Welcome to SE23
Welcome to the October issue of SE23. After a wonderful summer it is feeling very autumnal as I type. But as the sun is still out, I am not complaining about the drop in temperature!
As usual I have rounded up all the great events taking place in and around Dulwich. The events pages start on page 6. October is another busy month for events, so we have a super seven pages of online and in person events happening in and around Dulwich.
Remember to check out www.arounddulwich.co.uk for a full list of events, as there are too many to put in the magazine this monthl. Also events get added after I have gone to print.
If you are running a local event you can add it, for free, to our online calendar on Around Dulwic. A selection of these are then printed in the physical magazine. www.arounddulwich.co.uk.
We have regular updates on our social channels, so please do follow up, all the details are under my picture on the right!
The Last Word goes to Julia Salisbury who is local massage therapist and reflexologist and former owner of Neroli. See page 32.
Remember the magazine depends on all the wondeful local advertisers, so please do let them know if you saw them in this magazine!
Until next time.
Angela
Angela Burgess Head of All Things Community
SE Magazines/Around Dulwich
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Events Calendar - October
Honor Oak WI Monthly meeting p9.
An Evening with Mary Berry see p9.
Goose Green Coffee Mornings, p6.
Author Event with Lea Ypi, see p6.
Weekly
Eating Together by Dr Clare Bailey Mosley, p6.
Goose Green Coffee Mornings, p6.
Goose Green Lunch Club, see p6.
Gong
parkruns, see p8.
Convergent see page 23.
FOLD Art Collective Works on Paper see page 23.
Green
An Evening with Gyles Brandreth, see p22.
Intangible Landscapes - Nicholas Ashton see p22.
FOLD Art Collective Works on Paper see page 23.
Goose Green Coffee Mornings, p6.
Weekly Wine Sessions, see p6.
South
Dulwich Park Runners see p9.
Goose Green Coffee Mornings, p6.
Weekly Wine Sessions, see p6.
The Weekly Horniman Market p8.
Further details where available can be found in the News and Events pages 6, 8, 9, 22, 23, 24 & 26. Please read as not all the events can fit on the calendar!
Dulwich WI, see page 260.
EDWI - First Aid Evening, see p22.
The Weekly Horniman Market p8.
parkruns, see p8.
parkruns, see p8.
Gong Bath, see p8.
Singaround, p24.
Junior parkruns, see p9.
Men Walk Talk, p8.
The Weekly Horniman Market p8.
Crystal Palace Artists’ Open House Weekend, see p8.
The Art of the Cartoonist, p23.
Dulwich Park Runners see p9.
Dulwich Park Runners see p9.
Dulwich Park Runners see p9.
Goose
Lunch Club, see p6.
Goose Green Lunch Club, see p6.
Goose Green Lunch Club, see p6.
Heritage Orchard Volunteer Gardening, see p23.
Heritage Orchard Volunteer Gardening, see p23.
Persiana Easy by Sabrina Ghayour, see p24.
Dulwich Chorus Inaugural Concert, see p23.
New Moon Sister Sharing Circle, see p26.
The Dulwich Players present Blue Stockings, see p26.
Alasdair Roberts & Donald WG Lindsay @ The Ivy House, see p26.
Intangible Landscapes - Nicholas Ashton see p22.
Wine Sessions, see p6.
Weekly Wine Sessions, see p6.
Junior parkruns, p9.
Junior parkruns, p9.
Gong Bath, see p8.
Gong Bath, see p8.
Gong Bath, see p22.
Bath, see p22.
Junior parkruns, p9.
Samhain Gong Bath, see p24.
Halloween Gong Bath, see p24.
So Last Century’s Weekend Vintage Fair, p24.
Goose Green Coffee Mornings, p6.
Tennis Camps @ Dulwich Lawn Tennis Club, see p26.
Tennis Camps @ Dulwich Lawn Tennis Club, see p30.
What's On - October
Wednesday 1 October: Author Event with Lea Ypi 7pm-8pm
Join bestselling author Lea Ypi as she talks about her new book, Indignity : A Life Reimagined. When a photograph of her grandmother resurfaces online, Lea Ypi sets out to uncover the truth behind Leman’s life – a quest to fill in the blanks of a fractured past and restore a dignity the many folds of history nearly buried. In a journey that takes her from Salonica to the Albanian Secret Police Archives via Italy, Lea ultimately finds refuge in the power of storytelling, piecing together snippets of her grandmother’s life in a Europe in the midst of great political upheaval.
Dulwich Books, 6 Croxted Road, SE21 8SW. BOOK VIA: www.eventbrite.co.uk.
Wednesday 1 October:
Eating Together by Dr Clare Bailey Mosley and Professor Stephen Scott
7.30pm-8.30pm
Struggling to build healthy family eating habits? Join Dr Clare Bailey Mosley and child psychiatrist Professor Stephen Scott as they share simple, proven ways to transform family mealtimes. Discover quick, healthy recipes, clear boundaries and how shared meals can strengthen bonds with your children, improve behaviour, and bring real connection to even the busiest of households. Because it’s not just what we eat, but how we eat, that matters. The book is grounded in science, offering parents practical advice on building better family habits. Stephen is a local author and we’re delighted to be supporting the publication of his new book.
A Village Books event in association with James Allen's Girls' School. The Holst Hall, 144 East Dulwich Grove, East Dulwich, SE22 8TE. Tickets via: https://www.trybooking.com
Wednesdays 1, 8, 15, 22 & 29
October: Goose Green Coffee Morning 11am-12.30pm
Do drop into Goose Green Coffee Morning for a warm welcome, coffee, tea and cake! We are open every Wednesday, it's a great place to get to know others from the local community. All welcome! Free! St John The Evangelist, East Dulwich, 62A East Dulwich Road, East Dulwich, SE22 9AT. All are welcome!
Wednesdays 1, 8, 15, 22 & 29 October: Weekly Wine Session 7.30pm-9.30pm
The Dulwich Wine Society started in 1991 meets most Wednesdays and provides a way for novices and seasoned wine lovers to explore the world of grapes and wine regions. Taste, learn and discover new favourites. We take a break mid-way through the meeting which provides a chance to get to know others socially, and you can bring your own cheese and biscuits.
