Le Domaine Estate Magazine June 2025

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Missed Our Last Edition? Winter 2025

French connection

Our recent sales highlight our position as the Top Selling Agency in Le Domaine. Many of these successes were achieved before listing, showcasing the difference experience and an Exclusive Mandate makes.

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Mews Sold Day of Listing

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Mews Sold within 1 Week of Listing

Get to Know Your Estate Manager

Frances Mans shares her humble beginnings, personal life, her goals in community building and maintaining Le Domaine’s standard of living. 08

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Le Domaine Snippets

The residents of Le Domaine are always up to something! Catch up with all the latest events.

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Sip & Paint

Residents enjoyed a lovely evening filled with laughter, colour, and creativity. Be sure to check our monthly planner to join in on the fun!

Les Girls

Sally Paterson-Tolliss shares heartfelt insights from her girl club on the estate. Read on to learn the importance of love and friendship. 22

Layered Potato & Beef Mince Bake

An easy-peasy, lemon-squeezy recipe that’s a potato, beef, and extra-cheesy delight for your senses!

Important NUMBERS

100 Acutts Drive Hillcrest | 031 716 8000 www.ledom.co.za

Reception Office Hours: Monday to Friday 08:15 to 16:00

Body Corporate Trustees

Chairman: Peter Dixon

Vice Chairperson: Trish Brouwer, Jim Barrow, Margie Brown, Dave Gibbon, Lesley Heger, David Martin, Neville Rudman, Grant Weston

Key People & Contacts

Estate Manager

Frances Mans estatemanager@bcld.co.za

PA to Estate Manager

Jo La Réservée | ext 8025

emassist@bcld.co.za

Financial Manager

Lesley Clark financemanager@bcld.co.za

Finance Admin

Insurance Claims admin@bcld.co.za

Jo-Anne Hounsom | ext 8022 accounts@bcld.co.za

Maintenance Call Centre

Glenda Coetzee callcentre@bcld.co.za

All maintenance, irrigation and gardening on common property requests to be logged on | ext 8017

For any after hours maintenance emergencies dial | ext 8998

After hours means: Monday to Friday from 16:00 to 08:00, as well as weekends and public holidays

Lifestyle Co-ordinator

Lydelle Goddard | ext 8018 lifestyle@bcld.co.za

Residents Information Desk

Zietske de Villiers | ext 8000 reception@bcld.co.za

Services

Care Centre | ext 8450 wendy@ledomainecare.co.za

Laundrette | ext 8699

Lodge | ext 8450

Digital - supersonic

Marc Chapman | ext 8005 supersonic@ledom.co.za

Security Services, Excellerate & Main gate ext 8998 or 071 475 3664

Clinton Botha - clint@ledom.co.za

Health Hydro | ext 8056 thehealthhydro@gmail.com

Hairdressing Salon | ext 8054 talitha200@gmail.com

Mode de Vie - Bar and Restaurant | ext 8089 catering@ledom.co.za

Medical Emergency Assistance

Please call Security on | ext 8998 Or 071 475 3664 who will contact MEDITECH Emergency Services

Join our fun, fully guided getaways designed with seniors in mind. Travel in comfort, make new friends, and explore beautiful destinations like:

• Zululand Adventure

• Hermanus & the Western Cape

• Clarens & Cherry Picking

• Tembe Elephant Park

• Springbok Lodge & Cathedral Peak

• Victoria Falls, Zimbabwe

Editor From The

The science behind friendship and community

As we grow older, life has a way of shifting gears. Children grow up, careers wind down, and the pace of life changes. Yet one thing remains constant and perhaps becomes even more important: the value of friendship and community. In an age where digital interactions often replace face-to-face conversations, the value of genuine friendship and strong community ties has never been more vital. Beyond the warm feelings they inspire, friendships and communities are essential to our mental, emotional and even physical well-being.

or a phone call that brightens the day can be deeply nourishing. These moments remind us that we are not alone, that we are still seen, heard, and appreciated.

It’s never too late to meet someone who brings joy into your life.

• Offer your time or talents—you have more to give than you may realise.

Studies have shown that people with strong social ties tend to live longer, healthier lives. But beyond the science, there’s something deeply human about sharing a laugh with an old friend, lending a hand to a neighbour, or simply being known and valued by others.

Community doesn’t have to mean a large group or formal organisation. It can be as simple as a group of neighbours who look out for one another, a book club that meets once a month, or a local choir that gathers to sing. These connections offer a sense of belonging and purpose—something we all need, no matter our age. Being part of a community gives us opportunities to contribute. Whether it’s mentoring younger generations, volunteering, or simply offering a listening ear, our presence and wisdom matter.

Friendship in later life isn’t about quantity—it’s about quality. A heartfelt conversation over tea, a walk with a trusted companion,

In the end, it’s not the things we’ve owned or the titles we’ve held that define us, it’s the relationships we’ve built and the lives we touch. Friendship and community are not luxuries— they are lifelines. They remind us that we are not alone, that we matter, and that together, we are stronger.

