Girlfriend March 2023

Hot babes from 2007 & now

Girlstrology

Your must-read life & romance stars

An insider’s guide to vibrators

We get dishy with the Class of ’07

Girl squad

QUIZ: What type of friend are you?

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FASHION FINDS YOU’LL WANT TO SHOP ASAP

The unstoppable rise of TAYLOR SWIFT

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Ed’s letter

Welcome to the one-off reboot issue of Girlfriend. It’s been a while since we’ve been in print, so we’re super-excited to bring you this touch-and-feel version of your fave mag. We’re even more excited to take you back to 2007 to revisit what was trending and what we were obsessing over when (most of us) were teens…

We stepped back into our crocs and UGG boots to rewind the hottest trends and fashion hits of ’07 and give them the today ‘slay’ treatment. We took a retro ride and checked out what the hottest babes of the day, our Model Search winners and the celebrities we gushed over are doing today. We also chatted with the cast of the new must-watch Prime Video series Class of ’07, all about high school reunions, catching up with old classmates and the importance of female friendships. Additionally, we brought the best pages of the mag back to life with a 2023 twist. From people-pleasing in the 2000s to the self-love ‘buzz’ in 2023, we updated our sex section with only ‘good vibes’ to bring you the Beginner’s Guide to Vibrators. Such an empowering and fun story to put together, from interviewing sexpert Chantelle Otten to photographing a huge range of vibrators (we learnt a lot in the process!). And don’t worry, we didn’t forget your other faves: do our quiz to find out what type of friend you are, and read our horoscopes for your love and life forecast. Enjoy!

Me in ’07 with side fringe (if you know, you know!)

P.S. A huge thank you to everyone who contributed to this issue. You’re an absolute dream team.

What was hot

The A-Z hot list of what we were crushing on in 2007.

A – ANIMAL PRINT

It was everywhere and on everything.

B – BIG SUNNIES

Dannii Minogue was a huge fan.

C – CROCS

So popular they struggled to keep up with demand.

D – DELTA GOODREM

Her single In This Life became her eighth number one in Australia.

E – ENVIRONMENTALISM

The fight against global warming was on everyone’s mind.

F – FACEBOOK

The year we started ‘poking’ our friends.

G – GEMMA WARD

She was fast becoming the biggest name on international catwalks.

H – HOME AND AWAY

Leah Patterson (Ada Nicodemou) was one of our Summer Bay faves.

I – iPHONE

The launch that changed our lives.

J – JESSICA MAUBOY

She released her debut album, The Journey – KEEPING UP WITH THE KARDASHIANS

The start of one of the longestrunning reality television shows.

L – LINGERIE

Underwear became outerwear.

M – MARGOT ROBBIE

She graduated from high school and began acting.

N – NATALIE BASSINGTHWAIGHTE

She announced her role as presenter on So You Think You Can Dance Australia

0 – ONLINE SHOPPING

The obsession with the cart starts.

P – PREPPY FASHION

Polo shirts became the on-trend uniform.

Q – QUEEN B

Beyoncé famously dubbed herself a “legend in the making”.

R – ROMANCE

Hot couples included Delta Goodrem and Brian McFadden, Natalie Imbruglia and Daniel Johns, and Kylie Minogue and Olivier Martinez.

S – SKINNY JEANS

Black and denim were wardrobe staples.

T – THE VERONICAS

Hook Me Up went 2 x platinum, selling over 140,000 copies.

U – UGGS

The uggly shoe everyone wore but loved to hate.

V – VESTS

The smaller, the better.

W – WAIST-CINCHING BELTS

Jackie O rocked the look at the MTV Australia Video Music Awards.

X – X (THE ALBUM)

We crushed on Kylie Minogue’s 10th album.

– YOU

Individualism and personal taste defined our style.

ZOOEY DESCHANEL

Zooey was the alternative ‘It girl’.

MODEL CL A SS

Ruby Rose Abbey KershawLee

WON: 2004 aged 17

NOW: Model and actor

CAREER HIGHLIGHTS: Abbey has modelled for Chanel, Gucci and Alexander McQueen, and was also a muse for famous photographers such as Karl Lagerfeld and Steven Meisel. She decided to branch out into acting and has since starred in movies such as Mad Max: Fury Road, Gods of Egypt, The Neon Demon, and Office Christmas Party

HEARD SAYING: “Modelling is not just about the way you look, it’s about the way you are.”

DYK? She dropped her surname after being dubbed a supermodel by Models.com.

FOLLOW: @abbeylee

FINALIST: 2003 aged 16

NOW: Model, actress, disc jockey, television presenter and mental health activist

CAREER HIGHLIGHTS: Ruby has kept busy appearing in the hit Netflix series Orange is the New Black and Batwoman on The CW, as well as movies such as John Wick: Chapter 2, Pitch Perfect 3, The Meg and The Doorman. She’s also flexed her hosting muscles on several shows with MTV Australia. Rose is a warrior for LGBTQI+ rights and was honoured with the Stephen F. Kolzak Award in 2016 at the 27th annual GLAAD Media Awards.

HEARD SAYING: “I never wanted to be a model, but I fell into it.”

DYK? In the model competition, she was beaten out by Catherine McNeil, to whom she was later engaged.

FOLLOW: @rubyrose

Samantha Harris

FINALIST: 2004 aged 13

NOW: Model and World Vision & WWF ambassador

CAREER HIGHLIGHTS: Sam has graced the pages of magazines such as Glamour, Vogue and Harper’s BAZAAR. In 2011, she was named a “young women’s fashion ambassador” for David Jones, and in 2015 she was a contestant on Dancing With the Stars. She’s not just a total babe, either – Sam uses her fame to help empower Indigenous Australians and raise money for her favourite charities.

HEARD SAYING: “Although I was very young at the time, I knew I would have the opportunity to meet the right people to help me fulfil my career aspirations.”