The Rosendale, 65 Rosendale Road, SE21 8EZ. https://www.dulwich-wine-society.co.uk.
Thursdays 2, 9, 16 & 23
October: Goose Green Lunch Club 12.30pm-2pm
The lunch club is a friendly and informal club for people over 55. We meet every Thursday during term time and enjoy a delicious main course and dessert with tea and coffee for £5. If you’re interested in joining us for lunch or if you would like to volunteer with us, call Martin on 07939 288885 or Barbara on 0208 693 2090.
Goose Green Centre, St John’s Church, 62A East Dulwich Road, East Dulwich SE22 9AT.
What's On - October
Fridays 3, 10 & 17 October: Gong Bath on Sydenham
Hill - a cosy evening Sound Journey
8pm-9pm
Step into the magical realm of my Secret Soul Sanctuary by the woods! It is a safe haven in the heart of South London, where I invite you to join me for an evening Gong Meditation / Sound Journey. Secret Soul Sanctuary, Sydenham Hill, SE23 3PH. Bookings via Eventbrite and|: www.thesoulnurturer.co.uk.
Saturday 4 and Sunday
5 October: Crystal Palace Artists' Open House 10am-5pm
This year’s Open House features 70+ creatives opening their doors to the public, offering the rare chance to explore, commission, and purchase unique pieces directly from the people who made them. Coopers Yard, The Paxton Centre, Gallery56 and Gipsy Hill Studios, Crystal Palace, London SE19 2TF. www.crystalpalaceartistopenhouse.co.uk.
Saturday 4 October: Men
Walk Talk - Honor Oak
10am-11am. A monthly walk for men, taking in the green spaces of SE23 and surrounding area. Traditionally, men often avoid seeking mental health support, but we provide a community of support for guys to know they are not alone, and they can speak up. Join Richard for a walk and a talk on the first Saturday of every month.
For more information: menwalktalk.co.uk 76-78 Honor Oak Park, SE23 1DY.
Saturdays 4, 11, 18 & 25
October: Parkrun 9am – 10am Dulwich Parkrun
Free, weekly timed 5k run, jog, or walk in Dulwich Park starting from Queen Mary’s Gate. Register once and bring your printed barcode (can be used at any parkrun across the world). Firsttimers briefing at 08.50. Also in Peckham Rye, Brockwell and Crystal Palace parks. https://www.parkrun.org.uk/dulwich/
Peckham Rye Park Run
A 3-lap anti clockwise course, entirely on tarmac and is mainly flat and therefore a potential PB course The start & finish are located close to the Colyton Road entrance of the park.
Peckham Rye Park, Colyton Road SE15 4JR. https://www.parkrun.org.uk/peckhamrye/
Sundays 5, 12, 19 & 26
October: Horniman Market
10am – 3pm. Located on the Bandstand Terrace, you will find stalls selling seasonal fruit and vegetables, artisan bread and cheese, organic meat, and delicious street food. If that’s not enough to have you feeling like our overstuffed walrus, we also have regular guest traders specialising in treats such as luxury chocolates, delightful drinks, irresistible cakes, and tasty pickle and preserves.
100 London Road, Forest Hill, SE23 3PQ www.horniman.ac.uk/
You can submit your events for free via our website: www.arounddulwich.co.uk
Sundays 5, 12, 19 & 26
October: Peckham Rye Junior Park Run 9am – 9:30am
What's On - October
Tuesdays 7, 14, 21 & 28
October: DPR Social Runs
A free, weekly, timed run for 4–14-year-olds, to get fit, stay healthy and have fun! We run 2km every Sunday morning at 9am, through rain and shine. The course is visible, well-marshalled, and all held on the paths around the sports pitches. Peckham Rye Park, Colyton Road, SE22 0NE.
Tuesday 7 October: An Evening with Mary Berry
7.30pm-8.30pm. Join Britain’s best-loved cook, Mary Berry, as she celebrates her 90th birthday with a career-spanning collection of iconic, fussfree recipes for every occasion.
In this beautifully illustrated cookbook, Mary shares 90 of her very best recipes—each one perfected over a lifetime of cooking. From sumptuous dishes like Mary’s best ever Lasagne Bolognese, a foolproof Pepper Pot Chicken and a freezer-friendly Mac and Cheese, to irresistible desserts like Raspberry Soufflé and of course classic bakes, including Mary’s Best Brownies and Lemon Drizzle Traybake, this collection features a mix of brand-new recipes and beloved classics for every home cook.
A Village Books event in association with James Allen's Girls' School. The Vaughan Williams Auditorium, 144 East Dulwich Grove, East Dulwich, SE22 8TE. Tickets via https://www. trybooking.com.
7:30pm – 8:30pm. Fantastic local running club. Social runs every Tuesday 7.30pm at Trevor Bailey Sports Ground on the south circular. Plus runs every Sunday morning; coached sessions on Thursdays; cross country races; competitions; weekends away; frequent social activities. Come along on a Tuesday to try us out!
www.dulwichparkrunners.co.uk enquiries@dulwichparkrunners.com
Trevor Bailey Club House Dulwich Common SE21 7HA
Tuesday 7 October: Honor Oak WI Monthly Meeting
7.30pm-9.30pm. Join Women of London’s Becky Laxton-Bass at our October meeting. Explore the lives of Lewisham's extraordinary female icons who have left lasting legacies in Lewisham. From medical pioneers to social reformers and politicians. The Honor Oak WI is a friendly and supportive group of women of all ages, backgrounds and interests. We meet Monthly on the first Tuesday of the month. We also have book, craft clubs, gallery & museum visits groups. NON-MEMBERS ARE VERY WELCOMEWE’D LOVE TO SEE YOU! honoroakwi@gmail.com
Instagram: honoroak_wi. www.facebook.com/groups/honoroakwi. Stanstead Lodge Café, Northwood Road, SE23 1DD.
Adult Learning Lewisham Learn something new this autumn at Adult Learning Lewisham
Looking to start a new hobby, enhance your health and wellbeing or want to meet new people who share similar interests? With a wide variety of courses on offer learning a new skill doesn’t need to be a big commitment.