So, whether you’re reconnecting with old friends or opening your heart to new ones, know this: your presence matters, and the world is better for having you in it.

How, though, do we stay connected in a changing world? Here are a few gentle ways to nurture your social world:

• Reach out to an old friend you haven’t spoken to in a while.

• Join a local group that aligns with your interests—gardening, walking, reading, or crafting.

• Be open to new friendships.

Lifestyle Co-ordinator lifestyle@bcld.co.za

Get to know your Estate Manager

Frances Mans

Tell us a bit about yourself and your estate

As the Estate Manager of Le Domaine for over 16 years, I've been fortunate to work with a loyal and dedicated team and Board of Trustees. My driving force is creating a safe and welcoming environment for our residents, rooted in the power of community and harmony with diverse personalities and cultures. I believe in embracing diversity and fostering a sense of belonging. Outside of work, I'm a proud mother to a 14-year-old daughter who keeps me young and energised. Balancing my professional responsibilities with personal life can be challenging, but it's rewarding to see the positive impact on both fronts.

Le Domaine is a stunning Lifestyle Estate designed for active over50s, offering a full and varied lifestyle. Spread across 35 hectares with 700 residential units and enclosed by a 7.5km boundary wall, the estate provides a serene and secure environment. Residents cherish the peace of mind, active and healthy lifestyle, and sense of community that Le Domaine

offers. With indigenous vegetation creating a sanctuary for wildlife and birds, the estate maintains a harmonious relationship with nature. Le Domaine's village-like atmosphere fosters fellowship and camaraderie, making it an ideal place for like-minded individuals to thrive.

How did you end up being the estate manager for Le Domaine? Prior to being “headhunted” by the Board of Trustees of the Body Corporate in 2009, I spent 23 years in hospitality, holding various management positions in South Africa, Switzerland, and Germany. A highlight of my career was working on the Queen Elizabeth II passenger liner for five years, gaining invaluable experience that serves me well in my current role.

What do you love most about your job?

I wouldn't call running an estate a job; it's a way of life. Managing Le Domaine becomes an integral part of your existence, demanding not just professional skills but also a deep personal commitment. I thoroughly enjoy every aspect of my role, from overseeing lifestyle, maintenance, gardens, finances, and security to preserving the estate's ethos and legacy. What makes this role truly fulfilling is the sense of community and the relationships I've built over the years. Seeing residents thrive in a safe, beautiful, and well-maintained environment is incredibly rewarding, as it fosters a sense of belonging and harmony.

Continuous learning and growth are also essential aspects of the role, whether it's staying updated on best practices in estate management or finding innovative

solutions to enhance our facilities. This dynamic environment ensures there's always something new to explore.

What challenges do you face as an estate manager?

One of the biggest challenges we face is balancing affordable levies for our owners with maintaining the high standards Le Domaine is known for. As the estate ages, costs inevitably rise, encompassing routine maintenance, repairs, upgrades, and improvements to keep our facilities modern, sustainable, and functional. To achieve this balance, we engage in careful planning, budgeting, and a commitment to cost-effective solutions that don't compromise on quality. Our goal is to provide a safe, beautiful, and well-maintained

environment for all residents, and we continually strive to meet this objective. Each day brings new challenges and opportunities, from collaborating with our dedicated team and Board of Trustees to engaging with residents and addressing their needs.

What makes Le Domaine special to you?

This dynamic environment keeps me motivated and passionate about my work. In essence, managing Le Domaine is a lifelong journey of dedication, growth, and community building—a vocation that brings immense joy. It's about making a positive impact on the lives of our residents and ensuring Le Domaine remains a sought-after estate for generations to come.

MARSH FIDELITY

Founded in Hillcrest in May 2020, local fiduciary company Marsh Fidelity™ is celebrating its 5th year in business. As fiduciary professionals, they aim to create an enduring difference in your life and the lives of your loved ones through the attentive and well-qualified service they provide.

The Marsh Fidelity team believes that clear and effective communication is the key to any relationship and that, when their services are required, communication is essential as it

“We’re driven by the conviction that every interaction has the potential to positively impact our clients and communities we serve in.”

gives security, support and comfort to all those involved. Their team has grown over the years and now comprises qualified professionals in deceased estate and trust administration, including Director & Fiduciary Practitioner of Southern Africa (FPSA®) Daniel Ryan Marsh, Tax Practitioner & Estates Specialist Lee-Anne Don-Wauchope, Admitted Attorney & Fiduciary Specialist Ariana Dwyer, and Office & Client Coordinator Londiwe Ngcobo.

Daniel Ryan Marsh shares, ‘Reaching this milestone would not have been possible without faith, the support

of our community as well as key stakeholders which we are so grateful for. Our team’s dedication and commitment have been instrumental in our journey. Above all, we’re driven by the conviction that every interaction has the potential to positively impact our clients and communities we serve in.’

