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Families Unite to Tackle Smartphone Impact
More than 250 parents, teachers and community leaders came together at Aylesbury High School on Monday 6th October for Let’s Talk: Children & Smartphones, a free public event exploring how smartphone use is affecting children’s wellbeing, learning and safety.
The discussion, convened by Aylesbury MP Laura KyrkeSmith and organised by Smartphone Free Childhood
– a fast-growing parents’ movement with over 200,000 members nationwide – brought together voices from education, medicine, policing and psychology, alongside community leaders and young people themselves.
‘This is an urgent issue,’ said Ms Kyrke-Smith. ‘But the fastest way to get change is through communities and groups of parents. That’s where the change we need to see is going to happen.’
Speakers highlighted the difficult balance families face today. Dr Alexa Varah, regional lead for Smartphone Free Childhood, said: ‘Parents are in an unenviable position – delay giving their child a smartphone and risk social exclusion, or give one and risk exposure to harmful content. By supporting each other to delay together, we take away the peer pressure and give parents a real choice.’
Local educators echoed her concern. Mike Worth, Deputy Head and safeguarding lead at The Misbourne, said that before his school went phone-free, ‘almost
every issue in school had some kind of connection to phone use – from socialmedia conflict to mentalhealth struggles.’
Carol MacDonald, headteacher of a nearby primary school, added: ‘smartphones make it harder than ever to keep children safe. They take away the joy of real play and friendship.’
The evening concluded with insights from medical experts and a heartfelt testimony from a local teenager who spoke about the pressures young people face online. Many parents described the event as ‘eyeopening’ and said it ‘made me rethink how we manage our child’s phone.’
Since the event, more Buckinghamshire parents have joined Smartphone Free Childhood’s Parent Pact, agreeing to delay smartphones until at least Year 9 (age 14).
Buckinghamshire now has more than 3,300 signed pacts – proof that local families are standing together to give children back their childhood, one phone-free year at a time. To learn more or get involved, visit: < smartphonefreechildhood.org
Anti-Bullying Week – A Power for Good
Anti-Bullying Week runs from 10th to 14th November this year, with the theme ‘Power for Good’. The Anti-Bullying Alliance chose this theme following consultation with teachers and pupils who wanted a theme that empowered them to do something positive to counter the harm and hurt caused by bullying. The week will kick off with Odd Socks Day on Monday 10th November, during which adults and children wear odd socks to celebrate our uniqueness. Following the success of the campaign in 2024, when eighty percent of schools marked the week, therefore reaching over 7.5 million children and young people, AntiBullying Week seeks to empower children to use their Power of Good to speak out, support others and build a world where kindness wins. More info online: < anti-bullyingalliance.org.uk
Festive Fun to Support Local Charity
Eden Shopping Centre in High Wycombe is spreading festive cheer this season with the launch of ‘Mrs Claus’ Cookie Cabin’ – a magical new family experience where 100% of tickets sold will go to Heart of Bucks’ Together Against Poverty Appeal.
The event is part of Eden’s ongoing commitment to the community, following a year of successful fundraising that has already raised over £10,000 for Heart of Bucks through family-friendly events including Mission Bunny, The Big Weekend-er, and Summer of Disco
Families visiting Mrs Claus’ Cookie Cabin can enjoy festive treats, storytelling, and a special chance for little ones to decorate cookies alongside Mrs Claus herself –all while helping local people in need this Christmas.
Rebecca Gomme, Marketing Manager at Eden, said: ‘It’s wonderful to combine festive fun with supporting such an important local cause. We’re proud to continue our partnership with Heart of Bucks this Christmas.’ Find details and booking information at: < edenshopping.co.uk
Kindness in Bucks: Christmas Shoebox Appeal
At Kindness in Bucks, Christmas is all about spreading joy, gratitude and connection across our community. Now in its third year, the Christmas Shoebox Appeal 2025 is once again inviting local residents to fi ll a shoebox with thoughtful gifts for children, families, pregnant mums, midwives and – new this year – our local fire service teams.
What began with 101 shoeboxes in its first year and grew to 205 boxes in 2024, it continues to expand through community generosity. Each parcel is a small act of kindness that makes a big diff erence to someone’s Christmas.
Donating is simple – just wrap and fi ll a shoebox with six small gifts and drop it at one of the local collection points in Beaconsfield, Flackwell Heath or Hazlemere.
Find full details, donation ideas and collection points at: < kindnessinbucks.com/post/christmas2025
Together, we can help make Christmas brighter for everyone.
Books on the Move: Helping Every Child Read
Beaconsfield-based Tripps Removals has partnered with national charity ‘The Children’s Book Project’ to help tackle book poverty across the UK. The family-run removals company is the first in its field to collaborate with the charity, off ering a local drop-off point for donated children’s books at its Aylesbury End site.
Customers moving home are also invited to donate pre-loved books and Tripps will collect bulk donations from local schools and businesses free of charge.
‘Nearly a million children in the UK don’t own a single book,’ said Kirstin Knell from The Children’s Book Project. ‘Partnerships like this help get books into the hands of children who need them most.’ Books can be dropped off at Tripps Removals during business hours or via: < childrensbookproject.co.uk
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There are so many amazing activities and adventures to choose from this holiday season. From outrageous and awesome, to chilled and heart-warming, we’ve collected some of the best that the Chilterns (and beyond!) has to offer for 2025!
Enchanting Illuminations, Winter Wonderlands and Christmas Trails
Waddesdon Manor is celebrating a Grand Festive Tour this Christmas, exploring the unique holiday traditions that light up each country’s winter season. With beautiful immersive light shows and illuminations, the Manor will be transformed into a spectacular Christmas event to remember! Outside in the grounds a kaleidoscope of colour, lights and music will mesmerise and delight while their bustling Christmas Fair is set to deliver the perfect artisan gifts and festive treats. There’s also the chance to spend time
with some beautiful Huskies for all dog lovers!
Magic illuminates every step at Ashridge House this year, with their aweinspiring observation wheel heralding a panoramic, breathtaking view of the grounds. With festive favourites and exciting new illuminations to be held, it looks to be a fabulous night out!
Step into the Magic of Christmas at Wendover Woods
Explore their Stick Man Christmas Play Trail and help Stick Man and Santa deliver the final present. Dog owners can take their companions for a festive ramble along the Wallace and Gromit Trail. Try their new and exciting Laser Tag and Disc Golf experiences, then marvel the Earth Photos exhibition. Wander through their Christmas offers for one-of-a-kind gifts and warm up in their café with festive specials. Embrace nature, joy and festive adventure this holiday, celebrate Christmas at Wendover Woods.
Wander through the stunning grounds of Stowe House this winter and see how many charming Stowemen you can spot. Over at Claydon House and Hughenden Manor, step back in time with enchanting Victorian Christmas celebrations. And don’t miss the sweet Polar Bear Trail at the Tring Natural History Museum, a perfect family outing wrapped in seasonal cheer.
Christmas is back at Blenheim Palace, and so is its Great Skate ice rink and illuminated trail. It boasts to be bigger and better with festive fun, dazzling light installations and a glimpse of Father Christmas along the way! The Palace is decked out in spectacular sparkles, showing the magic of Oz while their Christmas market is back in full force, supplying sweets, treats and gifts.
Following the Magic
This winter, there’s a Santa experience for everyone, from magical grottos to cheerful meet-and-greets enchanting
by Ben Crowther
trails to festive workshops – each one exciting, heart-warming and full of Christmas cheer.
At Bekonscot there are lots of activities for little explorers to enjoy this festive season. There are the famous model villages to explore, decked out in their winter and festive best. Don’t miss a chance to ride Santa’s sleigh on their light railway or follow their naughty elves Christmas dinner hunt. On select dates, there’s Christmas craft stalls, a choir singing carols, festive crafting and festive gift making. There’s even a visit from the big man himself! Plus, if tickets are booked at least 48 hours in advance there’s 10% off the standard entry price.
It’s a splendiferous Christmas line-up at the Roald Dahl Museum this winter! The Christmas countdown is on for a host of activities to keep families entertained including walks, storytelling and crafts. There’s a laid-back Santa
event, for those wanting to see the big guy in a more chilled environment as he makes appearances throughout the galleries. Their Charlie’s Christmas Chocolate event launches in the school holidays with a full schedule of chocolate-themed events including a Christmas trail around the galleries, Christmas gallery bingo and story tellers weaving their magic.
Santa and his elves are visiting at the Amersham Field Centre to train a new generation of Elf Helpers. And they are looking for help. Families can explore the enchanted woodland, learn important elf skills, make a Christmas decoration in the elf workshop and help find Santa’s missing code. There’s time to meet Santa in his grotto and each child will receive their own Elf School graduation certificate, elf hat and gift. It’s a Winter Wonderland experience not to miss!
