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What’s on at Christmas Parties Parenting Issue 59 November/December 2023

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CONTENTS

Editor’s Welcome The Team: EDITOR: Lesley Chambers 07863 790592 editor@familieshampshirenorth.co.uk SALES SUPPORT: Claire Clarricoates 07812 218331 claire.clarricoates@familiespublishing.co.uk DESIGN: Rebecca Carr rebecca@familiesmagazine.co.uk NEXT ISSUE: JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2024 Booking deadline: 30 November 2023

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News Education Early years Parties Parenting Out and about What’s on

Hello! It has been exciting working on my first issue as editor of Families Hampshire North magazine. This is a lovely area with lots going on for families, and I’m looking forward to discovering more places and sharing them with you over the coming months.

I hope that 2023 has been a happy year for you and that it will be rounded off by a very special festive season.

We have gathered together details of loads of local family events happening in November and December, including places to see Father Christmas, Christmas markets and shows – something for everyone!

In our education section we look at multiple intelligences, and there is a great round-up of children’s chapter books in case you need some inspiration for a gift for the children in your life.

I hope you have a happy and peaceful end to the year, whatever you do!

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NEWS & VIEWS

The 12 Days of Christmas last for five magical weeks at Festival Place A joy-filled launch day on November 18 will mark this year’s run up to Christmas at Festival Place with a fairytale take on everyone’s favourite festive song – The 12 Days of Christmas.

From choirs a-carolling to a turtle dove swinging, this Christmas at the Basingstoke shopping centre will be a festival of feasting, gathering with loved ones and general merry-making. The 12 Days of Christmas will play out against a backdrop of huge scarlet poinsettias, twinkling light displays and traditional red and gold decorations.

In the five weeks before Christmas, Santa himself will be leaving his reindeer in the elves’ capable hands to drop into his grotto and check out what local children would like to see on their Christmas lists this year, and visitors can also hop onto a turtle dove swing to coo for the camera and the perfect festive Instagram pic.

Neverland Illuminova sparkles in Wellington Country Park In the heart of Wellington Country Park, an illuminated kingdom awaits you this Winter with even more Neverland to discover. Join Hope on a journey into Neverland as they take you through their ideas, re-discover their curious and wandering mind, and take you on a journey that will ignite your imagination along the way.

Be immersed in the poetic paths as you walk into the night and embark upon the enchanting adventure of Neverland Illuminova, the illuminated night trail that never grows old.

New for 2023, explore the awakened woodlands and reach for the stars with our extended trail. Enjoy a magical quest with your friends and family - there is something for everyone.

This is a heartwarming adventure with big memories. There are limited spaces for a truly bespoke experience. Brighten the end of your year!

The Christmas Craft Room will also be open from 10am for visitors to take a break from shopping, get creative and craft a gift for their loved ones.

For further updates, visit www.festivalplace.co.uk or find details on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

GIVEAWAY: My First Space Atlas and My First Dinosaur Atlas

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Buckle up for countdown and hold on tight for lift off! You’re about to visit the International Space Station, take a space walk, land on the moon and ride in a moon buggy. You’ll also tour the planets, explore the Milky Way and see our universe! But watch out for space junk, dark matter and black holes.

Choose a real Christmas tree from the forest this year at Alice Holt Forest

This is the perfect book to share with young children from four years old. It has bright, quirky images and an evocative narrative to bring the experience to life.

Choose from traditional Norway Spruce for a fresh pine scent or a Nordmann Fir, the most popular Christmas tree in the UK due to its shape and low drop dark green needles. Both are available in a range of heights. Or for something different, there is a variety of potted trees available, up to 5ft in height.

We are excited to be able to give away a copy of My First Space Atlas along with a copy of My First Dinosaur Atlas.

Make a day of it and try the exciting new festive trail while you visit! Enjoy the Zog character trail before it finishes at the end of 2023, wander through the beautiful wintery forest and then treat yourself to a hot drink and some food from the café.

If you would like to be in with a chance of winning them both, please e-mail editor@familieshampshirenorth.co.uk by 30th November. A winner will be selected at random.

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The Alice Holt Christmas tree shop will be open 9am-5pm, 7 days a week from 23rd November to 19th December.

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EDUCATION

Seven of the best new chapter books for children

By Sarah Campbell

From animal lovers to budding detectives, fantasy fans to comedians, there’s a book out there for everyone!

Here are some of our recent favourites, perfect for your next reading adventure.

Around the world The Last Mapmaker Christina Soontornvat Set sail on the high seas with 12-year-old Sai in this extraordinary adventure set in a Thai-inspired fantasy world. As assistant to Mangkon’s most celebrated mapmaker, Sai seizes the chance to join an expedition to a land of dragons, dangers and riches beyond imagining. But Sai carries a secret that could ruin her dreams and she isn’t the only one.

Ages 8+.

Animal lovers

Kids who love fantasy

Michael the Amazing MindReading Sausage Dog Terrie Chilvers, illustrated by Tim Budgen

Spellstone Ross Montgomery

A fun, illustrated early chapter book perfect for young dog-lovers!

Michael’s dream is to become a global superstar but becoming famous is no walk in the park. How long will it take the other residents of Snuffles-by-Sea to recognise Michael’s amazing talents; and those of his trusty sidekick, Stanley Big Dog? Ages 5+.

One of our all-time favourite children’s authors delivers a brilliant new fantasy adventure.

Evie is used to going unnoticed.

But then she meets the mysterious Wainwright and is recruited to a secret magical organisation.

Suddenly Evie finds herself at the heart of an ancient battle to protect the most powerful magical weapon in the world. Ages 8+.

