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My name’s Kate and I live in rural North Canterbury with my husband, daughters, Edith (4) and Mabel (2), and 15-week-old chickens, Dora, Boots and Heihei. We are fortunate to have Grandma and Grandad just around the corner and other family close by. Grandad often takes the girls out for a jaunt around the village on his late-father’s mobility scooter, while Grandma calls by on her horse. We are involved with our local Playcentre, and I treasure the friendships we have established. My girls challenge me every day and at times I behave badly and throw my toys. This thing called ‘family’ is exasperating and exhausting. Yet, it determines my priorities and values, and regularly makes me feel all warm and squishy. Once my daughter said to me, ‘mumma, my heart is bursting for you. But don’t worry, it is still in my body’ – that’s how I often feel, when my head is not also about to explode. Parenting can be a scary and isolating experience. Connecting with people in similar situations or hearing about people facing different challenges can reveal new perspectives, suggest strategies, validate choices or inspire change. Lucinda and I have worked together on a variety of projects, and I am excited to be collaborating on a venture that combines my passions for my family and kids, and for hearing and sharing stories and ideas. In the thick of it, I am looking forward to learning from the experts, hearing about your experiences, and sharing the love we have for our little and not-solittle darlings.

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Contents

FEATURES

ENTERTAINMENT

Two Lines A personal experience of miscarriage

28 Kids’ Time

Trust in Yourself Questioning the value of advice

Letting Go Are you lacking time and lacking fitness?

A Wild Time this Winter The possibilities of outdoor play

Travelling with Kids How many bags do you really need?

Protecting those Precious Pearls Expert advice for caring for teeth

Activities and games for all ages

30 Brain Box

Fun creative projects and a new online venture

SHORT READS

20 Carrot Sticks, Cake or a

Can of Worms? The issue of ‘healthy’ school lunches

A Safe Place A personal glimpse into Mike Pero’s latest role

Aspirations for Adolescents Supporting your child through the challenging time of starting secondary school

Power to You Helping you save on power

Mackenzie Adventures A region bursting with winter-time fun for the whole family

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Curated for Kids

Books & Blogs

REGULARS

Welcome Note

26 Calendar of Events 38 Food

39 Family Friendly Dining Guide 40 Dunedin Marketplace 42

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POSITIVE PARENTING

Help is at hand

Sometimes you need some information or an answer to a curly question – all you need to do is pick up the phone and ask for help.

Lessons Learnt

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1. Find someone who always has your

back, who supports and encourages your dreams. For me, it’s my husband; but it might be your friend or your parents. Whoever it is, make sure you have someone. And, if you have people in your life who make you feel bad about yourself or your dreams, walk away. Life’s too short for that.

2. Recognise the importance of self-love

and time for yourself. Acknowledge the truth that if you’re feeling happy about yourself you’ll be a better mother, partner and friend.

3. Life isn’t always going to work out the

way you had planned; but try to see a ‘wall’ as an unthought-of door through which a different path lies.

4. ‘This too will pass’. This is the

most useful mantra EVER. Repeat endlessly during tantrums, teething, grief, heartache, pain, death stares, earthquakes... the list goes on.

5. If you come to a hurdle or a problem, try turning it on its side or upside down. Think creatively: is there

another way through? Hint: There’s always another way through!

6. There is a time for reflection and

analysis, but don’t let that paralyse your decision-making. It is amazing the ideas and solutions you can come up with when you just get on and do it.

7. Just get on and do it. Be brave. Be

optimistic. Be a little fool-hardy. Just because that’s the way it’s always been done, doesn’t mean that’s the way it always has to be done.

8. Plan, plan, plan, plan, plan. Start with

a meal plan for the week. Then an exercise plan. Only then, start planning for other things. Have a 1-year plan, a 5-year plan and a big, hairy audacious goal for life.

9. Always be kind. Life is hard. People go

through some incredible stuff, but still have to function and interact every day. A tiny act of kindness can make a massive difference.

10. Never, ever, ever, ever, ever give up.

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READING CORNER

Books & BLOGS

A treasured pastime for all ages, CRISSI BLAIR shares her love of reading with her top picks for different ages. Snuggle up and enjoy. See You When I See You

TOP PICK

By Rose Lagercrantz & Eva Eriksson

My Pictures After the Storm

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Gecko Press $19.99

By Eric Veille

Gecko Press $24.99 This square and sturdy picture book contains a surprising and clever collection of before and after shots. Not only have items been transformed, but the text plays with rhythm and rhyme. There is even a misnamed collection, with names restored ‘after correction’. Identifying items and juggling with words, this book will reward repeat investigations. Suitable for ages 1-5.

Book 5 in a charming series enjoyed mainly by young girls, this one happily stands alone too. Dani goes on a school trip to the zoo and gets lost after a fight with friends, and is amazed when she meets her old friend Ella, who is also visiting with her school. They get into a heap of trouble but have a memorable time together. Perfect as a read-aloud or for a confident co-reader.

Maybe a Fox

By Kathi Appelt & Alison McGhee

Walker Books $18.99

A Kiwi Year: Twelve Months in the Life of New Zealand’s Kids By Tania McCartney & Tina Snerling

EK Books $19.99 A month-by-month guide for kids detailing what Kiwi kids get up to in the course of a year. Five Kiwi kids of different ethnicities are shown enjoying festivals and celebrations, sports and hobbies. This is a great book for those visiting or new to New Zealand, or as a resource for looking at our identities.

This novel takes us to snowy, rural Vermont, following two sisters: Jules, who collects rocks; and Sylvie, who loves to run, but one day slips away, unseen, into the nearby river. Meanwhile, ‘Senna’ is born, a shadow fox who is part animal, part spirit. We follow Senna as she grows and learns, and Jules as she tries to find her way through her grief – until their two worlds meet. A tender and magical tale for 10+.

Giants, Trolls, Witches, Beasts: Ten Tales from the Deep Dark Woods

Suitable for ages 4-8

Dinosaur Trouble: The Lava Melt Shake By Kyle Mewburn & Donovan Bixley

Scholastic $9 A prequel series for beginner readers, from the team behind the Dinosaur Rescue books. There’s a lava melt heading for the village, and all attempts to stop it fail until clever cave-boy Arg and his friend come up with an inventive solution. Grossness and laughs abound, and it’s packed with hilarious illustrations.

By Craig Phillips

Allen & Unwin $27.99 A collection of ten traditional tales from around the world, retold in colourful comic format. Meet the Irish giant, Finn McCool, Baba Yaga with her magical house that runs on chicken legs, and the Japanese couple who discover their remarkable son inside a giant peach. A treasure to be reread many times Suitable for ages 7-12.

mother.ly Beautifully organised, Mother.ly is a forum for passionate parents, bloggers and experts to share their insights across broad themes like life, work and love - all in relation to family dynamics and parenting. Designed to educate, as well as inspire, Mother.ly offers a variety of refreshing and relatable stories and perspectives, along with parenting tips and strategies relevant to different stages of development, or to particular circumstances or challenges.

baby.geek.nz Miriam McCaleb is a teacher, writer and parent, and ‘a geek’ whose specialist subject is babies. She has presented at many conferences in New Zealand and internationally, and is a regular contributor to various parenting magazines. A voracious student of child development, and an obsessive thinker on issues relating to parenting and family relationships, she loves nothing more than to provoke thinking about children’s wellbeing.

