workplaces and in our governments.
This has created increased public confusion and fear towards transgender rights.
We want to assure every trans, nonbinary and intersex person that the trade union movement is not a bystander; we are a vital line of defence and a powerful engine for progress. Our movement has a proud history of fighting for equality for all marginalised groups,
As part of our bargaining with employers Unite the Union will
• demand comprehensive trans, nonbinary and intersex inclusive policies in every workplace. This includes policies on transitioning at work, the use of correct names and pronouns, inclusive dress codes, and access to appropriate facilities.
• We will ensure that our collective agreements explicitly protect against discrimination based on gender identity.
• If an employer offers healthcare plans, we will ensure those plans cover gender-affirming care, helping to mitigate the impact of NHS waiting lists.
• We will continue to educate our members, reps, and employers. We will challenge myths, allay fears and
counteract misinformation with facts and empathy.
• We will create spaces for dialogue while firmly upholding trans, nonbinary and intersex people’s right to exist and be respected.
• We will promote understanding of non-binary identities and the importance of gender-neutral language.
• We will lobby for stronger legal protections and resist any detrimental amendments to Equality legislation.
• We will support and amplify the voices of trans, non-binary and intersex led organisations.
• We will visibly stand in solidarity – attending Prides, including Trans Pride, supporting campaigns, and using our platforms to counter hostile narratives.
• We will make sure that our trans, non-binary and intersex members are visible and represented at all levels of our union
• We will create genuinely safe and inclusive spaces within our meetings, conferences, and casework.
• Internationally, we will build and strengthen links with trade unions and LGBTQ+ activists.
Everyone has the right to work, and the right to a safe workplace where they are respected, acknowledged and welcomed for who they are.
We will fight against any employer, any workplace, any worker who fails to treat with respect any trans, non-binary or intersex worker.
Unite has comprehensive support materials for our workplace reps and employers covering issues affecting LGBT+ workers. Workplace reps receive training on how to use these materials as part of their induction. There is additional training for equalities reps to ensure they are equipped to support any LGBT+ worker with any issues at work.
Unite have recently published a LGBT+ History Timeline covering the period from 1967, when the first partial decriminalisation of sexual activity between men in England and Wales became law, through to 2024. Throughout this time Unite and our former unions were active in advancing LGBT+ rights within the workplace and in wider society.
To join Unite go to www.unitetheunion. org and click on “Join Now”. For further information on our campaigns locally call Unite on 028 9023 2381 if you are in Northern Ireland or 01 873 4577 if you are in the Republic of Ireland.
Article writing by Francis Loughlin, a long time Unite activist especially for LGBT+ rights.
Equality for all Unite supporting Pride
we are at a crossroads
The LGBTQIA+ movement is one of the most successful social movements there has ever been. In less than two generations, billions have been taken out of criminalisation, and millions into having rights. Since 1999, 40 countries have decriminalised same-sex acts, 34 countries have brought in same-sex marriage, 32 countries have recognized same-sex unions, and 23 have enacted gender recognition laws.
The successes of this movement have been astronomical – but not inevitable. It relied on countless LGBTQIA+ people standing up, being loud and proud, and taking action. Whether by taking to the streets, forming campaign groups and organisations, engaging international human rights mechanism, taking legal cases, or using their voices and stories to change hearts and minds across society, LGBTQIA+ individuals across the world have played their part in making that change.
Progress does not happen by accident. It happens through all of these actions, large and small, building a broad-based and impactful movement for change. Are you part of that movement?
Over the past few decades, the UK and Ireland have seen a sea-change in both the public attitudes towards and the rights held by LGBTQIA+ communities. LGBTQIA+ people achieved the right to have their unions recognised as civil partnerships and, eventually, as marriages, with the Republic of Ireland being the first country in the world to legalise same-sex marriage by national referendum. In 2004, trans people in the UK gained the right to change their legal sex, and in 2015, Ireland introduced groundbreaking legislation enabling that change through a simple administrative procedure. This came alongside a host of meaningful changes across these jurisdictions, including improving inclusion in education, access to sports and leisure, increasing ability for LGBTQA+ couples to adopt and foster, and removing the ban on gay and bisexual men donating blood.
Locally, the picture has been more complex, and often the fight for equality has met more embedded resistance. Pre-devolution Northern Ireland was the last part of the UK to partially decriminalise homosexuality in 1982. Equalisation of the age of consent in 2000; gender recognition and civil partnerships in 2004; and more recently same-sex marriage in 2020 were all delivered by Westminster. Northern Ireland was once again the last jurisdiction in the UK to allow same-sex couples to adopt, a change which followed a lengthy legal process all the way to the Supreme Court.
In recent years pardons for historical convictions and the final lifting of the gay blood ban are two
areas where the Assembly and Executive have delivered small but significant improvements to the lives of LGBTQIA+ people. Outside of these small, but vital, elements of progress, both the Assembly and Executive in Northern Ireland have consistently failed to spearhead rights and equality for LGBTQIA+ people.
The overall picture is this: in the delivery of important milestones that have progressed LGBTQIA+ people’s rights, Stormont has been largely late, absent, or in opposition.
Nevertheless, and in spite of this record, LGBTQIA+ people across Northern Ireland have persisted. Not only did we persist, we have built community, we have created space for ourselves in our towns and cities, we have spread the message of equality and inclusion across Northern Ireland through the now ten Pride festivals which take place across the region. And importantly, we have made some vital progress through harnessing that community and that movement to create change.
We’ve now had almost a year and a half since the restoration of a devolved Assembly and of a power sharing Northern Ireland Executive. The mechanisms that are needed to make progress here, in this place, are now once again available to us. But while the mechanisms are there, we also need the will. In the past, these mechanisms have not been used to make this positive change, and we have been forced to rely on Westminster to progress legislation for us. Now, with the Westminster Government taking an increasingly hostile approach to LGBTQIA+ rights and inclusion, it is even more imperative that individuals within the Executive and Assembly, across all parties, who are allied to LGBTQIA+ communities in our fight for equality, make the case for and put the work into meaningfully progressing these rights for LGBTQIA+ people and for all marginalised groups.
In early May, ILGA Europe published its annual Rainbow Map, which assesses each individual state’s position with regards to the rights and equality of LGBTQIA+ people living within them. This ranking takes into account issues such as freedom from state violence, legal rights and recognition, access to gender affirming healthcare, the ability of same sex couples to formalise their relationship and to adopt children, among many other factors. Two key themes stood out.
The first is that of the UK’s rapid descent. At the beginning of the Rainbow Map project, and for the two years following, the UK sat proudly at the number one spot, falling to number 3 in 2015, and beginning a further rapid descent in 2020 to now sit at number 22, between Estonia and Andorra.
The second is the wider European and global trend of stagnating progress, and in some areas regression. Commenting on the release of the Rainbow Map, ILGA-Europe Advocacy Director Katrin Hugendubel said that “moves in the UK, Hungary, Georgia and beyond signal not just isolated regressions, but a coordinated global backlash aimed at erasing LGBTI rights, cynically framed as the defence of tradition or public stability, but in reality designed to entrench discrimination and suppress dissent.”
In Northern Ireland this global anti-LGBTQIA+ pushback has manifested in a doubling down of culture wars, particularly from those who have long opposed our rights. Since the restoration of devolved governance, we have unfortunately seen Executive Departments, including for instance the Department for Communities, abandoning or mothballing previous commitments to advance LGBTQIA+ rights including a ban on conversion practices and a long awaited LGBTQIA+ social inclusion strategy. Others, such as the Education Minister, have promised to “implement the Supreme Court judgment” within schools, whatever that might mean, while the Health Minister has halted any further trans inclusion policy development within local health Trusts and across his Department.
But our communities aren’t taking these culture wars lying down. In the week following the Supreme Court judgment, over 4000 emails were sent to MLAs using our campaign action, urging them to defend the rights of trans people in Northern Ireland. We raised nearly £7000, which we have funnelled into our services and our campaigns, creating more counselling capacity to address the rapidly increasing need and investing in our work to create visible, impactful campaigns over the Pride season. ROSA Northern Ireland organised a rally which we spoke at in support of trans rights, bringing members of the LGBTQIA+ community and our allies out into the streets in a demonstration of clear support for our trans siblings.
It’s down to all of us to continue taking action, keeping up-to-date with developments and being ready to respond when rights are attacked. It’s down to all of us to have conversations, meeting people where they are at and working hard to change hearts and minds within our communities, our workplaces, our families. It’s down to all of us to do the legwork to bring about the change that we need.
The movement for LGTBQIA+ equality is not going away. We are at a crossroads, and we’re choosing the road forward, towards a future where all LGBTQIA+ people are treated with dignity and respect, are supported to be themselves and able to realise their potential.
BEYOND BINARY
To exist openly as a trans or non-binary person in Northern Ireland today is to walk a road filled with courage, complexity, and resilience. While progress has certainly been made, our trans siblings still face immense barriers, not only in legislation and healthcare but in public understanding and everyday life.
As Pride flags wave from government buildings and Instagram feeds overflow with rainbow graphics, we must ask: what does genuine inclusion look like for our trans and non-binary community here in Northern Ireland?
This feature doesn’t aim to speak for trans people, it aims to amplify their voices, reflect their realities, and help build the kind of awareness that leads to action.
Northern Ireland lags behind much of the UK and Ireland when it comes to legal recognition and healthcare for transgender people. While the Gender Recognition Act (2004) applies here, the process is outdated, deeply medicalised, and still excludes non-binary individuals entirely.
As of 2025, you still can’t self-declare your gender. You need a diagnosis of gender dysphoria, two medical reports, and to have lived “in your acquired gender” for two years. For many, this feels invasive, dehumanising, and completely detached from the lived realities of gender diversity.
Meanwhile, trans healthcare through the NHS in Northern Ireland is in crisis. The waiting time for a first appointment at the Brackenburn Clinic, the only gender identity service has grown beyond five years. For trans youth, services are virtually non-existent. Many are forced to travel to England, pay privately, or wait in limbo.
And yet, within this tough terrain, hope blooms.
Grassroots groups like Trans Pride NI and Mermaids are providing community care where the system fails. They’re offering peer support, organising events, advocating politically, and fighting for funding.
The Power of Visibility
Visibility is a double-edged sword. On one hand, it offers hope — trans people seeing themselves in local media, on TV, and even in public life. On the other hand, it often comes with exposure to abuse.
Transphobia is on the rise across the UK. Media outlets — both national and local — continue to run stories framing trans existence as a “debate.” Online harassment, particularly targeting trans women and non-binary people, is relentless.
Here in Northern Ireland, being visibly trans in public still carries risk. Many report stares, misgendering, or worse. But they also report moments of solidarity: the kind shop assistant who asked what pronouns to use, the friend who corrected someone mid-sentence, the employer who updated systems to include genderneutral options.
These everyday affirmations matter.
And then there are the trailblazers — like Ellen Murray, founder of GenderJam, who in 2016 became the first openly trans person to stand for election in Northern Ireland. Or Noah Halpin, a non-binary activist originally from Newry, now campaigning in the Republic for better healthcare access.
Their visibility paves the way for others to follow — not because they should have
to be “role models,” but because simply living authentically here is still, in itself, radical.
Stories from the Community
Ryan (he/they), 26, Belfast:
“I came out as trans five years ago, and I’m still waiting for my first appointment. I was told to ‘live as a man’ for two years — but what does that even mean? I’m doing my best, but it’s exhausting having to prove who I am to be taken seriously.”
Aoife (she/her), 42, Derry:
“I transitioned later in life. It was hard — for me, for my family, for my job. But I wouldn’t change it for the world. I’ve lost people along the way, but I’ve also found myself. Pride for me is about honouring that journey.”
Maya (they/them), 18, Newry:
“I’m non-binary and out at school. It’s not always easy. I still get called the wrong name by some teachers. But my friends are amazing, and I’m part of our school’s LGBTQ+ group. I know I’m not alone — and that makes a huge difference.”
These voices echo across Northern Ireland — each story unique, but all tied together by a thread of authenticity, bravery, and a hunger to be seen.
A call for Change
Change is possible — but it requires more than platitudes during Pride Month.
Here’s what the trans and non-binary community in NI urgently needs:
• Healthcare reform — Reduce waiting times, decentralise services, and ensure access for young people and non-binary individuals.
• Legal recognition — Introduce self-ID and legal recognition for non-binary genders.
• Inclusive education — From primary school onward, gender diversity should be included in the curriculum.
• Safe spaces — Increase funding for queer youth groups, community hubs, and mental health support.
• Media accountability — Stop framing trans rights as controversial and start centring trans voices in reporting.
For allies reading this, the ask is simple: Listen. Learn. Speak up. Trans people shouldn’t have to do all the work.
Looking Ahead: A Future Beyond the Binary
Northern Ireland’s LGBTQIA+ movement has come a long way, but we cannot celebrate progress for some while others are left behind.
A truly inclusive Pride — and a truly inclusive society — means making space for everyone under the rainbow, especially those whose identities disrupt the status quo.
Being trans or non-binary isn’t a trend, or a phase, or a theory. It’s real. It’s human. It’s beautiful.
As one activist put it at last year’s Trans Pride in Belfast: “We exist. We’ve always existed. And we’re not going anywhere.”
Let’s ensure that our movement, our media, and our politics rise to meet that truth.
queer summer guide
What’s on across NI this pride
season
Summer in Northern Ireland is short, sweet, and for the LGBTQIA+ community — absolutely packed. From vibrant Pride parades to inclusive family days, drag brunches, queer beach parties and community picnics, this season is bursting with reasons to show up, stand out, and connect.
Whether you’re in the heart of Belfast or tucked away in a coastal town, there’s something for everyone. So grab your glitter and calendar — this is your Ultimate Queer Summer Guide for 2025.
Pride Events Across Northern Ireland
Belfast Pride – 19th–27th July
Parade Day: Saturday 26th July
The biggest LGBTQIA+ event in Northern Ireland returns with its iconic parade, Pride Village, and a packed week of events — from panel discussions to parties. Expect tens of thousands on the streets and a huge show of support across the city.
Foyle Pride – 19th–25th August, Derry/ Londonderry
Parade Day: Saturday 23rd August
Foyle Pride is a gem — full of heart, community,
and radical spirit. With a beautiful parade along the city walls and a mix of cultural, educational and youth-led events, this is one not to skip.
Newry Pride – Saturday 30th August
Still growing, still fierce. Expect a tight-knit but energetic celebration, with support from local community groups and businesses. Keep an eye on Newry Rainbow Community for full details.
Other Prides to Watch:
- Causeway Coast Pride (Portrush) – 2nd August
- Lurgan Pride - 16th August
- Fermanagh Pride - 6th September
- Trans Pride - 13th September
Queer-Friendly Summer Events & Pop-Ups
Belfast Pride Arts Festival (Mid-July)
In collaboration with the MAC, Black Box, and Outburst Arts — exhibitions, spoken word nights, and film screenings.
Outburst Queer Summer Takeover
A mini “Summer Takeover” ahead of its festival in November — live music, immersive performance, and bold queer storytelling.
Open Mic Nights & Queer Cabaret
Weekly nights at Maverick, Cabaret Supperclub and the Sunflower Pub — poetry, punk, drag and more.
Community First: Safe & Supportive Spaces Drop-In & Chill Zones
- The Rainbow Project
- HERe NI
- Cara-Friend
- LGBTQIA+ Switchboard NI: 0808 8000 390
- Lifeline NI: 0808 808 8000
Celebrate, Connect, Be Proud
This summer in Northern Ireland, Pride is everywhere. Whether you’re marching through Belfast, picnicking in Portstewart, or belting show tunes in a queer cabaret, your presence matters.
Pride is what we make it, loud or quiet, urban or rural, danced out or chilled out. However you choose to show your colours, know that you are part of a vibrant, growing, resilient community that refuses to be invisible.
So grab your mates, charge your phone, and get stuck in, this summer belongs to us.
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Paul & Robin
From the very first moments of Out and Active, Paul and Robin have been at its heart.
They’re not just long standing members but a reminder of why this group was created in the first place. I still remember attending my first two events and how much their warmth shaped my experience, making me feel genuinely welcomed and inspiring me to keep coming back.
Robin, with his love of pop music that I could have spent days talking about, infectious laugh and his award winning smile that instantly lights up any room. And Paul, with his calm presence, open nature, and quiet kindness, has a way of making everyone feel at home. They’re a beautiful team, but what makes them truly special is that, as individuals, they’re just as remarkable.
I’m confident that if you were to ask any member about Paul and Robin, you’d hear the same sentiment. Together, their humour and heart have become part of the very fabric of our community.
Paul and Robin are a testament to the fact that Out and Active is made special by its members. In this Pride edition, we’re honoured to share their story, reminding us all what it means to live openly, love fully, and support one another every step of the way.
What does pride mean to you?
It’s a celebration of how far our community has come but also a reminder of the struggles and protests of the past. We also feel that it’s also an opportunity for our community and our allies to stand with those who are increasingly marginalised and to provide a safe space where everyone is free to be their authentic selves.
When you think about your journey personally, as a couple and in community, what makes you proudest?
Robin: For me, I’m really proud of the strong support network we had around us from day 1 as a couple. My friends and family were immediately desperate to meet Paul and find out everything about him. But I’m also very proud of everything we’ve achieved together in 8 years, we’ve supported each other during some really hard times and encouraged each other to be the best version of ourselves during incredibly good times. We’re very different to each other but I think that has made us a very strong team. I’m also proud that I didn’t leave Paul when he couldn’t name all 5 members of Steps.
