The winter holidays might be the hallmark season of togetherness, but summer, with all its occasions to celebrate, can be just as cozy.
Whether or not fireworks are a standard for you on the Fourth of July weekend, your pets likely don’t find the explosive displays as fun. On p. 12, contributing writer Brittany Nay speaks with the internet’s favorite pet behaviorist, Annie Valuska, about strategies to keep your furry friends calm during the commotion.
Togetherness (and great beer, of course) are the guiding principles behind Olivette’s newest bierhall and brewery, Great Heart Brewing. Contributor Mabel Suen shares the story of how its co-owners – one hailing from the Busch brewing dynasty and the other from generations of industry experts in Germany and Switzerland – fused their knowledge and experience to launch a great gathering space on p. 43.
Ladue News’ annual Charity Awards are a love letter to St. Louis’ community of caring and collaboration. Meet this year’s winning charities, as selected by our readers’ votes, on p. 51.
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Ashley Klein, Managing Editor
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The Ritz-Carlton – St. Louis is turning 35 this year and invites locals and visitors alike to celebrate with its themed offerings. Visit laduenews.com to learn what treats and events are in store, how the luxury hotel has evolved over the decades, and how you can take the ultimate staycation during The Ritz-Carlton’s emerald anniversary.
YourVision toLife Bringing
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Iwantsomethingthat feelslike this.”
Thehomeownerpulledout a picture of aParisianapartment.It was timeless charmlayeredwithtextures, patterns,andintimatedetails.This wasthe inspiration forthelarge, openspace above the client’s garage that wastobecome a bedroomandbathroom.
The clientdidn’t wanttohave tomake amilliondesigndecisions.She wanted a teamwhounderstoodhervisionand could handle everything fromthere.KarrBick’s SeniorDesigner Wendy KuhnandInterior DesignerAshley Obradovitsteamedup with KarrBick Constructionto executethe entire project.
Theirfirststep wascrucial:Space planning.How tohonorthehistoryand architecture ofthehomeandatthe sametimedesignthespaceforbeauty and functionality Theatticspace with slanted ceilinglinescanbe complicated, butthatjustsohappenstobe KarrBick’s sweetspot.
“Interiorspace planningissomethingall ofourpeoplearereally goodat,”explains KarrBickownerJenny Rausch.“Wework hard onthatfirstand everythingelse follows. Planningwhere thedoors,windows, walls andnooksare andhow the furniture islaid outisall a partofspace planning.Whenall thatisdone well,itcreatesthat feelingthat makes you wanttostay in a space.To linger there andnotleave.”
Sometimestoachieve #NothingOrdinary in a space,youhave tohidesomething.The atticspace hadanHVACsysteminthe wall that wasoutlinedindrabmolding.
Kuhnaddsofthehomeowner, “She was goodat communicatingthe aestheticshe wanted.‘Theseare the things I love.’ She wasspecificand certainassheshoweduspicturesofbox beamsinthe ceiling, wainscoting,and more. Sheentrustedpersonalizingallthe selectionsand workingthroughallthe detailstous.”
Interiorspace planningissomething all ofourpeopleare reallygoodat.We workhard on that firstandeverything else follows.
–JENNYRAUSCH
SUNCREEN SAFELY
By Connie Mitchell
Despite what some online influences say, sunscreen is still a safe and important part of a daily skin care routine. A local dermatologist explains why some social media messages about the presumed dangers of sunscreen and benefits of unprotected sun exposure can do far more damage than good for our skin and health.
“A little sun exposure might be beneficial, but unprotected exposure is still the leading cause of skin cancer,” says Dr. Ramona Behshad, associate professor of dermatology at Saint Louis University School of Medicine. And if that’s not enough to make you seek the shade or slather on sunscreen, then consider: Sun exposure is also a primary cause of premature skin aging.
Moderate sun exposure does help the body produce vitamin D, which is important for bone and immune health. “But from a dermatologic and cancer prevention standpoint, ultraviolet exposure is really the No. 1 preventable cause of skin cancers, including melanoma, which can spread to other parts of the body,” Behshad says. “And then there’s the photo aging: things like wrinkles, discoloration and thinning of the skin.”
Behshad notes that dietary and supplemental sources of vitamin D can provide enough of the nutrient for good health. To source the vitamin from sunlight, only 10 minutes twice a week is ample, she says.
Another current argument against regular sunscreen use is the concern about chemical sunscreens being absorbed through the skin. Here, too, Bahshad argues that the benefits of sunscreen far outweigh any risks. Evidence of harmful chemical absorption into the bloodstream is scanty and hasn’t been replicated in human trials. “Skin is actually incredibly good
at keeping things out [of the body],” she says. “And chemical sunscreens are absorbed in the very superficial layers of the skin. There have been no demonstrated health issues in humans from the minuscule amounts of ingredients that might be absorbed. The fears are based on a study done on mice back in 2012 that hasn’t been replicated in human subjects.”
If chemicals still concern you, Bahshad suggests using a physical sunscreen, which simply sits on the skin reflecting ultraviolet rays. Zinc and titanium dioxide are effective formulas that prevent sun damage. Both chemical and physical sunscreens need to be reapplied every couple of hours for maximum effectiveness. For those who find reapplying sunscreen to be problematic, sun protective hats and clothing are an easy option.
While on the topic of misperceptions about sunscreens and sun exposure, Bahshad mentions that some people still believe a “base tan” will protect them from further sun damage. Not so. “A tan gives you maybe an SPF of three, which is not protective,” she says. Tanning beds are especially harmful.
Instead, people can safely get a sun-kissed look with self-tanning lotions and spray tans, which are safe as long as they are not inhaled. Self-tanners contain DHA, a colorless sugar that reacts with amino acids in the top layer of skin to create the same kind of browning effect you would see by browning sugar in a saucepan. Bahshad refers to them as “very, very safe.”
She concludes: “I [hope] people can walk away with the fact that sunscreen is one of the most important tools we have to prevent skin cancer, which we are seeing an epidemic of, and the evidence is clear that it works. The best sunscreen is the one that you’re actually going to use every day.”
Saint Louis University School of Medicine, 1402 S. Grand Blvd., St. Louis, 314-977-9870, slu.edu/medicine/index.php
PETS
KEEPING CALM
By Brittany Nay
Summer is synonymous with exciting outdoor events, some highlighted by loud, bright firework displays. But for pets, these sudden sensory experiences can be nerve-racking or even frightening – especially as America’s birthday sparks some of the country’s biggest celebrations each Fourth of July.
