President’s Message
The Power of Women Working Together
As we start 2025, the Buffalo Jewish Federation is energized and focused on exciting new and ongoing community programs. We’re off to a great start with our annual campaign, reaching 43% of our goal by the end of January, and we have a strategic roadmap to guide our priorities and continue building a strong future for Jewish Buffalo.
This January, I had the privilege of attending the International Lion of Judah Conference in Atlanta, alongside nine female friends from Jewish Buffalo (see pictures on page 9). The conference, hosted by Jewish Federations of North America (JFNA), brought together 1,700 philanthropic women from across the Federation system to celebrate our collective impact. Together, Lions contribute over $34M each year to the annual campaigns of Federations across North America.
Our small but mighty group from Buffalo had the privilege of celebrating, learning, and reflecting on important issues facing our communities. We heard stories of courage and heroism, success in combating antisemitism, and hope from the families of hostages. We honored Rise’ Kulick for her outstanding level of philanthropy and volunteerism along with women selected by each represented Federation. We gained valuable insights that we’ll bring back to our community here in Buffalo.
With a sense of collective relief, Israeli hostages after 471 days in captivity, thanks to a fragile ceasefire, are beginning to come home. The ongoing work to rebuild Israel and support its people continue - and the JFNA Israel Emergency Fund is a critical lifeline for that rebuilding effort.
As we move forward this year, I am filled with hope and gratitude for the strength of our community and the power of collective action.
Buffalo Jewish Federation is grateful to so many for their investment in the Campaign for Jewish Buffalo. This month we pay tribute through a listing of all those individuals, families and corporate partners who have made a gift to support our work in 2024 (pp 20-24). Their generosity enables Federation to keep Jewish Buffalo safe, connected and flourishing!
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Celebrating with the People of Judah!
BY JONATHAN EPSTEIN
She-ma, She-ma! She-ma, she-ma! She-maaa, Yis-ra-el!
The melodious chorus rang out in the sanctuary, as the voices of some 300 people joined in the prayer together in loud and joyous unison to set the mood and welcome Shabbat in the synagogue for the bat mitzvah. The blessings of Kabbalat Shabbat followed, capped with Lecha Dodi
My family and I happily joined in. We could have been in any large U.S. synagogue that draws a youthful or boisterous crowd on a Friday night. But we weren’t.
We were in Nabugoye, a village outside the city of Mbale, in southeastern Uganda, near the Kenyan border. And this was the Abayudaya, a Jewish community that voluntarily adopted Judaism just over a century ago, and which has thrived despite the hardship of poverty and isolation in this developing country.
Led by its charismatic chief rabbi, Gershom Sizomu, the Abayudaya today numbers more than 2,500 and growing. And they have embraced Judaism with a joy and passion that is worth experiencing.
My family and I were traveling with a group of 13, on a journey organized by the International Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs, which has been connected with this unique community for many years.
On one level, we were there to join the Abayudaya in celebrating the coming of age of Rabbi Sizomu’s daughter, Ziva. But we also went to visit the community, meet and talk with the people, learn how they live, understand their challenges and opportunities, and see how they are already benefiting from assistance provided through the FJMC and American Jewish communities like Buffalo – where our Buffalo Jewish Federation and the Temple Beth Tzedek Brotherhood have donated a combined $12,500 to support Abayudaya programs.
Most recently, our local Buffalo Jewish Federation donated an old Torah to the community, which we were honored to transport and handdeliver to the Abayudaya’s Hadassah Primary School, where school leaders received it with song and dance.
The word “Abayudaya” means “People of Judah” in Luganda, one of the native languages of Uganda. Unlike the Ethiopian Jews, who claimed a long lineage of Judaism back to ancient times, the Abayudaya are a modern addition to global Jewry, with a story that began only 105 years ago, in 1919, with their voluntary adoption of Judaism, after tribal chief and regional leader Semei Kakungulu became disenchanted with the British and missionaries and began studying the Bible himself.
Today, the community has 15 villages and 12 synagogues – of which eight are Conservative and four are Orthodox. It also has two schools and a health clinic. Rabbi Sizomu was trained and ordained at the Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies in Los Angeles and has also served in the Ugandan Parliament. His son-inlaw, Samson, is studying at Ziegler now.
Formal conversions to Judaism have occurred since 2002 and continue today – more than 130 people converted while we were there, with the convening of a Beit Din. The community celebrates Shabbat and holidays as we do, and their services – at least what we observed – are little different than our own here in Buffalo, but with an energy and ruach that is exhilarating and contagious.
Celebrating with the People of Judah! ( cont’d )
The country is deeply impoverished in most areas, including the villages we visited. Yet we saw a people unbowed and undeterred by poverty. And we saw a people excited to welcome visitors and honored to be accepted as part of world Jewry. We were greeted warmly and literally embraced everywhere we went.
During our trip, we learned about smallbusiness training to help men and women turn their pottery, weaving, brick-making or other skills into an income source. We visited both a small synagogue and the main synagogue, the primary school, and the Kakungulu High School. We celebrated Chanukah and Shabbat, in both Hebrew and Luganda (and English), and enjoyed Ugandan music, dance and culture. And we ventured on the Nile River, rappelled down a waterfall, and saw a chimpanzee sanctuary.
We found it to be an awesome and inspiring experience, to learn about a people that faces so many daily struggles, but which has wholeheartedly chosen to embrace and celebrate our religion and traditions. If you want to learn more, we’re happy to share. And we look forward to having an opportunity to return, perhaps even with you.
Jonathan Epstein is president of Temple Beth Tzedek Brotherhood and president of the Tri-State Region of the International Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs, as well as a member of FJMC’s International Committee. He is a business reporter at The Buffalo News and the immediate past president of Kadimah’s Board of Trustees.
Hostages Released, IDF Soldiers, Israel Trip for Moms
As of this writing (February 16), 24 hostages have been released by Hamas during the first phase of the cease fire, with 14 more slated to return as part of the agreement. We joined Jewish Federations across North America in joyfully welcoming home all these hostages after close to 500 days in captivity. Each day we pray that the remaining 73 hostages will soon be freed as well.
Israeli Premier Benjamin Netanyahu visited the White House in February; he was the first foreign leader to do so in this presidential term. At the same time, a bipartisan group of lawmakers led by Rep. Mike Lawler (R-N.Y.) and Rep. Josh Gottheimer (D-N.J.) reintroduced the Antisemitism Awareness Act, legislation that would make the International Holocaust Remembrance Working Definition of Antisemitism the standard for deciding what constitutes antisemitism in a campus setting.
This spring, in partnership with the JCC of Greater Buffalo, Federation will participate in the Jewish Agency for Israel’s Soldiers in Uniform program,
when a small delegation of Israel Defense Force (IDF) Soldiers will be in Jewish Buffalo over the week of Yom Ha’atzmaut (April 30-May 1). More information will be shared through Friday’s enewsletter, My Jewish Buffalo. Lastly, Federation recently obtained funding to support a new women’s leadership cohort for the third Momentum trip in 2025. Momentum is a yearlong leadership development program for women with children under the age of 18 that includes an immersion experience in Israel. For more information, contact Federation CEO Miriam Abramovich (miriam@buffalojewishfederation.org).
HERO Honors Upstanders
The Holocaust Education Resource Organization, (HERO) is accepting applications for their two upstander awards: the Sophia Veffer Upstander Award and the Abek Award for teens.
The Sophia Veffer Upstander Award was created in 2018 in honor of local Holocaust survivor, Sophia Veffer, who has dedicated her life to creating a more just world. The recipient of this esteemed award is a person residing or working in Western New York who uses their voice to stand up for others’ rights, combat injustice, inequality, or unfairness at the local, state, or national level. Last year’s recipient was Dr. Matthew Giordano, Sophia Veffer President of Villa Maria College. Nominations for this award can be submitted to bit.ly/VEFFERUPSTANDER2025 by April 15.
The legacy of award-winning author Gerda Weissmann Klein z”l and her friend Abek will once again be honored through the Abek Student Upstander Award which recognizes young individuals who demonstrate exceptional courage, kindness, and a commitment to justice in their communities. The award is named in memory of Abek Feigenblatt, a young artist, whose selfless acts provided vital aid to Gerda Klein while she was imprisoned in Nazi labor camps. Klein, a Holocaust survivor, and a cherished member of the Buffalo community, dedicated her life to humanitarian efforts, earning numerous accolades, including the Presidential Medal of Freedom- the nation’s highest civilian honor. Klein’s adult children established the Abek Student Upstander Award to honor students who embody the characteristics of an upstander- someone who speaks out against injustice, inequality, or unfairness. This year two students will be granted the award, a middle school student in grades 6-8 and a high school student in grades 9-12. Nominees should demonstrate a commitment to standing up for others, making a meaningful impact in their schools or communities and reflecting the selfless spirit of Abek. Nominations for an outstanding student can be submitted to bit.ly/abekaward2025 by April 18. To be considered for the award, students must accept the award in person at the HERO Awards Ceremony on June 9.
