July/August 2025
President’s Message
Summer, Security, and Celebration
We’ve finally arrived at what I believe is the best time of year in Buffalo—when the days are longer, the temperatures are just right, and sunshine is the norm rather than the exception. It’s the perfect season to get outside, to connect, and to celebrate.
In that spirit, mark your calendar for Monday, July 21—the Federation’s Summer Celebration, featuring a golf outing, dinner, and auction. This annual gathering not only brings together individuals from across Jewish Buffalo and beyond to enjoy the day but also supports something essential: the security of our entire community.
Over the past six years, we’ve worked together to build a strong, Jewish community-wide security network. It has helped us gather safely—for joyful celebrations, solemn commemorations, meaningful learning, and welcoming new faces into our community. But as we all know, this work is never done and the costs to stay ahead of the potential problems keep increasing.
This summer, we honor Susan DeMari, who has led our security efforts with extraordinary dedication. As she steps into retirement, we extend our deepest thanks for her tireless leadership and unwavering commitment to our safety. While we are sad to see her go, we are fortunate to have a strong team stepping in to take our security efforts to the next level—because, sadly, the threat of antisemitism persists.
There’s still time to register or be a sponsor for the Summer Celebration. Come play, come connect, and come support a safer Jewish Buffalo. Visit buffalojewishfederation.org/summer-celebration for more information.
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This month’s cover celebrates Susan Case DeMari, who after six years of transformative leadership will retire as the Buffalo Jewish Federation’s founding Director of Community Security. Susan has built Secure Jewish Buffalo from the ground up, creating a safer, more resilient community through training, partnerships, and preparedness. Her visionary work has set a national standard and will be celebrated this month at Federation’s Summer Celebration golf outing on July 21.
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Securing Jewish Buffalo: Honoring the Leadership of Susan Case DeMari
After six years of remarkable service, Susan Case DeMari, the Buffalo Jewish Federation’s founding Director of Community Security, will retire on August 31, 2025. Her leadership, vision, and deep commitment to the safety of Jewish Buffalo
have transformed how our community approaches security. In close partnership with Federation leadership, Susan built Secure Jewish Buffalo from the ground up, making our institutions more secure, our community more prepared, and our partnerships with law enforcement more robust.
As one of the first communities in the country to appoint a dedicated Director of Community Security, Jewish Buffalo benefited immensely from Susan’s expertise, foresight, and tireless dedication. She has been a trusted ally to our synagogues, schools, agencies, and leaders—and we are deeply grateful for all she has done to protect and strengthen Jewish life here in Western New York.
Early Foundations and Professional Journey
A Buffalo native, Susan’s commitment to public safety began early. She earned her Bachelor of Science in Criminal Justice from SUNY Brockport and a Juris Doctor from Syracuse University College of Law. Her unique combination of legal expertise and passion for community service positioned her perfectly to lead in the realm of Jewish communal security.
Susan’s formal engagement with Jewish communal safety began in 2000, when she became the Security Liaison for the Jewish community of Central New York (Syracuse). In that role, she acted as the primary connector between Jewish institutions and law enforcement, promoting preparedness and fostering critical relationships. Her proactive approach emphasized the power of training, coordination, and rapid response.
From 2019 to 2022, she served as Chief Deputy of the Civil Department in the Onondaga County Sheriff’s Office—becoming the first woman ever appointed to hold a chief-level position in the Sheriff’s Office. There, also the first Jewish Chief in the Department’s history, she oversaw daily operations, managed civil processes, and further demonstrated her skill as a leader, organizer, and protector.
The Genesis of Secure Jewish Buffalo
The tragic attacks on the Tree of Life Synagogue in Pittsburgh underscored the vulnerability of Jewish communities across the country. In response to this rising wave of antisemitism and direct threats to Jewish institutional life, the Buffalo Jewish Federation made a bold decision to invest in a Director of Community Security.
Susan was appointed to the role in spring 2019 and immediately began developing Secure Jewish Buffalo, a comprehensive program designed to enhance safety across Jewish Buffalo. Under her leadership, Secure Jewish Buffalo achieved transformative milestones:
• Target-Hardening Initiatives: Collaborating with experts to assess vulnerabilities and implement physical security measures, such as access control systems and surveillance enhancements.
• Tailored Training Programs: Developing and facilitating training sessions, including Usher and Greeter Trainings and Active Shooter Trainings, in partnership with law enforcement agencies.
• Rapid Communication Systems: Implementing a rapid communication system through the Secure Community Network (SCN) to provide alerts and critical information to all sectors of Jewish Buffalo.
• Off-Duty Police Details: Coordinating off-duty police security details for synagogues and Jewish agencies across Buffalo and its suburbs.
• Collaborative Convenings: Bringing together all branches of law enforcement to collaborate and maximize resources, ensuring a unified response to potential threats.
• Grant Programs: Offering grants based on security assessments provided by the Department of Homeland Security or New York State Police, assisting community organizations in securing their physical plants.
Together, these efforts have fortified Buffalo’s Jewish institutions—ensuring they are not only more secure but also more resilient, better trained, and more aware than ever before.
Recognition and Awards
Susan’s outstanding contributions have received national recognition. In 2019, she was awarded the FBI Director’s Community Leadership Award, which honors individuals and organizations for extraordinary efforts to improve community safety and cooperation with law enforcement. The award celebrated her role as a liaison, a trainer, and a frontline protector of Jewish life.
Securing Jewish Buffalo ( cont’d )
On July 21, Susan will be formally honored at the Buffalo Jewish Federation Summer Celebration, where we will express our deep appreciation for her six years of visionary leadership and service.
“Susan DeMari has been more than a Director of Security these last 6 years,” shared Miriam Abramovich, CEO of the Buffalo Jewish Federation. “She has been a guardian, a partner, and a force for good in Jewish Buffalo. Creating Secure Jewish Buffalo from the ground up, she earned the trust of our community’s leaders and the respect of law enforcement partners across every level. Susan’s expertise, instincts, and compassion have made our community feel not only safer, but more protected and more connected.”
A Vision for the Future
As Susan prepares for her well-earned retirement, the Buffalo Jewish Federation is committed to continuing her legacy. Craig Macy has been appointed as the new full-time Senior Director of Security
to carry forward the work Susan so expertly began—ensuring that Jewish Buffalo remains vigilant, prepared, and protected for generations to come.
Susan Case DeMari leaves behind more than a legacy of security. She leaves a legacy of leadership, collaboration, and love for her community.
Send your well wishes to Susan at sdemari@buffalojewishfederation. org and welcome messages to Craig at craig@buffalojewishfederation.org.
HERO Celebrates Arts & Writing Contest Winners
Holocaust Education Resource Organization’s annual Arts & Writing Contest invited 8th grade students from across Western New York to reflect on the theme: Anne Frank: Beyond the Diary – A Testament to Hope and Spiritual Resistance. Students were asked to explore the idea of spiritual resistance and to respond through art or writing, drawing inspiration from a Holocaust diarist whose voice spoke to them—one who strove to preserve humanity and dignity in the face of unimaginable hardship. They were also challenged to consider how they might use their own voice to carry forward the lessons of the Holocaust. These winning pieces were selected by the judges to receive the following Eugene Finton Scholars Fund Awards and the Mary Deane and Robert Freeland Best in Show Award.
ART WINNERS
1st place and BEST IN SHOW: Itty Labkovski Ohr Temimim, “Emerging Star”
2nd place: Jannat Gazi Nardin Academy, “The Forbidden Eyes”
2nd place: Avremmy Young Ohr Temimim, “Six Candles”
3rd place: Margaret McCann
Orchard Park Middle School, “The Sound of Hope”
Honorable Mention:
Yosef Yitzchak Shanowitz
Ohr Temimim,
“Portrait of Anne Frank, A Reflection on Hope”
Honorable Mention:
Shimon Munitz
Ohr Temimim,
“The Child of Hope”
Saint Christopher - 3rd place
Clarence Elementary Schools Receive Kindness Suitcase Learning Materials
The following article appeared in The Clarence Bee on May 15, 2025, and is reprinted with permission.
Elementary school students across the Clarence Central School District will have the opportunity to use a new Kindness Suitcase to turn the lessons of history into kindness, empathy and tolerance.
The suitcases, which feature 15 age-appropriate books and 30 learning activities about
the Holocaust and people who helped others during the time, were presented by the Holocaust Education Resource Organization of Buffalo during a lesson for fourth grade students at Ledgeview Elementary School on May 8. A suitcase will be provided for each of the district’s four elementary schools.
“We want to make sure they understand the past and how one person can change the lives of others and how they can use their own heart to inspire others,” said Lauren Bloomberg, the organization’s director.