“The same things that some people find exciting about fireworks – the bright flashes of light, loud booms and displays that are full of surprises
can be terrifying for our pets due to their heightened senses and the
unpredictable pattern of sights and sounds,” says Purina pet behaviorist Annie Valuska (@annieknowsanimals), known for her #AskDrAnnie animal advice shared with her 75,000-plus Instagram followers and 175,000-plus TikTok fans who have posted 3.4 million likes to the page.
Valuska explains that, for most of dogs’ and cats’ evolutionary history, unexpected loud noises and bright flashes of light meant “danger.”
“Their natural fear response to threatening stimuli doesn’t change just because it’s a holiday!” she says. “Their highly sensitive noses might also be picking up on the fireworks’ smell, which can be aversive to some pets.”
To help ease these anxiety-inducing experiences for your pets and prevent some animals’ reaction of running away during these events, Valuska recommends keeping them securely indoors. “Make sure all outdoor activities, like a long walk or potty break, are completed before any fireworks start,” she says. “If they must go outside while fireworks are happening, only take them out with a leash and a well-fitting harness or collar [that] includes an ID tag with your current phone number.”
Inside, Valuska advises setting up a safe space for your furry friend with as few visual and auditory signs of fireworks as possible, such as an interior closet with no windows. “Ideally, they should be introduced to and comfortable in this space before fireworks start,” she notes. “During fireworks, try to distract your pet with positive things, like feeding enrichment and your calm presence.”
Additionally, the pet behaviorist says, “playing Brown noise [a low frequency sound] for pets might help reduce the impact of the fireworks’ sounds.”
As for long-term solutions to keep your animals calm and safe during Fourth of July fireworks and related events, Valuska says pet parents should consider reducing pets’ fear through a process called “desensitization and counter-conditioning.”
“This involves exposing pets to low [auditory] levels of fireworks. For example, [playing] a recording of just the sound at a low volume and creating positive associations with those stimuli until the pet is no longer showing any anxious behavior.”
Valuska recommends picturing your four-legged friend’s progress as a staircase. “Once the pet is totally calm at one level, the intensity can be slightly ramped up, repeating the process for that level until you get to the full fireworks experience,” she says. “It can take longer than people expect and must go at the pet’s pace in order to be effective, so it’s never too early to start if there will be fireworks in your pet’s future.”
U.S. News&World ReporthasplacedTheGatesworthonits2025list of BestSeniorLiving Communities,the St. Louis Post-DispatchhasawardeditSTL HeadlinerBest IndependentSeniorLiving CommunityandLadue Newsreaders havevotedit St. Louis’best retirement community fornumerous years. TheGatesworthkeepsstrongtiestothecommunitybybeinglocallyowned, withitsthreeownersavailabletoresidents,staffandmanagement.
Thecommunityalsooffersafull-servicespa,100-seattheater,computercenter, cardrooms,library, bank,giftshop,art centerandgreenhouse.Thelushgrounds,with a half-mile walkingpath,area trueoasis,punctuated byreflectionponds home toafamilyof ducks and a puttinggreen,two diningareasand a pavilion. Residents enjoy dailycontinentalbreakfast,scheduledtransportation, weekly housekeeping and concierge services,andnumerousprograms,servicesandentertainment.
ChrisPhillips, owner of TheDiamondBarhasbeeninthejewelrybusiness for21 years,building areputation rootedintrust,education,andanunwavering commitment toexceptionalcustomerservice.
“In 2024, wewere honored to be recognizedasone of the Coolest Jewelry StoresinAmerica, a distinctionthat reflectsbothouruniqueapproachandthe strong relationships we’ve built withourclients,” hesa ys.
Forfiveconsecutiveyears,TheDiamondBarhasproudlyearned a spot on thePlatinumListandalsobeen recognizedasone of the Top100Businesses byTown &StyleMagazine.Phillips explainsthattheseaccoladesarea testament to thepassionandintegritythatdriveeverythingheanddesigner Jess Troecklerdo everyda y.
“Whatsetsusapartisourdedication to empoweringourclientsthrough education,” hesa ys.“We believe inproviding factual,honestguidanceto helppeopleunderstandhowto create meaningful,lastingheirloom pieces – neverjust focusingonmaking a sale.Ourgoalis to ensureevery client walksaway with confidence,knowledge,and a piece they’llcherish for generations.”
Beyondtheshowroom,TheDiamondBarisdeeplycommitted to giving back to the communitythatsupportsthem. Fromcharitableinitiatives to localinvolvement,Phillipsbelievesinusingthebusiness’success to make a positive impact.
Landscaping
StunningLandscapesMadeSimple
ByMaggiePeters >PhotosbyAndriaGraeler
This ye arChesterfield Valle yN urseryis celebratingits35th ye ar of cre ating uniqueandbeautifullandscapes!Overthe ye ars,thenurseryhasgro wn to pro videthegre ater St. L ouisand St.Charles c ommunitieswithlandscaping, propertymaintenance,and a garden center f or retailandwholesale customer sto enjoy!Itsdesigner sc anhelpwith av ariety of services,suchas paverpatios,outdoorkitchens,ponds,irrigationandoutdoorlighting.
Throughoutthe ye ars,Chesterfield Valle yN urseryhassta y edcurrentin the f ield by networkingwith o therindustry c olleaguesandhas c ontinuousl y researchedcurrenttrendswithinlandscapingand retailgarden center operations.Itsstaffer s alsohav e taken regulartrips toOregon, Tennessee,
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Its o wner sc onclude:“Itisbecause of thegraceof God we are here and able too fferservice,education,andbeauty to all of thosewho w alkthrough ourdoors.”
KeithR.Manzer was rankedasthe No. 1 agentatGladys Manionin2019and 2020, andthe No.1teamin2021,2022,and2023withsales of $700-plusmillion, rangingfrom$250,000 to nearly $7,000,000 for a single residence,Manzer understandshowto effectively marketluxuryproperties. He possesses42 years ofexperience and expertiseinthehigh-endmarketanywhere in St. Louis.
Hishands-onapproachis akeyfactorinhissuccess. He answers his own phone,creates a custommarketingplan for eachpropertyhelists forsaleor anactionplan to assistbuyers sotheycanachieve theirgoal of successfully purchasing a homeinthis competitive market.Plus,healways shows up – not anassistantoraninexperienced,new agent.