Beth Joseph, Bonnie Clement, Sheryl Martin, Lisa Levin, Jennifer Lopez Gelormini
The Celebration of Purim: March 13-14
Purim, the most joyous holiday in the Jewish calendar, begins at sundown on Thursday, March 13 and for 24 hours Jews around the world will commemorate a time when the Jewish people living in ancient Persia were saved from extermination. The story of Purim is told in the Megillah -The Book of Esther. The heroes of the story are Esther, a beautiful young Jewish woman, and her cousin Mordechai, who raised her like a daughter. Esther was taken to the palace of Ahasuerus, King of Persia, to become part of his harem. He loved her more than any other woman and she became his queen. Ahasuerus did not know that Esther was Jewish because Mordechai told her to keep it secret.
Haman, the evil villain of the story, is the king’s Prime Minister. Haman hated Mordechai because he refused to bow down to him, so Haman vowed to destroy all the Jewish people.
Mordechai encouraged Esther to speak to the king on behalf of her people. She went to the King, told him of Haman’s evil plot to kill her people and the King killed Haman instead.
Purim is celebrated by observing the following traditions:
• Reading the Megillah or “scroll” (The Book of Esther) at night and in the morning.
• Making noise with groggers (noisemakers) whenever Haman’s name is mentioned during the reading.
• Dressing up in costumes.
• Having a festive holiday meal.
• Drinking and merrymaking.
• Giving monetary gifts to at least two people in need.
• Sending
of two
of food to at least one person (known as mishloach manot).
of Buffalo
Hillel Welcomes Mike Steklof as new Executive Director
BY IRIS DANZIGER AND LAURA HEMLOCK- SCHAEFFER
Hillel of Buffalo welcomes Dr. Mike Steklof as its new Executive Director. Effective in early January, Mike will continue his work to foster a vibrant and inclusive Jewish community on college campuses across the Buffalo area. His leadership will focus on offering diverse entry points for engagement and empowering student leadership while embracing pluralism in the Jewish community.
“I am excited to build upon the work of previous Hillel of Buffalo Executive Directors,” said Mike. “Our mission to create a welcoming and inclusive environment for Jewish students is one I deeply believe in, and I look forward to the opportunities ahead as we enhance the Jewish experience for students in the Buffalo area.”
Mike brings with him a wealth of experience in Jewish organizing. Prior to joining Hillel of Buffalo, he served as the Senior Director of LiNK Jewish Buffalo at the Buffalo Jewish Federation, where he oversaw a variety of engagement and learning initiatives. He holds a Doctorate in Jewish Education and a Master’s in Jewish Instructional Education from Gratz College, as well as a Master’s in Women’s Studies from the University at Albany.
His leadership and professional development have been recognized through participation in prestigious programs such as the Merrin Teen Professional Fellowship with the JCC Association, the Created Equal Fellowship with the Shalom Hartman Institute, and the Conflicts of Interest Certificate Program with the iCenter for Israel Education.
Miriam Abramovich, CEO of the Buffalo Jewish Federation, expressed her enthusiasm for Mike’s new role, saying, “For the past five years, Mike has provided thoughtful leadership and an inclusive vision at the Federation, and we are thrilled that he will now lead Hillel of Buffalo—a vital Jewish Buffalo institution. This transition will support Jewish students and their families in all aspects of their college journeys and deepen the already strong partnership between the Federation and Hillel.”
Adam Lehman, President and CEO of Hillel International, also offered his support, stating, “It has been a pleasure getting to know Mike over the past eight months. I am excited about this new chapter for Hillel of Buffalo and am confident in the organization’s potential for continued growth and success under his leadership. As someone who frequently visits Western New York, I am that much more invested in seeing Hillel of Buffalo thrive.”
Iris Danziger, MD, President of Hillel of Buffalo, expressed her confidence in Mike’s ability to lead the organization forward. “Mike has shown tremendous dedication and vision in his work with Hillel of Buffalo,” said Danziger. “His
passion for Jewish life on campus and his commitment to inclusivity will undoubtedly strengthen our community and help students engage with their Jewish identities in meaningful ways.”
Laura Hemlock-Schaeffer, Chair of the Executive Director Search Committee and former Hillel Director, shared her excitement about the appointment as well. “Mike has demonstrated thoughtful leadership from day one, and we are confident that his continued guidance will ensure the future success of Hillel of Buffalo,” she said.
Mike is also deeply involved in Jewish Buffalo. He serves as the board secretary for the Buffalo Vaad Hakashrus, the board secretary for UB’s Jewish Faculty, Staff, and Friends Association, and is an active member of Temple Beth Tzedek and Kehillat Ohr Tzion. In his personal life, he enjoys long-distance running, cooking vegetarian meals, and swimming at the University at Buffalo’s Alumni Arena.
Iris Danziger, MD, is a board-certified otolaryngologist and owner of Southgate ENT. She serves as President of Hillel of Buffalo and the Erie County Medical Society.
Laura Hemlock-Schaeffer is a Project Manager for the Platelet Disorder Support Association and serves as the Vice President of Hillel of Buffalo.
Mike Steklof
Buffalo Jewish Film Festival Celebrates 40th Anniversary
BY RICK KOLLINS
The Buffalo International Jewish Film Festival celebrates its 40th anniversary this year. Sophia Veffer started the festival in 1986, and Mike Silverman has headed up the festival committee since 2006.
“Sophia was the inspiration for our festival, and went on to become a leader in Holocaust education,” Silverman notes. Veffer, a Holocaust survivor who will turn 96 this year, was a founding member of the Anne Frank Project at Buffalo State University, and sponsor of “Sophia’s Legacy,” an
educational program for teachers and students designed to share the experiences of Holocaust survivors.
This year’s festival runs from March 26 through April 6 with a lineup that includes nine feature films and five documentaries from the U.S., Israel, Austria, Germany, Hungary, and Colombia.
“Our committee reviews many Jewish-themed films before selecting our lineup,” explained Silverman. “Our criteria include quality of the films, variety of stories, representation from various countries. Several of our selections are award winners.”
This festival opens at the renovated Buffalo History Museum on Wednesday, March 26 with a reception at 5:00 pm followed by the documentary Ain’t No Back to a Merry-GoRound, the untold story of Jewish participation in one of the first civil rights protests in the U.S. in 1960. Director Ilana Trachtman will be present for a special Q&A session following the film. Voice overs include Jeffrey Wright, Mandy Patinkin, Bob Balaban and Lee Grant.
The festival closes Sunday, April 6 at 2:00 pm with a family event at the JCC Benderson Building, featuring an acclaimed animated children’s movie that was released in 1986, the same year that the festival began. In
between the opening and closing events, 12 films will be screened at the Dipson Amherst Theatre, 3500 Main St.
Four Israeli films include that country’s Academy Award nomination as best international feature film, Seven Blessings, which won 10 Ophir awards, including best picture, at the Israeli equivalent of our Academy Awards.
Seven Blessings is a drama revolving around a Jewish Moroccan wedding and the secrets and lies that force the family to confront its past. The film provides insight into Sephardic practices, including seven days of wedding celebrations and the custom of giving away babies and young children to others who are infertile.
Another Israeli film, Running on Sand, was also nominated as best picture at the Ophir Awards. There is something for everyone in this movie — real drama, a touch of comedy and examination of significant political and social issues for Israel such as race, class, immigration, and politics. The acting is also first class, especially with many of the lead Israeli actors actually being refugees from Africa.
Two documentaries related to the Holocaust are 999: The Forgotten Girls and Vishniac Forgotten Girls is a masterful documentary that reveals the untold story of 999 young Slovak Jewish women initially registered for government
service in a shoe factory only to be tragically sent to Auschwitz. The film combines vintage film and personal testimonials about a chapter of the Holocaust that has received little, if any, attention.
Vishniac presents yet another Jewish story that is relatively unknown. Not only does it portray the life of Roman Vishniac, but his graphic photographs and films of Jewish life in Eastern Europe before World War II and the Holocaust represent “a kind of obituary to a world that was on the edge of destruction.”
For the first time, the festival will include a film from Colombia. Torah Tropical is yet another film that showcases a Jewish experience unfamiliar to most. This insightful documentary follows an Orthodox Jewish family trying to leave Colombia and make Aliya to Israel. Although it is a documentary, the film plays more like a drama with the actual characters filling dramatic roles.
Austria and Germany’s contribution to the festival is a drama depicting the last year of Franz Kafka’s life in 1923 and his
love affair with Dora Diamant, a Yiddish writer and activist. The Glory of Life is also recommended for its beautiful cinematography, shot in Berlin, Vienna, and the Baltic coast by multi-award-winning filmmaker Judith Kaufmann. The film was released in 2024 to commemorate the 100th anniversary of Kafka’s death from tuberculosis
Complete information, including schedules, film synopses, trailers, and tickets, can be found on the festival web site at jccbuffalo.org/bijff.
Rick Kollins is a member of the Buffalo Film Festival committee.
Buffalo International Jewish Film Festival 2025
MARCH 26 – APRIL 6
HISTORY MUSEUM
Wednesday, March 26
5:00 pm Opening - Reception - Speaker Ain’t No Back To A Merry-Go-Round (89 min.)
AMHERST THEATRE
Friday, March 28
1:00 pm Vishniac (90 min.)
