The comfort of being alone The comfort in being alone. At first I couldn't stand being alone, I always wanted friends. Everyone sometimes feels like they're alone at some point of time. ¨The outsider¨ everywhere you went. I was the same exact way. I've always wanted solid friends. However you'd be very surprised how amusing and safe it is to just stay to yourself and not worry about any of those things. There are a few comforts and benefits that come with being alone. For instance, you will be able make your own decisions. There will not be no one telling you what you can and can´t do. You will be able to do your best at your own pace. No one can hold you back or stop you from doing things, that's good or bad. It will give you freedom to live and learn a
Also, people can just be straight annoying. They dislike you for no reason. Whoever the person is that's annoying, can bring down your energy. It can ruin your whole day and your whole vibe, which causes you to have bad days instead of good days. That causes people to have no interest in friends, and it also causes you to feel no need to have friends. It shows you that people really just want to bring you to your lowest, and that you don't need friends, it's more comfortable with being alone. You will have a lot of time to yourself. Having time to yourself can be very good for you. It can help you better handle negative emotions and experiences. Things such as stress and burnout. It can also help you get through a family member's death. If you have all of these people around trying to cheer you up and pity you, believe it or not it's only going to make you feel sadder. Being alone helps you know when it's time to put
Tunnel vision staying focused. Now listen up, i'm not saying that you cant have friends and stay focused. Of course not, what i'm saying is that it is far more comfortable. Trying to stay focused, when you don't have a lot of people in your circle. When you're alone trying to stay focused, it's better because you're only focused on that one goal. But when it's a lot of people in your circle it's hard because now they're problems are now your problems, which causes you to lose focus on what you're focused on. In conclusion of being alone. They're are a lot of comforts that come with it. I might have not covered all of them but they are a lot So if you are a loner and you don't fi in, remember don't ever think that you have to fit in. You don't fit in for one reason you're not meant to. Be comfortable with being alone, because they're are benefits to it.