What’s new at the Brockley Rise Adult Education Centre?
Over the past year, the adult education centre on Brockley Rise has undergone significant building improvements, including the addition of a brand-new teaching kitchen. This exciting upgrade has allowed Adult Learning Lewisham (ALL) to expand their course offer to include cooking and baking courses.
Saturday’s baking workshops feature some family favourites, including baking a KitKat cake, fruit cake, and traditional breads like stollen and Cozonac, perfect for the holiday season. These hands-on sessions are a delicious way to build your baking skills and get into the festive spirit.
Alongside baking workshops new cooking classes are also running where you can explore seasonal favourites perfect for winter, as well as join the flavours journey masterclass - an exciting culinary adventure that invites you to discover and experiment with flavours and cooking styles from around
the world. Courses are designed to broaden your cooking skills and inspire your creativity in the kitchen while sharing the joy of cooking with others in a relaxed and friendly space. And there’s more to come with additional courses scheduled soon so keep an eye on what’s coming up!
Cake decorating, cooking and baking classes also take place at the Granville Park Centre in central Lewisham - you can explore the full range of courses online.
There are also new jewellery making courses taking place at the centre including resin jewellery, as well as pendants, links and chains for beginners. You can meet the tutor and make a simple resin pendant on a free taster course this month. Book now as spaces are limited.
What other courses do ALL offer?
ALL offers a wide range of classes designed to inspire and empower. Whether you want to spark your creativity through drawing, painting, printmaking, illustration, or glasswork; learn a new language; boost your wellbeing with yoga, Pilates, or Tai Chi; or develop practical skills such as clothes making, crochet, floral design, photography, handknitting, or upholstery - there’s something for you. You might also choose to explore the performing arts with courses in guitar, singing, keyboard, or acting. A new programme of acting and performance courses will be coming soon so keep an eye on the website for more details.
When do classes run?
Classes take place during the day, evenings and on Saturdays at the Brockley Rise Centre. Saturday sessions are the perfect way to step away from the week and do something just for you.
Whether you’d love to get creative on a super art Saturday workshop, learn to sew and make cushions, master baking, floristry, photography, (including dark room photography), and pottery - or perhaps try something fun with your children on a family learning Capoeira course. Find out more about the wide range of courses on offer at: www.lewisham.gov.uk/adultlearning
How to Enrol
Online: You can enrol online for most courses at: www.lewisham.gov.uk/adultlearning
By phone: by calling 020 8314 3300, Monday-Friday 10am-3pm
In person: at one of the adult learning centres. See website for opening times.
The Joy of Hedges
Garden Talk with Janine Winlaw | Instagram @janinewinlaw
As we move into autumn, the structural planting in our gardens comes to the fore. Hedges are particularly useful not just for creating wildlife friendly boundaries, but also for adding yearround architectural form in outdoor spaces. And now is a good time to plant them.
Hedges help divide a garden into inviting private ‘rooms’ for seating or dining areas, or to partition off a functional area. Even in the smallest garden, tucking a bench behind a small hedge will create a fun, private space to hide away for a quiet moment.
Dividing a garden adds a sense of depth to a garden, creating a sense of mystery as to what is beyond. Using hedges as partitions, offset either side of a garden, creates informal divisions, breaking up a long thin garden for example. And hedges are also useful for neatly screening compost bins or sheds.
The crisp clean lines of a well pruned-hedge is also a perfect backdrop to softer, herbaceous
planting. There is a wide range of plants that work as hedges. Here are a few to consider:
Evergreen Options: Yew creates a fabulous dark green hedge that can be tightly clipped. Portuguese laurel, griselinia and pittosporum varieties also work well.
Deciduous Hedging: Native hornbeam and beech (copper beach is also lovely) are great if you want something that changes with the seasons from fresh spring leaves to autumn colour and finally brown foliage that’s often retained through winter
Flowering Shrubs: Escallonia, choisya, camellia, rosemary, roses such as Gallicas or even hydrangeas can be used as a hedging. Native hedging made of plants such as hawthorn and dog rose are full of colour and great for biodiversity.
Ornamental Grasses: Calamagrostis ‘Karl Foerster’, miscanthus and pennisetum, make lovely hedges with movement and texture. These can be layered in front of an evergreen hedge to seasonal interest.
Dulwich Hamlet FC
dulwichhamletfc.co.uk | dhst.org.uk
October’s here, and with Halloween round the corner the frightening thing is just how good we are. Particularly our men’s side, who’ve had a flying start to their first campaign under manager Mark Dacey. By mid-September our men had won five of their first six league ties, conceding only twice and bagging twelve - the swaggering football of old marred only by a disappointing exit from the FA Cup at the first hurdle. Despite our women’s first team’s patchier start to their second term in the National League, under new manager Maria Tavares, this season is looking like one to savour and, dare I say it, one that might just end at a roundabout! *
So you’d be a fool to fail to get to a game this month and see for yourself what crackling sports on offer. Your first chance is on Sunday 12th as our women take on London Bees at Champion Hill. Just two days later sees an autumn evening fixture under the lights as our men host Cray Wanderers on Tuesday 14th. And after a bumper packed home schedule last month, October sees just two more chances of action at Champion Hill. So don’t miss out when Cray Valley Paper Mills visit our men on Saturday 25th October followed by Aveley on Tuesday 28th.
On the road, our men travel to Chatham Town on Saturday 11th, then head to the seaside to take on Folkestone Invicta the following week, Saturday 18th; while our women also travel to
Chatham Town on the evening of Wednesday 29th and here’s hoping for double the points. We all love a midweek encounter under the lights, particularly as the nights draw in, and so to keep you cosy and well identified, don’t forget to visit the Mega Container on Champion Hill match days. Lovingly designed and run by our Supporters’ Trust, Dulwich Hamlet merchandise is always the talk of the town, and this month we’ve got plenty of new pink ’n’ blue gems for you, alongside all the old favourites; as well as this season’s replica kits, which are re-stocked in all sizes but sure to sell out soon.
