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BEEN THERE
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CREATE
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FEATURE
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HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE
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Overcoming the devilish difficulties of gift giving.
How one high school student graduated early and saved her sanity. A rainbow snowflake craft that’s easy for kids and parents.
Slam-dunking dads play on Syracuse’s newest pro team.
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DECEMBER 2018 | ISSUE NO. 200
GENIUSES AT WORK PUBLISHER/OWNER Bill Brod EDITOR IN CHIEF Reid Sullivan editorial@familytimes.biz MANAGING EDITOR Bill DeLapp
I have a confession. The holiday gift guide—award-winning music albums, toys and games for kids—has prompted me to add a couple of items to my own wish list.
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Take a look at the guide, starting on page 18, and see if you discover something you, too, might enjoy.
CIRCULATION DIRECTOR Tom Tartaro (ext. 134)
Neil Davis (who does not reveal what he wants for Christmas, by the way) also has a few words to say about buying presents—on page 6. But puzzling over what to get for your dearest people is not the only subject in this December magazine. Writer Tammy DiDomenico talked to four players with the Syracuse Stallions, men who have children and jobs, in addition to basketball, to focus on (page 14). And a young Central New Yorker writes about why and how she managed to graduate from high school a year early. According to her, any young person who starts planning early and works hard can do it, too (page 10). In addition, Family Times’ calendar is full of festive events. We hope you’ll sample some of what CNY has to offer families in December. Wishing you happy holidays!
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In the Present Moment
Overcoming the devilish difficulties of holiday shopping | BY NEIL DAVIS JR.
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ears ago, I bought a Christmas present for a coworker, a book I knew she would enjoy. Our friendship was loosely defined and I hadn’t considered how I might be overstepping the bounds of our relationship.
“Oh, I didn’t think to get you anything,” she said, tearing uneasily into the wrapping paper. The social protocol for unreciprocated gift-giving is vague, at best. “Well, it’s the thought that counts,” I said, hoping some levity might ease the awkward moment. It didn’t. We’ve all heard this expression about how the thought involved matters more than the gift itself. We’ve repeated it silently in our heads while opening novelty socks in front of the gift giver. We’ve said it out loud to comfort a friend lamenting the buckets of driveway sealer they found tied up in a bow. No one ever says “It’s the thought that counts” immediately after getting tickets to Europe or keys to a new Mercedes. Instead, the expression has become a consolation prize, not to mention a suggestion of some failure on the part of the gift giver. But does anyone ever stop to consider what it means? The “thought” put into a gift can be a responsibility fraught with meaning. If you’re like me, a single trip to the mall is enough to bring out the fruitcake in you. See, every gift conveys a sentiment. The ideal gift captures that sentiment without also sending an unintended message. Bath oil beads are luxurious but might be too intimate for your daughter’s gymnastics coach, possibly interpreted as “I question your hygiene.” And a furnace filter for your spouse might not be considered romantic, despite your solicitude about her dust allergies. Don’t even get me started on bathroom scales, wrinkle cream and spray-on hair. Generally, if you wouldn’t want to open it, assume that no one else would either. This same reasoning can be applied to gifts for children. If you give a drum set to someone’s child this Christmas, expect an ant farm in retaliation next year. Gift selection is a combination of science and art. You must extract what you know of the recipient’s likes and dislikes, calculate a price range based on your relationship, and then translate all that into a present that will elicit joy. You also have to find it, wrap it, and deliver it by Dec. 24. The deadline means that sometimes the gift will come from the heart, and sometimes it will come from a gas station. Suppose your aunt has four cats, a coffee addiction and a weakness for zombie movies. Somewhere out there is a mug displaying an undead cat meowing. The caption might read, “Do you have to kill zombie cats nine times?” That could be a well-spent $12. Or that mug might spend two decades gathering dust in the back of a cupboard. Christmas lore depicts shopping of the past as having been much simpler. The naughty and nice lists were divided between sugarplums and coal, with few options in between. Today, in a matter of seconds, you can Google, charge and FedEx everything from bikini-clad garden gnomes to personalized toilet paper. 6
I’m not suggesting that you should bestow either of those items. I’m just saying you could, which means that there are millions of potential ways for shopping to go wrong. (No pressure.) I’m only ever assured of a delighted reaction when I’m picking out something for my dog. There’s just one condition: Can it be chewed? Humans rarely come with such a precise criterion for gift satisfaction. Sure, we love opening gifts. But—almost as much—we love opening gift receipts. Small children make the process easier, and perhaps we can all learn from them. They are happy to write extensive lists, either because Santa requires it or because they have found one too many sweaters under the tree. Each year, my daughter details her wants on festive paper and then emails a copy to prospective shoppers. This was especially helpful in her early teen years, when her priorities matured without warning. The crossover from Legos to Lululemon was instant and unexpected. The adults in my family are also encouraged to remove the guesswork. The savvier of us elves appreciate the Amazon wish list, which allows anyone to store a gift registry online for others to browse. Purchased items disappear to eliminate duplicates. Some consider lists to be cheating, but they are intended to continued on page 8
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continued from page 6 help limit Christmas morning shock. Your sister might actually want rain boots and a bagel slicer, not the hamster you were considering. In fact, no one wants a surprise hamster. But everyone wants food! Edibles have been the standard backup plan ever since Hickory Farms became a seasonal favorite. Who doesn’t want their stocking stuffed with assorted meats and cheeses? We all have to eat, right?
Neil Davis works at Bristol-Myers Squibb and lives in Liverpool with his daughter, Sadie, age 16.
Remember, ’tis the season for holiday stress, so try not to get your tinsel in a tangle. The perfect gifts are out there somewhere, but finding them may take some effort. Unless you plan to put on a fake beard and let everyone sit on your lap, you are simply going to have to put some thought into this. And, well, it’s the thought that counts.
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Before you load up your cart with chocolate and liquor, however, consider that you might actually be giving someone the challenge of finishing all those treats before New Year’s Day when their resolutions kick in. Not every family will embrace a six-day cookie tin marathon the way mine does.
If all else fails, there are gift cards, the offering that says “I’m not sure what you wanted, but at least I know where you shop.” Or cash—it’s like a gift card to the world! Grandparents can get away with this, but the rest of us know that handing over a few bucks does not count as shopping, even if your ATM is in the mall.