3:30 pm 999: The Forgotten Girls (86 min.)
Saturday, March 29
7:30 pm Seven Blessings (108 min.)
Sunday, March 30
1:00 pm Running On Sand (104 min.)
3:30 pm Guns And Moses (94 min.)
6:00 pm Remembering Gene Wilder (97 min.)
8:00 pm The Monkey House (121 min.)
Monday, March 31
1:00 pm Torah Tropical (100 min.)
3:30 pm The Glory of Life (98 min.)
6:00 pm All About The Levkoviches ( 85 min.)
8:00 pm Between The Temples (111 min.)
Tuesday, April 1
1:00 pm Children of Nobody (108 min.)
3:30 pm Remembering Gene Wilder (97 min.)
6:00 pm Vishniac (90 in.)
8:00 pm Guns And Moses (94 min.)
Wednesday, April 2
1:00 pm 999: The Forgotten Girls (86 min.)
3:30 pm Torah Tropical (100 min.)
6:00 pm The Glory of Life (98 min.)
8:00 pm Between The Temples (111 min.)
Thursday, April 3
1:00 pm All About The Levkoviches (85 min.)
3:30 pm Children of Nobody (108 min.)
6:00 pm Running On Sand (104 min. )
8:00 pm The Monkey House (121 min.)
JCC GETZVILLE LOCATION
Sunday, April 6
2:00 pm Animated Family Film (80 min.) Law Offices of Lisa J. Allen, pllc 2805 Wehrle Drive, Suite 3 lisajallenlaw.com | 716-580-3113 Estates and Trusts Charitable Gift Planning Asset Preservation Long-Term Care Planning
Complete information, including schedules, film synopses, trailers, and tickets, can be found on the festival web site at jccbuffalo.org/bijff.
For more information please contact ebaas@jccbuffalo.org or 716-204-2242.
INTO THE KITCHEN INTO THE KITCHEN
Discover the Flavors of Jewish Cuisine!
Join Robin Kurss for a journey into the world of Jewish cooking. In this hands-on class, we will prepare traditional dishes for the holidays and the “every days” in between. Together, we’ll keep our rich Jewish culinary traditions alive.
Sunday, April 6 | 10 AM - 12 PM Cost: $18
Location provided upon registration
Additional Date: May 29
Mental Health Tips from JFS
Do you feel down around this time of year? You’re not alone – in late winter many of us find ourselves feeling somewhat dejected. Grey, cold, weather can easily affect our moods and emotions, and some people may even develop seasonal affective disorder, a subtype of clinical depression. However, doing some simple mental health maintenance daily can work wonders to stave off seasonal doldrums. Think of it like flossing, but for your brain!
Taking time to take care of your mental health is an important component of healthcare that can often be forgotten about but is vastly important to overall wellbeing.
Stacey Schmid, Jewish Family Services of WNY’s manager of clinical services, shares a few mental health maintenance tips below.
1. Take care of your physical body to improve your emotional health. Eating well, exercising regularly, and maintaining a regular sleep schedule all contribute to improving your mood.
2. Remember to breathe. Physically relaxing your muscles can help your brain calm down, too. Taking a moment to recognize and rid yourself of some physical tension is important to supporting your mental health.
3. List three things you’re grateful for. Recognizing positivity in our lives encourages our brains to enter a positive mindset. Over time, this practice can even train your brain to think more positively in general.
4. Talk to someone. Reach out for support when you need it. Whether speaking to a friend or a trained professional, productively talking about how you’re feeling is vital.
JFS will be offering free Depression and Anxiety Screenings in April and May to anyone interested. This concise screening is simple and might help you to evaluate your mental health in a new way. Please call 716-883-1914 and press 2 to be connected to the clinic for more information on scheduling an in-person screening.
Jewish Family Services of WNY operates a mental health clinic staffed with licensed therapists who are here for anyone needing care. Clinicians treat a wide array of mental health concerns, and all are welcome to participate in therapy. If you’re interested in learning more about these services, visit jfswny.org or call 716-883-1914.
SPOTLIGHT ON Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies
The Buffalo Jewish Federation is honored to spotlight the Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies, one of our Gold 2025 Corporate Sponsors.
The Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies mission is to empower donors to fulfill their passions and dreams by establishing charitable vehicles designed to create a positive and enduring impact on Jewish Buffalo, Wester New York, and the World.
The Foundation’s purpose is to preserve the legacies of our forebearers who built our community over the past 100+ years and encourage current and future generations to create their own legacies, enhancing our community for the next 100 years. They also seek to create permanent endowments, providing perpetual support for Jewish Buffalo, as well as those organizations that provide essential services to our local, national and world communities. And they serve donors in identifying the most appropriate strategies to fulfill their charitable objectives and providing the vehicles designed to accomplish their goals.
The Foundation manages the investment, preservation, and distribution of charitable legacies, bequests, trusts, and other donor directed philanthropic funds; counsels donors to provide them with knowledge and expertise in planning and implementing charitable gifts; and partners to address community needs.
The Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies would be honored to assist you and your family in preserving your legacy. Contact Irv Levy, Executive Direct at irv@jewishphilanthropies.org for more information.
Lion of Judah Conference
Buffalo was represented by 10 women philanthropists in Atlanta, Georgia for the International Lion of Judah Conference in January. Rise’ Kulick received the Kipnis-Wilson Friedman award for her exceptional leadership in Buffalo. If you’d like to learn more about becoming a Lion of Judah, please contact Erin Casper, Manager of Governance & Development, at erin@buffalojewishfederation.org.
Gratitude and Commitment: A New Chapter for the Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies
BY CRAIG SMALL PRESIDENT, FOUNDATION FOR JEWISH PHILANTHROPIES
The Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies (FJP) has been a Buffalo institution since 1911. That’s more than one-hundred and thirteen years of growing our endowment for Jewish Buffalo, Western New York and the World. Its mission is simple: empower donors to give in meaningful and lasting ways.
As the saying goes, “if it’s not broken, don’t fix it.” And that’s the way I feel about FJP. Foundation has become a well-run machine because of hard work and dedication. And as I step into the role of President of this organization, I am humbled and proud to lead an already winning team.
Our team at FJP includes a tireless and dedicated Foundation staff, thoughtful donors, a strong board, and a legacy of strong leadership. I want to extend my deepest thanks to our Immediate Past President Dan Kester for
keeping us on the right path. We will continue our commitment to growing our endowment for the benefit of our community for years to come.
I am excited and grateful to continue working with our Executive Director Irv Levy whose expertise, dedication, and passion are at the heart of everything we do. Irv’s
leadership ensures that our work remains efficient and impactful. We are fortunate to have Irv on our team.
We are also lucky to have executive board members including Jeff Bagel, Brian Snyder, Rick Steinberg, Kim Yonaty, and Penny Howard. Thank you for volunteering your valuable time to keep our Foundation on course.
Next, we appreciate the members of our Board of Trustees who bring diverse perspectives, professional experience, and a shared commitment to Jewish Buffalo. And finally, we value the daily efforts of Barb Miller, Rachel Sandor, Susan Gonsiorek, Ross Michalovic and Linda Barat whose attention to detail is critical to our success.
A part of my tenure will focus on educating our donors and prospective donors on what we do. We also want to engage in meaningful dialogue about causes that matter most to you. Whether it is to support a Jewish or non-Jewish organization, an association, a not-for-
profit, or a community group, we want to enable that vision to become a reality.
To date, our total assets under management are approaching $300M. You read that correctly. Nevertheless, we have lofty goals including doubling our endowment over the next two years. Nothing is impossible.
Whether you are new to FJP or not, we want to help you make a difference to something you care about. No matter how big or small, giving is powerful, gratifying, and meaningful. And it may also be taxdeductible. On that note, either your financial advisor or a member of our own professional advisors committee can talk to you about that.
We are guided by the drive to repair and better our world. We will make efforts to educate, inspire, counsel, and assist our donors to help others. It is a privilege to be part of such an extraordinary community organization. We look forward to including you in our mission that benefits so many.
Craig Small
Life & Legacy® at Buffalo
Eileen & Jerry Markzon: A Legacy of Presence and Commitment
Total Legacy Commitments Received: 533
Total dollar amount: $20,446,094
Total Number of Donors: 278
*As of 1/29/2025
“It
is not your duty to finish the work, but neither are you at liberty to desist from it.”
– Pirkei Avot (Ethics of Fathers) 2:16
The Jewish value of chesed, (loving-kindness) demonstrates care and support for others, and being present, including simchas and Shivas. For Jerry and Eileen Markzon, being present is a way of life. Whether at synagogue, volunteering, or building community, their commitment is unwavering.
Detroit natives, Eileen and Jerry moved to Buffalo in 1972 as newlyweds, knowing no one. Just weeks earlier, Eileen’s mother had passed. Seeking a place to say Kaddish, they attended Temple Shaarey Zedek, where a shared moment of mourning led to lifelong community involvement. In 1980, they joined the synagogue when their son started religious school, making Temple Beth Tzedek their spiritual home for 45 years.
