BSM Magazine - September-October 2021

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TAMELA MANN

Talks “Overcomer” album, Therapy Outside the Church, and Relationship Goals

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editor’s desk Feel Good. It's a complete sentence when it comes to one's well-being. Our mental and physical health depends on it, and it's why this issue is a reminder for us to practice self-care continuously.

Take our cover story with Tamela Mann. The Grammy award-winning gospel singer and actress debuted new music last month, appropriately titled "Overcomer." It is parts of her life and the ability to sing songs that reach the people in what has been difficult times over the past year and a half, but like Mann, we believe each day is a moment for things to look up, and her realism for life, music, and family is relatable.

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it's okay to "receive their flowers."

Veteran actress Kim Fields talks about staying relevant to yourself when no one else may think the same. After all, it's the "Feel Good" issue.

We believe our latest publication will add to your peace and wellness, and we invite our readers to share their comments and thoughts about this issue on Instagram @bsm_mag.

We say to all the children, teens, and young adults on their educational quest toward excellence to have a safe and successful school year.

Happy Fall, everyone!

Best regards,

La Trisha McIntosh and La Tasha Taylor

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"Star of Netflix “The Upshaws” Talks Season 2 and Mental Wellness on Instagram"

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"Returns to Park MGM in October"

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TAMELA MANN

Talks “Overcomer” the album, Therapy and Relationships

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Jay Barnett is a Marriage and Family Therapist who encourages men to do away with societal norms regarding their self-care. Here he shares the lovely story of his grandmother and the influence that has become a part of his weekly "healing" routine. #MenLoveFlowersToo is a hashtag you use on Instagram to go with the various floral arrangements you display and messages that men should buy themselves flowers. What brought upon this form of self-love?

I grew up in Mississippi, in the country, and my grandmother would always set flowers in mason jars in the window. Often, I would find myself messing with them (laughing). She said flowers bring light. Of course, I didn't know what that meant until I was older. When she was older, she would write letters to me about how she was going to the store to buy her flowers and prepare her meal for today. It wasn't until I was an adult that I realized flowers were a source of light to my grandmother's existence. I began buying flowers in my early thirties, and it has become a part of my self-care routine and a way to remember the light she brought to me.

You say, "Buy flowers brothers, it won't take away from your masculinity." Do you find that more men now include this form of self-care in their lives?

Yes, I have a lot of brothers that send messages to me saying, "thank you for debunking all the stereotypical myths about men," and I'm humbled by it because so many men love things that society says are not masculine.

A big part of your platform is talking about mental health as a Marriage & Family Therapist. What are you doing these days to help people cope?

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I have created a virtual online counseling and coaching platform to see clients from all over the world. I do about 2-3 podcasts interviews a month to educate individuals on the importance of taking care of their mental health. Many times, we only think about mental health as it pertains to mental disorders, which are not the same. However, having stable mental health will determine the impact of any disorder mentally. I want people to experience a life of healing and freedom from their trauma and pain because how we show up in life is determined by how we process our pain and trauma. If we don't take care of our mental health, the mental, emotional, and physical state, it can be the birthplace of a mental health disorder.

Will you ever teach a class on floral arrangements for the fellas?

Yes, I plan to teach a course of healing and living a life of thriving for men because it's needed. It's time for our men to begin living and not just existing because "Healing is a journey, and WHOLENESS is the destination."

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KIM FIELDS

By Twins of Media

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n a recent interview actress Kim Fields shared her thoughts on “The Upshaws,” wellness, and new projects she’s been working on.

When asked about the “The Upshaws” and how the show resonated with the audience, the actress responded, “I think Wanda and Mike and Regina Hicks and the rest of the writers' room, they really did what they set out to do, which was to make a blisteringly funny, funny show that was relatable, that had a voice that was new and familiar at the same time.”

“Even though the characters were fresh and new, they gave nods to characters or banter and exchanges that we've known before,” said Fields.

The actress also gave credit to Netflix for the show's success, saying that the

network “gave us such support.”

“They [Netflix] supported the writers and the producers, and really let them make the show they wanted to make, and that is very rare,” she continued.

When asked about the great chemistry between her co-stars Mike Epps and Wanda Sykes, the actress revealed that they had never worked together before. Their chemistry came from being able to relate to each other in many aspects of real life.

“There's just so much that you have in common. Certainly being in relationships, being in marriages, having children, being a member of a family, working and what it feels like to work and work hard, and the sensibilities that the three of us were raised on,” said the actress when speaking about how she was able to

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Along with speaking about the show, Fields also spoke about the importance of wellness, a topic she often discusses on her Instagram.

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“My level of how important health and wellness is has leveled up. My commitment to that space has definitely increased and intensified as people are getting up outta here, as people are moving on,” shared the actress.

connect with her co-stars.

“We didn't feel like we were strangers meeting each other. We felt very familiar to one another,” she continued.

The actress revealed that playing the role she does in this sitcom was not one she expected at this point in her career, but she decided to take on the role because she felt that “this was a character I had not yet played.”

“It isn't just motivated by loss to me, it's also motivated by being in these streets, living your best life. Cause we really don't have time for anything else...you're here to experience it, so experiencing things in the healthiest way possible, the healthiest way is a goal and a process.”

The actress also gave some insight into her Instagram Live series. She talks to other celebrities on various topics, including wellness and mental health, to know others better and herself.

“I feel like I can use my platform in that same way, for people to be seen and not overlooked".

Fields revealed that she is currently working on a new movie with more information to be released towards the end of the year.

“It’s very exciting and I'm doing a lot of adventurous things and doing a great deal of exploring,” revealed Fields. In addition to acting and directing, she is also the founder of Signature Blends by KF and Signature Scrubs by KF" Available at www.signatureblendsbykf.com.

“I loved her edginess. I love how, even though she's fiercely mama bear to her family, and even her friends, but especially with her family that she gets very irreverent with them,” she said about her character Regina. “I felt like it was a character that I could sink my teeth into,” she added.

The show had such great success on Netflix, that it has been renewed for a second season.

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DEEP

with GLAM ESSENTIALS

By Twins of Media Photography: Ty Pleas

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udrey Vassell is an entrepreneur who focuses on providing affordable skin care to women of a certain age, and the honest conversations had through her brand like women and menopause, which she says, we don't talk about enough. Here she shares why creating an "experience" for her customers sets her business apart from others in the industry.

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Q: What year did you start glam essentials?

