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Even small changes can make a BIG difference.
Triple P is a scientifically-proven, world-renowned positive parenting program available to families in Santa Cruz County.
Triple P strategies address a wide range of parenting challenges by providing a toolbox of easy-to-use tips.
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Santa Cruz Celebrates Kids Day While Facing Hard Truths About Racism
On the good news front, May 3 is Kids Day downtown, the most wonderful transformation of Santa Cruz into a huge family festival with kids playing music, dancing, being DJs, acting, doing art, you name it.
Streets are closed to cars and booths of kids’ programs are set up along the streets by Abbott Square. If you want to see the city at its shiniest and most fun, come down and check it out from noon to 4pm.
If you won our coloring contest and can bring in your photo from the issue to our Growing Up in Santa Cruz booth, we have prizes for you. First come, first served.
On the dark side, the racism expressed by two members of the Pajaro Valley School Board has received international attention and a condemnation from School District Superintendent Faris Sabbah. It’s hard to believe it’s happening here and now, as minorities are divided against each other while a dictatorial government seeks to take away the rights and freedoms of all of them.
We won’t survive if we don’t stand together.
Trustees Joy Flynn, who was appointed and not elected, and Gabriel Medina, the newest member elected last year, attacked Jewish people who questioned an ethnic studies program they feared was simplistic and didn’t present both sides of the Israeli/Palestinian conflict.
Flynn, who is Black, said that Jewish people have economic power that Black and brown people don’t have and claimed Jews have “presentation power, the privilege that comes with presenting as white.”
That is wrong on two fronts. First, there is plenty of discrimination of a racial minority despite skin color. They know your race, as surely as if your skin color were green. It’s terrifying to even admit being Jewish in a time when antisemitism is on the rise, even by elected officials in liberal California.
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Second, by blending in with a room of white people you get to hear racist slurs about Jews you would never be able to hear if you were Black or brown. It’s horrifying and more present than you would want to believe.
Then, there’s Gabriel Medina, a leftwing name-calling reactionary much like the racists on the right.
“I don’t see you people at protests against immigration,” said Medina to the board audience in April.
“I don’t see you at protests when people are being taken away right now. I don’t see you advocating to bring back Abrego Garcia or Mahmoud Khalil. I don’t see you guys doing that. You only show up to meetings when it’s beneficial for you, so you can tell brown people who they are.”
When I called him out on it on his Facebook page and noted that Jewish people have supported minorities throughout their history--having been enslaved and later victims of the holocaust--he said he wasn’t speaking about Jews, but rather about conservatives. I don’t buy it.
Neither did Sabbah, the superintendent of the County Office of Education, who wrote that the board members “appeared to invoke anti-Semitic tropes.”
He added: “I trust your Board agrees that anti-Semitic rhetoric has no place in PVUSD, least of all from the trustees charged with upholding students’ rights, ensuring nondiscrimination, and fostering safe, inclusive educational environments.”
Are these board members really the people we want making decisions for 17,000 diverse students? I think not.
Write us at editor@growingupsc.com
Thanks for reading. Brad Kava, Editor and Publisher
Offers a Creative Space for Kids to Grow
Drawn2Art is devoted to teaching skill-based art fundamentals. Our goal is not only to build students’ self-confidence, but also to make learning fun! We believe that “creativity follows mastery,” using a step-by-step method to help students develop strong foundational drawing skills. At Drawn2Art, students of all levels, follow an individualized lesson plan tailored to their own abilities and progress. While classes are held in a group setting, every student works at their own pace and artistic level. As students grow, they continue to build on techniques and explore different subjects such as: Anime/Cartooning, Landscapes/Architecture, Animals, Portraiture, Realism and more. They also learn to work with a variety of mediumsmarkers, colored pencils, pastels, watercolor, acrylics, and more. Our approach teaches not only the fundamentals, but also the creative process—without frustration. Join us for a Free Trial Class! Classes are scheduled in advance based on availability. Great news: Our “Early Bird Summer Camp Discount,” Extended to May 15! Sign-up by or before May 15 - Receive $40 OFF each camp. Register: Both classes and a camp, registration fee is waived —savings of $70! We hope to see you soon!
Drawn2Art
A Book for Kids of All Ages
BY JOHN KOENIG
James Norbury’s “Big Panda and Little Dragon” is a book of quiet wisdom and gentle beauty—inviting readers of any age to pause, reflect, and breathe. With its spare, elegant illustrations and warm, contemplative dialogue, the book carries the spirit of a meditative walk through the woods. It’s not so much a story in the traditional sense as it is a series of thoughtful conversations and seasonal vignettes between two unlikely companions: a large, serene panda and his curious, occasionally flustered dragon friend.
Norbury, who has studied both Buddhist philosophy and illustration, imbues each page with a soft-spoken stillness that echoes the Zen principles of mindfulness, acceptance, and non- attachment. The book follows Big Panda and Little Dragon as they journey through the natural world, observing the passing of the seasons and exchanging simple but profound insights about change, uncertainty, and inner peace. Each
chapter corresponds to a different season—spring, summer, autumn, and winter—mirroring the cycles of nature and the rhythms of emotional life.
A calm settles over the reader while moving through these pages. The dialogues are short, often just a sentence or two, but they can linger in the mind for hours. “The moon is beautiful tonight,” says Little Dragon.
“Yes,” Big Panda replies. “It’s always there, even when we can’t see it.” It’s the sort of exchange that sounds deceptively simple but quietly resonates like a bell struck in still air.
Inevitably, comparisons arise with Benjamin Hoff’s The Tao of Pooh, which likewise uses animal characters to explore Eastern philosophy. But while The Tao of Pooh explains; Big Panda and Little Dragon embodies. It speaks in aphorisms, often reminiscent of Kahlil Gibran or even A.A. Milne’s quieter moments, without sermonizing. This makes Big Panda and Little Dragon
particularly accessible to younger readers—there’s no need to understand the Tao to feel the comfort of a friend’s presence during a storm, or to understand that being lost can be a part of the journey.
The book’s philosophy is clear: life is unpredictable, and the best way through it is with compassion, curiosity, and the steady companionship of someone who listens. That message, conveyed with great tenderness, is a balm in an anxious age. The illustrations—black-and-white line drawings punctuated by subtle watercolors—extend the sense of quiet, reinforcing the emotional tone of the text without overwhelming it.
Big Panda and Little Dragon brings a special gift to the reader.
For children, it offers a sense of wonder and the beginnings of emotional intelligence. For adults, it offers a reminder that wisdom doesn’t always come wrapped in complexity.
In the end, Big Panda and Little Dragon is a book to keep by the bedside—a timeless comfort, best read slowly, to return to when the world feels too fast, or too loud. Like a walk with a wise friend, it brings no solutions—just presence. And sometimes, that’s exactly what we need.
HEY KIDS!
SUMMER ACTIVITY GUIDE
CAMPS
Aikido of Santa Cruz
306 Mission St., Santa Cruz aikidosantacruz.org
Join us for an exciting four days of Aikido training and Japanese craft activities! Aikido is an energetic, non-competitive martial art. The guiding principle is HARMONY: with other people, with nature, and within oneself. Kids learn non-violent resolutions to conflict, while having fun in a safe environment. The camp will be filled with Aikido techniques, rolling, ‘blending,’ and centering. Each day will include a Japanese craft activity including brush calligraphy, origami, koinobori (koi windsocks) and more. Aikido games hone physical balance and mental awareness. Aikido of Santa Cruz is a non-profit, educational organization serving the community since 1982. Visit www. aikidosantacruz.org/summercamp
“My three daughters and I have been part of the Art Factory since 2011. It’s enriched our lives through art, friendships, and community. We’ve celebrated birthdays, joined camps, and found a creative home!” - Monica Baldacci
Cabrillo Extension Summer Camps for Kids offer safe, fun, and engaging camps for children to explore and grow. Diverse, high-quality content for developing young brains and growing young bodies. Join us for cooking & baking camps, games design & coding camps, sports camps, music & art camps, or science & exploration camps. Camps available for kids ages 5 through 17 years old, and you can choose half day camps, or a full day schedule. Dozens of new camps this summer, and plenty of returning favorites. Join us for one week, or all summer long!
This week-long camp July 28–August 1 will give your child an unforgettable experience as they put together an original musical performance! Children ages 8 to 18 learn music theory and musicianship; participate in dance, improvisation, and rhythm games; play recorders, Orff, and other instruments; and perform in musical theater. No experience is needed – just a love of singing! For more information, check out our website, or contact us at cyc.staffers@gmail.com.
Drawn2Art Studios
19C Rancho Del Mar Shopping Center, Aptos
831.661.5652
Aptos@Drawn2ArtStudios.com drawn2artclasses.com
SIGN-UP NOWOFFERING REALLY FUN SUMMER CAMPS! Signup by or before April 30th, Receive - $40 OFF each camp. New Students ONLY Pay the Registration Fee. Here are some of our summer camps, each camp is themed! Anime & Cartooning Camp: Learn to draw traditional style Anime, make your own Anime selfportrait. Cartoon Clay Camp: Learn sculpting and painting methods, create landscapes, characters and more. Portraiture: Learn the fundamentals of drawing different portraits, learning different techniques and working in media, such as graphite charcoal, colored pencils and pastels. Come Join Us for a Fun-Filled Day!. Offering a Free Class for our studio art classes! International Academy of Dance IADance.com | NutcrackerSantaCruz.com info@IADance.com 831.466.0458
International Academy of Dance, home of Santa Cruz City Ballet, provides world class instruction in Classical Ballet, Tap, Contemporary, Lyrical, and Jazz. The studio is an encouraging and supportive community from ages two to eighty-two. It is our mission to inspire students of all ages to develop a lifelong love of dance. Through choreography, balance, agility, strength and flexibility, we work with each dancer to hone artistry, technique, focus and musicality. We aspire to bring joy and generate growth in every class. We can’t wait to see you in the studio! Come see us on stage in Coppél-ai, at the Scotts Valley Performing Arts Center, June 5-8th!
Into the Heart of Nature
Life Lab
1156 High St, Santa Cruz 831.200.3703
lifelab.org/camp
Join Life Lab this summer in our Garden Classroom on the UCSC Farm for a fun camp experience for ages 7-10. We’re thrilled to offer a summer camp program where a vibrant, diverse group of campers come together to explore the outdoors, plant seeds, make farm-fresh snacks, sing songs, and grow side by side!
Mountain of Fun, Mount Madonna School 491 Summit Road, Watsonville 408.847.2717
mountmadonnaschool.org/summer
Summer day camps on Mount Madonna School’s redwoodforested campus, offering weekly unplugged, outdoors and active summer camps: Nature explorers age 3-6 June16-August 1, Mountain Explorers 6-9 July 7-August 1, Redwood Explorers 9-15 July 14-August 1, and Outdoor Survival Camp. Outdoor Wilderness Survival Camp with a low ropes course, martial arts, hiking, astronomy, team-building and an overnight campout. Forest play, nature crafts, friends and more – unplugged, outdoors and active! Camps are Monday through Friday, 9am-3:30 pm. Transportation is available. Details and registration online at www.mountmadonnaschool. org/summer.
Redwood Music Camps info@CommunityMusicSchool.org CommunityMusicSchool.org
Celebrating nearly 23 years of theater, and over 180 productions in Santa Cruz County. Offering training in the performing arts for children aged (3-6), Youth (6-10), Pre-teen (10-13) & Teens (13-17) and Adults. Our upcoming Summer Season; Between the Lines Jr., 42nd Street (Youth Edition) and Dare to Dream Jr. will be performing at our new home The Colligan Theater, located in the heart of the Tannery Arts Center at 1010 River Street, Santa Cruz. With a new state-of-the-art theater, we will be offering training and advancement classes in audio visual, stage managing, lighting design, broadway dance, voice and more…. There’s a place for everyone! Come be a part of the magic of theater this Summer.
“Our family loves this amazing community! We started a year and a half ago and my daughter has flourished and challenged herself. Lindsey Chester has brought out gifts that my daughter did not know that she has. Please run, don’t walk and join us!” Joanna E.
Summer Art Camps at Art Factory Studios! Get ready for a summer full of unplugged, creative fun! Each week features a unique theme, inspiring young artists to explore new techniques and ideas. Little Artists (ages 5-7) will experiment with painting, clay, and mixed media. Young Creators (ages 8-12) will dive into mixed media, sculpture, and printmaking—plus, a special Comics Camp led by former Cartoon Network and Nickelodeon illustrator David Freemont! Teen Studio (ages 13-17) focuses on fiber arts and ceramics, offering an immersive experience in these hands-on mediums. Join us for our 17th year in Aptos—spaces fill fast!
Camp Gateway 255 Swift Street, Santa Cruz 831.423.0341 gatewaysc.org/campgateway
Unplug and Engage at Camp Gateway! Gateway School Santa Cruz is hosting a screen-free interactive summer camp for rising 1st - 5th graders. Campers will engage in counselor-led activities and enrichment classes, including art, coding, jewelry making and jiu jitsu. June 16 - July 18th. Register now (QR code - see our ad in this month’s issue). For more information, visit gatewaysc.org.
Now 5 weeks! Camp Kayetz offers a wholesome, inclusive, Jewish day camp experience to campers ages 6-15. June 16-July 18, 2025 9am-3pm. Camp meets at Temple Beth El in Aptos with weekly field trips including Skyzone Trampoline Park, Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk, beach trips and camping in the redwoods at Henry Cowell. Come for the summer fun; stay for the friendships! Email Jess Mitchell with questions: JMitchell@tbeaptos.org
CYT Santa Cruz
216 Mt Hermon Rd. Suite E, Scotts Valley 831.428.8995 cytsantacruz.org
We create a hands-on theater experience focused on building performance skills, self confidence, and teamwork. Summer of 2025 features 3 opportunities for you to hone your skills. Honk Jr and Shrek are two and three week intensives, both of which culminate in a weekend of broadway style performances. Honk will play in Scotts Valley at The Landing, and Shrek in Watsonville at Monte Vista’s Performing Arts Center. Finally Woody’s Roundup is a weeklong day camp focused on learning the basic of theater in a fun, exciting environment.
Located on 108 acres of Redwoods, oaks, and sunny meadows bordered by bubbling creeks, our big playground, a sunny clearing in the woods, will be the center of our camp activities of fun games, nature exploration, and nature-themed art. Each week we will focus on one of the essential elements that support all life; earth, water, air, and heat; explored through themes of the forest, ocean, earth, and the universe. As we learn more about the interconnectedness of our world, children will develop friendships, practice mindfulness, and learn how to care for each other, animals, bugs, and the environment we all share. 9am – 3pm, ages 4 - 8.
Ready to get your child away from technology and into a nourishing community in the great outdoors?