Paul: I’m proudest of our relationship. We’ve seen each other through some really tough times and have become a rock for the other to rely on in those times of need. Like all couples, we have our good days and our bad days but I think those bad days are what has made us stronger and shaped who we’ve become.
What inspired you to join out and active?
Please note, this column is the opinion of the columinst and not that of GNI or Romeo & Julian Publiccations Ltd.
I really wanted to try new things and do something different with my weekends. People say it’s hard to make new friends in your thirties, but Out and Active provided the perfect outlet for me to do just that. It’s provided me with a sense community and belonging that I didn’t I know I was missing. Paul went to the first event and then he convinced me to go to the next one and I’m so glad he did. Although we’re both part of Out and Active, we don’t always go to the same events and when we do, we end up talking to different people. Someone even said that it took them ages to work out we were a couple because they never saw us together!
Paul: Out & Active was the first LGBTQ+ (and allies) friendly social group I’d noticed that didn’t involve alcohol. I don’t drink and have often found myself on the edge of events or leaving early on nights out due to that. I really liked the thought
Robin: For me it was a number of things all coming together at once. I was at a stage in my life where a lot of my friends were starting families, and then after a cancer diagnosis
of getting to build a community outside of that and to try new activities that I otherwise would have been too scared to sign up to.
What do you think is special about inclusive spaces like out and active, especially in a time when visibility and support
feeling of strength and confidence to be in an inclusive space where everyone else understands what it’s like to be ‘different’. When you’re walking around Belfast in a small group there’s still that fear someone will shout something hateful or bigoted which will ruin your day. But when we’re in an inclusive space and hiking up a mountain with 50 LGBTQ+ people (and allies), all those fears disappear. There is strength in numbers and having that many people around you at an event can really make you feel supported and visible.
Moment with O&A that made you feel proud to be part of the LGBTQ+ community
Paul: If I have to pick just one, it would be from the Traitors event. Throughout the mind games, accusations and lies everyone was constantly checking in with each other and providing a supportive environment for people to express fears, stresses and anxieties. It was an incredible experience to both watch and participate in and one I’ll never forget. I’m a reasonably anxious individual and yet not once did I feel anxious (other than about being murdered!) over the course of the weekend which I think was testament to the collection of individuals there and their consideration of others. Robin: The first one that came to mind for me was also the Traitors weekend. It was a moment where I felt really included within the community. Beforehand I was nervous about silly things like bunk beds and sharing rooms with people I didn’t really know and I was also anxious about active team tasks, with those “school residential” memories coming back. But the sense of community and support was so strong, hearing people cheering your name in the task drowned out those old PE days of being last to be picked for the
team and sitting in our bunks chatting about pop culture like JADE’s Brits performance or Nadine and Cheryl’s best bits made me feel so proud and excited to be part of the LGBTQ+ community.
Is there a message you’d want to give to anyone still looking for personal connections through community?
To anyone looking for a sense of community Out and Active is an excellent safe space to explore what those connections might look like. There’s a wide range of people, activities, and opportunities to connect with other networks and like minded people. We know it can be scary trying new things and turning up to group activities when you don’t know anyone, but you can be sure that Out and Active members will give you a warm welcome and you won’t feel like an outsider.
And finally… What is your favourite thing about the other and why?
Robin: Let me just open my wedding vows here for a reminder… just kidding. Paul is naturally a very patient, thoughtful and selfless person, I see it with his friends when they need advice and he is the first person most of them turn to. He will try to make time for everyone, even to the detriment of his own downtime. When he sees that life is stressing me out, he’ll patiently listen to my problems and help me solve them one by one.
Paul: I love his passion. When Robin is into something, he goes all in. It’s really quite inspirational, even if it does mean that I now know more about the history of Steps and Girls Aloud than I ever thought I would. I also love his confidence. In most cases there’s zero hesitation to do something or to get involved and it encourages me to do the same.
Paul and Robin embody everything Out and Active stands for inclusion, belonging, connection, and pride. It simply wouldn’t be the same without them. From the entire Out and Active Committee, thank you both for all that you do.
Written by Sinead Ross
Photographs by Conor Ross Photography
Maldron Hotel Belfast City...
10 things you didn’t know but totally should
When you think ‘city centre hotel’ you probably picture somewhere functional, a place to drop your bags and crash after a night out. Maldron Belfast City Centre is serving up so much more than just a comfy bed and a fry-up. They’re a hidden gem, with heartwarming service and those little luxuries that will make your city break sparkle.
Here are 10 things you (probably) didn’t know, and we are ready to spill the tea:
ONE
They’re Right in the Heart of the Action –Seriously central. Two minutes from City Hall. 3Three minutes from the Grand Opera House. 10 Ten minutes from your favourite brunch spots. And yes, stumbling distance from your post-pride bar crawl. Location = Iconic.
TWO
They’ve Quietly Been Supporting Pride for Years - Whether it’s flying the flag, sponsoring events, or hosting LGBTQIA+ guests, Maldron is a proud ally. The Dalata Hotel Group celebrates equality, individuality, and identity.
THREE
Their Staff Are Trained in Inclusivity – The Team = your new besties. They offer a genuine safe space with a warm, welcoming team that understands diversity. Shoutout to Stacy and the crew at the Front Desk who make everyone feel like a star.
FOUR
They Cater to Drag Queens, Couples, and Queer Families Alike - Spacious rooms, flexible bookings, and the occasional stiletto emergency solved by the front desk. Bring the whole chosen family!
FIVE
They Offer Amazing Breakfasts (Even If You’re Hanging from the Night Before) – Whether you have been dancing ‘til dawn or up early for a meeting, they’ve got your back the next morning. The Vitality Breakfast is packed with goodness. Feeling too fragile to leave your room? They have thought of that too. Now you can Pre-order one of their Recovery Bags. They will deliver it straight to your door for 10am. Packed with the essentials to help you feel human again, Bacon Roll, Snacks and Hydration included. You’re Welcome.
SIX
They’re More Sustainable Than You Think – Being green isn’t just trendy, its essential. They have earned a Gold Green Tourism Award for doing sustainability the right way.
Think smart energy use, reducing waste and locally sourced ingredients. Staying with them means treating yourself and Mother Earth. Glam and Green!
SEVEN
You Can Host LGBTQIA+ Events Here – They have two spacious meeting rooms catering for up to 80 delegates. Perfect for your queer networking events, book launches or even board meetings. Free Wi-Fi, fab coffee, and natural daylight. There is no corporate gloom here.
EIGHT
They’ve Got AMAZING Cocktails – The Bar is where relaxed evenings begin. Or end. Whether its pre-dinner bubbles, a cocktail tree for six or a quiet pint with your partner, they have got you covered. Cheers to that!
NINE
Our Coffee Deserves its Own Instagram – Forget bland hotel brews. Red Bean Roastery serves rich, barista-crafted coffee that will give you life after a night of dancing (or parenting) We see you, tired Queens and Kings.
TEN
They’re More Than Just a Hotel - A Belfast base for Pride goers, a meeting spot for queer creatives, and a supporter of the community year-round. Their hearts are always open, and they aim to make every single person feel right at home, because that is what hospitality is all about.
This summer, Pride 2025 invites us to do more than celebrate — it calls us to act. Under the theme “Take PRIDE in your sexual health”, the campaign urges individuals, organisations, and communities to talk openly about sexual health, tackle stigma, and support one another in making informed, empowered choices. That message couldn’t come at a more critical time.
Recent figures from Northern Ireland’s Department of Health reveal a concerning drop in public understanding of HIV and wider sexual health. Just 87% of people here say they’ve heard of HIV — down from 94% five years ago. Among 16–34-year-olds, that figure falls further to just 82%.
Even more alarmingly, fewer than 1 in 3 people are aware that someone on effective HIV treatment cannot pass the virus on sexually — a transformative fact known as U=U (Undetectable = Untransmittable). Nearly 1 in 10 still believe HIV can be transmitted through kissing. And only 17% have heard of PrEP — the preventative medication that can stop HIV altogether.
These figures aren’t just statistics. They reflect a lack of open, honest conversation about sexual health. And they are having real consequences.
At Positive Life, we witness the effects of this silence every day. Too many people living with HIV continue to feel isolated, ashamed,
POSITIVE LIFE why taking pride in your sexual health matters more than ever
By Jacquie Richardson, CEO of Positive Life NI
or afraid to share their status. Some delay testing or treatment out of fear and stigma. Others never tell their closest friends or family. When sexual health remains a taboo subject, misinformation thrives, prevention efforts falter, and people — especially young people — fall through the cracks.
Talk openly. Live openly. That’s one of the most powerful messages of this year’s Pride campaign — and it’s a message we help bring to life, every single day.
At Positive Life , we create the space for those open, honest, and sometimes difficult conversations. Through our peer support services, community outreach, and one-toone advocacy, we provide safe, non-judgemental environments where people can ask questions, share experiences, and access trusted information.
Whether it’s someone newly diagnosed with HIV, a young person exploring PrEP, or someone struggling with internalised stigma, our team is there — listening, informing, and empowering.
And this work has never been more urgent.
Young people are growing up in a landscape where sexual health education is inconsistent and awareness is declining. Department of Health data confirms it: knowledge of HIV prevention is slipping, and vital tools like PrEP remain unknown by far too many. In fact, HIV awareness among 16–34-year-olds is significantly
lower now than it was just five years ago.
We must do better — and it starts with conversation.
Good sexual health doesn’t flourish in silence. It thrives when people — especially younger people — feel safe and supported to speak up, learn, and take ownership of their wellbeing. That’s exactly what Positive Life exists to provide.
We are prevention in action. We create and sustain the conversations that challenge stigma, build knowledge, and lead to better outcomes — but we cannot do it without continued investment.
Because sexual health is health. Treating it as secondary — or ignoring it altogether — doesn’t just harm LGBTQ+ communities or people living with HIV. It weakens our entire health system, drives up long-term costs, and puts decades of progress at risk.
This Pride, let’s ensure it’s understood that good sexual health is for everyone and that inclusion is more than a buzzword.
Let’s have the hard conversations. Let’s share facts, not fear. Let’s empower the next generation — those most at risk of being left behind — to take charge of their sexual health with confidence and dignity.
Because empowering individuals, especially young people, is how we dismantle stigma and misinformation. It’s how we end
new HIV transmissions by 2030. And it’s how we build a society where everyone — no matter their gender, sexuality or status — feels seen, supported, and safe.
So yes, let’s celebrate Pride. Let’s be visible, joyful, and proud.
But let’s also be honest, informed, and unafraid to say what still needs to change.
Taking PRIDE in your sexual health isn’t just about you.
It’s about building a culture of care, openness, and action — for all of us.
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Jacquie Richardson is the CEO of Positive Life NI, Northern Ireland’s only charity dedicated to supporting people living with and affected by HIV.
By Jacquie Richardson, CEO of Positive Life NI
Take PRIDE in Your Sexual Health Get Tested and Know Your Status
Getting tested for HIV is an important step towards the World Health Organisation’s target of “Zero new HIV diagnoses by 2030”
Everyone who is sexually active should get tested for HIV and other STI’s regularly regardless of gender or sexual orientation.
Lauren My Story
Hi everyone, it’s great to be back! It’s been a while since I last wrote an article, so I thought now would be a good time to share an update on what’s been happening in my world. In my previous piece, I opened up about becoming Lauren and the emotions that came with that journey. I shared what it was like to come out at work and to friends, and I also talked about the referral process that marked the beginning of my medical transition.
For those who don’t know me and are reading about me for the first time, hi, I’m Lauren. I’m an open and proud transgender woman, and I’ve been living as my true, authentic self since 2020, the year the world shut down due to COVID.
Coming out as a transgender woman was one of the scariest things I’ve ever done. And in today’s climate, living openly as a trans person comes with many challenges. Some say you need to have thick skin to survive as a trans person, but it really shouldn’t have to be that way.
A lot has happened over the past few years. I am an award winning inspirational role model, I’ve had gender reassignment surgery, I’ve grown much closer to my mum, made amazing new friends, stepped into the world of performance on stage, changed jobs, and, most importantly, I’m living my best life.
In the next few paragraphs, I’ll take you through some of the key highlights of this incredible journey.
The key major milestone I want to talk about is my gender reassignment surgery.
This took place at the Nuffield Hospital in Brighton on March 8, 2024, which, quite fittingly, was International Women’s Day. It was a huge step for me, and one I chose to take privately due to the long NHS waiting times for this type of surgery.
The lead-up to surgery required a lot of mental preparation. I had to undergo several in-depth assessments and referrals with specialists to ensure I was emotionally and mentally ready to make such a life-changing, informed decision. During these sessions, we had deep conversations about the trauma I was experiencing in relation to certain parts of my body, and I shared my hopes and expectations for what surgery would bring.
I was fully aware of the risks going into the procedure, including the possibility of needing a second surgery if things didn’t go as planned. While I did experience a minor complication, I’m happy to say that I haven’t needed a revision. My surgeon was able to address the issue during a post-op check-up, and I’ve been healing well since.
The lead-up to the surgery wasn’t without its emotional challenges. One of the biggest was knowing I needed to have a serious conversation with my mum, at a time when she was still processing everything about my transition. On a cold winter’s day, we met for coffee, and I told her what was about to happen. As any mother would, her first question was: “Is this really what you want to do?” I told her, honestly, that it was, and that it would make me truly happy. In that vulnerable moment, she reached out and held my hand in support. It meant the world.
Other challenges were more logistical, like sorting travel arrangements and making sure I had people with me for support while I was recovering in hospital and these two people don’t realise how thankful I was for their support.
Thankfully, those came together more smoothly.
Another important challenge I had to consider was financial stability during my recovery. Gender reassignment surgery requires a long and difficult healing process, and I knew I’d need time away from work. Thankfully, my employer at the time, Kainos, was incredibly supportive. I was able to take six months off on full pay, for which I’m truly grateful.
Once everything was in place, flights and accommodation booked, pre-surgery consultations completed, paperwork signed, I began to focus on one final piece of the puzzle: emotional support at home after surgery. I decided to ask my mum if she’d be willing to stay with me during my recovery, and she gladly accepted. What was meant to be a short stay turned into something longer, and that extra time helped us rebuild and strengthen our bond in a beautiful way.
As the surgery date drew closer, emotions began to build. I was due to be admitted to the hospital the night before the procedure, so on the Wednesday evening, I travelled to Brighton with two of my close friends, Jessica Weir and Sarah Quinn. My mum drove us to the airport, and that goodbye is something I’ll never forget. It was raw and emotional. This was the first time I’d be undergoing major surgery without her physically by my side, unlike previous times when she had always been there. Watching her wave goodbye as I walked into the airport felt like a defining moment. It was both a goodbye and a powerful sign of trust and support.
I checked into the hospital on March 7, 2024, where I was introduced to the incredible team who would be taking care of me. The staff at the Nuffield were simply exceptional, compassionate, patient, and dedicated. They truly made me feel supported during what was undoubtedly one of the most significant moments of my life.
On the morning of the surgery, both the surgeon and the anaesthetist came to speak with me before we headed to the theatre. They explained exactly what would happen during the procedure. In addition to a general anaesthetic, I was also going to have an epidural. They gave me a chance to ask any final questions. I didn’t have any, but I remember saying to my surgeon with a smile, “I trust that you’ll be an artist.”
At 8:30 a.m. on Friday, March 8, International Women’s Day, I walked down to the operating theatre, knowing it would be the last time I’d be on my feet for a while. Despite the nerves, I was filled with excitement. As we prepared for surgery, I chatted with the anaesthetist and his assistant. He gave me something to make me feel “a bit drunk,” and shortly after, I drifted off. At 8:50 a.m,
I was put to sleep, and what felt like just five minutes later, I woke up around 1 p.m. The surgery was long, but it was complete. That moment, waking up, was filled with joy. A quiet, powerful joy.
A few days later, I was introduced to my new anatomy for the first time. It was an emotional and unforgettable moment, pure gender euphoria. Yes, it looked like a bit of a battle zone, still healing and bruised, but it was mine. It was right.
The recovery was tough, physically and emotionally, but I made it through with a huge smile on my face. I know in my heart that the healing has gone well. That moment of seeing myself, truly, for the first time… it was raw. It was real. It was gender euphoria. And it was everything I had hoped for.
MARTIN M
Queer Women’s Collective
As Northern Irelands Queer community continues to grow and flourish, we still have a lack of spaces for LGBTQIA+ Women but that is slowly changing. At the centre of this quiet revolution is the Queer Women’s Collective (QWC), a grassroots group creating space, voice, and visibility for the FLINTA* community (*Female, Lesbian, Intersex, Non-binary, Transgender and Agender people) in Northern Ireland.
QWC was only set up at the end of 2024 by Shan Whelan and Ciara Smyth in response to a deep cultural gap, QWC was born from a long term idea that queer women and gender-diverse people deserve more than inclusion, they deserve celebration. At a time when queer joy can feel fragile, even politicised by some in the community, the Collective offers a counterpoint rooted in solidarity, creativity, and community care.
From music bingo nights to workshops of all kinds, QWC has grown into one of the most dynamic forces in Belfast’s queer landscape.
One of their most recent events was Lezgo Bingo, genre fluid music bingo for the girls, gays and theys. Held in iconic Queer friendly venues like the Sunflower Pub and The Black Box, Lezgo Bingo is equal parts music bingo, drag spectacle, and a sweaty dance party. With cheeky numbers, live lipsyncs, singalongs, and the kind of crowd you wish you could bottle, it’s not just a night out, it’s a reclaiming of space. You can check out the next Lezgo Bingo at their Pride edition on July 19th in The Black Box fundraising for Anaka’s Women Collective and Belfast Trans Resource Centre with tickets available via QWC Belfast’s Instagram, Eventbrite or Linktree.
