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LITTLE NEWS ROUND

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Millennium Primary School achieves Inclusive School Award

Congratulations to Millennium Primary School, based in the heart of the Greenwich Peninsula, which has achieved the nationally recognised IQM Inclusive School Award.

The Inclusive Quality Mark (IQM) is awarded to schools that can demonstrate the importance they place on inclusion and how they promote equal opportunities for all pupils, whatever their age, gender, ethnicity, attainment and background.

The school’s location close to Canary Wharf means many families travel with work so it has a high mobility of pupils – with some joining at different points in the academic year and others leaving before they finish their primary education. Over 46% of pupils have English as a second language, 11% have special educational needs and disabilities (SEND) and 26% are classed as disadvantagaed.

Millennium Primary School’s full IQM report can be accessed at: https://iqmaward.com/news/millenniumprimary-achieves-the-inclusive-school-award/

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In addition to their Saturday morning classes in Mountsfield Park, Hither Green, ABC have recently launched new Saturday classes in Ruskin Park, Camberwell. Classes will be suitable for 2-10yr olds and include football and multi-sports.

2-3 year olds: fun nursery games, based around the EYFS Physical development stage 3-5 year olds: fun sports day themed classes with the focus on imagination and teamwork 6-8 year olds: understanding positional play and leadership skills within the sport chosen 8-10 year olds: focusing on aspects of their game they want to learn. 1-1 coaching points Each session is based around the ABC Sports stars philosophy using ABC’S Agility, Balance and co-ordination to create sports stars of the future. www.abcsportsstars.co.uk

Walk to school week

Thousands of children across the UK will celebrate the health and wellbeing benefits of walking during National Walk to School Week from 16 to 20 May. Families will be encouraged to walk, cycle, scoot or ‘Park and Stride’ for the whole week to see the big differences that can come from small steps—from healthier and happier children to fewer cars outside the school gates.

Inspire your child’s imagination this summer with a unique drama, dance and singing holiday course. In July or August, your 4-10 year old can fly away to Neverland with Peter Pan, Tinker Bell and friends on an unforgettable confidence-building adventure.

Free Family Walk to School Kits and interactive wall charts and stickers are available to download. Schools can obtain Walk to School classroom packs to help teach children about the benefits of being active, with daily reward stickers and special rewards badges at the end of the week for those who travelled actively every day.

With a sprinkle of Perform fairy dust, a team of skilled actors, musicians and dancers will ensure your child enjoys every minute as they work towards a show-stopping performance to delight family and friends.

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“Freyja got so much out of those three days; it’s given her a lot of confidence in her ability to join in,make new friends and perform songs and dances. We were so proud of her.” Emma Robinson (parent) Beckenham 8-12 August Blackheath 25-29 July Dulwich 15-19 August and East Dulwich 1-5 August . All courses run 10-3pm. www.perform.org.uk/peterpan Try some free weekly fun this summer term Perform weekly drama, dance and singing classes for 4-7s and 7-12s run throughout the summer term and, with over 300 classes running each week, there’s sure to be a class near you.

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Summer camps with Camp Beaumont!

With the school holidays just around the corner, and the dilemma of childcare approaching, Camp Beaumont, the UK’s most experienced day camp provider, is on hand to provide your child with a fun-filled adventure at over 40 locations across London and the South-East.

With over 50 activities each week, not only can your child sharpen up their social skills, they can also pursue new interests, develop new talents and unleash their creative side. Activities range from Aqua Olympics to Movie Maker to Superhero Academy, and each activity programme is tailored by age group, including a nursery-style Playtime Programme for 3-4 year olds, a unique Magic Programme for 5-7 year olds, a thrilling Active Programme for 8 to 11 year olds and an exclusive club style Teens Programme for 12-16 year olds.

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EARLY YEARS

Developing humour as an infant

By Dr Elena Hoicka As a research team, we have always been fascinated by humour in children and so we set out to discover the types of humour that are present in early development and the ages at which different types of humour emerge. To do this, we mapped young children’s understanding of jokes for the first time using data from a new study involving nearly seven hundred children ages 0 to 47 months.1 Incredibly, we identified twenty one types of humour. Children under one year appreciated physical, visual and auditory humour. This included hide and reveal games like peekaboo, tickling, funny voices and noises. In the first year, children are learning to process sensory information, such as what things look, sound and feel like and their humour reflects this. So once they know what a voice should sound like, they notice when someone’s voice sounds strange and find it funny.