DYK? She appeared on the cover of Vogue at just 18, becoming only the second Indigenous model to do so.

FOLLOW: @sam_harris

We check in with some of our Model Search competition faves to see what they’ve been up to…

Catherine McNeil

WON: 2003 aged 14

NOW: Model

CAREER HIGHLIGHTS: Cat became the face of Donna Karan and Versace, and walked the runway for Roberto Cavalli, Gucci, Alexander McQueen, Fendi, Givenchy, Chanel, Dior and Hermès. She also regularly graced the pages of Vogue, but in 2009 decided to take a break from modelling. She returned in 2012 with a bang when she appeared on the cover of Vogue Australia

HEARD SAYING: “I’ve never been one to think too much about the future. I just take things as they come and see where they lead.”

DYK? Vogue Paris named Cat as one of the top 30 models of the 2000s.

Natalie Roser

FINALIST: 2003 aged 13

NOW: Founder of Rose & Bare lingerie and editor of SERIES magazine

CAREER HIGHLIGHTS: Natalie was a finalist in Miss Universe Australia in 2014 and went on to work with brands such as Guess and Tanned Australia. But she didn’t stop there – she also started her own lingerie label, Rose & Bare, which has become a cult hit on Instagram.

HEARD SAYING: “My entire career was born [thanks to GF]. It helped shape my whole life.”

Alyssa Sutherland

WON: 1997 aged 15 NOW: Model and actor

CAREER HIGHLIGHTS: Alyssa became a regular on the runway for fashion houses such as Chanel, Gucci and Alexander McQueen. She’s also graced the campaigns of Yves Saint Laurent, Versace and Balenciaga. She turned to acting, appearing in shows including Law & Order: Special Victims Unit and Vikings, and films such as The Devil Wears Prada and Evil Dead Rise. In 2007, she became the newest ‘Flake girl’ when Cadbury brought back its iconic TV ads after a lengthy break.

HEARD SAYING: “It made me quite a resilient human.”

DYK? Alyssa has always been a self-confessed “science geek”, and at school she had plans to study molecular biology and work in a laboratory.

FOLLOW: @therealalyssas

WHAT TYPE OF FRIEND ARE YOU?

Discover more about your friendship style and how to become the best friend you can be by taking this quiz. Keep in mind that real friends stay together no matter what, and great friendships remain true throughout life’s different stages whether you’re 17 or 37…

When it comes to making new friends, how do you typically approach the situation?

a Wait for others to approach you

b Be proactive and initiate conversation or invite others to hang out

c Open to making new friends, but don’t actively seek them out

d Prefer to stick with your existing group of friends

How do you approach conflict or disagreement with friends?

a Try to find a compromise or solution that works for everyone

b Stand up for your own beliefs and values, even if it means standing alone

c Try to avoid conflict as much as possible

d Confront the issue head-on and try to resolve it as quickly as possible

When it comes to making plans with friends, how do you usually approach things?

a Take charge and make all the arrangements

b Let others take the lead and go along with their plans

c Suggest ideas and contribute to the planning process, but don’t mind if someone else takes the lead

d Prefer to make last-minute plans or be spontaneous

How do you respond when a friend is going through a tough time?

a Offer emotional support and try to be there for them as much as possible

b Try to find practical solutions or offer advice

c Distance yourself a bit to give them space, unless they specifically ask for support

d Try to lighten the mood and make them laugh

How do you react when a friend cancels social plans at the last minute?

a Get upset or feel let down

b Understand that things come up and try to reschedule

c Feel indifferent and move on to other plans

d Try to find out if there’s a specific reason for the cancellation and offer support if needed

How do you react when a friend confides in you about a problem or concern?

a Listen attentively and offer support and encouragement

b Offer practical advice or suggestions on how to handle the situation

c Try to relate to their experience and share similar stories from your own life

d Try to find a way to make them laugh or see the bright side of things

How do you feel when a friend is not available to hang out or do something together?

a Feel disappointed or hurt and try to persuade them to change their plans

b Understand and respect their decision and make other plans

c Feel indifferent and move on to other things

d Try to find ways to include them or plan something for another time

How do you respond when a friend does something that hurts or upsets you?

a Try to confront the issue directly and resolve it as soon as possible

b Keep your feelings to yourself and avoid confrontation

c Try to let it go and move on

d Confide in another friend or seek outside support

How do you typically respond when a friend asks for a favour or help with something?

a Happily oblige and offer to do whatever you can to help

b Consider the request carefully and decide whether or not you’re able to help based on your own availability and priorities

c Try to find a way to help, but also set boundaries and make it clear when you’re unable to assist

d Feel overwhelmed or resentful and try to find an excuse to say no

When a friend shares good news or a positive experience with you, how do you react?

a Genuinely celebrate their success and offer congratulations

b Feel happy for them, but also a little envious or jealous

c Feel indifferent or unaware of their achievement

d Try to downplay their accomplishment or find ways to relate it back to yourself

What type of friend might you be?

Mostly A and B Loyal and fun

You’re always there for your friends and will go out of your way to help them whenever they need it. At the same time, you’re the life of the party and know how to have a good time. You’re a great listener, and your friends realise that they can trust you with anything. You’re the kind of friend who is constantly there for your pals, through thick and thin and whatever life throws at you. Your friends can count on you to have their back, no matter what.

Mostly A and C Reliable and supportive

You’re someone who takes their commitments seriously and follows through on what you say you’ll do. You always keep your promises and are there when your friends need you. You’re a great problem-solver and are always willing to offer advice and guidance when your friends are going through a tough time. The people around you appreciate your dependability and know that they can always count on you.

Mostly A and D

Adventurous and spontaneous

You’re always up for trying new things and love to take risks. You’re the friend who is forever suggesting exciting activities and encouraging your friends to step out of their comfort zones. You have a contagious energy that your friends love being around. You’re also always up for trying new things and going on exciting adventures. Your friends can count on you to bring some excitement and spontaneity to their lives.

