learning to talk about them. That's exactly what you'll have to do in order to land somebody who knows who she is and what she wants. If you're suddenly more motivated to learn and regretting the lost opportunities – or all those dates you've dumped – don't worry. You can still learn from them; in fact, you just might find that all of them presented you with the same lesson. Until you've dumped your insecurities, they keep getting triggered by the next one who gets close enough. You have as many opportunities as you need to heal what ails you. So, next time you feel like screaming, instead of blaming the one who pushed your hot buttons, look at what's behind the buttons. No need to worry about his bad manners or her attitude; instead, get the lesson you need to land the relationship you want. ∆
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