Please tell us about the background of your company.

A: Well, I started Glam Essentials in April 2014. I started selling products (beauty accessories) on Amazon under a different name. That's when I had the idea of going into skincare and where I got the name.

Q: You are a woman over 50, although you don't look it. What difference have you noticed in your skin that motivated you to create your skincare line for women of a certain age?

A: I always had a skincare routine from the time I was young. I always felt like it was important.

I used to use Mary Kay and even dabbled into Arbonne because it was a more natural alternative for women, and I did enjoy their products because there weren't a lot of natural options back then.

But after a while, I started noticing a difference in my skin. I wasn't one to have breakouts like acne as some women during their teens, but there was one moment where I was taking a headshot for a business card, and I kept having to do retake after retake thinking, "What is going on here?" I noticed my skin looked dull and gray. My natural reaction was, "I'm just going to have to get some makeup to even out my skin," and that's what I did. I never really wore a lot of makeup, but then I started, and I felt like that was the answer. After a while with my schedule and things, I could not keep up with making it part of my routine. I've always been into natural products and tried some anti-aging stuff, but they were just way too harsh for my skin. I then started researching natural alternatives. Through that, I played around with some skincare options (ingredients) for women like myself, transitioning through menopause and experiencing some notso-pleasant experiences with their skin. It's how I started, and that's the long version of it (laughs).

Q: What is the number one question from women in their 40s and 50s regarding skincare?

A: Why is my skin so dry? Why is it not glowing or as vibrant as it used to be? There's definitely a number of reasons for it. Some women don't believe in a routine because many of us are busy and don't have time to commit to one. I don't believe in women having a lot of products, which is the reason why my collection is very short and to the point, but yeah, that's a problem for a lot of women, especially in this age, and that is they are not very happy with their skin.

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Q: What challenges have you faced as a business owner, and how have you overcome them, especially in the pandemic?

A: The challenge, especially during the pandemic, is the supply chain because it has been difficult to get products like the containers we put the products in, and it's challenging to get raw materials or longer shipping times. Because of the scarcity of those particular products, increasing costs have been challenging to maintain, keeping our prices low. I believe in trying to make products affordable for women interested in starting a skincare routine without having to pay $100 for a serum, which is ridiculous. Though a challenge, things have gotten a little bit better. I communicate as much as possible to let people know my way of overcoming obstacles because I feel you should let people know what's going on.

Be upfront and honest, and they will respect that, and it's been my way of overcoming many different situations.

Q: Are their men that ask questions to better understand their spouses, especially during the menopause stage?

We mentioned here a recent conversation we had with Tamela Mann where she shared her husband David Mann helped find ways to better understand the effects of menopause.

Otherwise, we joked, most men are clueless in this area.

A: That's a really good question.

I think as you say, men, unfortunately, are clueless.

And what's unfortunate is that women being able to talk about menopause has not been a very open conversation that we've had. We need to talk about it more, so men can understand

the reality of menopause and all the different changes that we're going through. So these conversations are necessary.

Like all the other conversations we've had about different types of topics, this one is critical. I think that men don't really understand, and again, we need to be able to have those conversations to help them understand the process.

I'm married, and my husband, he didn't quite understand. I applaud David Mann for taking the time to research because a lot of men don't look into that. I mean, menopause can be scary for the person experiencing it, let alone the one who has to live with someone going through it.

Q: What sets Glam Essentials apart from other beauty brands on the market? What is your top seller?

A: What sets us apart from the market is that I don't believe in gimmicks and false claims regarding our products and what we do. I know a lot of other beauty brands focus on results, where we focus on the experience. We want women to feel like they're having an awesome experience when using our product, from the packaging to the actual texture of the products to the fragrances.

We try to stay natural with our fragrances and don't over fragrance. We want women to have a very loving experience when it comes down to using our products. We use clean ingredients that have been around for a long time and that women can identify. They don't need a dictionary every single time to lookup an ingredient (laughs). We don't use false claims, and that is what it is.

We want women to have an experience, and it not be resultoriented, if that makes sense.

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"I always had a skincare routine from the time I was young. I always felt like it was important" Q: What advice do you have for women, particularly Black women looking to start a business?

A: I recommend that women, especially black women, make sure that they take their business seriously and have all of their credentials in order. I know many of us have good ideas, but it usually gets pushed to the back burner when executing them. Make sure you have your domain when creating your LLC. It may sound trivial, but these are the things that people look for when you're working with your vendors and clients.

They want to know that you're legit and your work shows upfront and that you will be around for a minute. So that's truly my recommendation: get your business in order before you just start going out there pedaling. Treat it as a business

and not as a hustle. I think that's the thing; we get into the hustle mindset. Getting over all of those things helps to reaffirm what you're doing and why you're doing it.

Q: You are in the business of making other women feel beautiful through skincare. What was the last thing that you did for yourself that made you feel beautiful?

A: I have always been the type of person I love to help others and make them feel good. Recently, I had to be intentional about my health and me. As we just talked about self-care and self-love, I had to take some time to be intentional about what I am doing for myself. One of the things I had to do was limit alcohol, eat cleaner, and enjoy more vegetables that I love. As a result, I lost a couple of pounds, and I started feeling more beautiful and have more clarity and confidence.

These are things that we take for granted, but I feel so much better about myself since I started implementing those changes for me, which I view as a service to everybody else.

Q: Do you find that men want great skincare too?

A: Absolutely, I think there has definitely been a shift with men being more open about their skincare needs. I get men asking, "Can I use your products?" They have realized that they do need skincare and self-care and all that stuff, too.

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My husband uses my products. So yeah, I have gotten more questions from men. Both men and women can use the same fragrances, but they still want a "man's man" smell and have said I should start a men's skincare line, but right now, my focus is women, I'm sure down the line, I will create more gender-neutral products. I am more focused now on helping women transitioning through menopause. If you look at any of the ingredients in any of my products, they are very gender-neutral. So, yeah, men are becoming more interested in being okay with saying I need a skincare routine, which I think is awesome.

Q: Do men go through MENopause? Is that a thing?

A: Yeah, it definitely is a thing. Men go in the opposite direction that we go in, but it is a thing, and they have different experiences. Midlife crisis is something we both experience (men and women), and I think we just try to be our best selves at that time in our lives.

Q: What plans do you still have in 2021 for yourself and your business?