You can contact them directly via email at info@marshfidelity. co.za, visit their website www. marshfidelity.co.za for more information or follow their journey @marshfidelity on Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn, and YouTube.

DANIEL RYAN MARSH

Le Domaine Snippets

Chess time

Snippets

A wonderful moment between girls (Chanel and Laylah van der Berg) with Granny Naomi Kotze of Village Nice. Who was teaching who?

Hard at work

Our estate manager Frances Mans and trustee Jim Barrow taking a five-minute water break during one of the very many hours of hard work to access and restore the estate after the FLASH floods in March.

Pop into the popup shops

and Sally during a fun morning of pop-up shopping at Club de Vie. Look out for the various popup shops we will have during the month at Club de Vie.

Tech talk

Richdens Superspar Hillcrest visiting the residents in Club de Vie, giving helpful assistance and advice on how to use their newly launched app.

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Sip & Paint

Residents enjoyed a lovely afternoon and early evening at our recent Sip and Paint social, where they tapped into their creativity while painting their own reusable shopping tote bags—a fun and functional keepsake to take home. The event was filled with laughter, colour, and artistic flair.

Be sure to check our monthly planner for the next Sip and Paint event—coming soon!

RTHE RETURN of the pantomaniacs

WORDS LES HEGER

ehearsals are in full swing!

I’m sure many of you may have heard of our antics and loud music from the MultiPurpose Room. New talent is being discovered within our estate. Those residents who performed before are thoroughly enjoying the ‘revival’. This year is a milestone for Le Domaine as we celebrate our 21st Anniversary. We proudly look back on our past and plan our future with positive anticipation.

There is evident excitement throughout the estate for this period of celebration as the Lifestyle team has planned many entertaining, special events. The amateur production of ‘Our Colourful History’

is included in these events and will be staged during the last week of August. Those of you who remember the ‘PANTOMANIACS’ of yesteryear will know how their annual productions were an anticipated social event enjoyed by everyone.

These old pantomimes have been shown in the Conference room recently as part of the ‘Le Domaine Amateur Theatre Revival’ project, and were very well-received as an unusual event, with much laughter and clapping emanating from the room. Residents experienced how much fun the casts had on and off stage, and how entertaining these amateur shows were, as well as the famous ‘Jerusalema’.

The New Pantomaniacs are staging a Variety Show featuring snippets of relevant occurrences from the 40s, 60s, and through to current events.

Le Domaine’s enthusiastic wannabe actors, dancers, and singers, many of whom have never before performed in public, are working very hard at the task at hand. It promises to be a lively, entertaining event with lots of laughter from the brave and talented performers amongst our residents.

We anticipate a well-supported production that will hopefully encourage like-minded enthusiasts to continue producing fun-filled amateur events in the future.

Plant Survival GUIDE

As the weather turns frosty, we explore ways to care for our green friends during the chilly months.

1. Keep Your Plants Warm - But Not Too Warm

It’s vital to protect your houseplants from the cold in winter. Solve this problem by sealing up your windows and insulating the doors of your home. If you keep plants next to outside doors or leaky windowsills during the warmer months, ensure you move them to other rooms where they won’t get shocked by the cold air.

2. Reduce Your Watering and Use Warm Water for Plants In Winter

Most houseplants go ‘dormant’ in the autumn and winter months. Less light means less growth; less growth means they need less water and fertiliser. This could also mean less feeding for your indoor plants in winter. Most houseplant owners will use a ‘once per week’ schedule for water—and we recommend you keep this up for consistency’s sake

and don’t break the rhythm. Reduce the water you provide in the 25-50% range on your weekly watering days.

3. Increase Your Home’s Humidity

Low humidity in the cold months isn’t just a problem for people—it’s a problem for plants, too. Plants enjoy humidity levels around 50-60%, so keep your humidifier running if you have one. If not, try clustering your plants together in the most humid rooms of your home (typically the bathrooms or kitchen) or placing them on a large tray or baking sheet filled with water.

4. Clean Your Plants

Sunlight is in short supply during winter. Taking full advantage of less light means that they need to be dust-free. Put your plants in the bathtub every couple of weeks, use a handheld sprayer to give the leaves a gentle shower, or use a damp towel to wipe dust and grime off the leaves. Keep the leaves clean so they can be more efficient at photosynthesis.

5. Give Them Plenty of Light

Lastly, keep your indoor plants alive by allowing more light to reach them in the fall and winter. Be extra careful as you rotate your pots to ensure each plant gets the sunlight needed. If the available natural sunlight isn’t enough, use a full-spectrum lightbulb in a standard desk lamp and shine it on your plants for at least 12-14 hours a day.

What’s on your mind?

What’s on your mind?

Is my Will setting my loved ones up for a liquidity crisis?

I’m a South African with assets overseas. What factors do I need to consider for my estate planning, and do I need more than one Will?

I’m a South African with assets overseas. What factors do I need to consider for my estate planning, and do I need more than one Will?

