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SO, WE’VE crawled murkily into the new year and discover that there’s a lot to look forward to as the world’s spotlight falls onto London in 2012. We’re preparing already with ways to kickstart sluggish health; money-saving holiday ideas; things to do and places to go - happy new year everyone!

Robina Cowan, editor

IN THIS ISSUE 2-3 Local News and Views

LocalNews email your news to editor@familiesse.co.uk

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News from local drama groups, summer savers and concerns about the effects of mobile signals on young brains

4-6 Education news New school campaigns, nursery news and co-ed vs single sex education

7 Book Review Page Justine Crow’s new year blog with the best books gracing her bookshelves

8 Winter Wellbeing One mother’s quest to beat the winter blues in preparation for Spring

9 Babies on a Budget Babies don’t give two hoots if they’re not strapped into a brand new buggy, or notice the new wallpaper in their room. Dr Lin Day has cost-cutting tips for new parents

10-14 What’s On Family-friendly events, exhibitions and workshops across southeast and central London

15 Fathers Mean Business Father of two Danny Nutt is a children’s party entertainer

16-17 Family Holidays Wish you were here? Family-friendly holiday ideas that won’t break the bank in a cash-strapped 2012

18 What’s New New products and services for families

19 Ice Sculptures Luca & Maya show your children how to make ice scupltures to encourage them out of the house

20 The Back Page Local business contacts to make your life easier Front cover: Boy wears zip cardigan £22, hat and mitt set £16, both Mamas and Papas Next issues out: 24 February and 23 March:

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Stagecoach students make West End debut Eighteen students from the Stagecoach school in Dulwich had the chance of a lifetime when they were invited to perform in the heart of London’s West End. They joined 12 other Stagecoach schools from across the country to present a spectacular programme of musical theatre at Her Majesty’s Theatre; home to the record breaking musical Phantom of The Opera.

The students representing Dulwich, all aged 10 to 12, rehearsed together for weeks beforehand on their own particular contribution, based on the hit musical “The Wiz”, which was created specifically for the event. Stagecoach Dulwich opened the show and the students were praised for their energy, precision and stamina in what was a fast paced, exciting piece.

“All the students have worked so hard for this event and their commitment has been fantastic,” said Jonny Clines, Principal of Stagecoach in Dulwich. “It has been a very exciting day and one that I hope the children will remember for many years to come.”

Stagecoach Dulwich offers quality training in drama, dance and singing to local young people from 4-16. The classes are designed to build confidence and develop communication through performance skills. A limited number of places are available for the new term. For further information, contact Principal Jonny Clines on 0845 055 6368 or visit the Stagecoach website at www.stagecoach.co.uk/dulwich.

Ready for school Following recent successful pilots, SchoolReady are rolling out their programme of weekly classes for pre-schoolers and their carers from January, beginning in Balham.

The highly interactive classes help children prepare for starting school as an addition to their nursery activities.

Brown bear Ready Eddy helps and entertains the children through a variety of bitesize games, covering skillsets including motor skills and social and emotional skills, with children actively participating with ideas.

If your child is due to start school in Reception this September, you can book a free trial class and read more at www.schoolready.co.uk.

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Perform’s “greatest show on earth�

Since launching in January 2000, Perform now have 3,500 children attending their drama, dance and singing workshops right across London.

This month, they are adding new classes in Beckenham and Bromley to their existing southeast London classes in Dulwich and Blackheath. Principal Lucy Quick told us “We are incredibly excited about opening new schools in southeast London in January 2012. It’s an amazingly creative area, and we have already found some fantastic local people to lead the workshops.�

Perform use a unique mix of drama, dance and singing specially formulated to bring out every child’s true potential. Classes are kept small to ensure lots of individual attention by their experienced actor/ teachers. They work exclusively with 8-12 year-old children and their focus is entirely on the 4 C’s: confidence, communication, co-ordination and concentration.

Perform’s 4-8 year-olds this term are entering the Big Top to discover the delights of the circus, featuring the dashing Lion Tamer, a Clown with a Frown, Duelling Jugglers and more. The Perform Plus theme for January is Hercules Beat; an energetic musical featuring swinging superhero Hercules and his quest to inspire the laid-back Greeks to take a break from eating, bathing and philosophising and start dancing!

All children are invited to a free trial session. For details, call 0845 400 1277 or go to www.perform.org.uk.

Theatre Bugs are fun Theatrebugs promise a bucket load of fun for 31⠄2 to six year-olds. In the new term’s classes, children will sing, dance and act their way from the earth to the sea and sky in the guise of a dinosaur, a space rocket and caterpillar.

The classes develop confidence through creativity, after school on Thursdays in East Dulwich and Tuesdays in Clapham. For a free trial class and more information, call 0800 9755 290 or go to www.theatrebugs.co.uk.

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Super Camps is one of the leading activity camps in the UK, offering daylong sports, activities, arts and crafts at over 70 venues in the UK. By booking before 1 March, you can save up to ÂŁ40 per week or up to ÂŁ8 per day per child, and even use Childcare Vouchers towards the fees. Corporate discounts are available to organisations whose staff are looking for holiday childcare.

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Mobile phone health concerns A new report recently published by UK charity MobileWise warns that children’s health is being jeopardised by the failure of Government and phone companies to respond to the growing body of evidence linking mobile phone use with health hazards.

The new report Mobile phone health risks: the case for action to protect children brings together, for the first time, more than 200 peer-reviewed studies from a range of research institutions that link mobiles to serious health problems. Endorsed by a number of eminent doctors and scientists, the report highlights the growing and substantial body of evidence that has been obscured in the debate over these risks.

To read the full report, go to www.familiesonline.co.uk/EMRresourcepage; and for simple tips on protecting your family, go to www.familiesonline.co.uk/EMRsafety.

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School News

Big school birdwatch From 15-30 January, the RSPB’S Big School Birdwatch will enlist the help of pupils and staff in counting the birds that share their school environment.

Last year saw a record breaking number of participants with nearly 3,000 classes taking part, involving 88,500 children and teachers up and down the country.

No birdwatching expertise is necessary as the RSPB has produced a free schools pack to help teachers, helpers and children join in. The pack includes guidance notes, a full colour bird identification poster, counting charts and survey form. Interactive online forms can be used in class.

For further information and to register for a free teachers pack, visit the RSPB website www.rspb.org.uk/schoolswatch or call 0300 456 8340 until 30 January 2012.

GCSE reform In December, the independent exams watchdog Ofqual confirmed short-term reforms to current GCSEs from September 2012. Under the proposals: • Pupils will no longer be able to re-sit individual unit exams in order to boost their marks - although they may retake the whole GCSE exam. Students will, however, be given an early opportunity to resit maths, English and English Language GCSEs every November because these are key subjects needed to progress to further study or employment.

• Students will be marked on the accuracy of spelling, punctuation and grammar and their use of specialist terms. In the first instance, these will be those subjects that involve extended writing - English Literature, geography, history and religious studies.

Five per cent of total marks in these subjects will be for spelling, punctuation and grammar. Marks assessing written communication skills already exist in English and English Language. The changes will affect externally assessed units from September 2012.

‘Bog standard’ campaign launched A quarter of pupils in England’s schools avoid using toilets, according to a recent survey by ERIC - a charity which helps children with continence problems.

School toilets have a big impact on health and wellbeing but many schools are failing their pupils with poorly maintained, dirty and smelly facilities. Current regulations to ensure toilet and water facilities used by school staff meet proper standards do not extend to those used by pupils. ERIC has joined forces with the Paediatric Continence Forum, British Toilet Association, School Councils UK and the Community Practitioners and Health Visitors Association, and has launched a campaign to press the government to introduce new regulations to make school toilets healthier and easier to use.

ERIC’s petition can be signed at www.petitionbuzz.com/petitions/bogstandard.

Nursery News

New pre-school

Be a Montessori teacher Montessori is a unique approach to education that is used and respected in countries all over the world.

The movement was inspired by Dr Maria Montessori in the early 1900s. She was a true pioneer of child-centred learning and the first woman to qualify as a medical doctor in Italy.

Fundamental to the Montessori approach is the belief that a child’s early years - from birth to six - are the period when they have the greatest capacity to learn.

Montessori offers exciting and richly rewarding career opportunities for anyone with a passion for teaching and children. It is a popular job for mothers as most Montessori schools are sessional and close during the school holidays, so flexible working is available.

To find out about training courses, call 020 7493 8300 or go to www.montessori.org.uk.

More free nursery places All three and four-year-olds are currently entitled to 15 hours of early education for 38 weeks a year.

The government plans to rollout a pilot scheme which started under Labour, offering more places to two year-olds from families from the lowest income households. The entitlement would cover places in nursery schools and classes, children’s centres, day care nurseries, playgroups, pre-schools and with accredited childminders. Under the proposals, the scheme would roll out nationally from September 2013.

EYFS: ‘good and bad news’ Late in 2011, the department of Education released an Early Years Foundation Stage Profile, reporting back on attainment among preschoolers.

According to Anand Shukla, Chief Executive of Daycare Trust: “The Early Years Foundation Stage Profile results are a mixture of good and bad news. The proportion of children in England attaining good level of development continues to increase, from 46 per cent in 2007 to 59 per cent in 2011. There are also some impressive results in some quite deprived London boroughs. But there are still big gaps in children’s achievement at the end of nursery education.

Children who don’t speak English as their first language, children on free meals and those from some minority ethnic groups do less well at the end of nursery education.

But perhaps the biggest worry is the widening gap between boys’ and girls’ achievement. Just 50 per cent of boys achieved a good level of achievement this year, compared with 68 per cent of girls. The early years’ gender gap is widening not narrowing. Daycare Trust believes that Department for Education must take action to ensure that boys fulfil their potential.”

Daycare Trust is the national childcare charity, campaigning for quality affordable accessible childcare for all and raising the voices of children, parents and carers. The Trust offers a range of information on childcare, including finding and choosing childcare, and help with childcare costs, available at www.daycaretrust.org.uk.

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A new pre-school is newly opened on Sydenham Hill. Full and part time places are available from 9am to 4.30pm for two to five year-olds. For information, call 020 8461 3510.

The cost of nursery care Nursery fees vary greatly, depending on location, demand and what is offered. They start at around £100 a week and can go up to four times that, but there are ways to get help with the costs: • Nursery Education Grant - all three and four year-olds are entitled to 15 hours of free earlyeducation a week for 38 weeks of the year. This applies until they reach compulsory school age (the term following their fifth birthday), and can be applied flexibly over a minimum of three days.

