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welcome Without a doubt parenting is both immensely rewarding and constantly challenging. From the moment our babies enter the world, our centre of gravity shifts in ways that only a parent knows. We are privileged to experience these delightful beings unfold, surprising us with their humour and imaginative view of the world. As a mum of three boys under five, it is by far my most favourite role yet. Whether it is grounding myself in the outpour of a tantrum or blissing out in the tenderness of a juicy kiss, the magic of watching my children discover the world around them has expanded me in ways that nothing else could (and also brought me to my
knees like nothing else could). We all have the common goal of wanting to be better parents and I believe it’s true when they say it takes a village to raise a child. We are so lucky to live in Australia today, full of natural beauty, freedom and so much available at our fingertips. Through KidsLife I want to share all that there is to do, see and experience in Darwin for you and your family. A special thankyou to all of our contributors Welcome to the first issue!
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Easter facebook.com/kidslifemag 8 Meet Our Facebook Kids 14 Dreaming Big 22 Young Fashion 26 Something For Baby & Summer Threads 30 Dr Jack 34 Wild Things 36 Child Prodigy 38 Darwin Toy Library 40 Water Safety Under 5’s 41 Safe Swimming Spots 42 What We Adore 44 Food Of The Gods 45 Babywearing 46 Loving the Outdoors 48 My Little Garden 50 Keeping The Love Alive 52 Handmade Wooden Toys 53 Modern Cloth Nappies 55 It’s A Dads Life 56 Helping Your Baby To Sleep 58 Word To The Wise 59 Family Friendly Places to Eat 61 Adam Voigt 62 Mums Wardrobe 64 Time Out 68 Test Drive
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Published by Darwin Life Pty Ltd Editorial Jolene Reyes Collyer jolene@kidslifemag.com.au Advertising Shaaron Martin 0420643493 shaarondarwinlifemag.com Office details 2/48 Cavenagh Street (GPO Building) Darwin NT 0800 08 89812600 KidsLife Magazine is published monthly by Darwin Life Pty Ltd. All material within the publication remains the property of the publishers unless permission is otherwise sought in writing. Those who make advertising placement and or supply editorial content to Darwinlife magazine undertake to ensure all material does not infringe copyright, trademark, defamation, liable, slander or title. The above mentioned patrons agree to indemnify the publishers against any investigations, claims or judgements. DarwinLife P/L copyright April 2012
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Dora, Boots & BEN 10 at this years EXPO & Sponge Bob Square Pants KidsLife’s parent publication DarwinLife is hosting its second DarwinLife and Home Expo this April at the Darwin Convention Centre. Dramatically improving on last years event, the Expo in 2012, is bringing to Darwin a host of children’s entertainment including a stage show by Dora the explorer and her sidekick Boots. The all dance and sing-a-long show will be held twice a day on centre stage. As well as Dora and Boots, children can meet their second greatest TV hero BEN 10, who will appear 5 times a day for hugs and photos. Another crazy character in childrens TV land Sponge Bob Square Pants will also join in the fun on centre stage to hug and meet all his friends. Keep an eye out for all our favourite super heroes, Spiderman, Superman, Batman and Robin who are up to all sorts of mischief in the main hall. Face painting, balloon artists, stilt walkers, fairy floss are all part of the childrens entertainment. But remember this is a family EXPO and there is lots to see for Mum and Dad including fashion, motoring, home decor, building, buying or renovating experts, adventure, sports and lots more.
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If you’re a mad cook in the kitchen, try out for the NT Auditions for “My Kitchen Rules” who have come all this way to meet you, and see if you’re up for the challenge of participating in the next series on channel Seven.
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Darwin Toy Library Imagine a place where you can choose any toy you want, take it home and you don’t have to pay for it. Its a parents dream! I’m talking about the Darwin Toy Library, a novel concept set up by a lovely bunch of ladies who form a voluntary management committee. Once you complete a membership form and pay a fee (don’t forget I.D), you will have access to any toy suited for your childs development. There are wheelbarrows and walkers, music boxes and puppets, magnetic lego and tool kits, rocking horses and wooden kitchens. It is endless the options available for you to take home. Special needs children are thoughtfully catered for with a large range of play items, big and small. Best of all they have set up an outdoor play area and an undercover verandah where mums can sit and chat with a cuppa whilst your child is allowed to choose to play with one toy at a time. A kitchen is available to make drinks and a change room is available for babies. It’s worth going to check it out as they are very friendly and make you feel most welcome.
OPENING HOURS Tuesday 9:30 am - 12:30pm Wednesday 2:30 pm - 6:30 pm Thursday 9:30 am – 12:30 pm Saturday 9:30 am – 12:30 pm
FOR ENQUIRIES Telephone: (08) 8927 9077
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Coming face to face with babies and toddlers
Jacqueline from Little Garden
Isn’t it wonderful when you actually get to look a baby
cakes etc) for when they are playing later in the day.
in the eye and make them smile! As well as making us
Again, if it can give you and your child a little moment
feel really connected, it is also wonderful for babies’
to look each other in the eye and share some time
social and physical, cognitive and emotional
together, it can be very satisfying for both the parent
development (to name a few) and it really nurtures our
and the child. It also sets you up for healthy talking in
bonds together. I think it is a great habit to get into,
later years. This activity can be enjoyed as a kind of
even though it can be tricky to find the time. ‘Floor
parenting strategy for ‘tuning your child in to you’ and
time’ can also be an opportunity to do this and also
getting them to be responsive to your needs.
gives parents and carers a minute to relax with their
These kinds of ideas are discussed in Little Garden’s
babies and toddlers. Try lying down and getting eye to
Creative Parenting with Young Children course. In
eye with your littlies once a day. You can take the
partnership with Childbirth Education Association
opportunity to, blow kisses, sing a song (twinkle
Darwin, these courses are offered monthly in the
twinkle little star is a good start) and play with their
Darwin and Palmerston areas. Please phone
litlle fingers and toes. Lying on your back or your
Jacqueline on 0437060476 for more info or click ‘like’
tummy can work. Anything that gets you looking into
on Little Garden’s facebook page,
each other’s eyes.
www.facebook.com/pages/Little-
As they get older, a ten minute ‘ tea’ party can do your
Garden/178364715586595 for regular tips and
relationship, with your child, the world of good. It also
updates.
teaches them ideas (stirring their tea, making pretend
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Balancing Babies, Business and Darwin Life by Jo Virtue
Melissa is one of countless Darwin mothers who have chosen self-
Traffic rages past on McMillans Road as Melissa pulls over for the second time. Her eight month old baby, Alayna, is distraught. Glancing at the time, Melissa gives her paracetamol for the pain. She spits it out.
employment as a way to spend more time with their children. According to the Australian Government’s Families in Australia: 2008 report, people are “working in an increasingly diverse range of employment types and patterns, for example, there are more people working outside the traditional
Melissa is running ten minutes late for her first ever
‘Monday to Friday – nine to five’ pattern; and more
delivery. She has several to make, and this could
people are working flexible or reduced hours. This in
throw the whole schedule out – not a very good first
turn has had a marked effect on family life.”
impression. But Alayna is teething, and needs her
The “traditional Monday to Friday – nine to five
mother.
pattern” is a gendered career model. We picture a man
“Your priorities shift as a parent. My biggest fear is
heading to work in the morning, briefcase in hand,
that I’ll lose sight of what’s most important, and that’s
returning that afternoon to a dinner that’s already on
Alayna. It might sound strange as a new business
the table. We judge his success by his title, how much
owner to say that my top priority is not the business,
money he makes, and whether he has access to the
but it really does have to be her.”
executive washroom.
From the first moment she held Alayna, Melissa knew
This career model simply doesn’t work for many
she didn’t want to leave her. “I had to find a way not
people, particularly women with small children.
to go back to work,” she says. A friend owned a baby
Scholars are now defining women’s careers based on
store in Alice Springs, but when Melissa suggested
alternative forms of success, which take in family as
opening a branch in Palmerston, she didn’t initially
well as work factors. In a 2008 article for the Journal
see herself running it. It was only that there weren’t
of Vocational Behavior, Monique Valcour and Jamie
any others.