Life & Legacy® is a partnership program of the Harold Grinspoon Foundation (HGF), which supports communities across the U.S. and Canada in promoting legacy giving to build endowments that will provide stability to the organizations comprising the fabric of Jewish life.
Now in its fourth year, Life & Legacy® at Buffalo, a collaboration of the Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies and the Buffalo Jewish Federation, has worked with local synagogues, agencies, and organizations to secure the future of Jewish Buffalo.
These commitments have been obtained by making legacy giving central to Buffalo’s communal philanthropic culture the norm, with gifts which are meaningful to each individual, no matter the level, enabling all donors to be philanthropists. Life & Legacy® is also utilizing a brand, which is rooted in Judaism through the eternal burning flame, symbolizing the ongoing and future “passing the torch” from generation to generation (L’Dor V’dor)
For more information, please contact Linda Barat, Life & Legacy at Buffalo Coordinator, at Linda@jewishphilanthropies.org or 716-204-2259.
Jerry’s Jewish values were shaped by his mother, a Polish immigrant who upheld traditions despite not belonging to a synagogue. He learned hard work, ethics, and perseverance— values that led him to a career in engineering. Eileen, raised in a kosher home, was deeply influenced by her observant grandparents, who welcomed Holocaust survivors into their home. Despite challenges, her Jewish identity remained strong through Hebrew school and USY, reinforcing a lifelong commitment to tzedakah and community.
Together, they have carried these values forward, opening their home for holiday meals and fostering Jewish tradition. Their sons, Michael (Mara) and Jason (Marilyn), were raised with a strong Jewish foundation. Both were active in Hebrew school and Michael in BBYO, carrying on the legacy their parents instilled.
Rabbi Sara Rich of Temple Beth Tzekek shares that “Eileen and Jerry, both as individuals and as a couple, mean so much to our community. They work hard behind-the-scenes to make TBT a supportive and sustainable community, and they do so b’chol l’vavam, with their whole hearts.”
The Life & Legacy program was particularly meaningful for Eileen and Jerry. Understanding the need to create strong financial base to ensure the sustainability of Jewish Buffalo, the Markzons have committed to a legacy gift for Temple Beth
Tzedek through their Markzon Family Endowment Fund.
“At some point, you have to think about sustaining what’s meaningful to you,” Jerry reflects. “For us, the synagogue has been our family.” Eileen adds, “If you’ve benefited from Jewish life, you have a responsibility to ensure future generations do too.”
With the support of their friends and neighbors joining them in the Life & Legacy program, the Markzons are confident that Jewish Buffalo will continue to thrive, welcoming young families into synagogue life. They remain deeply engaged. As Jerry says, “We hear the call.” And as Eileen affirms, “We always feel we can do more—and we keep trying.”
Through their dedication, generosity, and love for their Jewish community, Jerry and Eileen Markzon have built a legacy that will endure.
Kadimah Scholars at
BY miriam treger honig
Cultural Identity Ensures our Future
As we look to the immediate and to the long term, it’s essential to recognize the unique challenges facing Jewish children in the United States today. Issues such as antisemitism, cultural identity, mental health, and community engagement present both challenges and opportunities.
Cultural identity plays a crucial role in shaping our children’s development. By promoting cultural education—through language, traditions, and history— we help children embrace their heritage with pride while also integrating into the broader society. This duality fosters self-esteem and confidence, allowing them to navigate the world with a clear sense of purpose.
Kadimah @ Park creates safe spaces for children to express their feelings. When our youth know they are supported, they are more likely to thrive emotionally and socially.
Students use Ulpan Or to explore traditional Hanukkah songs and read stories in Hebrew related to the holiday. Younger grades focused on the blessings over the candles, vocabulary, and worked on counting with ordinals (1st, 2nd, 3rd…) in Hebrew. Students ended the year with classroom celebrations
Buffalo Hadassah Engaged Locally,
Regionally and Internationally
Buffalo Hadassah has 700+ members, most of whom are lifetime members, and while they do not pay annual dues, they contribute to the work of Hadassah in this country and in Israel. The Buffalo chapter, which has also incorporated members from Niagara Falls, raises money for the Hadassah Medical Organization, which supports two hospitals in Israel as well as community health programs throughout the country. These hospitals have been providing remarkable lifesaving treatments for soldiers and civilians since the horrific attack on October 7. Members of Buffalo Hadassah donate a substantial amount of money every year to the HMO through private donations and through the proceeds from various fundraising efforts including the several jewelry sales held at the JCC throughout the year coordinated by Frima Ackerhalt.
Members of Buffalo Hadassah’s Leadership Team also participate in the Northeast Hadassah Regional Programs and serve in critical leadership roles. For instance, Phyllis Steinberg co-chairs the Education Program, and Carol Joseph and Marlene Katzel are involved in regional meetings and activities.
with sufganiyot (donuts), svivonim (dreidles) and Hanukkah Jingo, gelt, and music. In terms of Hebrew learning in all grades, we are focusing on language development more than holiday-centered vocabulary.
Finally, fostering a sense of belonging is paramount. By creating inclusive programs that invite Jewish youth to participate—through volunteer opportunities, and cultural events—we can strengthen community ties and enhance their engagement.
Together, let’s cultivate an environment where our children feel grounded in their identity, empowered by their heritage, and supported in all aspects of their lives. By addressing these critical issues, we can help them grow into compassionate, resilient Jews who will shape a brighter future for us all.
Your input and feedback are always welcomed and appreciated.
miriam treger honig is President of Kadimah.
CRS in March
March is an exciting time for Community Religious School (CRS) students and their families. Celebrating Purim includes preparing packages of hamentashen to be sent to Jewish service members worldwide through the Jewish Soldiers Project and delivery for seniors
at Amberleigh Senior Living. The CRS family is looking forward to enjoying a Purim spiel on March 9, and the students and their families are excited to collaborate with the JCC and participate in the community-wide Purim carnival.
Also in March, Rabbi Sara Rich will be leading a Family Education program for students in grades 2 and 3, and Rabbi Brent Gutmann will lead a K-1 grade Family Education program. Both programs focus on ethics and provide an enriching and exciting opportunity for students to learn alongside their parents.
For more information on CRS or to become a supporter, please contact Rabbi Einav Symons at 716-574-6016.
Winter Activities at KOT
Kehillat Ohr Tzion (KOT) spent the last few months learning and davening together as well as laughing and celebrating, which of course involves lots of wonderful celebratory eating. In addition, a barrel from Feedmore WNY was in the foyer collecting needed items for food banks throughout western New York.
Our festive Chanukah Shabbat dinner included great food and lots of singing, including parodies written by Ted Steinberg and led by Rav Shlomo. Then following services on Shabbat a beautiful kiddush luncheon was held celebrating the anniversaries of Brian and Carol Joseph and Jeff and Mireille Schapiro.
In January, a Melave Malka was held at the home of Barb and Mark Chazen with dinner, games, schmoozing and a magician who
wowed everyone with his talent. Learning Talmud takes place every Sunday evening and discussing the week’s parsha takes place every Tuesday afternoon.
On March 13, Purim evening, the Megillah will be read at 8 pm following Mincha at 6:45 pm and Maariv at 7:45 pm. The Megillah will be read again on Purim, March 14 at 6:45 am and 5:30 pm. There will be a Purim Seudah and Mishloach Manot exchange at 6:15. Community candle lighting and evening services will follow. The festive evening will end with Kiddush and continuing Seudah. For more information email rabbischacter75@gmail.com.
of Buffalo
University at Buffalo Joins
National Effort to Combat Antisemitism
In response to the troubling rise in antisemitism following the October 7, 2023 Hamas terrorist attack on Israel, the University at Buffalo (UB) is proud to announce its participation in Hillel International’s Campus Climate Initiative (CCI). This crucial initiative, designed by Hillel International, is a comprehensive program to help university leaders address the specific challenges facing Jewish students, while fostering a safe and inclusive environment. The University at Buffalo will join CCI’s 6th cohort, alongside a growing number of colleges and universities across the country,
SPOTLIGHT ON Amherst Memorial Chapel
in a united effort to combat antisemitism and promote Jewish student well-being.
As part of this effort, UB has formed a CCI team, including Dr. Tomás Aguirre, Dean of Students, Dr. Mike Steklof, Hillel of Buffalo Executive Director, Sharon Nolan Weiss, Director of Equity, Diversity, and Inclusion, and Kesha Foster, Director of HR, and Unit Diversity Officer for Student Life. Additionally, the initiative enjoys the full support of UB President Satish Tripathi, Dr. Beth Del Genio, Chief of Staff to the President and Vice President for Government and Community Relations, and Dr. Brian Hamluk, Vice President for Student Life.
We are so appreciative of UB doubling down on their commitment to ensure that Jewish students feel safe, supported, and empowered to fully embrace their identity,” said Dr. Mike Steklof, Executive Director of Hillel of Buffalo. “This partnership with campus leaders is a vital step in addressing the rise of antisemitism and cultivating an environment where Jewish students can thrive academically, socially, and spiritually.”
The CCI program provides a thoughtful, long-term approach to addressing campus climate issues. It offers universities valuable tools to assess their current environment and includes a 10-month educational curriculum designed to better understand Jewish student experiences. By the conclusion of the program in December 2025, administrators will develop a Campus Action Plan that will guide the implementation of strategic measures to create a more inclusive campus for Jewish students and for all students at UB.