Owning assets abroad adds complexity, but here’s what you need to keep in mind:

Owning assets abroad adds complexity, but here’s what you need to keep in mind:

When we talk about liquidity in an estate, most people think of having enough cash to cover the executor’s fees, estate duty, and liabilities like loans. But the real threats to liquidity are often more subtle and far more damaging. Here are four frequently overlooked risks that can quietly drain your estate’s liquidity:

1. Marital Regimes

Should I Have More Than One Will?

Should I Have More Than One Will?

If you’re married out of community of property with accrual, your surviving spouse may have a legal claim against your estate equal to half the difference in the growth of your respective estates. This accrual claim must be settled before any heirs receive their inheritance, potentially forcing the sale of assets, including property or offshore investments.

If your foreign assets are limited to a small bank account, one South African Will may be enough, as many banks recognise it for worldwide assets. But if you own substantial assets or own foreign property, separate Wills can help by aligning each with local laws, which may speed things up for beneficiaries.

If your foreign assets are limited to a small bank account, one South African Will may be enough, as many banks recognise it for worldwide assets. But if you own substantial assets or own foreign property, separate Wills can help by aligning each with local laws, which may speed things up for beneficiaries.

Understanding Probate Abroad

Understanding Probate Abroad

If you’re married in community of property, generally, assets and liabilities are shared jointly. That means a bank account you leave to a child only includes your half— the other half still belongs to your surviving spouse.

Having a foreign executor familiar with local probate rules can make the process smoother, especially if you have multiple or valuable assets overseas.

Having a foreign executor familiar with local probate rules can make the process smoother, especially if you have multiple or valuable assets overseas.

Additional Costs and Fees

Additional Costs and Fees

to your eldest son, and the remainder of your estate to your spouse. It might seem balanced, but the Maintenance of Surviving Spouses Act allows your surviving spouse to claim maintenance from your estate if the inheritance is deemed insufficient to maintain their standard of living. This maintenance claim must be settled before your son may receive his inheritance of the business. This could mean that the son does not inherit as the business may need to be sold to fund the claim, or it could mean forcing the sale of assets, including property.

You need to make provisions for additional costs as other countries don’t always cap executor fees like South Africa does (3.5% plus VAT). In some places, probate fees are much higher.

You need to make provisions for additional costs as other countries don’t always cap executor fees like South Africa does (3.5% plus VAT). In some places, probate fees are much higher.

Forced Heirship, Marital Property Rules and trusts

Forced Heirship, Marital Property Rules and trusts

This claim must be settled and overrides your Will and can delay the final winding up of the estate by months, or even years, as it freezes part of the estate until the claim is settled.

Inheritance Taxes and Duties

Inheritance Taxes and Duties

off guard by this, and the executor is forced to sell assets under pressure, often at poor prices, to cover the tax. Example: A unit trust portfolio initially purchased for R500,000 that’s now valued at R6.5 million could result in a capital gains tax (CGT) liability of over R1 million.

Your foreign assets might be subject to foreign inheritance taxes on top of South African estate duties. These taxes can add up and reduce the total inheritance for beneficiaries.

4. Cash Bequests

Your foreign assets might be subject to foreign inheritance taxes on top of South African estate duties. These taxes can add up and reduce the total inheritance for beneficiaries.

Leaving fixed cash amounts like R100,000 to each grandchild may feel generous. If your estate lacks the liquidity to fund those bequests, your executor might need to sell off important assets destined for the residual heir to raise cash for the grandchildren. Cash bequests are paid before the residue is distributed, which can unintentionally shortchange your main beneficiaries.

Preventing Conflicts Between Wills

Preventing Conflicts Between Wills

Foreign assets often require a local probate process (similar to South Africa’s executorship). If this is needed, the South African estate can’t be finalised until it’s completed abroad, potentially causing delays.

Foreign assets often require a local probate process (similar to South Africa’s executorship). If this is needed, the South African estate can’t be finalised until it’s completed abroad, potentially causing delays.

2. The Maintenance of Surviving Spouses Act

Let’s say you’ve left your business

Some countries, like Italy, Portugal, and France, have “forced heirship” laws that dictate how assets are distributed, regardless of what your Will says. Additionally, marital property regimes may impact distribution, and testamentary trusts are not always recognised.

Some countries, like Italy, Portugal, and France, have “forced heirship” laws that dictate how assets are distributed, regardless of what your Will says. Additionally, marital property regimes may impact distribution, and testamentary trusts are not always recognised.

3. Capital Gains Tax (CGT)

Death triggers a deemed disposal of all your assets, meaning SARS treats them (unless you are married) as if they were sold on the day you die. That can unleash a substantial CGT bill, especially on property, shares, or offshore holdings. Many are caught

If you decide on multiple Wills, make sure each one applies only to assets in that specific country to avoid accidental revocation. This is why an experienced estate planner is invaluable—they ensure your intentions are honored without any legal conflicts across borders. Working with a specialist familiar with international laws can help lower these taxes as well as foreign probate fees through strategic planning. If you would like a ‘Health Check’ carried out on your Will at no cost, contact us.