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BUMP TO BUNDLE

Two L ines Mother to three, LIV DOBSON shares a personal insight into the sensitive topic of miscarriage.

wo lines = a positive. Really? Could it really be that easy for us? Third try – third pregnancy. We just couldn’t quite believe it, yet something about it didn’t feel right. I wanted to believe that it could be a dream run for us, but my gut said otherwise.

I felt disjointed. I could barely hear what was happening around me. It was like being in transition, in labour, when I shouldn’t have been. My body and brain were not prepared for the pain and trauma. At least when you go into labour, you have time to prepare. You know it will happen and you know you will meet your baby at the end. This though, this was like a car crash.

Friends of ours had recently lost a baby at 35 weeks gestation. Other friends were going through IVF. It just didn’t seem ok that we could breeze through the process of making a family — three babies within two and a half years.

When I got home, I was not good. My children still needed me. They were way too young to know what was going on and give me a wee break. I couldn’t function like I normally did. I yelled, I was impatient and I was so, so sad. I felt angry, let down and guilty that I was not the mum they needed me to be.

I am adopted. My parents went through IVF to conceive my youngest brother. I remember it all very well, as I was ten when he was born. I have always been mindful that the road to conceiving can be fraught with frustration, disappointment, sadness, jealousy and anger.

I had always wanted three children. My husband wanted four. After this miscarriage, he let me know that if I didn’t want to try again, he was very happy with our two children. But I was determined to keep trying. I don’t know why, but it never occurred to me to stop.

Fast forward to ten weeks gestation and I noticed spotting. The spotting turned to bright red blood and cramping. A rushed trip up to Christchurch (from our home in Mt Somers) confirmed that there was no foetal heartbeat. We were deflated and quietly devastated. I underwent an uncomfortable and intrusive internal procedure that left me cold. I was told I would expect period-like pain, and to be in touch if I passed anything bigger than a walnut.

We were told to wait three cycles before trying again. So I focused on getting my iron levels back up, being as healthy as I could be and getting my heart and head ready for what might be. I walked each day with the kids, I started yoga classes again, and I had a bit of time in Christchurch alone. I talked to my husband. He was my anchor. He always, always listened, held me, let me cry, let me swear and rocked me through my sadness.

I haemorrhaged at home. It all happened with alarming speed. The clots were the size of dinner plates and I could barely talk. We had three ambulances arrive, over a few hours, and eventually I was helicoptered to Christchurch. My pain and blood loss were only managed at the very end by the intensive care paramedic.

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We tried again – another positive. My heart quickened, but I felt sick. I was excited and apprehensive. I was cautious and somewhat numb. We lost that baby, again, at ten weeks. I chose to have a D&C instead of running the risk of bleeding out at home again. I found the surgical ward room, with five others, stifling. I wanted to cry, but was mindful of everyone else and all of their visitors. And the visitors made me mad. I didn’t want to hear their stories. I wanted to be alone. I wanted space and to grieve. Everybody’s path through grief is different. And there is no right or wrong. What helped me was being able to talk. It meant so much when people asked how I was doing. An acknowledgement of hard times, in my opinion, means so very much. Being allowed to talk about where I was at had a cathartic effect on me. I think of our July 2015 and December 2015 babies that didn’t make it. But my pain has lessened. It’s true that time eases the pain. In May 2016, we welcomed our last baby. It was a pregnancy filled with anxiety and apprehension. My first and last thoughts of each day: our baby’s movement. However, he arrived, and we are happy to never have to go through all of that again!

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TEN TINY TOES

TRUST IN YOURSELF A strong, independent career woman, first-time Mum KATIE ALLAN questions the value of advice.

regnancy and motherhood should really be a time where we mums can trust our instincts. There’s probably nothing that comes more naturally than giving birth. Your body responds in ways you didn’t know it could. And even if you haven’t raised a little one before, you can usually sense the right thing to do. It’s the maternal instinct. But the pressures of ‘how to’ start long before you cradle that little tot in your arms. You’re told what to do shortly after you hold up that pregnancy test and see those two red lines staring boldly at you. Being pregnant is going to alter the course of your entire life, there are a thousand things you are meant to do, a thousand things that will go wrong if you don’t do them – and nobody is going to let you forget it. Whatever happened to going with the flow? This baby-making business has been around since the beginning of time. We’ve given birth and raised children for hundreds of thousands of years. And the last time I checked, the human species wasn’t doing too badly at reproducing itself. Modern medicine and science have contributed hugely to both the health of mums and our babies. New Zealand, in 2017, has some of the lowest infant and mother mortality rates in history. We’re probably only the fourth or fifth generation in human history that hasn’t had to contend with the tragedy of infant death as a common occurrence. But sometimes I wonder if all the studies and statistics, the opinions and advice – as valuable as many of them may be – are overwhelming. By their sheer number alone, they risk pushing out of the equation the maternal instinct that we experience – which tells us the right thing to do without someone else having to.

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Given the time I’ve spent pregnant with him and raising him, I don’t think there’s a better expert in the field of raising my son than me! I’ve probably got some things wrong along the way. We all do. But I also know I’ve got a lot of things right; and that didn’t always mean following the rules and advice I was given. We’ve all been given a lot of advice. There are the rules: ‘don’t sit/stand for too long when pregnant’; or, ‘breastfeed until he is at least one’. Then there are the criticisms. I remember once being told by someone: ‘I can’t believe you don’t close your baby’s curtains for his day sleeps! It will affect his sleep routine!’ Worrying that not having $100 blackout curtains could be damaging for my son, I spent an hour on Google only to find that there didn’t seem to be any scientific evidence at all. The mummy forums offered different views. And yet someone felt they had to tell me I was getting it wrong. Who or what is to blame for this modern-mum saga? People genuinely trying to be helpful? Social media? Baby brands trying to make a buck? Mummy bloggers trying to look like they know and have it all? Probably all of the above. It’s not going away, so I guess the question is ‘how do you deal with it?’ I think there are two answers. The first is to trust your judgment. Use it to consider, and weed out, advice you know is not right for you, your baby and parenting style. The second is to stay true to yourself. We all need advice as new mums. We can’t do it on our own. But, with so much conflicting advice, simple becomes complicated and it doesn’t need to be. Just follow your instincts and be the best mum you know how.

Letting Go Father to a busy one-year-old, JAMES ALLAN understands how easy it is to see all that pre-baby hard work unravel. Family requires sacrifice. One which often sees fit, healthy males let themselves go. The arms may be large, but unfortunately so is the waistline. Why does this happen? The reason is simple: new parents lack three things...

TIME Raising children is a tag-team effort. Outside of your working hours, you will be feeding, clothing and bathing your little human before attempting to do these things for yourself.

MONEY It’s likely you are now on a single wage or salary, with greater outgoings. Some things have to give. Gym memberships are often one of the first.

MOTIVATION You will be sleep-deprived. You will stumble

through the working day before heading home, not knowing how many hours of sleep you will get, before having to do it all again. Quick 5k run in the rain? Probably not.

Getting Back on Track Still eating like you’re training six times a week?

If more food is going in than you can burn off, then you’ll be letting out the belt before long. That doesn’t mean you can’t treat yourself; just be realistic. And drink plenty of water. You may think that you need energy drinks to get you through the day. You don’t. Overindulging in these will also reduce the quality of any sleep you get.

No time at all?