Many of the books in the suitcase focus on the Kindertransport, during which 10,000 children were transported from Germany, Austria, Czechoslovakia and Poland to Great Britain. Among the upstanders mentioned were Sir Nicholas Winton and Gino Bartali, who were among those who helped bring children to safety. The suitcase also featured a Paddington
Bear stuffed animal as well as the books of author Michael Bond, who created the character based on his memories of seeing child refugees from the Kindertransport.
Mari-Jo Gregor, Ledgeview Elementary School librarian, said storytelling can be a powerful tool to teach life lessons on qualities like kindness.
“It makes a huge difference to see themselves in a book or in a character,” Gregor said. “This helps them grow as learners.”
After reading about champion cyclist Gino Bartali, who saved more than 800 Jewish people by using his talents as a cyclist to secretly deliver items to Jews in hiding, students took time to create a name tag identifying their own superpower and how they can use it to help others. Some students who enjoyed music talked about being able to perform for others, while some in sports talked about how they could be role models on their team.
“The power of one person can make a huge difference,” said Wendy Weisbrot, Manager of the Holocaust Education Resource Organization of Buffalo. “We know you’ll make a huge difference by showing kindness wherever you go.”
Midlife Engagement Potluck Shabbat
For the past two years, the Buffalo Jewish Federation’s Midlife Engagement Initiative has brought people together through monthly Potluck Shabbat Dinners—celebrating community, hospitality, and delicious Jewish tradition.
Whether hosting or attending, participants have embraced the mitzvah of hachnasat orchim—welcoming guests—by sharing dishes that reflect personal stories, family customs, or beloved heirloom recipes. Each dinner offers a rich blend of flavors and meaningful conversations around full tables and open hearts.
These gatherings aren’t just about food—they’re about connection. Bringing a dish becomes an act of generosity and creativity, transforming a meal into a shared experience of joy and belonging.
At their core, these dinners are about slowing down, blessing one another, singing together, and finding sacred time in community. They rekindle old friendships, spark new ones, and offer a beautiful way to welcome Shabbat.
Interested in hosting or attending a dinner on September 19, October 17, or November 21? Want to join our email list? Contact Robin Kurss at robin@buffalojewishfederation.org.
The Federation is honored to spotlight the Buffalo Sabres Foundation, one of our Platinum 2025 Corporate Sponsors.
Striving to identify and support organizations in Western New York with similar core values, the Buffalo Sabres Foundation focuses on serving children and military personnel, caring for the sick, assisting physically and mentally challenged athletes, and supporting youth hockey initiatives.
In addition to their generous contribution to the Buffalo Jewish Federation, the Sabres Foundation has supported many other local organizations including FeedMore WNY, GLYS Inc, Roswell Park, Buffalo City Mission, Salvation Army, Explore & More Children’s Museum, Friends of Night People, Make-a-Wish, WNY Heroes, and Buffalo Police Athletic League.
In the Reflection of Candlelight
BY HON. BRENDA M. FREEDMAN
Each May, Jewish American Heritage Month invites people of all backgrounds to discover, explore, and celebrate the rich and diverse contributions of American Jews throughout our nation’s history. In this issue of the Jewish Journal, we are honored to feature reflections from the Honorable Brenda M. Freedman on this year’s celebration.
One of my most treasured possessions is a pair of 18-inch wooden candlesticks. They’re not worth much to anyone else, and at first glance, they look fairly ordinary. But to me, they glow with history—my history. My greatgrandmother Ruchel cherished them so deeply that she wrapped them in clothes and tucked them carefully into a small valise when she and my greatgrandfather Leib fled persecution in Eastern Europe with their infant child. They escaped in the middle of the night and eventually made their way to what would later become Israel, where my grandmother, D’vorah, was born. Out of all the belongings she could bring, Ruchel chose those candlesticks. She lit them every Friday evening for Shabbat— not just to mark the end of the week, but to bring light into the home, to celebrate life, to pass down values, and to keep tradition alive even in the most uncertain of times.
Honestly, I feel like bursting into the song “Tradition!” from Fiddler on the Roof when I tell this story, don’t you?! But our home was indeed full of meaningful, joyful Jewish customs. My brother and I dressed up as Mordechai and Queen Esther for Purim carnivals, stayed up late during long Passover seders singing through the night, and bundled up to eat in our outdoor hut for Sukkot, even when the fall air turned cold. These weren’t just rituals—they were connections to something bigger than ourselves.
Being Jewish also meant learning some powerful, guiding principles. One that shaped me most is Tikkun Olam—the idea that we each have a responsibility to help repair the world, to use what we’ve been gifted to lift others up. My understanding of this came to life through my mother, Maryann Saccomando Freedman. She
was a trailblazer, a community servant, and the kind of woman who made space for others to shine. Inspired by her, I’ve tried to follow a similar path— volunteering with nonprofits, and most importantly, creating new supports and programs in Juvenile Justice, so that young people can grow, heal, and build better futures.
Judaism teaches that we’re not expected to be perfect. One of Grandma D’vorah’s highest compliments was calling someone a mensch, a Yiddish word for a person of honor and integrity. Interestingly, it literally just means “human being”—a reminder that in Jewish thought, we’re all capable of goodness and greatness. As writer Jessica Ballen put it: “I love that Judaism accepts… that we are fallible human beings doing the best we can with what we have and not letting that stop us on our mission for growth.”
When I look at those candlesticks, I’m reminded to be the best I can be —the best mom, the best friend, the best judge, the best human being I can be. During Jewish American Heritage Month, I was especially grateful for the stories, strength and values that have been passed down to me—illuminated each time I see the flicker of those Shabbat candles.
Hon. Brenda Freedman and her mother, Maryann Saccomando Freedman
LiNK Offers Adult Jewish Learning and Gathering Groups
Adult Hebrew
(Virtual Classes)
1st semester: Classes run 10/22/25 – 1/28/26
LiNK Jewish Buffalo offers a variety of semester-long and year-long learning experiences for adults. Details about each class, cohort or learning experience can be found below. For more information contact Robin Kurss, robin@buffalojewishfederation.org.
Fee: $236/Semester (book purchased separately)
Location: Zoom
Hebrew Coordinator: Stacey Block
Beginning Hebrew
Wednesdays - 6:30 – 7:30 pm
Instructor: Cantor Susan Lewis-Friedman
No experience necessary. This course is for Beginners interested in learning the Hebrew alphabet, grammar, and vocabulary with a focus on reading prayers for Shabbat, synagogue services, and traditional blessings.
Intermediate Hebrew Wednesdays - 6:30 – 7:30 pm
Instructor: Rabbi Shlomo Schachter
This course is designed to further develop skills for those who already know the Hebrew alphabet and can read several words and phrases. The focus of this course is on developing basic vocabulary and words commonly used in Scripture and Hebrew prayer.
Advanced Hebrew Wednesdays – 7:30 – 8:30 pm
Instructor: Rabbi Shlomo Schachter
This course is designed for those who can read and understand both simple Biblical and modern Hebrew phrases. The primary focus of this class is conversational Hebrew.
Intro to Judaism
Wednesdays - 6:30 – 8:30 pm 10/22/25 – 1/28/26
Location: JCC Benderson Family Building
Fee: $180
Facilitated by local clergy and educators, this exceptional course is designed for individuals exploring conversion, those—Jewish and nonJewish—seeking a deeper understanding of Judaism, and interfaith couples, and covers topics including the Jewish calendar, life cycles, worship, beliefs, the Bible, Rabbinic literature, antisemitism, the Holocaust, Zionism, and the State of Israel.
Gathering Cohorts
Women Gathering
Women Gathering, facilitated by Miriam Abramovich, is a monthly opportunity for women ages 30-55 to gather over food and drink for conversation about the things we wrestle with in our daily lives; relationships, forgiveness, joy, purpose—and we do it all through a Jewish lens.
9 gatherings throughout the year, beginning September 11
Belonging is a core value of LiNK Jewish Buffalo.
If you need anything to help make these experiences more accessible or meaningful, please make note (as directed) on your registration form.
Men Gathering
Men Gathering, facilitated by Rob Goldberg and Rabbi Brent Gutmann, is a monthly opportunity for men ages 30-55 to gather over food and drink for casual conversation about issues and events that matter such as fatherhood, politics, Jewish culture, and antisemitism.
6 Thursdays throughout the year, beginning September 11
Wise Men Gathering
Wise Men Gathering, facilitated by Rob Goldberg, is a monthly opportunity for men ages 55+ to gather over food and drink for casual conversation about issues and events that matter; politics, Jewish culture, antisemitism, and celebrating our collective experiences through a Jewish lens.
5 Sundays throughout the year, beginning September 14
Wise Women Gathering
Wise Women Gathering, facilitated by Robin Kurss, Susan Schwartz and friends, is a monthly opportunity for women 55+ to gather over food and drink for conversations through a Jewish lens, about issues that matter most to us.
