HOA AT-A-GLANCE
By Darla Greer
VETERAN’S CORNER
By Steve Banko
“They Also Serve Who Only Stand And Wait.”
The above is a quote from John Milton, written a long time before I went to war. But his sentiment is testament to my return replete with physical and moral injury enough to last a lifetime. For a long time, I wallowed in self-pity over the hand I was dealt. I anesthetized myself with booze that I thought would magically erase the previous year and a half from my memory. I tried that for a dozen years until my wife informed me she wouldn’t be around for a thirteenth.
During the course of therapy at the VA, I discovered that I was not alone in having a caring mate snap me out of my malaise. A lot of other guys had similar stories of redemption triggered by women in their lives. I was no stranger to kind women, of course, having spent more than my share in hospitals. The nurses who cared for us were incredible people tasked with the almost impossible task of putting us back together, physically and emotionally. I have encountered some of those nurses postVietnam and invited a few of them to Buffalo to speak at veterans events I conducted.
Without knowing specifics, I nonetheless have to believe our Del Tura community is populated by some of these heroes. If not actual nurses, compassionate women who stood by veterans struggling to regain some semblance of normalcy. I recently met a woman in the courtyard who saw my “Army” t-shirt and stopped to tell me about her itinerary as first, an Army brat and subsequently as an Army wife. I’m sure she has some experiences worth sharing with a larger audience and I encourage her to do so in this space. I would be interested in knowing more about the challenges of that kind of nomadic existence and I know I’m not the only one. I am also pretty sure there are women veterans among us who have their own experiences. Let us share those in stories. Let us know about your service. Help us all to understand the special nature of that service. Let us honor you for it.
I was once on the brink of ending the public part of being a veteran but I was reminded of this simple fact: our duty was once to serve and our duty as veterans is to remember; to remember who we were, what we did, and how much we loved each other. So, if you are a spouse, a girlfriend, sister, a mom, or a veteran yourself, won’t you think about sharing your story with the community? Remember the old cop show, The Naked City? At the end, the narrator would tell us “There are eight million stories in the naked city, this has been one of them.” We might not have eight million stories in Del Tura but we have more than we know about and we would like to know about yours.
BRICKS4VETS PROGRAM
By Jeffrey Meehan
I am writing this article for Del Tura residents that may not be aware of the Bricks4Vets program.
The Bricks4Vets program in Del Tura began in December 2020 by Joe and Meg Valentino, both retired Veterans of the US Navy. Their intent was to honor veterans from all branches of the United States Military. Any resident of Del Tura would be given a way to commemorate a family member, friend or themselves with a 4x8 inch reddish brick installed at our beautiful 9-11 Memorial site. When I took over the program in June 2022, 245 bricks had been installed, and as of this writing that number has grown to a total of 335. In 2024, I was approached by a resident originally from the UK asking me if they could have a brick installed too. So, in June 2024, Military Veterans of the United Kingdom were added to the program.
The cost of a brick with 3 lines and a Military insignia denoting the branch that was served, is $40.00. If you are interested in purchasing a brick remembrance, order forms are available at the Starlight Ballroom on a table on the left as you enter through the doors. You may also see me personally every Tuesday at the coffee social hour in the Starlight Ballroom. My email address is Bricks4veterans@gmail.com.
Sincerely, Jeffrey Meehan, 1812 Las Lomas Ct
SUGGESTION BOX
From your HOA Board of Directors
In addition to the suggestion boxes in the Starlight Ballroom and the HOA Office, you can email your Suggestions to us at DTHOASuggestionBox@gmail.com. Please include your NAME, STREET ADDRESS and PHONE NUMBER along with the issue you would like the HOA to address. Briefly describe your issue / concern and any possible solutions.
You will be notified when your suggestion is brought before the BOD, and what actions will be taken regarding it. By sharing your concerns with us you can help continue to make Del Tura our piece of paradise!
PRESIDENT’S CORNER
Happy May everyone! With many of our seasonal residents heading north, I’d like to remind you to secure all of your outside items before leaving town. This way they won’t become projectiles if we have any bad weather. To our full-time residents: Summer will be here before you know it and I’m sure it will be filled with a lot of fun activities. I can’t wait! Please be sure to attend Tuesday Coffee. It’s a great way to stay up to date on everything going on and gives you a chance to socialize with other residents. Coffee and donuts are served at 8:00am and the announcements begin at 9:00am. Also, don’t forget to mark your calendars for the May HOA meeting on Wednesday, May 14th at 7:00 pm, and June HOA meeting on Wednesday, Jun 11th at 7:00pm. I hope to see you all out having fun!