Free early education places are available at a range of early years settings including nursery schools and classes, children’s centres, day nurseries, play groups and pre-schools and childminders. Your child will be eligible for the Nursery Education Grant from the term after their third birthday. If you choose a nursery which costs more than the funding or use the nursery for more hours the grant will be offset against your bill • Your employer may provide subsidised onsite childcare, or offer Childcare Vouchers as a portion of your salary. Download a guide at www.childcarevouchers.co.uk or find out more about Childcare Vouchers at www.hmrc.gov.uk/calcs/ccin.htm. Check if your nursery will accept Childcare Vouchers • You may be able to recoup some of your childcare costs through the tax credit scheme, depending on the number of hours you work and your household income. To find out if you are eligible go to www.payingforchildcare.org.uk.

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THERE ARE many factors to consider when choosing a school, including academic achievements, extra-curricular activities, and the facilities on offer.

One of the most hotlydebated issues is whether single-sex or co-ed is ‘better’.

There are clear advantages of both approaches and some children will simply thrive in one more than the other.

Single sex schools Many parents believe that single-sex teaching provides greater focus for their child, as well as allowing them the freedom to grow up at their own rate. Studies have shown that boys’ and girls’ brains are organised differently, and teachers in single-sex schools recognise and work with the way that boys and girls learn best, adapting their approach to suit the needs of their pupils.

An advantage of single-sex education is that boys and girls can develop at their own pace without the social pressure that the opposite sex can sometimes impose on them. They also have more opportunity to study subjects that might be considered too feminine for boys (art, music, drama), or too masculine for girls (science, maths).

Co-educational schools Boys and girls of school age might be complete opposites, but in a co-educational school this can often work well. They think differently, develop differently and learn in different ways but it is also the case that no two girls or two boys mature at the same rate or learn in the same way, so an individual approach to learning has to be taken on board either way.

In a good co-educational school teachers will be aware of the natural differences between girls and boys and they will use a range of ways to help students reach their full potential. It is not necessarily true that girls learn things through traditional methods of teaching while boys need more practical and physical instruction.

A co-ed school will use a range of approaches, with such wide-angle teaching proving to be successful with both boys and girls. On top of this, in a co-educational school both sexes learn to negotiate and debate through communication with each other, giving them an advantage for the future. A huge part of education is about preparing students for life, and life contains both sexes.

Diamond schools A Diamond school can be an innovative solution to this conundrum. ‘Diamond School’ is a term that applies to a type of independent school that combines both single-sex and co-educational teaching in the same organisation. Typically, boys and girls are taught together until the age of 11, then separately from 11-16 (in some schools they are taught separately from the age of eight), before coming back together again in a joint Sixth Form.

Diamond schools are often the product of the merger of a boys’ and a girls’ school, thus it is usual that girls and boys can be taught separately on different sites.

It is a common feature that boys and girls combine outside the classroom for some co-curricular activities, such as choirs, orchestras and the Duke of Edinburgh Award scheme.

A Diamond school can be the perfect answer if you have children of different sexes in your family, or if you believe in single-sex education but don’t want your child to be entirely separated by gender. It can provide all of the social and family benefits of co-education (coming together for the school play, consistency for the family and the same holiday dates!) while maintaining the merits of single-sex teaching.

Currently there are only a small number of Diamond schools in Britain but they are meeting a need for families and are flourishing. No doubt more will be springing up soon!

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The Bookseller Crow

is a fantastic, volume stuffed shop run by some of the most knowledgeable bookworms in the business.

Call in for the feel of a real bookshop, or if you’re too busy, pick up the phone or point your mouse at their website for a fast mailorder service. Justine Crow recommends this month’s best titles.

SITTING AMIDST THE detritus of 2011 wondering what will become of us in 2012, one thing of which I think I can be sure is that I can’t make more of a plank of myself than I did last year. For instance, I was the twerp who didn’t hear the alarm go off in the pool so intent was I at completing my lengths. Out of the corner of my eye I saw a crowd but the lifeguard’s strangulated screams that I leave the water INSTANTLY were lost as I sploshed. Eventually, the potential drowner was retrieved without any help from me and realising I was alone in a silent 50m pool, the penny finally, er, sank to the bottom. I climbed out to take a walk of shame all the way to the changing room. Not bad for a qualified swimming teacher. So, anticipating a quieter future with fewer gaffes, I thought I might preview a few of the highlights away from the water in book land.

AMOS & BORIS by Willam Steig - Penguin rrp £12.99. Don’t be fooled by the blockbuster razzamatazz brashness of the screen version with Mike Myers’ cod Glaswegian accent, the original green ogre with trumpets for ears is a strangely simple yet artful creature. And so too is this tale of the very tiniest of mammals and the very largest who become friends; the final image of two elephants gazing out to sea with little Amos perched on a shoulder while the enormous whale sheds a tear in the surf had me reaching for my tissues. Finally available to us Limeys, ditto price and publisher, look out also for BRAVE IRENE, the ingenious Doctor de Soto - a diminutive rodent dentist who is forced to climb into a fox’s mouth to fix a particularly rotten tooth - and THE AMAZING BONE about a resourceful porcine schoolgirl who has encounter with an unusual conversationalist.

SIR CHARLIE STINKY SOCKS & THE REALLY DREADFUL SPELL by Kristina Stephenson - Egmont rrp £7.99. This calls itself a ‘twisty-wisty hurrah of an adventure’ and there is no doubt, our beknighted protagonist has much to endure in this switchback of plotlines. Still, for clarity’s sake it comes with a cheery CD read by the actor Michael Maloney no less. I once saw him naked sitting on the branch of a tree.

No really. It lends a whole new dimension to my listening experience I can tell you.

In THE DIABOLICAL MR TIDDLES by Tom McLaughlin, Simon& Schuster rrp £5.99, given the ensuing chaos, our hero Harry might wonder if his much yearned for pet is possibly one that he should have gone without. Perhaps he should have had something less pedestrian and cute. Like a rare kind of lemur? THIS BOOK BELONGS TO AYE-AYE by Richard Byrne, Oxford rrp £5.99 stars a beast that it is claimed has never yet graced the pages of a picture book, and comes with a twist to boot.

THE RED TREE by Sean Tan - Lothian rrp £7.99, Not the newest of new titles, this author has nonetheless gained in popularity because of his appeal to adults and children alike.

Philosophical, yes but moreover, utterly exquisitely painterly, this starts with one of those days when you just know it is all gonna be a disaster. Then slowly the sun comes out, and all that implies.

MONDAY by Anne Herbauts - Tate rrp £12.99. Not the newest either but I only recently discovered this French writer who combines art with texture to tell us what happens when the penguin named after the worst day of the week loses his house in a snow storm. Can things get any worse? Featuring the finest crow and keyboard combo I have seen so far this year, rest assured that next Monday things feel a little different.

They’d better.

CHARLIE & THE CHOCOLATE FACTORY POP-UP BOOK

by Roald Dahl, illustrated by Quentin Blake - Puffin rrp £14.99.

If your house doesn’t possess one of these, the answer is simple. And it’s got its own golden ticket.

There are some intriguing looking picture books due to hit the shelves in February. In CALVIN CAN’T FLY, Sterling rrp £5.99, we have a grounded starling. I’ve always had a Hitchcovian soft-spot for these flocking extroverts ever since I heard several taking the mickey out of my dad by mimicking with perfection the daft four note whistle he reserved for the deaf old spaniel he used to drag around, thereby baffling the dog. HERE COMES THE POO BUS by Andy Stanton of

Mr Gum fame, Puffin rrp £6.99, looks suitably revolting and from Macmillan rrp 5.99, the divine Emily Gravett presents WOLF WON’T BITE! In which, considering it concerns three circus piggies winding up the customary furry vulpine bad boy, one supposes he inevitably will.

Ms Gravett also has a board book of her classic DOGS DUE, Macmillan rrp £5.99 that almost makes me revise my opinion of those frightful wastes of hoover bags. And coming soon, a new board book edition of the classic new baby primer, THERE’S A HOUSE INSIDE MY MUMMY, Orchard rrp £5.99. Illustrated by Vanessa Cabban - it amazes me, that the creator of crass Purple Ronnie greetings card phenomenon can be responsible for such brilliant kids’ books.

THE 10 BEST GAMES IN THE WORLD by Angels Navarro Thames & Hudson rrp £14.95. A nifty concept, nicely done.

Your move.

SAVING DAISY by Phil Earle - Puffin rrp £6.99. By the locally based author of the highly acclaimed Being Billy, for the older reader, our Daisy is in real trouble, stuck in the mud of despair and self-blame. Don’t go expecting an easy ride here but ultimately the reward is redemption plus that good ole light at the end of the tunnel. You might think that as a friend of the bookshop, we are bound to say nice things about Phil. Nope.

But his novel , on the otherhand, is fantastic!

WILDWOOD by Colin Meloy , illustrated by Carson Ellis Canongate rrp £11.99. If our industry cared less about giving so much of their profit to firms who don’t give a tinker’s cuss about quality while those who do get the narrowest margins (don’t get me started), ALL children’s fiction would look like this. Fashioned out of love as well as creativity, it tells how Prue’s little brother is stolen by a bunch of crows - tsk, tsk and taken off to a place of wilderness inhabited by mystics and maniacs (sounds just like the shop on a Saturday afternoon) and she and her chum Curtis must squeeze out every ounce of ingenuity (like us on a Saturday too) to extricate meaning from the mess and save Mac and the forest.

ARE YOU TIRED AND WIRED? by Marcelle Pick - Hay House rrp £12.99. Me? I should say. And irritable, depressed, forgetful.. The theory is that we are dealing with an epidemic of adrenal dysfunction. Personally, I reckon that pile of washing has a lot do with it. That and First Born’s intention to go to university. Pick proposes a whole raft of health changes to tackle the problem of exhaustion. I, on the otherhand, suggest giving up all hope of stopping work. Ever. I must accept that I am going to be poor and pruney for eternity. See, I feel better already.

FRENCH CHILDREN DON’T THROW FOOD by Pamela Druckerman - Doubleday rrp £15.00. This is interesting. No, really. The premise that one’s nationality informs one’s parenting isn’t new - we all know about the Italian son who still sits on mamma’s lap at thirty-six and those laid back Scandinavians who refuse to send their offspring to be institutionalised at school before age seven - but watching from the interior as it were, Druckerman has the perfect vantage point from which to make comparisons and shudder.

Me too. At the recollection of my son’s return from a fabulous summer holiday spent with a delightful bourgeois family from Bordeaux last August and the comment from the boys’ father: “Justine, your son ‘as an ‘eart of gold but we had to ask ‘im to make zer toilette flush after all his numero deuxs..”

