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Jewish Rhody Media: The future is here DO YOU REMEMBER THE HERALD? Or perhaps you remember the Jewish Voice, or the Community Voice from many years ago. At one time, The Rhode Island Jewish Herald was an independently published newspaper and The Jewish Voice was published by the Jewish Federation of Rhode Island – yes, little Rhody’s Jewish community had two Jewish papers for many years, an amazing feat for a small state. In the early 2000s, the newspapers merged, and so did the name. But old habits are hard to break, so some of you still call it The Jewish Voice, or The Jewish Voice & Herald, or just plain The Herald. We answer to all those cherished names. Whatever name you remember or use for our community paper, one thing is certain: It’s the same Jewish publication that has always covered the Ocean State. We still record and share the news, transitions, happenings, controversies and lives of our community. But like everything else, the paper has evolved. Our name is not the only thing that has changed. When we went to a monthly format, in January 2019, we promised more features and more about the people in our community whom you might not otherwise get to know. We vowed to continue to cover Rhode Island and southeastern Massachusetts. We upgraded and expanded our website, www.jewishrhody.org, and established a monthly online newsletter. For the most part, we’ve been successful. Many of you have told us that you love the new content. There is so much more we hope to do. And toward that end, we’re excited to continue our evolution by placing a new emphasis on a future steeped in multimedia: We are expanding and developing new channels for delivering news and information to our community. We are calling our new venture Jewish Rhody Media. It will encompass everything you see now and much more. Our print newspaper, expanded website and monthly online newsletter are staying, and we now have additional video content. Did you catch the Baking with Lisa video? Lisa Maybruch demonstrated, step by step, how to make your own delicious black and white cookies.

A second "Baking with Lisa" is already in the works, featuring Lisa preparing rugelach. (I didn’t get to taste the black and whites, but I’m hoping to grab some rugelach when she bakes for our second video!) This month, we have another video, for our Up Front feature. Read all about Liza Burkin, lead organizer of the Providence Streets Coalition. Then, go to the link to watch multimedia producer Robert Isenberg and Burkin take to the streets of Providence on a bicycle tour. You might even be inspired to get out and find the places they highlight! In the next few months, you’ll also start hearing about additional new content: podcasts featuring people in the community discussing a variety of subjects. We have some interesting topics in store. Emma Newbery will produce the podcasts from the Residential Properties Ltd studio at the Alliance’s Dwares Jewish Community Center. Isenberg and Newbery are part of the team that will bring you this enhanced content for Jewish Rhody Media. Isenberg is an accomplished storyteller with newspaper, magazine, book and video credits to his name. Newbery’s background is in journalism and she has an established arts podcast. You’ll have opportunities to learn more about the communications team in the coming months as they work behind the scenes to produce the stories, videos and podcasts we know you will love. By expanding how we deliver news and other information, we’re hoping to document and enlighten Jewish life in Rhode Island in new ways that will attract more readers and further enrich our coverage for those of you who can still remember reading The Herald. Yes, we will still answer when you call us The Herald. Those basic values are part of our DNA. We may not have the same staff, look, presses or location, but we embrace our history and will continue to honor it as we look forward to new adventures to come. Working together, Jewish Rhode Island’s communications team will bring you even more news and feature stories from our community. All the multimedia content can be accessed through our website. We hope you will keep reading and that you will also enjoy viewing and listening. And when you hear about something interesting in the community, don’t hesitate to reach out. We plan to continue to tell the stories of our community, only now in even more and different ways. Fran Ostendorf, Editor

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Liza Burkin on the pedestrian bridge overlooking the Providence River.

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Liza Burkin is clearing a path for R.I. bicyclists BY ROBERT ISENBERG

his summer, Liza Burkin is kicking her work into high gear. Burkin, 32, is the

lead organizer of the Providence Streets Coalition (pvdstreets.org), and a recognized urban planner and bicycle advocate. AS RHODE ISLAND EMERGES from COVID-19’s shadow, Burkin and her collaborators have big plans for the state capital. “In Providence, we are so lucky,” she says. “Any city that was built before the car is inherently a good city for cycling.” Burkin is excited about several major developments in self-powered transportation in Rhode Island. First, there’s the revival of an urban bike-share program, with Spin replacing the ill-fated Jump bikes from two years ago. Spin, a subsidiary of the Ford Motor Co., is best known for its national network of electric scooters. In Providence, Spin is testing a new fleet of elec-

tric bikes, available to anyone with the Spin app. “It’s kind of a big deal for us, and really exciting,” says Burkin. “You can say what you want about Jump, but it was popular. It had about 300,000 rides going about 500,000 miles in less than a year of operation.” Mobility is a major theme for Burkin, who has loved cycling since her childhood in Sudbury, Massachusetts. She recalls pedaling an “extremely dangerous road” to Walden Pond. In 2011, Burkin earned a bachelor’s degree in journalism and communications from the University of Wisconsin, and she was impressed with the bike-friendly infrastructure of Madison. She returned to New England after college, and her family’s strong connection to Rhode Island led her to live in Newport, where she was a pedicab driver for several years. While pedaling tourists around town, Burkin became strongly invested in bicycle safety, and she served as program manager for Bike Newport.

Burkin is personable and loves to laugh, but she is also a fiery activist, and she has increasingly popped up in local media. She credits her passion for social change to her Judaism: As a child, she lived for many years across the street from Temple Shir Tikva, in Wayland, Massachusetts, where she worked at her first job, as a music teacher. When a local cantor invited her to a demonstration in Washington, D.C. – advocating for human rights in Darfur – Burkin permanently intertwined her spiritual background with political action. “I’m not connected to the established synagogues [in Providence],” she says, “mostly because I’m still pretty connected to my synagogue at home in Massachusetts. My Jewish community here is mostly of the activism community.” This includes heavy involvement in Never Again Action, the national movement organized by Jewish leaders to protest the more militant practices of Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE). Burkin herself was arrested during a demonstration at the Wyatt

Detention Facility, in Central Falls. Burkin says she was frustrated by her experience in Newport, where locals were often resistant to bicycle-safety measures, so she returned to school, earning a master’s degree from Tufts University in urban and environmental planning and policy. She then moved to Providence, where she established the Providence Streets Coalition in 2019 to advocate for “people-friendly streets.” “People never lived in suburbs before 1950,” Burkin says. “This was all an experiment to see if we should design a society around the automobile, and it really hasn’t worked out too well for us.” She compares the many types of transportation available today to tools in a toolbox, but says cities are only designed to accommodate “a sledgehammer” – her phrase for motor vehicles. Burkin says a bike-share network is a great start, but she envisions a much broader metamorphosis. The Providence Great Streets Initiative is the city’s plan to create CONTINUED ON PAGE 5

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Our legacy may lie in our actions, not our names she bore Moses, and Aaron and Miriam.” Let’s think about this for a moment. Here is a simple woman who gives birth to three children. One of them, Moses, becomes a great leader of the Jewish people, leading them from slavery to freedom, through the Red Sea and across the Sinai wilderness … an incredible accomplishment. Another RABBI ETHAN ADLER child, Miriam, who by her own right is considered a leader of the women in her time, a woman of strength and vigor, is credited with saving baby Moses’ life by risking a conversation with the pharaoh’s daughter at the Nile River. Wow, two fantastic kids, two great careers, more than any mother could hope for; better than just wishing her children would become doctors and lawyers. But wait, there’s more: Her third child, Aaron, becomes the Israelites’ koen gadol, high priest, and the number-one dude in all temple worship events – a man known to be a chaser of peace and tranquility, the only one holy enough to utter God’s official name on Yom Kippur. Now, imagine this: Despite all that Yocheved has done, and all that she represented, there are only two mentions of her name in the Torah! One would think that a

woman who can produce not one, not two, but three extraordinarily successful individuals would be praised and glorified throughout the Torah. Alas, it ain’t so. Except for the two verses mentioned earlier, we hear nothing more about Yocheved. Yet, when we closely examine how she came to save her son from the Egyptian decree to give all Jewish male newborns to the Nile god, we get a closer look into her strength and vision. So, let’s set the scene. Pharoah announces his decree, and Yocheved finds herself with a male baby in her home, with the threat of Egyptian soldiers breaking down her door at any time. What was she to do? Well, after examining her options, her conclusion is this: place the baby in the Nile and hope that someone kind will find him and care for him. The Torah could have simply reported something like: “And she put the baby into the ark and sent it on the river.” Period, end of story. However, the Torah uses this event as an opportunity to point out that — wait a minute — I have a great story to tell, a chance to recount and to dwell on the wonderful characteristics and traits of an incredible woman. Only if we examine the story more closely can we begin to understand how the Torah uses action words to show us the kind of person Yocheved was. And when we examine Exodus 2:1-10, here

is what we find: • And she conceived – a sign of God’s blessing. • And she bore a son – a further show of God’s blessing. • She saw that her son was godly – she recognized something very special about him. • She hid him for three months – she risked her life for the sake of the baby, reflecting faith in God. • She could no longer hide him – she could sense that all the faith in the world was not going to help. She was a woman of action, relying on God but not fully dependent on God. She was willing to take matters into her own hands. • She took for him an ark of bullrushes – she did this by herself, without telling anyone (except Miriam), so as not to draw attention to what she was doing and perhaps be talked out of it. • She daubed it with lime and with pitch – hardly a woman’s work (at least back then), but was not afraid to get her hands dirty to get the job done. • She put the child therein – she was right there, placing the baby in the basket, saying goodbye, kissing him for possibly the last time. Again, she was not willing to let someone else complete this most difficult action. • She placed it among the reeds of the riverbank – an extreme show of faith and inner strength. By placing the baby in the river by herself, she was taking 100% responsibility for her actions.

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“We also have to build the legal infrastructure,” she says, referring to the Green and Complete Street Ordinance, which was first implemented in Central Falls. If passed in Providence, the ordinance would promote multi-use access and sustainable building practices across the city. “Every single time there’s a major reconstruction project or we’re repaving the road, we have to consider the design of the street and how it affects all of the users of the road, whether that’s cyclists, pedestrians, transit users [or] drivers. So it’s just systematizing and normalizing these types of urban-design

interventions for the long haul.” Despite all of her serious pursuits, Burkin still makes time for fun; she is co-organizer of the Providence Bike Jam, or PBJ, a monthly group ride through the city, peppered with music and lights. More than 600 people follow the PBJ rides on Facebook (facebook.com/PVDBikejam), and the event attracts a crowd, including about 150 riders in June. For Burkin, all these pursuits are spokes in the same wheel; immigration and urban mobility are overlapping themes; bikes, Judaism and urban design all enrich each other and culminate in

great things. “I’ve always felt deeply that being a Jew means being somebody who is working for change, and tikkun olam, and making the world a better place,” Burkin says. Want to take a ride around Providence with Liza Burkin? Check out JewishRhody.com for our video profile.

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OUR TORAH PORTION this week is named after Pinchas, the grandson of Aaron, who is rewarded with the continued priesthood in his family for zealously upholding the high morals of the Torah. Soon afterward, war is declared against the Midianites, perennial enemies of the ancient Israelites. Then, another population census is taken. Then, the daughters of Zelophehad declare that even though there are no male heirs in the family (no, this does not mean they were all bald!), they, the daughters, should nevertheless be given the rights of inheritance, which they are ultimately granted. Then, Moses is reminded that he will not enter the land of Canaan with the other Israelites, and that his righthand man, Joshua, will take over the reins. Finally, daily and festival sacrificial offerings are reiterated and recalled. And this ends our portion. Now, hidden within this panoramic narrative of events and happenings is the mention of a wonderful woman who receives scant mention in the Torah. In Exodus 6:20, we read: “And Amram took to him Yocheved, his father’s sister, to wife.” And in this week’s portion, 26:59, we read: “And the name of Amram’s wife was Yocheved, a Levite, and

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78 miles of walkable paths and bike lanes, which will connect well-traveled paths – like the East Bay Bike Path and the Woonasquatucket River Greenway – into a single car-free system. The resulting Urban Trail Network is intended to encourage physical activity, reduce the number of accidents and combat air pollution, among other civic goals. Instead of driving to a trailhead for an afternoon ride, urban workers could feasibly commute by bicycle. Burkin hopes for policy changes as well, to (literally) cement this new way of thinking.