One-year-olds appreciated humour that involved getting a reaction from others. This included teasing, for example, offering and withdrawing objects, scaring others and taboo topics, for instance, toilet humour. They also found it funny to act like something else, such as an animal. Interestingly, it is around the age of 1 that children start to understand other people’s minds.

Their understanding and appreciation of humour reflects this.

Two-year-olds’ humour reflected language development, including mislabelling (for instance, calling a duck a cow), playing with concept (for example, saying: ‘dogs say moo’) and nonsense words such as ‘moogly boo.’ They also demonstrated a mean streak as they appreciated making fun of others. As most children start to speak by the age 2, humour reflects this, showing children enjoying playing with language. Our findings

Finally, 3-year-olds played with social rules, for example, saying naughty words to be funny and showing the beginnings of understanding tricks and puns. This reflects the way in which children’s understanding of language and the social world keep developing and are simultaneously reflected in their humour.

Dr Elena Hoicka is an Associate Professor at the School of Education, University of Bristol.

Want to participate in future research? Sign up at www.babylovesscience.com 1 ‘The Early Humor Survey (EHS): A Reliable Parent-Report Measure of Humor Development for 1- to 47-Month-Olds’ by E Hoicka et al in Behavior Research Methods.

When to expect humour in your child

How to joke with your child

Some parents reported that their children appreciated humour as early as 1 month old and produced humour as early as 4 months old! But this wasn’t typical. Our research estimated that fifty percent of children appreciate humour by 2 months old and produce humour by 11 months old but that means fifty percent of children don’t appreciate humour until 3 months old or later and don’t produce humour until 12 months old or later.

Parents are very good at joking with their young children.

You can start looking for humour in your child’s first year but don’t worry if it doesn’t happen as early as you expect. Every child is different and some may understand different types of humour earlier and other types later. For instance, a very verbally precocious 1-year-old might understand mislabelling jokes earlier than expected, whereas a child who has just started speaking at 2 years may understand this joke type later.

Remember, joking isn’t a race, it’s about having a positive, social experience with your child that allows you to bond and enjoy a joke together.

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also suggest that perhaps 2-year-olds are starting to understand that other people’s feelings can be hurt too. While many parents won’t be too happy to see their children laugh at someone’s expense, this may signal that a child is understanding other people in more complex ways.

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Professor Gina Mireault, from Northern Vermont University, found that when parents joke around with little ones ages 3 to 6 months, they smile and laugh, letting their baby know they are joking. Professor Vasu Reddy, from the University of Portsmouth, found that when parents laughed at their 7 to 12 month-olds’ jokes, their babies often repeated them.

In my research, we found that parents smile more when joking with their toddlers and make more eye contact. Furthermore, parents explain they are joking. They often express jokes like a question, for instance: ‘The ducks say moo?’ which highlights they are not being serious. After joking, they often explain what they did wrong. For instance, saying: ‘Ducks don’t say moo!

They say quack!’. In response, children smile and laugh at their parents’ jokes, make eye contact and copy the jokes.

So, when you joke with your child, make sure you smile, laugh, make eye contact and even explain your jokes!

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THE QUEEN’S PLATINUM JUBILEE

Make a crown, don your best airs and graces and prepare to celebrate as the country pays tribute to Her Majesty The Queen.

A summer of celebrations will mark 70 years of service to the people of the United Kingdom, the Realms and the Commonwealth.

colourful field of flowers to mark the Platinum Jubilee. Grab a mat and slide down the Superbloom slide and follow the visitor route through the display.

Trooping the Colour From Buckingham Palace to Horse Guard’s Parade SW1 2 June Over 1,400 parading soldiers, 200 horses and 400 musicians will come together in the traditional Parade to mark The Queen’s official birthday, usually held on the second Saturday in June.