New Board Director Appointed
After seeking applications, the HOA Board of Directors appointed its newest Director, Daniel Cruz, at its April 9, 2025 regular meeting. Daniel will fill the seat vacated by Candace Starr. Pursuant to the Bylaws, Daniel will serve until the end of this officer year, at which time the annual elections process will select a candidate to fill that seat. Daniel has served as Chair of our Nominating and Election Committee, was recently appointed
By Darla Greer
as a member of the Finance Committee, and will be assisting with Membership Promotion. If you see Daniel, please introduce yourself and welcome him to our Board. Should you wish to contact Daniel, he may be reached at 941.876.8444 or by email at dcruz.delturahoa@gmail.com.
Board appoints new Chairs for NEC and Del Tura Rep
At its April 9, 2025 regular meeting, the Del Tura Board of Directors appointed Lisa Gabrielcik to head the 2026 Nominating and Election Committee (NEC). Lisa has served on the NEC for several years. Her experience in managing the elections will be invaluable, and her service in managing the election process is greatly appreciated.
The Board also appointed Art Keen to assume the role of leading the Del Tura Repertory Company. Art will replace Jaqueline Keen who has been the Del Tura Repertory Company’s long-time Producer and Director. Art is an accomplished actor, and we know him best for his active role in our Del Tura HOA, softball team, and his many acting roles in past shows.
If you see Lisa or Art , please congratulate and thank them for their service.
Sincerely,
Darla Greer, Your HOA President
Be alert for caregiver financial abuse
Do you have a parent or other elderly relative who may soon need a caregiver? If so, be diligent when selecting the right person for the job — because choosing the wrong one could lead to big financial problems.
You might find a close family member or friend to serve as caregiver — someone who is honest and trustworthy, with good judgment and strong money management skills. However, in many cases, people hiring caregivers just don’t know how they’ll perform until the caregivers have begun work. A dishonest caregiver could steal valuables or cash from the person they have been paid to assist or incept their mail to obtain credit card numbers and other sensitive information to commit identity theft.
So, if you enlist a caregiver and begin having doubts about them, you’ll need to watch out for these warning signs of possible financial abuse:
• Efforts to prevent the individual receiving care from speaking to family members
• Inquiries into the location of estate-planning documents, such as a will
• Interest in brokerage and retirement accounts, possibly with the intent to change transfer-on-death designations
• Withholding financial or medical information from the family
• Missing jewelry or property
• Requests to be a joint holder on bank or brokerage accounts, sometimes followed by large cash withdrawals paid to the caregiver
• Request for legal authority, such as a financial power of attorney naming only the caregiver
This last item — the request for financial power of attorney, or POA — is particularly concerning because of the scope of duties covered by this type of authority. That’s why it’s so important that all family members understand what a financial POA can and cannot do.
A general financial POA provides the agent with the authority to act on behalf of an individual’s finances, while a limited financial POA gives the agent the authority only for certain actions, such as paying bills, making withdrawals and opening or closing bank accounts. A general financial POA and a limited financial POA both can be durable, which means they take effect once executed, or springing, which is contingent on a specific event, such as a physical illness, mental incapacity or even a hospitalization.
Unfortunately, some POA agents have abused their responsibility by stealing money, making unauthorized transactions and even attempting to change the beneficiary designations on retirement accounts or insurance policies owned by the people for whom they provide care. These beneficiary designations can even supersede the instructions left in a will or living trust — and they can’t be changed by a financial POA.
If you suspect financial abuse by a caregiver, you can consider contacting your loved one’s financial advisor or attorney, if you know who it is. While they can’t share information with you, they can check for red flags and contact your loved one directly. You also can get help from your state government. The National Adult Protective Services Association (NAPSA) provides a listing of offices in each state at napsa-now.org/help-in-your-area.
Finding a caregiver for a parent or other elderly relative can be emotionally difficult — but it doesn’t have to be financially draining. Get to know the caregiver if you can and watch for any red flags, so you can take comfort in knowing that your loved one’s finances are in good hands.
Josh Wurtsbaugh Financial Advisor
DEL TURA MEN’S GOLF
What a great golf season we had!
We had 6 tournaments, starting with the President’s Cup, Jack and Jill (a little chilly, but fun), 2-Ball, Member/Member, Member/Guest and Club Championship. Also, let’s not forget the wonderful Award’s Banquet in January to honor and present trophies to our winners.
The last tournament we had was the Club Championship. The winner of the 9-Hole Division was Jerry Straw. White Flight 3 winner is Steve Heavener. White Flight 2 winner is Dave Liddle and White Flight 1 winner is Wayne Volz. Gold Flight winner is Ron Fluet. Blue Flight winner of Flight 2 is Dave Denman and the Men’s Club Champion is Tim Trout.
By Dan Haag, President
Congratulations to everyone!!