Try this. Set yourself a target for the day. For example: 100 press- ups. Break it down into 10 sets of 10. Knock them out any chance you get. Maybe when microwaving a bottle or running the bath. Pick one exercise to improve on or choose a different exercise each day so that you target the whole body. Fit your workout into your daily routine. Run or cycle to work. Take a class in your lunch break. Find a route you can safely run with a buggy, or a route to the shops that takes you past an outdoor gym or playground. See a park bench? Perfect for tricep dips, incline/decline press-ups and box jumps. Do what you need to do and carry on with your day. When you can find time for exercise, seize the opportunity. Go in with a plan. That way, if you miss any sessions, you’re still covered. More of a runner or cyclist or swimmer? Concentrate on speed and interval training. Get the heart rate up in a shorter time, and get back to your family. Perhaps use this time to learn a new skill? Set yourself a goal. One-armed press-up? L-sit hold? 20 strict pull-ups? Realise there is a lot more to strength and fitness than bicep curls. Start humble and make it happen.

Why bother? Perhaps you are thinking, ‘why bother? I’m married with kids now, why shouldn’t I let myself go a little? I’ve earned it.’ That’s your choice. However, improved fitness will benefit you in any situation. It raises energy levels, lowers stress levels and improves your ability to cope with anything life throws at you. Still not convinced? In just a few short years, you are going to become the subject of numerous conversations about whose dad is the fastest, strongest or best. Think about that for a moment, then get to work! Winter / 2017

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LITTLE WONDERS

A Wild Time

THIS WINTER

Layered up, and loaded with treasure bags and snacks, mum of two littlies, KATE BARBER, ponders the possibilities of outdoor play this winter.

s you run through the options for a spontaneous family outing, chilly days do little to fire the imagination – especially when you think about the rigmarole of taking preschoolers out in the cold. While dreary weather threatens to close the door on many simple family activities and adventures, the season does deliver some wonderfully ordinary ‘stuff ’ for young children to experience. At the magical, ‘Frozen’ end of the spectrum, there may be snow and ice; for more everyday fun, there is water and mud – squelchy, squishy, sloppy, dollopy mud. Consider the fun to be had on and beyond your doorstep. Explore the local reserve, head to the river, or check out the wild sea. Perhaps go down to the beach at night-time, with a lantern, and listen to the crashing waves. Consider cooking sausages on an outdoor fire or camp cooker. Collect pinecones, or something less useful, but highlyprized, like shells or feathers. Or, keep it simple, close to home, and seek out muddy puddles for some tried-andtested enjoyment – simply tug on the gumboots, wrap up warm, and you’re set. Young children are bursting with curiosity and have big plans for adventure. Naturally, their curiosity doesn’t stick to the beaten track, and any adventure takes unexpected turns and involves plenty of stops. Long squatting-downto-check-something-out stops. No need to say this, but pack snacks. A picnic even! And along with bags for dirty nappies, consider taking bags for

treasure. Kids just love collecting, and it seems so much more dignified to give them a designated ‘treasure bag’, than to throw the marvellous miscellany of shells, feathers, acorns, leaves… into a ‘nappy bag’. (When it comes to ‘treasure’, I draw the line on frozen dog poo, which my daughter once tried to bag up.) Children love recounting memorable moments of their adventures – the tickle of a ladybird on their arm, the sharpness of sand blowing against their legs, the surprising feeling of mud flowing into their gumboots. And the treasures they collect will bring their stories alive, and reinforce their memories. Along with their desire for further adventures. Getting out and about grows children’s appreciation of the world around them, and helps them to see possibilities. An outdoor adventure in less-than-perfect weather certainly challenges the mentality that it’s raining/cloudy, so we have to stay inside today, and helps to grow a more robust, adventurous spirit. By adopting a ‘bring it on’ attitude, having first duly prepared for the elements (and every possible contingency…), I guess you’re demonstrating your belief in your kids’ resilience and resourcefulness, and your respect for their desire to explore their world – messages that kids will soak up, like mud, and treasure, like shells, as they grow and move onto different kinds of adventures.

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LITTLE WONDERS

Travelling with Kids

With one hand holding your toddler and the other clutching the map, how many bags do you really want to be lugging around as you explore the world? The answer is: as few as possible! Adventure Director, FIONA ROUSE explains.

aving spent the past 15 years travelling with our two children, and experimenting with different packing methods, I’ve settled on a strict minimalist approach. I now focus on the essentials. And I’ve said goodbye to suitcases, regardless of how fashionable they are or how easily they glide across the floor. Backpacks may not look so glam and don’t do three-point turns, but they leave your hands free for more important matters. We’ve found that items like nappies, baby food and even changes of clothes are readily available almost everywhere in the world, and often at a cheaper price than you’d pay for them at home. Our first big trip with a young one in tow was to Sri Lanka with our 20-month-old son. My husband, loaded up like a pack horse, with enough nappies for the entire trip, plus extras – because, well, you never know… – was surprised to find Huggies in every corner store. Familiar foodstuffs, for those days when only tinned spaghetti will hit the spot, are usually readily available also. We’ve given up on packing toys too: they can be bought really cheaply at your destination and have high novelty value for your kids. And, should your children tire of them, depending on where you are travelling to, these toys can make great gifts to local children. This makes for a cost-effective way of keeping your family entertained, whilst also spreading a bit of joy on your travels.

With the proliferation of electronic devices, it is now very easy to load books to read and games to play. For those of you who want your holiday to be a screenfree experience, then a stack of paper and coloured pencils is a must. A pack of cards is also a handy thing to have, as are a few hardcopy books for those bed-time reads. If your child is particularly fond of an item, like a cuddly toy or blanket, I strongly suggest it stays at home. We learnt this the hard way when our three-year-old daughter accidently lost her ‘blanky’ out the window of a Vietnamese train. Needless-to-say, bed times were fraught for some time afterwards! After that, we started introducing a ‘special travel item’ to our kids a month or so before the trip to provide the necessary comfort without quite the same level of emotional attachment, so that, if lost on the journey, it wasn’t the end of the world. The bottom line is, as long as you have your passports, you really don’t need much else. Pack light, buy local and keep your hands free to hold onto your toddler. And enjoy sharing the magic of travel with them.

There are a few items, however, that you will want to make room for. Making sure your kids have something to keep them entertained on long journeys, to allow for some much-needed downtime for them, and for you, is essential.

Fiona Rouse and her husband have always loved travelling, and starting a family didn’t put a stop to their adventures. They have spent the past 15 years gallivanting around the world with their children.

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Protecting those Precious Pearls of Duxton Dental explains the factors that increase the risk of dental trauma for kids, and offers some advice about looking after their vulnerable teeth. GRAHAME DUTTON

nlike sharks who can grow up to 50,000 teeth in a lifetime, humans only get two sets: their baby or milk teeth, followed by their adult teeth – which arrive in childhood and need to last a lifetime. In addition to good home dental care practices and a healthy diet, regular professional care by a dentist, hygienist or school dental nurse is important when it comes to looking after our teeth – especially those of our children.

What about the risk of dental injury? At this time of increased activity, minimising the risk of dental injury is important. Two factors influence dental trauma risk for our children: 1. The position of the teeth and lips 2. Lifestyle and choice of activities

How does the position of teeth affect the risk of trauma? It all comes down to the OJ. That’s not orange juice; it’s the overjet – how far, in millimetres, the top teeth sit ahead of the lower teeth. The bigger the OJ, the greater the risk of dental injury. Ideally we want to get the teeth in a favourable position, and make sure the protective lips cover the front teeth at rest.

whether it is preferable to treat this now, or hold off until they are older. My view is that: if the teeth are in unfavourable positions during childhood, a time where children are most active – in high-risk areas like playgrounds and pools, for example – their teeth are at a high risk of injury. Earlier treatment may also have the effect of improving a child’s self-esteem. A dental assessment can measure your child’s overjet; and orthodontic treatment, involving braces or a plate, may be recommended to move the teeth into a more favourable position.