Manzer continues to demonstrat e hismotivationanddeterminationin
maintainingan extremely highsuccess r at e andstellar reputation bycontinually seekingoutne wwaysto promote not only locally, butinternationally. His mott o issimple: workhard andtre at yourcustomer s as you wouldliketo be tre ated yourself
Manzergivesback to the community, as well: In 2011hesetup a scholarship fundinthememory of hisdeceasedpartnerthathelpsunderservedchildrenand is a pastboard member ofCraftAllianceCenter of Art + Design. He hasalsoled fundraisingeffortsonbehalf of the followingorganizations: St. Louis Symphony Orchestra, Opera TheatreSt. Louis,The RepertoryTheatre,Siteman Cancer Center,HumanRights Campaign, ContemporaryArt Museum, Women’s Self-Help Center, Doctor’sEventand United Way.
W hetheranindividualis rec ov eringfrom a sur g eryorillnessandinneed of short -t erm rehabilitation,or f acing a longerperiod of skillednursing c are, M cKnightPlace Extended C are pro videspeaceof mind.
“Weo ffer exceptionalnursing c are,as w ellas a full c omplement of therap y services,includingph y sicaltherap y, occupationaltherap y andspeech therap y,” sa ys administratorGlendaKnittel.
Specializedtherap yf orspecific c onditions,suchas l ymphedema,is pro vided by se v eraltherapiststrained to tre atthesedisorders,andall staffer sreceiv e specialtrainingindementia c are.“Each residenthas differentpreferencesandneeds,andourpersonalized c are ensuresthat e ach resident’ se xpectationsare met,” Knittelsa y s.“I n addition,ourwide v ariety of social ev entshelps residentssta y engagedinmeaningfulactivities throughouttheda y.”
M usictherap y andart e xpressionare popularchoices,anddail yexercise programsare designed tokeep residentsactive. A ctivitiesalsohelpmaintain
the c ommunityspiritat M cKnightPlace Extended C are:Speaker s present intriguingprogramsthatsparkideasand c on v ersation;ensemblesandbands maket oestapand f inger s snap;andsmallgroupsenjo yc ard games,craft projectsand c ookingdemonstrations.
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Knitteladds:“McKnightPlace Extended C are islocall yo wned.Thatmakes a differenceto our residents,their f amiliesandemplo y ees.The o wner s are here,on-site, to addressan yc oncernsthatma y arise.The y also c are deepl y f orthe c ommunityandhav e chosen to buildseniorliving w orth yof their o wn friendsand f amil y– anditsho w s.”
TAKE Fresh
By Nancy Robinson > Photos supplied
Clean lines, colors and patterns add subtle pizzazz to modern interiors.
Taylor King’s Weston ottoman is upholstered in a modern fabric with a pattern on a clean, white background. It rests on a simple plinth base. Size is a 20-inch cube. Also available in leather. (shubertdesign.com)
The Gabby Callisto mirror is a bold, modern take on a coastal ring buoy. It features a central round mirror surrounded by a ring of clear acrylic and four delicate “petals” with a gilded gold finish. (designanddetailstl.com)
The vintage gold-leaf chain suspension and bezel-set onyx discs around noz nozawa’s Hudson Valley Riviere chandelier evoke details found on fine jewelry. Available as an eightor 10-light chandelier and a single-light sconce. (wilsonlighting.com)
As painful as the city’s loss of street trees and shade from the spring tornado was, racing out to buy new trees this time of year could be folly. Although it can be done, ensuring the survival of transplanted trees facing the summer heat will depend on automatic irrigation or dedication to hand watering the entire season. My recommendation is to plan now and plant later, this fall or early next spring.
First, evaluate the losses on your property and the curb strip (under municipal jurisdiction). Take note of any homeowners association guidelines that might influence your choices. The City of St. Louis requires a permit for chemical treatment of street trees (such as to protect from or treat emerald ash borer infestations), or pruning, removal and replanting for any plants in the “tree lawn,” that strip between the curb and the sidewalk where the city maintains the rightof-way. You may request a tree to be planted by the city, but the demand exceeds the supply, and replanting is focused on underserved areas.
To plant your own tree, you still need a permit and should select a variety from the
official Street Tree List (available online at bit.ly/3G3uDTi) for faster approval. The City of Ladue’s approved tree list is also available online. It offers a larger list including preferred canopy (shade) trees, small deciduous trees, flowering trees and evergreens that are pre-approved for planting. Be sure to consult the forester/arborist for the actual municipality in which you reside, as most communities have strict tree ordinances governing this topic, and permits might be required.
Next, figure out what you lost. Shade, color, privacy, habitat? Outline your goals for replacement planting and evaluate potential restrictions – underground utilities like water
and sewer lines, overhead power lines, and lines of site – for safe egress. (Note: Call Missouri 811 for utility locating services so lines are marked before you dig!) Ladue guidelines recommend replanting with at least 50% native tree species.
Before choosing new tree varieties, explore your options. Do you want spring bloom or fall color, deep or light shade, erosion control, or narrow or broad crown? Will it put shade on your driveway or patio in the heat of August? Is your new planting spot wet or dry? Are you in a high-wind location? Disease resistance and insect tolerance matter. There are dozens of criteria to assess in the tree selection process. A variety of trees will out-perform a monoculture of one species every time, so take advantage of this opportunity to provide maximum seasonal interest and wildlife habitat.
Go online for early research, but then visit several local nurseries and the Missouri Botanical Garden to see what appeals to you in person. The decision to plant a tree is a long-term affair. Give it the consideration that it deserves so that you end up with the right plant in the right place.
Missouri Botanical Garden, 4344 Shaw Blvd., St. Louis, 314-577-5100, mobot.org
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Step into timeless elegance with this stunning Cape Cod shingle-style home, crafted with precision and sophistication by Slavin Homes. Nestled in the prestigious community of Ladue, this exceptional residence boasts architectural beauty, meticulous detail, and refined craftsmanship throughout. As you enter the shiplap foyer, you are greeted with custom touches that set the tone for the home’s exquisite interior. The main floor primary ensuite is a true sanctuary, featuring spa-like amenities and opening to a heated covered patio through two sets of elegant French doors, perfect for morning coffee or evening relaxation. The custom oversized kitchen and the expansive great room are an entertainer’s dream, the latter complemented by designer lighting, hand-painted wallcoverings, and bespoke fixtures that add warmth and sophistication. Upstairs enjoy another primary ensuite, and two additional bedrooms and bathrooms, plus a bonus room. The lower level includes a family room, a luxurious custom bar, and a gym. Outside, a stunning pool, manicured grounds, pool house, and outdoor kitchen awaits—boasting unparalleled beauty and distinction.