What’s more, new in store we’ve got not one, but three new mug designs: we’ve the Upland Pleasures mug (think Joy Division meets south-east London hills); the Delicious Football mug (think Tuscany, ice-cream and, well, delicious football); and the Greetings from Dulwich Hamlet mug. Inspired by the Bruce Springsteen album Greetings From Asbury Park, and featuring fan stickers galore, this design can also be found on new t-shirts and sweatshirts in both black and white. It’s a must-have for your autumn wardrobe. So get down The Hill this October, fill your boots and watch Dulwich Boss it. Up the Hamlet!
* For those not well versed in the ways of The Hamlet (what are you waiting for?) we celebrate silverware on ‘Promotion Roundabout’ at Goose Green.
Edgar Kail Way, East Dulwich, London SE22 8BD.
Community Index
Useful Contacts
The University Hospital Lewisham Tel 020 8333 3000
Lewisham Borough Council Tel 020 8314 6000 (24 hrs) www.lewisham.gov.uk
Lewisham Early Years Service Tel 0800 085 0606
Forest Hill Safer Neighbourhood Team Tel: 020 8721 2723
Email: ForestHill.SNT@met.police.uk
Community Groups
Forest Hill Society www.foresthillsociety.com
Friends of One Tree Hill http://friendsofonetreehill.wordpress.com www.facebook.com/friendsofOTH / @Friends_of_OTH
Tewkesbury Lodge Estate Residents’ Association www.tewkesburylodge.org.uk
Sydenham Garden Tel 020 829 11650 www.sydenhamgarden.org.uk
Our Lady and St Philip Neri Friends Association www.olspnfriendsassociation.com Independent community websites www.se23.com
Local MPs
Ellie Reeves (Lab, Lewisham West) Tel 020 7219 2668 ellie.reeves.mp@parliament.uk
Janet Daby (Lab, Lewisham East) Tel 020 8461 4733 Janet.daby.mp@parliament.uk
Vicky Foxcroft - (Lab, Lewisham North) Tel 020 8469 4638 vicky.foxcroft.mp@parliament.uk
Local Councillors
Forest Hill Ward
Peter Bernards (Labour) Tel 020 8314 9927
cllr_peter.bernards@lewisham.gov.uk
Sophie Davis (Labour) Tel 020 8314 3493
Cllr_Sophie.Davis@lewisham.gov.uk
Billy Harding (Labour) Tel tba
Cllr_billy.harding@lewisham.gov.ukSurgeries
All councillors: 2nd & 4th Saturday of the month, 11am-12.30pm. Forest Hill Library, Dartmouth Road, SE23. 11am–12.30pm.
Perry Vale Ward
John Paschoud (Labour) Tel 020 8314 3437
John.Paschoud@Lewisham.gov.uk
Susan Wise (Labour) Tel 020 8314 2214
cllr_susan.wise@lewisham.gov.uk
Sakina Sheikh (Labour) 020 8314 7963
Cllr_Sakina.Sheikh@lewisham.gov.uk
Surgeries
Meet on the 2nd Wednesday of each month (excluding August) at The Lodge Cafe (Stanstead Lodge Senior Club), 260 Stanstead Road, SE23 1DD. We’ll be there from 10:30am until 12:30pm.
Crofton Park Ward
Chris Barnham (Labour) Tel 020 8314 9896
cllr_chris.barnham@lewisham.gov.uk
Tauseef Anwar (Labour) 020 8314 9930
Cllr_Tauseef.Anwar@lewisham.gov.uk
Carol Webley-Brown (Labour) Tel 07795 915362
cllr_carol.webley-brown@lewisham.gov.uk
Surgeries
Crofton Park councillors offer in-person councillor surgeries on:
2nd Saturday of each month at 11-12
4th Saturday of each month at 11-12
4th Tuesday of each month at 2-3pm
All sessions take place at Crofton Park Community Library, Brockley Road. There are no surgeries in August, nor on 26th July, 24th or 27th December.
Volunteer Drivers Needed
For 30 years, Link Age Southwark has eased loneliness and reduced social isolation for local older people and those living with a diagnosis of dementia. Today, they urgently need more volunteer drivers like Mark. Every Thursday, he collects four older women, from very different backgrounds, driving them to and from singing sessions run by the charity.
“I enjoy listening to them chat when I’m driving them. Hearing about their lives and families is fascinating – they may have limited mobility now, but one of them told me that at 18 she’d been a long jump champion!
They seem to really appreciate the interaction – they’ll ask about my sons, my dogs – it’s lovely to just be me. I retired last year from a very highpressure career where I was constantly ‘on call’. I wanted to explore other aspects of what I can bring to the world.
Link Age Southwark needed drivers. I have a roomy car, and it was an opportunity to give my
brain a rest, whilst hopefully making a difference. Being a volunteer driver makes me feel good: you’re taking time – listening and being there for others.”
To find out more about becoming a Link Age Southwark volunteer, contact 020 8299 2623; volunteering@linkagesouthwark.org or visit: www.linkagesouthwark.org
Year 6 Open Day Events 2025 for Year 7 Entry September 2026
• Wednesday 1st October 9.30am8pm
• Saturday 4th October 10am6pm
• Wednesday 8th October 9.30am8pm
• Saturday 11th October 10am6pm
Year 11 Open Day Events 2025 for Year 12 Entry September 2026
• Wednesday 15th October 1.306.30pm
• Wednesday 5th November 4.307pm
• Wednesday 26th November 4.307pm
Financial Matters
With Akwasi Duodu | akwasi@sterlingandlaw.com | www.sterlingandlaw.com
When to Start Thinking About Inheritance Tax Planning
There’s a peculiar British habit of treating death like a distant cousin—acknowledged, but rarely invited to dinner. We plan our holidays with precision, our retirement with diligence, and our weddings with care and attention to detail. But when it comes to inheritance tax, we often behave as though immortality were a viable financial strategy.
Let me be blunt: if you own property in the UK, especially in London or the Southeast, and you’re over the age of 40, you’re probably already late to the inheritance tax planning party. The nil-rate band—the threshold under which no IHT is paid—has been frozen at £325,000 since 2009. Meanwhile, house prices have galloped ahead like a thoroughbred on Derby Day. The result? More estates than ever are being dragged into the IHT net, and HMRC is quietly rubbing its hands.