For more information about the Campus Climate Initiative, contact Hillel of Buffalo Executive Director, Dr. Mike Steklof at mike@hillelofbuffalo.org
The Buffalo Jewish Federation is honored to spotlight Amherst Memorial Chapel, LLC, one of our Gold 2025 Corporate Sponsors.
A full-service funeral home built specifically to accommodate all Jewish religious practices, whether Orthodox, Traditional, Conservative, Reconstructionist or Reform, Amherst Memorial Chapel is the only funeral home in Western New York with a Mikvah for the traditional Tahara.
Owner Mitchell B. Steinhorn takes pride in assisting families during their time of need, especially when he can work with someone in pre-planning their funeral arrangements to allow the family to focus on their grief when the time comes. This process includes determining where the funeral and shiva will be held, a location to be buried and type of casket, service details, names of pallbearers, music, readings to be shared, and a charitable organization to direct donations.
Attention to detail makes Amherst Memorial Chapel one of the most trusted funeral homes in Western New York. Call 716-636-4174 to schedule a consultation or visit amherstmemorialchapel.com.
Hillel of Buffalo Executive Director Dr. Mike Steklof and UB Dean of Students Dr. Tomás Aguirre at the Campus Climate Initiative Kick Off Meeting.
The Ohr Temimim/Jewish Heritage Day School and Friends Ski Club is a group of Jewish students and community members that meet at Holiday Valley ski resort in Ellicottville most Sundays. The group includes new skiers and snowboarders as well as seasoned athletes. The ski club, run by Sonia Gellman Young, school president, is a great way to get together with friends and family and socialize while being active outdoors and enjoying an easily accessible western New York activity.
Ohr Temimim: 1st Grade Chumash Party & Civics Lessons
The first-grade Chumash party at Ohr Temimim School was a heartwarming milestone for students and their families. With shining eyes and excited smiles, the children proudly received their very first Chumash, marking the beginning of their Torah learning journey. The students, dressed as “little Torah scholars,” put on a delightful play about the ancient sage Hillel from Babylonia, showcasing his deep love for Torah and dedication to learning. Their performance, filled with enthusiasm and charm, reflected the excitement they feel about beginning their own Torah studies. Much of this success is thanks to the incredible dedication of their teachers—Morah Bracha Leah Greenberg, Miss Berkowitz, and Morah Valerie Mortellaro—whose tireless efforts, creativity, and love for each child made this celebration unforgettable. Rabbi Shanowitz, principal, expressed his pride in the students and shared an inspiring message. He compared the eight candles of Chanukah to the eight years of Chumash learning at Ohr Temimim, emphasizing that this was just the beginning of a bright and meaningful journey in Torah study. The event was a true reflection of the nurturing environment at Ohr Temimim, where Torah and tradition are brought to life with joy and inspiration.
The 7th and 8th-grade boys of the Ohr Temimim School learn civics as part of their social studies curriculum. Recently, they conducted a mock trial based on a story created by the students. They were fortunate to have Mr. Marc Brown, a professional lawyer and parent at our school, visit. He provided valuable comments on the trial and shared his insights into the U.S. court system. The process of mastering the trial procedure was long, but it allowed the students to learn the importance of being proactive, determined, and working as a team.
Community Relations
The Buffalo Jewish Federation, as a partner member of the Partnership of the Public Good, joined the annual Community Agenda Vote where members gather to present, debate, and select the top ten policy change priorities for 2025. Each plank spokesperson sought to make the case that their plank will “advance equality, sustainability, and cultural vibrancy in the Buffalo Niagara region.” Community Relations Leadership Council Chair Harvey Sanders was joined by Rob Goldberg, Senior Advisor and Rachel Beerman,
Community Relations Manager in supporting issue planks dedicated to core values of the Federation’s community relations work.
One of the planks that was advanced was introduced and spearheaded by Samantha White of the Western New York Law Center and Vice President of the Board of Trustees at Temple Beth Zion. Samantha’s plank to “End Unfair Suspension in Buffalo Public School” reflects just one of the ways racial injustices still impact our community.
After the initial vote, the ten planks that were advanced to move forward will now work closely with the Partnership of the Public Good, helping to connect the planks’ sponsors to legislators and others who can turn their ideas into action. To learn more about the 10 planks that were selected you can go to ppgbuffalo.org/community-agenda.
Center for Jewish Life Offers Purim Programs for All
The Center for Jewish Life is thrilled to invite the community to a festive celebration of Purim with a series of exciting programs designed for all ages. From joyous Megillah readings to a grand Purim party and engaging activities for children, teens, families, women, and seniors, there’s something for everyone to enjoy this Purim!
The main event is Purim Outer space on Friday, March 14, from 5-7 pm. This lively event will feature a delicious Purim feast, live music, a grand costume parade, and an unforgettable show.
Family Hamentaschen Bake will be on Sunday, March 2nd from 4-5 pm! Activities for children include the popular Kosher Mini Chefs program on Sunday, March 9th from 4-5 pm, where kids will create hamantaschen, a traditional Purim food, as well as groggers. Plus, a lively Ckids Purim Minecraft event also on March 9th from 11:30 am-12:30 pm, where children will collect and build their very own Purim Minecraft set to take home.
CJL also offers a series of public Megillah readings held at various locations in the community, as well as Purim celebrations at local hospitals and senior centers, and distributing Purim meals to older community members and Holocaust survivors.
For a complete schedule of activities, please visit us at JewishBuffalo.com.
Temple Beth Zion Presents Stained Glass Concert Series
In March, Temple Beth Zion (TBZ) will host two Stained Glass Concerts. On Sunday, March 2, the series welcomes two internationally renowned Israeli artists, Sivan Magen and Itamar Zorman, in an unusual program featuring harp and violin performing works by Chopin, Dvorak and more. Sivan is the only Israeli first prize winner of the world’s most important harp competition and one of Israel’s premiere music competitions. Zorman was the top prize winner in the most prestigious violin competition, the Tchaikovsky.
“Sweet Singers of Buffalo” will perform on Sunday March 23 at 3 pm. Join Cantor Susan Lewis-Friedman as TBZ welcomes back pianist Paul Dykstra for an afternoon of glorious feel-good songs from theater, liturgy, and the Classical music canon. Featuring beautiful singers including Samantha Stevens, Cantor Mark Horowitz, Aaron Pieri, Cantor Irwin Gelman, and more!
The Stained Glass Concert Series has been a tradition at Temple Beth Zion since 1996. The one-hour concerts will be held at 805 Delaware Avenue and include a reception following the program where guests can meet the artists and mingle with other music lovers. These events are open to the public; admission and parking are free.
Rachel Beerman, Community Relations Manager and Harvey Sanders, Chair, Community Relations Leadership Council
Jewish Community Organizations in Western New York
Buffalo Jewish Federation
338 Harris Hill Road – Suite 108B Williamsville, NY 14221
716-463-5050
buffalojewishfederation.org
Miriam Abramovich - CEO
Margie Bryen - President
Buffalo Vaad of Kashrus 49 Barberry Lane Williamsville, NY 14221
716-534-0230
buffalo@yahoo.com, bvkkosher@gmail.com
Michael Paskowitz - President
Center for Jewish Life
Suburbs: 757 Hopkins Road Williamsville, NY 14221
716-639-7600 jewishbuffalo.com
Rabbi Laizer & Chani Labkovski Downtown: 1016 Lafayette Avenue Buffalo, NY 14209
716-545-6806
Rabbi Mendy & Chaya Mushka Labkovski
Chabad House of Buffalo 2450 North Forest Road Getzville, NY 14068
716-688-1642
chabadofbuffalo.com
Rabbi Moshe Gurary
Rabbi Avrohom Gurary
Chabad of Niagara Falls USA (716) 703-8770
ChabadNiagaraFallsUSA.org
Rabbi Yehuda Lorber
Mrs. Yehudis Lorber
Chai Early Childhood Center 757 Hopkins Road Williamsville, NY 14221
716-580-4600
chainursery.com
Chani Labkovski - Director
Community Relations
338 Harris Hill Road – Suite 108B Williamsville, NY 14221
buffalojewishfederation.org
Rob Goldberg – Senior Advisor
Harvey Sanders - Chair
Community Religious School (CRS) 4660 Sheridan Drive Williamsville, NY 14221
716-574-6016
BuffaloCRS@gmail.com
Rabbi Einav Symons - Director
Department of Jewish Thought 712 Clemens Hall – University at Buffalo Buffalo, NY 14260
716-645-3695
jewish-studies@buffalo.edu
jewishstudies.buffalo.edu
Dr. Noam Pines - Chair
Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies 2640 North Forest Road Getzville, NY 14068
716-204-1133
jewishphilanthropies.org
Irv Levy - Executive Director
Craig Small - President
Hadassah
2640 North Forest Road
Getzville, NY 14068
716-929-6504
buffalohadassah@gmail.com
Frima Ackerhalt and Phyllis Steinberg - Co-Presidents
Hebrew Benevolent Loan Association 2640 North Forest Road in FJP offices
Getzville, NY 14068
716-204-0542 wnyhbla.org
Judith Katzenelson Brownstein - President
Hillel of Buffalo Campus Center of Jewish Life
520 Lee Entrance/UB Commons Suite #101B W. Amherst, NY 14228
716-616-0083 hillelofbuffalo.org
Mike Steklof, Ed.D., Executive Director Dr. Iris Danziger - President
Holocaust Education Resource Organization
338 Harris Hill Road – Suite 108B Williamsville, NY 14221
buffalojewishfederation.org/herobuffalo
Lauren Bloomberg - Director Armand Morrison - Chair
Jewish Community Center of Greater Buffalo, Inc.