On 450 acres of privately owned redwood forest only 4 miles from town Kennolyn Day Camp is just a short bus ride away. Your child will thrive in this fun, active, supportive environment. And after a day of exploring the fields, pond, and miles of trails, they’ll be happy-tired after each fun day! Nowhere else in the local region will you find a more complete, authentic summer day camp experience. Just ask your friends and neighbors. Kuumbwa Jazz Camp
Registration for Kuumbwa’s annual Jazz Camp is now open! Jazz Camp is a performance-based day camp for students grades 8-12. Featuring nine days of collaboration, learning, and listening, this camp covers all aspects of jazz theory and appreciation, and will help students grow as musicians. Camp concludes with a performance on the renowned Kuumbwa Jazz Center stage. Dates: June 16 – June 27, 2025. Location: Cabrillo College, 6500 Soquel Dr., Aptos, VAPA Complex. Times: Grades 8-9 attend from 9 AM-12 PM; grades 10-12 attend from 11 AM-2 PM. Jazz Camp Concert: Friday, June 27 at Kuumbwa Jazz Center.
Young musicians explore the music of Ireland, Scotland, and more! For players of violin, viola, flute, penny whistle, recorder, harp, guitar, mandolin, ukulele, accordion, small keyboards, and cello. Students practice in instrument-specific groups, and with the entire ensemble. Crafts include making your own bamboo flute! Teen Camp (June 16-21) is a one-week sleepover camp for ages 12-18 in Aptos. Kid Camp (July 21-Aug 1) is a two-week day camp for ages 7-13 in Scotts Valley; a family concert is on Saturday, August 2nd at 10am. Information and registration is online at CommunityMusicSchool.org.
Summer at Santa Catalina 1500 Mark Thomas Drive, Monterey 831.655.9386 summercamp@santacatalina.org santacatalina.org/summercamp
Summer at Santa Catalina is an all-girls camp for grades 2-9 featuring 1-week and 2-week options as well as a 5-week musical theatre program. With a wide variety of classes like marine biology, art, ceramics, dance, surfing, volleyball, and more, along with fun off-campus excursions to the Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk and Monterey Farmers Market, campers enjoy trying new things while making life-long friends.
Santa Cruz SPCA 2601 Chanticleer Ave, Santa Cruz 831.566.3753 spcasc.org/camps/ alisons@spcasc.org
The SPCASC runs eight “Under the Sea” camps for ages 6-12 over Summer Break. All camps have high levels of interaction with our shelter animals, and many other animals brought in by presenters. Campers will learn about creatures in the ocean zones, make crafts, do science experiments and play games.
Santa Cruz Gymnastics 831.462.0655 scgym.com info@scgym.com
Beginning June 3rd, we will be offering Gymnastics Camps for ages 5–12! Come FLIP WITH US at our weekly themed camps.
Santa Cruz
Camps include gymnastics lessons on all Olympic events, supervised open gym time, group games, crafts and time in our foam pit! Full and half day options are available for each weekly camp. Check scgym.com for more information and to register
Santa Cruz Makers Studios 27 Swift Street, STE A, Santa Cruz scmakerstudios.com/ Scmakerstudios@gmail.com 831.265.2621
Set sail on a creative adventure this summer at Santa Cruz Maker Studios Summer Camp! Anchored on the Westside, our vibrant 4,000 sq. ft. warehouse becomes an interactive hub where young makers explore woodworking, textile arts (sewing, beading, knitting), 3D printing, and more. With a splash of tropical whimsy, campers dive into tech, engineering, art, and math through project-based learning. Led by knowledgeable instructors, our camp offers a safe and welcoming space for kids to build skills, express themselves, and grow creatively. It’s a summer designed for curious minds and imaginative hands.
Santa Cruz Waldorf Redwood Summer Camp 2025
Santa Cruz Waldorf School, PreK-8 2190 Empire Grade Santa Cruz 831.425.0519
santacruzwaldorf.org
Redwood Sprouts Camp (Age 5 by Jan 1, 2026 and entering Kinder and entering 1st grade) is capped at 15 campers per session. Redwood Explorers Camp (entering 2nd - 5th grades) is capped at 20 campers per session. Weekly session between June 16 and June 27th; July 7th through July 25th and special dates in August from the 18th to the 29th.
June 16- 20 M-F 8:30-3:30 weekly $425
June 23-27 M-F 8:30-3:30 weekly $425
July 7-11 M-F 8:30-3:30 $425
July 14-18 M-F 8:30-3:30 $425
July 21-25 M-F 8:30-3:30 $425
August 18-22 M-F 8:30-3:30 $425
August 25-29 M-F 8:30-3:30 $425
Seven Directions Creative Learning Center 831.713.9392
sevendirectionsinfo@gmail.com sevendirections.org
Seven Directions has fun and creative summer camps for kids ages 5 & up! Art, science, theater, table top role playing games and so much more! Whether your kid loves animals or anime, fairies or Pokémon, practical or digital art, theater or science, exploring nature here in Santa Cruz or exploring the realms of imagination in Dungeons & Dragons, there is something for everyone at Seven Directions. And nearly every camp gets daily interactions with our 35+ live exotic animals! Join us at our bright and lively studio space at the entrance to downtown Santa Cruz or meet us on site at some of Santa Cruz’s most beautiful scenic locations. Make friends, express creativity and keep learning alive during the summer months with Seven Directions Summer Camps!
Tannery Arts Center
Tannery Arts Center, 1010-1070 River St, Santa Cruz info@tanneryartscenter.org tanneryartscenter.org/events
Discover creativity, movement, and expression at Tannery Arts Center Summer Camps! These diverse programs offer hands-on experiences in visual arts, music, dance, theater, and more. Whether your child wants to paint, perform, or sew, these camps provide a vibrant space for growth, inspiration and an unforgettable summer of artistic exploration in Santa Cruz.
“Every summer, I see kids light up with confidence as they create and explore. These camps are more than just classes—they’re a place for young artists to find their creative voice and community.”
Bree Karpavage,
Tannery Arts Center Program Manager
WEST Performing Arts
831.425.9378
Santa Cruz
westperformingarts.com
Summer 2025…CREATIVE CHAOS! Get ready for next level imagination with our awardwinning youth theatre company for ages 6 -18. Our unique, process-based theatre and art classes, camps, and conservatorystyle studies encourage young performers to embark on a creative journey and craft their own performance experience full of innovative collaboration, From immersive theatre-based day camps to original plays and classic productions or improvisation to hone your funny bone. We have it all. Come play! Our classes, training programs, and presentations are process-driven, believing that the creative journey is what matters. We build confidence, communication, and community.
Web of Life Field (WOLF) School
220 Cloister Ln, Aptos
831.684.0148
WOLF School’s Summer Nature Day Camp offers amazing outdoor adventures every day! Kids will experience redwood trail walks, music, camp arts & crafts, cooperative games, science activities, exploration and more. Weekly themes on Redwood Forest Plants, Animals, Ecology, Stewardship, Science, and Teamwork. WOLF School’s educational nature camps inspire kids to experience the outdoors, connect to nature, build healthy relationships, and gain awareness of their impact on environment and community—all in a fun camp setting led by our knowledgeable, friendly, caring and energetic naturalists.
ENRICHMENT
Growing Social 408.914.0552
Growingsocial.org info@growingsocial.org
Growing Social serves neurodivergent students ages 5-young adults, who could benefit from support with social emotional learning (including perspective taking, emotional regulation, problem solving, flexible thinking, etc). Serving those with Social Communication Disorder, Autism Spectrum, ADHD, social anxiety, and those without a formal diagnosis. Small, age and skill matched groups are led by Speech-Language Pathologists who specialize in teaching Social Thinking®. Farm animals, gardening, cooking and other creative group activities are utilized to teach and practice social learning concepts. Social vocational and camp counselor opportunities for teens and young adults. Weekly school year sessions and summer camps available.
Jim Booth Swim School
Watsonville
831.722.3500
Jimboothswimschool.com
Be a water wonder! Lessons for all ages! From our Little Otters swim class for parents and their babies to our adult beginner class. The whole family can splash together at Jim Booth Swim School. Little Otters is a gentle introduction to our 94-degree indoor pool that will make you confident that you are guiding your infant to a happy water experience. Our lessons emphasize quality swimming in an exciting class taught by our caring, well-qualified teachers. Developmental swim team and advanced swim lessons will be offered at our outdoor pool located in Watsonville at Toadal fitness. The whole family can swim at Jim Booth Swim School!
Junebug’s Gym
3910 Portola Drive, Suite 2, Santa Cruz 831.464.BUGS (2847)
JuneBugsGym.com
June Bug’s Gym is a place where your child can experience a fun-filled adventure in movement. We have a caring, respectful staff that encourages every child to grow at their own pace while supporting social, emotional, and cognitive development. Our goal is to promote confidence and self-esteem in our students, open up their imaginations, and help them experience the joy of movement in an ever-changing environment designed to test their skills.
Music Together/MusicalMe, Inc.
Locations throughout Santa Cruz and Santa Clara County Call/Text: 831.332.9002 registrar@musicalme.com musicalme.com
Come join the fun at our Music Together classes – where magical moments happen through playful, rich, and engaging music experiences! Let your little ones, from babies to preschoolers, explore their inner music maker alongside you, their favorite grown-up. Our music and movement classes are not only a blast but also provide essential support for your child’s early development. Summer-only special: Unlimited Bonus Classes! Join us now and create beautiful memories together.
Santa Cruz Public Libraries (SCPL)
Aptos: 7695 Soquel Ave, Aptos
Boulder Creek: 13390 West Park Ave, Boulder Creek
Branciforte: 230 Gault St, Santa Cruz
Capitola: 2005 Wharf Rd, Capitola
Downtown: 224 Church St, Santa Cruz
Felton: 6121 Gushee St, Felton
Garfield Park: 705 Woodrow Ave, Santa Cruz
La Selva Beach: 316 Estrella Ave, La Selva Beach
Live Oak: 2380 Portola Dr, Santa Cruz
Live Oak Library Annex at Simpkins: 979 17th Ave, Santa Cruz
Scotts Valley: 251 Kings Valley Rd, Scotts Valley Santa Cruz Public Libraries (SCPL) is your partner for student success. SCPL provides online and in-person educational resources and K-12 homework help. Students can access research databases, take practice tests, check out a laptop or tablet, or join one of our programs (like chess club or the diverse youth meetup). SCPL also provides early literacy resources and educational programs for toddlers and young children. Find a book to share with your child, stop by for a storytime, or check out one of the online resources. Visit SantaCruzPL.org and follow us on social media @santacruzpl.
“Thank you so much for my awesome prize! I’ve been having so much fun riding my new bike every single day! I just started Riding with my dad on trails. We like the La selva and Aptos Libraries the best. Teacher Sandy is our most favorite Librarian! My three daughters and I have been part of the Art Factory since 2011. It’s enriched our lives through art, friendships, and community. We’ve celebrated birthdays, joined camps, and found a creative home!” - Bodhi, 5 years old, 2024 Summer Reading Program grand prize winner
School of Psychogeographic Arts 34 Seascape Village, Aptos 775.303.8863 psychogeographicarts@gmail.com psychogeographicarts.com
Seascape Village, Park, Beach, bluffs, and trails. Self-expression and experimentation are encouraged. Students will learn about traditional art mediums, applications, and techniques as well as relevant artists and historical art movements. Our studio-school is for all ages and abilities. We offer after school (K-12) art classes, summer camps, adult classes, and custom workshops. Classes and camps range from Urban and Landscape Design, Post Modern Architecture, Mapmaking, En Plein Air Painting, Experimental Printmaking, Alternative Comics, Street Art, Junk Sculpture, and more… Join the walk today
SCHOOLS WITH SUMMER PROGRAMS
Chartwell School 2511 Numa Watson Road, Seaside 831.394.3468
www.chartwell.org
Summer Chartwell School, located on 60 acres in Seaside, CA, serves students with dyslexia and other related learning differences who are not currently reaching their full potential. We do this in grades 1-12 by providing targeted and direct instruction to empower learners with the skills, strategies, tools, and social-emotional mindset they need to thrive in college and beyond. Summer@Chartwell is a three-week program that emphasizes literacy, math, STEAM, and enrichment skills.
“Before we found Chartwell, our son was struggling every night with homework, his confidence shattered because he couldn’t understand why learning was so difficult for him. At Chartwell, he gained the tools and skills to support his learning profile, and now he confidently advocates for himself and is excelling in high school. I can’t express enough how profoundly Chartwell changed our son’s life—and ours.”
Milda E., Parent of Chartwell Alumnus
The School of Psychogeographic Arts is a studioschool based in Aptos that uses outdoor exploration as a catalyst for art making. All classes are taught by artist and art educator Ross Sheehan. Students will embark on walks in and around the beautiful
FEATURE
Breaking Up With Amazon
Here’s what happened when a local woman tried to end ties with the beast
BY JOAN HAMMEL
Ending a relationship is never easy, but in this case the reason was undeniable.
Right there in black and white. Line after line after line (after line!) on my Visa statement.
It was time to break up with Amazon. No one said this was going to be easy. Amazon can be an addiction: the convenience, the returns, the anonymity. But there must be a better way. But who would I start seeing instead?
Wanting to keep things light, I fooled around a little with Facebook Marketplace. At first, that seemed to have decent potential. But it’s weird how quickly it starts to feel like a dating app. And not in a good way. Profiles matter. A lot. You need highly refined search terms to weed out the junk and even then, there’s a lot to scroll through. And trust me…very few were a “swipe right” situation. There were a lot of sketchy weirdos and shady too-good-to-be-true offers.
Over and over, the red flags kept coming, and I encountered things I knew were bots, or worse. I’d see someone who seemed great, get closer, reach out, make a connection, chat a little, get my hopes up. And then it would end either with me choosing to leave or getting dumped. (Did I mention the dating app vibes?) Plus, the ways you’re told to buy things safely (meet in public, bring a friend, protect yourself, use secure payment methods) felt less like I was buying preowned treasures at a bargain I could brag about and more like I was negotiating a hostage release.
There is an adage that says if you want to save money, you have to spend time. But the tradeoff between buying brand new on Amazon vs. getting something “gently loved” on Facebook Marketplace was so nominal it can turn out to be far easier to pay a tiny bit extra for the convenience, ease and peace of mind. I mean, I want to reduce, re-use and recycle as much as the next person, but still.
We both decided we needed our space, and it was over.
And then it dawned on me. This is the very reason behind the death of retail as we’ve come to know it.
It seems like every day we bemoan the demise of yet another retailer –most recently in Santa Cruz we’ve lost O’Neill’s, Forever 21 and Rip Curl, among others – while we unbox yet another Amazon package. We decry the shuttered, papered-over commercial spaces downtown, while UPS and FedEx drivers race from one home to the next, barely able to keep up with the pace and demand for to-your-doorstep, next day or even same-day deliveries.