Reluctant readers

Funny books

The Day the Hiccups Took Over Jo Simmons, illustrated by Lee Cosgrove

My Name is Sunshine Simpson G. M. Linton

Hilarious and super accessible, this is a book packed with madcap reading magic from one of our favourite funny authors. Frank has a big day ahead of him, with a trip to the dentist, a trumpet exam, a swimming contest and tickets to see his hero live on stage. But he wakes up with hiccups and they just won’t STOP! Can Frank turn calamity into a dramatic triumph?

Ages 5+.

This book will make you both laugh and cry! Sunshine Simpson is a brand new best friend for independent readers. Grandad is always telling her to get out and find her own adventures but bad luck has a habit of coming her way.

Sunshine needs to find her voice and show the world she can shine.

Ages 8+.

Kids who love adventure

Budding detectives

The Thames and Tide Club Katya Balen, illustrated by Rachael Dean

The Case of the Lighthouse Intruder Kereen Getten

Clem and her friends are members of a mudlarking club, searching for treasures on the banks of the River Thames. Before they know it they’re on the weirdest, wildest adventure they could imagine on a mission to save underwater London! The first in a new series.

Ages 5+.

Perfect for fans of Robin Stevens’ Murder Most Unladylike series, this is a gripping mystery. Fayson’s cousins recruit her to their top-secret gang but seem more interested in food, squabbling and falling asleep! So Fayson takes charge and tries to track down clues about the strange shadow that has been appearing in the island’s lighthouse. Can she solve the case? Ages 8+.

Sarah Campbell is co-founder of Parrot Street Book Club (www.parrotstreet.com), an online children’s bookshop offering a handpicked collection of high-quality children’s chapter books, plus an award-winning monthly book subscription for kids ages 5 to 14.

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EDUCATION

Understanding multiple intelligences

By Zuzu Jordan

Look up the word intelligent in the thesaurus and you will find words like ‘smart’, ‘clever’ and ‘bright’. Traditionally in schools, pupils with regular high scores in academic or IQ tests are recognised as intelligent. Yet, as a society, we marvel at great artists, musicians and Olympians for their outstanding talent.

How intelligence is measured is a debatable topic and leaves many people divided.

Howard Gardner (a well know theorist) proposed that there are many types of intelligences.

Logical relates to someone who can carry out mathematical problems, hypothesise and investigate scientifically.

Linguistic describes someone who is considered word smart and can easily learn languages.

Spatial refers to artists and architects who can visualise with their mind’s eye.

Kinaesthetic is being able to use the whole body or parts of the

body exceptionally well, such as a dancer or athlete.

Musical refers to someone who can perform, compose and appreciate musical patterns.

Interpersonal is working effectively with people, knowing their intentions and motivations.

Intrapersonal refers to strong self-awareness and using this understanding in everyday life.

Naturalistic is the ability to identify different species and work well with all things natural.

Children may show strong signs of intelligence in more than one area, perhaps with a tendency to a dominant one. Sometimes their intelligences may shift when exposed to different experiences and activities.

How do we support our children in harnessing their intelligences?

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Not all educational establishments will fully cater for your child’s intelligences but parents can play a vital role by using some of these ideas at home: Start by observing what your child enjoys across a range of activities. What are they like outside? Do they naturally tap out rhythms in the car whilst the radio is playing?

Celebrate what they CAN do so they develop a sense of pride.

Does your child know which intelligences they lean towards?

Play to their strengths. For example, if your child is spatially smart, ask them to draw what they are learning. If they show signs of naturalistic intelligence, give them sticks and other natural objects to create patterns and images.

Children are required to learn to read. Choose books that tap into their interests and intelligences.

Discuss your child’s strengths with their teachers. The more they understand your child’s leanings, the better lesson planning can involve multiple intelligences.

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Play games such as Junior Scrabble, Monopoly, making sound effects in a story, charades, puppets and role play or garden activities.

Nurture their particular intelligences with after school activities/clubs.

Use online quizzes which help identify children’s intelligences.

Read books that help children understand the importance of working on their intelligences, for example You are Awesome by Matthew Syed.

Zuzu Jordan is a Mastery for Maths specialist who has taught primary aged children for sixteen years and is interested in early years and home learning. For free homework and home learning resources, find the Facebook page Edumateuk.

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EARLY YEARS

Developing your child’s social skills Some children may find socialising more difficult than others.

If your little one struggles or seems reluctant to be with other people, they may need some support to learn social skills.

Here are some things you can do to help.

Practise talking Chat about what you are doing, seeing or feeling to help build your child’s vocabulary and exposure to conversations. Role play, games and storytelling are all good for developing language.

Model good manners, such as saying ‘please’ and ‘thank you.’

This will encourage children to act this way with their peers.

Listen and take turns Children learn both verbal and non-verbal skills from the people around them. Try showing them what good listening looks like through your own behaviour and using games like Simon Says.

Find ways to make taking turns fun. Choose an object and tell your family they need to be holding it when they talk. Pass it between you. If your child is a little older, take it in turns to make up funny sounds as if you are having an alien conversation.

Show the importance of body language Use eye contact and body language with your child. Experiment by asking them to talk about something while you use poor body language. This could be crossed arms, looking away, fidgeting or frowning. Ask them how your actions made them feel. Then show them attentive body language. Take it in turns.

Teach them about personal space Consider teaching your child about personal space. Ask

them to put their hands on their hips and stick their elbows out to understand their personal space. Introduce the idea of boundaries by asking first if you can come into their space for a hug.

Develop their emotional skills When you help your child understand, express and cope with emotions, it helps them recognise the emotions of others and develops empathy. Teach them to problem-solve, guiding them with questions such as ‘What could you do?’ or ‘What could you say?’ Try to avoid answering for them.