So, when should you start thinking about inheritance tax planning? The answer is if you have beneficiaries, as soon as your net worth is above the inheritance tax threshold.
The Seven-Year Rule and the Gift of Foresight
One of the most misunderstood aspects of IHT is the seven-year rule. If you give away assets and survive for seven years, those gifts fall outside your estate for tax purposes. But here’s the catch: taper relief only kicks in after three years, and gifts within that window are taxed at the full 40% rate. So if you’re thinking of passing on wealth, don’t wait until your twilight years when your health uncertain.
Start gifting early. Not extravagantly, but strategically. Use your annual gift allowance of £3,000 per year, and consider regular gifts out of income, which can be exempt if they don’t affect your standard of living. Think of it as pruning the tree while it’s still growing, rather than hacking at it when it’s overgrown.
Property: The Elephant in the Room
For most people, the family home is their largest asset. If you’re leaving it to children or grandchildren,
you may benefit from the residence nil-rate band, which can increase your IHT threshold to £500,000. Married couples can double that to £1 million. But beware: this only applies if the property is passed to direct descendants. Leave it to a niece for example, and the taxman will come knocking. If your estate exceeds these thresholds, consider downsizing or using trusts. Yes, trusts sound like something reserved for aristocrats and offshore schemers, but they’re perfectly legitimate tools for managing wealth and reducing tax exposure. Just don’t try to DIY it—get proper advice.
Pension Pots and the Looming Storm
From 2027, unused pension pots may become liable for IHT. This is a seismic shift. Pensions have long been the darling of estate planners, offering a tax-efficient way to pass on wealth. But the tide is turning. If you’re sitting on a sizeable pension, now is the time to review your beneficiary nominations and consider a drawing down strategically.
The Emotional Side of Planning
Inheritance tax planning isn’t just about numbers. It’s about legacy. Too often, families avoid these conversations until it’s too late. But talking about death can be liberating. It allows you to make informed choices, to avoid family disputes, and to ensure that your wishes are respected.
Final Thoughts
Inheritance tax planning is not a luxury—it’s a necessity. Start early, plan wisely, and talk openly. Because in the end, the greatest gift you can leave your loved ones is clarity.
What's On - October
Tuesdays 7 & 14 October: Gong Bath on
Sydenham
Hill - a cosy evening Sound Journey
8pm-9pm
Step into the magical realm of my Secret Soul Sanctuary by the woods! It is a safe haven in the heart of South London, where I invite you to join me for an evening Gong Meditation / Sound Journey. Secret Soul Sanctuary, Sydenham Hill, SE23 3PH. Bookings via Eventbrite and: www.thesoulnurturer.co.uk.
Wednesday 8 October:
EDWI - Bystanders Can be Lifesavers - First Aid Evening
7.30pm-9.30pm. Join us at our October event, where we learn more about 'First Aid' and how Bystanders can be Lifesavers.. During the evening we learn what do in such cases, to assist the person in medical need and how to deal with the emergency services. Guests are very welcome, first-time guests attend for free, returning guests pay £5 (cash only please). We welcome new members, the subscription for the 25/26 year is £24.50 when joining in October 2025. We are a group of local women of all ages and backgrounds, with a monthly book club and craft evenings several times a year. For further information, please email: join@eastdulwichwi.co.uk
The Castle Pub, Upstairs Function room, 280 Crystal Palace Road, East Dulwich, SE22 9JJ
Thursday 9 – Sunday 19
October: Intangible Landscapes, recent paintings by Nicholas Ashton
12pm-6pm. The Anna Lovely Gallery is pleased to be showing recent works by Nicholas Ashton, offering a subjective and personal interpretation of place that moves beyond scientific or purely visual documentation. Private view Saturday 11th October 2025 from 6-9pm. Gallery open Thursday to Sunday 12pm-6pm or by appointment. Anna Lovely Gallery, 140 Sydenham Road, SE26 5JZ.
Thursday 9 October: An Evening
with Gyles Brandreth
7.30pm-8.30pm. Somewhere, a Boy and a Bear. The extraordinary story of A A Milne, Christopher Robin and Winnie-the-Pooh. 2026 marks the centenary of the publication of Winnie-thePooh, one of the best-selling children’s books of all time. Best-selling biographer Gyles Brandreth knew the real Christopher Robin, and Somewhere, a Boy and a Bear is an intimate and revealing biography of A A Milne.
When Winnie-the-Pooh first appeared in print on Christmas Eve 1925, his creator had no idea that this bear, and the fellow inhabitants of the Hundred Acre Wood, would go on to capture the imaginations of people of all ages all over the world for the next hundred years.
In his new biography Somewhere, a Bear and a Boy, Gyles Brandreth tells the remarkable story of A A Milne, and of the ‘bear of very little brain’ who went on to become a global phenomenon. This is the story of a man, a boy and a bear – but it is also a gripping family drama, and a fascinating exploration of the complicated nature of growing up, and the impossible longing for a return to the enchanted places of childhood.
A Village Books and Alleyn's Schools Enterprises event. The MCT at Alleyn's, Townley Road, East Dulwich, SE22 8SU.
Tickets via https://www.alleyns.org.uk.
You can submit your events for free via our website: www.arounddulwich.co.uk
What's On - October
Thursday 9 – Sunday 12
October: Convergent
Gina Beaton, Sharon Blair, Sera Furneaux, Caroline Ingham, Kate Jacob, Octavia Milner and Erika Winstone, converge at Safehouse 1 to share their examination of memory, loss, hope and desire. Playing on the unique nature of the venue the house itself becomes a collaborator underlining the themes of the work presented in video, photography, paint, drawing, collage and sculpture in this short run show that is not to be missed .PV 9th October 5-8.pm. Closing event 12th October 4-5.30pm. Safehouse 1, 139 Copeland Road, SE15 3SN. @convergent_safehouse.