At this time, I would like to give a heartfelt thank you to so many people. First, to all of our men’s association members. Then to everyone who participated in our events and to all of the volunteers that helped make them happen.
I would also like to give a huge thank you to our board members and our committee heads, a huge thank you to Butch Webb and the proshop staff, and also, to my wife Marlene. I could not have done it without all of you.
Very soon we will be meeting with Butch to set the calendar for the upcoming 2025/26 season. I will let you know as soon as possible so you can mark your calendars.
AT-THE-HYDRANT
On March 22, 2024, we lost our beloved 14-year old golden retriever, Ralph. He was the greatest companion anyone could ever ask for. I had to have a furbaby in my life again, but didn’t know how long I should wait. I thought, how could I ever find another dog so majestic and faithful? Besides, the next companion would have such big shoes to fill.
We searched the shelters all over town, to find the right dog, but it was nowhere to be found. Not long after that, I read about a dog that was looking for a home. You see, the owners needed to move and couldn’t take him with them. I couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw the picture of this dog! Ralph? Is that you? No, it wasn’t him, but a younger version of my big red dog. His name is Indie, originally from Indiana. I thought to myself, I must meet this dog. So many questions ran through my head. Would he like us? Would he destroy our home? Would we be able to love him as much as we loved Ralph?
The owner decided to come to our home on the evening of June 7th, 2024, a week before Indie’s birthday. As I waited inside with
By Jenny Deal
much anticipation, I looked out the window and saw a golden retriever on a leash, being walked along the sidewalk. I said out loud, “Oh look, another golden retriever in the neighborhood.” Then it dawned on me that this dog was not just another golden, but it was Indie! I ran out of the front door and kneeled down in the grass. This beautiful red dog broke free from his leash and ran into my arms. So excited to meet me, he knocked me to the ground, giving me kisses with a wildly wagging tail. I knew then and there that we had found our new furry friend.
Picture of Indie Picture of Ralph
18-HOLE WOMEN’S GOLF
Well, well, well!!!!!!! I received great reviews on my article last month. A good act is hard to follow but I will do my best. A few corrections on name spelling. To my dear friends Jean REIMER and Linda BEIERMANN spelling correction I blame Al, he proof read it and it is all his fault, lol. Another month has gone by and when you read this a lot of us are back up north. I hope everyone has a wonderful, safe, and healthy summer.
LEGA was played at Whiskey Creek and I played reporter and got the scoop that everyone enjoyed themselves. It was a bit nippy in the AM but warmed up. Next LEGA will be on April 8th at Myerlee C.C. In my April edition I talked about our yearly skins Ryder Cup. I am posting some pictures of this fun event which for some reason never made it in the April tower.
Ok, now let’s move on to the club championship on 3-27 and 4-24, we had a great turnout and we all enjoyed the nineteenth-hole each day after golf. I have to give a big round of applause to all the winners and also cudos to all who played, because like I said before, not everyone can win but we all can participate. Our 2025 club champion is Denise Rose. Denise played almost perfect golf all three days and is truly a champion. Congratulations my friend.
By Maria Matthews
So here are the winners drum roll please:
Denise Rose club champion
Bobbi Nash - Flight 1
Rita Szukhent - Flight 2
Jean Wiley - Flight 3
The last picture is everyone that participated. Some are missing because they had too much to drink and had to go home. ONLY KIDDING!! Notice the two girls in front kneeling, those were our caddies, the one and only Sue Passineau and Mary Venuti. Girls in my book, we are all WINNERS.
Just a few more things to tell you. Every year at this time we have the shoot out. This event is organized by Paula Lafreniere and she does a great job. Paula thank you in advance for your time and efforts. During the year on league day, Paula collects a dollar to qualify for the shoot out––some qualify, some don’t, but we all come out to support our girls. Good luck to all who are playing in it. We also have a potluck after the tournament.
Once again if interested in joining our great group of women, contact my friend Cilla Canney @978-314-3773. Ok peeps, it’s time to sign off. Again if you like what you read, subscribe and hit that like button. Lol.
CERT (COMMUNITY EMERGENCY
By Vickie Rogers
CERT is always doing training to better serve our community. NFMFD did a Fire Extinguisher demonstration at the March CERT meeting. We brushed up on our knowledge and skills. P.A.S.S. means Pull, Aim, Squeeze, and Sweep. Hurricane season (June 1) is just around the corner. On April 29, CERT hosted a Hurricane Preparedness Session. This session focused on all aspects of what to do before, during, and after a hurricane. Always be prepared and plan ahead. CERT members inventoried and did a refresh of their backpacks at the April meeting.
The CERT Pancake Breakfast fundraiser will be held Saturday, May 3, 2025, 8:00am-10:30am.