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used to drink Dunkin’ Donuts coffee almost every morning on the way to high school. I haven’t drunk Dunkin’ Donuts in two months. That’s how dramatically my life has changed after graduating early from high school this year. I can barely recognize myself now. Not really—but a lot has happened in the past year. Graduating early from high school is when one gets the required number of credits to graduate in three years instead of four. I always knew it was possible because a friend of mine had done it and seemed very pleased with her choice. When she graduated, I wasn’t considering following in her footsteps. However, as I grew more and more disillusioned with my own school, I decided that getting out as quickly as possible was the best course of action. I’ve discovered few students are presented with this as an option in the early high school years. In my experience, the student and the parent or guardian have to ask the school to set up a plan for graduating early a year or more in advance. It makes sense to me that a school wouldn’t want to broadcast early graduation as an option: It has the potential to be a logistical nightmare for the administration. But I believe a student’s happiness and educational fulfillment should take precedence over the school administration’s convenience. Before getting into the specifics of what classes I took and when, I 10
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want to dispel the myth that a student has to be some kind of genius to graduate early. That’s simply untrue. Granted, it helps to be organized, have taken many credits in the past, and be willing to put in the work to leave in three years, but it is possible for every student. People still look at me like I’m a member of the high school intellectual elite when I mention how I graduated. But I am not. (The other day I forgot that 44 was higher than 39—it’s a long story.) I personally never found it remarkable to graduate when I wanted to instead of when I was supposed to. Yes, I did have to double up on some classes in my last year of school, especially. One way I made it manageable was deciding against taking AP (advanced placement) classes. The AP courses my school offered didn’t interest me, and I did not want to get stressed out about a subject that didn’t inspire passion. In fact, the class that worried me the most was gym. In my “jenior” year I had to take gym class every day, as opposed to every other day, in order to get state-required credits for physical education. Surprisingly, it actually ended up integrating well into my schedule and becoming a nice break in the middle of the day. I also used the option to challenge classes as well. To do this, a person studies the class material on her own and takes the Regents exam at the end of the year. If a student studying independently this way passes the exam, she gets credit for the course. I did this for my junior English credit and to complete the required foreign language
credit. I took five Regents exams that year. It felt like a lot during Regents week, but it was worth it once I got through that one stretch. The program that probably helped me the most in graduating early was OCM BOCES’ Career and Technical Education Media Marketing Communications, a two-year course of study that takes place at WCNY-TV in Syracuse. It usually starts in a student’s junior year and ends their senior year. Instead, I began when I was 15 in the fall of 2016, during my “sophomunior” year. Through this BOCES program, I was able to earn 12 college credits through Onondaga Community College, my high school-required science credit, and also take the necessary state health class as an independent study. More importantly, my WCNY experience kept me wanting to go to school at a time when I was very unhappy in the traditional school setting. Not only did I get to learn in a fun, relaxed environment with a group of friends from all around the area, I took several college English and media classes before many of my peers. The course covered everything from graphic design to public speaking, so I can now give a well-organized presentation about typography and my favorite fonts. Even if one does not consider that a major advantage, I would recommend looking into the WCNY CTE program if traditional schooling just isn’t working for you. Oh, and it’s free! If I had to pick one regret, it would be that I can’t
participate in our school’s production of Shrek The Musical. Other than that, I believe graduating early was the best decision I could have made for myself. I do miss seeing my friends every day in school, but they understand that this was the healthiest choice for my education and wellbeing. Plus, having an “extra” year has allowed me to take time off from school, so I still see my friends all the time! I felt more than ready to graduate when I did. I could not even imagine having to go back and complete another year of high school. With this gap year, I also gave myself time to be a teenager and craft an identity that isn’t related to high school. I work a full-time job I love, I’m reapplying to college with a clearer idea of what I want to study, and I have another year to hang out with my cats! No, I didn’t get the traditional senior year with all of its rituals, but that shortcoming is dwarfed by the tremendous freedom and peace of mind I have now. Initially, it was a little scary to picture how I would spend my time without being in either high school or college. Nevertheless, I soon discovered that there were a lot of things out there that could give me an enjoyable life—and I’m figuring it out! Today, I encourage others to pursue happiness in whatever direction that leads. For me, graduating early was the right choice. Annie Gorham is a 2018 high school graduate and Central New York resident.
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Rainbow Snowflakes A colorful craft even little ones can make | BY NATALIE DAVIS Assemble your materials—many of which you probably already have on hand— to make a craft that can be creative and fun for all ages. Embrace the learning and the mess! But also be prepared with plenty of paper towels (or rags) for drying your snowflakes and wiping away drips.
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While your coffee filters are drying, paint the wagon wheel pasta shapes white. We used acrylic paint and set them aside to dry.
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Once your coffee filters and pasta are completely dry, lay your snowflakes out. Take some time to decide how you want your snowflake designs to look before gluing them in place with white school glue.
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Dads Parents play on Syracuse’s newest pro team BY TAMMY DiDOMENICO
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hen the Syracuse Stallions kicked off their inaugural season Oct. 28 against Oneonta, it marked a new era for sports-hungry Central New Yorkers. But for the players on the city’s new American Basketball Association professional team it represented a return to competitive sports while living regular lives. Many of the key players competed on local youth and college teams, back when they didn’t have commitments to employers or families. For four men on the Stallions, those commitments include parenthood. Forwards Mickey Davis and Lloyd Parkmond, and guards Chris Gilkes and Kenton Chan-Man have six children among them. Family Times caught up with the Stallions dads this fall, to learn how they balance their time at their home court (at Manlius Pebble Hill School in DeWitt), away games, work, and staying connected with their kids. (Interviews have been edited and condensed.)
him to Central New York two years ago; daughter Karmaya turned 7 in November. (Chan-Man was injured in July; though he is still with the team, he was recently diagnosed with an ACL—anterior cruciate ligament—tear and will not be playing this season.) Tell me a little bit about how you started playing. Chan-Man: I originally started playing at 9. I just kept seeing my older brother, Perry, going out and playing. He was the person I really wanted to be like when I was growing up. When did you realize that basketball could have a positive influence on your life? Chan-Man: I was in the ninth grade. I wanted to make a name for myself, not feed off my older brother. I have a different style of game than he does. And to this day, I’m the brother with the better shot (laughs). By my senior year, I wanted to find a way to put myself through school. I didn’t want to bother my mom. I didn’t want to have to worry about loans. I had to get someone to see me and give me a scholarship to go to school. How did you connect with the Stallions? Chan-Man: Mike Sugo (Sugamosto, Stallions president) had a tournament and I played in it last year. I like him as a person and I guess he likes how I play basketball. He asked me to come to the tryouts. I thought about it and I was like, “It’s the first year. Let’s do something and put this team on the map. Who knows?” When I tried out, I figured I’d might as well take this opportunity and run with it. It works with my work schedule, so it’s a great opportunity.
There seems to be a real effort to get the Stallions involved in the community. How do you see that developing as time goes on? Chan-Man: I see it developing very well. Basically, I’m an outsider because I’m not from here. Meeting new faces and new people has been great for me, putting a smile on the kids’ faces just with a signature. And we have (former Syracuse University standout) Dajuan Coleman on our team as well. Everybody loves him. So, being around him and watching how the kids run up to him, it’s been great. Whenever I can go to any of the events, I go. It’s fun. And it helps because when they come out to the games, they’ll know who they are rooting for. You mentioned that your girlfriend also played basketball. Is your daughter interested? Chan-Man: She plays here and there, but she likes dancing and gymnastics better (laughs). I let her be who she is. I wasn’t forced to play basketball, so I’m not going to force it on her. If she wants to play, then Daddy and Mommy will be there to teach her a thing or two. Once you have support, you can do anything.