Thursday
9 October:
The Art of the Cartoonist
8pm-9pm. Harry Venning has been a professional cartoonist for thirty years, providing cartoons for high-profile UK publications (e.g. The Guardian, Radio Times) as well as for countless more obscure titles (e.g. British Journal of Wound Care). He was awarded UK Strip Cartoonist of the Year for his Guardian strip Clare In The Community, which he adapted into a Radio 4 sitcom. In this lecture Harry will trace the history of his profession from Cruickshank and Hogarth to more recent artists like Giles and Schulz, bringing events up to date with cartoons produced fresh on the page that very day.
The Arts Society Dulwich membership fee is £60 single, £110 double, £12 for students for ten lectures October to July. Lectures also live on Zoom but not recorded. Guests welcome at £10 per lecture at the door, cash, or card, or for the Zoom link: info@theartssocietydulwich.org.uk
James Allen's Girls' School (JAGS) Sixth Form Centre, Green Dale, East Dulwich, SE22 8TQ. www.theartssocietydulwich.org.uk/programme/lectures.
Friday 10 – Sunday 19
October: FOLD Art
CollectiveWorks on Paper
Prints, drawings, paintings, collage, and more, are on show at FOLD Art Collective’s Works on Paper exhibition at the Jeannie Avent Gallery. FOLD is a female art collective formed in South East London, to champion the work of mid-life women artists. Works are for sale at affordable prices. FOLD Art Collective are: Abigail Elverd, Bernadette Enright, Carmen Van Huisstede, Cass Breen, Clare Nicholson, Eleanor Street, Francesca Giuliano, Jane Hughes, Jess Blandford, Katherine Rose, Marina Beard & Nell Martin. www.foldartcollective.com
@foldartcollective. Jeannie Avent Gallery, 14 North Cross Road, East Dulwich, SE22 9EU.
Saturday
11
October: South Dulwich Chorus Inaugural Concert: Handel's Messiah
6pm-7.30pm. Put your name down in history as a Founder Member of South Dulwich Chorus and become part of an inspiring musical association that will include world-class soloists and instrumentalists. Our Musical Director, Oliver Lallemant, Director of Music at St Stephen’s, is looking forward to working with keen singers from all walks of life. No audition necessary. Rehearsal beforehand from 2pm to 4pm. Register your interest in singing at: https://forms.gle/QLxiWxkTLJDRHrQBA
Enquiries / Tickets: music@ststephensdulwich.org. St Stephen's South Dulwich, College Road SE21 7HW.
Sundays 12 & 26 October: Heritage Orchard Volunteer Gardening 1pm-3.30pm
Come and join our team of friendly volunteers who meet from 2-3.30pm on 2nd and 4th Sunday of each month to tend and garden our beautiful heritage orchard. St Clement with St Peter Church, 140 Friern Road, East Dulwich, SE22 0AY. Contact vicar@sclementwspeter.co.uk if you would like more information!
What's On - October
Sundays 12 & 26 October:
Samhain/Halloween Gong
Baths in Brockley
12th: 6.30pm-7.30pm 26th:5.30pm-6.30pm.
Cosmic Soul, I am thrilled to extend a heartfelt invitation to you for an enchanting gong bath session at the serene and welcoming "andosteo" studio, nestled in the heart of Brockley. &osteo studio, 179 Brockley Road, SE4 2RS.
Online Event Location: &osteo studio
Tickets via www.eventbrite.co.uk.
Sunday 12 October:
Singaround 7pm-10.30pm
Our Singarounds are informal and participative. We take it in turns to sing a song - any language, any genre, accompanied or unaccompanied, anything goes! We don't use mics. Singers, listeners and complete beginners welcome! £5 on the door, cash or BACS. For information: www.thegooseisout.com. The Castle Pub, 280 Crystal Palace Road SE22 9JJ.
Tuesday 14 October:
Conscious Connected
Breathwork: A Journey Within
7pm-8.30pm. Join me for a powerful breathwork session designed to help you unlock deeper layers of your mind and body. Through the profound practice of conscious connected breathing, you’ll create space to connect, feel, and release in ways you may not have thought possible. Kinwellbeing, 79 Church Road, Crystal Palace, SE19 2TA. Tickets via: https://www.tickettailor.com.
Tuesday 14 October: Persiana Easy by Sabrina Ghayour
Friday 17 October: Link Aid 3
7.30pm-8.30pm. Join Village Books and Alleyn’s Schools Enterprises with Sabrina Ghayour. Persiana Easy is a brand-new collection of inspiring recipes from the bestselling Middle Eastern chef – each carefully designed to be as easy as possible. Every recipe in Persiana Easy balances irresistible Middle Eastern flavours with accessible cooking. From midweek meals and traybakes to pastries and sweet treats, this collection features easy recipes to delight your family and friends, time and again.
The MCT, Townley Road, East Dulwich, SE22 8SU. Tickets via https://www.alleyns.org.uk.
7pm-10pm. Link Age Southwark and The Ivy House are hosting a ceilidh to raise funds for projects promoting social inclusion and wellbeing for older people in Southwark. Join us for a night to remember, with live music and caller from South East London Folk Orchestra (SELfolk). Tickets just £10 in advance. The Ivy House, 40 Stuart Road, Nunhead, SE15 3BE. Tickets via https://www.linkagesouthwark.org/ Event/linkaid3.
Saturday 18 – Sunday 19
October: So Last Century's Weekend Vintage Fair –Catford 11am-4pm
You can expect to find stunning displays of affordable mid-20th century furniture, homeware, lighting, ceramics, glass, decorative objects, textiles and furnishings, original 1960s and 70s posters and framed art, prints and charts, books, records, salvaged items, French brocante, vintage clothing and lots more. Outside on both days there’ll be a barista coffee van and chocolate brownie stall to keep you energised over the weekend. Most traders take card payments, and many offer a delivery service if you want to buy something big, like a dining table! Entry £3. Advance tickets available now with a 2-for-1 offer for a limited period. Accompanied Under 16s free.
St Dunstan's College, Stanstead Road, Catford, SE6 4TY. https://www.solastcenturyfair.co.uk.
What's On - October
Monday 20 October: Dulwich WI Monthly Meeting
7.30pm-9.30pm. Launched in 2018, the Dulwich WI is a supportive and stimulating group for women of all ages and backgrounds. We meet once a month at No 57, 57 North Cross Road, SE22 9ET. We would love to meet you and look forward to welcoming you to our group. https://dulwichwi.com.
