November is the per fect time to get ahead of Chri and we’ve got some great ideas this issue to help Christmas memories with the family (that don’ t co
If it ’s presents you’re after, we have the best new c for Christmas You can’ t go wrong with gifting a bo there are some ex tra-special, fabulously collectable books in our gift guide destined to become titles they will revisit again and again.
If you’re on the lookout for toys, you’ll find them in our Great Christmas Toy Giveaway! Apply inside and you’ll also receive our e -newsletter with a link to our digital magazine to share with your friends and family.
When it comes to festive events we’ve put them all in one place for you in our Winter What ’s On guide for families! There’s so much going on in and around Coventr y and Warwickshire from FREE Light Switch Ons to Christmas Markets, Pantos to Santa visits, so grab your highlighter and embrace the magic of the season
Let ’s be honest , parenting is a rollercoaster of emotions from the highest highs to the lowest lows. Discover how to hit your pause button when it all gets a bit much and how to use laughter to improve emotional connections, ease stress and create lasting memories
Hear from the Education exper ts on suppor ting a child with one or more neurodivergences and in suppor t of Anti-Bullying Week (10 - 14 Nov), find out how to differentiate bullying from a bad day
Finally, we delve into the world of Technology and share the best educational apps for kids and advancements in ar tificial intelligence (AI) and how you and your family can use them to get ahead at work and home.
I hope you’ve enjoyed reading the magazines in 2025 as much as I’ve enjoyed writing them From my family to yours, I truly wish you a ver y Merr y Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Best new children’s gift books for Christmas
By Sarah Campbell
Looking for the perfect gift for young readers this Christmas? From beautifully illustrated classics to dazzling new releases, here are the most special, collectable children’s books of the season.
Paddington’s Twelve Days of Christmas by Michael Bond & K aren Jankel
Ages 2-4
This delightful hardback is per fect for young readers and Paddington fans alike Inspired by the classic carol, the Brown family are busy celebrating their Christmas gifts - but Paddington is puz zled when he can’ t find the par tridge in a pear tree Ever determined, he sets o to investigate , leading to plent y of festive fun and his ver y own spectacular Christmas Day surprise. With charming illustrations and Paddington’s trademark mischief, this joy ful stor y is ideal for reading (and singing!) together over the holidays
The Christmas Contest: An Advent Novel by Maxime Gillio
Ages 5-8
Make the countdown to Christmas truly magical with this ingenious advent novel that the whole family can enjoy together Santa has a big problem: too many children on the nice list and not enough time to deliver the gifts! His solution? A festive competition to recruit his ver y first apprentice. Featuring a cast of captivating characters, the Nor th Pole comes alive with excitement as contestants face a series of play ful challenges With twent y four sealed chapters to open day by day, this interactive stor y introduces a joyous new festive tradition
The E xtremely Embarrassing Life of Lottie Brooks by K atie Kirby
Ages 9-12
Pu in are celebrating their eightyfifth anniversar y this year with deluxe clothbound editions of much-loved modern classics, including The E xtremely Embarrassing Life of Lottie Brooks. Packed with laugh-out-loud moments, friendship and relatable growing-up struggles, this book celebrates the highs and lows of pre-teen life Bound in cloth with coloured foils and sprayed edges, this beautifully presented hardback is both a per fect gift and collector ’s item, with a brand-new foreword by Nadia Shireen.
Oh Dear, Look What I Got!
by
Michael Rosen and Helen Oxenbur y
From the legendar y creators of We’re Going on a Bear Hunt comes a brandnew rhyming delight that feels like an instant classic. In this play ful hardback edition, each trip to the shop brings an unexpected surprise – a carrot turns into a parrot and the fun just keeps building! With Michael Rosen’s witty, read-aloud rhymes and Helen Oxenbur y’s joy ful illustrations, children will be giggling and guessing what comes next. Per fect for stor y time , this energetic and hilarious tale brings a final twist to leave little readers smiling.
Ages 2-4
Animal Magic by Michael Morpurgo
Ages 5-8
From one of the nation’s most beloved stor ytellers comes a beautiful hardback collection of four inspiring and hear twarming modern fables celebrating the bond between people , animals and the natural world Readers will journey from the banks of the Thames to a seaside railway carriage , through countryside lanes on a bic ycle and to a Devon farm where a refugee discovers hope through horses. Told with Michael Morpurgo’s trademark warmth and compassion, Animal Magic is a book to cherish and share
Fold Out + Play Doll’s House Illustrated by Ingela P. Arrhenius
Ages 2-4
This ingenious interactive board book transforms into a beautifully designed 3D doll ’s house for hours of imaginative fun Children can press out and assemble furniture , stand up the charming characters and use colour ful stickers to decorate each room - from kitchen and bathroom to cosy bedroom and living room Once playtime is over, all the pieces pack in the sturdy built-in drawer, making it per fect for on-the -go adventures This is a book , a toy and a delightful gift all rolled into one.
This is Not a Small Voice edited by Traci N. Todd
Ages 9-12
This stunning illustrated anthology celebrates the power and beaut y of black voices. Featuring over one hundred poems by both classic and contemporar y poets - including Maya Angelou, Amanda Gorman, Joseph Coelho and more , this collection introduces children and families to a daz zling range of perspectives, all brought to life with vibrant illustrations. The poems explore hope , struggle , joy, pride , family and home in an inspiring gift that is per fect for reading aloud
Lost and Found Jigsaw Book by
Oliver Je ers
Ages 2-4
This charming interactive jigsaw book features Oliver Je ers’ beloved classic Lost and Found. The hear twarming stor y of a boy who discovers a penguin at his door and sets out on an unforgettable adventure to help it find its way home is accompanied by six beautifully illustrated and easy-to -assemble twelve-piece puz zles Ideal for little hands and curious minds, this clever combination of stor y and play will provide hours of festive fun this Christmas and beyond.
The Night Creatures: Firefly by Robert Macfarlane & Luke
Adam Hawker
Ages 5-8
This breathtaking hardback gift edition is the first in a new trilogy from two of the UK’s most celebrated creators Written in lyrical verse by Rober t Mac farlane , alongside Luke Adam Hawker ’s exquisite etched illustrations, Firefly tells the stor y of a child who discovers a meadow glowing with fireflies‘ fallen constellations’ that bring hope and wonder to the darkest nights With its cloth binding and copper-foiled cover, this stunning book is as beautiful to hold as it is to read aloud One to captivate children and adults alike this Christmas.
A Poem for Every Question by Brian Bilston
Impossible Creatures: The Poisoned King by Katherine Rundell
Ages 9-12
Impossible Creatures was the standout hit of Christmas 2024 and this breathtaking sequel returns to the spellbinding world of the Archipelago When Christopher Forrester is woken by a dragon nibbling his face , an adventure awaits - one that involves daring rescues on sphinx-back , infiltrating dragon lairs and uncovering dark plots of murder and betrayal. Alongside a brave girl with birds at her command, Christopher must face dangers greater than he ever imagined. With echoes of Tolkien and Pullman, The Poisoned King is a daz zling hardback gift for fantasy lovers, brimming with wonder, danger and unforgettable creatures
Peter Pan by Caryl Hart & Sarah Warburton
Ages 5-8
Bursting with wit , wonder and wordplay, this hardback collection is the per fect gift for curious minds. Poet Brian Bilston answers one hundred fascinating questions, from ‘ Who invented football?’ to ‘How did the ancient Egyptians make a mummy?’; each in his uniquely funny and thought-provoking style
Ever y poem is paired with a lively, factpacked explainer, written with just as much humour and hear t. Bright , play ful illustrations by Joe Berger bring extra joy to ever y page.
Per fect for sharing at home or in the classroom, this is a brilliant book for inquisitive children
Ages 5-8
This enchanting retelling of J M Barrie’s timeless classic arrives in a stunning gift edition, per fect for a new generation of readers Award-winning author, Car yl Har t captures the magic and adventure of Neverland with warmth and energy, while Sarah Warbur ton’s beautiful colour illustrations make ever y page sparkle Join Peter, Wendy and the Darling children as they encounter the mischievous Lost Boys, the jealous Tinker Bell and the villainous Captain Hook in an unforgettable adventure With its foil cover and keepsake design, this striking edition makes a gorgeous Christmas gift.