A review session on the use of a Automatic External Defibrillator (AED) will be held during Tuesday Coffee on May 6th . The NFMFD
is working on a “Weather Safety on the Golf Course” program. More information will be coming.
Another CERT training and certification class will be held October 20-23, 2025. More information will follow as the date gets closer. Check out the CERT display case in the Clubhouse Lobby. It has some good information plus showcases the NFMFD Trophy awarded for CERT Team of the Year. Do you want to join the NFMFD 2025 CERT Team of the Year, or want to ask questions on how to become CERT certified through FEMA, please contact Bertie Dugo at 617-974-8502.
GOOD TIMERS
By Nancy Harris
The Good Timers club has a lot of activities planned for May and the rest of the summer. We are going to lunch on May 7th to Peace River Beer Company for Thai food. We will meet in the lower parking lot at 11:00 am, and carpool to the restaurant.
The next week on May 14th, we have a trip to Sanibel planned to visit the Bailey Shell Museum and then lunch at Cheeburger Cheeburger. Again, we will meet in the lower parking lot at
8:45 and carpool from there. If you would like to join us to see what we are about, please text Nancy Harris at 239-823-0686.
Our next meeting is on the first Tuesday of May at 4:00 pm in the Starlight Ball Room. This will be the last meeting until Fall, but we will still be doing outings over the summer. Come out and see what we are planning.
9-HOLE WOMEN’S GOLF
Ladies 9-Hole Member-Guest Tournament was a day at the beach….
On March 20th, the Ladies 9-hole league hosted their annual Member-Guest tournament. The event featured 34 teams of 4, playing a Scramble.The weather was a bit chilly for the Shot-gun start but the sun came out and we all had a wonderful day with our guests.
By Michelle Hamill
Golf was followed by a fun beach-themed luncheon hosted by the very talented and dedicated Entertainment Committee.
Our next event before the Summer, will be our President’s Cup on April 9, 10, 17, and 18.
The winners of our Member-Guest Tournament were:
Flight 3 (Tied): Luch Schaefer, Maria Matthews, Margie Blackwell and Pat Dinitto
Flight 1 First Place: Monica Peters, Patti Marcus, Peggy Deems, & Deb Goodwin
Flight 3 (Tied) Sue Smith, Lisa Heavener, Judi Tatz and Glena Stewart
Flight 2: Mary Kato, Gwin Whalin, Sandy Vasallo and Betty Radosevich
CERT
DEL TURA CONTACT INFO
Choralaires
Coffee Hour - Tues. AM Coordinator
Lisa Bellanca 847-833-3258
Janelle Shallenberger 765-437-2130
Carolee Racer 856-297-1407
Librarian Barb Jones 239-543-6922
Del Tura Repertory Company
Entertainment Committee Chair
Art Keen 210-279-2093
Lynn Brenfleck 603-738-1001
Fish Medical Equipment Loans 239-997-3474
Loan CLoset (Cots, Pack-N-Play, High Chairs, etc.)
FISH - Friends in Service Here
FMO Membership
Front Gate Guard
HOA Membership Tech
HOA Membership
Denise Rose
Sandy Vassallo 815-222-6466 248-755-1176
Laura Dritt
630-759-1757
Bill Shell 612-209-4674
Barbara Schmoltze 239-731-2523
Cindy Brinton 267-642-6477
HOA Office 239-731-3461
HOA Office 239-731-3461
HOA GROUNDS Committee
Homeowner Issues / Grievances
Lighting & Sound Coordinator
Memorials
Name Tags
Save Our Strays / Feral Cat Information “SOS”
Outdoor Electronic Billboard
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Denny Andrews delturagrounds@yahoo.com
Hometown America Office 239-731-3433
Susan Brown
Dave Gabrielcik 847-531-3726 724-762-2635
Carolee Racer 856-297-1407
Wendy Wells 309-264-9147
Sherry Plisch Karen Azza 239-707-5613 239-220-0563
Cindy Brinton 267-642-6477
Brion Palmer 941-312-0665
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Sue Brown 847-531-3726
Tower - Distribution Coordinators Dan Larson Sue Larson 763-360-3193 763-360-3192
Veterans: Bricks 4 Vets Jeff Meehan 651-398-6964
Welcome Committee TBA
Please send changes to Dennis Cottini 847-707-1435 or dcottini@comcast.net
SUBMISSION INFORMATION
News Items for “The Tower” – Please email article, flyer, and photos (if any) to: dttoweredit@gmail.com THE HOA WEBSITE – www.deltura-hoa.com
To have events listed on the HOA Website and/or the Electronic sign please email flyer, photos (if any) & text for electronic sign to: Website Content: dttechsvcs@delturahoa.com Electronic Board: dttechsvcs@delturahoa.com
HOA BOARD INFORMATION
Darla Greer, President (2027) 239-470-0851, dgreer.delturahoa@yahoo.com
Margie Hill, Vice President (2027) 863-956-7236, mhill.delturahoa@yahoo.com
Darlene Fincham, Treasurer (2026) 609-617-6869, darlene.fincham@gmail.com
Bill Shell, Director (2026) 612-209-4674, billshelldeltura@gmail.com
It is the HOA’s responsibility to provide transparency to all residents and can easily provide information on HOA sponsored events. Unfortunately, HOA cannot provide any information for events that are not sponsored by HOA, especially financial documentation for the event, specifically how much was raised, what is being done with funds generated, or if
Bob Hilton, Director (2027) 732-337-7061, bhiltonhoa@yahoo.com
Dorothy Cook, Director (2026) 614-499-1864, dcook2023@yahoo.com
Robin Stranahan, Director (2028) 810-938-0238, robinstranahan354@gmail.com
Daniel Cruz, Director (2026) 941-876-8444, dcruz.delturahoa@gmail.com
the appropriate Florida Sales Tax is being paid. In an effort to ensure that residents are informed of which events are HOA sponsored and which are not, all flyers distributed at HOA Tuesday Coffee, on HOA Bulletin Boards and events advertised in the HOA Tower Newspaper should have a notation of “HOA Sponsored” or “This Event is Not Sponsored by HOA”.