Ladge argue that traditional indicators of career
Six weeks later the friend phoned and invited Melissa
success – money, prestige and power – are less likely
to draw up a business plan. She created customer
to contribute to women’s feelings of achievement than
profiles, a risk analysis, action plans, marketing
a clear idea of goals and their own sense of efficacy,
strategies, financial projections and a customer
particularly when it comes to balancing work and
service charter. Baby Bump Palmerston opened in
children.
March 2012, with Melissa as co-owner and manager.
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“Your priorities shift as a parent. My biggest fear is that I’ll lose sight of what’s most important, and that’s Alayna. It might sound strange as a new business owner to say that my top priority is not the business, but it really does have to be her.
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When Phoebe
hopes to start a website dedicated to helping work at
had her
home parents turn their business dreams into reality.
daughter, Farrah,
It’s going to be called Farrah Fair.
nine months
“It’s really about helping people make choices. You
ago, she
need to be happy with what you’re doing, whether
immediately set
that’s pursuing a full-time career and having your child
her mind to
in care, dedicating yourself full-time to parenting, or
finding ways to
starting a home based business. If I can support one
work from home.
woman to make that choice, Farrah Fair will have been
Her first idea was homemade baby food, but Phoebe
a success.”
quickly found that health regulations made it impossible to run as a home based business. Undeterred, she kept looking. “If you don’t keep going from your mistakes,” she says, “you’ll never know how
Phoebe
close to success you really were.” Phoebe is an expert in time management. On one November day last year, she christened Farrah and married her husband Chris. “I bought the yellow and white flowers from Coles and Woolworths that morning,” she laughs. The next day, Phoebe noticed that Farrah had her first tooth. Farrah had been so happy, no one realised it was coming. Phoebe swears it was the Baltic amber teething necklace that kept Farrah so calm. She started an online business, Farrah Fair, aiming to share the amber products with as many parents as possible. She also started a blog with the same name. Just a few months later, Phoebe has had over 45,000 hits and has started to see profit from advertising. With the money she raises from her store and her blog, Phoebe
“It’s really about helping people make choices. You need to be happy with what you’re doing, whether that’s pursuing a full-time career and having your child in care, dedicating yourself full-time to parenting, or starting a home based business"
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Terri
Two years ago Terri was on her way to becoming
Terri’s business has grown significantly over the past
general manager of a large retailer, but she knew she
two years and she hopes to continue growing it. This
wanted more from life. “I didn’t sleep. I used to phone
year she will take on her first employee – her mother.
my answering machine every night with the tasks for
Her family has grown, too. Little Miley arrived in
the following day.”
October last year.
When her daughter, Lily, was born, Terri decided to
“Someone could offer me a good deal of money and a
start a home based business.
title and I wouldn’t go back,” says Terri. “Keeping
“I wanted to be the one to raise my kids,” she says.
children safe is more powerful than money. And when
She looked at a number of options before finally
your little one is crying because she doesn’t want to
settling on a Hire for Baby franchise, installing car
go to day care, a hundred and twenty thousand dollars
safety seats and hiring out baby products.
isn’t going to mean anything to her.”
“The hardest thing was kissing away my goal of being
Valcour and Ladge’s research confirms that income
general manager,” says Terri. She hasn’t looked back,
does play a part in women’s feelings of career
though. “Now, I sleep. I can put my kids to bed and go
success. But their findings also suggest that women
to sleep knowing I’ve made someone else’s child safe.
who work part-time or who start their careers later are
And the best thing is I can wake up with the girls
just as likely to feel successful as those whose careers
every morning”.
match the more traditional model of career success.
“ I can put my kids to bed and go to sleep knowing I’ve made someone else’s child safe. And the best thing is I can wake up with the girls every morning”.
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Across town, in a spotless Stuart Park apartment,
sex relationships are employed, but only 28 per cent
three year-old Maverick points proudly to his t-shirt.
work full-time. For mothers of children under five, the
“I’m wearing these clothes today,” he declares.
full-time employment rate is less than one in five.
It’s a designer t-shirt, but in a few months’ time he
These figures suggest that juggling work and child
might be wearing the natural bamboo clothing made
care is a real issue for many women, and more so than
by his mother, Kristy. She started her own internet
for men. Less than seven per cent of fathers work
based business BareWear eight months ago, when her
part-time or not at all.
second child, Archer, was born. Currently BareWear specialises in bamboo cloth nappies, but Kristy hopes to add handmade clothing to the range in 2012. When Maverick was born Kristy made a decision to stay at home. She left her job in sales, even though she might have gone back part-time. Initially a full-
Kristy
time mother, Kristy founded BareWear as a way of keeping herself busy, and to improve on the design of bamboo nappies available at the time. Kristy designed the nappies herself and used the internet to teach herself business management. Taking the first step was hard, but Kristy’s philosophy echoes the words of hockey player Wayne Gretzky: “you always miss one hundred per cent of shots you do not take.” Full-time mothers are becoming increasingly rare, but mothers who work full-time are also uncommon. According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics, two-thirds of mothers in opposite
“you always miss one hundred per cent of shots you do not take."
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"It’s different for the women who are self-employed. They do much of their work at night. "
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BiG Lindsay Lindsay had her son, Jett, when she was nineteen years
loan. Two years later, Lindsay is again an employee in
old. Having spent her childhood watching her own
children’s services. She has been promoted twice in six
mother, a sole parent, struggle to balance work and
months, now a program coordinator.
family life, Lindsay knew she had to find a better way.
Jett is in formal childcare three days a week, even
A childcare worker, Lindsay negotiated to go back to
though his father, who works nights, is at home during
work at a branch nearer home and to avoid working late
the day. “He loves it,” Lindsay says. “He waves
shifts. But the deal wasn’t honoured. She found she
goodbye before we’re even finished getting him ready.”
wasn’t getting rostered frequently enough to make ends
Lindsay and her partner believe the socialisation is
meet and the hours were in the late afternoon, when
good for him.
she needed to be with Jett.
For Lindsay, the most important thing is to provide for
Lindsay went into business for herself as a nanny. Jett
Jett. “I spoil him,” she admits. “For his first birthday he
could be with her at work, and she enjoyed the time
got to go to Bali. He rode an elephant. He’s never even
with him, but she was still having trouble financially. As
ridden a horse.”
a self-employed mother, she was unable to get a car
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When Lindsay is at home, all of her attention can be
“In five years’ time,” Phoebe says, “I want Farrah Fair
devoted to her family.
to be as big in the lives of work at home parents as
It’s different for the women who are self-employed. They
Google or Yahoo.”
do much of their work at night. They are not alone;
It’s ambitious, but Phoebe quotes Ellen Johnson Sirleaf:
according to the Australian Bureau of Statistics, in
“If your dreams do not scare you, they are not big
nearly 60 per cent of couples with children, one or both
enough.”
parents work some hours between 7pm and 7am.
Kristy says that starting her business has made her life
“I try to work while Farrah is sleeping,” Phoebe says.
more balanced. “Your kids are no longer your whole
“The whole point is to be with her during the day.”
entire world, so you can let more things slide. Likewise,
It’s not uncommon for Melissa to be shut in her study
your business isn’t everything so you can be a bit
working on her business, while her husband is in his
relaxed about that.”
study working on his. “You’re up until midnight working
Terri agrees: she says that dealing simultaneously with
but it doesn’t feel like work. It’s enjoyable because
drop-in clients, telephone calls, paperwork and crying
you’re
building
children has made her a more
something.
Hopefully in a year’s time we’ll be
relaxed mother.
sitting here saying ‘here’s cheers
According to a 2009 paper by
to our success’”. Terri also does her paperwork at night. “I’m lucky to have two very good girls who both sleep well. But still I couldn’t do it without the support of my partner, my family and my in-laws.” Terri’s husband is trained in the installation of the car seats. A triathlete, he gave up training so he could be home more often to help. The Northern Territory Department of
Business
website
and
has
Employment
some
These five women have found a way to achieve the elusive goal that used to be called “having it all: career success, a strong, committed family, and, most importantly, a sense that they are fulfilling their own dreams.