Mostly B and C Empathetic and compassionate

You’re incredibly in tune with your friends’ emotions and always know when they need support. You’re a great listener and offer thoughtful advice and encouragement. Your friends appreciate your kindness and know that you always have their best interests at heart. You’re a deeply caring person who feels for others and always tries to put yourself in their shoes. You listen with an open heart, and offer comfort and advice when needed.

Mostly B and D Witty and sarcastic

You have a great sense of humour and love to make your friends laugh. You bring energy and fun to any social gathering. You’re outgoing and love to be the centre of attention. You make your friends laugh and help them cut loose and have a good time. You are quick with a clever comeback or a sharp remark, but your friends know that it’s all in good fun. You are always up for a good time and know how to keep things lighthearted.

Mostly C and D Intellectual and analytical

You’re a thoughtful and introspective person who is always seeking to learn and understand more about the world, and you love engaging in deep conversations with your friends. You are a great problem-solver and enjoy analysing complex issues. Your friends appreciate your insights and the way you challenge them to think about their lives in new and exciting ways.

COUNTRY STAR

Taylor Swift is more than just a pop star, she’s a true advocate for women in the music industry, using her platform to speak out about important issues and encouraging young women to pursue their dreams in the industry. Throughout her career, she has been an advocate for women in the music field, raising awareness of widespread issues and encouraging young women to pursue careers in the world of music.

Using her voice

In 2014, Taylor wrote an op-ed for The Wall Street Journal in which she criticised the music industry for not treating women equally. She wrote, “New thoughts and conversations are happening, and they are important because they are leading to action.” She also called for more women to be included in music festivals, which was a major topic at the time.

To encourage other women to speak up about their own experiences of harassment and assault, in 2017 Taylor testified in court against a radio host who had groped her while they were having a photo taken. She won her case and used the opportunity to speak out about the importance of holding powerful men accountable for their actions. She’s also an active supporter of the Time’s Up movement, which aims to end sexual harassment and assault in the entertainment industry. She donated more than US$100,000 to the movement in 2018 and wore a Time’s Up pin to the Golden Globe Awards that year.

Taylor’s advocacy for women in the music industry is not limited to speaking out about issues. In 2012, Taylor donated US$4 million to the Country Music Hall of Fame and Museum in Nashville, and in

honour of Taylor’s contribution, the Taylor Swift Education Center was opened. The centre provides education and resources for young musicians, encouraging girls and women to pursue their dreams in the music industry. Thanks to Tay Tay, the centre provides that essential platform for young female musicians to learn, grow and succeed in their careers, which is a huge step towards gender equality.

Mentor in motion

Taylor always makes a point of featuring a diverse group of female artists as opening acts on her tours. She includes artists from different genres and backgrounds, and has provided a platform for many female artists to gain more exposure and recognition. She supports, mentors and promotes other female artists in the industry, inviting them to collaborate with her as well as perform at her concerts. She asked Charli XCX and Camila Cabello to open her Reputation Stadium Tour, and collaborated with Haim on the song No Body, No Crime

Leading lady

Throughout her career, Taylor has broken numerous records and reached many milestones, including becoming the only female artist to win the Grammy for Album of the Year three times, the only woman to have five albums sell more than one million copies within one week in the US (no male artist or group has matched her), and one of the best-selling music artists of all time. She defies stereotypes associated with female artists in the industry, as she writes her own songs and co-produces most of her music, and is known for being in control of her career.

From signing her first record deal when she was just 15 years old to her chart-topping domination today, we take a look at the rise of Tay Tay and how she has become one of the most successful female artists of all time, breaking records and defying stereotypes imposed on women in music…

Role model

Taylor has been vocal about the double standards that exist in the industry for men and women. In a 2020 interview with DJ Zane Lowe, she said, “I see it happening to female artists and it’s just not happening to male artists. They’re allowed to grow, they’re allowed to change, they’re allowed to experiment, they’re allowed to take a year off or two years off, and nobody questions it.”

Likewise, Taylor has been vocal about the fact that women in the music industry are often paid less than men. In 2019, she told Billboard magazine: “I’m starting to see people speaking up about it. I think that when you see something that’s not right, you have to say something. I think that certain things are going to be exposed. Certain things are going to be very apparent.”

Taylor is an advocate for body positivity, often sharing images and videos of herself without make-up, and encouraging her fans to do the same. Additionally, she’s been a strong supporter of the LGBTQI+ community, and has used her platform to both raise awareness and promote acceptance and equality.

Ultimate influencer

So we don’t just love Taylor for her music, but also because she’s always been a fearless advocate for women and marginalised communities. She uses her platform and influence to fight for equality and change. Her passion and example show that we can all use our influence for the greater good and make a difference. In short, she’s living proof that it is possible to be successful and respected in the music industry while remaining true to yourself.

Taylor’s influence extends far beyond her music – she’s a role model for all of us, and we can’t wait to see what she does next!

The video for Taylor’s Lavender Haze is out now

Taylor in 2007 girlfriendcoverstar

of singing to sold-out stadium crowds. Even crazier, Tay was country music singer Braid Paisley’s opening act and played for just a few minutes.

Back then, Taylor’s albums were pure country and the titles were just her name. Her self-titled debut album, released in 2006, was a hit in the country music world and spawned several successful singles, including Tim McGraw and Our Song, which remained in the peak position on the Hot Country Songs chart for six consecutive weeks.

She released Our Song on Myspace. Tay put her music up on Myspace way before it was the done thing, to help decide what was going to be on the record. Our Song premiered at her ninth-grade talent show and was nearly lost on the cutting room floor, only making it on to the record because of Myspace. By early 2008 Taylor had more than 650,000 Myspace fans, according to Billboard. Today she has over 245 million Instagram followers.