How can we protect children’s teeth during activities? A third of all dental injuries are sports related. Ensure your child/ren wear mouth guards during activities where there is a risk of collision or body contact. In addition to protecting the teeth, this will reduce cuts to the lips, mouth and tongue, and help to prevent jaw injuries and possibly concussion. The effectiveness of a mouth guard relates to the fit: so, for optimal protection, it is advisable to get one custom-made. Grahame Dutton and wife Christine Duxbury established Duxton Dental in 1996. The couple have four children, and understand the challenges and importance of looking after youngsters’ teeth.

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A CLASS OF THEIR OWN

Carrot sticks, cake

or a can of worms? considers the challenge of schools promoting, and parents providing, healthy food. SARA JAMESON

n 2009, the National Government repealed a ban on the sale of unhealthy food at school canteens – a decision that has been criticised by those who believe schools need to do more to teach kids about healthy choices. Schools should not act as the ‘food police’ the Government said; instead, schools were required to promote healthy food and drink. It may seem like a clear directive, but promoting healthy food and drink is a complex assignment, and schools and preschools have responded in different ways – according to their values and principles as education providers, and according to those of their families. At one end of the spectrum, a school or preschool might provide (prescribe?) a list of ‘healthy’ lunch items, and remind those parents who supply foods deemed ‘unhealthy’ about healthier options. But have we opened a can of worms with this emphasis on healthy food at school? One thing’s certain, packing a healthy school lunch is not a piece of cake. I have a friend who packs cucumber or carrot sticks in her son’s lunchbox every day, knowing full well that they will still be there, untouched, at the end of the day. Why does she do it? Because she feels pressure to provide (and be seen to provide) a healthy lunch.

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My son (nearly 5) is not a fan of vegetables. Recently he met Harold the Giraffe – the iconic, furry face of Life Education – on one of his school visits. Harold introduced the class to food that makes you ‘go, go, go’ (fruit and vegetables), food that makes you ‘grow, grow, grow’ (protein), and food that makes you ‘slooow, slooow, slooow’ (treat foods). As well as taking me back to my own childhood, Harold – the 30-year-old puppet – reminded me about the importance of making messages fun, relevant and palatable, without pointing fingers or being overly prescriptive. After all, we want our children to listen to their bodies and navigate (and enjoy making) choices – even if adults (parents, teachers or the educationalistentertainer inside a giraffe puppet) sew the seeds. My son came home that day and asked for a plate of ‘go, go, go’ foods for dinner – which he polished off, completely, even the raw broccoli. Undoubtedly, schools and teachers play a key role in promoting healthy food and role-modelling good choices; ideally reinforcing positive messages children get at home.

If you have any concerns about the practices and policies of your school or preschool, or you simply want more information about these, talk to a teacher - and take along a support person if you feel uncomfortable.

A Safe Place

Six-time New Zealand Motorcycle Road Racing Champion, motorbike mechanic, airline pilot and iconic businessman, MIKE PERO is bold, tenacious and enterprising. He has also experienced the destructiveness caused by family violence, making his new role as an ambassador for Aviva one that is close to his heart. MIKE PERO AND HIS WIFE RACHEL

Tell us a bit about the role that Aviva plays in our community. Aviva (previously known as Christchurch Women’s Refuge) helps individuals and families to become – and stay – free of family and sexual violence. They work with children, women and men, giving each person the support they need, when they need it. All of Aviva’s services are headed by qualified staff, and at times they may be supported by individuals who have undergone their own journeys of change. Aviva offers a nonjudgmental, caring space where staff help people first to become safe, and then to flourish.

Where do you fit in? Like Aviva, I want to see people in homes that are not only comfortable, but also safe. So, I decided to offer my support to Aviva and join as an ambassador, a role designed to help spread the message that family violence is not OK.

How does the vision of Aviva connect with your personal experiences? The decision to join Aviva as an ambassador was also a personal one. As a child I grew up with violence in my home. My dad was a Pacific Islander, and he had been brought up to believe that discipline was a physical thing. I know he meant well, but he just didn’t understand how to handle himself with my mother, my siblings and me.

As a kid, I experienced the fear that comes with violence, and called the police to our home. I came to see how destructive my father was to our family. I grew up in various homes between Linwood and Aranui, close to where Aviva is currently based within The Loft in Eastgate Shopping Centre. I am keen to help young people see that, with determination, you can overcome experiences of childhood violence, and that you can set goals of your own and leave the past behind you.

What prompted you to get involved with this project? I am married to Rachel, and we have five children between us. So, helping Aviva raise awareness of the services it provides, especially for young people and for men overcoming violence, was a great fit for me. I met some of the Aviva team at the City2Surf and was immediately interested in becoming involved in the work that they do. Family is so important to me; as a father and husband, I am not ok with men using violence in the family home. I’m proud to stand up and say I’m against family violence: if, by lending my voice and support to this cause, I can make a difference, then I am keen to do it. I wish that there had been someone to help my dad and our family when I was younger.

Aviva offers services for children, youth and women, and their ‘ReachOut’ service for men. They also offer Shine safe@home, Peer Support, Sexual Assault Support, Microffiinance and Residential services. Operating from a purpose-built service centre known as ‘The Loft’, located at Eastgate Shopping Centre, Christchurch, they also have a 24-hour support and information line.

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TWEENS & TEENS

Aspirations for

Adolescents

Secondary school is an exciting and challenging time for adolescents, and for their parents. But how can you connect with your son or daughter, and support them during this time? KATE BARBER TALKS TO HIGH-SCHOOL GUIDANCE COUNSELLOR KAY HENSON ABOUT CONNECTING WITH OUR KIDS.

hey are all so wildly and wonderfully different; but, for most young people starting secondary school, anxieties about their ability to cope academically and around establishing new relationships collide with excitement about new friendships, freedoms and opportunities. Yet, having leapt the fence from Year 8 to Year 9, adolescents go from being the senior students and leaders of their primary or intermediate to the new kids on the block: in the breath of a summer, their status changes significantly.

