Hello Savannah April Edition 2023

NOW & FOREVER WEDDING EDITION TRENDING HAIRSTYLES

Several different, but trendy hairstyles that you can choose from for your wedding day.

WEDDING SONGS

Tired of The Wedding March? We've curated a list of beautiful and tear-worthy songs for when you walk down the aisle.

YOUR BEST MAN

Your brother, best mate, or childhood friend? We've come up with a chart on who to pick.

NOW & FOREVER WEDDING EDITION

President and Chief Executive Officer

Executive Editor

Managing Editor

Senior Editor

Advertising Director

Director of Information Technology

Contributing Writers

Julius Hall

Chantaye McLaughlin

Natalie Leggette

Leonora Bogus

Natalie Leggette

Chris Smith

Dr. Amir Toure'

Sharon Butts

Craig Butts

Eboni Holmes

Asha Dickerson

Harrison Davis

Chantaye McLaughlin

Leonora Bogus

Natalie Leggette

Julius Hall

+1 912-581-0971

julius@ourblackmedia.com

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THE BLACK MOSES FESTIVAL

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SLAY YOUR WEDDING DAY!

Several different but trendy hairstyles you can choose from for your wedding day.

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LET'S BRIDESMAID-IFY

Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life, and having the right people by your side can make it even more special

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JUMPING THE BROOM

Honor Your Ancestors with tradional African and Gullah Geechie traditions

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How to incorporate your love language on your special day and beyond

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GET YOUR MINDSET RIGHT

The importance of preparing your mind for marriage

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SAY "I DO"

Why Savannah is the best choice for weddings

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FINDING YOUR "WINGMAN"

How to pick the Best Man for your forever moment

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SERENADE

Something new and something old: Songs that will make you tear up and some songs that will get the party going!

FROM THE CEO

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SLAY YOUR WEDDING DAY: TRENDING HAIRSTYLES FOR BOLD BRIDES!

Heythere,beautifulbride-to-be!Areyoureadytoslayyourweddingdayand showoffyourgorgeousnaturalhair?Well,we'vegotyoucoveredwithsomeof thehottestandmoststylishtrendinghairstylesforbrides.Getreadytoturn headsandstealtheshowwiththeseplayfulandfunhairstyles!

The Classic Updo: The timeless and elegant updo is a popular choice for brides. This hairstyle involves twisting or braiding your hair and pinning it up into a sophisticated and chic updo.

The High Ponytail: A high ponytail is a simple yet bold statement that exudes confidence and style. This look is perfect for brides who want to showcase their long, beautiful hair.

The Afro: The natural afro is a beautiful and powerful statement that celebrates Black beauty and culture. This look is perfect for brides who want to embrace their natural hair texture and make a bold statement.

The Twisted Crown: The twisted crown is a beautiful and feminine hairstyle that involves twisting your hair into a crown-like shape around your head. This style is perfect for brides who want to add a touch of romance to their look.

The Braided Crown: The braided crown is a regal and elegant hairstyle that involves braiding your hair into a crown-like shape around your head. This style is perfect for brides who want to add a touch of royalty to their look.

The Half-Up Half-Down: This hairstyle is a classic and romantic look that is perfect for brides who want to show off their beautiful curls or waves. Simply pull the top half of your hair back into a bun or twist, and let the rest flow down your back.

The Braided Bun: This elegant hairstyle involves braiding your hair into a low bun, adding some hair accessories, and finishing off the look with some loose curls or waves. It's perfect for brides who want a chic and sophisticated look.

The Side Swept Curls: This glamorous hairstyle involves sweeping your curls to one side and securing them with a hairpin. It's a simple yet beautiful look that is perfect for brides who want to keep it elegant and effortless.

No matter which hairstyle you choose, remember to have fun and be yourself! Your wedding day is all about celebrating your love and beauty, so don't be afraid to let your hair down and show off your unique style. And always remember, you are beautiful just the way you are!

LET'S BRIDESMAID-IFY! HOW TO PICK THE PERFECT SQUAD FOR YOUR WEDDING

BY LEONORA BOGUS

Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life, and having the right people by your side can make it even more special. That's why choosing your bridesmaids is such an important task, but it doesn't have to be a chore! Here are some fun tips on how to choose your bridesmaids:

TheLifelongBestie

Firstthingsfirst,youneedtochooseyourrideordie!Thinkaboutthe personwhohasbeenthereforyouthroughthickandthin,theonewho knowsallofyoursecretsandstilllovesyouanyway.Thispersonshould beano-brainerwhenitcomestobeingyourmaidofhonororbridesmaid.