The Parade will close with the traditional RAF fly-past, watched by The Queen and Members of the Royal Family from the Buckingham Palace balcony. Ticketed and televised event.

Museum of Brands Lancaster Road W11 1QT www.museumofbrands.com From 21 May 200 Years of Royal Souvenirs See how UK consumer culture and Royal history have changed since the Victorian era, through a fascinating display of Royal-inspired packaging and souvenirs, complete with a children’s trail.

2-6 June Children go free, try some object handling, make your own bunting and crown.

people will gather to have fun and get to know one another a little better. This year’s Big Lunch is set to be a right royal knees-up! Sign for a free organisers’ pack or find a local event.

Celebrate at Hever Castle Hever Castle, Kent TN8 7NG www.hevercastle.co.uk 2-5 June Where better to celebrate the Jubilee than the home of two former queens of England - Anne Boleyn and Anne of Cleves. Follow a free trial to spot mischievous Corgi dogs, crowns, jewels and queens. It isn’t a celebration without food, so take your own party food and join a ‘street party’ style picnic fit for royalty.

Party at the Palace On BBC TV at your own ‘palace’ 4 June The BBC will stage and broadcast a special live concert from Buckingham Palace, bringing together some of the world’s biggest entertainment stars to celebrate the most significant and joyous moments from The Queen’s seven decade reign.

Platinum Pageant Buckingham Palace SW1A 1AA www.platinumpageant.com 5 June The Platinum Pageant will combine street arts, theatre, music, circus, carnival and costume to celebrate Her Majesty’s unwavering duty, love of the natural world and dedication to the Commonwealth. No booking required.

Superbloom at the Tower Tower of London EC3N 4AB www.hrp.org.uk/tower-of-london 1 June - 18 September Over 20 million mixed seeds have been sown in the Tower’s moat to create a spectacular, Familiesonline.co.uk

The Big Jubilee Lunch www.edenprojectcommunities.com/thebig-jubilee-lunch 2-5 June It’s the party that’s right up your street, and everyone’s invited. Across streets, gardens and neighbourhoods, @FamiliesSE

Reuthe’s Lost Gardens of Sevenoaks Sevenoaks, Kent TN15 0HB www.allevents.in 4+5 June Platinum Jubilee Family Fun Weekender Two days of fun including live music, Jubilee craft activities, a children’s party, alpaca meet and greet; a huge beer garden and Kent’s longest picnic blanket for your own royal feast.

Life Through a Royal Lens Kensington Palace W8 4PX www.hrp.org.uk/kensington-palace Until 4 October A new photographic display explores the British Royal Family’s enduring relationship with the camera; from Queen Victoria and Prince Albert’s patronage of photography during its infancy, to lesser known intimate family portraits, dating from the 19th century right up to the present day.

Hampton Court Palace East Molesey KT8 9AU www.hrp.org.uk 1-5 June Jubilee Joust Witness the sport of kings as knights from around the country joust to celebrate the Queen’s Platinum Jubilee. Pick your favourite knight and cheer them on as they compete for the coveted Jubilee Cup. Pomp, ceremony and splendour will reign supreme at this family-friendly event within the spectacular palace gardens.

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EDUCATION

Lessons to learn before you’re 10

By Gail Hugman

We live in a world where it’s easy to become overwhelmed. So teaching young children to make good use of their working memory, exercise self-control and get organised will really help them develop the skills they need to succeed in life.

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These key skills underpin everything we do in life and it takes just a few minutes a day to boost them so your child learns more effectively and confidently. What’s more, growing these skills can be fun!

Developed by experts who understand how children’s brains develop and form, try these starter activities to set your child off on the right path.

too! Keep a tally so they can track their improvement and praise them for being clever. Explain that this is more than just a fun challenge, it’s all about teaching their brain to have a really good memory.

You can say: ‘When your teacher shows you something in school, your brain will remember it better if you sort the information first. You’ll be able to remember names, countries, lists, linked facts and even do magic tricks by remembering a bunch of playing cards in order - how cool is that?’

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HOLIDAYS

The lowdown on school holiday camps and workshops

By Andrew Campbell

Summer holiday camps, schools and workshops are not only an ideal way to fill in childcare gaps during the long summer break but offer the opportunity for your child to discover a new hobby or take their existing passion to a new level.

