November 2025
President’s Message
Sharing My Gratitude
November always feels like a season of gratitude. As Americans, we gather around the Thanksgiving table with family and friends. As a Jewish community, it’s also when the Buffalo Jewish Federation begins building momentum for the 2026 Campaign for Jewish Buffalo. In both settings, I reflect on the same theme—how fortunate we are to belong to a community that supports, celebrates, and uplifts one another.
I’m especially grateful to the more than 400 of you who joined us in September for our Annual Campaign Kickoff featuring Jonah Platt. The energy in that room was incredible—joyful, hopeful, and filled with pride for all we’ve accomplished, and all that lies ahead. Moments like that remind me why Jewish Buffalo is so special.
To those who have already pledged your 2026 Federation gift, thank you for leading the way. Your generosity fuels everything we do. For those who haven’t yet made your gift—or perhaps haven’t given in some time—I invite you to join us. Every contribution, no matter the size, makes a real difference. Together, our collective support ensures that Jewish Buffalo continues to flourish for us and for generations to come. You can pledge easily at bit.ly/BJFPLEDGE2026 or by reaching out to any Federation staff or board member.
I also want to extend heartfelt thanks to our volunteer leaders—our Board of Governors, Executive Committee, and the dedicated members of our leadership councils: Community Relations, HERO, LiNK, Development, and other vital committees. Your time, passion, and wisdom strengthen our community every day.
As we move forward, let’s carry this spirit of gratitude and generosity with us. Together, there is no limit to what we can accomplish. Thank you for believing in the promise of a vibrant Jewish future and helping ensure that our community not only thrives today but shines even brighter tomorrow.
With warm appreciation,
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Last month we exhaled in relief and gratitude as all 20 surviving hostages–kidnapped from Israel and held by Hamas terrorists for 738 days–finally came home to their loved ones. Their names–Matan, Gali, Ziv, Elkana, Rom, Avinatan, Yosef-Haim, Alon, Evyatar, Guy, Omri, Eitan, Segev, Nimrod, Maxim, Eitan, Bar, Matan, Ariel, and David–are now woven into the collective heart of our people. Welcome Home.
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A Season of Gratitude
Thanksgiving is one of those rare and beautiful days when our entire nation pauses. No matter one’s faith or background, we all gather around festive tables to enjoy seasonal food and give thanks for the abundance of life’s blessings. In a time when divisions often dominate the headlines, gathering around a shared table to break bread and express gratitude reminds us of the quiet strength we can still find in community.
In my family, we joke that Thanksgiving is the easiest of the “Jewish holidays”—the only one without formal rituals or prayers—yet at its essence, it may be among the most spiritual of our observances. Gratitude, after all, is at the heart of Jewish life. Each morning, we recite Modeh Ani—a prayer of thanks for the gift of a new day. And our tradition calls us to recite 100 blessings daily, reminding us to find holiness and gratitude in the ordinary.
Gratitude, however, can encompass profound dualities. The recent release of 20 living hostages from Gaza is a gift beyond measure—one that has brought immense relief and abundant joy to so many. Yet that joy does not erase the continued pain of the 15 families who are still awaiting the return of their loved ones’ remains for a dignified burial, nor the grief for the 919 soldiers who have fallen, nor the 1,200 lives brutally taken on October 7, their light stolen from the world.
As Thanksgiving approaches, I find myself conscious of these dualities and deeply grateful for the strength that comes from being part of the Jewish people and from the gifts of community—the friends, family, colleagues, and partners who stand by our side, especially in the darkest of hours. Judaism offers a beautiful insight into the nature of gratitude through relationships: “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another” (Proverbs 27:17). Strength, our sages remind us, is not born in isolation; it is cultivated through connection. We become sharper, wiser, and more resilient because of those who walk beside us.
At its best, gratitude is not just felt; it is lived. It moves us to act—to care for one another and to build the kind of world we want our children to inherit. That spirit guides the Buffalo Jewish Federation’s K-12 work with schools, which took on new urgency and immense investment in the months that followed October 7.
In the wake of that horrific day, a vicious roar of antisemitism erupted here at home, especially in schools, where Jewish students and families have faced unique challenges. Antisemitism is not always loud; it can appear in classroom worksheets, conversations between peers, or in the ways the war between Israel and Hamas is framed by educators. While criticism of any country can be appropriate, it crosses into antisemitism when it denies Jewish self-determination, applies double standards, endorses violence, or blames Jewish people collectively for the actions of Israel’s government.
That’s why our Federation team works closely with districts to help them identify and respond to antisemitism in K-12 spaces. We are deeply grateful to the many superintendents, principals, and teachers who have chosen partnership with us, and openness to education, over silence. Together, we are working to ensure that classrooms across Western New York are places where all identities are uplifted, where Jewish students feel safe to learn and belong, and where truth and respect guide conversations.
Under the professional leadership of Lauren Bloomberg, Rachel Beerman, Wendy Weisbrot, in partnership with volunteer leaders Armand Morrison, Marni Marciano, and Ann Marie Carosella, our K-12 initiatives continue to grow—from Holocaust education and peer-to-peer dialogue about the Jewish American experience to professional development for administrators and robust teacher training. These efforts feel especially poignant now, as the return of the hostages reminds us to hold our children close and to be profoundly grateful for those in our community who help them learn, grow, and belong.
As we gather around our Thanksgiving tables this year, I invite us all to be grateful for blessings both ordinary and extraordinary. May we be thankful for the 20 hostages who have returned home and can once again break bread with those they love—closing, after years of yearning, one chapter of unimaginable pain. May we also give thanks for the friendships and partnerships that bring strength and security to Jewish Buffalo, for the educators who help our children learn and thrive, and for the enduring spirit of our people who, even in darkness, continue to choose hope, connection, and joy.
Welcoming New Leaders to the Federation Team
The Buffalo Jewish Federation is proud to welcome several outstanding professionals to its growing team. Each brings unique experience, passion, and purpose to these new roles—helping to strengthen Jewish life, deepen community connections, and advance Federation’s mission to secure and enrich Jewish Buffalo for generations to come.
Erica Brecher
Senior Director of Communications
Erica Brecher joins the Federation as Senior Director of Communications, bringing a rich background in storytelling and public engagement. In this role, she will lead communication strategy, strengthen Federation’s brand identity, build media relationships, and foster collaboration with partners and community leaders.
A graduate of Penn State University, Erica spent a decade in local news broadcasting—first at WETM-TV in Elmira, then in Buffalo at WGRZ-TV as a reporter and multimedia journalist, and later as an anchor and reporter for WIVB-TV.
After starting a family, Erica transitioned to Excelsior Orthopedics, where she served as Marketing & Communications Coordinator for four years. Her connection to Federation began in 2023 as a participant in the Momentum Moms cohort. Although the group’s trip to Israel was canceled in the wake of October 7, the experience deepened her connection to Jewish community and strengthened her bonds with women across Buffalo.
Originally from Randolph, New Jersey, Erica has called Western New York home for more than 11 years. She and her husband live in Ken-Ton with their two children.
Craig Macy Senior Director of Community Security
Craig Macy joins the team as Senior Director of Community Security, an essential role aligned with Federation’s priority to ensure the safety and resilience of Jewish Buffalo.
A retired U.S. Army Combat Engineer and former Chief of Detectives with the Buffalo Police Department, Craig’s career reflects a lifelong commitment to service and protection. His military career included multiple overseas deployments—to Sinai, Iraq, and two tours in Afghanistan—where he served as Platoon Sergeant for a Route Clearance Platoon responsible for detecting and removing IEDs.
Following his military service, Craig joined the Buffalo Police, serving as patrol officer, community officer, unit supervisor, Commander of the Crowd Management Unit, and SWAT officer before being appointed Chief of Detectives. His leadership has emphasized crisis management, interagency collaboration, and community partnership.