The Wildcard

Next, think about the person who always brings the fun and spontaneity to any event. You know the one - the friend who is always down for a good time and never fails to make you laugh. This person will keep your wedding festivities lighthearted and exciting.

CELEBRATEYOUR MOM&YOURDAD

Looking for a unique way to celebrate your parents this Mother's Day and Father's Day? Share their story with us and have them featured in our upcoming magazines!

We are looking for heartwarming stories and pictures of your mom and/or dad to showcase in our Mother's Day magazine in May and our Father's Day edition magazine in June. Whether it's a favorite memory, a special moment, or simply a sweet message, we want to hear from you!

All you have to do is send us a photo and a brief bio of your parent, along with your contact information, and we will take care of the rest. Your submission may be selected to appear in our magazines, which will be distributed across the country.

It's a great way to show your appreciation for all the love and support they have given you over the years. Plus, it's a wonderful opportunity to give them the recognition they deserve.

So what are you waiting for? Send us your submission today and help us celebrate your amazing parents!

The Organized One

Every wedding needs an organized person to keep things running smoothly. Think about the friend who is always on top of their game and can handle any task you throw at them.This person will be your go-to for planning the bachelorette party and keeping everyone on schedule.

Your bridesmaids are going to be by your side all day, so it's important to choose people who fit your wedding vision. Consider the friend who always looks fabulous and has a great sense of style. This person will help you choose the perfect dresses and accessories for your bridal party.

The Fashionista

The Supportive One

Last but not least, you need to choose someone who will be there for you no matter what. Think about the friend who is always there to offer a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, or a pep talk when you need it most. This person will be your rock on your wedding day and beyond.

In conclusion, choosing your bridesmaids doesn't have to be a stressful task. Have fun with it and choose the people who will make your wedding day even more special. By considering these different types of friends, you'll have the perfect squad to help you celebrate the happiest day of your life!

JUMPING THE BROOM AND BEYOND: EXPLORING AFRICAN AND GULLAH GEECHEE MARRIAGE CUSTOMS"

by Amir Jamal Toure

When it comes to some of the traditions, "jumping the broom" is the most popular, but there are others that can be incorporated into marriage ceremonies.

African people, specifically Gullah Geechee people, have always valued marriage and love. In Kemet (ancient Egypt), an African pharaoh wrote a love poem to his wife, the great queen. As soon as Reconstruction began in the United States, Africans immediately sought to solemnize their bonds. They realized that the greatest institution for their growth, success, and advancement was the "family," and marriage was a key component.

Annie Bell Walters of Hilton Head Island, SC provided advice to strengthen the bonds of your marriage with your spouse so that you can build family and community. Ceremonies help in the remembrance and maintenance of the vows.

The African Spirit or Ancestor Invocation

For some Gullah Geechee people in Savannah, GA, and in Riceboro, GA, at Geechee Kunda, they have incorporated the African Spirit of Day Clean: The African Soul into their wedding ceremonies and renewal of vows ceremonies. An ancestral reflection is made during the ceremony. The spirit then invokes the time-honored tradition of marriage, love, and how they must use this as a part of the foundation of the marriage as they go through. Remembrance and words of the couple's family members or someone important to them are shared to let them know how both are blessed to have each other.

Libation

Libation is done at weddings with the ancient practice of pouring out of water, alcohol, or black strap molasses. Libation is traditionally poured in remembrance of the Creator who has sanctioned the love and marriage. Libation is poured to remember and honor family members who have passed on. It acknowledges the couple and the others at the marriage who are important to the family unit. The libation will honor the fruits of the marriage - the children who are gained through blood or the journey of life, those already born and those to come in the future. The libation provides an opportunity for acknowledgement, recognition, reflection, wisdom, and insight to be imparted to the couple.In the ceremony, the couple may leave an open seat to honor a parent who has passed away.

The 4 Elements of Love and Marriage

Honey, Cayenne, Lemon, and Vinegar are infused in the ceremony. The elements represent the experiences of life that will be experienced during the marriage. The husband and wife will taste the honey, symbolic of the sweetness that will be experienced in the marriage. Cayenne or red pepper is tasted to symbolize the passion or hotness of marriage and love. Lemon is tasted to let the spouses know that tartness or sour times will come, but the sweetness of their love will change the tart or sour moments for the better. Vinegar is tasted for the bitter. It will appear during life, but it will be conquered based on the strength of their union of love.