A: I'm very excited I will be releasing my body care collections. It's called "Love My Body," which helps women feel good about their bodies. Body positivity is something I think we struggle with in our midlife years, where we cover up more. It's a mindset, and I believe you should be able to feel good about yourself.

I am not saying you have to walk around half-naked or anything like that, but I don't feel like women should cover up just because they are a certain age. I don't ascribe to that stigma of what women should wear in their 30s and 40s. I feel; however you feel about yourself and working on being your best self is confident. "Love My Body" collection brings that message out as well. Because I love to travel, I want to start promoting travel wear before the end of the year, which is something else I am working on, so I have quite a few things that I need to do before the end of 2020.

Q: You mentioned travel, which brings us to ask the best place you've traveled, or do you have a bucket list destination?

A: Unfortunately, in February 2020, I had my bucket list destination, which was Thailand. Imagine what happened with that (the pandemic). I love Thai food, and that was just a place I always wanted to travel to, so it got canceled due to COVID, but I would say my best trip yet was Cabo San Lucas. It's a very visually beautiful place to travel. There is a lot of nightlife, and it's whatever you want to get into; I love that place.

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Q: What is your favorite downtime activity outside of work?

A: Favorite downtime activity? You know, unfortunately, I don't have many of those (laughs). But what I love to do is find restaurants because I'm a foodie and I like to eat. When I have downtime, I just want to indulge in a good meal. Usually, I'll go down to Atlanta, or I like trying out new places.

Q: What can you let the younger generation in their 20s and 30s know about taking care of their skin.

A: "Do not take your youth for granted." And "pay attention to what's going on with your skin." Things like using clean products and making sure that you're using the right ingredients for your skin that at any age goes through changes. It's just, it's inevitable. I have a 19-year-old daughter.

She's going through her (skin) transition, and she uses my products and loves them (laughs). Prior, she was into the whole makeup thing, and I had to tell her (as a mom) to dial back on the makeup and start taking better care of her skin, and she began doing just that. She's my biggest cheerleader because it's safe ingredients that work. That's my advice to the younger generation, self-care, and skincare.

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Q: Complete the following sentence. Age is _____________________________ A: I say age is a state of mindful awareness. And what I mean is being in touch with yourself and having more mindful interactions. It's being conscious of where you are, what you're doing, how you want to appear to others. Pay attention to what's going inside and around you. What are you eating and drinking? How is it affecting you?

It's having the clarity and motivation and seeing what is lacking. Asking the question: "What do I need to do to make myself feel better? Because every day is not always a good day, what are some practices you have in place to make you feel better? Things like getting my nails done or knowing whatever it is that you're conscious to know that's going on inside you and make whatever changes you need. That's what it means for me.

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Health & Fitness

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BY TWINS OF MEDIA

Meet Jole, a Canadian Super Trainer who shares why virtual workouts are just as important as in-person, especially with the effects the pandemic has caused on one's overall health.

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ou are a Canadian Super trainer for over fifteen years.

Tell us your start?

I found my passion for fitness and helping others while I was still in college.

I had personal fitness goals set out for myself

that I was determined to achieve. I began to build more confidence and selfesteem. Others began seeking advice from me on how they could follow my fitness path. That’s how my journey began.

I was already working as a Physiotherapy Assistant when I became certified as a Stott Pilates Instructor. Shortly after getting my TRX certification, I was asked to do presentations and workshops at colleges and the hospital where I work. It allowed me the confidence to start

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teaching in a couple of Pilates studios part-time.

Now, 8+ years later, I am a business owner of FOREVER FIT BY JOLE, my own virtual Pilates studio, and a personal training company.

How has getting your client's "in shape" changed because of the pandemic?

The pandemic is what triggered the push to start my virtual business.

I had to convince my clients to get on board with virtual training. It

was a big shift for me as well. I had to learn different strategies of teaching to give my clients the same understanding and motivation to continue with their fitness. I now use more imagery and verbal cues to substitute for tactile feedback I used in person. Virtual has allowed my clients more flexibility to get in their workout. It is preferable for them to do virtual sessions with me rather than commuting to the studio or gym. By doing the virtual from their

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home, I showed them ways they could utilize household items as equipment for their workout. Virtual has proven to my clients that they can still achieve the same fitness goals by working out at home.

What do people need to know about the benefits of virtual workouts?

THE BENEFITS OF VIRTUAL WORKOUTS ARE: • Eliminate commuting from home • In home expert training • Confidence building • Can try different classes • Can make new social connections • Allow for more flexibility with your schedule • Cost effective It is challenging for fitness trainers to consider their client's mental state, especially since 2020 and even this year being tough for so many of us?

The pandemic has put a strain on our mental health in one way or another—some more than others. Fitness has proven to help alleviate some of the mental stress that causes many illnesses and diseases. I am a huge advocate of using the holistic approach with my clients.

It's important to listen to your client's needs and understand what they are seeking from you. Sometimes I spend a session just chatting with my client.

They find that communicating their feelings/needs is as therapeutic as doing a physical workout. I like to educate my clients by giving them the tools they need to achieve their goals.

How do you refuel your time and energy?

I refuel my time by making sure to schedule time for self-care. I also work Full-time, so I need to make sure I don’t overbook myself. I nourish my body with healthy foods, drink lots of water, surround myself with positive people, I pray and say daily affirmations. It helps me to maintain a balanced lifestyle. @foreverfitbyjole

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LADY GAGA

RETURNS TO PARK MGM IN OCTOBER PHOTO CREDIT: INSTAGRAM

By Katia Castrejon Lady Gaga is heading back to the Las Vegas strip after announcing nine shows in October. On August 23, the award-winning singer tweeted that she would be back at Park MGM. Gaga posted the announcement on Instagram alongside a caption that said, “The Las Vegas Residency returning to @ParkMGM this October!”

The Las Vegas Residency, titled “Lady Gaga Jazz & Piano,” will start on October 14th, and will take place at Park Theater at Park MGM. The show will feature music from her newest collaborative album with Tony Bennett titled “Love For Sale.”

The singer announced this collaboration on August 3, and shared the news with fans through her Instagram.

In her caption, Gaga said, “I’m always honored to sing with my friend Tony, so of course I accepted the invitation.

Today, I am so excited to announce that our new album “Love For Sale” will be released October 1.”