You can also talk to your child about friendships and what it is to be a good friend. If you can, arrange and support opportunities for socialising.

With thanks to Action for Children (www.actionforchildren.org. uk) for this article. For further support on child development, visit its Parent Talk website at www.parents.actionforchildren. org.uk

Listen and learn Develop your child’s listening and concentration skills by engaging them with short, simple instructions and fun ‘listen and play’ games:

Musical statues The old party favourite; dance or jump around to music and when it stops, freeze! Simple and fun, especially when other children play along.

March and sleep Grab a noisy object and a quieter object; a simple wooden spoon as drumstick and rattly cereal box will do. When you use the noisy object, get your child to march around the room. When they hear the quieter one, they lie on the floor and pretend to sleep. Swap roles so your child can make the noises, test your skills and learn about taking turns.

What did you hear?

Hide a selection of noisy objects under a blanket and make a sound with one of them. Your child has to guess which one made the sound. Gradually increase the number of objects to up the challenge. Try making sounds from several toys or objects at once.

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PARTIES

Top tips for throwing an inclusive kids’ party

By Tamsin Ryan Parties can be overwhelming for all children and parents too! But they are even more challenging for a child with special needs.

As neurodiverse diagnoses increase, so does the need for awareness and inclusivity. Autism and ADHD can influence how a child perceives the world, communicates, learns and manages anxiety. However, there are lots of quick and easy things we can all do to make children’s parties more inclusive. Taking insights and experience from parents, party suppliers and professionals, here are some tried-and-tested ideas for hosting inclusive parties, which foster understanding and awareness. Try these five top tips and you will have manageable strategies to ensure that every child, from the birthday child to each of the guests, can enjoy a truly inclusive party.

Carefully select activities

Share the schedule

Support social skills

Sensory activities provide an inclusive space for all children, especially those with complex needs. Think sensoryfriendly stations with sand, playdough, kinetic sand and similar. Offer fidget toys, musical instruments and engaging crafts like jewellery making, biscuit decorating or pottery painting.

Share a detailed timeline when you send out the invitations, possibly in the form of a ‘social story’ filled with pictures.

This helps children to understand the content and flow of the party and sets expectations. Parents will also appreciate the advance information, helping them decide if their child should attend the entire event or only parts. While sharing the party theme (if there is one) is beneficial, flexibility is key; for example dressing up might not be suitable for everyone.

Navigating a party can be challenging for children with special needs. Overstimulation may affect their social interaction. You may want to organise a few short, structured games but be ready to accept that not all of the children may want to participate. You may also like to designate a familiar adult as a ‘safe’ go-to person.

Craft a sensory-friendly environment Some children get easily over-stimulated and it’s a great idea to plan a sensoryfriendly atmosphere by avoiding loud music, bright decorations and boisterous activities. Outdoor parties can be ideal, offering a lower noise level and natural sensory experiences.

Offer accommodations Plan for the needs of individual guests Children with autism may require breaks or quiet spaces. A sensory tent or den or just a soft, quiet reading corner could provide an oasis for short respites.

A few inclusive party suppliers to get you started: Mrs Miles Magic Facepainter. (Find on Facebook) The Little Gym Gym-based activities and fun. www.thelittlegym.co.uk Playhouse Parties Shows and performances. www.playhouseparties.co.uk Kingswood Shetlands Animal experiences. www.kingswoodshetlands.org Jelly Jade Entertainer. www.partywithjellyjade.co.uk The Oxford Facepainter www.oxfordfacepainter.com

If hosting the party yourself seems a little overwhelming, an increasing number of party suppliers are offering inclusive parties that can be tailored to particular needs.

The Party Noodles Entertainment. www.thepartynoodles.com

The above tips will give you some useful and actionable ideas for making your parties more inclusive. Remember, you don’t have to do everything at once; take small steps.

The key is putting structure in, preparing the child(ren) and being motivated. But, most of all, have fun and enjoy the party!

Cook Stars Cooking classes. www.cookstars.co.uk

Find lots more ideas and advice for inclusive parties, including party suppliers, on Tamsin’s blog at www.icecreamandjelly.com.

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PARENTING

Granny knows best?

By Ellie Malt Respect for your elders is still considered an important principal but perhaps it’s another way of saying we need to pay attention to the wisdom of grandparents. They are the bearers of family traditions and their advice helps pass down values, stories and customs, helping a child understand their roots.

But how far should we follow their parenting advice?

Grandparents grew up with punishments that seem old fashioned and even inappropriate now, such as spanking or being sent to bed for not finishing everything on your plate.

Traditional ‘authoritarian parenting’ which used external punishments to drive unquestioning obedience has fallen out of favour. So why is this and what has replaced it?

A major reason for the change comes down to modern scientific research. In the UK, research with children who were separated from their parents during the Second World War led to the development of theories like ‘attachment parenting’. This suggested that trust and a good rapport between child and parent was, in the long term, much more effective in changing behaviour than physical punishment.

Since then, advances in MRI scanning have generated new insights into the development of children’s brains. Parenting styles based on this science are called ‘neuro-parenting.’ Each new step-up in scanning technology reveals more detail about how children’s brains grow. However, the link between structural changes in the brain and child behaviours is still subject to interpretation and pre-conceived bias.

Sometimes, neuro-parenting has pressured parents into worrying about the impact of every action on their child’s future success. Yet there are limits on how far parenting can affect children.

We now understand that genetics intervene and that perhaps our children won’t ‘fail at life’ if we don’t constantly stimulate their brains. Recently, there’s been more concern about overstimulation, while the latest brain scans show brains remain impressively elastic throughout life.

Who is the best source of parenting advice: modern science or granny?