All aboard the Santa Steam Specials! This enchanting journey is the ultimate festive treat for children, offering a magical steam train ride from Princes Risborough to Santa’s Grotto at his North Pole station. At the Chinnor and Princes Risborough Railway little ones can share their Christmas wishes with Santa himself!
The Chiltern View Garden Centre reinstalls its fabulous ice-skating rink this November! There is a wonderland of stunning decorations to enjoy, hands-on exhibits, a thrilling VR sleigh ride, and unforgettable moments with Santa.
Thrift Farm is hosting a brand-new meet-and-greet Father Christmas experience, with magic passports, festive stories, enchanted woodland and a bucket load of cheer! There’s a lovely Christmas Tree Farm (or two!) hidden away in Chesham, with fresh
trees, festive ornaments and beautiful decorations. While at the GXCA, there’s a secret Santa grotto with a candy cane treasure hunt before meeting the man himself!
A Twist on Tradition
Explore the renowned Bletchley Park this festive season, meet some Codebreakers carrying out their topsecret wartime work and don’t forget to stop them for a festive chat! Find out how rehearsals are going for The Bletchley Park Drama Society’s play ‘A Christmas Carol.’ They may need your help… if you’re ready to lend a hand! Craft your own 1940’s-inspired Christmas decorations to take home, enjoy festive treats from the café and warm up with a delicious hot chocolate. Don’t forget that tickets are annual passes so it’s a fantastic day out that can be repeated!
It’s the Season of Science this Christmas at Discover Bucks Museum! Could Father Christmas catapult a present down a chimney? Is it possible to make a snowman without snow? Just couple of questions that they’ll be sure to answer and explain in their fabulous Science of Christmas workshop. There’s also their stupendous Roald Dahl Children’s Gallery, a place where children can get hands on with inspired exhibits, can crawl along Fantastic Mr Fox’s tunnel, marvel at brain-twisting optical illusions and drink in the magic behind these amazing stories.
For something a bit different, rev it up on one of Red Bull Racing’s iconic experiences. Fab for all racing enthusiasts, these behind-the-scenes tours open the world of racing and history. The MK-7 Experience tours the Red Bull heritage workshop, complete with trophy viewing and welcoming by a fleet of racing cars. While the factory tours give a glimpse into how the iconic cars of Formula 1TM are brought to life from idea to assembly.
Eden Shopping Centre is the place to find everything you want and need this Christmas. There’s attractions like Cineworld, Hollywood Bowl, TeamSport, Clip ’n Climb, Carnival Golf and Games. While their festive events include a special Christmas Parade, Mrs. Claus’ Cookie Cabin, and Expert-Led Cookie Decorating Workshops. Amazingly supporting the community with 100% of event ticket sales going to Heart of Bucks’ poverty campaign, plus food donations to One Can Trust, ensuring the magic of Christmas reaches beyond the Centre.
A Stage Full of Cheer
‘Tis the Christmas season, and the stage is set with a joyful mix of pantomimes, magical musicals and fabulous festive dances!
The Elgiva is delivering a spectacular production of Jack and the Beanstalk. It’s a chance to climb into a world of adventure: a beanstalk that touches the clouds, a kingdom ruled by a grumpy giant, and one daring lad with more courage than coin. Packed with songs, slapstick and sparkle, this professional panto has all the magic ingredients – a dash of danger, a sprinkling of silliness and, of course, a happily-ever-after. It’s perfect festive fun for children, parents and grandparents alike.
This December, the Search for Santa is starting at the Dembe Theatre in Tring, in this brand-new musical Vote for Father Christmas! This magical family experience combines original music and lyrics with the heartfelt meaning of Christmas, fundraising for two amazing causes.
It’s the Panto you’ve BEAN waiting for – Jack and the Beanstalk promise a GIANT adventure at Aylesbury Waterside Theatre this Christmas. Starring Olivier award-winner Nigel Harman (EastEnders, Casualty and Strictly) as the villainous Fleshcreep, alongside family favourite Andy Collins (BBC Three Counties radio) playing Silly Simon, expect incredible 3D special effects, the biggest hits, sizzling choreography, glitzy costumes and of course, the infamous 12 Days of Christmas! Fee Fi Fo FUN… if you love panto don’t miss this one! Plus, they’re celebrating Christmas with Dear Santa, the story of Santa’s mission to deliver the
perfect Christmas present.
There’s something special on this December at Wycombe Swan a GIANT of a panto: Jack and the Beanstalk! This moo-vellous family-friendly panto is sure to leave everyone aged 4 to 104 feeling full of beans. Starring Radio 2 Breakfast host Scott Mills as Mayor Mills, the incredible La Voix, and A1’s Mark Read as Jack. It’s a spectacular show not to be missed. Plus, there also an amazing array of world-class musicians, star vocalists, and world-champion dancers performing popular festive songs in their Rhythm of The Dance.
It’s panto season at Queens Park Arts Centre this December with four traditional family pantos to choose from! Cinderella has her Fairy Guardian on hand to make dreams come true, though are they hers? An unhappy Mother Goose makes the mistake of trading what means the most to her, while Jack is planting magic beans and heading up to the kingdom in the clouds. Plus, Dick Whittington has gone to London to seek fame, but will he find heroism instead as evil seeks to take over the city? It’s a terrific tetralogy, not to miss out on!
It’s all steaming ahead at Buckinghamshire Railway Centre, where their mini pantomime ‘Aladdin’ is embarking. There’s the mini panto, a steam train journey with Father Christmas and a ride in an ‘Enchanted Elevator’ to visit Mrs Claus and the elves in Santa’s Workshop.
Glow Up the Season
Towns across Buckinghamshire are set to sparkle this year: Princes Risborough and Wendover will all be lighting up their high streets, bringing communities together to kick off the festive season. In Beaconsfield, the Festival of Lights promises to dazzle with its enchanting displays and lively atmosphere. Christmas in Chesham is lit up by the cast of The Elgiva’s pantomime alongside dancing, live music and fairground rides. While in Aylesbury Christmas on the Cobbles’ returns with its illuminated parade. It’s a Festival of Light in Berkhamsted, with a warming light switch on, Santa parade and music. Amersham will combine festival fun, a fairground, and carols, while Old Amersham hosts its own charming Christmas event. Peterley Manor Farm’s much-loved festive market is back, offering live music, cosy firepits, street food, and unique gifts.
Turn to page 24 for our Festive What’s On Guide, packed with the best places to visit this season! Wishing you all a joyful holiday season and a Merry Christmas!
Making Christmas memories that don't cost a fortune!
By Anna Houston, a freelance writer specialising in parenting and women’s lifestyle
Christmas is approaching and the pressures are everywhere to make it the most magical time of the year. Bombarded by social media perfection, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed! Last Christmas, we skipped expensive outings and planned one special, no-cost (or low-cost) activity each weekend. It became our most memorable Christmas yet - so here are some of the things we did to inspire your own festive season.
Letters
to Santa
Turn writing letters into an afternoon event. Put on a Christmas playlist, serve gingerbread and warm milk and set out stickers, stamps and glitter. It’s a cosy way to spend time together and an easy sneak of their wish list. I also use the same setup with my eldest for writing Christmas cards, making a simple chore feel special.
Christmas
There are endless festive sensory play ideas. One favourite is ‘snow’ made from bicarbonate of soda, cornflour and a splash of water. Hide little trinkets or cutters inside for the children to discover. A quick online search will give you plenty of low-cost activities to keep little hands busy.
Instead of a ‘Christmas Eve’ box, I create a ‘December’ box filled with activities, rather than toys. It might include a Christmas mug, festive puzzles, craft supplies, stickers or cookie cutters. The aim is to spark connection through playing, and making memories together. I display our Christmas story books alongside the box so the children can rediscover old favourites. To add extra magic, the Christmas elves write a note to the children when delivering it at the start of the month!
Small rituals make the season magical. Choose a festive film each weekend, light candles, snuggle under blankets and enjoy your decorated gingerbread together. Simple touches like lighting an advent candle at dinner create calming moments and encourage conversation. Let the children take turns lighting the candle (with your help, of course!)
Skip pricey light trails and explore local neighbourhoods known for their light displays. Wrap up warm and take a walk together or pack blankets and hot chocolate for a cosy car tour one evening. Many towns also host free light switch-on events with parades and performances. These are often just as enchanting as ticketed attractions but far more budget-friendly.
Festive gatherings
If you don’t have a fire pit or chiminea, meet friends who do! Gather round with mugs of hot chocolate and marshmallows or s’mores. We even popped the children’s letters to Santa into the flames so the smoke could magically ‘deliver’ them to the North Pole, also saving a trip to the postbox. The flicker of the fire, crisp air and excited chatter made for a wonderfully festive activity.