So, first swim of the year and I’m chatting to a customer in the changing room about the state of the book trade - an occupational hazard not unlike that of an off duty GP required to discuss aches and pains - while politely pretending I’d never before heard the suggestion we sell coffee (we have a café on both sides) and I realise too late as I straighten up that my cozzie is on back to front and my best assets are on display. It’s going well so far then..

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your health

Beating the winter blues WINTER CAN EASILY take its toll on our health. For some people, the cold weather keeps us indoors, chomping on stodgy comfort food in a sense of sluggish mental hibernation. Add a seasonal cold and the winter blues set in...

The good news is that it doesn’t have to be like that. We look at a combination of two therapies that identify problems and offer solutions.

What is kinesiology?

Kinesiology (or systemic kinesilolgy, to give it its full term), is a way of finding imbalances through muscle testing, and then offering solutions to restore optimal health. Practitioners study the whole body functions, including skeletons and soft tissues, and bring together the impact of lifestyle choices and negative emotions on our overall wellbeing.

Following a diagnosis, kinesiologists are able to help clients with suggestions and advice including nutritional supplements, relaxation techniques, lifestyle changes and more.

the difference between a remedy that came up as suitable, against those which were ‘wrong’ for me, is marked and intriguing; with one remedy my muscles felt ‘spongy’, with another remedy, the same movement was stronger.

As I see it, when my car doesn’t work, I have no idea how to fix it, but a good mechanic does.

Similarly, Amy was able to ‘read’ my body’s needs, accurately pinpoint problem areas that made sense, and advise on ways to overcome them.

At the end of the appointment, I had more insights into the causes of my winter’s slump, and

Case study

What is nutritional therapy?

Kate is a mother of two, with all the usual stresses and strains of juggling a part time office job with running a family and home - often neglecting her own needs in the process.

“Come winter, I am usually at my lowest ebb: trapped in a cycle of lazy eating habits, feeling constantly tired, gloomy and distinctly rundown.

On a friend’s recommendation, I booked myself a kinesiology appointment with Amy Stark at the Vale Practice, and received a detailed questionnaire to fill in about my diet, sleeping patterns, lifestyle and known weaknesses.

In layman’s terms, Amy described the body as a triangle where ideally, physical, emotional and chemical needs are balanced and functioning healthily.

For the muscle testing, Amy asked me to resist against gentle pressure to my arms and legs, while she placed a range of Bach flower remedies and nutritional suplements on my chest. At certain points, she massaged areas around my body and also touched acupuncture points to help restore my energy flow.

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The right balance of proteins, carbohydrates, fats, vitamins and minerals all keep our bodies healthy and energised.

Nutritional therapy is tailor-made for individual clients and results in advice and recommendations based on the most recent scientific research and clinical work. Alexandra Rock is the Vale Practice’s nutritional therapist.

Case study Kate was well aware that her diet was not as good as it could be, and that her eating habits are key contributors to her overall energy depletion.

“When I’m really busy I tend to forget to eat, or grab food on the hoof, so it was useful to sit back and have a professional take a proper look at where there’s room for improvement.

We started with another extensive lifestyle questionnaire, this time including a food diary from the previous week. The information formed the basis for two specific goals to address, aiming to give me the energy to enjoy life more.

Most of us broadly know the healthy eating ‘rules’ - that carbohydrates are useful and filling but in their refined versions don’t offer much nutritionally; that we should aim for five daily portions of fruit/ veg; limit sugar and alcohol intakes Solicitors etc; but the finer details that came up in the appointment were revealing too.

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sluggishness I feel every winter without fail is a classic sign of vitamin D deficiency, and there’s a lot of it about in the UK. And yes - porridge or wholemeal toast are good ways to start the day, but by adding protein (a spoonful of yogurt with the porridge/ an egg to the toast), the combined effects are more efficient and longer-lasting.

Ideally, a healthy diet consists of three meals and a couple of nutritious snacks. Alexandra is realistic enough to know that this isn’t always as easy as it sounds, and recommends supplements where appropriate to clients when there is a clear need.

It has definitely been useful to have an outside assessment, and while I don’t usually make new year’s resolutions, taking the tailored advice has so much to offer that it’s a no-brainer. Come March - I want a spring in my step!”

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was given a tailored mix of flower remedies to take as emotional support as and when required. To this we added a follow up appointment with the Vale’s nutritional therapist.”

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Alexandra Rock (Bsc Hons Dip ION FdSc mBANT Dip Mktg) is a Nutritional Therapist, member of the British Association for Applied Nutrition & Nutritional Therapy, and a mother of two healthy and vibrant children. Her treatments help clients achieve optimal health including digestion, mental health, hormone balancing, joint and bone health, fitness and muscular performance, stress management and healthy weight maintenance.

Both offer appointments at the Vale Practice at 64 Grove Vale in East Dulwich.

For more information or appointments, go to www.thevalepractive.co.uk, or call 020 8299 9789.

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you and your baby

Babies on a budget money-saving tips for new parents

By Dr Lin Day, founder of www.babysensory.com EXPECTANT PARENTS CAN spend thousands of pounds on baby clothes, toys and other essentials before the birth. However, as many experienced parents will know, most items can be obtained at little or no expense and without depriving babies of anything that they really need. In fact, a new baby needs relatively little, except clothes, love, warmth and food.

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Don’t buy a bigger car. All you need is a back seat for your baby Aim to breast feed your baby. This is not only good for your baby, but it also saves money on formula milk and other sterilising gear Before buying baby clothes, toys and other items, invite your friends around for a baby shower. Keep the tags and receipts so that you can exchange unwanted gifts for things that you want or need Borrow the cot, pram, baby bath and other essential items from friends who have had babies. Most will be more than willing to free up space in their homes. There is no need to buy a cot or high chair until your baby needs them Search out classified advertisements, car boot and NCT sales, charity shops and eBay.co.uk for toys, cots, prams and other large items.

Most are in pristine condition and will cost a fraction of their original price Buy second-hand baby clothes. Because babies grow out of them so quickly, they are usually in mint condition Invest in reusable nappies. They are better for the environment and washing them in a machine is easy. If you decide not to use cloth nappies, ask experienced parents to recommend an inexpensive brand. Buying them in bulk can save money and you may gain a few extras free There is no need to spend money on decorating your baby’s nursery. Within the next year or so, you will be redecorating it again. If you don’t want to miss out on the fun, choose a neutral colour and put up some bright pictures to visually stimulate your baby Cut and hem bed sheets for cot and pram bedding. As a general guide, a cot is half the size of a single bed and a pram is about a quarter the size

10. Avoid buying things that you don’t need straight away. You could end up with items that you never use. Once your baby has arrived, you will probably find that friends and family have bought most of the things that you need anyway 11. Look out for special offers, competitions and coupons online. There are plenty of sites that offer free baby things 12. Avoid spending money on expensive baby toys. Safe household objects such as plastic measuring cups and spoons or a plastic spatula will provide just as much interest 13. Draw black outlines of faces on white paper and laminate family photographs. After the birth, they will keep your baby stimulated, happy and entertained 14. Use a dressing table as a changing area for your new baby. A soft blanket will serve as a changing pad and rubber underlay will keep it in place 15. Make your own sling or baby pouch. There are plenty of sewing instructions that can be downloaded from the internet 16. There is no need to buy a baby bouncer or support seat. Your newborn baby will gain more benefit from lying face down on a soft blanket or quilt during supervised waking hours. Toys can be sewn along the sides for extra interest 17. Make full use of the library for music and books and free story time for babies 18. Share your favourite music with your baby before and after the birth. It is well known that newborn babies are soothed by the sounds that they heard in utero 19. To keep your baby clean, all that you need is a good supply of cottonwool and warm water.

A large bowl or sink will be ideal for bathing your baby

20. If you decide to co-sleep with your baby, this will reduce the need to buy a crib or cot. However, you may want to consider having a Moses basket on hand for the first few months.

About Baby Sensory Baby Sensory provides baby development classes designed specifically for babies from birth to 13 months.

The programmes have been developed in the UK by Dr. Lin Day (PhD Dip. Ed. BSc. PGCE. M. Phil), who has worked with babies and young children throughout her career. All activities are excellent for developing physical, social and emotional, and language skills, co-ordination, awareness of the world, a love of music and the concentration needed for further development. The programme is also suitable for babies with physical or learning impairments.

Currently one in 55 babies born in the UK attends Baby Sensory classes. Find out more at www.babysensory.com.

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HALF TERM AND HOLIDAY WORKSHOPS For safe, supervised children’s workshops and activities, go to www.familiesse.co.uk and ‘What’s On’ for our listings

Diary Dates for Grownups TWIN TALKS 14 January, St FAITH’S CHURCH, Red Post Hill SE24 A free workshop for parents expecting twins or more, organised by the Dulwich & District Twins Club. Hear first hand from local parents on how they manage birth, feeding and the first three months of caring for newborn multiples. A creche will be available. 10.15am-12.30pm.

For more information, email catherine.selwyn@gmail.com or call 07887 601 246.

PILATES TASTER CLASSES 16 January, LABAN PILATES STUDIO, Creekside SE8 3DZ, 020 8469 9482, www.trinitylaban.ac.uk/laban Laban Pilates studio is one of the largest, fully equipped Pilates studios in the UK, staffed by highly qualified and experienced teachers.

The two free classes run from 2-3pm for postnatal matwork, and 3-4pm for antenatal matwork. Attendees are welcome to bring babies along to the class if needed (although no childcare is provided).

STEP-PARENT SUPPORT SESSIONS From 18 January in GREENWICH, 020 8761 1633, www.bestepwise.co.uk Discussion based groups hosted by two experienced and trained step-family professionals. Each session is themed around one of the major step-parenting topics and strategies, where members share and learn. The two-hour sessions run for eight weeks, with morning or evening sessions available. £20 per session.

WHEN YOUR PARTNER HAS KIDS 27 January, 24 Stephenson Way, London NW1 2DP, CENTRAL LONDON Venue, 020 8761 1633, www.bestepwise.co.uk A workshop run by two experienced and trained step-family professionals. Discover new ways of looking at your step-family situation; learn proven strategies to help the family move forward, and find ways to solve your specific problems. 9.15am-4.30pm, £100.

SUMMER CAMP & TEEN TRAVEL FAIR 5 February, HALL SCHOOL, 23 Crossfield Road, Belsize Park NW3 4NU, www.campexperts.com A free travel fair with information and exhibitors for parents looking for interesting ideas for their children to improve their language or sports skills, or explore global travel to experience community services abroad.

Find out about enrichment courses plus pre-college programmes, SAT tuition, US and UK university experiences plus USA College tours.

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CHARITY YOGATHON 26 February, YOGA POINT, 122 Dalberg Road, Brixton SW2 3TP, 07866 801177, www.yogawithchris.co.uk Join the first ever Brixton yogathon. The challenge is to perform 108 sun salutations, raising money to support yoga and meditation in prisons.