Maybe it started or further accelerated with COVID, but either way it shows
no sign of stopping or even slowing. If anything, it’s gotten worse (Temu anyone?!) Regardless of the root cause, what we want to buy and, more importantly how we want to buy it has forever changed.
Sad but true. Breaking up with Amazon wasn’t going to be easy.
But then I realized, maybe it’s not all or nothing. Perhaps we could have an open relationship. “See other people” as it were. After all, we are consenting adults.
And then an idea occurred to me. What if I didn’t just replace Amazon with more online shopping? Could I gently wean off my addiction to next day, home delivery and experience some new retail relationships “IRL.” Could I handle a digital detox of the shopping variety? What would that even look like? I knew one thing for certain…I’d have to shower, get dressed and leave the house – and not just in sweats and slippers to fetch a package from the mailbox.
It was time to start shop-dating locally! I’m not sure what it says about me that the first local shop I walked into is called “Another Banger,” but that’s how it worked out. Sandra Thi Martinelli, owner of the shop, is also the author of the cookbook “Another Banger: 75+ Culinary Hits for the Home Chef’s Playlist.” After finishing each of her recipes on YouTube, her catch phrase was “and there you have it, another banger!”
The name stuck.
The shop is in Aptos, near where Café Sparrow used to be. It features a mix of specialty goods for home and kitchen, lovingly and personally curated by Martinelli, that reflects her passions, talents and eclectic interests. Expect things like the very tasty Supremo olive oil and handy garlic-grater dishes that she and her husband first found at Christmas markets in Spain and Portugal. The store also offers things like Bialetti moka pots, anything-but-typical French presses (one is red and heart shaped), handmade woven shopping baskets (“to slay at the Farmer’s Market,” says Martinelli) along with “punny” cards, sweets, teas, glassware, hot sauce, cocktail/mocktail mixes and even jewelry from Martinelli’s namesake line.
But wait, how did I know the olive oil was tasty? Because when I first visited the store, Martinelli enthusiastically insisted on an impromptu tasting of several varieties for me and my friend. There’s a saying, “They don’t make ‘em like they used to,” but Martinelli is breaking that mold. She brings an abundance of charm, wit, smarts and kindness that feels almost old-world… from an era where you could meet and talk directly with a shop’s owner, who lives right in your community, who energetically shares their story and
you can feel their passion and energy. They care. Putting it all together, something incredible happens -- you have an experience. And let me tell you -- Amazon ain’t got nothin’ on that! Martinelli puts it this way, “Small businesses bring culture and value to our local communities. In a world where we can pretty much have anything delivered to our doorsteps, I encourage folks to be intentional about convenience vs. supporting the community. There is certainly room for both, but local support is so important in ensuring our small businesses have the opportunity to survive and thrive.”
Supporting a local business comes in all shapes and sizes, according to Martinelli, “Whether you decide to purchase from the store, pop in to meet new shop owners, share your experience on social platforms – no matter how big or small, these moments of engagement can really help the growth of small businesses.”
What stood out to me most in my conversations with Martinelli was the notion of being intentional about how and where we shop and what we buy. In this “buy now with One-Click” and “onebutton-to-buy with Apple Pay” world, it is so easy to end up buying robotically, reactively, impulsively, mindlessly….just by pressing a button. We insta-buy things we probably don’t need and may not have even wanted until seeing a promoted post on social media, most likely, and a bit ironically, also created by some form of mindless AI machine, algorithm or bot.
But I was now well on my way to realizing that was not the consumer I wanted to be, personally or financially. My Visa bill would be pleased.
The next attractive local shop that caught my eye was Bottega del Lago, at
the corner of 17th Avenue and Portola Drive in Live Oak. One part deli, one part Italian foodie heaven, the store is a delight for the eyes and the belly. Because one thing I quickly realized about shopping locally….it makes me hungry… and thirsty. Additionally, now that I live by the beach, there is suddenly a steady stream of friends and family who want to visit, so I like to have inviting, distinctive snacks and drinks on hand at a moment’s notice. Bottega del Lago had me swooning on all fronts. While I waited just a few minutes for a delicious Savoia focaccia sandwich with brie cheese, salami and arugula (served warm upon request) and a refreshing Galvanina organic red grapefruit sparkling Italian soda, I was almost magically transported back to the romance of Italy.
From the stylish décor with cheeky Italian wallpaper to the beautiful shelves and colorful displays brimming with everything from house-made pesto, charcuterie and olives to eucalyptus honey, lemon biscotti and candied sour black cherries in syrup, the shop is a feast. There are dips with pesto, bruschetta and wild fennel and a pistachio spread with Sicilian extra virgin olive oil….perfect for dipping with the pesto chips I found. Forget the houseguests, this was a haul I couldn’t wait to eat myself!
But the thing that truly surprised me was what happened when my sandwich and soda were ready. I didn’t jump in my car and scarf down the meal while driving (or sitting in traffic) like I normally would. I found a café table outside, in the warm sun, sat down, alone, and slowly and fully enjoyed my meal. And like all great dates, I wasn’t on my phone the whole time. You would need many more diners all gesturing and
Local shops are well worth exploring once you step beyond the dominance of Amazon. Illustration by Nathan Mixter
talking loudly at once, far fewer SUVs and a few dozen more buzzing scooters to fully replicate an outdoor café dining experience in Italy….but it was close. And it felt great. I fell even more deeply in love with our beautiful town. Plus, I came home satiated and with a big ol’ bag of goodies I knew would excite my future guests….who I will also be bringing back to Bottega del Lago for Gelato, which I was too full to enjoy the first time.
Shop-dating locally was proving extremely satisfying on numerous levels. My senses were all turned on. I was meeting new people and having great experiences. I was moving slowly, with intention. What’s more it came with a strong dose of “do-gooder-ness” because I was supporting the local economy. My morale soared. At this point, like in all the best rebound relationships, I wasn’t thinking about the “other guy” (aka Amazon) at all anymore.
But unfortunately, day in, day out shopping isn’t about exotic olive oils, European kitchen gadgets or hard-topronounce jars of Italian deliciousness. Sometimes it’s about houseplants. Which I have a terrible penchant for killing. With alarming speed. Which is how I ended up at Dig Gardens talking to Joy about how to stop hurting my newly purchased plant.
She took one look at the plant in question (after advising me next time to bring a picture, not the actual plant – noted) and sized up the situation in about 30 seconds. “Too much water. WAY too much humidity. Either move the plant or find a plant that likes that location.” I chose the latter and she swiftly guided me to a few plant critters that would like the climate I had in mind. In no time at all, I already trusted Joy fully and let her pick out a good one for me. I also needed a couple (heavy) bags of potting soil for another project, which an employee carted directly to and hoisted inside my vehicle in about 5 minutes….without me even asking for help, which to my mind is the definition of great service. They spoke my love language.
As I drove home, hopeful that me and my new plant friend were destined for a long-term healthy relationship, I tried to imagine what that whole experience would have felt like at Home Depot. Who knows? Maybe I would have gotten lucky. (Yes I’m an optimist and, hey, stop laughing.) But more likely I would have found myself lost in the cavernous aisles, wandering, hungry, alone, aimlessly, trying not to be run over by pushcarts full of lumber. The words inconsiderate and ignored come to mind and I don’t even need a couple’s therapist to tell me that isn’t good. I suppose there’s someone for everyone when it comes to this particular type of shopping, but let’s just say you’ll find me at Dig Gardens (either of their two locations) or my small, local, independently owned hardware store. In most communities, a thriving local economy relies on a vibrant downtown
shopping district and Santa Cruz is no different. There’s been a lot of tea spilled lately about the situation in downtown Santa Cruz, so I decided to get the facts straight for myself.
I was surprised and delighted to learn from Jorian Wilkins, Executive Director for the Downtown Association of Santa Cruz, that 85% of downtown businesses are locally owned and several, such as Bookshop Santa Cruz, Pacific Trading Co., Lenz Arts and Dell Williams jewelers have been owned and operated by Santa Cruz families for generations.
Wilkins suggests that one of the reasons these businesses are so successful at the hyper-local shopping game is their ability to curate. “The Internet is filled with endless, bottomless choices, and that can be great. But local shop owners do a beautiful job of curating just for you the things they know you will like. They create a great experience.”
I saw this personal curation come to life at the stunning Botanic and Luxe on Abbott Square Market when I visited on a rainy Valentine’s Day. A fellow walked into the store and was quickly greeted by his first name by one of the shop’s coowners, Leilani Zehnder. The bewildered look on his face said it all. This was a guy feeling the pressure to find just the right gift for his girlfriend.
Zehnder sprang into action. She all but took him by the hand, guiding him through the displays asking interested, easygoing questions along the way to focus, expedite and guide the choices. The store’s brand signatures are “earthy, luxurious goods” and “a lifestyle destination for dreamers, lovers and seekers of all things beautiful.” And while I absolutely relished the idea of losing myself in the exploration and discovery, you could tell this guy was a man on a mission.
Sure, yea, it’s an eye-candy environment with soaring windows, towering live plants, colorful ceramic pots and an enticing selection of candles, skincare, glassware, books, jewelry, incense and other luscious tidbits. But this was a shopper who wanted to get ‘er done. Zehnder made it happen with ease and charm. She gently inquired, presented various options, gathered feedback, further refined the choices and he left in a jiffy with a lovingly wrapped gift for his sweetheart. You just KNEW he was going to score points (or more). And by the utterly transformed look on his face, you could tell he knew it too.
“This is the new retail therapy,” Zehnder’s business partner and coowner Ariel Stirm said. “It’s a human, touching, talking, interactive experience. No algorithm can ever do that. But still, every day as owners we have to strive to not just be as good as AI – we have to be better. It’s sad that some may say no one really needs to go into a store anymore. But let’s rethink what we need. Let’s create a friendly, nice, warm, inviting space. Where the retailers are thinking about community, not just competition. Where shoppers are taking the time to
“Whether you decide to purchase from the store, pop in to meet new shop owners, share your experience on social platforms – no matter how big or small, these moments of engagement can really help the growth of small businesses.” ~ Sandra Thi Martinelli
buy something that has true meaning. Let’s make that a new love language.”
The owners of Botanic and Luxe diligently vet all the products they offer. If it’s skincare, they put it on their own faces first. If it’s a scent, they sniff-test while studying the ingredients. If it’s a hand-crafted fudge, they taste it (I know, right? Hard work, but hey, someone has to do it). An important part of the product vetting process is evaluating the suppliers. They are deliberate and intentional about that examination as well, opting for small, local and diverseowned businesses whenever possible. It may sound cliché, but it’s the kind of care you can feel.
It strikes me that these retailers are all seeking to redefine AI. They see it as Authentic Interaction. Still highly intelligent, but there’s nothing artificial about it.
Another downtown shop that embodies this ethos is Bookshop Santa Cruz. Owner Casey Protti took it so far that she created buttons for each of her booksellers that say, “I Am Not an Algorithm.”
Protti puts it this way, “When you shop online, you don’t get the experience of discovery. You don’t get the creativity. You don’t talk to people. You don’t forge relationships. You don’t see the vibrancy on the street. There are so many things you get to see when you shop locally, besides the positive feeling you get knowing you’re contributing to the local economy.”
Case in point for the experience of discovery: at Bookshop they have a huge wall with all the new books. Rather than take all the history books and put them in the history section or put the biographies only in that section, they put all the new books out together. “What we said is, a customer might walk in thinking they are a history buff or only read non-fiction, but then something completely different catches their eye. And suddenly you’re reading something new or outside of your comfort zone. You’ve launched into a whole another area of interest that you never knew. Discovery like that doesn’t happen with an algorithm.”
The other critical element to all this is the high-touch, human interaction. At every store I visited, there is this pulsing passion for the products. The owners and staff have heart, soul and a sense of purpose. And they want to talk about it, to describe the experience, to share the feeling. As Protti says, “it’s this special, personalized conversation that you could
never get from a machine.”
In this world today, it’s often hard to see how we can make a difference. How each of us as individuals can affect real, meaningful change.
Bookshop’s Protti has a suggestion: “Make a list of five businesses you value in Santa Cruz. Places that bring you joy, where you love the service they provide, that support our community. Then commit to not shopping for those products on Amazon. Sometimes we are so shocked, like ‘I can’t believe that store is closing.’ But then you have to ask yourself…when was the last time you shopped there?”
And like in real life break-ups, sometimes the process is incremental. Protti has another idea to share. “We call it the one book pledge. It can be hard to form new habits, but can you buy one additional book at a local bookstore?” You might wonder if such a small choice matters, but Protti emphasizes that “just one additional book allows me to employ several more people in Santa Cruz, but it means absolutely nothing to Amazon. So take that small step.”
If nothing else, strive for less and less Amazon shopping every day. Seek to make more mindful, intentional choices about your needs and balance that with what our community, our small business owners, the environment and a thriving local economy truly do need.
Or maybe you always shop at Safeway or Whole Foods. That’s fine, but have you tried Shopper’s Corner? A locally run grocery store that’s operated in Santa Cruz since 1937, the place is from locals, for locals. Great meat and fish, knowledgeable butchers, fresh produce, kind staff and one of the best wine selections around. And with that one simple, easy choice, you’ve gone from global to local. Better still, you’ve supported Andre Beauregard whose family has owned and operated Shopper’s Corner since its inception. You’ve supported Andre’s family, his kids, the store’s employees and their local suppliers. And all their families and kids. Just like that, with almost no effort, you’ve had a positive impact on your community, not to mention the environment.
Give it a shot! It feels really good. Who knows? You might just find true love.
COMING IN JUNE KIDS DINING SPECIAL SECTION
Healthy Options for After School Snacks
After a long day of learning, kids often come home from school hungry and in need of a nutritious boost. While it can be tempting to reach for processed snacks, providing healthy options can help fuel their bodies and minds for homework, extracurricular activities, and playtime. Here are some simple and delicious after-school snacks that are both nutritious and kid-approved.
Fresh Fruit and Nut Butter
A classic and satisfying snack, fresh fruit paired with nut butter is packed with fiber, healthy fats, and protein. Apples, bananas, and celery sticks go great with peanut butter, almond butter, or sunflower seed butter. For extra crunch, top with granola or chia seeds.
YOGURT PARFAITS
Greek yogurt is an excellent source of protein and probiotics, which promote gut health. Layer it with fresh berries and a sprinkle of granola or nuts for a naturally sweet and creamy treat. Opt for unsweetened yogurt to avoid excess sugar.
HOMEMADE TRAIL MIX
Store-bought trail mixes often contain added sugars and unhealthy oils. Making your own mix allows you to control the ingredients. Combine nuts, seeds, dried fruit, and whole-grain cereal for a crunchy and
energy-boosting snack.