This four bedroom, four full bathroom and two half bathroom home in Ladue is listed for $5.2 million.
Self-Care Mode:
Activated
By Amanda Dahl > Photos by Meghan Reed
Pampering yourself with spa treatments can be a little luxury with big benefits. Improved skin care, muscle tension eased, a mental reset – giving yourself the gift of time to focus on you can increase one’s feeling of self-worth.
“Spa parties are the ultimate ritual in reconnecting with others and yourself,” says Jodi Bitton, a licensed esthetician and the owner of Healing Hamsa, a metro-area spa and medspa.
Activate self-care mode and invite others along to share in this indulgence, which can serve you and your loved ones well beyond a deluxe day at the spa.
With five locations across the metro, Face & Body proves ideal for booking large parties as the salon is “the largest day spa in Missouri,” according to its website. The Brentwood location is home to a multipurpose bridal suite, which can accommodate up to 30 people for any event. You can book your own caterer or pick one from the preferred vendors list. For inquiries, reach out to frontdesk@faceandbody1.wpengine.com.
HEALING HAMSA
Chesterfield, 314-376-4240, healinghamsa.com
Opening in a new location in Chesterfield this July, Healing Hamsa hosts spa parties in its chic space, or it can bring the party to you. Customization factors into every booking.
“Facials and skin care are so individual,” Bitton says. “The moments I spend with you are
Host a spa party for your tween and their friends
Delight your young ones with a deluxe day at the spa. From mini manis and pedis to personalized robes and elegant updo hairstyles, these local spas encourage starting self-care at an early age.
ST. LOUIS CHILDREN’S PARTY
St. Charles, 636-251-3388, stlchildrensparty.com/mobile-spa-parties
STUDIO 6 XPRESS SALON & SPA
3331 N. U.S. Highway 67, Florissant, 314-831-3036 studio6spa.com
SWEET & SASSY OF ST. LOUIS
17B West County Center, Des Peres, 314-597-6394, sweetandsassy.com/st-louis
personal and truly meant to enhance your entire well-being – leaving here, you just feel better, look better, think clearer.”
INDIGO MASSAGE & WELLNESS
Benton Park (1901 Arsenal St.) and Maplewood (7200 Manchester Road), 314-276-9882, indigomassagetherapy.com
Booking at Indigo is made simple with readyto-go spa packages or a custom experience. An open studio space invites you and your guests in, where you can unwind as you mingle. The wellness spa allows you to bring in food and drinks with the use of a full kitchen made available to you and your guests. Bookings start at a two-hour minimum.
Morgan Ford, now open in a new Webster Groves location, enhances your spa day with fun elements such as a selfie station. Consider brunch offerings from Nadine’s Hash House and lunch items from Ninth Street Deli, or opt for decadent cupcakes and a juice bar. Add-on options include flowers, party favors and even attendant gifts with monogram services available.
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With Love From LA
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At MOss Boutique on St. Charles’ historic Main Street, every customer is a VIP.
Whether you’re a repeat local guest or a vacationer stopping in for the first time, you can expect an A-list shopping experience from the MOss team led by owner and St. Charles native Nicole MossDoelger. The former Los Angeles-based fashion designer’s store boasts an expertly styled selection of teen girls’ and women’s clothing, accessories and shoes that is rotated weekly – with more inventory available for patrons to peruse in the back room.
“We are always ordering daily; we listen to our customers and what they are looking for and take customer requests,” Moss-Doelger says, adding: “We will take customers to the back to see what’s new.”
Helming the unique boutique in her hometown for more than 15 years is a dream come true for Moss-Doelger, whose interest in fashion began as a child. “When I was little, I was always sewing,” she recalls.
But after leaving St. Charles for college and working as a fashion designer in Los Angeles for 12 years, she says she “missed home and family.”
So, Moss-Doelger returned to her roots, starting a design, embroidery and alterations business called So Fitting in St. Charles in 2007 alongside her mother, who shared her dream of opening a boutique.
Next, Moss-Doelger aimed to offer generations of women a place to shop the classics as well as the latest looks, launching MOss on Main Street in 2009. The boutique – graced with her maiden name and a capitalized MO for Missouri – moved to its larger current space at 329 S. Main St. in 2017.
“You can come here and get dressed head-to-toe,” the owner notes, explaining that locals and out-of-towners alike visit the shop, with the latter often wearing their full new look right out the door.
Moss-Doelger and her staff, mostly made up of students attending nearby Lindenwood University, are up on the top trends when patrons need fashion tips. “We have such a good variety, and [I know] my customer,” she says, noting she and her team look over guests’ selections for styling input.
To keep customers in the loop of the frequently refreshed inventory, the boutique frequently posts video walk-throughs of the shop and themed mini-collections on its website, recently highlighting its stock of western wear and European-style summer linen sets and maxis. The tight-knit team also answers questions on its social media pages and sends photos of new items to interested customers.
Inside MOss, explore the daily rotating, color-coded sections of both trends and staples, including Just Black, Judy Blue and Cello jeans; Pura Vida jewelry; and Joy Susan purses. This summer, find chambray denim, maxis and jumpsuits in-store. “Red is the big color,” Moss-Doelger notes.
The shop also has a dedicated shoe room with some 50 styles, the owner shares: “People are loving casual slides, tennis shoes, wedges and espadrilles this season.”
Catch the latest styles and specials when MOss joins its fellow Main Street retailers for events including Boutique Hop and First Fridays. From the shop’s staff to the customers, it’s all in the family, Moss-Doelger says: “We’re really known down here to talk to customers. [They] become friends, and we recommend people to friends’ locations.”
MOss Boutique, 329 S. Main St., St. Charles, 636-410-0625, mossboutique.com
Brittany Nay > Photos courtesy of MOss Boutique
Great Heart Brewing Co.
For John and Helena Valentine, the Olivette space they found for their first business together, Great Heart Brewing Co., was love at first sight. The building reminded them of classic Swiss-style architecture from Europe – where they met and bonded over their mutual devotion to the craft beer industry – and they knew it’d be the perfect venue to carry out their passion project. The bierhall, brewery and tasting room fittingly debuted on Valentine’s Day, featuring lovingly prepared small batch European-style ales and lagers alongside a dine-in menu of robust alpine fusion cuisine.