Taylor’s music videos used to feature guitars, boys and pickup trucks instead of snakes, zombie Taylors and celebrities such as Selena Gomez, Katy Perry, Lena Dunham, Gigi Hadid, Hayley Williams, Kendrick Lamar, Hailee Steinfeld, Cara Delevingne and Karlie Kloss who feature in today’s videos.

Speaking of competitions, this period marked the start of her blitzing awards nights. At the 2008 Country Music Awards she was nominated in three categories (Album of the Year, Female Vocalist of the Year and

New Female Vocalist). Two years later, she won Album of the Year and Best Country Album at the Grammys. Fast-forward to 2022, where she won six American Music Awards, bringing her total in those awards to 40. That extends her lead as the mostawarded artist in the show’s 50-year history.

On the 2007 fashion front, Taylor wore bright ball gowns and her signature curly hair was copied worldwide. Her style has evolved over the years, making her a fashion icon, and she’s stepped out of the box more recently with tailored suits (or perhaps Taylored suits) and menswear-inspired looks.

Taylor fangirled over meeting her idols, including Shania Twain and Mariah Carey, at the same time as her idols fangirled over her. In 2019, social media went crazy over Taylor dancing during Mariah’s Billboard Music Awards performance. Seeing the buzz over Taylor’s love for her, Mariah tweeted, “Love you back!! Thank you for your incredible energy.” That same year, Taylor was named one of the Time 100 Most Influential People, and in 2022 appeared on Forbes’ The World’s 100 Most Powerful Women list. This was in addition to being named one of America’s Richest Self-Made Women.

Swifties and #squadgoals weren’t even a thing in 2007, and Taylor’s squad was just her mum and her hometown BFF Abigail Anderson. The two met in high school, and Taylor’s song Fifteen was inspired by Abigail. Also back then, Taylor would grab selfies with fans like most stars – but in 2014 she invited hundreds of fans into her parents’ house to eat cookies and listen to her new album, 1989, before it was released!

We heart you, Taylor.

hit rewind

It’s a 2000s fashion revival. Press play in low-rise pieces, big belts, loud prints and more.

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KOURH dress, $1200, and bra, $320, kourh.co. BEC + BRIDGE pants, $280, becandbridge.com.au. ACNE STUDIOS hat, $250, acnestudios.com. EMMA PILLS silver bracelet, shopemmapills. com. BP JEWELRY bangles, $94 each, and ring, $80, bernapeci.com. DOLLS KILL belt, $100, dollskill.com.

SO FAMILIA DIOR bikini top, $120, FO jeans, $100, and diamante belt, $40, @sofamiliastore (enquire via DM). Chain belt stylist’s own. JW ANDERSON bag, $662, jwanderson.com. ROUTE 66 sunglasses, $170, route66.com.au.

ALIX HIGGINS dress, $350, alixhiggins.com.

Y/PROJECT x MELISSA shoes, $350, yproject.fr. LE SPECS sunglasses, $79, au.lespecs.com. SO FAMILIA necklace, $79, belt, $35, and beaded belt, $35, @sofamiliastore (enquire via DM). GLASSONS bag, $39.99, glassons.com.

LACK OF COLOR hat, $149, lackofcolor.com.au.

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KARAMELEON skirt, $95, and top, $120, karameleon.com. SO FAMILIA belt, $35, and pendant, $70, @sofamiliastore (enquire via DM). HAIR Georgia Ramman MAKE-UP Cherry Cheung/Vivien’s Creative MODEL Anna Siddiqui/ Chic Management.

A R EUNION TO R EMEMBER

Trapped at an endless high-school reunion with haters and an impending apocalyptic tidal wave? Say hello to the ultimate binge-worthy Prime Video series, Class of ’07 – it’ll have you LOL-ing, shedding tears and craving a BFF catch-up sesh. We got the exclusive goss as three fierce female cast members dished on their lives and all the series’ behind-the-scenes deets. So grab your girls and get ready for this epic new show…

Meet EMILY BROWNING who plays Zoe

Class of ’07?

Emily It was honestly amazing. I’ve never, ever played a role like this before. I’ve never done anything even close to comedy before. It felt really good to just kind of let myself be an idiot, really.

GF She is very confident, isn’t she?

Emily Yes, a little too confident I think!

GF Would you have been friends with Zoe at school?

Emily I think I would have been friends with Zoe, even thought she probably would have annoyed me.

GF Have you ever attended a high-school reunion?

Emily No, I was in LA with my best friend from high school. But if I was in Australia, I would have gone for sure. It would have been fun to see what everyone was up to.

GF Do you keep in touch with anyone from your school days?

Emily I do, yes. Most of my friends in Melbourne are people I’ve been friends with since high school.

GF Is there anything that you learned from playing Zoe and going back to that high school scenario?

Emily I definitely learned to be more comfortable with making a fool of myself, which I think comes with doing comedy. It made me feel a lot freer and a lot less self-conscious.

Were there any scenes that you liked shooting best?

Emily Yes. All of the group scenes were my favourite to shoot. That was just the best, most fun energy for me.

GF How do you cope with stress in your everyday life?

Emily I thrive in stressful situations. My brain clicks into gear and I actually feel like I know how to function better.

GF In real life, how would you react to the apocalyptic events in the series? Emily I think I’d have a brief 24-hour nervous breakdown and then I’d get to work. I’d like to think that I have a strong enough survival instinct that I’d only freak out for a day and then I’d be like, “Okay, well, time to keep us alive.”

GF Wow! How important are female friendships to you?

Emily Really, really important. I didn’t have that many female friends in high school because I was sort of afraid of getting hurt. It’s only in the last five to 10 years that I’ve realised how important my female friendships are. They’re even more intense than my romantic relationships.

Did you read Girlfriend magazine? Yes. From 10 to about 16 I read religiously. I was obsessed with it. I’m so excited to be in it.