Craig is deeply committed to enhancing security preparedness and building strong, trusted relationships across Jewish Buffalo and beyond.
Samantha Stevens Director of Jewish Experience
Samantha Stevens is Federation’s new Director of Jewish Experience, where she will nurture engagement among young adults through NEXTGen Jewish Buffalo and oversee PJ Library in partnership with Robin Kurss.
Samantha’s career spans advocacy, education, and community building. She began in environmental activism with the New York State Public Interest Group, advanced educational reform through restorative justice with AmeriCorps, served as Director of Activities for the independent living community at Weinberg Campus, and most recently was Director of Jewish Life and Education at the JCC of Greater Buffalo.
A graduate of Carnegie Mellon University with a BFA in vocal performance, Samantha has also cultivated a decade-long career as a songwriter and vocalist—an experience that enriches her creative approach to community work. Guided by her Jewish upbringing and spiritual curiosity, Samantha brings deep intention and warmth to her role, continually exploring what it means to live a meaningful Jewish life.
Born and raised in Buffalo, she now lives on the West Side with her husband, Nick, and their beloved cat, Toulouse.
Ginny Rose Stewart Executive Assistant
Ginny Rose Stewart is Federation’s new Executive Assistant, bringing a wealth of experience in both state and community-based leadership. She has played key roles in high-impact initiatives, including helping build the NYS Contact Tracing Initiative during the early months of the COVID-19 pandemic, where she later supervised teams through its complex statewide rollout. She also supported the Montana Medicaid Reform project, ensuring residents received critical support and resources.
Ginny’s connection to Buffalo’s Jewish community grew from her passion for building meaningful relationships and supporting the people who keep community life thriving. Most recently, she served as Operations Manager for a local synagogue, providing steady, behind-the-scenes leadership to ensure everything ran smoothly and purposefully.
Ginny is the proud mother of three daughters and resides in the Elmwood Village area.
Strengthening Our Democracy
As we head into November and prepare to vote on Tuesday, November 4, 2025, you’ll likely hear more about Ranked-Choice Voting (RCV). RCV is used in many places in the United States including Maine, Alaska, and New York City. Instead of picking just one candidate, RCV lets you rank candidates in order of preference (1st, 2nd, 3rd, etc.). If your top choice can’t win, your vote moves to your next choice—helping ensure winners have broader support and giving voters a stronger voice.
Here in Western New York, Buffalo Jewish Federation has joined the WNY Ranked-Choice Voting Coalition that gathers partners to educate voters and advance local legislation, with the goal of adopting RCV in Buffalo and Erie County. Partners include the Bengal Votes Committee, Hillel, UB Votes Committee, the NAACP, and the League of Women Voters, among many others.
Want to learn more or volunteer to help educate our community? Contact Rachel Beerman at rachel@buffalojewishfederation.org or visit rankedchoicewny.com.
Candles & Cones: A Frozen Festival of Light, December 14
Families are invited to celebrate Hanukkah with a sweet twist at Candles & Cones: A Frozen Festival of Light, a free PJ Library Hanukkah party on Sunday, December 14, from 4-6 pm at Sto Lat Event Space (4475 Transit Road, Williamsville).
Designed for children ages 0-12 and their grown-ups, this fun-filled celebration blends timeless Hanukkah traditions with the joy of an ice cream theme. Families will explore interactive stations that connect Jewish values, holiday rituals, and hands-on fun—each highlighting a value such as gratitude, generosity, courage, and creativity. At its heart, Candles & Cones celebrates Hanukkah’s enduring message: bringing light into the world. With laughter, learning, and plenty of sweetness, this “frozen festival” will remind families that Hanukkah is even more delightful when shared—like the perfect scoop of ice cream!
Reverse Tashlich
This past September, the Buffalo Federation joined Jews worldwide in Reverse Tashlich, a High Holiday initiative of Repair the Sea. This event, now in its fifth year for our Federation, turns the traditional ritual on its head: instead of casting our sins into the water, we remove the debris that harms it. This year we had 40 community members of all ages who gathered at Buffalo’s Tifft Nature Preserve for a hands-on cleanup of the shoreline and park areas. Together, they learned about Tifft Nature Preserve and how the waterway there connects all the way to the Atlantic Ocean, collected trash, restored beauty, and strengthened community bonds. Reverse Tashlich is more than a cleanup—it’s a Jewish act of environmental stewardship, a renewal of our covenant with creation, and a reminder that protecting the planet is part of our shared sacred responsibility. We look forward to continuing this tradition next year!
Leading with Heart: Mussar for Jewish Professionals
This fall, Susan Goldberg Schwartz and Evie Weinstein are bringing the timeless wisdom of Mussar to 16 Jewish community professionals through a new learning cohort focused on personal character, leadership, and organizational culture. The Buffalo Jewish Federation, in partnership with the JCC, brought this opportunity to professionals, which will give them tools to make more thoughtful choices in complex moments, and strengthen the inner traits that shape effective and compassionate leadership.
Mussar is a Jewish spiritual practice devoted to cultivating one’s inner life and refining character. Rooted in the teachings of the Talmud and the ethical masters of the Middle Ages, the Mussar movement took form in 19th-century Lithuania under Rabbi Yisrael Salanter, who taught that knowledge of Torah must be matched by the shaping of our hearts and habits.
At the heart of Mussar are middot— soul traits such as humility (anavah), patience (savlanut), gratitude (hakarat hatov ), compassion ( rachamim ), enthusiasm (zirizut), and trust (bitachon). Through reflection, mindfulness, and practice, each can be strengthened and integrated into daily life.
The tools of Mussar are deceptively simple yet transformative: focusing on one trait each day, journaling about its
expression, repeating short centering phrases, and engaging in honest conversation within community. Over time, these small practices inspire lasting personal and professional growth.
“By bringing this Mussar opportunity to our community’s professionals, we aim not only to nurture their personal and professional growth,” shared Stacey Block, Chief Operations Officer of the Buffalo Jewish Federation, “but also to spark meaningful collaboration and lasting relationships among organizations—strengthening the fabric of Jewish Buffalo together.”
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10/7 Commemoration
More than 200 members of Jewish Buffalo came together on Sunday, October 5, to commemorate the second anniversary of October 7, 2023, the day that joy was shattered by terror and a day that forever changed the Jewish world. Through stories, song, prayer, and acts of kindness, we mourned those whom we lost, honored the heroes, and reaffirmed our commitment to bring every hostage home and support Israel’s ongoing recovery. Through somber moments, hope was woven into all aspects of the deeply moving community gathering.
Gratitude in Action: How You Empower JFS Year-Round
This time of year, our community is deeply focused on giving thanks. As we gather together to celebrate with families around dinner tables this month, JFS extends our gratitude to you, our kehilla, who sustains our work year-round. Because of your continued support, JFS has been able to serve and strengthen lives across Buffalo and Western New York:
• 1349 care coordination clients with Care Coordination services.
• 50 Holocaust survivors with services from our Jewish Community Services team.
• 1569 Community Services clients with housing, family support, and other vital programming.*
Whether assisting a senior with benefits, guiding a family through complex medical needs, helping someone pursue a new career, or crafting a care plan for a Jewish household, JFS provides services that help our community thrive. We are deeply grateful for your belief in our mission and look forward to sharing more ways your support continues to make a difference.
*2024 Impact Data
Hadassah’s Programs
on Transgender Awareness and Support
Buffalo Hadassah, in partnership with Congregation Shir Shalom and its Men’s Group, hosted a well-attended panel discussion on Sunday, September 14. The program opened with remarks by Phyllis Steinberg, Hadassah Board Member, and introductions by Dr. Gale Burstein, Erie County Commissioner of Health and Adolescent Medicine Specialist.
Panelists Dr. Kathleen Bethin (Pediatric Endocrinologist, Oishei Children’s Hospital), Jack Kavanaugh (Executive Director, GLYS), and Maria Whyte (former Erie County Deputy Executive and parent of a transgender young woman) shared their experiences and insights on supporting transgender individuals and families.