Multi-activity day camps Offering a varied daily programme of sports and creative activities, with each session lasting between 1 and 1.5 hours, multi-activity camps are ideal for children who have a range of interests or have not yet found their ‘thing.’ Some camps offer an astounding range of sports, arts and crafts, outdoor exploration, games and challenges. Generally, camps can be booked for single days, half days and full weeks, including extended hours and multi-week discounts.

Sport/single activity camps or workshops These intensely focused summer schools offer specialisation.

Think a specific sport such as football, gymnastics and cricket, one creative activity such as painting, photography and cooking, a single performing art like drama, musical theatre or dance or an area of STEM such as computer coding, robotics and game design.

Generally operating for two to five hours per day and running for just one day or as a progressive course from a few days to two weeks, these camps or workshops often cater for all ages of children and culminate in staging a performance, playing a

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For a child curious about an activity, single activity camps or workshops are a great opportunity for an immersive experience which will test their interest and aptitude and for gaining an appreciation of what a regular commitment to weekly term time classes, often run by the same organisation, could offer.

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PARTIES

2022 children’s party trends

By Claire Winter Many of us have missed celebrating important birthday parties and milestones with family and friends during the pandemic. With restrictions lifted and the summer months upon us, things are looking up at last!

Did someone say party? Here’s how to party like it’s 2022.

Outdoor parties

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The pandemic drove us outside and having a party in the garden or going to an outdoor venue still appeals to many parents. A huge outdoor picnic and good old-fashioned games like tug-of-war, quoits or skittles always go down a treat.

Pack bats and balls and you’re ready for rounders. It’s a party with no crumbs and more space to let off steam! Alternatively, parties at venues like Go Ape are an easy option and the children will love to monkey around in the trees.

Grazing platters may look fabulous but some delicious goodies in individual recyclable cardboard boxes are simple to serve, create less waste and can be eaten anywhere. A firm favourite is a cream tea in a box! You can also outsource food to a party organiser or caterer. Or, instead of having one large statement cake, why not offer a fabulous display of cupcakes and mini desserts? It will look gorgeous and the kids (and parents) will love it.

Retro gaming parties

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If you have a gaming fan in the house, why not hire a gaming company to take them back to the eighties? Pac-Man and many of the old-school favourites will fascinate and intrigue them. There are also loads of great VR games that you can hire for the day too.

For an extra special sleepover if you have the garden space, consider hiring a bell tent or teepee. One for the older children - decorate with fairy lights, set up mini Bluetooth speakers and let the fun begin!

Just don’t expect too much sleeping....

Whether they are dried or fresh, flowers have made a huge comeback. Scatter rose petals on the party table or freeze them in ice cubes. Create a huge bouquet as a centrepiece or if you are going all out, hire a flower wall. Perfect for tweens!

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A seasoned magician or entertainer will provide the fun crowd control you’re after.

Younger kids love the games, banter and dancing while you sit back watching the fun.

Give small meaningful gifts instead of plastic. It’s just not the done thing any more to fill party bags with sweets and land-filler plastic tat. A few popular (more eco-friendly) alternative ideas could be a book, a packet of wildflower seeds or a jar of make-at-home cookie mix.

Take a full-on trip down the traditional route. There’s nothing wrong with keeping it simple. Two hours of games like pass the parcel, musical statues, a treasure hunt and a spot of dancing before tea still do very nicely, thank you.

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Instagrammable installations If you’re all about the ‘gram and other social media shares, you can hire amazing balloon displays, giant LED numbers and neon signs for the party. Do be conscious of sharing pictures of your party-goers as not all parents are comfortable with their children on social media.

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HOLIDAYS

Adventures at home

By Zoe Lake I’m a big fan of planning fun-filled family adventures at home for weekends and holidays. Here are some of our favourites, which can be easily adjusted if the weather does not behave. All the activities can be tailored to children and adults of all ages, adding a little magic to precious family time.

Garden music festival Dig out your tent, drag out your blankets and cushions, power up the radio and set up camp. Spend the day listening to music in the comfort of your own garden.