ROBERT ISENBERG (risenberg@jewishallianceri.org) is the multimedia producer for the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island and he writes for Jewish Rhode Island.

• And she took the child (to nurse it) – imagine the pain of giving up your child, then having the opportunity to take him back for a few years, only to have him taken away again; what a show of strength! • And she nursed him – further strengthening the bond that would surely be broken, yet recognizing that this bond would accompany her son into his adult years. • And she brought her son to pharaoh’s daughter – by herself, not counting on someone else to do so. She herself handed over the baby, after hugging him for possibly the last time. Thus, the Torah is able to tell a great story about a great woman – a story told with poignant detail to clearly underscore the pain and stress of the events, and the strength and faith that Yocheved reflected throughout the episode. The lesson for us all is that more than our names, it is our actions that help define the legacy that we leave to our descendants. RABBI ETHAN ADLER is the spiritual leader of Congregation Beth David, in Narragansett.

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COMMUNITY VOICES | OPINION Baseless arguments but same conclusion

Claire Davidson Miller Brown Class of 2021 Miller works for Americans for Peace Now [peacenow.org], the sister organization to Israel’s Peace Now movement. The Voice of Greater Rhode Island’s Jewish Community

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“ONE NIGHT, MARKOVITCH” is the first novel by the young and gifted Israeli author Ayelet Gundar-Goshen; the Hebrew original appeared in 2012, while the English translation by Sondra Silverston followed in 2015 (London: Pushkin Press). The book is divided into three major sections: Before, During and After, plus a seven-page After After. These time signifiers revolve around Israel’s War of Independence, beginning with the Arab attack in response to Israel’s Declaration of Independence on May 14, 1948, and continuing, in its very last phase, until March 10, 1949. Gundar-Goshen starts her story with a description of two fast friends: Yaacov Markovitch, an ineffectual, totally forgettable man – a nebbish – and Zeev Feinberg, both a lady’s man and a man’s man, well known for his distinguished mustache. The two men are chosen to be part of a group of 20 young men sent by the Irgun (a pre-Israel fighting force) to Nazi-dominated Europe to marry Jewish women they have never met. Their marriage certificates will permit the temporary husbands to bring the women to Palestine, thus rescuing them from Nazi persecution. Upon their safe arrival, their husbands will immediately divorce them, freeing them to pursue their lives in the developing Jewish homeland. The hitch in these legal shenanigans is that Markovitch, upon setting his eyes on the beautiful Bella Zeigerman, decides that he will never unhitch her, never grant her a get, a Jewish divorce. Markovitch’s refusal to

grant Bella her freedom has devastating consequences not only for their hellish marriage but also for all those who become tangled up in the ever-expanding web of their despair. To be honest, for the first 100 pages or so, I was disappointed with GundRABBI JAMES

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IN THE JUNE [2021] edition of Jewish Rhode Island, Moses Twersky published an op-ed “Israel has nothing to apologize for.” I find his arguments baseless and unconscionable, but I am inclined to agree with his conclusion: Israel should not apologize for what it has done to Palestinians. Apologies are useful insofar as they soothe hurt feelings and mend relationships. The treatment to which Israel has subjected Palestinians has not hurt feelings; it has destroyed lives. During May’s Operation Guardians of the Walls, Israeli bombs killed 122 Palestinian civilians in Gaza and wounded nearly 2,000. An apology cannot bring back the dead or heal the wounded, nor can it rebuild destroyed homes and infrastructure. It cannot restore Gaza’s 17 damaged hospitals and medical clinics, re-home the 91,000 Gazans forced to flee, or provide clean water to the 250,000 people who relied on a now-disconnected desalination plant. In the face of such violence and destruction, an apology would be meaningless. While you may not agree with me, Mr. Twersky, Jewish tradition does. Jewish texts teach us, time and again, that the sanctity of life supersedes all else. Whether or not you respect their national identity, political ideology, or land claims, the 122 Gazan civilians killed during Operation Guardians of the Walls led lives that were just as holy as mine or yours. In Jewish tradition, teshuvah cannot be achieved with a simple apology. A sinner must do much more in order to repent. One must forsake the sin, consider its future consequences, modify one’s behavior and teach others not to sin. The message is clear: Israel owes Palestinians change and justice, not empty words.

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ar-Goshen’s writing style. I had begun reading her first novel because I had been so enthralled with her second novel, “Waking Lions” (English translation, 2016), which painted a detailed and believable picture of contemporary Israeli life, warts and all. By way of contrast, “One Night, Markovitch” seemed neither realistic nor believable; the ever-more complicated story is peppered with impossibly contrived twists of plot. Nevertheless, as I moved further into the 375-page book, I began to realize that Gundar-Goshen was crafting her first novel in a mixture of fantasy and psychological realism – a style sometimes called “magical realism.” Slowly but steadily, through the magic of her brilliantly engaging writing, she nudged me towards a willing suspension of disbelief. Why wasn’t it possible for one of her female characters to always smell of oranges and for the woman’s son, from the moment of his birth, to give off the aroma of peaches? And why couldn’t Markovitch be transformed into a hero-in-arms, along with a mythic triumvirate of

drunkard, gambler and lame dreamer? Employing many strategies from the perspective of magical realism, including laugh-out-loud comic relief, Gundar-Goshen has found her way into stinging criticism of a number of contemporary Israel’s sacred cows. One of her more developed characters, for example, is repeatedly referred to by his title: “The deputy commander of the Irgun.” He is often toasted as the hero of heroes: husbands and wives are honored to give their sons his first name, Ephraim. Yet this same Ephraim, hero of

heroes, happens to be carrying on an adulterous affair with the wife of his so-called “close friend,” an affair that produces a bastard son. This same Ephraim appears to be most heroic when killing Arabs: “The deputy commander of the Irgun … then got up and went to do the only thing he knew how to do: kill Arabs. He killed them in the Galilee, he killed them in Hebron, and in the streets of Jerusalem, and in the alleyways of Jaffe … and they named babies after him before he turned

thirty.” In “One Night, Markovitch,” Gundar-Goshen uses a combination of fantasy and psychological depth to pave the way “for people who wanted to live in this world to pass through the minefield between the truth and the lie” – and, I might add, between the messy reality of the here and now and the unsullied purity of their dreams. For the most part, Gundar-Goshen’s characters prefer to hold fast to their dreams. In the end, through the magic of her realism and the realism of her magic, Gundar-Goshen challenges her fellow Israelis and all those who love the people of Israel, the land of Israel and the state of Israel to continue to transform an impossible dream into a vibrant though imperfect reality. As she muses towards the end of “One Night, Markovitch”: “[The founders of the state of Israel] did impossible things so often that the remarkable became the usual for them. It is tempting, too tempting to say that their fall began with the end of the War of Independence. As if the anticipation of a homeland had the power to sustain and nourish them, a power that faded the moment their fervent desire became reality. As if unrealized desires can endure forever.” JAMES B. ROSENBERG is a rabbi emeritus at Temple Habonim, in Barrington. Contact him at rabbiemeritus@templehabonim.org.

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Let’s all join together and say, Hineni, ‘Here I am’ The following remarks were delivered June 17 at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island’s Tenth Annual Meeting and have been lightly edited. BY ADAM GREENMAN IT PROBABLY COMES as no surprise, but I spend a lot of time thinking about and talking about the Alliance and our greater Rhode Island Jewish community. For my kids, my wife and some of our friends, probably a little too much time. Much of that thought often comes back to our organizational values, the core principles that guide every decision we make as an agency. Organizational values are a lot like your children actually, in that as the CEO, you probably shouldn’t have a favorite. Unlike Alexandria and Norah, where my love for them knows no bounds and is equal in every way, I must admit that I do have a favorite organizational value. While tzedakah, l’dor vador, tikkun olam, klal Yisra’el and Torah are incredibly important, for me it is Hineni that stands above the others. Hineni. Literally, “Here I am!” A purposeful statement that declares that one is present and giving full attention to the matter at hand. In the Torah, it is what Abraham, Jacob and Moses all uttered to God at times of critical importance. In each case they demonstrated their attention to be fully ready for anything God commanded. And in each case, they emerged transformed. Today, the term goes far beyond biblical interpretation. Hineni is an acceptance of respon-

sibility, for ourselves and for others. In today’s vernacular, it’s the equivalent of saying, “I’m all in.” So many times this year, I have been fortunate to see people stand up and say, “Hineni. Here I am.” To serve this community. To better this community. I think back to last June, when the Dwares JCC [Jewish Community Center] reopened.

Not just to vote on the important work of the organization and our community, but to help us navigate the choppiest waters in a generation. Every single one of them said, Hineni, here I am. Whether it was our finance committee meeting monthly to help us ensure we had the funds necessary to support the community or our fundraising committee making sure that the funds were there to support of the work, So many times this year, all board members up. I have been fortunate to stepped They all dug deep, and even see people stand up and though they, too, had the say, “Hineni. Here I am.” stress and anxiety associated with the panAfter three months of demic, they helped make lockdown, it was a scary our organization and our prospect. But our staff community stronger. rose up and said, Hineni, And while I hear so here I am. often how much people They came to work do not like asking for each day, pledging to money, to be honest, it is ensure our community one of the most gratifyhad a place to come ing parts of my job. together. That our Nearly every day I ask youngest community someone for support, members had a safe place and I get to witness when to go for child care that they say Hineni, here I parents could rely on. am. They perform the That people still had a mitzvah of tzedakah, but place to work out and it is so much more than stay healthy. That comthat. So often I hear them munity members had say not only that they programming to bring are happy to support the them together, albeit community, but they virtually. go beyond that and say, That community “How else can I help?” organizations and synThank you to all of you agogues had what they who do that. You inspire needed to navigate the me with your financial pandemic successfully. generosity and your genWhether it was virtual erosity of spirit. book clubs, virtual Today we find ourgroup exercise classes or selves in a very different virtual Israeli Culture place than a year ago. Series events, the comVaccination rates are munity had so much to high, case counts are choose from because our low, and we are seeing Alliance staff stepped up. each other in person At so many points in again. But there is no the last year I needed going back to what was. the help and support of We’ve learned and our board of directors.

grown from these last 15 months. And through all the suffering, through all of the hard times, there are aspects that emerged that will make life better moving forward and that will make our community stronger. Last year, I painted a picture of what our community could look like if we achieved everything in our strategic plan, titled “Here for Good,” and we are well on our way to achieving that. This is only possible because so many people said, Hineni, here I am. I’m excited for the year ahead, for what the Alliance has planned to achieve the goals in our strategic plan. To connect more people than ever to our community, through activities at the Dwares JCC and in collaboration with our synagogue and agency partners across the state, to make sure everyone from Cumberland to Narragansett to Newport has the chance to be a part of this vibrant Jewish community, giving people many opportunities, formal and informal, to engage with each other and to engage in Jewish life. I’m excited about working with our non-Jewish partners to address hatred in all forms, whether it is anti-Semitism, racism, Islamophobia or any other form of hatred. The unfortunate truth is that hatred of one group usually means hatred of all groups, and we are stronger working with our partners to keep our communities safe. I’m excited about the new ways we are connecting our community together and telling the story of our Rhode Island Jewish community. I’m excited about CONTINUED ON PAGE 8

Rosenberg strikes a chord RABBI JAMES ROSENBERG'S June column, “We are awesome too,” struck a heavenly chord. Psalm 19 is also concerned with astronomy: The heavens recite the glory of God, and the sky tells of the work of His hands. Day to day utters speech, and night to night tells knowledge. There is neither speech nor words; their voice is not heard. Their line goes forth throughout the earth, and their words are at the end of the world... Indeed, astronomy was essential for determining holy days and festivals. Over time, the calendar threatened to lose synchronization with the seasons, and, since Pesach is specified as being in Aviv, springtime, the calendar was recalculated. There is astronomical discussion in the Talmud. In Mishnah Rosh Hashanah 2, the court determines that witnesses are not required for sanctification of the New Moon, since the calendar was considered acceptable; and Rabban Gamliel disputed with Rabbis Yehoshua, Yochanan ben Nuri and Dosa ben Horkinas over the date of the New Moon. Today, there are many Jewish astronomers increasing our understanding of the universe, such as Vera Rubin, who helped uncover dark matter, and Marcelo Gleiser, astronomer and philosopher, and Peter Saulson, pioneer in gravitational astronomy. However, as Rabbi Rosenberg points out, astronomy does not make moral statements, such as Hillel's question, “If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?” Though the answer to that concerns another astronomical question: could the Pesach sacrifice be performed on Shabbos? In Pesachim 66a, Hillel reasons that there are hundreds of other sacrifices on Shabbos, so the answer should be obviously, “Yes!” So it takes human wisdom to know, “when.” Or as Alexander Pope (oy vey!) stated, Know then thyself, presume not G-d to scan, The proper study of mankind is Man... Go, measure earth, weigh air, and state the tides; Instruct the planets in what orbs to run, Correct old time, and regulate the sun... Then drop into thyself, and be a fool! Bart Bresnik Mansfield, Mass.