The conversation quickly became interactive, as the panelists invited questions from the audience. Thoughtful, heartfelt exchanges continued throughout the two-hour program, with many attendees staying afterward to speak personally with the panelists.
Given the overwhelming interest, Hadassah’s Program Committee organized a follow-up virtual event in October, introduced by Marlene Katzel, Program Chair. The panel featured Tony Billoni and his son Emmett Billoni, who shared their family’s journey, along with Dr. Joshua Finklestein, a clinical psychologist specializing in LGBTQ+ care.
For more information about Hadassah and upcoming programs, email mkatzek@me.com.
The Story and Spirit of the JCC Movement
The Jewish Community Center (JCC) Movement began in 1854, when the first Hebrew Young Men’s Literary Association opened in Baltimore to support Jewish immigrants and nurture Jewish continuity. By 1913, local centers had united under the Council of Young Men’s Hebrew and Kindred Associations, leading to the founding of the Jewish Welfare Board (JWB) in 1917—a national network devoted to the welfare of Jewish military personnel and the broader Jewish community.
After World War II, as Jewish families moved to the suburbs, JCCs evolved to meet new needs for recreation, education, and connection. The 1950s and 1960s saw a boom in modern facilities offering day camps, arts programs, nursery schools, athletics, senior services, and informal Jewish learning—all enriching Jewish life.
The Six-Day War in 1967 inspired renewed Jewish pride and a deepened connection to Israel. JCCs became vibrant cultural hubs—hosting book fairs, film festivals, Soviet Jewry rallies, and Israel Independence Day celebrations that brought entire communities together.
Today, the Jewish Community Center of Greater Buffalo continues that proud legacy. Guided by the mission to serve as the “town square” for Jewish and greater Western New York, the JCC strengthens community through recreational, educational, cultural, and social programs rooted in Jewish values. Its vision: Shaping Futures, Building Community.
Our Impact
• Fitness & Wellness: Newly renovated facilities offering inclusive programs for all ages and abilities.
• Camp Centerland: An awardwinning summer day camp welcoming over 700 campers each year.
• Early Childhood Education: NAEYC-accredited programs nurturing over 350 children and families.
• Kids Place: Creative after-school programs engaging nearly 200 children weekly.
• Adult & Cultural Arts: Classes in art, games, and local exploration, plus the Cover to Cover Book Festival and Buffalo International Jewish Film Festival.
• Jewish Repertory Theatre: The area’s only professional Jewish theatre, recipient of numerous Artie Awards.
Across North America, JCC professionals now reach nearly two million people annually—engaging more young Jewish families than any other movement on the continent.
If you haven’t yet experienced our community, we invite you to stop by— perhaps for a cup of coffee in one of our lobbies.
Mark Horowitz, Chief Operations Officer |
LiNK’s Men Gathering
For nearly two decades, Federation has brought men together from across Jewish Buffalo for connection and conversation. Today, under the banner of LiNK, two vibrant groups continue that tradition: one for men under 60, and another—aptly named Wise Gathering—for those beyond. Earlier this fall, the younger group met at a member’s home for a discussion led by Temple Beth Zion’s Rabbi Brent Gutmann, while the older group came together at the JCC for a conversation facilitated by Rob Goldberg, Senior Advisor to the Federation. In all, more than 30 men—representing multiple congregations, denominations, and those unaffiliated—shared good food, good drink, and, most importantly, meaningful dialogue that strengthens friendship and Jewish connection.
East Side Cemetery Nominated to State & National Historic Registers
The Buffalo Jewish Federation Cemetery Corporation continues to earn recognition across New York State for leading preservation efforts that strengthen the present and future of Jewish cemeteries in the Greater Buffalo Niagara Region. On September 12, 2025, Governor Kathy Hochul announced that the New York State Board for Historic Preservation has nominated Beth Jacob Cemetery for listing on the State and National Registers of Historic Places.
Beth Jacob—also known as the Doat Street Cemetery—is the last surviving Jewish cemetery on Buffalo’s East Side. Located at 23 Doat Street, it offers a rare, tangible record of the religious, cultural, and social practices of Buffalo’s Orthodox Jewish immigrants—particularly those from Russia and Lithuania—who settled in the city from the 1880s through the 1920s.
The cemetery provides insight into migration, communal organization, religious life, and artistic expression of identity and memory. Its markers reflect late-19th- and early-20th-century American grave making, adapted by the Jewish
Jewish Discovery Center Launches
“Your Life, Your Mission”
Too often we drift through life—busy but not fulfilled—rarely stopping to ask: Why am I here? What’s my purpose?
Beginning Sunday, November 16 at 11 am, the Jewish Discovery Center invites the Buffalo community to pause and reflect through a transformative six-week adult education course, “Your Life, Your Mission: A Journey into Purposeful Living.”
In a time of constant motion and noise, many crave direction. Drawing from classical Jewish teachings, Chassidic thought, and Kabbalistic insight, the course explores life’s central question: What am I living for?
Led by Rabbi Heschel Greenberg, Director of the Jewish Discovery Center, participants will study timeless texts— Maimonides, the Tanya, the Zohar—and
learn how to uncover their unique mission and live it with intention.
More than a class, it’s an experience— combining inspiration with practical tools to bring clarity, balance, and joy into daily life. Over six sessions, participants will:
• Explore the Jewish perspective on destiny and divine purpose
• See how challenges shape personal growth and meaning
• Learn to turn routine moments into opportunities for purpose
Rabbi Greenberg shares, “In today’s world, many feel pulled in countless directions. Judaism teaches that every soul has a mission only it can fulfill. This course helps uncover that mission—and live it with confidence and joy.”
To register, visit jewishdiscovery.org/ course or call 716-400-1550
immigrant community with distinctive symbolism and inscriptions that honor their cultural and religious identity.
Its burial practices, layout, marker typology, gravestone symbolism, and location all illuminate evolving religious affiliations, immigrant assimilation, and community cohesion. While earlier Jewish cemeteries in the city have vanished beneath urban infrastructure or moved to Pine Ridge, Beth Jacob Cemetery endures as a vital physical reminder of Jewish heritage on Buffalo’s East Side.
“2025 has certainly been a monumental year for Jewish cemeteries,” said Jonathan Schechter, Esq., now entering his third year as president of
the Buffalo Jewish Federation Cemetery Corporation’s Board of Directors. “Ahavas Achim became the first Jewish cemetery to be listed on the State and National Registers of Historic Places. This milestone has now been achieved by Beth Jacob, and it is a critical step in preserving the cemetery’s future. Over the next year, numerous projects are planned at Beth Jacob, including headstone and walkway repairs, security enhancements, and the installation of a new wrought-iron gate.”
Inquiries about the Jewish cemeteries and the preservation initiatives facilitated by the Buffalo Jewish Federation Cemetery Corporation may be sent to cemetery@ buffalojewishfederation.org. Monetary contributions can also be made to The Stones of Remembrance Campaign by visiting: jewishphilanthropies.org/ stones-of-remembrance.
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End-of-Year Tax Planning: Make the Most of Your Charitable Giving
As 2025 draws to a close, many of us take stock of our goals—personal, financial, and philanthropic. For those committed to strengthening Jewish Buffalo and uplifting the broader community, year-end tax planning offers a powerful way to align values with impact. At the Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies (FJP), we’re honored to help donors turn generosity into lasting change.
1. Give Smarter with Appreciated Securities
Donating appreciated stock or mutual fund shares held for over a year can help you avoid capital gains tax and claim a deduction for the full market value. Contributing to a Donor Advised Fund (DAF) lets you secure a 2025 tax deduction now while recommending charitable grants later—maximizing both tax efficiency and flexibility.