Sarah Campbell is co-founder of Parrot Street Book Club, an online children’s bookshop o ering a handpicked collection of high-qualit y children’s chapter books, plus an award-winning monthly book subscription for 5 to 14 year-olds. Find out more at www.parrotstreet.com
Making Christmas memories (that don’t cost a fortune)
By Anna Houston, a freelance writer specialising in parenting and women’s lifestyle
Christmas is approaching and the pressures are everywhere to make it the most magical time of the year. Bombarded by social media perfection and ads for all the must-have gifts and experiences, it ’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Last Christmas, having just moved house, we skipped expensive outings and planned one special, no-cost (or low-cost) activit y each weekend. It became our most memorable Christmas yet - so here are some of the things we did to inspire your own festive season.
Letters to Santa
Christmas
light adventures
Turn writing letters into an afternoon event. Put on a Christmas playlist , ser ve gingerbread and warm milk and set out stickers, stamps and glitter It’s a cosy way to spend time together and an easy sneak of their wish list. I also use the same setup with my eldest for writing Christmas cards, making a simple chore feel special
Christmas messy play
There are endless festive sensor y play ideas. One favourite is ‘snow ’ made from bicarbonate of soda, cornflour and a splash of water. Hide little trinkets or cutters inside for the children to discover A quick online search will give you plent y of low-cost activities to keep little hands busy
Skip pricey light trails and explore local neighbourhoods known for their light displays. Wrap up warm and take a walk together or pack blankets and hot chocolate for a cosy car tour one evening. Many towns also host free light switch-on events with parades and per formances. These are often just as enchanting as ticketed attractions but far more budget-friendly.
Festive gatherings
If you don’ t have a fire pit or chiminea, meet friends who do! Gather round with mugs of hot chocolate and marshmallows or s’mores We even popped the children’s letters to Santa into the flames so the smoke could magically ‘deliver’ them to the North Pole The flicker of the fire, crisp air and excited chatter made for a wonderfully festive activity
Instead of a Christmas Eve box , I create a December box filled with activities rather than toys. It might include a Christmas mug, festive puz zles, craft supplies, stickers or cookie cutters The aim is to spark connection through playing, creating and making memories together I also display our Christmas stor ybooks alongside the box so the children can rediscover old favourites To add extra magic, write a note to the children when delivering it at the start of the month!
Pre-made gingerbread shapes, icing and sprinkles make for an easy, low-e or t afternoon. They are readily available in any supermarket and the baking aisles have lots of festive sprinkles to choose from For older kids, a decorating gingerbread house par t y with friends is always a winner. If gingerbread isn’ t your thing, tr y making mince pies with ready-rolled pastr y and jarred mincemeat as an alternative
Little traditions
lighting an advent candle at dinner create calming moments and encourage conversation Let the children take turns lighting the candle (with your help, of course!)
Each year, we choose a new bauble for the tree Opening the decoration box becomes a trip down memor y lane as we recall where each one came from. You could also make your own decorations together - over time, you’ll create a tree full of memories.
Small rituals make the season magical. Choose a festive film each weekend, light candles, snuggle under blankets and enjoy your decorated gingerbread together Simple touches like
The December box
Cosy rituals
Gingerbread decorating
Check out the 2025 Christmas light switch on events in your town or visit them all! With many including entertainment, food and market stalls, rides, fireworks and much more! At some events you might even find Father Christmas himself!
Bulkington
Fri 14 Nov 4pm – 8pm 6pm
Stratford-upon-Avon
Sat 15 Nov 10am – 7pm 5:30pm
Bedworth
Sat 15 Nov 3pm – 8pm 6pm
Royal Leamington Spa
Sun 16 Nov 10am - 6pm 5:30pm
Nuneaton
Fri 21 Nov 3pm – 7pm 6pm
Alcester
Sun 23 Nov 4pm - 5pm 4pm
Warwick Thu 27 Nov 3pm - 9pm 7pm
Kenilworth Old Town (High Street) Fri 28 Nov 5pm - 8pm 6pm
If you’re looking for places to see Santa in Coventr y & Warwickshire this Christmas We’ve found him!
Breakfast/Afternoon Tea with Santa Charlecote, Rugby & Studley Garden Centres
Selected dates from 2 2 Nov – 24 Dec www.britishgardencentres.com
Santa Safari & Santa’s Grotto
West Midlands Safari Park
Selected dates from 2 2 Nov – 24 Dec www wmsp co uk
Stories with Santa Warwick Castle
Selected dates from 2 2 Nov – 24 Dec www.warwick-castle.com
Christmas on the Farm Tamwor th Weekends from 2 2 Nov & 15 – 24 Dec www.ashendchildrensfarm.co.uk
Santa’s Grotto Dobbies Garden Centre, Atherstone
Selected dates from 23 Nov – 24 Dec https://events.dobbies.com
Christmas Wonderland & Santa’s Grotto Dray ton Manor, Tamwor th
Selected dates from 2 2 Nov – 31 Dec www dray tonmanor co uk
Christmas in the Kingdom of Magic Magic Alley, Stratford-upon-Avon
Selected dates from 23 Nov – 19 Dec www magicalleystratford com
Father Christmas at Kenilworth Castle Kenilwor th Castle & Elizabethan Garden
Weekends from 29 Nov – 21 Dec www english-heritage org uk
Atherstone Sat 29 Nov 1:45pm – 7pm 5:15pm
Wolston (Main Street) Sat 29 Nov 3pm – 7:30pm 6pm
Henley in Arden Sat 29 Nov 5pm - late 5:30pm
Kenilworth (Warwick Road) Sun 30 Nov 1pm - 8pm 6pm
Southam Sun 30 Nov 3pm - 6pm 5pm
Whitnash (Acre Close) Sun 30 Nov 3pm – 6:30pm 5:30pm
Where’s Santa?
Stor y telling with Father Christmas
St Mar y ’s Guildhall, Coventr y 29 Nov, 6 , 13 , 20 & 2 2 Dec www.stmar ysguildhall.co.uk
Visit Santa: Vintage Sleigh Ride E xperience
Coventr y Transpor t Museum
Selected dates from 29 Nov – 23 Dec www.transport-museum.com
Santa Steam Specials
Seven Valley Railway, Kidderminster Weekends from 29 Nov & 24 Dec www.svr.co.uk
Santa’s Grotto
All Things Wild, Honeybourne 29, 30 Nov & 6 , 7, 13 , 14, 20 – 24 Dec www allthingswild co uk
Santa Specials
The Battlefield Line Railway, Nuneaton 29, 30 Nov & 6 , 7, 13 , 14, 20 – 24 Dec
www battlefieldline co uk /santa
Enchanted Christmas Kingdom
Hatton Countr y World, Warwick
30 Nov, 6 , 7, 13 , 14, 20 – 24 Dec
www.hattonworld.com
Santa’s Grotto
Whilton Locks Garden Village, Daventr y
30 Nov, 6 , 7, 13 , 14, 20 – 24 Dec
www whiltonlocksgardenvillage com
Meet Santa E xperience inc VR Sleigh Ride
West Orchards Shoppin
Coventr y 3 – 7, 10 – 14, 17 – 24 Dec www.ticketsource.co.
Santa’s Grotto Town Hall, Alcester
6 Dec
www.facebook .com/StNicsNight
Steam Trains to Santa Echills Wood Railway, Kingsbur y Water Park
6 , 7, 13 & 14 Dec
www ewr org uk
Breakfast with Santa The Saxon Mill, Warwick
6 , 7, 13 , 14, 20 & 21 Dec
www saxonmill co uk
Breakfast with Santa Melbicks Garden Centre, Coleshill
6 , 7, 13 , 14, 20-2 2 Dec
www bluediamond gg
Father Christmas E xperience
The Barn at Berr y fields, Meriden Weekends from 6 Dec & 20 – 23 Dec
www thebarnatberr y fields co uk
Santa’s Grotto and Magical Train Ride Hear t of England Conference & Events Centre, Coventr y 6 , 7, 13 , 14, 20 – 24 Dec www.christmasattheheart.co.uk
Stor y time with Santa Fargo Village, Coventr y 7, 14, 21 Dec (9:00 & 10:00) www.fargovillage.co.uk
Festive Sunday Lunch with Santa Coombe Abbey, Coventr y 21, 23 Dec coombeabbey com
a Soft Play Evenings hings Wild, Honeybourne 9 Dec (from 17:00) allthingswild co uk
Visit Santa Royal Priors Shopping Centre, Leamington Spa 13 – 14 Dec
www royal-leamington-spa co uk
Santa E xpress
Copsewood Miniature Railway, Binley, Coventr y 13 & 14 Dec
www.copsewoodrailway com/santa-express
Breakfast with Santa The Warwickshire, Leek Wooton 14 Dec
www thewarwickshire com/events
Santa Sing-Along Special! Herber t Ar t Galler y & Museum, Coventr y 16 Dec (2 sessions for 0-4s) www.theherbert.org
Breakfast with Santa The Stratford Park Hotel 20 & 21 Dec www.thestratfordpark .co.uk
Spot Santa Compton Verney 20, 21 & 24 Dec www.comptonverney org uk
Plus check out your local Round Table website for Santa’s Route Maps – He may be coming to a street near you!