Everyone on the team comes from different backgrounds and situations. How has it been coming together? Chan-Man: It’s been a pleasure. We help each other out. We all have one thing in common, and that’s basketball. We all want to win.
Syracusan Kenton Chan-Man is a native of Brooklyn who averaged 17 points per game at Berkeley College and led that team to a USCAA National title in the 2014-2015 season. It was his young family that brought
All but one of the photos with this story were shot by Michael Davis at the Stallions’ Nov. 3 home game against the Elmira Eagles. (The photo above of Kenton Chan-Man was provided by the team.)
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What does your family—especially your daughter—think about you being able to continue playing? Chan-Man: She likes seeing me play. When Mike was first talking to me about the Stallions, my girlfriend was behind me. She said go for it. She played basketball as well. I’m having fun doing something that I love. How easy has it been to fit it into your schedule? Chan-Man: It works with my work schedule, but adding something always creates challenges. You know what you signed up for, and if you have your family behind you, that’s going to keep pushing you.
Like Chan-Man, forward Mickey Davis was drawn to basketball at a young age. The Syracuse native played in the city’s Youth Enrichment Outreach Program (YEOP) basketball league. By the time he got to Henninger High School, Davis was dreamcontinued on page 16 FAMILY TIMES DECEMBER 2018
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continued from page 15 ing of the NBA and planning on attending college. He transferred to Jamesville-DeWitt High School, then played for Morrisville State College for two years, averaging 17.5 points during the 2012 season. Davis led the Mustangs to a conference championship and their first-ever NCAA tournament bid. His college success led to a stint playing professionally in the Dominican Republic. Family ties brought Davis back to the Syracuse area, and with the Stallions, he says he now has the best of both worlds. What’s your earliest memory of playing basketball? Davis: I’ve been playing since I was 4. It was in YEOP, a youth league in Syracuse. The coach was Renny Dowdell, and he was like a father figure to me. Also, I would watch basketball with my dad and I would start mimicking (those players). My dad would tell me that I had the talent. What was your coach’s advice early on? Davis: He was telling me mainly to keep my head on straight. Like, “You can be one of the best if you keep pushing forward.” I just kept trying to believe that I could do something great. How did you transition a love for the game to a goal? Davis: At Henninger, the coaching staff basically told me that I could get to the NBA if I kept working at it. Once they told me that, I got it in my mind that I needed to take basketball a little more seriously. When I transferred to JD, Coach (Bob)
McKinney helped me perfect my shooting, gave me different tools as a versatile player. Was it difficult to leave your Henninger teammates behind? Davis: It was. But at the same time it was an opportunity to get a good education. It was a make-or-break for me. It was my call, and I chose JD. You became a dad during your time playing in college. Davis: Yes. I saw my older son on holidays and sometimes on weekends. My mom and my dad would bring him up for games. It was always good having him there, watching me play. But it was also hard because I didn’t see my son enough then. I have two sons now. Dominick is 8, and Giovanni is 3.
Is it difficult, juggling the Stallions with work and family? Davis: It’s been a little stressed, but that’s life. It’s all about timing and scheduling. It was shocking at first. Then I thought, “You know what? This is going to be fun.” These are guys I’ve grown up playing with from all over the county, and I’m playing with guys who know how to play the game. We’re playing professional, organized basketball, which I love. I’m kind of excited about that.
So your boys will be able to see you play with the Stallions. Davis: They will be able to come see me play all the time. It will be great seeing them in the crowd, cheering me on—wearing their little Stallions shirts (laughs). Giovanni is getting older and he is starting to come along in basketball. My 3-year-old is starting to learn how to dribble. It’s great that I’m going to be able to give my knowledge back to my sons, the way the game is supposed to be played. For how long did you play in the Dominican Republic? Davis: I was there for about a year. The structure of the league was very different from American basketball, but it was a great experience, and if I had a chance to get back over there, I would. But, being 29, you have to start looking for a full-time career. Like his Stallion teammates, Rome native Lloyd Parkmond racked up some hefty stats during his college days. A high-scoring playmaker at Onondaga Community College and SUNY Delhi, Parkmond was ready to put the idea of professional basketball in the rearview mirror when he connected with the Syracuse Stallions. Once back on a team, Parkmond says he realized that the game he loved still had an important place in his life. Parkmond’s 7-year-old daughter, Aviana, lives in Florida, but he says she understands the importance of this new opportunity. How old were you when you first started playing? Parkmond: I first started playing in fifth grade, for the Gansevoort Gators. Bruce Harris was my first coach. I’ve known him my whole life. We won the championship that year. I was young, so it definitely motivated me to keep getting better.
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There is a good mix of local notables on this team. How has that come together? Parkmond: It’s been great so far. A lot
of us from the Syracuse area know each other from high school basketball or various leagues around here, different tournaments. To build camaraderie, it helps that we all respect each other’s game. We all know that each other can play. We all know that each of us has essentially been “The Man” at some point in our careers.
Parkmond: I’ve been to a couple of events; we’ve interacted with a ton of kids. I’ve always had this knack of using my position to create happiness for kids. So, when we show up to a party or some event, it really does bring joy to them, which in turn brings joy to us.
Respect definitely goes a long way in forming camaraderie, especially since we’ve got a lot riding on this, our first season. I feel there are very high expectations because there is talent on this team that is unreal.
Is there anything that surprised you about this experience? Gilkes: The surprise is going to be us as a team. I don’t think people thought we were going to do so well. But I think we are going to surprise a lot of people with our talent, our chemistry, and our mindsets. We all bring a certain unique skill to the table and I can’t wait for people to see how we put it together.
Does she understand your love of basketball? Parkmond: Oh, she has been to so many games, and she always rolls her eyes when I try to change the channel to basketball on TV, and interrupt her cartoons or whatever. But she was up here when I found out that I had made the team. It was great for her to be here at that moment. She likes that I play basketball, but soccer is her thing.
Do you think Syracuse will get behind you guys and support this new team? Parkmond: I think there is going to be an incredible amount of local support. Everyone I’ve spoken to about this team is excited—even from outside of Syracuse. I know most of Rome will be there watching (laughs). Syracuse is a sports city. Everyone knows that. They support everything from the Syracuse Orange to the high schools. I hope the problem is that we don’t have enough seating. It’s not going to take long for the word to spread about this team. The Stallions, as an organization, seem committed to reaching out into the community. Do you see yourself getting involved with that?
Also, I found out that I was having a son in June before my senior year. That made me take it a bit more seriously—finding a college to accept me. I wanted to get a degree; I wanted to be able to provide for him. How does it feel to still be able to play at a high level with the Syracuse Stallions? Gilkes: It’s great. Honestly, I missed having a team; I missed being able to compete for something—something for real. Now, we’re representing Syracuse. Hopefully, we can bring more light to Syracuse, some love and more attention.