2. Use IRA Gifts to Your Advantage
If you’re 70½ or older, a Qualified Charitable Distribution (QCD) from your IRA can count toward your Required Minimum Distribution (RMD) without increasing taxable income. While QCDs can’t go to DAFs, they can support community funds or specific charities through FJP—including establishing a Legacy Fund as part of the Life & Legacy™ @ Buffalo initiative.
3. Bundle Contributions for Bigger Impact
Consider “bundling” two or three years of charitable gifts into one tax year. This can allow you to itemize deductions and claim a larger charitable deduction now, while continuing to recommend grants from your DAF in future years.
4. Engage Your Family in Legacy Giving
Year-end is also an ideal time to talk about family philanthropy. Involving children or grandchildren in grantmaking through a DAF or family fund instills gratitude, generosity, and connection—L’dor V’dor, from generation to generation.
Important Year-End Deadlines
To qualify for 2025 deductions, checks must be postmarked by December 31, and securities must be received before yearend. Initiate transfers early, as brokerage firms experience heavy December volume.
The Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies is here to guide you in building a legacy of generosity, leadership, and enduring impact. Contact Jacob Fox, 716-204-1133, Jacob@JewishPhilanthropies.org.
Correction:
In the September/October issue of the Jewish Journal, David Feuerstein’s last name was misspelled on page 17. We regret the error.
Life & Legacy® at Buffalo
Celebrating Four Years of Life & Legacy at Buffalo
Jewish Buffalo Legacy donors recently gathered for a special evening marking the culmination of four inspiring years of the Life & Legacy program, a national initiative that has taken root and flourished in Buffalo.
Life & Legacy Buffalo (7/1/2021–10/17/2025)
Total Legacy Commitments: 584
Total Number of Donors: 317
Total Estimated Value: $22.2 million
Year five began July 1, 2025 and we have already increased our numbers for the future of Jewish Buffalo!
Become a participant in building the future of Jewish Buffalo with a gift now or after lifetime—regardless of size or type—to permanent endowment funds, for an organization or organizations which is/ are meaningful to you.
For more information, please contact Linda Barat, Life & Legacy at Buffalo Coordinator: at Linda@jewishphilanthropies.org or 716-204-2259.
Life & Legacy at Buffalo is a collaboration between the Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies and the Buffalo Jewish Federation, working in close partnership with local synagogues, agencies, and organizations. Together, we are fostering a culture in which legacy giving is embraced as a natural and essential part of Jewish philanthropy.
The program strengthens collaboration among our organizations and reinforces the core Jewish principle that Kol yisrael arevim zeh bazeh—all Jews are responsible for one another.
As one community, we are taking responsibility for our collective future. By participating in Life & Legacy, our Jewish organizations are building financial stability, cultivating lasting relationships, and ensuring that Jewish life in Buffalo continues to thrive for generations to come. We are grateful to Harold Grinspoon and the Harold Grinspoon Foundation for providing training, support, structure, guidance, leadership, and monetary incentives for this important initiative.
The concert featured internationally acclaimed vocalist Jay Dref, who delighted the audience with a program of Broadway and Jewish favorites. He was joined by Cantor Susan Lewis-Friedman of Temple Beth Zion, Cantor Mark Spindler of Temple Beth Tzedek, a guest appearance by Daria Gutmann, and Ken Kaufman provided masterful accompaniment on piano.
Following the performance, guests enjoyed a warm post-concert reception with exceptional food. Special thanks to Lori Morrison for her creativity and hospitality and very special appreciation goes to Linda Barat for her outstanding coordination of the event.
The program was guided by community leaders, with Jake Warner offering words of welcome at the start and Howard Rosenhoch closing with heartfelt thanks on behalf of the Life & Legacy effort.
As Life and Legacy moves into Year 5 and beyond, the Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies, together with the Buffalo Jewish Federation and our community partners, remains committed to educating and inspiring legacy giving to ensure a vibrant Jewish Buffalo for generations to come.
For more information or to participate in Life & Legacy, please contact Linda Barat, Coordinator, at 716-204-2259.
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Holidays Filled with Heart at KOT
The more than forty families who make up Kehillat Ohr Tzion (KOT) are truly like one extended family. Celebrations are shared by all, and davening together during the High Holidays is especially warm and uplifting. This year, as always, many children and grandchildren returned home to join their families for the holidays.
The sanctuary was filled with strollers, toys, laughter—and above all, smiles— as babies, toddlers, and young adults gathered on both sides of the mechitza.
A highlight of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur is Chazan Jeffrey Braverman, who has led KOT’s services for more than 40 years. Traveling from New Jersey each year, he is warmly welcomed by the congregation and by his aunt and uncle, Carol and Brian Joseph. Together, Rabbi Shlomo Schachter and Chazan Braverman crafted a beautiful, participatory service that touched everyone present.
For more information about KOT, email rabbischachter75@gmail.com. Law Offices of
This year also marked a new and cherished tradition: a Tashlich gathering at Glen Park. On the Sunday between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, members met by the waterfall to recite Tashlich together. Rabbi Schachter shared brief reflections on symbolically casting one’s sins into the water—reminding all that nothing else need be thrown away. Listening to the rush of the falls, hearing the Rabbi’s words, and standing together made this ancient ritual especially moving.
of Buffalo
BY RYAN PIKEN
Hillel Launches New Leadership Institute
Hillel of Buffalo is proud to launch the Hillel Leadership Institute (HLI)—a yearlong initiative designed to help students develop personal, interpersonal, and practical leadership skills.
We have begun onboarding 10 motivated students, including five returning student leaders who have already distinguished themselves as role models within Hillel, and five first-year students eager to deepen their involvement. Together, our goal is to create a mentorship culture where upperclassmen support newer students as they navigate college life and discover what Hillel means to them.
During the fall semester, participants will focus on building foundational leadership skills through meaningful discussions, hands-on activities, and
guided self-reflection—strengthening group connection and personal growth.
In the spring semester, students will put these skills into action by designing and implementing their own campus engagement initiatives. Projects may include
community service events, social gatherings at Hillel, or Jewish holiday experiences that bring peers together.
The mission of HLI—and of Hillel as a whole—is to cultivate an environment where students feel inspired to lead, make a difference on campus, and grow in their understanding of themselves.
We are thrilled to take our leadership development efforts to the next level and look forward to sharing more about our HLI journey in the months ahead.
Ryan Piken is the 2024-2026 Springboard Fellow at Hillel of Buffalo. She can be reached at springboard@hillelofbuffalo.org.
Hillel leaders: Juliet Reiff, Zoe Denmark, Jonathan Hirsch, Sabrina Mondschein, Izzy Ehrlich, and Julia Radowski
Smiles, balloons, and the sound of the shofar marked a joyful first day of school at Ohr Temimim! Students and teachers returned to festive decorations—including a colorful pencil-themed balloon arch—as Rabbi Shanowitz sounded the shofar in honor of Elul, setting a heartfelt tone for a year of learning, growth, and connection.
Strength in Community: Jewish Buffalo
Over 400 community members and friends gathered at the University at Buffalo on September 16 for the Campaign for Jewish Buffalo Kickoff Event. Federation is so grateful for those who joined; we felt the strength of your presence and the depth of your commitment.
The Kickoff Event—featuring actor, advocate and producer Jonah Platt, and honoring Corey Auerbach with the Men’s Emerging Leadership Award—made a bold statement about the future of Jewish Buffalo. The local Jewish community, as well as friends and allies in faith, business, civic and legislative roles, and community relations, showed up, celebrated, gave generously, and committed to a vibrant future for Jewish Buffalo.
Gathers to Kick Off ‘26 Campaign
CJL’s Jewish Women’s Circle
The Jewish Women’s Circle at the Center for Jewish Life (CJL) is a vibrant community of women who come together to connect, learn, and celebrate their heritage in a warm and welcoming atmosphere. Whether you’re deeply rooted in Jewish tradition or simply curious to explore, the Women’s Circle offers a space where every woman feels at home.