Hitting your pause button
By Ann Magalhaes
We’ve all been there : exhausted, deflated, defeated, done! Your child spilled the glass of milk that you told them was too full. They didn’t listen. They walked straight into the living room with the new carpet They tripped over the toy on the floor and you watched, in slow motion, as the milk flew out of the glass and soaked the carpet.
And, just like that , your words star t flying ‘ What were you thinking? I told you not to. You never listen. Why can’ t you just do what you’re told?’ Each sentence more exasperated, more annoyed, until you hear yourself doing what you swore you’d never do and you’re shouting: ‘GO TO YOUR ROOM. NOW!’
Maybe for you it’s not spilled milk or not being listened to. Maybe it’s the refusal to eat vegetables, go to a swimming lesson or dress and get out the door on time.
We all have triggers and our children can seem to push buttons we never knew we had : pressure points that lay dormant until our kids came along. Suddenly things bother us like they never bothered us before
Why does this happen and what can we do to hang onto our heads? Great questions. The answers are prett y simple in theor y but harder in practice
It star ts with noticing which behaviours speed you from zero to sixt y on the mad-o-meter or things that make you say ‘ you always forget ’ or ‘ you never listen’ These are your ‘buttons.’ They’re ver y personal and most of us have more than one.
The behaviour will leave you feeling angr y, frustrated, overwhelmed, unheard, ignored, invisible or ine ective ; not the joyous feelings you thought would come with parenthood. But these feelings don’t just come out of nowhere.
In a microsecond, your eyes have spotted something or your ears have heard something and your brain has made a judgement call about it. Something is wrong. Someone is hur t. Something is broken I’m in trouble and that thought quickly triggers the negative feelings and the big reaction. You’re much less likely to lose it with your kids when you’re well-rested, wellnourished and having a good day. But things happen and in a split second your brain goes on autopilot
Hit pause!
Instead of seeing your child’s mistaken behaviour and overreacting, notice the behaviour as it star ts to happen, hit your pause button, breathe deeply, exhale slowly and recognise and accept what’s happening for you.
Breathe again and make a conscious choice to stay calmer for the benefit of your child. It’s the speed of our reaction that makes us feel there’s nothing we can do. Yet we do have a fleeting chance to choose a di erent reaction And it’s really impor tant we tr y to do this.
That was the simpler bit. Now the tricky par t comes into play : being able to hit your pause button The nex t time you see the behaviour star ting to happen, take a couple of deep breaths, notice what’s going on within yourself, pause and say to yourself : ‘I have a choice here. I can totally lose it or I can remind myself that my child is a child, he’s learning, she’s trying her best , he made a mistake…’ and then you’re in the position to calmly show them how you want them to behave.
Because rarely does shouting at a child make them stop and think : ‘ Wow, yes, that’s a great idea mum I’ll make sure from now on I will only drink milk in the kitchen.’ If you want your child to learn the habit of drinking their milk in the kitchen and all the rest , your calm, steady response is going to get them there faster
If you want to know how to build those habits, stay tuned for a future piece about setting yourself up for success and fostering independence in your child
Ann Magalhaes is co-founder of The Parent Team (www.theparent.team), parenting educators offering classes, workshops and private sessions, teaching evidence -based parenting skills and offering parents practical, effective suppor t.
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Me time
When we’re tired, hungr y and especially when our selfesteem is low, it ’s much harder to deal with things. High stress levels make us less sensitive to our children’s needs and less able to keep it together when our buttons get pushed. Breathe deeply - it ’s your best parenting tool.
Tr y for a good night’s sleep, make time to do something for you and remind yourself that you are doing your best. Also reach out for suppor t because you are not alone on your parenting journey.
The laughter factor: making emotional connection easier
By Adam Christing
Parenting can be wonderful, messy and exhaustingsometimes all before break fast. With school trips, bedtime battles and endless laundr y, it can feel like there’s little time left to breathe. But there’s one tool that makes family life lighter and more connected : laughter.
We hunger for humour Babies laugh before they can talk! Smiles bond us, lift our spirits and help us lead our families with hear t Here are five simple humour tactics - or ‘laugh languages’ - that make emotional connection easier, even on the rough parenting days.
Surprise!
Delight your kids with the power of the unexpected. Swap break fast for dinner or announce a picnic in the living room. It is about breaking routines and sparking joy. It’s okay to make your children SAD when it means you Surprise And Delight them.
Poke
The best way to star t is by poking fun at yourself (beat the rush). Turn your own flops into funny stories and show them how you have failed forward Sometimes intimac y really does mean ‘into me see ’
In-jokes
Discover the laughter in shared experiences Nothing says closeness like a joke only your family gets Create ‘us’ moments : a nickname only you use , a secret phrase for extra biscuits or a running joke about Dad ’s dance moves. Children light up when you repeat their funniest lines - it makes them feel like stars.
Why parents should laugh at themselves
Parenting is unpredictable. Just when you think you have it sor ted, someone paints the dog or hides socks in the freezer The truth is, like your kids, you will make mistakes Laughing at yourself turns those blunders into bonding moments.
Tr y narrating your chaos like a spor ts commentator : ‘Mum drops the cereal Dad dives for the spoon And yes, it’s another kitchen catastrophe!’ L ightness lowers the pressure and teaches kids that mistakes are not disasters.
And don’ t forget , your children are unintentionally hilarious Seven-year-old Ethan once declared : ‘I’m going to marr y mum when I grow up because she already knows how to make spaghetti.’ Repeating their one -liners shows you are listening and celebrates their quirky brilliance.
When you laugh instead of snap, kids see resilience in action. They learn that life does not have to be per fect to be joy ful. Sometimes the messiest moments make the best family memories.
Wordplay
Use witt y language and clever banter. Kids love play ful twists on words and ‘dad jokes.’ Make up rhymes, invent silly names or puns : ‘I lost my job at the Orange Juice factor y I couldn’ t concentrate.’ The Princess Bride became a family classic because it is more about wordplay than swordplay Sometimes, just one per fectly timed word gets the biggest laugh ‘Inconceivable!’
Amplify
Exaggerate stories and situations for impact. Don’ t just tell a funny stor y, re -live it. Ham it up with expressions. Your face is a projector screen!
Laughter builds connection, eases stress and creates memories that last. Your kids may forget what you cooked for dinner but they will long remember when you helped them feel what’s funny
Adam Christing is a father of four. He is a speaker and the author of The Laughter Factor : The 5 Humor Tactics to Link , Lift and Lead You can discover your ‘laugh language’ by visiting www.thelaughter
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R ws humour strengthens fa n builds resilience And on the hard days h battles or bedtime protests, a shared la y that you are on the same team.
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de to What’s On in Coventry and Warwickshire
Festive Events Calendar
Festive Gift Fair
NEC, Birmingham
13 – 16 Nov (09:30 – 17:00)
Visit the biggest and most lively indoor Christmas Shopping Fair in the West Midlands with 325 stalls in one Hall! Get your unusual stocking fillers, gift and craft ideas for all ages and tastes. Festive food and drink to tr y before you buy and great Christmas decorations for your home and garden plus lots of special show offers! Tickets required Book online www festivegiftfair co uk
Lanterns of the Wild Twycross Zoo, Atherstone
Selected dates from 14 Nov –2 2 Feb 2026
A brand NEW light trail like no other transforms the Zoo after dark Step into glowing animal worlds, explore vibrant habitats and spark your family ’s sense of wonder as you explore over one mile of life -size lanterns. Add on Zoo tickets or festive ex tras including Magical Christmas Show and Santa’s Grotto www twycrosszoo org
Santa’s Winter Wonderland SnowDome, Tamwor th 15, 16 , 2 2 , 23 Nov 28 Nov – 3 Jan 2026
Head off on a truly magical Christmas adventure with real snow play, mini per formance of Beaut y and the Beast , mini panto and meet Santa’s fuz z y friends in the Christmas Village. Plus, pop into Santa’s all-new SledE x Deliver y Office and write and post your letter to Santa www snowdome co uk
Festival of Christmas Coventr y Cit y Centre
2 2 Nov (15:00 – 20:00)
FREE one -off family event for ever yone to enjoy! With spectacular street theatre, live per formances and daz zling displays – from illuminated processions to an appearance by Father Christmas A magical trail of activities and enter tainment across various locations in the cit y centre Plus, enjoy rides on the 100ft Big Wheel and market stalls selling a range of festive food, drinks and gifts
www.coventr ycitycentre.co.uk /christmas
Polar E xpress
Birmingham Moor Street Station Weekends 2 2 Nov – 21 Dec & 2 2 – 23 Dec
E xperience a magical train ride like no other as you get immersed in the sights, sounds and intrigue as this classic 2004 children’s film is brought to life around you Book online.