But QWC isn’t only about nightlife. Beneath the glitter and glow they centre care, accessibility, and intersectionality at the heart of the group. Whether hosting a night out, movie night or a facilitating a workshop, QWC ensures their events are designed by and for queer women and gender-diverse people.
Please note, this column is the opinion of the columinst and not that of GNI or Romeo & Julian Publiccations Ltd.
In March 2025, ahead of the Belfast March for Trans Rights, QWC partnered with feminist activist group ROSA NI to host a protest placard-making workshop. Attendees spilled into a community space with paint, markers, and cardboard to reinforce statements like “Trans Rights Are Human Rights”, “Same Struggle, Same Fight” and “We’re Not Going Back.”
Workshops like these are part of QWC’s
wider vision of combining art and activism in ways that lower the barriers to participation. You don’t have to be a seasoned creative or experienced speaker to join in. Just show up, and you’ll be welcomed.
And QWC is careful not to replicate the exclusion or gatekeeping that can exist in other activist or queer spaces. Every event, no matter how political or playful, is designed to affirm those who have too often been sidelined: queer women, trans people, intersex folks, non-binary identities, and those who live at multiple intersections of marginalisation. While their events and workshops are aimed at the FLINTA* community, allies are always welcome to show their support.
One of QWC’s most quietly revolutionary offerings is its series of workshops focused on emotional wellbeing and self-
development. Their most recent Shame to Pride workshop, for example, explores internalised stigma and the pressure many queer people feel to perform or justify their queerness which was based on one of the collective’s members, Rebecca Rice, thesis research.
For those who don’t see themselves reflected in mainstream LGBTQ+ culture or who’ve been made to feel “not queer enough” these spaces can be transformative. Participants reflect on early messages of shame and learn to reframe them as part of a broader story of resilience.
QWC’s Self-Confidence sessions build on this healing work. Facilitated by Shan and fellow community members, the workshops offer reflective journaling, shared storytelling and a space to create vision boards to enhance the positive self-
thinking message. In a world that often tells queer people to shrink or apologise, these workshops offer something rare and radical: permission to take up space.
QWC is part of a broader cultural shift taking place across Belfast. Alongside organisations like Dyksketball, Belfast Sapphics and Cherry Belfast, QWC is bringing women to the forefront and reminding us why L is the first letter in LGBTQIA+
QWC fills a particular void, creating spaces that centre the experiences of queer women and gender-diverse people not just occasionally, but deliberately and consistently. There’s no tokenism here, no footnotes. QWC’s ethos is simple: this space is for you.
Looking ahead, the Collective is expanding its offerings. More Lezgo Bingo events, movie nights and workshops are on the horizon and they always welcome more events to collaborate on such as outdoor wellness sessions, yoga classes etc. It’s never been about competition for QWC, it’s always been about collaboration as they continue to showcase other local FLINTA* friendly events.
There’s also a long-term goal of establishing a permanent space for queer women and genderdiverse people to gather, create, rest, and organise. For now, QWC continues to pop up in studios mainly in Kitsch Sisters Belfast on Fountain Street, bringing with them an energy that’s unmistakable.
And wherever they go, one thing remains constant: the people who attend QWC events leave feeling lighter, braver, and more connected.
In a society where queer lives are often politicised, and where trans and non-binary people still face systemic discrimination, the work of the Queer Women’s Collective is nothing short of essential. They’re not just building events, they’re building trust, power, and the foundations of a more
inclusive city.
In Belfast, where the shadows of the past still linger, QWC is a bright, glittering promise of what’s possible when community is built with care, courage, and love.
To learn more or get involved with the Queer Women’s Collective, follow @QWC_Belfast on Instagram or visit their Eventbrite / Linktree for upcoming events.
By Martin Murray
Why Pride still matters in 2025...
For many in Northern Ireland, Pride is a celebration and rightly so. It’s a chance to dance in the streets, to kiss in public without fear, to feel seen. But it’s also, and always has been, a march of resistance.
2025 marks 31 years since Belfast hosted its first official Pride parade. Back in 1994, just a few hundred people showed up, many wearing sunglasses and keeping their heads down. There were no corporate floats, no glitter bombs, no rainbow-wrapped police cars. But there was courage. And that courage lives on.
Today, with legal wins like equal marriage and adoption behind us, some ask: do we still need Pride? The answer, without hesitation, is yes. Because visibility is still radical. And visibility is still vital.
In 2025, queer and trans people in Northern Ireland continue to face homophobia, transphobia, and systemic barriers — especially those who are disabled, working class, trans, or people of colour. For every nightclub playing Gaga and every rainbow aisle in a supermarket, there’s a queer teen afraid to come out to their family. For every hashtag, there’s a hate crime report.
This year alone, LGBTQIA+ organisations in NI have reported a sharp rise in online abuse and street-level harassment. Slogans like “protect our children” once used against gay teachers have resurfaced with new targets: drag performers, trans people, queer families.In that context, showing up is powerful. It’s political. And it saves lives.
And yet, as Pride grows, it also faces growing pains.
The question of who Pride is for has become increasingly urgent. Is it for the community or the corporations? For liberation or for branding? When big-name sponsors appear more visible than grassroots activists, and the most marginalised people feel left behind, something’s gone wrong.
We can and must hold space for both joy and anger. For dancing and demanding. For waving flags and raising fists.
That duality is in Pride’s DNA. Stonewall was a riot. Section 28 was met with defiance. Decriminalisation was followed by decades of struggle. In Northern Ireland, where equal marriage came last in the UK and conversion therapy is still not banned, we know that change comes slowly and only when demanded.
So, what does protest look like in 2025? It looks like drag queens reading to children. It looks like trans teens organising walkouts. It looks like queers of faith reclaiming their churches. It looks like survivors of violence marching in silence. It looks like elder lesbians holding hands on the steps of Stormont. It looks like Pride.
The challenge now is to protect Pride’s roots while nurturing its future. That means platforming local voices, not just global brands. It means making sure our parades are accessible to all, including disabled and neurodivergent folks. It means keeping trans people, people of colour, and working-class queers at the centre.
It also means recognising that visibility is not the end goal. It’s the beginning.
A rainbow lanyard on a council worker means little if queer youth services are underfunded. A police presence at Pride doesn’t undo histories of brutality. Visibility must be paired with accountability and action.
And yet, I still believe in the power of Pride. I believe in the teenager who steps off the bus in Belfast, full of nerves, and leaves the parade that afternoon feeling changed. I believe in the drag performer who defies moral panic with sequins and storytelling. I believe in the parents who bring their kids to Pride because they want them to know that love is never wrong. I believe in us.
Pride in 2025 is not just a party — though it can be a hell of a party. It is a mirror, a message, and a megaphone. It reflects who we are, insists on who we can be, and shouts back at those who’d rather we disappear.
So we march. We protest. We sing. We demand. And we will keep showing up — until everyone under the rainbow feels safe, seen, and free.
Happy Pride, let’s keep making noise.
The Outing Festival
Finds a New Home in Ennis: A Celebration of Love, Culture, and Community and 10 Years of Marriage Equality
For over a decade, The Outing Festival has offered something truly unique in the global festival landscape: a celebration of LGBTQ+ identity rooted in the heart of Irish tradition. Now entering its next chapter, the festival is relocating to Treacy’s West County Hotel in Ennis, County Clare—a move that promises to build on its legacy of inclusivity, creativity, and community connection.
We sat down with Eddie McGuinness, founder and Festival Director, to reflect on the journey so far and what this new location means for the future of The Outing.
A Festival Like No Other
Founded nearly 13 years ago, The Outing Festival was born from a simple yet bold idea: to blend Ireland’s centuries-old matchmaking culture with modern LGBTQ+ life, arts, and celebration. “It started as a playful twist on Lisdoonvarna’s traditional matchmaking festival,” says McGuinness. “But very quickly it grew into something much more meaningful. It became a space for connection, expression, and visibility.”
What began as a niche event is now a landmark in Ireland’s cultural calendar. The festival features live music, drag shows, comedy, arts and crafts, film, workshops, wellness activities, and of course, matchmaking. It draws both domestic and international visitors who are eager to experience Irish hospitality with a queer twist.
We have had Irish and UK Eurovision winners headlining the festival, plus I have helped two couples to get married, a few engagements and hundreds of moments of love… I’ll let you think about that one.
Why Ennis? Why Now?
The move to Treacy’s West County Hotel is both strategic and symbolic. Located just a short walk from Ennis town centre, the hotel is one of Ireland’s largest convention and entertainment venues. With 151 bedrooms, extensive facilities, and a welcoming atmosphere, it is ideally positioned to host a growing, multi-day cultural event like The Outing.
“Treacy’s isn’t just a hotel,” says McGuinness. “It’s Clare’s largest entertainment venue. That means we can expand our programme, welcome more guests, and explore more ways to engage with the local community and beyond.”
Equally important is the festival’s access to the Wild Atlantic Way and the broader cultural offerings of the region. “This location gives attendees the chance to
explore some of the most beautiful parts of Ireland,” McGuinness notes. “From the Cliffs of Moher to the Burren, guests can make a holiday of it.”
What Makes The Outing Special
According to McGuinness, it’s the combination of community spirit, cultural authenticity, and a good sense of humour that makes The Outing Festival truly special. Plus it’s Winter so why not get warm and find a bit of Winter Pride. “Yes, it’s about drag queens and dancing and glitter,” he laughs, “but it’s also about storytelling, connection, and creating a space where people feel seen and celebrated.”
The festival has always placed a strong emphasis on inclusion and accessibility. With representatives from the queer and disability communities on the organising team, and a growing commitment to sustainability and mental health awareness, The Outing continues to evolve as a model of inclusive tourism. Looking Forward
With its new home at Treacy’s West County Hotel, The Outing Festival is poised for continued growth and deeper impact. Future plans include extended programming, more international partnerships, and enhanced outreach to diaspora communities.
McGuinness is clear on the mission: “The Outing isn’t just a festival. It’s a movement—a celebration of love, diversity, and the joy of being proudly, wonderfully yourself.”
Whether you come for the Géilí, the comedy, or the craic, The Outing Festival promises an unforgettable weekend at the crossroads of tradition and transformation.
The Outing Festival 2026 takes place 13–15 February at Treacy’s West County Hotel, Ennis.
And a big thank you to all the team at The Inn at Dromoland for our home going on 5 years, and before that, Lisdoonvarna, our heart is always in Co. Clare.
Book now www.TheOuting.ie
By Joshua Ellul
PAUL
Pride in a Time of Conflict: Finding Inner Peace When the World Feels Unsafe
It’s a frightening time to be alive. The world feels like it’s cracking at the edges; war escalating, political division deepening and uncertainty looming everywhere you look. For many of us in the LGBTQ+ community, it adds another layer of fear to an already complex existence. Safety: physical, emotional, existential; feels like a luxury in short supply.
And yet, here we are, in the heart of Pride Month. A time that’s meant to celebrate love, visibility, and resistance. A time for rainbow flags, joyful marches, and unapologetic queerness. But how do we reconcile this outward celebration with the inner unease so many of us are carrying?
The answer may lie not in turning away from the world’s chaos but in turning inward.
While missiles fly overseas and political rhetoric burns online, many of us are also facing battles of our own: the war against self-criticism, the silent ache of rejection, the exhaustion of masking who we are to survive. These inner conflicts are just as real. They shape our relationships, our mental health, and our capacity to love.
We often speak of coming out as if it’s a one-time act. But for many queer people, especially in times like these, coming out is a lifelong process; reclaiming our truth, and coming home to ourselves again and again. And it’s made all the more complex by the reality that even in so-called liberated countries, hard-won queer rights are being quietly eroded. From book bans to healthcare restrictions, to rising hate crimes and political scapegoating; we are reminded that visibility does not always equal safety. The closet may be different now, but it still exists in many forms. Right now, the world may feel unsteady. But what if Pride could be something more radical this year; not just about being seen by others, but truly seeing ourselves? Not just about being loud, but about listening deeply to what our hearts need?
In times of external chaos, the inner work becomes even more vital.
Instead of spiraling into despair or distraction, what would it mean to create inner sanctuary? To tend to the parts of ourselves that feel scared, small, angry, or disconnected? What if this month we could honour the revolution that happens quietly; the soft, slow return to self?
person is a powerful force in the world.
Pride doesn’t only belong in parades. Pride belongs in our private rituals too; in the breath we take before reacting. In the boundaries we set. In the mirror we face with tenderness. In the way we choose to speak to ourselves each morning.
Yes, the world is scary. But you are still here. You’re still breathing. That matters.
This Pride Month, may you remember that your softness is not weakness, it is sacred. That your queerness is not a liability, it is medicine. That the most profound revolution you can spark sometimes begins within: with a hand on your heart, and a quiet voice saying, I am worthy of love. I am safe to be me. As we call for peace across borders, let’s not forget to cultivate it within our own nervous systems. As we advocate for justice, let’s extend that same compassion to the rejected parts of ourselves.
Because the world needs more than our outrage. It needs our wholeness.
And that always starts with love. Paul McAllister- Soul Script IG: soulscript.pm Facebook: soulscript.pm Email: soulscript.pm@gmail.com
Please note, this column is the opinion of the columinst and not that of GNI or Romeo & Julian Publiccations Ltd.
This is not a bypass of the world’s pain. It’s a commitment to stay present. To be rooted. To not let ourselves become consumed by fear or numbness. Because a regulated, loved, and grounded queer
Jason Cancino RAINBOW WARRIOR
Every year, during Belfast Pride, one dazzling figure stands out in the crowd—a bold, unapologetic force of joy, energy, and resistance. That figure is Jason Cancino, better known as The Rainbow Warrior.
Jason was first discovered in 2022, making his debut appearance on Ulster News ITV Belfast and gracing the front cover of the Sunday Independent. It was there he earned the title Rainbow Warrior, a name that has come to symbolise his mission to uplift, inspire, and represent queer resilience.
With a unique style and fierce presence, Jason brings his own flavour to Pride. He struts through the parade in black heeled boots, tights, and a rainbow-feathered cape, topless and fearless. He dances, lip-syncs, and radiates confidence while the crowd cheers, claps, and snaps photos. Whether people love him or hate him, he doesn’t let judgment dim his light. He’s there to be seen—and to be proud.
But his journey to this point hasn’t been easy.
“Like many of us,” Jason reflects, “I wasn’t accepted for who I was growing up. At school, I was constantly called a faggot. At home, my dad would question me—asking if I had a girlfriend, if I was gay—and at one point, even threatened to disown me.”
These experiences left scars, but they didn’t break him.
“I used to think I was sinful for being myself. But I learned something powerful: you are who you are, and nothing should ever change that. Because if you don’t love yourself, who will?”
Jason believes the younger generation needs to know more about the history of Pride—about the battles that were fought so today’s celebrations can even exist.
“Pride is not just a party,” he says. “It’s a movement. It’s about our right to exist. We owe so much to the older generations who fought tooth and nail to give us what we have today.”
As The Rainbow Warrior, Jason’s mission is simple but powerful: to show others that it’s okay to be different, to be yourself, and to be proud of your identity—whatever your sexuality or gender identity may be.
He dreams of marching in Pride parades across the UK, spreading joy and raising awareness in every city he visits. His first Pride was in 2018, when Alexandra Burke performed on Union Street in Belfast, hosted by Gok Wan, with drag legends like Tina Legs Tantrum lighting up the stage. That experience sparked something in Jason—and he hasn’t looked back since.
This year, he hopes to join the Pride march in Dublin, continuing his mission to uplift those who feel lost, rejected, or alone.
“Everyone deserves to feel accepted. Everyone deserves to know they belong,” he says. “We’re all part of this big, beautiful queer family.”
Jason is also deeply aware of the ongoing global struggles faced by LGBTQ+ people.
“Pride isn’t just about celebrating being gay,” he says. “It’s about existing without persecution, discrimination, or fear. Even today, we’re still fighting battles—whether it’s for marriage equality, healthcare, or simply the right to be ourselves.”
He points to the U.S. as an example of rights being rolled back, especially under the Trump administration, which tried to erase the trans community and removed the rainbow flag from official government websites.
“There’s no going back,” Jason insists. “Now is the
time to act. We must stand with our trans siblings and the entire LGBTQ+ community. We need to organise, protest, and keep fighting for our human rights. No one should have to live in fear just for being themselves.”
To anyone feeling afraid or uncertain right now, Jason offers this advice:
“Keep pushing forward. Be louder. Show the world that we’re not afraid—and that we’re not alone. Trans women are women. Trans men are men. We’re here, we exist, and we’re not going anywhere.”
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QUEER, LOUD & PROUD: SE LONDON PRIDE RETURNS TO CATFORD ON 17 AUGUST 2025
Mark your calendars and pull up with pride — SE London Pride is back on 17 August 2025, and this year, we’re louder, prouder, and queerer than ever before.
Founded by three childhood friends from South East London — Kemal Ibrahim, Marleigh Layne, and Charlene Frost— SE London Pride is a powerful grassroots Pride movement led by lived experience. What started as a shared dream between friends who grew up navigating life as queer people of colour in SE London has become one of the most inclusive and vibrant LGBTQ+ festivals in the city.
Forget corporate rainbow-washing — this is Pride, reimagined. We’re not just throwing a party (though it will be iconic). We’re building long-lasting, community-rooted change. Our work doesn’t stop at the stage — we are active all year round, tackling the issues that impact our community most.