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The shows will take place on the following dates: Thursday, Oct. 14 | Saturday, Oct. 16 | Sunday, Oct. 17 Thursday, Oct. 21 | Saturday, Oct. 23 | Sunday, Oct. 24 Thursday, Oct. 28 | Saturday, Oct. 30 | Sunday, Oct. 31 Fans can listen to Lady Gaga’s new album on October 1 and purchase tickets for her Vegas shows on all Ticketmaster outlets or online at ParkMGM.com, Ticketmaster.com, or GagaVegas.com.

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COVER STORY

TAMELA MANN

By Twins of Media Photo Credits: Courtesy of Tamela Mann

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avid and Tamela Mann have always worked as a team, and it was no different when the husband of the Grammy award-winning singer helped his wife connect to our recent video call. She says, after 33 years, he still gives me goosebumps before she amusingly shared she had taken over his office for our chat, so we got the opportunity to exchange "hellos" to the comedian and actor as he politely excused himself from the room. "Hey, Twins!" She said excitedly with a bit of southern charm likened

fe e l go o d

to her Texas roots. She appeared relaxed sitting in the plush black recliner facing away from the white marble desk behind her that complemented the room's black and white décor—wearing an army green-colored outfit. Her dark hair styled in loose waves, her smile spoke of a happy woman growing in ways expressed through life lessons and in the new music she recently debuted.

On this day, we surprised her by dressing alike, especially for our conversation with the "Assisted Living" star, dubbing the occasion "a little unity," to which the singer replied, "There's strength in unity!" But what else would you expect from a woman whose voice has lifted many people's spirits through songs (for years) to say?

Q: Congratulations! Your album "Overcomer" debuted in August. The message: "Hope and Healing." What does that mean for everyone in these trying times we live in today?

A: Well... I hope we can overcome all of this that we've been through in the songs we've put on the album. "Overcomer" I believe in my heart that it is very encouraging and will bring hope and inspiration to everyone. Right now, a lot of us need some help; we need some hope as we overcome a bunch of obstacles, especially these last 18 months. It's been something, and we need God just to help and to be the 'I Am.' That's one of the song titles on the album. Be the great I Am in our lives, so I'm hoping everyone will love it as much as I have because just doing it (the album) was different. It was so different this time for me because of all the things that we were going through and not being around people and not being able to touch as much. I'm a hugger, it's been such a difficult time for me not to hug people, but I'm praying that this is the open key to overcoming all the obstacles that many of us are facing.

Q: Along with your beautiful vocals, you stepped from behind the mic to write and produce as well. Tell us more about that.

A: Yes, I did. I sat and talked with all the producers on the album to give my thoughts. It was like staying focused to finish, which was also the message; "Keep your eyes on the prize," even when you're going through all these things on this earth, but (remembering) God is the center of it all, and we need Him. Like my first single, "Touch from You," I put out earlier last year, we all needed that touch from God. I just poured my heart into it this time because I was dealing with my knees for the last five, six years. Many people didn't know when I was singing and dancing around; I was in a lot of pain after going through knee surgery and then putting the implant in my leg; I didn't know if everything would

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work properly. But (today) I can dance for the Lord! I based the album on those things. I talked to all the young men and the producers who worked with me on this project. I'm just really, really, again, excited about everyone that was involved.

Q: "Help Me" featuring The Fellas is a soul-stirring song that speaks to the hearts of those in pain. It also lets us know that it's okay to see a therapist outside of the church.

What do you say to this?

A: You know how that song came about?

I was sitting talking to the producer, Phil Bryant, and I was telling him that I realized another step in my life was that I needed to ask for help. I've been dealing with this weight issue my whole life, and once I joined up with WW, it gave me another sense of health and wellness of how we need to take care of ourselves.

I was talking that I "can't do this on my own," and he came back with the chorus of "Help Me," and I was like, "Yes!" I wanted to do something old school. Phil came back with this quartet vibe, and I said, "That's it!" Phil told me we would do the verses together, so I helped write them on the song with a couple of my daughters and me, and it was just amazing.

What happens is in our society, our people, we shun upon our community, seeing therapists or a psychiatrist.

Everybody says, "Are you crazy?" But that's not true. I realize now that it's another outlet for us to ask for help. I want to encourage people that it's okay to ask for help. Sometimes you have to show that you're vulnerable. A lot of times, we don't want anyone to see that.

We allow pride to get in the way of letting people see us in a truly vulnerable state and that you're really in a place that you need to put your hand out and ask, "Hey, can you just grab my hand, pray for me, or give me some words or listen to what I'm saying because I'm in a bad place right now." People don't know that it's okay; we know where our help comes from, it comes from God, and we have some earthly help too, and it's okay to ask.

Q: We're glad you portrayed that message through video and real life.

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I've been dealing with this weight issue my whole life, and once I joined up with WW, it gave me another sense of health and wellness of how we need to take care of ourselves. I was talking that I "can't do this on my own," and he came back with the chorus of "Help Me," and I was like, "Yes!"

"Mom, I want to approach it another way." We incorporated a therapist, and I thought, "Yes!" Q: We notice a lot of teenagers (young people) say how your song ("Help Me") is helping them because many of them are suffering. We're glad that you have a platform where you can sing and speak to them too.

A: I'm just grateful because that was one of my prayers. I asked God, I said, "Lord, I know that a lot of people from 30 and up listen to my music, but if you could do it for me, I want to be able to touch the hearts of the teenagers and the 20-year-olds." Tamela added, "Just let them know that there is safety in your arms." That we can come to you, we can cry to you, and we don't have to worry about anybody knowing what was said because you're going to keep it. That's the thing. I want to be a real help in any way I can and make myself accessible. I

"I have learned that to be a good wife and a good mother, I have to take some time for myself, and it's okay" look at my grandkids. A couple of them dealt with some issues, and we looked into a therapist. It's okay to talk; it's okay to ask questions. That's the only way you're going to find out something. Don't be afraid because what happened to me as a kid is I was so shy that even when I was in school when I needed help, I was scared of being wrong, afraid of others laughing at me, fearful of just saying I need a little bit more help with this question because I don't understand it. It put me back where I was making a zero when I probably could've been making an "A" if I would've opened up and just asked a question.

I think it's important that we make ourselves open to listening to our young people and whoever. I say young people, but older people, we need to say, "How do I celebrate myself?" I have learned that to be a good wife and a good mother, I have to take some time for myself, and it's okay. I guess that's our other word for this conversation, "It's okay." If you don't take care of yourself, you can't take care of your BSM MAGAZINE | BSMANDMEDIA.COM | 29

family. To do it 100%, sometimes that may mean that if you're a reader, you may need to take your book, go to the park, or Barnes and Nobles, Starbucks, anywhere you can to have a moment with yourself.