Nigerian Money Spray

Originating with Yoruba and Ibo people in Nigeria, they spray money to symbolize a showering of happiness, good fortune, love for the couple, and to financially help them start their new life together. The spouses are brought in dancing behind the wedding party. The wedding attendees go up to the spouses, putting the money on their forehead or casting it out at the spouse or spouses. The money is collected and put aside for the couple for them to start their life as one.

HOW TO INCORPORATE YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE IN YOUR WEDDING

by Sharon & Craig Butts

As the wedding day grows closer, the bride and groom to be are focused on making their special day memorable. There is the dress to be chosen, colors, invitations, rings and many other decisions. Somewhere in all those plans, the importance of the connection of the couple becomes secondary; but they still need to relate in a healthy, balanced way

This is a good time to take a first look or another look at each of your love languages. Love languages refer to the way a person prefers to express love to, and receive love from a partner. There are 5 basic love languages that can become easy to practice and make a way of life in a healthy, balanced relationship.

Physical Touch, “To this person, nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch.”

Considerafirsttouchinsteadofafirstlook. Makesureyourfirstdanceisaslowsong. Stealsomekissesthroughoutthenight.

Holdhandsasyoumakeyourroundsthroughoutthereception. Smalltouchesthroughoutthedaytoremindthemofyourlove.

Quality Time, “This language is all about giving the other person your attention.”

Havingappetizersordinnertogetherinaseparateroombeforeyoumakeyour receptionentrance. Thatfirstlook isadefinite!

Haveyourownsweethearttable. Gothenontraditionalrouteandspenddaytogether!

Words of Affirmation, “This language uses words to affirm other people.”

Vowsarebigtothislovelanguage!Makesurethey’reoriginalandfromyour heart.

Readyourvowstoeachotherprivatelybeforetheceremony. Writealettertooneanotherbeforehand.

Considersingingasongtoyourspouseduringthereception.

Acts of Service, “For these people, actions speak louder than words.”

Havetheirfavoritefooddeliveredduringthedaywhenthey’regettingready. Arrangeasurpriseforthemorningoflikeamassage. Maketheirplateoffoodwhilethey’rebusy. Organize&packeverythinginthegetawaycar.

Gift Giving, “For some people, what makes them feel most loved is to receive a gift.”

Surprisethemwithaliveweddingpaintertodocumentthewedding. Giveanotebookorscrapbookfullofwrittenlettersthroughoutyour engagementofyourrelationship.

Consideraspecialpieceofjewelry,engravedwatch,orAnkh.

Getthemasignatureweddingdayscent:aperfumeorcolognethatwillalways remindthemoftheirweddingday.

Amazethemwithabookofboudoirphotos.

Findoutmoreaboutlovelanguagesanddetermineyourprimary,goto https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language.

GET YOUR MINDSET RIGHT: THE IMPORTANCE OF MENTAL PREPAREDNESS FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

by Asha Dickerson and Harrison Davis 2 Therapist and a Mic

“Marriage is tough!” That’s what most married people will tell you. They say it so much that it can really diminish the attractiveness of marriage. What is marriage anyway? A legally binding contract that requires you to share your assets and space? There’s a ceremony that makes you think twice before leaving a relationship? The truth is, that the answer is different for everyone and because of that, it is important to be sufficiently prepared before entering into a marriage in the first place.

When we say prepared, we are not talking about financially or physically, but being mentally fit is the key. Think about it: Having someone in your space and in your face, finding the need to compromise on issues that were once individual decisions, pushing clothes closer together to make closet space. Then there are the deeper issues: Child rearing beliefs, definitions of loyalty, and conflict resolution. Without mental fortitude and patience, married couples simply become part of the 40-50 % of 1st marriages that end in divorce and 60-67 % of 2nd marriages that also end in divorce. These statistics are provided by the American Psychological Association as most couples tend to try therapy once things have gone south in the relationship.

A better option would be proactivity. Therapy, before marriage, can help couples highlight underlying issues and address unspoken questions and dislikes. Mental preparedness also involves demonstrating transparency and establishing boundaries. Entering into a marriage does not mean that all boundaries will dissipate. Instead, it will be increasingly important to have already set boundaries and expectations so that each partner can determine if they agree or if they need to seek out other options. Marriage is a commitment, spiritually, legally, and emotionally that binds two people together for what is supposed to be forever.

The common belief if that each are each other’s better halves, but a more ideal situation is one where both partners come in 100% whole, already.

SAY 'I DO' IN THE CHARM AND ELEGANCE OF SAVANNAH, GA - THE PERFECT DESTINATION FOR

YOUR DREAM WEDDING!