If you decide on multiple Wills, make sure each one applies only to assets in that specific country to avoid accidental revocation. This is why an experienced estate planner is invaluable—they ensure your intentions are honored without any legal conflicts across borders. Working with a specialist familiar with international laws can help lower these taxes as well as foreign probate fees through strategic planning. If you would like a ‘Health Check’ carried out on your Will at no cost, contact us.

Liquidity isn’t just about having “some money in the bank”. It’s about understanding the legal claims, tax triggers, and distribution priorities that quietly activate after death. If your estate can’t handle these pressures, the result isn’t just inconvenience—it may erode the value and intent behind your estate planning.

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Birds

The Spotted Eagle-Owl is southern Africa’s most common owl, thriving in various habitats, including urban areas. This large grey owl, 43-50 cm tall, features prominent ear tufts and bright yellow eyes. Males and females are similar in colour and size, with juveniles resembling adults. A rare rufous form exists, with reddish-brown plumage and orange eyes. The call of the Spotted Eagle-Owls is a mellow hoot. The males usually give a double hoot, ‘hoo-hooooee’, which the female answers with a softer triple hoot, ‘hoo-hoo-hooee’. During calling, a white throat patch becomes visible. They vocalise most during the breeding season (May-August) to find partners and proclaim territories. Spotted Eagle-Owls often reuse successful nesting sites for years, sometimes decades. They are often confused with the larger Cape EagleOwl (48-54 cm), but distinguishing features include the Spotted Eagle-Owl’s smaller size and distinctive call.

PHOTO FRANK KIHN
It’s

okay to not feel okay

Loneliness is a quiet ache that often hides behind smiles and small talk. It can creep in during moments of stillness or linger even when surrounded by others. In a world more connected than ever, many still feel isolated—emotionally adrift in the noise of everyday life. But acknowledging that loneliness exists is not a weakness; it’s a powerful step toward finding a connection.

Loneliness can look like:

• Feeling hopeless, like you'll be lonely forever.

• Feeling that nobody "gets" you.

• Feeling worthless and full of selfdoubt.

• Experiencing sleep problems such as insomnia, or interrupted sleep.

• Loss of confidence.

“Did you know that there are helplines you can call in South Africa if you're feeling lonely?”

• Feeling that life is meaningless.

• Feeling that your physical and/or mental health is suffering.

• Increased desire to binge-watch TV shows or movies.

When loneliness is experienced for a long time, it's usually because you're not connecting with others on a deeper level. People were made to experience meaningful connections, so when we feel disconnected from others, it can have a negative impact on our well-being.

If you find it difficult to reach out to people, you may be reluctant to contact a helpline in South Africa, however, when you call a helpline, you'll be connected with someone who truly wants to understand

your experience and can offer you the support you need. For free and confidential support with experiences of loneliness, consider contacting a hotline in South Africa today.

LifeLine South Africa

0861 322 322

Adcock Ingram Depression and Anxiety Helpline (0800) 708 090

Suicide Crisis Line 0800 567 567

South African Depression and Anxiety Group (SADAG) (0800) 121 314

“The eternal quest of the human being is to shatter his loneliness.” - Norman Cousins.

Les Girls

A small group of Le Domaine’s widows teach us the importance of friendship and love

Sally Paterson-Tolliss, who founded LES GIRLS (Les, being the plural form of the French article Le and named after the famous 1957 movie Les Girls), in 2007, decided to start a lunch and dinner club for widows after she moved to Le Domaine following her husband’s passing. She found that while keeping herself busy Monday to Friday with the various daytime activities was easy, evenings and weekends felt long and lonely. “Our

first get-together was at my home in Normandie. We had a French theme; we all dressed up, played French music, and I cooked a French meal. This idea took off, and the girls took turns deciding on the next theme and so on. After a few years, we decided to go out to local restaurants that had sprung up, and that’s what we do today. We’ve lost a few dear members over the 18 years, but new members join us, as we like to keep the membership to 10. We support each other, stay in touch

through a WhatsApp group, and attend Classical, Jazz, and Swing evenings. Some smaller groups go on tours and weekends away; they don’t have to be alone anymore,” says Sally. She also mentioned that although she was fortunate enough to remarry in 2012, the girls let her stay on to “boss” them around! What a beautiful symbol of friendship this group is.

Some of the members had a little to say about the precious gift of

this group: “I was so pleased to be invited to join Les Girls in 2012 while I was working in Frail Care, soon after moving from Zimbabwe, as I hadn’t met many people outside of work. At the time, I was nursing Sally’s father, Mr Peter Blott, in Assisted Living, and was also working with Maureen White, who was already a member. Since joining Les Girls, I’ve had the opportunity to meet some really lovely girls who have become friends, and I look forward to our monthly get-togethers at various venues for lots of fun, laughter, and friendship.”

- Margy Wright.