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COMMUNITY VOICES | OPINION LETTER RICI Rally THANKS TO RABBI DOLINGER for stepping up as a keynote speaker at the widely attended pro-Israel community rally held on June 6, organized by the RI Coalition for Israel (RICI). This is a difficult time for Israel and the Jewish people. Our community lacks unwavering leadership that is willing to speak out in support of Israel's security and against Jew hatred! Even here in Rhode Island alarming public anti-Semitic rallies were held in reaction to the recent Israel/Hamas conflict, and there has been silence from the established Jewish leadership. During these rallies Israel was equated to Hitler, Stalin and South Africa by an imam from the Islamic Center of RI. These anti-Semitic rallies can be viewed at www.upriseri.com (news/civil rights). While expressing support at the June 6 rally, Rabbi Dolinger, a member of the Board of the Jewish Alliance, also pointed out the important connection between the Jewish community and Rhode Island's Christian Zionist leadership at Praise Tabernacle Church. The lack of a very public rally of support, sponsored by the Alliance, during the conflict upsets me very much and it should upset you also. I have been to Israel many times and unfortunately the Israelis feel like they are on an island in their part of the world. They need and deserve to see that Jews in the Diaspora care about and support them. RICI is an organization of Jews and Christians who support the State of Israel and all Jews. Ken Schneider RICI Board member East Providence, RI

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ties, one in Israel, one in Eastern Europe and one in Latin America. These partnerships will allow our greater Rhode Island

that all of this work has the Alliance’s organizachanges coming to Jewish tional values at the center. Rhode Island, our commuEverything we do will pronity newspaper, and I’m vide opportunities for peoreally excited about the ple to uphold podcasts and the values video series I have total confidence that we will of righteous we are launchgiving and ing to tell justice, will emerge from this pandemic with a those stories provide peoin new ways. ple with lifecommunity that is stronger... I’m excited long learning that we are opportuninot only conJewish community to ties, will secure our Jewnecting our community create deeper connections ish future, connect us to together, but connecting with Jews around the worldwide Jewry, and help our community to others world. It will allow for us to repair the world. around the world in new cultural exchanges, and it All of that only hapways. will further connect us to pens with you. Join me in Later this year, we’ll our brothers and sisters in saying Hineni, here I am. announce the creation of worldwide Jewry. Let us jointly proclaim our three partner communiMost of all, I’m excited

responsibility to our community and to each other. If we do that, I have total confidence that we will emerge from this pandemic with a community that is not only stronger and more vibrant, but one that is truly transformed, the envy of the country, and a place where others will come to stand with us so that they too can say Hineni, here I am. ADAM GREENMAN is president and CEO of the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

LETTER ‘Meaningful compromise’ needed DAYS AFTER the fragile Egypt-brokered ceasefire that ended the Israeli-Gaza war went into effect, the New York Times on its front page published individual photographs of the more than 60 children who had been killed. Almost all were Arabs. The war constituted a humanitarian catastrophe. It echoed previous conflicts and is likely to be repeated in the not too distant future unless meaningful compromise steps are taken by both sides. What precipitated the last round of fighting: Israel certainly disrespected the sanctity of the Al Aqsa Mosque, so holy to

Muslims, and the adjacent plaza. There was an avoidable clash. The Meuzzin’s call to prayer was deemed interference with Israeli President Rivlin’s nearby speech celebrating Memorial Day. Israeli authorities were unwilling to reschedule the speech. Instead they sent police to disconnect the Mosque’s loudspeakers. For Arabs, the incident was further evidence that their presence in Jerusalem is subordinate to Jewish interests. This is especially true when seen in combination with the periodic demolition of Arab dwellings and evictions of Arab residents. This is obviously true in the occupied West Bank where Jewish settlements have proliferated. Such

policies are huge obstacles to a lasting peace and a two-state solution. Israel can have a Biblical Empire or peace, not both. To move forward, Israel must curtail the embargo so that living conditions for Gazans can be improved. Many are living in misery. Hamas must recognize the legitimacy of Israel. For its part, Israel must accept Hamas as a negotiating partner. Diplomacy does not work if states negotiate only with allies. To be successful, it requires negotiations with enemies no matter how repugnant. The alternative is more deaths of innocents. In 1903, an especially brutal, bloody pogrom occurred in Czarist

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Russia, in Kishinev, today the capital of Moldova. It claimed approximately 49 Jewish lives – men, women and children. A Jewish poet, Chaim Bialik, composed his epic poem “On the Slaughter” in response to the appalling bloodshed. Bialik opined that Satan himself could not forgive the death of a child. There is no comparison between Kishinev in 1903 and Gaza in May 2021. Still it is difficult to forgive the killing of the innocent children for which both Palestinians and Israelis are responsible. Robert Weisbord Emeritus Professor of History, URI Ron Salavon S. Kingstown, RI

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Kosher Senior Café and Zoom programming. Cold box lunches delivered to all Café guests that request home delivery while meal sites are closed due to COVID-19. Two lunches delivered on Mondays and Wednesdays; one lunch delivered on Fridays. Additionally, in-person, indoor Friday lunches will take place on alternate weeks at Temple Emanu-El in Providence and Temple Sinai in Cranston during the summer starting July 9 at Temple Sinai. Zoom programming includes yoga on Tuesdays from 11:30 a.m.-noon followed by lunch and a guest speaker or discussion from noon-1 p.m. The second Tuesday of the month is “Susie’s Corner” with Susie Adler from noon-1 p.m. The third Thursday of the month is a book chat with Neal Drobnis from noon-1 p.m. Suggested donation: $3 per lunch. Information, Neal Drobnis at neal@jfsri.org or 401421-4111, ext. 107. Music with Raymond Buttero via Zoom. Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays 3-4 p.m. Temple Sinai's pianist performs. Link at templesinairi.org. Information, dottie@ templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350. Project Shoresh Partners in Torah Night In-person and via Zoom. Sundays 7:45-8:45 p.m. 450 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Partner-based study group. Study your choice of texts, English or Hebrew, ancient or modern, with facilitators available. Let us know if you need a "study-buddy." Free. Information, Naftali Karp at naftalikarp@gmail. com or 401-632-3165. Conversational Hebrew Classes via Zoom. Mondays 7-8:15 p.m. thru 7/19. Three levels offered. Partnership of the Jewish Alliance of Greater RI and Temple Emanu-El. No class 7/5. $100 for 8 sessions. Information, Toby Liebowitz at tobyaane@gmail.com. Project Shoresh “The Path of the Just – The Jewish Waze.” Mondays 8-9 p.m. Journey the path of life using the WAZE of Rabbi Moshe Chaim Luzzato in his book "Messilas Yesharim" via Zoom. Free. Information, Noach Karp at rnoachkarp@ gmail.com or 401-429-8244. Basic Beginners Hebrew Classes via Zoom. Tuesdays 6:15-7:15 p.m. thru 7/20. Must be able to read and write Hebrew alphabet. Partnership of the Jewish Alliance of Greater RI and Temple Emanu-El. No class 7/6. $100 for 8 sessions. Information, Toby Liebowitz at tobyaane@gmail.com. Project Shoresh “48 Ways to Wisdom” with Rabbi Naftali

Karp. Tuesdays 7:45-8:45 p.m. The Mishnah describes 48 essential tools to acquire Torah. Rav Noach Weinberg taught these 48 ways as guidelines to achieving success in every facet of our lives. Free. Each class self-contained. Information or RSVP, Naftali Karp at naftalikarp@ gmail.com or 401-632-3165.

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Temple Torat Yisrael Virtual and In-person Shabbat Services. Saturdays 9:30-10:30 a.m. 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. With Rabbi Aaron Philmus. For Zoom link, email Temple@toratyisrael.org.

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Project Shoresh Jewish Young Professionals Shmooze. Wednesdays 7:15-8:15 p.m. Lippitt Memorial Park, 1015 Hope St., Providence. Shmooze, snack and have a beer. Free. Information, Naftali Karp at naftalikarp@gmail.com or 401-6323165.

Temple Habonim Torah Study via Zoom. Saturdays 10-11 a.m. Rabbi Howard Voss-Altman leads weekly Torah study on current portion. Information, Adina Davies at office@ templehabonim.org or 401-2456536.

Temple Sinai Morning Meditation via Zoom. Fridays 10-10:30 a.m. Rabbi Jeffrey Goldwasser leads meditation that includes reflections on Jewish wisdom and mindfulness. No prior experience required. Information, templesinairi.org or Dottie at 401-942-8350. TGIS in the Garden. 3rd Friday of the month 5-5:30 p.m. Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Thank G-d it's Shabbat in person at the TTY garden with Zoom available. Information, email Temple@toratyisrael.org. Temple Torat Yisrael Virtual Welcome Shabbat with Song and Story. Fridays 5:30-5:45 p.m. except the 3rd Friday of the month. Join Rabbi Aaron Philmus for a service filled with songs and stories. For Zoom link, email Temple@ toratyisrael.org. Temple Torat Yisrael Virtual Kabbalat Shabbat Songs and Torah Services. Fridays 5:45-6:30 p.m. except the 3rd Friday of the month. With Rabbi Aaron Philmus. For adults. For Zoom link, email Temple@toratyisrael.org. Temple Torat Yisrael Kabbalat Shabbat in the Garden. 3rd Friday of the month 5:45-6:30 p.m. Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Rabbi Aaron Philmus leads this in-person service. Zoom option available. Information, email Temple@toratyisrael.org. Temple Sinai Shabbat Services. Fridays 6-7 p.m. 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. With Rabbi Jeffrey Goldwasser and Cantor Deborah Johnson. Starting 7/9, limited in-person space; registration required. Zoom link at templesinairi.org. Information, dottie@templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350. Temple Beth-El Torah Study. Saturdays 9-10 a.m. Temple Beth-El, 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Led by one of Beth-El's clergy. Informa-

Temple Sinai Torah Study In-person and via Zoom. Saturdays 10-11:15 a.m. Interactive discussion with Rabbi Jeffrey Goldwasser. Limited in-person space for members starting July 10; registration required. Zoom link at templesinairi. org. Information, dottie@templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350. Temple Sinai Shabbat Torah Reading In-person and via Zoom. Saturdays 11 a.m.-noon. Starting mid-July, limited in-person space for members; registration required. Zoom link at templesinairi.org. Information, templesinairi.org or Dottie at 401-942-8350.

Shabbat Under the Stars. 7-8 p.m. Temple Beth-El’s back patio, 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Welcome Rabbi Preston Neimeiser to his first Shabbat Under the Stars as we gather together on the Julie Claire Gutterman Biblical Garden patio to greet Shabbat with song and stories. Enjoy special summer treats following the service. Information, Kim Campbell at kcampbell@temple-beth-el.org.

Saturday | July 17

TGIS Musical Family Shabbat with Rabbi Aaron Philmus. Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. 5-5:30 p.m. Welcome Shabbat with friends and community in our beautiful backyard by the mitzvah garden. Bring a lawn chair or blanket. (Picnics are welcome!) If it rains, we will meet in the sanctuary. Information, Temple@toratyisrael.org.

Friday | July 23

Shore Drive, Barrington. Join us for some Knead donuts, playtime and some PJ Library stories. Questions and RSVP, Adina at office@ templehabonim.org

Sunday | July 25

Judah Touro Series: “Treasures of Sephardic Song” via Zoom. 4-5 p.m. Touro Synagogue Foundation, in association with Congregation Shearith Israel in New York, will present this virtual concert of Sephardic music by Gerard Edery Free. Information, Meryle Cawley at meryle@tourosynagogue.org or 401-847-4794, ext. 207.