Each gathering combines friendship, inspiration, and fun. From creative handson projects and culinary workshops to meaningful discussions and holiday celebrations, the Women’s Circle blends the richness of Jewish tradition with the joys of everyday life.
Last month, in preparation for Yom Kippur, women gathered for a unique Kintsugi art workshop—Beauty in the Broken. The group explored the Japanese art of repairing broken pottery with gold, a powerful symbol of healing, forgiveness, and renewal.
Participants also created a one-of-a-kind dish symbolizing the ability to repair what is broken and transform it into something even more beautiful. The evening offered artistic
expression and deep personal reflection, reminding us that our flaws and struggles can become sources of strength and beauty.
The Jewish Women’s Circle at the Center for Jewish Life welcomes women of all ages and backgrounds—no membership or affiliation required. For upcoming events and registration, please visit JewishBuffalo.com or call 716-639-7600.
The Kabbalah of Meaning
If everyone knew exactly why they were here, this course wouldn’t be needed. As King Solomon observed—and modern psychology affirms—many of us wrestle with the same question: What makes my life meaningful?
For our ancestors, survival itself provided purpose. Today, with comfort and choice, we face a different challenge: What now?
This is more than philosophy. Since World War II, anxiety, depression, and loneliness have surged. A clear sense of “why” can make the difference between drifting and thriving. Even those not in crisis often sense a quiet emptiness—lives filled with activity but missing a unifying thread of purpose. For centuries, Jewish mystics and sages have explored how to live with meaning. Their timeless insights help us bring courage, joy, and direction to modern life.
The Kabbalah of Meaning invites you to explore life’s deepest questions:
• What truly gives life meaning?
• How is “feeling meaningful” different from being purposeful?
• What does it mean to be created in G-d’s image?
Join Rabbi Laizer Labkovski of the Center for Jewish Life for a sixweek journey blending ancient wisdom with real-world relevance—helping you uncover purpose, balance, and fulfillment.
Mondays, November 3–December 8 | 7-8:30 pm
Hot dinner served Center for Jewish Life, 757 Hopkins Rd., Williamsville Reservations: JewishBuffalo.com | 716-639-7600
Leading with Care and Building Bridges
BY RABBI BRENT GUTMANN
Across America, we feel the strain of a fraying social fabric. Families are stretched, our population is aging, and distrust and xenophobia make compassion harder. The hidden strain of caregiving and the erosion of trust show how fragile our connections are. This is why building bridges across our community and supporting caregivers and their families is so critical.
Toward that end, I would like to share two exciting developments from this summer.
Temple Beth Zion and Jewish Family Services received a partnership grant
from the Ralph C. Wilson, Jr. Foundation, to be used to address the critical needs of caregivers. Many who regularly help others don’t recognize themselves as caregivers, yet their compassionate work keeps loved ones well and families together. The Archangels Program is where we will begin this work. Scan the Archangels QR code in the adjoining ad to the left, and take the brief survey to add your voice. We would love to hear from you.
As for building bridges, Temple Beth Zion has been hard at work. When I arrived in 2022, our “Jewel on Delaware” needed some care and attention. Much has changed since then: maintenance is up-to-date, renovations are nearing completion, and our congregation and Religious School are growing. Our campus, too, is now supporting an evolving Jewish arts, culture, and social services scene.
Toward that end, our second development this summer comes from Bloomberg Philanthropies. This international organization is supporting the work of the Jewish Museum of Buffalo (JMB) and its communal Board of Directors. Founded at 805 Delaware and building on the Cofeld Museum and Blum Jewish Education Project, the JMB has welcomed over 7,000 participants since January 2024. Bloomberg Philanthropies is supporting JMB’s progress and work to deepen understanding across Western New York. This is a very exciting development. We are delighted about both the Ralph C. Wilson and Bloomberg recognitions. Their impacts will help cultivate both the “jewels” we find in our caregivers and the treasure we have here at 805 Delaware.
Brent Gutmann is the Senior Rabbi of Temple Beth Zion.
Nurturing Jewish Wellness in Young Scholars
The holiday season provides a meaningful opportunity to reflect on Jewish wellness and how it can be woven into the educational experience of Kadimah’s young scholars. The Days of Awe, Sukkot, and Simchat Torah mark moments of deep spiritual significance while
Kadimah Scholars at also offering valuable lessons that strengthen emotional, social, and spiritual well-being.
Reflection and Growth
Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur invite thoughtful introspection through teshuvah —repentance and renewal. At Kadimah Scholars at the Park School, students are encouraged to reflect on their choices and relationships, fostering empathy, accountability, and resilience. These moments of self-awareness help nurture kindness and personal growth that extend far beyond the classroom.
Building Community
Sukkot emphasizes the importance of connection and belonging. As families and friends gather in the sukkah, students learn the value of community through teamwork, collaboration, and shared experiences. Lessons focused on hospitality and gratitude help students appreciate the support networks that sustain them and strengthen their sense of belonging within the Jewish community.
Joy in Tradition
Simchat Torah celebrates joy through song, dance, and Torah. Encouraging students to express that joy—through music, art, or storytelling—enriches their emotional well-being and deepens their engagement with Jewish life. At Kadimah, celebration is an essential part of learning, reminding students that joy itself is a mitzvah and a vital expression of Jewish identity.
Mindfulness and Meaning
The holidays also offer opportunities for mindfulness and reflection. Through gratitude journaling, prayer, or time spent appreciating nature, students cultivate inner calm and a deeper spiritual awareness. These practices encourage balance, focus, and connection—to themselves, to their community, and to their heritage.
Healthy Dialogue
Themes of forgiveness and reconciliation teach the power of communication and compassion. Students learn to listen, share, and resolve conflicts respectfully, developing emotional intelligence and strengthening their relationships with peers and teachers alike.
By nurturing reflection, community, joy, mindfulness, and open dialogue, Kadimah helps its students grow into compassionate, resilient young Jews who carry these lessons forward throughout the year. In every classroom and celebration, the seeds of Jewish wellness are being planted—helping each student flourish in spirit, learning, and life.
Death over Dessert at TBT
Yes, it sounds like a bizarre combination but hear us out. Death, like taxes, is inevitable for all of us. And yet, we tend to be more comfortable discussing the tax code than our feelings about grief and dying. You are invited to join us for Death over Dessert on Saturday, November 22, 7 pm, at Temple Beth Tzedek. Laden with chocolate and other treats, we will have intimate, facilitated group conversations about topicsconnectedtoendoflife.
This program will be facilitated by Sarit Wishnevski, the Executive Director of Kavod v’Nichum. Meaning “honor and comfort,” Kavod v’Nichum’s mission is to empower, educate, and train Chevra Kadisha. Sarit will be visiting Buffalo as a scholar-in-residence over Shabbat and will be offering this evening program to the community.
Reflecting on the program, Ms. Wishnevski remarks, “It may seem unusual to talk about death over dessert, but that’s exactly the point: in naming what feels hardest, we also affirm what we value most about life. When we gather in community for these conversations, we find honesty, courage, and even a surprising sweetness in connecting with one another.”
Please join us for a sweet evening of reflection and community connection. You are also welcome to attend Shabbat services at Temple Beth Tzedek at 9:30 am on November 15, when our scholar will be speaking on the topic, “More Than One Blessing: Legacy, Community, and Sacred Care.” The scholar-in-residence visit is sponsored by the Anne Bernstein Memorial Fund. The Death over Dessert program is sponsored by Amherst Memorial Chapel.
For more information or to RSVP, email rsvp@btzbuffalo.org or call 716-838-3232.
B’COL Shines this Fall
Buffalo Community of Learners (B’COL) is shining this season with a focus on art, holiday celebration, and socialemotional well-being. This community-centered religious school brings students, families, and educators together for meaningful Jewish learning and connection.