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TWEENS & TEENS

Summer hangs in the air well into Term 1. But the pinch comes as autumn gives way to winter – as assessments pile up and afterschool activities fill the diary, as the days get shorter and colder, and as energy levels diminish. With winter threatening to squeeze some of the joy and energy out of our precious family time, it feels like time to stop and check in with everyone – and, perhaps, come together for a hearty soup, or maybe a pizza. Kay Henson is a mother (my mother, in fact) and a grandma, and she devotes a solid chunk of her week to working with young people in her role as a high-school guidance counsellor. She has also worked extensively in the early childhood sector, and so offers a unique perspective on this time of transition and development. These twelve- and thirteen-year-olds may be the ‘babies’ of the school, but Kay focuses on the layers of experiences, the rich relationships and the diverse interests and skills that young people bring with them to high school. ‘Children grow up in a world of others’, says Kay – ‘and starting secondary school coincides with a phase where young people are questioning their relationships with others and

testing their ideas. As the influence of their peer group grows, adolescents think more about who they are, and what this means in terms of their relationships – with their peers, as well as with members of their families. The challenge lies in being ok with who they are – even if they don’t fit others’ expectations.’ Interestingly, in her work with teenagers, Kay calls on Te Whàriki, the New Zealand Early Childhood Education Curriculum, which is founded on the following aspirations for young children:

“With winter threatening to squeeze some of the joy and energy out of our precious family time, it feels like time to stop and check in with everyone. ”

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TWEENS & TEENS

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This period of adolescence can be murky territory for parents. “There is so much you might not be able to control”

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to grow up as competent and confident learners and communicators, healthy in mind, body, and spirit, secure in their sense of belonging and in the knowledge that they make a valued contribution to society. But are these aspirations relevant to adolescents? To a disorganised and disengaged Year 9 boy? To an unsettled, highly stressed Year 10 girl? From Kay’s perspective, they are critical. While we may worry that our children are not confident in a particular subject, or that they do not feel a sense of belonging in a new environment, or that they are not as healthy in spirit as they once were, it is important to think back to children’s strengths, qualities and interests, their relationships and experiences – as class leaders, as sporting stars, as fiercely independent four-yearolds, even – and hold onto these foundational aspirations as a way of moving forward. This period of adolescence can be murky territory for parents. ‘There is so much you might not be able to control’, says Kay, ‘with social media and a larger peer group at school, meaning young people are engaging with people you don’t know’. Where once mum and dad had almost total control over their young children’s social lives, now there are spheres of influence that seem inaccessible to parents. ‘It is about respect, responsibilities and boundaries – and there need to be robust conversations around parental concerns’, says Kay. ‘But these conversations need to be reciprocal and respectful, where parents express their concerns, while listening to their son or daughter, and being reasonable and flexible. Teens want adults to show flexibility. And, they want them to have the ability to mix with their friends. Adults need to be interested in these new relationships.’ Many teenagers are communicative and charming, and keen to test their ideas with adults they trust. But perhaps you’re wondering: how can I possibly have such ‘robust conversations’ when I don’t have a good relationship with my son or daughter? ‘It might sound old-fashioned, but a good starting place is the dining room table, eating together, talking and listening to each other – without technology’, says Kay. ‘A simple thing like chatting in the car together, or while doing the dishes, is also helpful. And it doesn’t need to all be serious. Conversations that build trust and respect will cover many topics and take many directions – because it’s about listening and responding, rather than just going in with an agenda.’

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Young people need to have someone to talk with, outside of their peer group, who will listen to them and offer support. ‘Parents may feel that they need to have all the answers. But this isn’t true’, says Kay. ‘When the going gets tough, it is so important that parents acknowledge that they don’t have the answers; that they role-model self-care and reach out for support for themselves.’ It is not easy to nurture connections with your adolescent children when there are layers of issues, such as marital conflict, financial worries, work-related stress, alcohol or substance abuse, or underlying anxiety or depression among family members. ‘It can be all-consuming’, says Kay, ‘and it is vital that parents get the support they need’. If you are in this situation, and you are concerned about your son or daughter, try to step back and see who else can support your child. ‘Guidance counsellors are able to position themselves differently, and can access other support for students and their families. Your son or daughter may also have a strong rapport with a teacher or sports coach, or with a close family friend or relative, which is invaluable. ‘Sometimes we find ourselves at an awkward crossroads – where we can look at young people from a deficit perspective, thinking about all the problems and the things that they need (but lack) in order to progress and achieve. But we can also think about the resilience factors, the positive influences or experiences they have had, and tap into these as a means of moving forward and coping with challenges along the way.’ Without downplaying the stresses facing young people and their families today, Kay encourages parents to ‘have conversations that are light-hearted, rather than getting bogged down in problem-saturated talk, and [to] think about a time when you were able to connect, where you enjoyed being together – it is never too late to tap back into that.’

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CALENDAR

What’s On T his CHRISTCHURCH 23 June – 23 July Winter Wonderland, Cathedral Square, Christchurch The Ice World New Zealand Rink is smack bang in the middle of Cathedral Square this winter. The Snow Globe will join the Winter Wonderland from 9 – 23 July just in time for the school holidays. Get your winter woollies on and give it a go!

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08 – 22 July Under the Stars, Canterbury Astronomical Society, 218 Bells Road, West Melton, Christchurch Explore the Universe at the Canterbury Astronomical Society’s observatory in West Melton. Members of the Society will be on hand to help unlock the secrets of the night sky through the wide range of telescopes at the observatory. The observatory will be open every night of KidsFest, weather permitting.

10 – 11 & 17 – 18 July

05 July

Amazing Atoms, The Arts Centre Harry Potter Film Concert Series, of Christchurch, 2 Worcester Horncastle Arena, Christchurch Boulevard, Christchurch For the first time in New Zealand, Kiwi Television, radio, sonar and telephones audiences will experience a symphony – just some of the great inventions we orchestra performing music from one enjoy today thanks to the scientific of the most beloved film franchises in discoveries made by Lord Ernest history. The concert will feature the Rutherford and his peers. Step inside live symphony orchestra performing, to Rutherford’s Den and enjoy fun, handspicture, every note from Harry Potter on activities as you learn about science and the Philosopher’s Stone. in the actual rooms where Rutherford studied. For children ages 8-13.

08 July More FM Lantern Parade, Cathedral Square, Christchurch Bring your lantern, glow sticks or torch and gather in Cathedral Square from 4.30pm to enjoy the food trucks, entertainment and free hot chocolates from More FM. Then join the parade to the Margaret Mahy Family Playground. Visit kidsfest.co.nz for full parade details.

10 – 28 July Stop Motion Animation Movies, Imagination Station, 113 Worcester Street, Christchurch

08 – 14 July

Whether you are a beginner or have done stop motion before, come along and develop your stop-motion animation skills! In a 90-minute course, you will learn how to make your own LEGO stop-motion animated movie.

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11 – 15 July

3… 2… 1… ACTION! Calling all aspiring Canterbury filmmakers aged 8-13. Here’s your chance to break into the big time! Go to kidsfest.co.nz for info on the Filmmaking Competition, Filmmaking Masterclasses and the glamorous red carpet awards for kids!

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Deesie’s Big Adventure, Southern Ballet Theatre, 108 Carlyle Street, Christchurch The delightful story of Deesie, a little Jack Russell who gets left behind in the Marlborough Sounds after a holiday, is brought to life by the Junior Ballet

From school holiday adventures, to technology sessions and family nights out, we have you covered with local events and happenings. Company. Join Deesie as he finds his way back home, and meet all the local creatures and animals he comes across along the way.

11 – 22 July Alice In Wonderland, Imagine Theatre, Elmwood Auditorium An exciting new adaptation of Lewis Carroll’s fantasy from Imagine Youth Theatre. Enter the realms of makebelieve as Alice gets sleepy, sees a white rabbit wearing a waistcoat, and falls down a rabbit hole. It’s all madness!

15 – 16 July The Christchurch Brick Show, Horncastle Arena, Christchurch One of the biggest Lego events of its kind in New Zealand, the exhibition will showcase fantastic creations and is aimed at Lego fans of all ages.

16 July The Wiggles Rock & Roll Preschool Tour, Charles Luney Auditorium, St Margarets College, 12 Winchester Street, Christchurch The Rock & Roll Preschool Tour will get you all shook up, mixing some new hits with Wiggles’ classics such as Hot Potato!, Rock-a-Bye Your Bear and Do the Propeller. The fab four of fun for under-fives will of course be joined by Dorothy the Dinosaur, Captain Feathersword, Wags the Dog and Henry the Octopus!