‘authoritarian’) as achieving the best outcomes. It is a parenting style that combines one aspect of traditional parenting (setting limits and holding a child to rules) with the science of brain development, by adopting different methods in enforcing the rules.

Rather than punish, authoritative parents now coach their child on the consequences of behaviour. They are firm but kind. They may be strict but they are not mean.

They have learned that children are born with different types of brain and differences in sensory processing abilities. A child might have good reasons for not clearing their plate. Whereas a more traditional parent might issue punishment, an authoritative parent may question whether this is a rule worth setting in the first place.

On the other hand, suppose you have decided a fixed bedtime is a rule you want to be consistent about. Having established the rule, as an authoritative parent, you discuss the reasons and involve your child in establishing how it will work. You then give positive praise for any progress.

Refusal or delays are met with reminders about the rule and why it exists; always in a calm and warm manner. The parent will stand firm. Phew! No one said it was easy but it does have scientific evidence behind it. In long-term studies, non-punitive discipline was found to promote children’s own self-control and honesty and prevent aggressive behaviour.

I wonder what granny will think of that?

Ellie is a journalist, writer and mum of two daughters. She and her family live in Surrey.

Research supports ‘authoritative parenting’ (as opposed to

Different parenting styles

Finding your own style

Developmental Psychologist, Diana Baumrind, highlighted four parenting styles: Neglectful parenting: nothing is demanded and parents have a low responsiveness to their child.

Authoritarian parenting: parents demand unquestioning obedience but responsiveness to their child is low.

Permissive parenting: parents demand little from their children but are highly responsive.

Authoritative parenting: parents place demands on their children to obey rules but are also responsive to their children, allowing for reasoning.

Parenting fashions come and go, from the ‘we were outside playing all day until teatime and it didn’t do us any harm,’ through to so-called ‘helicopter parenting’ at the other end of the scale.

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There is no absolute right or wrong, just as there is no blueprint child. While mindful of research, what’s more important is that you are consistent as parents and bring up children in a loving and engaging home where the ‘rules’ are the ones you know work for your family.

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OUT & ABOUT

Local swim teacher dives into business ownership The new owner of local swim school, Puddle Ducks North Hampshire and Reading is a familiar face to many having been a teacher at the popular swim school for several years.

Lizzie Moore, who lives in Tilehurst, is so passionate about Puddle Ducks that she decided to buy the business where she had previously been Senior Teacher. The opportunity came about at the right time, just as she was considering her next challenge.

Lizzie commented: “I have loved being able to teach so many children in my local area the important life skill of swimming, so to be able to actually own the business that provides these award-winning classes feels like the stars have aligned”.

Many children across Hampshire, Berkshire and parts of Surrey, including Sonning Common, Reading and Bagshot, have learnt to swim with Puddle Ducks, something Lizzie is justifiably proud of.

To find out more about Puddle Ducks North Hampshire and Reading, call 0118 229 3232 or visit: www.puddleducks.com/ local-teams/north-hampshire-and-reading

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Swimming Lessons for Babies & Children 0 - 10 Years

Festive adventures with the National Trust Festive family adventures abound at local National Trust properties from 25 November.

At Mottisfont, enter the richly-decorated house and follow letters to Father Christmas on a magical journey to the North Pole. Discover decorated bedrooms, a polar bear’s ball and experience the wonder of the northern lights over a towering tree sparkling with baubles. Help deliver Christmas wishes on an outdoor activity trail and step inside the Elves’ Sorting Office.

At Hinton Ampner, experience a Neverland Christmas as you step into the home of the Darling family and Nana the dog.

Here light, sound and movement bring scenes inspired by JM Barrie’s much-loved story of Peter Pan to life. Look out for a ticking crocodile, the Lost Boys’ camp and Tinker Bell’s mystical hideaway as well as Captain Hook, his band of pirates and, the source of all the magic, the fairies.

At The Vyne, immerse yourselves in the Christmas tale of The Nutcracker following heroes Clara and the Nutcracker as they defeat the villainous Mouse King on indoor and outdoor trails.

Look out for plucky gingerbread men, pirouetting snowflakes and sit on a throne for a photo as you savour the sight of a sumptuous banquet in the ‘Land of Sweets’.

More information at nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/hampshire

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Clip ‘n Climb is a great place for families and friends to hangout. I love all the creative climbs especially the stairway to heaven the instructors on it are very motivational too.

The food they have there is delicious. It is good they have a café as you will very hungry after doing the climbs. I find it a bit irritating you have watch the rules video every time even if you’ve watched it before but I guess because it’s for your safety so I understand. I wish they could change the climbs occasionally if possible as I go quite a lot. I Like how they give you challenges for different levels.

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at Mottisfont, Hinton Ampner and The Vyne Family adventures, sparkling houses, fairy-lit trees and festive activity trails.

Make memories to treasure at National Trust places near you. Christmas decorations are up from late November.

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WHAT’S ON

Christmas markets

Where to see Father Christmas

Tue 15th Nov – Sun 24th Dec The Malls, Churchill Way, Basingstoke, RG21 7QU, themalls.co.uk/home/ whats-on/ This annual event is in the heart of this busy shopping centre.

Seeing Father Christmas is one of the highlights of the season for many children. Here are some places where you can catch up with him locally this year.

Enjoy Christmas crafts and mulled wine at a cosy Christmas market!

Sat 18th Nov Andover Museum and Museum of the Iron Age, Andover, SP10 1DP hampshireculture.org.uk/museumiron-age Join the museum for their popular Christmas local craft market to find unique gifts made locally to Andover by amazing local artists and crafts people.

Thu 23rd – Sat 25th Nov Hawk Conservancy Trust, Andover, Weyhill, Andover, SP11 8DY hawk-conservancy.org Delight in locally-produced, hand-crafted products from stall holders who will each supply an array of gifts for your loved ones.