10am-1pm. Before the event, participants will receive everything they need: a training programme to help build up practice during January and February, sponsor forms, and on the day different teachers leading rounds of 12 sun salutations at a time.

WORKING MUMS LIVE 27 March, BUSINESS DESIGN CENTRE, 52 Upper Street, Islington N1, 020 8432 6094, www.workingmumslive.co.uk/london A free exhibition where you can meet employers face to face, pick up expert advice on retraining, working for yourself, and brush up your CV and interview skills. There will be seminars on a range of subjects and up to date information on childcare options and business funding.

Exhibitors include large employers, banks and colleges. The event is free and there are creche facilities if you pre-book. 9am-4pm, register first online and book your seminar places.

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Events & Exhibitions MUSEUM OF LONDON DOCKLANDS MUSEUM OF LONDON DOCKLANDS, West India Quay E14, 020 7001 9844, www.museumoflondon.org.uk/docklands Open daily 10am-6pm, admission free. Regular programmes of weekend and holiday events and workshops help visitors find out more about London’s history, covering events such as the Great Plague, Londoners’ jobs and occupations, and Roman life.

CHINESE DRAGON MASK, 21 January. Celebrate the Chinese New Year and discover the legends behind the Chinese dragon. Create your own mask to wear during the museum’s adaptation of the famous Chinese Dragon Dance. 12.30 and 2.30pm starts.

ADVENTURES IN OLD LONDON DOCKS, 21 January. An interactive storytelling session about Chinese and Turkish traders in Docklands.

Visitors will take part in a blindfolded tea test. 1 and 3pm starts.

CHINESE WATERCOLOUR PAINTING. Create watercolour masterpieces to celebrate the Chinese New Year.

DRAGON TALES, 22 January. Not all dragons breathe fire; not all dragons eat people, but some do! Listen to stories of these mythical, magical creatures. 12.30, 2.30 and 3.30pm starts.

LONDON FOREVER, 28 January. London is forever - from the Romans to the Olympics. Celebrate the capital as a centre of global trade, industry, the arts and sport. Help create an animation that reflects our melting pot of cultures and traditions. Draw, cut, stick, take photographs and add things to the museum’s animated film. 12.30 and 2.30pm starts.

VICTORIAN OPTICAL ILLUSIONS, 18 February. Be amazed by spectacular illusions as performed in Victorian times, and learn some magic tricks. 12.30-1.30pn and 2.30-3.30pm.

POP UP DICKENSIAN DOCKLANDS, 25 February. Use the simple paper techniques of folding, cutting and collage to make a clever pop-up picture of Victorian Docklands. Ages 5+, 12.30 and 2.30pm starts.

MUSEUM OF LONDON EVENTS MUSEUM OF LONDON, London Wall EC2Y 5HN, 020 7001 9844, www.museumoflondon.org.uk Open daily 10am-6pm, admission free. Regular programmes of weekend and holiday events and workshops help visitors find out more about London’s history, covering events such as the Great Plague, Londoners’ jobs and occupations, and Roman life.

MEET A ROMAN SERVANT, 29 January. What would London have been like 2000 years ago? Meet Martia Martina, a servant for a wealthy merchant and hear her stories about stuffed dormice and the exotic goods arriving from all over the Empire, 1, 2 and 3pm starts.

VICTORIAN PLAYGROUND, 15 February. Play the games that amused Victorian children, and be wowed by optical illusions that great magicians used a hundred years ago. 10.30-11.30am and 2-3pm.

LITTLE MOLES, termtime Wednesdays. Weekly hands-on creative sessions for 1 to 5 year-olds and their carers. 3.30-4.30pm, free but book first.

UNDER 5s STORYTIME, last Tuesday of the month. Stories, music and interactive fun for under 5s and their carers. 3-3.30pm.

NATIONAL MARITIME MUSEUM EVENTS NATIONAL MARITIME MUSEUM, Queen’s House and Royal Observatory, Romney Road, Greenwich SE10, 020 8858 4422, www.nmm.ac.uk.

The museum’s new Sammy Ofer Wing allows the museum to completely change the way it presents its galleries, exhibitions and events. A new, purpose designed exhibition gallery will host a full programme of temporary shows, while the Voyagers gallery introduces the story of Britain and the sea. The Children’s Gallery provides younger visitors with an immersive experience to help them understand what life was like on board ship in the age of sail, covering the ages of discovery, pirates, exploration and trade.

Rest your sealegs with break in the rooftop restaurant and cafe, taking in the views over Greenwich Park, along with a state-of-the-art library.

Museum open 10am-5pm daily. General admission is free; some buildings have an admission fee.

SPACE EXPLORERS, 28 January. A drop in family workshop offering something new to take away to help you learn more about astronomy including star charts, planet finders and much more. Ages 3+, free.

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EVENING WITH THE STARS, 1,3,4, 15, 17 & 18 February. The popular after-dark experience at the Royal Observatory Greenwich including a show in London’s only public planetarium, the chance to look through the gigantic 28-inch telescope at what the night sky has to offer, plus spend some time on the Prime Meridian with a hot drink, an amazing view and astronomers on hand to answer all your space-related questions. Ages 7+, tickets £16 singles, £54 families.

THE SECRET LIFE OF STARS. A spectacular show, narrated by Patrick Stewart, explores the fascinating life history of the stars, from the smallest red dwarf to the largest blue giant. Using state-of-the-art digital simulation, it charts the life of a star from birth to death and beyond, and looks at what impact this has on the universe around us. Ages 5+, tickets £4.50 chidden, £6.50 adults, £17.50 families.

SPACE SAFARI, weekends and holiday weekdays. Join teddy bear Ted for live music and rhyme as he journeys throughout the solar system looking for the Great Bear in the sky in a show designed especially for younger children and presented by a Royal Observatory Greenwich astronomer. Tickets £4.50 children, £6.50 adults, £17.50 families.

HIGH ARCTIC, until January 2012. An exciting exhibition which conveys the scale, splendour and fragility of our unique Arctic environment through an immersive installation which encourages us to question our relationship with the world around us.

EXPLORE SATURDAYS. Meet a character from the past and take part in an exciting performance that brings maritime history to life. Suitable for ages 6+. Noon, 1, 2 and 3pm start, free.

DISCOVER SUNDAYS. Be inspired by the museum’s galleries and take part in free design, craft, illustration and music workshops designed for families. Suitable for all ages. 11.30am-1.30pm and 2-5pm, free.

PLAY TUESDAYS. Young children can have fun with their families as they explore the museum through making, music, dance and drama.

10.30 and 11.30am, 1 and 2pm, suitable for under 5s; collect a ticket from the admissions desk.

CHINESE NEW YEAR 29 January, various venues in CENTRAL LONDON Chinese New Year is a huge festival among Chinese communities in London and across the world. Based on the lunar and solar calendars, the actual date of Chinese New Year varies, but always falls between late January and mid February. The Year of the Dragon falls on 23 January 2012 London’s main celebrations will be held on 29 January. The action kicks off when the new year parade winds its way around Chinatown and the West End, before heading to Trafalgar Square where the main stage will come to life with dance, acrobatics and live music. Shaftesbury Avenue will boast another live stage which will showcase the cultural talents of local community groups and schools. Visitors can also get up close and personal with the lion dancers that will be touring the streets of Chinatown. The entire area will be decked out with special decorations and market stalls, so don’t miss out on most spectacular event of the Chinese calendar.

FAMILY EVENTS AT THE HORNIMAN HORNIMAN MUSEUM and gardens, 100 London Road, Forest Hill SE23, 020 8699 1872, www.horniman.ac.uk Museum open 10.30am-5.30pm daily, general admission free, charges apply for special exhibitions and the aquarium. The museum’s music gallery and hands-on base, regular weekend and holiday drop-ins and workshops allow family visitors to explore the collection through arts and crafts, music, stories and hands-on sessions. All this within 16 acres of beautiful green space.

CROSSING BORDERS, 28 January. A day devoted to the talents and achievements of refugees and asylum seekers. Celebrate the city’s diversity through performances, museum objects and craft activities.

11am-4pm, free.

POP-UP STORYTELLING, 29 January - 4 February. Celebrate National Storytelling Week at the Horniman with stories from all over the world.

Enjoy quiet reading time in a pop-up library, and listen to museum storytellers. 4-5pm each day, free.

TOUR WITH MR HORNIMAN, 13 February. Mr Horniman steps out of his time machine in his top hat and tails to give visitors a special tour of his museum. He has some fantastic stories to tell and loves an audience. All ages, 11.30am, 1.15pm and 4pm starts, free drop-in.

VALENTINE TIME, 13+14 February. It’s Valentine’s so tell the Horniman what you love about the museum. Visitors are invited to make a model of

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their favourite exhibit to contribute to a temporary art piece. 10.30am-4pm, all welcome, free drop-in.

MISS HORNIMAN’S FAVOURITE THINGS, 14 February. Join Mr Horniman’s daughter Annie on a journey to discover her favourite objects and the stories behind them. 11.30am, 1.15 and 3pm starts, free drop-in.

EGYPTIAN MUMMY MASKS, 15-17 February. Make a striking mask inspired by the museum’s ancient mummies.

11am-3pm, free drop-in, ages 3+.

NATURE TRAIL DISCOVER, 15 February. Discover the oldest Nature Trail in London, tracking wildlife, pondlife and log pile habitats. Free, ages 3+.

MUMMERS, MAYPOLES AND MILKMAIDS. Until 9 September. An exhibition of over 50 photographs depicting regional rituals from all over England. Costumed processions, symbolic dramatisations, traditional dances and fire ceremonies mark the changing seasons and celebrate nature’s bounty. Many of these customs claim an ancient origin such as traditions like Jack-in-the-Green, or have a pagan heritage like the Celtic festival of Beltane, and are kept alive today by local communities. Award-winning photographer Sara Hannant’s vibrant images offer a captivating and surprising glimpse of contemporary ‘Merrie England’. Free.

IMAGINE CHILDREN’S FESTIVAL 11-26 February, SOUTHBANK SE1, 0844 847 9910, www.southbankcentre.co.uk When Dennis the Menace and his mates from Beanotown come to London to star in the world premiere of ‘The Trial of Dennis the Menace’, they will find Southbank Centre run by children and teeming with a host of dragons, ninja pirates and characters as wild and colourful as they are, many of them brought to life by the writers who created them.

Imagine offer more than 50 ticketed and free events over two weeks, including concerts, plays, comedy and appearances by many of the UK’s finest children’s authors. Highlights include staged performances and demonstrations, readings and storytelling, world premier productions, opera for babies, comedy, and the chance to meet favourite authors. Children can explore the Southbank Centre site with new friend Beastie and with choreographer Lea Anderson on her ‘Tall Tales’ tour.