HOA
OFFICE HOURS
MONDAY Closed TUESDAY After Coffee - noon
WEDNESDAY 9:00am - noon
THURSDAY 3:00pm - 5:00pm
FRIDAY Closed
SATURDAY & SUNDAY Closed
Should you need assistance contact Ruth Ann Blevins (239) 220-9381
HOA ADDRESS: 609 Sierra Madre 239-731-3461
The Tower Editorial Staff
Editor
TBA
Staff
Darlene Fincham
Pam Applegate
HOA Website
Cindy Brinton
Distribution
Chairperson
Sue Brown
Distribution Coordinators
Dan Larson, and Sue Larson
Distribution Group
Mark Donahue, Steve Fincham, Sandy Rolando, Sandy Vassallo, Patty Large, Karen Miller and Sue Larson
And 60+ Delivery Volunteers
HOA Liaison: HOA President
Many thanks to all the volunteer residents who have donated their time to “The Tower”. We are looking for more volunteers. Please Help!
DID YOU KNOW…
If an HOA sponsored committee holds a fundraiser, it is raising funds for that committee only. All proceeds, after expenses, are deposited into that committee’s financial account for that committee’s use. HOA acts as the banker only and can provide all income and expense details.
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GENTLE REMINDER
Please be aware that when you hire an unlicensed/uninsured person to do work at your home, you accept the liability.
FISH
MEDICAL EQUIPMENT LOANS AND TRANSPORTATION
Anyone Needing to borrow equipment or who needs a ride to an appointment Contact FISH at 239-997-3474.
NAME TAGS
Any resident wishing to purchase a “Name Tag” may do so on Tuesday mornings at coffee, before the start of announcements, or call Wendy @ 309-264-9147. A name tag with magnet backing is $8.00, cash only. Tags are normally available for pickup the following week.
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DISCLAIMER: Please be aware that when you hire an unlicensed/uninsured person to do work at your home, you accept the liability. Island Visitor Publishing is not responsible for claims made by advertisers.
SHUFFLEBOARD LEAGUE
FINALS FOR FRIDAY SHUFFLEBOARD LEAGUE
Congratulations to Cyndi and Bernie Grilli for defeating Ken Trombley and Darlene Wedyke to become the 2025 Grand Champion. Also, our own Pro shuffler, Deb Norton, just took second place in the State of Florida Masters
By Glenn Tointon
shuffleboard tournament. A very high honor! Congrats to Deb.
Please remember, Judy Lessard and Craig Evans run a summer program at 10:00AM each Tuesday and Friday for anyone who wants to come and play. Experienced or no experience, everyone can come and have fun. Have a great summer everyone.
Left to Right are the The Main Winners
Darlene Wedyke and Ken Trombly 1st, Deb Mormon and Craig Evans 2nd, Kathy Boesel and Marcella Carothers 4th. Missing Are Janet Reinen And Kathy Zietti 3rd
Left to Right are the Dual Meet Top Three Teams Glenn and Marykay Tointon 43-6, Judy Lessard (Missing is Martha Anneshansley) 34-14, & Deb Mormon and Craig Evans 31-17
The consolation winners, Cyndi & Bernie beat the main winners Ken & Darlene to become Grand Champion. Also pictured Bobby Pett & Carole Fleishhacker 2nd, Barb & Ted Luke 3rd and Nikki & Dave Ackerman 4th.