Sat 25th and Sun 26th Nov Basing House, Basingstoke, RG24 8AE hampshireculture.org.uk/basing-house The majestic Tudor Barn at Basing

House will be decorated for a wonderfully festive shopping experience.

Sat 2nd Dec Gilbert White’s House, The Wakes, High Street, Selborne, GU34 3JH gilbertwhiteshouse.org.uk There will be a range of stalls at this stunning 16th Century barn selling beautifully handcrafted locally-made items.

Sat 2nd and Sun 3rd Dec The Little Play Lounge, The Old Rectory, Rectory Road, Padworth Common, RG7 4JD, thelittleplaylounge. co.uk Stalls selling wooden toys, creations by local artisans, puzzles, storybooks and much more.

Sat 2nd and Sun 3rd Dec Milestones Museum, Leisure Park, Basingstoke, RG22 6PG, milestonesmuseum.org.uk Browse seasonal gifts and treats at independent stalls throughout the museum.

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Buckle! from GAVIN & STACEY

melanie walters from Channel 5’s MILKSHAKE! HE’S BACK! from THE BASIL BRUSH SHOW

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Festival Place, Basingstoke 18th November–24th December festivalplace.co.uk Santa’s grotto Fleet Christmas Festival 22nd November fleetchristmasfestival.org Santa’s grotto The Malls, Basingstoke 25th November themalls.co.uk Meet Father Christmas by the Christmas tree Milestones Museum, Basingstoke 2nd – 23rd December milestonesmuseum.org.uk Santa’s grotto Finkley Down Farm, Andover 2nd–24th December finkleydownfarm.co.uk Meeting Father Christmas and Mother Christmas The Stag and Hounds, Andover 3rd – 24th December Harvester.co.uk Breakfast with Santa Winchester Science Centre and Planetarium 16th–23rd December Winchestersciencecentre.org Immersive show Hawk Conservancy Trust, Andover 21st and 22nd December hawk-conservancy.org Father Christmas and a magical owl flying display

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WHAT’S ON

Pantomimes and Christmas Shows Help! There’s an Elf in my House!

Peter Pan comes to The Anvil The brand-new swashbuckling adventure at The Anvil, Basingstoke this Christmas is The Further Adventures of Peter Pan: The Return of Hook starring Melanie Walters as Mrs Darling and Ethyl Mermaid. Best known as Gwen from Gavin & Stacey, Melanie is known to younger viewers as Gran in CBeebies’ Biff & Chip.

The Further Adventures of Peter Pan: The Return of Captain Hook 8th–31st December at The Anvil, Basingstoke anvilarts.org.uk/whats-on/ event/the-further-adventuresof-peter-pan-the-return-ofcaptain-hook Beauty and the Beast 9th–10th December at The Alton Assembly Rooms ticketsource.co.uk/whats-on/ alton/alton-assembly-rooms/ beauty-and-the-beast-alton/ e-mympqr Help! There’s an Elf in My House!

9th–24th December at Proteus Theatre, Basingstoke proteustheatre.com/events/ help-theres-an-elf-in-myhouse

Dick Wittington 9th–29th December at The Harlington, Fleet theharlington.co.uk/_ Pantomime.aspx Beauty and the Beast 15th–17th December at Forest Community Centre, Bordon ticketsource.co.uk/ PUMPKINPANTOS/beautyand-the-beast-bordon/erkzqbo Alice’s Adventures with the Dormouse 16th–22nd December at West Green House and Gardens, Hartley Witney westgreenhouse.co.uk/ events/the-west-green-pantoalices-adventures-with-thedormouse

Milkshake! presenter David Ribi will play Peter Pan. Along with hosting Channel 5’s hit kids show, David has performed in the West End and was nominated for the Great British Pantomime Awards for playing Peter Pan last year. They’ll join the evercomical Chris Pizzey (Mr Stephen in CBBC’s Basil Brush), back by popular demand to play Smee, and direct the production.

Holly Atterton, from kids’ channel Nickelodeon, will be Tinker Bell, while returning to Basingstoke is Chris Fearn who will be taking the role of Captain Hook. After defeating the evil Captain Hook, life has been pretty perfect for Peter Pan, Smee and the pirate crew. But when a stranger arrives in Neverland - people are saying that Hook is back!

Check out the Anvil Arts website for full details or call the box office on 01256 844244.

White’s Christmas Craft Fair Join us for Christmas concerts, gifts, and cheer at Gilbert White’s House & Gardens on 2nd December from 10:30am-3:30pm!

This year at White’s Christmas Craft Fair pick up some locally handmade gifts for your loved ones (or just treat yourself!)

We will have a range of stalls at our stunning 16th Century barn selling beautifully handcrafted locally made items.

Christmas at The Malls Head to The Malls this Christmas with your list in hand to pick up presents and festive essentials!

The annual Christmas Market runs from 15 November through to Christmas Eve. There is also a range of festive entertainment: see two giant Christmas stockings bursting at the seams with talking puppet presents, come and meet Santa by the Christmas tree, and create unique Christmas cards and decorations as part of some festive make and take sessions.

Visit www.themalls.co.uk for full details on what’s on.

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The historic house will also be decking the halls with boughs of holly, both in its festive winter appearance and through song. Yuletide performances will be given by the Prize Old Mummers and Alton Community Choir in the atmospheric Great Parlour. Traditional mulled wine and mince pies will be available from the old kitchen, and visitors can try a sip of Gilbert White’s gin.

Visitors will also be able to find Gilbert White’s brewers for a tasting session. During this time of year, the brewery produces a wass-ale, which is based on a traditional Scottish strong ale recipe and includes hints of Christmas pudding flavour.