Ezzedeen and Ritchey, “studies show that succeeding at a single endeavour
seldom
amounts
to
feelings of genuine success and fulfilment. Engaging in multiple domains of life such as work, family and community is healthier for people.” Some feminists accuse stay at home
mothers
of
limiting
the
choices of women who wish to pursue careers. They are also likely to perpetuate the gendered division of household chores: mothers who
sobering
work from home spend over an
advice: “Almost anyone who owns a business will tell you that it puts extra pressure on a
hour a day more on child care and domestic duties than
family relationship. Running your business from home
mothers who work away from home, according to a
means that there is little separation between work and
University of New South Wales study. Across all
family, and therefore little distinction between family
employment types, mothers still spend much more time
activities and business activities. You need to be
on domestic duties than fathers.
conscious of how your business will affect your family
Others argue that it is the range of choices that is
and your lifestyle in general.”
important,
The warning echoes the findings of Naswell, Hellgren
achievement of career success (as traditionally defined
and Sverke, who, in a 2007 study of Dutch workers,
by males) is missing the point.
reported that: “a substantial proportion of [the] self-
It’s clear, though, that Melissa, Terri, Kristy, Phoebe and
employed feel that the home domain interferes with their
Lindsay have each made a personal choice requiring
work.” The self-employed were also more likely than
strength, determination and ambition to see it through.
employees to report that work had a negative effect on
Each one of them praises the contribution of their
their family life.
partner – in providing financial security, in sharing the
“Sometimes I wish I had the luxury of a day off,” Phoebe
care of the children, in sheer enthusiasm for the
says.
endeavour.
The study found that gender and parental status made
These five women have found a way to achieve the
no difference to the result; however, participants were
elusive goal that used to be called “having it all”: career
more likely to report positive work-home and home-
success, a strong, committed family, and, most
work
importantly, a sense that they are fulfilling their own
interaction
if
they
felt
that
they
were
and
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Gift of the Heart Wh ils t taking my ch ildren to a park in shady Anula, I greeted a lady there with three young boys und er her care. Her na me was Sian Collyer, "pro n ounced "sharn"', she tells me. We got chatting and after informing her I was new in town, without any hesitatio n she gave me her num ber, an swered some ques tio n s and offered the directio n s to the neares t playgroup. It was n ot until a few mo nths later, by a serendipitous meeting I would find out ; >DF< B4 FC 6 C @A8 F+ @C AF? EC ==9 F@>1F) < @=>DF- 6 F>; ? EF>< EF4 B; =: F>5; 7 7 FB7 7 F>; 5< FC compliment, I belie ve her heart mus t be three times greater than the averag e as th is single mum n ot o nly looks after her own three ch ildren, b ut has also taken into her care a fos ter so n. As a full time job, wh ich goes well beyo nd the call of duty, she looks after the ch ildren of local fa milies as a Home Day C arer. Safe to say, there is ne ver a dull moment in the Collyer house.
KL: What was life like growing up?
or I am bad at time management. As I don’t go out or
SC: There has never really been a time that I haven’t
watch TV, I suspect it might be too much to do. I tend
been around children. I am the second eldest of five
to get pretty grumpy by bedtime!
children. By the time I was 13 years old I was babysitting overnight for friends and neighbours. When
KL: I think a lot of parents will understand
I left home at 17 my youngest brother (13yrs old) moved
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in with me. Then I had my eldest daughter at the age of
as familiar with, tell us how did you come into
19 so there never has been a ‘life before children’ time.
fostering? SC: Though I had considered fostering I didn’t think it
KL Having been around children all your life,
possible as a single parent. After training to become a
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Family Day Carer, I applied to be eligible to have
role, tell us about your children.
emergency respite foster children. But as the foster
SC My eldest daughter is Skye who is 15yrs old, Taylor
system is always overloaded I found myself fostering on
is next at nearly 13yrs, Jamie is 11yrs and my foster
a more permanent basis. I’ve had people say to me “I
son Allan is also 11yrs. The teenage years are proving
couldn’t foster because it would break my heart to let
to be hard already- how much freedom and
them go”. But I think that even an hour of being truly
responsibility to give them, setting boundaries,
cared for and secure is better than not at all.
expectations etc. It’s so hard to watch them make mistakes. I find 2 &3 year olds much easier.
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usually. Sometimes all I do after day care hours is run
energy left for other pursuits. How did you get
kids around to various sports, get-togethers, jobs etc.
into being a Home Daycare Mum?
My day starts at 5am to set up day care stuff and
SC: I suppose that I was always looking after extra
finishes around 8pm by the time I have fed everyone,
children unofficially. I was caring for a neighbours baby
cleaned the floors, packed up and done the washing.
when a friend of mine became a Family Day Carer. My
There is a huge amount of paperwork to do under the
friend talked me in to trying Family Day Care which
day care system (not fostering) so that has to be done
would work around my own children so I did the training
on weekends or evenings. Either I have too much to do
course and here we are!
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I think that even an hour of being truly cared for and secure is better than not at all
”
KL: What are the pleasures and the challenges mothering the children in your care? SC: I love looking after day care children. I love them being happy, secure and watching them develop into their own personalities. There is always something new to learn or discover. It really is a privilege and an honour that I get to care for them every day. They give me great delight and I consider their families good friends. Fostering on the other hand is an
cons are that I have to do everything myself which I
amazing challenge actually. It is quite heartbreaking
never have enough time and energy to do. Between
and confronting sometimes. I am constantly
running ‘mum’s taxi’ etc, I always debate whether to
disappointed with myself. I wish I could do more, be
mow the lawn, do paperwork, clean the house.
more, fix more. KL: If you could spoil yourself for an entire day KL: How do you find being a single, working
and be utterly selfish, what would you indulge
mother?
in?
SC: When I was married, my husband worked long shifts
SC: I enjoy gardening and sewing. I am a very boring
and travelled for work. As a child I can’t remember
person really so if I had a day to myself I would probably
having a Dad at home and I have been by myself since
stay in bed sleeping and reading!
before Jamie was born. So it’s what I’m used to really. I am lucky in some ways as I get on well with my ex-
KL: It is people like you with such selflessness and
husband when he is around which helps. I suppose the
generosity that are the glue to the community. Thank
biggest pro is that I don’t have to rely on anyone. The
you for sharing your inspiring story.
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Wed 4th Parenting teenagers by , @DD=EF C ? : EA F>B5@C =F4 B? 0 and consultancy This course is all about getting your message across to teenagers and helping them respond to the challenges of growing up. We go through a number of strategies to resolve conflict and touch on some basic counseling skills to help you continue a close relationship
Sat 7th
with young people. Over four weeks we get to understand strategies to ‘stay in
Easter Saturday at the Darwin Waterfront
tune’ with them and to work on specific issues
Enjoy free family fun this Easter
Two Wednesday Evenings 4th & 11th of
Saturday from 10am to 2pm. Meet
April, Palmerston $50 6pm-9pm
Easter Bunny with chocolate eggs,
ph. 0437 060 476
family entertainment, children’s activities and games, jumping castles, water slides and free face painting.
Sat 21st
Emergency First Aid for Parents This course will provide you with the skills
Discovery Centre
and knowledge to perform basic first aid. It
For a place that welcomes hands on learning and
illnesses involving infants and young children
tactile pleasure for the littlies is the Discovery Centre
and is designed for parents, grandparents
at The Museum and Art Gallery of the Northern
and other care givers to children.
Territory. It is open from 9am to 4:30pm Monday –
Date: Sat 21 April
Friday and 10am to 4:30pm weekends and public
Time: 8:30am to 4:30pm
holidays. There are microscopes to peer through,
Cost: $130.00 per person, $110 CEA
experiments to test, puzzles to figure, relief drawings
members
to scrub at and fossils to touch. These are just a few of
Venue: Red Cross College Training Rooms,
the interesting things that will keep your child engaged
Darwin Plaza, Smith Street Mall, Darwin
without effort.