LOLLIBOP’S MINI DISCO 12 February, MINISTRY OF SOUND, 020 8365 9695, www.lollibopfestival.co.uk LolliBop’s Mini Disco is guaranteed to 3 -10year-olds entertained. Special guest appearances from Scooby Doo and award winning children’s entertainer, Allin Kempthorne will delight little ones, whilst Beat Boxing workshops will give older children new skills to show off when they get back to school. In true Ministry of Sound fashion, they’ll be plenty of dancing too when TV favourites Dick and Dom take to the decks. Other activities include hula hoop workshops, storytelling. bubble shows and dance games. 12noon-5pm, tickets £10, book first.

TRANSPORT MUSEUM EVENTS LONDON TRANSPORT MUSEUM, 39 Wellington Street, Covent Garden WC2E 7BB, 020 7379 6344, www.ltmuseum.co.uk Museum open 10am-6pm Mondays to Thursdays and weekends, from 11am Fridays. Admission free for under 16s, £13.50 adults. Tickets are valid for 12 months’ unlimited admission.

JUNIOR ART CURATORS’ WEEK, 13-17 February. Families are invited to curate their own mini poster parade and design and make frames for their favourite pictures from the museum’s world famous poster collection.

V&A MUSEUM OF CHILDHOOD Museum of Childhood, Cambridge Heath Road, Bethnal Green E2 9PA, 020 8983 5200, www.museumofchildhood.org.uk This gem of a museum is fascinating for families with young children. The collection includes dolls, dolls’ houses, puppets, teddy bears, games, childcare, clothing, furniture and art and photography.

Everyday drop-in activities include storytelling, arts and crafts, and trails. There’s dressing-up, role play and an under 3’s area, an indoor sandpit, and regular special events. If it’s sunny there’s an outdoor space to enjoy a picnic. Open 10am-5.45pm daily, admission free.

CLARA BUTTON AND THE MAGICAL HAT DAY, 28 January. Clara Button loves hats and when her older brother Ollie breaks her favourite, Mum takes them on a special ‘hat day out’ to the V&A. Enjoy a reading of Professor Amy de la Haye’s charming children’s story. Drop-in from mid-day. From 1.pm, little visitors can join in an illustration workshop and design their own hat. Ages 5+, book first.

FAIRYTALE FRIENDS, 13-17 February. A week of activities including a retelling of Rumpelstiltskin, craft workshops, dressing up and a trail to find fairytale fiends hiding in the museum.

THE STUFF OF NIGHTMARES, until 26 February 2012. When re-told to children, fairy tales often assume an air of innocence. Good always triumphs over evil, heroes are selfless and love is everlasting. Some fairy tales however, explore the darker side of a child’s imaginary landscape. The Stuff of Nightmares takes a closer look at the playthings of innocents, and features an installation made by local schoolchildren, alongside work by Katherine Tulloh, Ruhe Weinbergh, Daniel Bell and Sharon Brindle.

MAGIC WORLDS, until 4 March 2012. Delve into the captivating world of fantasy. Visitors can immerse themselves in the imaginary and fantastical realms of witches, fairies, elves, dragons, magicians and illusionists. On display will be costumes, tricks, paintings, ceramics, beautifully illustrated books and posters, games, optical toys and dramatic puppets.

BANK OF ENGLAND MUSEUM FUN BANK OF ENGLAND MUSEUM, Threadneedle Street, London EC2R, 020 7601 5545, www.bankofengland.co.uk/museum Discover the story of the Bank of England from its foundation in 1694 to its role today as the UK’s central bank.

Examine intricately-designed banknotes, feel the weight of a genuine gold bar and see the pikes and muskets that were once used to defend the Bank. Children’s activity sheets provide fun for younger visitors. Open 10am-5pm Mondays to Fridays, admission free.

SECURE BY DESIGN, until 23 March. An exhibition to mark the introduction of the new £50 note. Use a powerful microscope camera to examine the intricate design details and security features, including the new motion thread, holograms and fluorescent inks. Children who correctly answer three questions about the new note will reveal a code to open a safe containing a prize.

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Riverbank Tales A costumed storyteller will read tales from ‘The Wind in the Willows’

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With special events and displays throughout the year, the Bank of England Museum is a great day out.

Admission free 10am – 5pm Monday to Friday. Closed weekends and public holidays. Entrance in Bartholomew Lane, London EC2R 8AH. Tel: 020 7601 5545 www.bankofengland.co.uk/museum

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CHURCHILL WAR ROOMS CHURCHILL WAR ROOMS, Clive Steps, King Charles Street SW1A, www.iwm.org.uk The Churchill War Rooms were originally the Cabinet War Rooms, created in 1938 as underground storage areas for the Office of Works Building in Whitehall. They were soon converted to house the central core of government and to become a temporary military information centre serving the Prime Minister and the Chiefs of Staff of the air, naval and land forces. Visitors can hear the first-hand personal accounts of those who worked in the Cabinet War Rooms during the war. Learn what life and conditions were like underground and experiencing the authenticity and emotional resonance of walking through the corridors where Churchill made history. Open 9.30am-6pm, admission free for under 16s, £15.95 adults.

BRITONS AT WAR 1938, 14+15 January and 18+19 February. In this informal session visitors are encouraged to consider the fear felt by Britons before war even broke out. While many of us know about the evacuation of children from major towns and cities, there were also plans to move the Civil Service to safety. This engaging session explores the motivations and preparations involved. As well as discussing the topic with experts, visitors will have the change to examine genuine objects relating to the topic. Entry included in general admission price.

11am-12.30pm and 2-4pm, suitable for all ages with parental supervision.

SCIENCE MUSEUM HIGHLIGHTS SCIENCE MUSEUM, Exhibition Road SW7 2DD, 0870 870 4868, www.sciencemuseum.org.uk Aiming to be the best place in the world for people to enjoy science, the Science Museum makes sense of the science that shapes our lives, sparking curiosity, releasing creativity and changing the future by engaging people of all generations and backgrounds in science, engineering, medicine, technology, design and enterprise. Open daily 10am-6pm.

LAUNCHPAD SCIENCE SHOWS. The largest free interactive science gallery in the UK is packed with exhibits which allow visitors to launch a rocket, turn their head into a sound box and control a magnetic cloud.

Ages 8-14, free.

WHO AM I? Find out what makes you special through interactive activities which use the latest in brain science and genetics. Free.

NATURAL HISTORY MUSEUM NATURAL HISTORY MUSEUM, Cromwell Road SW7 5BD, 020 7942 5000, www.nhm.ac.uk Dinosaurs, volcanoes, precious gems and creepy crawlies - discover the diversity of the natural world through the nation’s finest collection of natural history specimens. Fascinating exhibitions display up to 70 million plants, animals, fossils, rocks and minerals, with a hands-on education centre where you can meet real scientists at work. Museum open 10am-5.50pm, admission free.

SCOTT’S LAST EXHIBITION, 20 January - 2 September. Explore Robert Falcon Scott’s epic Terra Nova expedition to Antarctica. This exhibition goes beyond the well-documented journey to the South Pole and the death of the Polar Party, revealing powerful tales of endurance and celebrating the many scientific achievements.

BATTERSEA PARK CHILDREN’S ZOO BATTERSEA PARK, Chelsea Bridge Gate, London SW11, 020 7924 5826, www.batterseaparkzoo.co.uk Open 10am-4.30pm. Admission £6.50 children, £7.95 adults, £26 families.

STORYTIME WEDNESDAYS, Join the zoo staff for a story and colouring in fun. From 11am.

LOVE HEART HUNT, 11-14 February. Look our for love hearts as you tour the zoo, count them up and post your answer in the shop to be entered into a prize draw to win a family day ticket.

MAKE A VALENTINE’S CARD, 14 February. Drop in craft workshops for children from 11am and 2pm.

BIRD BONANZA DAY, 16 February. Battersea Zoo have combined with

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The People’s Trust for Endangered Species to show visitors how to help birds and other wildlife in your garden this winter. Some events are pre-bookable on www.ptes.org/events.

WWT WETLAND CENTRE WWT CENTRE, Queen Elizabeth’s Walk, Barnes SW13 9WT, 020 8409 4400, www.wwt.org.uk Open 9.30am - 5pm daily. Admission free for under 4s, £4.95 children, £8.95 adults, £25 families.

REPTILES UNDERCOVER, 11 + 12 February. Crocodiles, snakes, turtles, lizards and many more for families and children to meet up close. Find out more about these scaled-up cousins of the reptiles that live at the Wetland Centre. 10am-4pm.

Throughout HALF-TERM there will be a whole range of reptile related family activities. Follow the Discovery Trail through different types of wetlands or make your own reptile to take home. There will be snake stories and crocodile crafts and of course, everyone’s favourite: pond dipping.

GEFFRYE MUSEUM EVENTS GEFFRYE MUSEUM, Kingsland Road E2 8EA, 020 7739 9893, www.geffrye-museum.org.uk Special workshops and quizzes inspire creativity and provide amusement for accompanied 5-11 year-olds on the first Saturday of each month and during school holidays. Places allocated 30 minutes in advance of each workshop. Museum open 10am-5pm Tuesdays to Saturdays, from noon Sundays.

TOWER OF LONDON TOWER OF LONDON, EC3N 4AB, 0844 482 7777, www.hrp.org.uk/toweroflondon Tower open 9am-5.30pm Tuesdays to Saturdays, from 10am Sundays and Mondays. Admission free for under 5s, children £10.45, adults £19.80; book for less online.

FIT FOR A KING. Discover 500 years of spectacular arms and armour worn by kings and royal princes in this stunning exhibition on the first floor of the White Tower. Learn about the personalities, power and physical size of our nation’s kings, from the Tudors, and the notorious Henry VIII, to today’s royal family through the historic collection.

POWER HOUSE. Discover the stories and personalities behind the major organisations of state, who took care of royal business behind the mighty Tower walls, from 1100 to the present day. The exhibition showcases the roles of the major organisations that provided the bedrock of England’s power throughout the centuries.

ROYAL BEASTS. Find out about the Tower’s imperial Royal Menagerie.

Founded during the reign of King John in the early 1200s, it became a regular feature of the Tower for over 600 years. Visitors can encounter a diverse cast of former Tower residents through arresting modern animal sculpture by artist Kendra Haste and new interactive sensory displays.

The recently restored north wall walk and the never before opened Brick Tower will host some of the displays, including sights, sounds and smells of some of the animals.