The garden will also be presenting its winter wonder and there will be a wassail led in traditional costume, where visitors can help to promote a good harvest for the coming year by singing to the orchard trees.

Entry is £4 per person; this includes fair admission and house and gardens admission. Under 5s go free.

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November & December 2023 All listings are correct at the time of publication. Please check with the venue before you visit in case anything has changed.

4 Nov and 2 Dec Mum2Mum Market Aldworth School, Western Way, Basingstoke, RG22 6HA mum2mummarket.co.uk/ m2mmbasingstoke.html Come and grab a bargain.

12pm–2pm

LONG RUNNING EVENTS Until 5 Nov Witch’s Halloween recipe trail The Vyne, Sherborne St John, Basingstoke, RG24 9HL, nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/ hampshire/the-vyne Hunt The Vyne’s gardens in search of mysterious and bizarre ingredients to complete the witch’s potion.

10am–4pm £2 Until 5 Nov Adventures with the Ahlbergs autumn trail Mottisfont, Mottisfont Lane, Romsey, SO51 0LP, nationaltrust. org.uk/visit/hampshire/mottisfont An autumn activity trail inspired by Funnybones. 10am–5pm £3 Until 5 Nov Happy Families: Adventures with the Ahlbergs exhibition Mottisfont, Mottisfont Lane, Romsey, SO51 0LP, nationaltrust. org.uk/visit/hampshire/mottisfont A family-friendly exhibition exploring the much-loved children’s books created by Janet and Allan Ahlberg, featuring original artwork from The Jolly Postman, Funnybones and more. 11am–4:30pm Until 19 Nov Autumn colour trail The Vyne, Sherborne St John, Basingstoke, RG24 9HL, nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/ hampshire/the-vyne You can colour-match the shades of autumn and carry out detective work to identify different types of tree leaves. 10am–5pm £1 Until 26 Nov Solar System Adventure Winchester Science Centre and Planetarium, Telegraph Way, Winchester, SO21 1HZ, winchestersciencecentre.org Solar System Adventure is a presenter-led live show - a perfect introduction to stars and planets.

10:15am/11:45am/1:15pm/ 4pm Until 26 Nov Can You Stomach It? Winchester Science Centre and Planetarium, SO21 1HZ, winchestersciencecentre.org Discover the science behind the oozes, squelches and gurgles of our digestive system in this brand new free live science show.

Until 26 Nov We are astronomers Winchester Science Centre and Planetarium, SO21 1HZ, winchestersciencecentre.org We Are Astronomers is a subtitled 14 Families Hampshire North

film show that is filled with colourful characters and animations. £4

25 Nov–30 Dec The Christmas Illuminated Garden Adventure West Green House Gardens, Stable Cottage Thackham’s Lane, Hartley Wintney, RG27 8JB, westgreenhouse.co.uk The mile long trail around the lake lit by thousands of lights tells the story of Alice in Wonderland, told in spectacular illuminated installations designed by guest designers.

4:30pm–7:30pm

Until 31 Dec Zog Trail Alice Holt Forest, Bucks Horn Oak, Farnham, GU10 4LS, forestryengland.uk/alice-holtforest Enjoy the Zog character trail before it finishes at the end of 2023.

25 Nov–1 Jan Nutcracker Christmas The Vyne, Vyne Road, Sherborne St John, Basingstoke, RG24 9HL, nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/ hampshire/the-vyne Families can follow heroes Clara and the Nutcracker as they defeat the villainous Mouse King on indoor and outdoor trails. 10am–4pm

14 Nov–31 Dec Festive Trail Allen Gallery, Church Street, Alton GU34 2BW, hampshireculture.org. uk/allen-gallery Can you find the festive items hidden in the gallery collection? Drop in and pick up a trail. Free entry, donations welcome.

25 Nov–1 Jan A Neverland Christmas Hinton Ampner, Near Alresford, Bramdean, SO24 0LA, nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/ hampshire/hinton-ampner Experience the magic of Peter Pan’s classic story bought to life in Hampshire. 10am–5pm

14 Nov–31 Dec Patterns on Paper Allen Gallery, Church Street, Alton GU34 2BW, hampshireculture.org. uk/allen-gallery Drop-in and help us create paper decorations with patterns inspired by the pots and tiles in our collection. £2

25 Nov–7 Jan A Christmas Journey to the North Pole Mottisfont, Mottisfont Lane, Romsey, SO51 0LP, nationaltrust. org.uk/visit/hampshire/mottisfont Follow letters to Father Christmas on a magical journey to the North Pole, from children dreaming in decorated bedrooms to a polar bear’s ball, and experience the wonder of the northern lights. 10am–4pm

14 Nov–31 Dec Games and Paper Chains Curtis Museum, Curtis Museum, High Street, Alton, GU34 1BA, hampshireculture.org.uk/curtismuseum Come and help create the longest paper chain, moving through the years in the museum. Free entry.

14 Nov–31 Dec Games Trail Curtis Museum, Curtis Museum, High Street, Alton, GU34 1BA, hampshireculture.org.uk/curtismuseum Can you find the games hidden around the museum? Free entry.

15 Nov–31 Dec The Time Traveller’s Christmas Family Trail Andover Museum and Museum of the Iron Age, Andover, SP10 1DP, hampshireculture.org.uk/museumiron-age From the Iron Age to the Age of Industry, join our Christmas Time Traveller on a quest through history to learn about all things festive.

18 Nov–23 Dec Neverland Illuminova Wellington Country Park, Odiham Road, Riseley, RG7 1SP, wellingtoncountrypark.co.uk In the heart of Wellington Country Park, an illuminated kingdom awaits you this winter with even more Neverland to discover.