Benderson Family Building 2640 North Forest Road
Getzville, NY 14068
716-688-4033
jccbuffalo.org
Patty Simonson - CEO
Sheryl Schechter - President
Holland Family Building 787 Delaware Avenue Buffalo, NY 14209
716-886-3145
Jewish Discovery Center 831 Maple Road Williamsville, NY 14221
716-632-0467
jewishdiscovery.org
Rabbi Heschel Greenberg
Jewish Family Services of Western New York 70 Barker Street Buffalo, NY 14209
716-883-1914
jfswny.org
Molly Short Carr - CEO
Harold Star - Chair
Jewish Federation Apartments 275 Essjay Road
Williamsville, NY 14221
716-631-8471
jewishfederationapartments.org
Krista Bryk - Property Manager
Jewish Federation Cemetery Corporation, Inc.
338 Harris Hill Road – Suite 108B
Williamsville, NY 14221
buffalojewishfederation.org
716-463-5050
Debbie Pivarsi - Manager
Jonathan Schechter - President
Kadimah kadimah.org
Reneé Lehner - Administrator
miriam treger - President
Kosher Meals on Wheels
757 Hopkins Road
Williamsville, NY 14221
716-639-7600
koshermow.com
Rabbi Laizer Labkovski - Director
Jeffery Pasler - President
LiNK Jewish Buffalo
338 Harris Hill Road – Suite 108B
buffalojewishfederation.org/link Williamsville, NY 14221
Kirstie Henry - Chair
Ohr Temimim School
411 John James Audubon Parkway W. Amherst, NY 14228
716-568-0226
ohrtemimimschool.com
Rabbi Shmuel Shanowitz - Principal
Sonia Gellman Young - President
Western New York Synagogues and Temples
Chabad House of Buffalo (unaffiliated) 2450 North Forest Road, Getzville, NY 14068
716-688-1642
chabadofbuffalo.com
Rabbi Moshe Gurary
Rabbi Avrohom Gurary
Chabad of Niagara Falls USA (716) 703-8770
ChabadNiagaraFallsUSA.org
Rabbi Yehuda Lorber
Mrs. Yehudis Lorber
Congregation Beth Abraham (Conservative) 1073 Elmwood Avenue Buffalo, NY 14222
congregationbethabraham.net
Cantor Irwin Gelman
Marty Kerker - President
Congregation Havurah (Reform) 6320 Main Street, Williamsville, NY 14221 716-833-3165 congregationhavurah.org president.havurah@gmail.com
Daniel Mink- President
Congregation Shir Shalom (Reform/Reconstructionist) 4660 Sheridan Drive Williamsville, NY 14221
716-633-8877
shirshalombuffalo.org
Rabbi Alexander Lazarus-Klein
Cantor Arlene Frank
Joanne Marquisee - Executive Director
Todd Sugarman - President
JDC Shul (Unafilliated) 831 Maple Road Williamsville, NY 14221 716-245-9520
jewishdiscovery.org
Rabbi Heschel Greenberg
Rabbi Levi Greenberg
Rabbi Yehoshua Greenberg
Kehillat Ohr Tzion (Modern Orthodox) 879 Hopkins Road Williamsville, NY 14221 ohrtzion.org/kot
Rabbi Shlomo Schachter
Jeff Schapiro - President
Knesset Center (Orthodox)
500 Starin Avenue
Buffalo, NY 14214
716-832-5063
chabadofbuffalo.com
Rabbi Shmaryahu Charitonow
Saranac Synagogue (Orthodox)
85 Saranac Avenue
Buffalo New York 14216 716-876-1284
saranacsynagogue.org
President - Shmuel Rashkin
Vice President - Reuven Alt
Gabbai David Kunkel
Temple Beth Tzedek (Conservative) 1641 North Forest Road Williamsville, NY 14221
716-838-3232
btzbuffalo.org
Rabbi Sara Rich
Cantor Mark Spindler
Cantorial Intern Zahava Fried
Beth Kassirer - President
Kim Jones - Administrator
Temple Beth Zion (Reform) Sanctuary 805 Delaware Avenue Buffalo, NY 14209
Offices
700 Sweet Home Road Amherst, NY 14226 716-836-6565
tbz.org
Rabbi Brent Gutmann
Cantor Susan Lewis Friedman
Mark Hayman - Executive Director
Ken Polk - President
Temple Beth El (Reform) 720 Ashland Avenue Niagara Falls, NY 14301
templebethelniagara@gmail.com niagarafallstemple.com
Rabbi Ellen Franke
Cantorial Soloist Barry Rose
Adam DePriest - President
Temple Hesed Abraham of Greater Jamestown (Reform)
Meeting biweekly at Jamestown, NY
Lutheran Church
Rabbi Allen Podet
Joe Gerstel - President (716-665-2118) valprojdg@netsync.net
The Family Shul (Unaffiliated) 757 Hopkins Road Williamsville, NY 14221
Rabbi Laizer Labkovski 716-639-7600
Young Israel of Greater Buffalo (Orthodox) 105 Maple Road Williamsville, NY 14221
716-634-0212
yibuffalo.org
Rabbi Avi Okin
Richard Berger and Michael PaskowitzCo-Presidents
March Activities
the PJ Library Way!
Spring is around the corner and this month we celebrate Purim, the most joyous festival on the Jewish calendar! Here are some ways you can enjoy the holiday with your kids.
1. DIY Megillah Scroll:
Introduce your child to the Purim story, the bravery of Queen Esther, and the kindness of Uncle Mordechai, and how mean that Haman (Boo!) was! Then, have your child create their own mini-Purim story scrolls to retell their version of story of Esther. Provide long sheets of paper along with art supplies such as markers, crayons, and stickers for decoration. Encourage them to illustrate key scenes from the Megillah. Once they finish their scrolls, have them present their creations and share their favorite parts of the story.
2. Esther, Esther, Haman!
Let’s put a Purim twist on “Duck, Duck, Goose.” Have children sit in a circle while one child walks around the outside, gently tapping each child on the head and saying “Esther” until they choose someone to be “Haman.” When they say “Haman,” the chosen child must jump up and chase the tapper around the circle. If the tapper makes it back to the empty spot without being tagged, they sit down, and the game continues. If not, they must sit in the middle and put on a Haman three-corner-hat!
3. Purim Mask Making
In the Purim story, brave Queen Esther had to hide her identity until JUST the right time. One way we remember Esther’s bravery is by creating Purim
masks. Provide materials like paper plates, markers, glitter, and stickers for decorating. Encourage the kids to design masks that represent their favorite characters from the Purim story, such as Esther, Mordechai, or even Haman. After decorating, let them wear their masks and have a mini parade to show off their creations.
4. Hamantaschen Baking
Nothing says Purim more than Hamentaschen! Make the Hamantaschen dough ahead of time, and make or buy fillings such as chocolate, jellies, maybe even poppyseed! Each child can help roll out the dough and shape the
cookies, filling them with their favorite toppings. As the cookies bake, talk about the significance of hamantaschen and how they represent Haman’s ears or his pockets! Enjoy!
5. Pop on over to a Purim Party
This Jewish Journal is full of information of the many Purim festivities around the community. Wear your favorite costume and celebrate this joyous holiday with all of your friends throughout Jewish Buffalo!
2024 Buffalo Jewish Federation Honor Roll of Donors
The leadership of the Buffalo Jewish Federation extends gratitude to each donor and supporter who made a gift(s) to support our work in 2024.
Their extraordinary generosity enables the Federation to be here, day in and day out, in good times and in times of crisis, to support Jews and Jewish community here in Buffalo, in Israel, and around the globe.
If you have any questions or if your name is not listed, please contact Stacey Block at stacey@buffalojewishfederation.org
$250,000+
International Leadership Reunion (ILR)
Philanthropic leaders who are a part of an international collective who contribute to their local communities and who share a deep interest in supporting Israel and Jewish communities around the world with an individual or family giving $250,000+ to the Annual Campaign.
The Benderson Family
$100,000-249,999
Prime Ministers Council
Prime Minister Council sets inspiring standards and share a passionate concern for issues that affect the worldwide Jewish community. They represent the ultimate expression of leadership and giving with an individual or family gift of $100,000 -$249,999 to the Annual Campaign.