The Emergency First Aid for Parents courses
Admission is FREE Conacher Street, Fannie Bay,
are run by qualified Red Cross College
Darwin NT 0820
trainers. Ph 8948 3043
focuses on the more common injuries and
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Thursday 5th School term ends in NT 05 Aqua Zumba in the Wave Lagoon Get ready to wiggle those hips and shake that booty with exciting Aqua Zumba lessons for all ages in the Wave Lagoon! Sessions will be held in the water without the waves from 9am to 10am on Thursdays and Sundays commencing Thursday 5 April. Tickets are just $12 for adults and $8 for children (under 15 years) which includes AM entry in the Wave Lagoon until 2pm for everyone to enjoy more waves after making waves!
City of Darwin Libraries Holiday Program The April holidays are fast approaching and City of Darwin Libraries have a great program for aspiring artists between 5 and 18 years, or for anyone who just loves drawing. Make a statement by transforming your library bag into a funky work of art. An artist will be on hand for 5-11 year olds to help you with your personal design. Bookings essential. Contact your library for days and times.
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# C 3 E>" A" # BB0 >F Babes'n'Books is an educational program for parents and carers of babies ages 3 months to 12 months. Held at Casuarina Library on Wednesdays at 1.00pm, and the City Library on Mondays at 1.00pm, Babes‘n’Books is designed to re-acquaint parents with nursery rhymes, finger plays, and early childhood songs. The program also focuses on reading to babies helping them to develop literacy skills from a very early age, and gives advice about story telling. No bookings are required.
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Dr Seuss The Lorax March 29 Classification: G www.theloraxmovie.com.au The Lorax is a fantastical 3D CG animation adaptation of Dr. Seuss’ classic tale of a forest creature who shares the enduring power of hope. The animated adventure follows the journey of a boy as he searches for the one thing that will enable him to win the affection of the girl of his dreams. To find it he must discover the story of the Lorax, the grumpy yet charming creature who fights to protect his world. Danny DeVito will lend his vocal talents to the iconic title character of the Lorax, while Ed Helms will voice the enigmatic Once-ler. Also bringing their talents to the film are global superstars Zac Efron as Ted, the idealistic young boy who searches for the Lorax, and Taylor Swift as Audrey, the girl of Ted’s dreams.
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Mirror Mirror 29 March, Classification: PG Synopsis: When Princess Snow White's (Lily Collins) beauty wins the heart of the handsome prince (Armie Hammer), the wicked Queen (Julia Roberts) banishes her to the forest. Rescued by a band of highway robbers, Snow White grows into a powerful young woman determined to take back her realm from the treacherous Queen.
Beauty&theBeast3D May 3, Classification: G
Walt Disney Animation Studios’ magical tale “Beauty and the Beast” returns to the big screen in Disney Digital 3D™, introducing a whole new generation to the Disney classic with stunning 3D. The film captures the fantastic journey of Belle (voice of Paige O’Hara), a bright and beautiful young woman who’s taken prisoner by a hideous beast (voice of Robby Benson) in his castle. Despite her precarious situation, Belle befriends the castle’s enchanted staff—a teapot, a candelabra and a mantel clock, among others—and ultimately learns to see beneath the Beast’s exterior to discover the heart and soul of a prince. Featuring unforgettable music by Academy Award® winners Howard Ashman and Alan Menken, and an enormously talented vocal ensemble, “Beauty and the Beast” was the first animated feature to receive a Best Picture nomination from the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences.
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The Pirates! Band Of Misfits In Cinemas April 5 In The Pirates! Band of Misfits, Hugh Grant stars in his first animated role as the luxuriantly bearded Pirate Captain â&#x20AC;&#x201C; a boundlessly enthusiastic, if somewhat less-thansuccessful, terror of the High Seas. With a rag-tag crew at his side (Martin Freeman, Brendan Gleeson, Russell Tovey, and Ashley Jensen), and seemingly blind to the impossible odds stacked against him, the Captain has one dream: to beat his bitter rivals Black Bellamy (Jeremy Piven) and Cutlass Liz (Salma Hayek) to the much coveted Pirate Of The Year Award. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a quest that takes our heroes from the shores of exotic Blood Island to the foggy streets of Victorian London. Along the way they battle a diabolical queen (Imelda Staunton) and team up with a haplessly smitten young scientist (David Tennant), but never lose sight of what a pirate loves best: adventure!
Ask Dr. Jack!
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AF# E@A8FC F C ? EAD Being a parent can be the most exciting, rewarding and at times challenging thing that you’ll ever do in your life; however it doesn’t come with a “How to…”manual. Most of us manage to do a pretty good job and survive one way or the other; but a little helping hand or advice on the way is often appreciated. Each month, ‘Ask Dr Jack’ will aim to inform parents on different aspects of parenting, as well as answer your letters on parenting. So firstly, what makes a good parent? Each and every parent must first and foremost take good care of themselves. Being a parent is an extremely demanding job at the best of times and today it is even more demanding for many parents, as so many are working. This brings with it added
demands and stress, not only on running the day to day household duties; but also on your quality time as a parent. Talking to your partner about sharing responsibilities is essential; discuss not only household chores; but quality time to be spent with each child and also ‘family quality time’ each week. Planning is a must; otherwise things never happen. There are some fundamental needs that each and every child must also have in order to grow up feeling valued as an individual in society. Children need to know: . that they are loved unconditionally . that they are respected as individuals . that they feel safe and
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protected at all times .that they know their needs will be provided for each day .that they will be nurtured and given learning opportunities, so that they may choose a career of his/her passion later in life. .that they understand family rules and boundaries set by their parents and that these rules are fair, reasonable and will be upheld. Be kind to each other; remember: ‘Love is not just a four letter word.’ Think before you speak; a gentle word; a thank you; a cuddle, can mean so much to a child and to your partner. ‘Til next month, Best wishes, Dr Jack
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13-22 April 2012 Join the largest celebration of young people in Australia! Attend events, enter competitions, get your voice heard, and Imagine. Create. Inspire!
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Wondering what books to read to your children? There are so many wonderful authors and illustrators with books currently on the market, it’s hard to know where to start. Here is a selection of books our library staff just love.
Old Pig by Margaret Wild Old Pig and Granddaughter have lived together for a long time, but one day Old Pig is sick and doesn't get up for breakfast as usual. Knowing she is dying, after putting her affairs in order, she takes Granddaughter on a long, last walk, to say goodbye to each other in the best way they know. With gentle illustrations this book touches on the subjects of illness, death, and missing someone. If you have to have these discussions with someone young, this book is a gentle place to start.
The Old Man who Looks up at the Moon by Pamela Allen In this touching story, one of Australia's most celebrated author-illustrators takes young readers on a journey that asks some of life's big questions. Playful and thought-provoking by turns, The Little Old Man Who Looked Up at the Moon touches on universal themes and will spark many a conversation between young and old. The illustrations are classic Allen and this book will be instantly recognisable to, and instantly loved by children and adults alike.
Crazy Hair by Neil Gaiman An ABC of Pirates by Caroline Stills This is a great book for a pirate loving preschooler who is learning their alphabet. With vivid and hilarious illustrations the reader is taken through the alphabet pirate style! In a world where B isn’t for Bee but for Buccaneer and O isn’t for Orange by Overboard you can assume some great vocabulary building is going on too! At the end of the story there is an interesting alphabet list with things to search for throughout the book such as Parrot, Umbrella, Hammer and Axe.
A bright, bold and inventive picture book by award-winning duo Neil Gaiman and Dave McKean, featuring a father and daughter and some insanely wild hairstyles. More famous for comics and adult books cult writer Neil Gaiman has produced a funny story with excellent language, rhyme and rhythm that older primary school children will enjoy. They will love the silly idea of the dad’s crazy long tangled hair and his daughter climbing in, having adventures and getting lost!
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The following 2 delightful but very different books are from our junior fiction collection to be enjoyed by everyone, but particularly by boys and girls between 7 and 12 years.
The Floods â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Disasterchef by Colin Thompson In this the eleventh book in the Floods series of brilliant, rude and scary novels, we meet Betty and her friend Fiona who love cooking and plan to open Transylvania Waters first gourmet restaurant. The trouble is they are both so useless at it. Bettyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s mother, the witch Queen Mordonna forbids them . . . unless they can prove their cooking skills by winning a national TV cooking contest. Will they poison all the judges, or will they triumph and bring their 'interesting' creations to the discerning population?