Pre-made gingerbread shapes, icing and sprinkles make for an easy, low-effort afternoon. They are readily available in any supermarket and the baking aisles have lots of festive sprinkles to choose from. For older kids, a decorating gingerbread house party with friends is always a winner. If gingerbread isn’t your thing, try making mince pies with ready-rolled pastry and jarred mincemeat as an alternative.
Each year, we choose a new bauble for the tree. Opening the decoration box becomes a trip down memory lane as we recall where each one came from. You could also make your own decorations together – over time, you’ll create a tree full of memories.
Christmas light adventures
messy play
The December box
Cosy rituals
Little traditions
Gingerbread decorating
Days Out J u n i o r R e p o r t e r s
Ashridge Estate
By Katy Grice
I peered through the trees and spotted arched windows, a spire and stone crenellations with ivy growing up the side. This was the building which some say inspired Hogwarts. Henry VIII once stayed in its grand rooms. I was looking at Ashridge House near Berkhamsted. The sun streamed onto the building’s stone, turning it a golden colour.
I was on Foresters’ walk in Ashridge Estate. It is a three mile circular route, through meadows, farms and woodland. Our walk started beside Medley Meadow and some children had made a camp by leaning branches against a tree trunk nearby.
Soon we spotted Bob’s Oak. It is 500 years old and was around when Shakespeare was alive! The National Trust had put a fence around it to protect its roots because it’s one of their special ‘veteran’ trees.
We followed the path onwards. As I turned the corner, I found myself walking under a canopy of arched trees. In the distance were cows, gathered in a shady field. We saw a tree with fungus growing up it. To me, it looked like there were mini steps leading up its trunk. There were purple fox gloves which poked their heads through a carpet of ferns and butterflies which fluttered through the air.
The walk ended on a path where you could see Ashridge House at one end, and the Bridgewater Monument at the other. You can start this walk from the car park near the monument. There is an outside café where you can buy coffee and cake!
Bletchley Park
By Maya Bordia
Bletchley Park is a hive of activity, memories and secrets waiting to be uncovered. There are so many areas to explore!
We started our journey in Block C, where the exhibition, ‘Secrets Revealed’, provides an introduction to what happened at Bletchley Park during World War II. There are exciting, interactive features which allow you to understand how ciphers and code-breaking work. In Block A, ‘The Intelligence Factory’, you can listen to audio stories from the people who worked at Bletchley Park, find out what they ate for lunch and learn about the different roles they took on.
One of the highlights of the day was investigating the temporary exhibition all about Artificial Intelligence and how it originated because I enjoyed deciphering pictures to uncover the truth: were they real or fake?
After all this, we stopped off for a break at the café with delicious food and a small children’s playground. We then made our way to the Huts which are definitely worth a visit.
The Huts are where the magic happened. In here, people decrypted messages, decoded documents and helped to win World War II. Hut 8, home of Alan Turing’s office, was where workers deciphered messages from the naval Enigma machine. After our journey, we ventured to our final stop: the gift shop! Filled with souvenirs, the shop is definitely a must see. With replica packs about World War II life, it was one of the highlights of the trip.
Bletchley Park is definitely a worthwhile destination for anyone who loves World War II.
Smart Raspberry
By Maya Bordia
Smart Raspberry is a friendly cookery camp, which runs classes locally in different locations. It encourages children aged between five and fifteen to learn cooking skills, such as: cracking eggs, chopping vegetables, weighing ingredients and making show-stopping cakes! The menus include a wide variety of different dishes across all cultures and cuisines, also offering a popular ‘Cake Masterclass’ and seasonal events, such as making beautifully decorated and festive gingerbread houses at Christmas and Easter chocolate crunch bars, with mini eggs.
Ingredients are provided, so there is no need to bring your own, and if allergic, they can support your needs. In each session, three items are made, both savoury and sweet. A few things I have loved making are: loaded smartie Oreo
bars, chicken fajitas and a regal and impressive Lion King cake, garnished with fondant leaves.
As I enjoy cooking, I had a Smart Raspberry party, where there is a special menu with a main and dessert for you to choose from such as chicken goujons, pizza, cookies and chocolate fudge cake. I would definitely recommend this as you can have fun with your friends and make something delicious! Recipes are available for free to take home, so if you enjoy them there is an opportunity to make them again. Whether you already know everything about cooking or just want something to do in the school holidays, Smart Raspberry is the perfect club for anyone!
Confessions from the first year of Early Years parenthood
By Ellie Malt
The first year of parenting? Total chaos. You’re exhausted, winging it and wondering why no one warned you that tiny humans come with so much stuff! No one gets it ‘right’ and looking back, most of us realise we stressed over the wrong things or missed little joys because we were too busy trying to keep it all together.
Here are six confessions from parents who’ve just been there:
The tale of Sophie the Giraffe
‘I splurged on Sophie the Giraffe because apparently, she’s the iconic teething toy. Big mistake. Our dog thought it was her chew toy and won every battle. After a few replacements, I realised babies don’t care about bougie toys. Save your money.’
Talking about the hard stuff
‘Every mum meetup was the same: nap schedules and bedtime routines. Boring. The real breakthroughs happened when I admitted I was struggling. Talking openly about exhaustion and doubt made me feel less alone. Way more useful than another nap hack.’
The spoon and plate saga
‘Starting solids? I spent hours researching the ‘best’ spoon and suction plate. I finally bought a pricey set that was basically useless – the spoon became a teether. Cheap supermarket ones worked way better. Don’t overthink (or overspend) it.’
Missing
out on easy outings
‘I was so scared outings with our little one would fail that we barely left the house. Looking back, I wish we’d gone to the pub more while our baby was still portable. Those outings would have done wonders for our sanity.’
Rushing through everyday moments
‘Every nap felt like a race to finish chores. I wish I’d take long showers, sipped hot coffee or just chilled. Laundry never ends – but those little self-care breaks? Priceless.’
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Forgetting to take enough photos of
OURSELVES
‘I have thousands of baby pics and almost none have me in them. I felt too scruffy or tired to be in front of the camera. Now I regret it – those messy, real-life photos are what my child will treasure one day.’
Feeling like I needed to entertain my baby
‘Now I realise I didn’t need to wave rattles, sing, read or talk full time - she had more than enough to handle just getting used to being in the world.’
Embracing Flexibility:
Rigidity is a common regret for new parents. We fixate on details, fear failure and hold ourselves to impossible standards. Loosening your grip makes everything easier. Babies are surprisingly adaptable and parenting is easier when we let go of wanting perfection.
Go out while you can. Babies sleep through noise better than you expect - cafés, pubs and friends’ houses are fine. Don’t fear failed plans. A short nap or a messy meal isn’t the end of the world. There’s always tomorrow.
Let chaos in. Messy feeds, unpredictable sleep, piles of laundry – it’s all part of normal life.
Adapt on the fly. Flexibility means you can enjoy moments instead of stressing over what ‘should’ happen.
Laugh at the madness. The more you accept the imperfect, the more fun you’ll have and your baby will pick up on that energy too.
The first year isn’t about control; it’s about adapting, forgiving yourself and realising that imperfect days are often the best ones.
Practical Daily Goals:
Here’s the real talk: babies don’t need the latest gadget, the perfect routine or a spotless home. Above all they need you – calm, present and sane(-ish). New parents tend to overstress, while forgetting to look after themselves. If you’re looking to avoid some common pitfalls here are some key points to manifest:
Skip the hype. That fancy teething toy or overpriced weaning set isn’t going to change your life.
Star t your sleep journey here
Keep it honest Vent to other parents about the hard nights - it’s far more valuable than swapping sleep charts.
Protect your downtime. Take the long shower, enjoy a hot drink or binge-watch a show. You deserve it.
Lower the bar. ‘Good enough’ isn’t a compromise. Your baby doesn’t notice if you skip a vacuum.
Celebrate small wins. Survived a full day? Got a few naps? Made it through bedtime? That’s success.
Parenting is messy, unpredictable and exhausting but realising that ‘good enough’ works will give you the energy to enjoy the ride.
Ellie Malt is writer and a mum of two girls living in Surrey.
Primary school reports:
What parents should know!
By Erin Miller
Reading our own old school reports can recall all sorts of emotions, so it’s no surprise that receiving our children’s reports feels significant too. But setting emotions aside, what should we actually be looking for in our child’s school report?
A standard state school report should include a child’s academic progress, a brief summary of achievements, strengths and areas for improvement, attendance records and guidance on arranging teacher follow-ups.
For pupils in Key Stages 1 and 2, reports must also include results from National Curriculum assessments, such as SATs or the phonics screening check, along with comparative data showing how the pupil performed nationally and within the school. It is important to remember that progress matters more than attainment when evaluating your child’s report. As a teacher, I always stress that it is progress that truly counts.
The Department for Education (DfE) requires all state schools in England to provide parents with a written annual report by the end of the summer term, unless the pupil is receiving a school leaver’s report. Individual schools can decide whether to issue reports more frequently, such as termly.