Your daughter lives in Florida. How do you maintain a good bond? Parkmond: It hasn’t always been that way. She lived up here at one point when I was in college. She comes up every summer and every Christmas. We schedule around her breaks from school.
Is the rest of your family looking forward to this season? Parkmond: They’re all super-excited. My mom (Betty Parkmond) was crying for days when I told her I made the team. I want to say a couple words about her because she has been instrumental to me being on this team. I wouldn’t have been able to play college basketball without her. None of this would have been possible without her. My grandfather, he is super-excited because he has always attended all of his grandchildren’s games. Nobody played after last season, but now he gets to go again.
year in high school. I realized I was good enough to play at least some type of college ball. Playing AAU (Amateur Athletic Union) made me realize I was OK. I saw that I could hold my own, and that if I stuck with it, I could play college ball.
Over four seasons at the State University of New York at Oswego, Chris Gilkes earned a reputation as a versatile player with impeccable commitment. He’s brought those qualities to his role with the Syracuse Stallions. Content in his role as a working dad of two sons—Chris Orlando III, 9, and Aiden, 7—Gilkes says he wasn’t really looking for serious competition when the Stallions came to town. But he has enjoyed the opportunity to keep playing basketball at a high level. And, when it comes to participating in promotional events with young fans, Gilkes is a natural. What was it about basketball that grabbed you early on? Gilkes: It’s peaceful for me, honestly. When I was younger, and going through some things, I’d just go to the basketball court and it was my home. No one can bug you on the court. Kobe (Bryant) was my favorite player and I’d just imagine playing full court games with Kobe. I’d keep score in my head and just play until I felt calm and happy. I just fell in love with the game through that. I’d build friendships as well. When did playing beyond high school become a goal for you? Gilkes: It was probably after my junior
Is it daunting to think about the expectations? Gilkes: Not really. I want to be able to represent Syracuse in a good way. I want people to be proud to come out to our games. We’re just focused on playing basketball, giving the fans a good show. Is there anything from basketball that you apply to other aspects of your life? Gilkes: Basketball is one of the most positive aspects of my life: the hard work, dedication, patience, and the determination. It’s been like my freedom from everything. It’s like music to my ears, my peace. That’s my home right there on the court, no matter what’s going on in my life. It’s a problem blocker. It’s taught me a lot and made me grow up a lot, introduced me to new people. Your older son plays now. Is it hard to just sit back and watch? Gilkes: You want them to do so well, but it’s just fun watching them. As long as he likes playing and is loving the game, I love watching him. It’s tough not to tell him stuff, but I don’t want to be a coach from the sideline. I wait until after the games (laughs). It’s a blessing to see my son play something I like. If he ever takes it seriously, that will touch my heart even more. Tammy DiDomenico is an award-winning writer who lives with her family in DeWitt. FAMILY TIMES DECEMBER 2018
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New York City in search of his human family. Syracuse Stage, 820 E. Genesee St., Syracuse. $25-$59 (plus fees). (315) 443-3275. syracusestage.org.
get photos taken with Santa. Fayetteville Free Library, 300 Orchard St., Fayetteville. Free. (315) 637-6374. fflib.org.
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SATURDAY, DEC. 1
Sleeping Beauty. 12:30 p.m. In the Magic Circle
through Dec. 9. (Open during museum hours: Saturday, 10 a.m.-5 p.m.; Sunday, noon-5 p.m.; Wednesday, noon-5 p.m.; Thursday, noon-8 p.m.; Dec. 9, noon-9 p.m.) See beautifully decorated trees, wreaths and other displays, donated by local individuals and organizations. Everson Museum of Art, 401 Harrison St., Syracuse. $8/person. (315) 474-6064. everson.org.
Eat a tasty meal including pancakes, sausage and a beverage, and get a chance to see Santa. Beaver Lake Nature Center, 8477 E. Mud Lake Road, Baldwinsville. $3-$5/person. Admission: $4/vehicle. (315) 638-2519.
Festival of Trees Opening Day. Noon-5 p.m.;
Kids Minecraft. 3:30-4:30 p.m.; also Dec. 14.
Kids in grades 3-5 can hang out and play on the library’s server. Salina Library, 100 Belmont St., Mattydale. Free. Registration required: (315) 4544524. salinalibrary.org.
Girls Who Code. 3:30 p.m. Girls age 10 and up
can learn about the library’s new computer science club at this information session. Onondaga Free Library, 4840 W. Seneca Turnpike, Syracuse. Free. Registration required: (315) 492-1727. oflibrary.org.
Manga Mania Book Club. 4 p.m. Young people ages 12-18 will read and discuss manga and have snacks. Hazard Branch Library, 1620 W. Genesee St., Syracuse. Free. (315) 435-5326. Syracuse City Ballet Nutcracker.
7 p.m.; also Dec. 1 & 2. Syracuse City Ballet artists and children perform the tale of a young girl who ventures into an enchanted world after saving a dashing prince. Mulroy Civic Center, 411 Montgomery St., Syracuse. $20-$75 (plus fees). (315) 435-2121. syracusecityballet.com.
A New Heart. 7 p.m. In this ballet, sub-
titled “A Christmas Tale of Forgiveness,” members of the Christian dance company perform. Believers’ Chapel, 7912 Thompson Road, Cicero. $15/door; free/age 5 & under. lightoftheworldballet.com.
Elf the Musical. 8 p.m.; through Jan. 6. In this
musical adaptation of the movie that starred Will Farrell, Buddy journeys from the North Pole to
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Holiday Pancake Breakfast. 9 a.m.-noon.
Plowshares Craftsfair and Peace Festival.
10 a.m.-5 p.m.; also Dec. 2. Dozens of crafters, as well as food and music. Nottingham High School, 3100 E. Genesee St., Syracuse. Admission: $2-$5/ adult; free/age 16 & younger or 65 & older. (315) 472-5478. peacecouncil.net/plowshares.
Paws to Read. 10:30-11:30 a.m.; also Dec. 15,
22 & 29. Kids can read to a friendly dog from Paws Inc. of CNY. Liverpool Public Library, 310 Tulip St., Liverpool. Free. (315) 457-0310. lpl.org.
Toddlers’ Tango. 10:30-11:30 a.m. Toddlers and
preschool-aged children, accompanied by an adult, can take part in this music and movement class. Salina Library, 100 Belmont St., Mattydale. Free. Registration required: (315) 454-4524.
Family Film. 11 a.m.-1 p.m. See A Muppet Christ-
mas Carol. Included with admission. Everson Museum of Art, 401 Harrison St., Syracuse. $8/person. (315) 474-6064. everson.org.