VEGGIES AND HUMMUS
Cut-up carrots, cucumbers, bell peppers, and cherry tomatoes pair perfectly with hummus, a protein-packed dip made from chickpeas. This combo offers a satisfying crunch along with fiber and essential vitamins.
CHEESE AND WHOLE-GRAIN CRACKERS
For a balanced snack, pair whole-grain crackers with cheese slices. This provides protein, calcium, and fiber while keeping kids full until dinnertime. Look for whole-grain or seeded crackers with minimal added ingredients.
SMOOTHIES
A fruit and veggie smoothie can be a refreshing way to sneak in extra nutrients. Blend a banana, spinach, Greek yogurt, and a splash of almond milk for a creamy, nutrient-dense snack. Add a tablespoon of nut butter or flaxseeds for extra protein and fiber
HARD-BOILED EGGS AND WHOLE-GRAIN TOAST
Hard-boiled eggs are a great source of protein and healthy fats. Serve them with whole-grain toast or avocado for a filling and nourishing snack. Sprinkle with a little salt and pepper or everything bagel seasoning for extra flavor.
POPCORN WITH NUTRITIONAL YEAST
Air-popped popcorn is a whole grain and a great alternative to chips. Sprinkle it with nutritional yeast for a cheesy flavor without the added fat and sodium of traditional toppings. This snack is high in fiber and low in calories, making it a great option for hungry kids.
COTTAGE CHEESE WITH FRUIT
Cottage cheese is high in protein and pairs well with naturally sweet fruits like pineapple, peaches, or berries. Add a drizzle of honey and a sprinkle of cinnamon for a tasty, nutrient-dense treat.
ENERGY BITES
Homemade energy bites made from oats, nut butter, honey, and mix-ins like chia seeds, flaxseeds, or chocolate chips can be a fun and nutritious snack. They provide protein, fiber, and healthy fats in a bitesized treat kids will love. By incorporating these healthy snacks into your after-school routine, you can help your child stay energized and satisfied while also encouraging good eating habits. With a little preparation, these options can be quick, easy, and delicious alternatives to processed snacks. Try out some of these ideas and see which ones become your family’s favorites!
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Where Does Money Come From? INFORM INSPIRE
Has a curious kid ever asked you, “Where does money come from?” You’re not alone! To children, it often feels like money just appears. Adults swipe cards, tap their phones, or hand over bills, and suddenly, groceries, toys, or clothes appear.
However, understanding where money comes from, and how it works, is one of the most important lessons we can teach children. This knowledge builds a strong foundation for lifelong financial skills. To help you tackle the topic with your child, we’ve broken it down into simple, kidfriendly basics you can explore together.
WHY DO WE HAVE MONEY?
Many years ago, before money was created, people participated in something called bartering to trade for what they needed. Imagine you’re at recess, and your friend has an extra snack. You don’t have one, but you have a toy car you’d be willing to trade. You both decide to switch the car for the snack. That’s bartering. You’re swapping something you have for something you want.
However, bartering only worked when both people wanted what the other had. That’s why money eventually became the system people agreed to use instead—it made buying and selling simpler for everyone.
WHO MAKES OUR MONEY?
The United States government oversees the creation of money. The U.S. Department of the Treasury prints paper bills and mints coins through two branches:
• The Bureau of Engraving and Printing, which prints paper bills
• The U.S. Mint, which makes coins
Although money isn’t just printed at random, the government carefully controls how much money is made. Why? Because if too much money is created, it can lead to inflation, which means prices go up too quickly. This makes it harder for people to afford everyday things.
Imagine your school is having a fair and gives out too many prize tickets. Suddenly, everyone has tons of tickets— but there aren’t enough prizes. The tickets aren’t worth as much because there are just too many of them. Money works the same way. If there’s too much of it, its value goes down.
HOW DOES MONEY GET IN OUR POCKETS?
Once money is created and put into circulation, people earn it by working. People like teachers who help kids learn, firefighters who put out fires, or chefs who cook delicious meals earn money by doing their jobs. A paycheck is the amount of money they receive for their work, and it’s how they get their share of the money flowing through the economy.
WHAT ROLE DO BANKS AND CREDIT UNIONS PLAY?
Once people receive their paychecks, they need a safe and organized way to store their money. That’s where banks and credit unions come in.
These organizations help people store their money, save for the future, and spend it when they need to. When someone puts their money into a savings
or checking account, the bank or credit union holds it until they need it. These places also help people borrow money when they need to buy big things, like a car or a house.
A NOTE FOR PARENTS:
Money doesn’t grow on trees, but it doesn’t appear out of thin air, either. From government printing presses to piggy banks, understanding where money comes from helps kids feel more confident and curious about the world around them. And it all starts with simple conversations at home. Ready to start your child’s financial journey? Opening a youth account at Bay Federal Credit Union is a great way to help your child begin their financial journey with real-world practice in saving, spending, and earning.
POINTS FOR DISCUSSION:
• Do you know what job your parents do to earn their paycheck?
• If you got to create your own kind of money, what would you call it?
• What kind of chores do you do to earn your own money?
• How does having money help you? Can you think of a way that your money helps others?
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Spring’s Spiky Treasure: Why It’s Time to Love Artichokes
BY ELIZABETH BORELLI
May is peak artichoke season here in Santa Cruz — and all along the Central Coast. Just a short drive down Highway 1, you’ll find Castroville, the proud Artichoke Capital of the World, where these quirky green globes grow in abundance. This is when the harvest is in full swing, and the local markets are overflowing.
At first glance, artichokes might not scream kid-friendly. They look a bit like alien pine cones with an attitude. But looks can be deceiving. Once cooked, their soft, mild flavor and tender leaves make them surprisingly versatile — great as a side dish, a salad topper, or even a centerpiece snack.
Here’s a fun fact for the dinner table: artichokes are actually flower buds! They grow on big, spiky bushes that look like something from a fairytale — think magical thistle thrones hiding a delicious prize. Telling the story this way helps build curiosity, especially with kids. Peeling back each leaf to reveal the tender heart inside becomes a mini adventure on your plate.
And the reward? A nutritional powerhouse. Artichokes are like little green superheroes — packed with fiber, vitamins, and minerals. They’re perfect for finger-food-loving kids, and with a little guidance, even the pickiest eaters can get on board.
If you’re looking for the best, Pezzini Farms in Castroville grows top-tier artichokes — but you don’t have to make the trip. Our local Shoppers Corner brings them in fresh!
TIPS FOR SUCCESS:
Presentation matters:
Make the artichoke look appealing by arranging the leaves on a plate and offering a colorful dipping sauce.
Don’t force it:
If kids are resistant, introduce them gradually and try different preparation methods. Slice and add them as a pizza topping, or chop and stir into a creamy pasta dish..
Make it a family meal:
If you’re new to the artichoke scene, don’t worry. They’re easier than they look:
Just trim, steam until tender (about 30–40 minutes), and serve with a dipping sauce like butter, lemon, or a garlicky mayo blend.
Show kids how to scrape the soft part from each leaf with their teeth — like a treasure hunt!
Once you reach the center, remove the fuzzy choke to get to the artichoke’s delicious heart.
Eating artichokes together can make it more enjoyable and encourage kids to try new foods.
Be patient:
It may take several attempts for kids to develop a taste for artichokes. Keep offering them in different ways.
READY TO GIVE IT A TRY?
Make a “Pull & Dip” Artichoke Party Platter--A fun, interactive way to get kids to try artichokes!
Ingredients:
2 large globe artichokes
1 lemon (halved)
1–2 cloves garlic (optional)
Pinch of salt
Dipping sauces (pick one or mix a few!):
Melted butter with a squeeze of lemon
Greek yogurt + ranch seasoning Hummus or tzatziki
Ketchup + mayo swirl (yes, really — for picky eaters!)
Directions:
Prep the artichokes:
Rinse them under water.
Snip the pointy tips off each leaf with kitchen scissors (kids can help with this!).
Cut off the top inch of the artichoke and trim the stem.
Rub all cut parts with lemon to keep them from browning.
Steam them:
Place artichokes stem-up in a pot with a couple inches of water, a garlic clove, and a lemon wedge.
Cover and steam for 30–40 minutes, or until the outer leaves pull off easily.
Cool slightly and serve:
Place them on a platter, pull off the first few tough leaves.
Set out small bowls with fun dips.
Show kids how to dip a leaf, then gently scrape the soft part with their teeth.
Bonus treasure:
Once the leaves are gone, you’ll reach the fuzzy choke — scoop it out to reveal the heart (the veggie treasure!). Slice it and dip it too!
Tips:
Turn it into a “Dipping Game”: Who can try the most dips? Who finds the heart first?
It’s hands-on, healthy, and fun — and it’s all happening in our backyard. So this May, bring home a bundle of artichokes and discover why these spiky spring “flower buds” deserve a spot on your table.
This column is sponsored by Shopper’s Corner
TEACHER’S DESK
Breaking the Cycle of Bullying
BY LISA CATTERALL
“Be kind for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.”--Plato
When I was in “junior high school,” which is what middle school used to be called, I struggled to find a group of friends who felt like a fit. My parents were educators and I grew up while they were in graduate school; I never experienced wealth, and yet, their teaching jobs allowed me to attend a private school in Beverly Hills for free.
They wanted me to have a private school education, but it came at the cost of me fitting-in. It wasn’t just class and status, I was pretty different from the other students in many ways. I had a broken home and family life was strained; I was used to embracing counter-culture and the school was very mainstream, and of course, I hadn’t started out at private school. The academic work wasn’t easy.
I ate lunch with a girl who also didn’t fit in well, for completely different reasons. She just hadn’t grown up yet. She still liked to play with dolls while everyone else was planning their “look” for the next dance and eating rice cakes and fancy bottled water for lunch (it was LA, in the eighties).
After a few months at the school, I found friends in the grade above me who had much more in common with me. They also had divorced parents, wanted to dye their hair blue, and liked punk rock music and art.
I did not have the skills to share how I felt at the time with anyone. I knew I wanted to be with these new friends, but I did not know how to talk to the girl I had been sitting with about it. I didn’t know how to behave or what to say. But I did not want to “hang out” with her anymore.
When I look back, I know now that what I did was become a bully. It was brief, but I can still feel the pain of that in my heart and my body when I think about it. While the two of us did not make much sense as friends, I know that I hurt her very badly by excluding her and even finding ways to push her away that were clearly mean.
There are as many forms of bullying as there are human beings. We tend to think about it as a problem on the playground in schools, but research shows that adults are bullied in the workplace at the same rate that kids are bullied in school. For the purpose of addressing this widespread problem, experts divide bullying into four categories: physical, verbal, social/emotional, and cyberbullying. When I have encountered bullying as a parent or teacher or in my own life, I see that it often crosses boundaries between all of these things. The common thread is that a person with more power than another uses their power to hurt.
Children who are involved in bullying from either side, victim or bully, have a higher chance of encountering many types of problems later in life. Schools must face the issue head on. In rural schools, 27% of
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students report being bullied. This could mean that over half of students are involved in bullying, because in each of those cases, someone was also doing the bullying.
The most recent research on bullying shows that many common methods of addressing the issue do not work. Simple punishment and traditional behavior modification are the least effective methods of resolving bullying behavior.
Placing the victim and the bully on equal ground and having them “talk it out” is also ineffective and sometimes backfires and makes the issue worse. The two most effective ways to combat bullying are creating an overall positive school culture that honors childrens’ feelings and emotions, and to have a school-wide understanding and language for social emotional learning (SEL).
While recent political discourse has shown to increase bullying (it is true that groups targeted by politicians experience higher bullying in school), it is true that all fifty states, red or blue, have mandates that schools must have an anti-bullying programs. While social scientists have many instruments to show that a program claiming to reduce bullying is effective, there are few mandates to show, and report, that these programs work.
How can we support our kids so that they do not become bullies, or victims of bullying? Research shows that honoring their feelings, and helping them to give words to
their feelings, is very helpful. Taking the time to communicate and check-in, and paying attention to how they are doing in school is also important. Noticing that teachers and adults working with them in schools and elsewhere have the ability to greet emotional dysregulation with empathy and coaching rather than punishment is also important.
Native educators offer us the “sweetgrass method” for bullying prevention. The idea is that communities prevent bullying by weaving together a strong metaphorical basket made by family and schools, using self-reflection, coaching, values, songs, and stories that fit the culture of the community, with continuity and follow-up. Familes must partner with schools to support kids’ resolution of issues that arise from power differentials. All children are powerful, if we allow them to be so.
When I look back on “junior high,” I wish I had had that metaphorical sweetgrass basket of community to dwell in during my experiences. I wish I’d had the language and the mentors to use it with, so that I could look back on that time of my existence with pleasure instead of sadness. I love that my school now has adults who honor upper elementary and middle school students, who are in the most common years for bullying behavior to emerge, as powerful individuals with agency and important feelings. The truth is, we can end bullying in a split second. We all just have to decide to stop it.
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The Adventures of a Kitten Foster Family
BY KAY MACKENZIE
“Oh, I’d want to keep them all.”
This tenderhearted response is the most common one I get when I tell people that I foster kittens for the Santa Cruz County Animal Shelter.
I just smile, saying that my husband and I call ourselves The Mackenzie Finishing School for Felines. We enroll a new class, help them grow in all the ways, they graduate and go on to their new forever lives, and then we get some more! I’ve been known to bring kittens back and take new ones home the same day, earning me the title of ‘The Kitten Flipper.’
My experience with fostering has been with the SCCAS, so everything I write about here is in connection with the foster care program at the Shelter. (Other feline rescue groups that offer foster opportunities may follow a different model.)
Fostering kittens is my favorite thing. In 15 years the Mackenzie Finishing School has hosted over 370 furry feline babies. These are underage kittens who need a little time to grow bigger and learn what it’s like to live in a house with humans. They become acquainted with the sound of a dishwasher and footsteps coming down the stairs. They definitely learn the pop of a can of cat food being opened.
They experience the fascination of a broom in action. They have toys to bat around and room to run. They learn the benefits of warm laps, pets, and scritches, that humans are kind and caring. They have someone looking out for their health and ready to report issues if needed.
Every litter and every kitten is different, based on a combination of their natural personalities and previous life experiences. Kittens who have been around people may be quite friendly and socialized, or a little shy until they become accustomed to their new surroundings. Kittens born to a homeless mom may be frightened and hissy, displaying hilarious flattened ears and tiny paws ready to slap. There’s a window of opportunity in a kitten’s life to help them become socialized. Opinions vary as to the length of this window, but it’s fairly safe to say that if they are very
young, they can learn to relax and enjoy the company of people, letting go of these defensive postures to become future house cats. That’s part of the foster family’s role in their lives, and kittens are amazingly adaptable. I always say that Kindness and Time are the magic words.