Saturday | July 31

Temple Torat Yisrael Sprouts Shabbat Walk and Picnic. 10:30 a.m. Rabbi’s Homestead, 1245 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Enjoy the garden and chickens, a scavenger hunt on a nature trail, followed by songs and a light Kiddush. Bring a blanket and picnic for your family. For children ages 2-6 and their parents. Siblings welcome. Open to the community. Free. Information, Temple@toratyisrael.org.

PJ Library and Temple Habonim Playground Meet-up. 10 a.m. Latham Park, Latham Ave. and

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Electronics Recycling Drop-Off. 9 a.m.-noon. Back Parking Lot, Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Indie Cycle will accept electronic waste for responsible recycling of all types of electronics, cords and small appliances. Visit Indie Cycle’s website for full list of items accepted. Most items free to recycle; $10 disposal fee applies to some items. Information, Stephanie Hague at shague@jewishallianceri. org.

Wednesday | July 14

“Soul” and Souls: What’s Happening Backstage in Heaven? 7:30 p.m. Join Pixar’s Jewish consultant, Rabbi Judah Dardik of Jerusalem’s Oraita Institute, and Rabbi Aaron Philmus of Temple Torat Yisrael for a lively discussion on the soul’s journey into life, death and the afterlife. The movie “Soul” can be streamed on Disney+, but you do not need to watch it to enjoy the program. Register/Zoom link, jewishallianceri.org/soul/. In collaboration with the Jewish Alliance of Greater RI. Information, Temple@ toratyisrael.org.

Thursday | July 15

Temple Emanu-El Film Festival. “The Last Suit,” winner of numerous awards. Includes the humorous short, “A Reuben by Any Other Name.” Film available noon until Monday, July 19, at 11:59 p.m.

Gerard Edery will perform at the Touro Foundation concert. PHOTO BY GAIL HADANI

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A truly memorable summer menu (FAMILY FEATURES) Summer days are often spent with family and friends, soaking in the sun's rays and enjoying outdoor living with warmweather activities. Complement this year's summertime excitement with food that matches your enthusiasm for the season. Your menu can start with a fruity dip and a salad before diving into

steak for the main course and a kid-friendly treat to top it all off. These recipes make the most of what summer has to offer with fresh fruits and veggies, bright and refreshing greens, tender cuts of meat and frozen treats that celebrate those memorable moments together. Find more summer recipe inspiration at Culinary.net.

Apple Guacamole

1 Granny Smith apple, peeled, cored and finely chopped Kosher salt, to taste Tortilla chips

Recipe adapted from the Meredith Corporation Servings: 8-10

INGREDIENTS 3 ripe avocados, halved and pitted 1/2 cup finely chopped Vidalia onion 1/2 cup snipped fresh cilantro 1 lime, juice only Bottled hot pepper sauce, to taste

DIRECTIONS In bowl, use fork to mash avocados, onion, cilantro, lime juice and hot pepper sauce to desired consistency. Stir in apple and season with salt, to taste. Serve with tortilla chips.

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Apple, Strawberry, Blueberry Salad Servings: 6

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To make blueberry dressing: In blender, process blueberries, balsamic vinegar, honey, lemon juice, olive oil and salt and pepper, to taste, until smooth. Set aside. To prepare salad: Cut apples into 1/4-inch thick slices. Using 1-1/2-inch diameter star-shaped cutter, cut apple slices into stars. Place lettuce mix in large bowl; add apples, strawberries and blueberries. Sprinkle with pecans. Before serving, drizzle each salad with blueberry dressing.

Blueberry Dressing: 2 cups fresh blueberries 1/4 cup balsamic vinegar 2 tablespoons honey 1 tablespoon lemon juice 1/2 cup olive oil Salt, to taste Pepper, to taste Salad: 2 large apples 2 packages (6 ounces each) Lettuce Mix 1 pint strawberries, cut in half

Steak Banh Mi Servings: 2

INGREDIENTS 10 ounces beef flat iron steak 2 teaspoons hoisin sauce 2 teaspoons soy sauce 2 teaspoons honey 1 teaspoon fish sauce 1 clove garlic, minced 1 teaspoon, plus 1/2 cup, rice vinegar, divided 1/8 teaspoon five-spice powder 2 tablespoons sugar 1 pinch salt 1 small carrot, cut into matchsticks 1 tablespoon vegetable oil 1/4 cup water 2 Vietnamese baguettes or dinner rolls 1/4 cup mayonnaise 4 Batavia lettuce leaves 1/4 cup cilantro, chopped 1 Persian cucumber, sliced

1 pint blueberries 1/2 cup pecan halves, toasted Blueberry dressing

DIRECTIONS Remove steak from packaging and set aside 10 minutes. Once steak reaches room temperature, place steak in deep plate or storage container. In small bowl, combine hoisin sauce, soy sauce, honey, fish sauce, garlic, 1 teaspoon rice vinegar and five-spice powder; pour over steak. Cover and marinate in fridge at least 2 hours, or overnight. In small pot over medium heat, heat remaining rice vinegar, sugar and salt. Cook and stir until sugar and salt dissolve. Remove from heat and let cool. Place carrots in deep plate or storage container. Pour cooled pickling liquid over carrots. Set aside to marinate. Remove steak from marinade and pat dry. Reserve marinade. Heat oven to 325 degrees F. Heat heavy-bottomed pan over high heat and add oil. Once oil begins to

smoke, add steak. Sear both sides, about 1 minute per side. Lower heat to medium. Add reserved marinade and water to pan. Cook, covered, 3 minutes, removing lid to flip meat occasionally. Remove lid and let sauce reduce 1 minute, or until slightly thickened. Transfer steak and sauce to large plate and let rest 10 minutes before slicing. Toast baguettes in oven 5 minutes. Let cool 5-10 minutes. Slice baguettes along middle without cutting through. Slice steak into thin pieces. Spread mayonnaise on baguettes and add 1-2 lettuce leaves to each. Layer steak on lettuce leaves followed by cilantro, cucumbers and pickled carrots. Slice baguette into two sandwiches. CONTINUED ON PAGE 11

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My list of contemptible “accomplishments” from the inventions we are much too proud of goes on and on, and reaches a plateau with political slogans.

I am determined to make my own list of things I love about my birthplace that doesn’t include the highly profitable and ingenious (I suppose) products of our national pride – the big cars and trucks, and the highways they required or demanded to make their speed ever swifter … at the expense of wildlife and for the benefit of vultures. Instead, I would offer a less tangible list of a few miniature good things. There is a bumper sticker that reads in big letters, “Sh** happens!” I like it ’cuz it’s funny and somehow youthful in tone. But I would add at this point in my saga, on the other side of my rear bumper, “Happiness also happens.” Old Tom Jefferson wrote a wonderful line, the best line, that no matter what happens, we are free in “the pursuit of happiness.” We may not deserve or earn it, but strangely, marvelously, somehow, sometimes, it just happens. It did for me, here, and so, I’m glad, especially in the month when we celebrate the birth of our nation’s promises, made right here in Li’l Rhody, the smallest colony, with the widest and biggest heart and harbor, to salute the flags both of my nation and my state and to claim our popular songs from Cole to Irving, as sung by Kate and Judy, by Frank and by Fats. Yes, a song is a social collaboration. The lyrics, the tunes, the singer … and the listener! So my plea here is to lower our demands, lessen our trash, remember with respect the minor skills such as mending and darning our socks, and listen to the mockingbird. MIKE FINK (mfink33@aol.com) teaches at the Rhode Island School of Design.

THIS SUMMER is infusing us with energy and sunshine, particularly as we move into the latter stages of the pandemic. But amid all the energy and enthusiasm for in-person gatherings and hugging our friends and family again, we also need to think about and exercise some temperance. Rabbi Benjamin Blech has written an excellent, thought-provoking and inspiring article, “When Covid is Over: The Hidden Blessings of 2020,” on Aish. com. He writes, “The Torah gives us the initial illustration of a common but foolish reaction. Noah was the first to witness global destruction. No sooner did he leave the ark and bear witness to the world’s devastation than he ‘planted a vineyard and drank of the wine, and was drunken’ (Genesis 9:20-21). Escape – wine, drugs, licentiousness – invariably attempt to ease our pain since Noah’s time, with equally unsatisfactory results.” Rabbi Blech continues, “Some think the post pandemic era will suffer a similar fate. Yale professor Nicholas Christakis, in his new book ‘Apollo’s Arrow: The Profound and Enduring Impact of Coronavirus on the Way We Live,’ claims society will make up for lost time as soon as it’s safe to do so, with hedonism and profligacy ‘plunging humanity into an era of vice and indulgence.’ ” The following tips to fight against these destructive tendencies are well-known – but often forgotten when temptation is upon us. When we start to feel anxious or overwhelmed, the first step is to just breathe – taking a few deep breaths can help silence some of those anxious thoughts and feelings. Breath is a vital sign of life, yet the importance of breathing is often overlooked. Scientifically, it has been proven that deep-breathing exercises

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beside the point. What point? The point of living. A book is to read. A shoelace is to tie, with your tongue to guide you as you twist and turn the string into a double knot that won’t unravel and trip you on the sidewalk and leave you with skinned knees. A newspaper is to peruse, maybe with a pair of MIKE FINK scissors if, like me, you want to study the funnies (which my grandkids label “the sillies.”)

promote calmness and ease the mind. Breathing deeply and fully with great focus can energize and invigorate you, and provide a preventive measure from postCOVID overindulgence. Another method to prevent overdoing our new freedoms is to just take a step back – don’t be afraid to walk away for a moment if you need to. In addiPATRICIA tion, exercise and laughter RASKIN help ease the body of unwanted tension by suppressing stress-related hormones in your brain and activating your immune system. It’s also worth mentioning that opening up about stressful situations is a major stress reliever; it creates the sensation of weight being lifted off your shoulders. In the summer especially, when we are more likely to see friends and family, this can greatly improve our mood. The people around us have a huge influence on our moods and habits, so it is imperative that we have positive and healthy relationships. Lastly, see yourself as grounded, envisioning strong roots growing from your feet into the ground. At the end of the day, it’s our responsibility to take care of ourselves, so we need to make sure we are building a strong foundation. Always be grateful for what you have and be thankful for your blessings. Do not take anything for granted and seek peace of mind.

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IF THERE’S ONE THING I HATE, it’s when a broadcaster says, “here’s some Beethoven FOR YA!” It’s that fake friendly intimacy I find condescending and all wrong. Among the many other complaints I’m lodging here are: the fancy “him and I,” instead of “him and me,” and the way the ads on TV are louder than the programs, plus those dratted adverbs like “only” or “just” before the price, and happy endings to please the paying customers, and tea bags over-wrapped in elaborate bags and boxes ... and, oh! the thousand unnatural shocks that our flesh has become heir to. All due to noise and addiction to distraction. My boyhood and youth in the early decades of the bygone 20th century taught me, us, that thrift was a good thing, and a patriotic duty. Hand-me-downs were valued as if they held meanings among the moth holes. Now that I have survived long enough to seek ever-changing sunbeams of happiness in the first two decades of the 21st century, I look back at the chapters of my story with a mixture of nostalgia and pride, and with some honest guilt for mistakes and inadequacies, but also with an abundance of things I hate! Like the wide, fake grins that the camera insists on, and overly convenient gadgets that we “deserve” (?) and that make the lessons of yore irrelevant, useless,

This summer, don’t overdo it!

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Happy summer everyone! PATRICIA RASKIN, owner of Raskin Resources Productions, is a media host, coach and award-winning radio producer and business owner. She is on the board of directors of Temple Emanu-El, in Providence. She is a recipient of the Providence Business News 2020 Leaders and Achievers award.

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Summer is making a comeback

races, concerts, film showings, lectures and worship services were all assumed to be “in-person.” Before the pandemic, races, concerts, film showings, lectures and worship services were all assumed to be “in-person.” A road race meant toeing the starting

Zoom and virtual meetings: too many companies are saving money by not reopening offices and will let remote

Remote learning: For

the students’ sake, I hope remote learning will go away quickly, since time will show that students at all levels were hurt by not being in classrooms. The social aspects of school – especially playing sports and taking part in extracurricular activities – are vital to students’ development, and that isn’t possible when learning remotely. While shutting down schools was necessary when the pandemic was raging, let’s hope it’s only used as a last resort going forward.