“What a wonderful club to have belonged to for so many years. I so enjoyed all the banter and laughter and have made friends for life.”

- Fay Donald (92-years-old!)

“I so enjoy meeting all the members of Les Girls. They are all different, yet all the same and all my friends.” - Anne Huntley-Smith (92-yearsold!)

“I am one of the newer members to be welcomed to Les Girls, a group of friendship, support, and shared interests, a microcosm of what life at Le Domaine is all about! I look forward to being part of many new happy memories and happy times spent together with these special ‘girls’. Not to forget our monthly lunches. Good food and good company—what more could we want!” - Jean Winterton.

“Having rented here at Le Domaine and eventually bought my house in March 2022, Sally so kindly asked me to join the lunch club, and I’ve so enjoyed every moment

with a group of delightful, happy, funny, caring ladies. I feel that every get-together has been a joy and a blessing to me. When one moves into a new community, it is a privilege to become part of a new group of delightful friends, so thank you, Sally, for your care and love and for including me. This is a great group of ladies, and we’ve had lots of laughs together.”

- Christine Mair.

“For years, our son begged us to move to Le Domaine. But I was not ready to move back to SA into a retirement estate. We lived in Spain at that time, and during one of our yearly visits to SA, we finally succumbed to our son’s pleading and had a look at Le Domaine and fell in love with it. We returned to SA knowing we would settle in Le Domaine. We found a lovely house (my husband soon passed on after that), but I was not alone for very long. I soon became friends with one of the residents who introduced me to a group of girls, all widowed, all looking for company, friendship, understanding. By joining the ‘Les Girls’, I found all that and more. We have fun, we enjoy a monthly outing for lunch, and we support

and inform each other about what’s going on around us. Alone we are not!” - Ute Bartel. “I was introduced to the Les Girls group way back in 2008 when my good friend, Iona, kindly invited me as her guest to a lunch at Connie Johnson’s house. I was invited to join and have had many wonderful and memorable monthly lunches since then. Sadly, some of the original members have either moved from Le Domaine or have passed away since I joined, but have been replaced with other fun-loving ladies. We take turns arranging outings and gettogethers and always have great fun. All in all, a wonderful group of ladies who enjoy the friendship, the laughter and in sad times, the support of knowing someone has got your back. I love being part of this.” - Sue Cox.

“When my husband died, I decided to move to Le Domaine. At that stage, houses here were like ‘hens’ teeth’. I was lucky enough to find a lovely little home, and before the transfer went through, Sally invited me twice to join her Les Girls group for lunch. They were all so friendly and helpful and made my move to Le Domaine much easier. I have enjoyed the ‘Les Girls’ lunches and most of all their friendship for the last 10 years.” - Bunny.

“On my first morning at Le Domaine, I was woken by a knock at my front door. It was Sally Paterson-Tolliss who invited me to join Les Girls. What a wonderful group of friends. Fun, clever, interesting, but above all caring and supportive. I feel so privileged to be part of Les Girls, and may we all continue to enjoy each other for many years to come.” - Jan Brazier.

Val Bell lived in Le Domaine from 2008 and joined Les Girls when she was widowed in 2014. She left Le Domaine in 2017 but still comes to catch up with the “girls” once a month! “To Les Girls, my biggest heartfelt love for you all and thanks for still being part of my life.”

As Kate O’Neill once said, “Love doesn’t die with death. Love is like liquid; when it pours out, it seeps into others’ lives. Love changes form and shape. Love gets into everything. Death doesn’t conquer all; love does. Love wins every single time. Love wins by lasting through death. Love wins by loving more, loving again, loving without fear.” If you’re experiencing loneliness, why not invite a few people to join a little group, just like Sally? Not only will it fill your heart with warmth, but it could also really change someone’s life for the better, too.

LES GIRLS FOUNDER SALLY TOLLISS

Layered Potato & Beef Mince Bake

Serves 4-6

Preparation: 15 minutes

Cooking: 40 minutes

Ingredients:

• oil, for frying

• 6 large potatoes, peeled and sliced

• 500g lean beef mince

• 1 onion, chopped

• 2 cloves of garlic, crushed

• 1 x 410g can diced tomatoes

• 1 tbsp chutney

• 1 cup beef stock

• 1 x quantity cheese sauce

• grated cheese, for sprinkling (optional)

Method:

Preheat the oven to 180°C and grease a large ovenproof baking

dish. In a large pan, heat a thin layer of oil over medium heat. Fry the potato slices in batches until golden brown, then set aside. In the same pan, add another thin layer of oil and brown the mince until the meat juices evaporate. Add the onion and garlic, cooking until the onion is translucent. Stir in the tomatoes, chutney, and stock, then cook over moderate heat for 30 minutes, or until the liquid has reduced.

To assemble:

Layer a third of the potato slices in the prepared baking dish, followed

by half the mince, spreading it evenly. Next, add half the cheese sauce, spreading it evenly. Repeat the layers: potato slices, mince, and cheese sauce. Finish with a layer of the remaining potato slices and sprinkle with extra cheese, if desired. Bake for 15 minutes and serve with your choice of salad.