Our current initiatives include:
• Supported housing projects for LGBTQ+ individuals facing homelessness and violence
• Creating safe spaces and healing circles for queer, disabled, and POC communities
• Co-leading a groundbreaking inclusive community research project to inform national approaches to equity and access
• Driving real change across corporate and public spaces in SE London through training, partnerships, and visibility initiatives
• Proudly Black- and Ethnic Minority led, family-friendly, and radically inclusive, SE London Pride is reclaiming space for joy, resilience, and celebration — right in the heart of southeast London a place overflowing with creativity, culture, and queer energy.
What to expect on 17 August:
A full day of live music, drag, dance, local vendors, community stalls, and a whole lot of queer joy. From fierce performances to family-friendly fun, SE London Pride is for everyone — whether you’re queer, trans, disabled, questioning, religious, an ally, or just here for the vibes.
This is more than a festival. This is a movement rooted in love, protest, and community power.
SE LONDON PRIDE — 17 AUGUST 2025 — CATFORD
Follow us for updates: @SELondonPride
Come through. Be seen. Be loud. Be you. South East London is calling.
“On the Wire”
Sarah SASHA
Songs of Summer 5 Empowering Anthems to Rule the Dancefloor
By Larry Olsen
Summer 2025 is sizzling with high-energy anthems that do more than move your body; they ignite your soul! This season’s top dance floor hits are unapologetic celebrations of self-love, freedom, and empowerment. Whether you’re embracing your truth, surviving the fire, or just owning your fabulousness, these five tracks will keep your spirit high and your playlists blazing.
Cinematic and emotionally charged, “On the Wire” is the ultimate anthem for anyone walking the line between strength and vulnerability. The debut single from Sarah Schroeder’s fearless alter ego, Sarah SASHA, it fuses lush imagery and fierce choreography in a powerful declaration of rebirth. “SASHA is who I am when I stop playing by the rules and start playing by my truth,” Sarah explains. The track’s explosive message? It’s your time to take the stage. No apologies, just authenticity.
“Bear Soup” – Tom Goss ft. Chris Conde
“Dance in the Fire”
Kendra Erika
“All Night Long”
Body positivity has never sounded so fun. “Bear Soup” is a cheeky, twerkready celebration of the bear community, complete with belly-jiggling beats and bold queer energy. Out artist Tom Goss teams with rapper Chris Conde and producer Maya La Maya for a club thumper that’s equal parts erotic, empowering, and joyously inclusive. The splashy music video, brimming with body diversity and camp, is pure summer pool-party fantasy.
Longtime LGBTQ+ ally Kendra Erika delivers a primal, pulsing banger with “Dance in the Fire.” Inspired by literal flames but burning with metaphorical meaning, Erika’s track calls on all of us to embrace life’s challenges head-on. Produced by Grammynominated Luigie “LUGO” Gonzalez and featuring 2024 Grammy winner Will Gittens, this is a dance-pop masterpiece with tribal flair and cinematic visuals. Erika dares us to blaze our own trails and dance through every flame along the way.
“Pretty Boy”
On Mekahel
Kory Burns
Kory Burns is done hiding, and “All Night Long” is his electrifying coming out party. Co-written with hitmakers behind Usher and DJ Khaled, the sexy, R&B-infused dance jam celebrates fluidity and freedom. “Bisexuality is real,” says Burns, who uses gender-neutral language to ensure everyone feels included. With this track, he reclaims his narrative and invites listeners to do the same.
Glossy, glittery, and full of glam, “Pretty Boy” is On Mekahel’s love letter to self-worth and personal transformation. With club-ready production by Ran Ziv and lyrics co-written with his husband Dave, Mekahel finally steps fully into the confident, beautiful persona he’s always dreamed of. “We’re all pretty boys,” he declares. This track is more than a bop. It’s a strut, a celebration, and a statement of unapologetic self-love.
In the shadowy corners of Northern Ireland’s past, where silence often reigned louder than speech, there have always been queer people, surviving, resisting, and quietly laying the foundations for the visibility we enjoy today.
Their names weren’t always celebrated. Some lived in secret, some shouted with defiance, and many walked a lonely road so that we wouldn’t have to. This Pride season, as rainbow flags flutter freely across Belfast, Derry, and beyond, we pause to honour the hidden histories, the lives that shaped Northern Ireland’s LGBTQIA+ journey, brick by brave brick.
This isn’t just a timeline. This is a tribute.
A Whisper Becomes a Roar: Early Resistance
in a Conservative Land
Northern Ireland, especially in the late 20th century, wasn’t known for being progressive. A deeply religious, politically charged atmosphere kept queer people pushed to the margins. To be out was to be at risk — of rejection, of violence, of invisibility. But in the 1970s and ‘80s, amid The Troubles and widespread institutional homophobia, seeds of resistance were sown. A small but defiant group began to organise, to speak out, and to demand space. Not in the headlines, perhaps — but in church halls, pubs, and university classrooms. One of those early voices was Jeff Dudgeon, a Belfast man who refused to stay silent. In 1981, he took the UK government to the European Court of Human Rights over the criminalisation of homosexuality in Northern Ireland. The court ruled in his favour — a landmark moment that forced decriminalisation in 1982.
Dudgeon wasn’t a celebrity. He was just someone who’d had enough — and who believed that justice, even here, was worth fighting for. His story matters because it reminds us that change often begins with one person refusing to hide.
The Safe Houses & Secret Spaces
Long before gay bars were on Google Maps or Grindr let you know who was nearby, community had to be found through coded glances, trusted friends, and whispers over coffee. Belfast’s queer scene in the ‘80s and ‘90s was hidden in plain sight. There was The Chariot Rooms, one of Belfast’s earliest gay-friendly venues, operating quietly above a furniture store on Upper Arthur Street. Then came The Parliament Bar and The Front Page, offering sanctuary when few others would.
These weren’t just clubs. They were lifelines. People drove from Omagh, Enniskillen, and Newry to dance, laugh, kiss, and feel — if only for one night
— that they weren’t alone. The fear of raids or being outed was real. But so was the need to connect.
Many of the people who ran those bars did so at personal risk. Their names might not be carved into plaques, but their legacy is alive every time we step into a Pride party without fear.
Lesbian Voices, Loud and Clear
While the early movement was often maledominated, lesbian and queer women in NI built their own parallel spaces — supportive, intersectional, and rooted in radical politics.
HERe NI, established in 2000, grew from earlier women’s networks and became a vital advocate for lesbian and bisexual women’s rights in the region. But before that, women were meeting in kitchens, sharing zines, and organising DIY events where gender norms were joyfully dismantled.
Activists like Eithne Mullan and Mary Shannon gave voice to women who had long been erased. Their activism wasn’t just about sexual orientation — it was about housing, healthcare, feminism, and inclusion.
Pride in Protest: Marching Before It Was Fashionable It’s easy now to see Pride as a celebration — but in its earliest days here, it was an act of pure protest. The first Belfast Pride took place in 1991. Fewer than 100 people marched. They were heckled, spat on, and told to go home. Police watched with suspicion. Some marched with paper bags over their heads, fearful of being identified. But they marched anyway.
Those early years were tough. But each year, more people showed up. More allies came out. More flags waved.
We owe so much to that tiny band of rebels who dared to be visible in a city that wanted them to disappear. Their courage created the path that now allows 70,000+ people to fill Belfast each July with colour, joy, and power.
Drag as Resistance: The Queens Who Led Us Northern Ireland’s drag scene didn’t just entertain — it educated, fundraised, and fiercely protected the community.
Local legends like Rusty Hinges, Lady Portia Di’Monte, and Cherri Ontop weren’t just performers — they were carers, campaigners, and often counsellors to generations of queer youth. They raised money for HIV charities before the government would. They visited hospitals. They
hosted safe spaces in pubs when few others would. Their wigs and lashes were war paint.
To this day, Northern Ireland’s drag queens remain not just fabulous, but foundational.
The Quiet Heroes — And The Ones We Lost Some names we’ll never know. The closeted teacher who gave a student a pamphlet. The bartender who walked someone home. The friend who opened their spare room when a parent slammed the door.
These are the quiet heroes — the ones whose acts of love built the strongest parts of our community. Some are gone now. We lost too many to AIDS, suicide, violence, and silence.
Their stories were never printed, but their impact is in every community centre, every safe pub, every rainbow sticker on a church door.
Carrying the Torch
Today, the fight isn’t over. Northern Ireland still lacks full trans healthcare. LGBTQIA+ education remains inconsistent. Homophobia and conversion practices still haunt too many lives.
But we are not where we were. Thanks to trailblazers like Cara-Friend, The Rainbow Project, and newer grassroots groups, today’s youth have role models, resources, and hope.
And yet, remembering is essential. Pride without memory becomes empty celebration. By knowing where we’ve come from — whose shoulders we stand on — we walk into the future with more clarity and pride.
A Call to Remember
This summer, as we dance, march, and celebrate, take a moment. Light a candle. Tell a story. Learn a name.
Visit the LGBTQIA+ archive at the Public Record Office. Read Jeff Dudgeon’s legal case. Ask your elders what it was like. Because these histories, our histories, are fragile. They were almost lost — and still risk being forgotten.
Northern Ireland’s queer past is not just trauma. It’s a triumph. It’s tenacity. It’s love.
We remember, because they deserve it. And because someday, someone might remember us.
hidden histories remembering
Chem Sex
From Party Scene to Crime Scene
Although chemsex as a phenomenon powerfully came into the awareness of criminal justice agencies following the murder of four young gay men by Stephen Port. Particular features of that case and the initial police failings in the investigation made it clear that a specialist response was required. For the last seven years, working as Operational Lead for that response, I have been able to observe how the once perceived party scene has become a deadly crime scene. The horrendous crimes of Port no longer sit is isolation.
The chemsex scene has become a hidden sub-culture, where extreme harms occur and where often that fact is being minimised and normalised. In London alone, 700+ men have been convicted of crimes occurring in the chemsex context. The highest proportion of crimes occurring in chemsex situations are violent crimes. In London alone 16 men have been murdered in the chemsex context. Over 50 different types of crime are represented in the convicted cohort. The reasons for the considerable extent of criminality in this relatively small percentage of the population can be understood when we consider some of the unique factors that define chemsex.
Crystal Methamphetamine (‘Tina’) and Gamma Hydroxybutyrate (‘G’) the two drugs used in chemsex, are exceptionally powerful in affect. ‘Tina’ in particular causes immense disinhibition and sexual arousal over many hours. It energises and makes people feel invincible, informing risk taking behaviour and participation in things that someone may not do when sober. ‘G’ causes sexual arousal and relaxation. It can easily be weaponised rendering victims’ unconscious or dead. Risk factors, during ‘come down’ often include paranoid thoughts, sleeplessness, psychotic delusions and violence. Repeated episodes of psychosis require hospitalisation and longer recovery periods.
Although many guys initial association with chemsex may be brief, it seldom stays that way. Few of those convicted of chemsex crime started out engaging in extremely harmful behaviours, but that is where they have ended up. It is a tragedy silently distorting lives beyond repair, leaving many imprisoned or dead. Seldom have any of the men had previous criminal histories. Many of them have been highly functioning with lifestyles reflecting that. But in a very short time all that has changed. They have become totally immersed in what can be understood as a ‘chemsex bubble’.
The ‘chemsex bubble’ can last for many days. Connection with external reality diminishes, initially for short periods but is then eroded until all functioning ceases. Hours are spent planning the next chemsex experience, participating in it and then recovering. In this process guys initially feel enlivened but, in the aftermath, they start to experience many losses and destructive behaviours become normalised. Personal boundaries are quickly blurred often resulting in the same person becoming victim and perpetrator. It’s not unusual to hear men say, “That was done to me, I can do it to them”. “I was only raped twice last weekend, and I only raped one guy this weekend”.
Any context which operates as a hidden world provides the perfect setting for criminal behaviour. Although many in the chemsex scene could be considered criminally naïve, the scene increasingly attracts those
with criminal intent. They come into the scene to exploit and commission offences. The response to chemsex crime has needed to address the issue of vulnerability. It is often a defining factor in the lives of those involved. Pre-existing experiences of vulnerability can be the reason for involvement in chemsex and why chemsex is not the same as heterosexual sexualised drug use. Chemsex is unique to gay men, bisexual men and men who have sex with men as it is rooted in an attempt to address some of the powerful effects of oppressive and damaging societal attitudes towards gay sexual identity and sexual behaviour.
Whenever you take time to listen to men involved in chemsex a myriad of vulnerable experiences emerge revealing that their chemsex story is also rooted in shame. Shame has a very particular place in relation to gay sex and gay identity. Despite the progress made in terms of liberation, there are a range of factors that devalue gay identity and its expression via sex. It’s still not unusual for gay men to experience, from a very early age, societal disgust of the gay sex act. Such attitudes impact in a way that can make it impossible to enjoy gay sexual identity and sexual behaviour.
Anyone aware of their gay identity is likely not to have escaped being on the receiving end of disgust and then having to live with the sense of shame associated with it. Talking with men involved in chemsex, it’s possible to recognise how exposure to the following factors have informed the shaming experiences they have been trying to escape from.
Religion and culture: Disgust is often deeply enshrined in doctrines, active belief and cultural traditions, promoting views that see gay sex as outside of the acceptance culture, is evil, of the devil, a sickness, a mental illness, a possession.
AIDS and HIV trauma: For a long-time illness and death were associated solely with gay sex. For many the associated grief and trauma from this period was never resolved.
Gay rejection culture: The fact that there exists a powerful gay rejection culture gets missed. Life can be a 24/7 party if you fit in by being the ‘right’ age, having the right body shape, wealth, associates, race. If not, then all these factors can all be reasons for rejection. Networking apps also play a part in enabling rejection and objectification, reducing people to a body part or sexual role. The ‘community’ is therefore not always supportive, it can be rejecting, shaming and at times immensely cruel. Making it a place of isolation, disconnection, and loneliness. In a community defined by difference, it is tragically ironic that difference is not always welcome.
Mental health: Exposure to disgust of the gay sex act is exposure to a level of harmful toxicity. The impact on this is evidenced in the Stonewall Health Report. Depression, anxiety, mental health diagnosis, PTSD, selfharm, suicide, and addictions all feature at much greater rates in the gay population than within the heterosexual population.
Reality is, for many gay men, guilt free, fear free, anxiety free, shame free,
risk-free sex requires a tremendous amount of inner resource only few will have. Chemsex provides a very different experience and can be viewed as a instant fix to such fears and anxieties. For a short time, emersion into chemsex enables the conversion of pain into pleasure. But as we now know, with an immensely high cost.
Chemsex is not all about drugs, there’s a drug problem within it of course. Along with other problems all of equal importance; sexual health, mental health, criminality etc. But by far chemsex must be seen and understood as a sexual behaviour issue, a sexual identity issue, and sexual diversity issue. Think about it, respond to it as a ‘drug only’ issue and we are totally missing the point. We must do better than making it a ‘drug problem’. We may then also be able more effectively prevent the exceptionally harmful crimes we are now seeing. Chemsex and its crimes are a reality in our sociaty, essentially because of how society still responds to gay sex. Chemsex is unique and chemsex crime is deserving of a unique response.
Br. Stephen Morris fcc Forensic Psychotherapist Chemsex Crime Consultant
Br Stephen is a Franciscan Friar of the Companions of the Cross. Initially as a social worker he worked in child protection and pioneered early recognition of organised, ritual and satanic abuse. Following clinical training in general and forensic psychotherapy, he worked for over 40 years in in prisons, probation, policing and courts. He has also fulfilled a variety of pastoral roles. Throughout the 80’s and 90’s he provided support to the relatives of Irish political prisoners serving sentences in the UK and worked extensively on campaigns for the release of Irish people wrongly imprisoned. He developed and taught the ‘Spirituality of Dying’ course at St Joseph’s Hospice. He was Director of Mission Effectiveness for the Franciscan Missionaries of the Divine Motherhood (FMDM) and for six years provided psychological consultation to the FMDM leadership team. Br Stephen is a specialist in sexual crime and related trauma and has worked extensively with men and women who commit sexual offences and those involved in sex work and the adult industries. For the last seven years, as Operational Lead, he established the partnership response between HMPPS and the Metropolitan Police to address chemsex related crime in the LGBT community. Br Stephen has a weekly ministry of Franciscan presence in Soho and is part of the Medjugorje LGBT mission group in London. He is currently studying Franciscan Spirituality at the–Seriphicum, the Franciscan University in Rome.
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So tell us how you met, were you single for a long time before you started dating?
We both met when Philip interviewed Alex for a management role at our Prestige Flowers gift shop in 2020. He didn’t get that particular role, but he ended up landing a bigger one managing one of our sister brands. On Alex’s very first day we somehow ended up talking about Titanic, both not realising there were other people out there who were just as fanatical as we each were.
Philip’s fascination started early. From the age of six, Philip became completely captivated by the Titanic after receiving one of Ken Marshall’s illustrated children’s books about the ship. The artwork and storytelling sparked something in Philip, and from that point on Philip had a real thirst to learn more. That fascination never left and it was incredible to meet someone like Alex who shared that same passion.
We quickly discovered we both knew the film word for word and shared a deep love of the history behind it. That unexpected connection sparked a journey that’s continued ever since.
Alex’s fascination with the Titanic also started at an early age also especially after the release of the James Cameron movie Titanic. Alex was well known in his primary school with show and tell assemblies when he would always take in Titanic memorabilia he had collected much to his Mum’s embarrassment who worked in the school as everyone was waiting for him to bring something up about the Titanic. For Alex his fascination with Titanic continued into later life with piers not understanding why he loved the Titanic so much, collecting items and reading books about the ship until fate brought Alex and Philip together. Alex always dreamed of visiting Belfast to visit the drawing rooms and Harland and Wolff and after meeting Philip, Philip made that dream a reality in 2022 and from there we knew we wanted to be married there.