Weiss Family Philanthropic Fund *
$5,000-9,999
Lion of Judah Society
$25,000-99,999
King David Society (KDS)
The following individuals, families and corporate partners have contributed to the 2024 Campaign for Jewish Buffalo and, or, one of the following Buffalo Jewish Federation Campaigns in 2024:
Dignity Grows
Holocaust Education Resource Organization
Community Relations
Jewish Buffalo History Center
Inspiring others through their generosity and commitment, King David Society donors are strong philanthropic leaders are deeply focused on the issues affecting our local and global Jewish community and enable the Federation to better serve our community today and tomorrow with an individual or family gift of $25,000-99,999.
Rose and Bud Frank Fund
Mr. George I. Gellman
Dr. Grant Golden & Ms. Deborah Goldman Y
Mrs. Amy Heumann Y
Mr. Eduardo Heumann Y
Mr. Michael L. Joseph
James Kramer and the Late Leslie Shuman
Kramer * , Y
The Late Mr. Frank Levin and Mrs. Jeanette Levin
Mrs. Judith Lipsey
Sanford M. Nobel Y
Eric and Cara Reich
Sheldon and Elsie Schneiderman Fund
Bruce and Marianne Wisbaum
The Lion of Judah is a symbol of today’s Jewish women’s strength, her caring about Jewish people, and her financial commitment to the Buffalo Jewish Federation. The Lion of Judah is the symbol of an individual or family gift of $5000 or more to the Annual Campaign.
Miriam and Samuel Abramovich Y
Joan B. and David H. Alexander Y
Mrs. Susan K. Altman
Mrs. Maxine Awner *, ***, Y
Dr. Steven Awner ***, Y
Dr. Howard W. Benatovich ***, Y
Mrs. Lana D. Benatovich *, ***, Y
Mr. James R. Biltekoff Y
Mrs. Judi Biltekoff ***
Mr. Marc Brown and Dr. Shira Brown Y
Marjorie Bryen
Mr. David N. Bunis Y
Mrs. Joan Cohen Y
Jane Cole Godin Fund *
Kenneth and Antoinette Dauber
Mrs. Marsha Dautch ***
Mrs. Mindy A. Doerfler
Robert and Eileen Fine *, Y
Mr. Lawrence C. Franco Y
Mr. Arthur M. Gellman ***
Mrs. Bodil K. Gellman ***
Stuart A. Gellman, Esq. Y
Mrs. Susan Gellman ***
Byron and Dorothy Goldman Memorial Fund
Dr. Scott Goldman
Gordon and Gretchen Gross Endowment Fund
Mr. Arnold N. Kahn
Mrs. Marlene Katzman
LiNK Jewish Buffalo
PJ Library and PJ Our Way
Secure Jewish Buffalo
NEXTGen Jewish Buffalo (formerly Young Adult Engagement)
$10,000-24,999
Joshua Society (JS)
Joshua Society honors those who personify loyalty, wisdom, and visionary leadership through their philanthropy. Emulating the strength and courage Joshua used to bring the Israelites to the Promise Land, Joshua Society donors lead by example with their generosity and commitment to our community with an individual or family gift of $10,000-24,999
Dr. Robert and Dr. Tova Ablove
Mr. Peter A. Biltekoff
Mrs. Elaine Brothman
Judith and Joel Brownstein *, Y
Bonnie Clement *
Mr. Lawrence Dautch
Mr. David H. Desmon **, Y
Mrs. Janet Desmon *, **, Y
Jay and Ronna Gershberg
Rob & Shira Goldberg *, Y
Gordon R. & Gretchen S. Gross Family Fund Y
Mrs. Roberta S. Joseph **
Jerald and Terri Katz Kasimov
Mrs. Rise’ P. Kulick *, Y
Holly W. Levy *, **
Jordan A. Levy **
Warren Lippa
The Doctors David & Emily Kaye
Gunilla and Daniel Kester Y
Mrs. Karen Baker Levin
Sharon Levite *
Mrs. Arlyne G. Levy
Irv and Donna Levy Y
Mrs. Susan L. Levy
Mr. Steven Lustig Y
Markel Family Fund
Cathy Shuman Miller and S. David Miller Y
Armand and Lori Morrison Y
Margery S. Nobel *, Y
Dr. Arthur E. Orlick
Dr. Michele Pozarny
Dr. Ellen P. Rich ***
Sylvia Rosen Fund
Dr. Laurie S. Sadler
Dr. Maxine Seller
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Chabads Bring Light to WNY
Chabad Niagara Falls USA hosted a spectacular Chanukah celebration, featuring a public Menorah lighting that drew a large and diverse crowd of community members, dignitaries, and international tourists. The event, held in the heart of Niagara Falls State Park, was a vibrant display of Jewish pride during the Festival of Lights.
The highlight of the evening was the lighting of the grand Menorah, symbolizing the resilience and hope embodied by Chanukah. The ceremony was led by Rabbi Yehuda Lorber of Chabad Niagara Falls USA, with special guests including the Mayor of the City of Niagara Falls Hon. Robert Restaino and other city and state officials, who thanked Rabbi Lorber for bringing Judaism back to Niagara Falls.
This annual celebration has become a cherished tradition in Niagara Falls, bringing Jewish pride and joy to locals and visitors. Through events like this, Chabad Niagara Falls USA continues to spread warmth and light, ensuring that Jewish heritage is celebrated openly and proudly.
Across town, Chanukah joy took center stage at Highmark Stadium as Chabad of Buffalo brought the festival’s light and celebration to thousands of Bills fans. The atmosphere was electric as festive Chanukah music filled the air, drawing fans who enthusiastically joined in dancing and celebrating.
A giant blowup Menorah quickly became a crowd favorite, with fans stopping to snap selfies and group photos, capturing the holiday spirit. Over 100 Menorah kits were distributed to Jewish fans, enabling them to light their own Menorahs at home and share in the festival’s warmth.
This unique fusion of football and Judaism brought a powerful message of unity, light, and Jewish pride, making the event an unforgettable part of Chanukah for Bills fans. Chabad’s presence at the game exemplified its mission of spreading the light and joy of Jewish traditions to public spaces, ensuring that the holiday spirit reaches all.
Haman’s Fingers
BY ROBIN KURSS
Just about everyone eats hamantaschen for Purim. The triangular shaped cookies with different fillings are delicious. To add to your Purim celebrations, there is also a phyllo “cigar” shaped cookie called Haman’s fingers. In this sweet treat, phyllo dough is filled with chopped nuts and cinnamon, rolled into cigar shapes, brushed with butter, and baked until golden and crispy. Hope this year, you will give them a try!
Haman’s Fingers
(2 dozen)
12 phyllo dough sheets, thawed overnight in the fridge
2 cups sugar
1 cup water
2 Tbsp lemon juice
2 cups almonds
2 cups walnuts
grated zest of 1 orange
2 large eggs, lightly beaten
1 tsp rose water (optional)
6–8 Tbsp melted butter
Take phyllo out the fridge 2 hours before you start cooking.
Put sugar, water and lemon juice in a saucepan and bring to boil over medium-high heat. Cook for 5 minutes and remove from the heat. Transfer syrup to a measuring cup and let it cool down in the fridge for about 20 minutes.
Preheat oven to 400°F. Line two rimmed baking sheets with parchment paper.
Put almonds and walnuts in a food processor and grind until fine (but don’t let it become a paste.) Take 2 Tbsp of the ground nuts and keep in a small bowl for later.
Add 1 cup of the sugar syrup to the food processor (keep the rest for later) and mix again. Add orange zest, eggs and rose water, and mix briefly, then transfer to a medium bowl.
Cut each phyllo dough sheet into two rectangles of about 7 by 8 inches. Cover phyllo with a towel. Put the first phyllo sheet on a working surface, narrow side towards you, and brush it lightly with the melted butter, almost all the way up. Spread 1Tbsp of the nut filling along the edge closest to you, leaving ½ inch clear on the sides. Fold the sides on the filling then start rolling the pastry from the filling side to create a cigar. Transfer to the baking sheet. Continue with the rest of the phyllo. Keep the cigars on the baking sheet an inch apart. Brush each cigar with butter and then generously brush with the sugar syrup.
Bake for 12-14 minutes until golden and crispy. Cool.
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In Remembrance
The following individuals in our community passed away during the period from December 17, 2024 – February 16, 2025. May their memories forever be a blessing, and may their loved ones be comforted among the mourners of Zion.
Cynthia Benderson
Sheila Bernstein
Miriam Hayman Brown
Esther Brownstein
Marcia Chazen
Dan Fox
Fay Terris Friedman
Carolyn J. Grossman
Lawrence Itzkowitz
Dr. Leonard Katz
Carol Leberman
Thelma Ann Lettman
Frank Levin
Lorraine Medwin
Noah B. Nadler
Karen Simon Neiman
Judith L. Padgug
Edwin Polokoff
Leah Richmond
Elaine Weinstein
Donna A. Yablin
Elaine Zeve
If we inadvertently missed printing the listing of your loved one, please email jjwny@buffalojewishfederation.org and we will include the name in the next issue.
Remembering Ralph L. Halpern
Attorney Ralph L. Halpern died on December 11, 2024, at the age of 95. He was the proud father of Rick (Beth Landau), Steven (Kate O’Connor) and Julie (Dean) Ridlon. He was married to Harriet and was the brother of the late Harold (2024) and Judge Philip Halpern (1963) and is also survived by five grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. We are honored to share excerpts from the eulogy delivered by Rabbi Brent Gutmann at his funeral. May Ralph’s memory always be for blessing.
