Photographer: Scott Kelley Photography
Alessia “You should sweat the small stuff, the big stuff is easy; it’s handled by planners and the venue. The small unique details enhance the event, and people do notice!
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“First tip is to just BREATHE! Know what you want and do not shy away from making your wedding the way you want it. The guests are usually very eager to see the beautiful union, the unique details, and the personal touches that help depict who the bride and groom are as a couple. Also, my day-of-coordinator was a saving grace! She was able to assist me with certain items I did not even think about; a true asset to my wedding. Consider a coordinator if you can! Lastly, do not forget to stop to take it all in because it goes by so fast. “
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Follow the color schemes you would wear or use in your home; don’t try new things for your wedding. My colors were gold, gray, and white; colors I wear daily!
Photographer: Bend the Light
Keep things flowing in a timely manner; lengthy speeches and a drawn dinner can kill the mood, if you’re trying to create a fun party! ”
Jillian “The biggest piece of advice I can give is to accept help where you can get it from someone you trust. My mom was such a huge help throughout the whole planning process. I was a busy medical student at the time we were planning my wedding. She did everything from contacting the caterers to even making all of the centerpieces and artificial floral arrangements and place cards.
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We also hired a day-of-coordinator (Wedding and Event Designs by Pamela) who made it so much easier to enjoy the big day and allow my mom and I to relax and not worry about things (because, let’s be honest, the groom wasn’t going to worry about those things anyway!). I highly recommend it if it fits within your budget.”
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Shauna
“Don’t settle for anything ordinary. Try to customize your wedding with your own personality and the things you and your significant other love so that, when you look back at the day, it’ll feel like your own. I know that I am personally happy that I took the time to find a venue and theme that spoke to me. It’s difficult and tedious as a bride to take the time to work on the details and how to make the wedding unique to you and your interests, but in the end it’s so worth it!”
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Photographer: DC Stanley Photography
“I learned to see all of my options in person. I had them show me our inclusive package at the hotel and requested separate dressing rooms for our guests. Know that not everyone will RSVP, it’s stressful, but you will have to contact him or her, in the end, and ask if they will be joining. Plan for people to bring uninvited guests, people might bring unannounced dates. Stand back with your new spouse during your big day and view all of the guests having a blast during the party, they are all there for you all! It’s amazing to see so much love in one room. There are also things going on that you didn’t remember planning or picking out. If possible eat somewhere private with your new spouse. We didn’t do that and we barely were able to eat since everyone is coming up wanting to talk.
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Cristina Photographer: Endless Exposures Photography
Photographer: Brandon Scott Photography
Jennifer