Sometimes it's just sitting in the bathtub.

Me: I need a moment just to relax. Go and get my nails and my feet done. You might not be able to afford to do it every two weeks, but if you can do it once a month, just take that time for yourself. That's how I keep myself sane.

Q: In addition to The Fellas, there are some heavy hitters also on the album. Kirk Franklin, Wyclef Jean, Travis Greene, and Todd Dulaney. What was it like working with all of them on this project?

A: I went to Chicago with Todd to work on the song "Finished Work." We were all masked and had taken our test and everything. It was an amazing two days of putting it all together and working with him live with his band and singers.

I remember I was on the phone with Travis for an hour or so, talking to him about the song "Finished." Remember, my theme for the music is talking about finishing and completion. Todd's song is at the beginning of the song tracks, and Travis' is at the album's end. "These guys tuned in with me on this project."

It was a great experience with both of them. For his part, Travis sent in the music and demo that included the music, arrangement, and his singers, and I came in and did my vocals with Phil Bryant here at my facility.

Tamela's song "Hello God" with Wyclef and Kirk Franklin is a "standout track melding R&B, reggae, rap, and gospel." to which Tamela responds, "We had to do this." Not letting COVID get in their way, Tamela says, they recorded in different places, but the shock of working with Wyclef was a big deal. And of course, her 30-year friendship with Kirk made creating this piece "Amazing," as Tamela puts it.

"I think the Lord surrounded me with 30-year-olds, she jokes at everyone working on the project being in their 30s or 40s besides she and David Mann, who she says helped with the album as well.

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guys and the producers, my daughter Tia Mann and Justin Pearson.

Q: Let's shift gears and talk about your role as Cora on Tyler Perry's "Assisted Living."

A character that fans also saw in the show Meet the Browns and in Madea films. How do you keep the life of this character going?

A: It is amazing! I'm having a great time living my best life, honestly. Singing is my first love, acting and being with David, as Mr. Brown is icing on the cake. It's a wonderful experience, even with the whole cast. How everybody's just chilling together, and it's a lot of fun, and it gets better and better as the seasons go. What's funny is I think everyone is saying Cora isn't aging at all (laughs). I'm just really having a good time, and the Lord has just been faithful unto us and allowing work to come in. A lot of people are so grateful to that and grateful to Mr. Perry for just thinking of something to keep everybody, keep a lot of people working.

I'm just happy that she's still around, she's still coming up, and she's still laughing at everything, of course.

Q: We had the opportunity to speak with Courtney Nicole, your co-star on "Assisted Living," in a previous interview, and we asked her how you guys keep it together with David Mann as Mr. Brown and J. Anthony Brown as Vinny?

A: I have to tell them to stop! David and J. Anthony, who I joke is the "black grumpy old man" (keep the set laughing). And Courtney just called me a couple of days ago just to check in with me. We talked about how Tyler had us in a bubble on the campus of the studios where you couldn't go out, and they had housing, food, everything you needed; he had it on this campus. It was just amazing. I mean the food, if you weren't careful, you were gaining weight (laughs).

Q: The Mann family dinner is enjoyable to watch because it's like sitting down with our own family. Why do you feel that your YouTube show resonates with people?

A: We let the skeletons out of the bag.

"We're just uncovered." It may look like we have more than some, but we have problems just like everybody else. We go through things just like everyone else, and

we're no different. More people may just see us than you, but we're no different from you. That's what we want people to know. Even though my kids are grown, I still reach out and tell them what to do, and I just try to give them guidance.

Q: We are loving David Jr. on camera!

A: He’s a hoot! He is the bomb. I was just with him (recently) when Tia was having a procedure done and when we went to see about her, he walks in the room with a baseball cap on and some shades and says, “I’m the pastor.” (Laughs) Q: Oh my God. They probably thought he was the pastor. (Laughs) A: The nurse just laughed, but really by him coming in and cutting up, it really helped Tia relax.

Q: What do you love most about working with your family? How do you handle family disagreements when working together?

A: I love just being able to have my husband and children with me. We just fit. When we do have disagreements, we try to come together and get an understanding. Even if we agree to disagree, we always aim to get an understanding.

Q: You are vocal on the subject of menopause. A topic we also don’t talk enough about, especially in the black community.

A: Yes, we don’t really talk about it a lot in our communities. Even in my interviews like this, I just want to bring awareness.

“It does send you into something that you’re not,” I call it the devil (Laughs).

The reality for some is that it is ten times worse than having your monthly. “I’m like Lord, this is not me (mood changes), and I say, “If you can allow this cup to pass me, God I’ve got to work with people in public,” she jokes before adding that David has gotten on the internet to find ways to help her with the challenges of menopause.

Q: Do you find that you are a voice for women?

A: For the most part, I aim to lead by

example. There are so many women going through a similar situation, and we need to know that it is okay to have an off day. Be gentle with yourself and take things one day at a time.

Q: How do you and David keep a longstanding marriage?

A: God. Divorce is not an option (We took it off the table). And we try to outdo each other doing for each other. It's not about material things, but if he wants something or I want something like a purse or a new dress, we do it for each other. His and I needs are being met, and that really works. We said in the beginning that we are willing to work through whatever comes our way.

Q: What gift do you most remember given to you by your husband David and why?

A: David had our first wedding rings melted down into a rose, and that was the most thoughtful gift to me. Roses are my favorite flower.

Q: If you can play a dream role, what would it be?

A: A detective because it would be way out of the box for me.

Q: Your fashion game is always on point.

What motivated you to start an apparel line?

A: Before I was Tamela Mann, I was just Tam. I would go into department stores, and the selection for curvy women was always slim, and the clothes simply weren't fashionable. Most of the fabric was floral, and if you are a curvy woman, you know that is unacceptable (laughs).

The anointed voice that is Tamela Mann, whose new music “Overcomer” you’re sure to love, likes crafty things and listens to other artists like Todd Dulaney, Todd Galberth, Maranda Curtis, and Jason Nelson in her playlist. If she watches television, it’s Law and Order and western movies, but who would guess she’s entertained the idea of hunting wild hogs herself from a YouTube channel by the same name. Then again, Tamela likes to think outside the box just a little.