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The Sewer Demon by Caroline Lawrence Threptus is a young beggar boy from the Roman port of Ostia who has become "apprenticed" to self-proclaimed soothsayer Floridius, who works on the shady side of legal trading. What starts off as a simple shopping trip leads Threptus through a frightening journey into the sewers and the chance to solve a mystery involving a suspected demon in the sewer of a Roman lady's house. Crammed full of fascinating information about life in Roman times, especially toilets and the dreaded sponge stick, the Sewer Demon will appeal to children aged 7+ who enjoy mild peril, fast-paced adventure and oodles of lavatorial humour.
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Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak has become a classic. Winner of the 1964 Caldecott Medal as the "Most Distinguished Picture Book of the Year," it was first published by HarperCollins in 1963. When the book was written, the theme of dealing with dark emotions was rare in children's literature, especially in picture book format for young children. However, after more than 50 years, what keeps Where the Wild Things Are popular is not the impact of the book on the field of children's literature, it is the impact of the story and the illustrations on young readers. The plot of the book is based on the fantasy (and real) consequences of a little boy's mischief. One night Max dresses up in his wolf suit and does all kinds of things he shouldn't, like chasing the dog with a fork. His mother scolds him and calls him a "WILD
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THING!" Max is so mad he shouts back, "I'LL EAT YOU UP!" As a result, his mother sends him to his bedroom without any supper. Max's imagination transforms his bedroom into an extraordinary setting, with a forest and an ocean and a little boat that Max sails in until he comes to a land full of "wild things." Although they look and sound very fierce, Max is able to tame them with a single glance. They all realize Max is "..the most wild thing of all" and make him their king. Max and the wild things have a fine time creating a rumpus until Max begins to want to be "…where someone loved him best of all." Max's fantasy ends when he smells his dinner. Despite the wild things' protests, Max sails back to his own room where he finds his supper waiting for him.
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a Prodigy or gifted?
We all want our children to stand out in a crowd and to be special. If we realise what gifts our children are it is likely that we will realize that they are special in their own way, no matter how they compare to other children. But many parents want their child to be a prodigy or at least "gifted". So, how does one know if their child is a prodigy or if they are gifted?
The Child Prodigy We hear a lot of awesome stories about child prodigies. Of course, many of us know without a doubt that we don't have a child prodigy, even if our children are special. A child prodigy is defined as one who is under 10 and performing at the level of a highly trained adult in a very demanding field of endeavor. Some of these follow their parents into specific endeavors (Mozart's father was a musician, Picasso's father was a painter) or they may teach themselves a new skill. Many are smart and learn to read young, graduate high school at an early age, and take college classes or even finish college before we knew what college was. Prodigies are usually easily recognised because of their early accomplishments. They may learn to read very early, start painting or playing the piano early, or show amazing achievements. Many prodigies are skilled in a specific field of study and some fields attract prodigies more then others. This is believed to be because of a quantitative measurement of success rather then a qualitative one. This means that music, art, science, math, and chess are fields that are easier to measure success in. Whereas dance, theater, writing, and many of the humanities are harder fields to measure success. None the less there are prodigies that have touched all of these areas.
Traits of the Gifted Gifted children often display a number of traits of being gifted. These can be used to begin determining whether or not your child is gifted. Remember that few gifted children will show all traits.
Infants• May get fussy if facing the same direction too long • Often appear alert • Needs less sleep then others his or her age • Reaches milestones earlier Toddlers• Intense need to explore, investigate, and master their environment. • Enjoys going and doing new things • Very active, but with a purpose • May show an unusual interest in numbers and letters • May read or begin math early Children• Very observant and curious • Intense interests • Long attention span • Excellent reasoning skills • Fluent and Flexible thinking • Unusual and vivid imagination • Perfectionist • Enjoys learning new things If your young child shows a lot of the signs then you may want to look into getting him or her tested for giftedness. This should usually be done after age five and it is
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often better to wait till after age nine. However, these tests can help you get help for your gifted child.
The "Gifted" Child All children are gifted and unique. As parents we need to realise that our children are special, need lots of attention, and should be encouraged in the areas that they are talented in and the areas that they struggle in. None the less there are a group of children out there who fall into the "gifted" category. Often times it is hard to figure out what is just pride in our child's accomplishments and what is truly a "gifted" child. In order to identify your child as gifted you have to have some definition of the term. Most use a standard of gifted meaning that they give signs that they can preform at higher then normal levels for their age in one or more areas (intellectual, creative, artistic, leadership, or in a specific field of study). Most of the time identifying a gifted child is done because they need additional oppertunities in a learning environment so that they can proceed with more advanced studies.
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Teach your children a sense of humour and have a laugh, it is great fun. Learning how to use humour appropriately is a vital skill that is learned. by Sue Hyde Do you have enough fun and laughter in your home? Children who can use appropriate humour have a strong sense of belonging. People include them and like to be around them. The child who learns to use humour to deal with adversity is likely to be more resilient. This all helps to develop strong self-esteem. How do children learn about humour? Babies like peek a boo, silly fall down, pop up games and to engage in smiling and laughing with adults that they know. Toddlers like the music of repeating words, the sounds of rhymes with actions that are told and retold, funny faces and crazy actions. Once they go to school and develop an understanding of jokes, they love riddles and their attempts should be encouraged. Say “that is funny” and laugh with them. Come on you can do it. Toddlers appreciate nonsense, cows that bark and flowers that sing. Older children will enjoy you watching a comedy on TV or reading joke books and funny stories with them. Laughing along with them reinforces the pleasure of enjoying a laugh with others, and doesn’t that increase the pleasure? Another responsibility of parents is to ensure that they role model only appropriate use of humour. They do not use sarcasm, they do not use put downs or condone the use of racist, sexist, teasing and other negative forms of humour. This leads to exclusion and does not have the positive effects on self that appropriate humour will have. A south western Native American tribe gives special
status and value to the person who produces the first laugh from a child without touching them. This is called “The laughing parent” and they maintain a special relationship with the child for their whole life. Did you know that children on average laugh 200 times a day and adults only laugh 20 times? So get on with laughing more and having fun with your children. It builds strong relationships that last a life time and strengthens our ability to overcome the bad times.
Casual Childcare Assistants Required
We are currently seeking casual childcare assistants who are currently studying towards a childcare qualification or returning back to work. You will have enthusiasm, a general passion for working with children aged 1 to 5 years and a At Little Possums Play House children will be provided with an environment similar to that of a Grandparents house where childhood will not be hurried, a house which allows children to develop at their own pace and in their own particular learning intelligence, preparing them to become lifelong successful learners.
Pop in and say hello or give us a call anytime! More information can also be found at
Tel: (08) 8947 1756 107b Boulter Rd, Berrimah NT 0828 info@littlepossums.com.au
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Water safety for under 5’s
Free Water Safety program for children under five Territorians love being in and around water as it is a fun, healthy and affordable way to keep cool, especially during the build-up. For Territory families, water safety is a priority, especially for those of us lucky enough to have a pool or spa on our property. As a parent, teaching your kids to swim from a young age is vital to ensure their safety around water, whether it be in a backyard pool, at the beach or your favourite swimming spot. The Northern Territory Government provides five free water safety lessons for parents/guardians and their children aged under five in urban, rural and remote areas of the Territory. The program includes sessions to develop a child’s confidence and ability in water and teaches general water safety
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awareness and rescue techniques. The five sessions incorporate: • emergency care and resuscitation • basic water rescue, different holds and the importance of play in teaching skills • techniques to teach entry in and exits from the water and the use of toys to encourage movement • floating and movement strategies including submersion preparation • movement (assisted and independent) and knowledge on child development and expectations of the child in water. To register your child or for more information visit http://www.nt.gov.au/watersafety or contact Water Safety on 1300 301 059.