I only knew Ralph for 1/40th of his life in the time I have been the rabbi of the Temple, and yet I feel very attached to him. Strong in his opinions, but always different, respectful, and committed to doing what’s right. In the two and a half years, I heard his wise words several times on the importance of English translations for congregants who don’t understand Hebrew, or on the need to draw in more young people to sustain temple in a new generation, or on the need to give captivating “political” sermons….
Throughout my time here, Ralph would regularly email me notes right at the end of each service to assess the strength of each particular sermon, and in more recent months, his message became far more complimentary with the familiar catchphrase: “Rabbi, tonight’s sermon hit it out of the park.” Surely not a sign that my sermons were getting better, but that Ralph, as he no doubt had begun to reflect on the twilight of his life, that something had softened, and that the affectionate ribbing critique had been replaced by affectionate praise. In the time we spent together, I heard many of the stories Ralph loved to tell. Of growing up on the East Side of Buffalo. Of his grandfather’s pharmacy that became his father’s – of how his father, Julius, selflessly worked to support the education of his younger brother, Phil, who would become a celebrated district court judge. Much of the brother’s relationship during these years is preserved in correspondence. Ralph shared how he grew up walking distance from Beth David. This was surprising for me to learn, given his
prominence in our congregation, but apparently, he was first drawn to TBZ because of the beautiful young ladies who would attend services…
And Ralph loved beautiful women, but most of all Harriett. Harriett, you met Ralph as he was switched posts with a fellow on Governors Island New York while serving as Judge Advocate in the Korean war. He was handed a list of beautiful single Jewish women with your number placed there by a friend of your sister. As he sought to track you down, he actually met your father first, but with persistence. I’m told you not only wowed him with your beauty, but with your exceptional baking, and most of all with your wonderful heart and your shared commitment to family.
During the Korean war, he enlisted as a Judge Advocate. He was proud of his service and would put up a flag on appropriate occasions. Upon returning to Buffalo, Ralph became the protegee and then successor of Mr. Richely, a prominent lawyer in Buffalo. His work led him to meet many prominent personalities…and for a period, Ralph was the lawyer for the Buffalo Bills helping their players out of pickles from time to time. He was very committed to sports and education- years ago, following a Bar Mitzvah in Boston…. He told you (Harriet) to grab your coat as you headed to Fenway Park to see the Red Socks play the Cincinnati Reds in what turned out to be one of the most epic world series games ever.
He was, in fact, the last living original season ticket holder for the Bills. Rick, you shared that in one of his final moments when you thought he was about to say something profound, the message after a bruising loss was This year doesn’t look like a Super Bowl team to me – let’s hope he’s wrong!
Regarding Education, he was a perennial learner – he read periodicals daily – I would receive points in my political sermon about how they reflected the thoughts of various opinion writers –Bret Stevens, Thomas Friedman, David Brooks, or the like. Throughout his life he took university classes. Once he told his children. “I’m getting my bachelor’s degree” The most remarkable thing about this was your revelation - Rick, Julie and Steve – that your father never received a bachelor’s degree given that one could still go straight to law school in the 1950s, but at that point he had accumulated enough credits to walk and receive minor in Philosophy and a minor in, of all things, Math.
He loved equations. He was so smart even in his late age. His form of discussion was argument, which he would call debate. Perhaps this commitment to learning is how he stayed so young despite his advanced years. He learned, grew, and adopted new technologies. His opinions shifted from conservative to more liberal.
The world was made better, and we are all so lucky to have had him such a special person in our lives. Ralph claimed that the last day he worked was when he left the army. Lawyering was more like an interest he pursued with passion although it was very much his profession….
He could talk to anyone–regardless of their class, race, age, or other identity because he showed profound curiosity and interest in other people. Rick, you tell the story that with your son in law, Ryan, Ralph insisted on driving to the east side following the May 14, 2022 shooting at Tops and as he pulled up to one of his childhood homes and started talking nonchalantly with three young men who had been working on a car about the Kensington Expressway and how it was a silly idea to spend so much money on a park over the highway when those funds could be put to so much better use.
Ralph loved life and lived it to its fullest. Committed to the BPO and Sheas. He loved Broadway. But most important in Ralph’s life was family. Harriett, you, and Ralph provided such a loving home for your children. His love for his children was so profound, encouraging them to pursue their interests and passions and very rarely offering advice but rather he preferred to extend support. Steve, you shared that on one of the rare occasions your father did give advice, it was as you prepared to buy a new house with your wife as he states so succinctly “Whatever she likes, you’ll like.”
I feel blessed for the occasion I’ve been included with you such as Ralph celebrated his 95th birthday earlier this summer. He was an amazing grandfather. I watched some of this interaction not long ago as I sat next to him and across from you Sophie at the lunch following your great uncle Harold’s unveiling. He was so proud of you and Jeremy, and you Lydia, Rosa and Miriam, and his great grandchildren were the icing on Harriett’s cake for him.
I’ve said this on many occasions, many funerals, but it is so true and especially demonstrative of Ralph. LOVE– AHAVAH.
JAY L. MESNEKOFF Co-Owner/Manager
Normalcy in the Upside Down
BY ZAHAVA FRIED
Purim is one of Judaism’s most joyous celebrations. It is a holiday full of vibrant costumes, loud noises, and unbridled happiness that is as wonderful as an overstuffed hamentaschen! But if we take a moment to look beneath the surface of the Purim story, we find a narrative brimming with anxiety and near-catastrophe.
There is a verse in the Megillah which says: “And so [...] the very day on which the enemies of the Jews had expected to get them in their power, v’nahafoch hu (the opposite happened), and the Jews got their enemies in their power.” This Hebrew phrase, v’nahafoch hu is the cornerstone of the entire story. The opposite happened. The unthinkable happened. Without a truly remarkable chain of reversals, Purim would have been a tale of unthinkable terror.
This idea of v’nahafoch hu resonates deeply with my most recent journey into motherhood. When I gave birth to my third child in mid-December, there was abundant joy. He was (and still is!) perfect. I felt confident because as a third-time parent I knew what to expect in the hours following his birth. I was excited for the newborn snuggles, the first sumptuous feast after not eating for the better part of twelve hours, and to share the pure bliss of having our first son with my husband.
But remember, the Purim story relies on unexpected reversals. The mighty Queen Vashti falls from grace and loses her crown in a moment of drunken rage. Haman, the king’s trusted advisor, ends up hanged from his own gallows. Esther, a beautiful Jewish woman from humble origins, becomes the Queen of a vast kingdom and through both deception and faith, becomes the savior of the Jewish people. And I, the prepared mother, found my world turned upside down twelve hours after my son’s birth when the medical staff informed me that my boy needed to be sent to the NICU.
He had developed Transient Tachypnea of the Newborn, a condition in which a newborn’s respiratory rate accelerates to remove excess fluid from the lungs. Instead of breathing at a normal rate of 40-60 breaths per minute, he was breathing around 110 breaths per minute. The medical staff assured me this condition typically resolves in 24-72 hours, but in these moments of crisis, like the Jews facing Haman’s decree, time seemed to stretch endlessly before me and filled me with uncertainty and dread.
Famously, G-d is not mentioned in the Megillah. Not even once. Instead, we must search for the divine presence in the seemingly random coincidences, fortuitous timing, and unexpected moments of grace. During our NICU stay, I found myself on a similar search for meaning and comfort in my new opposite world. Unable to hold my son, nurse him, or even change his diaper, I felt stripped of the normal joys of motherhood. But when I forced myself to really look, I began to discover normalcy in the upside down. My mom brought me my go-to coffee order. One of my good friends unexpectedly visited me exactly when I needed a hug. I saw my son’s respiratory rate fall from the low 100s to the mid-80sa small sign of improvement. Later that same day, he was able to drink
from a bottle instead of through a GI tube. Like the hidden miracles of Purim, these precious instances of hope emerged among fear and uncertainty.
Eventually, things began to right themselves. My son’s breathing began to stabilize. One by one, the tubes and wires were removed. I could hold him, feed him, and finally I was told that we could bring him home. The reversal was complete, and the fear transformed into relief, and the anxiety became celebration.
This experience has deepened my understanding of Purim’s essential message: that joy and anxiety often travel together, and that sometimes our moments of greatest celebration emerge from periods of profound uncertainty. The Megillah’s declaration of v’nahafoch hu speaks not just to the reversal of fortune but to the very nature of human experience. Our deepest joys often carry within them the shadow of what might have been, making these moments even more precious.
Zahava Fried, Cantorial Intern at Temple Beth Tzedek, is enjoying all the newborn snuggles with her son, Rami, during her parental leave. Besides changing diapers, she is taking this time to enjoy her family, continue her Cantorial classes at the Academy for Jewish Religion, and finishing her thesis!
Families will enjoy Games, Food, Music, Bounce Houses, Face Painting, Purim Spiel, Costume Contest with Prizes & Performance by Community Religious School Children’s Choir