Check out Tamela Man Collection at www.tamelamann.com Stay connected on Instagram @davidandtamela

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By Katia Castrejon Fall 2021 is in full swing, which for many means it’s time for a wardrobe change.

Fashion experts are already talking about what the biggest fashion trends of fall 2021 will be, and it looks like this fall is all about bright, bold pieces.

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Fall 2021 Fashion Trends

The Pantone Color Institute released its New York Fashion Week color palette and bright colors dominated.

The colors of the year, which were “Ultimate Gray” and “Illuminated” were featured in this palette, but clay tones, fuchsia, green, and bright blue were also on this falls palette.

As far as style goes, Vogue seems to think Y2K fashion is sticking around for the fall. Y2k fashion seemed to be a go-to trend for many this summer, and it’s staying around for this fall transition.

From low-rise jeans to baby tees, the early 2000’s looks are sticking around for the fall. As said before, bright colors will be part of this fall palette, blazers in these bold bright colors will add that perfect pop to any outfit.

Vogue noticed that during Copenhagen Fashion Week, running shorts were styled for various outfits.

They will no longer only be used as workout attire, but can be dressed up or down to create a chic look.

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Glamour UK says sequins are in, and what they call “OUT” look takes over the top sequined looks and dresses them up, ready for a night out.

Monochromatic looks incorporating the bright color palette are going to be popular, designers such as Versace have already showcased monochromatic looks on their runway.

Along with monochromatic looks, knitwear, puffer jackets, and quilted pieces will also be a hot trend this fall.

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As for shoes, Cosmopolitan predicts that loafers, knee-high boots, clogs, and platforms will be strutting the streets this fall.

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‘No Time To Die’ Sets Premiere Date

By Katia Castrejon

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he James Bond film, “No Time To Die,” has set a release date yet again.

The Bond film has faced three delays, with its original release date being April 2020.

Due to the coronavirus pandemic, the film’s release date had to be pushed back several times, but it was recently announced that its official release date will be in late September.

The official 007 Twitter released a tweet saying that the world premiere for the film will take place at London’s

Royal Albert Hall on September 28. It will be released in theaters within the U.S. on October 8.

Fukunaga, cost nearly $200 million to produce and will be Daniel Craig’s last time playing Bond.

The film’s description reads: In NO TIME TO DIE, Bond has left active service and is enjoying a tranquil life in Jamaica. His peace is short-lived when his old friend Felix Leiter from the CIA turns up asking for help. The mission to rescue a kidnapped scientist turns out to be far more treacherous than expected, leading Bond onto the trail of a mysterious villain armed with dangerous new technology.

Craig was said to be done playing the famous British spy but recently revealed what convinced him to reprise his role.

The film, directed by Cary Joji

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“I thought I probably was physically not capable of doing another. For me, it was very cut and dried that I wasn’t coming back,” he said in an interview.

The actor was interested in starring in the film after hearing that events from the 2006 “Casino Royale” film would be addressed in this new film.

The film will also star Rami Malek, Ralph Fiennes, Ben Whishaw, Naomie Harris, Lashana Lynch, Jeffrey Wright, Lea Seydoux, and Billy Magnussen, along with Christoph Waltz who is likely to make a final return as Blofeld.

Despite this film being Daniel Craig’s last time playing Bond, the James Bond franchise doesn’t seem to be ending anytime soon.

Could Lashana Lynch be the one to take over the Bond franchise? Future moviegoers will have to wait and see.

MUSIC

By Twins of Media

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MARCUS BELL

Marcus Bell's ("Bellringer") work as a composer/lyricist has helped cultivate his music career working with major singing artists, and his work with television and film is ever-expanding. Read more about the ways he encourages others to want more out of life.

Q: As a top music producer working with such big artists

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like Katy Perry and Nicki Minaj. How did you gain your start in the music industry?

I've never not been in the music industry. I heard that my mother used to put music on near her stomach while she slept when I was in her womb. My first conscious interaction with music started with the piano when I

was two years old. My parents recognized that I had an ability to focus for long periods of time, and my dad suggested they try me on piano at 2. That's when they realized that I was a music prodigy. For me, I recognized that music was like breathing.

I'd inhale emotions and exhale melodies and rhythms.

For me, I recognized that music was like breathing. I'd inhale emotions and exhale melodies and rhythms @bellringermusic There are a lot of people who struggle with going after their most important aims in life.

Inside my Wealth and Impact Bootcamp program, I invented the #100DayzImpactChallenge that helps people gain the tools and structures to go after what they really want.

A few people have created their own movements out of it, some have gotten out of debt, some have gained large followings from it, and others have improved their health as a result. The design is helpful for anyone who has a dream they want to go after and are just looking for support around it.

Q: What's next for Marcus "Bellringer" Bell?

Q: Along with music, you compose for film and television. What do you appreciate most about what you do on the big and small screen?

I love being able to create environments and evoke emotions with sound. Music plays such an essential role in how people experience content, whether that is film, tv, games, commercials, or even

walking into a retail store. Music sets the tone for our behavior, our feelings, and even our actions in life.

Q: You are also a successful entrepreneur and have a project called "100 Dayz Challenge." A Bootcamp to guide people to success. What made you create this platform, and how has it benefited the pandemic era we live in today?

I'm in the process of planning the release of a lot of music featuring various artists. It is an opportunity to share some talented writers and artists I've supported over the past several years, through their music journeys, within my company, and inside my courses. I'm also excited about the courses I've created to help entrepreneurs, coaches, influencers, and thought leaders gain more wealth and impact.

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MACY GRAY

By Twins of Media

Grammy award-winning artist Macy Gray talks about her foundation, “My Good,” that helps those impacted by police brutality. Read more of this insightful conversation and what tragic event led her to help grieving families.

Q: Your foundation, "My Good," celebrated its first anniversary this past summer (July 21). How did you mark that milestone?

A: We did Zoom because we were all spread out, you know the board members and stuff, so we got on Zoom, and we all had a couple of drinks together. It wasn't the party of the year, but it was big because it's a lot to do a foundation. It's a lot of work, so we all kind of patted

ourselves on the back for making it this far.

Q: You founded the organization to help those impacted by police brutality. Were you more motivated after the death of George Floyd and countless others to start the foundation?

A: Yes, that was one. The thing that really kicked it off was Ahmaud Arbery. I remember they kept putting that video up of her son.

We all saw it, and it was graphic.