Whilst both approaches have their benefits, I personally prefer termly reports as they allow more regular engagement and ongoing discussion with your child about their learning. Do note that public assessment results (e.g.
No surprises
You should not encounter any major surprises when reading your child’s school report. Serious concerns about academic progress, behaviour or wellbeing should have already been raised with you through meetings, phone calls or regular updates during the year. If you do see something unexpected, such as a sudden drop in performance or flagged behavioural issues, it may be a sign that the school’s communication with you has not been as effective as it should have been.
In such cases, it’s important not to panic but to follow up promptly. Use the instructions provided in the report to arrange a meeting or conversation with your child’s teacher or a member of the leadership team. Asking for clarification, or context, can help you better understand the issue and how the school plans to support your child moving forward. Be specific about what you found surprising and where possible, bring any notes or past communications to the discussion.
Open and respectful dialogue between home and school is key to resolving concerns and ensuring your child is supported.
SATS) are different from school reports and if they arrive after the report has been issued, schools must share them with parents within fifteen school days. Writing reports is a major administrative task for teachers (as I know only too well) and the style and depth vary depending on school policy. Some provide detailed, subject-by-subject feedback and include pupil reflections, while others offer concise summaries using letter or number grades. As a teacher, I find shorter reports often give greater clarity on a child’s progress.
Schools may also use different styles, such as addressing the child directly to encourage ownership of learning. However, more important than format or length is the conversation the report prompts at home. Take time to review comments and scores with your child and listen to their perspective. Your attention to the report reinforces that school matters and that parents and teachers are working together to support your child’s growth.
Finally, while the DfE framework outlines clear requirements, if you feel something important is missing (even if not required by law), you can raise this with your child’s school to explore possible improvements.
Erin Miller is a teacher with a keen interest in how research can be used in the classroom to improve learning.
Progress, not grades
As already noted, when reading your child’s report, it is important to focus on their progress rather than grades, scores or levels. While it can be tempting to compare results or aim for high marks, what matters most is how your child is developing over time from their own starting point.
To emphasise this, most primary schools now use descriptors like ‘working towards,’ ‘working at’ or ‘working above’ the expected standard. Some may use terms such as ‘emerging,’ ‘developing,’ ‘secure’ or ‘mastery.’ These are designed to show your child’s progress against age-related expectations, rather than ranking them against classmates. This gives you a clearer picture of how well your child is grasping key concepts and skills and whether they are moving forward in their learning. Steady progress, even if not yet at the expected level, is still the right path and that deserves more recognition than high attainment with little progress.
Understanding and valuing progress helps you focus on long-term development over short-term results and encourages a growth mindset in your child.
Top educational apps
for kids
Prodigy Math Game (iOS, Android)
A FREE maths app that transforms arithmetic and problemsolving into a fantasy role-playing adventure. Children solve challenges, earn rewards and grow in confidence, while parents and teachers can easily track progress.
Sumdog ( iOS, Android)
Sumdog turns maths and spelling into exciting games aligned with the UK curriculum. Children ages 5 to 14 compete, earn coins and receive personal feedback, making practice sessions lively and rewarding.
Reading Eggs (iOS, Android)
Reading Eggs helps children ages 3 to 12 master phonics, comprehension and spelling. With interactive lessons, engaging characters and detailed progress tracking, it’s an ideal literacy tool for both parents and teachers.
Teach Your Monster to Read (iOS, Android)
A phonics-based app for ages 4 to 7. Children customise their own monster and embark on reading adventures, reinforcing sounds, words and sentences in a fun and motivating way.
BBC Bitesize ( iOS, Android)
BBC Bitesize is a FREE UK-focused learning app covering English, maths, science, history and more. Designed for ages 5 to 16, it offers lessons, quizzes and videos aligned with the UK curriculum.
Night Zookeeper (iOS, Browser)
Night Zookeeper gamifies creative writing for ages 6 to 12. Children invent characters, write stories and even receive feedback from tutors, building literacy and imagination in engaging ways.
Code for Life (iOS, Browser & Android)
A FREE UK-developed coding platform aimed at ages 5 to 14. Children learn programming step-by-step by guiding a van through puzzles, aligning with the UK computing curriculum.
Toca Boca World (iOS, Android)
Toca Boca World is a creative play app designed for children ages 6 to 12. It allows kids to build worlds, customise characters and explore role-play scenarios, encouraging imagination, storytelling and open-ended creativity.
ScratchJr (iOS, Android)
ScratchJr introduces coding to children ages 5 to 7, while Scratch (browser, iOS, Android) extends the experience for older learners. Kids create stories, animations and games while developing essential computational thinking.
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Why your child’s teacher is tired!
By Zuzu Jordan
When your child’s teacher greets you at pick-up with a weary smile or looks a little drained during a parent’s evening, it’s not because they don’t love what they do. Teaching is a highly rewarding profession but also one of the most demanding - emotionally, mentally and physically.
The many hats of a teacher
A teacher’s job doesn’t stop at delivering lessons. In a single day, they may also act as coach, counsellor, nurse, mediator, cheerleader and problem-solver. This constant juggling can be both exhilarating and exhausting.
Planning beyond the classroom
What happens in class is only the tip of the iceberg. Behind every lesson is hours of preparation, marking and adapting plans to meet the needs of different learners. Many teachers work evenings and weekends, often unpaid, to bring their students the best possible experience.
Emotional energy
Children don’t just bring their homework to school – they bring their moods, worries and triumphs too. Teachers hold space for all of this. They celebrate the wins, comfort the tears and support children through challenges. On top of this, teachers are also responsible for safeguarding, which can involve sensitive or upsetting situations and requires immense emotional energy.
The pace of the school day
Imagine being ‘on stage’ for six straight hours with thirty children looking to you for guidance, answers and
Backing up school expectations at home
One of the best ways parents can support teachers is by reinforcing school expectations at home. Children thrive when they see consistency between classroom and family life because it helps them understand that learning, respect and responsibility don’t stop when the school bell rings.
Simple routines make a big difference. Encouraging regular reading, setting aside time for homework and ensuring children arrive both on time and prepared each morning all show that school is a priority. Just as importantly, backing up teachers on behaviour expectations, like kindness, listening and perseverance, helps children see these values as part of everyday life, not just ‘rules for school.’
Of course, parents don’t need to recreate the classroom at home. It’s about building habits that support learning and showing children that you and their teacher are a team. When children see that the adults in their lives are working together, they feel secure, motivated and ready to succeed. Backing up school expectations isn’t just about helping teachers; it’s about helping children flourish.
structure. Few jobs require such focus and authority without pause. Even lunch breaks are often spent supervising playgrounds or running clubs.
Why it matters
A tired teacher is still a dedicated teacher. Their fatigue reflects how much they give of themselves every day. When we recognise the demands of the job, we can better appreciate the effort behind every worksheet, every encouraging word and every patient explanation.
How families can help
The best gift parents can give teachers is partnership. Kind words of thanks, support with homework routines or volunteering for a class activity go a long way. Most of all, valuing their commitment can help lighten the emotional load. So next time you notice your child’s teacher looking tired, remember it’s not a lack of enthusiasm. It’s the natural result of pouring heart, energy and care into shaping the next generation.
Zuzu is a Mastery for Maths Specialist who has taught primary for eighteen years and is Director of Arnett International. For FREE resources and tips, find her on Instagram @edumate_uk
Helping out in the school community
Schools thrive when families and teachers work together and one of the most valuable ways parents can offer support is by getting involved in the school community. Even small contributions of time and energy can make a big difference, not just to teachers but to children too. Helping out doesn’t have to mean a big commitment. It might be lending a hand on a school trip, reading with children once a week or running a stall at the summer fair. These acts ease the workload for staff and create special memories for pupils. For those with less flexible schedules, offering occasional help with resources at home, like cutting, labelling or preparing craft materials, can be just as valuable.
Beyond practical support, active participation sends children a powerful message: that their school is important and worth your time. It builds a sense of community where families feel connected, teachers feel appreciated and children feel proud. When parents join in, schools become stronger, warmer places and everyone benefits.
Supporting a child with one or more neurodivergences
By Usha Patel
Watching our children reach their developmental milestones is a source of wonder and delight. From when your baby gets their first tooth, learns to crawl and walk and then becomes a young child ready to start school, there are many moments full of joy. However, when parents notice that their child is not meeting the necessary development milestones, excitement and anticipation can turn to fear and cause many sleepless nights.
If the situation doesn’t improve, worry becomes constant and trying to obtain official recognition of your child’s challenges is a long, uphill struggle, often accompanied by months (or years) of waiting and anxiety.
Waiting for a diagnosis
Some neurodivergent conditions, including Autism Spectrum Disorder, can be diagnosed very early, before your child starts school. Other conditions, such as Developmental Co-ordination Disorder (Dyspraxia), can be diagnosed once a child starts school, while Dyslexia cannot be diagnosed until after age 8.