Rabbi Sara Rich, and the dedicated B’COL staff. Individualized one-on-one Hebrew tutoring is also underway, allowing each child to learn at their own pace with personalized content.
This fall, families joined the Kesher Outstretched Arm Sukkot celebration at Temple Beth Tzedek—an inspiring and joy-filled gathering that connected participants with the broader Jewish community. Parents also engaged in thoughtful workshops on supporting transgender youth and understanding social anxiety, deepening both knowledge and connection across the B’COL community.
Throughout November, students are creating original Jewish-inspired artwork that will be showcased later this season. Families of kindergarten/first grade and sixth/ seventh-grade students will also come together for a special Family Education Day, fostering shared learning and growth.
B’COL remains proud of its mission to cultivate a vibrant
Students in grades 4-7 are exploring a range of rich electives taught by Rabbi Alex Lazarus-Klein, environment where Jewish learning and community flourish side by side. From dynamic electives and individualized tutoring to joyful celebrations and meaningful parent engagement, B’COL continues to nurture a culture of curiosity, compassion, and connection for all.
For more information on BCOL, contact buffalocommunityoflearners@gmail.com.
Butternut Squash, Pear and Radicchio Salad with Pecan Dressing Dining Guide
BY ROBIN KURSS
Every Thanksgiving, I do the same thing. It’s the one holiday that tradition wins out over innovation and modernity. That said, we always have a salad of some kind, to make us feel as though we are at least trying to be healthy. This one is colorful and delicious; I hope you will enjoy it. Wishing you a very Happy Thanksgiving filled with family and friends. I’m grateful to you all for your kind comments about this column and for generously sharing your recipes with me too!
Ingredients:
1 butternut squash, halved, seeds removed, sliced into 1" thick half-moons
¼ cup extra-virgin olive oil
Kosher salt, freshly ground pepper
Vinaigrette:
1 cup pecans
½ cup extra-virgin olive oil
Kosher salt
1 shallot, finely chopped
½ cup orange juice
2 Tbsp. grainy mustard
2 Tbsp. pure maple syrup
Salt & pepper to taste
1 Tbsp. lemon juice
¼ cup mint leaves, chopped
1 orange, peeled and sliced
2 heads of radicchio, leaves separated, torn if large or 1 head radicchio and 2 endive
Directions:
1 grapefruit,
Preheat oven to 450°. Toss squash with oil in a large bowl, season with salt and pepper. Place squash on 2 parchment lined baking sheets. Bake until tender, for about 20-25 minutes. Set squash aside; reduce oven temperature to 350°.
Toss pecans with 1 tsp. oil in a small bowl; season with salt. Toast on a rimmed baking sheet for 8–10 minutes. Let cool, then chop. Set ½ cup pecans aside for garnish.
Blend shallot, orange juice, mustard, maple syrup, and toasted pecans in a blender until combined but not liquified. With motor running, gradually stream in ½ cup oil and blend until thickened. Season dressing with salt and pepper.
Toss radicchio and half of dressing in a large bowl to coat, season with salt and pepper. Arrange on a platter. Toss squash with remaining dressing in the same bowl to coat, season with salt and pepper. Arrange over radicchio.
Toss pear with 1 Tbsp. lemon juice in a small bowl. Top salad with pear, orange, grapefruit and mint. Sprinkle with remaining pecans and edible flowers if using. 1 pear, thinly sliced
Happy Thanksgiving
November: Voting and Values the
PJ Library Way!
Everyone loves stickers—especially the “I Voted” kind! Gather markers, round paper circles, and double-sided tape. Begin by explaining that adults receive stickers after voting and why voting matters in our community. Show examples of real “I Voted” stickers for inspiration, then let each child decorate a blank circle with stars, stripes, or other patriotic designs. As they create, talk about how everyone has a voice in making choices. When finished, kids can proudly wear their handmade “I Voted” stickers.
2. DIY Ballot Boxes
Turn a shoebox into a ballot box by cutting a slot in the top. Let children decorate it with construction paper, markers, and stickers. Create simple picture ballots with two clear options—like which book to read or which snack to have. Explain that voting means making a private choice and putting it in a special box. Once everyone has voted, count the ballots together and announce the results. This fun activity introduces ideas like decision-making, privacy, and accepting outcomes—perfect for little learners.
Bring Your Child to Vote
Taking your child to the polls is a meaningful way to show civic engagement in action. Before Election Day, talk about voting in simple terms and create a picture checklist of what they might see—signs, poll workers, booths, and machines. After voting, discuss what you observed and take a selfie outside to remember the experience!
4. Kehillah and Caring for Others
The Hebrew word kehillah means community, a core Jewish value about caring for one another. Many PJ Library books beautifully capture this idea—try The Cholent Brigade by Michael Herman, The Cats on Ben Yehuda Street by Ann Redisch Stampler, or Chik Chak Shabbat by Mara Rockliff. Read together at bedtime, then discuss how the characters help their kehillah and what that means in your own family.
5. Chicken Soup for Everyone
Retell the classic story Stone Soup—or the PJ Library version Stone Soup with Matzoh Balls by Linda Glaser—to show how everyone’s contribution creates something wonderful. Then invite your child to help make chicken soup! Let them wash vegetables, tear herbs, or measure ingredients. As you cook together, talk about how each ingredient—and each person— adds something special to the community.
Jewish Community Organizations in Western New York
Buffalo Jewish Federation
338 Harris Hill Road – Suite 108B
Williamsville, NY 14221
716-463-5050
buffalojewishfederation.org
Miriam Abramovich - CEO
Margie Bryen - President
Buffalo Vaad of Kashrus
716-634-0212
buffalovaad.com
Rabbi Avi Okin - Rabbinic Administrator
Mike Steklof, Ed.D. – President
Center for Jewish Life
Suburbs: 757 Hopkins Road Williamsville, NY 14221
716-639-7600
jewishbuffalo.com
Rabbi Laizer & Chani Labkovski Downtown: 1016 Lafayette Avenue Buffalo, NY 14209
716-545-6806
Rabbi Mendy & Chaya Mushka Labkovski
Chabad House of Buffalo 2450 North Forest Road Getzville, NY 14068
716-688-1642
chabadofbuffalo.com
Rabbi Moshe Gurary
Rabbi Avrohom Gurary
Chabad of Niagara Falls USA
716-703-8770
ChabadNiagaraFallsUSA.org
Rabbi Yehuda Lorber
Mrs. Yehudis Lorber
Chai Early Childhood Center
757 Hopkins Road Williamsville, NY 14221
716-580-4600
chainursery.com
Chani Labkovski - Director
Community Relations
338 Harris Hill Road – Suite 108B Williamsville, NY 14221
buffalojewishfederation.org
Rob Goldberg - Senior Advisor
Harvey Sanders - Chair
Department of Jewish Thought
712 Clemens Hall – University at Buffalo Buffalo, NY 14260
716-645-3695
jewish-studies@buffalo.edu
jewishstudies.buffalo.edu
Dr. Noam Pines - Chair
Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies
2640 North Forest Road
Getzville, NY 14068
716-204-1133
jewishphilanthropies.org
Irv Levy - Executive Director
Craig Small - President
Hadassah
2640 North Forest Road
Getzville, NY 14068
716-929-6504
buffalohadassah@gmail.com
Frima Ackerhalt and Phyllis Steinberg - Co-Presidents
Hebrew Benevolent Loan Association
2640 North Forest Road in FJP offices
Getzville, NY 14068
716-463-5065
wnyhbla.org
Judith Katzenelson Brownstein - President
Hillel of Buffalo