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Fluffy quinoa pancakes
Quinoa and Blackbeans
1/2 cup quinoa flour 1 cup whole wheat flour 2 tbsp baking powder 2 tbsp sugar 1 tbsp cinnamon 1 cup milk 1 egg beaten Maple syrup Fruit of your choice (berries, bananas, caramelised apples etc) In large bowl mix quinoa flour, whole wheat flour, baking powder, sugar, cinnamon, egg, milk until no lumps remain. Heat large skillet with oil, spoon batter in pan and leave until bubbles appear, flip over. Onto a plate and add maple syrup and fruit
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1 Tsp. olive oil 1 Chopped onion 3 cloves garlic 3/4 cup uncooked quinoa 1 1/2 cup vegetable broth 1 tsp ground cumin Salt and pepper Brown the onion in the oil. Add garlic, and cook for a few minutes longer. Add quinoa to pan with vegetable broth and spices. Bring to a boil, cover, reduce heat and simmer for 20 minutes. Add: 1 cup frozen corn Cook for 5 more minutes. Then add: 2 cups black beans, rinsed and drained. Chopped cilantro (optional)
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TATHEGREATOUTDOORS YOUNGAGETO Some of our fondest childhood memories are set in the great outdoors. This is where we learned to push our boundaries and explore our capabilities. With our culture of excessive television and computer games it is important that we balance our children with the frequent opportunity to play outdoors. For children to learn about their own physical and emotional capabilities they must push their limits. How high can I swing? How high can I climb? Can I go down the slide headfirst? To learn about the physical world, the child must experiment with the physical world. Outdoor play enables young children to learn lots of things about the world. How do plants grow? How does mud feel? Why do we slide down instead of up? What does a tomato smell and taste like? What does a chrysalis change into? Not only do children learn lots of basic and fundamental information about how the world works but they are more likely to remember what they learned because it was personally meaningful. We can discover this relationship with the natural world only by experiencing it and interacting with the natural environment. It doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t matter what you choose to do, it could be going for a nature walk, playing an outdoor sport or discovering a love of gardening. All that matters is that each day you make time to be outside. Breathe in the fresh air, move your body, enjoy the world that surrounds us. If we can teach our children a love and respect of the world, it is a step closer to healing our planet, for one day the world will be in their hands.
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Children can learn new skills, have fun, play and develop selfconfidence by spending time in the garden tending plants and growing their own food. Most children enjoy being outdoors and l o v e d i g g i n g i n t h e s o i l , g e t t i n g d i r t y, c r e a t i n g t h i n g s a n d w a t c h i n g p l a n t s g r o w.
my little Gardening is educational and develops new skills including: • Responsibility – from caring for and tending plants. • Understanding – as they learn about cause and effect (for example, plants die without water • Self confidence – from achieving their goals and enjoying the food they have grown. • Love of nature – a chance to learn about the outdoor environment in a safe and pleasant place. • Creativity – finding new and exciting ways to grow food • Nutrition - Learning about sources of fresh food
of the garden. • Encourage children to dig in the dirt. Younger children love making mud pies. • Grow interesting plants like sunflowers, corn, pumpkins, tomatoes and strawberries. • Use a trellis or tepee to grow beans. • Plant flowers that attract butterflies, ladybirds and other interesting insects or birds. • Make a scarecrow • Install a water feature, birdbath or sundial • Set up a worm farm
Try these suggestions to get children involved and interested in creating an edible garden. • Give children their own garden space, it does not have to be big, it can start in a large container or in a few pots. • Involve older children in the planning and design
If you would like to see an edible garden in action, visit the Darwin Botanical Gardens where locals have set up plots to create a patchwork of permaculture. It is an inspiring idea that might encourage you and your children to create one in your own back yard.
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garden Remember safety first: hat, gloves, sunscreen, covered shoes
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Keeping the Love alive... after children I’m happy to say I finally feel like I’ve worked up enough credit to be able to speak on this topic (after 13 years of marriage), and aside from some ups and downs in the first couple of years, I’m also pleased to say that things really have gone well overall! So here are some of the greatest ways to keep your relationship alive, make you appreciate your partner more, and ultimately stay happy! 1F BFD< EFE D? C F6 @=E1 By this, I’m talking about going out of your way to do things for your partner. If you’re tired after work and sitting on the couch, hop up and help her with dinner for a while. Drive out to the shop and grab the bread she forgot to buy earlier. The small sacrifices you make will do wonders for your relationship: showing the person that you care enough to take action is far better than being all talk.
2. Compliment your partner. I’ve spoken on the value of compliments to your co-workers, friends and acquaintances recently, and the same holds true for close relationships. If I want my wife to continue to look great and spend time looking after herself, complimenting and encouraging is really important! The same holds true for me also: I’m a lot more inclined to spend time on not just personal grooming and appearance, but also trying to be a better person if I’m hearing encouragement and getting support. Complimenting each other will certainly draw you closer.
3. Factor in some alone time. This is really hard to do, especially if you’re like me and lead a fairly busy life. Throw in shift work and kids into the equation, and you start to forget who your partner is! It’s really important to make time for each other. You can do this by delaying other tasks that are not as important – if you have an hour free, go out for coffee together! This is something I’ve really tried to step up over the last year or so – we try to go out for breakfast together on a semi-regular basis now, and at the very least devote some alone time with each other when we’re able to.
4. Speak kindly. You’d think this one would be obvious, but the first year pet names of “lovey, honey-pie, snookums!” often become a distant memory the longer a relationship is together. Even if you don’t
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call your partner pet names so much anymore, don’t forget to treat each other with respect. Speak kindly! Don’t put the other person down.
5. Address problem areas. One area of mine that I (still!) need to work on, is being tidy with my clothes. I love nothing more than to get changed and toss my old clothes into a corner of the room. This works great when you’re living with your parents or at college, not so great in a marriage! If something’s irritating you about your partner, talk about it (not scream!), tell them how it makes you feel. Don’t get defensive, work on addressing problem areas in your own life – it will make your relationship a whole lot better!
1F' BA DF>4 EC DFD< EF>6 C ==F>D; 7 7 1 Have you ever met a perfect person? Sometimes some people seem this way when you first meet them, then you discover they snort when they laugh, they have anger management issues, or maybe they can’t hold a conversation that’s not about themselves… There are plenty of things we find out about each other the longer relationships progress. Letting little things get to you can put your whole relationship in jeopardy (I’m sure you’ve heard of a divorce that started over a toothpaste tube argument!). And for what purpose? So you can get with someone else who seems ‘perfect’, until you discover their flaws? Instead, use the opportunity to think about yourself – what little things are you doing that might be irritating your partner?
7. Stay friends. Probably the best contributing factor (and my favourite) in my own relationship, is my friendship with my wife. We really actually do enjoy each others company! Don’t turn into a boring stiff just because you’re getting older – laugh! Muck around! Have fun with each other, and stay friends. This is a great key to a relationship that is lasting and meaningful.
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Terri Sparrow Happy wife, happy life! I tell my husband this all the time. Not sure it works but we are very happy. We have wonderful family support and try and have a date night once a fortnight.
Kristen Paes We try to do one thing everyday which will make each others life easier. 8.5yrs, 2 babies and better than ever - but it's damn hard work! : )
Jenna Brother ton Scheduled sex! Sounds unromantic, I know - but it's the first thing to go when life gets busy, and it's one of the most important things for maintaining a healthy relationship! :)
Melissa Keelan Communication! Always take the time to chat to each other. Don't let yourself go, keep it spicy, and plan runaway nights without the kids. My mum used to always say to me, treat your relationship like a flower. If you don't water it or give it sunshine, it will slowly die! Me and my hubby have been together for 17 years... And we still get excited to see each other!
Erana Broughton Date nights they are really nice and if you make it unique to yourself and your partner/ husband it makes it even better :)
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Handmade Wooden Toys Handmade wooden toys are timeless treasures that will continue to amuse and educate children throughout the ages. For centuries, children have played with toys such as building blocks or simple hand-painted alphabet blocks finely crafted from wood. Archeologists have long discovered toys carved from wood in the shapes of dolls, animals, and horse-drawn chariots dating back to the days of the ancient Greek and Roman civilizations.
TOYS While you may find that the wooden toys of today have greatly evolved over the last few hundred years, they still remain largely the same in terms of durability, safety, and of course, their unrivaled charm and appeal.