The couple have quite the pedigree in their field of expertise – John is a St. Louis native that comes from the Busch brewing dynasty, and Helena hails from a family with deep roots in hop procurement in Bavaria, working closely with hop farmers over generations to source the highest-quality hops. John is a sixthgeneration brewmaster that found his own path working his way up in the industry, traveling to Bavaria to master the craft. Helena, whose mother is from Munich, Germany, and father is from Lucerne, Switzerland, studied directly under her father and grandfather, who spent their entire lives in the German hop industry. With their breadth of collective experience and knowledge, the Valentines have perfected their handcrafted beers made from thoughtfully selected hops, barley and wheat cultivated in Bavaria, Bohemia and the Pacific Northwest.
Great Heart’s beers are manufactured and
served exclusively on-site using traditional methods to bring out more character in each product. Five flagship options are available on tap, along with seasonal releases. “The focus with our brewery really is to brew exceptional lagers. We’re small-batch but always consistently at the highest quality we can make beer,” says John, who works with a 10-hectoliter system. “We’re trying to create this atmosphere that makes it perfect for you to enjoy the beer, with the right glass and right temp and the entire experience around it.”
Their unfiltered, naturally carbonated German-style Pilsner, for instance, features a distinct hop note and dry finish, brewed with German Pilsner malt, Hallertauer hops and authentic German yeast. Another highlight, the Dunkel, or dark single-decocted, horizontally lagered Bavarian-style brew, features a maltforward profile that John says is “more bready and just really delicious.” A Bavarian-style wheat beer has distinct notes of banana and cloves.
To develop an equally thoughtful menu of complementary fare to pair with their artisanal lagers, the Valentines enlisted the aid of a couple of experienced local chefs. Jim Fiala of Acero outfitted the kitchen and brought on chef Tim Zenner to carry out day-to-day operations. The seasonal food menu features small plates, boards, housemade pastas and fresh-baked breads alongside meats and produce sourced from local farms. The kitchen does not use seed oils and instead utilizes olive oil, beef tallow,
avocado oil and butter for cooking.
Choose from staples such as a Bavarian pretzel with your choice of two or three of the following dips: butter, Bavarian Obatzda, mustard, hummus, tzatziki, quark with herbs, olive oil or melted beer cheese – that goes great with the first round of beers. “They’re perfect for sharing and the best conversation starter,” Helena says. Additional dishes that offer a taste of Helena’s hometown include a traditional Bavarian pork schnitzel made with a breading that includes parmigiano cheese and egg; a vegetarian option is also available. The schnitzel comes served with lemon wedges, lending a refreshing acidic bite to contrast a side of creamy spaetzle. Apfelchuechli offers a taste of Helena’s Swiss side, featuring warm apple fritters served with ice cream.
“Our main goal was to create a community gathering place where people feel welcome and can get together over a beer or delicious food and just be present for one another,” John says. “[We love] seeing every age group enjoying it here, including a lot of families,” Helena adds. “It’s a wholesome experience...and it’s a joy seeing everyone enjoy this atmosphere. We’re so grateful for the support.”
Great Heart Brewing Co is open Wednesday through Friday from 4 to 10 p.m., Saturday from 11:30 a.m. to 10 p.m. and Sunday from 11:30 a.m. to 9 p.m.
Great Heart Brewing Co., 9514 Olive Blvd., Olivette, greatheartbrewing.com
Story and photos by Mabel Suen
By Lauren Leady >
HEARTS OF Glass
Having once described herself as a “serial hobby collector,” Shelby Fryeton ultimately found the opportunity to blend all her former careers, hobbies and experiences into one vocation: stained glass.
Originally growing up in Jerseyville, Illinois, Fryeton has a background in several artistic mediums, including traditional art, graphic design and photography. She also has experience hosting art shows and cofounded an art magazine in Alton during her early 20s. Now at 29, Fryeton found her calling in stained glass after taking a major leap a few years ago. After working in a corporate role for several years, Fryeton found herself feeling unfulfilled and stuck. When she lost her job, it seemed like fate gave her the push she needed.
“I felt simultaneously lost and giddy,” Fryeton says. “It was freeing in a weird way – I didn’t have to make the choice and wonder whether it was the right decision.”
Following her curiosity about stained glass, Fryeton tried a beginner’s class. “After some particularly rough days at [work], my husband and I visited a local stained-glass shop,” she says. “We left the shop having signed up for a weekly workshop. I didn’t sign up for the classes intending to make it a career, however it dug its sharp little edges into me, and I was enamored. After the beginner class had ended, I kept coming back as much as I could for open studio time.”
Consequently, Fryeton took a leap and started up her stained-glass business, Hearts of Glass, based in her basement studio in Wood River, Illinois. She creates whimsical pieces, including handmade suncatchers, plant stakes, bookends and jewelry.
Her work features swords, plants, bookish-inspired pieces and more, taking a playful approach to stained glass with bright colors, vivid iridescence and funky textures. Her influences include pop culture, tattoos, vintage styles, cottagecore and literature.
“With my background in art and graphic design, I’m able to create my own patterns. With my marketing background, I’ve been able to market myself and build a brand. With my background in hosting art shows, I have found success in attending markets and selling my pieces,” she explains. “It seemed like up until this point, my life had been a puzzle, and I had just finished putting the last piece in place to finally be happy.”
Today, Fryeton’s artwork lives not only in homes around the Metro East area, but also all over the country.
“A lot of folks have never seen stained glass outside of churches or lamps. I’m honored to be their first exposure outside of those instances,” she says. “I’ve met so many incredible people.”
To anyone feeling stuck like she once did, Fryeton has encouraging words to share: “Don’t be afraid to fail. Failing is just plot development to the lore of you,” she says. “I had to fall pretty hard on my face multiple times in my life, and I came out thankful for it.”
Fryeton has several markets coming up next month, including Bark Market on July 17 at Old Bakery Beer Company in Alton, South Grand Makers Pop-Up on July 19 at Ritz Park, and Sundaze at Schlafly on July 27 at Schlafly Bottleworks in Maplewood. Outside of markets, find Fryeton’s pieces at Bluff City Bazaar in Alton or online at heartsofglassstore.etsy.com.
Hearts of Glass, @hearts_ofglass on Instagram
Artwork and photos by Shelby Fryeton
Photo of Shelby Fryeton by Andrew Dobson Photography
The Saint Louis Zoo is gearing up for its first-ever full-scale theatrical production. Romeo and Zooliet, presented by the St. Louis Shakespeare Festival, will run on Tuesday through Sunday evenings from July 8 to Aug. 17. In its 85-minute runtime, the family-friendly show will feature Broadway-style puppets and a brand-new story created just for the Forest Park institution.