As our relationship developed, we began visiting Titanic landmarks and exhibitions wherever they popped up from the White Star Line offices in Liverpool to Southampton, and even to the grave site of Wallace Hartley in Colne which is only a stone throw away from where Philip and Alex now live, the heroic violinist who played until the very end, just a short drive from where we live. Eventually finally we made it to Belfast the birthplace of Titanic together
after Philip visiting for the opening in 2012 of the museum and in our eyes the starting point of the greatest story ever told.
We continue to learn more each day about the Titanic and have been building our own collection of related artefacts from artwork and props to anything connected to the White Star Line. It’s become not just a shared passion, but a living part of our story.
We’re now planning to return to Belfast this year to celebrate our first wedding anniversary. We got married on the 1st of September, the anniversary of the Titanic’s discovery by Robert Ballard in 1985. For us, a Titanic-themed wedding wasn’t about something that ultimately sank it was about rediscovery. The finding of the ship brought renewed life to its story, and for us, it became a symbol of new love and something everlasting. That sentiment made our day even more meaningful.
After our anniversary, we’ll be taking a cruise aboard the Queen Mary 2, retracing the Titanic’s intended journey from Southampton to New York. As part of that voyage, we’ll be sailing directly over the Titanic’s wreck site a chance for us to pay homage and reflect on the legacy of a ship that brought us together in such an unexpected and unforgettable way.
How long after you started dating did it take to pop the question, was it an immediate yes ? And who asked who?
We met in July 2020, and after three wonderful years together, Philip knew the perfect moment had arrived. In September 2023, Philip whisked him away to Barbados for a stay at the Tamarind Luxury Hotel Philip’s careful choice for what would become the most memorable holiday of our lives.
Philip had already commissioned a custom white gold engagement ring, inspired by the “Heart of the Ocean” necklace in Titanic: a sleek band of brilliant diamonds interspersed with deep blue sapphires. Inside it, I engraved our favourite movie line, “never let go.”
On our fourth day, Philip hired a private catamaran for an afternoon of swimming with turtles and snorkelling around Caribbean shipwrecks. As the sun dipped toward the West Coast horizon, the captain cued up Celine Dion’s “My Heart Will Go On” on the boat’s sound system—perfect timing they assured me in advance.
Heart pounding, Philip led him to the railing, slipped the ring from my pocket, and dropped to one knee. Alex looked stunned for a heartbeat and then, of course, said “yes” without hesitation.
When we exchanged wedding bands later, we chose “I promise” as our inscription, echoing the hope and devotion captured in that unforgettable proposal.
Tell us about your BIG DAY, location, amount of guests etc.
We chose the Titanic Hotel in Belfast as the backdrop for our big day, an iconic setting that felt both meaningful and unforgettable. We were joined by 80 guests, all of whom travelled all the way from England to celebrate with us and turn our wedding into a wonderful holiday of their own. We felt truly humbled by their effort and honoured to share such memories in that spectacular venue.
In the evening, we hired the SS Nomadic the last remaining White Star Line vessel where guests were first welcomed with old waltzes performed by a string quartet. Below deck, traditional Irish céilí music set a lively tone, and we capped the night with a big band on the upper decks. It was truly an unforgettable celebration.
We are absolutely Titanic fanatics it’s genuinely what brought us together in the first place. Our shared passion for the ship, its story, and the history surrounding it became a core part of our relationship. Belfast, steeped in rich maritime history and the birthplace of Titanic, naturally became a place we returned to time and again. When it came to our wedding, there was no other backdrop more fitting for our perfect day. The Titanic Hotel offered us the opportunity to bring our love story full circle. We even displayed part of our personal Titanic collection, which includes everything from original movie props and costumes to genuine White Star Line memorabilia, 1st class cabin keys, and Harland & Wolff artefacts and white star line Titanic and Olympic relics, we were able to have our fairytale photos taken on the reconstruction of the Grand Staircase after we were Wed. We are literally obsessed, and this venue allowed us to live out that dream in every detail.
We explored a number of venues, including several in Liverpool, but our hearts were always set on Belfast. There’s just something about the city the warmth of the people, the character of the place, and the rich
sense of history that runs through it all. The Titanic Hotel offered everything we were looking for, and more. It wasn’t just a venue it was a destination we were proud to share with our closest friends and family.
The venue was nothing short of perfect. Getting married in the very room where Titanic was designed was both poetic and powerful the beginning of the greatest story ever told, which beautifully paralleled the start of our journey as a married couple. We went all in on the Titanic theme: every table was named after a famous White Star Line ship, our menu cards were historically accurate, and all our stationery from invites to order of service was designed to reflect the era and aesthetic of the White Star Line. The team at the hotel were
exceptional bouncing ideas around with us and never once saying anything was impossible. From organising a Strauss string quartet to setting up a traditional Irish band playing below decks on the Nomadic, and even arranging for us to descend the grand staircase as newlyweds it was all just magical.
What about the food and drink?
For the food and drink we treated our guests to champagne on arrival, champagne after the ceremony, wine for the tables, champagne boarding the SS Nomadic, safe to say everyone was merry. Our dinner we had given guests the options to choice ahead and to make sure dietary requirements were taken on board. Most chose a delicious ham hock terrine to start with and Irish fillet steak for their mains followed by humble apple crumble. For
our canapes we had haggis, fish and chips and a salmon mousse. In the evening abord the SS Nomadic, we had a sweet shop station filled with all of our favourite sweets for guests to enjoy and later a wood fired pizza oven to take guests orders.
Were there any hiccups or did all go to plan?
The team at the hotel, including the manager, were incredible throughout the entire process. Every detail was taken care of, from accommodating specific dietary needs to the unique request of having our beloved dog Rua walk down the aisle with us! One small challenge on the day was when my groomsmaid’s husband—who was meant to return my speech after taking Rua home—got stuck in traffic. Cue a moment of panic! But the hotel staff were so calm and helpful. They let me duck behind reception and print off a new copy in time. Crisis averted! Their can-do attitude and flexibility made all the difference.
Have you been on or are you going on honeymoon?
We went back to where it began back to Barbados for a 2 week blissful break. For our anniversary this year we will return back to Titanic Belfast to remember with love where our marriage began and then take off to Southampton for a 2 week cruise aboard the Queen Mary 2 from Southampton to New York, the same as the Titanic had intended.
In your daily lives what do you do for work ? what interests do you share and have that are different ?
Philip, originally a lawyer and also the co – founder and director of the UK national multi million pound brand Prestige Flowers, Alex was interviewed by Philip for a role in a flag ship store but later became the brand manager of another brand owned under the Prestige Flowers umbrella 123 Flowers, Prestige Flowers is one of the UK’s biggest online florists, Philip being Business Director and Alex working as Brand Manager for one of Prestige Flower’s sister brand 123 Flowers where Philip has built the brand for 14 years and Alex 5 years making Philip Alex’s Boss. What makes our relationship so special is that we met so naturally through work making our connection to each other so much more special. There were no apps, no agencies, as organic as it could have been. Somewhat traditional and old fashioned you might say!
Do you do everything together in terms of socialising, travel ?
We are both very family focused and love to spend time with our families. We are very lucky to have found two families that who love each other’s company and share many days away at social events at our bar we own in Halifax to holidays away all together. Family has always been key both of us all of our lives and we love to bring them together to enjoy as much as we can. We have amazing Nephews Charlie and Jackson and our Niece Chyna who love to be together also taking them to funfairs and sleep overs which also gives us good practice for when we get to have little ones of our own.
We both also love to spend time with Rua our beautiful 14 year old border collie who is the apple in our eyes going on walks along the beach and other big adventures.
We both are also co owners of a retro gaming bar called Next Level in Halifax, a retro gaming bar with top American style food, we love putting on events from hundreds to thousands, we recently hosted a reggae day, we have a drag event on soon and host an annual firework event in November with a star studded line up. Last year we had Aston Merrygold from JLS, Ellie Sax, Dick and Dom and Blazin Squad on our very own big stage.
Have you a family, is this something on the plan for you?
We live with our wonderful border collie dog Rua, we live in the country side and are looking at getting
some goats and alpacas. We certainly want to start a family and is something over the next couple of years we will do.
Tell us who made your day possible in terms of rings, flowers, photographer, cars etc
We spent a solid 12 month planning the wedding, we enjoyed every aspect, every little detail from our invites to our thank you cards. We spent many hours together every evening with a huge check list, hours on etsy, we spent a lot of time finding the perfect bands and string quartets. We had 3 bands for the day and also actors we hired who played Titanic passengers on the SS Nomadic. We found the perfect flower arrangers too. Owning one of the largest online florists in the UK, it was not possible for us to take our top florists away all the way to Belfast however from the designs we wanted from our own team we found the perfect team in Belfast to execute the design we wanted.
Has anything changed since you said “I Do”?
Our evenings are free from wedding planning! Though we enjoyed every aspect of it. We now spend time getting our house the way we want it, planning for the future and planning our next adventures away with our amazing families and looking towards the future where our lives will lead us! We both have so much love for each other and with us both working for Prestige Flowers and literally spending 24 hours a day 7 days a week together we never get bored of boths company because of the similarities we both
have and share.
Anything else we may have missed that you may want to add/mention ???
Our guests were blown away, many of whom said it was the most memorable and special wedding they had ever attended. The venue has this extraordinary versatility it offers elegance, romance, and a sense of grandeur, yet it’s rooted in the rustic charm and historical richness of Belfast and Titanic’s story. Whether you’re Titanic-mad or not, our guests and us had the best day ever.
Everyone says your wedding day goes by in a flash, and they weren’t wrong it was a whirlwind of joy and excitement. We wish we could of slowed it all down and take in every detail again. We vividly remember the excitement of that morning, watching everything come together over breakfast. The care and attention to detail from the staff, the thoughtful touches before and after the ceremony it was just magical. We’re already planning an anniversary stay at the hotel to relive those memories with family who are desperate to return to Belfast. It really was the most special day of our lives.
We would do it all again in a heartbeat!
Credit for this feature: Mark Barton
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W Love in every season...
eddings are a celebration of love, unity, and the start of an exciting new chapter. For couples planning to tie the knot, now is the perfect time to secure your dream wedding with an exclusive offer that makes your special day even more memorable.
With luxurious amenities, stunning surroundings, and personalised service, the Four Seasons Hotel & Leisure Club, is the perfect choice for your dream wedding day! Located in the charming town of Monaghan, the Four Seasons Hotel & Leisure Club has been celebrating love and marriage since 1970. This prestigious fourstar establishment is renowned for its exceptional
service and luxurious amenities, making it the perfect venue for your dream wedding celebration. As a family-run hotel, they are dedicated to providing you and your guests with an unforgettable experience, allowing you to fully immerse yourselves in the charm of Monaghan and Ireland’s Ancient East.
The hotel allows the option to move in the night before your wedding with your wedding party. Granting you the opportunity to start your celebrations as soon as possible and create a sense of anticipation and excitement. The elegant Sakura Suite serves as the ideal backdrop for your ceremony, with its romantic pastel tones and opulent wall panelling. This versatile space allows you to infuse your own personal touches, making your special day truly unique and memorable.
To ensure a warm Irish welcome for your guests, they will be greeted in the private pre-reception Limewood Suite with refreshing drinks and delectable snacks. They can then relax on plush crushed velvet sofas, creating a cosy and inviting atmosphere.
When it’s time for your wedding feast, the talented chefs will prepare a mouthwatering meal using fresh, locally sourced ingredients. This will be accompanied by fine wine and served in the beautifully refurbished Seasons Suite, which can accommodate parties of all sizes, from intimate gatherings to grand celebrations of up to 350 guests.
The hotel also boasts stunning grounds with mature and intimate gardens, providing picturesque locations for capturing your precious wedding moments. These gardens also offer the perfect opportunity to bask in the sun’s rays, should the weather be on your side!
To help prolong the celebrations, wedding couples will receive a discounted rate for a selection of comfortable guest rooms. As an added bonus, the wedding couple will also have complimentary access to the Superior Suite and two additional guest rooms. All accommodation includes full access to the
award-winning Leisure Club and a wholesome full Irish breakfast.
Beyond the stunning aesthetics, the team takes care of the finer details, from exquisite menus crafted by top chefs to impeccable service from dedicated staff. Every aspect of the wedding is carefully coordinated and executed, leaving the couple and their loved ones to simply relax and enjoy the momentous occasion.
To make your wedding planning even sweeter, on offer is an exclusive 10% discount on all new wedding bookings for dates within the next 10-months. If you’ve been waiting for the perfect time to start planning, this is your sign to say ‘Yes!’ to a beautiful wedding. Because the hotel believes that every love story deserves a grand celebration, they want to make sure that you and your closest loved ones experience a truly unforgettable dining experience on your big day.
Priding themselves on offering exclusivity, ensuring that only one wedding per day is hosted. This means that your wedding will receive their full attention, care, and dedication, allowing you to relax and enjoy every moment without distractions.
The team’s dedication and attention to detail have earned them a reputation as one of the leading wedding venues in the industry, with countless happy couples and their guests raving about their experience. With a commitment to excellence and a passion for creating unforgettable memories, the team continues to exceed expectations and set the standard for lavish weddings; Reflected by the awards accredited to the team and venue. Whether it’s a classic and elegant affair or a modern and chic celebration, the team will go above and beyond to make every couple’s dream wedding a reality. So, if you’re looking for a truly exceptional wedding experience, look no further than the iconic Four Seasons Hotel & Leisure Club, Monaghan, and its dedicated team of professionals. They will not only meet but exceed your expectations, making your special day a truly unforgettable one.
Secure your 2025 wedding today and take advantage of these limited time offers available. Contact a member of the wedding team today on weddings@4seasonshotel.ie or +353 (0)47 81 888 to arrange your private or virtual viewing.
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BIG DAY >>>
Your Wedding, Your Way
Multi award winning venue. Embrace yourself in the stunning heritage village of Leighlinbridge, a hidden gem in the Ancient East.
So tell us how you met, were you single for a long time before you started dating?
We met on a dating app, and our first date was during the lockdown where they opened the pubs for a week before Christmas 2021. But you had to have a reservation to get in anywhere which we forgot about. So I ended up driving half an hour to Emma’s hometown to go to a small local pub and was half an hour late. But we hit it off, I was 3 years single from a bad breakup and Emma was just out of a relationship. So we both weren’t looking for anything but there was just something about Emma, other than the fact that she’s stunning, that kept me coming back.
How long after you started dating did it take to pop the question, was it an immediate yes ? And who asked who?
We had been together a year and a half years when I proposed to Emma in Prince’s street Gardens in Edinburgh, I had bought tickets to see Dermot Kennedy that night in Edinburgh castle for us. And I said we should take a seat along the bank and I started in on my rehearsed speech of how much I loved her and got down on both knees to ask her to marry me. And realised there was a group of German school kids, clearly on a school trip, standing directly behind us watching the whole thing.
But Emma immediately said yes, thank god!
Tell us about your BIG DAY, location, amount of guests etc.
We got married at Beech Hill Country House there on Saturday 17th May. They were honestly amazing, they’re only a wedding venue so they had the whole day down pat. We got married outside in their forest by our lovely celebrant Claire Shearer. We’re a mixed marriage, but not very religious, so a humanist wedding was right up our street, because it put our story at the heart of the day. We had about 110 guests in the end, from Friends and family.
What about the food and drink?
The food was utterly amazing, we really struggled picking a menu
because it all was so good. But ended up going with a 4 course meal and a cocktail hour after the ceremony. It was a bit of us, we love a Gim bramble or a wee bottle of Corona and actually ended up having a Corona in one of our wedding photos!
Were there any hiccups or did all go to plan?
There were absolutely no hiccups on the day, thank god. But on the lead up to the day everything that could’ve gone wrong did, my parents couldn’t find my birth
certificate so I had to order a new one and we didn’t think it would be here in time for us to register our wedding which has to be done a month before or you can’t get married, a trip to A&E - I’ve severe nut allergy and ended up going into anaphylaxis, my car broke down the week of the wedding, our invitations were late and people weren’t sure if they were coming or not because they hadn’t received them, a close family member had a health scare and we decided to buy a house 5months before our wedding so had to deal with the rollercoaster of moving out and in with Emma’s mum. Whilst we waited for our new home to complete the sale. It’s been a real mission to get to the day and I think the relief as well as happiness was evident on our faces.
Have you been on or are you going on honeymoon?
We have our honeymoon booked to the Amalfi coast in August and we can’t wait!!
In your daily lives what do you do for work ? What interests do you share and have that are different ?
I am (Aimée) a scientist for the civil service and Emma is a support worker for a charity.
We absolutely love food, and our first dates during lockdown were to travel the country trying out the food trucks that opened. And to be honest a lot of our holiday plans centre around the food we can try in each of the places we visit. Emma will send me tiktoks of recipes and I will try them out, with varying degrees of success, I may have set a fire alarm off a time or two trying to make homemade mozzarella sticks.
Do you do everything together in terms of socialising, travel ? Yes, Emma’s my best friend as well as my wife. We balance each other out and other than our hen dos and work trips. We’ve never
travelled without each other in our 3 and a half years together. And a lot of mine and Emma’s friends are now just our friends. We also love a bottomless brunch, together but who doesn’t, especially if there’s a saxophone player.
Have you a family, is this something on the plan for you?
We have 2 cats at the moment, which are the light of our home. But babies are definitely on the cards in the next year!