Pups ’n Pages. 11 a.m.-noon.; also Dec. 15. All ages can read to or just hang out with one of the Canine Caring Angels. NOPL Cicero, 8686 Knowledge Lane, Cicero. Free. (315) 699-2032. Rice Creek Story Hour. 11 a.m. Elementary-aged children, especially, will enjoy tales of animals’ wild ways and how humans relate to the natural world; all ages are welcome. Rice Creek Field Station, SUNY Oswego, Thompson Road, 1 mile south of Route 104, Oswego. Free. (315) 3126677. oswego.edu/rice-creek/. Musical Holiday Storytime and Santa Pictures. 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Children can hear holiday
stories, sing carols to live music, make crafts, and
Children’s Theatre presentation, children in the audience can help the very nearsighted Prince figure out why Sleeping Beauty falls asleep every time she hears her name. Spaghetti Warehouse, 689 N. Clinton St., Syracuse. $6. Reservations recommended: (315) 449-3823.
Syracuse City Ballet Nutcracker. 1 & 6 p.m.; also Dec. 2. See Nov. 30 listing.
Polar Express Pajama Party. 5-6 p.m.; also
Dec. 7, 8 & 15. Children can take part in interactive activities and visit with Santa Claus. Then they can see The Polar Express in the six-story IMAX theater (6 p.m.). Museum of Science and Technology (MOST), 500 S. Franklin St., Armory Square, Syracuse. $15/party and movie ticket. (315) 425-9068. most.org.
Harry Potter in Concert.
7:30 p.m.; also Dec. 2. See the movie Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets while Symphoria performs John Williams’ score. Landmark Theatre, 362 S. Salina St., Syracuse. $41-$71 (plus fees). ticketmaster.com.
SUNDAY, DEC. 2 HANUKKAH BEGINS Syracuse City Ballet Nutcracker. 10 a.m.
(sensory-friendly performance) & 2 p.m. See Nov. 30 listing.
Plowshares Craftsfair and Peace Festival. 11 a.m.-5 p.m. See Dec. 1 listing.
Fun with Liquid Nitrogen. Noon-12:30 p.m.; Sundays in December. A MOST science educator teaches about substance phase changes and how objects are affected by extreme cold. Museum of Science and Technology (MOST), 500 S. Franklin St., Armory Square, Syracuse. Free for student teams taking part in the competition. Admission: $12/adults; $10/ages 2-15. (315) 425-9068.
Teddy Bear Tea. 1-3 p.m. Refreshments, live
entertainment, art activities, and the Teddy Bear Parade. (An event of the Everson Museum of Art.) Grand Ballroom, Marriott Syracuse Downtown, 100 E. Onondaga St., Syracuse. $25 (includes Festival of Trees admission). Reservations required: everson.org/FOT18. (315) 474-6064.
Harry Potter in Concert. 1 p.m. See Dec. 1 listing.
Sharing the Gift of Song.
4 p.m. Members of Syracuse Children’s Chorus perform songs about the season of winter and winter holidays observed by different faiths and cultures. Most Holy Rosary Church, 111 Roberts St., Syracuse. $10/adults; $5/ages 5-16; free/under 5. (315) 478-0582. syracusechildrenschorus.org.
Voices of Faith Concert. 7 p.m. An evening of
carols, classical and seasonal music. Holy Family Church, 127 Chapel Drive, Camillus. Free will offering. (315) 488-3139.
MONDAY, DEC. 3 Gaming for Adults with Special Needs.
1:30-3 p.m. Adults with special needs can play Wii games and board games; caregivers must remain in the room. Liverpool Public Library, 310 Tulip St., Liverpool. Free. (315) 457-0310. lpl.org.
Sensory Friendly Films. 6-8 p.m. Sound will be turned low, lights will be left on, and patrons can talk, sing or dance during screenings of Shrek the Halls and Arthur Christmas. Liverpool Public Library, 310 Tulip St., Liverpool. Free. (315) 457-0310. lpl.org.
TUESDAY, DEC. 4 First Steps. 9:30-10 a.m.; also Dec. 11 & 18.
Children who are good walkers, up to age 3, can with a caregiver take part in a program with music, movement, crafts and more. Fayetteville Free Library, 300 Orchard St., Fayetteville. Free. (315) 637-6374. fflib.org.
Baby Storytime. 10:30-11 a.m.; also Dec. 11 &
18. Babies and caregivers can share rhymes, songs, stories and signs in this language-building program. Fayetteville Free Library, 300 Orchard St., Fayetteville. Free. (315) 637-6374. fflib.org.
WEDNESDAY, DEC. 5 Read, Sing, Play Storytime. 10:30-11 a.m.; also Dec. 12, 19 & 26. Share the love of books with children of all ages. Central Library, 447 S. Salina St., Syracuse. Free. (315) 435-1900. Early Learners Storytime. 11 a.m.-noon; also Dec. 12 & 19. Children ages 2-4, with an accompanying adult, can enjoy stories, interactive rhymes, songs and a craft. Salina Library, 100 Belmont St., Mattydale. Free. (315) 454-4524. salinalibrary.org. Merry Mischief. 6:30-7:30 p.m. Santa and Mrs.
Claus visit the library and lead a sing-along. NOPL Brewerton, 5440 Bennett St., Brewerton. Free. (315) 676-7484.
THURSDAY, DEC. 6 Teen Writer’s Guild. 4-5 p.m.; also Dec. 13 &
20. Join fellow teens to write in any of a variety of genres, receive feedback and get support. Fayetteville Free Library, 300 Orchard St., Fayetteville. Free. (315) 637-6374. ffl.org.
with a score by Vince Guaraldi. Redhouse Arts Center, 400 S. Salina St., Syracuse. $37 (including service fee). (315) 362-2785. theredhouse.org.
FRIDAY, DEC. 7 Junior Home School Nature Series. 10 a.m.-
noon. Homeschool students ages 5-10 can learn about how fish adapt to winter conditions. Montezuma Audubon Center, 2295 Route 89, Savannah. $8/class. Preregistration & payment required: (315) 365-3588. http://ny.audubon.org/montezuma.
Free to Be. 10:30-11:15 a.m. Children from
infants to age 6 can take part in this early childhood music and acting class with live guitar music, creating unique lyrics. Fayetteville Free Library, 300 Orchard St., Fayetteville. Free. (315) 637-6374. fflib. org.
Holiday Craft Buffet. 3:30-4:30 p.m. Kids ages 4-12 can drop in to make a variety of crafts. Salina Library, 100 Belmont St., Mattydale. Free. (315) 454-4524. salinalibrary.org.
Trees, meet Santa, engage in art making, and have a drink and cookies. Everson Museum of Art, 401 Harrison St., Syracuse. $12/adults; $10/children. (315) 474-6064. everson.org/FOT18.
Ukulele for Beginners. 1-2:30 p.m. Pat Doherty teaches a class for newcomers to the ukulele. Liverpool Public Library, 310 Tulip St., Liverpool. Free. (315) 457-0310. lpl.org. Caroling in the Woods. 7-8:30 p.m. Pick up a song sheet and take part in a Baltimore Woods tradition; bring treats to share with fellow carolers. Lanterns provided. Baltimore Woods Nature Center, 4007 Bishop Hill Road, Marcellus. Free. (315) 6731350. Registration requested: baltimorewoods.org. A Charlie Brown Christmas. 7 p.m.; through Dec. 16. See Dec. 6 listing.