“All the characters in the show are animals that are at the Saint Louis Zoo, there’s references to places in the Zoo and everything that’s happening in it, and because it’s a brand-new piece, we’re able to make it very specific to St. Louis and the Saint Louis Zoo, says Tom Ridgely, producing artistic director at the St. Louis Shakespeare Festival. “As far as we know, no one’s ever tried to do something like this, which is to put a full-scale theatrical production in a zoo.”
The idea first arose when, a few years back, the organization was considering potential alternatives to their typical summer season after learning of possible renovations to the Shakespeare Glen in Forest Park. Although plans for the renovations are still up in the air, this got the team thinking about what they would do if unable to present in their usual location. Ridgely shared that Colin O’Brien, another member of the St. Louis Shakespeare Festival team, had the idea to approach other Forest Park organizations about potential partnerships, including the Art Museum, History Museum, Science Center and Zoo.
After the Saint Louis Zoo took an interest in the idea and Ridgely continued to research, he came across a children’s comic-style book online called the “Stratford Zoo Midnight Review,” which told the story of zoo animals that came out at night and performed Shakespeare for each other. Taking inspiration from the book, his next quest was deciding how to create the animals in the story.
The answer to his question ended up being Michael Curry Design, the puppeteer and
company behind Broadway’s “The Lion King” and “Frozen,” whom Ridgely sought out after thinking of the realistic on-stage puppets in the Disney stage adaptations.
“They’ve done theme parks, Vegas shows, Super Bowl halftime performances and Olympic ceremonies. They really have become the leaders in live animal creations,” Ridgely says. “Some of [the puppets] are huge, some of them are quite small, but all of them are beautiful and amazing in the way they come to life.”
Along with the expertly crafted puppets, the show aims to be something everyone can enjoy.
“We’re hoping [the show] has something for everyone. For kids, there’s these adorable animals that are fighting with swords and taking potions and all this fun stuff, but also for grownups, there is still that ‘Romeo and Juliet’ story at the heart of it,” Ridgely says. “I’ve got kids that
are 3 and 5, and I’m sure they’re going to love it, but also we’re writing to entertain our friends, parents and grandparents.”
Ridgely hopes “Romeo & Zooliet” sets a trend of theatrical productions in zoos far beyond Forest Park.
“It’s something for St. Louis to be proud of. Obviously we’re already proud of the Zoo, but the Zoo has a reputation for being an innovator – they pilot a lot of new ideas, and we see them adopted by zoos around the country and around the world,” Ridgely says. “I think that’s part of why they were so open to the idea to begin with. That’s how they operate.”
Saint Louis Zoo, 1 Government Drive, St. Louis, 314-781-0900, stlzoo.org
St. Louis Shakespeare Festival, stlshakes.org
> Photos and images courtesy of the St. Louis Shakespeare Festival
Artwork by Michael Curry Design
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Miriam School and Learning Center hosted its Minds in Bloom Gala at the Clayton Plaza Hotel, bringing together supporters for an evening of cocktails, conversation and fundraising in support of specialized education for children. Following a lively cocktail hour, guests enjoyed a three-course dinner and opening remarks from committee chair Judi Scissors.
The evening continued with a live auction and a heartfelt awards ceremony. This year’s honorees included Trish Winchell, recipient of The Fannie Landau Award for Volunteerism; the Stanley and Lucy Lopata Charitable Foundation, honored with The Legacy of Giving Award; and Carol Walton, recognized with The Miriam Lifetime Achievement Award for more than 20 years of service. Dan and Cathy Flynn served as the evening’s honorary chairs.
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Miriam’s Minds in Bloom Gala was such a wonderful opportunity to bring our community together to celebrate our mission and to honor some of the very important people who have contributed so much to Miriam over the years. I hope others left the evening as inspired and motivated as I am to continue our good work to positively impact the lives of children who learn differently and the people who care about them.
– Meg Bamford HEAD OF MIRIAM SCHOOL AND LEARNING CENTER
Jessica and Fred niemeier, Stephanie and Jeff DePlanty
MIGHTY OAKeS HeART FOuNDATION
A Mighty Night
The Mighty Oakes Heart Foundation hosted its Mighty Night Gala at The Hall at Olive + Oak in Webster Groves, where guests enjoyed gourmet food stations and live entertainment by Charles and Nikki Glenn Retired St. Louis Blues player Reed Low served as emcee for the evening.
Founded by Becky and Greg Ortyl, The Mighty Oakes is a small “boutique” nonprofit dedicated to supporting families of children with congenital heart defects. The organization offers both emotional care and personalized financial assistance – covering essentials like rent, mortgage and utilities – giving families the space they need to focus on love, healing and hope.
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A Mighty Night is our largest annual fundraiser, where we inform donors of the impact that Mighty Oakes Heart Foundation is having in the community and our need for continued support. We absolutely love pulling all of our favorite people into one room, raising awareness, raising funds and celebrating the birthday of our inspiration, Oakes Ortyl!
– Becky Ortyl MIGHTY OAKES HEART FOUNDATION CO-FOUNDER
Theneed foraffordablehealthcare is aconstant challengeformany St. Louis communities,but those fromunderservedandunder-resourced demographics face thetoughesttailwinds. Many obstacles existtoaccessingneeded carefor: veterans,pregnant women,uninsuredindividuals including childrenwholostMedicaid coverage, olderadults, theunhoused, refugeesandimmigrants,andthosewith annualizedhouseholdincomesthat fall200%below the federal povertylevel.(FPLdetermineseligibility for welfare benefits.)
“Livingwithpain,suffering consequencesduetolack ofhealthcare, juggling foodandshelterwithhealthcare resources,andmissingoutonschoolor workare among thedailystrugglesbornebythemostvulnerableinour community,” Buhlingersays.“Theneedsinthe communities we serve donot goaway after a pandemicor a tornado;they intensify. Supportisneedednow more than everbefore.”
YvonneBuhlinger f irstmet volunteer BethAnnRiechmannine ye ar s ago andsa ys she’s beenanoutstanding andst e adfast volunteersinceAffinia He althcareFoundation’searlyplanning da ys in2017 Alongwithhelpingsecure resourcesanddonors,engaging other volunteers,and contributingfundsand in-kinddonationsherself, Riechmanhas personally assistedwithnumerousactivities including “organizing afashiontrivia event, servingas a greeter forblooddrives,driving to pickup boxesandbags of donations – once as faras Tennessee – and evendressingupas a Santa Helper for a holida yevent to give out toysfor ourpediatricpatientsin Ferguson,” Buhlingersa ys.