Meet MEGAN SMART who plays Amelia

character, Amelia?

Megan Yes, we’re both quite pragmatic, quite grounded and realistic, and also incredibly private people and tomboys.

GF Was she easy to portray or did you really have to push yourself?

Megan Not easy. It took me a little while to find her.

GF It looked like you guys were having a lot of fun on set!

Megan Totally. And it was quite meta, the whole thing, because we were shooting [while] out of school, and all girls obviously. And then being in this COVID bubble, we were only hanging out at each other’s houses outside of the shoot too, so it kind of felt like we were on school camp. And we became very close because of that.

GF Did you have any school friends that were like anyone in the cast in the series?

Megan No. I went to school in Brisbane, moved away to Perth to study acting at WAAPA, then moved to Sydney once I graduated. I have lots of uni friends, so it was all kind of new to me. I don’t stay in touch with anybody from high school.

GF So you haven’t attended a highschool reunion?

Megan No, not one.

Did you have any fave scenes?

Megan It was such a wacky and wild show, it’s kind of hard to pull out any moment. Just when you think you’ve done it all, you’re running around chasing real-life chickens, vomiting, pooping, doing stunts and playing dress-ups.

GF How do you cope with stressful situations in real life?

Megan I actually secretly love being under stress. I love the adrenaline and I feel like it helps you to do your best work.

GF How important are female friendships in your own life?

Megan I have two very good girlfriends in my life. I’d rather have a couple of besties who are really close to me, and who I can really count on, than a huge group of friends.

GF And finally, did you used to read Girlfriend?

Megan I loved Girlfriend. I had a subscription. The sealed section was my fave.

Meet CAITLIN STASEY who plays Saskia

How was it playing Saskia?

Caitlin It was so much fun playing a character who was as complicated and flawed as she is. It gave me the chance to explore and experiment with my most manipulative self. It was fun to play someone who is just being who she is.

GF Who would you have been friends with?

Caitlin Probably Zoe because she’s such a goofball. And I’m sure I would’ve wanted Saskia to like me.

GF Have you ever been to a highschool reunion?

Caitlin No. I’ve never been invited. I didn’t graduate high school, so I’m sure that’s got something to do with it. But yeah, if they’ve had one, I don’t know if I would have gone.

GF Do you stay in touch with anyone from high school?

Caitlin A couple of people here and there. Everyone’s got such different lives now.

GF What was your favourite scene in the series to shoot?

Caitlin All my scenes playing Saskia were fun!

GF Were there any memorable moments during filming?

Caitlin Just watching everyone’s work. I was so inspired by, and in awe of, how funny and hard-working the whole cast was. It was such a good experience.

GF Were there any life lessons you learned from playing your character?

Caitlin I’ve learned that compromise and compassion are essential to happiness, and you have to believe in yourself.

GF How do you cope with stress in your life?

Caitlin Not well. I freak out, although I’m getting a lot better. I used to be a lot more stressed out than I am now. I think gaining perspective and realising that all things are temporary, including your strongest feelings and your saddest moments, has helped.

GF How would you have personally reacted to the scenarios in the series?

Caitlin Kind of like Saskia, even though I’m a little bit less assured than she is. I would definitely cry a lot, that’s for sure, if I was stuck on an island with everyone I went to high school with.

GF And your female friends, how important are they to you?

Caitlin The older I get, the more I realise how important they are and how much they contribute to my happiness.

GF Did you read Girlfriend?

Caitlin Yes, I love Girlfriend. I liked ‘How Embarrassment’ because it was like, “Oh, these girls are like me.” I’m so excited. I can’t wait to see it!

Level up your frosty lip game from 2007 by saying goodbye to pastel hues and hello to deep, dark tones. And who could forget the iconic Avril Lavigne hair extensions we all loved back then? The trend has been given a modern twist by clipping them to the underneath layers and adding a sleek, straight blowout with tiny braids to frame the face.

ALIX HIGGINS top, $275, alixhiggins.com.

CLUB COUTURE

side bangs that framed the face – who didn’t love those trends? Modernise this iconic eye make-up by extending your liner right from the bridge of the nose to the corner of your brow with liquid liner. Recreate choppy bangs by piling hair into a top bun and letting the ends fall over your forehead.

KOURH top, $80, kourh.co. EMMA PILLS hoop earrings, $106, shopemmapills.com. F+H STUDIOS gemstone ball hoop earrings, $140, and charm hoop earrings, $165, fandhstudios.com. HOLLY RYAN necklace, $420, hrjewellery.com.au.

POLISHED REBEL

channelled our Veronicas vibe back in ’07. Revisit your inner emo by lining eyes with black liner and tapping dark eye shadow across the lid and around the eye to lock in the colour and create a smokey effect. Fake your mohawk by twisting ponytails (created down the middle of your head from crown to neck) and securing with same coloured bobby pins.

KOURH top & pants set, $500, kourh.co. KIKO KOSTADINOV necklace, $279, slowwavesstore.com. PAULA MENDOZA ear cuff, $70, paulamendoza. com. EMMA PILLS earrings, $99, and silver chain earrings, $120, shopemmapills.com. DIESEL sunglasses, $180, etsy.com.

GIRLY GLAM

Bright eye shadow gets a revamp from its 2007 OTT look by applying super-bright shadow to just the inner eye to make them pop. Two coats of mascara and a soft lip colour complete the look. Crazy curls from ‘back in the day’ are softened by lightly brushing them out, leaving a few random statement curls, and accentuating with tiny butterfly clips.

I.AM.GIA dress, $89, iamgia. com/au. BONDI BORN bra, $170, bondiborn.com.au. SO FAMILIA butterfly hair clips, $10, @sofamiliastore (enquire via DM). EMMA PILLS earrings, $121, shopemmapills.com. HAIR Christopher Byrne MAKE-UP Cherry Cheung/ Vivien’s Creative MODEL Ginger Oleksyn/The Scouted.