Homemade ribbon wristbands and VIP lanyards allow unlimited access to the snack cupboard, fruity mocktails and ultimately, the lavatory - without needing to queue!

Twenty four hours without electricity Challenging the family to go without electricity is great fun. Not only does it encourage you to get creative with your time, it also opens up the broader topic of eco-living and which small changes can be made at home. Activities for the day might include painting, poetry, games, bird watching, cooking over an open flame and sleeping outside.

Stargazing Our favourite way to stargaze is in an old inflatable pool, patched with duct tape and filled with duvets! It keeps the chill out whilst we snuggle down and watch for the first star to appear amidst the myths and legends. Look out for the Big Bear, the Pegasus and Draco the dragon, which snakes across our sky.

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Village fetes are often a washout but you can schedule yours when there’s glorious sunshine! String up your bunting, bake some scones, set up a raffle and a lucky dip (from old goody bag items), provide an (unplugged) microphone for announcements, hold a pet show, even set up a Pimms’ tent (no judgement here).

Our annual garden Olympics is one of our favourite days of the year. Open with a (tissue paper) Olympic flame and homemade hanging flags, followed by competitive rounds of egg and spoon, sack races, hula hooping, bean bag throwing and swing ball. Keep score on a chalkboard and finish with salt dough medals at an elaborate award ceremony.

Find out who you share your garden with, using a nature guide to help with identification. Or encourage a few new residents with a log pile house for insects, hanging feeders for birds, a compost heap for worms, upturned pots for frogs and a colourful flowerbed for bees and butterflies. Keep an illustrated journal of what you all see.

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Spend a bit of time asking relatives about their own adventures, jotting them down as you go. If the weather is a bit rubbish, this is the perfect excuse to scour old family albums full of photos of when they were young. And if the weather is kind, ask them to take you around their old haunts, perhaps to where they grew up.

A reading nook is a wonderful place to spend a lazy afternoon. Set up a den or a teepee and make it cosy inside. Fill a basket with books and make the most of little ones curled up in your lap for story time. Or even have a go at writing your own story together.

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14 May Handa’s Surprise Travel to Kenya and follow in Handa’s footsteps as she journeys to see her best friend Akeyo, in the next village. Ages 2-6.

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Greenwich Theatre Crooms Hill SE10 8ES www.greenwichtheatre.org.uk 10+11 May Vixen An original story about a young girl who is turning into a fox. Expect to see beauty hidden in unremarkable places, friendships that don’t follow the rules, the things that unite us and a girl aching to belong.

Ages 7+.

25+26 June The Tiger Who Came To Tea Join the teaguzzling tiger in this delightful family show; packed with oodles of magic, sing-a-long songs and clumsy chaos.

Ages 3+.

MAY AND JUNE 2022

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Dulwich Festival In and around Dulwich SE21 www.dulwichfestival.co.uk 13-22 May A celebration of arts workshops, open houses, performances, local walks and events for all ages, culminating with a Festival Fair on Goose Green on 22 May. Brockley Max In and around Brockley SE4 www.brockleymax.co.uk 27 May - 4 June Nine days and over 60 events including art trails, performances and more, created by talented individuals and collectives within the Lewisham Borough of Culture calendar. The final day brings Art on the Park on Hilly Fields - an afternoon of music, children’s workshops, storytelling, craft stalls, demonstrations and reviving food and drinks.

Independent Bookshop Week Nationwide www.booksaremybag.com 18-25 June Independent bookshops are staffed with book experts who are wildly passionate about reading and getting the right book into the right hands.

During this year’s celebration week, hundreds of indie bookshops across the country will feature author events, bookshop crawls, guest bookselling and much more.

THEATRE & SHOWS

Theatre Peckham Havil Street SE5 7SB www.theatrepeckham.co.uk 2 May - 5 June Peckham Fringe Across five weeks, 27 visiting companies will take over the main theatre and studio space. With theatre, spoken word, live music, multi-media performances and live cooking on-stage, Peckham Fringe offers a smorgasbord of live entertainment. It includes fun for all the family with works such as the interactive musical Errol’s Garden, and Skate of Mind Live.