Social distancing: Eventually, this may be a memory, but it’s under-

standable that in many settings, this practice will hang around. I still occasionally cross the street when I pass walkers, runners and bicyclists on the road, and my first instinct when encountering other customers at stores is to shop quickly – due to the disappointingly high number of people who BMW still selfishly refuse to get vaccinated.

Contact tracing: My dentist’s office is still doing this, and I suspect many other places will continue to hound even the vaccinated into revealing their every destination. With smartphone apps tracking our movements, it’s also why I’m glad I still have a “dumb” flip phone. The bottom line is that, although we won’t be quickly putting the pandemic behind us, there’s nonetheless

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line, and fundraisers such as the Jimmy Fund Marathon Walk or the Pan-Mass Challenge, a bicycle ride to raise money for the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute’s Jimmy Fund, meant joining thousands of others on the road. Now, you can no longer assume what form an event LARRY will take, KESSLER “in-person” or online. For instance, the 2021 Boston Marathon Jimmy Fund Walk will be virtual on Oct. 3, while the Pan-Mass Challenge, in August, will allow bicyclists to return to the road. Such confusion will be typical as we begin the slow march to the “new normal,” and it’s just one more indication that the pandemic has taken a terrible toll, deeply scarring our psyches, souls, spirits and minds. I’ve already experienced a few examples of this. I was, for instance, nervous when meeting old friends for a cookout at their house, due to vaccination anxiety. My close friends were vaccinated, but I wasn’t sure about their guests, and it’s not considered politically correct to ask people you meet at such gatherings if they’ve been vaccinated. Being nervous about the “new normal” is also why, despite the risk of ridicule from the antimask crowd, I’m still masked when entering supermarkets and other stores. Another indication that it will take a long time to return to our former lives is the fact that, for the foreseeable future, we are still masked and quizzed about COVID-19 symptoms when visiting doctors, dentists and other medical offices. Many other pandemic terms and habits also won’t easily go away. Here’s a sampling of them:

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THE LANDSCAPE for this July is much improved from a year ago – and that’s an understatement. The outlook is light years away from those dark days of last summer, when we were told to essentially stay away from everyone due to the coronavirus pandemic. Not so this July! Fourth of July parades are back, concerts both large and small are returning, and road races, such as the Arnold Mills Road Race in Cumberland, are making a comeback. That’s right: There will be honest-to-goodness races, as opposed to mind-numbing virtual races, which forced even longtime runners to push themselves into “race” mode without the adrenaline that’s a byproduct of running alongside competitors. I ran what I vowed would be my last virtual race, a charity event in May, because I didn’t enjoy such events, which force you to run alone. That’s why I’m looking forward to the “in-person” races on July 5 at Arnold Mills and on Aug. 1 in downtown North Attleboro. That’s good news, but just the fact that I’m referring to races as “in-person” shows the extent that the pandemic impacted our lives – besides, of course, the more than 600,000 COVID-19 deaths in the United States. All of which makes it likely that it will take a long time for us to return to our former lives.

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Golfers hit the links for Dwares JCC Golf Classic BY ABI WEINER

EEKONK, Mass. – The long-awaited 35th Annual Dwares JCC

Golf Classic finally happened on June 21, raising $50,000 for the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

IT WAS A JOURNEY to get to this day. The original date for the tournament, at Ledgemont Country Club, was June 15, 2020, but it was postponed until June 14 of this year due to the pandemic. However, it poured on the 14th, forcing the tournament to be postponed by another week. Most of the golfers who signed up to play on the 14th returned to play on the 21st, with 27 foursomes competing. The gross winner was the High Purity New England foursome led by Mark Sitcoske. The net winners were:

first place, the KLR foursome, led by Alan Litwin; second place, Donald Dwares’ foursome; and third place, the team led by Michael Hamel Jr. Five participants each sank a 50-foot putt in the putting contest. They were entered into a raffle for two Scotty Cameron Phantom X putters, which were won by Rick Land and Phil Schein. The tournament raised enough money to meet the Alliance’s dual goals of funding a new scoreboard for the gym at the Alliance’s Dwares Jewish Community Center, in Providence,

and creating a book-nook for young children and their families under a staircase at the JCC. The tournament’s organizing committee was chaired by Richard Bornstein and included Jeffrey Brier, Martin Kenner, Cathy Oresman, Larry Sadwin and Mindy Sherwin. The "eagle sponsors" were Bonnie and Donald Dwares and The Miriam Hospital. ABI WEINER (aweiner@jewishallianceri.org) is the development officer for the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

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Motorcyclists arrive at Praise Tabernacle Church in Cranston.

Rally and ride for Israel ON JUNE 6, some 75 members of the Jewish and Christian communities attended a rally in support of Israel and against anti-Semitism. The speeches took place at the end of a motorcycle ride from Warwick to the Praise Tabernacle Church in Cranston. Rabbi Barry Dolinger of Temple Beth Sholom and Pastor Allen Pangburn of Praise Tabernacle Church, were among the speakers at the event that was organized by the Rhode Island Coalition for Israel and sponsored by eight other organizations.

MIDDLE RIGHT: Rabbi Barry Dolinger speaks outside of Praise Tabernacle Church in Cranston. BOTTOM LEFT: An anti terrorism sign held at the church. BOTTOM RIGHT: Markus McCormick, 7, of Cranston, looks at the menorah strapped to the back of his grandmother’s car. She is Kathy McCormick, of South Kingstown.

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‘Great American Deli Schlep’ rides into Rhody

Steve Goode on the bike that he's riding across the country. BY HANNAH ALTMAN

ewish motorcyclist Steve Goode was met with a large sandwich and even larger

smiles from the Rhode Island Jewish community as he pulled up in front of Providence’s newest Jewish deli, Bubbie’s Market & Deli, on June 11. GOODE STOPPED IN RHODE ISLAND as part of his cross-country trek, visiting Jewish-style delis in nearly every state, to call attention to persistent food insecurity in the United States that has been intensified by the pandemic. Goode, whose 16,000-mile trip began on June 1 and will run for 75 days through the summer, is partnering with national advocacy organization Mazon: A Jewish

Response to Hunger. The hope is to raise awareness and funds for the organization’s fight to end hunger in the United States and Israel through structural policy change. “The definition of food insecurity is sometime during the past 12 months, a person did not know where their next meal was coming from. Since the pandemic started, one in four Americans have experienced this. One in four!” says Goode. This is a crisis that has doubled from 40 million people to 80 million as a result of COVID-19. In Rhode Island specifically, the number is 77,000 people. Wanting to spread the word, see the country, and provoke change, Goode set out on his journey. His “Great American Deli Schlep” was inspired by and mapped out according to “The Top Jewish Deli in Every State” as defined by The Nosher, a project of 70 Faces Media focused on “Jewish foods with a CONTINUED ON PAGE 17

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Despite pandemic, Alliance achieved many goals this past year BY FRAN OSTENDORF The 10th annual meeting of the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island, on June 17, was once again a virtual event. Just as they did last year, members of the Rhode Island Jewish community came together on Zoom to reflect on the past year, look forward to the coming year, install new officers and board members, and celebrate award winners. This year, the tone was one of hope as the community’s institutions have begun to reopen. The meeting included a mix of live and video presentations on a Zoom call that lasted just over an hour. It clearly demonstrated how much we’ve learned technologically in the more than 15 months that the pandemic has forced the community to pivot its meetings and gatherings to a virtual space. The meeting opened with a d’var Torah from Rabbi Ethan Adler of Temple Beth David in Narragansett. He told the community that Torah “can teach the world to sing in perfect harmony,” and congratulated members of the Alliance for work well done.

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A video message from U.S. Rep. David Cicilline followed. “These have been trying times for our community,” the Rhode Island Democrat said. “Let us continue our work together.” James Pious, who is completing his second year as chair of the board of the Alliance, began his address saying, “It is a good time to look back on what we’ve accomplished and look forward to the challenges we are facing.” He listed impressive progress from the strategic plan, “Here For Good,” in the last year, despite the challenges of COVID-19, including meeting virtually with community members across the state, a fundng campaign for PJ Library that will allow the program to grow to reach up to 1,000 families and the Relief and Recovery Fund that raised more than $265,000 for pandemic relief. He also outlined other accomplishments, such as rebranding and staying on track financially. “In closing, I would be remiss if I did not take a few moments to address the situation in Israel and the United States,” he said. “In our greater Rhode Island Jewish community,

Jeffrey Ingber was happy to host Goode on day 11 of his modern twist.” In some areas journey and provide him with of the country, Goode says, a Yonah Stacker sandwich the delis are plentiful, and – named after Ingber’s son – in New England specifically made up of the classic Jewish they are close together and combo of corned beef, turkey, accessible across state lines. Russian dressing, pickles, But the from and coleslaw. Seattle, Goode was Washington, Bubbie’s first to Fargo, customer as North Dakota, they prepared goes nearly for their grand 1,500 miles opening which without a occurred on Jewish deli. June 20. Goode comIngber pares the idea says, “After of structural six months policy change of strategic to his rides planning and on interstate cooperation highways, from a lot of stating: “We people, includdidn’t build ing the city, the an interstate state, Bristol highway County Savsystem one Steve Goode with the Yonah ings Bank, and state at a time. Stacker. a lot of help We developed from the Davis it at a federal level to oversee and Glazer families, who kept all 50 states. In my analysis, Kosher food in this city for that’s the same thing that has over 100 years, we’re very to happen with food.” excited to take the torch and Here in Rhode Island, bring a 21st century Kosher Bubbie’s Market & Deli owner

with differing points of view, consensus is often elusive. I hope I speak for all of us when I say we remain committed to Israel’s right to exist …. We must be steadfast in opposing this form of hate [anti-Semitism] wherever and whenever it rears its ugly head.” The evening’s award presentations featured comments from previous award winners as well as the new recipients. The Reisman Leadership Development Award, established to encourage people to be future leaders, went to Rich Glucksman, who has served on the Community Relations Council and co-chaired COVID relief efforts for the Alliance, and is now vice chair of Philanthropy. “I’m honored and humbled to receive the award,” Glucksman said. “I look forward to attending the annual convention that comes with this award. I find these inspirational.” The Norman D. and Flo Tilles Community Relations Council Award, presented every two years to an emerging leader on the Community Relations Council, was awarded to Adam Cable. Speakers characterized Cable as humble, kind and generous with his time.

market into Providence. Not just for the Jewish community, but for the Providence community and folks who are interested in the famous New York style deli. Bubbie’s tastes like home.” Inspired by Jewish values and ideals, MAZON is a national advocacy organization working to end hunger among people of all faiths and backgrounds in the United States and Israel. For more information on MAZON, please visit mazon.org. Follow updates on Steve Goode’s journey on the road and see what delis are on the schlep by visiting www.facebook.com/mazonusa. Bubbie’s Market & Deli is open every day but Saturday. For the latest information, visit www.facebook. com/Bubbies-Market-andDeli-101261352019608 HANNAH ALTMAN (haltman@ jewishallianceri.org) is the content producer for the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island and writes for Jewish Rhode Island.

“I’m hoping to continue working for the environment, for social justice and to make the Jewish community a more welcoming and inclusive place,” Cable said. Alliance Chair of governance Rabbi Barry Dolinger of Congregation Beth Shalom in Providence put the slate of officers and board members to a vote via online polling. Rabbi Rachel Zerin installed the officers. President and CEO Adam Greenman wrapped up the meeting with a speech that outlined plans for the next year, including facilitating greater community connections locally and around the world, and he emphasized the value of Hineni, Here I am. He said Hineni is his favorite organizational value, and challenged everyone to join him in proclaiming a responsibility to the community as it comes out of the pandemic. Greenman’s remarks are on Page 7. A recording of the annual meeting can be found at jewishallianceri.org/ jewish-alliance-10th-annual-meeting. FRAN OSTENDORF (fostendorf@jewishallianceri.org) is the editor of Jewish Rhode Island.