Ryan Gosling

It’s no secret that we’ve been crushing on Ryan Gosling for years! From the heart-throb in The Notebook to the charming leading man in La La Land, Ryan has captured our hearts time and time again. With his dreamy eyes, chiselled jawline and undeniable cheeky charisma, it’s no wonder we’ve been smitten since 2007. Get ready to swoon over him again in the upcoming flicks Barbie and The Fall Guy.

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Who we were swooning over in '07 and where they are now!

GUY SEBASTIAN

We’ve loved Guy Sebastian since day one! From his unforgettable debut on Australian Idol to his chart-topping hits, Guy captured our hearts and never let go. With his soulful voice, charming personality and undeniable stage presence, it’s no wonder he’s been a keeper on our crush list. Whether he’s belting out his biggest hits, showcasing his smooth moves on stage or judging on The Voice, Guy always manages to leave us wanting more –which is why he’ll always be one of our faves.

CHRIS HEMSWORTH

Chris Hemsworth has been a mainstay of our crush list ever since he first appeared on our screens. But it’s not just his impressive physique that has us head over heels. With his charming smile, infectious personality and undeniable talent, Chris has a way of stealing our hearts. From his fearless performances in action-packed blockbusters to his roles in more down-to-earth films, we’ll always have a soft spot for Chris.

LINCOLN LEWIS Zac Efron

We’ve been swooning over Zac Efron since his breakout role in High School Musical. With his charming smile, sculpted abs and incredible talent, it’s no wonder he’s one of our favourites. From his early days as a teen heart-throb to his current status as a leading man, Zac just keeps on getting better. Whether he’s singing and dancing in a musical or showcasing his dramatic range in more serious roles, Zac never fails to leave us in awe. We can’t wait to see him in the upcoming movie Ricky Stanicky

Lincoln Lewis is the ultimate Aussie heart-throb. With his sparkling blue eyes and cheeky smile, it’s no wonder we’ve been smitten since his days on Home and Away. Lincoln’s talent as an actor is undeniable, and he’s continued to charm us with his performances on both TV and the big screen. From his breakthrough role as a teenage hunk to his performing on Dancing With the Stars in 2021 to his role in the movie Black Site on Prime Video, we’re huge fans.

CHANTELLE OTTEN Lovehoney Sexologist

The beginner’s

to

VIBRATORS

Embrace

“Vibrators are a great intro sex toy to help you discover new sensations and reach ‘next level’ pleasure,” says Lovehoney sexologist Chantelle Otten. “First, get familiar with all the different types of vibrators, then ask yourself, ‘What do I know I like?’ If you need clitoral stimulation to reach an orgasm, look at vibrators that are either dedicated to this purpose or include a clitoral stimulator in their design.

“Secondly, ask yourself what the purpose of your vibrator is and what do you want to use it for? If you’re looking to explore new sensations, perhaps a finger vibrator or rabbit vibrator will uncover pleasure zones you haven’t previously explored.

“If you’re looking for something you can use in partnered play as much as you can solo, a wand or remote control vibrator will give you flexibility and versatility. My recommendation for a foolproof beginner’s vibrator would be a bullet vibrator. While they are very discreet and non-intimidating, they can pack a powerful punch to deliver spine-tingling sensations.

“When you start off using any vibrator, try it first on its lowest, slowest and least powerful setting. As you start to feel comfortable and get aroused, then you can begin to adjust the control and take it up to that next level. Allow yourself time to see what feels great for you.”

Clockwise from left WE-VIBE Nova 2 vibrator, $179.95, hardtofind. com.au. WE-VIBE Sync 2 vibrator, $219, we-vibe.com. UNBOUND BABES Bender vibrator, $71, unboundbabes.com. WOMANIZER Classic 2 vibrator, $199.99, womanizer.com. LOVEHONEY

Embrace Silicone Kegel balls, $24.99, lovehoney.com.au. WE-VIBE Touch X vibrator, $149, we-vibe. com. IROHA Kushi vibrator, $249, feelflossy.com.

guide

the latest buzz in self-love with our first-time guide to vibrators. With so many options available, taking care of yourself ‘down there’ has never been easier. We chatted with Lovehoney sexologist Chantelle Otten to get her expert advice to help you find the grown-up toys that best suit your sweet spot.

WHICH VIBRATOR IS BEST FOR YOU?

THE CLASSIC Classic vibrators are a long, insertable design and can be used directly on the clitoris, but are primarily made for insertion. These are a good first choice as they often have different patterns, speeds and intensities which allow you to play around without being limited to external or internal play.

THE BULLET Bullet vibrators are a great first sex toy. They’re small, but deliver big sensations. They’re extremely versatile, so can be used on different erogenous zones such as the nipples, neck and inner thigh – and they’re super discreet.

THE CLITORAL A clitoral vibrator is designed to specifically target your clitoris, which has more than 8,000 nerve endings. Although they’re all designed to facilitate this, there are lots of different types of clitoral vibrators, from toys with stimulating ‘nubs’ to vibrators with a ‘cup’ that surrounds the clitoris.

THE FINGER A finger vibrator is a small bullet vibrator mounted in a textured sleeve attached to a ring. Simply slide the ring over your finger and get to work! They’re ideal for couples play, and can be worn by either you or your partner during penetrative sex or outercourse.

THE G-SPOT G-spot vibrators usually feature a slightly curved tip to ensure maximum stimulation. Some designs, known as rabbit vibrators, also include a clitoral stimulator to help achieve those coveted blended orgasms. If you want to discover more about your pleasure points, these are for you.

THE LOVE EGG These insertable toys are similar in size and shape to Kegels balls, but have a vibrating motor inside instead of weights. Some have a wired controller, others are remote-control operated, which can be a fun couples activity. Designed to nestle against the G-spot, they deliver direct pleasure.