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Terrible Thames From Tower Bridge Quay www.terriblethames.com Provided by the Horrible Histories team, this is a boat tour all about the history of the Thames with the nasty bits left in! There’s no better way to learn about the country’s most famous river and the incredible history of the nation’s capital. Departing from Tower Bridge Quay, the fantastic journey incorporates immersive theatre to surprise and shock in equal measure as it delivers a unique take on London, thrilling both children and adults alike.

Peacock Theatre Portugal Street WC2A 2HT www.sadlerswells.com 27-29 May Anne of Green Gables Anne is a lively, imaginative 11 year old orphan who lives on Canada’s Prince Edward Island. Adopted by an elderly brother and sister, Anne gets herself into endless scrapes but eventually wins over the community with her endearing, fearless character and passionate nature. A London Children’s Ballet production with a cast of 51 talented young dancers aged 9-16. Ages 5+.

Southbank Centre Southbank SE1 8XX www.southbankcentre.co.uk 29 May OAE Tots: The King of the Sea Plunge into Poseidon’s underwater world in an interactive concert performed by the Orchestra of the Age of Enlightenment. Ages 2-5.

Unicorn Theatre Tooley Street SE1 2HZ www.unicorntheatre.com 13 May - 12 June Get Dressed! This riotous, fun and touching show explores the relationship between a child and her dad as they negotiate their world together. Ages 2-5.

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places. Touching on themes of racial prejudice, Marvin’s Binoculars is a highly engaging and vibrant show that will inspire children to explore the outdoors in their local green spaces. Ages 6-11.

Bromley Churchill Theatre High Street Bromley BR1 1HA www.churchilltheatre.co.uk 31 May + 1 June In The Night Garden Live Igglepiggle, Upsy Daisy, Makka Pakka and friends are back in their fun-filled live show ‘Igglepiggle’s Busy Day.’ Pip-pip, onk-onk!

The Puppet Theatre Barge Opp Blomfield Road W9 2PF www.puppetbarge.com 21 May - 3 July The Hare and the Tortoise The story of the most famous race on earth is beautifully brought to life with some of Aesop’s other famous morality tales.

Ages 3+ Bring Your Own Baby Comedy Various venues www.byobcomedy.com A funny, friendly afternoon of top comedy, where baby can come too and join in with the rumpus. Shows feature a new line up of comedians each month with two acts plus a compere. Ages: grownups plus under 12 months.

31 May in Hither Green 16 June in East Dulwich Bach to Baby Various venues www.bachtobaby.com Critically-acclaimed classical concerts for babies and their grownups. Outstanding musicians put on exhilarating performances where babies can ‘join in’ with as much noise as they like!

9 May in Dulwich Village 26 May in Greenwich & Blackheath 27 May in West Dulwich 29 May in London Bridge & Borough 31 May in East Dulwich

Horniman Museum London Road SE23 3PQ www.horniman.ac.uk Until 30 October Cats and Dogs Discover more about our fascinating furry friends in this interactive, familyfriendly exhibition offering a revealing pets’-eye view of the world. Immersive displays explore the scientific, social and cultural role that cats and dogs play in our world, and invites visitors to go on an exciting, sensory journey, exploring what it’s like to be a cat or a dog. The exhibition is presented in three languages - English, French and Spanish - and also features animations developed by students from the London College of Communication, featuring their interpretations of the exhibition’s theme.

National Maritime Museum Romney Road, Greenwich SE10 9NF www.rmg.co.uk/national-maritime-museum Until 25 September Canaletto’s Venice Revisited This major exhibition will display the complete set of 24 Venetian views painted by Canaletto in the 1730s. The works, from the world-famous collection at Woburn Abbey, form the largest single commission the Italian artist ever received.

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Dulwich Picture Gallery Gallery Road SE21 7AD www.dulwichpicturegallery.org.uk 4 May - 4 September Reframed: The Woman in the Window Featuring artworks from ancient civilisations to present day, the exhibition brings together over 50 works by artists including Rembrandt Harmensz van Rijn, Dante Gabriel Rossetti, David Hockney, Louise Bourgeois, Cindy Sherman. The enigmatic motif of the ‘woman in the window’ is portrayed through painting, sculpture, print, photography and film.