Riechmansa ys she w asdrawn toAffinia’s mission to bridg e thegaps forpeople,especiallyw omenandbabies,whodon’thave the resources tokeepthemsel vesandtheir f amilieshealth y. “Ibelie ve health c are is a human r ight,” she continues.“When youare health y,you feel you c an conquerthe w orld.Thisisthekind of impact Iw ant to have inour community – helpingpeople to becomeempo w eredandsta y health y.” Riechmanis a prolific volunteerwhose g enerosity expands f arpast Affinia’s impact;shedonateshertime,energyandmone yto almost 20differentarea organizations,including J unior Le ague St. Louis, Girls I nc. St. Louis,Spirit ofSt. Louis Women’sFundand N urses for Ne wborns.“Everyoneisjustonestepaw ay fromneedinghelp,” shesa y s. “Volunteeringis mywayof payingit forward.”
I believ e health c ar e is a human r ight. W henyouar e healthy,you f ee l you c an c onquerthe w orld.Thisisthekind of impact Iw ant to hav e inour c ommunity –helpingpeople to becomeempo w ered andstayhealthy.
Asone ofColleg e Bound’s longest servingboard members, J ohn M urph y helped re alize theoriginalvisionlaid out by organization founderLisa Orden-Zarin tokeepthenonprof it focusedonthestudentswhilebuilding what’s next.
“Colleg e Boundhasanamazing te am.The y doincredible w orksupporting ourstudents,”M urph y sa y s.“Iamhereto primarily helpsupporttheir w orkandtheirideas fortheorganization.”
Murphy servesasvice president of airportsand revenue management for Enterprise Mobility.He joined College Bound’s board of trusteesin2016,inspired byEnterprise Mobility’sfounding values of strengthening communitiesoneneighborhoodat a time. Murphy pla yed akey roleininterviewingandselecting College Bound’s new CEO,Milton Mitchell Jr. M urph y isactively in vol vedinan offshoot program ofColleg e Bound withRanken Technical Colleg ec alledCB@Ranken.Theprogram,inspired by thesuccess ofColleg e Bound’s partnershipwith St. Louis Community Colleg e(CB@STLCC),supportsRanken’scommunityoutre ach,enabling students toexplore allopportunities of highereducation. In allhedoeswith Colleg e Bound, M urph y maintains everythingisaboutand forthestudents.
C olleg e Boundha s anamazing t eam.Theydoincredible w orksupporting ourstudents. I amher eto primaril y help supporttheir w orkandtheiridea sf or theorganization.
FOSTER&ADOPTIVECARECOALITION
Foster&AdoptiveCareCoalitionplanstoserve every childinSt.Louis’protectiveandfostercaresystem–here’show.
Every childneeds a place tocallhome, and Foster &Adoptive Care Coalitionisdedicatedtomaking thatvision areality “We havea boldplan,” says executive directorMelanieScheetz.Thatplan: toserveeverySt. Louis-area childenteringthe protective and fostercaresystemby2029 “Thisissomething that’sneverbeenaccomplishedinany otherAmericancity.”
ScheetzisconfidentbecauseFoster&AdoptiveCare Coalition createdwhatshecalls“groundbreaking familyfindingprograms.” Thetop goal forMissouriChildren’s Divisionis reunification,andwhenthatisnotpossible, to placefoster childrenwithbiological relatives.Thesearch for relationscanbe further extendedthroughthe coalition’s efforts,whohavea highsuccess rateofplacingkidsin foster care withmembersoftheir family. “Ourstaffissoskilled, we
canidentifyabout150 familymemberswithin30days,” she says.The familycircleincludespeople closelyaffiliatedwith the family, such as godparentsorscoutleaders.
“Isort of dove int o the coalition in v arious ways andne verleft.The y c an’tseem tog et r id of me,” sa ys J ackie Rochelle, Foster &A doptive C areCoalitionboard presidentandan attorne y atBaile y GlasserLLP.Rochelle learnedabouttheorganizationthrough a friendin2006andjoined a planning committee for a fundraising event.She soonjoinedthejuniorboard,anauxiliary committee ofyoungprofessionals,serving aspresident fortw oye ar s before moving to the coalition’s boardof directors.
“I comefrom af amily with a history of adoptionand fostering,and we hadnone of the resourcesthe coalitionprovides tof amilies,” she sa y s.“The w orkthe coalitiondoesis re ally hard,butthisgroup of people makesitlookeffortless.The y have thebiggestheartsandmostpositive attitudes – the y love the w orkthe y do,anditsho w s.”
Rochellelooks forwardto participatinginthe coalition’scontinued successand continues to beenthusedabout H opein aH andbag,the fundraisersheinitiallyvolunteered for19 ye ar s ago. Participantsatthe event,no w beingplanned for2026,enjoy appetizers,gourmetchocolates anddrinkswhilebiddingondesignerhandbags.The2024 H opein a H andbag event r aisedalmost$190,000
“[Coalitionstaff ] are doinggroundbre akingandmeaningful w ork every da yto place childrenwith forever f amilies,”Rochellesa y s.“Those f amilies willlove andsupportthem forthe rest of theirlives.”
The w orkthe c oalitiondoesis r eall y hard, b utthisgroup of peoplemakesitlook effortless.Theyhav e thebiggestheartsand mostpositiv e attitudes – theylo ve the w ork theydo,anditsho w s.
They arrive withemptyhandsandtired eyes –c hildrenpulled fr om c haos, fr omneglect, fr omunknowns – oftentimeswithno c lean c lothes,notoothbrush,nosenseofsafety Thisiswher eFoster Togetherstepsinwith c lothing,carseatsandothermaterialneedsas wellas a caring c ommunitythatembraces foster families.
“Ourmissionissimplebutpowerful:tosupportand equip c hildrenand familiesimpactedby fostercar e,” says Laur a Storm, executive directorof Foster Together “Ourbroadervisionistosee fosterparentssupportedto pr ovidethebestpossiblecar eforvulnerable c hildren –
becausewhen familiesar e supported,kidsdobetter.”
Storm founded Foster Togetherin2018with a group of fellow motherswho wantedtotakea stepof faithand makea differenc e.
“Weg athered c lothing,shoesandessentials fr om friendsandneighbors,storedandor g anizedtheminthe basementof my home , andthenpersonallydelivered themto fosterhomesinneed,” Stormsays. “As wor d spread,sodidthesupport –volunteerssteppedup , donationspouredin,andwhatstartedas a grassroots effortquicklygr ew into a movement. As we listened tothestoriesofthe foster familiesandsaw thedepth oftheirneeds,ourvisionbecame c lear:tocreate a sustainable ,c ommunity-powered way tosupportthem throughouttheirjourney.”