9 Thursdays throughout the year, beginning September 11
Into the Kitchen
Discover the Flavors of Jewish Cuisine! Join Robin Kurss for a journey into the world of Jewish cooking. In this hands-on class, we will prepare traditional dishes for the holidays or every day in between. Together, we’ll keep our rich Jewish culinary traditions alive.
Sundays throughout the year, beginning September 14
Save the Date!
Join old and new friends on Thursday, August 7 at 7 pm for our first Midlife Bash—an evening of cocktails, dinner, and great conversation. Just bring your fabulous self! Mark your calendar—details coming soon.
Shabbat Potluck Dinners
Our monthly Shabbat Potlucks have been a hit! Come share delicious food and meaningful connections this fall on September 19, October 17, and November 21. Join us for one or all!
Congregation Beth Abraham Looks to the Future
In mid-May, Congregation Beth Abraham (CBA)—a close-knit Jewish community in Buffalo’s Elmwood district—held an open meeting attended by 40 members, both in person and on Zoom. Irwin Gelman, CBA’s dedicated volunteer Hazzan, welcomed attendees with reflections on the congregation’s origins and evolution. He emphasized that CBA was never meant to function as a full-service synagogue, but rather as a warm, inclusive space where Jewish Buffalonians can gather, connect, and celebrate Jewish life.
Rob Goldberg, former CEO of the Buffalo Jewish Federation, and a current consultant with the Jewish Community Legacy Project, spoke about CBA’s unique strengths. He highlighted its welcoming spirit, its personalized approach to engagement, and its ongoing relevance as a meaningful Jewish presence in the city.
A Community Rooted in Strength
CBA continues to thrive as a vibrant hub of Jewish life. It is especially known for its spiritually rich High Holiday services, monthly Friday night musical Shabbat gatherings, and quarterly Saturday morning services—all led by committed lay leaders such as Marty and Shelly Kerker, long recognized as the heart of the congregation. The congregation also benefits from significant assets—both practical and cultural. Its charming, fully owned, and well-maintained building offers an inviting space for prayer, celebration, and community life. Financially stable and mission-driven, CBA hosts a wide range of programs throughout the year to engage members across generations.
“We don’t have a dues system,” explains Shelly. “Instead, we rely on the generosity and goodwill of those who participate. That spirit of voluntary support has allowed us not just to survive—but to flourish.”
CBA’s openness has attracted a diverse and engaged community. Many attendees are unaffiliated with larger institutions, while others belong to different congregations. “That’s another of our strengths,” Marty adds. “Everyone is welcome and encouraged to get involved—whether by offering a D’var Torah, serving on a committee, or organizing a program.”
Leadership in Transition
CBA now faces a moment of transition, as Marty and Shelly prepare to relocate from Buffalo to be closer to their family. “We should erect a statue in honor of them,” joked Dr. Gelman. “The Kerkers have held us together with their passion, dedication, and remarkable skill.”
Their departure marks a significant shift in CBA’s leadership. Yet rather than view this as a loss, the congregation sees it as a turning point—an opportunity to reflect, renew, and reimagine its path forward in an ever-evolving Jewish landscape.
On the Horizon
Exciting months lie ahead at CBA as the community is gearing up for a variety of upcoming events— including a road trip to the Safe Haven Museum in Oswego—and preparing meaningful services for the High Holy Days.
Mark your calendars for a special Friday night service hosted by Grant Golden and Deborah Goldman for August 12.
Want to get involved or learn more about our events and services? Visit congregationbethabraham.net or reach out to Marty at martykerker@gmail.com.
Jewish Journey to Portugal
In May, the Federation organized and led an experience for twelve community members on a Journey to Portugal—a country rich in beauty, complexity, and deep Jewish heritage. Chaired by Laurie and Ron Sadler, the group visited a stillactive synagogue serving just 50 Jews and met with leaders of a progressive community working to
revive Jewish life after centuries of persecution. There were lighter moments too—coordinated shirts for those who had lost their luggage, a private boat ride on the Douro, and a lesson in winemaking at Quinta da Pacheca. At its heart, the journey was a testament to enduring Jewish spirit. The group left not only more connected to Portugal but inspired by the unshakable resilience of the Portuguese Jewish community.
A Journey to Portugal by Sam Shatkin
Our trip to Portugal we hold so dear
With friends and guides our experience was clear. We travelled cross the ocean blue
A group of 12, some 1 some 2.
Of Portugal we learned so much, Inquisition, cryptic Jews, new Christians and such. Antonio and Lior did quite a task,
To teach us Jewry from this country’s past.
And Stacey we give thanks for all that you do, And our hosts Ron and Laurie thanks so much too!
Lost luggage and rain did not dampen the trip, With New clothes and umbrellas we did equip.
The experiences and memories we keep close to our heart,
The bond with the group grew right from the start.
An amazing experience as we travel home,
To each of us, and Portugal, we say Shalom.
Buffalo Jewish Federation Immersive Experiences
When we travel, we discover new things about ourselves, our Judaism, and about the world around us. Buffalo Jewish Federation Immersive Experiences allows you to dive headfirst into meaningful experiences alongside fellow Buffalonians who will often become dear friends. An immersive experience with the Buffalo Jewish Federation is unlike any other; you will gain access to exclusive opportunities, learn with incredible educators, facilitators and guides, while getting to know adventurous and bright travel companions—retuning home with new friends and deeper connections to Jewish Buffalo.
For more information about Immersive Experiences contact Stacey Block, Chief Operations Officer at Buffalo Jewish Federation stacey@buffalojewishfederation.org or 716-463-5053.
Cantorial Soloist Zahava Fried Expands Temple Beth
Tzedek’s
Clergy Team
A decade after arriving in Buffalo as the spouse of a UB medical student, Zahava Fried is deepening her impact on Jewish Buffalo as Cantorial Soloist at Temple Beth Tzedek, the region’s traditional egalitarian Conservative synagogue. Since 2022, she has served as TBT’s Cantorial Intern and has led youth education since 2021. Now, she joins Rabbi Sara Rich and longtime mentor Cantor Mark Spindler as a member of the Klei Kodesh (Jewish clergy) team.
Fostering Joyous Judaism
A classically trained opera singer, violinist, and violist, Fried brings deep musical talent to her cantorate, enriching services with heartfelt prayer, immersive Torah learning, and joyful expression. In her expanded role, Fried will lead TBT’s youth programming, including Junior Congregation and Tot Shabbat, and serve as a clergy partner in the new Buffalo Community of Learning (BCOL), a joint religious school with Congregation Shir Shalom. She will also oversee Torah Talk Tutoring and special events. She will regularly lead services for Shabbat, holidays, and weekdays, and assist with lifecycle events. New initiatives include music-centered adult education, alternative services, and Rosh Chodesh programs. Fried will also contribute to Bikkur Cholim and collaborate across TBT’s educational and inclusion efforts. “I’m so excited for this next step in my career—and even more grateful that it’s at TBT,” Fried says. “This congregation has become a second home for me and my family.”
An Emerging Cantorate
Fried’s decade in Buffalo includes leadership roles in early childhood education at Kadimah Academy and Temple Beth Zion, where she directed the PALS preschool. She also managed Young Family Engagement and led PJ Library at the Buffalo Jewish Federation. She has led High Holiday services for Hillel of Buffalo and Congregation Beth Ohr in New Jersey. “Zahava’s extraordinary voice, passion for Judaism, and joyful presence make her a natural fit for this expanded role,” says Rob
Goldberg, new TBT Chairman of the Board.
Fried recently earned a master’s in Jewish studies from Gratz College. She also holds a B.A. in Education from SUNY Empire State and an A.A. in Judaic Studies from Yeshiva University, where she met her husband, Dr. Yaakov Fried. They are proud parents of Lilah, Serafina, and Ramiel.
Join the Interfaith East Side Garden Walk Tour –Sunday, July 20
Buffalo Jewish Federation is proud to partner with several local religious communities for the 4th annual Interfaith East Side Garden Walk Tour, taking place Sunday, July 20, from Noon to 4 pm. Building on the success of the past three years, this unique experience brings together people of different faiths to explore East Side gardens and connect with local gardeners.
The tour begins at Tops Market, 1275 Jefferson Avenue—the site of the tragic May 2022 racially motivated shooting that inspired the creation of this interfaith initiative. From there, participants will carpool to several featured gardens, each with speakers, including garden walk guide Ellen Goldstein.
Launched in 2018, the East Side Garden Walk has grown from 42 gardens
across 14 neighborhoods to more than 70 gardens today, many featuring vibrant public art. The walk offers a powerful opportunity to build community, deepen relationships, and experience the beauty and resilience of Buffalo’s East Side.
Registration is required at: bit.ly/gardenwalk25
For questions, contact: Rachel Beerman, Community Relations Manager –rachel@buffalojewishfederation.org, or Ellen Goldstein –goldsteinellen4@gmail.com.