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7 May and 18 June SENsory Sailors Families with children with special educational needs and disabilities are invited to explore the collection, enjoy the opportunity to be creative together as a family, and meet other local families. Sessions are led by a SEND specialist and respond to the needs of the participating families. Ages 13 and under. Free, book first.

21 May LGBTQ+ Family Network A safe space for local LGBTQ+ families to meet one another, get involved in creative activities for all ages and explore the stories within the collection. Free.

11 June World Oceans Day Take part in a range of exciting family-friendly themed events, activities and talks across the RMG sites.

22 June Windrush Day On 22 June 1948, the SS Empire Windrush arrived at Tilbury Docks in London.

Windrush Day is an opportunity to celebrate the Windrush generation and acknowledge the contributions and sacrifices of British Caribbean communities.

Queen’s House Romney Road, Greenwich SE10 9NF www.rmg.co.uk/queens-house All the Queen’s Men Uncover the lives of Elizabeth I’s male courtiers and their personal and political relationships with the monarch in this new display at the Queen’s House. Featuring paintings of Sir Francis Drake and Thomas Seymour, the display also showcases the Armada Portrait of Elizabeth I, one of the treasures of Royal Museums Greenwich’s collection. All ages, free.

Woburn Treasures While Woburn Abbey is closed for refurbishments, many significant pieces are available to view, including works by distinguished artists such as Van Dyck, Reynolds, Gainsborough, Poussin and Canaletto, alongside art from the national collection of Royal Museums Greenwich.

Royal Observatory Greenwich Blackheath Avenue SE10 8XJ www.rmg.co.uk/royal-observatory Various dates The Sky Tonight A live show taking visitors on a tour of what can be seen in the night sky, complete with a fly-out to the edge of the visible universe.

Ages 7+.

28 May Astronomy and Islam Arabic tales are filled with characters and creatures that people imagined seeing by joining together the bright stars in the sky. Find out which stars astronomers still call by their original Arabic names

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and what some of those stars are famous for today. Learn all the Moon and why it seems to change shape over the course of a month. Ages 7+.

Cutty Sark King William Walk SE10 9HT www.rmg.co.uk/cuttysark Weekends and school holidays Cutty Sark Characters Meet Captain Woodget, the ship’s most daring master, Nannie the ship’s figurehead, James Robson, the ship’s cook, and a dockworker character, who all have special stories to tell. Ages 3+.

30 May - 3 June All Hands on Deck Explore how Cutty Sark works, communicates and celebrates through a series of hands-on activities and workshops including celebrating a royal visit, learning about signal flags and tales from character actors.

Various dates Rig Climb Experience Climb the famous masts and enjoy views of the Thames and London like no other. Visitors can traverse one of the ship’s lower yardarms before reaching the top platform, taking in the view from the rigging of a true London icon. Ages 12+.

Brunel Museum Railway Avenue SE16 4LF www.thebrunelmuseum.com Sir Marc Isambard Brunel and his son Isambard Kingdom Brunel changed the world with their inventive tunnels, bridges and viaducts, built during the Victorian reign.

Housed in their Thames Tunnel Engine House, today the museum celebrates both engineering and performance in its Grade II* listed Tunnel Shaft. Open weekends.

Tower of London EC3N 4AB www.hrp.org.uk/tower-of-london 1 June - 18 September Superbloom at the Tower Over 20 million mixed seeds have been sown in the Tower’s moat, to create a spectacular, colourful field of flowers to mark the Platinum Jubilee. Grab a mat and slide down the Superbloom slide and follow the visitor route through the display.

The British Museum Great Russell Street WC1B 3GD www.britishmuseum.org Until 17 July The World of Stonehenge For the very first time in a major exhibition in the UK, the story and secrets of Stonehenge are brought into focus, revealing that prehistoric Britain was a place of big ideas, commerce and travel, rather than a shadowy land of mystery.