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Efforts continue to solve school calendar/Rosh Hashanah conflict BY FRAN OSTENDORF

THE CONTROVERSY over the first day of school in the Bristol-Warren Regional School District continued on June 29, when the School Committee’s union subcommittee heard a grievance filed by the union. The grievance was in response to the BWRSD calendar for 2021-22, which has the first day of school for students falling on the first day of Rosh Hashanah. This would force teachers, students, administrators and other staff to choose between their religion and their school duties. Donna Stouber, a teacher in BWRSD for 27 years, had originally alerted members of the Jewish community and the school community to the calendar issue. “It doesn’t seem like some members of the School Committee

understand what we are asking for,” Stouber, who teaches middle-school science, told Jewish Rhode Island. “We are not asking for a school holiday or a change in the number of days of school. We are just asking for it not to be the first day of school” on a High Holy Day, she said. The grievance committee voted 2-1 on June 29 against revising the calendar. The Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island had reached out to Jonathan T. Brice, superintendent of BWRSD, on Feb. 18 to make him aware of the potential conflict with the start of school, and followed up on June 16. At Stouber’s request, the BWRSD School Committee on June 14 heard the case to change the first day of school; committee members voted 5-4 not to allow a discussion.

Stouber emphasized how important the first day of school is to the sixth-graders she will teach this year. “For sixth-graders, the first day is scary. They want to have their teacher there to help them through,” she said. It is very difficult “not to be there on the first day.” But she said she will take the day off, and the one following, which is the second day of Rosh Hashanah, because it is important to her. Stouber said the union, the Bristol-Warren Education Association, will try to get expedited mediation for the calendar. “We have the support of the local and state unions,” she said. In a joint statement issued on June 22, the Alliance and the Board of Rabbis of Greater Rhode Island wrote: “It is concerning that holidays

of certain religions seem to receive preferential treatment over others on the calendar. For example, BWRSD is closed on Good Friday. This places the value of one religion over others, and violates the principles of religious tolerance on which our state was founded. It is important to set a uniform policy on religious observances, and we strongly urge BWRSD to reconsider how these holidays are treated. “The Jewish community hopes to work with BWRSD to provide support as it designs future calendars. Together, we must ensure that our students understand the importance of religious freedom and recognition.” FRAN OSTENDORF (fostendorf@ jewishallianceri.org) is the editor of Jewish Rhode Island.

Graduations at PHDS

Naama Lubin with Morah Beth and Morah J .

PHDS Kindergarten Class of 2021. PROVIDENCE HEBREW DAY SCHOOL celebrated several graduations this year. PHDS Pre-Kers and their parents enjoyed a special ending program on Thursday, June 10.  The classroom teachers – Morah Beth and Morah J – gave each child a certificate and

goody bag. On Monday, June 14 PHDS Kindergarteners welcomed their parents to their spacious classroom for a special ending program.  The students sang patriotic songs in honor of Flag Day and songs about the Torah in honor of

Shavuot.  Students received certificates and goody bags from their teachers Lynn Jakubowicz and Alane Schreiber. Providence Hebrew Day School (PHDS) hosted an in-person graduation for its eighth-grade graduates this year.  Due to Covid

constraints attendance was by reservation and limited to family of graduates, faculty, and fellow middle school students. There was a Zoom option for those who could not attend in person.  All female graduates will be going on to the NEAT – the high school

division of PHDS – and the male graduates will be attending the high schools of their choice in Connecticut, Massachusetts and Maryland. Submitted by Providence Hebrew Day School

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Rabbi Noach with Sam Glicksman. IN PREPARATION FOR SHAVUOT in May, Rabbi Zev Kahn, known as the Rugby Rabbi, joined us over Zoom, and spoke about the ancient exhilarating custom of staying up all night to learn. He encouraged everyone to find a topic of interest and learn what you enjoy and will grow from. He also inspired a Project Shoresh field trip to a place of higher learning to experience the excitement of learning with thousands of people on a deeper level. He definitely put us in the mood and right frame of mind for staying up all night to learn, and receiving the Torah. We also indulged in some physical preparations for Shavuot. Rabbi Noach Karp distributed over 20 do-it-yourself make-yourown-ice-cream-sundae packages in keeping with our custom of having dairy

delights on Shavuot. Jewish Midnight Madness, our all-night learning program, in partnership with the Providence Community Kollel and Congregation Sha'arei Tefilah, had five well-attended lectures throughout the night of Shavuot, including: The  Romantic Anniversary of G-d and the Jewish People and What to do if Zombies Attack: Practical Jewish Law for an Impractical Scenario. It was the first time many of our participants had ever learned all night. For more information about Project Shoresh, reach out to Rabbi Naftali Karp at nkarp@projectshoresh. com or visit us on the web at projectshoresh.com. Submitted by Project Shoresh

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Miriam Hospital Women’s Association looks back – and forward – at annual meeting

Photos of 2021-2022 officers include (from left to right): Mary Gagnon, Marilyn Myrow, Judy Siegel, Marianne Litwin, and Barbara Horovitz Brown. Missing from the photo are: Robin Kauffman, Barbara Kahn, Nancy Riffle and Sue Enzer. BY BARBARA BROWN SEEKONK, MASS. – The Miriam Hospital Women’s Association’s 124th Annual Meeting, Installation and 36th Annual Recognition Award presentation took place at Ledgemont Country Club on June 2. The hybrid event was designed to meet everyone’s comfort level: Seating was offered inside or outdoors, and there was a virtual option too. President Barbara Horovitz Brown began the business portion of the meeting by calling for a vote on the revised bylaws, which passed unanimously. Although the bylaws committee updated many provisions, The Miriam Hospital Women’s Association’s purpose remains essentially the same. The association was formed and operates for philanthropic purposes that promote:

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chological well-being of patients • The safety, efficiency and convenience of the medical staff and employees • Community outreach, education and public interest in The Miriam Hospital and its relationship with the community

• Participation in volunteer activities and contributions that sustain and encourage improvement in the quality health-care services that The Miriam offers its patients and the community.

Brown then thanked all who attended, whether virtually or in person, including The Miriam’s president, Maria Ducharme. In reviewing this past year, Brown noted the extraordinary efforts required to present not only the usual two programs, but three programs during the pandemic. The first program featured political analyst Wendy Schiller speaking about the 2020 election; the second featured Dr. Ernestine Jennings and Dr. Elena Salmoirago-Blotcher, both from the Center for Behavioral and Preventative Medicine at the hospital, and focused on mental health, stress and anxiety during the pandemic; and the third featured Lifespan dermatologists Dr. Lynn Iler, Dr. Paula Moskowitz and Dr. Julia Baltz speaking on “Skin Care Myths and Realities.” The annual Equipped for Exceptional Care event focused exclusively on

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COVID-19, due to the compelling need. The association’s board also voted to approve up to $25,000 for the hospital to purchase electrostatic sprayers and air scrubber/HEPA filtration systems, and donated to the Emergency Preparedness Fund and the Arthur Sampson Endowed Fund. After a vote, the following officers were installed: president, Barbara Horovitz Brown; vice president program development, Robin Kaufmann; co-vice presidents of membership, Marilyn Myrow and Judy Siegel; co-vice presidents Equipped for Exceptional Care, Barbara Kahn and Nancy Riffle; treasurer, Marianne Litwin; corresponding secretary, Sue Enzer; and recording secretary, Mary Gagnon. Presidential Appointees for 2021 are Lisa Sack, Jill Smith and Karen Wargo. Newly elected Board members for 2021-2023 are Jessica Brier, Paula Cofone, Lori Elias, Barbara Mer, Judith Monzack, Cynthia Schwartz, Amy Simmons, Karen Trinkle and Debra Zuckerman. Board members serving until May 2022 include Robin Ansell, Dr. Marlene CONTINUED ON PAGE 21

Survivor addresses crowd at Holocaust center’s in-person annual meeting

Bob Sandy speaks with Ed Newman. tor May-Ronny Zeidman presented Newman with an award to commemorate his PROVIDENCE – On June 23, service. Newman thanked a socially-distanced and Zeidman for her support and vaccinated crowd of about leadership of the organiza70 people gathered at the tion. Sandra Bornstein Holocaust Board Vice President Education Center for its 2021 Robin Kaufman was preAnnual Meeting, SBHEC’s sented with the Volunteer of first in-person event since the Year Award in recogthe start of the pandemic. nition of her tireless work After being welcomed by on behalf of board memSBHEC. ber Maybeth Christina Lichaa, Ed Sergi, who Newman teaches at gave his Duxbury High final speech School, in Duxas president bury, Massaof SBHEC’s chusetts, was Board of honored with Directors. the Teacher As the child of the Year of Holocaust Award. Sergi survivors, has developed Judge Newan innovative man spoke of curriculum how importaround Elie ant SBHEC’s Wiesel’s book mission is in “Night.” today’s cliElizabeth Sandy addressed The keynote mate of risevent of the eveing anti-Sem- the meeting. ning was Elizaitism and beth Sandy’s moving story Holocaust denial. He also of surviving the Holocaust. touched on what a privilege Bob Sandy, Elizabeth’s son it has been for him to honor and SBHEC’s new treasurer, his parents by serving the introduced his mother to the organization, and exhorted audience – who later learned those present to continue that he was born in Berworking to ensure “that it gen-Belsen when it served as can’t happen here.” SBHEC’s Executive DirecCONTINUED ON PAGE 21 BY LEV POPLOW

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COMMUNITY MIRIAM, CONTINUED FROM PAGE 20 Cuititar, Mary Ferreira, Cory Fink, Caryl Freedman, Roxanne Gordon, Rosemary Khosrovani, Robin Halpren-Ruder, Rosina Volpicella and Bobbie Wallick. Sarah Mack, senior rabbi at Temple Beth-El, in Providence, gave a talk about the week’s parashah, which tells how representatives from each of the 12 tribes were chosen to scout out the land of Canaan. The scouts returned after 40 days to report that the land was indeed flowing with milk and honey, but that the inhabitants were powerful and the cities were fortified. The majority of the spies offered a report that distorted the details (aka “fake news”), making it sound scary and frightening the Israelites. Only Joshua and Caleb reported the details honestly, and told the Israelites not to fear, that God was with them. One rabbi pointed out that Moses had encouraged them to investigate Canaan, and to trust that they could overcome the challenges. But instead, the majority of the emissaries, overwhelmed by distrust and panic, saw only the lowly, limited perspective. We have the same choice, Mack said. We can take the long view, knowing that the future is bright with possibility, or we can choose to be bogged down in the suspicion and despair that comes from seeing only what is in front of us in the moment. Rabbi Mack, in honoring and celebrating the leaders who will guide the association in the year to come, encouraged participants to choose the perspective of Joshua and Caleb: envisioning possibilities, rather than limitations, taking The Miriam Hospital Women’s Association from strength to strength. The association then honored Judy Siegel with the 36th annual Recognition Award, for her volunteer work, first at Hasbro Children’s Hospital (taking over

her mother’s position at the welcome desk there) and then at the Fain Surgical Center at The Miriam, where she continued to offer a sense of security and calm to incoming patients. Ducharme, The Miriam’s president, Then spoke of the challenges that the hospital faced starting on Feb. 29, 2020, when the first COVID-19 patient was admitted. As virus patients grew to occupy nearly a third of The Miriam’s total capacity, elective procedures were canceled, having a large impact on the hospital’s finances. Fortunately, both state and federal relief funds helped mitigate the financial distress, Ducharme said. But even during the global crisis, The Miriam garnered awards, including its sixth Magnet designation. The Miriam continues to move ahead with renovations, including expanding the emergency room and the retail pharmacy (which will take the space of the gift shop). The gift shop remains closed for now. “Rebuilding will be critical to our future,” Ducharme said. “I don’t mean rebuilding our buildings alone, but rather rebuilding our people to remain resilient and find the deep and rewarding meaning in their work. … The Miriam’s uniqueness stems from its people, but also its history and its traditions.” Ducharme thanked the association for being an enormous part of that history and the traditions, and for its unwavering support of the hospital and its staff. The association’s first program in the fall, on Oct. 27, will feature writer Ann Hood and her husband, Michael Rhulman, speaking in person about “Food, Life and Love.” The association welcomes new members. For information or to join, contact Vickie Scott at 401-793-2520. BARBARA BROWN is the president of The Miriam Hospital Women’s Association.