www vintagetrains co uk
Christmas on the Farm
Ash End House Children’s Farm, Tamwor th
Weekends from 2 2 Nov & 15 – 24 Dec
Real animal nativit y experience including one -to-one time with Santa plus all the usual fun farm activities The Big Play Barn is also onsite for indoor fun. Combi tickets available www ashendchildrensfarm co uk
Santa Safari
West Midlands Safari Park , Bewdley
Selected dates from 2 2 Nov – 24 Dec
Magical festive day out for the whole family Combining a fourmile winter Safari with an unforgettable visit to Santa in his beautifully decorated Grotto Including the Enchanted Elevator, Elves Workshop and Stor y time with Mrs Claus Don’ t miss the brand-new Aladdin Christmas Panto (20 – 23 Dec) Tickets online.
www wmsp co uk
Christmas Wonderland
Dray ton Manor, Tamwor th
Selected dates from 2 2 Nov – 31 Dec
Hop aboard the Twinkle E xpress, meet Santa in the Enchanted Grotto, explore Elftoria with the mischievous Elves Behavin’ Badly and the brand-new Cinderella pantomime plus all the usual thrills of the Theme Park , Thomas Land and Zoo Festive experience tickets additional to park entr y. www.dray tonmanor.co.uk
Christmas at the Castle Warwick Castle 2 2 Nov – 4 Jan 2026
Star t a new tradition this Christmas at Warwick Castle! Bring the whole family to the open-air ice rink , daz zling light trail, winter food & drink village and Stories with Santa E x tend your visit into a magical overnight stay with a Santa Sleepover www.warwick-castle.com
Christmas in the Kingdom of Magic Magic Alley, Stratford-upon-Avon
Selected dates from 23 Nov – 19 Dec Journey through magical rooms completing the Christmas quest to meet Father Christmas by solving puz zles and clues on the way. This experience is designed for children over 6 There are separate events for younger children, over 10s and SEN sessions available. www magicalleystratford com
Festive Fun and Father Christmas
Kenilwor th Castle
29, 30 Nov & 6 , 7, 13 , 14 , 20 & 21 Dec (10:00 – 16:00)
Soak up the sights, sounds and scents of Christmas past and present and enjoy festive activities at the castle this winter Plus book your slot to meet Father Christmas and hear him tell seasonal stories around the Christmas tree
Includes group stor y telling session and a small present. One adult per child Book early and save 15% www.english-heritage.org.uk
Visit Santa: Vintage Sleigh Ride E xperience
Coventr y Transpor t Museum
Selected dates from 29 Nov – 23 Dec
Take a ride on Coventr y ’s famous and enchanting vintage sleigh, pulled by two trust y reindeer. Write your Christmas wish list , meet Santa in his festive grotto, tell him your wish and receive a gift. FREE admission to the museum with your ticket Plus, Early Years Sleigh E xperience - specially adapted sessions for babies and toddlers and SEN sessions www.transport-museum.com
Festive Shows Bedwor th Civic Hall
Santa E xpress
29 Nov (12 :30 & 16:0
Dear Santa LIVE
5 Dec (13:30 & 16:00
Dear Santa LIVE
6 Dec (11:00 & 14:00
Aladdin 13 , 14 , 18https://bedworthcivichall co uk
Christmas at the Zoo
All Things Wild, Honeybourne
29, 30 Nov & 6 , 7, 13 , 14, 20 – 24 Dec
Enjoy a magical, affordable day out this Christmas Meet your favourite animals and dinosaurs, toast marshmallows, decorate gingerbread, create reindeer food and enjoy Christmas crafts plus much more. Add on a visit to Santa’s Grotto with a gift for ever y child www allthingswild co uk
Santa Specials
The Battlefield Line Railway, Nuneaton
29, 30 Nov & 6 , 7, 13 , 14, 20 – 24 Dec
Hop aboard the festive express train for a 90 minute journey with a personal visit from Santa himself and a gift for each child. Upgraded packages available with private compar tments and festive treats. Depar ting from Shackerstone Station to Shenton (return) Booking essential www battlefieldline co uk /santa
Winter Light Trail
Coombe Abbey Park , Coventr y 29 Nov – 31 Dec
As darkness descends, take an enchanting journey along the spectacular, reimagined illuminated, interactive mile long trail, full of wonder and intrigue, to delight and enthral your senses. Festive family experience for all ages Dogs allowed on a lead 1, 4 , 8 , 11, 15, 18 , 2 2 , 26 & 29 Dec
Sensor y Nights available, a calmer way to glow https://luminate live
Rugby Christmas Illuminations
Rugby Town Centre
30 Nov
A trail of illuminated ice sculptures and beacons, along with an interactive car ving wall, live car ving demonstrations, music, dance, family enter tainment , stalls and much more www.rugby first.org
Leamington Tree Fest 2025
All Saints Church, Leamington Spa
30 Nov – 7 Dec
Visit this stunning display of over 60 trees decorated by local exhibitors, with festive themes to brighten your Christmas spirit This year ’s event will be filled with interactive workshops, live per formances, family-friendly activities and a chance to give back to the communit y www.whittleproductions.co.uk /2025-leam-tree -fest
Christmas at St Mar y ’s Guildhall
Coventr y
Selected dates from 30 Nov – 23 Dec
E xperience all the magic of Christmas at the historic Guildhall with a fun, festive trail suitable for children and those young at hear t (5, 12 , 17, 19 Dec) or Stor y telling with Father Christmas on Saturdays (29 Nov, 6 , 13 , 20 & 2 2 Dec) with gingerbread decorating and children’s crafts.
Families can also indulge in a Christmas lunch or festive afternoon tea at Tales of Tea during December
Booking required www stmar ysguildhall co uk
Enchanted Christmas Kingdom
Hatton Countr y World, Warwick
30 Nov, 6 , 7, 13 , 14 , 20 – 24 Dec
Wander through the twinkling woodlands, meet Father Christmas and unlock the magic with your golden key Create -a Bear or choose a toy from the secret Toy Shop. Plus, Festive shows, gingerbread decorating, reindeer food making, animal encounters, soft play and much more! www.hattonworld.com
Enchanted Tea Room
Leamington
Various dates throughout December
There’s plent y of festive treats here from the Grinchmas Afternoon Tea and Christmas Show to Christmas Break fast with Elsa, Anna & Kristoff and Feast in Narnia. Book online. www.enchantedeventsuk .com
Dick Whittington
Planet Ice, Coventr y 2 Dec (19:00)
E xperience this ultimate classic for the entire family as you’ve never seen it before on ice! Featuring the Show & Skate class of amateur skaters suppor ted by their Professional on Tour cast www planet-ice co uk
St Nicholas Night Alcester
6 Dec (from 17:30)
Local organisations, charities and schools will march together in a parade up the High Street to celebrate all that makes Alcester wonder ful before lighting the Church tower and tree E xpect music and dance, local market stalls, Santa’s Grotto in the Town Hall ending in a Firework Fiesta at 20:15 https://whatsonalcester.co.uk /events/event/st-nicholas-night
The Nutcracker Macready Theatre, Rugby
6 , 7, 9, 10, 11 Dec
The Kings International Ballet ’s presents this Christmas classic Follow young Clara as she embarks on a mesmerizing journey through a whimsical winter wonderland filled with lively dances, fantastical characters and hear t-warming moments www.ticketsource.co.uk /rugby-arts
Steam Trains to Santa Echills Wood Railway, Kingsbur y Water Park
6 , 7, 13 & 14 Dec
Book a magical and memorable experience for the family this Christmas Visit Santa and his team of elves on a steam train and receive a special gift Designed for children age 0 – 12 Ticket includes drink and mince pie and unlimited rides on standard ser vice trains on day of travel. Outdoor event. www.ewr.org.uk
Father Christmas E xperience
The Barn at Berr y fields, Meriden Weekends from 6 Dec & 20 – 23 Dec
Magical festive fun for all the family! Elf Show, gingerbread decorating, feed the reindeer, cuddle the bunnies, hang your wish on the Wishing Tree, write a letter to Santa and meet Father Christmas in his Grotto and receive a magical gift token to exchange for a gift from the Elf Workshop. Age recommendation under 9s but all welcome. Add on Eco Skating and enjoy some Festive Street food for the full Christmas experience www thebarnatberr y fields co uk
Santa’s Grotto and Magical Train Ride
Hear t of England Conference & Events Centre, Coventr y 6 , 7, 13 , 14 , 20 – 24 Dec
E xperience a festive ex travaganza like no other that will immerse you in the spirit of Christmas. Star ting with games and activities in the Marquee Depar ture Lounge, write your letter to Santa and craft magical reindeer before boarding the Christmas Train to meet Santa in his Grotto Plus, soft play area and VR Christmas Sleigh Ride https://christmasattheheart co uk
The Santa Show
Various venues, Stratford Theatre Company
6 , 7, 13 , 14 , 20 – 24 Dec
Amazing magic, seasonal songs and some of the worst Christmas jokes ever to be pulled out of a cracker and of course the chance to meet the big man himself ! Bringing the magic to you this Christmas with per formances at local venues across South Warwickshire. https://stratfordtheatrecompany .org.uk /the -santa-show
Winter Funland
NEC, Birmingham
6 Dec – 3 Jan 2026
Visit the UK ’s largest festive indoor fairground packed full of family fun that ’s all included in the price of your ticket Unlimited rides, skating, circus and ex treme motorbike show Plus, a visit from Santa!