When conditions are jumbled up
The term co-morbidity is used when there is no clearcut single diagnosis and when a child has many coexisting and differing challenges. If you suspect comorbidity exists, it’s common and understandable to spend time doing you own research online; you may subsequently discover that your child ticks some of the boxes for all the conditions you are looking at.
Does my child have ADHD?
It seems more and more children are being diagnosed with ADHD. The outward symptoms of ADHD can be a hyperactive child with poor attention OR an inattentive child with poor attention. Why are so many children being diagnosed? This may be because, regardless of a formal diagnosis, it seems that poor attention (either in the inattentive or hyperactive state) often co-exists with most forms of neurodivergence At my practice, I see
children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) combined with ADHD; Dyspraxia combined with ADHD; Dyslexia combined with ADHD, Auditory Processing Disorder and ADHD. It’s common and in fact, expected in most cases, that if a child cannot concentrate because they find reading, writing, talking, moving or any number of activities challenging, they will be unable to learn with ease and will definitely come across as having the ADHD symptom of inattention.
It can be more helpful to think not about the category your child falls into but what they need to assist their development.
How can your child’s developmental skills be facilitated?
A good starting point is the building blocks of development, the Primitive Reflexes. Assessing Primitive Reflexes leads a therapist such as myself to test certain things; for instance whether a child walks on their toes – not something that may necessarily seem important to their teacher. Toe walking would indicate the need to check for poor balance, an understanding of left and right, visual tracking, whether a child finds sitting at a desk challenging and how well they process what they hear.
Primitive Reflexes exist at the start of a baby’s life. They are a transition phase from the zero gravity world within the womb to the outside world of gravity and are essential to help a baby thrive. Sometimes reflexes are coupled. Examples of coupled Primitive Reflexes are between the hand and the mouth – while a baby is feeding, their hand opens and shuts. Primitive Reflexes are automatic, require no thinking and, in most children, are automatically replaced by Primitive Reflex Integration. In some children though, this normal developmental phase doesn’t take place. For instance,
Neurodivergence and anxiety
When a child suffers with repeated episodes or constant anxiety over a prolonged period, sometimes from birth, they can develop stress responses that are hard-wired, described as trauma.
Professionals are learning about trauma and how best to help those children with neurodivergent conditions who also suffer from additional trauma.
Dr Stephen Porges is an American psychologist, a professor of psychiatry at the University of North Carolina and the founding director of the Kinsey Institute Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at Indiana University. His groundbreaking research focuses on how the autonomic nervous system regulates responses to trauma and offers a clear understanding of where trauma responses originate within the nervous system.
His work on the Polyvagal Theory, which explains how the body responds to safety and threat, is a huge scientific breakthrough which shines light on how to find answers for a child who is not yet using language to express themselves, due to a co-existing condition such as Autism or because they are too young and can’t yet talk.
a school-age child with unintegrated Primitive Reflexes may poke out their tongue as they write. Having reflexes in this unintegrated state is exhausting for your child; it prevents development and hinders academic progress. In this state, they cannot concentrate for long periods, which may be why they show symptoms of ADHD. Primitive Reflex Integration is a common-sense developmental approach to dealing with complex neurodivergency-related problems, as it starts at the very beginning.
When children undergo Reflex Integration Therapy, taking the example of the coupled Primitive Reflex between the hand and mouth, when a simple test is done on the child’s hand, their mouth moves. Once the special reflex integration exercises are implemented, the hindering connection recedes. The child finds writing easier and can write for longer periods without feeling reluctant or overwhelmed.
When a child has symptoms of Autism.
Autism is an umbrella term for many defined, coexisting symptoms, typically including poor language skills, weak motor co-ordination, auditory processing and social interaction challenges.
When working with Primitive Reflexes and Autism, symptoms that often present are: eye tracking, head movement, toe walking, hand grasp, an inability to easily use a body part on the other side of the body and difficulties with right-sided brain functions.
As Autism is a neurological condition, integrating Primitive Reflexes does not provide a cure. However, improved eye co-ordination and auditory skills lead to more eye contact between your child and others and that, in turn, can improve verbal and non-verbal communication. Your child may seem more able to cooperate, less disregulated and more grounded.
Importantly, when your child is going through Primitive Reflex Integration, you are proactively facilitating progressive exercises at home, contributing to the incremental changes you see daily or weekly, on a journey that builds and makes permanent neural connections between your child’s brain and body.
Usha Patel is a Neurocognitive Therapist at Raviv Practice London. Visit < ravivpracticelondon.co.uk for advice on any of these issues.
Scientists identify four hidden Autism subtypes
A major study has uncovered four distinct subtypes of Autism, offering new hope for more accurate diagnosis and personalised treatment. Published in Nature Genetics, the research analysed data from over five thousand children, combining developmental milestones, behaviour and genetics.
The four groups identified are:
Social and Behavioural Challenges (37%) – core Autism traits, with higher rates of ADHD, anxiety or OCD.
Mixed ASD with Developmental Delay (19%) – later milestones but fewer psychiatric issues, linked to both inherited and new genetic variants.
Moderate Challenges (34%) – milder traits, timely development and minimal additional conditions.
Broadly Affected (10%) – severe difficulties across multiple domains, including language, development and psychiatric concerns.
Scientists say these subtypes suggest Autism is not one condition but several overlapping biological pathways. The discovery could transform how it is understood, paving the way for more targeted therapies and tailored support for children and families. < sciencedaily.com
Best new children’s gift books for Christmas
By Sarah Campbell
Looking for the perfect gift for young readers this Christmas? From beautifully illustrated classics to dazzling new releases, here are the most special, collectable children’s books of the season.
Paddington’s Twelve Days of Christmas
By Michael Bond & Karen Jankel.
Ages 2-4
This delightful hardback is perfect for young readers and Paddington fans alike. Inspired by the classic carol, the Brown family are busy celebrating their Christmas gifts - but Paddington is puzzled when he can’t find the partridge in a pear tree. Ever determined, he sets off to investigate, leading to plenty of festive fun and his very own spectacular Christmas Day surprise. With charming illustrations and Paddington’s trademark mischief, this joyful story is ideal for reading (and singing!) together
Impossible Creatures: The Poisoned King
By Katherine Rundell.
Ages 9-12
Impossible Creatures was the standout hit of Christmas 2024 and this breathtaking sequel returns to the spellbinding world of the Archipelago. When Christopher Forrester is woken by a dragon nibbling his face, an adventure awaits - one that involves daring rescues on sphinx-back, infiltrating dragon lairs and uncovering dark plots of murder and betrayal. Alongside a brave girl with birds at her command, Christopher must face dangers greater than he ever imagined. With echoes of Tolkien and Pullman, The Poisoned King is a dazzling hardback gift for fantasy lovers, brimming with wonder, danger and unforgettable creatures.
The Extremely Embarrassing Life of
Lottie Brooks By
Katie Kirby.
Ages 9-12
Puffin are celebrating their eightyfifth anniversary this year with deluxe clothbound editions of muchloved modern classics, including The Extremely Embarrassing Life of Lottie Brooks. Packed with laugh-out-loud moments, friendship and relatable growing-up struggles, this book celebrates the highs and lows of pre-teen life. Bound in cloth with coloured foils and sprayed edges, this beautifully presented hardback is both a perfect gift and collector’s item, with a brand-new foreword by Nadia Shireen.
Oh Dear, Look What I Got!
By Michael Rosen and Helen Oxenbury.
From the legendary creators of We’re Going on a Bear Hunt comes a brand-new rhyming delight that feels like an instant classic. In this playful hardback edition, each trip to the shop brings an unexpected surprise – a carrot turns into a parrot and the fun just keeps building! With Michael Rosen’s witty, read-aloud rhymes and Helen Oxenbury’s joyful illustrations, children will be giggling and guessing what comes next. Perfect for story-time, this energetic and hilarious tale brings a final twist to leave little readers smiling.
Ages 2-4
Animal Magic
By Michael Morpurgo.
Ages 5-8
From one of the nation’s most beloved storytellers comes a beautiful hardback collection of four inspiring and heartwarming modern fables celebrating the bond between people, animals and the natural world. Readers will journey from the banks of the Thames to a seaside railway carriage, through countryside lanes on a bicycle and to a Devon farm where a refugee discovers hope through horses. Told with Michael Morpurgo’s trademark warmth and compassion, Animal Magic is a book to cherish and share.
Fold Out + Play
Doll’s House Illustrated by Ingela P. Arrhenius.
Ages 2-4
This ingenious interactive board book transforms into a beautifully designed 3D doll’s house for hours of imaginative fun. Children can press out and assemble furniture, stand up the charming characters and use colourful stickers to decorate each room. Once playtime is over, all the pieces pack in the sturdy built-in drawer, making it perfect for on-the-go adventures. This is a book, a toy and a delightful gift all rolled into one.