1ST ANNUAL DOG PARADE
The Dog Parade was held on March 22nd. We had a great turn out with 20 contestants who actually competed, many participants who just wanted to walk around and observe, and a whole slew of spectators in their golf carts. We’re looking forward to organizing this again next year.
By Dusty Laurie
The donations to ARC (Animal Rescue Center ) in Fort Myers (non-kill shelter) were phenomenal and included food, bed, blankets, leashes, collars and $200+. Thanks to all the helpers that made this event possible. Here are a few pictures of this event.
WRITER’S WORKSHOP
Our sixth season of the Creative Writer’s Workshop drew to a close on the 28th of April. I’d like to thank our writers for their commitment and willingness to try new challenges. It has been a pleasure and a blessing to work with such talented people within our community. I thank our Del Tura HOA for allowing us to use the Royal Palm Room this season, which proved invaluable during some of our colder weather. Most of all, I’d like to thank you, our readers, for your support and appreciation of our efforts from the beginning. A recent challenge was to write about our observations of an outdoor area. Describe it by trying to give life to inanimate objects, but this time show your reaction to your observations. Example:
Old Barn by Nancy Davy (from my book, Dreaming in Color) The barn stands, tall and imposing against the naked fields. It feigns indifference. Faded whitewash struggles to cling to its exterior. The door gapes open, great mouth undefended against the onslaught of bitter icy wind. Snow swirls and eddies, settling upon the dirty floor, broken planks, and rusted cans full of rusted nails. Odd bits of lumber, sorted by size, are stacked against the back wall. A couple vintage license plates, enamel old and crackled. Flowerpots, tipped over, spew their dirt upon each other, and the garden tools lie tumbled in a heap. A soft pair of flowered gardening gloves, carefully hung on a hook, wait for their next summons. But the hands will come no more. A crack of sunlight through broken windowpane falls on shattered glass and dusty boxes and seems to be absorbed there, not radiating far enough to penetrate the dark and musty corners. A silence so profound that you can almost reach and touch it. The smell of dust and driveway dirt. A can of gasoline. Rafters, dry and brittle, are spattered by the swallows that frequent them to roost. Abandonment in wooden form, this structure stands, a shelter now to barn cats, darting transients that seek its darker depths. Forgotten but forgiving, in a pose of patient waiting, the tired beams support each other bravely. As the wind
By Nancy Davy
howls through the rafters, an ache forms in my heart. It is the chilling sound of loneliness.
The following is a colorful response that I hope you’ll enjoy: Antelope Canyon by Mary DeJoseph Antelope Canyon, located in Northern Arizona, is part of the Navajo Reservation Tribal Park. Most of the land is flat and arid. But tucked into the corner of Tse’Bighanilini or “place where the water runs” is a non-descript rock formation. This place has no roads, no structures, and no vegetation. However, there is a small narrow slit in the beige unremarkable outcrop of rock…very deceiving!
The woman driving the minibus introduced herself as a Navajo guide. She wasn’t dressed in her Native style but spoke in English intermixed with her Navajo dialect. She paused and took a deep breath. Softly she said, “You are about to see and hear a miracle.” As we approached the narrow slot in the stone mountain we felt a cool breeze. It increased the closer we walked toward it.
The mountain’s breath welcomed us. As we entered the cavern, we started to hear a soft hum as if the wind was whispering around us. Immediately we felt we had entered a holy place; a Navajo cathedral. The sound was comforting and filled the space. Our Navajo voyager began to play her flute…sweet and reverent.
The Navajos believed that the Great Spirit dwelled
here and that her children should come here to reflect on their lives. Here they would find peace. Here they would find answers. It’s difficult to put into words the depth of this religious experience.
Our eyes needed time to adjust. Before us our attention was drawn up the sides of the cavern’s walls. Rocks were in wavy layers of red, orange, yellow and white. These waves surrounded us. The sun reflected off the glistening colors. Before us was a waterfall of sunlight whose brilliance took our breath away.
What were we seeing and hearing? Nature was pulsating through the rock and sunlight and air. We were standing in an explosion of sensations. Our eyes were drawn upward toward a sliver of blue sky framed by the rippling red rock. It was a stunning sight that I will NEVER forget. That picture has been imprinted on my mind’s eye. I can close my eyes now and see the brilliance and hear the melody.
The four of us meandered through the narrow and winding canyon. Over and over, we experienced this sanctuary. We reached the end portal and stepped through. Before us was an outdoor landscape of the cavern inside. As far as we could see our eyes beheld a mountainscape I never could have imagined! Mother Nature is a dynamic artist, capable of painting from her vast imagination. No words were necessary. We stood aghast. WOW!…What a fitting ending to this remarkable tour! We had been blessed to have experienced this miracle.