www.winter funland.com
Stor y time with Santa Fargo Village, Coventr y 7, 14 , 21 Dec (9:00 & 10:00)
Families are invited to step into a festive wonderland filled with warmth, laughter and the sparkle of holiday cheer Tickets include a delicious break fast treat and drink , special meet and greet with Santa himself, complete with gift and photo and a magical stor y time where Santa shares one of his favourite festive tales. Plus, Christmas themed ar ts and crafts www.fargovillage.co.uk
Sensor y Stories & Rhymes
Herber t Ar t Galler y & Museum, Coventr y Christmas Special – retelling the classic stor y ‘ The Night Before Christmas’ for under 5s 9 Dec (10:30 – 11:00 & 11:30 – 12 :00)
Santa Sing-Along Special –welcoming a ver y special visitor from the Nor th Pole! for 0 – 4s 16 Dec (10:30 – 11:00 & 11:30 – 12 :00) www theherbert org
Santa Soft Play Evenings
All Things Wild, Honeybourne 12 & 19 Dec (from 17:00)
Enjoy festive fun as your little ones explore the Jungle Mayhem soft play and indoor beach and meet Santa in his grotto and receive a special gift www.allthingswild.co.uk
Rugby Lantern Procession
Rugby Town Centre 13 Dec
The Lantern Procession returns, brightening the Town Centre with a stunning display of handcrafted lanterns and sparkling light Local groups, businesses and individuals are welcome to get involved in lantern making and join the parade as it winds through the streets in celebration of the festive season, Rugby and its communities www.rugby first.org
Santa E xpress Copsewood
Miniature Railway Binley, Coventr y 13 & 14 Dec
Ride The Santa E xpress to meet Father Christmas in his Grotto! Travel on one of the miniature steam trains from platform 7 & ¼ to the Copsewood tunnel where children will receive a present from Santa Adult tickets include a hot drink and mince pie 4 slots per day Book early to avoid disappointment www.copsewoodrailway com/santa-express
Christmas Land Train
Rugby Town Centre 13 & 14 Dec
Offering a magical journey through the town’s lights and decorations, the Christmas Land Train is a FREE , festive train ride for all ages Hop on from the top of High Street and Sheep Street for a fun experience and to explore Rugby ’s sparkling streets – the Santa E xpress is boarding! www.rugby first.org
Festive Stor y Trail
Compton Verney
13 Dec – 4 Jan 2026
Inspired by stor y telling, take par t in a festive trail looking for clues and posing for a photo along the way £3 50 per trail in addition to a valid day ticket or membership. www.comptonverney.org.uk
Christmas at Blenheim
Blenheim Palace, Ox fordshire 14 Nov – 3 Jan 2026
Families are spoilt for choice at Blenheim this year : The Illuminated Trail - an exceptional after-dark trail with stunning new lights ; The Palace of Oz – follow the yellow brick road through the State rooms on a magical adventure ; The Great Skate - a spectacular covered ice rink in the hear t of the Great Cour t ; Obser vation Wheel - take your festive experience to new heights. Plus, seasonal outdoor Christmas market (14 Nov – 21 Dec)
off your experience with a themed Emerald Cit y Afternoon Tea! Book online
The Big Christmas Sing Benn Hall, Rugby
14 Dec (19:30 – 2 2 :00)
The BIG Sing Choir, an ensemble of around 80 voices, will be joined again by four special guest solo singers to bring you the Christmas classics you know and love Audience par ticipation encouraged! Guest ap from Santa. Suitable f https://uk patronbas / BennHall/Product
The Gingerbread Ma Macready Theatre, Ru 14, 20, 21, 2 2 , 23 Dec & 2
Come and join the ep the bravest biscuit of and Nonsense present a mix of puppetr y, live action, great music, humour and stunning staging in this exciting and pacey retelling of this well-loved classic tale Suitable for families of all ages Age recommendation 3+ www.ticketsource.co.uk /rugby-arts
Escape the Winter Chill
Stratford Butter fly Farm
20 Dec – 4 Jan
This Christmas step out of the cold and into a world of tropical warmth at Stratford-upon-Avon Butter fly Farm. Wander through lush gardens filled with beautiful butter flies and exotic plants and bl s A truly magical ence per fect for families, lovers and anyone seeking m and tranquil experience the holiday period, ng nature with seasonal . It is the per fect festive e! In the rainforest Flight iscover the beautiful mas Butter fly, also known as Papilio demodocus and Meet the Mini-Beasts and Butter fly
Lifec ycle demonstrations will take place daily in the Discover y Zone at 11:30 Open ever y day except 25 Dec. www.butter fly farm.co.uk
Challenge ust between r, nature is ed You c ycling your ng birds in with the natural world by walking off your Christmas dinner in the woods or admiring the beaut y of a winter sunset. Sign up to receive a daily email with ideas and tips for your wild winter www.warwickshirewildlifetrust org uk /12DaysWild
Winter Puppet Workshop
Herber t Ar t Galler y & Museum, Coventr y 29, 30 & 31 Dec (10:30 – 15:30)
Theatre
Belgrade Theatre
Coventr y Sleeping Beauty
Wed 19 Nov – Sat 3 Jan 2026
Well Done, Mummy Penguin Wed 3 Dec – Sat 3 Jan 2026 www belgrade co uk
Royal Shakespeare Company
Stratford-upon-Avon
The BFG
Tue 25 Nov – Sat 31 Jan www rsc org uk
Royal Spa Centre Leamington Spa
The Gruffalo’s Child Fri 7 – Sat 8 Nov
Age recommendation: 3+
Warwickshire Symphony Orchestra
Warwickshire Young Farmers
Christmas Tractor Run
South Warwickshire
16 Dec (16:00)
Is there any thing more festive than a parade of Tractors adorned with Christmas lights spreading Christmas cheer ? All in aid of three charities : Breast Cancer Now, The Thomas Page Foundation and Warwickshire Federation of Young Farmer ’s Clubs This is a Christmas light spectacle not to be missed! Visit the Warwickshire YFC social media pages for routes and timings
The Snowman with LIVE Orchestra Coventr y Cathedral
20 Dec (12 :00, 13:15, 14:30) With a live Orchestra and a solo from the Cathedral's Choristers, this magical screening with live per formance will be an experience that can' t be missed. The cathedral can get a little chilly in the winter so bring your hats, scar ves and maybe a carrot! www.coventr ycathedral.org.uk
Carols at the Castle
Warwick Castle
20 Dec (18:30 – 21:00)
Star t your families Christmas festivities by singing carols with the choir of St Mar y ’s accompanied by the Royal Spa Brass Held in the magnificent setting of the Castle’s Cour t yard, the event has a wonder ful atmosphere with a variet y of stalls offering hot food and drinks All money raised goes to local charities.