NATIONAL ARMY MUSEUM NATIONAL ARMY MUSEUM, Royal Hospital Road SW3 4HT, 020 7881 6606, www.nam.ac.uk The history of British land forces from 1485 to the present day, with costumes, paintings, artefacts and special displays telling the stories of men and women who served in British armies across the globe. Open 10am-5.30pm daily, admission free.

DRAW YOUR WEAPONS. A colourful and dynamic exhibition exploring the history of the war comic, in partnership with leading publisher DC Thomson.

CUMING MUSEUM EVENTS CUMING MUSEUM, 151 Walworth Road SE17 1RY, 020 7525 2096, www.southwark.gov.uk/cumingmuseum The Cuming Museum is the home of the worldwide collection of the Cuming Family and the museum of Southwark’s history. It houses a diverse collection that includes archaeology, ethnography, social history

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and natural history. A mix of permanent and changing exhibitions tells the story of the Cuming family and the history of Southwark, from Roman times to the diverse communities of today. Museum open 10am-5pm Tuesdays to Saturdays, admission free.

AT HOME AT THE ELEPHANT, 14 February. Writer Sarah Butler invites visitors to share stories about the events and people that them feel at home at the Elephant. Photographer Eva Sajovic will be taking portrait photographs along the way. Suitable for families, from 2.30pm.

THIS IS HOME, 16 February. Photographer Eva Sajovic and writer Sarah Butler look at the objects and spaces we associate with home.

Suitable for families, from 2.30pm.

FAMILY CLUB, Thursdays. Explore and play with the Cuming explorers.

10am-11.15am for under 5s and their parents/ carers.

HMS BELFAST On the THAMES by Morgans Lane, Tooley Street SE1 2JH, www.iwm.org.uk. (Thames Clipper London Bridge City Pier) Discover the exciting stories of those who served HMS Belfast; exploring the nine decks where sailors once hurried up and down its ladders, or take a look at the mess desk where her 950-strong crew ate and slept.

Open 10am-6pm, admission free for under 16s, £13.50 adults.

KYE HISTORY, 21-22 January. Drop-in 11am-12.30pm & 2pm-4pm.

Listen to tales from across the waves and have a sip of warming naval hot chocolate (kye is the naval term for grated cocoa). Suitable for all ages, from 11am and 2pm. 18-26 Feb. CONSERVATION WEEK, 18-26 February. Roll up your sleeves, join the ship’s conservation team and see the very important work they do.

All materials including safety clothing will be provided. Drop-in from 11am and 2pm.

GUN TURRET EXPERIENCE. Immerse yourself in the new Gun Turret Experience, a chance to see what fighting at sea would have really been like. Overlooking the front of the ship, or Fo’c’sle, is the forward most of HMS Belfast’s Triple Gun Turrets. Lights, audio, videos and projections will recreate the experience, highlighting the hectic and cramped conditions that would have seen twenty-six men in this confined space at any one time. The guns are trained and elevated onto a target some 12.5 miles (20 kilometres) away in north-west London - the London Gateway Motorway Services Area on the M1 - a reminder of the awesome power of naval gunnery in the Second World War. Entry included in general admission price.

FLORENCE NIGHTINGALE MUSEUM FLORENCE NIGHTINGALE MUSEUM, 2 Lambeth Palace Road, South Bank, London SE1, 020 7620 0347, www.florence-nightingale.co.uk Uncover the lady behind the legend at the brand new Florence Nightingale Museum on London’s South Bank. The museum presents a vivid retelling of her story and how modern nursing began. The museum’s unparalleled collection features highlights such as Florence’s pet little owl Athena as well as her lamp and medicine chest from the Crimean War. Engaging interactive exhibits as well as regular contemporary art exhibitions enhance the experience, visitors even use stethoscopes to hear the audio tour. Admission £4.80 child, £5.80 adults, £16 families.

IMPERIAL WAR MUSEUM EVENTS IMPERIAL WAR MUSEUM, Lambeth Road, London SE1, 020 7416 5000, www.iwm.org.uk Museum open daily 10am-6pm. Admission £3.95 children, £5.95 adults, families from £12.50.

THE CHILDREN’S WAR. Look at the home front in Britain and the impact of WW2 through the eyes of the children who lived through it.

Incorporating hands-on activities for visitors of all ages, it also features the popular 1940s house and part of a post-war prefab.

CHILDREN AT THE V&A V&A MUSEUM, Cromwell Road SW7 2RL, 020 7942 2000, www.vam.ac.uk/families During any visit, families can pick up a trail from the Information Desk and explore the museum through puzzles, drawing and observation.

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hands-on exhibits containing plenty to touch and try out. Museum open 10am-5.45pm daily, admission free Saturday BACK-PACKS. Pick up a back pack and explore the museum with fantastic jigsaws, stories, puzzles and games. 10.30am-5pm.

Activities for children and families play a significant part in the new destination, enabling families to maximise their visit to Maritime Greenwich and for children to explore and understand the history of the magnificent site.

GO APE! TREETOP ADVENTURE

DISCOVER GREENWICH OLD ROYAL NAVAL COLLEGE (next to the Cutty Sark), Greenwich SE10, www.greenwichwhs.org.uk Unlock the history of Maritime Greenwich, through artefacts, artwork, film and stories of former lives to bring the past to life. A permanent exhibition takes visitors on a journey from the College’s Tudor beginnings, through its naval past, as the Royal Hospital for Seamen and Royal Navy Staff College, right up to the present day. Special objects, including personal items from Henry VIII’s palace, as well as fascinating stories from monarchs, admirals and architects help chart the historic town’s development.

From February, VARIOUS VENUES including Leeds Castle and Bedgebury in Kent and Alice Holt near Farnham in Surrey, 0845 643 92 15, www.goape.co.uk A dollop of breathtaking scenery; a smattering of tree-top wires, crossings and wind-in-your-face zip wires; finished off with a liberal dose of people in search of their inner Tarzan. Visitors are kitted out and given a safety briefing and training before heading into the forest canopy, free to swing in the trees. Admission from £15.

Theatre, Shows and Music THE GRUFFALO Until 15 January, LYRIC THEATRE, Shaftsbury Avenue, 0844 412 4661, www.gruffalolive.com The hugely popular modern classic by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler returns to the west end for a monster season. Follow the quick-thinking Mouse into the deep, dark wood in this magical and musical modern classic. Discover what happens when he comes face to face with wheelerdealer Fox, an eccentric old Owl and a maraca-shaking Snake. Songs, laughs and scary fun for children aged 3+ and their families. Tickets from £12.50.

SCIENCE MUSEUM LIVE 27+28 January, ARTS DEPOT, 5 Nether Street, Tally Ho Corner, North Finchley N12 0GA, 020 8369 5454, 14+15 March, CHURCHILL THEATRE, Bromley, 08448 717 620, www.sciencemuseum.org.uk/liveontour Inspired by the Science Museum’s hugely popular interactive galleries, this inventive family theatre show leads children and adults on an exploratory adventure into the wonderful world of science.

Spectacular science, dangerous demonstrations and extraordinary experiments burst onto the stage, featuring interactive sets, pyrotechnics and digital projections, interspersed with web cam footage from inside the Science Museum. Ages 7+, family tickets available.

MATILDA THE MUSICAL Until 12 February 2012, CAMBRIDGE THEATRE, 32 Earlham Street WC2, 0844 412 4652, www.matildaathemusical.com Roald Dahl’s much-loved classic comes alive in this brand new musical.

Tired of being teased by her couch potato parents and horrible teacher Miss Trunchball, little Matilda discovers that she has a very special gift and sets out to teach the grown-ups a lesson. Tickets from £15.

ALBANY THEATRE EVENTS ALBANY THEATRE, Douglas Quay, Deptford SE8. 020 8692 4446, www.thealbany.org.uk THE FOREST, 13-16 February. There is a place at the very heart of the forest. A place where things are not quite what they seem. People become animals, birds become music, day becomes night and leaves become light. This performance has dance, music, sound and light to excite your imagination and tickle your senses. Ages 5+, tickets £7.50 children, £9 adults, £30 families.

DISCO KIDS, 26 February and 25 March. No one puts baby in the corner.

Get your groove on at a disco dance party for the under 5s and their

mums, dads, friends and families. Featuring a live DJ, dance choreographer and chill out area in a baby boogie wonderland. Ages 0-5, 2-5pm, tickets £5.50.

NEW YORK PHILHARMONIC: YOUNG PEOPLE’S CONCERT 18 February, BARBICAN, Silk Street, London EC2Y 8DS, 0845 120 7550, www.barbican.org.uk The concert programme features Bernstein’s Overture to West Side Story; Copland’s Skyline from Music for a Great City; Bernstein’s Symphony No 2 ‘Age of Anxiety: Masque’ and Three Dance Episodes from On the Town.

Before the performance, the Barbican foyers will be transformed when the New York Philharmonic invites young people to meet the musicians, learn about their instruments and to create some music of their own. Throughout the afternoon, musicians from the New York Philharmonic and Guildhall School of Music & Drama help families to try out instruments from all sections of the orchestra, and audiences will also have the chance to join drop-in workshops to create their own performances inspired by Central Park and the iconic Empire State Building. These activities are FREE and combine the Barbican’s Come & Play initiative with the New York Philharmonic’s Kidzone Live! Programme. Concert starts 4pm, tickets £10 children, £20 adults.

UNICORN THEATRE PRODUCTIONS UNICORN THEATRE, 020 7645 0560, www.unicorntheatre.com STALIN’S FAVOURITE, 18-20 January. In 1941, the huge popularity of his poem, Wait for Me projected Konstantin Simonov into the literary stratosphere of the Soviet Union. But what price becoming Stalin’ favourite writer? Years later, now ageing and unwell, Simonov looks back on a lifetime as part of Stalin’ Soviet elite and confronts his Demons. Ages 14+, tickets £10 - £15.

SCARECROW, 17-29 January. In a furrowed field stands a lonely scarecrow. He is confused and fed up. Nobody takes any notice of him. Then something lands on a fingertip, looks and slowly walks along an arm. His field has been taken over by a family of squabbling, nibbling, bickering, noisy crows! They won’ go away. They just keep coming back! Why can’ he be left alone? The story follows their relationship over a year, from their beginnings as enemies, to their conclusion as grudging friends. Ages 5+, tickets £9 children, £11 adults.

INTO THE GRIMM FOREST, 4-26 February. A variety of performances taken from Grimm’s fairy tales, written to cater to different age groups from 5 to adult. Tickets £7 to £10.

Crawley Studios

Great Fun for Any Age Come along and enjoy the excitement of painting the item of your choice.

We provide a large selection of unpainted pottery, from egg cups and mugs to ducks and dinosaurs, as well as paints, brushes, stencils and stamps.