This is Not a Small Voice
Edited by Traci N. Todd.
Ages 9-12
This stunning illustrated anthology celebrates the power and beauty of black voices. Featuring over one hundred poems by both classic and contemporary poets – including Maya Angelou, Amanda Gorman, Joseph Coelho and more, this collection introduces children and families to a dazzling range of perspectives, all brought to life with vibrant illustrations. The poems explore hope, struggle, joy, pride, family and home in an inspiring gift that is perfect for reading aloud.
The Christmas Flame, by Desmond James.
The Christmas Flame is a magical Advent adventure told in twenty-four nightly chapters—perfect for families to read together throughout December. Deep in Lapland, the Christmas Flame keeps the season’s magic alive, but this year invisible mischief, flying headteachers, and a mysterious enemy threaten to snuff it out. From snowy mountains to the human village of Elapai, Maya, Pepper, Pip, Milo, Jasper, and the Snowberry Fairies must uncover the truth before Christmas fades. A cosy, funny, and heartwarming festive read.
Peter Pan By Caryl Hart & Sarah Warburton.
This enchanting retelling of J. M. Barrie’s timeless classic arrives in a stunning gift edition, perfect for a new generation of readers. Award-winning author, Caryl Hart captures the magic and adventure of Neverland with warmth and energy, while Sarah Warburton’s beautiful colour illustrations make every page sparkle. Join Peter, Wendy and the Darling children as they encounter the mischievous Lost Boys, the jealous Tinker Bell and the villainous Captain Hook in an unforgettable adventure. With its foil cover and keepsake design, this striking edition makes a gorgeous Christmas gift.
Sarah Campbell is co-founder of Parrot Street Book Club, an online children’s bookshop offering a handpicked collection of high-quality children’s chapter books, plus an award-winning monthly book subscription for 5 to 14 yearolds. Find out more at < parrotstreet.com
Cuddle up for a Christmas story this December… ✨
Available November on Amazon and selected bookstores
Follow @DesmondJamesBooks for sneak peeks!
From the snowy mountains of Lapland to the human village of Elapai, join Maya, Pepper, Pip, Milo, Jasper, and the Snowberry Fairies as they race to save the Christmas Flame.
What’s On
Fill your diary with these autumn events and activities for all the family to enjoy.
With thanks to Claire LockieWilliams for compiling.
Weekly Classes
WATERSPLASH DOLPHINS
Booker Park School, Aylesbury
Swimming lessons (30-mins) for children (3-8yrs) in small groups.
Mondays, Wednesdays, Thursdays and Fridays: 4-6pm. Saturdays: 8.30-12.30. Sundays: 3-5pm.
Contact: 07930 266863 (Sharon) or email: swim@watersplashdolphins.co.uk for a FREE trial. watersplashdolphins. co.uk
November
Sunday 2 November
FAMILY FIREWORKS
GXCA, Gerrards Cross.
Arts and crafts, kids activities, plus stunning fireworks. 3.30pm onwards. gxca.org.uk
Monday 3 November
FACTORY TOUR EXPERIENCE
Redbull Racing, Milton Keynes. Go behind the scenes and visit the Red Bull Racing HQ. 9.30am, 12.30pm and 3pm. 12+yrs. Also on 21st November, 1th
and 15th December. Booking essential. experiences.redbullracing.com
Wednesday 5 November
SCHOOL IN ACTION
St Helen’s School, Northwood. School open day. 9am-12.30pm. Also, on 19th March 2026. Book online at: sthelens.london
Thursday 6 November
STAY AND PLAY
Jordans Village School, Beaconsfield. Bring your child for a morning of fun, play and discovery. 9-10.30am. Meet the team, enjoy coffee & cake. Booking essential. Email to register: admissions.JVNS@gmail.com
Friday 7 November
COFFEE MORNING
Dove Café, Holtspur. Chat, coffee & toys. 9.3010.30am. kindnessinbucks.com
CUFC FIREWORKS SPECTACULAR
Chesham United Football Club, Chesham.
A dazzling display of fireworks, 7.30pm cheshamunited.co.uk
FIREWORKS DISPLAY
Amersham RFC, Amersham. Fireworks, food and family entertainment, 5.30pm. chilternrugby.com
Saturday 8 November
BERKHAMSTED FIREWORKS
Berkhamsted Cricket Club. Food, drink and fireworks. 5.30pm. berkobang.org.uk
FIREWORKS AND BONFIRE NIGHT
Great Missenden C of E School. Family friendly annual firework event with activities for all! 5pm. U4s free. gmfireworks.co.uk
FIREWORKS BY THE LAKE
Restore Hope, Latimer Park. Spectacular firework display, fundraising for Restore Hope. 5.30-7.30pm. restorehopelatimer.org
TACTILE EXPLORERS
Tring Natural History Museum. Special hands on event for partially sighted or blind children and their families. 11am-12pm. FREE. nhm.ac.uk/tring
Saturday 8 – Sunday 9 November
ROALD DAHL CHILDREN’S GALLERY
Discover Bucks Museum, Aylesbury, Crawl along Fantastic Mr Fox’s tunnel, investigate minibeasts inside the Giant Peach, explore sound with the BFG and more! Open weekends, check for extra Christmas openings. discoverbucksmuseum.org
Sunday 9 November
CHARITY CHRISTMAS BAZAAR
Crowne Plaza, Gerrards Cross. Raising funds with festive fun. 10am-4pm. Under 12s FREE. cawc.co.uk/bazaar
SENDSATIONAL MORNING
Tring Natural History Museum. A quieter time at the museum for children with neurodiversity to enjoy it. 10am-12pm. FREE. nhm.ac.uk/tring
Wednesday 12 November
YOUTH CLUB
Chesham Youth Centre. Arts, crafts and sports youth club for 8-12 yrs. 6-8pm. cheshamyc.org.uk
Thursday 13 November
DISCOVER DUCKS
Discover Bucks Museum, Aylesbury, Themed fun session for under 5s. November-Autumn, DecemberChristmas! 10am-12pm. Also, on 27th November, 4th and 11th of December. discoverbucksmuseum.org
FAMILIES GO WILD!
Black Park Country Park. Forest school activities, learning key skills through crafts, games. 10.30am-12pm. 1-10yrs. Term time. countryparks.buckinghamshire.gov.uk
Thursday 13 – Friday 14 November
THE VERY HUNGRY CATERPILLAR
The Elgiva, Chesham. A show to delight everyone. Book online, elgiva.com
Thursday 13 – Sunday 16 November
CHRISTMAS MARKET
Peterley Manor Farm, Prestwood. Find fabulous gifts, live music, firepits & food. Book at: peterleymanorfarm.co.uk
What’s On
Daily Festive Events
BEKONSCOT SEASONAL EVENTS
Bekonscot Model Village, Beaconsfield. With Santa sleigh riding, naughty elf hunting and festive gift crafting–It’s festive season at Bekonscot! Check website for event dates and timings. Open daily until 21st December. Book online 48+ hours prior to get 10% off the standard entry price! bekonscot.co.uk
A CODEBREAKERS CHRISTMAS
Bletchley Park, Milton Keynes. Meet Codebreakers, make crafty decorations, enjoy festive treats and more! Open Daily Thurs-Suns from 4th to 23rd Dec, (plus 22nd and 23rd Dec). bletchleypark.org.uk
CHRISTMAS AT WADDESDON
Waddesdon Manor, nr Aylesbury.
Experience a grand festive tour at Waddesdon Manor this Christmas (from 22nd Nov-4th Jan). Fabulous Christmas fair runs from 22nd November-14th Dec. Check website for tickets and timings: waddesdon.org.uk
CHRISTMAS AT WENDOVER WOODS Wendover Woods.
Explore the festive Stick Man Christmas Play Trail, hire disc golf and enjoy laser tag sessions. Plus Go Ape, cafe and much more! forestryengland.uk/wendoverwoods
MRS CLAUS’ COOKIE CABIN
Open Daily from Late November
CHESHAM CHRISTMAS TREE FARM
Amersham Road, Chesham. Fresh Christmas trees to brighten your home and festive decorations. Also at Christmas Tree Place, Berkhamsted. Check website for opening times. christmastreefarm.co.uk
Daily until February
I GREW UP 90’S
Discover Bucks Museum, Aylesbury. Step into a fab era of britpop, iconic fashion and great music. discoverbucksmuseum.org
Friday 14 November – 3 January
CHRISTMAS AT BLENHEIM PALACE Blenheim Palace, Oxford. Discover the Palace of Oz and fabulous illuminated trail. Book: blenheimpalace.com
Eden Centre, High Wycombe. Festive fun with Mrs Claus, delivering an important Christmas message. 2-8yrs. Weekends from 29th November to 24th December. SEN session on Sunday’s at 4.10pm. Book tickets: edenshopping. co.uk
ICE SKATING AT CHILTERN VIEW ICE RINK
Chiltern View Garden Centre, Aylesbury. ice-skating fun. Open 22nd Nov-31 chilternviewicerink.co.uk
ASHRIDGE ILLUMINATED Ashridge House, Berkhampsted. Magical illuminations in this outdoor light trail. Open daily from 4pm, 27th November to 1st January. ashridgehouse.org.uk
POLAR BEAR TRAIL
Tring Natural History Museum, Tring. Help Snowy the polar bear on his gift giving travels. From 29th Nov-4th Jan, (not on Mondays. ) More details online: nhm.ac.uk/tring
WINTER WONDERLAND
Hartwell Nurseries, Aylesbury. Experience the magic of Christmas. Pre-book: hartwellnurseries.co.uk
Friday 14 November
TITCHY TODDLERS
Roald Dahl Museum, Great Missenden.