It’s true that some kittens may have health issues that are not apparent before going into foster. Not every kitten is going to be that turn-key, healthy happy kitty that we picture. That’s also part of fostering; we must deal with the possibility of a sad outcome. In my experience these have been exceedingly rare compared to the great number of joyful success stories and heartwarming experiences.
The kittens that we take weigh at least a pound and are eating on their own. Other foster families specialize in ‘bottle babies,’ tiny kittens who still need formula. Once kittens reach two pounds and 8 weeks of age and are in good health, they can be put up for adoption. The Shelter has a Foster Care Coordinator who is the contact and point person for keeping foster animals moving smoothly through to adoptable status. When fostering for the SCCAS, help is always available.
Many people who begin fostering want
to keep some or all of their first batch. This is a natural instinct, sometimes called a ‘foster fail.’ In all our years of fostering, we have kept exactly one, a big floofy long-haired tuxedo cat named Maxwell Smart. That was 12 years ago, and we had a vacancy. I think of this as a ‘foster success.’ Headmaster Max helps school the kittens, teaching them the proper way to relax for a bath. Over the years other kittens have tugged at our heartstrings, but we just remind ourselves that they are going to make someone else so happy, and if we kept them all then we wouldn’t be able to foster any more. Someday we’ll keep another one... when we have a vacancy. If you’re interested in fostering any type of animal for the Santa Cruz County Animal Shelter, go to scanimalshelter.org/foster-program to get started. New foster families receive an initial orientation and lots of help and guidance. In the spring (typically ‘kitten season’) there are classes offered by experienced fosters on raising kittens to be excellent adoption candidates.
Kay Mackenzie is a long-time volunteer with the Santa Cruz County Animal Shelter and an ardent kitten foster caregiver.
ENTERTAINMENT
Capitola Comicon is a Monster Success
BY RONAN CART
When living in a small coastal town like Santa Cruz it can at times feel like there is not much to do especially when you’re someone with niche interests such as myself. Of course there is the Boardwalk but after going there so much it starts to feel less special and I find the rides to be quite scary and The Mystery Spot doesn’t have much else to offer besides its one tour.
Sometimes I like to go to conventions but all of the ones I’ve been to are quite far away. I traveled to Illinois to go to G-Fest, a convention made by Godzilla fans for Godzilla fans and I went to Pennsylvania for a gaming convention called TooManyGames.
But both of these were located in or around pretty big cities like Chicago and Philadelphia; so when I heard that there was a Comic Con event being held at Capitola mall I got really excited at the prospect. Comic is one of the biggest conventions ever and apparently they have a lot of smaller Comic Events that happen every year.
I thought that any kind of convention being held here simply wouldn’t happen considering how small Santa Cruz is. Even if it wasn’t as big as other
conventions there was still a lot of excitement to be had.
Once I had arrived I was greeted by the Stay Puft Marshmallow Man from Ghostbusters. I should have taken a picture of it earlier because when I was leaving and had another opportunity to snap a photo it had fallen down. When I got inside there was a lot to
There were a lot of things here that can appeal to all kinds of people a lot more than you would expect for such a small event. There was a lot of anime stuff, Star Wars, and comics of course but as someone who loves kaiju movies there was a lot for me to appreciate here as well. Here there were a lot of Godzilla toys. I even found a booth there that had a
includes Godzilla.
This place was also pretty good for expressing oneself. There were plenty of artists here showing off their work. One of them I talked to is named Gabe Mcintosh who had the first issue of his comic book “Perimeter” with him and also showed off some of his other art and some props he made.
I also got to meet a group called the Sacramento Ghostbusters who are a cosplay group who have contributed to charities like Make-A-Wish and Toys for Tots. But the most exciting thing here was the cosplay contest where people got to show off the costumes they worked very hard on and they were impeccable. My favorite was called “Pilgrim Knight”. I’m not sure if it’s from something or if it was an original design but I thought it looked pretty good personally though it only won third place. The first place winners were two cosplayers dressed up as Jinx and Vi from Arcane and second place was Sailor Mars from Sailor Moon. Overall I had a pretty fun time. I wish I knew about more events like this if they exist at all. Like I said before there aren’t a lot of events here like this in Santa
EDUCATION
Can We Stop Bullying in Schools?
BY RICHARD STOCKTON
We all watched the bully in junior high school. But imagine that you are the younger, or the smaller, or the less assertive one. Or maybe you’re the neurodivergent kid, or you are gay, or you speak with a French accent. Somehow, you are different. You start getting tripped in the hallway, your books are knocked out of your hands, chocolate milk is poured down your shirt while dozens of kids howl with laughter and gather around the bully, clapping him on the back.
You’re called harsher and harsher names, your bicycle is wrecked, kids throughout the school smirk as you pass by. Your bully convinces you that he wants to be your friend, and you are lured into walking under a tree where a bucket of filthy water and dog shit is poured over your head. Where you are most vulnerable becomes the focus of the bully’s attacks and when you cower or cry, it is video recorded and posted online. The adults in charge don’t do anything about it. In fact, they blame you for complaining about whatever this is that you must have brought upon yourself. For the first time in your life, you consider that suicide would at least be one way out of this.
I didn’t make these things up. They all happened to middle-school boys and girls in Santa Cruz. This article asks, if we were to teach anti-bullying skills, what skills might they be? And what do we do with kids who hurt other kids?
SAFETY IN NUMBERS
Psychology Today (psychologytoday. com/intl/basics/bullying#how-to-handlea-bully) says that studies show that the most effective way to stop a bully is to engage bystanders, because bystanders reward bullies with attention. Teaching all children that they have an important role to play in stopping bullying is essential. A bully may try to retaliate against one
person who speaks up but is not likely to target several. If a victim sees that classmates aren’t indifferent to what is going on, they’ll be less likely to get locked into a victim mentality.
SO, HIT BACK? RUN? WHAT?
Psychology Today suggests that the best defense against bullying is being socially skilled, teaching all children social skills and allowing them to develop confidence in their own abilities. “As social engineers for young children, parents are especially important in bully-proofing their children: They can regularly inquire about social challenges their children face and role-play possible solutions.”
Sometimes I do wish I could kick-ass with Kung-Fu, but I find that Tongue-Fu is better. The ultimate trick is to not let it bother you, and then you are in a more powerful position.
Just recently, someone tried to bully me at a writer’s meeting. They attacked me for being an “out-of-date greyhair”. At first, I felt stung, cowed, as everyone watched me to see if the thrust landed. I reframed it.
“Wow, thanks for noticing my hair! Yeah, I went to my beautician and said, ‘Make it grey!’ It’s a whole new look for me, looking more experienced.” It took the air out of their bullying trial balloon.
Dr. Liz Laugeson, from the Department of Psychiatry at UCLA, says that it is how you react to it that determines how severely you are bullied. Laugeson says the ignoring it, walking away or telling an adult does not work for the victim. “What resilient kids, what kids who are socially accepted do in these situation is to act like what the person said didn’t bother them, and in fact was kind of lame.” Laugeson suggests giving a short come back like, “Whatever”, or “Yeah? And your point is?” Or, “Is that supposed to be funny?” “They give the impression that it does not bother them. That is not the reaction that the bully is trying to get. They’re trying to get us
upset, they’re trying to get us mad. But if they don’t get that, they don’t get what they want, it is less likely they’ll bully in the future.”
Resilience Educator Brooks Gibbs says, “How does a kid learn to be resilient in a difficult situation? Covering and taking over help for a kid robs the kid of resolving his problem. But what if one can be resilient? Decide to not get upset? To have tough skin. Bullying is an imbalance of power. They want to have power over you, they want to see you lose and they want to win. The angrier you get the more they like it. Stand your ground by not letting the bully upset you.”
“I hate your guts.” “I don’t care.”
“You smell like BO.” “Thanks for the tip.”
Gibbs says, “Bullying is a game about winning and losing, and by not getting upset, the bully will lose. When people lose, they don’t like playing the game, so they’ll leave you alone. No matter what they say, figure out a way to not get upset.”
“DAD, I’M BEING BULLIED AT SCHOOL.”
Forty years ago, powerhouse comedian Michael Pritchard dropped his show biz career to go full time into counseling at risk youth for bullying. “I was a medic in the military early on at 17 and I’ve been taken care of wounded since 1967. You cannot address a wound until you do it emotionally and spiritually and then you can do it physically and they will get better.”
Pritchard says that when your child tells you they are being the victim of bullying, tell them:
Don’t volunteer to be a victim. Bullies often choose people who show vulnerabilities or seem easy to manipulate. These vulnerabilities could manifest in various forms, such as insecurity or low self-esteem. Those who show any signs of emotional weakness or uncertainty about themselves may become a target.
What’s it going to be? Whine or shine?
Bitter or better? Complain or gain? These are internal choices, you have to stand up for yourself.
Tell them to learn to stand up for yourself, defend yourself, protect yourself. But also, be that detective for your child that says, “Hey, if you’re being bullied, you need to talk about it. If you hold it all in, you’ll implode. You’ll be raging at home or at school. And kids are so wise about this. If you see your kid coming home every day and they’re taking everything out on your loving heart, your kindness and compassion, the alarm bells should go off.
Get them to express themselves with art, get them to write stuff about bullying, write a letter about what they think about bullying.
The advice to get your kid to “express themselves” to deal with horrific emotional attacks might make our eyes roll, but it actually does work.
You should get to know me. You should try to get to understand me because chances are ever increasing that you’re going to have a kid like me one day, and then what will you do?” Pritchard says as hard as some of these kids were, there was not a dry eye in the room. “Some of these kids are crying with bullets instead of tears.”
Expressing the rage and fear seems to be crucial. Pritchard quotes Macbeth, “Always give sorrow words. Grief that does not speak, whispers to the heart and bids it break.” Pritchard tells his kids that all tears that do not flow will make other organs weep inside of us. “I tell them, do not engage the rage turn the page. Bullies hurt each other as much as they get hurt. It’s very powerful to let your kid know, ‘Don’t choose to go down that path.’ Choose not to be a bully. There will be bullying, but you have to rise above it, with a defined sense of purpose in your life. Who do you want to be? A bully? A victim? Don’t become what would get in your way.”
POSITIVE DISCIPLINE PARENTING Democracy Begins At Home
BY SARAH NOFI AND STEVEN WEISS
IN SOLIDARITY, COMPASSION AND ACTION
We’d like to acknowledge that many of us feel scared, angry, overwhelmed, and powerless in the wake of political decisions that threaten people, institutions, and our democracy. While no easy solution exists, it may be helpful to remember to “think globally; act locally” and to “be the change that you wish to see in the world.”
Along those lines, also remember that Positive Discipline isn’t just a parenting methodology; it’s a global organization practiced in more than 90 countries worldwide, and it’s a social change organization strengthening democracy through the development of respectful relationships.
THE PARENTING STYLES WE INHERITED
Parents are their children’s first teachers, and the parenting styles that parents practice play a vital role in determining if and how children come to understand, value, and practice democracy and respect. As such, while identifying and analyzing the parenting styles we currently use, it’s worth considering whether or not our they mirror or oppose those of our own parents and why that is.
THREE DISTINCT PARENTING STYLES
There are generally three main parenting styles: authoritarian, permissive, and authoritative (the authoritative style being the primary focus of this article).
Authoritarian parenting is heavily driven by parents’ fear that in the absence of strictness, punishment, and excessive parental control, their children are going to misbehave, be disrespectful, and lack a sense of discipline. One of the effects this has on children is that they are afraid to try new things lest they be punished for the mistakes they make. This approach can leave children feeling fearful and angry and lead to low selfesteem, rebellion, and distrust.
Permissive parenting is heavily driven by parents’ fear that if they establish, uphold boundaries, and assign responsibilities, their children will be mad at them. One of the results is that children don’t develop their skills because everything is done for them. This approach can leave children experiencing a sense of entitlement and a belief that adults are there to appease rather than guide and protect them.
Adults sometimes swing back and forth between authoritarian and permissive parenting styles, which sends children mixed messages about what is or isn’t expected of them. Further, when the parenting style that one parent uses isn’t in alignment with that of the other parent, children may start exhibiting manipulative behavior. Ultimately, both the authoritarian and permissive approaches
can leave children feeling confused, conflicted, unsafe, and unskillful.
AUTHORITATIVE PARENTING
Authoritative parenting is democratic in nature and is often described as the “sweet spot” between the authoritarian and permissive extremes.
Authoritative parents set clear expectations and enforce limits, but they do so both with empathy and an understanding of children’s points of view. They believe in teaching rather than punishing, and they include their children in decision-making, allowing them to experience both freedom and responsibility.
Authoritative parents go into situations asking questions first rather than yelling orders. Something that you might hear them asking is, “What happened?” or “What’s your plan for getting your work done?” Or they may simply say, “Let’s figure this out together.” This approach doesn’t rely on external control (like threats or bribes) but rather focuses on internal motivation and mutual respect. Also, mistakes aren’t viewed as failures that warrant blame, shame, and punishment—rather as opportunities to learn and grow.
Children raised in authoritative households tend to be more selfdisciplined, independent thinkers, better at emotional regulation, socially responsible, and cooperative. These children feel seen and respected, which nurtures secure attachment and creates trust in the parent-child relationship.
POSITIVE DISCIPLINE IS AUTHORITATIVE
Authoritative parenting embodies respect, clear boundaries, and warmth, which are some of the key components
Respectful Communication: Rules (and the logical reasons behind them) are clear, and the child’s feelings and preferences are taken into consideration.
Empathy and Connection: Validating feelings creates emotional safety, the foundation for healthy attachment.
Respect for Children’s Autonomy: Allowing age-appropriate choices and problem-solving builds children’s skills, resilience, sense of capability, and sense of responsibility.
Age-Appropriate Limitations: Limit-setting is driven by safety concerns and is commensurate with children’s developmental stages and abilities.
Natural Consequences: Instead of arbitrary punishments, consequences that are reasonable, related, and respectful help children learn in safe and sensible ways.
Modeling: This is the primary and most powerful way that children learn as they observe and often emulate their parents’ behaviors.
Encouragement Over Praise: Focusing on effort and improvement fosters a growth mindset and promotes children’s intrinsic motivation.
of Positive Discipline. It emphasizes kindness and firmness at the same time, belonging and significance, mutual respect, and long-term life skills (not short-term obedience). This approach teaches children how to think rather than what to think. It also encourages cooperative problem-solving, resilience, and emotional intelligence—traits that allow children to grow into confident, capable, and compassionate adults.