Sipho says, ‘Don’t confuse this lovely oven-baked dish with a modern cottage pie. The alternating layers make it more of a potato bake. It also works well if you replace the potato with sweet potato or butternut.’

WE’VE GOT GREAT NEWS!

South Africa just made a global top 3 list … And we’re here for it!

WORDS BRENT LINDEQUE (GOOD THINGS GUY)

South Africa has just been ranked one of the best places in the world for British expats … and that’s good news not only for them but also for us.

Our headlines are often filled with chaos; load shedding, politics, potholes, and people leaving. But now and then, something happens that reminds us just how special South Africa really is … and that maybe, just maybe, we don’t always see it because we’re living in it. This is one of those times. And honestly, we are here for it.

South Africa has just been named one of the top three countries for British expats to move to in 2025, and that’s not only a proud moment … it’s a powerful one. It’s a reminder that despite everything, the world still sees the beauty and magic in

our country. The list, released by British relocation experts U.K.ABROAD, highlights what we already know in our bones: this place is pure gold. From the sunshine and scenery to the lower cost of living (for someone coming with pounds) and our incredible quality of life — South Africa is drawing people in. The world sees what we sometimes forget.

With more than 5.5 million British citizens currently living outside of the UK, South Africa has quietly become one of their favourite spots to start over. And that’s not small news. The list puts us in the same league as places like Australia, New Zealand, and Canada. South Africa isn’t just another expat destination; it’s got a soul. According to the study, some of the reasons included the fact that English is widely spoken, our warm weather and the ability to

live here visa-free for up to 90 days are major drawcards. In addition to the sunshine (over 2,500 hours a year!), the affordability and our laidback lifestyle … suddenly, it makes sense why thousands of Brits are choosing to move here every year. With around 200,000 Brits already living in South Africa, this isn’t a new trend, it’s growing.

Why Is This Good News for South Africa?

When expats choose to live, work, and perhaps retire here, they’re not just sipping wine in Franschhoek or surfing in Jeffreys Bay. They’re investing. They’re creating jobs. They’re contributing to our local economy. They’re enrolling their kids in our schools, shopping in our stores, hiring local teams and sharing their love for SA with the rest of the world. And when more people see South Africa as

a great place to live? Tourism rises, international confidence increases, and local communities benefit. The more we’re seen for our potential, the more we grow. It’s also a much-needed reminder (to us South Africans) that what we have is worth celebrating. We often look at other countries and think the grass is greener. But people are moving here for the exact reasons we sometimes overlook: the lifestyle, the views, the energy, the diversity, the people.

From Penguins to Pinotage … It’s All Right Here

A retiree from Manchester now spends mornings walking along the cliffs of Hermanus, watching whales breach in the bay. A couple from London has opened a guesthouse in Stellenbosch, serving local Pinotage to guests as the sun sets in shades of blush and gold. A young family from Birmingham is raising their children in Durban North, where schooldays include learning isiZulu and afternoons are spent barefoot in the garden. This isn’t a dream. It’s already happening. From the penguins of

Boulders Beach to the cliffs of the Drakensberg and even the electric buzz of Johannesburg, South Africa offers a kind of magic that simply can’t be found anywhere else. And the world is finally starting to notice.

The financial perks are just as attractive. According to William Russell, the cost of living here is roughly 65% lower than in the UK, giving British expats the chance to stretch their pensions further, build a better life, and in doing so, contribute positively to our communities too.

We’re More Than Our Headlines

Yes, South Africa has challenges. But we also know how to make the most of every single day. We know how to dance in the rain and braai during load shedding. We know how to show up for one another and how to find joy in the chaos. And now the rest of the world is starting to see that too.

“I wake up every morning to blue skies and Table Mountain, it still feels like a dream,” said one British expat now living in Cape Town.

“Despite everything, the world still sees the beauty and magic in our country.”

We’re glad you feel that way. We do, too.

So, if you needed a sign today that South Africa still holds immense potential, this is it. When people from around the globe choose to pack up their lives and start fresh here, it says a lot about what we have and offer. It’s not just about expats choosing South Africa … It's about the world choosing us. Again. And that is a very good thing.

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DIRECTIONS: For each clue, find a corresponding word that starts and finishes with the same letter. There is one word for each letter of the alphabet except for i, j, q, u, v and z.

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Detox, De-Puff, De-Stress: The Power of Lymphatic Drainage

WORDS ANGELIQUE BARRABALL

The lymphatic system plays a crucial role in fighting off infections. Its main functions include removing waste, combating infections, and aiding in nutrient absorption. Thousands of lymph nodes are found throughout the body along lymphatic routes, particularly in areas such as the armpits, groin, neck, and knees.

Interesting facts about the lymphatic system:

• It is the body's sewerage system; it removes bacteria, viruses, and pathogens.

• Absorbs fats and fat solubles.