Taylor’s Toy Box Is a small ‘wooden toy’ shop tucked away in the Chin Arcade in Darwin City. Taylor’s Toy Box is a small business that is territory proud, owned and operated. The shop aims to bring back the classic wooden toys that we all remember playing with as a child, and introducing modern wooden toys while offering the longevity wooden toys provide. You’ll find wooden toys from puzzles, dolls, dolls houses, cars, planes, blocks, music sets, ride-ons, stationery and much more. Made with non- toxic paints and have appropriate age specification B y K a t ri n a K a d i b a
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Modern clothnappies When I had my son just over a year ago I never questioned what sort of nappy I would use. Disposable of course! After all, I would be a busy mum and disposables were the no fuss, less mess, easy option… weren’t they? Imagine my surprise a few months later when I found myself entering the world of Modern Cloth Nappies (MCN’s). I had been given a couple as a gift when I was pregnant but just stored them in the ‘too hard’ basket. One day I used one of the nappies and found it, well, kinda easy! Not too mention it looked so cute on my little man. A typical Darwin kid, his usual attire consisted of just a Bonds singlet and a nappy to beat the heat and the MCN looked so much nicer than a disposable. So I found myelf buying a few more from one of the stallholders at Mindil Markets the following week- fun and gorgeous patterns, which made bub look adorable. All of a sudden I was hooked and buying all sorts of brands and varieties of MCN’s – cloth, bamboo, OSFM, boosters, liners, wet bags, soap nuts, dryer balls – you name it, I had it. Being a stay at home mum I found using them very easy and in the hot Darwin weather I could wash and dry them quickly. But my husband questioned me – were we really saving money using MCN’s? Choice Magazine (www.choice.com.au) estimates that a baby uses about 6500 nappies from birth to toilet training (based on about six nappies a day for three years) which is an approximate cost of $3000. MCN’S cost anywhere between $10$30 each and I bought around 20 so I’ve spent around$400 (averaging them at about $20 each) which should last me through to toilet training. Yes, they are a bit more time consuming than disposables and I do need to add laundering costs but I think I can safely say we are saving money by using them. From time to time I admit I use a disposable for convenience and always have a couple in my nappy bag for emergencies however MCN’s really suit our Territory lifestyle.
There are lots of local suppliers in Darwin to get you started Snappy Nappies www.snappiesclothnappies.com BareWear www.barewear.com.au Top End Tush Modern Cloth Nappies www.topendtush.com.au/ Green Kids www.greenkids.com.au Baby Bump Palmerston Little Lamb, Casuarina Little Rompers, Coconut Grove Baby Toyworld Modern Cloth Nappies by Renee www.modernclothnappiesbyrenee.com www.cheekycheeks.com.au
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helping your baby to sleep Sleep - the buzz word for every new mum and something that tends to cause a lot of stress and worry. It seems that unless your baby is "sleeping through", then you're not one of the lucky mums. Every baby is different, so each method for getting your new baby to sleep is only as good as the baby thinks!
For us it was all about routine. We
was the routine and repetition of events. I
implemented a routine from the very
think it makes perfect sense that if a baby
beginning. It was a little sketchy to start with
is forewarned of their activities or they have
and the routine wasn't really set in stone till
a routine so they know what's coming then
about 5-6 weeks where he seemed to know
they're not surprised or afraid and are
what was coming. We did a feed, then bath
happy to just go with the flow. For example
which he loved, (and probably burns a lot of
- if you were driving along with your
energy!), then a massage, another feed (a top
husband who suddenly stops the car in the
up feed), then a story (if he was still awake -
middle of nowhere and gets out without
at this stage he often fell asleep during the
saying a word, you'd probably get a bit
last feed), then wrapped and into bed. And he
worried. If, however he told you what he
just started sleeping 8 hours all on his own
was doing first, you wouldn't need to worry
(from 6-7pm - 2am) and we're pretty sure it
as you knew what was coming. We often
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forget that our babies have no idea what's going on, so everything is a surprise to them and when you leave them, they can't comprehend that you'll ever come back. So talking to them from the very beginning and giving them cues and implementing a routine avoids that confusion and fright. By the time our boy was 6 months, his routine was faultless and he was putting himself to sleep purely because he knew that's what it was time for and that we'd be there when he woke up. He sleeps 12 hours every night and he's a very happy little 7 month old.
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Word to the wise
"Best advice was to follow your instincts. Only a mother knows, even a first time mother. Bond with your baby, follow your instincts and you together will find the way " Renee 30 mother of Mya 3
When asked what the best advice they have been given, mums and dads replied with...
" I wish someone told me about the
sleep deprivation. Sleep when baby sleeps, it's the only way. It's not a
chance to run around and do jobs" Gavin 42 father of Jemma 15 and Jasmine 7
"Never do housework whilst the kids are still in the house, it's like shovelling snow whilst it's still snowing"
"Enjoy them while they are little" Metta 36 mother of Gabriel 6, Finn 4 and Christian 2
Fay 37 mother of Jade 8 and Jude 6
Chris 32 father of Jemma 9, Ollie 2 and Sienna 6 months
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Lead by example. Nurture your own self-esteem. Your children learn most by watching you. Jess 34 mother of Ted 2
"Let them be the leader sometimes"
Be generous with smiles, hugs, and kisses. Be affectionate with your children on a regular basis. Tell them often that you love them and how much they mean to you."
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PlayShack story... Once upon a time not far from Palmerston, Northern Territory there was a very lonely animal. He was not like any other animal. He was a Bilbecko (½ Bilby & ½ Gecko). It was Bilbecko’s birthday but he had no one to help him celebrate his birthday. He was walking through the bush when he came across Jabithon ( ½ Jabiru& ½ Python). “Why are you so sad?” asked Jabithon. “It’s my birthday and I have no one to celebrate it with.” replied Bilbecko. “I will come with you” said Jabithon. They continued on their way and they came across the Barraroo ( ½ barramundi, ½ kangaroo) and Waffalo (1/2 wallaby, ½ buffalo) feeding in a field. “Why are you so sad?” asked Barraroo “It’s my birthday and I have no one to celebrate it with.” replied Bilbecko. “We will come with you” said Waffalo Bilbecko started to feel happier. They continued on their way and came across Butterdragon ( ½ butterfly, ½
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dragonfly) and Frill Neck Turtle ( ½ frill neck lizard, ½ turtle). “Where are you all going?”asked Butterdragon “It is Bilbecko’s birthday and we are looking for somewhere to celebrate it” replied Jabithon. “We will come along too” said Frilled Neck Turtle They continued on for awhile when they heard a voice from above. “Where is everyone going?” asked the Green Tree Pig ( ½ green tree frog, ½ pig). “It is Bilbecko’s birthday and we are looking for somewhere to celebrate it” replied Jabithon. “I will come along too.” Said the Green Tree Pig There was a flutter of wings above them. It was Crockatoo ( ½ crocodile, ½ cockatoo) and Dingbat (½ dingo, ½ bat). “Hi everyone. What brings you to this side of the bush?” asked Crockatoo “It’s Bilbecko’s birthday.” replied Green tree Pig. They continued on for a little longer when Bilbecko stopped. “What is that?” he asked pointing to a purple building. “I have never seen that before.” said Waffalo “That’s the PlayShack?” replied Dingbat “PlayShack?” The group looked puzzled. “Yes, they have the best birthday parties. There is an Indoor Playground with tunnels, a ball pit and even an area for little Butterdragon and Frilled Neck Turtle to play.” “Let’s go everyone” said Bilbecko They made their way across the field to the PlayShack. “Welcome everyone!” a very happy voice boomed.”You have arrived at the PlayShack. What brings you here today?” “It’s Bilbecko’s birthday. We would like to celebrate with him.” said Dingbat. “No worries. Come on in and have some fun!” Inside was a brightly coloured playground. The Mudskippers were already there riding the bikes. Green Tree Pig climbed into the top of the playground, Bilbecko slid down the slides, Barraroo jumped in the ball pit and Frilled Neck Turtle bounced on the mini tramp. The friendly staff prepared some birthday treats for all the guests. “This is my best birthday ever!” exclaimed Bilbecko.