Natural History Museum Cromwell Road SW7 5BD www.nhm.ac.uk Until 5 June Wildlife Photographer of the Year 100 powerful photographs tell the story of a planet under pressure. Gaze through the lens of some of the world’s best wildlife photographers and marvel at the beauty of our planet.

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Monthly dates Dino Snores for Kids Spend a night amongst the museum’s incredible collections, exploring its world class galleries after hours and sleeping beneath Hope, the breath-taking blue whale skeleton in Hintze Hall. After setting up camp in one of the amazing galleries, there’s an evening of awesome learning activities before bedtime, and breakfast in the morning. Ages 7-11.

London Transport Museum Covent Garden Piazza WC2E 7BB www.ltmuseum.co.uk Explore the heritage of London and its transport system, and the stories of the people who have travelled and worked in the city over the last 200 years. Family events include singing, storytelling and craft activities.

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Legacies: London Transport’s Caribbean Workforce Many people know about the history of Windrush, but are less familiar with London Transport’s advertising recruitment campaign to attract employees directly from the Caribbean to London from 1956 to 1970. Uncover stories and memories from first, second and third generation Caribbean people who worked for LT in the past and now work for its successor, Transport for London (TfL).

The Foundling Museum Brunswick Square WC1N 1AZ www.foundlingmuseum.org.uk Until 28 August Superheroes, Orphans and Origins Enter into the world of superheroes in this first major exhibition to explore the representation of foundlings, orphans, adoptees and foster children in comics, graphic novels and sequential art from around the globe.

Hever Castle & Gardens Edenbridge, Kent TN8 7NG www.hevercastle.co.uk 2-5 June Platinum Jubilee Where better to celebrate the Jubilee than the home of two former queens of England - Anne Boleyn and Anne of Cleves. Follow a free trial to spot mischievous Corgi dogs, crowns, jewels and queens! It isn’t a celebration without food, so take your own party food and join a ‘street party’ style picnic fit for royalty.

Until 22 November Becoming Anne: Connections, Culture, Court Visit the childhood home of Anne Boleyn for an exhibition depicting her early life and learn how she became the woman who so caught Henry VIII’s eye.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS

Greenwich Park London SE10 8EJ www.royalparks.org.uk 28 May Play in the Park A pop up day camp packed with tentfuls of free play fun. Join in with outdoor play and nature-based craft activities.

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31 May Discovery Day: Orienteering Free, educational, nature-inspired activites for the whole family.

City Splash Festival Brockwell Park SE21 www.city-splash.com 29 May Over 60 performers and bands playing live, celebrating the impact and importance of Caribbean and African music on British culture. Vibes, music, food and fun for all ages.

Queen’s Platinum Jubilee for Kids East Street SE17 2JN E: kadonash@yahoo.co.uk 4 June A park party for the kids to eat, enjoy and celebrate the Queen’s Platinum Jubilee. No booking required.

Eltham Palace and Gardens Court Yard SE9 5QE, www.english-heritage.org.uk/eltham 28 May - 5 June Kids Rule! Head to the grounds of Eltham Palace to celebrate the Queen’s Platinum Jubilee with costumed storytellers, hands-on activities and freshair family fun.

Hampton Court Palace East Molesey KT8 9AU www.hrp.org.uk 1-5 June Jubilee Joust Experience the sport of kings as knights from around the country joust to celebrate the Queen’s Platinum Jubilee. Pick your favourite knight and cheer them on as they compete for the coveted Jubilee Cup. Pomp, ceremony and splendour will reign supreme at this family-friendly event within the spectacular palace gardens.

Pub in the Park Dulwich Park SE21 7EB www.pubintheparkuk.com 24-26 June A culinary festival featuring a huge line-up of renowned chefs led by Tom Kerridge, with incredible food, chart-topping live music and a healthy serving of good times. The whole weekend caters to families as much as growunps, with a dedicated area just for kids, and a jam-packed schedule of activities.

Kew Royal Botanic Gardens Kew TW9 3AE www.kew.org Kew for One Pound A new low-cost entry has been introduced for a visit to Kew Gardens and its sister site, Wakehurst in Sussex, for people in receipt of Universal Credit or Pension Credit. For families or other groups, there is also now a reduced price for early booking of just £15 per adult.

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