Marie and the Nutcracker Prince. 6 & 8 p.m.
An interactive theatrical experience inspired by E.T.A. Hoffman’s original tale is set in Russia on the verge of revolution. Presented by Breadcrumbs Productions. Cayuga Museum of History & Art, 203 Genesee St., Auburn. $20. (413) 344-7997. breadcrumbsproductions.com.
also Dec. 22 & 23. An interactive theatrical experience inspired by E.T.A. Hoffman’s original tale is set in Russia on the verge of revolution. Presented by Breadcrumbs Productions. SALTspace, 104 Marcellus St., Syracuse. $15. (413) 344-7997. breadcrumbsproductions.com.
A Charlie Brown Christmas. 7 p.m.; through
SUNDAY, DEC. 9
SATURDAY, DEC. 8
Breakfast with Santa at the Zoo. 9-10 a.m. or 11 a.m.-noon; also Dec. 15, 16 & 23. See Dec. 8 listing.
Dec. 16. See Dec. 6 listing.
Holiday Craft. 9 a.m.-5 p.m. All ages of children can create a seasonal craft with provided materials. (Part of Holidays in the City programming.) Central Library, KidSpace (Level 2), 447 S. Salina St., Syracuse. Free. (315) 435-1900. Breakfast with Santa at the Zoo. 9-10 a.m. or 11 a.m.-noon; also Dec. 9, 15, 16 & 23. Enjoy a delicious breakfast while the kids share Christmas wishes with the jolly old elf, decorate cookies with Mrs. Claus and create a holiday craft. Rosamond Gifford Zoo at Burnet Park, 1 Conservation Place, Syracuse. Cost includes zoo admission: $18/general; free/age 2 & younger. Reservations required: (315) 435-8511, Ext. 113. rosamondgiffordzoo.org. Dasher’s Magical Gift. 11 a.m. In a lively narrated ballet for children, performed by students from Dance Centre North, a crisis arises in the days before Christmas when Santa’s fastest reindeer, Dasher, loses his ability to fly. Presented by CNY Arts. Mulroy Civic Center, 411 Montgomery St., Syracuse. $10-$19. (315) 299-5598. Rice Creek Rambles. 11 a.m.; also Dec. 15.
Explore trails, woods and wetlands with a naturalist on a family-friendly hike. Those under 17 must be accompanied by an adult. Rice Creek Field Station, SUNY Oswego, Thompson Road, 1 mile south of Route 104, Oswego. Free. Call day of to check trail conditions: (315) 312-6677. oswego.edu/rice-creek/.
Santa’s Satellite North. Noon-4 p.m.; also
Dec. 16. Children with special needs (including sensory issues among others) can visit with Santa in a peaceful, non-commercial setting. 9217 Caughdenoy Road, Brewerton. Call Elf Liz for a 15-minute appointment: (315) 264-0821; or email: satellitenorth@yahoo.com.
Meet Santa’s Reindeer. Noon-4 p.m.; also
Community Band, conducted by Ray Sturge, barbershop chorus Harmony Katz and The Katz Meow perform holiday music and songs. St. Daniel School gym, 3004 Court St., Syracuse. Free. (315) 432-1005.
A Charlie Brown Christmas. 7 p.m. (preview);
Polar Express Day. 12:30-2:30 p.m. Children of
through Dec. 16. A live show based on the television special by Bill Melendez and Lee Mendelson,
Sleeping Beauty. 12:30 p.m. See Dec. 1 listing. Santa Saturday. 1-4 p.m. Enjoy the Festival of
Marie and the Nutcracker Prince. 7:30 p.m.;
Dec. 9. Meet, pet and take photos with Comet and Prancer. Part of Holidays in the City; other events include free holiday trolley at stops downtown (Dec. 8, noon-4 p.m.; Dec. 9, noon-3 p.m.); live ice carving demos (Dec. 8 & 9, 1-2:30 p.m.); Santa visit at the Galleries of Syracuse (Dec. 8, noon-4 p.m.; Dec. 9, noon-3 p.m.; advance registration required). Hanover Square, Syracuse. Free. holidaysinsyr.com.
Christmas Concert. 6:30 p.m. The Lyncourt
Camillus. Free. Registration recommended: maxwellmemoriallibrary.org. (315) 672-3661.
all ages can make themed crafts, eat popcorn and more. Maxwell Memorial Library, 14 Genesee St.,
Christmas Cookie Cafe.
9:30 a.m.-noon. Create custom cookie trays from dozens of homemade varieties. Bring your own tray or buy a tray. Columbian Presbyterian Church, Routes 20 & 11, LaFayette. $10/pound. (315) 677-3293. columbianpresbyterianchurch.com.
Holidays with the Animals. 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Watch animals receive enrichment “gifts” that they can open and play with while demonstrating natural behaviors. Rosamond Gifford Zoo at Burnet Park, 1 Conservation Place, Syracuse. Admission: $8/adults; $5/senior citizens; $4/children; free/age 2 and younger. (315) 435-8511. rosamondgiffordzoo.org. Meet Santa’s Reindeer. Noon-3 p.m. See Dec. 8 listing.
Montessori School Open House. 2-4 p.m.
Parents and prospective students can learn about the Montessori school that serves children ages 3-12. Montessori School of Syracuse, 155 Waldorf Parkway, Syracuse. (315) 449-9033. mssyr.org.
A Charlie Brown Christmas. 2 p.m. (an ASL
interpretation performance); through Dec. 16. See Dec. 6 listing.
Voices of Faith Choir Concert. 3 p.m. Carols
and classical music with the Voices of Faith Choir and guest performers. A social gathering follows the concert. Basilica of the Sacred Heart, 927 Park Ave., Syracuse. Free will offering. (315) 422-2343.
MONDAY, DEC. 10
Minecraft Nights. 5:30-6:30 p.m. Kids can compete with others their age with survival mode turned on. Liverpool Public Library, 310 Tulip St., Liverpool. Free. (315) 457-0310. lpl.org.
TUESDAY, DEC. 11
Homeschool STEAM Club. 1:30-3:30 p.m.
Homeschoolers ages 5-11 can learn with hands-on activities. Parents and siblings welcome. Liverpool Public Library, 310 Tulip St., Liverpool. Free. (315) 457-0310. lpl.org.
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Teen MOPS. 5-7 p.m. Young mothers, ages 13-21, with children under 6 enjoy a faith-based program with fun, food and activities while their children are cared for by the childcare program. Liverpool First United Methodist Church, 604 Oswego St., Liverpool. Free. (315) 569-2542.
SATURDAY, DEC. 15
Breakfast with Santa at the Zoo. 9-10 a.m. or 11 a.m.-noon; also Dec. 16 & 23. See Dec. 8 listing.