They played it all over social media, on every news channel, and I just thought about his mom and his dad and how it must feel to, first of all, have to look at that and then have it be everywhere all the time. I

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reached out to his mother, but we didn't get in touch, but that's what kind of kicked off the idea.

Q: What are some unfortunate challenges that families face after the death of a loved one, and how does your foundation "My Good" fill that void?

A: The #1 is mental health services. Of course, you're going to have a lot of trauma and emotional things to deal with, so we try to help with mental health services and someone to talk to because that is really our biggest request because it's turned into a race issue. I notice the most that when you see those cases, none of them are in Beverly Hills. It's always in lowerclass neighborhoods. So, when something like that happens, you can imagine, the family is not prepared to pay for a funeral and probably not in therapy. Funeral costs are expensive, and we've helped with a couple of them, but it can be anything (to help). People forget that after we do our marches and our posts and talk about our opinions, it doesn't stop for these families. They still have to deal with their grief and whatever, and because the police are involved, they have court cases, and it never stops.

Q: What has been some of the feedback received from the families helped by "My Good?

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the aftermath, is harsh, such as severe depression. We have a couple of moms who lost everything because they couldn't go back to work or function properly. Yeah, it's so devastating, and some end up homeless or have substance abuse problems as the kinds of things people go through. Of course, we cannot always fix it, but our goal is to make things a little easier.

Q: You are not anti-police, but how do you (your foundation) incorporate working with law enforcement in this day and age where there is such mistrust for police officers?

A: Yes, we are not an anti-police organization, but what we want people to understand is that regardless of how it happened, or who did what, or whose fault it is, or who should it have been, or who shouldn't have done this, you still have a family who lost someone dear to them. That's our focus. What we're doing right now with that is really interesting because we're getting data on just what I was talking about, such as what kind of neighborhoods it happens in and how often it happens with the police involved.

Because people are so passionate about it and everyone has an opinion, we're trying to break it down to just data (numbers), so we hope it can solve the problem. So if you say like I don't know, "It happens during the day, and it happens most of the days on Thursdays," we can give that information to all the police departments. You know what I mean.

Q: How receptive are the families to mental health resources? What do you do for your mental health to help these families?

A: So, part one, it's difficult because they're not all open to that at first because a lot of people aren't familiar with what that's all about, or what the value of that is, or feel like they can handle it on their own, or are wrapped up in

all kinds of other things and aren't there yet, where they want to get help about it, they're just angry. It's something even I can't imagine going through. It's definitely not anything I can explain. So far, it takes a minute before you get to the point where you can talk to them about (mental health resources).

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COACH STEFAN SMITH

By Twins of Media

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Stefan Smith is known as Coach Stef among the young men he coaches and the parents who are a part of his vision. Any given game day, you will find him on the sidelines moving about with the same energy he expects of his basketball team, the Bayou City Hoops (BCH), based just outside of Houston, TX, in the Cypress area of town. More than a voice running plays for a group of male athletes always wanting to elevate their game, Smith shares that he works to instill “grit, grind, and confidence,” but more importantly, “humility” as a sports mentor and leader.

How did you become involved as a coach with Bayou City Hoops (BCH)? Was basketball your favorite sport growing up?

I started with BCH as a parent on the team in 2018 when my son and I moved to the Katy (Cypress) area 3 years ago. We were invited to join the team by my Aunt Miata

Fisher. (Her son Nik plays on the team). I used to be at every practice helping our original program director and Head Coach, Mac, with the three teams he had at the time. I was always a voice the boys respected because I loved motivating them and bringing the best out of them. Over time, the parents, players, and other coaches grew to really respect and see me as a mentor to the boys, so when Coach Mac stepped down as program director and Head Coach of BCH in 2019, the parents and players petitioned for me to take over the program as head coach and program director. I never set out to take over the program and never coached before, so I didn't know what to expect or if I could even run a real Nonprofit 501c3 AAU basketball organization. Over a short time, I assembled a board of directors to assist me that comprised of team parents and an assistant coach. From there, we took over the program and have kept it running since. I could not do this without the help of the BCH board (Andy Fisher, Miata Fisher, Cesar Vieyra, Diana

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Vieyra, and Adrian Pollard) and the Super SUPPORT I have from each parent week after week!

Basketball and football were my favorite sports growing up. I was better at football as a kid, but basketball was the first sport I grew to love because of the life lessons it taught within the game.

The team played in the State Championships in San Antonio this past summer. They won runner-up to the San Antonio Rebels. What are some game highlights that make you most proud on and off the court?

My BCH middle school boys (most of the team had begun high school when the story was published) competed in the Excel State championship in San Antonio over the summer. They came up short in a close championship game against the defending ring champs, San Antonio Rebels. After losing to the Rebels at that time in pool play by 20+ points, my boys went on to win three games, two games in the bracket play to make it to the championship

game, and played the Rebels again; where we lost by only 4 points! I'm so proud of my boys bouncing back and putting up a different fight than the 20 point loss and taking their respect! The tears my boys showed after the defeat showed the hard work, dedication, and pain we all put in to get to that moment!

Basketball is a sport that teaches more than dribbling a ball and three-point shots. As a coach, what do you always hope to instill in the minds of your players?

As a coach, I hope to instill grit, grind, and confidence in my boys, as well as humility! I teach them how basketball is a game of life and the MANY lessons it teaches us every time we touch the court!

You pour your heart and soul into the team. In what ways have these young men now in high school motivated you?

Assistant Coach Boogy shares that his motto for the team is, “Trust the process,” put the work in, and results will show. Kids and parents have to understand that it’s a marathon and not a sprint. Adding, he never thought he would mentor kids, but that it’s an “honor to be able to have an impact in the player’s lives and something he will always cherish.”

Like Coach Stef, he looks to continue a relationship with this group of young men well past their playing time together, “Whether it’s through training or giving advice.”

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Over the years I have coached these boys, I can truly say they have transformed me into a better man and allowed me

to see people I've never seen, places I've never been, moments I've never had, the pain I've never felt, tears I've never cried, and happiness I've never felt! BCH has been one of the best things to happen in my life, and I'm blessed to be the one chosen to coach and mentor these boys over the years. These boys motivate me in my personal life and keep me going! I've learned patience and humility from my boys in ways I never thought possible, and I am forever grateful for the team and parents!!