Tricks and Inventions. Hunt for James’ minibeast friends and build a nest for the birds in Roald Dahl’s stories. 10am- 12pm. 6mths-4yrs. Also, 12th Dec roalddahlmuseum.org
TOTS GO WILD
Black Park Country Park. Forest school fun 1-5yrs. Weekly countryparks.buckinghamshire.gov.uk
FOREST SCHOOL: OPEN MORNING St Mary’s School, Gerrards Cross. Outdoor adventures and nature-based learning. Nursery & Reception. 9.30am. Pre-register: stmarysschool.co.uk
Saturday 15 – Sunday 16 November
WILLEN ON ICE
Willen Lake, Milton Keynes. willenlake.org.uk
Tuesday 18 November
COLESHILL INFANT SCHOOL OPEN DAY
Coleshill Infant School, Amersham. Meet the Head, see classrooms, 9.30am. coleshillvillageschool.co.uk
Thursday 20 November
MARLOW CHRISTMAS LIGHT SWITCH-ON
Marlow, Buckinghamshire
Stunning decorations, dress-ups and more! From 6pm. marlow-tc.gov.uk
Friday 21 November
CHRISTMAS IN CHESHAM
Chesham High Street. Live performances, light switchon and dances on the stage. Free, from 6pm. visitchesham.org.uk
RHYTHM OF THE DANCE CHRISTMAS SPECIAL
Wycombe Swan, St Mary’s Street. An Irish Christmas journey with all your favourite festive songs. 7.30pm. trafalgartickets.com
Sat 22 November – 14 December
WADDESDON CHRISTMAS FAIR
Waddesdon Manor, nr Aylesbury. Fabulous Christmas fair with a fabulous range of gifts & food. Check website for tickets and timings: waddesdon.org.uk
Sunday 23 November
CHRISTMAS ON THE COBBLES
Aylesbury Town Centre, Illuminated parade, crafts, games and Father Christmas himself. 12-5.30pm. aylesburytowncouncil.gov.uk
CRAFT FAIR
The Elgiva, Chesham. Annual craft fair. 11am-4pm. elgiva.com
FESTIVAL OF LIGHT
Berkhamsted Town Centre. Light switch-on with Santa’s parade, free live entertainment and more! 3.30-6pm. berkhamsted-tc.gov.uk
Tuesday 25 November
WORKSHOP: IS YOUR CHILD SAFE ONLINE?
Online (pre-book via website). With the rise of AI and apps asking for children’s location, this workshop focuses on the dangers facing children 4-16yrs. Attend from home. Pre-book: lydiaaentertainment.com
Friday 28 November
PREP SCHOOL OPEN MORNING
St Mary’s School, Gerrards Cross. Explore classrooms and see hands-on learning in action. 9.30am, Pre-register: stmarysschool.co.uk
Friday 28 – Sunday 30 November
CHRISTMAS MARKET
Walled Garden, West Wycombe. Fabulous festive shopping. 11am-5pm. westwycombewalledgarden.com
Christmas at Waddesdon: 22 Nov – 4 Jan
© Waddesdon Image Library.
Photo by Chris Lacey
Friday 28 November – 24 December
CHRISTMAS CRACKER
Odds Farm Park, Wooburn Common. Walk the winter wonderland to the North Pole and visit Santa. oddsfarm. co.uk
Saturday 29 November
AMERSHAM CHRISTMAS FESTIVAL
Sycamore Road, Amersham. Funfair and Santa’s grotto. 10am-5pm. amersham-tc.gov.uk
GREAT MISSENDEN CHRISTMAS 2025
Great Missenden High Street. Festive market & family entertainment. coopersmarkets.com
CHRISTMAS CRAFT STALLS
Bekonscot Model Village, Beaconsfield
Visit the village and browse festive stalls. bekonscot.co.uk/seasonal-events
TRING TOGETHER XMAS FESTIVAL
Tring High St and Victoria Hall. Christmas festival with music and stalls. 3.30-8.30pm. tringtogether.org.uk
WENDOVER’S XMAS CELEBRATION
Wendover Manor Waste Area. Christmas Lights switch-on. 4pm-7pm. wendover-pc.gov.uk
Saturday 29 November - 4 January
STAMPED AND SEALED
Hughenden Manor, High Wycombe. Step inside a Victorian Christmas. nationaltrust.org.uk
Saturday 29 – Sunday 30 November
HEARING DOGS CHRISTMAS MARKET
The Grange, Saunderton. Dog demos, fab food & grotto! 11am5pm. Pre-booking advised: hearingdogs.org.uk
MEET THE HUSKY DOGS
Waddesdon Manor, nr Aylesbury. Meet some adorable Huskies at the Conservation hub. Also on: 6th, 7th, 13th &
14th Dec. waddesdon.org.uk
Saturday 29 – Sunday 30 Nov (Cont’)
SANTA STEAM SPECIALS
Chinnor & Princes Risborough Railway. All aboard the Santa Steam Specials! Enjoy a magical steam train ride to Santa’s Grotto at his North Pole station. Also on 6th, 7th, 13th, 14th, 19th, 20th, 21st & 22nd December. Pre-booking only: chinnorrailway.co.uk
Sunday 30 November
5K SANTA RUN
Stowe Gardens, Buckinghamshire. Festive run in support of conservation at Stowe. 9-11am. nationaltrust.org.uk
CINDERELLA – THE ROYAL BALLET
The Elgiva, Chesham. Cinderella screening. 7.15pm. elgiva.com
HADDENHAM SANTA DASH
Haddenham Village Hall, Haddenham. Sleigh the season for Charity. 10am-2pm. fnhospice.org.uk
PRINCES RISBOROUGH CHRISTMAS LIGHTS
Princes Risborough High Street. Festivities, light switch-on. 3-6pm. princesrisboroughtowncouncil.gov.uk
SANTA DASH & CHRISTMAS MARKET
Wycombe Wanderers FC, Festive fundraiser. 10am-2pm. fnhospice.org.uk
Wednesday 3 December
BEACONSFIELD FESTIVAL OF LIGHTS
Beaconsfield, Buckinghamshire. Stalls and live entertainment. beaconsfieldfestivaloflights.co.uk
Thursday 4 –Tuesday 23 December
A CODEBREAKER’S CHRISTMAS
Bletchley Park, Milton Keynes. Meet Codebreakers, make crafty decorations, enjoy festive treats and more! ThursdaysSundays, plus 22nd and 23rd December. bletchleypark.org.uk
Thursday 4 – 31 December
PANTOMIME- JACK AND THE BEANSTALK
The Elgiva, Chesham. Packed with songs, slapstick and sparkle, this professional panto has all the magic ingredients – a dash of danger, a sprinkling of silliness and, of course, a happily-ever-after. elgiva.com
Friday 5 December – 4 January
JACK AND THE BEANSTALK
Aylesbury Waterside Theatre. Heinous henchmen, captured cows and young heroes in this spectacular pantomime-including LIVE water fight! atgtickets.com
Friday 5 December
COOKIE DECORATING WORKSHOPS
Eden Centre, High Wycombe. Lovely creative festive fundraiser. Adults only, 6pm. Also on 19th Dec. edenshopping.co.uk
OLD AMERSHAM CHRISTMAS FESTIVAL
Old Amersham, High Street. Christmas festival with artisan market, live music. Santa and his reindeer. amersham-tc.gov.uk
CHALFONT ST PETER FUN NIGHT
Market Place, Chalfont St Peter. 8-8.30pm. Drop-in, free. Carols, shopping, food & drink, feastofstpeter.org.uk
Saturday 6 December
SANTA AT THE ROALD DAHL MUSEUM
Roald Dahl Museum, Great Missenden. Father Christmas will be making appearance throughout the day. roalddahlmuseum.org
Santa Steam Specials at Chinnor Railway
THE SCIENCE OF CHRISTMAS
Discover Bucks Museum, Aylesbury, Could Santa catapult a present down a chimney? 1-hr science workshop. Also on 14th Dec. discoverbucksmuseum.org
Saturday 6 – Sunday 7 December
CINDERELLA
Queens Park Arts Centre, Aylesbury 2pm and 6.30pm. queensparkarts.com
CHARLIE’S CHRISTMAS CHOCOLATE STORY-TELLING
Roald Dahl Museum, Great Missenden. Free with Museum entry. Also on Sat 13th & Sun 14th Dec. roalddahlmuseum.org
FESTIVE WEEKEND
Chiltern Open Air Museum, Chalfont St Giles. Crafts, market and Santa. 10am-4pm. coam.org.uk
SANTA DASH, CHRISTMAS MARKET AND LIGHT SHOW
Waddesdon Manor, Waddesdon. Enjoy the Christmas Market & light show. 10am-2pm. fnhospice.org.uk
VISIT SANTA AT BEKONSCOT
Bekonscot Model Village, Beaconsfield Also on 13th & 14th Dec. Carol Service on 7th Dec at 4pm. Pre-book tickets online: bekonscot.co.uk
Sunday 7 December
EXPLORE YOUR WAY-SEND DAY
Roald Dahl Museum, Great Missenden. Great for visitors with SEND & families. 10am-4.30pm. roalddahlmuseum.org
Monday 8– Sunday 14 December
VOTE FOR FATHER CHRISTMAS
Dembe Theatre, Tring.