Children’s parties with a difference For further details please ring:

Tel/Fax: 020 8516 0002 www.crawleystudios.co.uk Open daily weekdays, weekends and evenings by appointment only 39 Wood Vale, Forest Hill, London SE23 3DS

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Art Activities FAMILY ARTS IN DULWICH DULWICH PICTURE GALLERY, Gallery Road, Dulwich Village SE21 7AD, 020 8693 5254, www.dulwichpicturegallery.org.uk Museum open 10am-5pm Tuesdays to Fridays, from 11am weekends and bank holidays. Listed activities free for families with a gallery ticket or £3 per child.

ARTPLAY, first and last Sunday of each month. Creative drop-in workshops for adults and children, with a different activity each session.

Make anything and everything from bunting to block printing and all things in between. 2-3.45pm.

RUFFING IT, 15 + 16 February. Have you ever wondered what it would be like to wear a ruff? Learn how to make a traditional ruff with a modern twist.

Make drawings from the collection, decorate your fabric and stitch it together to make a 16th century classic. 10.30am-12.30pm ages 6-8; 2.30-4.30pm ages 9-11, £18 per child.

NATIONAL PORTRAIT GALLERY NATIONAL PORTRAIT GALLERY, St Martin’s Place WC2H 0HE, 020 7306 0055, www.npg.org.uk/events Explore amazing facts and stories about people in the collection with a specially designed recorded tour and interactive touch-screen players.

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Rally round for a smashing time.

A fun filled introduction to tennis for 2-8 yr olds.

Played indoors with small rackets, sponge balls and scaled-down court.

Aids agility, co-ordination and balance.

A positive introduction to tennis with lots of fun.

Weekend and weekday sessions now available.

For further details ring Gordon on 07877391005 or e-mail gordon@tennis-4-kids.com

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We are looking for babies and children between the ages of 0 and 12 years to assist us in a range of fun activities investigating how children see.

The Child Vision Lab is based at the UCL Institute of Ophthalmology in Central London.

We will refund any travelling costs up to £20.

020 7608 6819 www.childvisionlab.org

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Suitable for ages 7+, £4 to hire two audio players, £6 for up to five.

Gallery open 10am-6pm Mondays to Sundays and weekends; to 9pm Thursdays and Fridays.

STORYTELLING SATURDAYS. Storytelling and art activities for ages 3+ at 10.30am and 1.30pm.

ART WORKSHOPS, Saturdays. Explore portraits in the collection, followed by an art activity. Ages 5+, 11.30am and 3.20pm.

MULAN, 28 January. A special film screening to celebrate Chinese New Year. 3pm.

HALF-TERM ACTIVITIES, 13 Feb-17 Feb. A different activity every day with art activities for families.

THE WALLACE COLLECTION WALLACE COLLECTION, Hertford House, Manchester Square, London W1U 3BN, 020 7563 9500, www.wallacecollection.org Families can hire a multimedia tour which includes interactive games.

Themed family trails are also available from the information desk at the front entrance. Open 10am-5pm, admission free.

EVENTS FOR FAMILIES FAMILY PUBLIC TOUR, 4 February 2.30pm. Take an exciting, creative, thrilling and interactive journey with young curators from St Vincent’s Primary School. From 2.30pm, free.

THE LITTLE DRAW, 5 February. Meet Artist Julia Iwasz and explore the connections between photography and drawing. 1.30pm-4.40pm. Free drop-in for all ages.

RIGHT ROYAL STORIES, 13 February. Hunt down royalties’ portraits and their favourite objects, and create your own royal story using drawing and words. Ages 6+, 1.30am and 2pm starts, £7 per child.

CUPID, DRAW BACK YOUR BOW, 14 February. Look for pictures and East Dulwich & Rotherhithe & sculptures of Cupid in the gallery and create and decorate a magical arrow with the power to make two people fall in love. Ages 5+ from Dulwich Park Bermondsey 10.30am and 2pm, free drop-in.

0778 613 0537 020 8979 9139 (Suzie) (Tim & Emily) VINTAGE TO VOGUE, 17 February. Design your very own clothing, props and accessories out of vintage wallpapers and then learn how to style your outfits with hair and make-up that reflects the style of the 18th century. Finally photograph these one-off masterpieces in a professional studio shoot. Ages 13+, 11am-4pm, £15 per person, book first.

A DAY IN THE 18TH CENTURY, 18 February. Enter the world of the Ancien RÈgime and celebrate 18th century French arts and entertainment.

Learn traditional dances and songs, have an 18th-century style makeover, try your hands at popular games of chance and even meet Marie-Antoinette. Families can make puppets inspired by the commmedia dell’arte and follow a digital You can choose from the full treasure hunt, while adults can attend Offering professional and talks on 18th century theatre, painting range of resolution options creative solutions for all legal and decorative arts.

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JEWISH MUSEUM EVENTS JEWISH MUSEUM, Raymond Burton House, 129-131 Albert Street, Camden Town NW1 7NB, 020 7284 7324, www.jewishmuseum.org.uk The museum houses internationally acclaimed collections where visitors can explore Jewish culture, heritage and identity within the wider context of British history. Open 10am-5pm daily, Fridays to 2pm. Admission £3.50 children, £7.50 adults, £18 families.

LITTLE BOOKNIKS, 5 February.

A fun-filled day of stories, film, music, puppetry, poetry, mystery-objectdiscovery-tour and more. Laugh your

socks off with Andy Stanton and his Mr. Gum, join author and illustrator James Mayhew to discover what he keeps in his magic suitcase, hear Vanessa Wolf’s story about the spooky Golem of Wapping, and watch vintage Maurice Sendak films. While you’re there you can check out the children’s bookfair, or book an appointment at the book clinic. 10am-4.30pm; some events need pre-booking on 020 7284 7384 or email admin@jewishmuseum.org.uk.

GENEALOGY WORKSHOP, 4 March. If you are starting to trace your family history and would like to find out more about researching your Jewish ancestors, the museum’s workshop offers a fantastic opportunity to consult standard texts, swap information and get advice from experts.

Take your family tree with you. 3.30-5.30pm, £8, book first on 020 7284 7384 or email admin@jewishmuseum.org.uk

ART AT SIR JOHN SOANE’S HOUSE SIR JOHN SOANE’S MUSEUM, 13 Lincoln’s Inn Fields WC2A 3PB, 020 7440 4263, www.soane.org Tucked away in Lincoln’s Inn Fields at the heart of London, this magical, mysterious museum encourages young visitors to explore Soane’s treasures and develop new skills with specialist guidance. Sir John Soane (1753- 1737) was an inveterate collector, filling every nook and cranny of his beautiful home with items that fascinated him. From fossils to classical fragments from Ancient Egypt, Greece and Rome and from contemporary paintings to architectural models, drawings and literature, he intended that after his death both his house and its extraordinary contents should be used to educate and inspire. Free drop-in activities run on the third Saturday of every month, with activities for all ages and families can take part together from 1.30-4.40pm.

SOMERSET HOUSE FAMILY EVENTS SOMERSET HOUSE, Strand WC2, 020 7845 4600, www.somersethouse.org.uk Free family workshops run on Saturdays from 2-3.30pm. Tickets available from 1pm from the information desk. Children aged 6-12 years must be accompanied by an adult.

THE NATIONAL GALLERY TRAFALGAR SQUARE WC2N 5DN Open daily 10am-6pm, Fridays to 9pm, admission free.

With over 2,300 paintings in the collection, there are hundreds of reasons to visit the gallery, along with free hands-on art workshops for families at weekends and during school holidays. No need to book, but places are limited and allocated on arrival up to one hour before the start.

SUNSETS AND SHIPS, 13+14 February. How can you use real colour to build up the seas and skies of your dreams? Join the workshop for 5-11 year-olds. From 11am and 2pm, STORYSCAPE, 14 February. An interactive story-telling session with quirky characters, curious sounds and fantastic places. Ages 2-5 from 10.30am.

LOVE STORIES TOUR, 14 February. Explore the gallery through stories of love. Ages 7+, from 2.30pm.

FAMILY SUNDAYS. Every week the magic carpet stops in front of a different painting with storytelling for 5-11 year-olds. Young artists can also join in with drawing events and hands-on workshops.

FAMILIES AT THE TATE TATE BRITAIN, Millbank SW1, 020 7887 8888, www.tate.org.uk/britain Open daily 10am-5.50pm, and until 10pm the first Friday of the month.

Family trails are available daily from the Information Desks and are free for 5yrs and under. Go on a journey around Tate Britain and post your discoveries into your ‘Post it’ box as you go. When you get home, open up the box and show your friends what you found. Or you could follow the ‘Join up’ trail: play the listening game, search for shapes, patterns and talking hands, and make your own sculptures.

Every weekend the free Art Trolley encourages children to imagine and create, make colourful collages, style a wonderful sculpture or perhaps make a sketchbook and fill it with great ideas.

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Something new for the new year - this month’s Mothers Mean Business features a father for the first time!

Danny Nutt is a father of two from West Dulwich. When not being a family man, he runs Nutty’s Children’s Parties.

The Business FSE: When did you launch Nutty’s Children’s Parties?

DN: In 2006.

FSE: What did you do beforehand?

DN: I was, and still am, an actor, voice-over artist and DJ. My acting work in the past was taking me to a lot of faraway places doing repertory and touring theatre as well as numerous guest TV appearances. (Danny has appeared on Holby City, EastEnders, The Bill, I’m Alan Partridge and Footballers’ Wives to name but a few - ed). Since having children, I wanted to make more time for this business, to keep me at home a bit more with my family.

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FSE: I’d imagine you have to work a lot of weekends - how do you balance parties with being with your family?

DN: Sometimes I work literally all weekend doing four children’s parties - two on a Saturday and two on a Sunday - with a DJ gig thrown in on a Friday or Saturday night. But luckily I have more flexibility in the week and get to see my children after pre-school and nursery (Freddie is four and Lola is one). I also try to have one weekend off every couple of months or so, and I really value every minute.

The Parties FSE: What sort of parties do you offer?

DN: Our trademark parties are our Adventure Parties aimed at 3-9 year-olds. A character normally has a problem and needs the children’s help to solve it (for example Pirate Dan needs help to find the Magic Sweets Treasure) and using warm up games, inspiration from drama, singing and storytelling. The adventure takes place usually with the aid of a map and a few light props and clues - the rest is pure imagination! There’s something incredibly unique about seeing 25 four year-olds pretending they’re sinking in the imaginary quicksand. We also offer Drama Workshop Parties for children ages 6-9, and a disco for the same age group.

FSE: How far in advanced do you get booked up?