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SBHEC, CONTINUED FROM PAGE 20 a displaced persons camp after World War II. Elizabeth Sandy was part of a large extended family in Budapest, Hungary. Before the war, they belonged to the Dohany Street Synagogue, the largest in Europe. At the time of the Nazi invasion of Hungary, on March 19, 1944, Elizabeth was 21. All young Jewish women were ordered to report for forced labor to dig anti-tank ditches outside of Budapest. The penalty for not showing up was death. Seeking shelter, Sandy said she went to the “Glass House,” the most famous of the Swiss Consulate annexes set up by Swiss attaché Carl Lutz. It was crammed with 3,000 desperate Jews and there was a long line of more Jews trying to get in. There she saw a Jewish man, Gabor, whom she had met in the basement during an American air raid. Gabor, whom she married after the liberation of Budapest, worked as a baker and

a door guard at the Glass House. He remembered Sandy, and let her and her cousin Edith inside. After the war, they went to her family’s house. It had been stripped of all valuables and furniture. Boxes of family photos were dumped out on the steps, some of which they collected. Sandy shared some of those pictures with the audience as part of her presentation. They then left Hungary for the displaced persons camp at the former Bergen-Belsen concentration camp, in Germany. From there, they made their way to the United States, arriving in 1949. Out of her family of four, Elizabeth was the only survivor. She doesn’t know when or how her mother, father and brother were murdered. Among her 10 aunts and uncles, two were murdered, and among her 13 first cousins, four were murdered. “Survival was mostly a matter of luck, plus a little daring,” Sandy said. The evening wrapped up with the elevation of new

board members. Stephen Gamm, who hosted this part of the event, had the pleasure of nominating his son, Dan Gamm, to be SBHEC’s next president. Dan Gamm, a private wealth adviser at Ameriprise Financial, has long been actively involved in Rhode Island’s Jewish community. Among his many leadership roles, he has served as president of the Jewish Community Day School of Rhode Island Board of Trustees and, along with his wife, Marisa Garber, co-chaired the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island’s 2019 Annual Campaign Event. Gamm outlined his vision for the future of SBHEC, which includes building on what his predecessors have accomplished to increase Holocaust education in Rhode Island and Southeastern Massachusetts. LEV POPLOW is a communications consultant writing on behalf of the Sandra Bornstein Holocaust Education Center. He can be reached at levpoplow@ gmail.com.

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OBITUARIES Lenore Beranbaum, 85 WARWICK, R.I. – Lenore S. Beranbaum passed away June 16 at Briarcliffe Manor. Born in Newark, New Jersey, a daughter of the late Leonard and Irma (Kaufman) Kwasha, she had recently moved to Johnston, previously a longtime resident of Wethersfield Commons in Warwick. She was a real estate agent and worked for her daughter, Irma, at Meme Frizzae. She was the mother of Holly Elkins and her husband, Donald, of Coventry, Sheryl Rothermel of Warwick and the late Irma Beranbaum. She was the sister of the late Owen Kwasha and Carol Sugarman.  She was the grandmother of Dillon and Callie Rothermel. She was the aunt of Kathy Hamilton. Contributions may be made to the charity of your choice.

Arthur Bergel, 91 CRANSTON, R.I. – Arthur W. Bergel passed away June 25 at home. He was the husband of Judith (Saltzman) Bergel for 62 years. Born in Providence, he was a son of the late Isadore and Anna (Capobianco) Bergel. Arthur was a graduate of Hope High School, Class of ’48. He served in the US Army during the Korean War as an instructor at Infantry School at Fort Benning, Georgia. Arthur worked in the restaurant equipment industry for 54 years, starting at United Restaurant Equipment, moving on to Paramount Restaurant Supply and then becoming the owner and president of Equipment Surplus Sales, retiring in 1986.  After

retirement, Arthur found a second career, selling positouch computer systems to the restaurant industry quite successfully for the next six years.  He then became a volunteer for the RI Hospitality Association, which honored him for his contributions. Arthur was a longtime member of Temple Emanu-El, serving as a former member of the executive board, head gabbai and head of the building committee.  He was also a member of Congregation Beth David.  Arthur was a board member of the Providence Hebrew Free Loan Assoc., a member of the JWV and a 32nd Degree Mason with the Orpheus Lodge.  He served as park commissioner in the late ‘70s, appointed by Mayor Cianci.  Arthur was an avid reader and lover of arts and music.  Most of all, he loved his family., Arthur would often express gratitude for his loving wife, Judy, three beautiful children and seven healthy grandchildren. He was the father of Steven Bergel (Randy) of Sharon, Massachusetts; Lori Kreidberg (David) of Sudbury, Massachusetts; and Rhonda Ward (Kevin) of Clive, Iowa.  He was the brother of Richard Bergel (Mimi) of Palm Beach Gardens, Florida, and Barbara Domenico (Steve) of Lincoln. He was the grandfather of Riva Cheses (Ashie), Jacob and Tori Bergel, Rachel and Mathew Kreidberg and Adin and Jack Ward. He was the uncle to several nieces and nephews. Contributions may be made to HopeHealth Hospice, 1085 N. Main St., Providence, RI 02904 or Temple Emanu-El, 99 Taft Ave., Providence, RI 02906 or Congregation Beth David, 102 Kingstown Rd., Narragansett, RI 02882.

Bernard Bier, 97 SOUTH DARTMOUTH, MASS. – Bernard (Bud) Bier passed away on June 11. The husband for 73 years of Ruth (Hirschprung) Bier, Bud was born in in Brooklyn, New York, the son of the late Max and Rose (Green) Bier. Bud was an artist, a multitalented craftsman, a master builder and flyer of radio-controlled airplanes (his passion) and one of the last of the greatest generation. After completing one year of art school at Pratt Institute, he joined the army and was assigned to the 23rd Headquarters Special Troops – later to be known as “The Ghost Army.” Bud, along with many notable artists of the day, successfully deceived the enemy using phony equipment and sound, ensuring victory in many key battles following the D-Day invasion. Following the war he met and married his wife, Ruth, who was a dancer in the original production of “Oklahoma.” After obtaining a degree from Pratt, he worked for over 40 years as a commercial artist and was responsible for the package designs of many products that are now household names – Chiclets, Dentyne, Rolaids, and many others. Following his retirement as the executive art director at Carter-Wallace, he and his wife traveled the world. In addition to work and family, Bud’s greatest passion was flight in all forms. He was a member of many model airplane clubs over the years and president of the Long Island Drone Society. He completed full-scale flight training and successfully “soloed” his own airplane. In addition to his wife, he is survived by his son Dr. Jonathan Bier and his wife, Jo-Ann; and his son Dr. Alan Bier and his wife, Elizabeth; he is also survived by his five grandchildren: Benjamin, Rachel, Rebecca, Maxine and Jennifer. He was the father of the late Karen Bier.

Beth Brier, 42 BOYNTON BEACH, FLA. – Beth Robin Brier passed away June 10 at Trustbridge Hospice. She was the wife of Heiberg Gonzalez of Boynton Beach. She was the stepmother of Emmanuel Brier Gonzalez. She was the daughter of Jeffrey and Jessica (Freiman) Brier of Warren. She was the sister of Jacob

Brier and his wife, Dani and auntie to their son, Soren, of Barrington. She was the granddaughter of Zita Brier of Providence and the late Milton Brier and Hilda and Raphael Freiman. Beth was a graduate of Moses Brown School, University of Massachusetts (Amherst) with a bachelor’s degree in Judaic studies and Providence College with a master’s degree in special education.  She enjoyed working in the special education field in Rhode Island for 10 years, before moving to Boynton Beach, where she worked in property management and various roles in the building industry, most recently as a permit manager for SunPro Solar.  In her spare time, Beth enjoyed sewing and jewelry making, and taking her boxer, Tyson, to the dog park. Contributions may be made to Hannah and Friends Foundation, www.hannahandfriends.org or Wayside House, www.waysidehouse.net/ donate-2/donate.

Esther Feldman, 99 POMPANO BEACH, FLA. – Esther B. Feldman died June 7 at Trustbridge Hospice.  She was the wife of the late Sydney Feldman. Born in Central Falls, a daughter of the late Thomas and Rose (Levine) Lucksniansky, she had lived in Pompano Beach for 30 years, previously living in Providence.  She was the principal at F.J. Varieur Elementary School in Pawtucket, retiring in 1983. She was the mother of Tina Crosby and her husband, Harvey, of Newton Center, Massachusetts; Robert Feldman and his partner, Gerri, of East Providence; and the late Marvin Feldman.  She was the sister of the late Rena Mills, Myrtle Feldman, Jennie Falcofsky, Ann Coulter and Celia Greene.  She was the grandmother of Hendi (Jason), Max (Nicholas), Benjamin (Siobhan), Deena and Jodi (Matthew). She was the great-grandmother of Grace, Kali, Vivienne, Nathan, Arianna and Remy. Contributions may be made to Parkinson Foundation Inc., 200 SE 1st St., Suite 800, Miami, FL 33131 or the charity of your choice.

David Futtersak, 94 WARWICK, R.I. – David I. Futtersak died June 6 at HopeHealth Hulitar Hospice Center.  Born in New Bedford, Massachusetts, David was the husband of Florence (Sternbach) Futtersak for 67 years,

the son of the late Morris and Rose Futtersak, and brother of the late Frances Meshover. David grew up in Fall River before moving to Warwick. He graduated from Durfee High School and the Art Institute of Boston. He established his career as an advertising artist, first on Madison Avenue and then in Fall River and in Providence. David was a Korean War era veteran, serving in the Engineer Laboratory at Fort Belvoir, Virginia, before becoming the Jewish Chaplain’s Assistant for military institutions across the Washington area.  David was a lifelong artist and creative marketer.  He was VP at Goldsmith-Trager Advertising in Providence before establishing his own advertising agency called Ad Direction.  David’s creative work appeared in print, on the radio, on billboards, and on hundreds of product labels. He developed successful political campaigns for RI candidates including Mayor Buddy Cianci and Rhode Island’s first Jewish governor, Frank Licht. David volunteered countless hours providing pro bono marketing and design services to local organizations. David was an active member of the former Temple Beth Am and a current member of Temple Emanu-El.   A caring man with a quick sense of humor, David was devoted to his wife, children, and grandchildren who will remember him best as a “mensch”.  He is survived by his wife Florence of Warwick, son Marvin  Futtersak of Waxhaw, North Carolina, daughter Linda Segal of Collegeville, Pennsylvania, and grandchildren Joshua Futtersak, Alex Futtersak, Teddy Segal, and Adam Segal.

Lillian Golden, 98 PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Lillian Golden passed away June 24 at HopeHealth Hulitar Hospice Center. She was the wife of the late Edward Golden. Born in Philadelphia and raised in Providence, she was the daughter of the late Benjamin and Belle (Sherman) Tichman. Lillian had lived in Providence for 28 years, previously living in Woonsocket. She was a graduate of the University of Rhode Island, returning to college after her children were grown to fulfill a lifetime goal. Lillian worked in the Consumer Protection Office for the Rhode Island Attorney General.  She was a volunteer at the Paul Cuffee School as well as doing literacy tutoring to immigrants. Lillian was an active member of the Lau-

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OBITUARIES relmead community where she made many wonderful friends. She was a member of the Chopin Club and loved classical music.  She was also an avid reader and enjoyed playing bridge. She was the mother of Carol Golden Einhorn and her husband, Stuart Einhorn, of Providence and the late David M. Golden and his surviving spouse, Lee Golden, of Mt. Kisco, New York.  She was the sister of the late Harvey Fisher and Martin Tishman. She was the grandmother of Sam, Ellis and Matt. Contributions may be made to the David M. Golden Memorial Scholarship Fund, c/o RI Foundation, One Union Station, Providence, RI 02903 or RI Philharmonic & Music School, 667 Waterman Ave., East Providence, RI 02914.