Tell us who made your day possible in terms of rings, flowers, photographer, cars etc Mark Barnes the legend that he is was our photographer and Beth from Minford Media was our videographer. They both were honestly perfect at putting you at ease through slagging, which was a bit of us tbh. Dawn Rose, our amazing Make-up artist, who made us look amazing and the real silent mastermind of the day for us. She put us at ease and her talent speaks for itself in how we look. Claire Shearer, our humanist, was so helpful in helping us write our vows and make the day special,
and as a gay woman herself, she knew exactly the support we needed! Diane Thompson from Charlotte’s web Florists, made the day pop with all our flowers. She was a Queen on the day travelling up to Derry! Brook Avenue was our vintage artisan ice cream cart. And also Estefania Baena was our live painter, she helped me surprise Emma. And painted a live portrait of us walking down the aisle and that was my wedding present to Emma!
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Honestly no, we are very much the same at home. I will say that married life suits us and the day just being about us coming together, was exactly the reason why people get married!
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Gary Campion
HAPPY PRIDE EVERYONE!
I’ve always loved the pride issue for two big reasons, it’s available in Print because (I love flicking through a physical magazine), but I also get to write about new releases for the Pride season plus put a big rainbow coloured spotlight on Queer and ally artists to check out and support….not just for Pride but for all year round.
Since the last issue, I have been absolutely hectic with gigs, festivals and album reviews, what are you waiting for?? Let’s get stuck in……
My summer live music highlights...
(so far)
Summer has always been my favourite season, especially thanks to all the amazing music releases, tours, and festivals that come with it! Since the last issue, I attended the phenomenal Scissor Sisters’ Anniversary Tour at SSE Belfast. And Jake, if you’re reading this, I’m still dreaming of that neon suit and diamante vest!
I also hit up Mighty Hoopla for the second time, and it was a blast! I’m proud to say I stepped up my outfit game this year. On Day One, I rocked some fun accessories. I ventured beyond the main stages and discovered some hidden gems—Barioke was great craic singing along in the front row, I caught up with my old chum and former cover star Una Healy as she absolutely killed it at The Pleasure Palace with her Saturdays classics. Can we get a reunion please girls?
top 5 pride ally tracks:
Jade Plastic Box
This ally and Hoopla headliner is churning out hit after hit while using her platform at every opportunity. This is going to be huge, her UK & Ireland tour is already sold out!
Ke$ha Love Is My Drug
This song is just pure joy and she rocked out to it playing a live guitar at Mighty Hoopla #iconicmemory
Dannii Minogue
We Could be the one
Pixie Lott brought the party on the HayU stage with her superb live vocals and hot male dancers who carried her out onto the stage. And on Sunday, Ke$ha closed the festival with a huge show that was a major “screw you” to her haters, even bringing Jake Shears on stage—minus my suit, of course!
I also had a chance to chat with the fabulous Olivia Lunny before her set for Justin Timberlake at Belsonic, Regardless of opinions about his personal life, he knows how to captivate a crowd with his hits, killer dance breaks and stage presence. It was a night to remember!
The theme to I kissed a boy/girl from the queen of the dance charts who made a quick appearance to introduce Jade on the main stage at hoopla.
Harry Styles As it was He was always my favourite 1D’er and his tunes and fashions are next level, a total pride bop!
Pixie Lott All About Tonight
This has always been a fave of mine, but it has reached a new level after catching her perform it live at Hoopla!
My quick in-person chat with Olivia Lunny before opening for Justin Timberlake.
Belfast was buzzing as Olivia kicked off her first visit to the city, opening for none other than Justin Timberlake. The singer, who previously rocked Dublin, was excited to experience the famed Belfast Irish crowd. “When I played in Dublin, I thought, ‘Holy s***, this is crazy!’” she exclaimed, hinting at the vibrant energy she anticipates tonight.
Olivia revealed how the opportunity to open for Timberlake came about. “I have an amazing team, and one day I got a call saying, ‘Hey Olivia, you’re going to open for Justin Timberlake.’ I gladly accepted!” Though she hasn’t met him yet, she remains hopeful that their paths will cross tonight or during her next stop in Dublin.
We asked if she had a dream duet in mind with Justin. “I’ve got to say ‘Mirrors’, it’s kind of an anthem for me! Though ‘Sexy Back’ would be a blast,” Olivia replied with a laugh. On the flip side, she would love to have Timberlake join her on “City of Angels,” calling it one of her catchiest songs.
Having just wrapped a tour in Europe, Olivia reminisced about the loudest crowd she’s performed for. “Warsaw, Poland, was absolutely wild when I was touring with Ellie Goulding in 2023,” she said. Her experience opening for Golding was surreal, as she has admired her for years.
Tour life has its ups and downs, and Olivia shared a memorable moment from her time on stage. “When we played in Berlin, the power went out except for my microphone,” she recalled. “I ended up doing an acoustic song, and everyone lit up their phones. It turned into something special rather than a nightmare.”
When I related to her story, reminiscing about similar moments with other artists. Olivia smiled, “As performers, we have no choice but to embrace those moments. It’s our artistry or nothing!”
Our conversation turned to her recent album, “Velvet and Denim,” which Olivia described as a reflection of the duality in her life over the past five years. “There have been highs and lows, moving from the small-town vibe of Winnipeg to the glam of LA,” she explained. The album captures both sides: “Side A is velvet, and Side B is denim,” she articulated, showcasing her journey through contrasting experiences.
One song stands out in her heart, “Marilyn.” When asked if Marilyn Monroe was an inspiration, Olivia said, “Not just in a literal sense, but more about capturing her energy. She could transform from Norma Jean to Marilyn and own that beautiful, empowering vibe.”
As Olivia prepared to take the stage, it was clear she carries the spirit of her music and the resilience of her journey with her, ready to captivate Belfast’s audience…..and she did!
Don’t leave it too long to your next visit Olivia, you’ve gained a fan in GNI Magazine!
Olivia Lunny Photos by @jessmeadephoto
Hot album release previews...
Lorde - Virgin - Out Now
Lorde is back, and she’s making waves with this exciting new album after four long years. This New Zealand gem is ready to take us on a fresh journey with her music, promising a bold shift in her sound and storytelling. The buzz is already real, thanks to her latest single, “What Was That.” I highlighted it as a hot release in my last column, co-produced by Lorde, it’s no surprise that it’s already making waves. This track bursts with raw energy and emotional depth, and guess what? It hit #1 on Spotify in the US, marking Lorde’s first US #1 since “Royals,” talk about a triumphant return!
The music video is a must-see, shot in the vibrant streets of New York, featuring a surprise live performance at Washington Square Park that perfectly captures the excitement of this new era. Plus, I can’t get enough of the other standout tracks, like “Hammer,” “Favourite Daughter,” and “GRWM,” with their electrifying beats and Lorde’s dreamy vocals. I can’t wait to watch her set at Glastonbury to hear them performed live!
Billie Marten - Dog Eared - 18th July
I have to admit, I’d never heard of Billie before I got sent the listening link to her 5th album, but I’m all for discovering fresh sounds! This album is the perfect soundtrack for those cosy vibes. Imagine sinking into a candlelit bath or curling up with a good book while her soothing melodies play in the background. The standout tracks for me are “Crown,” “Clover,” and “The Glass” Each of them is beautifully mellow and lyrically rich.
Recorded live in New York, this album showcases Billie’s evolution as an artist while still keeping her signature sound. The opening track, “Feeling,” captures the essence of childhood memories, layered with a rhythmic guitar that sets the tone for the whole album.
Billie is hitting the road including two dates here on our little island:
5th November - Dublin, IE @ Vicar Street
6 November - Belfast, UK @ Empire Music Hall
I am certainly planning on checking her out in Belfast, who knows, maybe I will see you at the Empire in November, you can thank me then!
Other Albums due out soon - Watch out for my reviews of these on our socials!
Cian Ducrot - Little Dreaming - 1st Aug
Get ready for some exciting news, our favourite cover star is dropping his highly anticipated second album, “Little Dreaming,” on the 1st August! This follow-up to his #1 debut, “Victory,” promises a fresh journey filled with 70s and 80s vibes, sparkling sounds, and heartfelt lyrics. Cian’s set to kick off a UK and Europe tour on 13th September. He’s capturing our hearts with authentic storytelling, and his latest single is all about celebrating what makes us unique. Trust me, you won’t want to miss this release or your chance to see him live!
Kae Tempest - Self Titled - 4th July
Tom Grennan - Everywhere I Went Led Me To Where I Didn’t Want To Be - 15th Aug
Sabrina Carpenter - Man’s Best Friend - 29th Aug
TOP five LATEST RELEASES ON REPEAT
Alessi Rose
That could be Me!
TikTok star turned Singer/songwriter’s second release from her highly anticipated new EP “Voyeur” due out later this month, a guitar-based bop!
Yungblud Ghosts
Pop, Punk Rock at its best with his gritty and raspy vocals - go give it a spin for this outspoken Yorkshire lad!
Swedish House Mafia
Wait So Long 10 months since their last release, the guys are back doing what they do best, HOUSE music, ushering in an exciting new 3.0 era for the group.
Benson Boone
Mr Electric Blue Backflipping his way onto my top 5 for pride is the sparkly jumpsuit-wearing man of the moment who continues to remind me of Freddie Mercury but in a good way!
Lola Young
Not like that
Anymore
The first track for her forthcoming album “I’m Only F**king Myself”, the Messy one is giving us another hit for the summer festival season.
dr bryan
Sensitive Facial Skin
Conditions: Understanding Triggers and Managing FlareUps
For many people, skin is a canvas for self-expression, confidence, and identity. During Pride Month, we celebrate the spectrum of identities that make up our community. Yet for those living with rosacea and sensitive skin, feeling comfortable in one’s skin; both physically and emotionally, can be a daily challenge.
As a dermatologist, I regularly see patients affected by persistent facial redness, stinging, and discomfort that interfere with their lives. Rosacea and sensitive skin, while common, are often misunderstood. I hope that this month’s piece explains these conditions, unpacks potential triggers (from makeup to margaritas), and outlines how dermatologists can support you in feeling proud in your skin.
What is Sensitive Skin?
The term “sensitive skin” describes skin that reacts easily to external stimuli, often in ways that healthy skin does not. Individuals may experience burning, stinging, tightness, or redness when using skincare products, wearing certain fabrics, or being exposed to heat, wind, or sun.
Sensitive skin is not a diagnosis in itself, but rather a symptom complex. It can be associated with several dermatological conditions, including:
• Rosacea
• Contact dermatitis
Sensitive skin often arises from an altered or impaired skin barrier — the protective outermost layer of the skin responsible for keeping irritants out and moisture in. When this barrier is compromised, the skin becomes more permeable to allergens and irritants, leading to inflammation and discomfort.
The Skin Barrier: An Unsung Hero
The stratum corneum, our skin’s epidermal outermost layer, is made up of skin cells compacted together like a brick wall. In rosacea and sensitive skin, this barrier can be weakened due to genetics, chronic inflammation, environmental exposures, and even overuse of skincare products. It can be further weakened by rubbing or scratching if the skin is already inflamed.
When the barrier is damaged: water evaporates more easily, microbes can penetrate more deeply and potentially trigger infection, then inflammatory pathways become overactive, resulting in a rashes such as rosacea or dermatitis. Symptoms like tightness, flaking, itching, burning, and flushing are frequently reported, so supporting barrier repair is a cornerstone of rosacea and sensitive skin management.
What is Rosacea?
Rosacea is a chronic inflammatory skin condition that affects the cheeks, nose, forehead, and chin. It can occur across all skin tones and ethnicities, coming on typically in the or 3rd decade or after, but may be underdiagnosed in those with darker complexions due to the less visible nature of cheek redness. There are several subtypes of rosacea:
• Flushed, telangiectatic rosacea – characterised by persistent redness and visible blood vessels (telangiectasia).
• Papulopustular rosacea – includes red bumps and pustules, often confused with acne.
• Rhinophyma – thickened, red skin, usually on the nose.
• Ocular rosacea – affects the eyes and/or eyelids, associated with redness, dryness, and irritation.
Rosacea is not curable, but it is very manageable if you seek the correct diagnosis, remain wary of your triggers and, very importantly, use sunscreen! Early diagnosis and tailored treatment can significantly improve quality of life.
Contact Dermatitis: Irritant vs Allergic
Sensitive skin is closely linked to contact dermatitis, which comes in two primary forms:
Irritant Contact Dermatitis
This is the most common type and results from repeated exposure to substances that physically or chemically damage the skin barrier. Harsh soaps, alcohol-based cleansers, exfoliants (or over-exfoliating), and certain household cleaning products are common culprits. Excessive exposure to water through frequent hand washing or submerging hands when dishwashing or washing vehicles, might also trigger this.
Allergic Contact Dermatitis
Following repeated exposure to an ‘allergen’ that a person has become sensitised to, the body triggers an immune response when exposed again. This manifests as a dry, scaly and itchy rash.
Common allergens
Fragrances and preservatives in cosmetics and skincare products
• Nickel (in jewellery, razors, keys, coins or buckles)
• Ingredients in hair dye such as paraphenylenediamine (PPD)
• Rubber components in latex gloves, condoms or masks
Patch testing by a dermatologist can help identify allergens and then guide avoidance strategies for you.
Common Triggers for Rosacea and Sensitive Skin
Understanding your personal triggers is essential. These can vary from person to person but frequently include:
Makeup and Skincare Products
Many patients find that cosmetics, particularly those with alcohol, fragrance, or active ingredients (e.g., retinoids, alpha hydroxy acids), exacerbate symptoms.
• Avoid waterproof or long-wear makeup which requires strong removers.
• Mineral-based makeup with zinc oxide or titanium
dioxide can offer coverage and sun protection.
Sun Exposure
Ultraviolet (UV) radiation can trigger rosacea flares. Even brief exposure may cause persistent redness.
Tips:
• Use broad-spectrum SPF 30+ daily - I suggest using a proper sunscreen before makeup. Seek shade during peak hours (11am–3pm).
• Wear widebrimmed hats and sunglasses.
Alcohol
Alcohol causes widening of blood vessels leading to flushing and redness. We all know someone who goes red when they drink, so this might be a sign of rosacea, however, some people don’t flare until a few days after drinking alcohol.
Tips:
• Limit intake and know your tolerance levels.
Spicy Foods
Spicy dishes stimulate nerve endings and blood vessels in the skin, causing a flushed, overheated sensation for those that suffer with rosacea.
Tips:
• Moderate your spice intake and keep a food diary to help identify ‘trigger dishes’ to avoid.
Emotional Stress
Stress can exacerbate inflammation, plus we can become less ‘compliant’ with our skincare routine, so flares might occur.
Tips:
• Incorporate mindfulness practices like meditation, yoga, or breathing exercises.
• Speak to your GP if stress or anxiety
feels overwhelming or does not settle.
Managing Flare-Ups
Managing sensitive skin, dermatitis and rosacea involves both prevention and treatment:
Skincare Routine
• Cleanse gently: Use a non-foaming, soap-free cleanser.
• Moisturise regularly to nourish, soothe and hydrate a delicate or reactive barrier.
• Do not over exfoliate. Ditch beaded scrubs and avoid acids during flare-ups.
Prescription Treatments
Depending on the severity of your skin condition, a dermatologist may recommend:
• Topical agents such as antibiotics, azelaic acid or ivermectin for rosacea, or steroid or tacrolimus ointments for active dermatitis.
• Oral antibiotics can help very inflamed rosacea.
• Steroid tablets should be limited to only very severe flares of dermatitis under the supervision of a dermatologist or GP.
• Vascular lasers or intense pulsed light (IPL) can fade persistent redness and broken vessels once rosacea is otherwise under control
Rosacea, Sensitive Skin, and Identity: A Pride Month Perspective
Pride Month is about visibility, acceptance, and celebrating who we are. Yet skin concerns might get in the way, particularly when dealing with conditions like rosacea and dermatitis that affect the face.
Makeup is a powerful tool for expression and identity, with many of our community looking fabulous for Pride parades and other events. But for
with reactive rosacea or allergic contact dermatitis, potentially irritating makeup can become a battleground. Choosing skin-friendly products, working with makeup artists familiar with dermatological conditions, and seeking advice from a supportive dermatologist can make a world of difference to avoid triggering a flare.
Make sure to ‘patch test’ new makeup or skincare on your inner elbow, a few dabs per day for 10 days. If a rash does not appear, you should be able to try this on your face, however, remember to stop if a rash appears following this product’s use. Let’s not forget the emotional burden of skin conditions. Living with visible skin symptoms can lead to social withdrawal. If you, or a loved one, is having problems with a skin condition that is impacting on mental health, know that you’re not alone - help is available!
Book to see a dermatologist for a diagnosis, a tailored treatment plan, relevant diagnostic investigations, such as patch testing, then ongoing guidance and tips to help you to build a skincare routine that supports, rather than sabotages, your skin.
Importantly, dermatologists understand that skin is more than biology — it’s tied to identity and confidence. My clinics, like those of all consultant dermatologists, are here to provide inclusive, respectful, and supportive care and treatment for you.
Final Thoughts and Wishing Everyone a Happy Pride
Living with a sensitive skin condition that affects your face can feel frustrating, but it doesn’t mean you have to hide. Whether you’re stepping out in full glam or going barefaced, remember that beauty is not defined by perfection. We are all unique in colour, shape, size, looks, personality… and more!
If your skin is speaking louder than your confidence, consider seeing a dermatologist. We’re here to listen, treat, and empower — so you can live proudly in the skin you’re in.