Public Library, 310 Tulip St., Liverpool. Free. (315) 457-0310. lpl.org.
Sleeping Beauty. 12:30 p.m. See Dec. 1 listing.
Disney on Ice. 11 a.m., 3 & 7 p.m.; through Dec.
SUNDAY, DEC. 23
Christmas TV Specials. 5:30-7:30 p.m. Watch Christmas TV specials including Charlie Brown Christmas, ’Twas the Night Before Christmas, and more. NOPL North Syracuse, 100 Trolley Barn Lane, North Syracuse. Free. (315) 458-6184.
Sleeping Beauty. 12:30 p.m. See Dec. 1 listing. A Charlie Brown Christmas. 2 & 7 p.m.;
11 a.m.-noon. See Dec. 8 listing.
WEDNESDAY, DEC. 12
take part in fun and simple dances to live music. United Church of Fayetteville, 310 E. Genesee St.Fayetteville. $2/adults; $1/teens & kids. syracusecountrydancers.org/community-dance/.
Teen Geeks. 6-8 p.m.; also Dec. 19. Teens can
play board games in the first session of the month and video games in the second. Liverpool Public Library, 310 Tulip St., Liverpool. Free. (315) 457-0310. lpl.org.
THURSDAY, DEC. 13 Trail Tales. 1 p.m.; also Dec. 27. Children ages
3-5, accompanied by a caregiver, can hear some stories and go on a trail walk. Beaver Lake Nature Center, Route 370, Baldwinsville. $4/parking. (315) 638-2519.
Smartplay. 10:30-11:30 a.m. Children age 6 and
under can explore a free-play environment that promotes discovery, creativity and the development of early literacy skills. Fayetteville Free Library, 300 Orchard St., Fayetteville. Free. (315) 637-6374. fflib.org.
A Charlie Brown Christmas. 7 p.m.; through Dec. 16. See Dec. 6 listing.
Star Party. 7-9 p.m. Using a telescope, look for the Geminid meteor shower, and possibly see the area surrounding Orion, and various nebulae and clusters. Dress warmly. (Backup date: Dec. 14.) Baltimore Woods Nature Center, 4007 Bishop Hill Road, Marcellus. $9. (315) 673-1350. Register: baltimorewoods.org. Disney on Ice. 7 p.m.; through Dec. 16. Charac-
ters from a variety of Disney films—including Lightning McQueen, Buzz Lightyear, Anna and Elsa—appear in the “Worlds of Enchantment” show. War Memorial Arena, Oncenter, 515 Montgomery St., Syracuse. $22-$125 (plus fees). (315) 435-2121. ticketmaster.com.
FRIDAY, DEC. 14 Time for Tots Playgroup. 9:30-10:45 a.m.
Education playgroup for children ages 18 months-5 years and their caregiver. Stories, songs, arts and crafts, and more. Cross of Christ Lutheran Church, 8131 Soule Road, Liverpool. $3/family. Registration recommended: (315) 622-2843. NYCrossofChrist. org/Tots.
Preschool Books and Cooks. Noon-2 p.m.
Children ages 3-5 and their families can discover books and recipes. Liverpool Public Library, 310 Tulip St., Liverpool. Free. Registration required: lpl.org. (315) 457-0310.
Christmas Caroling. 1-4 p.m. Join the singers
in this United Methodist new faith community’s one-day-a-year choir, or simply hand out candy canes and gifts to the residents of Ahepa 37 senior living apartments. Wholely Grounds at the ROAD, 4845 W. Seneca Turnpike, Syracuse. Free. (315) 414-9051. wholelygroundsattheroad.org.
A Charlie Brown Christmas. 7 p.m.; through Dec. 16. See Dec. 6 listing.
Disney on Ice. 7 p.m.; through Dec. 16. See Dec. 13 listing.
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through Dec. 16. See Dec. 6 listing.
Family Dance. 6:30 p.m. People of all ages can
SUNDAY, DEC. 16
Breakfast with Santa at the Zoo. 9-10 a.m. or 11 a.m.-noon; also Dec. 23. See Dec. 8 listing. Disney on Ice. Noon & 4 p.m. See Dec. 13 listing. A Charlie Brown Christmas. 2 p.m. See Dec. 6 listing.
MONDAY, DEC. 17
Teen Minecraft. 3-4:30 p.m. Students in grades
6-12 can hang out and play on the library’s server. Salina Library, 100 Belmont St., Mattydale. Free. Registration required: (315) 454-4524. salinalibrary. org.
Homeschooling 101 for Parents. 7-8:30 p.m.
Parents can learn how to organize their home spaces and schedules for homeschooling in this session. Liverpool Public Library, 310 Tulip St., Liverpool. Free. (315) 457-0310. lpl.org.
TUESDAY, DEC. 18 See Ongoing Events
WEDNESDAY, DEC. 19
Safe Place to Game. 4-6 p.m. Kids ages 7-18 can learn to play games such as Pokemon, Magic: The Gathering, and more. Maxwell Memorial Library, 14 Genesee St., Camillus. Free. (315) 672-3661. maxwellmemoriallibrary.org. Winter Wonderland Storytime. 6-6:45 p.m.
Enjoy a wintery mix of tales. Liverpool Public Library, 310 Tulip St., Liverpool. Free. (315) 457-0310. lpl.org.
THURSDAY, DEC. 20
Moscow Ballet’s Great Russian Nutcracker. 4 & 8 p.m. The international touring ballet company returns to Syracuse for its holiday performance. Mulroy Civic Center, 411 Montgomery St., Syracuse. $28-$175 (plus fees). (315) 435-2121. (800) 745-3000. ticketmaster.com.
Teen Gingerbread Houses.
6-7:30 p.m. Young people in grades 6-12 can build structures using provided supplies. Salina Library, 100 Belmont St., Mattydale. Free. Registration required: (315) 454-4524. salinalibrary.org.
FRIDAY, DEC. 21 WINTER BEGINS Solstice Hike. 7-8:30 p.m. Learn about ancient
solstice traditions on a lantern-lit hike through the woods; snowshoes provided. For age 8 and up. Baltimore Woods Nature Center, 4007 Bishop Hill Road, Marcellus. $9. (315) 673-1350. Register: baltimorewoods.org.
Breakfast with Santa at the Zoo. 9-10 a.m. or
MONDAY, DEC. 24 See Ongoing Events
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WEDNESDAY, DEC. 26 KWANZAA BEGINS Create Kwanzaa Crafts.
8:30 a.m.-7:30 p.m. Children of all ages can make projects in honor of Kwanzaa. Central Library, KidSpace (Level 2), 447 S. Salina St., Syracuse. Free. (315) 435-1900.
Boxing Day Crafts. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Kids can
make soccer, fancy hats and high tea crafts; all materials provided. Liverpool Public Library, 310 Tulip St., Liverpool. Free. (315) 457-0310. lpl.org.
