saying “i do” Your ceremony is the start of something beautiful. It not only kicks off the biggest party of your life once you say “I do,” but it also ignites a new adventure for you and your soon-to-be spouse – no matter how long you have been together. Here are some details to think about while planning the perfect beginning.
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First, discuss your beliefs with your fiancé to ensure that the ceremony is meaningful to both of you. If you follow a particular faith, you and your partner may want to consider a religious ceremony in a house of worship, church or temple. The other option would be a civil ceremony (in accordance with state laws) that has a judge, justice of the peace, county clerk or officiant to solemnize your nuptials. Once you both decide what kind of ceremony you would like to have, make a list and start meeting with officiants and pastors. Look for the perfect person to solemnize your wedding, making sure your personalities, values and beliefs blend well together. After deciding on your officiant, ask for help in creating the type of ceremony you would like to have – a service unique to you and your spouse. For instance, a casual, outdoor wedding might require different components than a formal, religious ceremony in a church.
preparing for forever
Your wedding preparations should also include preparing for a lifetime together. Premarital counseling and education has proven to significantly reduce the divorce
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rate (30-40%) and increase the quality of your intimate relationship. Create a strong foundation, not only for your wedding day, but for your new adventure together as a married couple. Choose a program that covers effective communication, barriers in your relationship and successfully easing tension with conflict management. Counseling will also help you understand each of your histories and how to work with them toward health and healing. You will also work through money matters and leisure time, as well as sexuality and intimacy myths and truths. You’ll learn how to stay connected and achieve your marital expectations, dreams and goals together while communicating with one another effectively.
unity symbols wine blend While the bride pours a white wine, the groom pours a red – making a unique blush wine that can be enjoyed after the wedding day. sand ceremony Two smaller vessels filled with different colored sand pour into a central vessel. cord of three strands The bride and groom braid three strands together
symbolizing the union of God, husband and wife. a box of love letters Place love letters into a box to be read to one another when times get tough. avoid disaster Take religious restrictions seriously. Meet with your officiant one to two months after getting engaged. Your ceremony venue may have rules on premarital counseling, reciting vows, attire and music restrictions. #BlackHillsBride