New Team Members at the Foundation
The Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies (FJP) is pleased to welcome two new professionals to their team: Jacob Fox, Senior Donor Relationship Manager, and Emma Hartman, Grants & Donor Database Administrator.
Jacob brings more than 15 years of nonprofit leadership, a deeprooted connection to Buffalo’s Jewish community, and a passion for building a better future. A multigenerational member of Jewish Buffalo, Jacob’s commitment to service and equity has shaped a career focused on empowering communities through philanthropy and strategic giving.
As Senior Donor Relationship Manager, Jacob will partner with donors to design meaningful charitable vehicles—such as donor-advised funds, charitable trusts, endowments, and legacy gifts—helping translate their vision into lasting impact. He holds dual master’s degrees in public policy and Nonprofit Management from Brandeis University’s Heller School. Jacob lives in the Town of Tonawanda with his wife Erin and their son Arlo.
Emma joins FJP as Grants & Donor Database Administrator. With a strong background in public health, grant management, and donor engagement, Emma will be your primary contact for processing grant requests and navigating the new donor portal, Tzedakah E-Z. Emma brings a proven record of securing and managing grants, coordinating across departments, and ensuring timely reporting. She earned a Bachelor of Science in Public Health with a minor in Business Administration from SUNY Brockport. Emma and her fiancé, Chris Osterhoudt, reside in West Buffalo. Together, Jacob and Emma exemplify FJP’s core values of Tzedakah, Tikkun Olam, and L’dor V’dor. Their shared dedication to strengthening Jewish Buffalo and building bridges across generations will elevate our mission and deepen our impact.
Life & Legacy® at Buffalo
Community Legacy Leaders Attend Conference
Total Legacy Commitments
Received: 566
Total Number of Donors: 303
Total dollar amount: $21, 800,000
*As of 6/19/2025
“Our lives are shaped not only by what we receive, but by what we give.”
— Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks
CRAIG Z. SMALL, PRESIDENT, FOUNDATION FOR JEWISH PHILANTHROPIES
In early May, leaders of our community attended the annual Life & Legacy Leadership Conference in Springfield, Massachusetts. In all, sixty-two cities are currently involved in this philanthropic movement to raise endowments for Jewish agencies and organization through Life & Legacy.
The conference provided an opportunity to connect, collaborate, and develop ways to strengthen our communities through meaningful legacy and endowment opportunities. It included selected seminars on topics from networking with fellow communities, to ways of approaching prospective donors, learning how to talk about legacy giving, and how to strengthen the message of Life & Legacy.
Life & Legacy brings together local Jewish organizations to secure the future of Jewish Buffalo through legacy giving. By encouraging individuals and families to leave gifts now or after-lifetime to permanent endowment funds, Life & Legacy ensures the long-term sustainability of the institutions that shape and strengthen our Jewish community. These gifts—regardless of size or type—reflect the values and passions of each donor and help provide ongoing support for future generations.
Now entering its fifth year, Life & Legacy at Buffalo is a collaboration between the Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies and the Buffalo Jewish Federation, working in close partnership with local synagogues, agencies, and organizations. Together, we are fostering a culture in which legacy giving is embraced as a natural and essential part of Jewish philanthropy.
The program strengthens collaboration among our organizations and reinforces the core Jewish principle that Kol yisrael arevim zeh bazeh—all Jews are responsible for one another.
As one community, we are taking responsibility for our collective future. By participating in Life & Legacy, our Jewish organizations are building financial stability, cultivating lasting relationships, and ensuring that Jewish life in Buffalo continues to thrive for generations to come.
We are grateful to Harold Grinspoon and the Harold Grinspoon Foundation for providing training, support, structure, guidance, leadership, and monetary incentives for this important initiative.
During the conference, Life & Legacy at Buffalo was recognized for successfully completing four years in the program. Buffalo Jewish agencies have secured more than 566 legacy commitments with a value of more than $21.8 million in a variety of organizational endowment funds. These funds will contribute to the sustainability of Buffalo Jewish organizations and institutions into the future. Leaders of the Harold Grinspoon Foundation presented the Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies and Buffalo Jewish Federation with a specially framed certificate in recognition of the community’s success.
Legacy gifts generate regular investment income providing organizations with a means to support longterm growth and sustainability. If you have a passion for a particular 501(c)(3) charitable organization and want to get involved, please call Irv Levy at the Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies, 716-204-1133.
Buffalo’s delegation included (from left): Veronica Fabrizio of the Jewish Community Center, Linda Boxer of Temple Beth Tzedek, Linda Barat of Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies, Winnie Grinspoon, President of the Harold Grinspoon Foundation, Craig Small of Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies, Larry Boxer of Temple Beth Tzedek, Tom Lansing of Congregation Shir Shalom, and Lisa Allen, Jewish Community Center. Also attending, yet missing from the photo, was Rob Goldberg, of the Buffalo Jewish Federation.
Buffalo’s success in completing the program’s first four years was celebrated at the conference with a special video and commemorative plaque. From left are Kathy Sarlson, National Director, Life & Legacy; Craig Small, President, Board of Trustees, Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies; Linda Barat, Life & Legacy at Buffalo Coordinator; and Tammy Dollin, Life & Legacy Community Consultant.
From the School Gym to the Final Four: The Safir Family’s Championship Moment
Fifteen years ago, David and Diane Safir watched their son Jonathan captain the Williamsville North basketball team and dreamed big dreams. But they never imagined those dreams would one day play out on college basketball’s biggest stage.
On April 7, they stood in the Alamodome in San Antonio, surrounded by Jonathan’s wife Alison, his siblings, and more than 60,000 fans, as the University of Florida Gators won the NCAA national championship. And among millions watching on TV were many of the Safirs’ fellow members of Congregation Shir
Shalom, including those who have known Jonathan since he was young.
Jonathan, Florida’s Director of Basketball Strategy and Analytics, not only helped build the team—he personally recruited several of its key players. “It was incredibly special to have my family there for the entire run,” Jonathan said. “Their support means the world to me. Even when I was fresh out of school, they encouraged and financially supported me in chasing my dreams. My dad coaching me as a kid just makes it even sweeter.”
The moment was emotional for Jonathan’s mother Diane: “To see David and Jonathan side by side as he cut down his piece of the net with One Shining Moment playing—it gave us chills. Jonathan watched that song every year with his dad. It was even his Bar Mitzvah theme. I’ve never seen that look on his face before. Pure joy.” David called the experience surreal. “So many people in sports never get to this stage. It was a once-in-alifetime moment that made all our dreams tangible.”
Jonathan’s journey is rooted in hard work, drive, and belief—from both himself and his father. “He’s disciplined, goal-oriented, and always found a way to make his vision reality,” David said. “I always believed he’d succeed. The surprise is how quickly it’s all happened.”
This wasn’t their first championship in San Antonio. In 2009, David coached Jonathan and Team Buffalo to a gold medal at the Maccabi Games—again with the whole family there to cheer them on. “San Antonio has been very good to the Safirs,” David laughed.
Jonathan is named for his grandfather, Julian “Bud” Safir, a founding member of Temple Beth Am. That legacy lives on in Jonathan’s life and values. “My Jewish roots are strong—not just for me, but for the family Alison and I hope to grow,” Jonathan said.
The family’s connection to Congregation Shir Shalom stretches back over 65 years. “He and I had our Bar Mitzvahs in the same sanctuary,” David reflected. “It brings L’Dor v’dor—generation to generation—to life. And we’ve made both Judaism and basketball work in our family. Jonathan has never hidden who he is. When challenged about his Judaism, he stood tall. That pride and perseverance—how can you not be proud of that?”
The Gators’ championship wasn’t the only win for Jonathan this year. He was promoted to Assistant Coach—and he and Alison are expecting their first child, a daughter, in July.
“Jonathan is in the middle of a wild eleven months,” Diane said with a smile. “He got married in August, won a national title in April, and now he’s about to become a dad. I told him, don’t expect every year to be like this!”
Jonathan is ready to pass on what he’s learned. “I’ll teach my daughter about Buffalo’s grit and heart. Know your roots—and yes, she’ll be a Bills fan.”
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Introducing New Hillel of Buffalo Student Leaders
The new ‘25-26 student leadership cohort at Hillel features five passionate and capable students, each selected through a competitive application and interview process. United by their commitment to Jewish life, they will guide Hillel’s mission to foster community, self-expression, and growth on Buffalo-area campuses.
Jonathan Hirsch
Social Chair
A sophomore majoring in English and Psychology with a Theatre minor, Jonathan has been a dedicated Hillel presence, attending nearly every event and Shabbat.
A former leader of his high school Self-Care Club, he brings creativity and compassion to planning inclusive, engaging programming for all students.
Leah Gayer
Outreach Chair
Leah, a Political Science major with a Law minor, felt an instant connection to Hillel. Her background in campus outreach and leadership—through her sorority and work— prepares her to engage new students through meaningful one-on-one connections, vibrant events, and strategic campus presence.
