Chastity speaker visits diocese for family event
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hastity speaker Jason Evert led a family-based event Oct. 22 at St. John Neumann Church in Farragut, where 300 youths and adults gathered for his presentations on purity, gender, and sexuality. The presentations appropriately occurred on the feast day of St. Pope John Paul II, who is known for his teachings on the Theology of the Body. Mr. Evert leads his ministry, Chastity Project, with his wife, Crystalina. Together, they present talks and create resources for teenagers, young adults, and parents in order to promote a culture of purity, chastity, and authentic love. “Jesus, tonight we pray for the gift of purity so we can be free to love, and we entrust our time together to Our Lady,” Mr. Evert said in his opening prayer.
Purified
His first presentation, “Purified,” focused on topics such as dating, purity, and pornography. Mr. Evert spoke about the pressure youth feel to get into a relationship at a young age, with the additional pressure of taking the relationship to a sexual level. Throughout the evening, Mr. Evert shared statistics and findings from a comprehensive study on sex. Recent research suggests that currently 20 percent of high school students are sexually active, and 30 percent have had sex, meaning the majority of high school students in America are virgins. “People who get married as virgins have a divorce rate that’s about 70 percent lower than those who won’t wait for marriage,” Mr. Evert said. Mr. Evert encouraged the youth to imagine their future spouse out in the world and think about the
kinds of activity they wouldn’t want them to engage in and set the same standards for themselves. “Every guy here has these temptations to lust, but then there’s a deeper desire to sacrifice and love,” he said. “What I want you girls to realize is, the guys you’re sitting next to every day in your class, all of us have been lied to about what it means to be a man. We’re supposed to learn about manhood from our dads. But girls, think about it: some of us haven’t even seen our dads since we were 3. Even if you have a great dad, you still get lied to about manhood everywhere else. … You get some of the girls, you’re the man. Everything’s about sex. Basic message is if you’re still a virgin, something’s wrong with you. And if you’re not a virgin, it’s too late for you. This is all you ever hear, and it gets old.” Mr. Evert shared that God offers love, pointing to Ephesians 5 in the Bible. “St. Paul says to men, husbands love your wives as Christ loved the Church, giving himself up for her,” Mr. Evert said, noting that Jesus entered into His passion and died for His bride, the Church, and men need to be ready to love a woman like that. “I think porn is the best way to shoot your future marriage in the head,” Mr. Evert said. “It teaches girls are things to be used.” Mr. Evert noted that the first time he saw porn was in the second grade. “We’re not looking at some naked body; you’re looking at somebody’s daughter, who was probably abused as a little girl, but we just laugh it all off and call ourselves gentlemen,” he said. “Some of the girls in porn aren’t even alive. Porn stars have a huge mortality rate, death by drug overdose, murder, suicide. You could be lust-
By Gabrielle Nolan
GABRIELLE NOLAN
Jason Evert gives talks at St. John Neumann Church in Farragut on purity, gender, and sexuality
‘He has called you to love’ Jason Evert gives a chastity talk at St. John Neumann Church on Oct. 22 to nearly 300 youth and adults. ing after a girl who’s in her grave right now. Some of the girls in porn aren’t even human beings. Maxim Magazine has paid computer companies more than $20,000 a pop to generate fake women.” Mr. Evert discussed the danger of becoming addicted to porn and then getting married and trying to be faithful to one woman. “You trash the porn now and forever, you are being faithful to your bride before you ever lay eyes
upon her,” he said. Mr. Evert also addressed that porn is not just an issue for males but also for females. “Lust is not a guy problem—it’s a human problem,” he shared. “A lot of girls start looking out of curiosity—what do I need to look like, what do I need to do, what do I need to wear, who do I need to be. Women, you were never created to be porn. You’re created to be Chastity speaker continued on page B2
Father Whitman celebrates 40 years as a priest
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ather Dan Whitman left a career in advertising more than four decades ago to pursue a vocation to the priesthood, and countless East Tennessee Catholics have been blessed by his ministry ever since. Father Whitman, now retired from active ministry and living in Knoxville, celebrated his 40th anniversary of priestly ordination on Nov. 11. To mark the occasion, he went to Mass at St. John XXIII Catholic Center on the University of Tennessee campus and to a dinner with friends afterward. “I wanted to keep it kind of quiet and laid-back,” he said. One of his former parishes did not let either the priestly milestone or his Nov. 3 birthday go by unnoticed. “Notre Dame in Greeneville surprised me with a little get-together Nov. 10. That was my last assignment before I retired,” Father Whitman said. “There were quite a few people there. They had a huge meal and cards and Masses for me for my special intentions. That was really great.” Father Whitman, except for a brief assignment at the start of his priesthood at St. Henry Parish in Nashville, has primarily served in the Knoxville and East Tennessee
area. He twice served short assignments as associate pastor at Sacred Heart in Knoxville before and after it became the cathedral parish upon the Diocese of Knoxville’s founding in 1988. Between Sacred Heart assignments, he served three years as an associate pastor at St. Mary in Oak Ridge. Father Whitman later served 10 years at St. Therese in Clinton and St. Jude in Helenwood, 13 years at Holy Trinity in Jefferson City and Good Shepherd in Newport, and five years at Notre Dame. He could not name a favorite parish but rather recalled the pastors he served under in his early days as an associate. “I was very blessed to have great pastors when I was an associate pastor,” he said. “I had Father Bob Hofstetter at my first assignment at Sacred Heart Church. I was here at Sacred Heart Church for about a year and a half. Then I went to be associate pastor at St. Mary’s in Oak Ridge with Father Bill Gahagan. Then when we became a diocese in 1988, Bishop [Anthony J.] O’Connell wanted two priests full-time at the cathedral, so I came back to Knoxville to Sacred Heart Cathedral. I was there for a little over a year and a half.” In those days, Father Mike
By Dan McWilliams
DAN MCWILLIAMS
In four decades, the convert from North Carolina has served in several East Tennessee parishes
‘Every place I’ve been . . . has just been unique and different’ Father Dan Whitman sits in the Our Lady of the Mountains Chapel at the Chancery office in Knoxville. Sweeney was serving as pastor of five churches, including St. Therese and St. Jude, along with Blessed Sacrament in Harriman, St. Ann in Lancing, and the mission that later became St. Christopher Parish in Jamestown. “Bishop O’Connell wanted to break up the mission churches, the five churches, so I got assigned to St. Therese Church in Clinton and St. Jude Church in Helenwood,” Father Whitman said. “Mike Sweeney
was doing five churches, and Bishop said that’s crazy, so I took on two and Father Mike kept the three.” Father Whitman said each of his parishes has had its own qualities that make it stand out. “Every place I’ve ever been as an associate pastor or pastor has just been unique and different, which I enjoy as a priest,” he said. Bishop James D. Niedergeses Father Whitman continued on page B3