23 Nov–19 Dec Festive Trail Alice Holt Forest, Bucks Horn Oak, Farnham, GU10 4LS, forestryengland.uk/alice-holtforest Try the exciting new festive trail and then treat yourself to a hot drink and some food from the café.

28 Nov–23 Dec A Classic Christmas Milestones Museum, Leisure Park, Basingstoke, RG22 6PG, milestonesmuseum.org.uk Children can help Father Christmas find his lost reindeer with our special Reindeer Spotter trail around the museum, while the smell of mulled wine and the taste of mince pies will transport adults into the atmosphere of a perfect Christmas!

2–24 Dec Christmas at Finkley Finkley Down Farm, North Way, Andover, SP11 6NF, finkleydownfarm.co.uk Includes Father Christmas, Mother Christmas, making magical reindeer food and a gift for each child.

2 Dec–2 Jan Science Dino-mite Winchester Science Centre and Planetarium, SO21 1HZ, winchestersciencecentre.org Enjoy the sights, sounds and science of Christmas past - way past - with the return of Science Dino-mite!

2 Dec–2 Jan Dino Dig and Dino Discovery Winchester Science Centre and Planetarium, SO21 1HZ, winchestersciencecentre.org Join the excavation team on the hunt for signs of dinosaurs.

2–21 Jan Space Rocks!

Winchester Science Centre and Planetarium, SO21 1HZ, winchestersciencecentre.org Discover the planets and stars that we share our Solar System with. But watch out for asteroids and comets!

2 Dec–21 Jan We are Aliens!

Winchester Science Centre and Planetarium, SO21 1HZ, winchestersciencecentre.org Come on an epic ride through space as we hunt for evidence of alien life. £4 2 Dec–21 Jan The Dino Show Winchester Science Centre and Planetarium, SO21 1HZ, winchestersciencecentre.org Join in a prehistoric adventure to find out how similar dinosaurs are to humans in this brand new live science show.

16 Dec–13 Jan Christmas Doodle Room Willis Museum, Market Place, Basingstoke, RG21 7QD, hampshireculture.org.uk/willismuseum-and-sainsbury-gallery The Basingstoke Gallery will be dedicated to Christmas crafts, makeand-takes and stories.

NOVEMBER 3 Nov Mini Adventures at Mottisfont: Leaf rubbings Mottisfont, Mottisfont Lane, Romsey, SO51 0LP, nationaltrust. org.uk/visit/hampshire/mottisfont Collect fallen leaves to make rubbings with paper and crayons.

10:30am–12pm 4 Nov Meet the Puddle Ducks mascot Aldworth School, Basingstoke, RG22 6HA, mum2mummarket. co.uk/m2mmbasingstoke.html Puddle Ducks North Hampshire are proudly partnered with Mum2mum Market Basingstoke. 12–2pm 4 Nov Fleet Lions Firework Fiesta Calthorpe Park, Fleet, GU51 4AD, fleetlions.org.uk Come and enjoy a fabulous fireworks display! 5pm 4 Nov A Very Old Man with Enormous Wings Pheonix Arts, Barbados House Station Road, Bordon, GU35 0LR, pheonixarts.co.uk Gabriel García Márquez’s darkly comic tale, brought to the stage for children and adults to share. 7:30pm £11 6 Nov Mini Adventures at Mottisfont: Leaf Creatures Mottisfont, Mottisfont Lane, Romsey, SO51 0LP, nationaltrust. org.uk/visit/hampshire/mottisfont Gather leaves to make your own creatures - you can use sticky dots to create features, or see what else you can make. 10:30am–12pm 8 Nov Mini Adventures at Mottisfont: Leaf challenge Mottisfont, Mottisfont Lane, Romsey, SO51 0LP, nationaltrust. org.uk/visit/hampshire/mottisfont Hunt for the biggest and smallest leaf you can find, and make a leaf rainbow. 10:30am–12pm 9 Nov Fairytale of New York The Anvil, Basingstoke, RG21 7QR, anvilarts.org.uk This magical Christmas show will have people of all ages singing, laughing, and dancing in the aisles.

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WHAT’S ON 11 Nov The Dark Side of the Moon 50 years (family-friendly) Winchester Science Centre and Planetarium, SO21 1HZ, winchestersciencecentre.org Celebrate the 50th anniversary of the iconic The Dark Side of the Moon album. 6:30pm £25 18 Nov Festive Launch Festival Place, Basingstoke, RG21 7BA, festivalplace.co.uk Kick off here with the launch of The Twelve Days of Christmas!

10am–6pm 18 Nov Out of the Hat! Pheonix Arts, Barbados House Station Road, Bordon, GU35 0LR, pheonixarts.co.uk A feast for the senses and a spectacular theatre experience for everyone! 2pm £9 18 Nov Stocking Up and Mariposa Stilt Walkers The Malls, Churchill Way, Basingstoke, RG21 7QU themalls.co.uk Two giant Christmas stockings, bursting at the seams with talking puppet presents, bring festive fun to The Malls. Free entry.

19 Nov Petersfield Brass Band All Saints Church, Hinton Ampner, SO24 0LA 3pm. Free entry 19 Nov A-Z of Musicals: Live from the West End Pheonix Arts, Bordon, GU35 0LR, pheonixarts.co.uk Prepare to be swept away into a world of glitz, glamour, and unforgettable melodies, as Phoenix Arts proudly brings you a sensational evening of West End musicals! 6pm £17 22 Nov Fleet Christmas Festival Fleet Town Centre, fleetchristmasfestival.org Lots of fun for all the family, including a fun fair and street entertainers. 2pm–9pm 24 Nov The Nutcracker The Anvil, Basingstoke, RG21 7QR, anvilarts.org.uk This seasonal favourite is a truly captivating piece, and a wonderful introduction to ballet, whilst retaining its appeal for anyone who is familiar with it. 7:30pm 25 and 26 Nov Tales from Acorn Wood The Anvil, Basingstoke, RG21 7QR, anvilarts.org.uk Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler’s beloved Tales from Acorn Wood stories return to The Haymarket stage for another enchanting lift-theflap experience.