www warwick-castle com
Christmas Tales with Jason Buck Compton Verney 20 - 21 Dec
Step into a world of winter y magic and adventure with an awardwinning stor y teller Gather in the cosy stor y telling space and listen as tales of monsters, heroes, my thical beasts and festive fools are brought to life with humour, drama and wonder Age recommendation 7+ Limited capacit y. Booking advised. www comptonverney org uk
A Fair y Merr y Christmas
Ry ton Pools Countr y Park 20 – 21 Dec
The fairies need your help to find the missing decorations to decorate their Christmas tree in the Fair y Forest Plus, decorate your own willow Christmas star and roast marshmallows over the Fair y Fire. Age recommendation 3 - 12 Tickets on Eventbrite www.eventbrite.co.uk
Spot Santa Compton Verney 20, 21 & 24 Dec
E xplore the grounds and galleries and see if you can find Santa – He likes to explore between 10:30 and 16:00 so keep your eyes peeled. FREE with a valid membership or day ticket www.comptonverney.org.uk
The Wicked Wizard of Oz – A Cirque Spectacular
bp pulse LIVE , Birmingham 21 - 2 2 Dec
Panto meets Cirque in a breathtaking new staging of the Wicked Wizard of Oz With spectacular aerial stunts and amazing special effects this international class arena show is the event of the year, not to be missed! www bppulselive co uk
Escape the winter chill and enjoy a cosy family crafting session! Transform simple white socks into magical hand puppets that will spark hours of imaginative play Drop-in workshop, per fect for families looking to spend qualit y time together this Twixmas Designed for 3+ but all welcome www.theherbert.org
National Trust
Warwickshire
From winter illuminations to visiting Father Christmas, Christmas markets and winter fairs, there's plent y of festive things to do this year at our National Trust proper ties : Baddesley Clinton; Coughton Cour t ; Packwood House ; Charlecote Park ; Upon House and Gardens and Farnborough Hall
Each proper t y has its own unique family activities so why not visit them all. See individual websites for details and prices. www.nationaltrust.org.uk
Ackers Adventure
Birmingham
As the days get shor ter and the chill kicks in, the ski season at Ackers is about to begin! Tr y Ski Lessons, Tubing or Tobogganing this winter. Bir thday Par ties and Holiday Schemes available www.ackers-adventure.co.uk
Family Concert – Winter Wonderland Sun 23 Nov
Peter Pan
Fri 5 Dec – Sun 4 Jan 2026 www.royalspacentreandtownhall.co.uk
The Albany Theatre Coventr y Santa’s Christmas Party Sun 16 Nov
Age recommendation: 2 - 8
Step into Christmas Sat 2 2 Nov
Beauty and the Beast Sat 6 Dec – Sun 4 Jan
Age recommendation: 6+
The Gingerbread Boy Sat 20 – Wed 24 Dec
Age recommendation: 2+ www albany theatre co uk
The Benn Hall
Rugby
Santa’s Christmas Party Sat 6 Dec
Age recommendation: 2 - 8
Christmas: The Candlelight Concert Thu 11 Dec
The BIG Christmas Sing 2025 Sun 14 Dec
Snow White Mon 2 2 – Sun 28 Dec uk patronbase com / BennHall/Productions
Christmas Markets
Atherstone
Dickens & Christmas Market
Long Street , Market Square
& St Mar y ’s Church
Sat 29 Nov 13:45 – 19:00
Coventr y
Coventr y Christmas Market & Big Wheel Broadgate
Sat 2 2 Nov – Sun 4 Jan (excl 25 Dec) 11:00 – 20:00
Step Into Christmas Market
The New Cathedral
Sat 29 Nov 11:00 – 15:00
Fargo Christmas Makers Market
Sat 6 Dec 11:00 – 17:00
Sun 7 Dec 11:00 – 16:00
Sat 13 Dec 11:00 – 17:00
Sun 14 Dec 11:00 – 16:00
Earlsdon Christmas Market
Thu 18 Dec 16:00 – 20:00
Kenilwor th
Winter Fair Stoneleigh Abbey
Sun 30 Nov 10:00 – 14:00
Kenilworth Christmas Market
Warwick Road
Sun 30 Nov 13:00 – 20:00
Kenilworth Christmas Market
Town Centre, Abbey End
Sat 6 Dec 10:00 – 16:00
Leamington
Leamington Christmas Markets
Parade
Ever y Sunday from 2 Nov – 21 Dec (excl 9 Nov) 10:00 – 17:00
The Festive Market
The Pump Rooms
Sat 15 Nov 11:00 – 16:00
Sun 16 Nov 12 :00 – 17:00
The Christmas Market
The Pump Rooms
Sat 13 & Sun 14 Dec 11:00 – 16:00
Nuneaton
Christmas Market
Anchor Inn
Sun 30 Nov, Sun 7 Dec , Sun 14 Dec
Sun 21 Dec 11:00 – 16:00
Hoar Park Christmas Victorian Evening
Thu 4 Dec 17:00 – 21:00
O N’T M I S S!
Rugby
The Winter Market Benn Hall
Sun 9 Nov 11:00 – 15:00
Christmas Craft Fair
Draycote Water
Sat 15 Nov 10:00 – 16:00
Rugby Christmas Market
Charles Warren Close
Thu 20 Nov, Thu 27 Nov, Thu 4 Dec
Thu 11 Dec 15:00 – 20:00
Benn Hall Christmas Fair
Sun 23 Nov 11:00 – 14:00
Wolston Christmas Market
Sat 29 Nov 15:00 – 19:30
Christmas Market Caldecott Park
Sun 30 Nov
Brinklow Christmas Market
Sat 6 Dec 11:00 – 17:00
Rugby Christmas Market
Market Place
Sun 14 Dec 11:00 – 16:00
Shipston-on-Stour
Christmas Victorian Evening
Fri 5 Dec 17:45 – 20:00
Stratford-upon-Avon
Ettington Christmas Gift Fair
Ettington Communit y Centre
Tue 18 Nov 15:30 – 19:30
Wed 19 Nov 10:00 – 15:00
Stratford-upon-Avon Christmas
Markets Bridge Street , Henley Street & Waterside
Sat 29 Nov 10:00 – 20:00
Sun 30 Nov 10:00 – 17:00
Sat 6 Dec 10:00 – 20:00
Sun 7 Dec 10:00 – 17:00
Warwick
Warwick’s Annual Victorian Evening
Thu 27 Nov 15:00 – 21:00
Hatton Festive Market
Hatton Countr y World
Weekends from 29 Nov – 21 Dec &
2 2 – 23 Dec 10:00 – 17:00
Wed 24 Dec 10:00 – 16:00
Smith Street Christmas Party
Sat 6 Dec 10:00 – 16:00
Warwick Christmas Market
Town Centre
Mon 2 2 Dec 09:00 – 15:00
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Disney On Ice is returning to Birmingham with a brand-new magical adventure Disney On Ice presents Find Your Hero, bringing beloved characters to life through cutting edge figureskating, eye -catching costumes and stunning set designs. Audiences will discover what it truly means to be a hero as Mickey Mouse, Minnie Mouse, Donald Duck & Goof y come together with all your favourite characters from Moana, Encanto, Frozen, The Little Mermaid and Beaut y and The Beast . For more information and to book tickets, visit www disneyonice co uk
Hatton Country World’s Enchanted Christmas Kingdom
Step into a winter wonderland this festive season at Hatton Countr y World ’s Enchanted Christmas Kingdom. Families are invited to experience the true magic of Christmas with a journey full of sparkle, wonder, and unforgettable memories. Children can meet Father Christmas in his cosy grotto and receive a special golden key to unlock the magical Toy Shop, where they can choose a fantastic toy or create their ver y own cuddly bear to take home
The adventure continues with cheeky elves and festive enter tainment that captures the spirit of the season. Glittering lights, daz zling decorations, and enchanting surprises around ever y corner make this an event not to be missed Create cherished traditions and celebrate Christmas in the most magical way at Hatton’s Enchanted Christmas Kingdom. To book visit www.hattonworld.com
Supporting a child with one or more neurodivergences
By Usha Patel
Watching our children reach their developmental milestones is a source of wonder and delight. From when your baby gets their first tooth, learns to crawl and walk and then becomes a young child ready to star t school, there are many moments full of joy. However, when parents notice that their child is not meeting the necessar y development milestones, excitement and anticipation can turn to fear and cause many sleepless nights.
If the situation doesn’ t improve , worr y becomes constant and trying to obtain o icial recognition of your child ’s challenges is a long, uphill struggle , often accompanied by months (or years) of waiting and anxiety.