Campus Center of Jewish Life
520 Lee Entrance/UB Commons
Suite #101B
Amherst, NY 14228
716-616-0083
hillelofbuffalo.org
Mike Steklof, Ed.D., Executive Director
Laura Hemlock-Schaeffer - President
Holocaust Education Resource Organization
338 Harris Hill Road – Suite 108B
Williamsville, NY 14221
buffalojewishfederation.org/herobuffalo
Lauren Bloomberg - Director Armand Morrison - Chair
Jewish Community Center of Greater Buffalo
Benderson Family Building 2640 North Forest Road
Getzville, NY 14068
716-688-4033
jccbuffalo.org
Patty Simonson - CEO
Sheryl Schechter - President
Holland Family Building 787 Delaware Avenue Buffalo, NY 14209
716-886-3145
Jewish Discovery Center
831 Maple Road
Williamsville, NY 14221
716-632-0467
jewishdiscovery.org
Rabbi Heschel Greenberg
Jewish Family Services of Western New York
70 Barker Street Buffalo, NY 14209
716-883-1914
jfswny.org
Molly Short Carr - CEO
Harold Star - Chair
Jewish Federation Apartments
275 Essjay Road Williamsville, NY 14221
716-631-8471
jewishfederationapartments.org
Krista Bryk - Property Manager
Jewish Federation Cemetery Corporation, Inc. P.O. Box 440 West Seneca, NY 14224
buffalojewishfederation.org
716-548-7676
Debbie Pivarsi - Manager
Jonathan Schechter - President
Kadimah Scholars at Park kadimah.org
Reneé Lehner - Administrator miriam treger - President
Kosher Meals on Wheels 757 Hopkins Road Williamsville, NY 14221
716-639-7600
koshermow.com
Rabbi Laizer Labkovski - Director Jeffery Pasler - President
LiNK Jewish Buffalo
338 Harris Hill Road – Suite 108B buffalojewishfederation.org/link Williamsville, NY 14221
Kirstie Henry - Chair
Ohr Temimim School
411 John James Audubon Parkway W. Amherst, NY 14228
716-568-0226
ohrtemimimschool.com
Rabbi Shmuel Shanowitz - Principal
Sonia Gellman Young - President
Western New York Synagogues and Temples
Chabad House of Buffalo (unaffiliated) 2450 North Forest Road Getzville, NY 14068
716-688-1642
chabadofbuffalo.com
Rabbi Moshe Gurary
Rabbi Avrohom Gurary
Chabad of Niagara Falls USA 716-703-8770
ChabadNiagaraFallsUSA.org
Rabbi Yehuda Lorber
Mrs. Yehudis Lorber
Congregation Beth Abraham (Conservative) 1073 Elmwood Avenue Buffalo, NY 14222
congregationbethabraham.net
Cantor Irwin Gelman
Marty Kerker - President
Congregation Havurah (Reform) 6320 Main Street, Williamsville, NY 14221 716-833-3165
congregationhavurah.org president.havurah@gmail.com
Daniel Mink - President
Congregation Shir Shalom (Reform/Reconstructionist) 4660 Sheridan Drive Williamsville, NY 14221
716-633-8877
shirshalombuffalo.org
Rabbi Alexander Lazarus-Klein
Cantor Arlene Frank
Joanne Marquisee - Executive Director
Joe Glickman - President
JDC Shul (Unafilliated) 831 Maple Road Williamsville, NY 14221 716-245-9520
jewishdiscovery.org
Rabbi Heschel Greenberg
Rabbi Levi Greenberg
Rabbi Yehoshua Greenberg
Kehillat Ohr Tzion (Modern Orthodox) 879 Hopkins Road Williamsville, NY 14221
ohrtzion.org/kot
Rabbi Shlomo Schachter
Jeff Schapiro - President
Knesset Center (Orthodox)
500 Starin Avenue
Buffalo, NY 14214
716-832-5063
chabadofbuffalo.com
Rabbi Shmaryahu Charitonow
Saranac Synagogue (Orthodox) 85 Saranac Avenue Buffalo New York 14216
716-876-1284
saranacsynagogue.org
President - Shmuel Rashkin
Vice President - Reuven Alt Gabbai David Kunkel
Temple Beth Tzedek (Conservative) 1641 North Forest Road Williamsville, NY 14221 716-838-3232
btzbuffalo.org
Rabbi Sara Rich
Cantor Mark Spindler
Cantorial Soloist Zahava Fried
Beth Kassirer - President Kim Jones - Administrator
Temple Beth Zion (Reform)
Sanctuary & Offices 805 Delaware Avenue Buffalo, NY 14209
Religious School 700 Sweet Home Road Amherst, NY 14226 716-836-6565
tbz.org
Rabbi Brent Gutmann
Cantor Susan Lewis-Friedman
Ken Graber - President
Temple Beth El (Reform) 720 Ashland Avenue Niagara Falls, NY 14301
templebethelniagara@gmail.com niagarafallstemple.com
Rabbi Ellen Franke Cantorial Soloist Barry Rose
Adam DePriest - President
Temple Hesed Abraham of Greater Jamestown (Reform) Meeting biweekly at Jamestown, NY
Lutheran Church
Rabbi Allen Podet Joe Gerstel - President (716-665-2118) valprojdg@netsync.net
The Family Shul (Unaffiliated) 757 Hopkins Road Williamsville, NY 14221
Rabbi Laizer Labkovski 716-639-7600
Young Israel of Greater Buffalo (Orthodox) 105 Maple Road Williamsville, NY 14221 716-634-0212
yibuffalo.org
Rabbi Avi Okin
Richard Berger and Michael PaskowitzCo-Presidents
Sue Carrel: A Beautiful Life
In late September, our community lost a very special member – Susan (Sue) Iris Carrel. Sue was the beloved and devoted wife of Alan Carrel, with whom she shared over 61 years of love and marriage. Together they built a beautiful life centered on family, joy, and love. We are honored to share excerpts from Alan’s eulogy for Sue as we remember the many contributions she made to her family, friends and Jewish Buffalo.
Family and friends were the most important part of Sue’s life, so she would be happy that so many of you are here to say goodbye.
How do I come close to describing the greatest gift I received in my lifetime? It all began when we were volunteers in the principal’s office as sophomores in high school. I quickly developed a crush on her but did not feel I could ask her on a date because we were in very different social groups for kids in our class. Sue was part of the extremely popular group, and I was a member of the somewhat nerdy group. Asking her out was nevertheless continually on my mind, I told a friend the following summer that I would like to ask Sue on a date, but I was sure she would never go out with me. He said, “You will never know unless you ask,” so I did, and I think you know the answer. We became a couple immediately and were a team for 67 years.
During that time, we literally raised each other, by guiding each other through life and helping develop each other’s potential. With her love, support, patience, advice and encouragement, she transformed an insecure, undependable, procrastinator into a responsible, confident hard worker who is happy with himself and loves life.
She had the same impact on our children. Sue’s special gift for inspiring, motivating, building confidence, creating unity and communicating built a strong family unit where everyone loved and supported each other. I actually do not recall our children ever arguing with each other. They always seemed to enjoy each other’s successes. When they got older, we were extremely pleased with the values they had developed, their strong character, their integrity and their resilience after disappointments. We were equally thrilled when they all married wonderful people and created terrific families of their own. We have 7 amazing grandchildren.
Sue and I had an incredible relationship. Almost every day during the last 20 or more years we would look at each other and say, “How did we get so lucky to have this phenomenal life together, where we have each other, our wonderful family and dozens of fantastic friends?” We truly felt that no other couple could possibly love each other as much as we did or be as happy as we were. We were extremely grateful.
A large part of Sue’s life was her teaching. She taught Sunday School at Temple Beth Zion for dozens of years. It was an enormously important part of her life. Sue taught for twenty years in the City of Buffalo Public Schools. Whenever we were in North Buffalo, I felt as if I was married to a celebrity. It was uncanny how often a former student or a parent would approach us enthusiastically with a look of adoration on their faces and say, “Mrs. Carrel! Mrs. Carrel! It is great to see you. You are the best teacher I, (or my child) ever had.”