PRACTICAL AUTHORITATIVE TOOLS: We encourage you to try using the following authoritative parenting tools: Consistency with Flexibility: Children thrive on structure but also need time and space to adapt, make mistakes, and grow.
IN CONCLUSION
Once again, our parenting styles are deeply rooted in our childhoods. Changing them and remaining consistent with them isn’t easy, and we all make mistakes. What’s most important to know is that even though our children are inheriting a challenging world, if we are able to parent and teach in ways that model respectful, democratic, and healthy relationships, we are actively changing the world one relationship— one child—at a time.
Sarah Nofi and Steven Weiss are Certified Positive Discipline Parent Educators.
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FRI 2
First Fridays Santa Cruz 5-8pm On the first Friday evening of every month, Santa Cruz galleries, shops, and cultural venues open their doors to showcase the works of Santa Cruz County artists. With a block party-like vibe, the multi-venue event provides an opportunity to discover local creative talent in a fun and festive setting. firstfridaysantacruz.com/event
First Friday Boulder Creek Spring Carnival 5-8pm Enjoy a free monthly mountain street fair in the name of creation and community. There will be local art, music and food lining the sidewalks of downtown Boulder Creek. firstfridaybouldercreek.org
Micro May 11am-8pm Get to know Santa Cruz’s wild side at the Museum of Natural History. Nerd out on your night out during monthly after-hours events, featuring rotating themes, vendors, and activities. Free admission to the Museum all day. There will be special events throughout Micro May to magnify your curiosity with naturalists who specialize in the science of small. santacruzmuseum.org/5-2-micromay-first-friday
SAT 3
Arboretum Tour 11am-12:30pm The first Saturday of each month, the Arboretum offers a docent or staff-led tour of the Arboretum. Sometimes you will see New Zealand, South Africa, California, or Australia. Sometimes you might see combinations of several gardens, the developing World Conifer Collection, or Rare Fruit Garden. arboretum.ucsc.edu/ index.html
Acton Academy’s Santa Cruz Spring Craft Fair 12-3pm Shop handmade crafts, treats, and creative goods made by young
entrepreneurs—perfect for all the mothers in your life. Support our learners, find unique gifts, and celebrate spring with friends and family at Action Academy in Aptos. actonsantacruz.org
Kids Day Downtown Exhibitors will be lined up on Cooper Street and Pacific Ave (between Church St. & Locust St.), along with performances and demonstrations at Abbott Square. Plus, many Downtown businesses will be offering discounts and specials just for kids. Stop by the Growing Up in Santa Cruz booth and say hello. Check out the map in the April issue. downtownsantacruz.com/events/kids-daymain.
SAT-SUN 3-4
Circus Comes to Town Orchard School presents its 8th annual children’s circus, featuring the entire 60-strong student body performing clown antics, juggling, acrobatics, unicycling, stilt walking, and circus spoofs. Shows are at 2pm May 3 and 4 at the Scotts Valley Cultural and Performing Arts Center. Tickets are $14 for adults, $7 for those under 12 and over 65, and free for children under 2. This year’s performance schedule also includes a free assembly show for students at Waldorf School in Santa Cruz. orchardschoolaptos. org.
TUES 6
Gateway Tour 9-11am Visit the school on one of the monthly Tuesday tours and see why Gateway was voted Best Elementary and Best Middle School in Santa Cruz. Hang with our kindergarteners on Kindy Island, see what’s growing in the Life Lab outdoor classroom, join the middle schoolers for a science experiment, and see first hand the unique benefits of a K - 8 education. gatewaysc.org
SAT 10
Second Saturday on the Farm 11am3pm The Agricultural History Project’s 2nd Saturday events are like taking a step back in time. Grab your cowboy hat and put on your boots and come and enjoy a fun-filled afternoon on the farm! In addition to Summer Fun special activities, you’ll be able to milk a “cow”, drive-a-tractor, and enjoy crafts, hayrides, puppet show, antique engines and museum exhibits. Bring your lunch and enjoy a picnic. aghistoryproject. org/2nd-saturday-on-the-farm
Swing Dancing 2-5:30pm You will find music, friends, and food while you improve your dancing digs. All levels, and various styles plus a social dance with great ambiance are welcome! Go Join the fun on the Second Saturday evening of each month at the Santa Cruz Wharf stage. cityofsantacruz.com/
She.is.beautiful Race 8am-6pm This race event is female-focused and welcomes all people. This is the perfect race to set a goal to work towards! Great place to make memories with your friends and family, or a solo gratitude moment. runsheisbeautiful. com/events/she-is-beautiful-santa-cruz/
Spring Arts Market 10am-5pm Shop local art and fresh flowers, dine with a variety of local food vendors, and enjoy live music and family-friendly activities. Discover everything from ceramics, jewelry, and paintings to candles, self-care products and clothing. tanneryartscenter. org/spring-art-market
Mother’s Day Market 10am-5pm Enjoy a fun afternoon in Feltoncelebrating all the moms with live crafts, build your own bouquet bar, raffle prizes, gift baskets, drinks, local vendors and more. This parking lot pop-up is the perfect chance to shop for a gift for mom. instagram.com/redwood_ranunculus
Mother’s Day Art Market 11am-4pm
Enjoy over 40 local Santa Cruz artists and free admission to the museum just in time to grab a gift for Mother’s Day! There will
be a wide array of goods, ranging from paintings and photography, jewelry, decor, and embroidery. santacruzmuseum.org/510-local-artist-market-free-museum-day/
SUN 11
Antiques Faire 8am-6pm The Santa Cruz Antique Faire is on the 2nd Sunday of every month. Vendors offer an eclectic blend of antiques and unique items, vintage clothing, collectibles and more. Visit the Antique Faire on Lincoln Street between Pacific and Cedar.
Artisan Faire noon-4pm Head to Abbott Square every second Sunday of the month for free live music while you browse handmade jewelry, soap, clothing, and much more! There is always something at these events that has your name on it! abbottsquaremarket.com/events
Castro Adobe Open House 10:303:30pm Learn about the contributions of the Indigenous people as skilled laborers for the Castros on Rancho San Andre. santacruzstateparks.as.me/ CastroAdobeOpenHouse
Mother’s Day Outdoor Market 10am6pm Show Mom you’re thinking of her. Head to Lighthouse Point on West Cliff Drive to find artisan goods, specialty food and music, and something for everyone. cityofsantacruz.com.
TUES 13
Concert Series 6-8pm Every Second Tuesday of the month, head to the Wharf for live music and games . SambaDá will perform this month. Get a stamp validation from any business on the Wharf on Tuesdays and receive two hours of free. cityofsantacruz.com
THURS 15
Sesnon Salons 3:45-5pm Check out the UC Santa Cruz Arts division at this salon-style gathering presenting the work
of UCSC’s Digital Arts and New Media Department. Free and open to the public with light refreshments as available. arts. ucsc.edu
FRI-SAT 16-17
Goat Hill Unique Antique and Artisan Fair Held at the Santa Cruz County Fairgrounds in Watsonville. With over 100 vendors, you can find gardens, rusty, French, farmhouses, industrial and more. goathillfair.com
SAT 17
VDubs in the Village 10am-3pm The first ever VDubs in the Village is open to the public for everyone to come spend the day in Capitola Village and check out some beautiful vintage Volkswagen cars. Enjoy the Capitola surf culture and live music with some vintage Volkswagens. vdublicious. com/village
Drone Light Show 7:30-8:30pm Celebrate the start of summer and watch the sky come to life with a spectacular drone show over Main Beach beachboardwalk. com/events
SAT-SUN 17-18
Art Tour 10am-3pm Enjoy art of all media and discover the abundance of artistic talent in the San Lorenzo Valley. Admission
to all studios is free. Studios will be open to the public from 11am to 5pm on both days. slvarttour.org
Santa Cruz Chorale The Chorale presents the mass in an innovative format by interspersing its parts (Kyrie, Gloria, etc.) with works by modern composers (Arvo Pärt, Randall Thompson, Charles V. Stanford)at Mission Plaza. May 17 from 8-9 pm and May 18 from 4-5 pm. santacruzchorale.org
SUN 18
Downtown Makers Market 10am-5pm
Visit the Downtown Santa Cruz Makers Market featuring 40+ local makers & artists every third Sunday of the month on the 1100 block of Pacific Ave. between Cathcart and Lincoln streets. scmmakersmarket.com
Pan-Tribal Powwow 11am-6pm This family friendly event is free and open to the public, including non-natives who wish to honor and show appreciation for the Uypi and Amah Mutsun tribes who first inherited the land in Santa Cruz County. At Kaiser Permanente Arena. newsfromnativecalifornia.com/event/ucsanta-cruz-pow-wow-2025
Kuumbwa Jazz 50th Anniversary
Concert 1-6pm Kuumbwa, a Swahili word meaning “act of spontaneous creation,” is going back to their roots at the duck pond stage for their 50th anniversary. San At Lorenzo Park. kuumbwajazz.org.
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THUR 22
Touch a Truck 10am-5pm Climb aboard and explore a wide variety of vehicles up close! From heavy-duty trucks to specialized equipment, there’s something for everyone to discover. You can also watch skilled operators showcase their finesse in a roadeo skills competition. 307 Church Street Santa Cruz downtownsantacruz.com/do/ public-works-touch-a-truck-event
SAT 24
Felton Parade and Covered Bridge Festival 10am-4pm This family event features a traditional parade honoring those who have served our country in the military service. After the parade, the Covered Bridge Festival is held at Covered Bridge Park, featuring live music, and vendors who sell food, drinks, and specialty items. Booths are promoting local artists and organizations There will be jump houses, and festival games for the kids.1
MAY 31-JUNE 1
Redwood Mountain Faire 10am-4pm Dance the day away to live music with your friends and family while enjoying tasty locally made food, cold beer, cider and wine in an open field surrounded by redwoods in the Santa Cruz Mountains. Local legend Jesse Daniel returns home to headline at the faire. redwoodmountainfaire.com
SAT 31
VegFest 11am-6pm VegFest brings the local community together to celebrate and learn about a plant-based, cruelty-free, animal friendly, and environmentally-sustainable lifestyle with thousands of attendees. 100+ exhibitors. At Santa Cruz County Fairgrounds. vegfestsantacruz.org
MINDY ABRAHAM
Direct Primary Care Boosts Relationships, Cuts Costs
BY JOAN HAMMEL
Monthly subscription services have become commonplace in our lives, with everything from magazines and streaming services to clothing bundles, specialty flowers and pet care boxes. But a memberbased monthly service is now coming to an unexpected place: your Doctor’s office.
A relatively new model for family physicians called Direct Primary Care (DPC) is rapidly emerging. In this scenario, family physicians charge patients a monthly, quarterly or annual fee. According to the AAFP (American Association of Family Physicians), this fee covers all or most primary care services, including clinical and laboratory services, consultative services, care coordination, and comprehensive care management.
Dr. Jeannine Rodems is the practice lead at Santa Cruz Direct Primary Care. After getting her undergraduate degree at UC Santa Cruz, she went to medical school at UCLA. She had been in private practice in Los Angeles, but felt dissatisfied and unfulfilled with the “onerous demands” of insurance companies that resulted in less time talking to and working directly with patients and more time spent on paperwork and regulatory burdens. In
response, she founded Santa Cruz Direct Primary Care in 2016 and never looked back.
“Santa Cruz Direct Primary Care was founded to provide a simpler model of healthcare to deliver what matters most to patients – excellent care, personalized service, access when you need it, and affordability,” she says.
At Santa Cruz Direct, care is provided under a monthly fee, based on age. And here’s the twist: they don’t take insurance.
While that may sound counter-intuitive or even a bit scary, Dr. Rodems makes an important distinction which is “Health insurance is not health care. And besides,” she adds, “many people have enormous deductibles or are under-insured, which creates potentially high risk for big surprising bills if someone needs an Emergency Room visit,” for example.
In the Direct Primary Care model, the monthly costs are predictable. But the real advantage for patients can be summed up in one word: access.
In the insurance-based model, patients can find themselves waiting several weeks if not months for a basic appointment. And many times, that visit amounts to a terse 5-7 minute conversation with a Doctor who is looking less at the patient and more at
a tablet or computer because they need to capture insurance codes. They aren’t truly listening to or connecting with the patient to understand and resolve their issue. Even worse, that visit can often end with a referral to a specialist, and those appointments are even harder to come by -- which further delays patient care.
“We aren’t beholden to the insurance world, so we don’t have all the overhead,” Dr. Rodems says. “This keeps costs down. It also enables us as Doctors to get back to our roots…like ‘old-fashioned’ family physicans. We get to know you. There is trust and continuity. We can step back and really listen. We can coordinate care, manage complex conditions and advocate for our patients. The insurance-based, feefor-service model doesn’t support that.”
At Santa Cruz Direct Primary Care, appointments are set at 30 to 60-minute increments to ensure unhurried visits and adequate time to address patient concerns and medical decision-making. Email, texting, phone, and after-hours access to physicians is provided and included with the monthly fee. Collaboration with patients is prioritized and specialty care is possible due to the time the Doctors can dedicate to each person’s unique needs.
Direct Care proponents believe
that providing more time for detailed discussions with patients results in better long-term health, better treatment decisions, and better overall well-being for patients and their families. The Direct Care model also can provide a broader range of socio-economic groups with access to care at a lower cost than the insurance-based model.
A similar, but slightly different spin on the “monthly Doctor subscription” model is called “Concierge Care.” The main differences from Direct Primary Care (DPC), is that Concierge Care tends to cater to higher income populations and may continue to accept insurance and bill a patient’s insurance company for covered services. This creates higher overhead, which is why Concierge Care can be significantly more expensive than Direct Primary Care.
Dr. Rodems says that she has a variety of patients, but they all have one thing in common. “They have a deep desire to better connect with their Doctor,” she says. “They want someone they can trust. Some patients have complex medical management needs. They need access and advocacy. That’s precisely what we provide.”
For more information about Santa Cruz Direct Primary Care, visit santacruzdpc.com. For a nationwide map of Direct Primary Care providers, visit mapper. dpcfrontier.com.
Get Your Kids Vaccinated for Measles
SANTA CRUZ COUNTY HEALTH SERVICES
With the recent rise of measles cases nationally, Santa Cruz County joins Bay Area health officials in urging everyone to get the measles vaccination if they are not sure if they got it or if they did not have measles as a child, and to be aware of the signs and symptoms of measles after travel or exposure.
Measles is a highly contagious virus that can cause serious illness and death, and the safe and highly effective measles, mumps, and rubella (MMR) vaccine offers the best protection against the virus. Protect yourself by making sure each member of your family who is 12 months to 3 years old is vaccinated with one dose of MMR vaccine, and each person who is age 4 or older has gotten two doses of MMR vaccine.