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bully for you!
Adam Voigt adam@adamvoigt.com.au T: 0423769882
I’d contend that “bullying” might just be the most misused word in the English language – by both kids and parents. If somebody looks at me funny they are bullying me, if somebody disagrees with me they are bullying me, if somebody stands up to me they are bullying me, if somebody hurts me they are bullying me. You follow? Ok, so what is bullying? Bullying is simply repeated use of power by one person/group over another person or group. It’s so important to read that word “repeated” in there. It’s when these instances occur over and over that we can call it bullying and then deal with it accordingly. While they can be very damaging and distressing, one-off acts of unkindness and/or aggression are not bullying. Yep – they need to be dealt with, but often in a different way to get a resolution. So what can parents do if their child tells them they are being bullied at school? 1. Listen. It can be a big decision for a young person to reveal that they are being bullied. They have a story to tell that has probably been well rehearsed many times in their heads – let them tell it. 2. Determine if it really is bullying. Bullying feels like an appropriate label for many things but don’t fall for that trap. Ask questions about frequency and severity so you can together grow a really clear picture about what’s actually happening. 3. Be “Malcolm In The Middle”. Kids often refrain from revealing that they are being bullied for one reason – our reaction. They KNOW that Mum bursting into tears and Dad threatening to clobber the Principal will fix NOTHING. They also don’t need you to be indifferent or dismissive. Stay calm, show empathy and let them know you are there to help them come to a solution - together. 4. Don’t demonise the bully. So hard to do but so worth it. Your child gets nothing from the “other” child bullying being reinforced as the bully. We’re after a change in behaviour so find it in your heart to forgive and give the other child a chance to make things right. 5. Make an appointment with the school. Don’t charge down there banging on the Principal’s door when you are full of emotion. Make an appointment and think about what you really want to get from the discussion. Your rage shouldn’t be the focus of the meeting – you want a plan of action. I’ve had the pleasure of presenting to Bakewell PS’s School Council recently on a powerful approach called Restorative Practices. Now there’s a case study in how to grow responsibility, develop culture, improve relationships and prevent bullying over time. Well done to the inspiring crew at BPS.
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Embrace your curves and celebrate your growing baby in the comfort of soft, stretchy and colourful designer maternity wear
Ripe Zahara Pleat Front Skirt in Golden Olive.
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TECHNOLOGY
Technology is part of our everyday lives and a great tool for educating our children. Here are a few suggestions to show them learning is really fun.
LeapFrog LeapPad Explorer Tablet This is the latest innovation in a lineup of very cool technology learning toys from LeapFrog, this one being sort of like a “kids iPad”. There are over 100 games available as well as digital books, videos, flashcards, a built in camera and camcorder. Truly an amazing toy that will kids will have fun with and learn from for a long time to come. For kids 4-9
Helping your child to read www.readingeggs.com is a fantastic site aimed to help pre-schoolers and school age children learn to read. A free one month trial will show just how exciting it is to play the educational games and collect the golden eggs. With silly songs, characters and puzzles, the challenges engage at an individual pace with each child having personal log in access. It’s a fun and non-pressured way to introduce reading or to build on reading skills that they have already been introduced to at school.
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Best App to download this month Play School Art Maker. Set the scene selecting from different backgrounds, choose characters and props and begin to record a cute little story with your childâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s voices and movement, completely bringing imagination to life.
Quality wooden toys at an affordable price!
People Mover of the month People movers have come along way since they first entered the market. Now with flexible seating arrangements and devices such as built in L.C.D screens, cup holders and independent A/C long journeys are suddenly looking all the more enticing for large families with young children. The Hyundai iMax is available in two models, an automatic petrol and a manual diesel. The visibility is excellent in front and to the sides. The rear vision is a bit more limited but the sensors help. Sliding doors on both sides makes it a breeze to let passengers in and out. There is plenty of room and even a passageway between the front seats to the first row. The boot fits groceries and a pram easily.
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History Darwin Aviation Centre Somewhere to take the kids over the school holidays is the Aviation Heritage Centre. The massive Boeing B-52 is like the gigantic mothercraft to all the smaller, yet equally impressive, planes on display. The Spitfire is painted up with shark teeth for a devilish appearance and you can interact by climbing steps to peer into the tiny cockpits. There is a cafĂŠ for refreshments and a gift shop with very affordable toys. Open 9am5pm everyday 557 Stuart Highway admission fee is charged, eftpos available
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Fun Bus is a mobile playgroup service jointly funded by the City of Darwin and the Northern Territory Government. Parents, carers, children and infants are K[ W O TP^] YQZRW [ N] S^\Z^[ \\] YSI @Y^XYM ZW O [ T^[ YS^W ] T[ <] S^[ \O ZVLU] W ] ^\PLXM X] V^4RY Bus playgroup sessions where parents, carers, babies and children aged between 0 to 5 years can come together in a friendly community based environment. Fun Bus provides positive opportunities for children to have fun, K UXTV\^S] G] TZLXYN^VZQX[ T^[ YS^QW ] [ \XG] ^VFXTTV^\UW ZRNU^LT[ PI 4RY^BRV^ZL] W [ \] V weekdays between 9:30am and 11:30am between February and December at various outdoor locations across the municipality: = ZYS[ P^EU] ^B[ NZ\^? ZO O RYX\PH^B[ NZ\^ Z[ SH^1RSO XTT[ ^.@TT^K ] TQZO ] 0 ER] VS[ P ; [ YNRW X^7 [ W FH^; [ YNRW X^E] W W [ Q] H^; [ YNRW X ; ] SY] VS[ P^; [ \] W ^$ [ W S] YVH^EW ZK ] W Z[ SH^ [ LXS^? W ] ] F EURW VS[ P^., ] K ^G] YR] ^\Z^J ] ^[ YYZRYQ] S^8^LT] [ V] ^QU] QF^K ] J VX\] ^[ YS^\K X\\] W ^M ZW ^S] \[ XTV0 4W XS[ P^? XGXQ^7 [ W FH^AO X\U^A\W ] ] \H^5 [ W K XY So come along, join in our activities at any or all sessions and please remember your hat and cool, comfy clothing. Participation is free of charge! Fun Bus attendees are asked to supply a piece ZM ^M W RX\^L] W ^M [ O XTP^\Z^VU[ W ] ^[ \^O ZW YXYN^\] [ I
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Every month KidsLife Magazine will feature Helen from Little Rompers as she uses her expert knowledge to review three popular products for mother and baby. This month she Test Drives one of most practical items we will ever use as a parent, the pram. After all, the more informed you are the better decisions you can make saving money in the long run.
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Description: This is the pram you want if you exercise. It weighs 11 Kgs and folds so incredibly easily you can not help but be impressed. Pros: The City Elite has it all, quick fold technology, foam filled tyres so that you don’t need to worry about punctures, hand operated park break so you can wear your thongs and the suspension to tolerate even the most avid walker. The seat takes 34kg so that you can exercise with your children longer. Cons: It is not a petite pram, although it folds smaller than all other three wheelers.
ay Pram Joolz1D 299.00 Price $
Description: This pram is now outselling the Bugaboo in Europe, it is unique in that it is an ergonomic pram, especially comfortable for a taller person to use. The price includes the bassinette shown and the seat for your baby as they get older.
Description: The perfect stroller for parents wanting an ultra-lightweight and compact pram that is suitable for newborn up to 20kgs. Pros: incredibly lightweight at 6.3kgs, this pram is compact, has a huge canopy and a reversible handle. Japanese made and very strong for its tiny size, it’s great for going shopping and general use. This pram is self-standing when folded and easy to store.
Pros: A very smart looking pram, it looks fantastic with its matching parasol. The bassinette doubles as the baby’s bed at night and once you are finished with the bassinette on goes the seat. The main seat is high enough to push up to a table.
Cons: This pram is not suitable for people who seriously exercise. The Combi is fine on footpaths and on smooth surfaces but is not made for someone putting several kilometres on it a few times per week.
Cons: A little weightier than the others at 14kgs.
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