What made her such a great teacher? Her desire to help children, her natural aptitude and hard work. She had a gift for creating a warm, friendly environment in which everyone felt comfortable. Her class became a family. The same phenomenal qualities that created our family transformed her students annually into a unit. The students learned almost immediately that everyone was equal, and unkindness to a classmate was unacceptable.
I can best demonstrate her effectiveness as a teacher by reading two notes written when she was nominated for New York State Teacher of the Year. The first is from a former student:
“During my years at Olmsted and City Honors, and now at Harvard, many of my teachers have been excellent, but Mrs. Carrel is at the top of this highly distinguished group. She has an affectionate spirit that radiates from her and fills the room. She finds the best in all her students. She peers into their minds and understand their feelings. There is a high level of positive reinforcement that causes students to
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feel good about themselves and enables them to perform at their highest level. She impacted my life in a way no other teacher ever has.”
The second is from a parent: “My daughter has had many terrific teachers, but Mrs. Carrel stands out as the best. We still have boxes filled with her projects from that class…but we don’t need to open them to see Mrs. Carrel’s impact. The difference she made is visible every day. Our daughter learned that education spills beyond the classroom… to respect and value differences…to discover her own uniqueness…to learn how to learn. Mrs. Carrel took a shy, quiet girl and, with skill and loving attention, led her out of herself and into the world. We can never repay her for the role she played in our daughter’s life.”
When talking about Sue’s life, it is important to mention Judy Kantor and Sue Joffe, who were her best friends for decades, and who were especially devoted during Sue’s last few years as she struggled with Alzheimer’s.
Of course, a key person in Sue’s life was her sister, Bette. They were much more than sisters. They were soulmates.
They not only loved each other. They also revered each other and were extremely attentive to each other. It was a beautiful thing to watch and was a huge part of Sue’s life.
Bette always said that Sue was the best big sister in the whole world. Sue was the best at most things!
She had the most friends of anyone I have met, because she loved people and always put others before herself.
I am often told by people that she is the nicest person they have ever known. That is not surprising, because it is impossible to be nicer than she was.
Sue was all of the things I have mentioned and more. She was an outstanding student, always at or near the top of her class. She was a terrific athlete who never had the opportunity to compete for her schools, because sports teams for females did not exist then.
In short, Sue had the whole package. She was also my best friend, my greatest source of happiness, and the person I respected most in the world. And I am the lucky guy who got to be her partner for 67 years. I will be forever grateful. I love you honey and always will.
In Remembrance
The following individuals in our community passed away during the period from August 19, 2025-October 19, 2025. May their memories forever be a blessing, and may their loved ones be comforted among the mourners of Zion.
Allen Applebaum
Barbara Baker
Eleanor Berger
Shirley Brodsky
Susan Carrel
Trina Cohen
Gabriel J. Ferber
Bernard B. Freedman
Joseph Heiney
Dorothy “Dottie” Hennessy
Karen Houser
Eileen Kessler
Robert Kossoff
Tillie Lazerson
Lenore Levy
Susan Levy
Elaine Newburg
William Ostroff
Robert S. Risman
Pauline Rogers
Muriel Savit
Ilene Scheib
Michael Shapiro
Joel Sigal
Michael C. Snyderman
Howard Wilinsky
If we inadvertently missed printing the listing of your loved one, please email jjwny@buffalojewishfederation.org and we will include the name in the next issue.
Balancing Anger & Gratitude: My Experience with Breast Cancer
BY JILL KOMM
On January 7, 2025, I received a call that no one wants to hear: You have breast cancer. For those with technical knowledge—Stage 2 Invasive Ductal Carcinoma ER/PR+ Her2-. The next eight months became a whirlwind of doctors’ appointments, surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation. Medical leave from work, rearranging my life, and learning to rely heavily on others were not part of my 2025 master plan. The harsh realities of a “curable” cancer are life-altering. I lost my breasts, I lost my hair, I lost the functionality of my reproductive organs, and at times, I lost my spirit. I cried enough tears to fill a large pool, and asked myself, “why me?” more times than I can count. Facing cancer brought a storm of emotions, and early on, it was mostly anger.
Anger rose from fear, pain, and an overall sense of unfairness. It was destructive at times and consumed my thoughts. Anger also fueled my determination to fight, set appropriate boundaries, and advocate for the care I needed. Yet, I was feeling angry that I was so angry!
In Mussar, a spiritual practice of ethics and character development that aims to illuminate the innate holiness within every person by refining one’s inner qualities, anger (ka’as) is seen as a trait to be balanced rather than eliminated. So, after some time, I shifted my focus to gratitude (hakarat hatov) which let me recognize the good, gain better perspective, and hold on to hope. That led me to my gratitude list:
Science – I was naïve in my understanding that you only had to be hyper concerned about breast cancer if you had BRCA1 or BRCA 2 gene mutations. There are in fact MANY gene mutations that can increase the risk of breast cancer. Due to family history, I was able to have genetic testing done which revealed an ATM gene mutation. It is estimated that 1 in 8 women will develop breast cancer in their lifetime. With this gene mutation, it increased my risk to 20-30%, which meant I was able to have a yearly Breast MRI for additional screening. It was at my very first MRI in December 2024 that my tumors were found—missed by both mammograms and ultrasounds. Early detection gave me the best chance to fight. Thank you, Science!
Roswell Park Comprehensive Cancer Center –Just 20 minutes away, I received world-class care from a huge team of professionals at Roswell. The true heroes were the nurses and therapists, who show up to work every day with a smile on their face, hold space for every patient to express
their feelings and needs, and never make you feel like you’re a number. I was an active participant in my treatment plan and always felt like my voice was heard. Thank you, Roswell!
Medical Professionals – One of the most difficult parts of this experience was the wait between learning about my diagnosis and seeing my oncologist. The questions and uncertainty that raced through my mind were a burden I
wouldn’t wish on anyone. Fortunately, there are many incredible doctors in our community that I was able to connect with and ask a million questions. Despite not being my personal doctors, they reviewed my charts and explained medical jargon, so I felt empowered to walk into my first oncology appointment informed and ready. How lucky our community is to have so many talented professionals who not only have expertise in their fields but make space to help all in need. Thank you, Medical Professionals!
Our Community – Perhaps the most humbling experience was learning to say Thank You for the outpouring of support from my family, friends, and the entire community. The most gorgeous flower bouquets and meal deliveries flooded my home in the weeks following my surgery. Special packages of sweet treats, soup to warm my body and soul, and comfort items were randomly dropped off at my doorstep. Daily phone calls and text messages helped me pass the time. I received the most beautiful cards and handwritten notes, and I have cherished every single one of them. The letters of solidarity from those who went through similar experiences,
Surgery pre op for a double mastectomy Chemotherapy Session 3
to cheerful cards letting me know you were thinking about me, and deeply personal notes of inspiration, they were the medicine I didn’t know I needed. I recall one particularly difficult day, a handwritten card from a friend brought me to tears–the good kind–and shifted my entire outlook. I have saved every card and note that I received and will treasure them forever. Thank you to the best community!
Centering on gratitude helped me shift my focus from what was lacking to the abundance of what was already present. This community is smart, caring, and deeply loving. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to adequately express my gratitude to everyone who helped me along the way and continues to cheer me on as I navigate this next phase, but I carry it with me and hope to give back in return.
I “rang the bell” on August 25, marking the end of my active treatment and moving to a maintenance phase that will hopefully stick around for decades to come. It will be a challenge to get used to this new way of life, perhaps involving a little more pink in my wardrobe, and encouraging women to advocate for their health and preventative screenings. According to the National Breast Cancer Foundation, 1 in 5 adults newly diagnosed with cancer in the United States has children under 18 years old. It is a club that no one wants to join. But if you find yourself here, know that you are not alone. Hineni–I am here.
Jill Komm is Chief of Administration at the Buffalo Jewish Federation.
Ringing the bell at Roswell Park