Monday 20 – Friday 31
October: Tennis Camps at Dulwich Lawn Tennis Club
10am-3pm Join Us for the Spookiest Tennis Camp This October! Our October camp is packed with: Tons of tennis. Spooky games & activities. Delicious treats and enchanting surprises around every corner. Tennis players from 3 to 16 yearsold all levels are welcome! Dulwich Lawn Tennis Club, Giant Arches Road, Burbage Road, Herne Hill, SE24 9HP. Book via https://clubspark.lta.org.uk/ SebastienBlanchonCoaching/Coaching/Camps.
Tuesday 21 October:
New Moon Sister Sharing Circle
8pm-10.30pm. Come and connect in at this month’s sharing circle gathering, where you will be surrounded by sisterhood as you step into the magical realm of my Secret Soul Sanctuary by the woods. It is a safe haven in the heart of London, where I invite you to join me for a sister 'talking stick' /'Red Tent' style sharing circle over a herbal tea. Secret Soul Sanctuary, Sydenham Hill, London SE23 3PH. Bookings via Eventbrite and www.thesoulnurturer.co.uk.
Wednesday 29 October –Saturday 1 November: The Dulwich Players present Blue Stockings, by Jessica Swale
7.30pm-9.45pm (Saturday matinee at 3pm).
It is 1896, and the women at Girton College, Cambridge study ferociously, matching their male peer’s grade for grade. However, while the men graduate the women leave with nothing but the stigma of being a ‘blue stocking’ - an unnatural, educated woman.
In “Blue Stockings” we follow the course of four first-year female students as they fight for the right to graduate. Join them as they navigate the hurdles in their way: the distractions of love, the cruelty of the class divide and the strength of the opposition, who will do anything to stop them. Will they succeed in changing the future of education? Come along and find out.
Tickets £14 (Under 18's: £10).
This Amateur production of Blue Stockings is presented by arrangement with Nick Hern Books.
St Dunstan's College Performing Arts Centre, Stanstead Road SE6 4TY. Book tickets via: www.ticketsource.co.uk/dulwichplayers/e-agpxlq
Friday 31 October:
Alasdair Roberts & Donald WG Lindsday, Erin Mansfield, Phil Stevens 7pm-11pm
Alasdair Roberts creates both his own idiosyncratic compositions and fresh interpretations of traditional songs, drawing on the traditional song and music culture of Scotland. Donald WG Lindsay's beautiful piping adds another dimension to the music. Erin Mansfield is a trailblazer of contemporary tin whistle and stamps her passion and originality on everything she does. Phil Stevens sings and plays the ukulele in his own inimitable style. £16 advance, £18 on the door (cash or BACS).
Tickets & information: www.thegooseisout.com. The Ivy House, 40 Stuart Road Nunhead, SE15 3BE
St Christopher’s The Hall School
St Christopher’s The Hall celebrates the opening of inspiring new outdoor play area
Last month, St Christopher’s The Hall, Beckenham, officially opened its brandnew outdoor play area, marking an exciting milestone for the school community.
The opening ceremony took place on Wednesday 3 September 2025 in a wonderful event attended by pupils, parents and staff. The playground was officially opened by special guest Tim Allardyce, an alumnus of St Christopher’s and a successful entrepreneur who runs physiotherapy centres across southeast London. Tim has kindly supported the playground project, helping to make the exciting vision a reality.
The new outdoor space has been designed to inspire creativity, encourage teamwork, and promote physical wellbeing among children. It features a range of play equipment and trim trails to challenge pupils physically, helping them build strength, balance, and coordination through active play. Alongside these, a dedicated sensory area provides opportunities for exploration and calm reflection, while creative surface markings encourage imaginative games and playful learning. A small amphitheatre and sheltered canopy mean the space can be enjoyed all year round, whether for quiet moments or group activities.
Speaking at the opening, Head Tom Carter said: ‘Outdoor play is such a vital part of a child’s development, it builds confidence, resilience, andsocialskills.Itwaswonderfultoseeourpupils enjoyingthenewspacestraightaway.Iwouldlike
to thank Tim Allardyce for his generous support and for being part of such a special day for our schoolcommunity.Thisplayareawillenrichpupils’ daily lives, giving them even more opportunities to learn through play, develop friendships, and embracetheoutdoorsineveryseason.’
Nick Hewlett, CEO of St Dunstan’s Education Group, added: ‘We are delighted with this outstanding new outdoor space at St Christopher’s. It builds upon the school’s already excellent facilities and further enhances the learningexperiencesavailabletoallchildren.This
investment reflects our commitment to ensuring every pupil thrives both inside and outside the classroom.’
The opening follows a year of success for the prep school, often referred to as Beckenham’s best-kept secret. In its most recent ISI inspection, conducted in March 2025 under the new and more rigorous framework, St Christopher’s was recognised for its exceptional leadership, inspiring curriculum, and outstanding pupil development. Most notably, the school was awarded the ISI’s highest possible commendation: a ‘significant
strength’ for its leadership of teaching and learning and continuous improvement in the quality of education, a rare honour within the prep school sector.
St Christopher’s The Hall joined the awardwinning St Dunstan’s Education Group in early 2025 and continues to grow as a thriving community rooted in excellence and innovation.
Anticipatory Joy...
Hayley
John-Charles at Not Just Travel | https://hayleyjohncharles.notjusttravel.com
Why the Best Part of Your Holiday Might
Be Before You Go
Discover the psychology of “anticipatory joy” and how to keep your getaway feeling magical from start to finish.
We all know that buzz when booking a holiday – the giddy excitement as you picture sun-drenched beaches, bustling city streets, or peaceful mountain hideaways. Psychologists call this anticipatory joy: the boost of happiness you get simply from looking forward to a trip.
In fact, research shows that the build-up to a holiday can sometimes bring more joy than the holiday itself. Why? Enter the “hedonic treadmill.” It sounds complicated, but really, it’s just how our brains work. That sparkling pool, the magical sunset, or the café that felt so special on day one. By day three, your brain starts to see it as normal. Before long, two weeks of paradise can begin to feel… well, a little routine.