Izzy Ehrlich
Innovation Chair
A Political Science major minoring in Community Development, Izzy is a former BBYO Regional Membership President and high school JSU president. At Hillel, she will lead engagement strategy and inter-group collaboration, helping build a more connected and innovative Jewish community.
Sabrina Mondschein
Jewish Experience Chair
Majoring in Law with minors in Social Work and Child Advocacy, Sabrina made an immediate impact at Hillel by leading Shabbat and holiday services. Her leadership of her high school Jewish Culture Club informs her goal of spreading “Jewish Joy” through services, celebrations, and new traditions.
Brynn Surloff
Jewish Education Chair
An Environmental Studies major with a Law minor, Brynn is a BBYO alum and experienced educator. She’s led learning cohorts, taught “Torah and Tea,” and served as a song leader. Her focus is making Jewish learning engaging, inclusive, and empowering for all students.
With these five dynamic leaders at the helm, Hillel of Buffalo is poised for a year of connection, discovery, and vibrant Jewish life—continuing to grow as a space shaped by students, for students, and expanding its impact across the region.
JFS and HERO Host Luncheon for Survivors
Yom HaShoah, Holocaust Remembrance Day, honors the memory of the millions who perished in the Holocaust. Observed each year on the 27th of Nisan, communities around the world mark the day with solemn ceremonies— moments of silence, readings of victims’ names, and gatherings centered on education, remembrance, and prayer.
In today’s uncertain world, these commemorations feel more vital than ever. This year, Jewish Family Services of WNY’s Jewish Community Services partnered with the Holocaust Education Resource Organization (HERO) to host a special luncheon for local Holocaust survivors. The gathering offered a space to remember those who were lost and to celebrate the enduring strength and spirit of those who survived.
Sara Mintz, JFS’ Jewish Community Casework Coordinator, reflected: “We wanted our survivors to enjoy themselves while also feeling properly honored. Yom HaShoah is not only a time to remember those who died, but also to recognize and uplift those who lived through it. As these events become smaller over time, it’s essential that we cherish those who are still with us.”
The year 2025 marks the 80th anniversary of the liberation of Auschwitz, underscoring the urgency of honoring survivors while they are still among us. As the number of living witnesses continues to decline,
JFS embraces the Jewish value of l’dor v’dor—from generation to generation. Creating spaces of care and connection allows for the meaningful transmission of memory and experience.
Supporting Buffalo and Western New York’s community of survivors is one powerful expression of l’dor v’dor. While older generations pass down their stories, younger ones can show reverence and gratitude—even through simple acts like organizing a luncheon. In doing so, we ensure that the legacy of survival, resilience, and remembrance continues to live on.
Celebrating Lag B’Omer at Kehillat Ohr Tzion
Lag B’Omer was joyfully celebrated at Kehillat Ohr Tzion (KOT) with a spirited Friday night gathering that reflected the warmth of the community. As with any close-knit synagogue, creating something special required the effort and heart of many dedicated volunteers—and the result was a memorable evening of music, prayer, food, and connection.
The evening began with live music from The Grandfathers, featuring KOT President Jeff Schapiro on trumpet. Before the performance, volunteers assembled a makeshift stage in the synagogue’s flexible space, which seamlessly transitions between davening, dining, and event use. Guests enjoyed drinks and appetizers as the band played, setting a celebratory tone for the night. The performance was warmly received, and the musicians were thanked with appreciation before services began.
A moving highlight came as attendees lit Shabbat candles together, filling the room with flickering light that lasted
throughout the evening. Kabbalat Shabbat was especially spirited, with heartfelt singing and davening that reflected the joy of the holiday. Following services, over 40 members gathered for a communal Shabbat dinner. The energy of the
evening continued through shared songs and Torah learning, deepening the sense of unity.
The entire event—from shopping and cooking to serving and cleaning—was powered by volunteers. While too many contributed to name individually, special recognition goes to Cheryl Stein for her leadership and coordination in planning the evening.
This year’s Lag B’Omer celebration stood out as truly exceptional—an evening that captured the essence of community, joy, and tradition.
Temple Beth Zion Reimagines Religious School Experience
Temple Beth Zion is excited to welcome students from Pre-K through 7th grade back to the Broder Center for a refreshed and reimagined Religious School experience! Under the leadership of Interim Director Susan Goldberg, and with the valuable guidance of Rabbi Brent Gutmann and Cantor Susan Lewis-
Friedman, the program is being thoughtfully redesigned to better meet the needs of our families.
Religious School opens on September 7th and will once again be held at the Broder Center, located at 700 Sweet Home Road. Many spaces are being redesigned for classroom use. In response to parent feedback, school will now begin at 9:30 am, with dismissal at noon.
Hebrew instruction will return to the classroom, offering students a more immersive and personal connection to the language of our people. All grades will participate in Art, Music, and other Specials, helping students explore and express their Jewish identity. Students in grades 4–7 also can choose from a variety of Chuggim (Activity Groups), allowing them to pursue interests such as cooking, writing, and other aspects of Jewish life alongside peers who share their enthusiasm.
The process of hiring qualified teachers is already underway, and Mrs. Goldberg is also seeking teen volunteers to serve as Madrichim (classroom assistants). These hours can fulfill community service requirements and offer a fun, rewarding way to engage with younger students,
contribute meaningfully to TBZ, and strengthen college applications. Registration opened earlier this spring and will continue through the end of August. It is open to both members and unaffiliated families. Please complete our online registration form at bit.ly/TBZRegistration25-26. If electronic registration is not an option for you, or if you have any other questions about the new TBZ Religious School, please reach out to Sue Goldberg at education@tbz.org or call 716-836-6565 ext. 130 for assistance.
End-of-Year Reflection: Kadimah Scholars Program at Park School
As the school year draws to a close, the Kadimah Scholars Program at Park School remains a cornerstone of enriching experiences that celebrate Jewish heritage within a diverse, secular private school environment. This year, the program continued to foster a dynamic community rooted in learning, celebration, and personal growth.
Throughout the year, students engaged in a range of activities that honored Jewish traditions and deepened their understanding of cultural identity.
Celebrations of Rosh Hashanah, Tu BiShvat, Sukkot, Hanukkah, Passover, and Shavuot served not only as opportunities to observe rituals, but also as creative platforms for collaboration, storytelling, and artistic expression.
The spirit of camaraderie extended beyond the classroom. Through teambased activities that encouraged healthy competition, students strengthened their physical well-being while cultivating essential values such as teamwork and sportsmanship. A spirit of warmth and generosity was also evident in hands-on experiences like challah braiding, matzah making, and preparing hamantaschen—many of which were shared with the Jewish Soldiers Project alongside thoughtful tzedakah contributions.
Music and theater remained a highlight of the program, providing students with meaningful avenues for creative expression. From vibrant performances to collaborative musical projects, participants gained confidence and a sense of belonging while showcasing their talents.
At the heart of the Kadimah Scholars Program is its unique integration of Judaic and Hebrew studies with a strong secular curriculum. This dual approach continues to nurture a deep connection to Jewish identity while encouraging a broad, inclusive worldview.
Looking ahead, the program is poised to introduce new and exciting
opportunities. Plans for the coming year include innovative initiatives, guest speakers, and expanded extracurricular offerings designed to further enrich the student experience.
The success of the Kadimah Scholars Program is made possible by the
dedication of its faculty, the support of families, and the enthusiasm of its students. Together, they have cultivated a vibrant community that honors tradition while embracing growth and innovation. The future is bright for the Kadimah Scholars at Park School.
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Hadassah Summer Plans
Buffalo Hadassah is once again organizing a summer garden party this July. Members and guests will gather in the beautiful garden of Rise’ Kulik, where they’ll enjoy light refreshments following a tour of her vibrant annuals and perennials. Special guests will include three leaders from Hadassah’s Northern New England Region. While there have been many Zoom meetings among chapters in that region, this will mark the first opportunity for in-person connection.
At the May board meeting, members discussed an upcoming program on mindfulness to be led by Rabbi Yonina Foster. Plans also progressed for a September informational panel on transgender issues. The five-member panel will feature an endocrinologist, a transgender child and parent, an architect involved in the design of inclusive bathrooms, and a representative from GLYS WNY Inc (Growing LGBTQ+ Youth Support). The program was developed in response to members interest in learning more about the transgender community.
Mitzvah Chair Jan Liebowitz continues to collect and deliver essential items to nonprofit organizations, adapting to evolving needs brought about by changes in immigration policy. Going forward, canned goods will be collected at all meetings and programs.
Jewelry sales, coordinated by Frima Ackerhalt and held at the JCC, have been a great success. Proceeds primarily support Hadassah Hospital and the Youth Villages in Israel. In addition, a portion of the funds is
donated to the JCC General Fund and the Early Childhood Program.