THE WAND Wands boast some of the most powerful vibrations and are non-anatomical, so they can be used to stimulate a wide range of external erogenous zones regardless of gender – which also makes them a perfect couples toy.

THE REMOTE CONTROL These are exactly what they sound like, vibrators that are controlled using a separate device. They open up a whole new world for both solo and partnered play, and can be used hands-free, which means you can explore other areas at the same time.

THE PENIS This range includes sleeves, warming vibrations, stokers and pumps. They can be used as intimate additions to oral sex and foreplay with a partner, as well as being thrilling to enjoy during solo sessions. Some are hands-free, some vibrate and some suck to create different and realistic sensations for the penis.

The sweet spot

“The biggest tip for maximising pleasure is lube,” advises Chantelle. “The wetter, the better! If you’re looking for some next-level pleasure, try an orgasm balm. As you get more comfortable with using vibrators, you can experiment with some really exciting techniques such as ‘edging’. This is where you keep bringing yourself close to the edge of orgasm, but don’t quite push yourself over it, driving yourself to this incredible state of arousal. Fun, right?!”

Stay safe

There can be health risks associated with vibrators. Poor-quality plastics that contain Bisphenol A, PVC and phthalates can cause bad things such as infections. Make sure you purchase your sex toys from a credible retailer to ensure you’re getting the good stuff that will only lead to a good time.

LOVEHONEY Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator, $79.95, and AGENT PROVOCATEUR Cha Cha Cha G-Spot vibrator, $199.95, lovehoney.com.au.

THE ULTIMATE ’00s PLAYLIST

Relive the iconic sounds of the decade with the

Girls - Marina and the Diamonds

Hot in Herre - Nelly

Murder on the Dancefloor - Sophie Ellis-Bextor

Just a Little - Liberty X

UFO - Sneaky Sound System

Fabolous - Bad Bitch

Hearts on Fire - Cut Copy

Embrace - Pnau

I Don’t Feel Like Dancing - Scissor Sisters

Tears Dry on Their Own - Amy Winehouse

That’s Not My Name - The Ting Tings

Steal My Sunshine - Len

Drop it Like it’s Hot - Snoop Dog

VCR - The xx

Joker and the Thief - Wolfmother

Cousins - Vampire Weekend

Bad Girls - M.I.A.

Heavy Cross - Gossip

Lovefool - Lisa Mitchell

Lover - Devendra Banhart

Shoot the Runner - Kasabian

Woman - Wolfmother

A-Punk - Vampire Weekend

The Special Two - Missy Higgins

When I Grow Up - The Pussycat Dolls

We Used to Be Friends - The Dandy Warhols

Mushaboom - Feist

Start a War - The National

Heads Will Roll - Yeah Yeah Yeahs

Where’s Your Head At - Basement Jaxx

Razzle Dazzle - Chicago rerecord

Ooh La La - Goldfrapp

Lisztomania - Phoenix

Here it Goes Again - OK Go

First Day of My Life - Bright Eyes

Daft Punk is Playing in My House - LC Soundsystem

Blackberry Stone - Laura Marling

Suddenly I See - KT Tunstall

Hurt Me - The Jezabels

Fuck You - Lily Allen

Black Betty - Spiderbait

Sweet About Me - Gabriella Cilmi

I Like You

Much Better When You’re Naked - Ida Maria

Run - San Cisco

Milkshake - Kelis

Parlez Vous Français? - Art vs. Science

One Crowded Hour - Augie March

We Won’t Run - Sarah Blasko

Sweet Disposition - The Temper Trap

SOS - Rihanna

I was in Paris for the first time when I saw director Francis Ford Coppola eating a meal with a giant group of people. After a long period

head over heels

As a huge Bon Jovi fan, I was superexcited when I got an invitation to a private performance. I wanted to get a photo standing in front of the stage while they were playing, so asked my girlfriend who came with me to take one. I stood by the stage and my girlfriend started to take the photo, then she got a weird look on her face. I turned around to see what she was looking at, and I headbutted Jon Bon Jovi. He had seen me and come over and knelt down to sing to me. How embarrassing. He continued to sing to me, and afterwards came to chat to me and gave us tickets to his next concert. Super-nice guy, but a super-embarrassing situation.

Ada Nicodemou

celeb LOL!

baring all

Last year I walked out topless in front of my son’s best friend, not realising he was at our house. (They arrive like ninjas. You never know who’s here.) I don’t know who was more embarrassed. Thankfully he handled it very graciously and is not in therapy… yet!

Toni

Pearen

friend-zoned

It’s 2009 and I asked my crush to our Year 12 endof-year formal. Cut to the after-party, it’s a dream and I’m confident there are vibes. We finish dancing and he says “Gotta go, getting a ride with our mate and he’s leaving now.” I’m panicked ’cause he hasn’t made a move yet, so I decide to say, “Aren’t we gonna kiss…??” CRRIIINNGGEEE. To which he replied, “Sorry, I thought we were just friends.” I cry, and he awkwardly leaves and tells our friends. They all laugh and point. I’m shattered.

Sana’a Shaik

soccer mum

Try to picture going to a football game with your kids and being surrounded by 30 cameras – like 30 at least. I was walking across the field, trying to stroll to get into the car. I was trying to do it as fast as I could and I opened the back of the truck and literally all my groceries fell out. The eggs cracked… and I’m trying to rush ’cause everybody’s watching me and yelling. Not just that, but all the other parents are getting mad.

Gwen Stefani

stepping in it

In a moment so absurd it’s hard to believe, I embarrassed myself so badly I thought I might forever be sucked into a black hole of cringe. While walking on a busy street in Edinburgh, watching a funny dog running with its owner, I slipped over in a pile of dog poo… into a pile of dog poo. I collected two piles of dog poo in one all-too-public fall.