GOLF TOURNAMENT
Continued from the cover
The Broken Tees for Broken Hearts tee boxes were a big hit. There are currently 44 boxes sitting on the some of the tees throughout the golf course. Each one symbolizes a memorial message or an advertisement for a business. These will stay on the course for 1 year. You still have an opportunity to have one made and placed on the golf course with your special message. All proceeds will go to St Jude’s Children’s Hospital.
Contact Bill McFerrin for more information: 402-618-4653 or email: mrbillne@hotmail.com. (Form Below)
Broken Tees for Broken Hearts Form
Your name:__________________________________
Company (if applicable)________________________
Address:____________________________________
Phone number:_______________________________
Email:______________________________________
Preferred Placement (if available)_______________
What is the exact wording to be printed on your tee box? (In honor of; In memory of; Thank You; Your Name; etc.) If purchasing more than one box please identify the info for each box.
$150.00 per Tee Box. Include check made out to Del Tura HOA RETURN
HOA TOWER DELIVERY INFORMATION
By Dan Larson
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DEL TURA GARDEN CLUB
Hey garden friends!
Good news - those extra bromeliads and few leftover plants from the Plant Sale have found a happy new home in the Demo Garden South. We’ve been sprucing up the place too - patched up some bare spots in the shell paths.
And speaking of strolling - have you seen the garden at night yet? We’ve added some solar lights along the paths that make evening visits absolutely magical. Perfect for those warm summer evenings!
Quick heads-up from one of our members who’s been hosting some unexpected visitors -
By Paula Major
large turtles are on the move looking for nesting spots! Keep your eyes peeled when you’re zipping around in your golf cart or car. These slow-moving friends appreciate your caution! To all our snowbirds heading north - wishing you smooth travels and wonderful summer adventures. Enjoy the season wherever you land, and we’ll keep the garden beautiful for your return!
NEXT GARDEN CLUB MEETING
May 2 – 10am Jacaranda Room (this will be our last meeting until September)
DAILY ACTIVITY SCHEDULE
REFLECTIONS
As we age , we seem to lose the ability to see things as clearly, or as lighthearted as we did through childhood eyes. For some reason our vision becomes a bit blurred and I’m not talking about cataracts here. It is more like we put blinders on and deny ourselves the opportunities to be our own authentic selves. Sadly, we forget that it’s okay to find humor in those things that seem to frustrate us on a daily basis. Lord, I can’t explain why we do, or we don’t do the things that have always been routine in the past. For example, we can remember song lyrics from the 60’s but we can’t remember where one of our five pairs of glasses could be. (I think you might find them on top of your head, like I do!) Or maybe you have walked into the kitchen and can’t remember what you needed there. It’s all good! Just count it as part of your 10,000 steps that you’re supposed to be walking each day. Now that should make you chuckle!
Seriously, why isn’t it okay to relax and once and awhile feel the way we did as children? I realize that life has thrown many obstacles at us during our journey from childhood to adulthood and we can’t help to be a bit cautious, but we all need to revisit those feelings that made us feel less inhibited. Laughter is the best form of medicine…we need to learn from children.
“Revisiting Those Precious Childhood Days”
By Dianne J. Roderick
Listen to them….their giggles are contagious
“There is a garden in every childhood, an enchanted place where colors are brighter, the air softer, and the morning more fragrant than ever again.” ~
ElizabethLawrence
How long has it been since you laughed until your belly hurt? It’s been awhile for me, too! Remember when we were youngsters the smallest things would make us giggle. We created our own fun, didn’t we? Maybe it was the innocence of the age, or not knowing any better, but for the most part it sure was the happiest times of our lives! Who says that we can’t revisit some of our childhood moments as adults, take life less seriously, and laugh uncontrollably like we used to?
We learned many things as children. We learned how to laugh at ourselves and with others. We learned how to play fairly with each other and accept loss. Our friendships were golden and if some of those cherished friends are still with us, we are truly blessed! Think of those times when we just sat next to each other on the front porch, sharing stories, or playing board games. Worries, we had none!
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SWING STREET BIG BAND
Kick off the Summer in Style with the “Swing Street Big Band” May 17th, 7-9:30 PM, Starlight Ballroom. Mark your calendars as the Del Tura Entertainment Committee jump starts the summer with the exciting music of the “Swing Street Big Band.” It promises to be a night of fun and music for everyone! The talented Eight Piece Big Band features five decades of music, featuring everything from Swing to Rock and Roll. Come to dance or simply come to listen and make some memories. Bring your friends and make it a party! Throughout their musical journey, members of the band played in many of the most fashionable clubs in the northeast, working with such notable performers as Barry
By Lynn Brenfleck
Manilow, Vic Damone, The Carpenters, Jaye P Morgan, The Supremes, The Temptations, and more. Tickets are just $20 for HOA members and $22 for Non Members. Sales begin Tuesday April 29th at 7:30AM in the Starlight Ballroom for HOA members. Sales to HOA and non HOA Members will continue in the Ballroom Tuesday May 6th and 13th at 8:00AM. There will also be a Box Office in the Clubhouse Lobby Thursday evenings May 1st, 8th, and 15th from 6:00 to 7:00PM. For more information, be sure to see the promotional flyer in this Tower issue! Put the date on your iphone, computer, or in your calendar and join us for a celebration to start your summer off right!