Buffalo Hadassah’s book club continues to meet via Zoom to accommodate members who travel. On June 16, the club discussed The Secret of Clouds by Alyson Richman, with a conversation led by Sue Bergman. For more information about the book club, contact Phyllis Steinberg at phyllismksteinberg@gmail.com. For details about upcoming programs, email mkatzel@me.com.
Student-to-Student™ (STS)—a flagship initiative of Federation’s K-12 education resources—is a dynamic, classroom-based program that fosters understanding and dialogue by bringing Jewish student leaders into schools to share their lived experiences and personal stories. Designed to build bridges and break down stereotypes, STS empowers non-Jewish peers to learn about Judaism in a meaningful, people-centered way. This year, Buffalo STS mobilized 10 inspiring Jewish storytellers who reached more than 800 students, educators, and administrators across the region including schools in Hamburg, West Seneca, and Starpoint.
Summer Fun and Jewish Pride Shine at Chai
Chai Early Childhood Camp at the Center for Jewish Life, 757 Hopkins, is preparing to welcome its youngest campers for a season filled with wonder, joy, and meaningful connection. Running from July 7 through August 22, this beloved program offers a uniquely enriching experience for children ages 6 weeks to 3 years old.
Designed specifically with early childhood in mind, Chai Camp blends play, creativity, and Jewish values in a warm, nurturing environment where each child is encouraged to grow and thrive. Every day brings new opportunities for exploration and fun, with a wide array of engaging activities including Arts and Crafts, Cooking and Baking, Springs and Play and more. These thoughtfully crafted programs are not only age-appropriate but also foster important developmental milestones through sensory play, movement, and social interaction. Whether it’s a music circle, a messy art project, or outdoor playtime, each moment at Chai Camp is designed to inspire curiosity and confidence.
But what truly sets Chai Camp apart is its deeply rooted Jewish spirit. Through storytelling, song, and hands-on learning, even the youngest campers are gently introduced to Jewish traditions, values, and celebrations in a fun and welcoming atmosphere.
With a professional, passionate, and loving staff, Chai Early Childhood Camp ensures that every child receives individualized attention in a safe and secure setting. Parents can relax, knowing their little ones are in caring hands—laughing, learning, and making cherished summer memories.
To learn more or register your child, please visit us at JewishBuffalo.com or call 716-639-7600.
716 Happenings
Check out all that’s happening in Jewish Buffalo! From Yom Ha’Shoah to honoring Buffalo Jewish Federation Life & Legacy donors with Ted Merwin to celebrating Temple Beth Zion’s 175th anniversary, spring has been a busy time in Jewish Buffalo!
This Place
The following are some of the reflections shared by Linda Laping Konner at Temple Beth Zion’s 175th Anniversary Gala on May 17, 2025.
As a little girl walking into this room (the Fink Auditorium at 805 Delaware Avenue), I always paused to look up at the portrait of my grandfather hanging on the wall. He was magnificent. I still hold that image close—a soft half-smile, wise eyes, and a quiet dignity that radiated from the oil painting. I never had the chance to know him personally, but I saw in that portrait a gentle strength and quiet kind of leadership. I saw my mother in him.
From the stories I’ve heard, and the ones passed down in writing, there was— and never will be—anyone as respected and beloved. My Oma, his wife, once told me, “I hope you are as dutiful a daughter to your mother as she is to me.” It’s funny—I never thought of my mom as “dutiful.” Maybe that’s just an old-fashioned word for devoted. Because devoted she is – to her mother, to my father, and just as deeply, to this place.
Some of my earliest memories are of getting dressed up for Temple services, then walking across the street to the Montefiore Club with my family and cousins. I went to Sunday school in this building, played hide-and-seek in the coat racks, and checked out books from the library. I was married here. My daughter Holly had her naming ceremony in the small chapel. This place has always been a part of family’s story—it’s woven into the fabric of who we are.
I live in LA now. With over half a million Jewish families, here, you’d think I would have found a place that felt the same. We tried the temple by the beach, the one with the reggae band renting space in a Korean church, the Reconstructionist congregation in the round. We even tried the celebrity-studded synagogue where everyone applauded when the rabbi entered with the Torah. We tried them all. But none of them felt like home. I realize now I was always searching for this pace—and never quite found it.
Just like my parents—whom I love deeply and am endlessly proud of—this place is irreplaceable.
Bennett High School to Celebrate Centennial Weekend and Tribute to Outstanding Alumnus Sanford Greenberg
Buffalo’s historic Bennett High School—affectionately known as the “School on the Hill”—is preparing to celebrate a century of educational excellence with a Centennial Anniversary Weekend, set for September 19–21, 2025. Founded in 1925 on land donated by businessman Lewis J. Bennett, the school has served as a pillar of the North Buffalo community, educating generations of students and shaping
thousands of lives over the past 100 years.
To honor this milestone, the Bennett Alumni Association has organized a full weekend of events under the theme: “Cherishing the Past • Celebrating the Present • Embracing the Future.” The celebration will include festivities designed to bring alumni, students, faculty, and friends of Bennett together in reflection and pride—and to look forward to the school’s continued impact.
Weekend Highlights
Friday, September 19
The weekend kicks off with an Antique Car Show on the school’s front lawn and an Open House Reception inside the school building. That evening will also feature the induction of the 20th Sports Hall of Fame Class.
Saturday, September 20
The celebration continues with a spirited Homecoming Parade, led by the Bennett Cheerleaders, and a Bennett Tigers football game at All-High Stadium. Past athletes and cheerleaders will be honored during halftime, and current students will host a refreshment fundraiser in the stands.
Saturday evening culminates with the Centennial Gala Dinner and Dance at the Buffalo Niagara Convention Center, featuring live music by The Larry Salter Orchestra with Vibrant Strings. The centerpiece of the evening will be the induction of Sanford “Sandy” Greenberg, Class of 1958, as the 2025 Centennial Outstanding Alumni.
Honoring Sanford Greenberg, ’58: A Visionary in Every Sense
Sandy Greenberg’s story is one of resilience, brilliance, and boundless impact. A 1958 graduate of Bennett, Sandy was known as a scholar-athlete, student body president, trumpet player, and “all-around good looking fellow,” as the late Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg described in the foreword to his memoir Hello Darkness, My Old Friend.
After losing his eyesight during college due to glaucoma, Sandy refused to be defined by his disability. He went on to become a celebrated inventor, author, public servant, and philanthropist, dedicating his life to eradicating blindness and expanding access to opportunity. His inspiring life journey— from a North Buffalo childhood shaped by hardship and hope to a life of global impact—embodies the very best of the Bennett spirit.
Sandy’s legacy is also deeply personal. His lifelong bond with college roommate Art Garfunkel—immortalized in the title of his memoir—serves as a testament to enduring friendship and the power of perseverance.
Sunday, September 21
The weekend concludes with a Centennial Brunch and Annual Meeting at the Marriott LECOM. In addition to welcoming new members to the Alumni Honor Roll, a commemorative time capsule will be sealed to be opened at Bennett’s 125th anniversary in 2050.
Tickets and Contact Info
Tickets for all events are available through bennettalumni.com. For questions, email bennettalumniassociation@gmail.com or contact Neil Lange at 716-308-5451.
This year, middle school students at Ohr Temimim participated in a powerful educational journey
Ohr Temimim Partners with HERO for Art Initiative
that blended Holocaust studies with visual arts, made possible through a collaboration with HERO (the Holocaust Education Resource Organization).
The experience culminated in a creative project in which eighth-grade students submitted original Holocaust-themed artwork and personal artist statements to a contest hosted by HERO. Four students received recognition and were honored at an event last month: Itty Labkowski earned first place, Avremmy Young received second place, and honorable mentions were awarded to Shimon Munitz and Yossi Shanowitz.
To deepen the impact of the learning, HERO arranged for Holocaust survivor Bernie Redlich to visit the school. Mr. Redlich shared his extraordinary story of survival as a hidden child in a convent during the war, followed by his life in Israel and service in the IDF. His testimony left a lasting impression on the students, who were deeply moved by his resilience and courage.
The Women’s Chevra Kadisha of Temple Beth Tzedek
BY LISA BENSON, MD
Over twenty years ago, Edith Pierce (z”l) founded the Women’s Chevra Kadisha to serve Temple Sha’arey Tzedek (now Temple Beth Tzedek) and the wider Buffalo Jewish community. What began with five dedicated volunteers has grown into a committed group of over fifteen members.
Washing and purifying (Teharah) the meitah/meit, or deceased (at no time is the deceased referred to as “the body”), and donning the tachrichim, the ritual garments for burial, are the physical aspects of the mitzvah to attend to the dead. However, equally important, is the role of midwifing the soul, or neshama, which remains in the room with the meitah/meit, until burial. We sing, we pray, we talk to the meitah, asking forgiveness for any offenses or mistakes we make in doing this great mitzvah. We are there on behalf of the deceased, to assure his/her family and community that the meitah is being cared for according to our traditions and practices. Since we are told that G-D buried Moses, we are in that light
also acting on behalf of G-d. We prepare the meitah for meeting with the Divine.