Steph Tisdell

I climbed into the garbage bin next to me to hide. By the time the bus pulled up the dingo was already gone, so all the kids and the driver thought I was just voluntarily waiting for the bus in the bin. I had to tip the bin over so I could crawl out. They all watched me, including the girl I had a closeted crush on. Yay, not!

Emma Horn

We share our fave celeb cringe situations – we’ve all been there!

2023 love and life guide

ARIES

Personality: Driven

Love match: Gemini, Sagittarius, Leo

Friend match: Aries, Libra, Aquarius

A flash of inventiveness in March will put you ahead of the pack and bring transformation next year. Follow your gut and ignore the conservative approach. From April to July family life will pick up pace, but to stay in equilibrium, plan your individual future too. Life gets glamorous from August with a new romance – don’t blow your budget and you’ll feel great about yourself and life. From October, smart work and diplomacy will pay off.

Personality: Sensual

Love match: Virgo, Capricorn, Pisces

Friend match: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces

From March to June you’ll get a glimpse into your future and a new career; wait until things are watertight before making a move. From April lady luck will be your friend, and in June, when the ghosts of lovers past appear, enjoy the fantasy – but don’t make important decisions until October, when a new clarity and energy will unfold. December will put you centre stage of your social group, with beautiful alliances unfolding.

CANCER

Personality: Tenacious

Love match: Taurus, Pisces, Scorpio

Friend match: Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn

Ready or not, from March fiery Mars will push you forward. Don’t over-analyse, just believe in yourself. Money will begin to flow more easily, and if you have been dependant on others, you will be fantastically rewarded for reclaiming your financial power. Family will continue to be a focus, but fun, friends and your growing creativity will seep more deeply into your life. In short, 2023 will see you stepping into your own power and totally loving it.

TAURUS VIRGO

LEO

Personality: Generous

Love match: Gemini, Aries, Sagittarius

Friend match: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius

With lucky Jupiter training its spotlight on your career, get ready to shine. When tensions between individual goals and those of the collective (mostly family) arise, deal with them as they occur – sweeping things aside will create chaos. In July, be super careful of finances; charming people may not have your back. From November, the act of dealing with relationships delicately and patiently, especially new romantic ones, will put you firmly in charge.

GEMINI

Personality: Communicator

Love match: Libra, Aquarius, Aries

Friend match: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius

From March, forgotten dreams of travel and study will reignite, so let your imagination run free. April 17 will trigger a year of learning about yourself. The spiritual will intrigue you. Enjoy the quiet and enjoy you. Conquer your anxious feelings so that love, romance and family can be totes amazing from November. As your goals pick up momentum, back yourself. The universe will bestow unexpected windfalls in December.

Personality: Observer

Love match: Capricorn, Taurus, Cancer

Friend match: Virgo, Scorpio, Pisces

There’ll be no point resisting the emerging new you – aim for the stars and the universe will support you. When a love battle between safe and sexy hits in mid-June, detach and use that fabulous brain. Happy mediums will open the heart. Whether it’s planning, researching or packing your bags, travel and exploration will feed your soul. From October, if you can’t get what you want, think laterally. There’ll always be a different route to take.

Personality: Refined

Love match: Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini

Friend match: Aquarius, Aries, Taurus

A new intensity around romance will bring an unexpected verve to your life. Joy will be celebrated! From April, don’t ignore your intuition, no matter how foreign it feels. You yourself will have the answers you need. Work and routines may feel like a slog, but bear with them; by September, you’ll enjoy the new structures more than you can imagine. From October, resist staying with the practical and throw yourself into a little frivolity.

Personality: Go-getter

Love match: Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus

Friend match: Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn

From April, enjoy a new or revived love, creativity and intensified joy. Inventiveness in June could bring money and an increased sense of self-worth as you surprise yourself and others with your business smarts. From October, focus on the fab people around you and forget anyone who doesn’t accept you. Saturn will help you lay exciting foundations, and if friends try to block your progress, don’t listen to them. Go forth and conquer.

Personality: Charismatic

Love match: Taurus, Pisces, Capricorn

Friend match: Aries, Virgo, Cancer

Between March and June, just because someone is there for you shouldn’t mean that they own you. As life becomes increasingly sexy, make a conscious effort to step into your feminine energy. Power will grow from vulnerability. Your creativity will be immense and could bring cool new dimensions into your life – even a career change. Dare to show us your true self. By November, the more you look after the detail, the more life will take off.

SCORPIO AQUARIUS

Personality: Open-minded

Love match: Gemini, Aries, Sagittarius

Friend match: Leo, Libra, Aquarius

New revelations will inspire as people start to agree with your long-held ideas. As the more traditional voices scramble to be heard, yours will automatically become louder. Technology will abound, so start that podcast or website. Through all of this, family and love will grow deeper while giving you space to be yourself. Build your foundations in 2023, especially financial ones, because from 2024 your good-life vibe will grow even more.

Personality: Explorer

SAGITTARIUS LIBRA CAPRICORN

Love match: Aries, Leo, Libra

Friend match: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius

There’ll be a flurry of love and romance in March, so if you’re not feeling it, step up. To have the life you want, just create it. From mid-May, as focuses shift from family to your own needs, be bold and embrace intense conversations. From July to December 6, enjoy dreamy creativity at home but keep it real, as foundations may otherwise wobble. November will bring glorious opportunities to jump on.

PISCES

Personality: Ethereal

Love match: Taurus, Capricorn, Cancer

Friend match: Virgo, Scorpio, Pisces

You’re amazing, so don’t confuse yourself with the opinions of others. Instead, turn to your own clear thinking. From May, enforce your awesomeness by bringing more of your creativity into your loved ones’ lives. To have your financial planning rewarded, know your worth and stand your ground. As the year progresses, your optimism will be contagious. Family and friends will be more positive, and your openmindedness will lead to study and success.