Waiting for a diagnosis
Some neurodivergent conditions, including Autism Spectrum Disorder, can be diagnosed ver y early, before your child star ts school. O ther conditions, such as Developmental Co-ordination Disorder (D yspraxia), can be diagnosed once a child star ts school, while D yslexia cannot be diagnosed until after age 8.
When conditions are jumbled up
The term co-morbidit y is used when there is no clear-cut single diagnosis and when a child has many co-existing and di ering challenges. If you suspect co-morbidit y exists, it’s common and understandable to spend time doing you own research online ; you may subsequently discover that your child ticks some of the boxes for all the conditions you are looking at.
Does my child have ADHD?
It seems more and more children are being diagnosed with ADHD. The outward symptoms of ADHD can be a hyperactive child with poor attention OR an inattentive child with poor attention. Why are so many children being diagnosed?
This may be because , regardless of a formal diagnosis, it seems that poor attention (either in the inattentive or hyperactive state) often co-exists with most forms of neurodivergence. At my practice , I see children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) combined with ADHD; D yspraxia combined with ADHD; Dyslexia combined with ADHD, Auditor y Processing Disorder and ADHD. It’s common and in fact , expected in most cases, that if a child cannot concentrate because they find reading, writing, talking, moving or any number of activities challenging, they will be unable to learn with ease and will definitely come across as having the ADHD symptom of inattention.
It can be more helpful to think not about the categor y your child falls into but what they need to assist their development
A good star ting point is the building blocks of development , the Primitive Reflexes .
Assessing Primitive Reflexes leads a therapist such as myself to test cer tain things ; for instance whether a child walks on their toes - not something that may necessarily seem impor tant to their teacher. Toe walking would indicate the need to check for poor balance , an understanding of left and right , visual tracking, whether a child finds sitting at a desk challenging and how well they process what they hear.
Primitive Reflexes exist at the star t of a baby’s life. They are a transition phase from the zero gravit y world within the womb to the outside world of gravit y and are essential to help a baby thrive. Sometimes reflexes are coupled. E xamples of coupled Primitive Reflexes are between the hand and the mouth - while a baby is feeding, their hand opens and shuts. Primitive Reflexes are automatic , require no thinking and, in most children, are automatically replaced by Primitive Reflex Integration. In some children though, this normal developmental phase doesn’ t take place. For instance , a school-age child with unintegrated Primitive Reflexes may poke out their tongue as they write.
Having reflexes in this unintegrated state is exhausting for your child ; it prevents development and hinders academic progress. In this state , they cannot concentrate for long periods, which may be why they show symptoms of ADHD. Primitive Reflex Integration is a common-sense developmental approach to dealing with complex neurodivergenc y-related problems, as it star ts at the ver y beginning.
When children undergo Reflex Integration Therapy, taking the example of the coupled Primitive Reflex between the hand and mouth, when a simple test is done on the child ’s hand, their mouth moves Once the special reflex integration exercises are implemented, the hindering connection recedes The child finds writing easier and can write for longer periods without feeling reluctant or overwhelmed
Neurodivergence and anxiety
When a child su ers with repeated episodes or constant anxiet y over a prolonged period, sometimes from bir th, they can develop stress responses that are hard-wired, described as trauma.
Professionals are learning about trauma and how best to help those children with neurodivergent conditions who also su er from additional trauma.
Dr Stephen Porges is an American psychologist , a professor of psychiatr y at the Universit y of Nor th Carolina and the founding director of the Kinsey Institute Traumatic Stress Research Consor tium at Indiana Universit y. His groundbreaking research focuses on how the autonomic ner vous system regulates responses to trauma and o ers a clear understanding of where trauma responses originate within the ner vous system.
His work on the Polyvagal Theor y, which explains how the body responds to safet y and threat , is a huge scientific breakthrough which shines light on how to find answers for a child who is not yet using language to express themselves, due to a co-existing condition such as Autism or because they are too young and can’ t yet talk .
How can your child’s developmental skills be facilitated?
When a child has symptoms of Autism
Autism is an umbrella term for many defined, co-existing symptoms, t ypically including poor language skills, weak motor co-ordination, auditor y processing and social interaction challenges.
When working with Primitive Reflexes and Autism, symptoms that often present are : eye tracking, head movement , toe walking, hand grasp, an inabilit y to easily use a body par t on the other side of the body and di iculties with right-sided brain functions.
As Autism is a neurological condition, integrating Primitive Reflexes does not provide a cure. However, improved eye coordination and auditor y skills lead to more eye contact between your child and others and that , in turn, can improve verbal and non-verbal communication Your child may seem more able to co-operate, less disregulated and more grounded
Impor tantly, when your child is going through Primitive Reflex Integration, you are proactively facilitating progressive exercises at home , contributing to the incremental changes you see daily or weekly, on a journey that builds and makes permanent neural connections between your child ’s brain and body.
Usha Patel is a Neurocognitive Therapist at Raviv Practice London. Visit www.ravivpracticelondon.co.uk for advice on any of these issues.
Scientists identify four hidden Autism subtypes
The four groups identified are:
A major study has uncovered four distinct subt ypes of Autism, o ering new hope for more accurate diagnosis and personalised treatment. Published in Nature Genetics, the research analysed data from over five thousand children, combining developmental milestones, behaviour and genetics.
Social and Behavioural Challenges (37%) – core Autism traits, with higher rates of ADHD, anxiet y or OCD.
Mixed ASD with Developmental Delay (19%) – later milestones but fewer psychiatric issues, linked to both inherited and new genetic variants.
Moderate Challenges (34%) – milder traits, timely development and minimal additional conditions.
Broadly A ected (10%) – severe di iculties across multiple domains, including language , development and psychiatric concerns.
Scientists say these subt ypes suggest Autism is not one condition but several overlapping biological pathways. The discover y could transform how it is understood, paving the way for more targeted therapies and tailored suppor t for children and families.
More info : www.sciencedaily.com
Bullying or just a bad day? Knowing when to act
By Erin Miller
It is completely natural to feel worried or upset if your child comes home from school distressed or mentions problems with other children. But how can you tell whether the incident was a normal day-to-day disagreement or something more serious? And what kind of response should you expect from your child’s school?
A good star ting point is to look at the school ’s Behaviour Policy. Legally required, it must include measures to prevent bullying. It is highly likely that your child ’s primar y school will draw on the Depar tment for Education (DfE) definition of bullying, which is : ‘behaviour by an individual or group , repeated over time , that intentionall y hur ts another individual or group either physicall y or emotionally.’
This definition is widely adopted across UK schools and forms the basis of most anti-bullying policies. Many schools and organisations such as the Anti-Bullying Alliance, expand on this by highlighting that bullying often involves a power imbalance , where the person being targeted finds it di icult to defend themselves.
To determine whether your child is experiencing bullying, rather than a one -o conflict , ask open-ended, thoughtful questions that encourage them to share key details. Focus on understanding whether the behaviour is repeated, intentional and involves a power imbalance.
Bullying behaviour t ypically happens more than once , is generally intentional and leaves the child feeling afraid, isolated or powerless.
What does healthy conflict look like?
Young children are still learning how to manage emotions and navigate relationships, so some conflict is a natural and even healthy par t of growing up.
Normal conflict between children tends to be mutual. It might arise from disagreements over games, sharing or accidental hur t feelings Typically, both par ties play a role in the dispute and it is usually shor t-lived.
A key sign of healthy conflict is that it resolves relatively quickly, either on its own or with minimal adult suppor t The children involved are generally able to move forward without lingering fear, resentment or ongoing tension. Another positive indicator is when both children feel safe enough to express their feelings and can eventually compromise or repair the relationship.
Talk to your child about conflicts that they have. Tr y to foster valuable skills, such as problem-solving, active listening and apologising. For example , encourage your child to say how they feel (‘I felt upset when you didn’ t let me play ’) and to listen to the other child ’s perspective
When speaking with your child about an incident which you suspect may be par t of a pattern of bullying, avoid leading questions or adding your own assumptions, as children often tr y to confirm what adults suggest
Ask neutral, non-judgemental questions that bring out their experiences in their own words. For instance : ‘ Where else do you see Layla at school?’ rather than: ‘Does Layla do this to other children?’ This approach helps ensure you’re gathering accurate information without unintentionally influencing your child ’s responses.
If you believe the behaviour your child is experiencing meets the definition of bullying, it’s appropriate to write to your child’s class teacher outlining your concerns. Describe the behaviour clearly and factually, explaining how it appears to be repeated, intentional and involves a power imbalance.