18 – 22 July Coppelia, Southern Ballet Theatre, 108 Carlyle Street, Christchurch The Senior and Intermediate Ballet Companies bring to life the charming story of a girl, a boy and a magical toymaker, complete with beautiful costumes and performed in Southern Ballet’s own boutique theatre.

TOP PICK 10 – 22 July Snow White, The Court Theatre, Bernard Street, Christchurch

Everyone’s ready to see Snow White – except the actors haven’t shown up! Three ushers use buckets, mops and their imagination to create everything from the Magic Mirror to the Wicked Queen… but they might need some help for the Seven Dwarfs.

25 – 26 July The Very Hungry Caterpillar Show, Isaac Theatre Royal, 145 Gloucester Street, Christchurch The Very Hungry Caterpillar Show brings to life the incredible stories by Eric Carle. The show features a menagerie of 75 enchanting puppets and faithfully adapts four of Carle’s beloved books: The Artist Who Painted a Blue Horse, Mr Seahorse, The Very Lonely Firefly and The Very Hungry Caterpillar.

CALENDAR

25 – 26 August Romeo & Juliet, Isaac Theatre Royal, 145 Gloucester Street, Christchurch Artistic Director and choreographer Francesco Ventriglia creates a new version of the world’s greatest love story for the Royal New Zealand Ballet: the company’s first new production of Romeo and Juliet since 2003.

28 August A Festival of Russian Ballet, Isaac Theatre Royal, 145 Gloucester Street, Christchurch

Following their sell-out performances of Swan Lake and The Nutcracker, the Imperial Russian Ballet Company return to Australasia with three awe-inspiring acts. This stunning and diverse programme consists of an eclectic mix ranging from the magnificent Don Quixote to the dramatic Bolero.

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15 – 22 July

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What You Will, Fortune Theatre, 231 Stuart Street, Dunedin

01 – 22 July

Created by Dunedin locals Zac Nicholls and Jordan Dickson, this is a rip-roaring tale for the whole family based on Shakespeare’s Twelfth Night. Full of songs, gags and jokes to have the whole family giggling along.

Roald Dahl Film Fest, Dunedin Public Art Gallery, 30 The Octagon, Dunedin

Twelfth Night, Fortune Theatre, 231 Stuart Street, Dunedin Shakespeare is moving back into the Fortune with this perennially rich, bold and classic comedy.

20 July

Even after 400 odd years, this tale – with 15 – 23 July shipwrecks, gender-bending disguises, traps and some terrific party songs – hasn’t Giant Jaffa Rolling Ball Sculpture, Otago Museum, 419 Great King lost any of its entertainment value. Street, Dunedin

08 – 23 July Chocolate Mmmysteries – Gallery Trail, Otago Museum, 419 Great King Street, Dunedin

Lend a hand in building our sweet sculpture on Atrium Level 1 by adding your own pieces to the track. Then send the Jaffa Balls rolling down to see where they end up.

Solve the cocoa-themed clues hidden throughout the Museum to claim your tasty reward. Collect your trail map from the info Desk.

Horrible Histories, Isaac Theatre Royal, 145 Gloucester Street, Christchurch We all want to meet people from history. The trouble is everyone is dead! So it’s time to prepare for this special one-hour production of Horrible Histories, and meet the most famous, infamous and dangerous characters in British history. You’ll be amazed, appalled and ablaze with delight as this acclaimed West End show uses songs, audience participation, fun, facts and farts to tell the stories of the people who made Britain barmy.

15 July Chocolate Carnival Opening, The Octagon, Dunedin

The Mayor of Joyville is back and we are celebrating chocolate in Dunedin! Bring the family to the Octagon and meet all your favourite chocolate characters – Freddo Frog, the Easter Bunny and Feldspar the Magical Elf.

Explore! Saturday 8 – Saturday 22 July 2017

Enjoy a chocolate-filled morning tea and a Chocolate Egg and Spoon Race around the Castle carriageway at this magical outing for you and your best teddy bear friend. Plus, make sure you dress your teddy bear in a fantastic outfit made with Cadbury chocolate wrappers for the Teddy Bear Fashion Parade.

Ice Gala Talent Extravaganza, Dunedin Ice Stadium, 101 Victoria Road, St Kilda, Dunedin

10 – 14 July

Learn how to tell your story in pictures. Come dressed as your favourite Harry Potter character for this magical and entertaining workshop.

Larnach Castle Teddy Bear’s Picnic, Larnach Castle, 145 Camp Road, Company Bay, Dunedin

21 July

Drawing on The Light Side, various Dunedin Public Libraries

14 October

From Matilda, to The BFG, The Witches and more, come along and enjoy the magic of these timeless tales.

29 – 30 July

Bring the whole family to watch a fabulous display of ice skating and then join them on the ice and be part of the talent! A high-energy 60-minute showcase of competitive and gala performances, followed by 90 minutes to ‘have a go’ with Dunedin Ice Skating Club coaches and skaters.

The Very Hungry Caterpillar Show, Regent Theatre, 17 The Octagon, Dunedin

15 October

The Very Hungry Caterpillar Show brings to life the incredible stories by Eric Carle. The show features a menagerie of 75 enchanting puppets and faithfully adapts four of Carle’s beloved books: The Artist Who Painted a Blue Horse, Mr Seahorse, The Very Lonely Firefly and The Very Hungry Caterpillar.

We all want to meet people from history. The trouble is everyone is dead! So it’s time to prepare for this special one-hour production of Horrible Histories, and meet the most famous, infamous and dangerous characters in British history. You’ll be amazed, appalled and ablaze with delight as this acclaimed West End show uses songs, audience participation, fun, facts and farts to tell the stories of the people who made Britain barmy.

TOP PICK

Horrible Histories, Dunedin Town Hall, Moray Place, Dunedin

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BRAIN BOX

Get Creative

With winter upon us, now is the perfect time to get creative indoors

Fluffy, Bouncy Paint

Oopsie Daisy from MindLabKids.com got a bit carried away with the most unlikely ingredients, and made the funkiest paint in town!

WHAT YOU NEED Food colouring

METHOD Squeeze your desired amount of shaving foam into a bowl or cup. Add PVA glue (about 1/3 of the quantity of foam), then stir together in a light, scooping motion, keeping the air in the foam as much as you can.

Shaving foam

Add some flour, just enough to thicken the mixture – watch out that your mixture doesn’t flatten or go too grainy.

PVA glue

Divide your foam into individual zip-lock bags and add food colouring. Cut a small-ish hole in the corner of the zip-lock bags and start piping the paint onto your card into your chosen design.

Popsicle stick or spoon for mixing Plastic cups or a large bowl Zip-lock bags Flour Scissors Coloured paper or card

TIP You can experiment with how much of each ingredient you want to include, but a good guideline is to have shaving foam as the primary ingredient, and keep the flour content to a minimum. Make sure you don’t touch your eyes if you get ingredients on your fingers as it will sting. And make sure you cover up your surfaces to avoid staining from the food colouring.

BEYOND THE LAB Developing curiosity, skills and knowledge around Science, Technology and Discovery, this online forum delivers experiments and challenges to the home environment. Over three years, The Mind Lab by Unitec has helped introduce more than 100,000 children to the wonders and possibilities of science and technology. From the start, the experiences and experiments on offer have resonated with children, teachers and parents. ‘They want to know and understand more, and take their experience home with them’, says General Manager, Fee McLeod.