Over 300 measles cases have been reported in the United States as of March 14, 2025. This includes a large outbreak among primarily unvaccinated children in Texas and nearby states. At this time, there have been two deaths. These were the first measles deaths in the United States since 2015.
There are five reported measles cases in California as of March 11, 2025. All five cases were separately reported after international travel, and there is no evidence they are connected to the outbreak in Texas.
“Measles is highly contagious, yet highly preventable through vaccination,” said Santa Cruz County Health Officer Dr. Lisa Hernandez. “The best way to protect yourself and your family against measles is by getting the MMR vaccine.”
HOW MEASLES SPREADS AND SYMPTOMS
Measles spreads easily through the air when an infected person breathes, talks, coughs, or sneezes. If an infected person coughs or sneezes, the virus can linger in indoor air for several hours. Symptoms include fever, cough, runny nose, and conjunctivitis (pink eye), followed 2-4 days later by a rash.
About one in five unvaccinated people in the United States who get measles are
hospitalized, and nearly one to three of every 1,000 children who become infected with measles will die from respiratory and neurologic complications, according to CDC. Measles presents the greatest risk to children under five years of age, adults over 20 years of age, those who are pregnant, and people with compromised immune systems.
MMR VACCINE
The safe and highly effective MMR vaccine is recommended for children aged 12-15 months, with a second dose administered between ages 4 and 6 years. Children can receive the second dose of MMR vaccine earlier than 4 through 6 years, as long as it is at least 28 days after the first dose. Infants 6-12 months of age can start vaccination early prior to international travel or travel to an outbreak area. Teenagers and adults with no evidence of immunity should be vaccinated right away. Your medical provider can order a simple blood test to check whether or not you are immune.
One dose of the MMR vaccine is 93 percent effective against measles, and two doses are 97 percent effective. Individuals born between 1957 and 1969 are likely to have received only one dose and should consider getting a second dose. The MMR vaccine protects you for life
and is widely available at provider offices, clinics, health systems and pharmacies.
MEASLES AND TRAVEL
Home to three major airports, the Bay Area is a hub for international travel and tourism, increasing the potential for exposure to this highly contagious virus. For individuals or families that plan to travel, anyone who is not vaccinated against measles is at increased risk of getting infected.
Plan early before international travel and check your destination and the CDC Global Measles Travel Health Notice for more travel health advice, including where measles outbreaks have been reported. Parents should consult with their child’s health care provider prior to travel. The CDC offers accelerated vaccination guidelines for children and adults who plan to travel internationally.
For questions about the MMR vaccine and immunization records, check with your health care provider and access your digital vaccine record.
Health Officers from the counties of Alameda, Contra Costa, Marin, Monterey, Napa, Santa Clara, Santa Cruz, San Benito, San Francisco, San Mateo, Solano, Sonoma, and the City of Berkeley encourage the public to take the above easy steps to protect themselves and others.
ASK YESENIA
Your Mental Health Matters
May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and it’s also a time when we celebrate our mothers, grandmas, aunties, and other mother figures. Motherhood is a transformative and profound journey — it changes you in such a deep way, and yet we often don’t acknowledge how hard that can be.
I’ve struggled with my own mental health throughout my life, and becoming a mother has brought its own set of ups and downs — moments of overwhelm, stress, anxiety, and exhaustion. And yet, motherhood has also been the source of some of the deepest love and joy I’ve ever known. I wouldn’t trade it for anything.
Motherhood has helped me fall in love with life in new ways — especially in the little moments with the family I’ve created. But let’s be real: it’s not always easy. And no one should have to go through it alone.
This monthly column provides tips for anyone raising children, based on the world-renowned Triple P – Positive Parenting Program, available to families in Santa Cruz County. If you have a question or idea for a future column, email me at triplep@first5scc.org.
Dear Yesenia, Lately, I’ve been feeling completely drained — like I’m constantly running on empty, just trying to keep up with
everything. Between work, school drop-offs, meals, laundry, and trying to be emotionally present for my kids, I don’t even recognize myself some days. I know I need support, but I don’t even know where to start or what kind of help I need. How do you ask for help when you’re used to being the one holding it all together? - Gracie
Dear Gracie, I’m sure many parents and caregivers are familiar with that feeling. As we juggle all the daily demands and endless to do lists, it’s so easy to forget about ourselves. But your mental health matters. You matter. Taking care of yourself is essential. You deserve support, rest, and moments to simply breathe. This is why “taking care of yourself” is one of the core principles of positive parenting in the Triple P program. It’s easier said than done, but here are some tips to try: Allow yourself to slow down. Practice saying “no” to extra commitments if you can. And don’t feel guilty about taking time to rest and watch TV, or doing something else that helps you relax. If you have young children who need supervision, ask your partner or another caregiver to watch them so you get a true, guilt-free break. If your kids are older and don’t need constant supervision, tell them you’re taking a mental wellness break. Talk about and agree on
safe, engaging activities they will do so that you can get a guilt-free, worry-free break. Recognize signs of stress. People feel and respond to stress in different ways. Stress is often felt as physical pain or discomfort, which can intensify mental and emotional distress, creating a cycle that is difficult to break. If you experience tense or stiff muscles, headaches, extreme emotions, difficulty sleeping, constant tiredness, problems concentrating, an upset stomach, or frequent illnesses or infections, those may be signs that your mind and body need a break. Try to notice these signs before you reach the point where you feel you can’t do anything. Practice relaxation techniques. When you notice signs of stress, take a few slow, deep breaths. Inhale slowly through your nose, pause, then let all the air out and do it again. Or tighten the muscles in one area of your body for 10 seconds, then relax the muscles to relieve the tension. Repeat with a different area of your body, noticing how the tension and relaxation feels each time. Other relaxation techniques include art, exercising, meditating, reading, listening to music, cooking, journaling, or being in nature. Find a technique that helps you feel calm and practice it every day.
Use affirmations or coping statements. Thoughts such as, “I can’t deal with this,” or “This will never change” might feel true, but negative thinking can increase stress, anxiety, helplessness, or hopelessness and become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Instead, try replacing negative thoughts with an affirmation or coping statement, such as: I’m doing the best I can. My mental wellbeing is a priority. Just breathe. I can only do so much. Tomorrow is a new day.
Final Thoughts: Find self-care techniques that work for you and turn them into daily habits. Remember that taking care of yourself isn’t selfish, a weakness, or a waste of time. Nurturing your mental health will reduce the stress of parenting (and everyday life) and provide a healthy model for your children, who are developing their own tools for coping with stress.
Yesenia Gomez-Carrillo is the mother of a 3-year-old daughter and the Triple P Program Manager for First 5 Santa Cruz County. Scientifically proven, Triple P is made available locally by First 5, the Santa Cruz County Health Services Agency, and the Santa Cruz County Human Services Department. To find a Triple P parenting class or practitioner, visit triplep.first5scc.org, facebook.com/ triplepscc, or contact First 5 Santa Cruz County at 465-2217 or triplep@first5scc.org.
New CEO Brings Global Experience to Local Housing Efforts COMMUNITY IMPACT
Catherine Stihler’s leadership journey spans the globe, with a proven track record of driving success in two major nonprofits— the Open Knowledge Foundation and Creative Commons. Her strategic vision, financial acumen, and commitment to innovation have propelled both organizations to new heights.
With two decades of experience shaping European policy and navigating the complex intersection of regulation and progress, Stihler’s expertise uniquely positions her to lead and inspire. Now, as the new CEO of Habitat for Humanity Monterey Bay, she is poised to channel her wealth of experience into creating lasting change and building stronger communities across the region.
Today, Stihler is excited about making a difference in her new local community as the CEO for Habitat for Humanity Monterey Bay. The mission of Habitat for Humanity Monterey Bay is to build decent, affordable homes and provide homeownership opportunities to qualified families who live and work in Santa Cruz and Monterey Counties. Habitat for Humanity Monterey Bay is a community-based organization striving to make a positive impact for as many people as possible.
“There is more to our program than just providing affordable homeownership for low and very low-income families,” Stihler said. “Our partner families attend workshops on budgeting and financial management, gaining skills and knowledge that help them establish a foundation for economic stability and create a brighter future for their children.”
Habitat for Humanity works in more than 70 countries and has helped more than 62 million people improve their living conditions since 1976.
Habitat works together with families, local communities, volunteers and partners from around the world so that more people are able to live in affordable and safe homes. Their advocacy efforts focus on policy
reform to remove systemic barriers preventing low-income and historically underserved families from accessing adequate, affordable shelter.
Recently, Stihler joined forces with sister Habitat affiliates in Sacramento, CA for a powerful housing advocacy effort. More than 80 Habitat experts, including CEOs, team members, homeowners, and board members from 33 affiliates across 42 California counties, gathered to champion the cause of affordable homeownership.
The topic of discussion: the housing crisis in California continues to worsen. The average age for first-time homebuyers in California is now 49, compared to the U.S. average of 35 and sadly, only 18% of California households can afford to purchase a home. The projected median home price for Californians in 2025 is $909,400. When coupled with rising costs for taxes, mortgage insurance, and wildfire insurance, affordable homeownership is becoming increasingly unattainable for many residents of California.
To help combat rising costs and housing insecurities, Habitat for Humanity Monterey Bay partners with qualifying homeowners who build and buy their own homes at an affordable price. The goals are to create stability and financial independence, improve health and well-being, and begin to build generational wealth.
“Everyday, we see families that can’t afford a safe, stable home,” Stihler said.
“Raising our voices is just as important as swinging our hammers when it comes to addressing the affordable housing crisis, and we look forward to working alongside lawmakers to ensure more people have a place to call home. In Monterey and Santa Cruz counties, the lack of affordable homes isn’t just a statistic, it’s a daily reality for families.”
Stihler further emphasizes, “The rising housing costs in Monterey and Santa Cruz Counties are deeply affecting individuals and families. Habitat for Humanity Monterey Bay
remains unwavering in its commitment to providing accessible, safe shelter for everyone in our community.”
Habitat For Humanity could not make such an impact on communities without the help and support of volunteers. The volunteers come from a wide range of backgrounds with a variety of skills.
Anyone can come and put decades of knowledge to work building affordable housing or come in with no experience and learn how to construct a home from the ground up.
Each home that is built helps keep the Monterey Bay region a place where
working class people can continue to raise their families. Together, volunteers and families have built 65 homes supporting 77 families, with further plans extending through the foreseeable future.
Stihler concludes, “At Habitat for Humanity, we build because we believe every person, everywhere, deserves a healthy, affordable place to call home. When a family is part of building or improving their home, they’re not just transforming their own future—they’re strengthening the entire community and creating a better life for everyone.”
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Catherine Stihler
HOME SAFETY
Home Owners Don’t Have to Sacrifice Aesthetics to be Safe
BY SUSAN TATSUI-D’ARCY
For the past five years, Central Fire has actively engaged with Firewise communities to educate homeowners about defensible space, evacuation routes, road clearances, and communication via MURS radios. They’ve visited homes, walked properties, investigated egress routes, recommended address, street, and fire truck signs, and identified problem areas in Zone 0 (0-5 feet), Zone 1 (5-30 feet), and Zone 2 (30-100 feet). As a Firewise leader, I’m grateful for their guidance, which has provided invaluable tips on protecting our homes from wildfires.
Now, Central Fire is stepping up its efforts. With the increasing devastation caused by wildfires across California, CalFire has mandated that fire departments enforce Zone 0 regulations. This means that Central Fire—and all fire departments across California—will no longer overlook combustible materials within five feet of homes. Instead, they will conduct unannounced inspections and issue citations for noncompliance. This is a significant step forward in ensuring fire safety for our communities.
CREATIVE FIREPROOFING SOLUTIONS FOR ZONE 0
Retrofitting your home for wildfire resistance doesn’t have to mean sacrificing aesthetics. There are innovative ways to eliminate combustibles while maintaining visual appeal:
Replace hedges with decorative tile or stone walls for an elegant and fire-safe boundary.
Cover wooden planters with tile or stone to maintain a lush garden without fire risk.
Use fire-resistant potted plants, such as succulents, arranged creatively to enhance curb appeal.
Repurpose tile and marble samples from local stores to create non-combustible, artistic garden features.
KEY STEPS FOR RETROFITTING YOUR HOME’S EXTERIOR
1. Ember-Resistant Zone (0-5 Feet from Home)
Remove all combustible materials such as mulch, dried leaves, firewood, and wooden furniture.
Replace flammable landscaping (juniper, pine, bamboo) with fire-resistant plants like succulents or rock gardens.
Install non-combustible hardscaping (concrete, gravel, stone walkways).
Use metal or Class A fire-rated roofing materials instead of wood shake shingles.
2. Fire-Resistant Siding and Walls
Replace wooden or vinyl siding with noncombustible materials like fiber cement, stucco, or metal.
Seal gaps and cracks in siding and foundations with fire-resistant caulking to prevent ember intrusion.
Install fireproof skirting around raised foundations and decks to prevent embers from accumulating underneath.
3. Defensible Space (5-100 Feet from Home)
Maintain defensible space by clearing dry vegetation and trimming overhanging tree branches at least 10 feet from roofs.
Store firewood and propane tanks at least 30 feet from structures.
Space trees at least 10 feet apart and keep grass mowed to less than 4 inches.
4. Fire-Resistant Windows and Doors
Upgrade to tempered glass windows, which are more resistant to heat and flames.
Install metal mesh screens (1/16-inch to 1/8inch) on vents to prevent embers from entering attics and crawl spaces.
Use non-combustible or fire-rated doors, such as those made from metal or solid-core wood.
5. Roofing and Gutter Protection
Opt for a Class A fire-rated roof (asphalt shingles, metal, clay, or concrete tiles).
Install metal drip edges to protect exposed roof sheathing.
Use gutter guards or keep gutters clean to prevent dry debris from catching embers.
6. Fire-Resistant Decking and Fencing
Replace wooden decks with fire-rated composite materials or metal.
Use metal fencing near structures instead of wood, which can easily ignite.
7. Water Supply and Fire Tools
Ensure easy access to a water source, such as an outdoor hose with a high-pressure nozzle. Keep fire-resistant tools (rake, shovel, and metal buckets) on hand for emergency use.
FINAL THOUGHTS
Fire safety is no longer optional— compliance with California’s wildfire protection laws is now being actively enforced. Taking steps to eliminate combustible materials within five feet of your home and implementing fire-resistant upgrades will help protect your property, ensure regulatory compliance, and strengthen community resilience.
Thomas Farm Films is back in Summer 2025 with 4 weeks of filmmaking camps! Each week-long, fun-filled camp session will wrap production of a short film. The films will then be edited and scored
New Life for Mesa Village County Park
BY TARMO HANNULA
Community members in the Mesa Village area teamed up with Watsonville Wetlands Watch (WWW), Pitch-In Santa Cruz County and 4th District Supervisor Felipe Hernandez in April to add new life to Mesa Village County Park.