Your wedding day is one of the most important and memorable days of your life, and choosing the right location can make all the difference. If you're looking for a charming, elegant, and picturesque destination, then Savannah, GA, might just be the perfect place for your dream wedding. Here's why:

Stunning Scenery: Savannah is renowned for its beautiful natural scenery and historic architecture, providing an enchanting backdrop for your wedding photos. With its oak-lined streets, charming squares, and breathtaking river views, you'll be surrounded by stunning scenery that will create an unforgettable atmosphere for your special day.

2. Southern Hospitality: The people of Savannah are known for their warmth and hospitality, and you'll experience this firsthand when you plan your wedding here. From the friendly locals to the dedicated wedding vendors, everyone in Savannah is committed to ensuring that your wedding day is everything you've ever dreamed of.

3. Variety of Venues: Whether you're looking for a grand ballroom or a rustic barn, Savannah has a venue to suit your style and preferences. From historic mansions to modern event spaces, you'll find a wide variety of wedding venues to choose from, each with its own unique charm and character.

4. Delicious Cuisine: Savannah is famous for its cuisine, and your wedding guests will be delighted with the delicious food and drink options available here. From traditional Southern dishes to international cuisine, there's something for every palate, and you can be sure that your wedding feast will be unforgettable.

5. Endless Activities: When you plan your wedding in Savannah, you'll have access to a wide range of activities to keep your guests entertained. From historic tours and ghost walks to riverboat cruises and beach outings, your guests will never run out of things to do and see in this beautiful city.

6. Affordable Destination: Compared to other popular wedding destinations, Savannah offers excellent value for money, making it an affordable option for couples looking to tie the knot in a beautiful and romantic location.

Savannah, GA, offers everything you could want in a wedding destinationfrom stunning scenery and delicious cuisine to warm hospitality and a wide range of activities. So why not say 'I Do' in the charm and elegance of Savannah and make your dream wedding a reality?

FINDING YOUR WINGMAN: A GUIDE TO PICKING THE PERFECT BEST MAN

by Diesel "The Dream" Franklin

Wedding bells are ringing, and you're in the thick of planning the big day. You've got the suit, the flowers, and the venue, but there's one crucial decision you haven't made yet: who will be your trusty wingman as you tie the knot? That's right, it's time to choose your best man.

Picking your best man is no small feat. This is the person who will stand by your side on one of the most important days of your life, and who will likely play a crucial role in planning the pre-wedding festivities. But fear not! We've got some tips to help you choose the best man for the job.

First and foremost, think about who you can count on. Your best man should be someone you trust implicitly and who you know will have your back no matter what. This is not the time to choose a flaky friend who might bail on you at the last minute.

Next, consider your best man's personality. Are you looking for someone who can make you laugh and keep the party going, or someone who will be a calming presence during a potentially stressful day? Think about what you need from your best man and choose someone who fits the bill.

Don't forget about logistics, either. If you're planning a destination wedding, for example, it might make more sense to choose a best man who lives closer to your venue. Similarly, if you're planning a more low-key affair, you might want to choose someone who is more low-key themselves.

Finally, remember that your best man should be someone who knows you well. This is the person who will be giving the toast at your reception, after all! Choose someone who can speak to your relationship and who knows how much this day means to you.

Now that you've got some tips for choosing your best man, it's time to start considering your options. Think about your closest friends and family members, and don't be afraid to ask someone who might not be the obvious choice. After all, sometimes the best wingman is the one you least expect

SOULFUL SERENADE: THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO THE BEST WEDDING SONGS FOR US

Weddings are a time of joy, celebration, and love. They're also a time to get down on the dance floor and party! For couples, choosing the right wedding songs can be an important decision. You want to choose music that reflects your culture, your history, and your love for one another. So, to help you make the right choice, we've compiled a list of the best wedding songs

"All of Me" by John Legend

Although it's a few years old now, "All of Me" remains a popular choice for weddings. John Legend's smooth vocals and romantic lyrics make it a timeless classic.

"Adorn" by Miguel

This sensual, smooth R&B jam is perfect for couples looking to heat up the dance floor. The catchy melody and Miguel's silky vocals make it an instant classic.

"Say You Won't Let Go" by James Arthur

This romantic ballad is a perfect choice for a first dance. James Arthur's heartfelt vocals and tender lyrics make it a favorite for couples in love.

"Love on Top" by Beyoncé

Beyoncé's ode to love is a modern classic that's perfect for a wedding. The upbeat tempo and catchy chorus will have everyone singing along.