Attending to the dead is the ultimate mitzvah; it is performed anonymously, without any thanks or gratitude from the one receiving. Also referred to as chesed shel emes, or truest act of kindness, it is also one of the names of the 13 attributes of G-D (rav chesed v’emet). Emet, spelled aleph mem tuff, contains the words meit (or death) and em (mother), reminding us that everyone has a mother and everyone dies. The span of our lives, this mysterious gift is contained in this one word. Facing death is how we touch the exquisite treasure that this life is.
In this sacred work, we draw closer to the Divine. Even a steadfast atheist might sense the presence of something greater in the room. Teharah is not about us—it is about offering our deepest spiritual gifts to the one before us. It may be the closest we come, in life, to meeting the face of G-d. For more information, please contact Amherst Memorial Chapel at 716-636-4174 or Mesnekoff Funeral Home at 716-639-8890.
Fun in the Summer Sun
the PJ Library Way!
Add some sunshine to your child’s summer with these five PJ Library–inspired activities!
1. PJ Picnic
Celebrate the beauty of summer evenings with a PJ Library Shabbat picnic! Pack your grape juice, challah, favorite picnic foods, and head to a local playground with friends. Share the sweetness of Shabbat through play, then wind down by reading a beloved PJ Library book—what a perfect way to end the week!
2. Backyard Summer Camp
Jewish summer camp is a highlight of the season—and you can bring that magic home! Build a safe bonfire or use a fire pit to roast marshmallows and make s’mores. End the night with classic camp songs for a fun, spirit-filled backyard experience.
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3. Attend Splash & Swim!
Looking for cool summer fun with your little ones (ages 0–7)? Don’t miss Splash & Stories, PJ Library’s exciting water play event! Join us at the Benderson JCC Grossman Family Outdoor Pool Complex on Sunday, July 13, 10 – 11 am for a joyful morning of splashing, stories, and smiles.
Turn a sunny day into a “Mitzvah Marathon!” Have each family member complete a mitzvah—like helping a neighbor, cleaning a park, or calling a grandparent—to earn a prize. Celebrate your good deeds together with a sweet treat, like ice cream!
Summer Reading with PJ Library
There’s no better way to end a summer day than with a great story. Add PJ Library favorites to your bedtime routine—Camp Wonderful Wild by Laurel Snyder and I Love Camp by Todd Parr are perfect picks!
Mitzvah Marathon
Jewish Community Organizations in Western New York
Buffalo Jewish Federation
338 Harris Hill Road – Suite 108B
Williamsville, NY 14221
716-463-5050
buffalojewishfederation.org
Miriam Abramovich - CEO
Margie Bryen - President
Buffalo Vaad of Kashrus
49 Barberry Lane Williamsville, NY 14221
716-534-0230
buffalo@yahoo.com, bvkkosher@gmail.com
Mike Steklof, Ed.D. - President
Center for Jewish Life
Suburbs: 757 Hopkins Road Williamsville, NY 14221
716-639-7600
jewishbuffalo.com
Rabbi Laizer & Chani Labkovski Downtown: 1016 Lafayette Avenue Buffalo, NY 14209
716-545-6806
Rabbi Mendy & Chaya Mushka Labkovski
Chabad House of Buffalo 2450 North Forest Road Getzville, NY 14068
716-688-1642
chabadofbuffalo.com
Rabbi Moshe Gurary
Rabbi Avrohom Gurary
Chabad of Niagara Falls USA (716)703-8770
ChabadNiagaraFallsUSA.org
Rabbi Yehuda Lorber
Mrs. Yehudis Lorber
Chai Early Childhood Center 757 Hopkins Road Williamsville, NY 14221
716-580-4600
chainursery.com
Chani Labkovski - Director
Community Relations
338 Harris Hill Road – Suite 108B Williamsville, NY 14221
buffalojewishfederation.org
Rob Goldberg - Senior Advisor
Harvey Sanders - Chair
Department of Jewish Thought 712 Clemens Hall – University at Buffalo Buffalo, NY 14260
716-645-3695
jewish-studies@buffalo.edu jewishstudies.buffalo.edu
Dr. Noam Pines - Chair
Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies
2640 North Forest Road
Getzville, NY 14068
716-204-1133
jewishphilanthropies.org
Irv Levy - Executive Director
Craig Small - President
Hadassah
2640 North Forest Road
Getzville, NY 14068
716-929-6504
buffalohadassah@gmail.com
Frima Ackerhalt and Phyllis Steinberg
-Co-Presidents
Hebrew Benevolent Loan Association
2640 North Forest Road in FJP offices
Getzville, NY 14068
716-204-0542 wnyhbla.org
Judith Katzenelson Brownstein - President
Hillel of Buffalo
Campus Center of Jewish Life
520 Lee Entrance/UB Commons
Suite #101B
Amherst, NY 14228
716-616-0083 hillelofbuffalo.org
Mike Steklof, Ed.D., Executive Director
Laura Hemlock-Schaeffer - President
Holocaust Education Resource Organization
338 Harris Hill Road – Suite 108B Williamsville, NY 14221
buffalojewishfederation.org/herobuffalo
Lauren Bloomberg - Director
Armand Morrison - Chair
Jewish Community Center of Greater Buffalo
Benderson Family Building 2640 North Forest Road
Getzville, NY 14068
716-688-4033
jccbuffalo.org
Patty Simonson - CEO
Sheryl Schechter - President
Holland Family Building 787 Delaware Avenue Buffalo, NY 14209
716-886-3145
Jewish Discovery Center 831 Maple Road
Williamsville, NY 14221
716-632-0467
jewishdiscovery.org
Rabbi Heschel Greenberg
Jewish Family Services of Western New York 70 Barker Street Buffalo, NY 14209
716-883-1914
jfswny.org
Molly Short Carr - CEO
Harold Star - Chair
Jewish Federation Apartments
275 Essjay Road
Williamsville, NY 14221
716-631-8471
jewishfederationapartments.org
Krista Bryk - Property Manager
Jewish Federation Cemetery Corporation, Inc.
P.O. Box 440 West Seneca, NY 14224
buffalojewishfederation.org
Debbie Pivarsi - Manager
Jonathan Schechter - President
Kadimah kadimah.org
Reneé Lehner - Administrator miriam treger - President
Kosher Meals on Wheels 757 Hopkins Road
Williamsville, NY 14221
716-639-7600
koshermow.com
Rabbi Laizer Labkovski - Director
Jeffery Pasler - President
LiNK Jewish Buffalo
338 Harris Hill Road – Suite 108B
buffalojewishfederation.org/link Williamsville, NY 14221
Kirstie Henry - Chair
Ohr Temimim School
411 John James Audubon Parkway W.Amherst, NY 14228
716-568-0226
ohrtemimimschool.com
Rabbi Shmuel Shanowitz - Principal
Sonia Gellman Young - President
Western New York Synagogues and Temples
Chabad House of Buffalo (unaffiliated) 2450 North Forest Road Getzville, NY 14068
716-688-1642
chabadofbuffalo.com
Rabbi Moshe Gurary
Rabbi Avrohom Gurary
Chabad of Niagara Falls USA 716-703-8770
ChabadNiagaraFallsUSA.org
Rabbi Yehuda Lorber
Mrs. Yehudis Lorber
Congregation Beth Abraham (Conservative) 1073 Elmwood Avenue Buffalo, NY 14222
congregationbethabraham.net
Cantor Irwin Gelman
Marty Kerker - President
Congregation Havurah (Reform) 6320 Main Street, Williamsville, NY 14221 716-833-3165
congregationhavurah.org president.havurah@gmail.com
Daniel Mink - President
Congregation Shir Shalom (Reform/Reconstructionist) 4660 Sheridan Drive Williamsville, NY 14221
716-633-8877
shirshalombuffalo.org
Rabbi Alexander Lazarus-Klein
Cantor Arlene Frank
Joanne Marquisee - Executive Director
Joe Glickman - President
JDC Shul (Unafilliated) 831 Maple Road Williamsville, NY 14221 716-245-9520
jewishdiscovery.org
Rabbi Heschel Greenberg
Rabbi Levi Greenberg
Rabbi Yehoshua Greenberg
Kehillat Ohr Tzion (Modern Orthodox) 879 Hopkins Road Williamsville, NY 14221
ohrtzion.org/kot
Rabbi Shlomo Schachter
Jeff Schapiro - President
Knesset Center (Orthodox)
500 Starin Avenue Buffalo, NY 14214
716-832-5063
chabadofbuffalo.com
Rabbi Shmaryahu Charitonow
Saranac Synagogue (Orthodox) 85 Saranac Avenue Buffalo New York 14216
716-876-1284
saranacsynagogue.org
President - Shmuel Rashkin
Vice President - Reuven Alt
Gabbai David Kunkel
Temple Beth Tzedek (Conservative) 1641 North Forest Road Williamsville, NY 14221 716-838-3232
btzbuffalo.org
Rabbi Sara Rich
Cantor Mark Spindler
Cantorial Soloist Zahava Fried
Beth Kassirer - President Kim Jones - Administrator
Temple Beth Zion (Reform)
Sanctuary 805 Delaware Avenue Buffalo, NY 14209 Offices
700 Sweet Home Road Amherst, NY 14226 716-836-6565
tbz.org
Rabbi Brent Gutmann
Cantor Susan Lewis Friedman
Mark Hayman - Executive Director Ken Graber - President
Temple Beth El (Reform) 720 Ashland Avenue Niagara Falls, NY 14301 templebethelniagara@gmail.com niagarafallstemple.com
Rabbi Ellen Franke
Cantorial Soloist Barry Rose
Adam DePriest - President
Temple Hesed Abraham of Greater Jamestown (Reform) Meeting biweekly at Jamestown, NY
Lutheran Church
Rabbi Allen Podet
Joe Gerstel - President (716-665-2118) valprojdg@netsync.net
The Family Shul (Unaffiliated) 757 Hopkins Road Williamsville, NY 14221
Rabbi Laizer Labkovski 716-639-7600
Young Israel of Greater Buffalo (Orthodox) 105 Maple Road Williamsville, NY 14221 716-634-0212
yibuffalo.org
Rabbi Avi Okin Richard Berger and Michael PaskowitzCo-Presidents
Explore Buffalo Tours at Historic Jewish Cemeteries
The Buffalo Jewish Federation (BJF) and the Jewish Federation Cemetery Corporation (CC) are pleased to announce the launch of Explore Buffalo’s 2025 tour season at the historic Jewish Cemeteries on Pine Ridge Heritage Boulevard. Tours will run through September, with additional private tours to be announced for members of Jewish Buffalo later this summer.