Around 40 people helped plant shade trees and native shrubs in a hedge row, including drought tolerant tipu trees and coastal live oak to promote native pollinators and to beautify the much-used park on Green Valley Road. The new trees and shrubs will provide additional shade for park users and habitat for birds and wildlife, said Brooke Sampson, Development and Communications Director for WWW.
“Shade trees also provide a variety of additional benefits to neighborhood residents, including cleaner air, carbon sequestration, improved water infiltration, and noise reduction,” Sampson said.
“I love this park,” said Heather Sampson. “I’m just two doors down and I’m happy to help make my neighborhood beautiful.”
The project is a part of the Watsonville Community Forest project, led by WWW and local sponsors and partners, who are working to plant thousands of trees to increase tree canopy
in Watsonville and surrounding schools, parks, and neighborhoods.
The event also included a mini fruit tree workshop and opportunity for Watsonville residents to adopt a free fruit tree of their choice.
Students received community service hours for volunteering.
The project is a part of the Watsonville Community Forest Project, led by Watsonville Wetlands Watch, local sponsors and partners, who aim to plant thousands of trees to increase tree canopy cover around Watsonville, surrounding schools, parks, and neighborhoods, while training a new generation of young adults in climate related careers.
For information about Watsonville Wetland Watch’s urban forestry and restoration efforts, visit watsonvillewetlandswatch.org and watsonvillecommunityforest.org.
3rd Annual VegFest Comes to the Santa Cruz County Fairgrounds
BY DNA
Santa Cruz VegFest is a local event celebrating plant-based, crueltyfree, animal friendly, as well as, an environmentally sustainable lifestyle. Now in its third year, Santa Cruz VegFest outgrew the Cocoanut Grove in 2024, and is currently located inside the sprawling Santa Cruz County Fairgrounds. There will be a gleaming fleet of food trucks, more than a hundred food and craft vendors, bands, speakers and comedians. Also, Santa Cruz VegFest is familyfriendly, and it’s 100% vegan.
VegFest is run by Little Hill Sanctuary, a non-profit “that seeks to create a more kind world through rescuing and protecting animals from cruelty, providing them with sanctuary and compassionate care, and combating speciesism through promoting veganism,” according to their website.
Co-director Helbard Alkhassadehwhen he’s not busy repairing the pens that Mabel, Petunia and Poppy, the Sanctuary’s all-star rescued (giant) pigs, destroy on the reg - is very upbeat about this year’s VegFest. “There’s the obligatory bounce house, face painting, and kids (under 12) get in for free,” Alkhassadeh says.
One of the vegan comedians performing is Danielle Arch, whose experience being a vegan mom, is transformative. “Being vegan has absolutely helped me as a mother,” says Arch. “I had a very healthy pregnancy, and my bloodwork results always impressed my doctor. I gained healthy weight and was able to successfully breastfeed my child when he was a baby. I’ve had plenty of energyminus the newborn days - and I love that I am able to raise my son this way. He is being raised vegan, and always impresses his pediatrician with his overall health with every check-up. We do get some folks who negatively judge or make incorrect assumptions, but he and I are proof that
everyone - adults and children - can not only survive with a vegan lifestyle, but we can thrive with it.”
VegFest really does offer something for everyone. For the adults there is vegan wine, beer and cider. One of Santa Cruz’ favorite bands, The Inciters, will be blowing minds with their throwback sound and mod attitude. And for the kids (you will love it as well), is a mariachi band of children musicians.
“I’d tell you the name of the band, but the manager is seven, and he doesn’t have an email,” Alkhassadeh laughs.
Speakers include Madeline Krasno, who spent years inside labs of pharmaceutical companies that tested products and vaccines on primates. Also speaking is Lauren Ornelas, whose organization Food Empowerment Project, and their fight for farm workers rights, getting healthy food into Black and brown communities, and alerting people to the use of slave child labor in chocolate factories, is heroic.
Any family, or any car, with three or more riders can park for free. This is VegFest’s way of offsetting the carbon footprint of the parking lot. Because every aspect of Santa Cruz VegFest is geared to help the message be as loud, tasty, and clear as possible. “We want people to understand that once you start treating animals and all species equally, it’s difficult to hate one another as humans, because you start bringing a larger perspective to the table,” says Alkhassadeh.
Santa Cruz Vegfest takes place on Saturday, May 31 from 11am - 6pm at the Santa Cruz County Fairgrounds, 2601 E Lake Ave, Watsonville. Tickets are $5 in advance and $10 at the door. Children under 12 are free. Parking is $10 unless you have three or more people in your car, then it’s free. Tix at vegfestsantacruz.org
YOUR HEALTH
Local Legend Honored in Wake of Mental Health Struggles
BY JAIME MCFADEN
Capitola homeowner and Greek Bay Area Legend, Sam Anagnostou — or as I knew him, Uncle Sammy, my uncle who felt more like a father and best friend, the one who taught me to surf — a true ray of sunshine.
He loved the ocean. He believed in the healing power of the waves and the warmth of the sand beneath your feet. And his theory of seagulls + eagles will live on eternally- reach out and I will gladly share it with you. As it is a reminder that we are all connected even if we are different.
If you ever met him, you’d remember his kindness, the jokes that made your cheeks hurt, and the way he made you feel seen, even if you were a stranger. His heart was always on his sleeve, and a bandana was around his hair to keep it smooth.
Sam was more than a beloved surfer and adventurer. He was a real estate powerhouse, a dedicated father, a loyal friend, and a beacon of light anywhere he’d go. He made life feel like a celebration.
But behind that bright smile, and what looked like a dream life to those looking in, Sam battled deeply with his mental health
the past few years.
On April 12, 2025, Sam lost that battle. His passing leaves a massive void — in our family, in our community, and in the lives of everyone lucky enough to know him. But more than anything, it left us with a clear and urgent message: Mental health matters. And it matters for everyone — mothers, fathers, children, neighbors, even the people who seem like they have it all together.
To honor his life and raise awareness, we will gather for a special Paddle Out in Sam’s memory in July 2025, at the Getty. Details will be shared soon — and everyone is welcome. If you’re reading this and you’re struggling — or someone you love is — please hear me when I say: You are not alone.
Sam was the kind of person who would become friends with EVERYONE he came in contact with, offer a genuine compliment in line at the grocery store, or drop a funny joke that would make your whole day. He gave so much light to others — but in his hardest moments, he truly struggled. And that’s why it’s so important that we talk about this. That we check in. That we show up. For ourselves and each other.
As Jim Carrey once said:
“Depression is your body saying, I don’t want to be this character anymore. It’s too much for me. You should think of the word depressed as DEEP rest — your body needs deep rest from the character you’ve been trying to play.”
This May, while we celebrate mothers and spring blooms and sunshine-filled days, let’s also hold space for real conversations around emotional wellness. Let’s remind each other that it’s okay to not be okay — and it’s more than okay to ask for help.
Here are three simple things I practice daily to support my mental health — I hope they help someone out there, too: Start with stillness. Whether it’s prayer, meditation, or simply sitting in gratitude — take a few minutes every morning to
breathe, listen, and center yourself. Even noticing the waves, birds, or breeze can rewire your brain toward calm.
Let go and let God. We are souls in human bodies, carrying heavy loads. It’s easy to keep piling on more — responsibilities, expectations, pressure. But there’s deep strength in surrender. Go to the ocean, close your eyes, and ask for guidance. Listen to the whispers.
Lead with love. Depression often makes people feel like a burden. But love — for yourself, for others, for this wild and beautiful life — is one of the greatest tools for healing. Love more, judge less. Choose connection over isolation.
Lastly, build your village. Support systems save lives. Reach out. Check in. Find your people. Be someone’s person. Mental health doesn’t fit neatly into a system. It’s layered, complex, and deeply human. But with awareness, compassion, and action, we can shift the stigma and create real change.
In the U.S., at least 1 in 5 adults experiences mental illness each year. And many more go undiagnosed or silently suffer. May is our reminder to do better — together.
Student Artwork on Display
BY TARMO HANNULA
Thanks to the efforts of the Pajaro Valley Arts and staff from the Pajaro Valley Unified School District, the four-story Civic Plaza Building in downtown Watsonville has been dressed up with an exhibit of original student artwork for the next year.
The project has become a Pajaro Valley tradition over the past several years to showcase art in the hallways and office spaces throughout the building, including around the City Council Chambers hallway, city offices, the library and the courtroom area.
“The feeling of this show is a celebration of all the artwork of the students, and the dedication of the teachers in our district who work with those students to produce amazing artwork,” said PVUSD curriculum coach Rhia Hurt.
The exhibit features more than 400 pieces of artwork, including photography, collage, watercolor, oil, pastels, drawings, acrylic and colored pencil.
“Part of the creative process also includes a full circle of making the art, getting critique, feedback, sharing with peers and finally exhibiting it for an audience,” Hurt said. “Students get all of that through this exhibit.”
Bradley Elementary School teacher Branan Freeman, who has been helping put
up the shows for the past seven years, said he enjoys the enthusiasm the students have for displaying their work.
“It’s really exhilarating to see all of the hard work that students put in,” she said. “There are first graders, second and third graders— on and on—that, when they come here and spot their artwork on display, they just have the biggest smiles on their faces. Their families are also here celebrating with them. The place that art serves in our society—a space to celebrate line and shape, color, variety, and texture—it’s a joyful space and we need more joy.”
A reception is slated for May 15 on all floors where the art is now being shown from 3-6pm. The public is invited.
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Artwork by students, grades K-12, are presented in the year-long exhibit. Photo by Tarmo Hannula
FASHION FORWARD
Fashionistas Are Among Us
BY MALIA FORT
Santa Cruz is known for many things and fashion debatably might be one of them. Throughout Santa Cruz there are many people in our town with unique and creative styles. No matter where you live in Santa Cruz you can depend on finding someone somewhere wearing eccentric clothing. If you are looking for advice, inspiration, or just appreciate clothing, here are some outgoing individuals. Numerous people in our town are so creative and full of pressing boundaries. I really appreciate knowing that our town has a great job at pushing for individuality. I enjoyed seeing how most of the clothes in these outfits were thrifted or upcycled in some way. Instead of conforming to current trends, these people put a lot of work into how they expressed themselves and it shows. It is beautiful to be different.
Giaviani and Cecillia
This first duo are both mostly wearing upcycled clothing. Giaviani is on the right. He is wearing black thrifted Levi’s. With a thrifted denim jacket, covered in assorted curated buttons, and patches that he made. He screenprinted an image of his cat on a patch and sewed it to the back of the jacket. The shirt was from Uniqlo and the pocket chain is made by Coach. His shoes were so unique, they looked futuristic with the wavy light rubber sole and a dark leatherlike shoe that had two tongues covering the laces. He recommends when choosing to pick out an outfit, figure out what colors suit you and look good on you. If there is a color you like that does not look good on you, he recommends you wear that color as more of an accent. Cecilia is on the left of the picture. Her black denim jacket is from Uniqlo. Her shirt is from a pokemon event. She is wearing thrifted black jeans, held up by a black colored Off-White belt. She is also wearing Dr. Martens and a side bag that is full of curated pins collected from all over. Some piece of advice Cecilia would give to those picking out an outfit, is to find out what you like and embrace it. She recommends not conforming to others but embracing your personal style.
Tani
This is Tani, they are 22 years old and go to UCSC. This outfit stood out to me because of the quirky hat that had a vibrant color combo. This hat was from their little sister. I really enjoy how the yarn flows from corners of the hat to create more shape and fluidity along with the plush stars hanging from the hats straps that create great dimensions. Their hoodie is from their friend that they bought off Etsy which includes a screen printed design of a bat. The bottoms they thrifted are dark grey baggy pants with cargo pockets and a zipper above the knee, capable of converting into cargo shorts. Their advice for picking out an outfit depends on the day. They personally choose to wear comfy and cool clothing. The only thing they decide to steer clear from is tank tops and prefer to choose more baggy clothing. I enjoyed this outfit because it is a somewhat subtle fit that stays feeling relaxing yet individual.
Isis and Flora
This duo both stood out from a mile away. Isis is on the left and Flora is on the right. They both are travelers and so most of their clothes are from all over the country. Isis on the right is wearing a durag she got from CVS. Everything else she is wearing is thrifted from Buffalo or New York. She is wearing a plain black tank top with a huge green corduroy blazer with many symbols in a variety of colors spray painted all over the blazer. They are also wearing a flowy patchwork skirt that contains animal prints and other shades of brown and black. Lastly she is wearing platform uggs that are also thrifted. This outfit really stood out to me because they did a great job of seamlessly pairing a variety of colors together without overdoing it. I also have never seen a baggy blazer and a long baggy skirt pair so seamlessly together. On the right Flora is wearing a distinctive outfit. Even though the colors are monotone, the pieces they chose created a lot of contrast and somehow still vivid. They are wearing a remarkable button up jacket with lots of abstract silver stitching along the sides of the coat. Under the jacket is a fishnet/mesh long sleeve, layered with a T-shirt from Isis’s (on the left) King Isis tour T-shirt. Flora is also wearing a thrifted baggy pair of jeans that are also from Isis (on the left) and is wearing classic Dr. Martens boots. Some advice they both give when picking out an outfit is to never buy fast fashion, and always wear used clothing. They also agree on not buying an uncool piece of clothing just for the brand name. They both enjoy adding fishnets and Dr. Martens as a classic staple to any outfit. One thing Flora advises to steer clear off is skinny jeans.
AlanAlan is a 22 year old UCSC student. Hands down this is one of the best outfits I have ever stumbled upon. The amount of accessories and detail he is wearing is astonishing. He is wearing a dark blue jacket thrifted from the Soso market. Underneath he is dressed in a white button up from GU Japan and a black tie he stole from his dad. His jeans are also from the fashion district in Japan that are upcycled, being held up by a simple black belt from the brand Diesel. His shoes are Dr. Martens with a rare white stitching that originally was only made in Japan. He is also wearing two side bags, the tote being from Don Quijote, a store that is like our Target but located in Japan. The other side bag is from GU. He is wearing many rings collected from all over along with a silver bracelet and watch. He also has a diesel carabiner, holding many other key chains. When planning an outfit Alan tries to balance outfits between dressy and casual. He also recommends you mix textures if you are choosing to stick to one color. He also suggests wearing different shades of one color to add more dimension to your outfit. I loved his creative combination of comfy baggy pants mixed with a nice classy top and tie. His jeans have an unmatched style. The layers of the different denim shades and belt loops added along the ankle and upper thigh create such a remarkable style without overpowering the outfit. I heavily appreciate the thought put into this outfit and it shows.