As a teacher, I strongly recommend putting this in writing as schools rely on detailed accounts from all par ties to investigate allegations thoroughly. Specific examples help teachers respond effectively.
Erin Miller is a teacher with a keen interest in how research can be used in the classroom to improve learning.
The signs of bullying or unhealthy conflict?
Ideally, your child will tell you if they are having problems at school but this is not always the case. Watch for changes in mood or behaviour, disrupted sleep or eating, reluctance to go to school or a sudden drop in confidence.
Other indicators include unexplained injuries, damaged or missing belongings, frequent headaches or stomach aches without a clear reason, a loss of interest in friends, schoolwork or favourite activities These indicators might include negative comments about themselves such as ‘nobody likes me.’
If you are unsure, speak with your child ’s teacher or the headteacher if appropriate School sta often have a broader perspective on social dynamics and can help build a clearer understanding of the situation
Not all serious conflict meets the defined parameters of bullying. However, it can still be harmful If your child repor ts anything par ticularly serious, such as physical harm, threats or ongoing emotional distress, raise it with the school immediately so that the appropriate suppor t and action can be put in place to avoid the conflict escalating fur ther.
Independent Schools Coventry & Warwickshire
Arnold Lodge
Leamington Spa
(Ages 4-18)
T: 01926 7 78050
www arnoldlodge com
Bilton Grange
Rugby (Ages 3-13)
T: 01788 810217
www biltongrange co uk
The Kingsley School
Leamington Spa (Ages 3-18)
T: 01926 421368
www.thekingsleyschool.co.uk
Open Morning: Sat 2 2 Nov 09:30 – 12 :30
Prep and Junior Schools
Bablake Pre Prep Coventr y T: 024 7627 1285 www.bablake.com
Bablake Junior Coventr y T: 024 7327 1248 www.bablake.com
Crackley Hall School and Little Crackers Nurser y Kenilwor th T: 01926 514 4 4 4
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As the job market continues to evolve, future-proofing your career has become increasingly impor tant. For parents, this involves embracing the advancements in ar tificial intelligence (AI) and flexible work models.
The role of AI in the workplace
AI is transforming numerous industries by automating routine tasks, enhancing decision-making processes and enabling new levels of e icienc y. Key areas where AI is making a significant impact include :
Automation: AI systems can handle repetitive tasks, allowing employees to focus on more complex and creative activities. Data analysis : AI can process large datasets quickly and provide actionable insights.
Personalisation: AI technologies enable personalised customer experiences in sectors like retail and healthcare
Embracing AI for career advancement
There are a variet y of ways in which you can develop AI skills.
Online courses and certifications
Numerous online platforms o er courses and cer tifications in AI and related fields. Some recommended platforms include : Coursera (www.coursera.org) o ers courses from top universities and companies, including AI for Ever yone by Andrew Ng ed X (www.edX.org) provides courses from institutions like MIT and Har vard, such as the Professional Certificate in AI. Udacit y (www.udacity.org) features nano degree programs in AI and machine learning, designed in collaboration with industr y leaders.
Embracing flexible work models
Flexible work models, such as remote, flexible hours and freelance roles are becoming more prevalent and embracing these may help you future-proof your career. These work arrangements allow parents to balance professional and personal responsibilities ; many also repor t higher productivit y levels when working in environments of their own choice. Reduced commuting costs can lead to significant savings too.
Take a look at job search platforms such as Flex Jobs (www.flex jobs.com), a platform dedicated to remote , par t-time and freelance jobs and Remote co (www.remote.co) which lists remote job oppor tunities across various industries We Work Remotely (www.weworkremotely.com) focuses on remote positions in tech, marketing and customer ser vice.
Freelancing platforms can also be useful. Upwork (www.upwork.com) connects freelancers with clients for shor t-term and long-term projects ; Fiverr (www.fiverr.com) allows freelancers to o er ser vices at various price points and Freelancer (www.freelancer.com) is a platform for finding freelance work in diverse fields
Projects : engage in AI-related projects to apply your knowledge practically. Websites like K aggle (www.kaggle.com) o er datasets and competitions to practise AI skills
Internship s: seek internships or volunteer oppor tunities to gain real-world experience in AI.
Stay updated with AI trends
Industr y news and publications
Tech news websites: follow websites like TechCrunch (www.techcrunch.com), Wired (www.wired.com) and MIT Technology Review (www.technologyreview.com) for the latest AI developments.
Research papers : read research papers and journals to understand the latest advancements in AI technology
Networking and professional groups
LinkedIn groups: join AI-focused L inkedIn groups to network with professionals and stay informed about industr y trends. Conferences and webinars : attend industr y conferences and webinars to learn from exper ts and expand your network
Tailor your applications
Highlight technical skills: emphasise any skills related to AI, data analysis or digital tools
Customise resumés: tailor your C V and cover letter for each application, highlighting relevant experience and achievements. Por tfolio : create a por tfolio showcasing your work , par ticularly projects related to AI.
Cheney Hamilton is the proprietor of flexible job search site, Findyour flex (www.findyour flex .co.uk) and Mummy Jobs (www mummyjobs co uk)
Top educational apps for kids
By Andrew Campbell
Technology has transformed how children learn and educational apps are now a vital tool for engaging young minds. From reading to coding, these apps combine fun and learning in exciting ways
Prodigy Math Game
A FREE maths app (iOS, Android) that transforms arithmetic and problem-solving into a fantasy role -playing adventure. Children solve challenges, earn rewards and grow in confidence , while parents and teachers can easily track progress.
Sumdog
Sumdog, (iOS, Android) turns maths and spelling into exciting games aligned with the UK curriculum. Children ages 5 to 14 compete , earn coins and receive personal feedback , making practice sessions lively and rewarding
Reading Eggs
Reading Eggs (iOS, Android) helps children ages 3 to 12 master phonics, comprehension and spelling. With interactive lessons, engaging characters and detailed progress tracking, it’s an ideal literac y tool for both parents and teachers
Teach Your Monster to Read
A phonics-based app (iOS, Android) per fect for ages 4 to 7
Children customise their own monster and embark on reading adventures, reinforcing sounds, words and sentences in a fun and motivating way.
BBC Bitesize
BBC Bitesize (iOS, Android) is a FREE UK-focused learning app covering English, maths, science , histor y and more. Designed for ages 5 to 16, it o ers lessons, quizzes and videos aligned with the UK curriculum
Safer Smartphone plans for children
EE has become the first major UK mobile network to introduce Smar tphone plans specifically designed for children and teenagers.
The new Safer SIMs plans include built-in content filters, scam protection and controlled data gifting, helping parents stay confident about their child ’s online safety Star ting from just £7 per month, there are three tiers - Protected, Guided and Trusted -o ering age -appropriate data limits and speeds for di erent stages of a youngster ’s digital life.
To suppor t families, EE is o ering thir t y minute safet y appointments at more than four hundred stores in par tnership with Internet Matters, helping parents learn how to guide their children online
In addition, EE has launched The P H O N E Chat, an engaging resource designed to help parents have open, informed conversations with their children about responsible Smar tphone use.
Khan Academy Kids
Completely FREE (iOS, Android) Khan Academy Kids o ers maths, reading, science and logic activities Best for ages 2 to 8, it provides colour ful, personalised learning pathways and highqualit y interactive content.
Night Zookeeper
Available via browser and iOS, Night Zookeeper gamifies creative writing for ages 6 to 12 Children invent characters, write stories and even receive feedback from tutors, building literac y and imagination in engaging ways.
Code for Life (Rapid Router)
A FREE UK-developed coding platform (browser, iOS, Android) aimed at ages 5 to 14 Children learn programming step -bystep by guiding a van through puz zles, aligning with the UK computing curriculum.
Toca Boca World
Toca Boca World (iOS, Android) is a creative play app designed for children ages 6 to 12 . It allows kids to build worlds, customise characters and explore role -play scenarios, encouraging imagination, stor ytelling and open-ended creativity.
Osmo
Osmo integrates physical play with digital activities, available for iOS (iPad required). Children solve puz zles, draw, and learn maths by interacting with real-world objects, blending screen time with hands-on learning, it’s ideal for ages 5 to 12.
ScratchJr/Scratch
ScratchJr (iOS, Android) introduces coding to children ages 5 to 7, while Scratch (browser, iOS, Android) extends the experience for older learners Kids create stories, animations and games while developing essential computational thinking.
