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Pride in PRIDE Club Ruthie Saar, XI Originally, Silhouette wanted to feature an article where students that are part of the LGBTQ+ community could share their coming out stories in honor of June being Pride Month. After a few meetings with CSG’s PRIDE Club, however, we realized that not only are there many different stories and voices that make up the LGBTQ+ community at our school, but also that there are differing opinions (even about the act of coming out!) as well. In an effort to bring these voices forward, it was decided that it was finally time to hold a panel for these unique experiences to be shared. Coming out stories are a familiar narrative in pop culture today, but they differ for everyone. When Silhouette sent an email asking for coming out stories this past March, we received two varying stories. For example, Abigail Falk, XI, shared that she came out to her family by texting their group chat “Guess who’s bi…” with lots of emojis to accompany her nonchalant announcement. She recalls, “I wanted to keep it casual, and I think [my family] got that vibe from me because I’m not that serious… It was quick, but it got to the point.” She relays that when coming out to her friends, she always did it over text to avoid “scary and weirdly serious” situations. On the other hand, Zia Lamaze, XI, admits with a laugh, “I’ve never really been in the closet for, like, most of my life.” They explain that they were open to everyone about being lesbian, but had challenges when telling their parents they were also non-binary (not attached
to a gender): “When I discovered I was non-binary, it was a bit difficult to tell my parents because it’s less of how I relate to the world around me and more how I relate to myself.” Zia makes the amazing point that what mainly matters is how you think about yourself, not how others perceive you. During our panel in early May, there was a discussion about the glorification of coming out stories. Parker Hearst, XII, leader of PRIDE Club, explains that “[we need to] clear up the misconception that coming out is, like, the pinnacle of the queer community.” Since coming out stories hold different levels of importance to different people, the assumption that they are a defining moment in every queer person’s life needs to come to an end. For the past few years, PRIDE Club has participated in a demonstration called Day of Silence. The official event was on April 23rd, but CSG observed it on the 26th to avoid conflict with Scholarship Walk. By remaining silent for a whole day, this statement is meant to spread awareness about the bullying and silencing of LGBTQ+ students all over the nation. At CSG, two kinds of stickers were laid out in the Upper School Commons: one read “Participant,” and the other, “Supporter.” The participant sticker shows who is choosing to remain silent throughout the day. The supporter sticker displays that the person wearing it stands behind the cause. While PRIDE Club has organized this day in the past, this year, members of PRIDE and CSG’s queer community felt some disappointment when it took place. J Gammons, XI,
sighs, “Day of Silence was kind of disappointing this year. Only five or six [students] were actively participating, so it was disheartening to see, [but] it’s great to see that there [were] many supporters.” Parker confesses her frustrations that Scholarship Walk was scheduled on the day PRIDE originally planned to have Day of Silence, forcing the club to move their statement to the following Monday. Despite some negatives about Day of Silence this year, there were also major improvements from years past. Maya Lang, XI, describes, “Mr. Niemi started his class off with a moment of silence, and also Dr. Hattaway made a Google Doc so people could make comments about Virginia Woolf instead of actually speaking.” Kiera Rennick, XI, highlights an important remark: “One of the most common misconceptions is that if you participate in LGBTQ+ activities, then you are a queer person, and that is not true. People shouldn’t assume. With Day of Silence this year, I think a lot of people at CSG believe that if you participate in Day of Silence, you are a queer person.” PRIDE Club encourages everyone, even if you don’t identify as LGBTQ+, to participate in Day of Silence. Kiera continues, “It would make us in the queer community feel safer.” This was not even close to the end of the conversation. By the time the clock struck one for third period, we had only skimmed the surface. To support our queer CSGers in everything that they do, we can start by not only being supporters for Day of Silence, but also participants. We should have pride in our PRIDE Club!
ISSUE 4
May 2021
Featured in This Issue: - Ms. Ciccarelli Discusses Dear CSG - The Robotics Team's 20th Year - The Musicians of CSG
- The Unending Debate: Best Local Ice Cream? - Teachers' Summer Jobs in High School - Hair Care with Dr. D - Quiz: What Animal Are You Based on Your Ideal Vacation?
Atticus Basso-Schricker, XI, flaunts a rainbow flag as a cape. Photo courtesy of Atticus Basso-Schricker, XI.
Our in-person panelists put up their peace signs. From the left: Kiera Rennick, XI, J Gammons, XI, Zia Lamaze, XI, and Atticus Basso-Schricker, XI. Photo courtesy of Ruthie Saar, XI.
- VERBATIM