In2021, Foster Togetheropened a storefr ont –a boutiqueinArnold,Missouri,wher ec hildrenand caregiverscanshop for fr eeessentials.
“When afamilyarrivesatourshop , they’r e greeted by avolunteerwhohelpsthem g etsignedinand c omfortable ,” Stormsays.“Thespac e is warmand inviting – designedto feelmor e likea boutiquethan a c harity. Ourshoppingmenushows eac hc hildwhat we have toofferthem.”
For ex ample ,Foster Togethercanpr ovide12outfits, two pairsofshoes,new socksandunderwear, toiletries, books,toys,bedding,babyitemsandmor e toeac hc hild whoshopsin-stor e or r eceives aWelcomeKitdelivered fr eeof c har ge totheirdoorstep Childrenwhoar e enteringnewfosterhomescanalso r eceivea new car seatand a new bedwith a mattress.
“Often,kidsar e surprisedanddelightedtobepart oftheprocess,” Stormsays.“Theyg ettopic k their favoriteoutfits,booksor a special c omfortitem.It’snot justaboutgivingstuff – it’saboutcreating a momentof dignity,c hoic e and c onnection.”
Foster Together’s missionisclose to Rebecca Kadlez’s heart.
“M y husbandand Iw ere in foster c areoffandon afew times aschildren,” Kadlezsa y s. “As we got olderand r aisedourbiological children, we kne w it w asinourhearts to give back. We had a lotof gro wing andhealing to do,but wef inally got there, whichledus to wherewe are.”
Kadlez w asintroduced toFoster Togetherin 2018whensheandherhusband w elcomedtheir f irst fosterchildint o theirhome.
“I c alledthem for myvery f irstplacement,whichis my no w 8-ye ar-old sonwho w as 1 atthetime,” Kadlezsa y s. “Afterspeaking to Laura, Iw as like,‘I w ant tof ind waysto help.’”
Kadlezstarteddoingdeliveries for Foster Togetherbefore becoming a staffmemberand, eventually, accepting a positionasoutre achand education coordinator.
“You can’tchange whatthese familiesare goingthrough,butif you can offerguidance, care orlove, I thinkit can [makearealdifference intheir] journey,” Kadlezsa ys.“Itmightjustbe a bagfull of clothes to some,butit’s thehope,thelove andthekindnessthat comewithitthattruly matter.”
You c an’tchang e whatthese f amilies ar e goingthrough, b utifyou c an o ffer guidance, c ar e orlo v e, I thinkit c an [make ar ealdifferenc e intheir] journey.
Forsingleparentsorguardians,life oftenbecomes allaboutthe childrenintheircare, leavinglittle timeandenergy forself-care. Thenonprofit organization I CanMakea Difference seeksoutthe mostvulnerableofthesecaregiversandempowers themtoprioritize their ownemotional wellness.
“Emotional wellnessencompassessomany things,” founder FaithSaunderssays.“If you’re notfinancially well, itimpacts youremotional wellness.If you’re notsocially well – if youdon’thavea supportnetwork – itimpacts youremotional wellness. Themore that we cannurture ourselves,thebetter we canshow up forour children.” iCMADofficially formedas a nonprofitin2023,butthose whoknow the foundersay she’sbeen“making a difference” fordecadesas a singlemomandas a philanthropist.The organizationisbasedinSomerset, New Jersey, butserves familiesin Pennsylvania, NewYork,IllinoisandMissouri.
Occasionally, its reachextendstootherstatesthrough weeklyvirtualsupportgroupmeetings.
“I wantedtogiveaway somethingthat you would want – somethingthat wouldjustmakeyouhappy,” Bishopsays. “Insideofthepurses, we have beautyproducts. We have cardsthat were madebyanother woman. Evenifjustin thatmoment,[thisgiftshows that]somebodycared for you.”
Pursedonationdrivesoccurmonthlyon average, and iCMADhas checkedoff20giveawayeventsso farthis year.Forthisprogramandothers,iCMAD connectswith underserved communitiesthrough fellow nonprofits, localschools,homelesssheltersand churcheslike Jubilee CommunityChurch in NorthSt. Louis.
“This was a perfectopportunitytohave something specifically focusedonsinglemothersandthe womenwho needthatemotionallovingsupport – to feelthatthey can share theloadofwhatthey’regoingthroughwithpeople whotrulycare aboutthem,” Jubilee co-pastor LeslieMoore says.“Iknow theiraimistoalsobroadenthatunderstanding ofwhosingleparentsare, becauseit couldbe a grandmother, grandfatheror fatherswhoareraising children.”
Sheseestheorganizationencouragingsingleparents totake action fortheir family’sbettermentand connecting themwith resourcesto follow through.“We have topay attentiontothesingleparent,becausethesingleparentsare theonesthatareraisingthe childrenofthenext generation and[couldbe]passingdowntrauma,” Moore emphasizes.
W hilespringcleaninglast ye ar,Robin Vaulx-Williamssetaside a number of purses to donat etoPassthePurse, Please, a programthatencourages w omen to engag e with IC anMake a Difference andprioritize their emotional w ellness.
Vaulx- Williams w atched w omenperk upattheopportunity to choose a purse f orthemsel v esatno c ost,which w as f illed withself-care goodies,andshe f el texcited to serv eo ther s inthis way. As aretirededucator, ele v ating o ther s is a fulfillingpastime,andthis v olunteer opportunityallo w edher toc ontinuedoingsowithoutthepressureofa long-t erm c ommitment.
“WhenIgotinvol ve d with IC anMakea Difference, I didn’tkno w whereIw ould f it.Sonja [Bishop]w aslike,‘Just comeand you’ll f ind your way,’” Vaulx-Williams reflects.“You c anliterally justgoandobserveto seeifit’saf it for you.”
Aft er volunteeringat afewevents overthelast year, shesa ys,“There have beenmany[moments] thatmake mesitbackandsa y, ‘wow’ –becausethat couldbeanyof us.” Bishopand other volunteers have brought PassthePurse,Please to groups of underserved women,like thosewho haveexperienceddomesticviolence andthose overcomingaddiction. Sittingwiththemisanopportunity to “letthemknow thatthey’re not alone,”Vaulx-Williamssa ys.“Itletsthemknow thatpeople care.”
Ther e hav e beenman y[moments] thatmake mesitbackandsay,‘w o w’ – becausethat c ouldbean yof us.
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