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Wellness

Women Jumping Double Dutch and Having a Conversation

By La Tasha

"A little speed, a little more," I said as a kid from Oakland, readying myself to jump inside the ropes. Back then, I rocked in a rhythmic (back and forth) dance motion with the confidence I could jump in and do it well, which led me to create a childhood feel-good moment with a couple of Facebook friends one Sunday afternoon in August.

I can't give myself credit. Let's say I finally decided to be obedient to what I heard God tell me months ago, back in 2020. Even down to purchasing the ropes, which I ordered from Amazon, by the way. Of course, I couldn't ask anyone to join me in the middle of a pandemic, but the need for myself and other women to get together and JUMP (eventually) became a constant reminder. I tried to 'think it away.' I'm biting Solange's song lyrics Cranes in the Sky with my own play on the 44 | BSM MAGAZINE | BSMANDMEDIA.COM

words; it's not like I didn't want to jump rope (I was excited to do so), but trying to explain God made you do it could gather a few "Are you sure" glances. The great thing is the beautiful souls that joined me that day was kind to me and showed up. One of them had just returned from out-of-town from a family reunion and came straight to our meeting place.

I'd come to realize the tugging need to jump rope was more about checking in on people. The ladies and I talked, laughed (some at each other and ourselves), and had a good time not trying to be perfect. We were "Women Jumping Double Dutch and Having a Conversation."

Stay well all.

By Katia Castrejon

‘Black-ish’ and ‘This Is Us’ Coming to an End

In May, “Black-ish” creator Kenya Barris announced the final season of the show through his Instagram.

“To ALL the people in the world I love, honor, respect and care for it is both exciting and bittersweet to share that black-ish has been RENEWED by ABC for it’s EIGHTH… and FINAL SEASON,” he wrote in his caption of a clip of the show he shared.

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ABC and NBC are both ending two fanfavorite shows in 2022, ABC’s “Black-ish” will have its 8th and final season, and NBC’s “This Is Us” will have its 6th and final season.

exactly what we’d hoped for – and to do it with the entire and AMAZINGLY STELLAR cast coming back to close this chapter out with us the right way!” he added.

ABC will be ending the “-ish” franchise overall, with “Mixed-ish” having a limited run as well.

Barris said that the show is ending because he was ready to end it, but ratings also have a big part in the ending of the show.

Viewing of the show went down drastically since its first season, so the network seems to be ready to move on from the show. Since the ending was announced, fans have been eager to see what the Johnson family has in store for this last season.

As for when the new season will air, the official date is unknown, but ABC released a statement that said, “Groundbreaking comedy Black-ish will receive a deserving sendoff as it returns in midseason for its eighth and final run,” meaning the show could be aired as early as January 2022.

“This Is Us” is another beloved show that will be coming to an end in 2022. The family drama has been very popular on NBC, but it was announced that its 6th season will be the last.

The network announced the show’s end in May and creator Dan Fogelman let viewers know as well.

“Whoever casually first said “All good things must come to an end” never had to end their favorite thing. While sad to have just 1 season left, also grateful to NBC for letting us end the show how, and when, we always intended. We’ll work hard to stick the landing. #ThisIsUs,” tweeted Fogelman after NBC’s announcement.

The ending doesn’t come as much of a surprise, in 2019 Fogel told the Hollywood reporter, “We never set out to make a television series that was going to last 18 seasons, so we have a very direct plan. I have script pages I have written and I’m writing that really are deep, deep, deep into the future. We have a plan for what we’re going to do, and I know what the plan is.”

Many fans are saddened that they will have to say goodbye to the Pearson family in the upcoming season. The good news is, this season should answer many questions fans have and should resolve past plotlines as well.

Just like “Black-ish,” “This Is Us” will have a midseason airing, which means it could also be out as early as 2022.

Despite the shows coming to an end, fans will still be able to watch previous seasons on streaming platforms.

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CAREER

ICE CUBE

By BSM Team

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Which Movie Made Ice Cube Catch the Acting Bug Early on in His Career?

Ice Cube sat down with Kevin Hart for an episode of the Hart to Heart Talk Show in August to discuss "Boyz in the Hood" and going to the Cannes Film Festival for the first time in 1991.

Hart's reference to the movie, "It's a smash (success) at that point before asking, "Were you bit by the acting bug?"

Ice Cube shared the story of going to the Cannes Film Festival and how he hasn't been back since Boyz in the Hood. The "Ride Along" actor mentioned that at the time, the movie was not playing in America, but it was in France and with subtitles. His thought was if the people were going to understand the film. He also recalled seeing Quincy Jones, Eddie Murphy, and Gregory Hines and how they gave the movie a standing ovation after it was over. "If they loved the movie in France, wait till they play it in the states," he thought.

In parallel, Ice Cube's music career as a solo artist at that time was also taking off. He had just dropped "Killer Will" and was about to drop his second EP with the feeling things "was rolling, you know."

Having come from the Hip Hop music world, Ice Cube spoke about how his industry peers and friends on the music side felt about his acting career. "They was with it. You know, playing Doughboy was kind of parallel to the music we were doing. So it felt like a natural progression." In his next role after Boyz in the Hood, he played the role of Savon in the movie "Trespass" as another street dude type of character. Next, he was offered the role of O-Dog in the 1993 film "Menace to Society" but turned it down because he did not want to be typecast. Larenz Tate ended up playing the part. Ice Cube says he felt like he was playing the same character from Doughboy to Savon to O-Dog, and that he was going to be trapped in this LA gang bang role. Movie offers were coming in pretty regularly, but he still wanted to do stuff that was just not the typical "hood" movie, mainly because there were so many coming out from "Colors" to "Boyz in the Hood" to "Menace to Society" and then "South Central."

Hart responded, "That was the thing back then. That was the cup of tea. That's what got the volume. That's what got the eyeballs' attention 'cause at the time; gang violence, etc., was extremely high it was on the news every day."

"That's why I wrote "Friday," spoke Ice Cube. I wrote it because Pooh and I would look at these movies and be like, "D*** was it that bad growing up around here because it seems like it's terrible like a war zone." Was it, though, asked Hart? "Sometimes, but we had fun too, so I wanted to show that. Like, let's show we looked at this stuff, how we approached it, how we coped with it and laughed at things I guess would make most people cry."

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Listening to Hart’s interview with Ice Cube reminds us that infusing humor to cope when life seems hard can be a feel-good moment for all.

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Could Lashana Lynch be the one?

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