26 Nov Christmas Baubles, Cards and Crafts Workshop The Malls, Basingstoke, RG21 7QU, themalls.co.uk Come and create your own unique Christmas cards and decorations.

11am–4pm. Free entry.

28 Nov The Wizard of Oz on Ice Planet Ice Gosport, PO13 0ZX This season, Planet Ice present a Familiesonline.co.uk

fun-filled version of the Wizard of Oz adapted by the Show & Skate class of amateur skaters and supported by their Professional on Tour cast.

DECEMBER 2 Dec The Mirror Men The Malls, Basingstoke, RG21 7QU, themalls.co.uk Two striking walkabout characters covered with thousands of tiny mirrors will brighten your day. FREE 2 Dec Meet the Puddle Ducks mascot Aldworth School, Western Way, Basingstoke, RG22 6HA, mum2mummarket.co.uk/ m2mmbasingstoke.html Puddle Ducks North Hampshire are proudly partnered with Mum2mum Market Basingstoke. 12pm–2pm 2 and 9 Dec Evening Owls at Christmas Hawk Conservancy Trust, Andover, Weyhill, Andover, SP11 8DY, hawk-conservancy.org Awesome owls will be flying under moonlight at this magical time of year with a few festive features to get you in the Christmas spirit!

5:45pm £21.50 5 and 23 Dec A Christmas Carol The Haymarket, Basingstoke, RG21 7NW, anvilarts.org.uk With dazzling musical sequences and authentic period costuming, this adaptation promises to be the perfect accompaniment to the festive season, guaranteed to melt the hearts of even the sternest of Scrooges.

7–10 Dec Dear Santa The Haymarket, Basingstoke, RG21 7NW, anvilarts.org.uk From the author of the well-loved children’s book Dear Zoo, Rod Campbell, comes Dear Santa, an ideal introduction to theatre for ages 2+.

16 and 17 Dec Decorate a Christmas Pinecone Willis Museum, Market Place, Basingstoke, RG21 7QD, hampshireculture.org.uk/willismuseum-and-sainsbury-gallery Drop in during this weekend and give a pinecone a festive make over and take it home. 10am–4pm £1 16-23 Dec Cosmic Christmas Winchester Science Centre and Planetarium, SO21 1HZ www.winchestersciencecentre.org Christmas cheer has taken over the Planetarium and Santa’s North Pole has come to Winchester. Visitors will be transported to an intergalactic wonderland as Christmas comes to life through an immersive theatrical experience like no other. Live science, magical effects and an outof-this-world journey through space on the Planetarium dome will come together as a brand-new original Christmas tale comes alive. Then let your anticipation build as you meet the man himself and receive a special Christmas gift. Limited tickets available - grab yours now!

18–19 Dec Hansel and Gretel Pheonix Arts, Barbados House Station Road, Bordon, GU35 0LR, pheonixarts.co.uk Journey with us into the woods for an all you can eat feast of festive fun with lashings of music, magic and adventure. £6 19 Dec Make-and-take: seasonal pottery sessions Allen Gallery, Church Street, Alton GU34 2BW, hampshireculture.org. uk/allen-gallery Join these popular holiday clay

sessions where you get to makeand-take home your own seasonal project! 10:30am, 11:30am £5 21 and 28 Dec Family Festive Crafts Andover Museum and Museum of the Iron Age, Andover, SP10 1DP, hampshireculture.org.uk/museumiron-age Each Thursday during the Christmas holidays there will be a children’s craft activity themed to the winter festivities. 11am–3pm £3 23 Dec Skating Christmas Presents and Starlight Stilt Walkers The Malls, Basingstoke, RG21 7QU, themalls.co.uk Elegant, illuminated Christmas presents glide skillfully throughout The Malls with stunning Starlight Stilt Characters on the last Saturday before Christmas. FREE 27–31 Dec Twixmas at Milestones Milestones Museum, Leisure Park, Churchill Way West, Basingstoke, RG22 6PG, milestonesmuseum. org.uk At Twixmas, you can entertain the whole family between Christmas and New Year at Milestones Museum.

28 Dec Clay Dog Planters Willis Museum, Market Place, Basingstoke, RG21 7QD, hampshireculture.org.uk/willismuseum-and-sainsbury-gallery Inspired by our Sainsbury Gallery exhibition of works by David Remfry, make your own dog themed planter.

11am/2pm £3

9 Dec Hodman and Sally Walkabout The Malls, Basingstoke, RG21 7QU, themalls.co.uk Come and meet these charming miniature characters as they bring their own kind of Christmas cheer to The Malls. Free entry.

12 Dec Night Sky Live Winchester Science Centre and Planetarium, SO21 1HZ, winchestersciencecentre.org Head outside and discover the stars and planets, live! 6:30pm £15 16 Dec Starlight Cinema: Elf Winchester Science Centre and Planetarium, SO21 1HZ, winchestersciencecentre.org Grab a seat, sit back and relax as one of the most-loved Christmas movies, Elf, plays out under the stars of the planetarium. 5:15pm. Adults: £8, children: £4 16–23 Dec Snow Buddies Trail Willis Museum, Market Place, Basingstoke, RG21 7QD, hampshireculture.org.uk/willismuseum-and-sainsbury-gallery Find the animal buddies hidden in the snow and help Santa make his deliveries.

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