Happy Pride x
Dr Bryan Murphy Consultant Dermatologist
Belfast, Northern Ireland
https://dermdocni.co.uk/
Please note, this column is the opinion of the columinst and not that of GNI or Romeo & Julian Publiccations Ltd.
Set Sail for Sass, Sequins, and Sea Breezes
By Larry Olsen
Hosted by the Legendary Mrs. Kasha Davis, the 2026 ‘Drag Me to the Sea’ Cruise Promises Glamour, Gags, and Unforgettable Gaiety on the High Seas
Get ready to trade your sea legs for stilettos as Drag Me to the Sea cruises into queer pop culture history! Departing March 8, 2026 in Los Angeles, aboard the luxurious Norwegian Bliss, this over-the-top oceanic extravaganza will be hosted by none other than drag icon and comedy queen, Mrs. Kasha Davis. With fifteen world-famous drag artists on board, this floating festival of fabulosity promises more than just a vacation. It will be a full-throttle, wigs-to-the-wall celebration of community, camp, and charisma.
“I love a cruise! A buffet, the open seas, incredible entertainment, cocktails (or strong coffee in my case), sun, fun, and sass! What more could anyone
ask for in March of 2026?!” beams
Davis, who describes herself as “your overenthusiastic Auntie” bringing oldschool camp, dad jokes in a dress, and always a dash of kindness.
With stops in Puerto Vallarta, Cabo San Lucas, and Mazatlán, guests can look forward to tropical adventures mixed with high-octane glamour, both onboard and ashore.
And while drinks are included - “Drink up!!” quips Davis with a wink - the real buzz is the star-studded lineup. Alongside RuPaul’s Drag Race favorites like Detox, Darienne Lake and Thorgy Thor (who promises to be “on volume ten for twenty-four hours a day!), the cruise will feature legendary drag icons including Varla Jean Merman, Dixie Longate, Sister Roma, Aggy Dune, Ambrosia Salad, Ethylina Canne, Jewels Long Beach, and Carmen Adore.
Expect it all: bingo, brunches, intimate cabarets, theme nights, and spectacular stage shows. Plus, plenty of unfiltered, unforgettable interactions both in and out of drag. “You might end up having a cocktail, a poolside chat, or even some private sauna time with one of these divas,” Davis teases. “I don’t judge.”
But this isn’t just about glitz and gags. Drag Me to the Sea proudly celebrates the diversity and legacy of drag beyond the mainstream. “All too often drag companies only hire the youngest of queens,” Davis notes. “We’re showcasing performers who’ve been around the block - sometimes twice! - and who know exactly how to captivate a crowd and make you think and feel through their art.”
From photo ops and Q&As to latenight dance parties and spontaneous moments in the buffet line, Drag Me
to the Sea ensures no guest is just a spectator. “You’ll be vacationing with the queens,” Davis promises.
“Memories will be made.”
At its core, Drag Me to the Sea is about joy and connection. “We need each other now more than ever,” says Davis. “And we’re bringing all the joy we’ve got. Honestly, every queen on the roster holds a special place in my old dying heart. I’m thrilled we’re doing this together.”
So pack your sunblock, Advil, fiber supplements, and a fistful of dollar bills — and get ready to sashay, slay, and possibly cry-laugh your way across the Pacific. Because on this cruise, they’re not just sailing… they’re serving.
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Sicily romantic and seductive
Firstly if you didn’t know or indeed are not even aware of the show White Lotus then where have you been and what have you been doing (Joking). Season two of this wonderful show was shot mainly on location at a luxury resort in Taormina Sicily. Prior to this show I had never even heard of It however it is funny to think that this place was in-fact a real hive of life for the LGBTQ community back in the 1800s.
Today Taormina’s gay scene may be small in comparison to other Sicilian cities, but that isn’t stopping increasing numbers of LGBTQ travellers from visiting. Tourists today are often looking something different and more than the usual gay well know destinations or resorts for both beauty and privacy. I think Pride Month can be celebrated for many in the community by simply enjoying holidays to Gay friendly destinations who accept you for simply being you.
The White Lotus put Sicily back on the travellers radar and especially after the second season, everyone is making a point to visit which is often the effect film and or movies can have on destinations who embrace fans.
I stated before history for the LGBTQ community has a part to play in actually shaping destinations and resorts and as I mentioned Sicily was a highly frequented destination among gay tourists in the 1920s. And surprise surprise Now once again , well over 100 years later, the community is rediscovering its beauty and charm.
Sicily has for many always been an expensive destination and has been avoided by many due to this but this has its perks because the clientele which it does attract tends to be those more affluent consumers willing to spend more money. Taormina has long been a luxurious destination on Sicily’s east coast, especially popular for its stunning cliffside views where spending a lazy day on the beach is a wonderful option as is walking through the charming city’s centre.
You’ll find a lot accommodations just to the east of Taormina’s town centre. Most of these are perched up along a series of cliffs and offer unbeatable views. But, depending on how far up the mountainside they’re located, can be strenuous to walk from.
If your making the effort to come here then I would say then it is 100% worthwhile investing your money in the best place I can see to stay. The San Domenico Palace Four Seasons is undoubtedly Taormina’s ritziest, most luxurious hotel. The property is breathtaking, full of stunning gardens and terraces overlooking the seaside and the famous Isola Bella. It’s also located right in the centre of town. If money is no option and you love to be in ultra luxury and indeed stay in the property often used as a site location for the White Lotus show then you are guaranteed to enjoy this gem.
As I say in all my destination reviews do some research yourself on the destination especially around the accommodation offering for many reasons such as budgets and practical reasons such as location accessibility which could be a real issue here in Sicily.
Sicily has been.a firm favourite for UK and Irish holiday makers for years, but has some how managed not loose any of its charm due to mass tourism. In many guide books you will often see it classified as as undisputed Mediterranean beauty since the time of the ancients, the Italian island of Sicily shamelessly seduces anyone who graces the shores.
With Its unique hidden coves to exhilarating sweeps of white, black or golden sand, Sicily offers paradise-like beaches ready to grace your social media feeds making your friends and family jealous.
Look beyond the Sicilian coast and kitchen, and you find a kaleidoscope of places to visit –bursting with artistic masterpieces, cultural jewels or natural beauty in abundance, depending on which hilltop village, baroque town, rural winery or lemon farm you pinpoint on the map. Scenic trains, buses and boats make getting around Sicily part of the experience for adventurers..
Unlike many destinations I have spoken about in the past I would Sicily has a very romantic and seductive feel about it from the moment you arrive and the welcome at the airport to the people and its local characters and culture.
Oddly I am not a huge fan of mainland Italy as I often find it too old for me and I am not one for exploring historic streets or buildings but Sicily is different as it has so much more and such an array of buildings and feels often Greek due to its past history.
If I could say one things about Sicily it would be to go with someone who means a lot to you because I feel that its a very romantic island and should be enjoyed by lovers or couples. If its enjoying the beautiful beaches by day or the scenic mountain views together and then in the evening the romantic long evening meals followed by a bottle or two of wine then for me you will have a part of Sicily with you always.
The Summer season can be very busy so if you can I would suggest making the best of the very start of the season or maybe even the end of the season as prices can be more affordable and the weather will be generally be just as good in May or end of September
Most UK tour operators such as Jet2Holidays and TUI offer flights and holiday packages to Sicily but personally I feel its always best to check prices separately if not just to compare but also to make sure your pound is being given the best value.
If I can suggest one thing in particular it is to invest in taking the opportunity to do a few days car hire as its an island and the landscape can be quite hilly but car hire allows you to reach some of the little towns and beaches not possible when stuck in a resort plus it will give you a better overall experience and provide you with some of the best views for you holiday memories.
Finally I would like to wish you all a Happy Pride 2025 however you celebrate.
Happy Holidays until next time Gavyn.
Seaside Splendour
how the charles hotel in pacific grove blendns timeless british Elegance with calafornia costal
charm
On the misty shores of California’s Central Coast, just a short walk from Monterey Bay’s crashing waves, a jewel of Anglo-American refinement has quietly redefined the Pacific Grove hospitality scene. The Charles Pacific Grove, a boutique bed and breakfast housed in a century-old manor, has emerged from a top-to-bottom interior transformation and it is nothing short of a masterclass in British-inspired luxury.
Guided by renowned interior designer Charles Gruwell, the hotel’s redesign is an homage to the stately grace of London’s grand hotels and bed and breakfasts. Having wandered the hallowed halls of the English capital’s finest establishments, Gruwell has transported that signature sophistication across the Atlantic, blending it seamlessly with the rugged charm of California’s coastline. “The City of London’s classical architecture deeply influenced this project,” Gruwell shares. “I wanted to bring that sense of enduring sophistication back to my hometown.”
Inside, guests are immediately enveloped in a rich tableau of textures and period detail. The lobby stuns with a bold black-and-camel patterned carpet, punctuated by antique furnishings procured from High Point, Los Angeles, and San Francisco. Tufted leather seating and tailored drapery echo a gentleman’s club in Mayfair, while original Victorian wallpaper and woodwork root the space firmly in its historic context. Remarkably, the original chandeliers, sconces, and Lincrusta wall panels remain—restored to gleaming glory.
The pièce de résistance may well be the elegant dining rotunda. Framed by towering bookcases and anchored by a neoclassical breakfast table, the space is at once grand and intimate. It is a place to
sip morning tea and feel transported.
Each of the hotel’s guest suites channels its own interpretation of the manor-house mood, with swags, coverlets, and pillows tying the rooms together through a cohesive yet custom palette. No two rooms are alike, though all whisper of a time when leisure was an art form.
The Charles is also the flagship of the Metro Lifestyle Brand, a new venture by Gruwell and hospitality partners Don and Jay Desai. Their choice of Pacific Grove is no accident; the town offers whale watching, kelp forest diving, and coastal trails just moments away, marrying Gruwell’s vision of quiet opulence with nature’s grandeur.
“I hope guests notice the curated individuality of every design detail,” Gruwell says. “But more than anything, I want them to feel welcomed, comfortable, and pampered.”
With a sister location in Napa currently under renovation, The Charles is poised to become a name synonymous with heritage, hospitality, and high style—whether by the sea or among the vines.
www.TheCharlesPG.com
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An afternoon tea treat...
at the culloden estate and spa
By: Daniel May
If there’s one thing that can instantly elevate a typical Tuesday, it’s a visit to the Culloden Estate & Spa, and when you throw in a sumptuous afternoon tea, a blissful spa session, and a gym workout that almost balances the indulgence, you’ve got the recipe for a five-star kind of day.
My fabulous friend Tammy and I took a little time out for what we initially thought would be a relaxing few hours. It ended up being a full-blown wellnessand-well-fed extravaganza, and I’m not complaining. As soon as we stepped into the grand lobby of the Culloden, we were greeted by an air of elegance, warm hospitality, and the distinct smell of something delicious baking in the distance.
Let’s start with the main event: afternoon tea. We were seated by a large window overlooking the manicured gardens, with a glorious sea view and from the moment the first tiered tray landed on our table, it was clear we were in for a treat. The experience wasn’t just about food, it was a perfectly choreographed performance of flavours, textures, and indulgent moments.
Our culinary curtain-raiser came in the form of two delightful hors d’oeuvres. The Pork, Thyme & Wholegrain Mustard Sausage Roll was the very definition of comfort wrapped in pastry, while the Wild Mushroom, Parmesan & Truffle Volau-Vent brought an earthiness that danced on the palate, rich, savoury, and utterly moreish.
scones. Plain and Raspberry & white chocolate, served warm with Erin Grove preserves and lashings of clotted cream and Jam. Honestly, I could write a love letter to these scones alone. Fluffy inside with that slight golden crust on the outside, they were the kind of treat that makes you question whether you’ll ever be satisfied by a shop-bought scone again.
Just when we thought it couldn’t get any better, the patisserie selection appeared like a glittering dessert encore. Each bite-sized beauty was crafted
Needless to say, we washed everything down with a pot or two of tea from the extensive Thompson’s selection. I went classic with Irish Breakfast, while Tammy got adventurous with “Ginger and Pineapple” which, if you’re curious, is as heavenly as it sounds. As the designated driver there were no bubbles for me though Tammy indulged in a glass of champagne which she loved (next visit it shall by my turn).
Feeling both full and fulfilled, we waddled (gracefully, of course) over to the Gym, those scones needed to be earned after all , we did approx 45 minute sessions, it was so well-equipped with a good mix of free weights and machines. While here we had a surprise visit from Cormac, the General Manager, who took the time to find us for a quick chat. It’s rare to see a manager who’s not just passionate but personally invested in the guest experience. It’s that kind of touch that makes the Culloden feel like more than just a luxurious escape — it feels personal.
Next up was a trio of finger sandwiches, lovingly made using Irwin’s bread (a thoughtful nod to local craftsmanship). The Northern Irish Coronation Chicken with mango chutney was a particular highlight, offering just the right balance of sweet and spice. The Irish Sliced Ham with Dubliner Cheddar and relish felt like an elevated nod to a picnic classic, while Clement’s Egg Mayonnaise with cress brought a creamy, fresh finish to the sandwich selection.
And then (be still my beating heart) came the
with the kind of precision you’d expect in Paris, not just in Holywood. The Opera Gateau was rich and indulgent, with perfectly layered coffee and chocolate. The White Chocolate Macaron had a delicate crisp shell and a satisfyingly chewy centre. I adored the Glazed Orange Madeleine, which was paired beautifully with a whipped Cointreau mascarpone. And finally, the Passion Fruit & Mango Entremets brought a zesty zing to round things off with a tropical flair.
Last but not least was the Spa. The facilities are top-tier, a calming pool area, steam room, sauna, and jacuzzi. We could have chilled there all day, it was honestly so relaxing.
From start to finish, our experience at the Culloden was flawless. Whether you’re celebrating something special or just need a little escape from the everyday, this is the kind of place that wraps you up in warmth, feeds your soul (and stomach), and sends you back out into the world feeling just that little bit more fabulous.
I’ll absolutely be back — and next time, I might even leave room for another scone. Thanks for the invite and hospitality.
Review by Daniel May, Editor of GNI Magazine
Pop over to cullodenestateandspa.com to plan your visit
PETER
Does Pride have a place in interior design?
We’re back! and it’s my jointfavourite season of the year alongside Halloween - its PRIDE season! and I’m so excited for you to hear interior insights from some great names in the UK & Irish community in this issue.
The theme of Pride within interiors really had me thinking recently…
Does Pride have a place in interior design?”
Is it important to showcase your sexual & gender identity within your home?
Does your home show that without you even realising?
Is it something anyone even consciously thinks about??
SO MANY QUESTIONS!!
Before I share a couple of fabulous guest answers, I’ll throw in my own two cents. I probably take my own home decor too seriously, I admit I’m not very playful when it comes to my personal style. I could never allow a Dolly Parton coaster or a lamp base that resembled a rainbow. Of course these icons don’t represent LGBTQ+ people entirely but they do hold importance. Dolly, amongst others, is a part of our collective of allies and the rainbow is that beacon of hope we all know and love, seeing it can have the power to make a person feel safe, wherever they are. That being said, should it be something you display in your home? If it makes you feel safe or brings you joyABSOLUTELY!
We’re a 90% white home, but a friend of mine recently said “You can tell a gay man lives in your home. It’s got a masculine feel but it hasn’t got a straight man’s eye.” Incredibly, my home said “gay” without so much as a rainbow colour in sight! We know colour doesn’t necessarily mean ‘gay’ and neutrals don’t necessarily mean ‘straight’ but now our humble semi-detached has proved it!
Your home doesn’t have to act like a name tag for your life, there are many ways to live in your home. All correct. Whether it embraces your identity or is simply a box you sleep in, but it’s something for you all to think about - Does your home reflect your identity and not your personality? This is all feeling very deep! haha
To hear some fresh thoughts on the subject and to bring more joy to the chat, i reached out to some well known LGBTQ+ faces and asked them all the same 3 questions:
ONE:
Do you feel that you express your sexual/gender identity
through your home decor? Is it even something you think of when decorating.
TWO:
Do you have any ‘gay cliche’s in your home? (rainbow objects, nude artworks, camp slogans) or are they the ‘Live Laugh Love’ of the community.
THREE:
If I went back to your teenage bedroom, would there be clues to your future life?
COMEDIAN, HOST & INTERIOR DESIGN ENTHUSIAST ALAN CARR BRAVELY ADMITTED HIS LOVE OF AGATHA CHRISTIE:
“I don’t think I do, but I bet I do! Ha! Now there’s an answer! You don’t want to start reinforcing stereotypes but I do like fresh flowers in the home in a nice big vase and yes I’m sure there are loads of straight men & women who appreciate a lovely bunch of flowers in a pretty vase, but I like the flamboyance and camp of flowers. I would probably say my house is camp, it’s not gay. I have bespoke Agatha Christie wallpaper made by the brilliant Amy Davies and I am a triple threat when it comes to camp home decor, scented candle, cushions and a fluffy throw!”
“No gay cliches I’m afraid in my house - no rainbows,
no nudes or camp slogans for me. Although I do have a well thumbed coffee table book of David Gandy (in mostly underwear) in my lounge.”
“It’s easy to just think filth and sex when it comes to the teenage bedroom, but I think being gay growing up could be more about being bullied or feeling that you didn’t belong. The clues would probably be the Agatha Christie books on my shelf or the binoculars for my bird watching on the window sill. Escapist things that you would do to take you to another place - a safe space in your own world - a place to be someone else.”
TELEVISION HOST, FAMILY MAN & TWICE WINNER OF BIG BROTHER BRIAN DOWLING SAID:
“No I don’t think that I actually do. I would say that my home decor is more basic but my style can change from time to time.”