MindLabKids.com is an exciting new videobased learning website designed to offer primary school-age kids the chance to have a Mind Lab experience beyond the lab.

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The website enables children aged 5-12 to discover science and technology, and to collaborate with like-minded children from the comfort of their own homes – so the learning never stops! ‘The home-friendly challenges and experiments are every bit as exciting and educational as those conquered in our labs’, says Fee. As with their school group and holiday programmes, MindLabKids.com is a safe and friendly platform that aims to build knowledge and discovery of robotics, 3D design, animation and stop motion, moviemaking, coding, programming, electronic engineering, augmented reality and more. A new video challenge around these topics is launched on the site three times a week; and kids are asked to create a free account and upload a video response to the challenge to demonstrate key skills such as creating, innovating, collaborating, problem-solving and failing. They are then able to add their own special twist and share it with their friends and family.

We understand that it can be challenging to keep kids interested in learning’, says Fee. ‘The reason MindLabKids.com works is that it’s all about letting kids experiment, learn, discover and, most importantly, have fun. ’

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Reversed Engineering Ever seen a plastic plate hover above the ground all by itself? Nor have we. But Professor D has made what seems impossible, possible. And by watching the full instruction video at MindLabKids.com, so can you! The hovercraft is a great lesson that has multiple learning objectives. From one lesson, children gain a basic understanding of how to wire a circuit, to how invisible forces work and how weight can cause problems with flight.

WHY NOT? Record what you create and upload to MindLabKids.com.

Make pets that Rock Influenced by the beauty of nature, Beci Orpin inspires us with creative projects, big and small. Here, she turns regular rocks into various vibrant creatures.

When I was young, I spent a disproportionate amount of time collecting rocks and putting faces on them. Googly eyes were one particular favourite touch. At one stage, I set up a street-side stall trying to fob them off.

This is an edited extract from Sunshine Spaces by Beci Orpin published by Hardie Grant Books RRP NZ$44.99. Photography copyright Chris Middleton.

So when it came to making these guys, I had a lot of experience to draw from, except this time there wasn’t a googly eye in sight. These guys are a ‘Beci2017’ version. The best thing about pet rocks is they are so EASY to make. You can dress them up to look like your friends, members of your family or even your pets. Spend time planning what (or who) you’ll paint on your rocks, matching their shapes to different personalities. You will be rewarded with extra good-looking rocks if you do.

WHAT YOU NEED clean, dry rocks in various shapes and sizes (find them in the street or park, or buy them from your

METHOD Spread your rocks out on a work table and look at their shapes and sizes. Sketch out some rough ideas for each rock. Use a pencil to draw your designs on the rocks. Using the small paintbrushes and paints, paint in the larger areas, such as the eyes, the hair or a hat. Once the paint is dry, paint in the details such as the eyeballs, nose and mouth. If you can still see pencil lines, once the paint has dried use an eraser to rub them out. If you like, finish with a coat of varnish. Work out what trims you’d like to add to give your rocks a bit of 3D fun. You could cut small ears or tails from felt scraps, make small bows from ribbon, braids from wool or add a small pompom to the top of a hat or for a nose. Glue the trims to the painted rocks. If you like, create a home for your pet rocks. They are particularly fond of beds of soft, small-leaved foliage.

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paper and pencil small paintbrushes acrylic paints eraser varnish (optional) assorted supplies for trims and extra details: felt, ribbon, small pompoms, wool, card scissors PVA glue

Extract reproduced with permission from Sun Shine Spaces by Beci Orpin. Winter / 2017

DID YOU KNOW?

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You’re probably well aware of the usual message preached by traditional power companies to ‘help’ you save money on your power bills - use less power. It’s not the best advice, especially when the barometer’s dropping and the forecast is for snow! Discover an energy company changing the way we think about power use.

f your life currently revolves around analysing nappies and endless piles of washing, chances are you’ve entered the world of parenthood – congratulations! At a guess, we’d say your electricity needs are pretty low on your list of priorities (and fair enough, too), but we also know that chilly winter temperatures, reduced income, and a precious wee bundle to keep warm can make for a stressful combination – especially when it comes to your power bill. Flick Electric’s mantra is just the opposite. They don’t think Kiwis should have to use less power and live in cold homes just to save money. Instead, Flick encourages you to be smart about how and when you use power. Flick customers pay the ever-changing wholesale (spot) price of electricity, and with access to smart tools that show real-time electricity prices, they know the best time to use power to make big savings. And ‘big savings’ is no exaggeration. Flick’s Dunedin customers saved an

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average $732 in the past year, and Christchurch customers saved $794, compared to what they would have paid with their previous retailers. Something to get excited about, right? Dunedinites Andrew and Hollie Humphries (plus their two boys, Fletcher, 2, and Rory, 8) moved to Flick 18 months ago, and have already saved a whopping $2,303.05. A one-income family, they hated the shock of their monthly power bills with their previous retailer. Their Flick bills range from $28 a week over summer to around $50-60 a week during winter – a huge difference from their previous retailer. In Christchurch live Geoff Walker and Sarah Pettigrew with their 3-yearold daughter, Mayan. Geoff says, ‘I like the option of being able to access the variable (spot price) rate; I love the weekly billing for budgeting purposes, and as an accountant I feel like I’m getting a fair rate for my power.’

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How to make the most of the Flick model Put the dishwasher on just before going to bed rather than straight after dinner. It’s cheaper, and a really simple habit to change.

Lauren and John Donnan made the move from Auckland to Dunedin in March this year, along with their 18-month-old daughter, India.

Set your heat pump to run overnight and in the late afternoon just before you get home. It means you can enjoy a warm house in the cooler hours without having to pay peak prices.

As Flick customers in Auckland, they were so happy with their savings they decided to re-join Flick in Dunedin. In those two months, they’ve saved $96.47. John says, ‘we often have extended family and friends staying, so we use the Flick app to keep tabs on our power usage – and we love that Flick is so transparent!’

Cook dinner in the slow cooker during the day. Not only will you come home to a warm evening meal, you’ll save money by avoiding the dinnertime peak.

They’re also big proponents of Flick’s smart technology. ‘I like the instantaneous nature of the CHOICE app, and the fact it can tell me the impact of carbon emissions from electricity on the environment.’ The CHOICE app is a world first, showing Kiwis the live carbon impact of the electricity in the grid at any given time, so we can make a conscious choice about the type of power we consume. It’s good for the planet, good for New Zealand’s infrastructure, and given the lovely correlation between clean energy and low spot prices, it’s also good for your wallet. 0800 435 425 / flickelectric.co.nz

Set your washing machine to start in the wee hours so you can hang your laundry out before leaving home in the morning. You’ll save with off-peak pricing, and there’ll be no need to use the dryer. Win-win!

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TRAVEL

LAKE TWIZEL / PHOTO RACHEL STEWART

Mackenzie Adventures From lakes and mountains, to pools and ice-skating rinks, the Mackenzie region offers all sorts of adventures this winter.

ith the spectacular Southern Alps shaping the region, the Mackenzie Region is one of New Zealand’s truly breathtaking arenas for skiing and snow-boarding. Mt Dobson, Roundhill and Ohau offer slopes for all abilities and adventure levels, making them ideal for family ski adventures.