Faye Goldman, 84 WARWICK, R.I. – Faye R. Goldman died on June 20. I was born Jan. 16, 1937 in South Providence to Bessie and William Tebrow. We probably were poorer than the church mice at St. Michaels (but who knew), which was part and parcel of my childhood playground. We all shared the same balance sheet, the Italians, Irish, Polish, Afro Americans, Jews, and of course many more races and religions that lived within this marvelous melting pot of Americana. My late brother Melvin who was five years older joined the army after high school, married, and went into the food business in New York and San Diego, died April 25, 2004. My sister, Arlene Chorney, became quite successful in the field of academia and became a Ph.D. I took business courses at Hope, which turned out to be my saving grace when I applied for employment a few years later. My education consisted of selected college courses taken at CCRI and RI College, and being lucky enough to work under a scientist at Lifespan with one of the greatest minds I have ever known. This gentle man taught me stuff I never thought myself capable of learning. Every day I watched, listened, and learned and was in awe of his genius. I met my wonderful husband, Harvey, in 1964. We were married for 49 ½ awesome years before he passed in February 2015. I was lucky to have also met Harvey's two children, Steven and Rhonda,

who have become a huge part of my family. Harvey and I were blessed with our children Michael, and Lori Mallette Blair, and two fantastic grandchildren, Danny and Karley. On June 2, 2021, I was blessed with a great-grandson, Lucas Harvey. Being a dues-paying member of several organizations, my proudest was being a past president of Hope Chapter B'nai B’rith Women, the oldest Jewish service organization in the world. Our members were the best and most dedicated. I think often of how we all worked as young women to make our world a better place, and the good times we had doing it. After working for a General Motors dealership, a few accounting jobs, and opening my own woman's apparel business on Warwick Ave, I became employed at Rhode Island Hospital in 1981, retiring in 2003. Later, I worked six years part time at the RI training school, making everlasting friendships at both institutions. Harvey and I traveled extensively during our retirement, numerous trips to Europe, the Baltic States, Russia, Alaska, Israel, Egypt, and other countries. We also cruised the Caribbean several times. I have tried to live my life by the motto “It's what you do next that counts.” Hopefully, family and friends when remembering me will say, “she did it her way…” Contributions may be made to The Wounded Warriors Project, P.O. Box 758516, Topeka, Kansas 66675-8516.

Stanley Greenstein, 92 WARWICK, R.I. – Stanley “Babe” Greenstein died June 9 at Rhode Island Hospital. He was the husband of the late Davida (Cohen) Greenstein.  Born in Providence, a son of the late Isaac and Mollie (Schnederman) Greenstein, he had lived in Warwick for nearly 30 years, previously living in Cranston.  He held various managerial positions in jewelry manufacturing for 40 years, retiring in 1994.  Stanley was a former member of Torat Yisrael and a member of Touro Fraternal Association. He was the father of Marc Greenstein and his wife, Iris, of Cranston; Hope Patton and her husband, Robert, of Cranston; and the late Michael Greenstein.  He was the brother-in-law of Joel Cohen and his wife, Pamela, of Warwick and Rosalyn Factor and her late husband, Max, of Warwick.

He was the grandfather of Michelle, Abigail, Dara, Stephanie and Hayley. He was the companion of the late Shirley Shapiro. Contributions may be made to American Cancer Society, 931 Jefferson Blvd., Suite 3004, Warwick, RI 02886.

Juliet Katz, 100 VIRGINIA BEACH, Va. – Juliet A. Katz passed away June 19 in Virgina Beach. Julie was the daughter of Frank and Josephine Abramson, and she was raised by aunt and uncle Aaron and Ida Levinsky in New York City. As a young woman, Julie attended college, then worked as a secretary to Samuel David Leidesdorf, founder of the eponymous accounting firm. There, she met some of the famous people of the time, such as John D. Rockefeller, Jr. and J. Robert Oppenheimer, as well as future leaders of the State of Israel, including Teddy Kollek and Golda Meir. Julie met Carl J. Katz at a charity ball sponsored by a New York Jewish women’s philanthropic organization of which she was president. They married in 1952 and soon moved to Norfolk, Virginia, where Carl had a business opportunity, later buying an accounting practice in Norview. In addition to helping Carl with his practice, Julie was lovingly dedicated to raising their three children. Julie was very active in the Jewish community. She was a member of the Temple Israel Sisterhood and was president of the Seaboard Region of the Women’s League of Conservative Judaism. She was also active in Hadassah, the Hebrew Academy of Tidewater, the United Jewish Federation and many other organizations. After her husband Carl’s passing, Julie joined Cenit Bank as an executive secretary. Recognized for her talent with people and her business acumen, Julie was soon promoted to vice-president and director of Human Resources. Julie retired after 15 years with the bank, leaving to enjoy her family, and her friends, attending the opera and playing mahjong. Left to cherish her memory, Julie is survived by her brother-in-law Dr. S. Sheldon (Cynthia) Katz and her half-sister Harriet Abramson. She will be sorely missed by her children, Dr. Lawrence (Marilyn) Katz of Providence, Dr. Jeffrey (Mindy) Katz of Virginia

Beach, and Dr. Andrea Katz (Sherry Edwards) of Richmond, as well as her grandchildren Carly (Greg Hellman), Jacob, Jana and Daniel Katz, and great-grandson, Henry Hellman. Donations may be made to Beth Sholom Village, 6401 Auburn Dr., Virginia Beach, VA 23464; the Carl and Juliet Katz Fund of the Tidewater Jewish Foundation or Temple Israel, 7255 Granby St., Norfolk, VA 23505.

Nathan Lury, 94 WARWICK, R.I. – Nathan, Lury died June 1 at Elmhurst Healthcare Center. He was the husband of the late Martha (Gold) Lury.  Born in Providence, a son of the late Morris and Ida (Epstein) Lury, he had lived in Warwick, previously living in Cranston and Providence.  Nate leaves behind his children, Steven Lury (Michele) of Jupiter, Florida, and Gail Lury Wax (Dr. Frederick Wax) of Boynton Beach, Florida and Plymouth, Massachusetts.  He was the loving Pepe to Morgan, who was the brightest light of his life. Nate was a WWII Army veteran, serving in the European Theater. He was a salesman at My Bread Baking Co./Sunbeam Bread in Warwick for 33 years, retiring in 1989. After retirement, Nate worked part time for Shalom Memorial Chapel. He was a former member and past board member of Temple Beth Shalom and Temple Torat Yisrael.  He was also

a member of JWV, Post 23 and My Bread Salesman Retirees Club. Nate was a member of Touro Fraternal Association for over 50 years, serving on the board of directors and held several committee chair positions.  He was dedicated to the organization and his fellow brothers, spending many hours each week working for the association.  He was an integral member in all aspects and will be greatly missed. Contributions may be made to HopeHealth Hospice, 1085 N. Main St., Providence, RI 02904 or Touro Scholarship Fund, PO Box 3562, Cranston, RI 02910.

Rose Pick, 74 PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Rose Pick passed away June 5 at Rhode Island Hospital surrounded by her loving family. She was born in Germany, the daughter of the late Haskell and Mania (Finklekraut) Pick. A woman like Rose is a gift to all who were blessed to know her. She is survived by her daughter Pamala Maddox and her husband, Brad; son Gary Smith and brother Dov Pick; and granddaughters Alison and Natalie. She was the sister of the late Jacob and Simon Pick. Contributions may be made to the Rhode Island SPCA, 186 Amaral St., Riverside, RI 02915 or www.rispca.com.

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OBITUARIES Paula Reuben, 88 RANCHO PALOS VERDES, CALIF. – Paula Agronick Reuben, of Rancho Palos Verdes, died on June 19 of lung cancer. Paula was born on Sept. 15, 1932, in Providence. She married the late Eliahoo Reuben on Dec. 28, 1952. While Eli was in the Navy, Paula and Eli moved several times and then settled in Rancho Palos Verdes in 1966. Paula is survived by four children: Neil Reuben (married to Carroll Reuben) of Rolling Hills, California; Cedar Reuben (partnered with Anne Bown-Crawford) of Arcata, California; Barbara Weissberg (married to Gary Weissberg) of Carson, California; and Julie Reuben (married to Lisa Lovett) of Cambridge, Massachusetts. She is also survived by grandchildren: Naomi, Isaac, Tovya, Phoebe, Rachel and Charlotte and great-grandchildren: Justin, Atlas and Charlie and many other loved ones and family members. Paula was pre-deceased by her only brother Jordan Agronick in 2006 and her husband Elia-

hoo Reuben, also in 2006, after 53 years of marriage.

William Robin, 98 BLOOMFIELD, CONN. – William Leon Robin died at Caleb Hitchcock Health Center in Bloomfield on June 21. Will was born and raised in Providence, where he graduated from Hope High School and Brown University. He was a veteran of WWII. He was the son of Benjamin and Eva (Lozovitzky) Robin and brother of Sheila Robin Russo and the late Rob Robin. Will is survived by his four daughters: Susan Bookbinder (Steve), Ellen Robin (Michael Katz), Beth Robin (Peter Manuel), Deborah Robin (Jack Horak) and former son-inlaw, Sandy Isenstadt. He also leaves grandchildren Sarah Bookbinder (Harold Park), Rachel Bookbinder, Maya Bookbinder (Jess Cuevas), Ivan Katz (Zoe Unruh), Asher Katz (Abbie Gabrielson), Jonah Katz; Sophie and Lili Manuel; Aaron Isenstadt (Jessie Papalia), and Anna Isenstadt, and great-grand-

children Eve and Seth Park, and Zadie Katz. Will and his wife Elaine (d. 2018) opened their home and their lives to nearly everyone who crossed their paths. Will was keenly interested in politics and Judaism, his favorite topics. He was particularly gifted at playing the spoon, which endeared him to his family and friends. Will had been a tennis player, swimmer, cyclist, arm wrestler, and charming raconteur. He started men’s discussion groups on Cape Cod where he and Elaine retired in 1981, and at Duncaster in Bloomfield, where they moved in 2007. His daughters wish to thank the staff of Caleb Hitchcock who provided Will with love and support for many years, and especially through the very difficult quarantine due to the Covid19 pandemic. They are grateful for the friends Will and Elaine made during their 13 years as part of the Duncaster community. Donations may be made to the Duncaster Staff Education Fund, 40 Loeffler Rd., Bloomfield, CT, 06002.

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The Bliss, Gross, Horowitz Fund awards grants to proposals that develop connections between the Jewish community and greater Rhode Island, deepen the understanding of Jewish life and culture through scholarship and historic preservation or provide for basic human needs such as food and housing. In addition, Jewish charitable organizations that provide these services can apply for funding to support capacity-building activities such as board development, strategic planning, nonprofit business development, fundraising or program evaluation.

Synagogues and day schools are eligible to apply only for project support, and their proposals must be nonsectarian in nature and designed to reach beyond their own constituents. Capital requests are not eligible for funding under this grant program. Grants typically range in size from $5,000 to $10,000. Priority will be given to proposals that have clearly stated goals and objectives, measurable outcomes and a clear sustainability plan. Organizations that received funding last year include the Jewish Alliance of Greater RI to increase engagement and expand

outreach by shifting from printed publications to multimedia communications, including podcasts, blogs and e-news; the Jewish Community Day School to support its Partners in Peace learning program with the Islamic School of Rhode Island, and Temple Emanu-El to stage Singing the Dream, a community-based musical tribute honoring Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. The Rhode Island Foundation is the largest and most comprehensive funder of nonprofit organizations in Rhode Island. Working with generous and visionary donors, the Foundation

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SIMCHAS Ethan D. Golditch MAZAL TOV – Ethan D. Golditch graduated cum laude this spring from the University of Alabama with a bachelor’s degree in Biology.  In August Ethan will begin graduate studies at Indiana University in Bio Technology.  Ethan is a graduate of Tollgate High School in Warwick and is the son of Jason Golditch of Cranston.

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Alexander Brenner MAZAL TOV – The Brenner family of Smithfield is celebrating a double simcha!  Alexander Brenner, son of Sandi and Jeremy Brenner, recently celebrated achieving the rank of Eagle Scout by Troop 1 Greenville.  Alex attained the rank just before the pandemic shut everything down, and had to wait until recently for the Eagle Court of Honor.  The second simcha is the celebration of Alex’s graduation from Smithfield High School.  He graduated summa cum laude on June 12.

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Many thanks to all our sponsors, volunteers and participants! With your help we exceeded our fundraising goal, netting $50,000 with over $5,000 going to our Fund A Need causes.