“I’m sure we’ve got some camp slogans on cups or coasters around the house, but that’s about it. I do have a Golden Girls t-shirt, does that count?”
“The posters on my wall were of Kylie, Barry McGuigan & A-ha. So I don’t think there were many clues at all. I was always very tidy & kept my room SUPER clean. That’s something I’ve carried into my adult life. One Christmas I got a Diana Ross album off Santa & another year a Bananarama
album so maybe Santa knew something I didn’t!”
So whether you love Agatha or A-ha then stick it on the wall!
Call that your act of interior rebellion!
Is Pride decor just a celebratory moment much like Easter and Christmas? Absolutely not. Sadly the temporary decorations of Pride season can make the emotional importance it has for us feel gimmicky and party-like. Is it possible to decorate your home with the rainbow tastefully all year round-
definitely! because it’s more than just a seasonal holiday for us. If you want to incorporate colourful queer love in a way that doesn’t look like
party decor Sophie Robinson’s latest collection for Dunelm uses her signature bold colours but shakes up the rainbow order but still brings us that joy and dopamine decor hit.
Choosing a Pop Art / Postmodernism design theme also lends itself to use vivid shades of block colours. It’s not for the faint hearted- it packs a punch!
Lastly, look to queer art that isn’t your favourite pop icon! I’d like to shine a spotlight on one of many artists who incorporate Pride into their work: Maggie Stephenson, a
Polish-German illustrator based in Florida. Her work has escapism and idyllic themes throughout. “A lot of my work has pride at its core but it’s woven in subtly and naturally. It’s important to me that queer love and connection feel organically integrated because that’s how all love exists in life. People often see my work as women supporting women, (which I love) but at the root it’s always about love.” you can check out her full works at www.maggiestephenson.com
I’m so excited for Pride and I want to wish you all fantastic celebrations! Who knows, maybe you’ll look at rainbows differently after reading this and show Pride through your interior decor in a way that’s all year round.
Please note, this column is the opinion of the columinst and not that of GNI or Romeo & Julian Publiccations Ltd.
JO O’Neill
Happy Pride, everyone! Whether you’re dancing your heart out, celebrating from the sidelines, or simply embracing your truest self this season, I hope you’re doing it in style.
Beauty and makeup have long been more than just tools of glam—they’re vessels for self-expression, confidence, and identity. They give us permission to explore, transform, and affirm exactly who we are. Pride is the perfect time to break boundaries, play with colour, and wear every bold look like a badge of honour.
I can’t wait to see all the fearless, fabulous faces shining through at this year’s Pride celebrations across Belfast. Here’s to creativity without compromise, and loving out loud—every contour, lash, and glitter-dusted cheekbone included x
Sculpt, Glow & Glisten: Your Summer Skin Hitlist There’s something about summer that makes me want my skin to steal the show—fresh, glowing, and effortlessly radiant. It’s the season for showing a little more and letting your natural beauty shine through. For me, that means keeping things more lightweight, hydrating, and just a touch sun kissed. To keep that radiant vibe alive, here are some summer skincare heroes you’ll want in your beauty bag:
deep of a tan you would like, you just leave it on for 1 to 3 hours (or all night before falling in to bed). No need to wait around all day.
Please note, this column is the opinion of the columinst and not that of GNI or Romeo & Julian Publiccations Ltd.
BPerfect x Ekin-Su Radiant Glow Skin Perfector brings summer radiance to a whole new level. This lightweight illuminator doesn’t just add glow—it nurtures your skin too. Packed with hyaluronic acid, vitamin E, and camellia oil, it hydrates while giving you that healthy, lit-from-within finish.
Whether wearing it solo for a bare-faced day or my favourite - cocktail it with foundation for an amplified glow, it’s my ultimate glow-hack. Bonus points for the skinloving ingredients—hydration without the heaviness.
BPerfect £16.95
Cocoa Brown 1 Hour Tan Created by Marissa Carter is my go-to for an effortless golden glow. What I love most is how quick and fuss-free it is—depending on how
The mousse glides on like a dream and dries super-fast, so you’re not left feeling sticky. And the scent? So much better than that usual fake tan smell—it’s light and floral, with a subtle tropical vibe.
It’s gentle enough to use on both your face and body, and the best part is how evenly it fades. No patchiness, no surprises—just a gorgeous, believable tan that wears beautifully over the week.
Cocoa Brown £9.99
Vita Liberata Body Blur is like your skin’s real-life filter— designed to smooth, bronze, and perfect in one effortless step. It’s a wash-off body makeup that delivers instant colour and a soft-focus finish, ideal for nights out, special events, or just when you want your skin to look extra flawless.
The formula blends effortlessly and dries down quickly, with a non-transfer finish that resists smudging. Infused with hydrating ingredients, it not only enhances the look of the skin but also leaves it feeling silky and nourished.
Vita Liberata £33
To bring a bit of shape and warmth to my face, the BPerfect Cronzer Cream Bronzer has become a staple. It melts into the skin so easily and gives that sculpted, softly sun-drenched finish I live for. I swipe it under my cheekbones, across my temples, and just along the jawline to bring a bit of definition. It never looks muddy or heavy—just healthy and bronzed, like I’m just back from a sunny get-away.
BPerfect £13.95
And to top it all off—literally—the Bellamianta Bronzer is like a golden filter in powder form. Whether I’m dusting it across my face, collarbones, or shins (yes, shins!), it adds a velvety radiance that
grounded—the kind of glow that works equally well on the beach or at a rooftop party.
Bellamianta £16.99
These homegrown
So, whether you’re glowing to the heavens, keeping it dewy and fresh, or adding just the right touch of shimmer, this summer is all about embracing your own kind of radiance. With a few go-to products and a whole lot of confidence, you’re ready to sculpt, glow, and glisten your way through every sunshine-soaked moment.
glam but
BPerfect to Bellamianta, celebrate diversity, empowerment and authenticity, and these gems are not just products—they’re the glow codes I live by all season long. They work together to enhance what’s already there—no heavy coverage, just healthy skin with a hint of shimmer, a dash of sculpt, and a whole lot of summer confidence. Whether I’m heading to the beach or brunching with friends, these are the staples that help me feel my best.
A city escape with heart, style and a view to boot...
THE Maldron hotel belfast city centre
Nestled right in the bustling heart of Belfast, The Maldron Hotel offers that rare city-centre combo: convenience, comfort, and a warm welcome that genuinely makes you feel at home. Whether you’re visiting for work, catching a show, doing a spot of shopping (guilty!), or just looking for a comfortable base to rest your head, The Maldron ticks all the
right boxes – and then some.
After parking just a two-minute stroll away at the Great Northern Multi-Storey (with discounted rates for guests – big win!), I checked in swiftly at 3pm. The reception staff were efficient and friendly, and within moments I was heading up to the 10th floor to my beautiful room.
Now, this is where things went from great to absolutely lovely. Ashleigh, the Sales & Marketing Manager, had gone above and beyond, leaving a thoughtful welcome gift bag packed with goodies, snacks, a bottle of wine, and all the feel-good touches that make a stay feel extra special. A heartfelt thank you for the kindness, Ashleigh, I felt completely spoiled.
With sweeping views of the city, my room on the 10th floor was sleek, modern, and immaculately clean. The bed looked like it was calling my name the second I walked in and trust me, I answered that call later on with great enthusiasm. With plenty of space to unwind, the room had everything I needed for a relaxing stay: Wi-Fi, a desk, and all the tea and coffee I could possibly want.
One of the joys of staying right in the city centre is that everything is on your doorstep. After a quick freshen up, I hit the shops for a wander (and maybe a cheeky purchase or two) before heading back to the hotel’s restaurant for dinner around 6:30pm.
The service was spot on, my waiter was charming, attentive, and full of chat. He talked me through the specials and managed to strike that perfect balance between being professional and genuinely interested in making sure I had a lovely evening.
Let’s talk about food – because wow.
To start, I had the Shrimp Tacos: soft tacos filled with crispy popcorn shrimp, zingy red cabbage slaw, chipotle sauce, and pico de gallo. They were so fresh and bursting with flavour, I could have easily demolished another couple of them, no questions asked.
For the main, I went a little lighter (after indulging in room snacks earlier!) and chose the Caesar Salad with Cajun Chicken. Crisp cos lettuce, crunchy sourdough croutons, plenty of Parmesan, and a creamy Caesar dressing, tomatoes were even added on my request, it was fresh, tasty, and exactly what I needed
Of course, no meal is complete without dessert. I gave in to my sweet tooth (again) and ordered the Sticky Toffee Pudding, it was rich, warm, drenched in caramel sauce, topped with ice cream and a handful of crushed pistachios. It was sweet, gooey heaven on a plate.
After dinner, I headed back upstairs, full and happy, and ready to collapse into bed. With early rehearsals the next morning and several sleep-deprived nights behind me, I was crossing everything for a decent kip. The verdict? Over seven hours of glorious, uninterrupted sleep, practically a miracle in my world!
The bed was dreamy: supportive yet soft, with perfect pillows and just the right room temperature. If you’re someone who struggles to switch off, rest assured, The Maldron knows how to provide the kind of restful environment dreams are made of.
I had every intention of getting up early to check out the gym… but let’s be honest, that was more of a fantasy than a reality after
such a comfy night’s sleep. Still, it’s great to know the option’s there for those with more willpower than me on this occasion.
In all seriousness, I had a brilliant stay. The Maldron Belfast City Centre delivers on all fronts, prime location, comfortable rooms, thoughtful service, and genuinely lovely food. Whether you’re in town for a show, a meeting, a weekend break, or just need a reliable, stylish place to rest your head, you can’t go wrong here.
Warm thanks to the whole team for making my visit so enjoyable, I’ll absolutely be back.
As a hairstylist, I believe that hair is not just a canvas. It’s a vibrant expression of who we are. During Pride Month, this belief takes on a whole new meaning. It’s a time when we celebrate love, diversity, and the beautiful spectrum of identities that make up our community. This year, let’s embrace the spirit of Pride by transforming our hair into a stunning celebration of individuality and selfexpression.
Imagine walking into a room, your hair a dazzling array of colours that reflect the rainbow flag—each hue telling a story of courage, love, and authenticity. From bold reds and vibrant yellows to deep blues and lush greens, every shade can symbolize a different aspect of our journey. As a
hairstylist, I love collaborating with my clients to create looks that not only enhance their beauty but also resonate with their personal narratives. Whether you’re looking for a subtle ombre or a full-on rainbow transformation, the possibilities are endless.
This Pride, let’s push the boundaries of creativity. Think about incorporating fun elements like glitter, temporary hair chalks, or even hair accessories that celebrate your identity. A simple braid can become a statement piece when adorned with Colorful ribbons or beads. The key is to let your personality shine through every
to express themselves. I understand that hair can be deeply personal, and I’m here to listen to your vision and help bring it to life. Whether you’re ’re part of the LGBTQ+ community or an ally, my chair is a safe haven for all. Together, we can craft a look that not only makes you feel fabulous but also empowers you to embrace your true self.
Booking an appointment with me is more than just a trip to the salon; it’s an experience. I take the time to understand your style, your story, and what Pride means to you. We’ll explore colours, cuts, and styles that resonate with your identity, ensuring that you leave my chair feeling not just beautiful, but also celebrated.
This
Pride Month, let’s make a statement together. Your hair can be a powerful symbol of your journey, a reflection of your spirit, and a celebration of your uniqueness. So, whether you want to go all out with a bold new look or simply add a touch of colour to your everyday style, I’m here to help you shine.
Let’s create something magical together. Book your appointment today, and let’s celebrate Pride through the art of hair. Together, we’ll make sure your look is as vibrant and beautiful as you are. Happy Pride
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Please note, this column is the opinion of the columinst and not that of GNI or Romeo & Julian Publiccations Ltd.
Gourmet The
The
Garden Restaurant, Ballygally Castle
We had a terrific culinary experience at The Garden Restaurant in Ballygally Castle, made all the more fabulous by such lovely, sunny views of the pretty gardens outside.
The menu features dishes which use only the finest locally sourced produce, reflecting the very best Northern Ireland has to offer.
To start we had a Seasonal Salad of White Chicory with Candied Walnuts, Kearney Blue Cheese, Candied Fig and Wholegrain Mustard Vinaigrette, and a Classic Prawn Cocktail with Citrus Mayonnaise, Frisée, and Irwin’s Wheaten Bread.
We decided to order two of the Main Course Specials; the Signature Dish of the Month, a perfectly pink Fillet of Roast Salmon with Conway Farm Asparagus, Hollandaise, and Buttered Potatoes, and the Catch of the Day of Spiced Crumb Coated John Dory served with Roast Potatoes, Wild Garlic Cream Sauce, and Tenderstem Broccoli.
Anderson’s Boathouse REstaurant
To finish, the creamy Malteser Cheesecake, served with Muine Glas Toffee and Salted Caramel Ice Cream, and the Taste the Island Cheese Slate with Ditty’s Oatcakes and Erin Grove Spiced Apple Chutney were both a celebration of incredible local produce, and the perfect way to finish our meal in The Garden Restaurant.
Anderson’s Boathouse Restaurant, Killybegs.
Anderson’s Boathouse, a wonderful restaurant in Killybegs, Co Donegal, is owned and operated by Garry & Mairead Anderson who serve up a varied menu championing the superb selection of fish caught by local fishermen.
The restaurant has been open for six years, following the success of its award-winning sister business Killybegs Seafood Shack. The Boathouse serves sophisticated, elevated dishes in a casual, stylish dining room.
We started with an amuse bouche of rich, earthy Spiced Cauliflower Soup, and we loved Garry’s Premium Old Fashioned with “The Midnight” Silkie Donegal Smoked Whiskey. The perfect aperitif.
We then shared a portion of Ward’s Crab Claws in garlic butter and chilli, with seasonal leaves: probably the tastiest, meatiest crab claws we’ve tasted in ages.
To follow, we ordered two stunning seafood specials; Megrim Sole on the bone,
panfried, with Samphire, Lemon Caper Butter and Mashed Potatoes, and crispy skinned Sea Trout, pan seared, with Sautéed Potatoes, a White Wine Sauce, Asparagus and a platter of vegetables. Both fish were beautifully cooked, and perfectly seasoned.
For Dessert, we had a delicious delightfully crunchy-topped Crème Brûlée. (Unfortunately, Garry’s legendary Tiramisu had sold out…next time!!)
A beautiful restaurant in Ireland’s premier fishing port, to enjoy a delightful evening of superb seafood and excellent hospitality.
Mourne Seafood Bar
Belfast’s Mourne Seafood Bar in the heart of the city is a celebration of fresh, sustainable, locally sourced seafood, and continues to receive praise from top critics, including the Observer Food Monthly Awards.
We called in recently with friends and had a delicious lunch, enjoying fine, fish dishes with excellent wine and cocktail choices.
The food is fabulous; from Carlingford Oysters served “Japanese Style” with soy, pickled ginger & cucumber, to the Mourne Seafood Casserole bursting with fish & shellfish, potatoes, & confit fennel in a rich marinara sauce, the menu champions a variety of local
produce.
The golden, crunchy BeerBattered Cod & Chips is an elevated take on this crowdpleasing classic, and the Mourne Seafood Chowder is legendary. And there are great options for vegans too: the Moroccan Tagine is crammed with lightly spiced vegetables, accompanied by tabouleh, and sprinkled with pomegranate.
It’s always a pleasure to visit this popular City Centre institution to enjoy freshly prepared, high quality seafood dishes.
Nova.
“Nova”, in Belfast’s Callender Street, offers contemporary Italian-style menus for brunch, lunch and evening meals.
We started with a couple of excellent cocktails from the new list, a Blueberry Sour, and a PB & J Old Fashioned.
The Roast Red Pepper and Aubergine Dip with Confit Garlic, Toasted Chilli Flakes, Cold Pressed Rapeseed, & Basil was a rich, smoky dip and the perfect accompaniment to the Hot Honey Bread with Garlic Butter, Toasted Chilli Flakes, and Cheese.
The authentic fresh pasta dishes were fantastic, and we enjoyed the Gnocchi with Sea Bass, Corn Veloute, Torched Tomatoes, Basil Oil, and Nasturtium Leaves. And the Fettuccine with Portavogie Prawn, Garlic, Pickled
Mourne Seafood Bar.
Nova
Coppi.
Coppi in St Anne’s Square has always been one of our very favourite restaurant recommendations in the city centre. Contemporary, intimate and relaxed in style, Coppi serves Italian influenced dishes using quality local ingredients.
We started our meal with a plate of delightfully moreish Feta Fritters-a Coppi Classic drizzled with truffle honey, and a fennel & apple slaw, accompanied by some Sourdough Focaccia with tapenade, chilli, lemon & garlic oil.
Sharing dishes is an Italian tradition, and the Kilkeel Crab Insalata with orange, fennel, mint, and a citrus dressing, the Tuscan Seafood Ragu with roast monkfish, clams, mussels, Portavogie prawns, fregola & a shellfish basil sauce, and the Baked Vegan Meatballs in a tomato ragu, with mint & nut pesto, all worked brilliantly together.
And of course, no visit to Coppi would be complete without some Truffle & Parmesan Fries with rosemary salt, and the Crispy Gnocchi in garlic & herb butter!
Coppi always delivers on great food, excellent drinks, and attentive service.
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Chilli, Chilli Oil, and Parsley was particularly good.
Nova is a terrific spot to enjoy a touch of Italian flavour right in the heart of the city.
Please note, this column is the opinion of the columinst and not that of GNI or Romeo & Julian Publiccations Ltd.