Make It Better" by Anderson .Paak ft. Smokey Robinson

This modern classic is a soulful, funky choice for a wedding playlist. The smooth vocals of Anderson .Paak and legendary Smokey Robinson

The Wobble" by V.I.C.

This line dance song is a classic at receptions and parties. The upbeat tempo and catchy chorus make it a perfect choice for getting everyone on the dance floor.

"Before I Let Go" by Beyonce

Beyonce's cover of this classic party song has become a new favorite in the community. The upbeat tempo and catchy chorus make it a perfect choice for getting people dancing.

"September" by Earth, Wind & Fire

This classic disco hit is a staple at Black receptions and parties. The infectious beat and catchy chorus make it a perfect choice for a dance party.

"Back That Thang Up" by Juvenile ft. Mannie Fresh and Lil Wayne

This hip-hop classic is a favorite at Black receptions and parties. The upbeat tempo and catchy chorus make it a perfect choice for getting people dancing.

These are just a few of the best wedding songs for the culture. Whether you're looking for classic soul, modern R&B, or funky grooves, there's a song out there that will make your wedding unforgettable. So, put on your dancing shoes and get ready to celebrate your love with some soulful serenades!

THE BLACK MOSES FREEDOM FESTIVAL

by Eboni Holmes

My name is Eboni Holmes and I have been practicing Yoga for over 15 years. I have worked in healthcare for over 25 years, with the last 15 years focusing primarily on Holistic and Alternative Methods of healing. I have always been a healer and an active member of the community. I offer private and group classes, as well as Healing Retreats throughout the Southeast. Yoga has changed my life dramatically in the last 5 years since I began teaching and I am excited about sharing these methods and tools with the community.This festival is a personal way for me to give back to my ancestors who endured so much more than I could ever imagine. My father was born in Beaufort, SC in 1942 and for as long as I can remember, Beaufort has been the magical place we visited every summer. I attended Lady’s Island Jr. High, when we lived in Beaufort for 3 years during my childhood. My grandmother was born in Allendale, SC and was said to be a part of the Yamassee tribe, I have yet to confirm that through my research.

The Black Moses Freedom Festival is a vital component supporting the communities in Beaufort County, according to The Indicator Report 2021 entitled “Together For Beaufort County. The recommendations section touched on several areas that are a part of the pillars of The Black Moses Freedom Festival:

Environment

The residents of Beaufort County could benefit from connecting with nature with hopes of garnering a respect for nature that leads to conservation and cleaner living Building of Community Gardens

Encouraging physical activities such as biking and walking

Health

Increase activity for children and elders, yoga is great for both Healthy Food options and preparation Opportunities for individually-adapted programs to teach lifelong behavioral skills

Social Well Being

Identifying areas known to be food deserts

The 5 Pillars That Honor The Legacy of Harriet Tubman & Goals of BMFF

1. God First: Harriet believed in a Higher Power that guided her through the most dangerous situations, freeing hundreds of slaves and never being caught. Being a woman of small stature and living well into her 90’s, we must believe that she had supernatural help guiding and protecting her. She was a believer, and allowed GOD to lead her to freedom.

2. Land and Connection to nature: Harriet knew the land, the plants for survival, the stars for guidance, and the animals to be aware of. She did not just survive the humans and dogs chasing her down, she also survived the wilderness with women, children, and elders in tow. She was a natural woman and an herbalist who healed soldiers who were dying of dysentery in Beaufort, SC with herbs she found at the river.

3.Family:Harrietbeganfreeingpeoplebyfirst,attemptingtofreeherfamily. Alltheothersshefreedwereabyproductofherwantingtoshareher freedomwithherfamily.ShewastheultimateMatriarch,althoughshenever gavebirth,shefreedhermother,herfather,andherbrothersandcousins.

4.Liberation:Harrietrealizedthatliberationshouldbeforeveryone,and althoughshestartedherjourneystofreeherfamily,shebegantoseethe biggerpictureandsoughtfreedomforallenslavedpeople.Shewasawarrior forLiberation.

5.CommunityService:HarrietservedasaNurse,aSpyfortheUnion,a Generalleadingraidstofreetheenslaved,anduntilheroldageshehada homeforthesickanddisplaced.ShewasaniconinCommunityService. Ourgoalsforthefutureincludeaparade,officiatingaHarrietTubmanDayinthe county,officiatingthefirstfederalholidayforawomanintheUS,buildingagazebo attheCombaheeRiverSitewheretocommunitycancomeandenjoythesacred space,andcreatingaprivatetradeschoolforK-8basedonthe5PillarsofHarriet Tubman.

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