DN: Usually six to eight weeks, but I recently had an enquiry for September 2012 and I often get last minute requests, so it totally depends.

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FSE: What was the inspiration for setting up Nutty’s?

DN: I was working for two different children’s party companies back in the day in between acting jobs, and lost my ties with them due to extensive theatre touring. I missed working with children and my Mum actually suggested I start up my own business.

FSE: What’s the secret to coping with large numbers of Other People’s Children?

DN: Energy, living in the moment and confidence. I also think talking to children like you would to an adult really helps get to their level. The other thing we do with all our parties is a wide range of activities and games that always keep the kids on their toes both physically and mentally before any boredom can kick in.

FSE: How easy (or difficult) was it to get started?

DN: Fairly easy at first. I only started with one character (Pirate Dan) and started emailing anyone I knew who had children to get the ball rolling. Then as the bookings started coming in, I built my own website and it just snowballed from there.

FSE: How can readers contact you?

DN: You can call me direct on 0788 405 0954, email me at danny@nuttyschildrensparties.co.uk, or visit my website www.nuttyschildrensparties.co.uk.

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FSE: Is Nutty’s just you, or are other people involved?

DN: It started off with just me but the demand has been amazingly high over the years. I now have five other actors who work regularly for me and three actresses. I also have invaluable marketing input from my wife, Bonnie (who works as a self-employed theatre marketing consultant) and my good friend Stephen Crocker (who also works in theatre marketing), who does all my design for me.

FSE: What are the benefits (and pitfalls) or working for yourself?

DN: It’s incredibly satisfying running your own business and, unlike acting, you have total control.

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IN THE DEPTHS of winter, many a family’s thoughts turn to where they will go this summer. Joanna Moorhead has lots of ideas for different budgets, both in the UK and abroad.

The Alps in August Switzerland isn’t just for skiing: in fact, the Alps can be one of the loveliest places in Europe for a summer holiday en famille. As well as beautiful weather, there’s a wealth of sporty things to do for both smaller children and teenagers.

Chilly Powder runs its Morzine chalet hotel through the summer as well as the winter, offering the same attractions (professionally-cooked food, childcare etc), where the emphasis is on comfortable living alongside a wealth of outdoor pursuits.

Morzine is an eight-hour drive from Calais, or fly to Geneva and hire a car. The chalet has 17 bedrooms and there’s even a hot tub in the garden.

Perfect for: sporty families with children in different age ranges Midsummer prices: from around £120 per adult per night, discounts for children, half-board Website: www.chillypowder.com

Affordable luxury in the sun Glamping is the way to go: prices are much more affordable than villas or hotels, and there are plenty of family-friendly sites. New on the glamping block for 2012 is an ever-widening range of top-notch accommodation.

Select Camp has a new range of ‘lodge suites’ featuring a canopy bed, free-standing oval bath, fully-equipped kitchen, shower and toilet - and a separate junior lodge tent next to the main suite.

Select Camp also has four new sites, three in Italy and one in Spain - and a brand new website to make browsing and booking a lot easier too.

Perfect for: budget-conscious, adventurous families Midsummer prices: from around £24 per person, per night Website: www.selectcamp.co.uk

Away from the crowds in Norfolk

If you love Cornwall and Devon, but are frustrated by the prices and the crowds, why not try Norfolk?

Cottage prices for midsummer are cheaper, it will take you less time to get there and it’s much easier to get to and from the beaches and other attractions because the roads are far less clogged.

For a comfortable, child-friendly cottage look on the Recommended Family Holidays website under the ‘East of England’ tab. Poppyland Cottages, for example, have a range of properties dotted around a series of beautiful villages, within easy reach of lovely Blue Flag beaches. Norfolk is also a very good option for families who love cycling, and it has great pubs for lunches and suppers out.

Everything on the website has been checked for family-friendliness.

Perfect for: families with young children wanting to get away from the crowds Midsummer prices: from around £21 per person, per night Website: www.recommendedfamilyholidays.com

Cyprus chillout Small children and overseas travel don’t always mix: but if you do go abroad, what you need is a smooth travel company to take care of your transfers and to have looked over your accommodation with a parent’s eye.

All this and more is on offer at Aztec Villas, where stairgates, toys and lots more come as standard.

Villas are well-maintained and stylishly decorated, situated in resorts that contain everything you’ll need for a perfect holiday - and if you choose a villa at Pernera, all those attractions will be within walking distance. So when you’re not chilling out by the pool you can be enjoying the camel park, the diving centre, one of the water parks or taking voyage on a pirate ship round the bay; before ambling back at sundown for drinks and dinner by your pool.

Perfect for: families with small kids in search of a no-sweat break Midsummer prices: from around £26 per person, per night Website: www.aztecvillas.co.uk

Hideaway in Robin Hood’s forest What child wouldn’t be excited to be holidaying in the centre of the wood made famous by the legendary Robin Hood? And what parent wouldn’t be happy to join them, now Forest Holidays are extending their venues to this one?

The new lodges, which open this spring, will be set in the middle of 3,300 acres of forest, and include basic cabins to de luxe ‘golden oak plus’ cabins with their own hot tub. There’s plenty to entertain all ages - Sherwood Forest has a glorious labyrinth of cycle trails, plus farm parks, arts and craft centres and play areas.

Perfect for: active families in search of a change from Center Parcs (and more of a bargain) Midsummer prices: from around £30 per person per night Website: www.forestholidays.co.uk

Camping meets boutique hotel Molly Dishwasher isn’t just an unusual name for a holiday experience - it’s an unusual experience, too.

You stay in a shepherd’s hut nestled among acres of meadows and woodland in deepest Sussex. A comfy double for you, bunk beds for the children, all squeezed into a small but beautiful space with oodles of special little touches.

Young children adore staying somewhere different, and they love pulling their parents into their adventures - which is what makes Molly Dishwasher such a hit. Breakfast is included, a BBQ and food are on hand, and there many sites to explore in the area including Drusilla’s Zoo, Battle Abbey, Hever Castle and endless beaches.

Perfect for: families with small children who want a pint-sized adventure without having to travel too far.

Midsummer prices: around £20 per person per night Website: www.mollydishwasher.com

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Pamper yourself in Devon

A whole family adventure

The word ‘barton’ means ‘a small country estate’ in Devon, so head for Libbear Barton and you can enjoy a slice of five star laid-back country high life, half an hour from the nearest beach.

Libbear Barton is a 40-acre farm with four properties: the Georgian farmhouse (sleeping up to 14) and three cottages.

Rent one if you’re holidaying with your immediate family, or rent two or even all of them if you’re bringing your extended clan or another family or families along (the maximum number of guests, if you take all the properties, is 39).

The whole place is kitted out with under-fives in mind, so you won’t need to worry about cramming the car with clobber - even buggies are provided.

You won’t need to leave the farm every day, because there’s plenty to do there an adventure playground, indoor swimming pool, woodland and meadows, a fishing lake, games room and loads and loads of play space.

For those days when you do want to venture out, north Devon is teeming with family-friendly things to do, and the beautiful beach at Bude is only 15 miles away.

Perfect for: groups of families holidaying together Midsummer prices: from £36 per person per night, based on full occupancy in July/August Website: www.libbearbarton.co.uk or call 0791 809 0081

Bluestone National Park Resort in Pembrokeshire, West Wales is helping more and more generational families spend quality time together at the allweather five star short break destination.

Set in the spectacular Pembrokeshire Coast National Park, Bluestone provides a tranquil and relaxing environment combined with adrenalin-pumping fun and activities suited to all ages and abilities.

Set in 500 acres of magnificent countryside surrounding a private Welsh village, Bluestone is a great place to get the family away together for a break or special occasion. Guests can choose from a wide variety of activities for all ages: Steep Ravine and its high ropes and tree climbing adventures, woodland walks, kayaking, bushcraft skills and much more. Then there’s the Adventure Centre with its wide range of indoor activities for the youngsters. From the Blue Lagoon water park to the relaxing Well Spa and thermal rooms, there literally is something for everyone within the family.

Perfect for: families who want to share time (but not activities) together Spring break prices: from £40 per person per night based on eight people sharing.

Website: www.bluestonewales.com or call 01834 862400 for more information.

More ideas Mark Warner and Neilsons both run all-inclusive family-friendly resorts across Europe, with watersports, children’s clubs and meals included in the price - ideal if you don’t want long flights, and there are plenty of things for everyone to do; www.markwarner.com and www.neilson.co.uk.

If you’re looking for something more exotic, Recommended Family Holidays has a choice of hotels in the Caribbean, the Indian Ocean, the Middle East and Africa, as well as Europe - all recommended by real families who’ve stayed in them; www.recommendedfamilyhotels.com.

Meanwhile, Scott Dunn, can help you craft the family holiday of a lifetime whether it’s somewhere far-flung like Thailand or Nepal you’re after, or luxury in the Med; www.scottdunn.com.

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Robert Anslow, managing director of the BPA comments: “These baby soothers and sometimes baby feeding bottles are manufactured by legitimate companies in accordance with the highest safety standards, but are then being adorned with glued-on gems and beads by third party companies. The addition of ‘bling’ makes these products unsafe as the

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decorative pieces can easily fall off and cause choking if lodged in a child’s throat.

“While it may be tempting to purchase these products, particularly as they appeal to babies and toddlers as they sparkle and look fun, there are strict safety standards which prevent labels and decorations being stuck onto dummies for very good reason. The addition of such decorations causes grave concern for the safety of the babies and young children for whom they are intended.”

Anyone caught selling ‘bling’ dummies or bottles could face fines of up to £20,000 and parents who come across such items are urged to call Consumer Direct on 0845 040506.

‘Because I said so...’

If you’ve started trotting out phrases you heard when growing up - you’re not alone.

Researchers for a Mothercare study found that mothers regularly turn to adages such as ‘Because I said so’, ‘Wait and see’ and ‘Ask your father’ to enforce their will upon their children when the need arises. Other favourites include ‘No pudding unless you finish your dinner’, ‘If someone asked you to jump off a cliff would you?’ and ‘If I’ve told you once, I’ve told you a thousand times’ .

The report revealed that two thirds of mums have caught themselves mid-sentence and realised they sound just like their mother.

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More than half of the mothers - and fathers - in the survey said they were shocked by how similar their behaviour is to their parents’ with 40 per cent saying they find it ‘funny’, admitting to using odd and old fashion sayings just to baffle their children in to doing as they’re told.

33 is a good age to be Selfishness subsides by the time we reach the age of 33, according to a recent study by Make-A-Wish Foundation UK. Researchers studied the attitudes of 2,000 adults from 20 to 60 and pinpointed that at 33 we lose the ‘all about me’ attitude and begin to consider others’ feelings more frequently.

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