• It transports important vitamins from the intestines to the bloodstream.

• The lymphatic system has no pump; it relies on lymphatic drainage massage, muscle contractions, and deep breathing.

Best foods:

Leafy green vegetables, foods rich in omega-3 fatty acids, such as salmon; healthy fats found in olive oil, avocado, nuts, and seeds; antioxidant-rich foods like beetroot, cranberries, and blueberries; and foods that are high in fibre.

Worst foods:

Sugar, processed foods, saturated and trans fats, artificial sweeteners, dairy products, and caffeine.

Tips to keep the lymphatic system healthy:

• Lymphatic drainage massage: gentle massage that helps move lymph fluid towards the lymph nodes and vessels facilitating waste removal.

• Cosmetic: facial lymphatic massage, increases blood circulation and reduces puffiness in your face giving your skin a glowing boost.

• Hydration: aim for two litres of water daily and a cup of green tea.

• Deep breathing: diaphragmatic breathing creates a pumping action that helps lymph fluid through the system.

• Activities: walking, jogging, swimming and yoga.

“We need to look after our lymphatic system as it plays a crucial role in our wellbeing.”

How do you know if you need a lymphatic drainage massage?

• Bloating

• Brain fog

• Chronic sinus infections

• Fatigue

• Headache

• Puffy ankles

• Rashes

• Swollen lymph nodes

• Weight gain

Lymphatic drainage can be done even if you are on any form of medication. We need to look after our lymphatic system as it plays a crucial role in our wellbeing. Indulge in a rejuvenating lymphatic drainage massage at the Health Hydro in Club de Vie, with skilled therapist Angelique.

Ext 8056

Contact: 031 716 8056

YOU MAY NOT NEED A TRUST but

here’s when you’ll be glad you had one

For many people, Trusts feel complicated, expensive, unnecessary, and often, that’s true. If your spouse and children are financially capable and independent, you may never need more than a simple Will. But as we grow older, our financial and decision-making abilities change, and so can those of our loved ones. We’ve seen how families either benefitted from, or deeply regretted not including, a basic Trust clause in their Will. Especially for those with vulnerable spouses or heirs like minor grandchildren, a Testamentary Trust could be the most important protection you leave behind.

Have you considered these possibilities?

• Your spouse outlives you, but later struggles with memory, judgement, or managing finances, or they fall prey to financial predators.

• A beneficiary is facing business trouble or financial instability.

• One of your adult children passes away unexpectedly, leaving minor children behind.

These situations aren’t common, but they do happen. A simple clause in your Will can make all the difference.

What is a Testamentary Trust?

A Testamentary Trust is created in your Will and comes into effect only after you pass away. Instead of leaving assets directly to beneficiaries, your estate is held in trust and managed according

to your specific instructions. You appoint Trustees, typically a mix of family members and a professional, who ensure your assets are used as intended—for living costs, education, medical needs, or longterm care. This gives your family structure, support, and protection. It’s a flexible, optional safety net, not a locked-in structure unless the need arises. As an example, your Will can give your spouse or Trustees the option to use and activate it only if needed at the time of your death.

Three scenarios where it matters:

1. If your spouse becomes mentally incapacitated

Think about a scenario where your spouse becomes mentally incapacitated. Who will pay their bills or protect your spouse from financial predators? Your adult children, for example, would not be able to take over their finances using a Power of Attorney, as it becomes invalid. So, what would they do?

We’ve helped many families who deeply regretted not including a Trust. Without one, they faced costly High Court applications to appoint a curator bonis to manage their spouse’s affairs, after dementia or other decline set in. A Testamentary Trust empowers trusted people chosen by you to manage the funds for your spouse’s benefit.

2. If a beneficiary is facing financial trouble

Inheriting directly can make a beneficiary’s problems worse. If they’re in a high-risk business or debt, that money could be lost to creditors or legal claims.

A Testamentary Trust keeps the funds legally protected, shielding your legacy from outside claims.

3. If your children die before you, and grandchildren inherit

When minors inherit directly, their money goes to the Guardian’s Fund, managed by the Master of the High Court. It’s slow, rigid, and frustrating. Your family will have limited access and no control. A Trust clause in your Will ensures that your grandchildren’s inheritance is managed by people you trust, with flexibility and proper care.

What about the cost?

Yes, Trusts carry administration fees, but consider the alternative: financial predators preying on the vulnerable, court costs, delays, bad decisions, or family conflict. A Trust gives your estate professional oversight and lasting structure. You don’t need to be ultra-wealthy. If you own a home, have investments or retirement savings, and want to make sure what you leave behind is used wisely, then a Testamentary Trust could be the most practical step you take.

Conclusion

Not everyone needs a Trust, but when the above scenarios arise, the emotional and financial cost of doing nothing is often much higher than simply having a Plan B built into your Will. It’s easy to add, flexible to use, and only activates if needed. For this very reason, we perform annual reviews on your Wills.

Let us help you make sure your Will does not cause unintended consequences.

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