But here’s the good news: the hedonic treadmill isn’t the enemy. It’s simply a reminder to be intentional about how we experience our time away. With a few smart tricks, you can keep that holiday feeling fresh from start to finish.
1) Keep It Fresh
Variety is the spice of travel. Explore a new neighbourhood, try a local dish you can’t pronounce, or take a spontaneous detour. Novelty wakes up the brain and helps moments stand out.
2) Be Present
You don’t need a yoga mat to practice mindfulness. Notice the scent of the sea, the rhythm of a market, or the warmth of the sun on your skin. Immersing yourself in the small details slows time down and makes memories sharper.
3. Set Mini Goals
Give your holiday purpose beyond relaxation. Learn a few phrases of the local language, hike a new
trail, or master a regional recipe. Small wins add excitement and a sense of achievement.
4) Mix Routine With Spontaneity
Sure, routines make travel smooth but leave space for surprises. An unplanned day trip or a chance encounter can make even familiar places feel brand new.
5) Reflect And Savour
Take a moment each evening to talk about highlights, jot a note in a journal, or capture photos that show the feeling, not just the view. Reflection locks in happiness and extends the joy long after you are home.
And here’s the ultimate secret: keep looking forward. Having another trip on the horizon –whether it’s a weekend away or a dream adventure – keeps your brain in that happy anticipatory state. Because the joy of travel isn’t just in the flights, the beaches, or the cocktails. It’s in the anticipation, the experiences you create, and the stories you bring home. Outsmart the treadmill, and every holiday can feel like the first.
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HartBeeps
Mondays at Christ Church, 263 Barry Road, East Dulwich, SE22 0JT. Mondays 10am Happy House, 11.15am Baby Beeps & 12.30pm Baby Bells.. http://hartbeeps.com
Family Space
Free, creative workshops that take place on the last Saturday of the month at the South London Gallery, 6567 Peckham Road. For children aged 5-12 years old with their parents and carers. Drop-in, no need to book. www.southlondongallery.org
Little Superhero Training
Practice your Superhero moves! Discover Superhero fun facts! Any Little Heroes, Boys and Girls aged 2 - 5, Come along for a FREE taster session. Mondays & Fridays (term time only) St Barnabas Parish Hall, 23 Dulwich Village, SE21 7BT. Contact Lucy 07813 791757 | lucy@littleherocompany.com www.littleherocompany.com
Mini Athletics (SE London)
Winning the gold medal for children’s sports classes! Start your child’s fantastic journey in athletic development, designed for toddlers up to children of 7 years old. All through a fun play-based format. To try us out, contact Sam: 07811787153 | smcdermott@miniathletics.com www.miniathletics.com
Nature Makers
Eco-friendly crafting for little creatives! Join our awardwinning classes & events, where your child can get creative, connect with nature, and have fun in a safe, welcoming environment!
Contact: marie@nature-makers.co.uk or visit: www.nature-makers.co.uk
Tennis-4-Kids
Learn young, have fun. Rally around for a smashing time. Serving ages 3-11. Rackets supplied; fun guaranteed. Gordon 07877 391005 | www.tennis-4-kids.com | gordonwood@hotmail.co.uk
‘Unicornios y Dinosaurios’
Fun and interactive Spanish language play classes, for children aged 0-5, and their parents and carers. Thursdays mornings (term-time only) in East Dulwich. Suitable for all levels of Spanish! Contact Hazel on 07852 553 239 or hazelcarr@ hotmail.com.
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The Last Word with Julia Salisbury
Julia Salisbury is a local massage therapist and reflexologist working from Bellenden Therapies in SE15 and Dulwich Therapy Rooms in SE22. She’s also the former owner of ‘Neroli’ in Honor Oak Park, which many locals still remember fondly.
How long have you lived in the area?
I had my business, Neroli, in Honor Oak Park from 2008 to 2016, and I’ve lived nearby in SE15 for 24 years (yes, I’m officially part of the furniture now). We’re in the Bellenden Regeneration Area, which has changed a lot over the years — mostly for the better!
What
do
you most value about the area?
The small independent shops, cafés and restaurants. They give the area its edge and keep things interesting.
Do you know your neighbours?
A lot of them! And quite a few have been here as long as we have. Many are the type who will drop everything to help. Case in point: when our modular garden sofa wouldn’t fit through our front door… or our neighbours’! Six households teamed up to lift it over a wall and five fences. Local teamwork at its finest.
The one thing you couldn’t do without?
My glasses. Without them, life is basically an impressionist painting.
The most famous person you’ve met?
King Charles — though he was still Prince Charles when I met him in Turin in 2008 at the Slow Food Exhibition Terra Madre. I was working with my dad, representing foods from the Northwest of England, and he popped by our stand to try the potted shrimps. He seemed to approve!
Describe your perfect weekend.
Waking naturally, followed by breakfast in bed watching Laura Kuenssberg, then a long walk with Dele, my miniature dachshund, usually around Peckham Rye. A browse around a market or car boot, a late lunch with friends or our godson, then home on the sofa with a comedy or psychological thriller. Bliss.
Where’s your favourite place to walk?
Anywhere with water — I’m originally from Ulverston in Cumbria, so I head back often to visit family. Two favourites: High Dam in Finsthwaite, which has a serene and enchanting feel, and Gunners How — a steep climb, but the views over Lake Windermere at the top are unforgettable.
When I want to relax…
It depends what I need! Sometimes it’s gentle stretching on the yoga mat, sometimes deep breathing and a chapter of a book. Other times it’s soaking in an Epsom salt bath with a candle… or sharing a glass of wine and plenty of laughter in my friend Renée’s hot tub.
What is your favourite shop?
Liberty’s, without question. I could lose hours among the perfumes, candles, jewellery counters, and home accessories. And the building itself — mock Tudor outside, wood panelling inside — is just magical. Closer to home, it has to be Jumping Bean. I shopped there when I had Neroli and still do. It’s my go-to for gifts of all ages — one of those rare shops where you always find the perfect thing.
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