Mt Dobson From the well-groomed slopes for beginners and intermediates, through to the soft and smooth powder that will test the best, Mt Dobson caters for everyone. At the end of the run, ride the Doppelmayr Triple Chairlift back to the top – a great way to rest the limbs and catch your breath.

Roundhill This fantastic family ski field affords magnificent views of Aoraki Mt Cook, the Southern Alps and Lake Tekapo. Learners and little ones can find their feet on the massive beginners’ area, which features a platter lift and two beginner rope tows. At the other extreme, adventurous members of the party can experience what Australasia’s biggest vertical drop (of 783m) is all about.

Ohau Ohau is famous for its exceptional snowboarding facilities and terrain. For the ultimate ski experience, stay at the Lake Ohau Lodge, where kids are welcomed and catered for, and where you can collapse into the spa pool after a day on the slopes.

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Clay Cliffs

Off the slopes, soak in one of the five hot pools, or enjoy the two new cooler pools at Tekapo Springs. The Macaulay Kids’ Aqua Play + Pool area offers a number of interactive water features for the ultimate fun.

For an experience of magnificent proportions, seek out the spectacular Clay Cliffs of Omarama. About 15 minutes north of Omarama, driving towards Twizel, turn left 700m after the Ahuriri Bridge. From there the route is well-signposted. The bumpy trip into what feels like unchartered territory is well worth it – revealing a truly magical place made up of naturally-formed giant sandcastles with sharp pinnacles and ravines carved out of red clay. This hidden treasure is unique and, best of all, inexpensive – you will be asked for a donation of $5 per vehicle towards the upkeep of the road.

Done soaking or splashing, the Snow Tube Park is a popular attraction for kids and adults. Throughout the cooler months, an international-sized ice rink is a platform for skating and curling, and for discos on the weekends!

DRIVING YOU CRAZY? Four simple car games that have been keeping the youngsters in the backseat entertained for generations

I Spy

Easy to learn, this one is perfect for preschoolers and keeps them entertained for long periods. They will love saying, ‘I spy with my little eye… something red’, and having the big people guess.

Numbers on the Licence Plate

Each person chooses a number from 0-9. With every car that passes, you look at the last number of the licence plate and tally up

how many times you spot your number. Can get competitive, so perhaps play a few shorter rounds (first to 3) so that everyone gets a chance of winning.

I’m Going on a Picnic

This alphabet-based memory game is great for school-aged kids – but of course you may need to help the younger players remember the items. Or perhaps it’ll be the older players who’ll struggle.

20 Questions

An easy, fun game for all the family. Someone thinks of a person, place or thing, and everyone else takes turns asking questions that can be answered with a simple yes or no. Play continues until a player guesses correctly. One hitch with this one is when a player chooses something that others have never heard of. Fun times!

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FOOD

Reinventing

Apricot Chicken SLOW COOKED BY ALLYSON GOFTON is the perfect winter accessory in a busy family kitchen. Here is our top pick from this scrummy cookbook. Serves 8 Preparation time 15 minutes Cooking time low 5-6 hours, high 3-4 hours INGREDIENTS 8 chicken leg and thigh portions 2 x 32-gram packets onion soup mix 750-millilitre bottle apricot nectar 400-gram can apricot halves, well drained

VARIATIONS Add a sliced onion and 1-2 teaspoons minced garlic. Brown in a dash of oil in a frying pan to add a sweet caramelisedonion flavour. Stir in ½ cup sour cream before serving. Replace 1 cup of apricot nectar with ½ cup medium sweet sherry Suitable for ages 1-5.

METHOD Turn the slow cooker on to low to pre-warm while gathering and preparing the ingredients.

If wishing to brown the chicken, heat a dash of oil in a heavy-based frying pan and quickly brown the chicken pieces. Put the chicken into the pre-warmed slow cooker. Stir together the soup mix and apricot nectar, pour over the chicken, and cover with the lid. Cook on low for 5-6 hours or on high for 3-4 hours, or until the chicken is tender. Add the apricots and season with salt and pepper. Serve with plenty of creamy mashed potatoes and garnish with chopped fresh chives or parsley. Extract reproduced with permission from Slow Cooked by Allyson Gofton. 38 Winter / 2017

Text copyright Allyson Gofton, 2017; Photography copyright Manja Wachsmuth, 2017.

If wished, cut the leg and thigh portions in half.

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Knights’ favourite place was the backyard. Every day she would wake up, put on her favourite cloak, drag her twig sword through her belt, and rush out to see what was happening in the world. Sometimes she played on the moon, to the left of the house where the shingle drive ended, and sometimes she charged across the African savanna, the tussock garden down the side of the fence. Today she decided to go into the jungle, the overgrown weedy place beside the trampoline. Except it wasn’t a trampoline. It was a large dark river full of dangerous crocodiles. Anyone could see that. Thunders’ favourite place was also the backyard. He would plonk himself in the middle of the sandpit — the desert, actually — and bang on his drum. Bing bom bash bidda BOOM bidda BOOM bidda BOOM ‘Want to play with me?’ said Knights. Bing bom bash bidda BOOM bidda BOOM bidda BOOM went the drum. ‘I’m going into the jungle’, said Knights. Bing bom bash bidda BOOM bidda BOOM bidda BOOM went the drum.

Knights came back out of the jungle. The sandpit was empty. There was a drum in the distance, playing slowly and rhythmically. Bing boom bingity boom Knights twirled the twig sword above her head and galloped down to the shingle driveway. The drumming got louder. BING boom BINGITY boom There was an elephant sitting on the moon, playing the drum. BING boom BINGITY boom She knew it was an elephant because its face was a grey colour and it had two huge ears and a curly trunk. ‘You’re lost, aren’t you?’ said Knights. ‘Elephants don’t live on the moon. You need rescuing. Lucky that I’m here.’ Bing ‘I’ll take you back to the jungle’, said Knights. ‘You’ll be much happier there. Follow me.’ Knights galloped around the garden three times and then stopped and looked behind her. The elephant was plodding across the desert.

‘To find an elephant. You can bring your drum.’

BING boom BINGITY boom

Bidda BOOM bidda BOOM

‘In you go’, she said.

Knights sighed and pulled out her twig sword with a flourish and galloped down towards the weedy place. She disappeared into the shrubbery. She hunted for elephant footprints, behind the manuka, around the magnolia tree. She scuffed out a small hole in the ground with the heel of her boot.

Thunders disappeared into the weedy place. The drumming started up again.

‘No elephants here’, she called out. A family of slaters ran out of the small hole in the ground and vanished under the roots of the magnolia tree.

Knights pulled aside a magnolia branch.

Knights looked around. There was an empty cardboard box on the trampoline.

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Cut out a cardboard circle to cover your face. You can use the back of an old cereal box. Colour it grey, add a touch of glitter on the nose and cut out two holes for your eyes.

Cut out two ovals for ears. You can decorate them with felt pens.

Use a long strip of paper for the nose and curl it by rolling it up and letting it dangle. Glue it on.

Attach some elastic on either side of the head, and you’re good to go to Africa!

‘I’m going down the river. To find a crocodile.’ She climbed up the ladder and stepped into the cardboard box. She looked over the side. ‘No crocodiles’, she said, ‘yet’.

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Articles inside

Brain Box

Food

Story Time

Power to You

Family Friendly Dining Guide

A Safe Place

Carrot Sticks, Cake or a Can of Worms?

Protecting those Precious Pearls

Letting Go

Two Lines

Curated for Kids

Travelling with Kids

Trust in Yourself

A Wild Time this Winter

Positive Parenting