High Tea on Boxing Day. 2-4 p.m. All ages can
enjoy tea and scones in this exploration of British traditions. Wear a fascinator or make one with provided materials. Liverpool Public Library, 310 Tulip St., Liverpool. Free. Registration required: lpl.org. (315) 457-0310.
THURSDAY, DEC. 27 Building Day. 8:30 a.m.-5 p.m. Kids of all ages can use their imaginations and skills with building kits. Central Library, KidSpace (Level 2), 447 S. Salina St., Syracuse. Free. (315) 435-1900. Jeff the Magic Man. 2-3 p.m. Jeff performs a holiday-themed magic show. At the end, he’ll twist a balloon creation for each child. NOPL Brewerton, 5440 Bennett St., Brewerton. Free. (315) 676-7484. The Shimmering Winter Sky. 6-7:30 p.m.
Learn to identify constellations and major stars. Bring a flashlight with a red filter. Beaver Lake Nature Center, 8477 E. Mud Lake Road, Baldwinsville. Admission: $4/vehicle. Registration required: (315) 638-2519.
FRIDAY, DEC. 28 Dino Feet vs. Junk Creatures. 8:30 a.m.-5 p.m. Kids of all ages can raid the recycling bin to make dinosaur feet or junk creatures. Central Library, KidSpace (Level 2), 447 S. Salina St., Syracuse. Free. (315) 435-1900.
Friendship Crafts. 3-4:30 p.m. Kids ages 5-12 can make crafts such as friendship bracelets and more. Salina Library, 100 Belmont St., Mattydale. Free. (315) 454-4524. salinalibrary.org.
SATURDAY, DEC. 29 Be the Scientist. Noon-4 p.m. Explore the activities of an epidemiologist with hands-on activities. Museum of Science and Technology (MOST). 500 S. Franklin St., Armory Square, Syracuse. Museum admission: $12/adults; $10/seniors and ages 2-11. (315) 425-9068.
SATURDAY, DEC. 22
Sleeping Beauty. 12:30 p.m. See Dec. 1 listing.
ages 5-10 can do hands-on activities and experiments. Parents and siblings are welcome. Liverpool
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Saturday STEAM. 10:30 a.m.-noon. Children
SUNDAY, DEC. 30
MONDAY, DEC. 31 Noon Year’s Eve at the Zoo. 10:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Ring in the “noon” year
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with entertainment, games, crafts, and a sparkling-juice toast at noon. Rosamond Gifford Zoo at Burnet Park, 1 Conservation Place, Syracuse. Admission: $8/adults (ages 19-61); $5/over age 62; $4/ages 3-18; free/age 2 and younger. (315) 435-8511.
FFL Noon Year’s Eve Party. 11:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Kids and parents can ring in the New Year with an event that features music, dancing, crafts, snacks, and a countdown at noon. Fayetteville Free Library, 300 Orchard St., Fayetteville. Free. (315) 637-6374. fflib.org. Donna B. Performance. Noon-2 p.m. Children of all ages can rock in the
New Year with Miss Donna B. Participants can also get their faces painted. Central Library, KidSpace (Level 2), 447 S. Salina St., Syracuse. Free. (315) 435-1900.
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a.m.-4:30 p.m. See snow leopards, Humboldt penguins, red wolves and other animals for half price through Feb. 28. Rosamond Gifford Zoo at Burnet Park, 1 Conservation Place, Syracuse. Admission January and February: $4/adults; $2.50/age 62 & up; $2/ages 3-18; free/age 2 and younger. (315) 435-8511.
ONGOING EVENTS Lights on the Lake. 5-10 p.m., daily; through Jan. 6. Drive through the annual light extravaganza featuring two miles of life-size displays, themed sections and a grand finale. Onondaga Lake Park, Onondaga Lake Parkway, Liverpool. $6/ car, Mondays & Tuesdays with Wegmans Shoppers Club card. $10/car, Monday-Thursday; $20/car, Friday-Sunday. (315) 453-6712. Erie Canal Museum Gingerbread Gallery. Daily, 10 a.m.-5 p.m.; through Jan. 6. (Closed Dec. 25 & Jan. 1.) Dec. 24 & 31: 10 a.m.-2 p.m. See a fantastical village of houses, boats and more, built with gingerbread, candy, crackers and other edible items. Erie Canal Museum, 318 Erie Blvd. E., Syracuse. $7/adults; $5/seniors; $2/age 12 & under. (315) 471-0593.
Dickens’ Christmas in Skaneateles. Saturdays & Sundays, noon-4 p.m., through Dec. 23; plus Dec. 24, noon-2:30 p.m. More than 50 Victorian characters, including the author of A Christmas Carol himself, fill the village of Skaneateles, on Genesee, Jordan and Fennell streets. Free. (315) 685-0552. skaneateles.com. Horsedrawn Sleigh (or Hay) Rides. Saturdays & Sundays, 11 a.m.-3:30
p.m.; Dec. 15-Feb. 24. Also Dec. 26-Jan. 1; Jan. 14 & Feb. 18. A 20-minute ride into the woods.Highland Forest Park, County Road 128, Fabius. $6/adults; $3/ age 5 & under. (315) 683-5550.
Peanut Butter Jelly Time. Thursdays, 5 p.m. Members
of the community can join in making more than a hundred bagged lunches to hand out to the hungry and homeless in downtown Syracuse. The Road, 4845 W. Seneca Turnpike, Syracuse. Free. (315) 218-6066. wholelygroundsattheroad.org.
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Weekend Walks With a Naturalist. Saturdays and
Sundays, 2 p.m. Nature discovery hike with different topics each weekend. Beaver Lake Nature Center, Route 370, Baldwinsville. Admission: $4/vehicle. (315) 638-2519.
Great Swamp Conservancy Nature Trails. Daily, dawn to dusk. Throughout the year, visitors can grab their walking shoes and explore 4.5 miles of well-groomed, flat trails. Trails feature a 900-foot boardwalk, osprey nesting platform, and wetland and grassland restoration areas. The area is a stop for many migratory waterfowl and songbirds; other wildlife include muskrats and beavers. Great Swamp Conservancy, 3.5 miles off I-90, Exit 34, 8375 N. Main St., Canastota. Free. (315) 697-2950. Baltimore Woods Nature Center. Hiking trails and parking are free and
open every day from dawn to dusk. Interpretive Center open Monday-Friday, 9 a.m.-4 p.m.; Saturday, 10 a.m.-4 p.m.; closed Sundays. Snowshoe rental: $5/day. 4007 Bishop Hill Road, Marcellus. (315) 673-1350.
Regional Market Farmers’ Market. Saturdays, 7 a.m.-2 p.m. (year-round). Shop seasonal produce, meat, fish, poultry, eggs, specialty foods and more on display throughout covered sheds; heated shops of Regional Market Commons feature gift and unique items including jewelry, paintings and home decor. Also, flea market, Sundays, 7 a.m.-3 p.m. 2100 Park St., Syracuse. (315) 422-8647.
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