New Christmas Musical, fundraising for great causes! dembetheatre.org
Wednesday 10 December
THE NUTCRACKER- THE ROYAL BALLET
The Elgiva, Chesham. The Royal Ballet’s Nutcracker. 7.15pm. elgiva.com
Wednesday 10– 13 December
A CHRISTMAS CAROL Aylesbury Waterside Theatre. Dickens Theatre Company’s sees Charles Dickens & his tour manager perform all 30 roles in this unique retelling of the classic tale. atgtickets. com
Thursday 11 December
FESTIVE AFTERNOON TEA
Ballinger War Memorial Hall, Great Missenden Pre-book online: scannappeal.org.uk
Friday 12– Sunday 14 December
SANTA’S WINTER WONDERLAND Amersham Field Office, Amersham. Christmas training for young elves! Explore enchanted woodland, learn elf skills and meet Santa! Multiple time slots. Pre-book: field-studies-council.org
Friday 12 December – Sun 4 January
JACK AND THE BEANSTALK PANTOMIME
Wycombe Swan, High Wycombe. Up the beanstalk we go for a GIANT of a pantomime adventure, starring Radio 2’s Scott Mills, Strictly star La Voix, A1’s Mark Read as Jack, and winner of Ant & Dec’s Golden Buzzer, magiciancomedian Matt Edwards. Multiple time slots. trafalgartickets.com
Mrs Claus’ Cookie Cabin in Eden Shopping Centre
Saturday 13 – Sunday 14 December
SANTA STEAM SPECIALS
Chinnor & Princes Risborough Railway. Also on 19th, 20th, 21st & 22nd Dec. Prebooking only: chinnorrailway.co.uk
PANTO EXPRESS
Buckinghamshire Railway Centre. Also 20th, 21st & 22nd Dec. Pre-book online: bucksrailcentre.org
Saturday 13- Sunday 14 December
MOTHER GOOSE
Queens Park Arts Centre, Aylesbury. Unhappy with her lot in life, Mother Goose makes a deal with a sprite. 2pm & 6.30pm. queensparkarts.com
VISIT SANTA AT BEKONSCOT
Bekonscot Model Village, Beaconsfield Santa will be visiting the village with his elves. Be fast & book your 30-min slot online: bekonscot.co.uk
Saturday 13 – 24 December
SANTA’S SECRET GROTTO
GXCA, Gerrards Cross. Enjoy a magical journey, candy cane treasure hunt & meet Santa. gxca.org.uk
Sunday 14 December
CAROLFEST
St Mary’s Church, Aylesbury .
Carols, brass band & festive treats! 6-7pm. aylesburytowncouncil.gov.uk
Tuesday 16– 24 December
DEAR SANTA
Aylesbury Waterside Theatre. The perfect holiday treat for children and includes the chance to meet Santa! Multiple times. atgtickets.com
Wednesday 17 December
CHESHAM TOWN CAROL SERVICE
St Mary’s Church, Chesham. From 8pm. visitchesham.org.uk
Thursday 18– Saturday 21 December
CHARLIES CHOCOLATE CHRISTMAS
Roald Dahl Museum, Great Missenden. Celebrate Charlie and the Chocolate Factory! Also on 27th-31st December and 2nd- 4th January. roalddahlmuseum.org
Friday 19 – Monday 22 December
SANTA STEAM SPECIALS
Chinnor & Princes Risborough Railway. Pre-booking only, (be quick!). chinnorrailway.co.uk
Saturday 20 – Sunday 21 December
JACK AND THE BEANSTALK
Queens Park Arts Centre, Aylesbury. Plant those magic beans and head up to the kingdom of the clouds.
IT’S PANTO GIVEAWAY
TIME – OH YES IT IS!
Jack and the Beanstalk at Aylesbury Waterside Theatre promises a spectacular GIANT adventure from Fri 5th Dec 2025 – Sun 4th Jan 2026.
Starring Olivier award-winner Nigel Harman (EastEnders, Casualty and Strictly) alongside the return of family favourite Andy Collins (BBC Three Counties radio) this year’s panto is bigger, bolder, and funnier than ever!
Including incredible 3D special effects, a jovial Jack, a punch-packing princess, a feisty fairy, a silly sibling and an outrageously witty widow, this year’s festive must-see will leave you climbing high! Book early to avoid disappointment.
Giveaway
We are giving away 4 x tickets to Jack and the Beanstalk at Aylesbury Waterside Theatre on Tuesday 9th Dec at 7pm. To enter, click here by Friday 28th November.
We’ve got a date with a giant. 2pm and 6.30pm. queensparkarts.com
Monday 22 December
MK-7 EXPERIENCE
Redbull Racing, Milton Keynes. Go behind the scenes and visit the vibrant heritage workshop. Noon & 2.40pm. 5+yrs. Booking essential: experiences.redbullracing.com
Friday 26 –Sunday 28 December
DICK WHITTINGTON
Queens Park Arts Centre, Aylesbury. Dick Whittington and his loyal companion are headed to London! 2pm and 6.30pm. queensparkarts.com
Saturday 27 December
ANIMAL ANTICS: JUNGLE JUNIORS
Roald Dahl Museum & Story Centre, Great Missenden.
30-minute animal handling session. Various times, £5pp, 5+yrs, book online: roalddahlmuseum.org
Sunday 28 December
ROALD DAHL RAMBLE
Roald Dahl Museum, Great Missenden. Explore the woods that inspired Roald Dahl’s last book for children, Billy and the Minpins. 11.30am and 2pm. roalddahlmuseum.org
GIVEAWAY: FAMILY TICKET TO JACK & THE BEANSTALK
Join us at Wycombe Swan for a GIANT of a panto: Jack and the Beanstalk!
This moo-vellous familyfriendly panto is sure to leave everyone aged 4 to 104 feeling full of beans.
Starring Radio 2 Breakfast host Scott Mills as Mayor Mills, the incredible La Voix, and A1’s Mark Read as Jack.
Fri 12th Dec 2025 – Sun 4th Jan 2026.
Book your tickets now at <wycombeswan.co.uk
Giveaway: We are giving away 4 x tickets to Jack and the Beanstalk at Wycombe Swan Theatre on a performance of your choice on: Fri 12th, Sat 13th or Sun 14th Dec. To enter, click here by Friday 28th November.
You will need:
• Mini red cups (we used 11.)
• An artboard or any similar item which has a flat surface.
• Double-sided sticky pads to attach the cups to the artboard (You can also use a hot glue gun for this job.)
• Pom poms in fun Christmas colours.
Step 4.
Turn the board over and check that it’s stable.
Make your own Christmas Toss Game
This fun game for children is easy and cost-effective to make using a few craft supplies that you may already have at home or which are easy to buy. We find that it’s easier for little ones to play if you use small cups but the idea works just as well when using larger paper cups for older children.
With thanks to Learning Resources® for this activity. Take a look at their hands-on educational toys, games and learning activities at: < learningresources.co.uk
Step 1.
Stick the mini red cups onto the artboard.
Step 2.
Stick on enough cups to make a fun Christmas tree shape. We used 11, but you can use more or less.
Step 3.
Turn the board over and stick a further two cups to what will be the top end of the game board.
Playing Christmas Toss
With one or more little ones, see how many colourful pom poms they can land in the cups. When playing with more than one child, count out the same quantity of pom poms in each colour and give each their own pile. The first player to land all their pom poms wins the game!
Challenge older children with a fun maths twist. Write numbers inside the bottom of each cup. After players have landed their pom poms in the cups, add up the score. The player with the highest wins the game.
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