This is an especially exciting time to tour the Jewish cemeteries due to news that recently arrived from the New York State Historic Preservation Office (SHPO).
On March 13, 2025, BJF and CC learned the Ahavas Achim Jewish Cemetery (located at 532 Pine Ridge Heritage Boulevard in Cheektowaga) was nominated to appear on The New York State Register of Historic Places (NYSRHP).
In early May, SHPO released a follow up statement and announced Ahavas Achim has now been listed on the National Register of Historic Places (NRHP). Ahavas Achim has joined the ranks of Temple Beth Zion by becoming the second Jewish sacred site in the Greater Buffalo Niagara Region to appear on the NRHP and NYSRHP.
Listing on the NRHP and NYSRHP not only acknowledges the cultural and historical significance of a site but also opens the door to critical funding opportunities for restoration and preservation through New York State.
The process of placing Ahavas Achim on the NRHP and NYSRHP began in July of 2024 when the Board of Directors at CC selected Historian Chana Revell Kotzin Ph.D. to perform rigorous research on the cemetery’s historic, architectural, and cultural significance. Jonathan Schechter, Esq. who presides as the President of the CC recognized the importance of placing Ahavas Achim on the NYSRHP. Schechter was familiar with Dr. Kotzin’s work as
a Historian, Archivist, and Curator who played a critical role in researching the Jewish cemeteries for the Jewish Buffalo History Center.
Dr. Kotzin’s research led to further discoveries about the Adler Chapel, a century old prayer chapel that resides on the grounds of Ahavas Achim Jewish Cemetery. The Chapel fell into disrepair over the last fifty years and plans are in place to restore the Egyptian-revivalist structure into a Visitor & History Center. Intricate details about the Adler Chapel’s history and architectural significance will be integrated into this year’s Explore Buffalo Tours at the Jewish Cemeteries, and new components of the tours will enlighten constituents about two hundred years of Jewish History in the Greater Buffalo Niagara Region.
The Cemetery Corporation Board encourages both local residents and out-of-town visitors to join a Jewish Cemetery Tour this summer. Registration is available online at: explorebuffalo.org/specialty/jewishcemetery-tour.
Ongoing fundraising efforts are supporting cemetery preservation and the restoration of the Adler Chapel. Thanks to a generous anonymous donor, all contributions to these initiatives are currently being matched. To donate, visit: jewishphilanthropies.org/stones-ofremembrance.
In Remembrance
The following individuals in our community passed away during the period from April 15, 2025 – June 15, 2025 their memories forever be a blessing, and may their loved ones be comforted among the mourners of Zion.
Faiga Bennet
Jeanne T. Blabac
Herman Cohen
Yoav Ehrenhalt
Mayor Fox
Lynda Freedman
Elaine Bolot Fruchtman
James Goldstein
Steven B. Greenberg
Robert Joseph
Lynn Weissman Klein
Adrienne Kotlove
Marilynn “Junie” Potts Leeds
Renata Lefcourt
Allan M. Lewis
Elaine Miller
Toby Muskat
Lenore Polk
Lillian Schatz
Arthur L. Serotte
Morton Shaevel
Elinor Jo Tepper
Robin Fern Weinstein
Sara Ann Weinstein
Iris “Rusty” Zackheim
Max Zelikman
jjwny@buffalojewishfederation.org and we will include the name in the next issue.
CORRECTION:
the May/June issue, Stanley Wyner’s name was misspelled in the In Remembrance list. We greatly apologize for the oversight.
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The Enduring Spirit of Small Jewish Communities
BY ROB GOLDBERG
Since stepping back from my role as Federation CEO last fall, I’ve had the privilege of supporting our new leader, Miriam Abramovich, in an advisory capacity. At the same time, I began a new professional venture as a consultant with The Jewish Community Legacy Project (JCLP)—the only national organization exclusively focused on serving small Jewish congregations across the U.S.
In these first months, I’ve come to appreciate the richness of small-town Jewish life. From Ottumwa, Iowa to Rutland, Vermont, Jewish immigrants settled in these towns more than 100 years ago and soon became the backbone of “Main Street”—owners of the local Pharmacy and optical shop, furniture and clothing stores. These communities were close-knit, vibrant, and deeply woven into the civic and cultural fabric of their towns.
In a serendipitous early encounter, I reached out to Dr. Stephan Greenberg—an ophthalmologist and one of the last two remaining members of Temple Beth El in Hornell, NY. When I told him that I’m in Buffalo, he immediately
asked, “Do you know the Bernstein family?” To my surprise, I did. I first meet Leah Bernstein Blum and her husband Jeff when they joined Shira and me on Federation’s 2012 Young Leadership Israel Experience—but I had never known that Leah’s roots traced back to Hornell.
“In the early 1970s, the Jewish community in Hornell included about 30 families from across the Southern Tier,” Leah recently told me. “My father served as synagogue
president, and my mother was deeply involved in Jewish education. Since we didn’t have a rabbi, services were led by community members, except during the High Holidays, when a student rabbi from the Jewish Theological Seminary would come to lead us.”
As with many Jewish families in small towns, the Bernsteins eventually relocated. “We moved to Buffalo when I was seven,” Leah recalled. “But the values we lived in Hornell stayed with us. That little shul became the foundation for a lifetime of Jewish connection—first at Temple Beth El in Buffalo, and now at Temple Beth Tzedek.”
Today, the synagogue building in Hornell still stands—just off Main Street and is listed on the National Register of Historic Places. But it is empty of Jews, its sanctuary quiet.
As poignant as this story is, not all small-town Jewish communities are fading into silence. Across the country, many are finding renewal through collaboration, creativity, and sheer determination. That is the essence of JCLP: preserving their stories, honoring their histories, and helping them adapt—without losing their identity.
For me, supporting these small Jewish communities is both a joy and a calling. I’m inspired by their resilience, their fierce commitment to Jewish life, and their refusal to be forgotten. In them, I see the enduring spirit of our people—a reminder of what it truly means to belong.
A native Buffalonian, Rob Goldberg is Senior Advisor of The Buffalo Jewish Federation and Consultant with the Jewish Community Legacy Project.
Assemblymember Karen McMahon of the 146th District
New York State has chosen:
Rabbi Cantor Penny S. Myers 2025 Woman of Distinction Award
You’ve been selected because you’re exactly what our world needs:
A voice for the voiceless, pursuer of shalom, impatient for justice, and a fierce upstander.
You live all the values of Judaism.
Hashem has chosen you to serve our Jewish community, but more importantly, you have selflessly shared with others outside our community.
Helping make our community an inclusive, safer, healthier place we ‛share you’ with everyone else, even though we sometimes ‛kvetch’ about it.
You’re the GOAT.
Best wife, mom, daughter, friend, and clergy because you are unapologetically YOU!
tov! We love you so much Bennett, Hunter, Saul and Corrinne