DEL TURA BI-ANNUAL BLOCK PARTY
Organized by Sherry Cottini
“Neighbors on San Miguel Lane enjoy a game of Lawn Yahtzee courtesy of host Joe Murdoch at the March 22nd Block Party.”
REFLECTIONS
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There are so many precious memories of our childhood. It was not only the things that we did but also the things that we felt as we went through those “wonder years.” Whether we were feeling the excitement of catching fireflies on a warm summer night, or skating on the local ice pond on a cold winter afternoon the
EDITOR’S NOTES
feelings were truly exhilarating! Maybe we can’t do all of those things we did as children (possibly the fireflies, but don’t try ice skating, please) but we can certainly try things that will make us feel good, alive , and most of all make us laugh until our belly hurts!
By Leigh Anne Lawson
I am resigning as Editor of The Tower. This will be my last Tower
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CAREGIVING
Need help for your loved one? Call Resident, Sherry Cottini, 239-770-7711
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TUESDAY NIGHT EUCHRE
By Marcella Carothers
WED. NIGHT PINOCHLE
By Marcella Carothers
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5/03 Denise Hollenbeck
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5/04 Walter Benoit
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5/06 George Storminger
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MAY BIRTHDAYS MAY ANNIVERSARIES
5/16 Donna VanDuiven
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5/13 Bobbie Asper
5/13 Cheryl Vogel
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5/14 Joseph Noto
5/14 Carol Parker
5/14 Albert Bartoletti Jr 5/14 Mary Jane Wolfe
5/01/85 Michael & Janice Dubrosky, 40 years
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5/01/99 Jay & Linda Buckland, 26 years
5/03/86 Jeffrey & Jacqueline Ritrovato, 39 years
5/04/63 Larry & Joyce Scialabba, 62 years
5/04/68 Ed & Connie Regan, 57 years
5/04/91 Esther & Doug Stuber, 34 years
5/07/77 Lora & Rick Stermole, 48 years
5/09/13 Frank & Debbie Gianino, 12 years
5/09/98 Ron & Pat Whitney, 27 years
5/1/82 John & Gail Jager, 43 years
5/10/03 Ron & Bonnie Willin, 22 years
5/11/63 Frank & Joanne Smith, 62 years
5/11/74 Jim & Sue Hooper, 51 years
5/12/04 Robert & Betty Radosevich, 21 years
5/12/12 Daniel & Melissa Wright, 13 years
5/14/71 Francis & Diane Furlong, 54 years
5/14/78 Nancy & Mike Manning, 47 years
5/16/69 Lawrence & Michelle Archer, 56 years
5/16/87 Dave & Lisa Gabrielcik, 38 years
5/17/14 Paul Espindle & Rebecca Harper, 11 years
5/17/90 John & Gail Millson, 35 years
5/19/64 David & Nancy Olson, 61 years
5/19/73 Stephan & Bobbie Asper, 52 years
5/19/73 William & Kay Nezamis, 52 years
5/20/10 Jope & Laura Payne, 15 years
5/20/67 John & Marian Moore, 58 years
5/20/77 Mark & Janet Huss, 48 years
5/22/71 Patrick & Deborah Roush, 54 years
5/23/70 Charles & Cookie Feiner, 55 years
5/23/96 Jeff & Missi Polglaze, 29 years
5/24/12 John & Yow Norton, 13 years
5/24/85 John & Karen Healy, 40 years
5/24/86 Robert & Sharol Zimmerman, 39 years
5/25/03 Ernie & Kathy Page, 22 years
5/25/68 Barry & Sharon Plisch, 57 years
5/25/91 Don & Carol Dowell, 34 years
5/26/01 William & Bonnie Jones, 24 years
5/26/84 Steve & Laree Couwenhoven, 41 years
5/26/90 Kenneth & Melody Daniel, 35 years
5/27/23 Rita & Charles Pixley, 2 years
5/27/78 Ted & Cyndy Peters, 47 years
5/27/92 Rudy & Diane Brodsky, 33 years
5/29/87 Jon & Vicki Kehl, 38 years
5/29/98 Patty & Ken Duquette, 27 years